He explains stuff to them, while at the same time using the techniques he is explaining, but they are not aware of them, which makes this so brilliant, which is what Mystery is - brilliant and a genius.
@@bambbambboyguy123 I'll tell you that it works but don't tell anyone that you've read that book unless you can face humiliation and not have it faze you. Speaking from experience lol. I'm rereading it right now.
This is so wonderful. He is reading them like open books. The dark-haired woman gets really speechless. Mystery is deeper than people might think. He is a very intellectual man.
@@_KUSH1_ you only have to be scared if your mind is weak and your knowledge is low , the fact that you are looking this videos makes me think you stand a real good chance against any one trying these kind of manipulations
@@_KUSH1_nah he's pretty terrifying When one hears stories of Steve Jobs, it's similar; the level of narcissism, charm, and coldness are unreal Most people are just too dumb or lazy to actually learn how to lead, and they're also too lazy, sensitive, or inflexible to learn how to resist being manipulated And then my idiot mother didn't even learn how to invest her money so she put herself in this dumb dumb dumb situation... Smfh I cannot believe how fucking idiotic people can be
he's such a brilliant teacher. He demonstrated negging on the girl moments before he introduced it in to the lesson. You can see the girl stroking her hair much more frequently just moments after that.
"Confidence with nothing to back it up is called a delusion." Amen brother. Mystery talks about "social value" At least half of social value comes not from 'game' but actual social value created from real world game - having a good career, your own place, own car, ambition, etc. Real world game with social game is obviously the best, but real world game without social game is more powerful than, as you put it perfectly, selling a illusion/delusion built on a house of cards.
Meh - I actually have found that social value has gotten me further to get laid than my well established career now. When I was 25 and still hadn’t graduated I was pulling hotties
Clever to talk about scratching/touching as ioi's at the start. If you keep talking about this, people start doing it unconsciously. In Mystery's special world all women fidget because they can't resist him. Never excema, nerves, fleas, boredom, dry skin, cheap washing powder, self-comforting gestures, habits or behavioural ticks. I now realise my folly in accepting current thinking on the solar system... clearly Erik is actually at the centre of it.
DHV into neg into FD into FTC into IOI into close. Just do that again and again opening a 2 or 3 set each taking only 3-4 mins. End on comfort if attraction doesn't occur. Ez
Just wonderful, I've been looking for "stealth attraction techniques pdf" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you heard people talk about - Cebaarvel Feminine Flirter - (do a google search ) ? Ive heard some pretty good things about it and my partner got cool success with it.
It's been years since I've watched any of these videos. Life has been great because of this guy. If someone noticed something withing the first 15 mins please let me know or is it just me.
I read David Deangelo's and Mystery's book about three years ago, and I've internalized everything I've read, and I keep improving myself every single day. I don't want to sound like I'm bragging but I just can't believe how easy it's become... I just sit there in a lecture, and girls sit next to me giving me mad IOI's, I've even used body language as conditioning, and some even pick it up and PLAY THE GAME WITH ME then initiate conversation. I don't even have to talk anymore... IT'S MAGIC!
@lakeboy1908 In the hands of a sociopath (who will already instinctually know all of this stuff without needing to study it -- it's already their survival mechanism), I'd be inclined to agree. But to suggest that utilization of these techniques by a psychologically healthy person with a normal sense of ethics is somehow evil would be like saying all forms of commercial advertising are evil, or that the laws of nature are evil. It's a form of selling yourself and maximizing your own sexual value. It's an admirable and enviable art, and I'm in the process of absorbing it myself -- already to good effect.
I actually bought his book a while back, a few years ago. Very informative stuff! I know it helped me when I was in need of a little help on how to attract women. It isn't just a simple process though, you really do need to understand the social dynamics behind it. But once you take the time to learn how attraction and social interactions work, this information is really beneficial. Mystery is awesome!
His entire attraction system is great. But it is rather old now. It's just that many of you guys have just recently heard about it. Anyway he makes some things clear and has actually some real steps to follow. He changed my life.
Mysterys smooth with using subtle N.L.P techniques. While he's giving himself higher value around 4min, at 4:15 he moves hand over to girl in black. At the same time he says "...personality shines through", he points to himself and moves hand back. At that exact moment she turns and looks, and he knows it without looking at her. This is classic Neuro linguistic programming. A dude named Steve G. Jones explains it on his videos.
At the end she just said "I touched my hear 4 times", he said im well aware thanks, then she went to do it again, and stopped herself. loool.. It works but I dont find it natural so I just stay single.
This guy is great. I read The Game by Neil Strauss, and learned a lot. I've always been ok with the ladies, even better when on stage behind the drums, but always been too "nice".
He's attractive and has that nu metal look (reference: chester from linkin park) that was so popular during early 2000s. He's attractive and a stereotype of the cool boy of that time. He doesn't need all that bs when I was sim high-school girls flocked to this type who was there just existing. Add the guitar and the lip piercing (side piercing blink 182 was the most popular). Girls would brag about f.cking these dudes.
So true man, I'll never place the "nice guy" card again. I read that guide you suggested too .. so sick! Already starting to adapt the "bad boy" mindset and it's crazy how well it works. Seriously, nice guys really do finish last with women.
I don't know if noticed at the end after Mystery acknowledged the brunettes IOIs at the end she was going for another hair stroke then suddenly changed her mind in midst and started to play with her chin instead. That's some powerful shit when you can't even stop your insticts. GOLD! :)
I love mystery. It's his style. It works for him, and he is congruent with it. Learn to use your own style. Take parts that work from different models and figure it out for yourself instead of blaming others.... I do love how mystery says his truth despite how the women were giving him shit in the earlier part of the video and then pwns them in a not mean but straight up kinda way. :)
I noticed one thing from picking up... When you settle down... you tend to stop becoming this person.. Which is fucked.. you feel like you dont need to do this anymore. not just this. but everything you've gotten from it.. My advice is Keep doing it. You have more fun like that... when you find someone special, great!! congrats, but keep it up.. Dont fuck around.. just keep being high value... and go workout. a good body (main first impression) makes this ALL EASIER.. Please... Have fun guys
He does this for a living and tries to be the best. Of course he's into it. He's obviously smart too. People apply themselves to different things. This is what he's applied himself to.
the last two seconds of that was awesome. it's like she caught herself. and whether she believes the hair thing or not he got her thinking about it and so the funny thing is even if touching the hair wasn't a ioi, it could have been created through suggestion as well, which he would prob understand as a magician, he got her to think it was through attraction.. ahh, i'm lost, anyways, i loved how she stopped and her facial expressions, funny stuff
The target on the left is still responding to his theory even tho she doesn't really like him but she can't stand his attraction. This is the art of Pick up :D
starting at 4:14 he COMPLETELY BREAKS DOWN the brunette's defense, it is ON! she react to it, by getting deeper on the subject, she starts to participate, laugh...clear signs of interest on the guy, touching her hair/hand and stuff, when she realize dat, she tried to hold back as u can see here 6:55. HE DID ALL OF THIS WHILE HE WAS EXPLAINING TO THEM! HE PICKED UP WHILE HE WAS TELLING THE GIRLS HOW IT WORKS, AND THEM DIDNT EVEN NOTICE IT.YOU GOTTA RESPECT DAT!
I love how at the end of the video, the chick in the middle comments that she's already touched her hair 4 times and Mystery says hes "well aware". The camera zooms in right as she's about to flip her hair again and has to consciously stop herself. That should be proof enough right there.
very interesting vid. I think it takes balls to put that kind of thing up. He got some very real responses and challenges and handled many (but not all) of them well.
I regret so much finding Mystery / 'The Game' when I was a teenager (when this first came out). It caused me to overthink attraction massively. Talk about overanalysis / overcomplicating things. Women either find you physically attractive or they don't. If they don't, no amount of demonstrating value will help. Getting laid is a huge numbers game. Approach girls > see if they give you indicators of interest > if they do, escalate > if they don't, move on, it's a lost cause.
The fact is he put it in a nice package, in a step by step process. How come in all of my 41 years I, a well educated, fit and smart man, was so clueless about women and now I have them all over me when I use his stuff. How come? Yes it is common sense but for so many of us it was an illusive one. His method teaches us to let women be women as you mentioned. By the way It did not cost me anything. The only expense for me Style's book I bought. The rest is online for free.
As a man, I second that. All you really need is a little bit of looks, personality and confidence to be attractive. I have an ugly friend who has harped on Mystery's schtick since 2005 and despite mastering all these tricks, he can't close the deal to save his life. Despite all his game, women still are thinking "ickkk" when imagining themself with him.
That woman has to be an actress, pretending that neg worked on her. He's like a seventh grader trying to hide his insecurities! I really doubt this stuff works in real life!
That's why Mystery said it. "It might not work." It's a possibility but worth to try. All that matters is your confidence. Period. I keep studying while reading on Neil Strauss' "The Game"
@AllieDoe but he's got hot women around him, do you still suspect that it's fake too?? @Peter82 if you want a good pick up guide..just look up for *(Rapid Women Seducer)* on Google. It's one of the best pick up guide that you could ever find.
Funny thing about this guy is he basis all his theory on sciences, human evolution, kind of genius I think. It really makes sense to me coming from bio major who has taken classes in evolutionary bio.
How to pick-up women 101. 1.Don't wear eye liner 2.Don't paint your nails 3.Don't wear any of the following accessories -Dumb chains -Dumb hats -Dumb bracelets 4.Don't wear goggles if you're not within 100 yards of a pool, lake, river or beach. 5.Don't make stupid nicknames for yourself. 6.Be Confident 7.Be Easy going 8.Be humorous 9.Have a comfortableand welcoming body language 10.Give that protection feeling to be around.
You sir should first learn how to be a man..How not to judge people by their looks and tastes.. Im serious..Judging only tells us what kind of person you are..You certanly aren't the one woman like to be around..You maybe get laid but not as much as you would if you would just understand that everyone has his own thing..Do not judge people!! Dumb chains, hats..Nice..Very mature of you to use the word dumb for someones taste.. I don't mean to offend you..Im just pointing out the problem you have to solve if you didn't consciously notice it. Peace..
Dr. Hulk Pixel People need to just stop with all this "Don't judge man" bullshit. Everything he said is true, and by telling him he's not a man, you've already judged HIM.
Dr. Hulk Pixel OKay, first of all, I never judged him, I'm not judgemental whatsoever, I just simply stated the basics in not scaring off a female, pretend you're a woman and I come to you wearing all of the above and i'd say "Hi my name is (insert name here) but my friends call me (mystery, j dogg, matador) come on now!!!
After reading The Game I would actually tell a girl (once a report was established) that I had pick up techniques and tell them what they where and give an example - it still works as Mystery shows here - its psychological and they're knowing about it or not is irrelevant. It's beey interesting!
4:20 to 4:53 That's mystery running his game. First he disses them a little, at 4:50 he closes it up ("that's all you get"), ends it and doesn't make it awkward. at 5:00 the girl licking her lips is the positive responds
Is't it absolutely beautiful to see everything Mystery is saying be displayed right in front of u. excellent demo. poor brunette as hard as she tried to be " the strong leader of women"(with the hard looks at first) slowly, uncontrollably, began to melt in the palm of his hand. Hey Mystery, WAS IT GOOD? girl on the left .... don't worry theres other guys that might be interested don't give up.
What I can notice is that he is good with this because he became somehow (by his experiences in the past) very cold blooded. He operates without anxiety by zero fear, zero expectations, zero everything. He is dead inside. Maybe when he gets a relationship he won't be loving and caring as women want
He is hitting on the girl on his left. He negged twice. Hi gave her DHVs in terms of posture, that he dated models, the MIT thing, that he says no to women. You can see how her status diminishes as his was rising. She had no choice but be seduced and in the end be attracted to the max. Wow this is breathtaking. This freaking show is the best PUA action I have ever seen.
Like him or not, you really can't deny that Mystery's a genius when it comes to social dynamics. As far as guides go though, I find his stuff too complex to actually pull off (just too much stuff to remember). I prefer to follow the program on "Be the bad boy. com" Simple and makes a lot of sense (there's a reason why "assholes" seem to get the hottest girls).
Mystery is an emotionally needy guy but I don't see him disrespecting women. Same goes for style who is stronger as a person. Almost all the PUAs speak of taking charge, being strong, confident, being a leader. No one speak of trashing women. Never. There are a lot of AFCs who did not get yet. Anyway the community was and is filled with relatively young guys. There is lack of experience and what not but I think it is a good thing. It works.
that was a neg. "I don't know you from a whole in the wall..." "I'm curious but thats all you get (push-pull). The negative-compliments are a key part of his pickup method
Greetings, "Mystery". Do you remember the psychology student on "Friends"? He was Phoebe's boyfriend. He shared some relevant & useful info. But he made people uncomfortable & forgot to radiate warmth. He attracted Phoebe in many ways but, ultimately, he lost her. Mystery, you certainly have moments of attraction/charisma/charm. But by your own words, these are deliberate and planned. And thus static. Dynamically, your body language, voice, expressions, and attitude sometimes seems mechanical and creepy. Please take time to ponder: An elderly gentleman advised: Yes. Sex is great. But sex with love. There is no comparison. There is nothing like it on this earth. I wish you all the best, Mystery.
hahaha,, so funny when the chick on his left admits to be doin IOI's ("I've done it like 4 times now"... and he goes.. " I know, am well aware.. thank you.. " it cracks me up! Nice :)
mystery method actually works. his methods are not sexist, it's based on psychological facts. there have been many men who found their mate through mystery method and ive seen people succeed through it. i hav always valued the characteristics that mystery states (even before i knew about him) and those are the characteristics that girls that i knew/know like about me (and no, they are not sluts, they're very smart people). maybe you shouldn't judge people without an actual reason.
Also, in some prospective, Mystery can actually be considered a gentleman: he does not like the fact how society view woman's looks and body as the main factor for attraction (which you would agree upon). he also said that he views personality and outlook as a higher standard in women than looks. he view women as strong and intelligent. women see this and his confidence and it's something different from what society tells them. it's one of the reasons why so much women are attracted to him
Status of physical attraction. I've been losing weight on the hCG diet. I have notice women talking to me longer than they did before. If Mystery had the frame of an offensive lineman, he would be struggling. Chicks are always looking at the quarterback, not the center.
1:05-1:12. Notice when mystery demonstrated the scratching of the hand, which signifies that a female likes a male, the blonde subconsciously started mirroring and scratching her hand, indicating that she likes him
That was a reply to a comment several pages ago by someone who said it was all about looks, hot guys get the girls, and ugly guys are stuck with their hand for some of their life. It looks out of place without the original comment. I was trying to counter his argument that attraction was all about looks. (I did use to think that as a kid as her previous boyfriend was more handsome than me, but quite shy)
I didn't notice this before, but the body language in this video is incredible. Watch the girl in black, who hardly moves the entire video, doesn't touch her hair, move her neck, tongue, anything. Then, when he compares her to a hole in the wall, she now bushes her hair, even while he is talking about the very act at the end, she licks her lips, opens her posture, becomes involved. Its incredible to watch, and when? When he blows her off and tells her that she is lacking something for him.
I agree with some that he might appear cocky but come on guys, he's also really funny in this. I can see why he would be good with girls because he fits the perfect persona. He also has issues as detailed in the book "the game". However when style, a very credible journalist describes mystery as an incredible pickup artist, I tend to pay attention.
he's 5'6 and he said himself that as a writer he didn't make much money, he probably didn't tell girls he made 100k either. if your average looking than your in luck because you're not ugly, if that doesn't satisfy you start bodybuilding. i also have/had a stammering problem when i went on a vegitarian diet it got really bad and now that i'm on a high fat low carb diet it has virtually disappeared (the brain runs mainly on fat and cholesterol, not glucose)
@chinakickyourass It's all about training! Before I were really "scared" of approaching girls, but now I feel like I can approach almost any girl. Training is KEY!
He explains stuff to them, while at the same time using the techniques he is explaining, but they are not aware of them, which makes this so brilliant, which is what Mystery is - brilliant and a genius.
Yes this is true
@@brothajack1993 so the mystery method works? I’m reading his book rn smart guy like him a lot
@@bambbambboyguy123 I'll tell you that it works but don't tell anyone that you've read that book unless you can face humiliation and not have it faze you. Speaking from experience lol. I'm rereading it right now.
You get no bit^hes
@@bambbambboyguy123 the mystery method definitely works! His brand of pick up is extremely effective
This is so wonderful. He is reading them like open books. The dark-haired woman gets really speechless. Mystery is deeper than people might think. He is a very intellectual man.
6:55 she even becomes self-aware when touching her hair and stops! :D
The girl to the left is nervous,
Why she started smoking
make no mistake. people who master his concepts are highly effective with women
100% correct.
I'm female and I'm absolutely terrified of this man
@@_KUSH1_ you only have to be scared if your mind is weak and your knowledge is low , the fact that you are looking this videos makes me think you stand a real good chance against any one trying these kind of manipulations
@@_KUSH1_nah he's pretty terrifying
When one hears stories of Steve Jobs, it's similar; the level of narcissism, charm, and coldness are unreal
Most people are just too dumb or lazy to actually learn how to lead, and they're also too lazy, sensitive, or inflexible to learn how to resist being manipulated
And then my idiot mother didn't even learn how to invest her money so she put herself in this dumb dumb dumb situation... Smfh I cannot believe how fucking idiotic people can be
@@overcheats4518 She wouldn't even be able to tell.
4 demonstrations of value:
-preselected by woman
-leader of man
-protector of friends
-willingness to emote
(negs, prove them inside histories)
Can you give some examples for "leader of man", "protector of friends" and "willingness to emote"?
@@DAG90-n2z the commenter you asķed was posting 10 years ago, I just hope he is ok.. 😂
@@l.b.2392 It was eaten alive by its harem.
The whole "high value man" thing is complete BS lmao. More red pill stuff smh
@@user-cz7wp4jz6n only one finger, lol
why am I getting notifications to this post now? 😂
he's such a brilliant teacher. He demonstrated negging on the girl moments before he introduced it in to the lesson. You can see the girl stroking her hair much more frequently just moments after that.
Where?
@@loveistheanswer5924 I think at the 5 minute mark? Just keep watching her it's not a long video.
oh so this is Mystery. Idk why i thought I’d never see his face since Neil kinda kept the identity hidden in his book but this dude did not disappoint
"I know. I'm well aware. Thank you." LOL That was great
I came to this video after like 15 years searching for this line I heard back then :D
"Confidence with nothing to back it up is called a delusion."
Amen brother. Mystery talks about "social value" At least half of social value comes not from 'game' but actual social value created from real world game - having a good career, your own place, own car, ambition, etc. Real world game with social game is obviously the best, but real world game without social game is more powerful than, as you put it perfectly, selling a illusion/delusion built on a house of cards.
Meh - I actually have found that social value has gotten me further to get laid than my well established career now. When I was 25 and still hadn’t graduated I was pulling hotties
Clever to talk about scratching/touching as ioi's at the start. If you keep talking about this, people start doing it unconsciously. In Mystery's special world all women fidget because they can't resist him. Never excema, nerves, fleas, boredom, dry skin, cheap washing powder, self-comforting gestures, habits or behavioural ticks. I now realise my folly in accepting current thinking on the solar system... clearly Erik is actually at the centre of it.
Haha the girl at the end was about to flip her hair but then stopped her self LOL!
😂😂
DHV into neg into FD into FTC into IOI into close. Just do that again and again opening a 2 or 3 set each taking only 3-4 mins. End on comfort if attraction doesn't occur. Ez
"I taught social dynamics at MIT but what do I know" rofl
Just wonderful, I've been looking for "stealth attraction techniques pdf" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you heard people talk about - Cebaarvel Feminine Flirter - (do a google search ) ? Ive heard some pretty good things about it and my partner got cool success with it.
this statement "I taught social dynamics at MIT but I can be wrong" is a DHV embedded with a NEG correct?
👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
A lolicon who taught Scoial dynamics at MIT?
Dude, he totally reprogrammed the brains of everyone in the room. Just by watching this video Mystery pwns your mind.
he knows what he's talking about that's why. he's not bullshitting anything. very smart dude.
@@robertlee9679 lol he is bs artist, he get exposed plenty of times
I love how skeptical these women are to their own instinctive actions. It's like they don't want to be figured out.
It's been years since I've watched any of these videos. Life has been great because of this guy. If someone noticed something withing the first 15 mins please let me know or is it just me.
This is my favourite pua Vid, i love that she cant help giving off ioi's even though she knows what she is doing!
I read David Deangelo's and Mystery's book about three years ago, and I've internalized everything I've read, and I keep improving myself every single day.
I don't want to sound like I'm bragging but I just can't believe how easy it's become... I just sit there in a lecture, and girls sit next to me giving me mad IOI's, I've even used body language as conditioning, and some even pick it up and PLAY THE GAME WITH ME then initiate conversation.
I don't even have to talk anymore... IT'S MAGIC!
Which books?
@@sergioortiz1839mystery method and double your dating
What's David DeAngelos book?
I know, I'm well aware of it thank you- Words of a true master
What did she say before that? It’s mishearable
That she had already done some of those things including touching her own hair
5:16 chick in the middle goes to scratch the back of her hand, gets self-conscious and diverts her hand to her bracelet to adjust it.
!!! so true.
And she’s constantly wetting her lips
This guy explains thing like its a chess game
It is
@lakeboy1908 In the hands of a sociopath (who will already instinctually know all of this stuff without needing to study it -- it's already their survival mechanism), I'd be inclined to agree. But to suggest that utilization of these techniques by a psychologically healthy person with a normal sense of ethics is somehow evil would be like saying all forms of commercial advertising are evil, or that the laws of nature are evil. It's a form of selling yourself and maximizing your own sexual value. It's an admirable and enviable art, and I'm in the process of absorbing it myself -- already to good effect.
There are a lot of signs of attraction. As long the girl you're talking to is still engaged, that's the most important one.
I actually bought his book a while back, a few years ago. Very informative stuff! I know it helped me when I was in need of a little help on how to attract women. It isn't just a simple process though, you really do need to understand the social dynamics behind it. But once you take the time to learn how attraction and social interactions work, this information is really beneficial. Mystery is awesome!
His entire attraction system is great. But it is rather old now. It's just that many of you guys have just recently heard about it. Anyway he makes some things clear and has actually some real steps to follow. He changed my life.
all i could think of was the D.E.N.N.I.S. system
David Meek He even has the same tone in his voice.
"PUA is basically a hardcore version of Dungeons and Dragons"- Professor, Manhood Academy.
Mysterys smooth with using subtle N.L.P techniques. While he's giving himself higher value around 4min, at 4:15 he moves hand over to girl in black. At the same time he says "...personality shines through", he points to himself and moves hand back. At that exact moment she turns and looks, and he knows it without looking at her. This is classic Neuro linguistic programming. A dude named Steve G. Jones explains it on his videos.
At the end she just said "I touched my hear 4 times", he said im well aware thanks, then she went to do it again, and stopped herself. loool.. It works but I dont find it natural so I just stay single.
Now that's some badass social dynamics. That guy is on point.
This guy is great. I read The Game by Neil Strauss, and learned a lot. I've always been ok with the ladies, even better when on stage behind the drums, but always been too "nice".
He has a swagger and charisma I have never seen in other pickup artists.
He's attractive and has that nu metal look (reference: chester from linkin park) that was so popular during early 2000s.
He's attractive and a stereotype of the cool boy of that time. He doesn't need all that bs when I was sim high-school girls flocked to this type who was there just existing. Add the guitar and the lip piercing (side piercing blink 182 was the most popular). Girls would brag about f.cking these dudes.
So true man, I'll never place the "nice guy" card again.
I read that guide you suggested too .. so sick!
Already starting to adapt the "bad boy" mindset and it's crazy how well it works.
Seriously, nice guys really do finish last with women.
What's the bad boy mindset? 🙂
Unfortunately I've always been a nice guy
I don't know if noticed at the end after Mystery acknowledged the brunettes IOIs at the end she was going for another hair stroke then suddenly changed her mind in midst and started to play with her chin instead. That's some powerful shit when you can't even stop your insticts. GOLD! :)
I love mystery. It's his style. It works for him, and he is congruent with it.
Learn to use your own style. Take parts that work from different models and figure it out for yourself instead of blaming others....
I do love how mystery says his truth despite how the women were giving him shit in the earlier part of the video and then pwns them in a not mean but straight up kinda way. :)
I noticed one thing from picking up... When you settle down... you tend to stop becoming this person.. Which is fucked.. you feel like you dont need to do this anymore. not just this. but everything you've gotten from it..
My advice is Keep doing it. You have more fun like that... when you find someone special, great!! congrats, but keep it up.. Dont fuck around.. just keep being high value... and go workout. a good body (main first impression) makes this ALL EASIER.. Please... Have fun guys
Man i agree with you whole-heartedly. You hit the nail on the head. This is theory, in practise though, its always a different story isnt it.
He does this for a living and tries to be the best. Of course he's into it. He's obviously smart too. People apply themselves to different things. This is what he's applied himself to.
the last two seconds of that was awesome. it's like she caught herself. and whether she believes the hair thing or not he got her thinking about it and so the funny thing is even if touching the hair wasn't a ioi, it could have been created through suggestion as well, which he would prob understand as a magician, he got her to think it was through attraction.. ahh, i'm lost, anyways, i loved how she stopped and her facial expressions, funny stuff
I noticed that, too! Like, she was about to stroke her hair and stopped herself.
The target on the left is still responding to his theory even tho she doesn't really like him but she can't stand his attraction. This is the art of Pick up :D
believe me, mystery is right. This guy changed my life!:D
starting at 4:14 he COMPLETELY BREAKS DOWN the brunette's defense, it is ON!
she react to it, by getting deeper on the subject, she starts to participate, laugh...clear signs of interest on the guy, touching her hair/hand and stuff, when she realize dat, she tried to hold back as u can see here 6:55.
HE DID ALL OF THIS WHILE HE WAS EXPLAINING TO THEM!
HE PICKED UP WHILE HE WAS TELLING THE GIRLS HOW IT WORKS, AND THEM DIDNT EVEN NOTICE IT.YOU GOTTA RESPECT DAT!
Alright this qualifies as my favorite video on the whole of youtube..... hilarious
it's hilarious indeed!!
@Rick: try this *Complete Women Controller* dude! your shyness towards girl will be gone in no time!
I love this interview. He "punishes" several times when the girls try to tell him what's what.
Oh man. My bullshit allergies are acting up whenever this guy speaks.
I remember watching this back in the day, now is 2023 and rewatching this
i hate AFCs spamming the mystery vids
I love how at the end of the video, the chick in the middle comments that she's already touched her hair 4 times and Mystery says hes "well aware". The camera zooms in right as she's about to flip her hair again and has to consciously stop herself. That should be proof enough right there.
5:24 THEE original attraction spikes
This part of his "Mind of Mystery" products
You should check out his brand new revelation companion set. It's rediculously amazing.
Hahah she full realised she was playing with her hair at the end and tried to stop it
There is hope. But you must remember:
Nothing will happen, unless you MAKE it happen.
Have any of you “studs” thought that they may be paid actresses?
very interesting vid. I think it takes balls to put that kind of thing up. He got some very real responses and challenges and handled many (but not all) of them well.
Haha this guy is great! he fully negged her with the 2 out of 3 thing. amazing.. he's doing it in front of their faces without them even noticing lol
That’s not a neg… that’s a qualifier but she didn’t complied
This guy is like a magician
I regret so much finding Mystery / 'The Game' when I was a teenager (when this first came out). It caused me to overthink attraction massively. Talk about overanalysis / overcomplicating things. Women either find you physically attractive or they don't. If they don't, no amount of demonstrating value will help. Getting laid is a huge numbers game. Approach girls > see if they give you indicators of interest > if they do, escalate > if they don't, move on, it's a lost cause.
yea and hes like "yes im well aware, thank you" lol
So much widom & experience in all this! Great job Mystery!
"I am well aware, thank you" :d;d;d
Man there's hope for anyone. Just buy his book and Neil Strauss' books and you'll have enough information to reach his level.
Did you reached it? 😄🙂
Are these women what Mystery calls 10s? We don't have the same taste I guess...
Man, the girl next to him with black hair is pretty hot. the other one next to him (the brunette) too. They are 9 and a 8 to me.
+Nombre Aleatorio From left: 4, 7, 4.2
s50201 lower than 6s aren't rated...
Giacomo Casanova Lower than 9 I don’t rate.
The fact is he put it in a nice package, in a step by step process. How come in all of my 41 years I, a well educated, fit and smart man, was so clueless about women and now I have them all over me when I use his stuff. How come? Yes it is common sense but for so many of us it was an illusive one. His method teaches us to let women be women as you mentioned. By the way It did not cost me anything. The only expense for me Style's book I bought. The rest is online for free.
I get all my dating tips from Canadian men in mascara.
As a man, I second that. All you really need is a little bit of looks, personality and confidence to be attractive. I have an ugly friend who has harped on Mystery's schtick since 2005 and despite mastering all these tricks, he can't close the deal to save his life. Despite all his game, women still are thinking "ickkk" when imagining themself with him.
That woman has to be an actress, pretending that neg worked on her. He's like a seventh grader trying to hide his insecurities! I really doubt this stuff works in real life!
it does me and other people tried it....and thats why we are here
how about you try it before you talk shit behind your keyboard... fool
That's why Mystery said it. "It might not work." It's a possibility but worth to try. All that matters is your confidence. Period. I keep studying while reading on Neil Strauss' "The Game"
stfu
@AllieDoe but he's got hot women around him, do you still suspect that it's fake too??
@Peter82 if you want a good pick up guide..just look up for *(Rapid Women Seducer)* on Google. It's one of the best pick up guide that you could ever find.
Funny thing about this guy is he basis all his theory on sciences, human evolution, kind of genius I think. It really makes sense to me coming from bio major who has taken classes in evolutionary bio.
How to pick-up women 101.
1.Don't wear eye liner
2.Don't paint your nails
3.Don't wear any of the following accessories
-Dumb chains
-Dumb hats
-Dumb bracelets
4.Don't wear goggles if you're not within 100 yards of a pool, lake, river or beach.
5.Don't make stupid nicknames for yourself.
6.Be Confident
7.Be Easy going
8.Be humorous
9.Have a comfortableand welcoming body language
10.Give that protection feeling to be around.
You sir should first learn how to be a man..How not to judge people by their looks and tastes..
Im serious..Judging only tells us what kind of person you are..You certanly aren't the one woman like to be around..You maybe get laid but not as much as you would if you would just understand that everyone has his own thing..Do not judge people!!
Dumb chains, hats..Nice..Very mature of you to use the word dumb for someones taste..
I don't mean to offend you..Im just pointing out the problem you have to solve if you didn't consciously notice it. Peace..
Dr. Hulk Pixel People need to just stop with all this "Don't judge man" bullshit. Everything he said is true, and by telling him he's not a man, you've already judged HIM.
Ed Hernandez It is a little more complex though
Luke Bandy Thanks for agreeing with me! I appreciate it, and it is indeed true.
Dr. Hulk Pixel OKay, first of all, I never judged him, I'm not judgemental whatsoever, I just simply stated the basics in not scaring off a female, pretend you're a woman and I come to you wearing all of the above and i'd say "Hi my name is (insert name here) but my friends call me (mystery, j dogg, matador) come on now!!!
is it really is so captivating and amazing to hear this guy speak
this is sad
After reading The Game I would actually tell a girl (once a report was established) that I had pick up techniques and tell them what they where and give an example - it still works as Mystery shows here - its psychological and they're knowing about it or not is irrelevant.
It's beey interesting!
4:55 After he engages the brunette, she licks her lips, strokes her hair, and scratches her hand.
Those are his plants, after all he is trying to sell you something.
4:20 to 4:53
That's mystery running his game.
First he disses them a little,
at 4:50 he closes it up ("that's all you get"), ends it and doesn't make it awkward. at 5:00 the girl licking her lips is the positive responds
This guy sells ruffies around the corner.
Is't it absolutely beautiful to see everything Mystery is saying be displayed right in front of u. excellent demo. poor brunette as hard as she tried to be " the strong leader of women"(with the hard looks at first) slowly, uncontrollably, began to melt in the palm of his hand. Hey Mystery, WAS IT GOOD? girl on the left .... don't worry theres other guys that might be interested don't give up.
He is boring
What I can notice is that he is good with this because he became somehow (by his experiences in the past) very cold blooded. He operates without anxiety by zero fear, zero expectations, zero everything. He is dead inside. Maybe when he gets a relationship he won't be loving and caring as women want
Sassy afc
He is hitting on the girl on his left. He negged twice. Hi gave her DHVs in terms of posture, that he dated models, the MIT thing, that he says no to women. You can see how her status diminishes as his was rising. She had no choice but be seduced and in the end be attracted to the max. Wow this is breathtaking. This freaking show is the best PUA action I have ever seen.
He is totally right on everything he said.
The hand scratching very few ppl know. It's true.
dream on Erik? This man is LIVING the dream mate...
Like him or not, you really can't deny that Mystery's a genius when it comes to social dynamics.
As far as guides go though, I find his stuff too complex to actually pull off (just too much stuff to remember).
I prefer to follow the program on "Be the bad boy. com"
Simple and makes a lot of sense (there's a reason why "assholes" seem to get the hottest girls).
Yeah But Girls dont Want to admit that. Of course Later they Look for a Guy With more money die Family.
Can't believe I used to watch this guy when I was 18 lmao
Mystery is an emotionally needy guy but I don't see him disrespecting women. Same goes for style who is stronger as a person. Almost all the PUAs speak of taking charge, being strong, confident, being a leader. No one speak of trashing women. Never. There are a lot of AFCs who did not get yet. Anyway the community was and is filled with relatively young guys. There is lack of experience and what not but I think it is a good thing. It works.
that was a neg. "I don't know you from a whole in the wall..." "I'm curious but thats all you get (push-pull). The negative-compliments are a key part of his pickup method
Greetings, "Mystery". Do you remember the psychology student on "Friends"? He was Phoebe's boyfriend. He shared some relevant & useful info. But he made people uncomfortable & forgot to radiate warmth. He attracted Phoebe in many ways but, ultimately, he lost her.
Mystery, you certainly have moments of attraction/charisma/charm. But by your own words, these are deliberate and planned. And thus static. Dynamically, your body language, voice, expressions, and attitude sometimes seems mechanical and creepy.
Please take time to ponder: An elderly gentleman advised: Yes. Sex is great. But sex with love. There is no comparison. There is nothing like it on this earth.
I wish you all the best, Mystery.
The face of the girl smoking at 3:28 is priceless...the eyebrow raise
hahaha,, so funny when the chick on his left admits to be doin IOI's ("I've done it like 4 times now"... and he goes.. " I know, am well aware.. thank you.. " it cracks me up! Nice :)
mystery method actually works. his methods are not sexist, it's based on psychological facts. there have been many men who found their mate through mystery method and ive seen people succeed through it. i hav always valued the characteristics that mystery states (even before i knew about him) and those are the characteristics that girls that i knew/know like about me (and no, they are not sluts, they're very smart people). maybe you shouldn't judge people without an actual reason.
Also, in some prospective, Mystery can actually be considered a gentleman: he does not like the fact how society view woman's looks and body as the main factor for attraction (which you would agree upon). he also said that he views personality and outlook as a higher standard in women than looks. he view women as strong and intelligent. women see this and his confidence and it's something different from what society tells them. it's one of the reasons why so much women are attracted to him
Status of physical attraction. I've been losing weight on the hCG diet. I have notice women talking to me longer than they did before. If Mystery had the frame of an offensive lineman, he would be struggling. Chicks are always looking at the quarterback, not the center.
Very good speaker... He doesn't look it but he is very educated and has some very interesting opinions.
1:05-1:12. Notice when mystery demonstrated the scratching of the hand, which signifies that a female likes a male, the blonde subconsciously started mirroring and scratching her hand, indicating that she likes him
That was a reply to a comment several pages ago by someone who said it was all about looks, hot guys get the girls, and ugly guys are stuck with their hand for some of their life. It looks out of place without the original comment. I was trying to counter his argument that attraction was all about looks. (I did use to think that as a kid as her previous boyfriend was more handsome than me, but quite shy)
3:42 using his technique to attract them unconsciously, this guy is a legend
Mystery, you are a "Steve" and a genius. Thank you my friend.
If you pay attention to what he's talking about, you'll realize that he's running game while explaining it.
a direct validation of himself. if he was worthy he wouldn't need to adopt an ideal of how to be worthy.
I didn't notice this before, but the body language in this video is incredible. Watch the girl in black, who hardly moves the entire video, doesn't touch her hair, move her neck, tongue, anything. Then, when he compares her to a hole in the wall, she now bushes her hair, even while he is talking about the very act at the end, she licks her lips, opens her posture, becomes involved. Its incredible to watch, and when? When he blows her off and tells her that she is lacking something for him.
Oh man.... Somewhere in the top 10 people I want to meet before I die is Mystery, Ross Jeffries, and Neil Strauss (Style).
I agree with some that he might appear cocky but come on guys, he's also really funny in this. I can see why he would be good with girls because he fits the perfect persona. He also has issues as detailed in the book "the game". However when style, a very credible journalist describes mystery as an incredible pickup artist, I tend to pay attention.
he's 5'6 and he said himself that as a writer he didn't make much money, he probably didn't tell girls he made 100k either. if your average looking than your in luck because you're not ugly, if that doesn't satisfy you start bodybuilding. i also have/had a stammering problem when i went on a vegitarian diet it got really bad and now that i'm on a high fat low carb diet it has virtually disappeared (the brain runs mainly on fat and cholesterol, not glucose)
This is like when Larry Byrd would tell his opponents how he was going to beat them right before he beat them.
@chinakickyourass It's all about training! Before I were really "scared" of approaching girls, but now I feel like I can approach almost any girl. Training is KEY!