ᴅᴀɪsʏ & ᴛᴏᴍ ʙᴜᴄʜᴀɴᴀɴ || "I never loved him?"
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- Опубликовано: 6 сен 2024
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"I was such a fool for believing that you
Could change all the ways you've been living
But you just couldn't stop"
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I think this might be the only Daisy and Tom video on youtube.
Personally, I think she belongs with her husband.
-Bluebell
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I believe Daisy belongs with her husband too but, not in a romantic sense. Not like "oh look how cute they are" but how they easily discard people like yesterday's fashion and cover up the tracks with their money. As the quote near the end says "Tom and Daisy are careless people" and although Gatsby was no exception i believe he deserved a better ending.
Poor Gatsby couldn’t see that she was in love with her husband. In my opinion, she never wanted anything serious with Gatsby. I feel like she just wanted to make Tom pay for how he treated her in the past. The minute he promised to treat her better, she left Gatsby and didn’t look back.
This was meant to be tragic. It was never a love story!
@@141kujoe I never said it was a love story. I'm saying that he deserved a better demise. This when I watched it wasn't about the romance it was more like "Money speaks but money can only do so much."
I think the kind of love that is an obsession with a person, is not really about love at all. It is about loving an image that you have in your head, being devotional not to that person but to that image. You are obsessed with someone, because you obv. Admire him/her but that is to satisfy a part of you that is unsatisfied, this kind of love is selfish because it is about self pleasure. It is about gaining the approval of the other, trying to fill a void that you have within you. So people should stop romantizing obsession, because it is a way to self love through the acceptance of the other at the end of the day and its not the romanticism that makes you climb mountains for this particular human being, it is the approval you need from them, the love you need from them that will make you feel satisfied. This is a selfish love and this was gatsby's love. So people should stop blaming daisy for choosing Tom (her kids' father). gatsby's love was never about daisy but more about himself.
If Tom didn't feel anything for Daisy he would have left her long ago, and it goes the same for Daisy. Even when she had her chance with Gatsby she still couldn't let Tom go. Tom and Daisy are each other's safe havens when the world gets too loud and out of their control. It's love, but it's a sad love, a love that will never truly get fulfilled.
Codependent goals.
@@ethanshusband1684 Hahaha Right!
its toxic
Totally agree
Narcissists' that love themselves more than anything, perfect for each other
The different beliefs of love are interesting to analyze. Gatsby believed in soulmates, and he thought Daisy would reciprocate, which of course she didn’t. That I believe is his downfall, not the failure to realize the passage of time. If she had believed Gatsby was her soulmate, they would have ended up together.
I’m interested to know what you think daisy’s belief of love is. If Gatsby believed in soul mates, what about Daisy? How did she see love?
@@bluebell8557 That’s pretty complicated. I think Daisy’s belief in love changed from the time she met Gatsby to the plot’s present. She probably had a view of love where she wanted to be with someone that was a good fit for her back then (though not to the extreme of soulmates). She definitely loved Gatsby more when she got married looking at how she reacted the day of her wedding to that letter. You can argue that Gatsby didn’t take into account how Daisy had changed over time as his failure to realize the passage of time (his traditionally-attributed flaw), but to me her belief of love is a function of time along with other variables.
During the plot’s time period, Daisy's belief in love probably changed to where she would’ve wanted to just be with someone with more stability after experiencing more of life. She knew Tom had been unfaithful all along, but since she saw how Gatsby had made his fortune, she decided it was just probably easier to stay with Tom even though it was clear Gatsby was more devoted to her than Tom was over those five years. It seems pretty clear that Gatsby’s view of Daisy being his soulmate never changed over those five years.
I saw in another reply of yours where you say you had plenty of evidence showing if Tom hadn’t been unfaithful, Daisy would have never cheated on him with Gatsby. Just curious to hear what those moments are.
@@stuggie7881 oh no I meant that there's plenty of proof that Daisy actually loved Tom and isn't planning on leaving him. Here's my interpretation: Daisy loved Tom, maybe even saw him as a soul mate. I truly believe Daisy loved Tom more than she loved Gatsby. Daisy Loved Tom and that's why she married him "I've never seen a girl so in love with her husband" but she turned on him after Tom turned out to be unfaithful and had a woman "in New York". Also, in the garden, after Gatsby tells her they need to tell Tom, she says this: "remember how much fun we had? I don't know why we can't just have fun like that again" that line always struck me. It showed that all she was looking for was a good time and to feel wanted. Another scene that really struck me was the confrontation scene. While Gatsby was going off "she never loved anyone but me" and "she never loved you", Daisy is terribly quiet. Not saying a single word. No one comes close to Tom in her eyes, not even Gatsby.
The reason I believe she wouldn't have cheated was because its obvious she married Tom for love, not money. So she would have no reason to cheat because she would've been happy. This is proven because she leaves Gatsby as soon as Tom tells her "he'll take better care of her from now on" and "let me take care of things". This leads me to believe that if he initially treated her better, she would have been more than happy with him and wouldn't need to seek love and acceptance and fun from someone else.
@@bluebell8557 Those are some good points. It’s been a while since I saw the movie, and a REALLY long time since I read the book, so I’ve been basing my analysis on the movie. To me, her reaction to Gatsby’s letter the day of her wedding showed that she probably preferred Gatsby over Tom. Does “preferring to marry” really mean being more in love? Not necessarily. On top of that it’s hard to compare Daisy’s feelings for Tom vs. her feelings for Gatsby because I don’t think Daisy and Gatsby knew each other for a long time when they first met five years before. Daisy and Tom clearly had spent much more time together, 4+ years up to the plot’s time period, so in that sense she loved him more because they were able to develop their relationship much more deeply. Gatsby seems to be that ex or that gut feeling about someone you’ve met that you thought had great potential, but it just didn’t work out in the end.
@@stuggie7881 yesss exactlyyy. I think by that time when she received the letter maybe she did love Gatsby more but by the time they started their affair, I think she was more in love with Tom. Probably because of the reasons you’ve mentioned. Time and all that.
Tom and Daisy deserved each other and belonged to each other. Whether it was real love or not, who knows, but they are the only 2 who spoke their language and the only 2 who could tolerate each other long term.
Tom was a cheater
@@EdbauEsteban and so was Daisy. I agree with the og comment, they deserve each other, real love or not and the only ones who will ever understand each other.
At the end of the day they belong to one another in Hell they're 2 peas in a pod but in dysphoria.
As if that justifies them killing people and destroying people’s lives. Yeah they spoke each others language- the love language of hell.
“They deserved each other “
For all of you saying that Tom would've left Daisy if he never loved her and if she never loved him if you actually read the book Daisy was a catholic and never believed in divorce. Tom was only with Daisy because for his image and reputation, his mistress Myrtle came from the poor while Daisy was his image of wealth that's the only reason why he stayed with her.
Daisy wasn’t catholic, Tom only said that to justify why he wouldn’t leave her to Myrtle.
I saw the movie and then I read the book. It changed my perception about Daisy and Gatsby's relationship....Daisy was an obsession in all aspects....and she just got back to him because of hurt for her husband's cheating....but they had so different views of what this rekindling was ...
So many people hate Daisy but part of me pities her because you can tell in this scene 3:37 she’s going to have a lot of regrets. I hope she would find a way to forgive herself and make peace with the past.
She looks smug to me
Who pities Daisy?!!
@@whitneyonoberhie2439 nobody
They truly deserve eachother. They have very much in common and I certainly believe Gastby deserved a better ending but him not able to move on or take no as an answer was his demise
Edit: The reason I believe daisy and Tom deserved each other was because they were fueled by selfishness and craved pleasure. Even if it was temporary.
Yess he should’ve left a married woman alone. Sometimes when you believe someone is meant for you or is your soulmate, you forget that they’re their own people who might want something else for themselves.
@@bluebell8557He did try to win her back…..and she chose to stay with someone who treats her like a possession and cheats on her repeatedly. In the end Gasby still “wins”….he became a rich man and when he’s ready could chose whoever he wants.
Honestly, I think Carey Mulligan had much better chemistry with Joel Edgerton than she did with Leonardo DiCaprio. Mulligan even said she would like to work with Edgerton again, especially in a film about Daisy and Tom's relationship.
Wow! Cool! Never knew she said that.
I think the kind of love that is an obsession with a person, is not really about love at all. It is about loving an image that you have in your head, being devotional not to that person but to that image. You are obsessed with someone, because you obv. Admire him/her but that is to satisfy a part of you that is unsatisfied, this kind of love is selfish because it is about self pleasure. It is about gaining the approval of the other, trying to fill a void that you have within you. So stop romantizing obsession, because it is a way to self love through the acceptance of the other at the end of the day and its not the romanticism that makes you climb mountains for this particular human being, it is the approval you need from them, the love you need from them that will make you feel satisfied. This is a selfish love and this was gatsby's love. So stop blaming daisy for choosing Tom (her kids' father) gatsby's love was never about daisy but more about himself.
I never saw this movie bc the actual book was so tragic. This video is fucking fantastic though, it really makes me want to see this
To be honest, I think that she never spends real love on Gatsby and just want to revenge on his two-timer husband, poor man, Tom was true, she loved him and his money and when Tom promised to treat her better, she left Gatsby without any moment hesitated.
daisy kinda manipulated gatsby, she wanted to be with him in some sort of sense to get away from the control that is her husband, but it didn't last very long. they were never really made for each other since they were both cheating (both of them were pretty selfish) as shown here. i honestly don't think she should be with anyone but she doesn't have that sense of independency so erm idk. but i loved the video despite my opinion being different from yours. i love the song choice as well.
Omg thank you!! I totally agree with this! Daisy so used Gatsby to get back at Tom. To me that was obvious. I never really considered her being on her own. I definitely think she should be on her own over her being with Tom if he doesn’t change. That relationship can never be anything other than toxic if Tom doesn’t actually change his ways and stop cheating.
Daisy would never leave Tom, even if she wasn't Catholic. And she wasn't selfish; her reputation would've been ruined. And that would reflect back on her daughter. So, she took the crumbs Tom threw at her. If it wasn't for her daughter, I think she would've chanced it.
Also, I hope Daisy was pregnant from her affair with Gatsby. And Gatsby's son would have inherited Tom's fortune. Serves Buchanan right.
🌼 Hauntingly beautiful🌠
Tom was a cheater... Gatsby never cheated
Beautifully made! I think I finally have to watch this movie 😘
oh you must
Gatsby shouldn't have come back to a married woman's life, he made a big mistake
💯🙌🏻
He should’ve went with someone else. Daisy is quite literally a villain alongside Tom.
Idk if he would want to live without her
I thinks Daisy belongs with her husband too. I love this video!
@@Tajjeeralak I genuinely believe she would've stayed if he didn't continue treating her like crap. I honestly think that she wouldn't have looked at Gatsby twice if Tom wasn't cheating on her and humiliating her like that. I have my own proof from the movie and the book but honestly everything is opened to interpretation.
At the end, Daisy realized what she was about to do to her and her daughter's reputations. And she knew by then, where Gatsby's money came from. But I do believe she would've walked, if not for her daughter.
She told her daughter to be silly little thing and marry well.
Tom and Daisy are careless and selfish
So is Gatsby
Surprisingly great music video! Fantastic job!
Sprightly Woodland Gnome thank you!!
Best Edit I've ever seen for the great Gatsby
Omg thank you!!
I absolutely love this video! I'm one of the odd ones, too, that love Daisy and Tom together. Do you think Tom loved Daisy at all? I think Daisy truly does love Tom. Gatsby is just someone she turns to for affection and attention Tom is directing elsewhere.
For sure!! I think they both loved each other very much! I think he’s just one of those guys who can’t stick to one woman and Daisy isn’t the kind of girl to overlook something like that. As for Daisy and Gatsby, she only went to him to make Tom pay. I truly believe that if Tom wasn’t unfaithful, Daisy would have never cheated on him with Gatsby. They hint that fact quite repeatedly in the movie and book actually. That she doesn’t actually love Gatsby and she isn’t planning on leaving Tom. My video tries to highlight those moments when their love for each other really shows in the movie. I especially love the moment when Tom realises he’s won “ please Tom I can’t stand it anymore” and runs out of the room while Gatsby stands and begs for her.
I believe Tom and daisy love each other in some twisted way
Codependent goals lmao
Give not thy strength unto women, nor thy ways to that which destroyeth kings. Proverbs 31:3 (KJV)
Daisy is a horrible person.
Beautiful edit!
it’s true that daisy never loved Tom instead she was always in love with jay mr gastby. But in my opinion she should’ve been married to jay and not to Tom lots of good memories with her and jay
I actually believe she loved Tom, not Gatsby. At least not when the affair took place.
I actually believe she loved Tom and never loved Jay because if she did love him she should have left Tom and married Jay after he got rich but she never did and she didn't even come to his funeral and let she also let Jay take the fall for accident so its pretty clear she never love Jay
I love this music video
thanks for making this. tom x daisy my favorite ship in TGG!
What's the song?
White Mustang by Lana Del Rey
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I want daisy to be with gaspy
Aku sibuk, aku tdk pernah menyukai dendi ,,
Bila mereka berkeliaran disekitarku, semua karena dia melakukannya tanpa izinku , bukan pula di bawah perintahku,
I didn't hear anything because of the song.
Turn on the subs