Stalker Psychology - Inside the Mind of a Stalker
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Dr Hickey is currently the Dean of the California School of Forensic Studies at Alliant International University where he oversees the growth and development of the largest forensics studies program in the United States. He makes frequent media appearances including interviews on CNN, History Channel, NPR, Larry King Live, 20/20, A&E Biography, Good Morning America, CBC, True TV, Discovery, and TLC.
He has qualified as a subject matter expert in state and federal courts involving criminal paraphilia including pedophilia, child molestation, Child Sexual Abuse Accommodation Syndrome (CSAAS); fetishes; stalking; adult rape and sexual assault, Rape Crisis Syndrome; domestic violence; criminal profiling including arson, juvenile fire-setting, robbery, burglary, workplace violence and homicide (solo and serial).
A former consultant to the FBI's UNABOM Task Force, Dr. Hickey currently assists local, state, and federal law enforcement in training and investigations. This includes assisting Peace Officer Service Training (POST) in developing course material and job aids for investigators. He has also trained VIP protection specialists in Israel in profiling stalkers.
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I am studying Psychology, and personality disorders are the root cause for bullying and stalking behavior. And it's really about controlling another person for the victimizer. Thanks
I 👍 agree untreated mental illness
Some Men don't stalk women not just for love, but also for battling loneliness and having even emotional social interaction.
Something that men often can't have, and men are still more shunned to be with men or women talking too much in groups and conventions expressing emotions. but women to women easily get granted in groups whatever they may form. And expressing love between women is way more accepted. Lesbian relationships are easily formed compared to gay relationships if people talk enough. As a result women easily feel stalked if a man tries to talk to women while talking to many of her gfs.
Women on the other hand often in fact groupobsess men but many men don't seem to think about it. The fact is , it's happening all the time. As we see in movies too.
This is why men don't perceive women of unwanted behavior , and are therefore not stalking , while women easily accuse men of stalking. Because society make men often emotionally desperate loners compared to women in daily social life.
With social media it makes it even worse on loneliness. This finally makes men need even more desire what women he meets online and women keep socializing in more multiple complex circles.
This creates even more stalking feeling for women to men. While men cant even have evidence to see women groupstalking men.
Yet all the stalkers are punished by police are the men as loners while groupstalking remains forever a big complex construct amongst women in social media that moderators and police cannot even start cracking down. Making even among women victim of their groupstalking also hard to stop.
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Based on how women react on men talking to them makes it already clear if the women has just participated in how much groups of talking. Lonely or dumped out women wouldn't feel disturbed so easily talking to one. In fact some lonely women become actual the loathed type of stalkers too at some men.
Thank you good insight. My stalker (ex) committed paraphilia sex crimes, broke into my home multiple times, wore my undergarments, and sexuality pleasured himself. And put them back in the drawer. had spy cameras in my house. Shared videos of me online. I've called the police multiple times. I have a protection order. I'm attempting to Have him charged for these sex offender crimes by statute, Alabama. the police won't touch it. Next to try DA.
You never should underestimate a stalker or how dangerous they really are. It is flat out stupid to say that if the stalker has not killed you by now he won't. And this came out of a professional's mouth. It makes me angry.
S A yes
I get stalked by the whole city. Some do it a lot more than others. My level of popularity keeps the violence at bay, for about 9 years now. Plus, I'm bigger than a lot of people. He said, "hiding behind trees," yeah, I see people out of place for the environment everywhere I fucking go. If you get stalked, be ready to be very loud and willing to fight.
The person that stocks me, has tried to kill by booby trapping the house to look like an accident.
It makes you “angry?” Yikes. You may want to evaluate your OWN mental issues as well. If you let someone else’s opinion so dramatically affect you, you may want to check yourself into a mental hospital.
I never underestimate anyone... some stalkers don't just stalk from a distance, some will insert themselves in your life and try to control it up close and personal, I call them the copy cat stalkers..they insert themselves in your life not to be apart of it but they want your life... want be you, want what you have and what take it from you, so they try steal your reality.
I've always found stalkers creepy. Respect people's wishes. Also, move on.
Couldn't agree more! Was this topic interesting to you?
Jacob Rhodes I understand what your saying. But stalkers don't respect our feelings or our boundaries, do they?
Agreed. My problem is:they tell you to move on but hang around and flaunt things in front of you and you've repeatedly asked them to stop. To leave you alone. It cannot be double edged.
Weird af!!!!
Creepy as hell!!!
What's crazy is you end up stalking the stalker to make sure you're safe or what mood they're in
Yep. To stay 10 steps ahead of them… and to mess with their perception… manipulating them by drastically changing my behaviours in public to avoid being noticed.
🦢 That's called hypervigillance. It is a response to trauma.
@@robinwelch2265 Ain't that the truth !
Stalkers most likely fall under a Personality Disorder, specifically in the Cluster b. These would be people with Borderline, Narcissism, Sociopathy. I treat people that have been stalked everyday, it's an absolute invasion of privacy by an obsessed person.
As a psychologist who treats stalkers - yes, they often have personality disorders. However, this is not always the case - there are of course a noteworthy amount who are psychotic, and significant portions who have other mental health conditions instead (depression, etc.) Sometimes, stalking occurs simply because the person is unable to form relationship options (whether that is within their control or not). There are many dynamics in which stalking can begin.
Crazy Hai So you treat psychotic stalkers?
I've treated all types of stalkers, at different places, at different times. Yes, at some places, some have been psychotic (though I'm sure you know, most stalkers aren't 'psychotic'). But I've had the whole range of other types, at some point, usually in different 'adult mental health' services (personality disorder, poor social skills, unusual life events causing issues. etc).
Crazy Hai I agree, I think bad parenting and bad social skills are what make up stalkers. Obvious attachment disorders, cognition difficulties. Very antisocial traits as well. Scary part is, most of us have been subjected to some kind of stalking at some point in our lives but never knew it.
Parenting can play a part, and social skills can play a part. Hell, complex genetic/neurological differences in individual people, play a part - it's certainly not the case that all people who suffer certain mental health conditions growing up, and/or difficulties with social interactions, become stalkers. It is a complex genetic/neurological vulnerability in certain people within certain mental health 'categories', mixed with environmental factors.
Indeed, the specifics which make up each of these cases, are varied and complex - but generally fall between some common parameters. Parameters with stalkers are yes, 'psychotic', 'personality disorder', extreme isolation, etc (and often form very different types of stalking mindsets) - but in certain individuals falling into those categories, only within those with a specific neurological/genetic profile.
I might be very wrong, but I get the impression there's a certain case and/or certain anxieties on your mind? If so (I may be very wrong), and if you want to share on this thread (just to brainstorm anything that might help), just let me know. Stay safe.
I'm being stalked. I've lost all sense of privacy. I feel like giving up and dying to get away from the humiliation and sadistic ways he is stalking me. Bless those and take care out there who are going through what I'm going through. I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy.
lynn craig omg that’s terrible I’ve been through it I had to change everything in my life my car,my job my number and had to move while he was in prison because if I didn’t he would’ve continued
lynn craig OMG! Thats so scary. You should think about getting a restraining order against your stalker. I am skeptical after I been raped by someone in 10th grade.
I felt the exact same way ! It made me feel paranoid.
@Nick Nation Thank you.... I'm reading books on stalking behavior and what people go through . What you said ....is so true. It can destroy your health ... slowly ...all the worry and infringements on privacy. I've kept a diary with dates and incidents . After I'm dead , I hope Justice will be done in mine and all cases of this sadistic , predatory behavior. Bless those who are suffering through this terror . People who stalk others are very sick individuals and they do it for many reasons ... power, control are at the top of the list. Greed , hate and jealousy are close behind. I'm glad I'm not walking in their shoes....they must really stink.
Been there. Scary. I had to move out of state.
I’m so proud to be related to this guy! He’s my grandpa!
Sweet
You really can be proud of your grandpa!!
I'm very thankful he's on here bc I needed this. Be very proud he's helping so many people from this 🫶
Now, that is very cool!
Emotional connections can be made with ppl that are barely known. They can stalk someone for years because they made them feel safe for a moment or happy for a second in a way they've never been able to feel or have never beem allowed to feel. There are always mental or emotional problems involved with stalkers.
suhnrays not always
All I did for one was to let him use my bathroom and then it was game on. It's been 5 years now and he's impossible to get rid off, I've had to change my number, scream at him, beg to be left alone, rapport him to the police, NOTHING helps! He's completely crazy and less than half my age aswell. One of these afghan immigrants but our own men are the same so..
@Tea Bag yeah, I'm lucky he didnt t-bag me. :D
Stalking is about control.... and if it is an ex: Unfinished business is the leading cause for obsession. Leave them and cut them off, cold turkey. be harsh, in no uncertain terms. I was being too nice, but that generates hopes
How long did it take for your ex to leave you alone? I'm currently going through this and wondering how long it'll take to be free of him.
Yes I agree being nice gives them hope they see you being nice as so much more than just being nice
Gemma Rose Man I hope everything works in your favor I’ve been through it it sucks
FICTIONfran its not always this easy!!
Gemma Rose this might not be what you want to hear, but only when/if they want too
There it is again - "go to the police". I went to the police a few times, called the police many times and was basically told to ignore it and it would go away. I responded one time to my stalker and the police used this response to say that I wasn't ignoring my stalker. She is now trying to hire someone to 'get rid of her'. The police are sort of listening, maybe now, because some of the people approached went to the police themselves. She is well known within my community and it is well know that she is stalking me but her family does nothing about it. They are hoping that when I go to court over this that the judge will request a mental evaluation. They are too afraid of her to take care of their own business. So, my experience is that the police don't help much.
I want to know what research Dr. Hickey is referring to when he says the man who dressed like the UPS driver was never going to kill her? That is unknown. Survivors of stalking, don't base your sense of security based on this Dr.'s statements. If you are afraid someone is going to kill you, trust that feeling and instinct.
Yeah that's where he lost me. The fact that someone would go to those lengths to feel a sense of control, shows that you're dealing with a sick person. No one can ever know for sure what's going on in the mind of another person. Smart girl for getting a gun.
I don't fear any stalker, I fear myself and what I might end up doing to one of them. The most d demented and sickest ones have made it clear that they are gangstalking me so it's no secret who some of them are.
Targeted and gangstalked since I was in grade school, and most of those same people are still stalking me.
Pior é quando não se sabe quem são os stalker, os que ficam se escondendo
Wow , i know how that shit hurts at the very begining, do You know what they want? Couse in My case it was that neighrborhood watch stalking with v2k involved and all that creepy shit( fucken hell) and their goal was to make me go to church and become a better person, healthier and all that stuff, but You have to find a way to doit yourself. It si hard for someone with family yo take care of and with bills to pay, imagine after being stalked for six years how My bank account is...i'm tired of this bullshit.
When they come back years later, even once, it makes it feel like it never ended and never will. The freedom of the end of the situation melts away and years later you will wait for that person to show up again... and they will.
Police have not helped me at all
Talk about stalker neighbors and having to move.
b fullofcare real scary when you don't have a car. They wait for you to leave the house.
I have one! People don’t believe me and think I’m the problem! It is sooo crazy. Mine is a covert narcissist ! You can’t win in this situation. After 20 years we are planning to move. ( waited for the kids to move out etc.) I’ve seen some shit let me tell you! They are relentless . I always thought they would get bored with me but they don’t!!!! I’m not telling anyone around here where we’re moving to!!!
Minha paranóia piorou
OmG yes but now I'm stuck between 10 gNgstalkers and no mo ey to leave .
Yep
I am being aggressively stalked by a creepy old lady at work. She pulled strings with management to get me kicked off our team so she could have my job. But when management noticed how lousy she was at it, I was let back in. This made her visibly furious. Then she started sitting on my usual area during morning meetings and invading my personal space by standing too close to me (shoulder to shoulder) and leaving departments she was assigned to just to following me around the damn store :/ I told management all about this but they keep brushing it under the rug. She just gets angier the more I try to ignore.
Maybe ignoring is not always the solution as they say. Maybe in some circumstances the stalker needs to be told what not to do in a firm way. Or maybe just start annoying the stalker more and more by being friendly to the stalker. I guess trying out what works and what not may help. Counting on police or management or anybody usually doesn't do much. The victim has to try to solve the issue herself or himself. It is a very difficult situation.
What do you do when the police won't take you seriously? I know I'm not the only stalking victim in my town who's frustrated with police non-responsiveness. There have been letters in the paper and online comments complaining about it. I know what it feels like to be re-victimized by the police.
I had someone stalking me. If you want details, I can give them. The police told me it's very hard to prove stalking and in order to get a protection order, they would have to have threatened me in some kind of way physically and sexually. The guy never said anything like that, but to give one example, I found him sitting directly in front of my apartment door multiple times listening. Another example was I was outside on my phone and he had hidden in the bushes to listen to me. There is a lot that happened like this, but he never left any notes or said anything. I was terrified. What I ended up having to do was lie. I waited until the next time I saw him at my door, called the police, and told them he threatened me sexually. With that, I was able to get the protection order. I ended up moving after that. This was in 2015, and he has even opened Facebook accounts and found me online. What's crazy is, he didn't even know my name until the court papers were served. Anyway, I didn't turn him in for breaking the order by contacting me online. At that point when he first did it, I had moved away. All I wanted was to be safe, not be vindictive. Everytime he sends me a friend request now, I just block him. I don't think he's all there mentally because he keeps opening accounts with his own name. On average he tries to contact me 2 or 3 times a year. I didn't know this guy or ever talk to him. We just lived in the same apartment complex. I have no idea why he obsessed over me.
Same here. You are not alone. This is a wider society issue- of seeing stalking as perfectly normal and acceptable social behavior
It could be a neighborhood watch stalking our community harassment that's branched out
@@taraarrington2285 yup! I just had this video recommended in my feed and am reading comments while listening now. I see you in comments of a lot of videos I end up viewing. I wonder sometimes if we're getting the same recommendations.
I think maybe it would work to scare the stalker off somehow. But police, they usually never do much unless the person is dead already. And not even then they do much sometimes or else why are there so many unsolved murder cases?
I also have a stalker, she's just some crazy girl who has a crush on me in my school, but she follows me everywhere, telling me that if I go out with anyone but her, she will kill them. But today all I did was tell her that she's creeping me out and to leave me alone, she ran away in tears. No regrets
Be careful, she could be dangerous
Be a man about it bitc.h
Yeah I had someone like that at school he would get really jealous and try to kick other guys out of class that would try to ask me out. He was obsessed and he would wait for me outside the restroom.
@@Notme811_you I hate you
Lol how old is she? I think there's a Japanese game like that
He said he wasn't going to kill her...he tied her up! It was escalating !!!
Never worry about the feelings of the person who is doing the stalking, they will take care of themselves, the crying, the begging is fake until it plays itself out, basically you do whatever you want know is right until you know the truth and the truth shall set you free, and you will know the truth you will feel it.
Shut up .. I stalked someone for 10 months but now I stopped 3 months .. thank god . I feel a lot better right now . I swear I was almost gonna commit crime
I think many stalkers have obsessive personality disorders and probably signs of this before they become a full blown stalker, such as “having a crush” on somebody for several years, asking people out multiple times and not taking no for an answer, being overly controlling or fixated on friends, etc.
There are probably some stalkers who are not this way, but I know it was the case for mine
Yes! My stalker, I met him in kindergarten. Apparently he remembered for all that time and he had me on his mind. I remembered too when he told me but it wasn’t a big deal to me. So yeah then when he realized I was that same girl he met back then he started following me. He would wait for me outside the restroom and he would get very jealous and try to kick out other guys that wanted to ask me out.
Yea sounds like somebody I know which was a female I never met. She never talked and got other people to tell me she likes me but she never really does anything herself, like she didn’t had to. And this was for several years too. Every time there was a no , there were be a period of harassment only to be repeated shortly after as of nothing ever happened.
I've been being stalked by an ex girlfriend for 2 1/2 years. It did worry me at first because I didn't know who it was but once I found out it didn't really scare me anymore. She has poisoned my dogs and broken into my house but the law says I have to have proof. I talked to a couple of cop friends of mine and my attorney and they both told me the same thing, get a gun and a concealed weapons permit and use it if I have to. She stalks me from a distance now because she knows I carry a gun.
Why did Carlos cut off the domestic stalking? This is most common and you skipped right over to stranger stalking!
In this instance it is insanity on hold, wondering who is there, ppl asking who is stalking you and why, looking for evidence that is kept to a minimum...seeing every relationship destroyed, places we live and neighbors unfriendly, never being able to trust anyone again. I have reached the X-Files level. Trust no one. I am still trying to pick up the pieces.
Adelia Williams you mean me
Because he wants to cover all topics. Maybe they should talk about suspicious stalkers.
The misrepresentation in crime shows is in showing the crime bening resolved in 30 - 60 minutes. People who haven't been victims of crime always ask me "Why didn't you call the police?"
I agree. My stalker threatened my family members....i believed him...you know when crazy is true dangerous crazy. It took 2 years of being stalked before i involved law enforcement. They know how to psychologically control you and instill enough fear so you dont go to authorities. Even then....it took my employer sending me to a therapist to realize the seriousness of it all. I was young....thought i could handle it on my own...i thought wrong.
I am a victim of stalking, 10 years in the making! I'm at my mums..i feel sorry for them i seriously do
I was stalked at a nursing home. This Director of Nurses went after me with full force because I was reporting to authorities about what was going on at that Nursing Home. It escalated very quickly. She smear campaigned me, insited an ambush meeting in a small conference room where she threatened me with lies in front of about 6 of her staff -instructing them to call 911 if I "interfered" with them doing their job (I NEVER INTERFERED WITH THEM DOING THEIR JOB, - the point was NO ONE WAS DOING THEIR JOB. I, ME, I HAD TO take care of my dad at that facility- while THEY got paid for it!!!.), .... It escalated into 2 no trespasses, back to back against me. Lies on both of them. Local police were happy to oblige this x military Director of Nurses (she's one of us mentality). Once I was out of their, they had a field day with my dad. The abuse by caregivers moved into full blown taunting. They decided this was a green light to put my dad through endless psych. tests and finally got him so doped up on drugs. It was another battle with my brother saying dad was being combative. They're short staffed, they have to be quick with everything.... That means they don't have the time to be gentle. They've got to move fast and that's usually rough handling!!!! When I made my surprise visit between No Trespasses, I had a pastor with me as a witness. I wasn't with my dad long, it was about 30 minutes later, they had police throw us out with lies on another new no trespassing. On the Trespassing notice, I'm accused of "threatening staff" and "they don't feel safe with me in the building." Bold face lies. Anyone who really knows me, knows that's not me! But they had to figure out a reason to keep me out, away from seeing, hearing, and reporting on any of it. And I'm sure the PUNISHING NATURE (humiliation and embarrassment of being escorted out by police) all appealed to this DON. Only two weeks after my first No Trespass was issued this DON went behind my back and got my (Narcissist) brother, who lives out of state, signed on as my dad's Health Care Agent. With all the drugs my dad was on, and my not being there to witness, I'm sure he had no idea what he was signing. They convinced my dad to have all his banking go to them as well. I'm sure they tweaked that in their favor. I called the bank on this and they said it was legal.But I told them my dad has Alzheimer's and he couldn't have known to pick up a phone, call the bank, known the address of the nursing home .... I'm all in favor of keeping my dad aware of what's going on ... but they got him so wound up one day..... He said I was stealing his money, etc. All, more lies!!!!! And I felt so ..... angry, hurt that they had taunted my dad into believing something that normally he would know not to be true!!! -Of course it wasn't long after that that I, me, I was accused of repeatedly "Misappropriating his funds." ... And this crap just goes on and on and on. -My dad's eating slowed way down, I'm sure short staff didn't have the time or "manpower" to stick with him to help him finish a meal (or for all I know, maybe they just stopped feeding him!). I was able to pull him out of their when I found out he had pneumonia. At the hospital he revived with fluids drastically. Also, no one talked anything about my dad's condition since I was not Health Care Agent!!! Doctor did tell me.... This is one of the biggest cases of family report I've ever seen.... He was shaking his was shaking his head.... I begged him to tell me more.... He said in all my years of practice,.... I've never seen something so bad..... I begged..... "What? What -Please tell me!???" He said he couldn't but he did say "A daughter aught to be able to see her father, and he continued to shake his head. I felt this doctor was astute enough to see through much of the...... to know what was truly going on. (I thanked God, for someone besides me knew or could see through all the b.s.) At least I had a couple last days with my dad there before they moved him back to that.... nursing home. There was a day when I called my dad and he was sobbing, saying, "This place is HELL, like One Flew Over The Cuckoo's Nest." I cried as well because there was NOTHING I COULD DO. - It seemed NO ONE could/would help us!!! My dad died in that.... concentration camp with it's sadistic employees, Psychopathic DON, twisted Administration, nasty social worker, unethical house doctor, everybody pushing hospice like used car salesmen. (Sorry used car salesmen ❤️🙏)..... My dad died before Christmas 2018. I was not at his bedside to tell him everything would be ok, and that I Loved him. ..... My brother, the controlling Narcissist, wrote up obituary, pastors speech, and church bulletin. They all had a section resembling a Facebook "about me page" featuring my brother! The Lord's prayer might have been a far better choice.... but who am I..... I just took care of my dad single handedly for years. WE got through some pretty rough times together. He stopped drinking, (after a DUI, I took him to court, and classes), we got through a heart attach, knee surgery, almost burnt down the house twice.... in the end I'm barely a footnote on the bottom of the bulletin. It's okay, it's wasn't about accolades for me, it was another way for my brother to publicly punish me..... After the funeral.... I lost track of the pastor. I called him. I asked him if he knew Mr ....... had a daughter too. He said " No, I didn't know that." I asked him, "My brother didn't tell you???" " No, he didn't." the pastor said. .... (Big pause) Then I said "And you didn't ask if Mr (brother)......if his dad had any other children.....?" He said, "No, Mr...... (Brother) was pretty well in charge of everything." I then introduced myself formally to the pastor as (my name, and life long Loving daughter to Mr. (My dad). He wished me well and hung up the phone. ....-I'm still getting threatening calls from adult protective services claiming I Misappropriated my dad's funds.... but I know i, me, I did not steal my dad's money! .... It's just more endless herrassment by my secret Psychopath (DON), &/or Narcissist (brother). .... It never ends. But I am sure of several things!!!!..... I know that THE VERY THINGS THEY ACCUSE ME OF DOING - ARE THE VERY THINGS THAT THEY HAVE DONE. The lies they tell... come from the mouths of liers. I know who they are, and they know who they are, and in THAT I TAKE TO GOD and feel okay. Because if nothing else, no one else has to believe me..... but it feels good to know God see's it all. 🙂Thank you for listening to my rant. ❤️💖🙏✝️📖💖🙏✝️📖 All my best to you, always.☺️
What a harrowing experience to have gone through. The pain and endless frustration pours out from your words Penny. I sincerely hope that you have managed to build a life for yourself far away from that awful place, no longer talk to anyone from that famil or institution, are healing with a good therapist and get plenty of support from a loving church community 🙏✨
So intense so heartbreaking. Nest of NarcissistsA sicko end of life experience. Bet your dad happy to reach the other side. This world demons seem to be breeding faster than the rest of us
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I'm completely comfortable. My stalker appears not to be violent. The poor guy. I do wish he/they would get help though.
My neighbors son made death threats too me a year ago and laughed & said he was just kidding . That's nothing to joke about .
What about organized gangstalkers? They have a few of them torturing my life and they gain access into my home every day and the police wont ddo anything about it. Thank You, Lizzie
The police are part of the gang stalking unfortunately. They give the Perps drugs, booze, gifts, gift cards, etc so they don’t go to jail and the police use them for drugs because they are addicted to the drugs. Some of them confiscate the drugs that the drug sniffing dog finds and keep it for themselves. The police will follow certain people and stalk them too if the perp has what they want and tells them to follow them. Be careful of these things and always take pictures, write down dates and times, and see if you can get a restraining order on them. I hope this helps you and good luck 🍀👍🏻
There is one sociopath at the back of it controlling the group.
Make a complaint about every individual stalker and document photograph and report every incident.
Identify the source narcissistic sociopath and identify what they want. Money, sex, your job, your house?
and get legal advice and also contact organisations or psychologists that specialise in dealing with narcissist abuse.
You need to move.
Get a large dog or two
Have you seen a psychologist ever? You should go for the trauma, but also although it can happen for real, gangstalking is an extremely common delusion for people with certain mental health problems. It’s very worth ruling out that possibility.
What if the stalker is actually a supposed Psychologist who is stalking you? Mine is and he claims he’s the joker and I’m Harley Quinn… sick mfer he is a con man and a user… coincidentally he used to be a drug addict in a mental health program with me and he self medicated all the time! I suspect he’s illegally practicing!
They don't respect others people boundaries.
Can we talk about the more modern stalker. The hacker the government the guy that hides behind a bush but now hides behind his computer
That's what scares me is that people who targeted me to stalk me I'm worried that they could also be stalking my children.
How does one treat a stalker? I'm wondering as a therapist if there are resources to help those who do the stalking so they don't continue with this unhealthy behavior.
(true story) I've stalked back and intercepted them, with golf club and an condition; they are free to come by but they will pay for it!
I Spent the next few hours with this same group watching and learning how they walk and the incredibly slow pace and use of cover used. I've taken control of my surroundings, stalking is much more difficult around me now. I'm not afraid and honestly, greatt impressed with the effort it takes.
Once you know where to look for, it's impossible for anyone to surprise you you
@@goodpeoplefound7940 I've had two stalkers borderline type 2 years, and psychopathic type 8 years. I also had to threaten them with recording , lawsuits and just plain violence to get it to stop. The second stalker I'm unsure if he'll ever be gone.
I have more stalkers than clothes. I’ve reached a point to where I refuse to make friends. I’d rather be lonely. It’s really stupid.
a guy assaulted me after getting my phone number. I ran away and then he blew me up. Over 100 calls a day. Cops said “he’s annoying but he’s not threatening your life so there’s nothing we can do” they refused to even make a record of it. Absolutely ridiculous. Bet when I die they’ll swear “they never saw it coming”. I’m just waiting to be murdered at this point.
Good for you
That is telephone abuse and it is a crime. Get a free consultation with an attorney. Keep all ofyour pho9ne records. You can get your records from your phone company.
Leave. Move, get out.
Cop's can't help. The only deterrent is to have people in your life who care. If you come and go alone you'll attract a stalker. No protection.
in 1997 , my daughter's ex-boyfriend was stalking her and I went after him . I spoke to him , and boy! was I mad, I told him that if he ever follow her again or scare her in any way. he would answer to me, not the cops. I am like a momma BEAR , , dont touch my babies.. , - the guy committed suicide a week later. but left my daughter alone after I warned him
Predicament I'm in.
Why do stalkers stalk married women? What does it mean when a stalker is in a relationship and is obsessed with another man’s wife? Why are these people so psycho?
I’ve been stalked for four years and I’m wondering why this person is doing this crazy stuff. I was spotted on a social media app, back in 2014... why didn’t I pick up the sights of this person’s extreme mental illness. They claim narcissistic people are not mentally ill but they truly are. If you are in a relationship, why is he obsessed with another man’s wife of thirty year? Bizarre.
Some of them know your spouse and know they are cheating on you so therefore believe you are fair game even though your not aware of your spouses affairs but the stalker is and that is the main reason for the stalking of a married person because many will not stalk a married person because they aren't alone but if they are cheating on you they feel it's ok they know that your spouse will be going out to meet their lover/ lovers whenever possible.. Another reason could be that they are using drugs like Meth.
Oh, hey my luv. It is me again. Your very own personal stalker of 4 years. Send me some vagene pics so I can back off :)
I suppose that different stalkers have different motivations, but I have an intimacy seeking stalker (male) and I am a married woman. My stalker professed a bizarre paraphilia/fetish in which it is his "lifelong dream to cuck a man" to use his own words. My being married drove him even more to possess me. On the other side, if I so much as spoke to another man in his presence or if he found out about it, he would throw raging, violent tantrums, screaming that I was "cucking" him. Cucking other men and not being cucked himself was a central theme in his view of relationships.
I'm definitely paranoid now. 4 years now I've been dealing with this.
I have to move out of my apartment! My stalker is a slumlord!
I'm going through the same issue. I'd love to chat with you
How about revenge stalking by neighbor..and the stalker loves to come out everytime he heard your movements and coming out of your door .....2) Stalker came out immediately and showed up opposite your driveway in front of you, the moment he heard you closed the door and coming out 3) very nosy and came out standing in their garden to see your movements esp. when your going out 4) loves mirroring or COPYCAT and followed you in the garden....Banging things while you're in the garden to cause tension and frighten you....Is the stalker insane or with personality disorder ?
gang stalkers mimic for s ome reason we saved videos on the t op somewhere of our VID blogger blog page tells on it. forgot why they do that but copying is what hitmen do.
Crazy as hell and doesn't have anything better to do.
@@dinamoore1580 Yes they do then they project their behavior on us . They claim we who are getting abused by them are doing what they are doing .
Omg! I am living this exact nightmare with my downstair old creepy stalker neighbor.
@@donniewhite1034 idem
How to protect yourself against a stalker, because police won't protect you unless your are seriously harmed or dead.
True, you have to be injured after the police wants to hear you. Sad truth even if there is plenty of proof about being stalked. The police refuse to pay attention and even told me there is nothing wrong with it. The policeman advised me to stay away from social media (including Linkedin), change phonenumber and e-mailaddress and keep them secret. Since I don't feel save in my own home anymore and whereever I go the police advised me to move to an other house and sell the place. After all this he told me he would make a note of the conversation but that there was no proof of being stalked. They don't know a thing and are only interested if they are after the money. For a stalker money is change, power is everything (controlling people).
Can't protect a dead person.
Can a stalker heal? I'm so curious.
Also, has anyone here ever stalked anyone, if so why did you do it? Is it linked to childhood trauma? Abandonment etc.
I stalked someone when I was 13 to 14. Yes Stalker can heal. I have abandoned issues. I’m currently finishing healing that issues. The reason I stalked this person is because I didn’t want to lose another person that I loved. I have tramas that are linked to this past behavior. I realized that what I was doing was not ok. I feel terrible for inflicting that on that person. My case is not all the serious compared to others but I hope I have answered some of your questions.
@@NA-io5vx Thank you for responding. May God bless you with all of your needs.😊
@@vernaharris4700 Thanks
Eu já fui, mas como ele também eu parei, e não uma stalker por muito tempo, foi por um curto tempo, mas agora sou perseguida pelos piores stalkers, perigosos mesmo
@Ray ray🌲 I appreciate your transparency. Are you from a divorced background? Or were you abandoned by a parent?
All stalkers have some sort of mental health issue
The police don’t help stalking victims
I'd love to understand the psychology of men who continue to pursue a woman who has told them no.
Michelle Higgins, May Allah protect you, and keep you away from sick misogynists. Ameen
Narcissists maybe?
they don't see themselves has stalkers...so no self awareness. and every stalkers psychology is going be so different... I would think stalkers will be motivated by envy, jealousy, control, power.. some stalkers will want get close to the person they're stalking, will literally insert themselves into your life just because they want what you have or they don't want you to have what you have,, I call them the copy cat stalkers,.. which I think are the most dangerous. I have been stalked by women and men who are copy cat stalkers... nightmare.. absolute nightmare.
Or women who has been rejected
Perhaps he loves her and thinks one day he might be able to occupy place in her heart. You can't call everyone stalker.
My neighbors don't think 7 years of ease dropping peeping Tom fourth amendment rights to privacy laws and track in every room of my apartment is stalking
I believe many reasons lead to a person to stalk and interfere in someone else's life .its like not being happy with their own lives..mental health issues..this is one of the mental disorder...u can't really help the person with this disorder ..it comes from a lot of depression from their own family environment...everyone has some issues in life..but people who don't have the strength to fight their own demons ..will ultimately turn out loosing control of their own minds..and they think having control on someone's else's life by stalking gives them power of control..but in reality they have lost complete control of themselves..they are not in control of what they are doing..so it's like they ultimately become their own enemy...once the stalking enters into hacking..it's a crime ..and the stalker has no idea he has entered a space in his mind that's gonna fuck his life in future...
Yes indeed i can confirm this. I believe that you can help just a little but the stalker has to do the inner work. My case wasn’t so serious and I only was in the first year of this stalking habit. I noticed how I have given away my power to this person I was Obsessed with. I noticed this was unhealthy. I can only talk for myself but I push though my demons so that I could stop scaring the poor guy I stalked and also stop for my own well-being. Thank you for reading.
We have to study these gang stalkers in order to understand their sickness.
Does anyone know what type of stalker this is, and if they are dangerous:
1. Helps without me asking for it
2. Wants to know everything about me, and obtains this information from friends/acquaintances
3. At in person meetings gives predatory eye contact and attempts to intimidate me
4. Panics when I'm not around
5. Panics at the idea of me moving out of state
6.This is an acquaintance , highly educated
7. Uses guilt and gaslighting
So I managed to escape the stalker. This is a year later. He was a malignant narcissist that wanted to have sex with me. He was stalking and harassing me for rejecting him.
Get that checked out that’s super weird and cringe
@@nv_chino turned out to be a narcissist. Completely deranged person. Probably the rejected stalker type.
Did he eventually register as a sex offender?
‼️To me stranger stalking is the most interesting. (Horrible for the victims of course). But I am just so fascinated by how they choose who they're going to stalk. What catches their eye about the victim? What are they hoping to achieve? What sparks this obsession? I think we can all understand why an ex is a stalker. And I'm sure many of us have participated in mild stalking behaviors after a breakup such as checking on the exes social media. Most of us don't take it to the next level and actually hurt the victim or make them feel unsafe. That just isn't nearly as interesting as the psychology of a stranger stalker. I just wish more videos would go into depth about this type of stalker. According to statistics they make up about 25% of all stalkers. So a pretty large percentage but they don't get nearly the time spent examining them. Are the mental illnesses the same as with the domestic stalker? It seems almost like a type of OCD. Like they have this obsession and compulsion to follow this person or whatever.
I think you’re on to something with it being a manifestation of OCD pathology.
I think it’s probably that combined with a degree of narcissism and delusional thinking as well. It’s probably subclinical traits for all three things individually, but they come together to create very spooky and abnormal behavior.
They obsessively and compulsively engage in the behavior, they have the narcissistic confidence and sense of entitlement and lack of empathy to justify it, and they have the delusion that this will lead to a desirable outcome for them.
@@DingDongDaddyFromDumas thank you for your reply I think you hit the nail on the head! I would be so interested to see statistics on what diagnoses stranger stalkers have. I have since discovered a horrifying reddit thread called r/obsessivelove where these stalker people post about stalking their victims. It's so f**king creepy. It's like a horrifying window into the mind of someone like that. I definitely think there has to be some twisted element of OCD to it. I just see so many similarities!
I've been through this.
mallory same it was horrible I pray no one has to go through this type of stuff, I felt so unsafe every time I left the house
Victims watch these shows too to protect themselves from further abuse.
Probably had a bunch of stalkers I wasn't aware of. They give themselves away when you meet them face to face. One is now locked up. A sexual pervert who messed with the wrong person. The cops were looking for him. He blabbed his mouth off at the police station, giving details about me that meant, yes, he'd been watching me for years.
What did he do that he messed with the wrong person? 🤔
They track me in the bathroom bedroom kitchen 7 years
What about cyber stalking where they only hack your phone for all the info it has to offer .... wat if the guys successful and gets a girlfriend will he stop or transfer onto sumone else totally ????
Well, that's if he don't get caught.
Eu fui hackeada, agora sou perseguida por uma legião
I get stalked 24/7 365 per year!
I'm so sorry to hear that! Do you mind sharing how bad it's gotten? Has it become threatening?
we are, too. organized gang stalking.24/7
Same here Tes
I've seen shows on gang stalking, the few videos I've seen didnt make much sense. Plz explain
@@MrsB-fn8ye Gang stalking is basically community mobbing and community mobbing could be a group of people targeting one person and basically following , stalking , ganging up on the person using acts of violence , street theatre and covert harassment to one individual they don't like also if the target speaks up the gang stalkers turn friends and family against target isolating target from their friends& family and the gang stalkers also break in targets home , move stuff around , steal from target , damage property of target , character assassinate the target etc .
I’ve been stalked EVERY SINGLE DAY of my life for 20 YEARS!
I've had car stalking a lot, strangers following me - so I go on a long journey with many left turns and right turns. If someone doesn't like you they follow and stalk you.
He is gorgeous has a beautiful family kids he is just nuts !
Isn't it odd how they look so put together on the outside and secretly they are running around torturing us?
My second situation was very similar to yours, I couldn't prove it though but I never hired a PI. My friends just think him running into me is 100's of coincidences over 3 years. That's an awful lot of coincidences. He would show up where ever I was, every time I changed my route and I never knew how he found me. I changed phones, kept my location off, and check my phone thoroughly for any software I don't recognize and there was nothing but still he always found me. Sometimes multiple times in a day.
I think he finally lost interest. I haven't seen him in a few months.
Amber krill sorry u went through that or are still going through that. That is sad for his family as well
I had a man texting me for 3 years after 1 date and no more texts to him on my part.
My ex stalked my emails and me online for years too.
I think am going to have to just leave with the clothes on my back.
If you ate being stalked by anyone, DOCUMENT the stalking and harassment and dont give up. If He/they continue the behavior they will get caught. document every single day if you have to.
As Autism and aspergers increases, as does stalking. Have had several stalkers, all with aspergers syndrome.
Diagnosed? Dont confuse narcissism with ASD. I have 2 children with ASD...both have enormous empathy which actually targets them to be victims. Learn more about ASD before you post stupid stuff....let the professionals treating these stalkers come up with the statistics.
@@randomsasquatchwithwifi4090 Hun, I have 42 years of experience with asd from an autistic mom and exes with it so plz dont tell ME how asd is and isnt! And learn that your kids arent empathic at all. You're in denial.
@@randomsasquatchwithwifi4090 It is true that it is hard for people with asperger syndrome to start and maintain relations. It is also true that people with asperger can feel empathy. The difference is normal people can't read there mime and think they don't show empathy. For instance I am very poor with reading peoples faces but others can't read mine as well. They think they can but they can't! Only at this point I have autism. This makes me an easy target for someone I have found out the be a real anti-sociapath/psychopath. I do understand what some people consider as being stalked about autistic people but it is way different then what a real stalker does. Autistic people are more observing people different because they are not able to read the whole picture. But they are not obsessed at all and for sure not stalking people to change their lives. Real stalkers enjoy taking control over peoples lives.
My neighbors are stalking me
I wish to add other stalking stories interest me and now l don't give someone a second glance l now live on my own.
there are many medicines for schizophrenia disorder isn't there a medicine for this stalkers syndrome. I would also like to know if a particular person is targeted for no reason like a ragging done in college similarly in a society he lives he is been harassed for no reason what can be the solution should he leave the place or stay there and do nothing.
Untreated psychopathy. Document, notify police asap.
I was raised at my grandma's and my grandma said because I'm beautiful but I don't think that's it!
you are a s tripper on here showing off your flexibility so hang around bad people and attaracting bad stuff rather than stay away from stupid people and trouble. otherwide is ifyou wanna be a stripper and hang out with crazy dumb people then you got to call cosp cops on them maybe it justlookslike laying flat back pic with legs like back sit then lay down and it's advanced kinda dancing in belly dance atleast. she sounds like she is lieing. we have met one cia spy who lies like this before. we got this hard dance class but whatever / strippers ought to knowhow to handle things like that. and this is fake. it must be some trap for some menon here or they are on here doing psy ops - congress set itup for interent for this kinda fake posts
I've been getting stalked for about 6 years now they make excuses and have insecurities as to why life dealt them a shit hand
Hi! Amazing video! My landlord is stalking me! He breaks into my apartment every day and night! He steals my food, clothes, furniture, pictures, toiletries and especially receipts, bank statements and passwords! He said you’re dilusional in person after I confronted him through texts. He’s married to a mail order Russian bride! I don’t know why he won’t stop coming over and sneaking around! Day n night he breaks into my apartment! When I put one foot down on the front porch he came running out of nowhere saying, don’t worry, I’m just checking my mail!
You need to find somewhere else to live asap.
After you have left report to the police. You don’t need to prosecute just report it and get it on his record
What if the stalker were to see me picking my nose?
If the stalker finds you picking your nose, i recommend contacting the FBI.
Or hear you fart? Anything to turn them off.
Lmao
Like a cat traumatizing a mouse....
I am fearful. It seems attorneys now lean towards 1st amendment rights. I know the web gives us the vast ability for knowledge, but using a resource to strike fear or cause countless individuals fear or harm??? I have a stalking order going back into court because he wants it dismissed. How many nights have I been sitting here waiting for his next attack. My child is fearful, my husband is fearful of what is next. I even went to a very dark place wanting death for me to protect them. I'm to the point of how can our society allow over 1million people to live in fear of one person striking down to cause harm, emotional, physical and extreme longterm harm? Where is the answer? How can I protect my whole family from an extremely harmful person? This man is a psychopath, they have many talents most of all the ability to destroy.
Never engage a stalker most women do like the woman in the story she wrote notes back and enjoyed the gifts . why would you let a UPS guy in your house if you have a stalker ?
Hughson California capital of stalkers.
Happened to my mom and I. Came back from an afternoon walk and the guys who were renting from a family member broke into our house. Nothing was stolen or moved which I find odd. Not the first time either, another old man with a limp was coming out of our driveway when coming home. Always lock your home and have deadbolts on each outside door. I wish I kept the pictures I took.
I think a lot of these people have mental disorders to actually break into someone's home.
They also laugh when they see us coming, like they got away with it. Very sick.
I HAVE A MOTORCYCLIST WHO STALKS ME EVERYTIME I WALK OUTSIDE MY HOME.
IDK OF HE IS A HOMOSEXUAL, MENTAL OR A COP.
The police say " because the person doesn't say anything to me or haven't hurt me theres nothing they can do." Thats not right.
Seeing a stalker everyday is alarming and annoying and not knowing what the stalker is thinking could bring fear to someone.
Women/ men who are stalked on social media they wont get hurt or sometimes not communicated it doesn't mean a police officer should not do anything.
My stalker is getting away with committing a crime.
I am a Senior and disabled ive been stalked by a dick neighbor over 10 years he waits by his door day and night for me to come out when i leave he leavesi have called the Police many times he even told the Mayor he lives with me he is not ann old boyfreind or old freind
thank you for this video it has been a huge help to me and what i am dealing with and i am sure it has helped many others. salute to you sir!
To stop the stalking. You gotta think like a stalker. Lmafaaooo
Today I watched several videos on stalking. Tonight it just occurred to me why stalker stalk. Knowing a tiny bit about the men that have stalked me, the common thread between all of them is that they never felt their mother's love. (My assessment of each of them, not their recollection of their mothers.) Stalking represents their unconscious need for their mother's negated love. All mothers cannot love, perhaps because unless a person has empathy, love is not possible. Has such a hypothesis been tested? (I will not watch this video since I've already watched three - maybe anther time.)
I am only referring to typical stalkers who function in their work places and do not appear to have serious mental disorders. However, I'm not a psychologist, therefore I wouldn't know the levels of undiagnosed issues.
One of the men that stalked me appeared to have mother issues and had hatred towards women. I always wondered if I reminded him of his mother.
My stalker adores his mother and unfortunately me as well 😒
I have a lot of gang stalkers that are mostly male and I’m male…do they have some weird gay fetish thing related to daddy issues?
I've had 2 stalkers .
I've had two stalkers also; and Dem F it's YOU who is seeking negative attention, your comment made that clear. Don't be jelly. No seriously, you don't want to be stalked, don't be jelly.
Me too!
I've had two stalkers. One as far as I know was always into drugs and that held him back in life. The other is a pillar of his community and I doubt I'll ever prove he's been stalking me since 2014.
I've had two as well, that I know. One who just liked to watch. The other 'rich' flew a helicopter over my house while I was tanning outside. Threatened to teach me a lesson. My husband n I moved a province over, I've seen him three times for sure. The last time I was buying coffee in a 7/11 n I had a gut feeling *i pivot on the spot, he's standing right behind me (looking shocked n mad) I give him a dirty look *cuz I didnt recognize him. Later I looked up his picture, it was him. He's also a friend of my husband. My husband says 'he would never have to rape anyone ' hate hearing people say that! It's been 9 years.
Weirdos that like stalking i wonder if stalkers have stalkers stalking them while stalking the victim?🤔
Oh yes. Sometimes the victims stalk the stalker to know when to avoid them.
Lol yes they do
My so called ex who claims he wasn't my beau still stalks me until this day... The men in blue uniform, aka police says, take pictures... he never says anything but he goes away for a while but pops up anytime, standing across my building with a psychotic grin on his face...
Stalking whether animals or humans is an interesting hobby & actually primal.
Kimberly Dahl my neighbors are stalking me right now in my bathroom bedroom kitchen
At least you're never alone so if you have some sort of issue regarding loneliness there is your medicine.
I have stalkers too, got to love them because i know who they are.
Nunca estou sozinha, tenho perseguidores, e sei quem são eles, não todos, mas alguns sim
I am fascinated by the " writing " of the interviewer. ?&? A generally insightful and helpful video. Thank you.
Who’s been stalked but tried confronting the stalker telling someone but had no proof so they kept quiet?..........???
-no only me ok-🙃
They laugh at you and ask "do you have any proof? Go to the police!" Most stalkers are very experienced and know the police has no time to pay attention since stalkers are really time consuming. They know all kind of ways to stalk people by using social media and so on. The internet is a nightmare by daylight for their victims. I am not going to tell the ways stalkers can use because I am sure some stalkers reading this will use it.
Its like trying to catch a narcissist, your proof is in the patterns and body language. Document and journal everything!
Love Dr Hickey, he’s awesome!
I've been a victim of gangstalking sinse Feb. Of 2001. Thanks to the Patriot act.
Breaking into your house,jamming the signal to your security, picking the locks and breaking into your house.I moved out of the city , out of the state, to another state and this person is still breaking into my house and still stocking me. Just trying to destroy my life.I am scared.
Get wireless cameras. Get a big dog.
Anybody know how to protect yourself after they already have control over all aspects? Throwing away my phone seems number 1 lol
Lie lie and blames on my name.
Needs justice.This is completely wrong.Something that becomes so hard to live with that you start bleeding.
Am i getting stalked if i am on the bleachers eating my lunch and i see my ex girlfriend looking at me through the tiny window then she moves over for i cant see her then she slides back to the window and keeps doing that for a while
I made the mistake of thinking 25 years would have allowed for him to grow into an adult......YAH NOPE. Once a narcisist stalker over controler multi personalty always a narcisist stalker over controlling multi personalty. He even got married at least I ran! Now 27 years later hes still calling and its gotten waaaaaaay worse.
It means sam Vaknin theory about introjects is true.
More than halfway in and I'm finding this useless in actually getting into the mind of a stalker
He's laughing but this is a serious topic.
What I don't understand is why he only referred to men as being stalkers, women can be just as bad or even worse!!! I am a woman and a woman from south America as stalked my husband and Me for 7 years!!! Even showing up at our door with a gun man.... so um...both sexes can be victims or villains
I was since 2018 and probably still now being stalked with police cam on the corner this did not stop this nut.
I realized the difference between crush on and stalking on reading the comments from some of these narcissistic bhs.😂