The Dangers of Pretending to Be Someone You're Not - Dr. Gabor Maté

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  • Опубликовано: 1 ноя 2024

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  • @julierobinson8173
    @julierobinson8173 2 месяца назад +19

    “Don't Set Yourself On Fire To Keep Others Warm.” I love this quote. It's a reminder that being kind or selfless isn't always a good thing. In my mind, it's not the self-centered, inconsiderate people that need to hear this quote

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  2 месяца назад +2

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts! I’m glad you resonate with the quote. It’s such an important reminder for all of us.

  • @nancyadams4358
    @nancyadams4358 2 месяца назад +5

    Realizing I do have a choice gave me the key to myself what an amazing life I’ve lived. Pain on any level can be an escape or a teacher to self. Gratitude for who we are; we are all a miracle, and. think about that…..✨

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  2 месяца назад

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts! It's inspiring to see how you've turned your experiences into a journey of self-discovery and gratitude.

  • @mariellarobles3372
    @mariellarobles3372 27 дней назад +1

    I always remember to tell myself if everyone likes me than am I being authentic. I was a people pleaser and I had more "friends" before now I want genuine connections and friendships and life is better it filters out the relationships that would leave me feeling frustrated and now I don't worry about keeping people in my life and it's okay to disappoint and be content and at peace with myself.

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  26 дней назад +1

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts. It's so important to be true to yourself, and I'm glad to hear that you are finding peace and genuine connections now. It's okay if not everyone likes us, what matters most is being authentic and happy with who we are. Wishing you continued strength on this journey! 😊❤

  • @carolcollins3108
    @carolcollins3108 2 месяца назад +5

    To practice self compassion is very important.
    Thank you for a good video.

  • @wendyo38
    @wendyo38 2 месяца назад +7

    This is helping so much today. I will practice being my authentic self even if others walk away.

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  2 месяца назад +1

      I'm really glad to hear that! Embracing your authentic self is such an important journey. Keep being you!

    • @wendyo38
      @wendyo38 2 месяца назад +1

      @yourinnerchildmatters Gabor is my favourite

  • @pdelaprimm
    @pdelaprimm Месяц назад +2

    Boy, the opening remarks.
    Have spent more time than I care to admit “not being myself”, due to the family background more than anything else, and once told a therapist years ago, “I feel like a non-entity …”
    In “healing”, integrating and more, have seen many latent aspects and thought, “My God, how do so get more of THAT - MORE OF ME!”
    Recently told the psychologist with whom I am working a couple of things:
    “I didn’t even really become a person …”, to which she completely agreed.
    Also, “It took me seventeen years to become regulated enough to work full-time (at anything I could find)”, to which she replied, “Well, it won’t take you seventeen more to become who you are.”
    I have been at this twenty years at the end of November.

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  Месяц назад +1

      Thank you for sharing your journey. It sounds like you’ve come a long way, and I admire your strength and persistence. Healing takes time, and it’s amazing to hear that you’re discovering more of yourself along the way. Keep going-you deserve to feel whole and at peace. Sending you lots of encouragement and positive thoughts! ❤

  • @julierobinson8173
    @julierobinson8173 2 месяца назад +7

    This includes family members and dynamics

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  2 месяца назад +2

      Absolutely! Family dynamics play such a important role in our lives, and it's fascinating to explore how they shape our experiences.

    • @wendyo38
      @wendyo38 2 месяца назад +3

      100%

  • @yvonnelesleybrigenshaw950
    @yvonnelesleybrigenshaw950 2 месяца назад +4

    This is brilliant!

  • @daniedupreez6678
    @daniedupreez6678 Месяц назад +3

    Thank you for the clear and complete transcriptions. It helps a lot to make this valuable video even more clear.

  • @snabeyratne
    @snabeyratne 2 месяца назад +6

    Excellent presentation.

  • @MaríaCursos-c5f
    @MaríaCursos-c5f Месяц назад +3

    Thank you very much for the video edit. Could you update the original link with the full talk, please? The link in the description box (the one that says Paloma foundation) is not working and I'm really interested in listening to it. Thank you in advance!

  • @ajcraft-hello
    @ajcraft-hello 2 месяца назад +4

    “…but if you ask [urself] compassionately, with curiosity…then you might get the answer…”

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  2 месяца назад +2

      Absolutely! Compassion and curiosity can lead to some amazing insights. It's all about the mindset we bring to our questions!

  • @yourinnerchildmatters
    @yourinnerchildmatters  2 месяца назад +3

    In this thought-provoking video, renowned physician and author Dr. Gabor Maté explores the psychological and emotional consequences of living a life that is not true to oneself. Discover the dangers of pretending to be someone you're not and how this disconnection from your authentic self can lead to various mental health issues, including anxiety, depression, and burnout. Dr. Maté shares insights from his extensive research and clinical experience, emphasizing the importance of self-acceptance and the journey towards authenticity. Whether you’re struggling with identity issues or simply seeking a deeper understanding of yourself, this video offers valuable perspectives on the impact of societal pressures and the path to genuine self-expression. Join us as we delve into the complexities of identity, vulnerability, and the courage it takes to embrace who you truly are. #GaborMate, #AuthenticSelf, #SelfDiscovery, #MentalHealth, #StopLivingALie, #Authenticity, #TrueSelf,

  • @sweswarupini9732
    @sweswarupini9732 2 месяца назад +4

    Yes imitation can't give true worth

  • @Happy-tc2jt
    @Happy-tc2jt 2 месяца назад +3

    ❤❤❤

  • @revensteed9539
    @revensteed9539 2 месяца назад +6

    Turned it off due to annoying ad on screen

    • @rnazareth128
      @rnazareth128 Месяц назад +2

      you can turn it off by pushing the x sign on it❤

    • @Barbara-gv2vw
      @Barbara-gv2vw Месяц назад +1

      I just click skip but I agree it’s distracting

  • @isthatcarlin4948
    @isthatcarlin4948 Месяц назад +2

    If you’re not being yourself you will never attract what’s for YOU

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  Месяц назад +1

      Absolutely! Authenticity is key to attracting what truly resonates with us.

  • @nalenilambourdiere9620
    @nalenilambourdiere9620 Месяц назад +2

    Every religion: you need to surrender your personality, to be more like such and such prophet

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  Месяц назад

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts! It's always valuable to hear different interpretations of religious teachings and how they impact our identities.