Why Modern DATING Is RUINED For Average Men?
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"I don't respond to messages I get". Men don't get messages bro. That's the point he was making.
She literally proved his point lmao
I think that’s what she was saying though. She was saying he was right. She didn’t articulate it the best way though.
Literally, had nothing to do with the point he was making. Actually, it more so helped his point
@@TimXMan1000ignore my comment 😂
Maybe men should stop casting such a wide net to get any girl willing to respond to them so they can have sex... if every guy is messaging the majority of women, it's not hard to see why the disparity exists.
You gotta give it to social media, only fans, feminism, and the courts. They have DESTROYED dating/ marriage for GOOD.
No they haven't. But if you think like this then perhaps it has been destroyed for you. Those who are wise will figure out how to do it right and find a good person trying to do the same.
@jus4000kicks keep telling yourself that my friend. In a world of digital prostitution, IG, no consequences, a world full of simps. Abortions are at all-time highs, dating is destroyed.
@@trueunderdog191 If you only look at all the bad of course you will despair. But there is good happening too. People are starting to wake up because things have gotten so bad. Exposing is happening and gonna happen left and right. As Aragorn says in The Lord of the Rings - "There is always hope."
Marriage is dead, dating is dying let them die and let them rest the modern new solution is Ai android wives with built in artificial wombs we have to keep up with the times o go extinct
@@jus4000kickshow tf has only fans not ruined dating lmao. Sometimes a girl won't be emotionally available unless you pay up and convince her your not a loser. Like a mf wil lbs good looking and she won't let you hit u less you pay up and convince her. Like damn. Tf.
I love how girls go “we all dont love a-holes and toxic behavior it’s just the chicks YOURE picking” I’ve dated plenty of girls, I used to be a big player and treated girls bad and they loved me I got quite a lot of girls then when I grew up and started treating women respectfully (never got clingy or nothing just stopped bad behaviors ) and women became suddenly way harder to get. What I always tell girls who say it’s just SOME girls who act this way is this...” ok tell me how many girls u know in long term relationships with good sweet romantic nice men who treat their wife super well..ready..go”
Kinda true
The end question me😅
Facts
I am a nice guy beeing in 7y relationship with a hot successful woman and I treat her nice. But I live in berlin. Maybe women tick differently her in Europe.
It's true. And that's the reason why 10% of guys get most of the girls. Because they are good looking AND smooth talkers. Don't ever believe what a woman says. Only what she does. And most women I know won't date "normal" and "nice" guys like me. That's just a lie they tell you so that they don't look like whores. I'm 6'1", weigh 195lbs, super fit, have a good job, dress well, have good hygiene, nice smile, well spoken, friendly, etc. Yet I can't seem to get dates with any quality women. Whenever I try to use dating apps, the only women who will match with me are fat women, divorce women with kids, or old women. And when I try to ask a woman out in person, most of the time I get shot down or ghosted. I feel like I have more success online because I can pretend to be a "bad boy" and act flirtatious and thrown in sexual inuendo. Where as in person I would be too embarrassed to act that way.
There is something you can do besides "lvl up" as a man and its travelling. Simply just travel you'll really change as a man, and the women around the world are lets just say.. different.
In a year I'm about to take an epic trip. A cruise around the world to 66 countries followed by a road trip to all states
Well, there's two things wrong with your statement. One women around the world do the same shit, and they have been doing this shit for hundreds of years. The same reasons they cheat are the same in africa as they are in america as they are in europe as they are anywhere else.
Secondly not everybody can afford to just travel
Would be nice. I have nobody to run my business if I go overseas.
100% agreed. I stayed the same, then went overseas and had no issues dating 8's and 9's. Same physical shape and fitness level, same rizz, same everything and I put in 50% less work with a foreign girl that's an 8-9. In the US, I was working 10x's harder for an average 5 American girl.
MWAH
Nothing G*y
I'm a 31yr old man, 6'1", fit, athletic, earning high 6-figures, family oriented, I have my own place, I have a car and still no woman wants me. I get rejected left and right. I respectfully flirt with them, I make them laugh, I'm chivalrous during dates and yet none of them stick around. I always get that dreadful text in the middle of the week spontaneously: "I don't think we have chemistry" or "I don't see this going anywhere" or "You're a great guy, you'll find someone"... It hurts me a lot. I feel like it'll never happen for me. My loneliness is painfully crippling... I find it hard to focus at work sometimes. Sometimes I cry, sometimes I wallow in my misery. Everyone around me has their person except for me and it just hurts. It hurts my soul everyday from the moment I wake up but somehow I keep on keeping on because I still have that tiny shred of hope.... who knows... maybe I'm just fooling myself with the "hope part".
Before you ask - I'm not a virgin and I've had FWBs before. I don't like that lifestyle anymore as it makes me feel empty.
❤
Go to sharks
Watching the video I realized how much damage porn has done to humanity
Why should a man pursue her? She's the one who should do the pursing
They will if you're good enough as a man
Hi
I'm an older guy (I just turned 40) I remember when I was in my 20s & trying to meet a woman from dating apps (over 10 years ago when it was just starting to get popular) 20-29 year old women rarely replied or they would vanish after a few messages for no reason even if they told me I was cute etc. Out of the ones that seemed genuinely interested, most of them turned out to be catfishing, or had really bad issues (severely bi-polar, alcoholic etc) or they flaked on meeting. It was so difficult. When I got to my 30s, it was much easier for me to find a good looking woman that was willing to date me, but they were all single moms at that point.
2:00 posture check is crazy
" If money and appearances were no longer God, we would all be happier" ME
THEY GOT RHINO IS DI BIH
The idea of having options in your DMs whether you entertain them or not is what naturally brings a level of security to a person’s subconscious. I support the idea that she doesn’t entertain the men’s DMs however her(or anyone really) security within knows that the messages are there, it cements one’s confidence as a desired and valued person. A person deemed valuable gets to set a much higher expectation on what they’re looking for as opposed to someone who’s in the constant rat race of trying to make something of themselves. The big disconnect is women don’t realize the subconscious gratification and validation they internally build up from the attention of men who are screaming for attention because they themselves are usually invisible to society.
Us men, if we get 1 complement from a stranger of how handsome we are or how “good” we look, that compliment will sit in our brain for the next day or so, constantly fueling our confidence of wow, I was recognized! It’s like a drug. A high. You feel amazing. What happens when you continuously do drugs? Your body builds tolerance and needs more.
Women for the most part (not in all cases) can get a compliment and either it will be forgotten 5 seconds later depending on the attraction of the person, or in many cases (depending on how the person delivered it) will be offended or bothered for even being complimented.
I think I speak for most of us average men when I say although I’m not in need of girls all in my DMs fueling my subconscious ego, I’d probably be a bit healthier mentally in times of my lows knowing there are people who desire me even if it was for superficial reasons. There are many men who will live their entire lives completely invisible to the dating pool and society and many men need to push themselves through mental and physical adversities just for an opportunity to be seen.
I love this topic though. Healthy debates on both ends
That is a great comment, thank you for sharing your perspective. I was thinking you were shallow for basing your confidence level in wether women complimented you or not but that last paragraph explains a lot.
There have always been men who never got women all throughout history. So maybe don't focus on women. maybe just look after yourself, your body, your mind and focus on happiness. I am wondering if starting a spiritual journey would be helpful to you. Ask yourself bigger question about the universe, expand your mind, there is so much to this world other than women. I understand it is part of human nature to want to partner up and breed but if causes nothing but stress maybe explore your soul and not worry about your physical being and material things here on earth which will mean nothing when you die.
How is she a dating coach????
The amazing thing is that if you're an average guy, you likely have little to no friends, you're single, you're lonely, you medicate by playing video games and/or watching porn, no one cares about you or what you're going through and when you do speak publicly about how hard it is to be an average guy you're shouted down, ridiculed or insulted for speaking up in the first place. None of the popular advice people give you actually helps *you.* It's to make you conform to other people's expectations and gaslight you into thinking it's normal for people to have such casual disdain for you if you don't. In reality the advice given to lonely men is to be of service. As if asking a man to be of service without appreciation or reciprocation is somehow virtuous instead of manipulative. It's wild how much people hate average men.
Don't be average.
How do you not have friends? Almost everyone has cultivated a group of friends since elementary school and added a few through work. Hang out with the people you know and cut back on the computer time.
@@kennethsmith6367that’s what hes explaining. It’s greatly discouraged to interact with society as an average man. Everything around you tells you your a problem to everybody. In office work, you’re not supposed to talk to female coworkers, your colleagues are too busy “leveling up” to add you to their list of issues.
And blue collar just takes the lowest caliber they can get and get involved with drugs. Only the foremen or leads have any success, but talk to them. They’re all gettin divorced or have drug problems
@@khanhcao3123 Math wasn't your strong suit?
@scottiedpoy8508 excuses is your reason to play victim?
As a single guy for years I can say loneliness is crushing and women have no idea how good they have it. They get so much attention so easily.
Man up g
Yes but they will hate when ugly guys give them attention, they just want Chads and Tyrones attention ! ;-)
why are you single.
Getting attention from men (if you’re attractive enough) doesn’t mean you’re not lonely. Women have relationships with other women to not feel lonely. Men need to be there for each other and not depend on women for that
@@4SChris they don't just ignore ugly men, even average or only slightly attractive men have a difficult time getting ladies attention. Until their mid thirties. Then those women are single moms and will maybe "settle" for an average guy. I know this first hand. In my 30s it's easier, but the ladies are damaged g00ds by then or looking for a guy to help raise kids that aren't his.
The dating coach: "Just attract the right women"
Like clearly she doesnt know how hard/impossible that is
She doesn’t understand there no way the average guy can “attract” a women by doing nothing. She’s coming from her point of view where’re just existing attracts guys and then she can chose after 🤦🏽♂️
He literally said he was a nice person, that nice guy attracted NOBODY. A lot of women find nice boring...
It’s not hard whatsoever
She don’t have a penis, simple
@@tombeswag7764obviously it is
Normal men are way lonelier than they would admit. They can have tons of friends and partying all the time but are literally invisible when it comes to intimacy.
lol, now keep that all the same, but minus any of the tons of friends and any of the partying, that describes most men, most PEOPLE, accurately today, in my experience.
Loneliness is one of those things that people tend to admit to honestly when polled anonymously. When you're lonely, you don't get the sense that anyone else is when observing people in public. It seems like your loneliness is unique to you, and that there is something fundamentally wrong with you, when there isn't.
People will bully men for being lonely. They also bully them for being virgins. Why do you think the term "incel" was created? It's an insult designed to humiliate boys. They hate them for who they are and what they are. That's the real truth and that's why boys don't admit they're lonely or virgins. They get rejected for it. Pretty f**ked up if you ask me.
That’s pretty much me I have offers but there all grenades or hoes 🤦🏻♂️
@@KeloTheGodFax
I feel sorry for anyone who paid that dating coach for any advice. 😂
The female dating coach I think I paid for:
"stand this way, walk like this, approach her from this side, say this, don't say that, look at her this way, don't look that way, ok, now do this..."
The female dating coach you get that you paid for:
"So, go to Gucci, get a shirt, be yourself, smile! You'll be surrounded in women in no time, like it works for me with men!"
It’s like paying the fish for fishing lessons lol
Wait, she's a dating coach? Lol
If you paying a woman for dating advice you already failed 😂😂😂
Back in my day we learned the game from our older brothers , older male cousins , grandpas , dads, neighborhood pimps . These guys aren’t around anymore to teach the game and not everyone had one to begin with
These women telling men to "level up" is disgusting. They dont want to help build something together. They just want to come in & enjoy the fruits of a man's hard earned labor. They're leeches, & then they wonder why these succesful men don't respect them.
They wait at the finish line for the Winner of the Race. It's gross
@@internettuffguy1197 It's funny that women say how terrible men are, when men simply accept women for who they are. No guy has lofty expectations of women. I see men all the time who are fit & good looking with a woman who's very clearly let herself go. They only have a negative perception of men because they want the guy who's worked his way up from nothing, & now he expects his investments in himself to pay off. Yet the minute you expect anything from a woman, you're a misogynist.
Maybe levelling up is a 2 way street
You’re putting it all on us. I can flip your argument and say men are just looking for a woman to fix them. Why on Earth would I want a loser with a cartoon profile picture who doesn’t have money and isn’t good looking when I could find a guy I admire? What would you choose in my situation mr incel?
@@Sebastian-px3blbut they are perfect remember? Lmao they cant level up if they all 10's😂
so essentially , women LOVE abusive men , but complain when men are abusive...you cant make this shh up...😵💫🙄
The worse you are the more they love you
😂😂😂😂
Women really DO look for the worst men they can find!
No, girls like that need psychiatric help
They love the sex abusive men give them. They are bored by the ‘good guy’.
You can do anything but bore a woman.
Average Joe doesn’t have a prayer anymore in the dating world.
Men actually pay her for advice.. life can’t be that easy
Women aren't attracted to desperate men, but her clients are clearly desperate men.
But women aren't attracted to nice men either. It's not just desperation. I don't need one.
They're simps, instead of paying a guy who's good with women, they'll pay a woman that way they can get close to talking to a woman LMFAO
Her advice sounds horrible. One match a week for a man is horrible. Out of the 10 girls a dudes matches with he MAYBE gets a date with one.
@eventydefallacy8464 I agree and I said date, a date with a girl could literally just mean you being her free food for the evening while she hooks up with her ex right after
They pay to be noticed by her.
Every time that dating coach gives advice for men its always an L. I cant believe people pay her.
Which one refers to there self as a dating coach❓
you know what's funny is lots of dating coaches specially women are leaving their jobs as they complain that women complain to much and ask for to much.
@@tevin6536 just watch the video its not hard to find out who it is.
@@tevin6536 the ugliest one. Or red hair.
If you want to catch the fish, you don't ask the fish, but you ask from fisherman.
Level up huh? Okay. The problem with leveling up by the time we do level up, the women move in and think they're entitled to everything we had to grind to build all by ourselves. Unconditional love doesn't exist for men, it's all conditional. That's why real relationships are the young kids that meet and stay together for life. I envy them.
Level up so you can get a flogged out chick
@@MrMr-ws3tv Pretty much in a nutshell. Haram.
Last two sentences hit deep
Not even that, we’re “leveling” up for women that are engaging in casual hook ups, have unlimited options, and have outrageously high body counts.
Western women are not worthy of a man who's leveled up. They're used up
I’ve given up on dating personally. I’m a good looking dude making 100K+ but my social life took a hit to achieve that… What hurts me is I’m a trauma survivor and saw a ton of DV growing up. So the fact women want “toxicity” and “mean” guys just vibes me the wrong way. I don’t want to continue the cycle I grew up jn
or you know....dont pursue girls that have an instagram account?
The dating game is hard for girls and boys. Whether they know it or not, girls are looking for love. They want the boy/man to stand for something. The problem is that without religion,/ Christianity the only thing that boys/men can stand for, is themselves, or sport or work or some other activity.
I’m in the same position, I found it easier to get girls when I was in college and had more of a social life. Now I just make money, fuck high end escorts and drive fun cars. In in my late 20s and it’s even difficult to find kind, friendly girls. I can get girls but the female mantra has shifted and it’s not worth it anymore with American girls. I’m looking at finding a girl from Europe or something similar
@@ninjedi6710good luck with that my guy. There’s a reason guys can’t get dates, girls have the ultimate validation tool: the internet. They get all the validation and attention from strangers on the internet. These hoes are broken and it’s going to take them reaching their 30s with wine and cats to see the error of their ways
@@lostat400girls have dating on easy mode. Women are never lonely. They will never face true loneliness.
“I like when my man is obsessed with me”
Never, ever be obsessed with your girl… that is a formula for disaster, because that guy is just a desperate simp, who the woman will lose respect for, when he keeps putting her on a pedestal. She’s the one who needs to be obsessed with you. Period.
If someone is obsessed with you, they have Castle Doctrine for that...and that's advice to both sexes, and all 87 genders.
Frfr
But if she's obsessed with you, then according to your logic, you'll lose respect for her. Surely you want a lover you can respect though.
@@mushudamaschin2608wrong, obviously as a guy u like girls being obsessed with u lol this is funny typing it out, I really had to inform u of this?
“To desperate guys”
Well to the average female, niceness is interpreted as desperation
More like weakness.
Nicety is seen as weak desperation, SO SHOCKING when men en mass abandon all care or concern.
I have what I call my Triple F Policy, for like a decade now.
What does that mean? Unless you're one of my "F's", a friend, family member, or someone I'm fucking, I have NOTHING for you, not a morsel of food, not a moment of help, not a drop of water, not a single round of ammo, you're on your on because you choose to be, by not being on my F list. And it's a détente policy, I have nothing against anyone, if you're leaving me alone I'll leave you entirely unbothered as well, that's all I ask.
I think we'll see a LOT more similar thinking in the coming years, circles will start to close and get smaller.
To be fair, the guy is nice because he’s desperate
@MikhailFederov who the hell told you that?
bro just be normal holy fuck just be chill and not weird and it will take you far
The problem is "improving yourself, winning the competition and stuff" doesn't change anything. Sure it is a big win for a certain man, but it changes nothing, if every men gets better and richer and more attractive to woman, they will just rise the standarts once again and seek for "new 10% or 5% or 1%".
The idea that no one can win without us all fucking over a loser for our gain sickens me.
Man, fuck us, people I mean.
I believe you should improve on yourself but not for dating (even though it might help) but mainly for yourself amd you will feel better for yourself.
Yes it changes Everything. Self Improvement can be a life Savoir for many man.
@@kevinherold740 Bro, you don't get my point like at all, I never said you don''t need to improve, but the point is, if 10000 men become "top x%" then it means someone else is out. The core issue is that women want only the best of the best and don't wanna compromise at all despite not being "the best" themselves, and before this attitude changes the whole situation will be the same. See, if 50% of men will be 6 ft. tall and have 6-digit allowance, then women will just want 6 ft. 5 inch and 7-digit allowance, iit's just never ending pursuit of "the best", and if someone don't wanna admit it doesn't change the reality.
@@NilterThat's a correct assessment. However, I don't think it matters for an individual man. The other men, being the competiton, realistically won't improve as a whole. That would require some sort of societal movement that makes the majority of men strive for improvement. There aren't any signs for that happening at the moment. Saying that it wouldn't work if everyone did it is right, but it doesn't matter because the majority doesn't do it.
Interesting how when there's a men's issue, men dont expect the other gender to get involved and do something to try and fix it.
yep you just explained why man and women are different. Man aren't complicated we are simple creatures while women they always complicated them self they don't want to fix the issue now and than. that's why you always sees the one who their friends always tell them the guys she is dating are bad till that girl hit the wall than she realize years later she needs to picked the right guys.
If polygamy is the new norm I wish it was more out in the open instead of all of this secret soft harems and what not.
Because women can’t enforce anything. The rights of anyone come off the backs of men 🤷🏼♂️
@@Kim-Yo-jongNo real man wants a polygamist relationship. That's some weak cuck bs. Just as women don't want a man with multiple girlfriends. Poly relationships are always one sided.
I do. Women are the ONLY people who can fix the dating disaster.
Women live life on Easy Mode. So much so that they are on another planet. Even when she tried to give men encouragement, she said, "Even if you're only getting 1 match a week, don't lose hope because it only takes one!" Women have no F'ing idea what it's like to be invisible. A lot of guys would jump at the chance to get just 1 match a week. The dating market is soooooo imbalanced that it has become dangerously imbalanced. I think society is going to start breaking down. Gen Z males have no incentive to work hard and compete, because no matter how hard they try only 10% will get the respect of females. It's going to become Armageddon from the inside out.
Even if you’re cute/handsome and above average as a guy it’s difficult. My strategy was always to date girls from church, which is the easiest and best strategy for longevity in relationships. Using apps is really cray cray. The women who you can actually pull are all broken and addicted to app dating. As long as they’re not fat or a 4 or better they can literally get a date from almost any time they want.
Yes she’s out of touch. Many guys lower their standards on dating apps because they barely get matches. It doesn’t matter how many times he changes his bio, takes better pictures, has funny prompts, we are happy to even have two matches. Then, we end up paying for premium just to see who matched with us and they don’t even respond or if they do they reject us and unmatch
Men we have to support each other. With that being said stop wanting to be a relationship so bad and I know it’s lonely but you have to love yourself first by taking care of yourself . Physically, Mentally, Spiritually, Emotionally. You got this men!!!💪🏾
Yea it's hard to actually have a good male role model
@@DION_LIVE Fair, that’s why it’s important more then ever to create men circles. To challenge each other and that are mature enough to be vulnerable with each other to cut the bs.
@@michaelvillal3493 u are so right man 💪
@@DION_LIVEthis is the mindset me and my best friend used on each other ....growing up ...i saw he had lots of cars due to his family and brothers...i wantd that so i workd my ass to reach that state....wen i did he hit me with i got a bettr payin job i wantd that too...and to this day were still.pushing each other....we both noticed that of all the homies we had and made too many disappeared because they werent able to handle constructive criticism
@@MuiGohan so many men don't want to listen to others but open def seem to excel more. Good for you
Being nice attracts overweight single moms in my experience.
I'm not interested in just "getting action" and so I refuse to become the villain. As Dumas wrote "Do not commit the crime for which you now serve the sentence" and I don't wish to earn the misplaced ire women have for douchy men by becoming one.
None of these women are wife material imho.
Does the term wife even exist today? I mean think about the idea of marriage? Suppose to be together for the rest of their lives. Yet look how easy it is to get a divorce? Government makes a insane amount of cash off divorce. So I don't even think wives exist today.
I found my girl overseas. More traditional and less 304s.
Some would reply to Dumas that if I'm already doomed to the sentence for the crime either way, at this point you may as well do the crime because why deprive yourself? You're paying the cost, take the product.
If I'm in prison for life for murder, someone damn well better be actually dead, fuckers.
If I'm already the villain, PRETENDING to be the good guy to make others happy, AT MY OWN EXPENSE, is stupid. It's like being pregnant and still using condoms, you can only get so pregnant so what's the point? Like debating handgun calibers, the 9mm will only kill you kill you, but that four five, bro, you're DEAD dead, like extra dead, dead PLUS.
@@user-nr5ut2hc9y It’s actually insane how girls overseas and in Asia are so feminine and mature, classy and decent compared to western girls. And then girls here get mad when you prefer them because “oh you can’t handle us”. Like no shit, we don’t want to date a man
Are people really getting dating advice from a OF model 🤦♂️ what a crap world we live in.
Worst advice I’ve ever seen and ppl pay her for it. Lmao
Real
"I'M literally helping men." Correct me if I"m wrong but isn't she charging guys like 1.2k for said help?
And the guys are paying... that should tell you how sad most modern men are
she playing on the simps, cause no one would pay for a fish to explain how to go fishing. unlesss your a stupid male that doesnt know where to look for advice so you think the best option is the fish it self.
@@goldeternal Yeah in a way it's almost narcissistic. Just imagine you were her.
Having a bunch of simps not only paying you thousands of dollars to talk to you... but literally having them drool over you in search of "the secret to attracting women."
You string them along with nothing of substance, you continue to get paid, and you receive the #1 commodity all women search for from men, which is attention.
Oh, and did I mention THEY pay YOU to give you their attention?😅
I love how they gauge value nowadays by the amount of followers they have. Most Girls are soooo addicted to online attention it's become the no.1 problem with dating. All it does is magnify their insecurities and they will never settle down until it's too late.
New tactic: Your followers will leave you if you don't date me. Is it worth the RISK to your clout to say no? Especially when I shame you to MY followers?
THAT could WORK on modern women in the modern era.
I reach a point in my life where i am 31 years old, and simply saving up for a 2 week trip to Japan. That"s what i want my life to be about. Saving money to solo travel every 4-6 months.
Honestly, same.
Women are only distractions and will either drain you emotionally, physically and waste your time.
You have the power to do anything you want now. No obligations, no silly expectations.
You do you too friend 💪
@@BrendeehI’d say 95% of women because your soul mate is behind Al the women you must go through and get mentally ready for your soulmate sometimes
you going right man
Women demand to be accepted as they currently are and then demand that men become what they find acceptable.
Level up? What about love?
I did online dating for three years for research purposes. I never had any women meet up with me. IN truth, I swiped right only about 10% of the time, but nobody was really interested in me, and I'm not average. I'm just perceived as average by women.
I know exactly what u mean...I swiped right way more and know what I found...that girls I don't got no business even giving the time of day to will still act like the one in the power position because of all the fake validity online...like one in a hundred will actually show any interest and actually make an effort...these girls wanna smash and pretend u don't exist the other 99 percent of the time and don't believe in love or respect men in any way
Law of attraction. They want what they want, not what wants them. Even if the thing they want is absolutely ridiculous. It'd be like having a 5 star steakhouse, but they want mcdonalds cause that's all they know or see and perceive to be better.
Edit: which is perfectly fine. Everyone has their preferences. Just feels like a shame and a waste they’ll never know or care what they’re missing.
Hoeflation.
"For research purposes"😂😂😂
You sound like a 19 year old. You used dating apps for "research purposes" sure bro.
Being the pessimistic guy I am I think no matter how much we men level up it will never be enough
Yeah women are rather insatiable
Yes hypergamy
even women says its harder to make them happy even toys now are not making them happy.
There’s always a richer or better looking guy in her dms. Find a religious traditional girl who doesn’t have social media and get married. Meanwhile you always have to be leveling up
If you're sub-5 in the looks department, it's true.
My fiance fuckin left me. It was a good relationship, not toxic, wholesome and pure. . . sure we both had some growing up to do still but I was willing to go through that with her. She said she didn't want to "settle" which is pretty much what every long lasting marriage is. It's settling. There's a reason it's called settling down. You're saying "this is good enough for me. I'm happy with this." The mentality of not wanting to settle is extremely poisonous, because no one will ever be good enough unless you get to the top 1% which still may not be enough. Obviously in cases of abuse and manipulation and such, yea, don't settle. It fuckin sucks, bro. I thought I was going to be done with the dating hell but here I am again. I'm tired.
You got this brother, day by day you can improve your situation and look back on what you accomplished!
The greatest revenge is Success. Keep grinding for yourself, level up mentally and physically; and once you get up again. You’ll be alright. But you gotta do it for yourself.
Shes going to get passed around by a bunch of dudes for a year or so and she'll come crying back because no man wants to take her seriously
Story of my life bro
Probably she listened to her "friends" saying that she could do better, this is the reality of dating women in this day and age.
These girls said it them themselves. You attract what you are. He said I attracted nobody when I was nice. By this logic no women are nice.
Having these women on these shows only shows me that they don’t understand the male experience, don’t care to understand, and that there Is absolutely no hope in ever dating or finding a girlfriend or wife.
. etc caiosour. pin zherka^
They dont understand, dont have to, and dont care.
I wouldn’t say no hope… but it’s gonna keep getting more and more rare.
You’re reflecting on these women that speak for their own experiences, regardless this is a psychological shadow that does drape over the collective within women.
these are the same girls that hate on men of their own race, what do you expect.
Guys have to stop giving free attention if she ant blowing you don't talk to her leave her alone that means she is not for you easy concept to comprehend
All facts. Only go for the girls that are interested in you and pursue you first. As a man knocking on the door of age 30, wish I hadn't known this when I was in my early twenties, I might have been in a long term relationship by now.
This guy FAWKS. These guys self sabotage themselves, 'are you with it' or not. Why give a woman what she wants FOR FREE (attention, validation)? why would she 'buy' the cow when she can get the milk for free?
If she's not tryinna fk you, she's going to go and fk someone else. Either way she's fk someone tonight.
Thats exactly why I'm not talking to anyone and havent been for 10yrs. Makes it easy - none of them want to talk to me anyway
That's what I find stupid about the concept up the FriendZone it only exists if a man allows himself to be put in it
What I mean is simple if you have romantic feelings for a Woman and she's not interested in you like that move on stop taking to her make it clear from day one what your looking for don't try and be her friend hoping she will change
* she won't
This works the other way too...
"Girls if he's not giving you attention don't talk to him leave"
Almost every girl I've dated has hooked up with a professional athlete, musician, or actor. Not a single guy I know has.
Just out of curiosity....area you are from??
@@closeredge5198 Denver, but they all did that before moving there. They came from NYC, Chicago, LA, and Miami
@spearfish makes sense...I'm in Nashville currently, and I'm guessing that the transplants come with similar resumes...plus...musicians come through here in abundance
@spearfish who's fault is that?
@@dizmop nobody said anything about fault. Stop projecting
I blame social media, because everyone just communicates or translates lifestyle through social media. Damn near everyone has an addiction to social media and that’s waking up everyday just to check socials. I’ve deleted all my social media recently, for a while it was hard because I used to wake up every morning to check IG or snap. I will always advocate that social media needs to be disbanded and we need to go back to when we had to go out and see each other to communicate. I don’t want to text/dm, let’s actually communicate. This era I do not feel like I belong most of the time 🤷🏾♂️ I’m 24 but feel like an old head with my old soul.
I love how she separated onlyfans from “actual porn” lol
A hoe is a hoe no matter how u dress it up
If you sell your body for money it's whoring. It's 2023, let's get over ourselves. Call things what they are. I'm perfectly fine admitting that when I go to work later today, when I hit that last digit on the timeclock, I'm now professionally whoring my body's efforts out to my employer for money, and other purposes.
Everyone needs to start promising to lie less, starting with TO YOURSELF.
I'm fine with prostitution, I support it, I'd be happy to support it directly were it legalized, but only if you're honest about it to your own self at the very least.
Always ask this: would you still do whatever it is all the same if nothing changed except you're doing it for free?
If they wouldn't do OF for free, that means it's ONLY about the money.
It’s the same.
Well they can be kind of different can they? In porn 99% of the time, there is sex. I hear that isn't always the case for OnlyFans.
@@torch_fire9218Soft core porn is still porn hence the term "soft core porn"...
Mgtow for life, no way in hell, I’m going to level up just to marry a 304.
I once heard a great saying in a yt comment section
In 2023 men have to work 5x as hard as his grandfather to get a woman 20x worse quality as his grandmother
Exactly. I plan to use escorts.
@@neverbackdown1918Great idea. Once I'm financially sound, there will be lots of escorts for me as well.
Man there is always the chance to meet a decent woman with less sexual partners..
This comment section is sad😂
"No way I'm leveling up to marry a 304 so let me pay an escort for sex" lmao
(Most) Women dont really listen to men especially nice men. Just because we are nice or kind doesnt make us weak. That same amount of kindness is the same amount of chaos we can bring. Kind men dont want to have to be villians, tis is how wars are started. And for most guys a woman coming on to you is flattering and would be most likely entertained rather than ignored. A girl showing shes really carea for you is someone we are willing to die for.
if every man was bad we woudn't be hear. We all would be doing what the amazon did the man died out cause there was no nice guys which i'm sure there was but probably got told by the women to they like tough guys. than after that the amazon women died cause they realize they cannot help produce more humans with out their counter part.
Oh please. Your telling me if a obese girl hit on you, you will reciprocate? Men are just as shallow as women.
I’m 6’3. 25, good job, nice car and dating is literally impossible. The ones I interact with have boyfriends or don’t have the time to date 🙄 I really don’t understand why it’s like this. The only thing that has saved my life from suicide is god and going to the gym because it’s absolutely horrendous today. Girls are more privileged than ever before but have almost very little morals and respect towards a man. I went on vacation to the east and had so much more attention and respect from women there. I’m considering selling everything here and moving up more over there. I’m not convinced into a long term relationship or marriage in the west
All women are the same
@@distortion7465they aren’t
I've actually been thinking of going to countries like colombia, Philippines, Thailand, Mexico, and venezuela to look for love. I heard it's way easier than here in the west so I hope it's true!
you listed everything except one thing, how do you look? your either ugly in the eyes of women or you lack the confidence that women love @dmski2323
You have to go far enough. In many European countries the dating culture is already as messed up an in the US. The decline of the dating market goes hand in hand with the uprise of modern western feminism and the socially destructive „social“ media. It will take generations to overcome this cultural decline. Gen C or Gen D might have a chance but only if western societies reestablish conservative values.
Shit is nuts. My girl has only been with me. 9 years into and we're getting married in a couple months. Still very sexually active (almost every day) and we're happier than we've ever been. That person exists. I had to go though a whole bunch of shitty women before I found her. Legit soul mate type of deal. Stay strong anyone who's in the dating scene. Let my story give you hope she exists. Because she does. And I found her. You can too.
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You are probably good looking to date multiple women to find the right one. I can’t even get a single date at 26 lol.
I’m over 6ft and at a decent weight 160lbs and low body fat but uhhhh my dating life is nonexistent and no girls seem interested
@@caseyjones5470 the dating scene is nuts. You'll find someone man. You're also still only in your 20s. I was 28 when I met my soon to be wife. So still plenty of time. When it's meant to be you'll run into her and it will just click. Don't stress it and just let it happen naturally. If not there's always actual dating apps lol. Not tinder. But actual people who want a real relationship
Don’t loose hope! She’s out there! Just go find her
@@caseyjones5470Further proof that face is everything.
There is totally a danger aspect to "bad guys" that women like.
In what way? Like specifically
@@nifoob977 when I decided to embrace villainhood, I got soooo much more action from more beautiful women than when I was a "nice guy" / simp. Getting in fights? After 3 fights I was in in Germany, I got 3 different girls in 6 months to get with me after they saw me fight. It turned them on and they were good looking. Bring them to the gym, ask them to spar, then crush them and they'll be turned on like a MF! Women who are worth it want a man who can do tremendous violence. Women will lie and cover up that they enjoy violent men, but it's true. Good looking / valuable women want dangerous men.
On the psychological side, I also learned pretty quickly that women don't like to be ignored, so you purposely ignore them. Women don't like their appearance judged accurately, so you have to drop truth on them occasionally. This is more "psychological sparing" with women because they won't admit that they like it but they do.
*Love*
THE BEAST DID HAVE IS OWN DEMONS, on his own, he was going through alone, in his castle. The beast isn’t some evil person, being capable of “violence,” if the situation called for it, no doubt, he would handle it.
BELLE FELL IN LOVE WITH THE BEAST, Belle, is a soft feminine women, with a backbone, she is considerate, kind, passionate, she is a women. In her village, prior to meeting the beast, there was an annoying man in her village, that was borderline narc, and his name is Gaston, if I’m not mistaken. Very aggravating. It was honestly like a zherka vibe mixed with Andrew Tate, personally that’s not my thing, no shade.
He was always looking for attention, bragging, rude, very aggressive. All the ladies would be on him, and Belle would not and he would in a way, manhandle Belle, as if she isn’t a soft, feminine women, who also happens to be well spoken and quiet at times. He should have been more graceful, she didn’t want anything to do with him.
At first she may have had a perception of the beast, but with the beast being the beast and him going through it all on his own already, he honestly portrayed himself as “the beast”
You can have a beastly look, and still have a heart of gold, just like how everything that glitters, isn’t Gold.
When I say beastly, I’m not referring to someone who doesn’t take care of themselves, etc. Rod wave type of thing, either. There is always someone that will try to blurr and cross the line, so they don’t have to accountability. Just like how rod wave and his money, gets him girls, and Lizzos “positve,” mind and “body positivity movement,” allows her to not think that there is something wrong with being close to diabetes, and no legs.
GOD BLESS EVERYONE.
@baswenmakers6846
To sum up Jordan Peterson explained this very well that women are attracted to the dark triad personality (narcissism, psychopathy and machiavellianism) because it mimics competency.
when actual competency has the hallmarks of humility, caring, and transparency.
The evil good, I mean 'nice' man.
I'm an average guy. The best thing you can do as an everage guy is to just attend social events and engage in conversations with women. Also be aware of what type of women you are trying to get because based off of who you are, you may get completely ignored because you are simply trying to fish in waters that aren't meant for you. And just keep in mind that there are also a lot of average women out there. Nothing wrong with being average and chasing after average.
An average woman is considered a lot better than an average man. Thats the problem.
@@ezbucketz4604 Based on what metrics?
@@Voidstroyer common sense. average woman get way more texts and praise
@@ezbucketz4604 I disagree that that makes the average woman a lot better. And besides, that's still a man's issue since in general men have much lower standards when it comes to dating (and most of the men sending texts are just trying to f**k the girl and nothing else).
If your metric for value is simply based on how much attention a person gets, then sure you are right. But I don't care about that.
Shawty gonna fly me out the matrix /hood
Men don’t need help. Women need to start living in reality or they will die alone with their cat. Average women need to find average men attractive again. 90% of women go for 10% of guys. 80% of women are going to be cat ladies, while 80% of men will find an average girl somewhere else in the world.
We dont mind cats. Forget marriage i dont want kids 😂 kids are too much work. Rather chill with my nephew / niece
All of the average women that were supposed to be pairing with average men have an overly inflated sense of their SMV because of their experiences on dating apps. Women and the Chads are thriving but the average guy is left in the dark.
Tbh they are primarily at an advantage in their physical prime 18-30. The Average Man if he puts in the work financially, mentally, and physically in his 20s & 30s can reap more of the Benefits.
@@gabrielalele8603 Assuming a man can be productive through decades of depression and isolation or doesn't simply kill himself. Men won't be at their potential in a society that treats them with disdain
@@luisdawnfinder3188it’s a shitty solution but honestly more western men should just head overseas and embrace a totally different culture, and dating scene. European and Asian women on average will be more feminine and classy compared to USA girls
@@CRWeaventure I don't disagree
@luisdawnfinder3188 : 💯 % Agree. That's why Men need support groups of other men to build & grow with.
The foundation of the problem is social media, dating apps, and too much modern tech. No one wants to talk about that. There avoiding it because a lot of these people make money from it.
Also, there is no real solution unless you completely eradicate them because there designed to be addictive. So, we can talk the problems all day on these shows, but it’s only going to get worse unless serious changes are made.
Facts 💯
1:26 No need to level up. It's just a problem with western women in general. I stayed the same, then went overseas and had no issues dating 8's and 9's. Same physical shape and fitness level, same rizz, same everything and I put in 50% less work with a foreign girl that's an 8-9. In the US, I was working 10x's harder for an average 5 American girl.
Same story here.
Facts bro. I know you said western women, but I was surprised of the amount of attention I got from UK girls. Here in the US girls are just picky I guess idk what’s up with them
So which countries are the best?
@@ryan124007 that's subjective. Some people like Central & South America (Columbia, Peru, Panama) and some people like Asia (Thailand, Philippines, Malaysia). Best bet is to travel as much as possible and see what you prefer.
@@DeanBKK I've traveled through Europe, and I liked the Scandinavian countries but I wasn't popular.
i was always polite and respectful to women until well into my twenties and had limited success with women. always getting friend zoned that sorta thing. i bought into the nonsense women kept telling me growing up. had no male rolemodels to tell me any better. until i noticed when i unsulted women or was sharp with them at parties they liked it. started having better relationships with them after that. lol
Men really need male rolemodels. U gotta change up your approach
Same . Being mr nice guy got me nowhere lmao .
@@sheluvlaron time out
But that the thing, it shouldn't have to be that way. We shouldn't have to insult women, or act like jerks, in order to get women to find us attractive. That's unbelievable bullshit. That just goes to show that modern women are fucked up in the head, and not worth the trouble. I would not want to marry a woman that I had to mistreat in order for her to like me.
And that is why it is a waste of time. Why would someone want to be like that
It's not like dudes are flush with options. Most dudes are lucky if they can attract 1-2 women in their life. Telling them to pick better girls is like telling them to just build a rocket to fly to mars. It ain't happening.
Since the pandemic I have found it a lot harder to meet women than before. And my long term girlfriend of 4 years broke up with me a couple of months before the lockdown, and ever since we came out of lockdown there has been a marked difference on how much attention and even rejections I get from women, and I even tbink the younger women in thwir early 20s dont even k ow how to socialise properly anymore in all honesty due to the lockdown and everyone staring at a screen. I am in my early to mid 30s so not from that generation. Its funny though how as a yoing women you can have zero charisma and be cold to almost every man and know that you will still get the spolls of dating top tier high status men despite only bringing youth, fertility and in many cases average looks and personality.
I'm not a top tier man, so I wonder how these women get actual human top tier men if their speaking skills are as bad with them as they seem to be with me.
I'm an introvert, I'm somewhat shy, but I can crack jokes and pickup on cues and stuff, I can speak like a human, NONE of the women I've talked to on apps seem like they could string a sentence together. What happened to women being GABBY, lol?
Unless you get them on a topic they like, such as choking during secks for some odd reason, they keep asking about it, I keep telling them they're crazy lol.
I won't lie, brother. I think most dudes have 1 or 2 chances at a wife, and after that you'll either have to drop all standards or be single.
@@RobertMorgan There are men who earn large amounts of money but aren't 'high value men' just rich, and they love running through women.
There is an entire thing going on in Dubai where rich guys fly out poor 304s to get their act on then pay them with gifts/cash and send them away.
@@rgn87654 I agree 100%
"He also lived in like a rural area" you can hear her disdain in that statement.
It's true, we're just out here, in our rural areas, on my 100 acre 8-figure paid off farm compound, watching my side hustle, millions of corn plants, put in work that'll be cash later.
See, I only make $40K/year, but I inherited, a LOT. But no one sees that because I don't do flash cash. I wear t shirts, I run 6 miles a day, I don't eat out. On the surface I'm a loser, but if SHE put in the effort to get to know me, she COULD profit handsomely.
IF ANY OF THEM TRIED.
Do better, women. Step up. I'm leaving you behind.
@@RobertMorgan fuck yeah
@@RobertMorgan
Fuck giving them a profit, they’re leeches
More space, better place. She can visit the Airbnb once a month and think she's made it.
my solution for men is to just dont take women seriously. have standards and dont compromise on them. if a woman isnt a virgin, feminine, or just wifey material then dont give her a relationship, she is recreational use only. theres not enough top guys to go around, so these women gotta realize that if they want even a average guy then they need to start being traditional again. only way women will come to this realization is when the majority of guys stop simping and being so desperate. it'll never happen because modern men are pathetic, but that is the solution
YEP
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Traditionalism is not the answer but go off young deity you're going to choose to be wrong the rest of your life anyways lol.
@@lisamemeson its not the answer, its a answer. lisa mad because she felt personally attacked when a random on the internet says he doesnt like 304s
My man is on the money
First girl already proved his point when she said she has 100 dms, the fact she already does puts tons of pressure on the guy. The chase part is what is the actual problem because that mind set is turning dating into a contest that is actually depressing and making men hate dating because its waasssy easier for women to be chased then then hunter.
BINGO!
Lets be real here, none of these 304’s are “chasing” average men for anything other than to use them. They’ll swing to the higher value guy as soon as she can. Never listen to what a she says, watch what she does.
Is there anything wrong with that? Especially considering men will sleep with women while having no intention of getting into a relationship?
@@ethanbernard7671Women do that too
@@DonkeyKong5479 Yeah there's a double standard that's what I'm saying. Some men get angry that women want better, yet they make no effort to better themselves and expect to be accepted as is.
This is seen in the wild where females always try to mate with the "alpha male" or leader of the pack. Even in human history there was a time when women weren't allowed to work, so they actually had to find the highest value man they could if they wanted to survive.
I don't think a lot of men realize that they're getting upset at biology and literally hundreds if not thousands of years of social structure which changed very recently. It wasn't until 1930s where women were allowed to enter the workforce in meaningful numbers and it wasn't until 1970 where the equal pay act was passed to pay them the same as a man.
Now that they don't have to settle, they can exercise options. Men have always done this in the past, but now that women are able to it seems like you all don't like that
@@ethanbernard7671Some men will do that. But I think a majority of men actually want to meet a woman who can actually be a future wife. But the modern dating scene has ruined that. Because of a few players, normal, nice guys just don't stand a chance anymore
@@nerychristian I see your point, and many people get upset when I say this but modern men need to level up and improve themselves. Many of them are young, partying, smoking weed, playing video games... Nothing valuable to offer, but they complain that they're losing to men that have status.
If you want a job, typically you provide a resumé and it is evaluated to determine if you're a good fit. And, like most jobs, you are not the only candidate. Competition is everywhere, and the moment you give up is the moment you give the gift to someone else. Someone who was willing to put in the work regardless of the hurdles they faced.
I'm not saying it's easy. But nothing worthwhile comes easy. I like to ask men who feel this way why they think a woman should choose them over a celebrity, CEO, doctor, lawyer, etc...? What exactly are they offering that a woman can't get elsewhere?
"At 18 you don't need a man"
That's the perfect time to get one and keep him.
Yea like if you can find a good guy who wants to settle down and marry you don't let being 18 stop you from doing it
@@kurtpunchesthings2411theres a lot of average nice men..just start looking at your local walgreens, targets, mcdonolds...
If you asked me at 20, I'd tell you I expect to have grandkids by 40.
I turn 40 next month and I haven't even dated since Obama was President.
Oh well, new goal is kids by 50!
Just remember fellows. 15 to 20 years from now these pretty, hot young thangs will barely be phuckable.
All I got out of this is that these women, by their own admission, get off on playing games that only they know the rules to because it's about some kind of emotional response they have. Most guys don't want to play those games because playing them wrong can get them in a world of trouble.
Yeah, I'm checked out already. I honestly have lost all respect for women. They offer nothing of value to me. The only thing they are good for is sex. And even that gets boring if the woman is not someone you want to invest your mental and emotional energy on. It seems like the only options are: Being a player, have occasional sex, but feel like shit afterwards. Or, marry a woman, and risk living in a sexless marriage or getting a divorce and losing everything.
Guys ask yourself this...are you ready to entertain these spoiled women who act like children? Are you ready for all the bs and hoops you have to go through just to get some attention or maybe some p*&&y ? If not...just stay away..focus on you, becaume the best you can be, all you can be, and if someone comes along, shoot your shot, but be ready to move quick.
All the podcasts telling men to level up and gain more money and body a gym. Don't EVER do that for the women. Only do that for yourself. That is an extremely important distinction.
Because if you do that to land a woman, all you're getting is a gold digger than will instantly monkey-branch if she sees greener grass on the other side. You're not landing a wholesome wife material.
You can do it for yourself in money and fitness, but seriously you should HIDE that sh*t if you date a woman. Because if you flaunt money and looks you're not going to attract the real woman you want. You're just setting yourself up for misery.
But now men are so desperate their are either checking out or they try and overdo it and all of it end up like a form of simping.
Man, it's real in the field. I just saw a clip a couple of days ago that in Japan, there are places that offer CUDDLING SERVICES(let that sink in); where a dude(mostly dudes)pays actual money...just to cuddle with a woman.
We aren't far removed from that coming to the states.
They also have government funded programs to encourage couples to get together , things like speed dating , board games for singles , but its almost too late for Japan. Their lifestyle is so focused around their work that they simply don't have time to date and most dont know how . A very sad state of affairs.
I'd pay to get cuddled but only because it would be hard to find what I want: a woman far larger than me to cuddle me, to have a moment to finally take break from the watching everything fighting the world protector role. Cuddling as a man kinda sucks because it's always you doing the holding, being the lookout, taking the hits, putting you between her and the wilderness.
Am I the only one that gets tired of doing the 24x7 farmers walk with two 100kg kettlebells labeled 'responsibility' and 'duty'? If I could drop those and rest when I can, that would be great.
@@adamparker9765 which is crazy because the SOLE reason to work is to have a family, in my opinion. No family, I could get by on surprisingly little. But I want a family, so I work hard on my career, save, grow.
If someone could prove to me that was not possible, like if I found out I'm permanently and untreatable infertile, I'd probably stop my current job and go get something zero responsibility that pays my bills and just let go. Find something to do, but I'd have zero reason to impress anyone, because it can't lead anywhere, so why? So then I don't really need any excess money, so why work any more than needed?
If I have no aspirations, if I don't WANT anything, why work towards nothing?
In Japan that's not really with women being toxic but because the entire society is so based around work people don't just have the time to socialice or go on dates.
The same issue in Korea were you add the cost of buying a home combined with never having any time to do something after work or school.
Korea has the lowest birthrate in the world
You are what you attract. If your a women with high bodies, guess what you’ll attract. Same for dudes. Let’s be real here, there is something wrong with the picture of a woman liking a guy who demeans her. You can’t love a woman who lives life on lust, she won’t appreciate your love and will see it as weakness, hence why the toxic relationships. A lot of women have not experienced true love in their life, so when you show compassion and gentile vibes, she is wary of it or is confused by it. She is not used to actually having someone show kindness beyond the physical and will unfortunately find it awkward. It’s sad to see this in women, because it seems like they have to go through a rough lesson in dating for many years to finally understand that the men they were dating were not good for them. They’ll continue to ask for more from their partners, it’s truly a sad, vicious cycle. Everyone thinks they’re the exception to the rule so they don’t heed the warnings and participate in hookup culture. I know deep down women want to be loved, they just don’t know what that feels, but they want to. I pretty much, just pity women at this point. No amount of makeup, partners, vacations, girls night out can resolve the empty void you’ll start to feel as you continue this life path. Time is but a cruel teacher, it lulls you in a false sense of security and when the time comes for you to feel regret…it’ll be too late for you to do anything about it. Best of luck to those who still want to participate in dating, I pray you find someone and don’t mess it up, because a lot of us do.
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It’ll be interesting to see how this male loneliness epidemic unfolds. This is a pending public health crisis in my eyes. Some very bad trends will start to happen if this divide continues to grow.
My based take on it is that men are losing their masculinity mainly from the feminism move.
Men can't lose masculinity. They can only give it away. Which means they weren't masculine in the first place..
Stating that your take is based is arrogant af. Men haven’t “lost” anything. We KNOW that our “masculinity” is stigmatized, so we are laying back in the cut.
I believe it's going to get even worse than this as the years go on..
I wouldn't say we're losing anything. All throughout grade school if we can't concentrate on a curriculum designed to make it easier for girls to learn we're given Ritalin, if we can't contain our masculine energy and get into fights we're out in suspension or expelled, if we have an androcentric view life we're gaslit into thinking that it's toxic to not perceive the world like women do, and so on and so on. We're groomed from birth to be girls and when we act and think like boys we're punished like we're defective. To say we're "losing" our masculinity is to be willfully ignorant of the clear societal desire to turn men into women. We're not losing anything, we were never allowed to express or cultivate our masculinity in the first place.
It has nothing to do with the original feminism. Feminism is still needed for women and also men. As it sees the core issues that give birth to unhealthy mind and behaviour patterns that men and women are brought up on.
Radical feminism ir the same as radical transactivist movement. Please do not make everything black and white and this kind of stancr gives birth to more confusion and suffering for those who do not connect to twisted feminism which in my opinion has nothing to do with women rights, but rather sees male as a problem, rather than a equal partner to solve this issue that both sexes experience.
Violence against women still exists, women rapes still happen, curltural sexism and pressure in some workplaces still happen.
If someone wanting equal rights to safety and respect robs you of your manliness you should reconsider if you differ real feminists from stupid twats that just screat at men at any given chance.
We need solutions, solutions come when real problems are faced without bias
Attention is the new drug and you can't fight it.
Attention is the ORIGINAL drug that makes this all possible. Without every human being a social attention addict by birth and evolution, we'd have no society.
Imagine, 8 billion sociopaths on earth, well, it would probably be far less than that because we'd never be cooperative enough to make that many people, and they'd get killed off by violence anyway.
When she says woman instead of women, it drives me freaking insane.
Seriously man, and it's not just she, it's almost every girl on this podcast. I think it's a California thing.
At least she doesn't say "wommens" as a singular. Thats the worst I've heard
Unfortunately for me i was raised by my parents style of dating (60s, 70s and 80s) and it worked early on in high school but stopped working in junior, senior years and onward to this day. Yes i tried adapting but it doesnt work for guys like me or increases my chances by .01% so im involuntarily forced out of dating.
Yeah, I honestly think it's too late. Society has just declined too much. The perfect time for dating was like in the late 90's and early 2000's, before social media and cell phones. I feel like the young women back then were more down too earth, more pure, less jaded, and less conceited and delusional. Back then you could approach women and just talk to them, and not have to worry about them calling you a creep or worse.
Yep Ted Bandy got lots of letter from women he who loved him. Keep in mind he was a serial killer of women.
Women want guys that are trash. Its as simple as that. If you care for her, love her, & support her, she'll be bored. I hear women all the time complain that their guy "just says he loves me all the time" as if it's a bad thing. They want a man who isn't interested in them & treats them poorly because they want a project. They are addicted to wanting to change a man. If you're nice, you're desperate. If you are an uncaring pos, then you are just "playing hard to get" as if it's some game. Then these same women cry that they can't find a decent guy. It's almost a sick joke at this point. Then women wonder why they are unhappy.
EDIT: I typed this before the middle of the video. At least these women are honest (to a degree)
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Good men don't get any attention.. it all went bad when we shifted to Good Girl Gone Bad, and most women wanting a Bad Boy... that is why most men (good men) are lonely as f***. And most women think that guys are toxic. So my solution for the problem would be, the women start behaving as Good Girls and start give attention to Good Guys. Im 38 and have seen the decline in relationships and the rise in loneliness and mental instability.. and it all started about 15 years ago with the rise of the Good Girl Gone Bad movement, the social media and dating apps.
As true as all this is
We also need to get men to stop simping because as long as that exists women as a collective will never change and who can blame them if someone is giving you tons of money for fuck all why would you ever change
Its so fucking obvious why are some women acting like this ? Because enough men are letting them get away with it
What about TV shows like the bold and the beautiful. So many housewives destroyed their marriages because that show rustled their feelings up into a storm and they had no self control anymore. Lots of different things have long-term contributed to the downfall of humanity, let's not point fingers at only a few of the faults/reasons.
@@Rexhunterj I totally agree - and what I meant was that the shift happened around that time. Spice Girls was girl empowering but around the Good Girl Gone Bad period it shifted to a more sinister agenda.
You attract what you put out? I put out that I was looking for a relationship, was respectful, and was genuine. I did not get any of those.
Honesty doesn't give you genuinity.
@@jaughnekowMeaning?
If you're single and want to get into a relationship, study female psychology. Don't try to rationalize what you learn but apply it. I've been getting more matches recently because I've been applying that knowledge and been talking to a lot more women. Also I'm a solid 4/10 and my profile doesn't exactly give millionaire vibes either 😂
This is a great idea. Honestly, I think all men should do this.
Do you use that knowledge for "game" or to express the best version of yourself?
Are you overweight? Genuine question.
Not our responsibility
I consider myself a solid 6-7 growing up I was in great shape but I was quiet, why not the outgoing type of guy. When a girl said anything to me like “your cute or nice smile” it made my day because it was so rare. Average girls like 5-6 got that every damn day imagine that
This is why the Passport movement exists period. It is much easier for a guy overseas than it is here. If I didnt live in LA County i would be getting my passport immediately. I have opportunities (in person not on app) where i live. But Im focusing on getting certain areas of my life like building up my wardrobe and getting in shape first. Also doing a deep study of different types of sexual techniques for 3 to 4 months along with stocking up on sex toys is crucial if you want to have repeat business. Most men dont study sex and just wing it which is why they have a harder time getting consistent results with women. You need to be able to know how to satisfy a woman sexually if you actually do want to lock her down.
A woman that is able to compare you’re performance to other guys is not worth locking up
I think you need that passport, you may desire to leave LA and enter the US once again someday, keep your options open.
We could open the border with california and allow those heathens in the US any day now...
A brotha just want a strong relationship bro...
My experience with online dating was no one can get anyone’s full attention. Especially in bigger metro areas. Everyone is getting messages from so many people and it’s hard for anyone to decide on who to focus on. Each time you login, there is more new people messaging you or responding to you. But all those people are experiencing that exact same thing, it’s like everyone is constantly distracted by someone new.
That's why don't get distracted. Focus on one person and ask the other person if they want to do the same. I just focus on one person at a time.
Even if the girl is not answering all the dms she gets just getting all of those dms makes your confidence go up and fools you to think that you are a 10 or the last coke bottle in the desert which a lot of theses women are not. For an example you get a dm from a famous person now in your head is why give anormal guy a chance when this famous guy is into me and the sad part is that famous guy just wants to hit it and quit it.
If a girl thinks a famous guy messaging her is him trying to be in a relationship with her, then she is stupid 😂. A lot of guys giving you attention doesn’t mean they want to wife you and I think more girls should realize that and not let it get to their head. Everyone likes attention but don’t get a big head over it
@@HurleyIsAStoner420 But That is the thing girls let it get to their head. There is so much content out there showing girls have this idea they are going to get a guy making 200k - 1M, 6tf tall and has lots of time to spare. when the reality is not many men out there meet this criteria.
@@mecr19 that’s true and you can’t control what other people think. I would suggest to just steer clear of those girls, why bother even associating with them.
Why the girl wearing a picklehaub? Like is she about the kaiser or what? Lmao
Crazy how many men are in the comments. I guarantee that any girl that clicked on this video, clicked off in 2 seconds because they don't want to hear this.
If she would only respond to a guy in real life, why is she even on dating apps?
dopamine and validation and attention
@@Maki-qw8he facts
Ofc she responds to dms just not from average guys. She didnt create an insta to ignore high value men 😂. She’s lying
Fake grape with the wrong woman will get you real graped in prison, leave the dumb men to deal with the dumb women.
I like how a woman decapitating dead animals is completely glossed over and garnered no reaction whatsoever 😂
I’d imagine if it was a guy the whole table would have been in uproar and disgust (and rightly so).
The whole "be an asshole guy" is misinterpreted. It's essentially being based and standing on your own beliefs which some girls makerefer to ass "asshole" behavior depending on the topic. But you will not get any girl straight up disrespecting them lol
in 2023, it's a wonder that women appreciate anything at all, let alone men who know what they want. Glad to see a small shift back to reality. Hope to see a stronger movement to sweet caring women before I check out of this world...maybe I'm just looking in the wrong places? where should I even go to find quality women?
Most women don't appreciate anything. The more you do for them, the least they will appreciate what you do .
Well depending, on your preference, I would go places where, marriage, and family, and males and females are respected, and appropriately, and naturally understood. I also wouldn’t be in some stripper looking area if in Columbia, but an area, where there are quality vibes, and quality people. When I say quality, I don’t mean rich, because someone’s Bugatti and money doesn’t buy character. I would go to places like. Philippines or Asia if that’s the place where to even break up a marriage in a vice like manner is illegal, or I would go Tanzania, or Nigeria, where there is even assurance for virginity, and on the girls end at a certain age are taught how everything works and to be a wife, and some good sex positions, etc. I would also go to New Zealand, where the Maori people reside, or the Samoans, who value, and cherish family and culture, and traditions. Who are Men/women and are loving and kind until you pull up other wise, and then they lay your ass out cold.
any women i hear say, "i'm not ready for a husband." all i hear in my head is that i wanna be a slut
That sums it up
Id rather be a 304. Marriage for what. His meagre paycheck?
Rather work and sleep around. No reward in a marriage. Just endless demands and chores and cheating husbands. Why do u think most divorce are initiated by women
Wait why wasn't the first response to that girl who doesn't respond to messages not "then why are you even on dating apps?". The guy just stated the problem and she literally admitted that she's part of that problem...
The irony about the whole male loneliness topic is that it’s usually met with a bunch of negative assumptions about the men who are lonely - they need to smile more, they’re just shitty and need to do better, that they don’t deserve sympathy because they’re obviously lonely due to who they are at a fundamental level, because they’re misogynistic …. Which isn’t usually the case. The type of men that are running through tones of women, the ones who fit the stereotype of “not a good guy” are NOT the lonely men; on the other hand, the lonely guys are often time ignored before anyone even bothers to get to know them or even to try understand them. It’s such a weird dichotomy and as far as I can tell the hate towards those guys is coming from people that are taking the opportunity to prey on someone that is in a weaker, more vulnerable, position than they are. It’s incredibly disgusting. Men and women cannot look at each other as adversaries because our species cannot survive if we do.
What all of this has shown me is that women are not what they have been portrayed to be by movies or the media. Women are not pure. Women are not nurturing. Women are not looking for commitment. Women are not looking for good quality men to start a family. Women are not even more moral or spiritual than men. That's just a lie they tell us. In reality, women are nothing more than children with tits and vagina. They are weak. Delusional. Vain. Shallow. Mean. Vindictive. Gossipers and manipulators. They rarely admit they are wrong or take any accountability for their actions. They rarely contribute financially to the marriage.
the female "dating" coach literally comes with red flags
aka red hair and she is not ready to settle down with a husband right now
how many warnings do you need to ignore to go to her and pay
for her absolutely asinine bs advice
She dont pick nice guys either so hypocrite much
Men aren’t overwhelmed by “alpha male content creators.” Most content creators aren’t alpha. Men are overwhelmed by the thottery.
"It depends on the women that you want to be with" and "You attract what you put out" are such chick things to say. These statements tell you nothing. This is why it's impossible to glean helpful information from women. They get distracted by anecdotes and clichés rather than sticking to the big picture.
That violence thing gives women validation to use this legally against men.
'Id love a man ( to needlessly put his life on the line) to fight for me.' 😑
😐 Me as a woman whose never been into dating before because I was focusing my career & just never interested. *Suddenly curious about future dating & sees this EVERYWHERE.* Dang it's like I woke up in the zombie apocalypse! Is it really this bad? Wth happened!? 😱
Yes, at least in America