I learnt of my daughter's death through social media

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  • Опубликовано: 11 июн 2024
  • The painful death of a first-year journalism student Purity Wangeci of KIMC left many in shock. Her mother, shares how she learnt of her daughter's death on social media.

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  • @nizaebby2473
    @nizaebby2473 2 года назад +63

    She's such a strong woman and she has a beautiful and quiet spirit.may the good Lord continue comforting you and family

  • @lindagatwiri869
    @lindagatwiri869 2 года назад +58

    "Dealing with people you don't know is a great risk"very true .May God comfort you

    • @albinacherono2869
      @albinacherono2869 2 года назад +1

      Pole sana mama purity for loosing ua dota,it must have been a lovetriangle gone sour,teens are having peer pressure,hata kama ni mzuri

  • @jackie4health
    @jackie4health 2 года назад +74

    I love the composure of this mother. May God comfort her.

    • @thevineyard7149
      @thevineyard7149 2 года назад +1

      She had done her best in bringing up her daughter. Unfortunately the girl loved a dreaded murderer.

  • @joycekimani9812
    @joycekimani9812 2 года назад +110

    This is genuine pain from the mum. May justice be fully served for your daughter.

    • @christercheru8328
      @christercheru8328 2 года назад

      Does she look or talk like she feeling pain

    • @henriettemulumba4626
      @henriettemulumba4626 2 года назад +4

      Some people can be in so much pain that is doesn't show. Believe me I know about it 🤔🤔🤔🤔

    • @cherylmyers2439
      @cherylmyers2439 2 года назад +5

      @@christercheru8328I know that her composure can be misunderstood, because she has a calm spirit and gentle demeanor! Some people are that God fearing! But your question came across as cold and accusatory at best!

  • @dianaonyango3319
    @dianaonyango3319 2 года назад +65

    I've admired this mother calmness and level headedness despite the pain she is going through,may you find quick justice for your beautiful daughter whose life was cut short.

  • @carolafricangirl6836
    @carolafricangirl6836 2 года назад +29

    Sorry mama. A beautiful girl your daughter was. May God soothe your heart and comfort you.🙏🏾🌹

  • @queensherry
    @queensherry 2 года назад +167

    I can't imagine the pain of discovering your child's death via social media...people are always in a hurry to break the news without any regard for the victim's families

    • @BGlobalnews
      @BGlobalnews 2 года назад +9

      Its devastating and pathetic

    • @officialabugageorge
      @officialabugageorge 2 года назад +3

      Very true

    • @teresiamusau8573
      @teresiamusau8573 2 года назад +11

      And this is very painful .I went through it last year someone posted my brother I almost fainted when I opened my Facebook page

    • @bernicekiruja7594
      @bernicekiruja7594 2 года назад +7

      And I think that is the most selfish thing people do, surely people should learn to give some of this news time before posting them on social media

    • @wycliffepoet5201
      @wycliffepoet5201 2 года назад +3

      But it also propels authorities to action...as in justice is sort faster ..look at what Lynn Ngugi does with her context for example... social media has helped people demand for justice in unison

  • @benjohnson1763
    @benjohnson1763 2 года назад +26

    I always advice my daughter the same way and I had to share this clip with her ndio asione huwa namwambia yangu

  • @nancynkirote9532
    @nancynkirote9532 2 года назад +48

    Losing a child is painful. May God comfort all of us who have lost a child/children

    • @fraciahgitau7624
      @fraciahgitau7624 2 года назад +3

      Our God is faithful and He will continue to strengthen us. I admire this lady she has strength to speak after a month?

    • @jeanettegatehi4789
      @jeanettegatehi4789 2 года назад +1

      It's undescribed pain

    • @maryamjey6340
      @maryamjey6340 2 года назад +1

      Wacha tuu...its unbearable Mungu atutie nguvu😢

  • @philemonomingo4319
    @philemonomingo4319 2 года назад +18

    This is the reason we celebrate mothers day. May God give you peace mum.

  • @marge4short736
    @marge4short736 2 года назад +22

    So composed! Such a strong woman! She didn’t even shed a tear while talking about the demise of her precious daughter and best friend. I took my time to listen to the end as I wondered the level of pain and bitterness she must be passing through now. May God give you more strength and courage 🫂

  • @irenegatiba8411
    @irenegatiba8411 2 года назад +11

    To my former colleague and friend Rose, and loving mum to Rose. May God, surround you with Comfort and Love and may God wipe your tears, and may justice prevail. May Purity's soul rest in heavenly peace.

  • @Liam-hi4oo
    @Liam-hi4oo 2 года назад +14

    Young adults hide inferior spouses because they know in their hearts that they are not worthy of them and that their parents will not approve. My advice to any young person is to not hide and date anyone,let them be examined by the elders. May your mother's heart find peace.

  • @josephinejoshua6766
    @josephinejoshua6766 2 года назад +7

    That little thing you are hiding from your parents
    It's a strong advice from this mother. I feel that that justice needs to be done and may God end deaths of Young people in our country

  • @redemption8980
    @redemption8980 2 года назад +16

    government should come up with a criminal act forbidding posting of sensitive videos.

  • @mfululizowak9899
    @mfululizowak9899 2 года назад +13

    Finished with great words of wisdom. Pole mama. May God comfort you and your family. May God seriously deal with the murderer.

  • @terrywatahi1203
    @terrywatahi1203 2 года назад +51

    Fellow youths ...I think it's good for our parents to know when we're in relationships...for guidance aki 😪😪😪

    • @nelsonkiiru7252
      @nelsonkiiru7252 2 года назад +5

      But that's the thing some parents are too controlling hence the secrecy and not being open with them. U can't blame them behaving the way they do, including myself.

    • @emmahamsu3666
      @emmahamsu3666 2 года назад +7

      Exactly. Some parents are too tough and overprotective. How then can you be transparent to them?

    • @terrywatahi1203
      @terrywatahi1203 2 года назад +5

      @@emmahamsu3666 very true..parents should be cool to us and not to scare us away

    • @trizahmacharia2939
      @trizahmacharia2939 2 года назад +1

      @@nelsonkiiru7252 mtaendelea kula ujeuri wenyu, speaking from a mother's view

    • @nelsonkiiru7252
      @nelsonkiiru7252 2 года назад

      @@trizahmacharia2939 na mtaendelea kukaa kwa giza kwa hayo maneno and the cycle continues!

  • @mosesonyango9974
    @mosesonyango9974 2 года назад +11

    Sweet daughter, it's so painful to lose a child,it hurts,may the LORD give you stregth to overcome this mummy

  • @ritaopiyo7163
    @ritaopiyo7163 2 года назад +17

    Mummy I feel for you. It is sad to bury your child at such a tender age. I agree with you children should open up to their parents. Nobody will judge you.

    • @blaquecinderella3560
      @blaquecinderella3560 2 года назад

      It starts with the parent/s or guardian/s creating a non-judgmental environment

  • @elizabethowiti4401
    @elizabethowiti4401 2 года назад +30

    Mum, I can imagine your pain, I fully identify with you. May God cover you under His wings. May God hold your fragile hurting heart. My heart bleeds for your beautiful and precious girl now a soul in heaven. I echo your prayers for justice for your beautiful girl.

  • @winfredowano8796
    @winfredowano8796 2 года назад +7

    This is a significant loss, take heart mom. I feel your pain and I feel like I have lost my sister.

  • @evonnahgray3671
    @evonnahgray3671 2 года назад +14

    The pain is too much,may justice be served

  • @DJZeZe254
    @DJZeZe254 2 года назад +13

    May her daughter Rest in Eternal Peace,and Mum may you find justice for your lose....😧😧

  • @rachaelwanja4851
    @rachaelwanja4851 2 года назад +17

    May God continue comforting her and the entire family. May she get justice.

  • @Gwaycee
    @Gwaycee 2 года назад +27

    It's sad to lose such a young life. She seemed close to her mother so it's tragic that she didn't share with her mother about him. However, even as her mother advises the young people to talk about their relationships, parents also need to be approachable. If I could ever have tried to hint to my father that I had a male friend, he would have landed on me with blows and kicks, and he always said he would, so I never did. This is how fathers (and many mothers too) get shocked when their daughters get pregnant or get into dangerous situations because they refused to discuss these matters with them when they became of age.

    • @wambuikingatua3820
      @wambuikingatua3820 2 года назад +11

      If there is one undeniable truth I have learnt as a parent to an adult child, is that they are no longer your precious innocent girl or boy, they are human with plenty of flaws. It is very hard to come to this realization but it is the truth. Another thing I have learnt as a parent to an adult daughter - she is unlikely to tell you when she is having a relationship especially when she knows that you will not approve. Some of us parents hold our kids on a certain pedestal and they feel the pressure to meet your sometimes unrealistic expectations, if she has met a boy or man who is the kind you warned her about, she will never tell you, no matter how close you are. May the mother here find solace, peace and justice.

    • @trizahmacharia2939
      @trizahmacharia2939 2 года назад

      we were brought up the same way,even if you be friend them watateleza tuu,kila mtu akule ujeuri yake,pole mamaa

  • @Ray-rg6yf
    @Ray-rg6yf 2 года назад +27

    Big Up to this Mum for speaking out. ❤️

  • @veronicahwanjiru4244
    @veronicahwanjiru4244 2 года назад +6

    Thank God,,,He Has given this woman strength,,,May Purity's soul Rest in peace

  • @janewangechi5722
    @janewangechi5722 2 года назад +5

    I can only imagine how painful it is dear Rose...... Memories will never fade......but all I pray is that God may grant you the inner healing.

  • @kainyugrace8460
    @kainyugrace8460 2 года назад +53

    Her mum is very eloquent.
    This is such a sad loss .

    • @mpendakiswahili3053
      @mpendakiswahili3053 2 года назад +3

      What does elequonce got to do with anything!!....yani wakenya huwa mme changanikiwa ama....

    • @kainyugrace8460
      @kainyugrace8460 2 года назад +10

      @@mpendakiswahili3053 ...Let me correct you
      ..What does her eloquence have to do with anything..
      Child...we have the right to make observations..which in my opinion was a kind opinion.
      This was/is a sad loss

    • @user-ss7je7kp4t
      @user-ss7je7kp4t 2 года назад +2

      @@mpendakiswahili3053 what's your problem?

    • @mpendakiswahili3053
      @mpendakiswahili3053 2 года назад +1

      @@kainyugrace8460 it's completely irrelevant....what goes on in the minds of most of you... elequonce!! Yani, hiyo inahusiana na nini??

    • @kainyugrace8460
      @kainyugrace8460 2 года назад +3

      @@mpendakiswahili3053 it is eloquence..
      not elequence...woi

  • @Rise-2024
    @Rise-2024 2 года назад +19

    It's Soo painful to lose your child 😭😭

  • @ruthnjoki2818
    @ruthnjoki2818 2 года назад +26

    So sorry for the loss of your daughter. May justice prevail in this case and for many more that are pending. Peace be your portion during this time of grief and years to come.🙏

  • @jeremyclyde3006
    @jeremyclyde3006 2 года назад +5

    Pole sana mum. I can't even imagine your pain. I would have been in jail already for getting my own justice!

  • @douglaskhakamemindoti3455
    @douglaskhakamemindoti3455 2 года назад +23

    I think our neighbours can tell us the true character of our kids. Its not easy to know your own kids

    • @tinahwangary8492
      @tinahwangary8492 2 года назад +4

      I know my children better than anybody else does. Yes our neighbours might know some things that we've not come to know, but it doesn't mean that they know them better than us. This mother knew her child

    • @douglaskhakamemindoti3455
      @douglaskhakamemindoti3455 2 года назад +1

      @@tinahwangary8492 You're partly correct and partly not Sincere. its a tricky life equation. Anyway Happy motherhood

    • @josephinemulama6338
      @josephinemulama6338 2 года назад +5

      @@tinahwangary8492 you're right and wrong Hawa watoto can act good before your eyes don't say unajua mtoto wako vizuri

    • @trizahmacharia2939
      @trizahmacharia2939 2 года назад

      @@tinahwangary8492 this mother knew what the daughter wanted her to know about her,you can't claim she knew her 100%,hiyo 10% yenye hakujua ndio hii sasa na ndio tricky sana,God protect our children

    • @lakarythe4398
      @lakarythe4398 Год назад

      You trust your neighbor alone.

  • @pearlcarl
    @pearlcarl 2 года назад +1

    You are a very strong mum...May God grant you justice you need and heal your broken heart

  • @martinnganga3802
    @martinnganga3802 2 года назад +8

    I feel your loss.. May God keep you strong 💪

  • @victoriawendokioko
    @victoriawendokioko 2 года назад +14

    Very humble she was
    Thanks to the upbringing

  • @christercheru8328
    @christercheru8328 2 года назад +10

    Wonder how she got energy to talk. Very strong man

  • @phoebemiranyi1067
    @phoebemiranyi1067 2 года назад +5

    Beautiful words full of wisdom.

  • @eastlandofinestsalon1765
    @eastlandofinestsalon1765 2 года назад +5

    Sorry mom for the loss of your daughter, please be comforted

  • @givenkakambi
    @givenkakambi 2 года назад +3

    Thank you mum for speaking out, u are a very strong woman, God be with u.

  • @marymarie5129
    @marymarie5129 2 года назад +8

    So sorry my neighbour, may God grant you Peace

  • @peterbobbyfavored8082
    @peterbobbyfavored8082 2 года назад +5

    May God give you Peace Mom.. Be strengthened always!!

  • @lilianshalom
    @lilianshalom 2 года назад +6

    This is so sad 😭 really!! May the Holy Spirit comfort your heart mum & May she Rest In Peace ✌️.

  • @chemutaijaneth568
    @chemutaijaneth568 2 года назад +9

    Feel for this mum may she find peace n healing

  • @terrywatahi1203
    @terrywatahi1203 2 года назад +4

    May God continue giving her Mom strength to accept all that has happened 😪😪😪

  • @Berily123
    @Berily123 2 года назад +10

    We need Jesus to be honest..We need to run to God only He can heal..mend us and lead us to the right way
    I am 20 years old just turned 20 yesterday Praise God and though I have alot of struggles even now Jesus is always keeping me in the right path
    Let's pray for each other and our children and friends we need God!it's never too late

    • @lucynjuguna9653
      @lucynjuguna9653 2 года назад +1

      Wow congratulations for your love for God.not common in your generation

    • @graciek3696
      @graciek3696 2 года назад +1

      True

  • @zoc3478
    @zoc3478 2 года назад +14

    My sympathy and condolences to you but I think it is the Justice system that should be handling this and not the President.

  • @georgekiharamusic
    @georgekiharamusic 2 года назад +20

    Exactly, dealing with people you don't know is a great risk.

  • @elizabethnjoki6186
    @elizabethnjoki6186 2 года назад +1

    May the almighty God comfort you mama Wangeci .
    Sending hugs 🤗

  • @faithmaragia2593
    @faithmaragia2593 2 года назад +7

    this is sad. May justice prevail

  • @shilaadxa2943
    @shilaadxa2943 2 года назад +4

    So sad I feel the pain may her rest in peace

  • @faithmucheru5287
    @faithmucheru5287 2 года назад +2

    May purity soul rest in peace, and may God give you strength auntie Rose

  • @sheikhabdulrahim7740
    @sheikhabdulrahim7740 Год назад

    you are really a strong woman may justice be served to your daughter

  • @lucymwansa2524
    @lucymwansa2524 2 года назад +9

    I feel your pain. Its 9 years since l lost my 20 yr old daughter in a similar circumstance.

  • @lucynyagah836
    @lucynyagah836 2 года назад +2

    I'm so sorry Rose. May God comfort you.

  • @MargauxNyambura
    @MargauxNyambura 2 года назад +11

    My heart felt condolences to Purity's family,I pray God give you peace in your heart

  • @evansowino5672
    @evansowino5672 2 года назад +1

    Pole sana.We can feel your pain. May Almighty give you strength.

  • @brigitlameka5030
    @brigitlameka5030 2 года назад +3

    Haki so sad ! My prayers for fortitude from God during this very trying moment. May He expose this very evil person.

  • @alqadaffi
    @alqadaffi 2 года назад +10

    I don't know or never have heard of this gal before but i really feel that pain as if she was my own sister. May whoever did this never know peace for the rest of his life if at all he deserves to continue living.

  • @janetkanari6245
    @janetkanari6245 2 года назад +10

    Hugs mum, may she continue resting in peace, she is watching over you mama. Praying for you.

  • @wamaemargaret3838
    @wamaemargaret3838 2 года назад +1

    Mamiiii I imagine how you feel....it's sad and painful. How I wish your eloquence can speak to honourable Justice koome and his excellency the president

  • @franciswathika1202
    @franciswathika1202 2 года назад +5

    Sad indeed, that in june we have news of similar death in kenya.. Those in relationship, its best to walk away or forgive rather than rush in anger and regret all your lifetime. It's not easy but its right for sure..

  • @Rael-MATATA
    @Rael-MATATA Год назад +1

    Mum you are so strong and may God continue comforting you, I promise to look for you after I become successful and give you what my friend wangechi"your daughter" could have offered, justice for my friend wangechi

  • @calebsipakati8128
    @calebsipakati8128 2 года назад +1

    Pole sana sister, for the profound loss of your beautiful, angelic daughter...

  • @steveirungu3132
    @steveirungu3132 2 года назад +5

    My condolences to the family of Purity Wangechi by Steve Irungu Jermaine

  • @jessiebond8688
    @jessiebond8688 2 года назад +8

    So sorry,it's heart breaking.Very Sad.We pray for justice.

  • @kestinemitchell
    @kestinemitchell 2 года назад +1

    Yeah I know the gal,the mother is right on her words, so sorry madam.let God take his position in your heart mum.

  • @josephinekamau4555
    @josephinekamau4555 2 года назад +1

    So sad,sorry for the loss.

  • @sophynziwa2409
    @sophynziwa2409 2 года назад +2

    Hugs mommy 🥺I know the pain you are feeling

  • @soldierofjesuschristnick8407
    @soldierofjesuschristnick8407 2 года назад +12

    very painful, advise to young ladies dont make your judgement with your emotions, follow your Godly instincts.

  • @jecintagithiomi4739
    @jecintagithiomi4739 2 года назад +1

    Pole sana mama Purity. May God give you peace

  • @janendegwa5462
    @janendegwa5462 2 года назад +2

    This is so sad ,I can't imagine

  • @iamlodite
    @iamlodite 2 года назад

    it's so heartbreaking,resy easy purity

  • @irinnbrule
    @irinnbrule 2 года назад +1

    Its so heartbreaking💔

  • @successfulsue
    @successfulsue 2 года назад +6

    So tearful narration.. May she rest in peace. Mummy may God heal your heart ❤️ wuii 😢

  • @reginawambui7158
    @reginawambui7158 2 года назад +1

    May God comfort his mother, may justice prevail. Almighty God you know those who did it. Deal with them according to your will

  • @jameswanjiru9019
    @jameswanjiru9019 2 года назад +1

    My sincere condolence to the entire family

  • @trmshow9631
    @trmshow9631 2 года назад +4

    It's always an awful moment when we remember how Purity's life was taken away and we pray for her justice as the students of Kenya Institute of Mass Communication,,,,,,,,,,May God comfort you Mama Purity and give you more strength,,,,,,May her soul rest in eternal peace 😭😭😩

  • @fatouceesay6794
    @fatouceesay6794 2 года назад +1

    May her gentle soul rest in perfect peace very sad 😞

  • @zalwango73
    @zalwango73 2 года назад +1

    Stay strong Mama, it's not easy.

  • @nancymuchiri6853
    @nancymuchiri6853 2 года назад +2

    Pole mum,may God comfort you and your family.
    Shalom

  • @steveirungu3132
    @steveirungu3132 2 года назад +4

    It's a lesson learnt to the ladies and gentlemen please walk out period by Steve Irungu Jermaine

  • @steveirungu3132
    @steveirungu3132 2 года назад +7

    Even though I'm a proud bachelor without limits to me it's personal responsibility begins with myself Steve Irungu Jermaine

  • @irenenjoel
    @irenenjoel 2 года назад +1

    So painful...take heart mama...it reminds me of monika kimani and mama freddys young men. Please lets teach our kids not to trust anyone. Young Pple are watching alot movies just like the one who killed his own family. Let young pple always share a pin of where they are with their loved ones. Pole mami😢😓

  • @phelisiawakio9246
    @phelisiawakio9246 Год назад

    So sad 😢😢😢 she's very devastated everyday when she woke up her daughter is nowhere ......she has a great pain I preach peace to her.... she' has invested to her daughter's education so much
    God is in control he is the only one who will give you comfort and company.

  • @krandtech2431
    @krandtech2431 2 года назад +1

    Sorry for the loss

  • @nyarwuonlojuddy4237
    @nyarwuonlojuddy4237 2 года назад +4

    I learned the death of my father through social media too i know the pain the woman is going through

  • @chemutaiangeline6361
    @chemutaiangeline6361 Год назад

    May her soul rest in peace.. Beauty with brains

  • @roseshelmith4819
    @roseshelmith4819 2 года назад +9

    This country has zoead us. Mothers are crying every day. Start with the kid who was shot dead from their balcony by police sijui was it in Mathare like 5,6 years ago. Kianjokoma brothers, Wale wa kitengela?? Then the same citizen tv ata badala you air important news, you prioritise politics. I watched yesterdays news and the real news began at 10.00 pm. Mwananchi apa alilala hawezi ona mkiongeza Kenya's Borrowing Loan Limit to 10 Trillion.

    • @blessedbea5451
      @blessedbea5451 2 года назад +2

      Also the students who have died in schools like Ebby what a season of pain to mother's yet we have a running government 🙄 😒 😕 😳 😑 😐

  • @omokemorara8656
    @omokemorara8656 Год назад +2

    Sorry to the mum. The simple answer to the kitendawili is likely to be: children prefer speaking of their relationships when sure of their partners. Frankly speaking, seeking the help of the president and CJ may not yield much help. Push the DCI and the office of the DPP as they are the appropriate agencies to investigate and prosecute crimes. Also get a serious lawyer like me to pile up the pressure.

  • @theewanjieshow121
    @theewanjieshow121 2 года назад +4

    My former schoolmate Chogoria Girls.May she rest in peace. May God grant this family peace

  • @bettywabuko5071
    @bettywabuko5071 2 года назад

    Soo sorry mom. May GOD comfort you, and may justice be done

  • @janetm7693
    @janetm7693 2 года назад +1

    Pole sana mum. May God's peace be upon you always. Hugs.

  • @margaretresiato6502
    @margaretresiato6502 Год назад

    Pole sana mum,it's so panful, I have learned a lot from you,kumbe secretes huleta maadhara

  • @anitagathoni
    @anitagathoni 2 года назад +1

    Shalom Shalom. May the Holly Spirit comfort this family.

  • @happytimes9747
    @happytimes9747 2 года назад

    Pole ma'am its painful may justice be fully served for her

  • @angelinemutua1513
    @angelinemutua1513 Год назад +1

    May she rest in peace and her mum receive comfort from Heaven

  • @jafwambogikeyo
    @jafwambogikeyo 2 года назад +1

    Sorry, I feel the pain in the parents voice, I like the piece of advice at the end on full disclosure, we should learn to do just that however unsure we might feel and disregard what stage the relationship could be at, this can save many people

  • @carolm4691
    @carolm4691 2 года назад +1

    She is a strong lady

  • @adahtanuithebencher7630
    @adahtanuithebencher7630 2 года назад +6

    Rose is a strong woman. May she find justice and comfort.
    What happened to the right and legal procedure of disseminating information?? Posting it before telling the victim's relatives was never allowed.