Metro Detroit mother raises concerns over daughter's hospital care
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- Опубликовано: 6 фев 2025
- A Metro Detroit mother wants her 1-year-old transferred to a hospital out of state after she says she raised concerns about her daughter's care at Children's Hospital of Michigan and was met with pushback and a temporary ban prohibiting her and her husband from visiting the hospital.
A mother's intuition never lies!! Something needs to be done!
How can you ban someone whose child you’re treating and they’re paying you? Our healthcare system is such a joke.
That's just wicked. Coming from the mom of a primi, babies need their moms constantly at their side. This helps them get better.
I don't think they legally can, this will probably be a lawsuit
That's because there's something illegal going on
They actually can't it is against parental rights and constitutional law!
yes they can
Medical Bias is the definition of what she’s going through
Gaslighting also
No, they have done this to NUMEROUS mothers.
I hope this Mother gets a shark of a lawyer and sue this hospital and those doctor's . Never stop fighting for you kids .
Pray for this mother and her baby.
The treatment this mother has received is beyond reprehensible. Your restraint is most admirable. I doubt I could be that strong. Advocate is a must.
Prayers for Carter, and her Mom and Whole Family ❤️🙏🧸🧸🧸
Praying 🙏🏾 for her baby girl keep her mom strong❤🎁😎💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽🙌🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾💕💕💕💕😇😇😇😇😇🎈🎈🎈🎈🎈🥳👑👑👑👑👑👑🎂
Sue this hospital and Healthcare system. A lawyer will take you on for free!!!
Lawyers may agree to do a civil suit,,contingent if a win,settlement occurs? They get 1/3 or more. But YOU MUST pay All court filing fees,office costs ,etc. Which add up fast. Only thing waived is his own hourly rate.
@@alphaomega5909but also, the hospital gets dragged through the media if the mom takes it that far. And clearly it needs to be.
@@AandM8 Valid points.
100 wrong. They do not even have a case. Clearly you're not a law school graduate
@@rachelsill79 lmao clearly neither do you
Good job Mommy! Keep fighting..
You can't ban the parents from seeing their own child
Unfortunately yes hospitals can it's not right but they can if they deem you to be a problem even when you're not a problem yes Hospital can prevent you because they can claim It's A disruption to the care of the patient
26 wks c section???? Prayers please for this 🙏 👪family
U of M Children’s Hospital would have treated that family 1000 times better than any hospital in Detroit.
FACTS!!!!I came on here to comment to send your daughter to Motts in Ann Arbor!!!! MICHIGAN HEALTH U ROCK💙💛
I agree…
They refused her
@@Dorianwallace-sw4gh Sad to lesrn Motts refused.
@@Dorianwallace-sw4gh why did they refuse her?
Thank you for taking interest in this story. Carter deserves great care, AND her mother by her side as much as possible. The insanity of banning a parent is nothing but intimidation and over reach, HOW DARE YOU??? I’m assuming mom had heightened emotions (who wouldn’t?!?!?!?!?!) after having two babies in the NICU born extremely prematurely AND dealing with recovery from cesarean delivery, and all the hormonal changes. I pray she gets a lawyer and demands an investigation not only into the administration of this hospital, but the SLEEPING NICU staff as well. Critically ill children being monitored by people SLEEPING?! Outrageous, that’s where the ban should start! I’m so disturbed by this story, I am praying for sweet Carter and her family.
This "for profit" system full of middlemen has to change. We have to vote to change it.
The video literally states that the mother agrees with the hospital that her daughter is too sick to be moved at this time.
She would like to move the baby as soon as it is safe to do so, as she does not have the confidence in the current hospital that would make her feel safe, and it is okay to seek a second opinion or to wish for a different hospital and plan of care.
I’m praying for you and your family!🙏🏾
This story hits home for me .. Do ALL YOU CAN FFOR YOUR BABIES!! I just had my daughter at 26 weeks on May 7th 😢shes also in the nicu weighing 2lbs 8oz and when i watched the camera a heavy set nurse was not watching my baby and she was already laying on her back with an oxygen tube in her nose but she was spitting up bubbles from her mouth. I called and asked them to please check on her and as i watched the camera for the next 10 mins no one came to check on my baby . Me and my husband went str8 up there going off on them ppl . And jjust like she said they be quick to try to put u out but never disregard your intuition ❤❤
We’re not allowed to disagree, or even ask questions about our medical care anymore, without repercussions! They act like they are gods, and you’re to just do what your told!!! I’d be dead now, or seriously ill if I did everything these idiot healthcare professionals told me to do!!!
The baby is too sick to be transferred! The hospital is not holding her hostage. Mom even agrees she is not stable to move.
Did you listen to the video? Did you listen to what mom said?
@@jturtle5318 This person clearly missed key points…
In Qld, Australia we have Ryan’s law to fall back on if one doesn’t feel listened to at Qld Hospitals.
It is invoked multiple times per week.
To do this to parents is anti family
What is Ryan's law?
@@ryanparkhurst5718 I have the link from the govt for you. www.qld.gov.au/health/support/shared-decision-making/ryans-rule
How Ryan's law even came to be was terrible and her death was so avoidable
They have beautiful name. My sister have twins a boy and girl and she had them recently 2023..❤. Praying for these angels.
There’s two sides of every story. I’d wanna see EVERYTHING n know what was really going down. Idk.
I’m a nurse and over 12 small years I’ve learned to take people at face value. TRUST BUT VERIFY! Is something my beautiful military husband has really made me realize is REALLY IMPORTANT!
Me too. Was she yelling or threatening staff or something? Seems weird to ban a parent for no reason.
@@valerieodonnell6764 exactly
Black women this healthcare system isn't safe for us!!
When will we learn!!
Still can't figure out why black women keep having kids with high maternal/infant mortality rates, poverty, bad schools. Childfree should be option
What is there to learn? We already know this. We have to exist in and use these white spaces. The onus is on those spaces to treat us better.
What is her other option though?
@ensabahnur3104 black doctors,doluas, home births and prayer baby!!
Stop with the r card. It’s so not true. You’re not a victim.
Praying for a miracle may the Lord bless the journey 🙏
Medical field is a business. Your treatment depends on your form of payment and how much the bill its going to cover.
She's lucky she didn't get her kids taken sway. These drs will start at nothing and now she has made ripples. Medical kidnapping is a thing especially if these kiddos are on state insurance.
It is scary to go in hospital care these days.
The power of the pen is heavy in there.
I had a similar experience. I did not believe the hospital was taking the necessary precautions for her recently diagnosed condition. I did research and found another children’s hospital that had the expertise. I requested that she be discharged but the hospital disagreed and a doctor started yelling AMA, AMA but I would not budge. My daughter is now an adult with two children. And the racism? I kept a binder of her healthcare history and the staff always assumed I was a social worker. 🙄Moms know. This mom rocks!!
Could it be the terrible attitudes of blk patients? Now healthcare workers are sick of it. However, every person is different and shouldn’t be treated poorly.
I think it’s more so of terrible treatment from some healthcare workers towards blk patients, when they speak up and start asking questions about their care, you have some health care workers white and blk when they get in certain positions they forget about the care and need of the patient and more so about money, that’s the bottom line!!
Praying for baby and Mom😢 how do you ban a mother from the Hospital 🙏🙏🙏
What is really going on? Where is the love of healing people medical team? These are babies. Lord help us people of color get better care. We deserve the same as anyone else. In Jesus Name Amen.
My heart goes out to her 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
I assure you a mother’s intuition is always usually correct. If you sense something’s not right with what they are doing, or treating you. Always speak up, its better early then too late.
I wish all the children be healthy🙏
It is true. They do not listen to parents.
PRECIOUS LITTLE PRINCE and PRINCESS 💗👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑💖
Now the part of the story still to be covered-how long will they hold this vulnerable infant inpatient while they work hard to maximum bill insurance? It’s something that happens tens of thousands of times each day across the US. They deliberately make it even more painful if a family member (or patient) dares to advocate for themselves (in other words, they engage in reprisal). My gut says the baby will be held as an inpatient until they have no choice but to discharge due to external pressure and blowback🤦🏾♀️🙄
This is a good question. It didn't actually cross my mind til your comment, tho it should have cuz duuhh money
Talking bout black people in Detroit not being treated fairly the whole city is black what is this reporter talking about for crying out loud.
Are the hospitals Black owned?
My daughter went there and it was disgusting
Code blues left and right the doctors were disrespectful to me as well when I raised concern about my daughter's care
I highly recommend and pray this place gets invested
I feel so sorry for the parents and children there
The second I pulled my child out of there she started feeling better
They threatened to call CPS when I wanted to take her out but I was ready to call the police on them
Don’t they have advocates in the hospital to support the parents?
No they dont
Keep yelling don’t let them shut you up about your child!!!!
UNBELIEVABLE 🤬 when our 7 yr old was diagnosed with cancer osteosarcoma 😭💔 we had to educate ourselves it was tuff but we did it but with many FIGHTS WITH DOCTORS 😞 my husband got into such a big fight with the head doctor he said to him “ YOU ARE A PRACTICING DOCTOR don’t forget that” I won’t repeat the rest 😞 but we were not kicked out (we live in California 🌴 ) but we did leave that hospital and got a new doctor ! Being in the hospital with your child is STRESSFUL ENOUGH you don’t deserve to be threatened and you should record your interactions with the people in that hospital..
TRANSFER THIS BABY OR ALLOW OHIO DOCTORS COME AND SEE HER.
Did the news ask her why she was banned?
Hospital care is not what it used to be. They don't clean, period. The ventilation vents and heating vents are always filthy. The first thing I look at when going into hospitals. It's not just blacks folks it's all folks being treated badly. Hospitals are big business first, treatment second, clean healthy living conditions last.
That’s just horrible. What she can do is , she can call an advocate at that specialized hospital, to see if they will transfer her daughter via ambulance from this hospital to theirs. They can also check with medical insurance to see if this is covered, if not to see what the out of pocket cost is. It’s been done many times between hospitals. I would also have the mom have every single med written down, treatments etc , so if they were approved to go forward, some hospitals like this could inform the Paramedics wrong information (unfortunately it has been done) so that way her daughter us safe. My son wasn’t gonna get the care he needed a couple years ago from an unknown condition at the time so I requested him to be transported to a university hospital that has the top children’s Neurology department. I had to fight it but stood my ground and made sure he got the transfer. Glad he did, soon as he got into the ER he went down hill and was seizing uncontrollably. Grateful we got it under control and he’s doing great today.
How long are they banned for? What was she threatened?
The newscasters here, and the parents, are NOT the medical experts. This baby is clearly too sick to be moved at this time, and the hospital has an obligation to the baby as the patient. The lack of comment from the hospital means you do not have both sides of the story, so the editorializing here implying that the hospital is doing the wrong thing is completely uncalled for.
They are doing the wrong thing because my baby has four burns on her that they keep trying to say are pressure wounds yall be so quick to side with the hospital where is the voice for her with these burns oh ok
@@Dorianwallace-sw4gh -- I'm not saying the hospital might not have made some mistakes in the care. And she should be transferred if the patients don't feel comfortable with her care there, once she is stable enough to transfer. But it's not up to the newscasters to make the determination. They are supposed to be reporting, not making their own comments that constitute opinions.
She didn’t report anything that was her opinion maybe my words her mouth but nothing she said wasn’t said to her
@@Dorianwallace-sw4gh -- but because there was no comment from the hospital, both sides were not presented. Again, the newscast isn't supposed to tell only what one side feels when there's a difference of opinion. They're supposed to remain neutral. I'm not saying I don't believe you. I'm saying that it's not up to the newscaster to editorialize about the issue, not giving the hospital time to give their side of the story.
And you should understand as well as anybody does that the hospital isn't actually allowed to present their side of the story because of HIPAA
And they are doing the wrong things in my eyes becasue why do my Abby got burns on her ears oh ok stop trying to depend grown ups n help the baby idiot
I literally lived in there while my baby was there. Would go home to shower and eat then sit and sleep at hospital cause WHAT
Keep fighting you go were behind you 5:43
I didn't think this would play the race card! OMG keep thoughts and prayers on this baby girl.
What?
I would like to know if they even did the study asking white people because I'm a registered. Nurse been in the profession for almost 30 years and I work with a bunch of heathens. People that should not be care givers. In the health care field, they're only there for the money. They do sleep on the job. They do talk b******* They do run their mouths. They do make a lot of mistakes and their superiors have them covered up. There's a lot of 4 Jing going on in hospitals. This is absurd. I'm shocked that other parents haven't gone into these places with their second amendment right? When they get threatened to not see their children, this is absurd. A hospital should not have the right to kidnap a human being, but they do well. They don't, but they think they do. But the court system, you can't see a judge to. Day so yeah, it's a messed up system, but welcome to America. God is the only one that gives freedom our creator and heaven. My father, I hope he is yours. Most of us he is not if he was. We would have a better society now. Wouldn't we gross again? This is gross. And I'm so sick of the news. Putting out dividing newscasts about a black study again. What about white people? You don't think we get treated that way we do? I'm also a patient or I was.
Knowing that blacks do not receive the same care as w#ites I support her.
If their is a God i hope she helps the people she created.
This is not a black problem, this is a quality of healthcare and poor culture in healthcare issue. White people experience these issues just as much.
Cari is a lil angel ❤ i name her that as a nickname ❤ ..be with that lil angel ❤..
Why didn't she want her child to have pain medicine?
The hospital is doing all they can, if a baby that premature makes it all, that's a testament to the hard work the hospital has done. There's no guarantee anyone makes it in healrhcare. For family to be banned- how did they act? Must have had said and done some serious things to be banned.
That's so not true like she said if you say or go against what their trying to tell you they wanna ban you I have been a victim firsthand.
That’s what my questions were as well
Not always.
@@BuckFidenMD4547you would give your baby fentanyl?! You should never ban a mom from being with their baby with no explanation. Why did they deny the interview with news channel if they are so professional and innocent? Don’t be racist it’s disgusting
Why did the hospital refuse the interview with the news channel to explain the ban if it was a reason ? Why give a baby fentanyl with out mothers permission? You’re asking the wrong questions. I wonder why ? Speaks volumes
Even though Memphis is known for it's crime, it is also known for it's hospitals.
This happens more often than people know at hospitals because when you choose to stand up for your child they label you as a problem and disruptive and that allows them to kick you out
DO NOT make this an issue of race 🙄 White, Latino, Oriental children are getting mistreated too. 🤨
If you make it a racial issue it'll end up getting brushed aside. Black people are no longer a minority.
This is an issue that crosses all lines except income. Poor kids come in all colors but it is dependent upon the parents to make sure they're cared for properly.
Leave the race out of it. Please. Our children are more important than the color of their skin. ♥️✌️
But this specifically and statistically happens the most to black patients of all ages. The healthcare world isn't 'all lives matter' just yet.
@@enfpchickthanks 4 saying that ❤.
Race has played a factor in medicine for years. Do your research, check the statistics, and stop spreading misinformation/speaking on issues you know nothing about.
This isn’t the first time this has happened.
Newsflash......it happens to white kids also!
Poor little thing.
I was asked to leave speech therapy for questioning about toys that she kept using to make her stem, ( metal down) I took child and left never went back
What’s the point of this broadcast?
In addition to the hospital failures, themother is unhealthy and her pregnancy was considered a geriatric pregnancy. Behave appropriately in the hospitals and you wont be banned.
Any time a hospital bans parents from seeing their children, something is going on illegal they don't want parents to see. Sue them!!
Wow crazy
First of all, if I have an infant in the hospital, I wouldn't be at home in my bed. I would be sleeping in the room with my infant. I wouldn't be relying solely on the care of the hospital staff. Even I have to leave and go to work directly from the hospital.
My child isn't the only patient, and they aren't baby sitters.
The same as schools. You can't stay at the school, but you can be actively involved in your children's education.
I was a black single career mom when my children were attending grade, middle, and high school. The teachers, administrators, and superintendents knew my name. And would respond when I reached out to them.
As a single mom, I raised a US Marine, who died in active duty, and a future physician who is currently working on her masters degree at 25.
Be present in the moment with your children. It matters.🌹
And if you also had an infant at home? These are twins. You would never go home to your other children?
@@franw9784exactly… this privileged person is either perfect or living in a dream world lol
@@mar25947The family and friends have to step in.
And if your baby is in the nicu you can’t stay with them 24/7.
Oh honey I wouldn’t even pull out an IV once in the ER. You may have caused some damage doing it yourself.
Healthcare system sucks. Good job mom!
There really needs to be universal healthcare in the USA 🇺🇸. It is very infuriating
Childrens sucks i recprded things they did in 2016 nothing done i took him out AMA went to royal oak beaumont childrens called CPS on me, they were mad they wasted there time my son needed emergency bowel surgery childrens almost killed him, being a nurse and mom, 😂they sent me 2 tickets to henryford museum as an apology THAT HOSPITAL STAFF AND CARE ARE GARBAGE!
I believe there was discrimination.
I also believe she went there and was acting a fool.
I don't know about medical bias but I can tell.you.in the last 15 years medical.care abd hospitalization has suffered rooms are dirty , bathrooms are not cleaned and nurses do less relying more on unskilled aides . Doctors visits during hospital stays are about 6 minutes and if ask a question not pertaining to thier specialty they tell.you straight up you have to confer with another physician in a not so n nice way. Like you are bothersome.
If you are disruptive, they will ban you from the hospital.
"Disruptive" for complaining about your child's care?
Black women who speak up are routinely labeled "disruptive" instead of being listened to.
You need to look up "racial disparities in health care", as a nurse I witnessed it first-hand.
Remember what they did to Maya.
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I’ve heard this story before. It’s awful.
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My daughter had breathing issues -seizures - at birth. If you’re upset, leave, take your child and leave. I’ve done exactly that on more than one occasion at Rex Hospital. And it ain’t just black families. I’m white. Dissatisfied? LEAVE!
Studies show it happens a great deal more to black families and the care that is received. Stop minimizing others experiences.
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These special newborn doctors and nurses don't have time to deal with moms who are all up in their faces, getting loud and sassy thinking they are not doing what the should for her child. They would never ban a parent unless they had a very good reason to. Also, she didn't feel that she was treated right? I know how she wanted to be treated. She wanted them to bend over and kiss her feet. She is so very lucky this baby is alive, however, she is stacking things up for a lawsuit to try to make some money. Shameful!!!
Do you work on this unit, or were you in a nearby room with your baby?
Black women who speak up are routinely ignored and labeled "disruptive" by health care workers. That's one big reason why the racial disparities in health care are so stark in the US.
@@jturtle5318 No, you are in that "victim mode" when in fact the same thing has happened to a parent I know (he was banned) and he is white. Black people in general are very loud and if you disagree then you are lying! This is all just leading to a lawsuit that she will not win.
You don’t have any new stereotypes calling the mom loud and sassy??? I didn’t notice that at all in this news clip wonder where you got that from?? 🤔 Biased much!?? She has every right to advocate for herself and her child.
@@kymwatts9781 DO NOT pretend to not know what I am talking about. No, she isn't going to be loud while being interviewed about how in "her" mind she was treated badly for being black. Let's hear the other side! I am not bias, just telling it like it is!!!
@@mssandybeach1 so you witnessed this? No you did not so you can STFU with your biased and racist comment.
This is wicked & evil.
Thanks our WONDERFUL DRMONIC DEMOCRATS...ALL THEY WANT IS MONEY...DONT CARE ABOUT HUMAN BEINGS!!!❤❤❤
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Would like to hear the hospital's side of this story, I think there is a lot more we aren't hearing, just a suspicion!
how do u give feet to a baby? I thought that was only used for extreme pain...... wtf
We probably know why..😮
No adequate healthcare
Typical.
Black we have to avcate hard for ourselves
All this mother wants is her child transferred to another hospital that she can maybe possible trust or at the very least trust more than where her child is at now. But they can’t even do that?!?! Have these hospitals not learned after the mother went home and committed suicide so her husband could go and she her child and years later got sued for millions?! Come on now. They are acting like this mother wants to just take her child home and not receive medical help. NO she just wants her baby somewhere else.
Disgusting
Family members like this mother make it difficult for medical teams to care for their loved ones. It’s the arrogance and feeling entitled, bossing the providers around, acting obnoxious, and acting like they are the nurses/doctors.
Stay out of the way and let the medical team take care of the patients!!! They are experts and trained to do so. I can guarantee you there’s a good reason this woman and her family were banned from being at the hospital. And it’s usually this group of people. If you know what I mean.
If she knows what needs to be done, she should simply go to college and get a medical degree, and then treat her loved ones at home.
Doctors, Nurses, and CNAs are doing the best they can. They are not anybody’s servants or puppets, and should not be treated as such.
This whole entitlement and victim mentality has got to stop!
🤣. . .and, you must belong to “the group of people who make statements like this, you know who I mean”🤔. . .We all know who created the systematic inequality in the USA. Why are you pointing the finger of disdain at the victim of this ongoing healthcare ‘victimization’ when said behavior is brought to light? Are you a perpetrator, a perpetuator, or a beneficiary of such bias, bigotry, and racism? So, if you don’t know what it’s like to be a “person of that group” . . .perhaps you should ask your family, ask your friends, ask a neighbor, . . .oh, wait, you probably don’t know anyone of “that group”. . .you just assume the role of making definitive judgments about people you know nothing about.
Wow, I’m not sure what you people aren’t getting… did you bother to listen to the story before forming your opinion?
@jackie….bingo!
Enjoy the money y'all. Please let it go. I don't have it. Y'all took it all. So please stop trying to figure out if I have received it. There's nothing to received. And America is in debt. God is going to grant me with his inheritance. So repent and ask for deliverance so you can receive his inheritance also.
These hospitals think they can do as they please
Well, dont go in and act like a ******
🤔How do you wake up every day and choose to write racist comments about others. . .You do it because you feel superior or inferior?
They are experimenting on that baby.
They said it more me bc they were black 😮.
I understand that she was treated badly but it is not only African Americans treated this way. These medical professionals give a mediocre treatment to most minorities of any race and ethnicity