Musician Reacts to | Scott Hoying - Mars [Official Video]

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  • Опубликовано: 4 фев 2025

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  • @stephaniebray3983
    @stephaniebray3983 2 года назад +4

    I will keep requesting Scott Hoying and Rozzi

  • @hernameispekka_Rebecca
    @hernameispekka_Rebecca 2 года назад +43

    Isn't this just so beautiful? As an autistic person, I totally understand that "feeling like an alien" thing he's talking about. And this song is so beautiful because it's written about his lovely Mark, who instead of being annoyed and ashamed of how geeky or hyper or weird or whatever Scott is, he loves and cheers on all those Scottisms that he has felt ashamed for. We all deserve love (friends, partner, family) that lift up our uniqueness and cherish that instead of dulling it. Such a spectacular song about love for others and love for yourself. I hope that one day when you're ready, that you find arms open to you that don't try to change you. And until then, just know that either way your "you-ness" is good enough.

    • @therealmrjshow
      @therealmrjshow  2 года назад +14

      I have been alone for a Decade, I also am on the spectrum. I have Asperger's or ASD....

    • @hernameispekka_Rebecca
      @hernameispekka_Rebecca 2 года назад +6

      @@therealmrjshow Oh, that's what I was diagnosed with as well before it was removed as a classification!

    • @Wyndigayle
      @Wyndigayle 2 года назад

      @@therealmrjshow My daughter was diagnosed with Asperger's when she was eight. She's now thirteen. I have witnessed, first-hand, the difficulties she has in every day life. I honestly can't imagine what her reality is like. I only experience it secondhand, but I feel for her and everyone else who feels out-of-place because they perceive things differently. She had such a hard time making friends, then she finally asked if she could spend time with an online friend she'd made a couple of years ago. They'd chatted and played games together, online, but he only lives about two hours away. So, after speaking with his mom, we finally agreed that they could spend a day together...supervised. They were great together! He is also on the spectrum, and they just understood one another. Unfortunately, after almost a year of them spending several weekends together, an incident ended their friendship. I worry that she has lost trust in people, but she's been more emotionally connected to myself and my husband since then.
      I also have a 'child' (they're actually 21 now) that was diagnosed with schizophrenia at age 15, along with bi-polar disorder and few other mental conditions. Life with people that suffer these disorders is difficult, but also rewarding when you witness their little victories. After several suicide attempts by the 21-year old (and one by the 13-year old...when she was 8), I'm so thankful they're still here. I just remind myself, every day, that interactions with them have to be careful and words need to be thought out before having a conversation. They both perceive things so differently, and understand phrases and such in drastically different ways.
      I guess what I'm getting at is that there are a lot of us here who understand your situation, and I wanted you to know that you're never completely alone. I love your open honesty, and so enjoy watching your reactions. I'm here for it all.

  • @avaboatright2156
    @avaboatright2156 2 года назад +33

    Dude I cried like a baby the first time I saw it...still tears me up. Just so effing beautiful. Thx for reacting

  • @judithL3100
    @judithL3100 2 года назад +35

    If this song doesn’t affect you, then there’s something wrong It’s beautiful and so heartfelt. And, yes, you do have us! ❤️

  • @brunettealesoda
    @brunettealesoda 2 года назад +8

    the guy is scotts fiancee and boyfriend of 5 years, this is the only song hes out but he said theres more coming

  • @scottperil905
    @scottperil905 2 года назад +8

    Yes you have sad eyes. I know because I have them too!

  • @michellebarry1555
    @michellebarry1555 2 года назад +9

    How this song isn’t on the radio is beyond me! It’s so f@cking (sorry children) good!

  • @goldfishwatching1619
    @goldfishwatching1619 2 года назад +16

    I always tear up when I see Scott's face when Mark comes from behind him and hugs him. Scott did some TikToks of Mark's reaction watching the video that is just sweet, too. I am alone by choice as well, and having outlived all my older relatives sometimes feel the loss more than other times. This song makes me so happy for those who have found a soulmate.

  • @DonnaPoynton.
    @DonnaPoynton. 2 года назад +21

    Love this song,Thank you Mr J,it is very emotional but beautiful ❤ If you felt it then you obviously have a very warm heart ❤

  • @megandelynn6114
    @megandelynn6114 2 года назад +24

    Mr. J: 😭
    Us: 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
    You are all of us when we first saw this (& some of us every time!)
    And I feel you on the choosing to be alone thing. I'm the same, but it doesn't mean you're immune to being lonely now & then! And it was nice to see you in your feels in this! Thanks for your generous & hard work, friend!

  • @RobertBrown-nn8uu
    @RobertBrown-nn8uu 2 года назад +6

    Please know that even though we may be in a different orbit (outside your immediate vicinity), we see you almost with every revolution of the sun and appreciate your candor and love you and that wonderful personality that makes you, you!!

  • @vidsorama2
    @vidsorama2 2 года назад +21

    Thank you for reacting to Scott's beautiful video and song. Happy that you liked it. "Mars" hit a lot of us in our feels. It's a miracle that Scott stopped by a birthday party after a long day and happened to meet Mark at that party over 5 years ago. It was meant to be. I will be glad when Scott releases more solo music.

  • @dawnpatterson8708
    @dawnpatterson8708 2 года назад +10

    Wow. An unexpected reaction.
    Unexpected, yet wonderful.
    A genuine reaction, will win my heart and mind every time.
    To answer your question.
    Yes, your eyes can look sad. But, when you smile.... they reflect your joy. That just make it more meaningful. To me anyway.
    You know the drill.
    Hope and joy.
    Share it with everyone.
    I'd like to see it spread like the new whatever virus.
    =^;^=

  • @risperdude
    @risperdude 2 года назад +15

    I can't hear this song with out welling up. Or only listen to it once at a time. Even those who don't choose to be alone can feel lonely, and choosing to be alone does not eliminate the possibility of loneliness. In my experience, loneliness is a state of being that exists beyond the company one keeps. I resonate so deeply with Scott's description of being broken and blaming oneself to the point only seeing brokenness in the mirror. Then in finding the person that sees in him beauty and uniqueness he can't, becomes transformative. It is such a beautiful song, to me, about seeing yourself not in your reflection, but in the mirror of those that love you,

  • @kristipierce4735
    @kristipierce4735 2 года назад +14

    And to think Scott was concerned about how this song would be accepted. Mr J, you are wise for reasons we know nothing about (that’s what your eyes say to me- probably do also contain elements of sadness considering your past experiences with loss and Army service). Anyway, thank you for your vulnerability here, and I am not completely buying your statement about having a cold dead heart. Even the Grinch had a change of heart.. 💚❤😊

  • @debs42444
    @debs42444 2 года назад +4

    Ok, now i get why I’m drawn to u…
    Aspie’s are soooo special. ✌🏻❤

  • @patriciaburton1697
    @patriciaburton1697 2 года назад +12

    Beautiful song

  • @Iwonka0081
    @Iwonka0081 2 года назад +7

    the song is about how scott feel before meeting mark(the guy in the video) and how mark make him feel. about mars is mark said about scott you not human you must be from mars. scott and mark are together over 5 years. scott proposed to mark on mark birthday. next year would be wedding of them. if you follow scott on his social media you would know about them and how scott proposed. on the credit on the end is hot perfect fiance mark manio.

    • @therealmrjshow
      @therealmrjshow  2 года назад +2

      lol I dont have social media other than this! I deleted Facebook years ago! I think i still have a twitter i dont use though

  • @diannecardenas9866
    @diannecardenas9866 2 года назад +10

    I'm so Happy that you reacted to this song. Yes this song gets you in the gut. And you don't always have sad eyes. I've seen them brighten up as well.

  • @pattis2641
    @pattis2641 2 года назад +12

    I suffer from severe chronic pain, and nausea 24/7. Music heals me. I love the message in this song. My husband has stayed thru 35 years of addiction and medical issues. My husband is my miracle from God. He cares for me every day. He cooks and shops for me. Personally, I like being alone. I have severe social anxiety around people that don't understand my medical issues. I don't want to be seen as a cripple. Music heals me mentally, emotionally and physically. Scott has so much soul in his voice. He makes me feel things I don't always want to look at. But my faith in God sustains me every day. I love your reaction Mr. J. You're opening up more and more about yourself, and watching you watch my favorite group, Pentatonix, brings a smile to my face every time!!

  • @jeffg9203
    @jeffg9203 2 года назад +5

    What a beautiful reaction... Loved it... This song is very emotional...

  • @becca2383
    @becca2383 2 года назад +5

    Please never be sorry for showing your feelings. Music has a way of bringing out emotions of every kind. Thank you for sharing Mr J.

  • @neetgupta1
    @neetgupta1 2 года назад +2

    Don't apologise for being moved by this - it's such a beautiful song. I love that he wrote it for Mark who loves him for his essential 'Scott-ness'. It makes me so sad that you have lost your parents, grandparents and don't have a significant other. I hope you have some really good friends.

  • @tommieev5589
    @tommieev5589 2 года назад +3

    I think you have eyes that hold both sadness and joy just beneath the surface (because you don't always like to let either of them come all the way out). Yeah, this song definitely hits the feels. Thank you for another genuine reaction.

  • @JaniceDAgostino
    @JaniceDAgostino 2 года назад +5

    Scott is an amazing song writer, performer, videographer. Brilliance. I hope he does more of what he wants to do for himself. But hopefully a side gig to prx. Yep you have all of us.

  • @stephenstephens4892
    @stephenstephens4892 2 года назад +6

    best reaction I've seen so far of yours. Vulnerability is a super power. ;-)

  • @ReneeTVDSWEDEN
    @ReneeTVDSWEDEN 2 года назад +4

    Love from Sweden

  • @carmengibson
    @carmengibson 2 года назад +3

    I cried the first time I heard it because of how happy Scott is and I can also relate to the lyrics in the beginning of the song. Such a beautiful song!!

  • @tersommers
    @tersommers 2 года назад +11

    Mr. J, while I am not in your situation currently, there was a time in my life where I was. I believe there are many that can relate to where you are. You are special in that you make us see where you are at in your life. You put yourself out there for thousands of people and appear to be very real. I tear up at this song seeing it from my current perspective, but now you have me tearing up thinking about it from your perspective. I can put myself back there and relate. Thank you for letting us see that and hear about your perspective, that's what we're here for! I have to say, some of my most favorite reactions from you are the ones where you forget that you don't like to smile and grin from ear to ear or laugh without thinking! Keep being you and when you don't want to be alone any longer, then don't be. Your partners are your dog and cats right now. That's fulfilling all in itself! Thank you for doing these reactions!

  • @SLove84711
    @SLove84711 2 года назад +3

    Your eyes aren’t sad-they’re honest…I’d rather be told I have sad or tired eyes than soul-less eyes, we all show ourselves through what we’ve had to live through.
    I agree w/a below comment though, when you smile, yours eyes light up…
    The eyes are a window into ourselves-some just have deeper reflections bc of life’s journey!
    I know a door will open or maybe even a window, sometimes it takes an awakening to realize something is missing, that we get comfortable in our lives.
    When changes start to happen, it means you’ve grown emotionally, and are ready to take a new leap! Right in time for the New Year!

  • @LisaD-1969
    @LisaD-1969 2 года назад +3

    I feel you 100%. I was an optimistic person with lots of friends until 3 years ago when my teenage son died unexpectedly. Over the past 3 years I’ve alienated everyone and chosen to alone. This song speaks to me as well.

    • @AnjeannetteMarie-Swifie4Ever
      @AnjeannetteMarie-Swifie4Ever 2 года назад +5

      We’re here for you, I know that sounds silly cuz we’re on the internet but truly, those who f us who follow Pentatonix love them not only for their vocals, it’s because they are kind loving people and we are part of that community ❤️

    • @Mahiahtree
      @Mahiahtree 2 года назад +3

      💚 heart hug for you.

    • @LisaD-1969
      @LisaD-1969 2 года назад +1

      💜💜

  • @tundiel
    @tundiel 2 года назад +6

    We've got your back, Mr J! You've got such a brilliant core group of subs (I see most of them on other channels and they're all good 'uns), and while we're not 'there' in person, we always here in the comments. You seem like a decent, genuine guy, and you remind me so much of my two boys that I can't help but want to hug you sometimes. I know that sounds weird, but it's TOTALLY in a non-stalkerish way, I promise 🙂

  • @marilyncernik4128
    @marilyncernik4128 2 года назад +1

    The best reaction to this song that I’ve seen ❤❤❤

  • @denniskavanaugh8529
    @denniskavanaugh8529 2 года назад +2

    This song and video are simply brilliant. Like you, many of us have been touched by this song. You are an awesome person and reactor and you have many friends who support you.

  • @angiegardner8949
    @angiegardner8949 2 года назад +1

    WE LOVE YOU, DON'T APOLOGIZE FOR FEELINGS NO MATTER WHAT THEY ARE

  • @AnjeannetteMarie-Swifie4Ever
    @AnjeannetteMarie-Swifie4Ever 2 года назад +4

    You are real and that’s why we love you. Thank you for sharing with us and being honest about how this beautiful song made you feel, that is very special ❤️

  • @perfectkismet
    @perfectkismet 2 года назад +6

    Way back when you started, I said this was my favorite PTX solo project. Even above Superfruit music, probably. Mitch is my favorite, but I don't love Messer... and, yeah, this one hit hard. Scott deserves all the recognition and radio play with this one.
    I'm also in the same boat, socially. My parents are gone. I have no contact with my extended family, I've got a sister and a dog 🤷🏻‍♀️ And only one of the two has much time for me. Mostly I'm happy with that, but there are always days.

  • @dawgeral333
    @dawgeral333 2 года назад +1

    Scott is very much in love...and that informs all the art he creates. Mark and he are getting married, I believe. Yay!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @risperdude
    @risperdude 2 года назад +6

    Wow, that was prescient. I appreciate the volume of your catalog. I just have a hard time keeping up and trying to find what you've done or not.

  • @redredlulu1
    @redredlulu1 2 года назад +3

    Mr J you can choose to be alone however, know we are here with you and for you. Brilliant reaction love and hugs from the UK🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿🇬🇧x

  • @stephaniebray3983
    @stephaniebray3983 2 года назад +1

    You do have us…all 1.89k of us

  • @JanSkaggs
    @JanSkaggs 2 года назад +6

    I’m glad you can show your emotions. One day you will meet the perfect person for you who will be so fortunate to have a person who can share emotions and feelings. I think your eyes are soulful! Avi has sad puppy dog eyes.
    I know you are going through a sorrowful time. Each person grieves differently and for a different amount of time. No one can know what that is for you. Just know it will get better. Keep sharing your love for music with us and also your feelings.
    You have us and we have you! What more can we ask? 🥰 We care!
    Great song. I have a life long friend who is so much like Scott. Of course my friend is older now but he was just like Scott at that age. My friend doesn’t sing like Scott (duh) but I love Scott all the more for being so much like my friend. It takes me back in time to great memories.
    I can’t say I’m into MESSER but I love Mitch to pieces and that is a piece of him. He can act out all of his parts and I’ll still love and respect him. ❤ I agree that music, songs, and videos are strange to me.
    Scott’s partner is so cute! I wish them the best.

  • @melanie00005
    @melanie00005 2 года назад +7

    This song is so good and It does get people in their feelings. ❤️

  • @vmcgriff
    @vmcgriff 2 года назад +5

    This is such a sweet love story! He was alone and didn’t feel at home in this world and found the one person who didn’t think he was strange - just different which is what made him perfect in his partner’s eyes!! Beautiful!!
    Big hugs to you!! Hopefully you find peace in the world you have created for yourself. And If not - my prayer is that you can find the courage to seek out what will fulfill you and bring you peace! ♥️🙏🏻♥️

  • @fauxmedia3182
    @fauxmedia3182 2 года назад +5

    Absolutely Beautiful ❤❤
    You are NOT alone!! You need to do a LIVE stream with your PTX FAMILY!!! We are your family 😊🫶🏻
    FYI..when you got emotional at the end, I cried with you 😔
    ~Pentaholic from Louisiana

    • @therealmrjshow
      @therealmrjshow  2 года назад +3

      Great idea!! WHen lol?

    • @fauxmedia3182
      @fauxmedia3182 2 года назад +4

      @@therealmrjshow I think Later tonight, if you don’t have plans 😉
      Or tomorrow night 🤷🏼‍♀️
      We can have a happy hour and drink with you. What do you think?

    • @therealmrjshow
      @therealmrjshow  2 года назад +3

      @@fauxmedia3182 tomorrow is better for me because I’m not into spontaneity so if I plan for it it’s better lol

    • @fauxmedia3182
      @fauxmedia3182 2 года назад +3

      @@therealmrjshow Awesome!!! Post the time in your COMMUNITY Tab, and send a notification before it starts! I’m pumped!

  • @littlechicks3520
    @littlechicks3520 2 года назад +3

    Its so lovely to see how this song affected you. It is beautiful isnt it? You have us now, we are your family if you will have us!

  • @melissacoviello2886
    @melissacoviello2886 2 года назад +3

    This was so vulnerable of Scott to release this song. It was really hard for him to put out solo music and to start with such a vulnerable song is so brave.
    I’m glad you related to the song so much. It’s such a beautiful song. I hope one day he sees your reaction. I think it would touch him deeply.

  • @Mahiahtree
    @Mahiahtree 2 года назад +2

    I think this is one of my most favorite reaction you have done, genuine and heartfelt. You don't have a cold dead heart, we see that's not true right here. We got you, J. As someone said in a previous comment, "You are all of us when we watched it the first time." The song is sooo beautiful and it makes you feel happy that two people can have that kind of love, and maybe you want it yourself, maybe you already have it, maybe you don't want it and are happy for people that do, and maybe it makes you feel a little jeally but you're still happy for them. Know what? That's human, and you're an awesome one. Thanks for the reaction. 💚

  • @geertje1974
    @geertje1974 2 года назад +2

  • @CeciliaB813
    @CeciliaB813 2 года назад

    Your not human if you don't react to such a beautiful love song. Thanks for letting your feelings show.

  • @79Kleopatra
    @79Kleopatra 2 года назад +1

    🧡

  • @buckeyegirl16
    @buckeyegirl16 2 года назад

    I can totally relate. Lost my significant other of 10 years last year and I've never felt more alone 💔

  • @mariadavies7030
    @mariadavies7030 2 года назад +1

    Sending big hugs from South Wales uk x

  • @carolcraig9008
    @carolcraig9008 2 года назад

    Love your reaction! Scott wrote this song. I think this song did what it’s supposed to do:…….get you in touch with your feelings.❤️

  • @deepalmer348
    @deepalmer348 2 года назад

    I'm a love song buff and this is the most incredible song I've ever heard ❤️ the emotions are so genuine ❤️

  • @penny1348
    @penny1348 2 года назад +2

    I loved your reaction. Such a beautiful song.

  • @ptxaholic
    @ptxaholic 2 года назад

    At the end of the day I'm the one that chooses to be alone.
    You couldn't have said it aaany better, I'm in your boat

  • @siam5579
    @siam5579 2 года назад

    I know exactly what you’re saying, this song hits me hard too. Beautiful song!!!!

  • @dtwolfe63
    @dtwolfe63 2 года назад +4

    We know you aren't ignoring everyone. We also know you WILL get to all of these requests because no one is more eager to hear these than you yourself. You are a fantastic reactor and you prove it every day. By the way... I don't buy the "cold dead heart" line. You wouldn't be reacting to PTX, Superfruit, etc. if you didn't truly feel it. Much ❤️ to you, my friend!

  • @sjc9121
    @sjc9121 2 года назад

    Yes, you have sad eyes. There is sorrow and pain.

  • @carolcraig9008
    @carolcraig9008 Год назад

    You did a great job!

  • @ronaldschweitzer1110
    @ronaldschweitzer1110 2 года назад +4

    Powerful, isn't it.

  • @angiegardner8949
    @angiegardner8949 2 года назад +1

    I'M HERE IF YOU EVER NEED TO TALK

  • @Fairplayer43
    @Fairplayer43 2 года назад

    I know pretty much what you are going through. I am in many ways in your same situation. It hit my "feels" too... But just remember, you are not your past, you are not your pain. You are that which has risen from the fire. You are enough. Some people even when surrounded by a crowd or having company could as well be extremely lonely. Think about it. You are enough! We are all a work in progress. Keep moving forward! Today is the most important part of your life! Nothing could be done about the past. And the future may be based on the choices we make today. Today!!!
    Is better to be unemployed but ready for the job than having a job and not being prepared for it. The same goes with life...
    We are not alone.
    Hehehe please know that the people you see out there that seem to have their shit together, hehehe they really don't. We are all similarly fighting and trying to overcome the challenges in life.
    We are not alone...

  • @MSKPELLEGRINO
    @MSKPELLEGRINO 2 года назад

    They are licensed together, no longer alienated or feeling too different from "the norm"