I appreciate how Dr. Gabor addresses the "source" of nearly all problems, emotional pain in childhood. Unfortunately, medicine and others ignore this and instead focus on medicating the "symptoms." That is so true. Identity and personality are constructs. The outer shell that we project into the world, much of which is influenced by our upbringing. #TrueSelf, #DrGaborMaté, #Authenticity, #posttraumaticstressdisorder, #childhoodtrauma, #ptsd
I withdrew from everyone as a child. I watched my dad attempt to kill my mom and he kept me from getting help and running away by jamming knives between the door and door jam. My grades suffered through school and I couldn’t feel part of the world as a whole.
I’m so sorry you experienced such trauma. I hope your journey is bringing you closer to inner peace. Have great compassion for yourself (and your younger self) be good to yourself , you deserve love.
Thank you for posting this vital information to all. The truth has been hidden for far to long by the programming we receive, from childhood, to 'fit-in' to this materialisticly orientated world. Thanks to Dr Gabor for his work, it is critical for people to get to understand ourselves more fully and outside of the religious doctrines which in most cases compound the problem further. Thank you again for your channel.
The more i look into early childhood development the more I'm convinced that nurture has an exponentially greater effect on who you become as an adult than nature. Of course nature has some input in severe instances but nurture i firmly believe is more detrimental
I also believe that one can move away from these mal adaptive coping strategies but having to do so as an adult is much more difficult than if you had had The "good enough" childhood experiences and upbringing. I am on a journey of change, self discovery, dark night, all the things for the past 2+ years and i must say that it hasn't been easy nor is it linear. I still have to remind myself often that the only way to heal is, no matter what, to keep moving forward because the past already happened and cannot be changed and the future is yet to be. I also need to remind myself when things get really bad that i am NOT the only one struggling with these issues.
Unusual part is that toxic people, toxic ambient, shame-culture country can deform this persona without us realizing that we are injured by psychopaths, sociopaths, narcissists who have public persona of angel and saints or helpers or fixers or some kind of authority.
@@robynhope219 This is another extreme. Where we label everyone as pathological. Trauma is issue of attachment styles - we end up pull push back with anxious avoidant style. We seek help but in the same time we perceive other people as sociopaths and hence never listen to them, never form close relationship.. This ends up as borderline disorder where we end up seeing people as either angels or devils, as if there is no spectrum. GM has his flaws like everyone else. Jordan Peterson is better example of a person who gives facade of a helper - but what he really doing is spreading narcissism and he is teaching people how to develop mental illness and how to abuse their own children, with his rules for life. - Anyone who tells you that he has a solution, a cure, a system, a therapy, a course, framework, religion, love, empathy or rules for life - is a glorified con-artist. Probably a psychopathic narcissist. And anyone who tells you this is out for your money and adulation. He seeks either narcissistic supply or power, or money. They want your subservient admiration and everything you have, because they are merciless and callous, & they are very sick people. 🟥 Prof. Sam Vaknin
Dear wonderful people, I hope you find peace and healing and are able to find and exist as your true self with working through your trauma and healing. Blessings and love ❤️🤍🌸🌼
The accuser is the one false convictions ill bet everything you believe in would you lose if you wer givin a taste of your own medicine you will get what you put in the way you percieve another derives from your real self otherwise you wouldnt be addressing this topic .
I appreciate how Dr. Gabor addresses the "source" of nearly all problems, emotional pain in childhood. Unfortunately, medicine and others ignore this and instead focus on medicating the "symptoms." That is so true. Identity and personality are constructs. The outer shell that we project into the world, much of which is influenced by our upbringing.
#TrueSelf, #DrGaborMaté, #Authenticity, #posttraumaticstressdisorder, #childhoodtrauma, #ptsd
He is not a psychiatrist , psychologist, or social worker...he should discuss body parts.
I withdrew from everyone as a child. I watched my dad attempt to kill my mom and he kept me from getting help and running away by jamming knives between the door and door jam. My grades suffered through school and I couldn’t feel part of the world as a whole.
I'm so sorry to hear about what you went through and thank you for sharing your story. It takes courage to open up about such difficult experiences.
I’m so sorry you experienced such trauma. I hope your journey is bringing you closer to inner peace. Have great compassion for yourself (and your younger self) be good to yourself , you deserve love.
I hope you find healing. You are very strong to have survived that horror. You are a champion
Thank you Dr Gabor for the work that you do.
Thanks for watching and Thank you for recognizing Dr. Gabor's work.
We the people are response-able ❤
Thank you for recognizing the importance of our collective responsibility.
"yes it was the personality but you are not your personality."
So freeing words and saddening words at the same time.
Thank you for sharing that insight! It really resonates with me, and I appreciate your thoughts on this.
Thank you for posting this vital information to all. The truth has been hidden for far to long by the programming we receive, from childhood, to 'fit-in' to this materialisticly orientated world. Thanks to Dr Gabor for his work, it is critical for people to get to understand ourselves more fully and outside of the religious doctrines which in most cases compound the problem further. Thank you again for your channel.
Thank you for your kind words, it means a lot to me!
The more i look into early childhood development the more I'm convinced that nurture has an exponentially greater effect on who you become as an adult than nature. Of course nature has some input in severe instances but nurture i firmly believe is more detrimental
I appreciate your thoughtful insight on the impact of nurture on adult development.
I also believe that one can move away from these mal adaptive coping strategies but having to do so as an adult is much more difficult than if you had had The "good enough" childhood experiences and upbringing. I am on a journey of change, self discovery, dark night, all the things for the past 2+ years and i must say that it hasn't been easy nor is it linear. I still have to remind myself often that the only way to heal is, no matter what, to keep moving forward because the past already happened and cannot be changed and the future is yet to be. I also need to remind myself when things get really bad that i am NOT the only one struggling with these issues.
I don’t know if I
Hell yeah! Thank you for taking the time to put these videos together for us.
I really appreciate your kind words! It motivates me to keep creating content for awesome viewers like you.
Most grateful for this it's most informative 🙏
Thank you for your kind words, I'm glad you found the video informative!
@@yourinnerchildmatters so needed to hear this
Thank you Dr. Gabor. Gently raising consciousness around the magnificent machine many feel they are!
Thank you for acknowledging the impact of Dr. Gabor's message.
Thank you 💯
You're very welcome! I'm glad you enjoyed it.
We ALL have a public persona and a private one...nothing new or unusual there.
Unusual part is that toxic people, toxic ambient, shame-culture country can deform this persona without us realizing that we are injured by psychopaths, sociopaths, narcissists who have public persona of angel and saints or helpers or fixers or some kind of authority.
@@ranc1977 totally true...for all we know GM is a sociopath (he probably is) they're usually smooth operators.
@@robynhope219 This is another extreme.
Where we label everyone as pathological.
Trauma is issue of attachment styles - we end up pull push back with anxious avoidant style.
We seek help but in the same time we perceive other people as sociopaths and hence never listen to them, never form close relationship.. This ends up as borderline disorder where we end up seeing people as either angels or devils, as if there is no spectrum.
GM has his flaws like everyone else.
Jordan Peterson is better example of a person who gives facade of a helper - but what he really doing is spreading narcissism and he is teaching people how to develop mental illness and how to abuse their own children, with his rules for life.
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Anyone who tells you that he has a solution, a cure, a system, a therapy, a course, framework, religion, love, empathy or rules for life - is a glorified con-artist. Probably a psychopathic narcissist. And anyone who tells you this is out for your money and adulation. He seeks either narcissistic supply or power, or money. They want your subservient admiration and everything you have, because they are merciless and callous, & they are very sick people.
🟥 Prof. Sam Vaknin
Interesting!
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Thank you for finding it interesting!
Dear wonderful people, I hope you find peace and healing and are able to find and exist as your true self with working through your trauma and healing. Blessings and love ❤️🤍🌸🌼
Thank you for sharing such beautiful and uplifting words! Wishing everyone the best on their healing journey.
Gabor Mate MD PhD CM ❤
Just say NO! to b-lame✊
Your encouragement means a lot, thank you!
The accuser is the one false convictions ill bet everything you believe in would you lose if you wer givin a taste of your own medicine you will get what you put in the way you percieve another derives from your real self otherwise you wouldnt be addressing this topic .
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