Amber might have her flaws just like any of us, however, I'm happy that she chose herself and hustled till life ikajipa. That's how life should be 👌🏿👌🏿
Happened to my mom when she was young. Sometimes you think your man coming over at your work to look after you is love kumbe ni insecurities and that's how abuse starts. That's when a guy tells you to stop working
I agree with amber 100%. . Do you. Your happiness comes first , don't allow anyone to trample on you. You are worth Jesus , the Lord of lords dying on the cross
I'll say this: What keeps most women in a toxic relationship is lack of finances and cultural reasons. One imagines how they can't afford to pay bills)( fees included ) etc Some r even threatened in case they decide to leave... The list goes on..
She literally said it…..she is a go-getter, she sacrificed time with her child to go work, she persevered through a toxic relationship, she got connections by networking and she does not listen to negativity
We are many that's why I prefer having a peaceful life and happy than having a stressful relationship. Am a single mother and am happy with that giving my son the best I can
I don't like you Amber but I follow you...and today you have said something so true and meaningful..."I believe in marriage but I don't believe in suffering,and marriage in Africa involves alot of suffering."
She is making sense bt unajua people hate those who chose to be themselves coz in africa dem ajishow anaambiwa tu ni malaya thats why she is rich. Nani alitunyima chance ya kuwa malaya tumake it in life as well! She is honest with life..
...Obinna, you have lived in Nairobi for a long that your swahili ni fiti sana, and combine it kabisa...am impressed as I tend to watch your channel...Oya 💙🇬🇧🇰🇪
I agree 💯 your happiness come first...but is it to other people expense. She is also toxic not to her own marriage but to other people marriages. How sad is that. I think instead of healing she became roho ngumu in a bad way.
Why most men's change after lady akipata mtoi.🙆😩🙄Even me after kuambia Gaidi im pregnant @lichange tu immediately..😭But kwa sai im single end happy hata kama my Kid hakusuceed.😩😭nikikumbuka pain I give up kudate again.😩
Ladies wanakipatapata hapa nje. The sad part of it is that most of them are afraid of leaving these toxic relationships because they have little kids na hawana self-sustaining jobs. Thus, they wholly depend on their toxic boyfriends for home provision. Ladies, kindly step away from that grave before we celebrate your early promotion to glory.
Obinna what a show....Amberay IAM proud of u .....there is power in knowing your worth.....when u know it ....u won't torelate any form toxicity treatment from your partner........obinna u are doing a great job......let stop gender based violence
It's true ety ungoje maombi ya pastor sijui nini nini unangoja kifo next ....she spoke the truth.I have been there n I came out of a toxic relationship n today my life is never the same again.Thank gal for sharing ur amazing
I hope i will also get over it...'m beaten up and my guy is never drunk buh the wierdest thing i stay....I hope Amber Ray's story will help me save myself😢
I think the title of this show is biased '' TOXIC BOYFRIENDS ''.. Truth is, toxicity can be from either gender. A better title should've been '' TOXIC PARTNERS '' 🤭 As men also encounter very toxic women too.
Nice story.. But I thought after being cheated on and abused you wouldn't be the reason another woman goes through abuse... But ooh well.. I am happy you chose yourself
You go through all this ...do you think you will entertain men's nonsense?...now I see the reason why she decided to be Amber... happiness is everything
For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten son,that whosoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. Repent for the kingdom of God is at hand. Shalom
I understand amber very well I left my violent hubby few months ago,kwanza hiyo ya gate it is exactly what happened to MTU anatoka job 7 anaenda kulewa n anajua gate uuu fungwa 10 pm anakupigia 11mp ety niambie caretaker asifunge gate...the anakam at 1am ,aky I rem that one day caretaker alikataaa kumfungulia then he kept calling then nikazima simu,ngai then akafunguliwa at 3am aky ile vita nilipingwa, aky n like amber neighbours can help,was it not for the caretaker ningeuliwa,then the next ety sorry, Aky I was asking ata enda job SAA gapi I start parking, n its 3months bila stress Please please ladies don't stay ety MTU atachange,I waited for 1yrs ety atachange but wapi
Obinah l could like to meet you one day, l also have a story, am mother of 4 kids but now am in gulf hustling for my kids, amberey has really encouraged me.
Amber might have her flaws just like any of us, however, I'm happy that she chose herself and hustled till life ikajipa. That's how life should be 👌🏿👌🏿
very true
I love this woman
Myself I don't care how pple talk about amber because she is vibe she never loses hope on herself , I really like her spirit
At some point In my life she was my friend. The shock you get when you realize she had gone through that rough patch.
Happened to my mom when she was young. Sometimes you think your man coming over at your work to look after you is love kumbe ni insecurities and that's how abuse starts. That's when a guy tells you to stop working
Yaani amber amewai ishi kwa single room .....sina haraka na maisha
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Ameishi 1 br akihustle so wewe Kaa ukingoja kuomoka, utajuwa hujui😅😅😅😅utajipata shakahola kwa Mackenzie 😅
Meee too sina hata kidogo 😂😂
I just love Amber. She is just being her and choosing happinesses
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I agree with amber 100%. . Do you. Your happiness comes first , don't allow anyone to trample on you. You are worth Jesus , the Lord of lords dying on the cross
I'll say this:
What keeps most women in a toxic relationship is lack of finances and cultural reasons.
One imagines how they can't afford to pay bills)( fees included ) etc
Some r even threatened in case they decide to leave... The list goes on..
Punchline never stay in a toxic relationship... In the name of love...am so proud of you mummy... keep winning
Lavender kindly pitia kwangu unisupport pia 🙏 🧡
@@jemmyfoodie5855 I have done that dear
its ironic that he keeps on asking if she cheated on him and yet the guy is the one who always came home late.
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@@jemmyfoodie5855nipitie nikupitie pia
Ndo wakipendana aone kama akimfanya madharau atamcheat
Feels so good when women choose to open up and speak about GBV,great episode Obinna you’re doing great😊
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She is such a Spartan. I like her she is such a strong woman❤️
Key point is happiness is everything don't stay with a toxic someone just because you have children with them.
Gold!!!!this statement is gold!’
It's easier said than done
Marylynn kindly pitia kwangu unisupport pia 🙏 🧡
@@realone1104 shafie kindly pitia kwangu unisupport pia 🙏 🧡
@@gracemamuu5937 it's ur choice
I love the lessons and the victim. You deserve happiness
I would love to know how Amber has made it this far... Like her methods her tricks and motivation. I wish to meet her some day.
She literally said it…..she is a go-getter, she sacrificed time with her child to go work, she persevered through a toxic relationship, she got connections by networking and she does not listen to negativity
We are many that's why I prefer having a peaceful life and happy than having a stressful relationship. Am a single mother and am happy with that giving my son the best I can
Irene kindly pitia kwangu unisupport pia 🙏 🧡
Me too
I love Amber... She's authentic despite what people say
How authentic, can't remember where she met her baby daddy
@@mpendakiswahili3053 coz you are focusing on her negativities more than herself
@@faithgatwiry what is herself? What are you talking about woman.....those negatives are part of what she is...
@@mpendakiswahili3053 kunywa maji upumzishe mawazo
@@faithgatwiry sija kuelewa, kunywa maji na mada hii, zinahusiana aje....
If you are not happy you will always be a bitter parent - Amber Ray 💯
For the 1st nimoena Oga listening ....other episodes umekua tu ukiongea na hupatii wasee unainterview chance ya kuongea
Obinaaa! Umesema 8 months year old boy😂😂😂
A great episode though!!!
ata wewe amber atakuchanganyisha useme vitu haziko
@@thatguyking1743 I know right. That woman is beautiful.
😃😃😃
I thought I was alone who noticed 😂😂😂
@@anniemuhgendie2472 🤣🤣🤣
"Eight month year old" Oga please🤣.
Oga anamfil Hadi story haishikanishi ndo maana anasema woooooooow
I also left a violent partner and five years down the line I am still very glad I did.
Me too 6years now and my life has transformed to the best
I don't know how to leave my toxic boyfriend 😢
I don't know how to leave my toxic boyfriend 😢
@@vivianfaith4905same😭😭😭
This show is awesome... Many are suffering chini ya maji
I don't like you Amber but I follow you...and today you have said something so true and meaningful..."I believe in marriage but I don't believe in suffering,and marriage in Africa involves alot of suffering."
She is making sense bt unajua people hate those who chose to be themselves coz in africa dem ajishow anaambiwa tu ni malaya thats why she is rich. Nani alitunyima chance ya kuwa malaya tumake it in life as well! She is honest with life..
Nilibaki hapo pa kuombea mtu abadilike. My guy Toka before is too late
The lady is soo motivating...lit show 🔥🔥
Purity kindly pitia kwangu unisupport pia 🙏 🧡
@@jemmyfoodie5855 oky
Wow wanawake upitia mambo mengi, big up obinna and Amber 🔥💥🙏
8 month year old boy🥴🥴 , obina wachaaa hizo, kizungu utatukuza my friend
...Obinna, you have lived in Nairobi for a long that your swahili ni fiti sana, and combine it kabisa...am impressed as I tend to watch your channel...Oya 💙🇬🇧🇰🇪
😂😂😂😂😂I like the way he confused you to believe he is a nigeria 😂😂😂😂 but he is just a janaam /pure luo man 😂😂😂
After this you gained a lot of points from me 💯
Judy kindly pitia kwangu unisupport pia 🙏 🧡
@@jemmyfoodie5855 I did my dear 😋😘
Just from watching Aida now Amber....My heart bleeds for these strong queens
Same here..machozi pale kwa Aida!
Uliwatch wapi nikawatch
@Mercy Mbuvi Kwa Lynn Ngugi show
Aalaaaar am just from watching that also
Obinna keep it up. Great content, this is an eye opener to young girls.
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Could have been better calling this show "Toxic Bae/Partner".
Sio boyfriends tu hukua toxic
I agree 💯 your happiness come first...but is it to other people expense. She is also toxic not to her own marriage but to other people marriages. How sad is that. I think instead of healing she became roho ngumu in a bad way.
hapa oga obina anakaa mdogo, yeye ndio mfupi ama sitting allowance ya amber ni kama double decker
I always love the vibe of this lady
Whaaat kumbe amber ushaiishi single room am never loosing hope in this life I must make it
Amen
I like the way amber ray has nailed it "choose ur happiness
Why most men's change after lady akipata mtoi.🙆😩🙄Even me after kuambia Gaidi im pregnant @lichange tu immediately..😭But kwa sai im single end happy hata kama my Kid hakusuceed.😩😭nikikumbuka pain I give up kudate again.😩
Ladies wanakipatapata hapa nje. The sad part of it is that most of them are afraid of leaving these toxic relationships because they have little kids na hawana self-sustaining jobs. Thus, they wholly depend on their toxic boyfriends for home provision. Ladies, kindly step away from that grave before we celebrate your early promotion to glory.
Obinna what a show....Amberay IAM proud of u .....there is power in knowing your worth.....when u know it ....u won't torelate any form toxicity treatment from your partner........obinna u are doing a great job......let stop gender based violence
Ann kindly pitia kwangu unisupport pia 🙏 🧡
Happiness is everything.
Choose u no matter what.
It's true ety ungoje maombi ya pastor sijui nini nini unangoja kifo next ....she spoke the truth.I have been there n I came out of a toxic relationship n today my life is never the same again.Thank gal for sharing ur amazing
I love this girl,, be , blessed amber ❣️❣️
Wooooow....great episode...Mimi huishi kusema happiness first the rest comes later
I thought she said her baby daddy walikuwa masonko kwao during kullakula show🤔🤔🤔
kuwashinda😄😄 rich is relative
Pole sana for that amber .I'm happy you are where you are now
I hope i will also get over it...'m beaten up and my guy is never drunk buh the wierdest thing i stay....I hope Amber Ray's story will help me save myself😢
8 months year-old boy aki Obinna🤣
Everybody has a story for sure
Are you kidding me!!!! Amber???? Amber the brand???? Baby at 8 months kumwagiliwa maji? I've heard it all! 🙌🙌🙌
That shocked me too! 🤣🤣
Nobody:
Obinna: 8 month year old boy! Surely hapo umetupanga but ni sawa tu 😩😩🤣🤣
I think the title of this show is biased '' TOXIC BOYFRIENDS ''.. Truth is, toxicity can be from either gender. A better title should've been '' TOXIC PARTNERS '' 🤭 As men also encounter very toxic women too.
Exactly! Ignorant men the likes of Obina are part of the problem.
Problem is men Don't tend to open up, if need be he can do a different one of toxic girlfriends ....
Toxic galfrnds coming soon ako na episodes
Obinna hajakataa.
Am a survivor from toxicity never taking it in again.
Oooh amber ray we lv u am a single mum n I believe in God
Obina "8 month Year old baby " the shock was real 🤣🤣🤣🤣😂
🤣🤣🤣
I thought I was wrong at the first place 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂 wah
,😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂💯
Amber is more beautiful without the dramatic lashes
😂😂😂😂😂
The one’s she has are still dramatic though
Focus on important things
I've never understood this fake lashes thing. They don't look sexy on anyone. Ujinga tu
Out of all this all you were seeing were the lashess......mambo magani haya??😂😂😂Focus on important things bana
Amber has been through a lot💕
Best episode of all done ✅
True
her story is exactly like mine
Nice story.. But I thought after being cheated on and abused you wouldn't be the reason another woman goes through abuse... But ooh well.. I am happy you chose yourself
Thought so too but anyway..
Thank God mliachana baraka zikafunguka
Waaaa pole,a very painful story, some men are very hurtless,wonders shall never end
Wazi obina zikam through tupate malessons man.jah bless you
Aki Obinna!!! ilke the way you involve humour in your interviews
He is humble and kind
Amber Amber ...so proud of you
You go through all this ...do you think you will entertain men's nonsense?...now I see the reason why she decided to be Amber... happiness is everything
The reason I don't judge people good one girl
Love yourself first. Word!!
OBINNA kazi yako ni safii sana 👌🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Boy child Obize trying so hard to focus on her face but.... If you know you know and if you don't know, forget about it 😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂 nmetafuta hii kabisa ...eyelashes weeeee
I'm telling you 😂😂
awesome lady,i didnt know her like this
Robin kindly pitia kwangu unisupport pia 🙏 🧡
Wow Amber so proud of u mama after this story 💓
Obinna you need to talk to this boys ndio tujue hizo akili zao ziakuanga zikisoma nini
enyewe i will never judge anybody
obina leta @olive actress wa mother in law 😢
Aki walai
Akuje afanye nini si utoshekee na hio interview moja
@@janemuthoni5519 😂😂😂😂 i wonder too like it's the same story atakuja kupeana hapa
It is so encouraging🔥. God bless you
For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten son,that whosoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. Repent for the kingdom of God is at hand. Shalom
I understand amber very well I left my violent hubby few months ago,kwanza hiyo ya gate it is exactly what happened to MTU anatoka job 7 anaenda kulewa n anajua gate uuu fungwa 10 pm anakupigia 11mp ety niambie caretaker asifunge gate...the anakam at 1am ,aky I rem that one day caretaker alikataaa kumfungulia then he kept calling then nikazima simu,ngai then akafunguliwa at 3am aky ile vita nilipingwa, aky n like amber neighbours can help,was it not for the caretaker ningeuliwa,then the next ety sorry,
Aky I was asking ata enda job SAA gapi I start parking, n its 3months bila stress
Please please ladies don't stay ety MTU atachange,I waited for 1yrs ety atachange but wapi
Yeeeeiiiii ❤️ saa nne itafika lini
The is the face of Obina 😂🤣kwanza sitting position and macho🤣🤣😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
8 month year old boy ndio nini tena aki😂
The awaited show
Thax Amber for the advice
So motivating❤❤
Amber you are goals.
here to learn..good work Obina✅👌👍👍
I now understand you Amber ....am so sorry please forgive me for judging you in the past.
Try get both sides she's a lier
My motivation lady..... Love yourself
Amber is beautiful Manzee
When we were young dj afro used to say 'alionwa war'😂😂😂
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Amber you have really motivated me , let me subscribe now
Obinah l could like to meet you one day, l also have a story, am mother of 4 kids but now am in gulf hustling for my kids, amberey has really encouraged me.
That's not even toxic that was an abusive relationship and no man or woman deserves that
But anything abusive is toxic swty
please hear both sides of the stories rather than labelling others as toxic boyfriends na uko na 3 baby mamas diel !!!
Yeah that's the only advise...run for your life
Diving right into it.
@ 4:45 Did Obinna just say „eight month year old boy“ 😂😂😂
I heard it too
Marie kindly pitia kwangu unisupport pia 🙏 🧡
@@jemmyfoodie5855 I have subscribed
@@mariecreaseasante
Obinaaaaaa this the episod was waiting for🥰
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Mimi huyo mara hiyo hiyo
Sooo much better than Andrew Kibe