This song helped me and my girlfriend stay together. We were both dealing with lots. We are married now. I wouldn’t want to go through any hardships without her. Growing with her is amazing.
Lyrics 💗💗 You say there's so much you don't know You need to go and find yourself You say you'd rather be alone 'Cause you think you won't find it tied to someone else Ooh, who said it's true That the growing only happens on your own? They don't know me and you I don't think you have to leave If to change is what you need You can change right next to me When you're high, I'll take the lows You can ebb and I can flow And we'll take it slow And grow as we go Grow as we go You won't be the only one I am unfinished, I've got so much left to learn I don't know how this river runs But I'd like the company through every twist and turn Ooh, who said it's true That the growing only happens on your own? They don't know me and you You don't ever have to leave If to change is what you need You can change right next to me When you're high, I'll take the lows You can ebb and I can flow And we'll take it slow And grow as we go Grow as we go Grow as we go Grow as we go I don't know who we'll become I can't promise it's not written in the stars But I believe that when it's done We're gonna see that it was better That we grew up together Tell me you don't wanna leave 'Cause if change is what you need You can change right next to me When you're high, I'll take the lows You can ebb and I can flow We'll take it slow And grow as we go Grow as we go Grow as we go Grow as we go
My husband and I met when we were in 6th grade. God led us together when we were 16. We’re in our 40s now. We’ve raised each other. 💛💙 we’ve been married for 24years this year. I can’t wait to see how much more we will grow together. 🪴
I heard this song right before a man I loved migrated from the Philippines to Canada. We both feared the idea of a cross-continental LDR, so we ended things a week before his flight. This song turned things around for us and we got back together. I shared a good two years with him and I loved him with all my being. He was my first. He was home. And it gutted me when, one year ago, he said he'd rather we grow apart. Sometimes, I still think of him. When I pass by our old haunts, I find myself recalling our better days. It used to hurt being just a memory to him and vice versa, but I can be content with that now. It's better this way. Our time is long gone and I deserve better. So does he.
Just like mine. My ex and I had to break up because he also needs to go to Canada. The difference is we both know it won't work (LDR) and we might end up hating each other. We need to grow apart and if someday, if it happens that we meet each other again we would definitely give it a try. 😊☺️ The thing is, when we know that its genuine and unconditional love even if it hurts, we release them with grace. We allow them and ourselves to grow ❤️
Something similar is happening to me right now and I'm so glad to have read this comment. Bursted into tears reading this. I don't regret any of the time spent with my love, but long distance is hard to maintain and sometimes parting ways is for the best.
Some people are only in our lives for some seasons. They leave and new seasons get to start. Hope you're doing well now 😊 Wishing you all the good things.
HE will never be absent from your ❤.... Dont let go...remember the good times... With an open Heart... Look Back now and then... He will always be a part your memories...Let go of any that are painful...and cherish the good times... A life full of Love...❤
As someone who got married at 20 and just celebrated their 15th wedding anniversary earlier this month, I’ve always loved this song. We did a lot of growing in those 15 years but we grew alongside each other. It IS possible if you want it.
I just woke up and two of my favorite artists has collaborated together in my favorite song! I Live for this song the harmonies everything is just wow!!!! Love it💛💛
I KNOW RIGHT!! This is one of my favorite Ben Platt songs, and Sara has always been one of my favorite artists. It's so cool to hear them both like this!
The song really helped me through my breakup about 3 years ago. It was the first big breakup I ever had with someone I truly loved. Knowing that they didn't want to grow with me and instead grow apart really killed me inside but knowing that other people felt the same and seeing the other stories in the comments helped 💛
My husband and I have been married for almost 42 years and this song describes what we actually did except for feeling like we needed to grow apart from each other. We grew as we went and we're still growing. Thank you, Ben, for writing a song that fits our journey. We both loved this song as soon as we heard it. 💙💙
Them together is killing me of heart attack! OMG, my favorite people singing my favorite song!!! They can make an entire album collaboration and they can take all my money!!! Puhlease!!!
The collab I didn’t know I needed! This song never fails to make me cry, and Sara’s voice just adds a new level of warmth and magic to this already beautiful song. Such an amazing job you two ❤️
When I was writing my vows to my husband, this song came on. I started crying thinking about how much we have grown together and will continue to do. I based my wedding vows off this song and promised to grow with him forever. I love this song. ❤️
I can’t believe this is real I have been listening to Sing to me Instead and Reverie all day. And just played Gravity to my mom an hour ago because she said she had never heard of it. Thank you for this gift! 🥰💜
I kept wanting to sing along, but everytime there was a harmony that wasn't there before, I was just left speechless and couldn't cope, this is too beautiful and I need a whole album of you two singing together.
What a blessing of a song. Love both of these artists beyond words. We all got one another, collectively. We ebb we flow we catch we fall we give we receive….we pause we grow we take a step back and then take 10 forward…love to all.
Their voices sound amazing together! It's such a beautiful song, and the harmonies make it even better. It was so calming I started to drift off while listening lol. I need sleep.
I am legitimately weeping over here. Two of my favorite artists. The song. Their harmony together. Repeat is in this Masterpiece's future. 💛🌻 Thank you Ben Platt and Sara Bareilles Thank you
I have been waiting for this collab ever since Grow As We Go was first released. Two perfect voices that compliment each other beautifully for the most magical song. What more could you ask for?! 😍
Oh my goodness, I wish that I had heard this song last year. But God has got me and has been growing me and I have to lay down my regrets at His feet and my past that I can’t edit. I can see God’s hand through it though and can be thankful for it when I remember things about the past. It’s hard to let go, but when I do and choose to accept Jesus’ grace, words, and love for me and stop beating myself up with shame and lies, I know that life and life abundant will what I experience.
Bittersweet. I have so many beautiful memories to this song. This was our themesong afterall. We had a long distance relationship for almost 3 years but when he finally moved closer to me, he passed away a few days after. I never got to say goodbye. He still lives in my heart though.💙🤍
This is so incredibly beautiful, and as someone that has just reached the 10 year mark of being with a partner, it's so important to grow together *and* separately. Growth and change are part of life, and while uncomfortable is so necessary for a relationship to last. Find someone that encourages you to grow and accepts your encouragement to grow into the best versions of yourselves.
This is a beautiful beautiful balance between the two of them I love me some Sara Bareilles and I’m loving Ben Platt and the two of them together it reminds me of how music used to be I know I’m only 45 years old but it reminds me of those are some folk 80s and 90s duets that are used to live. Definitely buying this where ever I can find it!
I found this song by chance when I was compiling the wedding song list for me and my fiancée. Immediately got goosebumps and thought "this is us". The amount of shit we've dealt with since getting together is unbelievable. Still, I was unsure about putting it on the list because it starts in a seemingly bad place and was initially a breakup song, but in the end I put it there as a later track. I was supposed to walk down the isle to one of the wedding classics. Then on the wedding day, our music player malfunctioned - at first it wasn't playing at all and I thought, great, so we have no wedding music. Then at last it started playing, but the order of the tracks was all scrambled, and this song came out as the first one. I teared up and thought, okay, I guess it was meant to be. It was meaningful, heartfelt and perfect.
My partner and I are huge fans of Ben. We saw Ben in St. Louis, M O. last year . It was a great show . Hope he will do more shows at the Rockefeller Center. Hope to see him on Broadway soon!!!!! What a wonderful hero for our community!!!! Michael
The love of my life introduced me to this song and I didn’t appreciate its beauty at the time. She told me she needed time alone to grow when really she left me for another. Wish there was a way to turn things back
I was looking at this like wow this song came out a while ago, they just put the audio on youtube? and then i looked more closely at the title and almost had a heart attack. this is the dream collab
She’s singing all the harmony’s I’ve been singing for the past two years❤️🔥
Yes! Me too! ❤
SAME I FOUND MY PEOPLE
YES OMG SAME
OMG YESS 🥹
OMG me too, dear
I will never get tired of this song
Agreed! Like ever!
Me too
sameeeeee
I was like WHAT!!! And then clicked immediately, true story
Same !!!
Sounds legend-i'm willing to wait for it-dary (dunno why I associated HIMYM with this Plattypus)
Me too LOL 😭😭
Me too!!!!!!
Dude literally same
This song helped me and my girlfriend stay together. We were both dealing with lots. We are married now. I wouldn’t want to go through any hardships without her. Growing with her is amazing.
Lyrics 💗💗
You say there's so much you don't know
You need to go and find yourself
You say you'd rather be alone
'Cause you think you won't find it tied to someone else
Ooh, who said it's true
That the growing only happens on your own?
They don't know me and you
I don't think you have to leave
If to change is what you need
You can change right next to me
When you're high, I'll take the lows
You can ebb and I can flow
And we'll take it slow
And grow as we go
Grow as we go
You won't be the only one
I am unfinished, I've got so much left to learn
I don't know how this river runs
But I'd like the company through every twist and turn
Ooh, who said it's true
That the growing only happens on your own?
They don't know me and you
You don't ever have to leave
If to change is what you need
You can change right next to me
When you're high, I'll take the lows
You can ebb and I can flow
And we'll take it slow
And grow as we go
Grow as we go
Grow as we go
Grow as we go
I don't know who we'll become
I can't promise it's not written in the stars
But I believe that when it's done
We're gonna see that it was better
That we grew up together
Tell me you don't wanna leave
'Cause if change is what you need
You can change right next to me
When you're high, I'll take the lows
You can ebb and I can flow
We'll take it slow
And grow as we go
Grow as we go
Grow as we go
Grow as we go
@Kat Some of the most beautiful lyrics
Tqq
❤
“You say you’d rather be alone, cause you think you won’t find it tied to someone else.”
Sometimes duet voices do not have the magic of blending, but the two are a perfect complement to each other.
My husband and I met when we were in 6th grade. God led us together when we were 16. We’re in our 40s now. We’ve raised each other. 💛💙 we’ve been married for 24years this year. I can’t wait to see how much more we will grow together. 🪴
❤
I heard this song right before a man I loved migrated from the Philippines to Canada.
We both feared the idea of a cross-continental LDR, so we ended things a week before his flight. This song turned things around for us and we got back together.
I shared a good two years with him and I loved him with all my being. He was my first. He was home. And it gutted me when, one year ago, he said he'd rather we grow apart.
Sometimes, I still think of him. When I pass by our old haunts, I find myself recalling our better days. It used to hurt being just a memory to him and vice versa, but I can be content with that now. It's better this way. Our time is long gone and I deserve better. So does he.
So happy you've made your peace with what happened. Sending you a hug!
Just like mine. My ex and I had to break up because he also needs to go to Canada. The difference is we both know it won't work (LDR) and we might end up hating each other. We need to grow apart and if someday, if it happens that we meet each other again we would definitely give it a try. 😊☺️
The thing is, when we know that its genuine and unconditional love even if it hurts, we release them with grace. We allow them and ourselves to grow ❤️
Something similar is happening to me right now and I'm so glad to have read this comment. Bursted into tears reading this. I don't regret any of the time spent with my love, but long distance is hard to maintain and sometimes parting ways is for the best.
Some people are only in our lives for some seasons. They leave and new seasons get to start. Hope you're doing well now 😊 Wishing you all the good things.
HE will never be absent from your ❤....
Dont let go...remember the good times...
With an open Heart...
Look Back now and then...
He will always be a part your memories...Let go of any that are painful...and cherish the good times...
A life full of Love...❤
Atiny , where are you ? Our captain is the best , his songs recommendations are the best ❤
Here 🫡🐿️❤️
@ heyyy 🥹🥹❤️
As someone who got married at 20 and just celebrated their 15th wedding anniversary earlier this month, I’ve always loved this song. We did a lot of growing in those 15 years but we grew alongside each other. It IS possible if you want it.
I'm happy for you two!
The grace I'm praying for
I didn’t think this song could get any better, I love this!!!!
I just woke up and two of my favorite artists has collaborated together in my favorite song! I Live for this song the harmonies everything is just wow!!!! Love it💛💛
RIGHT? First, one of Sara's songs plays in the grocery store I work at and now this! This day just keeps giving, haha!
I KNOW RIGHT!! This is one of my favorite Ben Platt songs, and Sara has always been one of my favorite artists. It's so cool to hear them both like this!
The original version was already perfect and my favorite song, and this one is like adding extra magic, so thankful for this gift ❤️.
1:00 you can always change, i wouldn't mind just stay true to yourself
The song really helped me through my breakup about 3 years ago. It was the first big breakup I ever had with someone I truly loved. Knowing that they didn't want to grow with me and instead grow apart really killed me inside but knowing that other people felt the same and seeing the other stories in the comments helped 💛
Hey stranger, I’m so proud of you for making it through the heartbreak. Ilysm. You’re doing great!
Just want you to know that reading your comment is helping me get through my heartbreak too❤️🩹
Same 💛
And this song helped me too during my breakup. It's good to know that you are now fine.
Hope you are feeling healed and fantastic right now :)
the harmonies 😭😭😭
"I don't think you have to leave if the change is all you need."
Hits me hard😢
My husband and I have been married for almost 42 years and this song describes what we actually did except for feeling like we needed to grow apart from each other. We grew as we went and we're still growing. Thank you, Ben, for writing a song that fits our journey. We both loved this song as soon as we heard it. 💙💙
This song has became my haven, my calmness, my stillwater.
I LOVE that she's singing the melody in the same key! It sounds like a lullaby ✨❤️🎀 I love this so much
Them together is killing me of heart attack! OMG, my favorite people singing my favorite song!!! They can make an entire album collaboration and they can take all my money!!! Puhlease!!!
"killing me of heart attack"
i love you
I want this to be in John Green's next movie ost ❤❤❤😊
this song is what healing sounds like
I love this song so much.. it brings tears to my eyes no matter how many times i’ve heard it.
there is no one in this world that i love more than Ben Platt. no one.
I remember listening to Sara Bareilles on my rides to middle school and bopping my head to her upbeat songs. How time does fly
The collab I didn’t know I needed! This song never fails to make me cry, and Sara’s voice just adds a new level of warmth and magic to this already beautiful song. Such an amazing job you two ❤️
Right? It's so beautiful!
When I was writing my vows to my husband, this song came on. I started crying thinking about how much we have grown together and will continue to do. I based my wedding vows off this song and promised to grow with him forever. I love this song. ❤️
Hi Sarah 👋
How are you?
Thanks Sarah
How long have you been a supporting fan of me?
This is so beautiful! I love the harmonies and how she’s singing the melody in the same octave. It really shows off how warm her lower register is ❤
This version of the song feels hopeful & on-the-mend while the original song feels heartbreaking post-break up.
I walked down the aisle with my now wife to the original of this song. This is so beautiful ❤️
Thanks for sharing brother :)
Hearing this is like my own life story! I cried the whole time I listened to this
I truly didn't think this song could get any better, I was wrong and not only I'm glad that I was but I'm grateful that I was.
Haven't listened to Ben Platt in a hot minute, but the algorithm lead me hear, and I'm so glad. What a beautiful version of this song.
"lead me hear"
@@jaketomas1234 lmaoo let’s just say it’s an on purpose pun and not autocorrect making a typo :)
I can’t believe this is real I have been listening to Sing to me Instead and Reverie all day. And just played Gravity to my mom an hour ago because she said she had never heard of it. Thank you for this gift! 🥰💜
Hi Jessica 👋
How are you?
Never been better....ooh how Sara's harmonizing it so beautifully...❤️🔥
I kept wanting to sing along, but everytime there was a harmony that wasn't there before, I was just left speechless and couldn't cope, this is too beautiful and I need a whole album of you two singing together.
I loved them singing "Bad Idea" from Waitress!!! This is beautiful too!!!
this right here is serotonin
What a blessing of a song. Love both of these artists beyond words. We all got one another, collectively. We ebb we flow we catch we fall we give we receive….we pause we grow we take a step back and then take 10 forward…love to all.
Thanks for your support always
Definitely Ben's best song. The second he released it years ago, I was stunned. It was so beautiful and heart-wrenching.
Just when I already thought it was amazing, we got to the last chorus. Oh, gods, we didn’t deserve this beauty.
Some songs change you, or help you realise who you are and what you believe in. This is one of them.
Yes it is. Thanks for your support
I love the harmonies, especially at 2:53. I love this song
Their voices sound amazing together! It's such a beautiful song, and the harmonies make it even better. It was so calming I started to drift off while listening lol. I need sleep.
Like them separately weren't amazing amazing enough, then they go and collab...THIS is the gold standard of musicians people!
Beautiful
DIDNT KNOW THIS SONG COULD GET MORE EMOTIONAL
Ben Platt be pulling on my heart strings 😢🙏💖✨️
never ,in a million years, have i thought i’d be lovin’ this song more than i already do! 😩
I just heard the first piano notes and my eyes become teary, all the things that Ben Platt makes are a masterpiece 😭💓💕
I am legitimately weeping over here. Two of my favorite artists. The song. Their harmony together. Repeat is in this Masterpiece's future.
💛🌻
Thank you Ben Platt and Sara Bareilles
Thank you
Fantastic collaboration. Really liked the song with these voices. Takes me back to some 1960s sounds
I have been waiting for this collab ever since Grow As We Go was first released. Two perfect voices that compliment each other beautifully for the most magical song. What more could you ask for?! 😍
Literally adore everything about this 😭❤️
Oh my goodness, I wish that I had heard this song last year. But God has got me and has been growing me and I have to lay down my regrets at His feet and my past that I can’t edit. I can see God’s hand through it though and can be thankful for it when I remember things about the past. It’s hard to let go, but when I do and choose to accept Jesus’ grace, words, and love for me and stop beating myself up with shame and lies, I know that life and life abundant will what I experience.
Bittersweet. I have so many beautiful memories to this song. This was our themesong afterall. We had a long distance relationship for almost 3 years but when he finally moved closer to me, he passed away a few days after. I never got to say goodbye. He still lives in my heart though.💙🤍
sending you lots of love🤍🤍🤍
❤
Ben Platt is a huge inspiration to me and I WILL produce a song for him one day.
Good luck... I wish your dream become true...
This song is like a warm hug, and I'm here for it!💯
The chills this song has always given me are twofold now 🥺
I am unfinished Ive got so much left to learn - I don't know how this river runs, I like the company through every twist and turn .
OMG!! I hope Sara returns to music!!
My honetown radio still plays Wont write you a lovesong
Forever in love with Sara's tone
This is so incredibly beautiful, and as someone that has just reached the 10 year mark of being with a partner, it's so important to grow together *and* separately. Growth and change are part of life, and while uncomfortable is so necessary for a relationship to last. Find someone that encourages you to grow and accepts your encouragement to grow into the best versions of yourselves.
These two are absolutely amazing, glad they brought this one back
I remember listening to this song over and over again years ago, this version is so good
never thought this song could get any better ❤️❤️❤️ my fav artists.. ben and sara❤️
Ben Platt is magic, Sarah with him, Magic Plus!!! 👍👍👍
This is a beautiful beautiful balance between the two of them I love me some Sara Bareilles and I’m loving Ben Platt and the two of them together it reminds me of how music used to be I know I’m only 45 years old but it reminds me of those are some folk 80s and 90s duets that are used to live. Definitely buying this where ever I can find it!
Love this song and love the words about growing as we go
I found this song by chance when I was compiling the wedding song list for me and my fiancée. Immediately got goosebumps and thought "this is us". The amount of shit we've dealt with since getting together is unbelievable. Still, I was unsure about putting it on the list because it starts in a seemingly bad place and was initially a breakup song, but in the end I put it there as a later track.
I was supposed to walk down the isle to one of the wedding classics. Then on the wedding day, our music player malfunctioned - at first it wasn't playing at all and I thought, great, so we have no wedding music. Then at last it started playing, but the order of the tracks was all scrambled, and this song came out as the first one. I teared up and thought, okay, I guess it was meant to be.
It was meaningful, heartfelt and perfect.
you two sound amazing together, I love this version so much already ♥️
No way...I fell in love with this song, again❤
My partner and I are huge fans of Ben. We saw Ben in St. Louis, M O. last year . It was a great show . Hope he will do more shows at the Rockefeller Center. Hope to see him on Broadway soon!!!!! What a wonderful hero for our community!!!! Michael
Truly incredible. Still maintains the heart and nuance of the original while sprinkling a little extra pizzazz with Sara's gorgeous warm vocals!
Omg….This is it. This now can’t get any better. This is PERFECTION. BEAUTIFUL. THIS IS PURE MAGIC. ♥️
This is so amazing! I never knew I needed to hear their voices together, it's making me smile so wide!
OH MY GOD THIS IS SO GOOD
TWO BEAUTIFUL VOICES TOGETHER 😭💕💕💖✨✨💖💕😭 THANK YOU FOR THIS !!!!
Plus, this is a beautiful song !!!! One of my favs
This song is so powerful I've been with my partner for 12 years we have grown and learned so much but always had each other at the end of the day
My heart is full. Thank you for this gift.
my healing song. Thank you.
Like it could get any better! But then it did! Still one of my favorite songs in recent history!
love love love
THE COLLAB I DIDN'T KNOW COULD HAPPEN BUT NEEDED ALL THIS TIME
such a beautiful song, even more magical now
My beautiful song
This song is so perfect and this has just made it more perfect😭
This is my favorite song.
This song just feels like home
My favorite Ben Platt song that I felt was my hidden secret just got infinitely better. Perfect collaboration
The love of my life introduced me to this song and I didn’t appreciate its beauty at the time. She told me she needed time alone to grow when really she left me for another. Wish there was a way to turn things back
I love this song and I love Sara. This is a gift
My husband didn't want to grow together. He decided to grow apart and now he's my ex-husband and sometimes it still hurts.
❤
❤
I'm very fortunate, my husband grows with me
I just . . . this is perfect
Oh god. OH GOD. OHHHH GOOOOOOODDDD
I was looking at this like wow this song came out a while ago, they just put the audio on youtube? and then i looked more closely at the title and almost had a heart attack. this is the dream collab
I really hope I'll find this kind of love someday where we grow together instead of growing apart ❤
i always cry when i sing this. really crying my heart out with this song. love this!!!
In love