Warning: 10 Signs To Spot A Sociopath
HTML-код
- Опубликовано: 25 июл 2024
- In this video, I provide 10 signs that you may be dealing with someone with Antisocial Personality Disorder and I also explain the key difference between Narcissistic and Antisocial personality disorder.
Download my 5 Toxic Tactics Report: liseleblanc.com/optin-toxic-t...
Please SUBSCRIBE for new videos every Monday and hit the notification bell so you don't miss anything! I would so greatly appreciate it. 💜
/ @liseleblanc
If you have an idea of something you want me to talk about, please let me know because I take your requests seriously!
About Lise Leblanc
Lise Leblanc is a Therapist, Life Coach, and Author with over 20 years of experience in therapeutic, educational, and leadership roles.
To buy my Toxic Relationship Recovery online course: liseleblanc.com/toxic-relatio...
For information about private consultation, please visit: liseleblanc.ca/products/coaching
CONTACT LISE LEBLANC Through Other Platforms:
/ liseleblanc.ca
liseleblanc...
DISCLAIMER: THE INFORMATION IN THIS VIDEO IS NOT INTENDED NOR IMPLIED TO BE A SUBSTITUTE FOR PROFESSIONAL ADVICE, DIAGNOSIS OR TREATMENT. All content is for general information purposes only and does not replace a mental health care of consultation with a health professional.
If you have thoughts about harming yourself, get help right away by taking one of these actions:
Call 911 or your local emergency number immediately.
Call a suicide hotline number. In the U.S., call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-TALK (1-800-273-8255) In Canada: 1.833.456.4566
Call your mental health provider, doctor or other health care provider.
Reach out to a loved one, trusted friend.
DISCLAIMER: THIS IS FOR INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES ONLY AND IS NOT INTENDED TO BE A SUBSTITUTE FOR MENTAL HEALTH CARE.
#antisocial #narcissist #borderline #narcissism #narcissist #narcissistic #sociopath
My ex has ASPD and BPD as well as mood disorders. Please listen to this video closely. My ex did everything mentioned in this video to me with absolutely no remorse. Keep in mind ASPD doesn’t mean they are murders as you see on tv. She just didn’t care, she was sneaky, she cheated with no remorse. She faked her emotions. She completely destroyed me. Believe me please, it destroyed me more than you think… if this is your case… please get away! You can’t save this person. You will lose your life trying I promise you!! Get help and get away! I know loving someone and letting go is hard trust me. But in this case, you will loose yourself if you try!
Your ex was a malignant BPD. (ASPD + BPD), it's important to keep in mind that... ASPD is already kinda similar to BPD. But when both disorders exist... It means it's a more insecure type of ASPD. ASPD is caused by orbitofrontal cortex malfunction.. So your ex was primarily a BPD who had this orbitofrontal cortex malfunction.
I was wondering what my ex’s major malfunction was 🤔
So true 🎉😂❤ sorry you went thru that
I'm in the beginning of this now, dropped PFA charges, 2 hours later she came in the house loaded up clothes, computers, pictures and dog, gone, gosted the entire family and me 1 week later got a text saying she's having everything appraised tomorrow.
Same with my ex… a complete monster and completely destroyed my mind and nervous system
My daughter is diagnosed with ASPD. I am her target, saying the last 10 years of my life have been hell, is the biggest understatement. I would cut her out of my life if it wasn't for my grandchild. Last week alone she called the cops on me 3 times when I didn't cave. I didn't commit a crime, so they are just as confused and basically listen to her rage. I've tried therapy, sadly I have not met a therapist who really knows or understands enough about ASPD. I've even considered moving out of my own home and dissappear. She doesn't live with us but basically stalks us until she gets what she wants. Refuses to work. She finds boy/girl friends to live with so she doesn't have to. I'm desperate, I just don't know if I can do it anymore.
That sounds like a nightmare. I'm sorry.
Can I ask how that behavior developed? Those behaviors are strongest in 2 year olds and are often outgrown by parental guidance. And chances are someone around them conditioned those behaviors.
i think my body knew something was wrong with my ex because every time i was around him i shook with anxiety and felt sick. but ofc i thought this was just “butterflies.”
I am so sorry to read this and I experienced the same with my ex partner. Yes our body knows. When someone is “good” for us we will feel it too, it will feel very calm and peaceful! Take care!
My body shook too and later I broke out with a raging skin rash. I broke free thank god ✝️ Amen
That sounds like my friend's ex husband to a T.
Turn on the full charm when someone they are enamoured or admired is around.
Road rage , frequent. Constantly lying.
Sabotage you behind your back to get revenge. Sadism. Lacks moral. Smirking. No boundary. RUN..that is what my friend did ..smart girl.
That's an interesting point that even ASPD persons with relatively unimpressive IQ and/ or academic attainments, can often be skilled manipulators. In my life, I've known two suspected sociopaths, both of whom thankfully are no longer in my life. Each of them were such adept manipulators as to even be able to con friends into financially supporting them for years. Yet, neither of them could sustain honest work for any period of time, nor follow through with educational goals. In fact, they were such simple and superficial thinkers that I couldn't even understand how they could be so skilled at manipulating others. Both of them I could talk over their heads about politics, science, etc without even trying. Moreover, they would get really displeased with me for knowing and understanding more than they did.
It's not. It's because they run on a different paradigm. Without most emotion getting in the way to weigh down study of people it's simple to derive functions basically of how people operate. Because they have cognitive empathy they can figure out humans like a machine. People are pretty predictable tbh but normies have a bunch of baggage getting in the way of seeing this
Yeah they are idiot scumbags pretending to be angels. My brother tortured me growing up. He is alcoholic. 7 years older and of course had to unleash his fkd-upness on little kid me when no one was home. I was but 9. He ran over his girlfriend with a car, lost the house our mother bought him, and blames everything on everyone but himself. My codependent sister now houses his homeless ass. I’m glad I’m out that crazy fkd up family of origin. Serves you right ‘mom’ this is what you’re left with in your life: shit for brains left over adult children, adult children who manipulate and use you, and are out to get the millions you stole from dad. Serves you right.
@@sirrantsalott Wow, I can't even imagine what it must have been like to grow up in such a family of origin! Double kudos to you for separating yourself from all of that insanity!
@@allanwhite1533 thanks bro. It took a lot. A WHOLE LOT. And it’s worth it.
@@sirid2987 no doubt. And so many cluster B personality styles are as predictable as the rising and setting of the sun if a person knows what to look for.
Sounds like my father, with the exclusion of criminality and full blown NPD. I think him growing up in poverty is what made him develop this mental disorder. I‘m only 30 years old, but he‘s still the strangest person I‘ve ever met.
Also, the way I wrote my original comment makes it seem like I just discovered ASPD. I've been learning about personality disorders for about 9 months now. I don't think my father has this disorder. I know he has it.
I feel u on this.🥴🤍🙏🏻
It a relief to hear someone who knows how they really care and does not act like you are exaggerating.
I dissociated from #5 to #8.
The differentiation was so accurate.
Anti-socials might need to consume whatever you can offer, but narcissist has the need to get what is behind the thing you offer.
Anti-social might have sex with you cause, he reads the cues, and you seem to be vulnerable, and easy to take advantage of. Narcissist might have sex with you to gain his sense of self-worth and confident. Just an example for the sake of clarification.
What about BPD? Would they be neither interested in inflating their ego or manipulating to get selfish desires?
What if the core wound is nothing more than, "I want to love myself and share that with someone else."
I've wondered this morning if the person I know has ASPD, but I'm pretty sure they are narcissistic. The fragile ego is the key here.
She's wrong. Just a life coach. Go research this stuff instead of just taking ppl's word for it. I've talked to many dr's and all ASPD ppl also have huge ego's. It's part of it b/c you have to be a narcissist first b4 graduating to become a sociopath or psychopath and if you don't progress into this that way, then narcissistic traits are def part of ASPD b/c they are all wrapped up in the self. This LIFE COACH is NOT a psychologist or psychologist and is limited in her info and lacks deeper nuance in her education.
Why did you just take her words to heart when she lacks depth here and esp if you didn't research this on your own? Can't afford to be lazy or complacent when we're dealing w/ super monsters who can destroy your life. Believe me, I know too many of these kinds of ppl and they will ruin your reputation, your life, your finances, anything they can do to win power over you.
I've been with a malignant narcissist (a psychopat narcissist). The hell. An endless nightmare.
One of the worst combinations :(
@@LiseLeblanc tell me I met my frist one iam 63 years old I never new their was man out their like that never again
He had antisocial personality with narcissist traits
I deal with addicts because I have to. There's a higher chance of dealing with a sociopath in a group of addicts(usually drug addicts are). They are difficult to deal with.
This is the best description I've heard of ASPD by far. ❤👏👏👏🇬🇧
This information is so valuable. Thank you!
this video is life changing for me and many others. as an empath there’s some time of freaky pull to this sociopathic type of personality. i have grown much stronger to detect it now and keep myself safe, i just wish i could have preserved parts of myself much sooner!
Yes, i too echo with you. This video is a life saving video. Thank god..
Here's a tip I learned- stop viewing yourself as an empath. I used to think that of myself. It stems from a codependent tendency to want to take care of others for personal validation. I learned to self validate through exercise, creative interests, spending time outdoors and tuning into my own feelings instead of others. You are your own best source of happiness! It also helps to read the Bible daily, it's very encouraging and teaches you Who truly loves you.
My mother in law told us she was diagnosed with antisocial personality disorder around 15 years ago. I mistakenly thought it meant social anxiety. She had already then caused problems in her adults childrens lives and relationships, and she wanted sympathy for her diagnosis. I think being around antisocial people is dangerous. To make a long story short, if you dont conform and perform to their liking they will wish you werent alive. She said that to me about her other daughter in law, (who merely has boundaries, not a bad person) and told me if something happens to me, my husband can go back to being a catholic (we both changed when we found a local church). After we had already had our vows renewed and children baptised there which she attended. Its creepy knowing the whole time she was resenting the whole thing. She continued to make strange comments until we went no contact now for 4 years. She still emailed me strange things 7 times after being told anymore may require legal action. I didnt block her because we had to start gathering info, just in case. My mother is also on a narcissistic spectrum and I have CPTSD from all of it. I was ready to divorce to get away from inlaws, because even though they know she is disordered, they still provide her information and keep it a secret to outsiders. Its a cult mentality! Its really dehumanizing to have these two women in my life, who caused so much pain in all ways and the families still support them and not the survivors. My health declined and had to go no contact with all of them, I had no other choice. My physical health has improved but my mental health is so damaged by what I went through, the biggest being the gaslighting.
This is another perfect analysis of personality disorders and great practical examples to use in life. Unfortunately, life keeps moving whether things are good or bad. They are happy with themselves and for someone to raise up, someone else must be stepped over. Its our own self doubt through whichever source that makes us vulnerable to these manipulation tactics. Life is a game, some people aren't above lying, cheating, stealing, denying and using coercion to get ahead.
Narcissists are worse than sociopaths. Because guess what, sociopaths are Honest. Narcissists kill your spirit and they steal as much If not More!
Spot on. Well done.
Your video is very insightful, it made me open my eyes about someone who I would've never put the pieces together if it wasn't for this information. Thank you.
Great way to start the new year. Your videos helped clarify some family baggage decades old. I like the approach that is about doing the best we can do to move on from the bumps, without focusing on exacting retribution.
The delivery and content is so engaging and informative, you could make almost anything interesting. Life, happiness, harmony seem so simple, but the relations we experience seem to tangle all that like some fishing line left in the ocean. it takes a long time to untangle what it takes a moment to create.
I think I know someone like this and I’m not visiting him again lol
As always, love your content Lise! You've helped me a lot! Keep it up :)
Thanks James!
Well done .
Very well sed.
Thanku.
💛💚💙💜
Xxx
This is my whole family… the push back on even attempting boundaries is exhausting and excruciating to say the least 😢
💜🙏💜Only a higher power will help at this point
Good description..
I'm fairly certain my brother has ASPD along with NPD (and same for my other brother, now deceased) . The deceased eldest was convicted of criminal acts whereas the other flies under the radar in regards to the law. Neither had any scruples nor remorse about their harmful actions to get what they want. Both were problem children. I feel things may have been nipped in the bud if our Mother ever gave them consequences instead of always coddling and enabling them. However, she had her fair share of issues too; I've long suspected she was a covert narcissist and I've realized she showed traits of ASPD. She lacked empathy; she could be neglectful and sometimes cruel to her children and the family pets without remorse. She lived a double life to keep up her public image and lied frequently.
My brother is a psychopath. ASPD.
Lisa, your videos are helping me a lot getting over my trauma bond.
She has all the signs of BPD and ASPD.
I recently cut a bond with someone whom I haven't seen in 3+ years, has 2 kids, never saw his new house...He's upset I moved cities and told him he was a pen pal while we lived in the same city. Now that I moved out of the city, I really have no interest in a pen pal who exploits others for supply.
Hello Lise Happy New Year!
Well it’s official. Although you have mentioned it time after time (NOT TO DIAGNOSE)I tried to watch all these videos about Narcissist and Bpd (hoping to get a full understanding of my Ex) because I sincerely care for her. Well, I come to find out watching this video it’s better left for the professionals. I truly appreciate your in-depth perspective and understanding on these disorders. I’m grateful and thank you. Stay healthy and safe inside your body 😉🤙🏼
Well maybe my upcoming video on "Personality Disorder - Not Otherwise Specified" will clear things right up lol
@@LiseLeblanc
You’re amazing thank you hahaha🤙🏼
@@LiseLeblanc has that video been made yet? I haven’t seen it on your video list yet and can’t wait to see it . Thank u for all u do! I’d love more videos and males and bpd too.. thanks!
Thanks for the vids
I was trauma bonded for 6 years until she did one thing that took her to jail although she called the police for me. It's just crazyness. No way back.i took years to know she was antisocial. She always refused to look for help.
I have been following your channel for a while now and it's time to make a comment : you're always very informative and concise in your videos , no unnecessary fluff or vagueness. Beautiful hands , by the way. ( not to say you're easy on the eye in general : natural and attractive )
I Luv your hair cut !
Thank You
Very good..ty
Can you please also do Reactive Attachment Disorder (attachment styles and sensitive periods etc..) and maybe series of videos or shorts on comparisons with Primary and Secondary Psychopathy, non-violent ASPD, Malignant NPD and BPD, Machiavellian mindset (based on cultural upbringing or early adaptations) etc … in general - some parallels, and major differences to clear confusion). Your eloquence is very helpful to present systematically such information. I’m sorry if it’s too much work and doesn’t pay off as simpler topics, but I really enjoy your videos and I figured that if I were to just ask - the worst which can happen is to get rejected :) and if you actually find it interesting enough to do it - there’s all to gain. Thank you for your well made content - I’m excited to see more of you!
Thanks for your request! I have Primary vs. Secondary Psychopathy and Machiavellian mindset in queue and will add non-violent ASPD and Reactive Attachment Disorder to my list. Here are my vids on Malignant BPD and NPD :
ruclips.net/video/m_U7cmX8OL0/видео.html
ruclips.net/video/fN4HvgXgATY/видео.html
@@LiseLeblanc I saw these videos you posted and I’ll see them again. You are passionate about your content and I appreciate how concise and comprehensive it can get due to your understanding and presentation skills. You are a gem Lisa ❤️
non-violent ASPD is me. We are still pretty offensive though. Basically cynical emotional abusers who devalue and discard people. Thing is... non-violent ASPDs are higher functioning ASPDs who are not as violent as most ASPDs but are cruel with words. In relationships non-violent ASPDs look like BPDs because we both do splitting, see things in black and white and well let's not lie to ourselves BPD people can be pretty mean as well. It's just that non-violent ASPDs are meaner and more nonsensical in how they deal with life. ASPDs are similar to Mr Bean in a sense of being reckless.
Okay prettyyyy sure my ex is not only a covert narc but has aspd. This makes total sense.
Both of my parents show clear signs of ASPD, both malignant narcissists. I think I was going that way too, (textbook teenage sociopath) but pulled back by my late teenage years. I didn't want to live a life of crime. I saw it wasn't worth it, from any perspective. Both my parents constantly pull scams and break the law, mostly "getting away with it" but they hardly benefit from all this nonsense.
Narcissism I saw wouldn’t make me happy, I saw how unhappy my parents were- yikes! They only got pleasure out of hurting people, which is so bitter, twisted and disgusting.
Also, I had some genuine empathy for others, it was small at first but I decided to work on that. In my case I've turned myself (and my mind) around. Sociopathy/psychopathy is for losers, I think what I've achieved is rare but possible. I hung around with a lot of other sociopaths as a teenager, I know these people usually do have their own version of morals. I had a friend like this who was really quite loyal. He was a total theif, but wouldn't steal from me or someone he felt was poor or needy. He even ended up mugging people, but he rationalised it by only stealing from wealthy people. Sad really, he was totally neglected by his parents, a lot of abuse there. He did spend some time in prison, but has his own small trucking company now. I hope he has also nutured the goodness that was in him, and is leading a good life now.
Thank you for sharing your story and congratulations on turning your life around!
So basically you think you were developing a mental health disorder but through sheer will power reversed it? Doesn’t sound a little narcissistic to you?
@@LucaHornsby I don't think it's that extraordinary. I'm sure people do it all the time. I studied addiction at Uni recently, 70-80% of people with mild to moderate alcohol addiction kick the habit with no intervention. The main thing with change is the will to change, there's plenty of good advice out there you can dig into. Religion can also provide structure and help (through prayer) in my experience.
@@lundsweden Comparing kicking an addiction to kicking personality disorders reflects lack of understanding of both conditions. Saying sociopathy and psychopathy are for losers certainly shows you don’t know what you’re talking about. It’s unlikely we’ll ever see eye to eye tho, I personally view religious beliefs almost identically to psychotic delusions. Take care, congratulations on mastering psychology.
@@LucaHornsby Seems like you think you've mastered it! 😅
They are not always manipulative. Sometimes they are just angry demanding people who constantly demand and get angry at you.
Wrong. You need to study up on psychology b/c you are way off here. These ppl ALWAYS manipulate. THEY ARE CLUSTER B FOR F'S SAKE! Don't you understand what Cluster B's do? Time to read up and do some research - and not just on lazy Google!
I think some people with ASpd display will say their spouses, or relatives are narcissists or psychopaths. They never admit fault on social media.
Education of toxic personalities should be taught at school. Of course it never will be . Its kept hidden .
wow i thought my stalker ex was a narcissist, but he fits this one to an absolute Tee! 😮
merci Lise
They stalk you for years maybe even decades.
One day at a time and before you know it, you’ll have been sober 25 years!
@@LiseLeblanc thank you very much Lise.
When she started to list the traits, i was already out at the first lmao, by fourth i had already discarded it 100%
I am a little bit of every qualification listed
So I may just be an introvert with manic bipolar? This is kinda a relief..ive labeled myself antisocial for years but this video debunks that totally.
A lot people associate introversion with antisocial but “antisocial” in the context of mental illness relates to non-conformity to the norms, rules, laws of society and violation of the rights of others. Avoidant PD however does relate to social inhibition
Yea that's definately not me, aside from harming myself through drug use. However I am 25 days sober and am done with that life, thank you much Lise
Congrats on 25 days sober!!!
@@LiseLeblanc thank you much Lise, it doesn't sound like much, but after 25 Years it is monumental to me!!
Excellent, I'm not antisocial!
Best gift in 2023!
Hi, Lise.
Then sociopaths tend to be more cheaters and promiscuous than narcissists? I'd like to know your opinion.
I've been trying to figure out what's wrong with my husband, and I think I finally found it. I stay not because I love him or I'm trauma bonded or think I can change him. He's a terrible person who is incapable of real love, only using the people in his life to get what he wants. But we have a child together and I'm a stay at home mom with no money of my own so I'm just pretty much trapped. I'm in therapy and I don't love him anymore. I'm using him too. He's way better at this game than I am though. I can't seem to get ahead
I have this mental health issue and although it is true, I have hurt people people that I care about dearly. Nobody is perfect and I’ve learned from my mistakes. I often feel a little to no emotions. I can read people really well I think about things logically more so than other people I can separate my limited emotions, such as fear, anxiety, and do by doing that I can stay calm in tough situations. Although I do know that I have the power to blend in in groups and manipulate people I choose not to do that I love spreading positivity in the world, and I love uplifting my friends. I see it as a superpower that I have and I know how to use it for the benefits of my loved ones and everyone I want to be someone big one day.
You don’t have this disorder lol 😂
This is your diagnosis?
@@thepretender3814And how would u know..
Lise ...i believe I am a sociopath.I keep analysing myself for years now. What can i do to change it ?Thank you for your informations.
Thanks
I finally made the break from someone who ticks many of these boxes. Romantically at least, as he officially moved onto a “new” (hmm) supply. I don’t feel free though, as I know he would be angered that I stopped caving in. I wish i could magically relocate and have invisible powers, in case I saw him on the street 😅
I think NPD is the worst because there is no capacity for self reflection whereas psychopaths can do empathy and self reflection if they feel like it. Psychopaths will go to therapy to be better psychopaths. Narcs never go to therapy unless forced
Yes my friend just ended our friendship cause apparently her brain made her think that I was making it about my feelings. Yes because your splitting caused me discomfort and confusion cause the shit came out of nowhere . I was like WTF!!! So apparently I’m selfish so for me this was really unsettling so I cannot and will not be connected with someone who has these issues and ℹ understand tried to be compassionate and apologize yet that still wasn’t enough and then today saying she felt I made it about me. I mean u projected Your shitty mood oh me and It wasn’t okay it made me feel pretty bad and then I have my own triggers with rejection and abandonment so here we go!!! However I’m steadily in therapy but this right here was absolute madness. I’m grateful I got a universal call.
Are we born with this?
Or learned / or both ?
HPD / BPD / NPD / APD - I share a lot of these traits but as I get older my empathy levels grow
Diagnosed with bipolar and adhd as a child
I’m also a very successful entrepreneur and give back to my staff / community more than most employers because the guilt of seeing people struggle is real. My drive comes from this [guilt] and also low self esteem.
An excellent education for us novices. 👏
This is my (ex-ish) boyfriend to a T! Like, spot on dude…
Yup he’s in jail right now
I met this girl online. We met up in person and I knew her for about 3 years. She is from a different country and her behavior was off. She gives me that super charming vibe as well. She told me that she would only marry me. Not any other Americans because I’m different. lol ironically my name is Joshdifferent 🤣. Once I noticed that her vibe was off, I just decided to be friends with her. Now she has a new boyfriend who lives in New York, but she is asking me to marry her so she can get her papers. So now looking back I think that was her whole intention. but after a while, I started to think she was a sociopath based off of her behavior. my mother is a narcissist in my ex partner is a narcissist so I know a little bit about narcissism psychopath sociopath from my research. I’m like I don’t think she’s a narcissist but this video right here perfectly explains her behavior.
More like the fine line between APD and Avoidant Attachment
Maybe it's both?
What's the difference between antisocial personality disorder and narcissism?
What if it's a loved one who is diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder &/or Antisocial Personality Disorder? How can you help them?
There was no link above x
Yes, and they may manipulate other people to do their deeds, including crime and stealing from the victim.
Excellent presentation- you say you are not aiming to demonize people with this condition but unfortunately much of your description seems to do just that. How can we speak to and of people with this diagnosis with some hope for change or is treatment also very bleak territory for folks having ASPD?
I think the problem with most of us is that we never get to the point of wanting to change, any attempt at guidance is seen as disrespect or disappointment so unless the individual wants to change they wouldn’t seek help in the first place
She's stating facts. That's not demonizing.
@@IndigoCosmic you are correct. I am looking at this as a mental health professional. Diagnoses are necessary but they cannot be a left for dead sort of practice is my thinking or perhaps naive hope. What if this is a person in your family for example, is there any way to help them which may be effective and also leave you unscathed?
I have hard time to cooperate at work and it seems that it's easy for me to give up. 😢 But I am too emotional person, conscience is always with me. I easily feel guilt and I don't want to watch bloody stuff movies because I have very low tolerance of pain that if I watch bloody stuff I feel the pain. My problem are, it is easy for me to give up, I'm not good at work, lack of motivation. 😢 Can someone can recommend something that can help to get motivation? Or those people experience of having lack of motivation, what did you do? 😢
What about a child/teen who has all these traits except for the witty charm? Are all sociopaths charming?
Not always, aspd is a spectrum and the charm is usually how people with aspd try and I guess for lack of better words blend in
I have ASPD and my relationship with my girlfriend is great. You, indeed, can have this disorder and be in a healthy relationships. We have problems, like all relationships, but overall we have.a very good relationship.
ok
Whew. Not that. Had to be sure. Sounds like my brother though. He is so charming and can get women in minutes Takes me years. My family thinks he is the greatest guy after, even after he stole $10k from me and acted like he was the victim.
Yep. That's it all right.
I have a restraining order against of ex of 10 years ago and they are still stalking me with her flying monkey friends after serial cheating on me. She has an extreme case of ASPD and completely destroyed my life.
Would ODD in childhood grow into aspd as an adult, especially when comorbid w adhd?
As far as I understand, based on child services and therapists letting me know this information, odd and adhd combined with an unstable and generally bad environment can develop into aspd. It requires environment to shift the child towards sociopathy. The genes are there already. Environment plays a big role, but not all of it.
@@paulmryglod4802 thank u for chiming in. The info u shared makes a lot of sense! The person in question grew up in an unstable home w a sister who has severe bpd (it's likely he has this too, as per his behaviors, family history, etc) and parents whom weren't very involved. He had a ton of health issues as a kid, skipped school as much as he could, had various addictions starting in childhood, was bullied, etc. The main thing tho is that he refused help as a teen and kid and his adult behaviors are very concerning and detrimental to his and his loved ones wellbeing ... And still, he refuses to get help.
My ex was diagnosed with intermittent explosive disorder but I think he's a malignant narcissistic sociopath.
My friend Has antisocial with narcissist personlity traits
Do they also con themselves, put in other words, are they self aware, even care about themselves? Or are they akin to a machine ?
It seems many victims also have all the external qualities the ill member of the opposite sex is seeking. That would put most of the victims - at least initially - in the younger demographic(s), as beauty naturally fades and the unkept (or not) woman loses her sex appeal and power.....
Wow.
a lot are police officers too
I love your channel and I'm learning a ton from you. So I mean no disrespect by bringing this up....
Dr. Rosenberg who I mentioned in a comment on another one of your videos believes that the covert narcissist is a combination of personality disorders NPD and ASPD.
From my experience, I think Rosenberg is onto something and as I listen to you expound on ASPD it strengthens that opinion. You are talking about my ex wife to the jot and tittle.
I have been struggling to understand what ASPD feels like from the inside.. With the other Cluster B disorders, there is a lot of acting out done in response to emotional disregulation and egoism.. It is really unpleasant most of the time. Outside of wanting money or to mess with someone else for kicks, do PW ASPD act out according to their inner turmoil?
I might be able to shed some light. I’m diagnosed with aspd, so I guess I’m technically a sociopath. It’s really not too complicated. I have less empathy then a normal person and higher impulsivity. I might choose to do some shady shit without thinking because it can be difficult to stop myself. Afterwards I might not feel bad because the lack of empathy. That cycle can get really out of control, so I have to be extremely careful with how I conduct myself.
@@girth_goblin BUT do you consider yourself to have inner turmoil? Like what is it that makes you do what you do? We know there is boredom, impulsivity, recklessness - but WHAT seems to be fueling that or what is underneath that? Is all that covering over a vulnerability or does it feel more like you are disorganized or chaotic inside? OR do you feel grandiose or manic inside and youre just looking to fuel and expand those sensations with little regard for consequences? After asking these questions it seems like the root is a dyregulated nervous system perhaps from a childhood of neglect where the child had little regulation and consistency from a parent in addition to lack of structure, discipline and consequences that would regulate morality and behavioral choices.
@@krisymar1 truthfully I don’t really know. The impulsivity and lack of empathy are definitely the root of the problem, but idk what causes that. It’s just how I’ve always been. It does run in my family, and I was neglected emotionally as a child. I’ve also had some pretty serious drug problems, which has definitely made it worse. I guess it’s a combination of all that stuff
@@girth_goblin did you have consequences as a child? It’s pretty cool that you can talk about it like this to shed some light. I’ve always wondered if it’s possible to have civil discussions between people with and without personality disorders so that we can find a way to possibly live better lives without such trauma and suffering. It’s so costly to society. Anyway thanks for the honesty and willingness to talk about it.
@@krisymar1 not really, but I’ve definitely experienced consequences as an adult. Addiction, depression, loneliness. Granted it’s all my own fault, but it doesn’t make those demons any less real. At the end of the day I’m still a person, and I want to be loved and understood like anyone else. I think most people with personality disorders are capable of having an open conversation, but it depends on the person. I’m relatively low on the spectrum, but there are some people you should seriously stay away from. This disorder can get real weird real fast. I’ve done some pretty messed up shit tbh
This is my ex wife although relatively mild case I guess. Her mom is NPD and much more ego driven
Either are toxic, so shouldn't we just avoid them?
Are introvert aspd
That's pretty accurate. On the bright side, we do get better with age but usually after 40, and not always.
sure cant be both
My ex husband in one video!
Reach out for help that's comical. There is no one... to help even if there is understanding there is no help for people dealing with an antisocial boss or other antisocial people.
And people like this therapist are the reason that people with ASPD don’t reach out for help either.
I know of someone with every single one of those characteristics
And I'll admit that I too have shown a few of these characteristics. But I've never in my life made a career out of conning people or just basically being negatively impactful to other people. Although I have negatively impacted people. It was never my intentions to do so
And a handful of people who show a majority of those
My now ex definitely has NPD ( he meets 8 of the 9 criteria in the DSM) and I strongly suspect he also has ASPD. He is quick to anger, physically abusive, and spoke of always being filled with rage. But, he is not good at reading people. All this, but he has a successful career.
A tick sucks blood.
OMG my stepdaughter is all this and sadistic.....thank
You aren’t a professional, you can’t say that she is. It’s just your perception. You prolly don’t see clearly.
@@zackeroniboy1You seem to be projecting. Unless you're a peeping Tom, peering through their curtains, you have no idea.
Holy Sh!t this is my wife! Its so hard to differntiate between aspd and npd. I'm trying my best to figure out how to get out. How can I induce discardment? Grey rocking, stonewalling, lining them up with a blind date? Hmmm, I do have a passport
10:35
Some borderlines psychotic
I suffer from social anxiety and demonstrate aspd symptoms. Now what?
Then you dont have anti sosical only anxiety 💪 i hate most people but there is no problem for me to be one off the people when needed.
I will blend inn and do whats needed when i need to if you have anxiety then you have it i don't give a fuxk what people think off me and if they try to stand in my way i will use my size and strengt to get my way. 💪 its not my fault i am an result off my youth and the world that raised me
@@tpn922you can have both, I have severe anxiety in social interactions, but honestly I’m up to no good. I feel no guilt about what happens to others unless it affects me… I can say the most mean things and feel nothing but numb and sometimes happy about what I said. I’ve not been diagnosed with aspd, but they can clash together
I trained me to my ASPD as a toddler and love it.
But I never intentionally harm family or friends, same my ASPD friends never want this.
Avoid harm or fraud to the inner circle is our difference to that weak narcs predators!
And we proud about it!!!
I need help i have cluster b im incredibly intelligent in every general matter im a asshole
am very social, humble, empathie person what is worst scenario of narcissistic, terrorist, hypocrite, pervers,prostuties, double or ssmulti make faced standards, criminelles, robbers, thiefs, liars, manipulators,( drama, conflict, chaos, scammers, frauders organisétors, creators, merceneres crime organisators
Listening to your in depth description of Psychopathy to me it would seem that such a way of life does not align with the teachings of Christ, lacking in love, compassion and forgiveness?
In my opinion, someone who is Sociopathic is far worse for people's well being than someone who is Psychopathic. Because of that fundamental aspect of being anti-social.
The Psychopath just doesn't care about people. The Sociopath actively goes out of their way to hurt people. Which is far more destructive and hurtful to people than just not caring.
The Psychopath is easily just as capable of hitting people. But it is only a consequence of their "means to an end". They're not doing just to hurt people. The Sociopath does it for the sole purpose of hurting people
WHAT IS YOUR ANALYSIS OF O.J SIMPSON. HOW COME HE NEVER STAYS IN PRISON ???? ❤😂🎉
Bored errr line
How are they able to lead support groups when people are being vulnerable and lie saying that just because they have aspd doesn't mean they don't have empathy and they blame others for not wanting to have anything to do with them, claiming that the other people are ignorant. It baffles my mind how they use vulnerable people to keep themselves relevant or entertained and need validation from other to make them feel "normal". The lady said that her rabbit was stupid in front of everyone and others seem entertained by her. Not me. I'm not going back to that group.
She called her rabbit stupid and from that you determined she has ASPD? Tf you on about?
once again sociopathy does not have a clear neaming aspd does psychopathy does (cluster B does)
Another type of evil person that people should avoided at all costs
'evil'
xD
Most of them are on mental disability too because they're a danger.