Everything is about money in Medellin. Unfortunately, without money, you will not get far. It's gotten much worse. I have been dating in Medellin for years and have always been about money .
Please count how many times he used the word "LIKE" in this video. reminds me of of a teenage blond. maybe he is Californian. As far as paying... you have always paid one way or another... and the one that gets married pays the most. butt this is an exchange of assets for feeling s and a bit of togetherness. these people need the money way more than we do... foreigners are seen as an asset... sure they will play or be the GF experience but "this is the way" for thousands of years... women look for resources and safety/security.
I am in Medellin and I do go on vacations and usually go to high end places. It is not as simple to describe it as giving a girl money but if you want to go on a trip, then I pay for the tickets and foot the hotel costs. I do not give money away for a woman’s company but I will pay the costs of a date, just like I would in the states. A woman has to pay her own living expenses but if I invite her to a place nothing wrong with paying, especially the places that I like to go to. I am referring to women that I have a relationship with or who I am dating and NOT paying for any s*x workers. Most I have known for years. I do not expect a woman who makes a lot less than me to be able to spend a month’s salary on a vacation with me. I admit I am bougie and I made good financial decisions so I don’t need to work.
Well said. I’m the same way, I’ll pay for dates or anything that I invite a woman to do. But I’m not going to pay for a woman’s time or give her money directly
Okay so here’s my take. I am a woman. I’m from Colombia but I haven’t lived there in 24 years. I met my husband (who’s an American) in the US and we’ve been married 22 years. I have a cousin living in Medellin. He’s Colombian, he’s a university professor there who’s travels a lot and lived in Europe for many years. He tells me the same thing this guy is saying. Dating in Colombia is not safe and it’s nearly impossible. We’ve considered moving our family to Colombia but this is a real concern for my college age son. I’m Colombian, but I don’t want my son to be dating Colombians. So this might be the ultimate deterrent for us. I have 4 sons. I don’t know that I want them to grow up around a hyper sexualized culture. So that’s my 2 cents, coming from a young 40 year old Colombian mom living in the US.
relax, I have dual citizenship. My college aged son is living in colombia and he is doing great in medical school there. Gringos have a reputation as sex tourist in colombia, Most women in colombia dont to be seen with a gringo. The real medellin is not what you see in parque lleras and provenza. If you want to see the real medellin wake up early in the morning and ride a bus or the metro, there you will see all of the real paisas heading for school or to work. all the best to you.
@@Impoorbuticlaimtoberich thank you for your reply. Does your son plan to move to the US after graduating? Do Americans have an easier time validating medical school in comparison to Colombians that went to school there but are looking to practice in the US? I honestly never gave a thought to about our kids doing college in Colombia. Our oldest son plays competitive tennis and more than likely could get an NCAA scholarship to pay for school. But you just opened the door for some ideas.
as in everything in life, there pros and cons. I love both Colombia and the United States. My philosophy is to appreciate the good and adapt to the bad. to answer your questions, several of my medical school classmates who are only colombian citizen completed their medical specialities here and are now practicing medicine. At the end of the day, what opens doors to medical residency programs are the grades in medical school and in the licensing exam. My son is 17 and already medical school. I didnt bring him here because he is too young to leave his mom. The other path is to have your kids complete pre medicine in the united states and apply to US medical schools. If they dont get accepted to med school in the states, apply to medical school in Colombia or Mexico. this is the path I took and I now practicing Oncology in California. If you children go to college in colombia there will a hug culture shock if they are expecting life to be like in the United States. However, it would a very positive experience and the women they would meet in College are career oriented. The women that americans looking for sex tourism are women that have to sell their bodies because of lack of opportunities and they are mostly single mothers that have to provide for their children.
@@bestlandhomeschool i think my son wants to do his medical residency here in the US and return to Colombia once he graduates. its pretty cool that you and your husband are considering moving to Colombia. Living in Colombia is not for everyone. I suggest that you guys try spending a couple of month there and see whether you like or not. I know a lot of American that are quite happy living in small Colombian towns and others that have moved back to the states within a year.
@@Impoorbuticlaimtoberichbelieve me when I say 90% of women in Colombia are for sale to the highest bidder. Part of the reason they have 85% single mother rate among the highest rate in the world. And those university students or bus riders in the am will not reject those “detalles” either no clue what you’re talking about
All women need a lover & a provider, even the rich ones. If you are just a lover, she will also seek a provider, if you are just a provider, she will seek a lover. With the age of social media, all women have a lot more access to wealthy men all over the world. They are no longer settling for one or the other. Most wealthy men aren't looking to pay for love, they pay for sex and for the girl to leave because they aren't interested in their life story and have one simple objective. Wealthy men value their time above all else, and a regular date to take a girl organically is a good amount of time invested, versus a simple 1-2 hour transaction. For men that are looking for love, at this day and age, you'll have your best shot by becoming both the lover and the provider.
Another banger from boots on the ground. Noticed more and more girls asking for "things" but when you find someone that rocks with you, the chemistry is different.
I help support my girl because she would struggle bad otherwise. She never asked me for money but when we became exclusive I knew I needed to help her out. I don’t give her a lot but I give her enough to be good. We are making plans for me to move there and us be together full time.
@@armyguytravels I’m sure she would. But we are still going strong. I have faith we will be together as does she. The awesome thing about her is no social media!! She’s different
Also brother you have to remember the perceptions and stereotypes the local have for foreigners. This is why I keep saying to the young guys, we have to become better ambassadors and take control of our image individually. Each one teach one. we are dealing with a long history of foreigners before us and the recent trend of travelers. You have to make them aware that you live here and are different from others foreigners who visit the country. You are reeducating them in a sense.
There are a lot of "prepago" women in Colombia, and it can be hard to tell the difference between them and regular women. Also, many foreigners will Sugar Date in Colombia to access women outside their league.
Get over it. They are all the same. If you don't pay, someone else will. or she will do it behind your back, especially in moraless Colombia. Broke speak. Get your money up... They are no different than the girls here in the US. I actually think they are worse in Colombia due to their shady culture/history. Good luck.
I 1000% just want to be used for my money! I don't wanna know her favorite movies or how she grew up ect! Just want BOX for now! Plus it's really the same if you're not paying and she hears you're a gringo or a Lawyer or Doctor! Women will ALWAYS consider your money!! They tell you that you need to be 6 feet, and make six figures!!
@@punnymoney3692 Yeah, people are focusing on the wrong things. Not everyone wants to be tired down to one chick and it's cheaper to pay them to leave then to invest all your time and resources into one for her just to cheat on you with what she perceives as the next best thing... Get money- eff bitches. But be careful, especially in Colombia. Seesh
Paisas have always been known to be super materialistic, but I see it has gotten a lot worse during the past years. It seems like they are more direct now, whereas in the past, they would hang out with guys because they thought it would maybe lead to something more serious down the line.
Well you can easily look to the distant past in Colombia, the Narco dudes was doing this big time that is why the plastic surgery, super vain environment has stemmed from.
Well you pay them to leave, not pay them to stay. 😄JK. The way I look at it if you're with a girl in the US. You are paying for rent, groceries and going out every time. If you are seeing a girl in Colombia on the regular when you go visit and they make you happy. Its worth the few dollars you send for making their lives a little better. As long as you are not getting played. Also you have to remember the average Colombian income is about $800 - $ 1100 USD per month. At the end of the day , you're the one that have control of your well being and finances. Just make good choices that will be beneficial and prosperous to you and you only. Stay strong Kings, There is a whole world out there, not just Colombia.
It becomes very easy to not want to have anything to do with any woman no matter how beautiful she might be once you see how much money you save by not having one. You now have the money to buy whatever you want; go anywhere you want whenever you want on a whim. Want to go to Vietnam tonight? Just pack a bag no problem. Meanwhile, they broke and crying themselves to sleep...LOL!
I’m fit age 80, my good USA retired school teacher friend introduced two fit svelte vetted ages 33 & 40 Medellin girlfriends in year 2021. I give each a monthly COP amount for their cost of Living. With one or the other we connect once or twice per week, and occasionally for a several days adventures trip explore Colombia ; sharing our joy, happiness and love.
What's more personal than sex, spirituality, and a person's general constitution. Why worry about who is spending?! Never count another man's money, You are going spend one way or another.
Women look at men for what resources they can provide, especially girls with social economic issues. They are family oriented, which means the whole family even sometimes the extended family based on what part the of the city they live. Also kind in mind, most local men with tell you to look for a humble girl outside of the city to find something more serious. Ask the women you are talking to, where they live and then you can tell how much you with need to invest and if you are going to get a good ROI. Keep your head up, you are new to Colombia and its culture
I 1000% just want to be used for my money! I don't wanna know her favorite movies or how she grew up ect! Just want BOX for now! Plus it's really the same if you're not paying and she hears you're a gringo or a Lawyer or Doctor! Women will ALWAYS consider your money!! They tell you that you need to be 6 feet, and make six figures!!
yes of course .....It is natural for men to want to provide... as men we wouldn’t be happy otherwise.... the modern approach to the situation is toxic.... modern feminism is the problem in my opinion.... it believes that destruction of the natural is progressive... I disagree.
@@defrank1870 it’s just the reality of life living in Colombia. Society is degenerate there now. I lived in Colombia for 3 years but moved away because it was exhausting
This is typical in latin culture. The man is the leader and the provider. Think about it like this, if she's your woman and you don't take care of her, who else will? There are different levels however, expecting not to pay or barely pay will get you cheated on and not taken seriously even quicker 😅
You are in the Hub of Gold diggers. Not a single girl I met in any south American country whether it is Chile or Bolivia or Peru or Ecuador that asked me to pay for her. Every single girl there I met paid her own shit UNTIIIIIIL I entered Colombia now holy fckkkkkk, she won't get out of her own house unless you go pick her up with a taxi and you pay for the taxi, you pay for the lunch and you pay for the museum or whatever it is, like she aint got money to even get the metro to come and meet you. I started matching with girls and they ask me to pick them up, I would then suggest them to come to my place instead and I would come down and pay for the taxi but in reality I send them as far as possible from where they be staying and once they go to that area they get stuck with the taxi guy cause they have to pay the fare and pay again to go back to their house hehehehe. Half of the girls I spoke to already had at least 1 or 2 kids around the age of 22 living like single moms. The Colombian society is fcked.
If you didn't want them to be with you about finances, then why did you choose a developing country? You could've stayed in The States to get with financially better off options. There's some conginitive dissonance going on here. If you want any semblance of that in Colombia, you'll have to get out of Medellin AND go up the estrada to at least #4.
Im just as confused as you are bro... I have no answers... it just all so crazy.... in the end, it will have devastating effects on the family structure.
maybe no one has said this but the issue is the youtubers. if came to colombia to live why are you promoting your life everyday. find a good woman settle down and put down that phone. there are many good women in colombia. there are more thirsty guys and youtubers that is turning those countries into western culture. if you want to make a change stop promoting all these cities and enjoy life bro. good video
Brah..I'm surprised you been here in Colombia/*Medellín* 5 years & don't know how Colombian Life works.. it's NOT paying to play in Colombia..it's the culture. If you don't improve the chica's life in every way..she wants nothing to do w/you..the same happens in USA & western world but 10 times more expensive.
In the West, I never paid. Perhaps you are referring to certain parts like Miami. But typically, you don't have to pay a woman for her time in the West.
Hey bro, I really like your content. You come across as very sincere and genuine. My 35 years on earth has taught me one thing. No woman is free. Not at all. I bagged this hotty recently around my way, she hits me up constantly, and every time, im bringing the weed to puff, im paying for the hotel, im paying gas or uber , im paying for the bottle, no punani is free. Omg and go ahead get married and see how much a wife is gonna cost you. Men are burdened with always having to be providers, and always having the burden of performance, you're only as good as what you can provide, whether it be dick game, slick game , validation, you name it. Im witchu bro, im disgusted by it, but this is nothing new sir, going back thousands and thousands of years men had to provide a dowery to even claim the woman they wanted. Aint nothing new under the sun. Its never what you do, but how its done.
Bro I’ll respond to your question from a high earning dude. Men want to have fun with the prettiest women around the world and not have any relationship or commitment. So in order for you to get these women that are beautiful and have other options you just throw them some bread. So then after vacation you go your way and then they go their way. Now for men that don’t make a lot of money I don’t understand their reasoning at all. I understand your outlook though
the music that girls are listening to and other influences are programming their mindsets. But keep communicating with the locals and build your social network, then have locals introduce you to locals, that is the way things are done in Latin culture. Plus you still sound depressed, you need to go on a trip and take a break from the city. Bro it is your energy, it is in your voice. Take a break
This was my issue with the passport bros movement. The passport bros movement has become an indirect unofficial brothel tour around any poverty-stricken environments. My coworker was having lunch in DR. When she got up to head to the restroom, a random American dude straight up asked her cuanto cuesta, "Home much."
I'm here in medellin right now. I got my gf here and my women and no I don't give them no money only ways we can both my money together. But I know some guys going to trick that's them.
I 1000% just want to be used for my money! I don't wanna know her favorite movies or how she grew up ect! Just want BOX for now! Plus it's really the same if you're not paying and she hears you're a gringo or a Lawyer or Doctor! Women will ALWAYS consider your money!! They tell you that you need to be 6 feet, and make six figures!!
This kind of thing happens a lot in Kenya, Thailand, Venezuela and the Philippines, as well.
Everything is about money in Medellin. Unfortunately, without money, you will not get far. It's gotten much worse. I have been dating in Medellin for years and have always been about money .
Yes, most of the women there looking for foreign men are trying to use them for money. All those ladies are running game in Colombia 😅
It’s all about the money with the good looking ones in Medellin imo
Please count how many times he used the word "LIKE" in this video. reminds me of of a teenage blond. maybe he is Californian.
As far as paying... you have always paid one way or another... and the one that gets married pays the most. butt this is an exchange of assets for feeling s and a bit of togetherness. these people need the money way more than we do... foreigners are seen as an asset... sure they will play or be the GF experience but "this is the way" for thousands of years... women look for resources and safety/security.
I am in Medellin and I do go on vacations and usually go to high end places. It is not as simple to describe it as giving a girl money but if you want to go on a trip, then I pay for the tickets and foot the hotel costs. I do not give money away for a woman’s company but I will pay the costs of a date, just like I would in the states.
A woman has to pay her own living expenses but if I invite her to a place nothing wrong with paying, especially the places that I like to go to.
I am referring to women that I have a relationship with or who I am dating and NOT paying for any s*x workers. Most I have known for years.
I do not expect a woman who makes a lot less than me to be able to spend a month’s salary on a vacation with me. I admit I am bougie and I made good financial decisions so I don’t need to work.
Do you live there?
@@Worldtraveler655 , yes I started off mentioning that I am in Medellin. I am a VISA holder, own a business here and live in Laureles area.
@@tmack2506 cool brother
Well said. I’m the same way, I’ll pay for dates or anything that I invite a woman to do. But I’m not going to pay for a woman’s time or give her money directly
You been dropping mad bangers lately. Good job bro!
I try
Okay so here’s my take. I am a woman. I’m from Colombia but I haven’t lived there in 24 years. I met my husband (who’s an American) in the US and we’ve been married 22 years. I have a cousin living in Medellin. He’s Colombian, he’s a university professor there who’s travels a lot and lived in Europe for many years. He tells me the same thing this guy is saying. Dating in Colombia is not safe and it’s nearly impossible.
We’ve considered moving our family to Colombia but this is a real concern for my college age son. I’m Colombian, but I don’t want my son to be dating Colombians. So this might be the ultimate deterrent for us. I have 4 sons. I don’t know that I want them to grow up around a hyper sexualized culture. So that’s my 2 cents, coming from a young 40 year old Colombian mom living in the US.
relax, I have dual citizenship. My college aged son is living in colombia and he is doing great in medical school there. Gringos have a reputation as sex tourist in colombia, Most women in colombia dont to be seen with a gringo. The real medellin is not what you see in parque lleras and provenza. If you want to see the real medellin wake up early in the morning and ride a bus or the metro, there you will see all of the real paisas heading for school or to work. all the best to you.
@@Impoorbuticlaimtoberich thank you for your reply. Does your son plan to move to the US after graduating? Do Americans have an easier time validating medical school in comparison to Colombians that went to school there but are looking to practice in the US?
I honestly never gave a thought to about our kids doing college in Colombia. Our oldest son plays competitive tennis and more than likely could get an NCAA scholarship to pay for school. But you just opened the door for some ideas.
as in everything in life, there pros and cons. I love both Colombia and the United States. My philosophy is to appreciate the good and adapt to the bad. to answer your questions, several of my medical school classmates who are only colombian citizen completed their medical specialities here and are now practicing medicine. At the end of the day, what opens doors to medical residency programs are the grades in medical school and in the licensing exam. My son is 17 and already medical school. I didnt bring him here because he is too young to leave his mom. The other path is to have your kids complete pre medicine in the united states and apply to US medical schools. If they dont get accepted to med school in the states, apply to medical school in Colombia or Mexico. this is the path I took and I now practicing Oncology in California. If you children go to college in colombia there will a hug culture shock if they are expecting life to be like in the United States. However, it would a very positive experience and the women they would meet in College are career oriented. The women that americans looking for sex tourism are women that have to sell their bodies because of lack of opportunities and they are mostly single mothers that have to provide for their children.
@@bestlandhomeschool
i think my son wants to do his medical residency here in the US and return to Colombia once he graduates. its pretty cool that you and your husband are considering moving to Colombia. Living in Colombia is not for everyone. I suggest that you guys try spending a couple of month there and see whether you like or not. I know a lot of American that are quite happy living in small Colombian towns and others that have moved back to the states within a year.
@@Impoorbuticlaimtoberichbelieve me when I say 90% of women in Colombia are for sale to the highest bidder. Part of the reason they have 85% single mother rate among the highest rate in the world. And those university students or bus riders in the am will not reject those “detalles” either no clue what you’re talking about
All women need a lover & a provider, even the rich ones. If you are just a lover, she will also seek a provider, if you are just a provider, she will seek a lover. With the age of social media, all women have a lot more access to wealthy men all over the world. They are no longer settling for one or the other. Most wealthy men aren't looking to pay for love, they pay for sex and for the girl to leave because they aren't interested in their life story and have one simple objective. Wealthy men value their time above all else, and a regular date to take a girl organically is a good amount of time invested, versus a simple 1-2 hour transaction. For men that are looking for love, at this day and age, you'll have your best shot by becoming both the lover and the provider.
I am Colombian young man 28 a Colombian sees a foreigner for money nothing else 💯
A nation of whores and sluts
Tell us something we don't already know.
@@Reignsupreme76 eres gringo 😂😂😂
Another banger from boots on the ground. Noticed more and more girls asking for "things" but when you find someone that rocks with you, the chemistry is different.
I help support my girl because she would struggle bad otherwise. She never asked me for money but when we became exclusive I knew I needed to help her out. I don’t give her a lot but I give her enough to be good. We are making plans for me to move there and us be together full time.
But she did survive before you came around and will survive when you are gone
@@armyguytravels I’m sure she would. But we are still going strong. I have faith we will be together as does she. The awesome thing about her is no social media!! She’s different
Also brother you have to remember the perceptions and stereotypes the local have for foreigners. This is why I keep saying to the young guys, we have to become better ambassadors and take control of our image individually. Each one teach one. we are dealing with a long history of foreigners before us and the recent trend of travelers. You have to make them aware that you live here and are different from others foreigners who visit the country. You are reeducating them in a sense.
There are a lot of "prepago" women in Colombia, and it can be hard to tell the difference between them and regular women. Also, many foreigners will Sugar Date in Colombia to access women outside their league.
Much love QB always coming with the fire comments 🍻
I don’t think any of these women receiving money from these dudes have any respect for themselves first of all. But it is what it is.
😂 Real 👊🏿
Any women that takes money and gets fucked and ravaged and used as a accessory should never get respected ever
Get over it. They are all the same. If you don't pay, someone else will. or she will do it behind your back, especially in moraless Colombia. Broke speak. Get your money up... They are no different than the girls here in the US. I actually think they are worse in Colombia due to their shady culture/history. Good luck.
I 1000% just want to be used for my money! I don't wanna know her favorite movies or how she grew up ect! Just want BOX for now! Plus it's really the same if you're not paying and she hears you're a gringo or a Lawyer or Doctor! Women will ALWAYS consider your money!! They tell you that you need to be 6 feet, and make six figures!!
@@punnymoney3692 Yeah, people are focusing on the wrong things. Not everyone wants to be tired down to one chick and it's cheaper to pay them to leave then to invest all your time and resources into one for her just to cheat on you with what she perceives as the next best thing... Get money- eff bitches. But be careful, especially in Colombia. Seesh
No morals at all!
Paisas have always been known to be super materialistic, but I see it has gotten a lot worse during the past years. It seems like they are more direct now, whereas in the past, they would hang out with guys because they thought it would maybe lead to something more serious down the line.
Started in Latin America and now it’s slowly moving into the USA
Well you can easily look to the distant past in Colombia, the Narco dudes was doing this big time that is why the plastic surgery, super vain environment has stemmed from.
Bingo
Well you pay them to leave, not pay them to stay. 😄JK. The way I look at it if you're with a girl in the US. You are paying for rent, groceries and going out every time. If you are seeing a girl in Colombia on the regular when you go visit and they make you happy. Its worth the few dollars you send for making their lives a little better. As long as you are not getting played. Also you have to remember the average Colombian income is about $800 - $ 1100 USD per month. At the end of the day , you're the one that have control of your well being and finances. Just make good choices that will be beneficial and prosperous to you and you only. Stay strong Kings, There is a whole world out there, not just Colombia.
Try 285-600 usd
If you Google the average salary, you will see the figure you described, but the majority of Colombians make nowhere near that.
I was thinking about the Like thing too!
This dude is paying women for their time, don’t let him fool you. The local women know all about him.
I like the Albert Hugo Restrepo private art gallery in Poblado
You are definately in the wrong city. In Medellin you are going to PAY . Period. Just like in LA. but way cheaper in Medellin
We pay to say goodbye😅
Watching from South africa soweto
I would never pay for a woman to just to be in my presence.. I'd rather be alone
It becomes very easy to not want to have anything to do with any woman no matter how beautiful she might be once you see how much money you save by not having one. You now have the money to buy whatever you want; go anywhere you want whenever you want on a whim. Want to go to Vietnam tonight? Just pack a bag no problem. Meanwhile, they broke and crying themselves to sleep...LOL!
💯 % man
“All around the world the same song”
I’m fit age 80, my good USA retired school teacher friend introduced two fit svelte vetted ages 33 & 40 Medellin girlfriends in year 2021. I give each a monthly COP amount for their cost of Living. With one or the other we connect once or twice per week, and occasionally for a several days adventures trip explore Colombia ; sharing our joy, happiness and love.
Nothing free
Simps are global my guy.
What's more personal than sex, spirituality, and a person's general constitution. Why worry about who is spending?! Never count another man's money, You are going spend one way or another.
Women look at men for what resources they can provide, especially girls with social economic issues. They are family oriented, which means the whole family even sometimes the extended family based on what part the of the city they live. Also kind in mind, most local men with tell you to look for a humble girl outside of the city to find something more serious. Ask the women you are talking to, where they live and then you can tell how much you with need to invest and if you are going to get a good ROI. Keep your head up, you are new to Colombia and its culture
I 1000% just want to be used for my money! I don't wanna know her favorite movies or how she grew up ect! Just want BOX for now! Plus it's really the same if you're not paying and she hears you're a gringo or a Lawyer or Doctor! Women will ALWAYS consider your money!! They tell you that you need to be 6 feet, and make six figures!!
Also, As long as its legal, why do you care what other men do with their money and their time?
If you talking about pros that’s one thing but idc where you are in the world women expect you to provide 🤷🏾♂️.
yes of course .....It is natural for men to want to provide... as men we wouldn’t be happy otherwise.... the modern approach to the situation is toxic.... modern feminism is the problem in my opinion.... it believes that destruction of the natural is progressive... I disagree.
Are you using apps or meeting people in real life?
The app chicks are all pros.
Kari knows Spanish and gets around the country, he doesn’t need apps
@@armyguytravels that's tragic then
@@defrank1870 it’s just the reality of life living in Colombia. Society is degenerate there now. I lived in Colombia for 3 years but moved away because it was exhausting
This is typical in latin culture. The man is the leader and the provider.
Think about it like this, if she's your woman and you don't take care of her, who else will?
There are different levels however, expecting not to pay or barely pay will get you cheated on and not taken seriously even quicker 😅
You are in the Hub of Gold diggers. Not a single girl I met in any south American country whether it is Chile or Bolivia or Peru or Ecuador that asked me to pay for her. Every single girl there I met paid her own shit UNTIIIIIIL I entered Colombia now holy fckkkkkk, she won't get out of her own house unless you go pick her up with a taxi and you pay for the taxi, you pay for the lunch and you pay for the museum or whatever it is, like she aint got money to even get the metro to come and meet you. I started matching with girls and they ask me to pick them up, I would then suggest them to come to my place instead and I would come down and pay for the taxi but in reality I send them as far as possible from where they be staying and once they go to that area they get stuck with the taxi guy cause they have to pay the fare and pay again to go back to their house hehehehe. Half of the girls I spoke to already had at least 1 or 2 kids around the age of 22 living like single moms. The Colombian society is fcked.
Chics' women @re never free young dude!!!!
If you didn't want them to be with you about finances, then why did you choose a developing country? You could've stayed in The States to get with financially better off options. There's some conginitive dissonance going on here. If you want any semblance of that in Colombia, you'll have to get out of Medellin AND go up the estrada to at least #4.
Im just as confused as you are bro... I have no answers... it just all so crazy.... in the end, it will have devastating effects on the family structure.
maybe no one has said this but the issue is the youtubers. if came to colombia to live why are you promoting your life everyday. find a good woman settle down and put down that phone. there are many good women in colombia. there are more thirsty guys and youtubers that is turning those countries into western culture. if you want to make a change stop promoting all these cities and enjoy life bro. good video
Brah..I'm surprised you been here in Colombia/*Medellín* 5 years & don't know how Colombian Life works.. it's NOT paying to play in Colombia..it's the culture. If you don't improve the chica's life in every way..she wants nothing to do w/you..the same happens in USA & western world but 10 times more expensive.
Damn... he hit the nail on the head. Bravo that was clear and precise.
In the West, I never paid. Perhaps you are referring to certain parts like Miami. But typically, you don't have to pay a woman for her time in the West.
Southeast Asia is the last hope
Hey bro, I really like your content. You come across as very sincere and genuine. My 35 years on earth has taught me one thing. No woman is free. Not at all. I bagged this hotty recently around my way, she hits me up constantly, and every time, im bringing the weed to puff, im paying for the hotel, im paying gas or uber , im paying for the bottle, no punani is free. Omg and go ahead get married and see how much a wife is gonna cost you. Men are burdened with always having to be providers, and always having the burden of performance, you're only as good as what you can provide, whether it be dick game, slick game , validation, you name it. Im witchu bro, im disgusted by it, but this is nothing new sir, going back thousands and thousands of years men had to provide a dowery to even claim the woman they wanted. Aint nothing new under the sun. Its never what you do, but how its done.
Bro I’ll respond to your question from a high earning dude. Men want to have fun with the prettiest women around the world and not have any relationship or commitment. So in order for you to get these women that are beautiful and have other options you just throw them some bread. So then after vacation you go your way and then they go their way. Now for men that don’t make a lot of money I don’t understand their reasoning at all. I understand your outlook though
I prefer it , pay for short romances Gives me a lot of free time to do other things I love
the music that girls are listening to and other influences are programming their mindsets. But keep communicating with the locals and build your social network, then have locals introduce you to locals, that is the way things are done in Latin culture. Plus you still sound depressed, you need to go on a trip and take a break from the city. Bro it is your energy, it is in your voice. Take a break
This was my issue with the passport bros movement. The passport bros movement has become an indirect unofficial brothel tour around any poverty-stricken environments. My coworker was having lunch in DR. When she got up to head to the restroom, a random American dude straight up asked her cuanto cuesta, "Home much."
But we’re not all like that.
That gun chambering in your videos gives me ptsd lol
Cause dudes went out there, didn't respect the rules of the game and fucked up the market.
I'm here in medellin right now. I got my gf here and my women and no I don't give them no money only ways we can both my money together. But I know some guys going to trick that's them.
I 1000% just want to be used for my money! I don't wanna know her favorite movies or how she grew up ect! Just want BOX for now! Plus it's really the same if you're not paying and she hears you're a gringo or a Lawyer or Doctor! Women will ALWAYS consider your money!! They tell you that you need to be 6 feet, and make six figures!!
You pay for love when you don't have the looks and the charisma.
It’s been that way you are just coming into the fold
Tricking is the obly way
Modern day prostitution
dogs barking whole video
Also she not gonna F wit you long if you don’t have anything to offer
That's the majority of women across the world. Not just Medellín. If you lead with your wallet, she's going to take advantage of it most likely.
Give The Ladies Money!