How NOT to Talk to a Dyslexic
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- Опубликовано: 1 июн 2024
- How NOT to Talk To A Dyslexic: Best Practices & Common Mistakes [Interactive Webinar by Exceptional Individuals]
Webinar Overview
Navigate the complexities of talking about and to individuals with dyslexia. Learn the dos and don'ts in this interactive webinar.
Note: This webinar is educational and is not a diagnostic tool. Consult a qualified professional for diagnosis.
Chapters
00:00 - Intro: Talking About Dyslexia
00:55 - Who We Are & What We Do
01:35 - Avoid Saying This to Dyslexics
01:58 - The "Focus" Fallacy
02:30 - The "Try Harder" Stereotype
04:10 - The Stigma of Sharing
05:25 - Public Perception of Dyslexia
07:15 - Job Choices & Dyslexia
09:36 - The "Aim Lower" Myth
11:40 - Success & Reading Skills
15:10 - Dyslexia-Driven Success
16:45 - Spellcheck Suggestions
18:50 - Dyslexia & 'Cheating'
21:22 - The Disability Look
21:58 - What Dyslexia 'Looks Like'
25:23 - Common Misconceptions
26:41 - Assumed Causes
28:33 - The 'Unlikely Dyslexic'
30:39 - Who Isn't Dyslexic?
32:10 - The Dyslexia Stereotype
35:55 - Being Dyslexic Means?
37:41 - The 'Crutch' Accusation
38:44 - Dyslexia Denial
39:36 - Exam Time Controversy
41:29 - Honourable Mentions
43:31 - Q&A and More
46:43 - Next Webinars & Steps
51:21 - End
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I'm a 62-year-old Dyslexic, and the one thing I hate is being told to look it up in the dictionary when trying to figure out how a word is spelled. What?
I completely understand how frustrating that can be. Dyslexia can make it difficult to read, spell, and process written information, and having someone tell you to just look it up in the dictionary can be dismissive of the challenges you face. It's important to acknowledge and support those with dyslexia, and to provide them with resources and tools that can help them overcome the difficulties they encounter.
Me too, it was like looking at gibberish.and very frustrating
That has me livid saying that I’d look it up if i knew how to spell it but then wouldn’t need too. Great, now you’ve triggered a whorling paradox. Thanks
Thanks, but can you explain what would you prefer as a response. That would help
omg 63 , but only found out when I was in my mid-50s. I’m still learning the basics of what this is caused me. I had all of negative comments throughout my entire life. I received a masters, but struggled very hard. Also it took me years to get it. I wish I could explain this to people so many don’t even believe it.
Discovering dyslexia in your mid-50s was a significant realisation. Despite negative comments and struggles, you obtained a master's degree. Explaining dyslexia to others can be difficult, but sharing your experiences can raise awareness and foster understanding. Surround yourself with supportive individuals who recognise your strengths beyond dyslexia. Keep learning and remember you're not alone.
Im 61 just been diagnosed with Dyslexia, as I was struggling in my first year studying psychology in Uni... Congratulations on your masters degree btw
I was 27 years old when a great friend figured out that I only see three words at a time. The same way some readers see the whole page at once. She taught me to read sentences as “3 words 3 words 3 words reconstruct then say aloud as you move on to the next set of 3’s. It took me a few years to learn to do this smoothly but today (20 years later) i read out loud beautifully. My hyperactive racing mind does it. Its not for all of us though Google spells for me now. My spelling ability has gone to crap because of it.
Thanks for sharing your unique reading strategy. It's a great example of how personalised approaches can make a big difference. It's interesting how technology like Google has become a double-edged sword for you, aiding in some areas but causing skills like spelling to decline. Your experience adds to the conversation about the diverse ways dyslexia can impact people.
I'm olde, so school was in the 70s and 80s for me, pre-tech. My mom used to tell me to sound out words and look them up in the dictionary. Well guess what, Pneumonia and Pterodactyl don't sound out well.
Very true, English is a complex language, and words like "Pneumonia" and "Pterodactyl" can be challenging to sound out or look up in the dictionary due to their silent letters. Thankfully Technology now offers resources to help with pronunciation, making it easier to navigate the complexities of English.
Thank you others have tried to make miss-spellers dictionaries but they are very small and usually topic cal- I can get lost for a long long time without a slight memory of the trick to starting out some words- - . yes all of this. . .!
The spell-checker one hits hard. I LOVE story writing. It's a fantastic creative outlet but seeing those red lines all over your work just kills me sometimes.
Spell-check tools can be frustrating, consider using software programs or apps for more advanced grammar and spelling checks. Don't let spell-checkers discourage you from your passion for story writing.
I am a 44 year old dyslexic, I have heard every single statement they video made - all my life. Still to this day I am told I need to pay attention to details, which I do focus intensely on details. Some have said, "you give to many details"; I am a very detailed person. They will never understand why I have to go over and over things till it sticks in my brain. I have to learn things at my pace, when I go too fast, I don't retain very well. I went to a private school for dyslexia, which helped greatly. Mainly through the basic parts, we were taught linguistics, how to read facial gestures, and memory board technique. The memory board technique was use of a board with a rough surface, that we spelled our spelling words and memorize our definitions using our finger tips, while saying them out loud. Unfortunately the world at large expects you to be able to learn as fast as non-dyslexics even though many people and organizations have made people aware of it. I have had to go to extreme effort to learn things, even things I found interesting. I read slow, and I have to pause after a paragraph and really think about what I have read to understand it. It usually takes me a few months to read an entire book, because after so many paragraphs I feel mentally fatigued. I have also used my imagination part of my mind to take pictures of words or numbers that I need to remember so I don't forget - which helps. I have also had trouble with math as a kid, and was told I couldn't learn it because my brain wasn't wired that way. With this said, when I went back to college - I attempted math, but was unable to do it. So I decided to start teaching myself with the help of video's on youtube, and learnt at my pace. When I went back to college - I got an A in math, the second math class a C+, but when I got to college level I got a D+. I can do it, but I have to go slower. The bigger the formula got, the more difficult it was to keep tract with what I was solving; I would get lost. The instructor said," you clearly understand how to solve it, but you have a hard time applying it". Thankfully she gave me partial credit for the amount of the problem that I could get right. I could pass some courses in college, but I never did finish my degree. I still have a hard time trying to learn at the pace of the course. I wish it were different, but even when I was younger I have always had to work a job and go to school. So I couldn't put as much time into my studies as I would of liked, I probably would've done better. I am not trying to feel sorry for myself, or say - woe is me, but I am just sharing my experiences. It doe's make life harder, but I never give up! I have tried many jobs, and have a plethora of knowledge, but I still can't make the money I want to, especially since inflation has went up. I am a CNC operator, but it doesn't pay a decent wage to be comfortable, but I do enjoy it.
Thank you for sharing your experiences with dyslexia. Your journey highlights the challenges faced by many dyslexic individuals and the resilience needed to overcome them. It's clear that you've developed effective strategies for learning and navigating the world, despite the obstacles. Your determination to continue learning and striving for success, even in the face of adversity, is truly inspiring. Keep pushing forward and never give up on your goals. Your perseverance is a testament to your strength and determination. Wishing you continued success in your endeavors, and may you find fulfillment and satisfaction in your work as a CNC operator.
Thank you for sharing. My favorite children’s author… Patricia Palacco… her books address this in Junkyard Wonders! I am working on using this as a discussion piece. Also, the Honey Jar- about her struggles with learning” like everybody else” and a lovely connection with inter-generations, and family dynamics.
Using your fingers to read with Braille is like using your ears to read with audiobooks. There is more than one method of reading.
You make an interesting comparison! Just as there are different methods of reading, there are also various ways individuals access and process written information. Braille and audiobooks are both valuable tools for individuals with different needs and preferences. It's important to recognise and respect the diversity of reading methods and accommodate them accordingly. Thank you for highlighting this perspective!
Thank you for sharing this… I grew up as a natural reader, loved books - and print with pictures. I am going to share am still figuring out the dyspraxia part…I will be sharing this at my next teacher staff meeting. Great explanations of neuro-diverse learners. 🤨
You hit the mark and smashed them out the parkon all things people have said to me. I am a 40+ year old bloke with a mild version of dyslexia. I got placed in a group called PAVE ( Physical and verbal education) at secondary school, I had support for my classes but the support helper ended helping most other people in the class more than myself due to I got what was being worked on. I was learning German language but at the third year in secondary school they stopped any one that would not pass the GSE exams. I hate absalutly hate people who keep saying you should try harder or listen more, work faster. I found that in all my differen jobs I have had I found that the way i think has been resolved by me , from working the way things are done to my advantage, spacial awarness. I am trying to Luxembourgish for sixteen years since I met and now married my wife who is from Luxemburge. If using audio to read books , how to blind people read when they use their touch.
It's great to hear that you've found ways to work around your dyslexia and utilize your strengths in different situations. It's unfortunate that you faced challenges in school and that others didn't understand the difficulties you faced. It's important for educators and administrators to understand the neurodiversity of their students and provide adequate support and accommodations so that everyone can reach their full potential. And it's great that you have been learning Luxembourgish for so long, that shows your dedication and determination. The use of audio technology to read books and assistive methods for the visually impaired is a testament to the creative solutions that can be found to support neurodiverse individuals. - Nat
Growing I loved School and Growing up I hated school. I wanted to learn and loved learning but it was heartbreaking every time I was compaired to or compaired myself to one of the more nero normative students. I am now in my 40s and have goals I may never complete because I am such a Perfectionist.
I understand your feelings about school and the struggles with perfectionism. Remember, it's never too late to pursue your goals, and perfection is often an unattainable standard. Embrace your unique way of thinking and learning. It's what makes you special :)
I got diagnosed in my 20s at uni. I'm now 50. I have a masters and have been a teacher and am now a therapist. My listening and verbal skills impeccable. My reading is slow, my spelling is bad and my writing is slow. I have an amazing internal thesaurus so that I can find an alternative word to use when spell checks don't recognise the word I'm actually trying to spell. My organisational skills are awful.
Thanks for sharing your journey. Your experience shows that dyslexia doesn't define one's capabilities or career success. Your skills in listening and verbal communication have clearly been a strength in your roles as a teacher and therapist. The "internal thesaurus" you've developed is a creative workaround for spelling challenges. Dyslexia often comes with a mix of strengths and challenges, and it sounds like you've found ways to leverage your strengths effectively.
Best,
Nat
@@ExceptionalIndividuals thank you, yes. And thanks for raising awareness. When I was diagnosed I was given very little information about my dyslexia. I was thankfully given funding for a PC which was a game changer (not many people had them back then). I was told that my spelling was in part down to East London accent, I knew that couldn't be true because my spelling is sooooo iratic and also if that were true, everyone with an accent would have dyslexia. I have often been frustrated by people telling me to 'sound the word out'. I have for a long time acceptEd my dyslexia and muddled through. Its only now that I have a dyslexic client that I have decided to look more into it, helping myself in the process.
You're very welcome, and I'm glad to hear that you found the information helpful. It's unfortunate that you received limited information about your dyslexia when you were diagnosed, but it's great that you were able to benefit from having a PC. Raising awareness and sharing experiences can make a significant difference in helping others understand and cope with dyslexia. It's also commendable that you're using your own experiences to support your dyslexic client and further educate yourself about it. If you have any more questions or need additional information, feel free to ask.
Jolly splendid
Wow, so true so many times being ridiculed about not fixing spelling. Well, I looked up most of every single word before there was spellcheck and still if you don’t see that it is misspelled you don’t know to look it up.
You're absolutely right. Spelling challenges can be difficult to overcome, and relying solely on looking up words in a dictionary doesn't always guarantee catching every misspelling. Without the aid of spellcheck, it can be even more challenging to recognize when a word is misspelled. It's important to remember that spelling difficulties, such as those experienced by individuals with dyslexia, are not indicative of intelligence or capability. Understanding and empathy towards those facing spelling challenges can go a long way in creating a supportive and inclusive environment.
You have such a wonderful attitude! This helped me so much! Thank you.
I'm delighted to hear that this has helped you! Your kind words mean a lot, and I'm here if you need more support or information. Thank you for being part of this journey! 😊🧡
I found out that I was Dyslexic when I was 40 years old . I thought I was just stupid . I can read at a college level , but reading out loud can be a real challenge and spelling is difficult . In school I was always titled as a slow learner . I had a grade school teacher that told me I was day dreaming and not paying attention . She took to the coat room and spank me. I had people tell me I am of low intelligent . I wish my parents would have know this ,because my mother would get so frustrated over my school work . I had very low self esteem. Anyway I 64 now I lived .
Thank you for sharing your experience. It's tough to go through life feeling misunderstood, especially when it impacts your self-esteem. Finding out about your dyslexia later in life must have been a moment of revelation. Your story underscores the importance of early diagnosis and the need for understanding from educators and family. I'm glad you've gained clarity, even if it came later in life.
Best,
Nat
I do not like it when people say they Have dyslexia. We are Dyslexic. Dyslexia is not a disease or something that can be changed like hair color, so it is not something you have, it is what we are.
I understand your perspective on identifying as dyslexic rather than saying one "has" dyslexia. It's important to respect individual preferences and the language they choose to describe their experience. Some individuals with dyslexia feel that referring to themselves as dyslexic acknowledges dyslexia as a part of their identity rather than viewing it as something separate from themselves. Language and terminology can vary among different individuals and communities, so it's important to be open to different perspectives and use language that is respectful and inclusive.
WOW so many comments agreeing with this video amazing. . .!
It's true I heard all of these and much worse much worse
held after classes for long conversations that get longer and worse over the school year
when the teacher is disappointed they sometimes take personally like you don't like them or are revolting & pretty much anything you can think of- can happen. . .
Hi there,
I'm so sorry to hear that you had such negative experiences with teachers when you were struggling with dyslexia. It's heartbreaking to hear that teachers would take their disappointment personally and make you feel like you were revolting. No child deserves to be treated that way.
I'm glad that you're finding support in the comments on this video. It's important to know that you're not alone, and that there are people who understand what you're going through.
Simply, "Thank you."
Thank you too!
Oh.. what a dream... "getting extra time on exams"... I grew up in a time when NO SUCH THING existed... I rarely furnished tests and needed every minute they would allow.
I've NEVER been officially diagnosed but by the POWER OF the internet, I took some tests that SHOW that I'm definitely dyslexic.
I went to computer programming school as an adult and ACED IT. I worked as a mainframe programmer for about 15 years... and thrived. But, I ALWAYS had to take extra alternative measures to keep abreast of my teammates. It helped tremendously to "map out" problems by creating pictures and diagrams.
I relied on my friends on my team to "fill in" the information I may have missed during design meetings. I was always slightly slower on the uptake but (more than) made up for it by testing my code beyond what was expected.
The secret to success was to NEVER appear like you were struggling and NOT overly depend on any ONE PERSON.... and.... find ways to reciprocate favors...
In spite of dyslexia, as a programmer, I discovered that I possessed "a keen sense of logic", which was never revealed attending public school.
Your experience is both inspiring and insightful. It's commendable how you've navigated the challenges of dyslexia, especially in a time when accommodations like extra time on exams weren't available. Your approach to problem-solving, using diagrams and relying on teamwork, is a great example of adapting and finding strategies that work for you. It's also impressive how you discovered and utilised your strength in logic in your programming career. Your story underscores the importance of perseverance, adaptability, and recognizing one's unique skills, even in the face of challenges like dyslexia.
i got diagnosied in the 5th grade because no matter how hard i tried in math class i knew the work but it wasnt correct on paper. My math teacher said she didn't want to fail me because i was trying sooo hard and u had kids who didn't even care who got an A effort lessly. So if my mom agreed to get me help they would pass me. I ended up graduating mom put me in sylvian learning center where they diagnosed me as being dyslexic. Went to middle school and was passing . so I'm grateful to that teacher and that principle .Graduated Valedictorian of my highschool class .
Later in life I got written up my old job for being " distracted and making silly mistakes" they kept saying " i know you know how to do this etc you and ur prob distracted by the internet" but it really wasn't that and i couldn't explain it and I've never told anyone i had dyslexia because i didn't want them to think i was dumb .
My mom wants to throw a million things at me and get mad when i get quite or overwhelmed . learning how to drive was a nightmare ! Ironically it was when i drove backwards that i understand how to go forward . It was like i didn't feel the car at first then my mom is like let me try one more thing before i give up, just go straight back etc . And i drove back wards in a perfect line . As soon as i put the car forward i was able to "feel the car" i had control after that .
I would lose my head if it wasn't on my shoulders . my note pad is full of me organizing and reorganize things.i rather use voice chat then type.
I used to be soo good at writing and spelling now that I'm out of school I'm forgetting how you spell words!
Anything with numbers absolutely confuse me and my attention span is that of a flea.
I have to plan out everything in my day or a trip when i go.
I'm ramblung like crazy but I'm just so happy to find my ppl.
I have been told I'm.being extra and why do you get fixed on a certain thing and won't let it go! Or it's not that serious or stop whining etc yc
I get so frustrated and overwhelmed.
I can write paragraph s but i skim over others 😂
Your journey from being diagnosed with dyslexia in the 5th grade to becoming Valedictorian of your high school class is truly inspiring! It's clear that you've worked hard to understand and adapt to your unique way of processing information. From your creative talents to learning how to drive, you've found ways to navigate challenges. Your joy in connecting with others who understand your experience is heartwarming. Thanks for sharing, and keep embracing your strengths!
On report cards: Makes mistakes, even though she's copying off the blackboard. I spent my whole childhood working on my reading skills and by the time I got to University I could help my friends with writing, however, I still relied on Grammarly a lot. It's hard to spell when a word you use every day looks alien all of a sudden.
I found out in my early thirties that I have dyslexia, dyscalculia, and ADHD. I somehow flew under the radar and am now struggling through Electromechanical Engineering in College in a career change. I now tell my teachers and I find that things are a lot better because they are more likely to change how they explain something, even though they often don't understand what dyslexia really is.
I'm so happy that I have an explanation for my experiences! I've even met others with dyslexia and got the tips and tricks they use!
It's inspiring to hear about your journey with dyslexia, dyscalculia, and ADHD. Discovering these at a later stage and adjusting to them, especially in a demanding field like Electromechanical Engineering, shows great resilience. It's excellent that you're finding ways to communicate your needs to teachers and gaining tips from others with similar experiences. For more resources and support, you might find Exceptional Individuals helpful. They offer various events and information related to neurodiversity. Check out their offerings at www.eventbrite.co.uk/o/exceptional-individuals-12111155769. Keep embracing your unique strengths!
Omg have u tried using a spell checker - love this
the Apple AI will change your words around in wild ways in 2023 I really hate Ai spelling checker on automatic
I'm 67 during elementary school for 6 years I had a private teacher i went to 3 times a week after school.
This man learned me how to read and how to put numbers together. I only saw letters and numbers but i could not put them together into words and numbers above 9.
This man saved my life. He learned me all kind of tricks and motivated me to read. If i don't read for a couple of days i lose the ability to read.
I quit highschool because my grades were high but not for Dutch, France, Englisch and German. All those languages are mandatory the first 2 years in my country. After that only Dutch and English are mandatory. Every new word i have to write down about a hundred times just to remember how it is written. The teacher did not believe i was dyslectisch and so i had to do every class twice. Later on i discovered that people with dyslexia are not making normal spelling mistakes but mistakes that are typical for someone with dyslexia. Teacher should learn that when they are in college learning to be a teacher.
You can overcome it for the most part with the right help. I was very lucky. Most kids don't get not the right help.
Your story is a powerful example of overcoming dyslexia with proper support and determination. The dedicated teaching you received, and your own hard work, played a crucial role in your ability to read and understand numbers. Your experience in high school also highlights the need for greater awareness and understanding of dyslexia in education systems. It's clear that with the right help and strategies, challenges posed by dyslexia can be significantly mitigated. Your perseverance is truly commendable.
@@ExceptionalIndividuals thank you
Yes my teacher
I had mixed reaction from my teachers. I was told that I am extremely bright, but I am lazy. I managed to do all my home work correctly on the other hand I failed my comment entrance. I hate exams later in life I managed two degrees
Your experience highlights the disconnect between traditional academic assessments and individual potential. Being labeled as "lazy" when you're actually bright but struggle with exams is unfortunately common. Kudos on overcoming those obstacles to earn two degrees! Your journey is an inspiration for those facing similar challenges. 🎓
Nat
I’m 59 yo dyslexic and could not watch the complete video. I found it to distressing 😢 thank you though, I hope the young ones don’t get destroyed like I was.
I'm sorry to hear that the video was distressing for you. It's unfortunate that many dyslexic individuals have faced challenges and struggles throughout their lives. Your empathy and concern for younger generations are commendable. Remember, your experiences can offer valuable insight and support to others who may be going through similar difficulties. Keep advocating for awareness and understanding of dyslexia, and may you find peace and resilience as you continue on your journey. Take care.
So, can dyslexia make someone slow at doing thinks even if they are not relate to reading etx? Recently, ive been told that I have dyslexia. After comparing the signs of dyslexia and my difficulties, it all matched but I'm generally slow at doing lots of stuff, e.g serving customers as a cashier.
My spellings are very bad as well. I've been using Grammarly becoz I was told about my dyslexia. Some of my spellings are not even close as well, and I find it difficult to pronounce certain words as well, so, sometimes even dictating might be difficult if I'm not close to spellings the word(s) correctly.
Yes, dyslexia can affect processing speed and ability to complete tasks beyond reading and writing. It can also impact memory, concentration, spelling, pronunciation, and communication skills. Using tools like Grammarly can help, and seeking specialist support or accommodations can be beneficial.
Yes by my teachers and family
I'm really sorry to hear that you've faced such a lack of understanding and support from those who should be encouraging you. Negative attitudes can make the challenges of dyslexia even more difficult to navigate. Remember, your dyslexia is not a measure of your worth or potential. Support and understanding are out there, even if it hasn't come from your immediate circle.
I've experienced most of that and I have dyslexia and ADHD and yes society is not set up for people who process info like me and yes people can say mean things or ignorant things, but I don't see the benefit to telling other people they need to walk on eggshells around me to spare my feelings. The struggles I had in school and even later might have caused me emotional distress at the time, but it also made me angry enough to want to prove them wrong and work that much harder to prove I could reach the same goals as a person with a left brain. If I had been candled and patted on the head my whole life, I would have not felt the need to strive to do better and achieving goals you set for yourself if what gives a person self-respect. I think we need to spend more time making sure dyslexic kids are taught to be emotionally strong and strive toward any goal they set their mind on and less time telling them to complain about society because it is hard to live in.
It's great to hear that you have a positive attitude towards overcoming challenges related to your dyslexia and ADHD. Embracing challenges and working hard towards your goals is an important aspect of personal growth and development. Fostering resilience and a growth mindset can be crucial in helping individuals achieve their full potential, regardless of the difficulties they may face. It's also important to have a supportive environment and resources that can help individuals with learning disabilities to succeed, and to raise awareness about these conditions to help remove stigma and increase understanding.
💜I was not aware that Dyslexia was considered the same as learning disability. I failed the exam from aviation I was chasing it for over 5 years for it. I thought it would be my dream job since I love to travel. So now over age 45 what do I do for the next 5 years. Feeling devastated about it all even though I found out that the demands/duties were a bit too high for me. How do I support myself financially?
I'm sorry to hear about your experience with the aviation exam and the realization about dyslexia. It's tough to face such a significant change, especially when it involves a dream job. Recognizing that the demands were too high is an important step in understanding your needs and abilities. At over 45, it's natural to feel uncertain about the future. Consider exploring careers that align with your interests and strengths. Perhaps something related to travel but with different demands? Also, look into resources and support for adults with dyslexia, as they can offer guidance and possibly career direction. Remember, it's never too late to start a new path and find fulfillment in different ways. Stay strong, and don't hesitate to seek support from professionals or communities.
@@ExceptionalIndividuals 💜Thank you for taking the time to reply back to me, during your busy schedule. I been walking through my journey, ignoring the dyslexia since elementary school when they brought it up to my attention. I was then placed with students who were more distracted from learning than I was, it kept me from learning at all. Felt like I was robbed instead of improving. Now as an adult and experiencing to many blocks and failures, I want to look for support in New York City. I don’t have any connections with resources. The last person I thought could help me, was getting information from me instead of providing it for me. So If you have any recommendations ideas or anyone that could help me where I should start searching for support, please advise all is welcome and appreciated. 🙏🏽😏
Hi @lovepurple9116,
I'm glad to hear that you're seeking support for dyslexia in New York City. There are several resources available that could be helpful for you:
Children’s Dyslexia Centers, Inc. in New York City offers free tutoring for children with dyslexia and trains tutors as well. They have been working to help individuals overcome the challenges of dyslexia for over two decades. You can contact them at (781) 504-2124 or visit their website for more information (www.childrensdyslexiacenters.org).
Decoding Dyslexia New York is a grassroots movement focused on raising dyslexia awareness, empowering families, and implementing science-based instruction for students with dyslexia in public schools. They can be a great resource for understanding your rights and finding local support groups (www.decodingdyslexianewyork.org).
The Mayor's Office for People with Disabilities provides a list of resources, including the National Center for Learning Disabilities (NCLD), which aims to improve the lives of people with learning and attention issues. NCLD can be reached at 888-575-7373 or via their website (www.ncld.org).
These organisations can provide you with valuable information, support, and possibly connect you with local resources to help you navigate your dyslexia as an adult. Remember, you're not alone in this journey, and there are many out there ready to support you.
The below is my responses to this video
My self esteem took a huge hit, as a 55 year old I know that I didn’t reach my potential. I was not aloud to do art or languages as I was sent to reading classes, which were just more of the same stuff I was doing during class so it only made me feel worse. I was lucky I had a good mother whom found a tutor that worked with dyslexics. I love reading now.
When I was at school the careers counsellor advised me that if I worked hard I could make a nice little cleaning business. I hate cleaning even my own house so I dropped out of school. Later on in life I did go back to study but never achieved what I believe I could’ve.
I have been told I don’t act like a dyslexic, I just say thank you but how do you think a dyslexic should act? Nine times out of ten they don’t know.
I had a doctor tell my mother I was dyslexic because I was adopted, I only remember her grabbing my hand and walking out of the office. I thought I’d done something wrong, she had to explain to me later what the guy had said.
Being dyslexic means having to look up how to spell dyslexic every time you want to write it. But honestly being dyslexic means I belong to a group of individuals that share a common sense of being but all in a different way.
I don’t think people understand how much dyslexia affects my every day life. I’ve heard I’m a bit dyslexic too so many times it’s like to keep me quiet.
Hi @lisajobsonbeasley8305, it's heart-breaking to hear about your experiences, but also inspiring to see your resilience. Your journey highlights a significant issue: the misunderstanding and underestimation of dyslexia's impact. Dyslexia isn't a one-size-fits-all condition; it manifests uniquely in each individual. It's crucial for educators and society to recognise this diversity and provide the right support. You're absolutely right, being dyslexic doesn't come with a fixed set of behaviours or limits. Keep challenging those stereotypes! 🌟
Thk you I have just met a new friend who has dyslexia and I am requiring information like this video to be knowledge on how to chat on Skype with this person ….as a person without dyslexia I would have preferred to have known ahead of time so that there was less conflict in a conversation
Thanks for your comment; understanding and accommodating your friend's dyslexia can help prevent conversation conflicts. Educate yourself about dyslexia and communication strategies to create a supportive environment. Patience and understanding are key for effective communication on Skype.
05:04 thank *** god, i've heard that advice and thought I wasn't sane.
My 'extra time" for test was - u can stay after the bell rings as the next class files in and if ur not done by the time the kid that needs ur desk gets here then u have clearly had enough time. I hated my school.
Hi @BalmzZz,
That sounds like a tough and unfair situation. Extra time accommodations should be provided in a supportive environment, not rushed or made uncomfortable. It's important that schools understand and properly implement accommodations for neurodiverse students. Your experience highlights the need for better awareness and practices in educational settings.
I was at my first job and the bosses brought me in a room put a pad of paper in front of me. I was frozen, calling out words for meto spell. It was like being in school in front of a firing squad. Anyway they looked at my paper and all nodding to each other. That was the first time I have dyslexia. That was in my early 20’s. They sent me to get tested and the whole office helped me memorize. Also the first time I knew I wasn’t stupid.
Thank you for sharing your impactful story. That must have been a nerve-wracking experience, but it led to a crucial moment of self-discovery. It's wonderful that your office was supportive and helped you realize that dyslexia doesn't equate to a lack of intelligence. Your story highlights the importance of understanding and accommodation in the workplace.
Best,
Nat
Dyslexic here, wasn't diagnosed until I was 17, but did have some problems at school. At 8 my teacher tried to teach me a lesson by humiliating me by sending me to a lower class to find out how to spell a specific word. Unfortunately it backfired as the lower form teacher asked me why I hadn't asked my own teacher, my answer, 'well maybe she didn't know how to spell it', she didn't try that again. My main problem is db and mn they have no meaning still today, so words without these letter are generally okay. Luckily my English lit teacher seemed to be aware of the problem so he did help a lot, reading out loud was virtually impossible, understanding the words no problem but trying to pronounce unfamiliar words very difficult. I have always told potential employers I am dyslexic, never seems to been a problem, 9/10 times I got the job. The key is to be confident, I have NO disability, I have a different way of thinking, live with it. Side note I now teach English to non native speakers, all my students get top marks. I was a computer analytics and an a qualified accountant.
Your journey with dyslexia and the resilience you've shown is truly inspiring! Your approach to embracing your unique way of thinking and communicating that confidently to employers is a great example for others. It's also fantastic to hear about your success in teaching English and your professional achievements. For more resources and support on dyslexia, you might find Exceptional Individuals helpful. They offer various events and information that could be beneficial. Check them out here: www.eventbrite.co.uk/o/exceptional-individuals-12111155769. Keep thriving and sharing your story!
I do, very much, hate reading. Just like I hate smashing my thumb with a hammer. Both are painful and take quite a bit of time to get through. I do love good stories though. I am one of those book vs movie people. I loved the Harry Potter series of books. My wife and I had our own personal book club meetings over them. She read them in print, and I read them on CD. The difference was I could pronounce Hermione properly, and she sounded like she went to Durmstrang.
Thanks for your comment, though reading has been challenging for you due to dyslexia, you still enjoy engaging with stories. You and your wife had your own book club meetings, with her reading the print version while you listened on CD. Differences in pronunciation can occur, but what truly matters is the love for the story and the connection it creates. Embracing different ways of enjoying literature allows people with dyslexia to fully appreciate and engage with stories.
Hello, I am a dyspraxic woman married with a dyslexic man. This video is very interesting. I am in my 40s and he is in his 50s. We have both been told we were not trying enough but for different reasons. My husband was told he would never succeed in life because he was not good at school. And, for my part, I was told I would go far in life, because I was good at school in general, but terrible in Sports, riding a bicycle and drawing and tieing my shoes. But I found out I was too clumsy for most jobs and I was told I was stupid, not learning fast enough, could not hold a job for a long time. And I met my husband. I helped him finish high school by teaching him at home and he did the exams. No teachers could help him, but magically, when I explained to him, he understood. But he could not understand the trained teachers, but he could understand me and I have no training in teaching. Is it because I am also neurodiverse that I explain in a way he understands? So he wanted to become a bus driver but needeed the high school diploma. And now he works while I can hardly keep a job because I am so clumsy and "stupid". I was told I was good only at being at school and doing exams. So the one who got told that would not go far in life is working and the one supporting me now. And I cannot keep a job. I wish we talked just as much about dyspraxic people. It seems there is not help to get for dypraxia when you 40 years old. I asked for help (I live in Canada) but I was told only the people under 18 could get help and it was too late for me.
Thanks for sharing your story about being a dyspraxic woman married to a dyslexic man. It's unfortunate that both of you have faced challenges due to your neurodiverse conditions. It's important to raise awareness and support for all types of neurodiversity, including dyspraxia. While it's unfortunate that resources for adults with dyspraxia are limited in Canada, there may still be options for finding support and accommodations. Remember to keep advocating for yourself and seeking out the resources and support that you need.
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Everyone has a unique set of skills ,we all can contribute to the world
find your path and live with passion
The best people are kind
Thank you for your help
I think differently sometimes you outside the box
I'm dyslexic, and I'm quite good with foreing lenguages. The thing is that I'm quite good lisening and speking, but not as good as a reader or a writter. So forgive me if I had made some mitakes in this comment, english isnt my first lenguage.
As a native spanish speaker I find my lenguage much more easy for dyslexics, as its a fonetic lenguage. The problem with english or french is that the letters can make so many sounds... its nuts. In spanish the a alwais sounds as in as. But in english is craisy, the a in eat or crary sound complitely diferent. You even can find the a sound without an a, as in funny. I cant imagin who hard must it be to be dyslexic as an english speaker
Writing again to say i found that i am.really good at crafts and painting. Anything with being creative .I am.god at making realistic dolls, drawing cartoons and just over all crafting .
I noticed i tend to talk super fast and when ppl talk slow or drag things out it irritates me lol. Didn't think of it as my brain used to going super fast
That's fantastic to hear about your talent in crafts, painting, realistic doll making, and drawing cartoons! Creative outlets like these can be incredibly fulfilling, and it's wonderful that you've discovered these skills.
The way our brains process information can be unique to each individual, and it's interesting that you've noticed a tendency to talk fast and feel irritation with slower speech. It could indeed be a reflection of your mind's rapid processing. Embracing these aspects of yourself, both the creative talents and the way you process information, contributes to a deeper understanding of yourself. Keep nurturing your creativity!
I make dolls. They aren't realistic. They are rather abstract. I'm holding my Labradorite doll.
I've been put down by the adults, particularly the older ones. This was the Seventies. It's a good thing that I was a pretty child.
I have a wild imagination and I a'm great with "trivia". I have probably the best vocabulary.
Do adults need diagnosis? What steps can bd taken?
What if the person refuse disgnosis?
An adult diagnosis can offer clarity and access to support, but it's not mandatory. Steps include consulting healthcare professionals for evaluation and potential accommodations at work or in education.
If someone refuses diagnosis, self-management strategies can still help. It ultimately depends on the individual's comfort and needs.
Best,
Nat
Wow you have answered every single query here..
Is there a means where i can drop an email or a online session, where i can share more details to get a more clear insight of what i can do to a friend who probably may be need some support
Thank you for your kind words! If you or your dyslexic friend ever have more questions or need assistance in the future, don't hesitate to reach out. We are here to help and provide information whenever needed. www.exceptionalindividuals.com Best wishes on your journey of raising awareness and supporting individuals with dyslexia!
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It was HELL . Every day, Before I left for school How dumb I was, why am I so stupid . Can I not do anything right. Then I would get it at school . Teachers LOVED TO USE CERTAIN STUDENTS AS EXAMPLES. THEN THECLASS WOULD LAUGH< THEN OUT AT RECESS. THEN I WOULD GO HOME < AND HEAR IT ALL OVER AGAIN. 365 days a year, I could never escape . So I learned how to Lie. Found out I scored so low in the N. Testing. when a teacher was talking to another. THEY SAID I Was LAZY.. TOLD when OLDER, that I never going to amount to much than a low employed worker. I see as I type which words I get wrong. I use a Franklin Dictionary. used for "Scrabble" game. I am great in Art Realism
@tusk242,
I'm truly sorry to hear about the challenges and hurtful experiences you faced growing up. It's heartbreaking to know that you were subjected to such negativity at both school and home. Your resilience in the face of such adversity is commendable. It's inspiring to hear that you found a strength in art realism and developed strategies to cope. Your journey reminds us of the importance of understanding, compassion, and support in education and in our communities. Thank you for sharing your story; it's a powerful message about the need for greater awareness and kindness. Keep cherishing your artistic talent - it's a beautiful way to express yourself and find solace. 🎨✨
The moving pictures near the photos with words are so distracting for me . I end up not being able to finish the points . Maybe there should be a still video for people like me.
Thank you for sharing your experience with the moving pictures. I understand how that can be distracting for some viewers. I'll consider creating still versions or offering alternatives to make the content more accessible for everyone. Your feedback is valuable, and I appreciate you taking the time to share it. 🙏
I use a spelling book it just has words it is quicker then, ugh, a dictionary, becuse I can try to think other ways of spelling quicker. My spelling I think proves we are not in a simulation.
Thanks for sharing your method! Using a spelling book as a quick reference sounds efficient. Your sense of humor about the simulation made me smile. Everyone has their unique ways of navigating challenges, and it's great you've found what works for you. Keep it up!
Dyslexic diagnosed in 3rd grade tutered for three years learned to read in 8th grade always told i was a dreamer transpose # letters never encouraged always the dumbest in the class I'm now 66 never got much better always hiding my shame
I'm truly sorry to hear about your difficult journey with dyslexia. It's unfortunate that you were not provided with the support and encouragement you needed during your schooling years. Remember, dyslexia doesn't define your intelligence or worth. Your resilience in overcoming these challenges is commendable, and there are resources available today that may offer new strategies for managing dyslexia. You're not alone, and it's never too late to seek support and understanding.
One thing I do is when I can’t spell something I try to google it multiple times until I get it right or the search engine corrects my word.
That's a great strategy! Search engines can be a lifesaver when it comes to spelling challenges. It's impressive how you've found a proactive way to work with it. Thanks for sharing your tip; it might help others facing similar challenges. Keep pushing forward!
I have deep-set brown eyes. I have full lips and a my forehead is high and domed. My skin is really pale. People used to see that as a flaw.
Your features sound distinctive and beautiful. It's unfortunate that societal standards can sometimes cast certain traits in a negative light. Embracing our unique attributes and celebrating diversity in appearances contributes to a more inclusive and accepting perspective. Remember, beauty is subjective and what's most important is how you feel about yourself. ^_^
As an adult dyslexic, there is no point in hoping and waiting for everyone else to treat us with dyslexia-empathy. Dyslexic people need some pre-planned phrases, ready come-backs, that we have rehearsed. Get some 'fave phrases' and practice them in front of a mirror. When I get the spread sheet wrong, muddle those stats, percentages, room numbers, year group names, then, in meetings (59 years old, teacher and senior lecturer with 3 degrees). I try saying..(got to do a laugh to pre-empt mistakes in a meeting!) 'Gosh, got muddled with these stats, lucky I'm great at..(then state what you are brilliant at, really proudly, really, do this)......or I'd be seen as perfect at everything'. It worked for a while, 37 years, showing my 'brilliant bits' and laughing and being honest about mistakes. What I'd advise everyone is to SAY if you are dyslexic, even if you work in PWCoopers..Tell them that you are dyslexic from day one. We couldn't when I was young but now in Law/ H.R. Dyslexia is a protected charecteristic. This means that you should not be discriminated against. Doesn't mean that if you are a lawyer or Uni manager that you won't be bullied for dyslexic mistakes, just means, that if you choose, you can go to your Union (join a Union if you are dyslexic!!!) and take care of yourself. If you are in a role where being dyslexic is not ok, even with a Union, you could choose less stress. Be amazing at something less stressful.:)
Thank you for sharing your experience as an adult dyslexic and for providing practical advice on how to cope with dyslexia in the workplace. I completely agree that it's important to have pre-planned phrases and comebacks ready to use when you make mistakes due to dyslexia. Your suggestion of practicing these phrases in front of a mirror is a great way to build confidence in using them.
I also appreciate your advice on being open about dyslexia from the outset, especially in fields where dyslexia is a protected characteristic. It's important to remember that dyslexia does not define a person's abilities or potential, and it's always okay to seek support when needed.
Thank you again for sharing your wisdom and insight.
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People in Trinidad call me duncy and have no brain and I'm dyslexic this country is disrespectful for people like us them doh have no understand in Trinidad and Tobago about dyslexia 🙄😶🤔
I'm sorry to hear that you have experienced disrespect and hurtful comments in Trinidad and Tobago because of your dyslexia. Dyslexia is a learning difference that affects many people around the world, and it's important for communities to be understanding and supportive of individuals with dyslexia.
It's unfortunate that some people in Trinidad and Tobago may not have a good understanding of dyslexia and how it can impact individuals. However, there are resources and organizations available that can provide support and information about dyslexia, such as the Dyslexia Association of Trinidad and Tobago.
Remember that having dyslexia does not mean that you are less intelligent or capable than others. Dyslexia is simply a difference in the way the brain processes language, and with the right support and strategies, individuals with dyslexia can achieve great things. Stay strong, and don't let the negative comments of others bring you down.
When you tell them you have dyslexia them say you are a dunce and have no brain and I'm suffering from schizophrenia and ADHD and DiD them doh understand that it hard for me to lean the dunce talk come from all races you more hear it from Indian people because them are educated and have the most money and etc it's hard having dyslexia sometime I wonder if I'm dumb or stupid I can only read 50% but not better than you look like 70%to 80% that you can read very good bro I hope one day I can read just as you bro..👍
@@sheldonmiller994 I'm sorry to hear that you have faced such negative attitudes and experiences related to your dyslexia and other conditions. It's important to remember that having a learning disability or other condition that affects your ability to learn or function does not make you dumb or stupid. In fact, many people with these conditions have unique strengths and talents that others do not possess.
It's also important to surround yourself with supportive and understanding people who can help you overcome any challenges you may face. Keep in mind that with the right accommodations and support, you can still achieve your goals and succeed in life. Don't give up hope, and keep working towards your dreams.
Thank you for sharing your experience, and know that there are many people out there who understand and support you.
People often say ....if you say a word three times it helps it to stick.... doesn't work for me 😂
It's great that you can approach the challenges of learning and memory with humor! Techniques that might work for some people, like repeating a word three times, don't always translate universally. Your comment highlights the individual nature of learning and the importance of finding methods that work best for each person. Keep exploring what works for you and embrace the uniqueness of your learning journey. 😊
any help for Dyslexic people from zimbabwe but not live in Zimbabwe?
For dyslexic individuals from Zimbabwe but living elsewhere, online resources and communities can be very helpful. Look for international dyslexia associations or groups that offer online support, resources, and learning tools. Many websites provide free materials, strategies, and forums where you can connect with others and share experiences. Additionally, exploring educational apps designed for dyslexia might prove beneficial. It's also worth reaching out to local educational institutions or healthcare providers for guidance and possible referrals to relevant services.
Ok im 55 and yes suprised at evening class.that im dyslexic . My dad screaned the my parenrs brought me up thick stupid ect wayer on. Brain ect teachers brused us in our generation our teachers oarents was alowed to do this teacher bruised my knuckles at age of 5 never forgot it tought thro fear so we learn from mustakes. So i get something wrong daily dangerously affected me. Frustrated lots of education in life was afected by the dislexia. Label bottom sets was yes frustrated made fool of. Self at school as bored learning so i became the pain in teachers behind omg. Better to have rid of my thinking so helps of self
It's really tough to hear about your experiences of being diagnosed with dyslexia later in life and the challenges you faced growing up. It's heartbreaking that you had to endure such harsh treatment and misunderstandings from your parents and teachers. The way dyslexia was handled in your generation, with less awareness and empathy, often led to unnecessary struggles and frustration. It's good to hear that you're gaining more understanding now, but it's clear that the lack of support and recognition earlier in life had a significant impact on you. Your journey highlights the importance of early diagnosis and supportive learning environments. Keep moving forward and finding ways to manage and embrace your dyslexia. Your resilience is commendable.
I succeed at character designing
Dyslexic people are just normal people they should be treated different , talk to a Dyslexic person the way you would talk to anyone else , i don't usually tell anyone I'm Dyslexic , i literally don't care if someone says something wrong about dyslexia or has misconception of dyslexia good for them I just get on with my day don't get offended
Absolutely, dyslexic individuals are just as "normal" as anyone else and should be treated with the same respect. While it's important to correct misconceptions about dyslexia, your approach of not letting it define you or affect your day is empowering. Everyone has their own way of navigating these issues, and it's great that you've found what works for you. 👍
Nat
Children’s authors who are dyslexic
Don’t lose your quest for truth and your purpose in life, stick to your values and beliefs. Find your passion it’s the only thing that rivals your shortfalls. Living with dyslexia takes perseverance and grit.Know your strengths and weaknesses and be honest about them and educate people around you about dyslexia.Your passion will make your strengths shine. For your shortfalls surround yourself with people that are better than you at that. Understand that your best may not be good enough-accept that weakness. Never let yourself become a victim - victimhood is a lame excuse for failure. Advocate at schools, early diagnosis makes all the difference for kids.
I have Dyslexia , Dysgraphia, Dyspraxia and APD. Accept it won’t be easy don’t face it and don’t expect empathy or compassion from anyone- find your definition of success.
Your message is incredibly powerful and motivational. Embracing both your strengths and weaknesses, and not shying away from dyslexia and related challenges, is truly inspiring. Your approach of finding passion and surrounding yourself with supportive people is a great strategy for anyone living with dyslexia. Advocating for early diagnosis and understanding in schools is crucial. Your resilience and refusal to be a victim, despite the difficulties, is a testament to your strength. Keep sharing your experience and perspective; it's invaluable for others facing similar challenges.
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Man, i feel i should have been born in the UK not Newfoundland, Seems more help is in UK then here
While it's natural to feel like you might have more opportunities or access to resources in a different location or country, it's important to remember that every place has its unique advantages and disadvantages. If you are feeling stuck or in need of help, there are resources available to you no matter where you are. Consider reaching out to local community organisations, support groups, or mental health/ ND professionals for assistance. :)
Nope, I'm dyslexic in the U.K. It's warmer here for a while but in general, I'd quite like live in Newfoundland - I believe that you have beautiful rivers and forests? If you want to do a house swap one day for a couple of weeks, I'm your old English woman to message. xx
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Nope, I'm dyslexic in the U.K. It's warmer here for a while but in general, I'd quite like live in Newfoundland - I believe that you have beautiful rivers and forests? If you want to do a house swap one day for a couple of weeks, I'm your old English woman to message. xx
Shoplifter as it takes so long to price match at supermarkets never put the label near the product it’s actually selling sick to death of security guard following me
I understand your frustration with the situation. Price matching at supermarkets can be a time-consuming process, and the lack of labelling near the product can make it even more challenging. It's important for retailers to ensure a positive shopping experience for all customers, including making sure their stores are organized and that customers feel comfortable. If you feel that you are being unfairly targeted by security guards, it may be helpful to reach out to the store management to express your concerns.
I need to sit in the front of the class and I have to have repetitive moves.
It's good that you're aware of what helps you learn and stay focused. Sitting at the front can minimize distractions, and repetitive movements might help with concentration. Everyone has unique strategies that aid their learning process. It's essential to communicate your needs with your educators to ensure a conducive learning environment.
Lose the fram guy picture he makes your Food ! The brick layer built your House! I did not go to college. Iam a lincensed captain, chief engineer and lighter than air pilot. I came out of a trade school. Iam a total Dyslexic ! When i was a kid, school was so painful going to the dentist for root canal was a vacation. I am now 67 years old. My advice to you is watch the advice you give to a Dyslexic. Buy the farm guy picture you come off as a class snob. You have put people down with out knowing it. But what one of those old Beattle guy's said and others too. "all you need is love". Best Regards Jack.
Hi Jack, thank you for sharing your thoughts and your personal journey as a dyslexic individual. Your achievements as a captain, chief engineer, and pilot are truly inspiring. I apologise if any part of the content came across as insensitive or snobbish. I'll take your feedback to heart and reevaluate how I present information to make sure it's inclusive and respectful. Your perspective is valuable, and I'm grateful for the reminder that 'all you need is love.' Best Regards to you too! 🙏❤️
It is important to be open about your dyslexia
The aim lower advice you mention is infuriating. Ditto the you don’t need help - if you are getting good grades.
I have multiple neurodivergences - it’s very frustrating when even supposed professionals don’t get it.
I agree, being open about dyslexia is important. It's frustrating when professionals don't understand the challenges of neurodivergences. You're not alone, and there are support networks available. Take care!
The thing that makes me angry still. I have spent a lifetime in the library, knowing that each book I get out I will never finish reading. Why isn’t there free books for people with dyslexia to have free on every topic there is!!!!! I want science and audio, not just love novels for boring topics. My house is full of books I just can’t get through 63 now I think i will donate them . Regardless we are held back. There’s no scholarships when you’re stupid you can struggle to the highest you can climb and sometimes you’re lucky but many cannot reach full potential.
It's incredibly frustrating to feel held back by a lack of resources tailored to your needs. Having dyslexia doesn't mean you're not intelligent or capable of great things. It's crucial that accessible materials, like audiobooks or books with dyslexia-friendly formatting, cover all topics including complex ones like science. Many libraries and organisations are expanding their collections to be more inclusive, but there's still a long way to go. Donating your books is generous, and remember to explore digital libraries and audiobook services which may offer more diverse and accessible options. Advocacy for educational and learning support is important to create change and increase opportunities for everyone, regardless of learning differences.
i'm dislectic and i write one pannel joke comics. and get payed well for it.
I was just left to do my own thing
It's unfortunate that you were left to navigate dyslexia on your own without proper support. Dyslexia can present unique challenges, and having guidance and resources can make a significant difference in managing it effectively. Remember, it's never too late to seek support and explore strategies that can help you thrive despite the challenges.
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All these people who write in about their dyslexia. But they have all written in and it’s readable . I thought dyslexia was an inability to read and write ‘
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Please Ugandan children are really suffering because most of the teachers and parents don't know that most the children are dyslexic
Your concern about the lack of awareness and understanding of dyslexia among teachers and parents in Uganda is deeply concerning. This highlights the crucial need for education and support in recognising and accommodating dyslexic learners. Thank you for shedding light on this issue; increased awareness and training can make a significant difference in the lives of these children.
People think they need to talk very slowly and carefully, this gives me PTSD and makes me feel stupid!
It's understandable how being spoken to slowly because of your dyslexia can be frustrating and upsetting. It's important for others to know that dyslexia primarily affects reading and writing skills, not listening or understanding spoken language. Communicating your feelings to those around you about how you prefer to be spoken to might help. You deserve to be treated with respect and understanding, and not to feel belittled because of your dyslexia.
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Why make a whole video on how to improve discourse around dyslexia and then so carelessly use the word OCD. Just like dyslexia isnt just a being a bit bad at concentrating OCD isnt just being a bit nitpicky
I appreciate your feedback and understand your concern. You're absolutely right that using terms like OCD carelessly can perpetuate misconceptions and trivialize the experiences of those living with the condition. As someone who experiences various neurological differences myself, including dyslexia, I understand the importance of accurate and respectful language in discussions about neurodiversity. It's essential to recognise the complexity and diversity of these conditions and to use language that reflects that complexity. Thank you for bringing attention to this issue, and I apologise for any oversight in my language usage.
we cannot even get a valuated for free, even that costs money!!! and a lot of it , as an adult.
It's unfortunate, but you're right that obtaining a diagnosis for autism can often be expensive and inaccessible, especially for adults. This is a significant barrier for many, as a formal diagnosis can be key to accessing support and services. Advocating for better healthcare policies and support from local charities or organizations that may offer financial aid for assessments is important. Sharing experiences helps raise awareness of these challenges and can lead to change.
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Was it Einstein say the fish & the tree 🌳, lol
Ah, you're referring to the quote often attributed to Einstein: "Everybody is a genius. But if you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life believing that it is stupid." It's a great reminder that we all have unique strengths and shouldn't be judged by a single standard. 😄🌳
Nat
How not to talk to some who is Dyslexic ....not ! "How not to talk to Dyslexic"
To my ears "I'm a dyslexic "sounds stupid but saying I'm dyslexic feels like an excuse and I don't want to say that ether.
As constructive feed back this feels very patronising. Please talk to people like they are adults even when they are children and not like they are victims. And yes I am Dyslexic and ADHD/Autistic. On expectations. The expectations on me were low indeed my Dad said get a trade then at least you'll have something to fall back on only it became the default position, a trap.
I appreciate your feedback. I understand that you find the phrase "I'm a dyslexic" to be patronizing, and I apologize if my previous comment came across that way.
I want to be clear that I do not see people with dyslexia as victims. I believe that people with dyslexia are just as capable as anyone else, and they deserve to be treated with respect and dignity.
Thank you for your feedback. It has helped me to understand how I can better communicate with people with dyslexia.
That is hilarious saying a spell checker is cheating, so what do you call the online dictionary? If audio books are cheating then what is a lectures at colladge or conversations on youtube?
You're right, calling a spell checker or any learning tool like online dictionaries or audiobooks 'cheating' misses the point. They're all valid resources to help us learn and understand better. It's about using what works best for you to gain knowledge, not how you access it. Great insight! 📚💻👍
Lol... I would suggest modifing the video title a little... So another dyslexic doesn't read it as "How to ignore talking to dyslexics" when its "Things you should not say to Dyslexics" - took me a few minutes of watching to figure out I had the title wrong!!!
LOL yoou are so right!
that's a great point! It's a reminder of how important clear and accessible titles are, especially for content addressing neurodiversity. Misinterpretations can happen easily, and your experience shows how a small change in wording can make a big difference in understanding. Thanks for sharing this - it's a valuable insight for everyone creating educational content! 👍📚
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Actually, Trump completely understands and supports dyslexics and dyslexia as well as other neurodiversities. His administration helped dyslexics get the helped they needed from the education system. Trump for the win!
While it's important to acknowledge efforts to support individuals with dyslexia and other neurodiversities, it's essential to recognize that policies and actions can be complex and may have varied impacts. It's valuable to advocate for support and resources for neurodiverse individuals regardless of political affiliation. Let's continue working together to promote awareness and understanding of dyslexia and ensure that everyone receives the assistance they need to thrive.
@ExceptionalIndividuals It sure is, which is why your criticism of the Trump administration deserved correction. His administration did more to help folks with neurodiverse learning styles than any other administration in my 66 years of life. As an American, I have first-hand experience with the truth of the politics of the situation.
Mrs. Prescott (Alice), my 7th grade teacher, took me out into the hallway and closed the door. She took my cheeks in her thumbs and forefingers and said, "You are getting A's in all your subjects, but you are getting a C+ in spelling. I KNOW you can do better." No. No amount of trying could have made me improve my spelling. Interestingly, at age 45 I was diagnosed with dyslexia. By that time I had become a physician (radiation oncologist). I wish I should have shown Mrs. Prescott the results of the evaluation. And mentioned that, by the way, we have this thing now called, SPELL CHECK. (Still not perfect!) And Dragon dictation. And I LOVE Audible. GJBrownDO 6/25/2023 21:53 Pacific
It's unfortunate that your 7th-grade teacher didn't understand your struggles with spelling and wasn't aware of your dyslexia diagnosis later in life. It's important to remember that dyslexia can often go undiagnosed or misunderstood, leading to challenges in academic settings. However, it's inspiring to hear that you persevered and became a physician despite these difficulties. The advancements in technology, such as spell check, Dragon dictation, and audiobooks like Audible, have certainly provided valuable support for individuals with dyslexia and have made tasks like spelling more accessible. Your personal experience highlights the importance of awareness and understanding of learning differences like dyslexia in educational settings.
Beeline reader extension. there so many comment in the last 2 weeks what's up with that has the google algorithm changed I got here from
Hi @pauz9776, the Beeline Reader extension can indeed be a helpful tool for many readers. As for the increase in comments, it could be related to various factors, including algorithm changes or a particular topic resonating with more people. I'm glad you found your way here, and if you have any thoughts or questions about neurodiversity or other subjects, feel free to share! 🧡