7 Reasons To Fire Your Househelp On The Spot! 🤦🏾♀️ | 8 Tips On How To Fire Amicably
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- Опубликовано: 2 авг 2024
- There comes a time when she has to go ASAP. If you have hired as many househelps as I have, then this is no news to you. In this video I share 7 no-brainer reasons to fire your househelp, just in case you were wondering. Also, 8 tips on how to fire her amicably. Firing your househelp should not be something to dread, as long as you have good reason. Enjoy!
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I have been blessed to have had one housekeep/childminder for 24 years until she passed. My son gave the eulogy at her funeral in fluent Shona, her language that she taught him from birth. She was a single mother of three, my go-to person, and an extra grandparent to my children. I never had to instruct her on cleaning my home, never missed any of my possessions, and trusted her more than my relatives to care for my children. I too was a single parent but she made it so much easier. It has been 10 years since we lost her but we still miss her so much even though my children are adults with children of their own.
nice one. i speak shona
Wow. That's rear & a gift from God to give you rest. These stories are rarely told
Jj
I always hear those stories of househelps staying in one household for decades while mine can't last 3 months till i stopped hiring.
Whats the secret! .
@@justinamusyoka4986 I really think I was just trully blessed because even my friends were always trying to poach her. I am obviously still in touch with her extended family who all grew up to be good people and am substitute granny for all the photos of grandchildren receiving prizes at school etc.
Am househelp too, I have stayed with this family 7 years ... I always do my best with God's help. Am learning alot ,keep up the good work you're doing
I need a household in the UK!!
@@GailTheGlorious am here 🥰
@@marykwari902 I have a few NON NEGOTIABLE requirements. Send me your WhatsApp number and I'll reach out to you...
@@marykwari902 be careful girl. Dont just trust people online
@Resty Gloria❤️ be careful
I had strange dreams about a previous househelp, and my hubby used to tell me he suspects that the househelp was a nightrunner, yet i had not told him about the dreams... I prayed and still had those funny dreams.... that was it, out woman, out
I also don't check bags or suitcases belonging to househelps during dismissal. Yes anything stolen can be replaced, as long as you leave me and mine in peace.
Lovely stuff mommy , I once’s checked my house help bag was to dismiss that morning.I sent her to the market to buy stuff for me before telling her am dismissing her ,checked her bag while she was out found my stuff and kids in her bag she had taken,took them out and pretended like I didn’t know.when she came back I broke the news to her told her the reason, paid her and dismissed her.
Is it only me who finds this lady hilarious?😂😂😆😆😆😆😂😂😂😂
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She is I love her.😂
I think if you honestly feel that you must check the bag upon departure (like if it was a case of theft or impropriety), do it as they are packing, it's less invasive. Also and this is just me, when I can, I always take her to the nearest matatu stage, like if you live far from the road, it's fair and to avoid the drama/gossip outside with other house helps or watchmen who she may have known during her stay.
I hire househelps calmly,I take time to teach them what I need to be done,then I treat them like I would like to be treated if I was one,ofcourse after sometime they think am too good not to be taken advantage of;I watch them calmly and calmly from nowhere I tell someone,thank you for your work,here are your dues,go home,then I live their consciousness to sanitize them,Non of the househelps knows my yelling or I would look when sad.
Uko kama Mimi they think am their buddy one even asked kwani nimeanza kumkazia 🥺
@@monicahmbugua2451 😆😆I always feel that they shouldn't change me from the person I am,I believe every human being deserves to be treated with dignity,love and understanding but unfortunately to some; their interpretation to that is different.But suzie said "God has lined them up for us until we stop needing them."
This is me
One left me on the day before mashujaa just because I calmly told her to avoid the midnight noisy phonecalls 🥺she actually thought I would beg her to stay coz you know am too good,and voila she left only to tell the mama who brought her that I never even tried to beg her to stay I mean....... 🥺
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I will never understand why househelps do this. Crossing boundaries with their bosses like it's a game.
The last point is forgiveness and loving one another. Cause we have all sinned and have fallen short of the glory of God
I have learnt to check their bags on arrival and departure.
Their's this one who had a knife in her bag. Another with more than 10 phones in the bag, kumbe she used to steal in every house she worked. Another one had ARVs..... It's not like I discriminate HIV positive people but having small kids I wasn't comfortable.
Plus I don't have money to replace everything they steal. So I will always check. That's me
Im so blessed to have a wonderful housekeeper. She is part of the family. After 28 years we are sisters
Amazing! Good for you! 💐🤗
This is amazing content. Have zero kids. No help but it's always good to stay equiped with such knowledge 💯thanks
Thanks Cindy. You're doing well to get ready for when that time comes. 🌟🌟🌟
House helps in the house how we love this platform
We don't check bags. But there was this helper that we dismissed coz of theft.that one we had to check the bags. Truly we found things she had stolen that day.
i learnt the hard way, when a househelp stole my academic documents,i found them after 1year and 6months
please note
-avoid gossiping or having family conversations infront of househelpers
-buy CCTV cameras , they will save you
-take time to check their bedrooms
-ask them about their background ( my sister onced hired a nanny who told her they have awitch doctors shrine at home
Am in love with the tips on how to fire especially the one of realising her in the morning and not checking her bag and No. 4😍😍😍😍
So happy to hear that Margaret! 🎉🎉
I was stuck in the 1st lockdown with a maid who was extremely rude and quarrelsome. She has been a good girl but had so much burden from her family. As soon as they reopened public transport I set her free just the next morning. She has apologised over & over every time she calls me.
Very informative.For the past 3months,I have taken a break from house helps.The last one was stealing from me and I got sooo disappointed!
Suzy you're a legend 😂 the beginning of the video killed me! I'm not a mother, or even married but I love watching your videos 💞 Keep being amazing.
Am ahousegirl for 21yrs my boss has never checked my bag but I have never seen the need to steal anything for me God is first in whatever ido, but I know house girls steal not all of them but few.They even steal food from freezer
We share the same sentiments on not checking their bags; I just don't have that energy!
Hae suzy...am a house manager too but i thank God who keeps me out of all these negative issues .keep encouraging us and opening up our mind
I love how you talk about it...😂😂.. it's hilarious and educative as well......
As a kid who had househelps...i can totally relate.....i remember being forced to eat and I vomited.....
Pole Wilfrida! That is no fun at all. ☺️☺️
Great content Sue. There is however reasons that would force one to check a helps bag imo. If the reason for firing her is theft.
Wooow!!!..You really inspire me..I am not the same from the day i started following this channel may God bless you suzzy...I have been referring friends here to learn just like me
Thank you Rael!💐😊
I have worked as a househelp for years but I thank God sijawai futwa kazi, ok girl you said it all
Well done Grace! You are one of a kind. Keep up your good work! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@@suzyshomestead thanks
Me too I have never been sacked this is my 21yrs am even rehearsing how my goobye will be difficult but God will come through
Good content. Thanks for the info.
I have been waiting for a new video and boom here it is
Thanks Magpeters! ☺️☺️
Hi Sue, ever since I started following your channel I never find it difficult to make my house a home.
Great content as usual Suzy. Other reasons are entertaining strange people when you're not there as this poses a security risk. Also giving kids their herbal medicine. What I mean is: she made her medicine and also gave to my toddler
Entertaining strangers in the house is a no no for me too
Present as always, thanks for the info
Most welcome Beryl. Happy you're here. 🌺🌺
Wow i love this vedio, especially coz am about to hire a help, nice information
I love everything about you.my boss referred me to watch how you clean your washingmachine..my boss is the best Nd so far with God's help bt she keep complaining about my poor communication how can I do on this I really need to improve on this because she is so good to me.
Imagine listening to you as if its a lecture😆. No kids yet but its so interesting and insightful.
I totally agree on checking of bags, as long as my family and I are fine, she can leave. Love ur channel and the content, and yourselofu ofcos!
Thanks Angelique! You're so kind! 😊😊💐💐
😂😂😂😂 I didn't fire them at the same time. I fired the main culprit then after 6hrs.....😂😂😂 Suzy you're a comedian
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Thanks for sharing this info , I really learn alot from you . God bless you
You are welcome Cecii!😊
You are always Amazing and informative
This is very good content. Very informative. Thankyou.
Thank you Esther!😊
I love your videos... This particularly is funny 😂😂Learning alot.😂😂
Thank you!😊
Only if u can imagine how much yur helping us Househelps,
Your content is so rich. I appreciate all the tips.
That Last tip is hard for me.The Last one I releasd ,I had just learned that she taking alcohol in my own house . Together with other househelp in the neighborhood.This is not even the reason I fired her.She took my child for vaccination without even telling me just because the neighbors did so(The one they do door to door) Yeah in this Nairobi where you can't even be sure they are genuine or not . when I asked her about it she denied and denied and even threatened to leave at night.We talked sense in her and she promised to change and even stay.But the following day after consulting her 'committee' she told me she want to leave ,she even said she is not feeling well.I later learned she stayed at my next door neighbor for a whole weekend coz my neighbor had travelled and left the househelp with kids.Sasa Hawa ndio suzzy unasema tupigie ujue kama alifika.Akudanganye akiwa next door?.She is a grown up.Whatever your destination is .May the Lord guide you .Good bye.
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"....So that she doesn't say you sent her away at night and she was Robbed and SHE DIED THEN SHE SUES YOU!" 🤣🤣🤣🤣Suzie!😂😂That Caught me Offguard
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This is very helpful,thank you Suzy
I agree, the checking bags is totally unnecessary. Everything that you can fit in a bag I can replace
Sure, except your academic certificates & property titles. 😳
Oh my friend's dm stole a car log book and the academic papers...so, I have to check!
This is timely, kindly elaborate on the part of not informing the housegirl bureau when I fire a nanny they recommended. Thanks
Thank you so much for this info. I needed it.
Actually, imagine I had been praying about it! 😌 Has brought me some peace...
Very timely...
Thanks again.
Enjoy your new home btw... 😉
So happy to hear that Yvonne! 💐💐☺️☺️
You spoke of this at the right time...my help went for an off day on Sunday and on Tuesday she has not yet come and the phone is off...namngoja kabsa akija I will fire her asap thanks for this video
Pole Sana Rhodah. May God bring you the right one. Remember, our help comes from the Lord. 🌟🌟
You are soooo informative
Thanks Namesake! 😁😁
Suzy, do you send fare to a help to enable her travel and come start working for you?
Thanks for this,I fired my last nanny in the morning since she was very rude to my kids and me.She even pinched my daughter and shouted at my son.She looked violent and always clicked on being given instructions.The morning I released her I just told her I had gotten another job and was leaving the country.Paid all her dues via mpesa and she left.I was really avoiding the confrontation,I even thanked her for taking "good care " of my children.
Well. Loving the drunk Help. She did entertain the poor kids
She cray-cray like you girl! 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Free entertainment.
Iyoo Suzy this is good bt not this month, next and Dec we are trying to save for next Yr school fees bt what can I say, some of us house helps don't behave. I'm thankful for my job because I'm able to feed, clothe and sent my kids to school
Well done Mathato! You are doing a great job! Yes, not all of them are bad. We should always remember that. ☺️☺️🌺🌺
Quite informative...
Its long since i was here,nice content always,kindly discuss on the dressing code for househelp,isnt necessary to realy talk to them on the way way they should dress while in your house
I have really alot especially tip no. 6,7&8
You are the plug,
Thanks Diana! 💐💐
It's number 5, for me😐. Mistreating and abusing children?! On the spot. It tends to escalate and could get to dangerous levels. The other things on this list can generally wait for end month, when I'm ready with the pay and gratuity.
The singing drunk maid😀😁🤣,where is my shoe 😀😃😉
😂😂😂aki Sue...you just crack my ribs...ati hit the road Jack😅
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The info is important for next time I need to fire someone.
Number 5 is no.1 for me. Abusing and mistreating my kids is no no!!!
I will be watching and rewatching this video over and over again,, thank you Suzy
The way you describe for the 3rd reason it's hilarious😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣 but true...
I also don't check bags and I've always paid house helps by mpesa bacause why not.
So true girl. Nice to see you as always. ☺️☺️
nakupenda bure mama, u are funny and educative at the same time
Wow, thank you soo much for this. I need to fire mine, I didn't know how to do it. My first time hiring a nanny
😅🤣🤣🤣😆😆😆 forgive me but this made me laugh soo hard.
Hope u finally did after finding a replacement
@Sarah...you are welcome!😊
Suzy nimecheka I woke all the neighbors kwa alcohol and drugs! You are funny! Your story telling skills are 100%! I LOVE your personality. God bless you
🤣🤣🤣🤣 wewe utafukuzwa kwa estate! Thanks for watching! I appreciate you! 💐💐
I agree with you! I also don't check their stuff when they're leaving, I also say the stuff can be replaced. Unless they carry my children in the bag the other things don't really matter to me.
Her off day is Sunday, n she failed to come back then yesterday been Monday she came in the afternoon drunk...I had to fire her
I think it is very important to check the bags, for me not necessarily because of the theft, i don't care what she takes if she is stealing it, some house helps carry cloth, photos, combs for witchcraft, so why not check just to be conscious. Better to be safe than sorry. Besides the checking can be done respectfully. I usually check them when they come and as such check them when they are leaving too.
It's the intro for me 🤣🤣🤣
What! mine was eating tobacco and spitting at some corner in the sitting room. My baby was 2 months, so I could not imagine leaving her with him. Mother in law thought i was being fussy saying i cannot live with her i guess cos she brought her. I fired her after one month. Then another one had to go because she would leave my kids at night and go to sleep with the neigbors shamba boy while i was on work trip. oh yes, my friend was given a slap by the househelp when she fired her. then she refused to go. she had to call her mum and hubby to kick her out. i never check their bags for the 20 years I have employed them. most are not thieves,
I also don't check their bags...as long as my children are safe.
Interesting video Suzy. Question, Is it rude when you're speaking to your nanny or giving her instructions and she doesn't respond/acknowledge she's understood your instructions?
I think that’s being rude...
Yes,very rude.
Yes it's rude
Suzy ua women helper these are valid reasons to do Soo helps are good but sometimes tiresome.
Good info...
Thank you Wambui! 😊😊
Number 5 of reasons to fire is my top. My children were the reason I hired, so even acting in a manner to suggest unkindness to children was my cue to pack my diaper bag and take my babies to work. FAYAAD!
Suzie, I love your videos. I loved the part of your house tour where you said, ' ...if you like looking at people's houses....' 🤭that's me!
Please do a step video on how to prep your home and family for a life independent of house helps. And keep up your good work.
Thanks Ruth! I have done a video of how I go about my life when I don't have a househelp. Please check it out. ☺️☺️
Great lesson
Thank you!😊
Iam here after firing someone who has worked for me for 5 years😅😅😅 no one disrespect me in my own house,mazoeano ni noooo
Ooh yes here I am🥳🥳🤗🎊🎉👌😎
How I wish some one can like more than 100 times but still thank u SUZY.. Blessings follow u darling 🙌🙏
You are welcome Monique! 🤗
You are looking so pretty 🦋
Thank you Ann! 💐💐
My sister's house help used to beat the kids when I heard that I took my nephew and she was fired on the spot 5 months later my nephew is still living with me
Suzie your channel is heaven sent.keep up the good work
Thank you Kayte!😊
I also never check the bags, never never...
You can't imagine I am watching this while preparing dinner 😀😀
Aki Suzy 🤣🤣🤣😂😆 I love your sense of humor
Thank you!!! 😂😂
Me too love her
I don't check house helps bag when they are leaving.
Always looking forward to watching your videos
Thank you Anne! 🎉🎉
🤣🤣🤣😂😂🤣🤣🤣 you're hilarious 🤣😂the part of chewing miraa weeuh 🤣😂😂, anyway amazing content I always love
Pls can I ask u what month u were born ..I like ur spirit
If you have fired her you may not check her bag 💼 but if she wants to leave you and her luggage is suddenly 5 times and she was only 2 months in your house???Go with your gut feeling.
Aki l swear you're a comedian 😅😅😅😅... l always learn from your content and laugh alot
😂😂😂 thanks Marrie!
😂😂😂Tip 9:
Ngoja alale alafu mhame usiku. 😂😂 At time you don't need an explanation. She knows what she's been doing, and you also know😂
I once had a rude house help I fired her after 3 day's.She was older than us so I think it make her think we are too small.
So sorry about that Lucy.
God blessed me with a another nanny plus my baby is soo happy
I have a question for live-in maids how long should one be given an off in a month.I think the work is overwhelming at times and one becomes fatigued .I have a friend who is a live -in yet they are reluctant on giving he an off .she talked to both parties and actually one asked what's the need of an off she wants to quit coz she has a life besides her working for the family with an infant.
Hi Maureen! Here are videos I have done that talk about househelps...ruclips.net/video/ek-IHu9dBwk/видео.html
That missing thing ghai my recent girl told me she wasnt at work for 2 days without calling to tell me anything cause alikufa akafufuka .🤣 kenya hii utaina kila kitu
you mama,,,,you make me lauuuuuuugh,,,,,,,,good job