Meeting The Men Who Slid Into Her DM’s 😉 💬 II Steve Harvey
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- Опубликовано: 21 сен 2024
- Guys are constantly trying to score a date with Britt by sliding into her DMs. Now, she’s getting the chance to meet 3 of them in person for the first time! The Chief Love Officer (aka Steve) is ready to help Britt narrow down the eligible bachelors with his questions that every woman should ask on a first date.
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And that's why many beautiful women are single. They choose playaz with good looks and sweet talks.
Exactly
Exactly
@trance1fan349You see it a mile away
You sound bitter, maybe he is a good guy, gotta take chances, but carry on with you’re hate, the world needs haters too 😅
@@garykatoa5410 I have no reason to hate at all. I am very blessed and happily married. My husband is a gorgeous man from South Africa.
With your logic, if you recognise a hoe , it means you are hating ? You don't need to call people names, judge or hate. You just simply recognise that the person is not suitable for a serious relationship and family. Many women also have a good intuition and recognise a playa at first sight.
The middle guy to me was an amazing young man. He seems like a guy who would be there for you all the time.
I thought so too.
Yeah, but she picked the model. hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha. Never listen to women, watch what they do.
Deff would have chosen Q. He is mature, has self reflection, is sensitive in his answers and is clearly interested in psychology and wanting to understand the other party:)
From the start I knew she won’t pick Q. I knew it was number 1 or 3
Q definitely seemed the most sensible, which was a shame because she didn't find him attractive. You have to be attracted to your partner And like their substance. (If she were attracted to him, she would've never told him "I like to debate", she would've kept it feminine.) Justin mentioned strong faith, and that's better substance than complimenting a woman for being "strong minded" like Christon did (seems like code for "I'm looking for a woman that will be strong through the nonsense I put her through"), so Justin was the best option there for her.
@@digthewarmth Q didn’t have the bad boy look. I knew she would pick one of those two guys except Q. I can tell you she is single once again. I can swear that..
@@digthewarmth Attractiveness isn’t enough.
@@nzubechukwu2856Neither is just personality. If he just has good substance but you're not attracted to him, then your husband is just your roommate. You need both.
“Strong in faith “ got her lol
Lol she didn’t choose justin bc of similarities she chose him because thats who she was the most attracted to
As soon as he said he was a model, I knew. Same problem Halle Berry has, they keep going after the model types that "happen" to be players. lol
She already know who she wanted from the jump
That's automatic. You can see it in her face.
Who you “want” and who you “need” ain’t necessarily the person. The problem, of course, is putting wants before needs. That also applies to our finances. So many people encounter financial difficulties because they satisfy their wants rather than their needs.
She is beautiful. I like the old school way, face to face!!
We actually met a girl in my day and you worked hard to get a date. I tried online one time and it was horrible. So called social media has ruined face to face interaction with fellow humans.
true. And yet, people are often desperate for a "real" conversation. I notice when I"m the one talking in the break room people actually love to join in. We've gotten to hand pick a virtual "world" and it's made us anti-social and afraid of rejection. It's an interesting combo but it can be broken. We have to put the effort in, we've been so focused on ourselves that we've forgotten that we can't get friendships delivered :)
I cannot agree with you more! Trying to actually talk to someone has been horrible. Going on a date even worse.
"Alpha male" her using that phrase to describe her preference tells me she's going to suffer 😶
& she chose a painter lol
We all knew Q was the right person but our ladies 🤦🏾♂️ Another single mom about to happen
Q was possibly husband/father material. The person she picked was the "Good time" guy...LOL...He was the most handsome out of the bunch. That was about it. lol.
The first guy be giving playboy speech and vibes
Money was on the model initially, but after hearing all of them speak, money was on Q.
Q was probably her best option. But women like adventure/thrill, so she went with the model.
14 Questions every woman should ask on the 1st date (by Steve Harvey)
1. What do you value most in a relationship?
2. What quality is most attractive to you in a partner?
3. What is your relationship like with your parents?
4. What are your long-term goals?
5. Name three things you’d like to have in common with your partner.
6. What makes you laugh?
7. What is one thing you won’t tolerate in a relationship?
8. What is your biggest strength and weakness?
9. Are you family oriented?
10. How do you spend your downtime?
11. What do you believe is your worst quality?
12. Are you a grudge holder?
13. What is the longest relationship you’ve been in and why did it end?
14. For what in life do you feel the most grateful?
It’s ok to ask some of these but a lot of them are more second or third date Q’s imo. Gotta remember the date is supposed to be fun as well as informative and shouldn’t be taken tooo seriously. Cuz lookin for the perfect answer might cover the perfect match.
So basically a job interview?😂
@@mylesbrew5410 yes, everyone should go at their own pace that feels comfortable for them. It’s a guideline for people that have a hard time vetting and thinking of conversation starters.
@@eechaze12 yes, they should be interviewing the person they may be spending the rest of their life with, especially if the man is going to be the provider traditionally.
@@emberprinting There was a time life was so simple and they lived happily married lives. Ask all those questions, background checks, prenups, hire private investigator, go through his or her phone. The more you do those things, the more likely you will wind up disappointed. My advice keep things simple. The most important things in life that bring happiness are really simple concepts. The people that long successfully marriages had humble beginnings. Just a thought
1st of all,she can get it!
2nd,us men come off as creeps even we try to holla at a girl in person,the internet has definitely ruined the dating scene
I concur 💯% on your statement.
I thinks she meant her league already could come up to her, not ones at home mass sending DMs to every woman,
No, it's not creepy to approach a woman in person. Men use that as a cowardly excuse because DMing someone requires zero courage.
@@tjaspire very true,I was kind of speaking fro a personal experience,I have had success with in person approach,but my best friend usually doesn’t,so I think it’s HOW you approach really
@@tjaspire I'm sorry you must not heard of the me too movement. You don't have to approach in a creepy way to be labeled a creep. If women were actually honest, they'd tell you that the only difference between a creep and a phone number is attraction.
A hot guy could have a sloppy approach and even say the wrong thing, but would be given a chance cuz women break their rules for the guys they're attracted to. Simple as that.
If I was in her place, I would’ve 100% picked Q. Not based off the initial first impression/looks but based off his answers. I feel like the more he talked, the more attractive he got to me. Justin was my last pick lol
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Agreed!!
Agree about Q. He had the best answers and he was quite humble and educated.
@@ethio3083you know women love to say what “sounds good” it’s apart of their justifying everything nature 😭 If Q came up to her stuttering & talking with his fingers all out she wasn’t gone even respond 💀
@@ethio3083 It's not a cap . I will choose Q any day too.
MEN: "Hello, How are you doing today?"...... WOMEN: "Bye CREEP!" 😕😔
All she wanted was someone who appreciates her for who she is...and Justin got it, ''You look beautiful bytha..'' was a perfect shot!!
He appreciates her for her looks.
I am happy Steve you have these shows where women and men can meet people who love and believe in Jesus! When people are not equally yoked, they are not working together to get the task done but working at odds with each other. If you don't have the same beliefs, values, or even morals, you will be working against each other in your marriage.
You're absolutely right
Super comment❤
She picked the player.
Uncle Steve...the 'Love Expert' 😂❤
Q is using his education on how he processes thinking and speaking skills. Justin seems like he says what you want to hear. Christon is more her field with sports and what not. Personally I would have picked Q but it's obvious she was never going to pick him.
Steve we'd love to know how this date turned out and if the couple tried to make it work!
FOR SURE SIR
A model and artist she picked the handsome dusty. Lol
Haha 😊 They all were dusties but Q was the least dusty. They all mentioned they liked her because she is a strong woman… read, she’ll pull her own weight. 🚩 🚩 🚩
What’s a ‘dusty’????
Great pick. Justin was also the only one who complimented her.
I think they may hit it off well.
The compliment guys are mostly the players. They are always so confident and are good story tellers.
Steve Harvey is such a great mentor. And I love how he is so supportive on their side. To make him feel comfortable meeting his partner’s parents. I would’ve been the same way if I was him meeting her parents for the first time props to him because at least he was willing to do it because not many guys have the courage and don’t really want to meet their parents because they are afraid of what they’re going to think of them.
You are wonderful Sheila ❤❤❤.
10 to 15 a day?! I barely get 5 in a year!! 😢lol for me the instant attraction was Justin but I think Q would be an amazing Husband!
I concur. Q was the one I would have chosen. He has the quality of a husband. However, maybe Britt was not seeking a man with husband qualifications. I pray she finds love, joy, peace and happiness.
I get 0 😂😂
thought soo too,Q was the bomb
I have 0 in 5 years
Q needs to focus on completing his degree.
One thing I think most women could work on is having more feminine energy. Me included. It's such a relief to be able to relax into my feminine energy and not have to be in control or be the leader. I'm not sure why she told the guy she likes to debate. A man probably hears that as she likes to argue. Also, not sure why she snapped her fingers and said she wants the guys to be on their toes. Huh? They're already nervous because they're on TV.
Justin is a playa i know that the moment he said i don't like impatient.. this is about to be 10 years relationship with children out of wedlock 💀
I said the same thing
Wow! Is this coming from a guy? I think ur right
@@memyself523 no am a girl
soooooo true
5:06 - "I like to debate so be ready for that."
This tells you all you need to know about why she's single. It's just like if a woman ever says she's "strong and independent" "sarcastic" or a "challenge".
Men find peace in women who are agreeable, easy going, friendly, and who ultimately follow our lead. We don't want debates and arguments with pushback all the time. Instead make our lives easier. 💯
WOMEN FIND MEN ATTRACTIVE WHO FOLLOW THEM. WITH THAT MENTALITY YOU WILL NEVER FIND A WOMAN.
Thank you Uncle Steve for these wonderful questions I can ask the potential men in my life. Love to see
men looking out for women, it is truly honorable ❤ you have my respect
Good pick!
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Definitely would have picked Q 💕 something about the style and honesty in his answers !
Man it's so easy to see her make her decision within 5 seconds of them coming out. Too easy to read man 😆
Both Justin and Q impressed me.
She definitely choose superficially. She picked the look. I bet she is single again. I am expecting her on the show again in few weeks haha. Reason why a lot of ladies are single.
Soon to be single mom
@@flyboimagic of course. A lot of ladies are just the cause of their own problems
I knew from the second I saw Justin 😂
Lol who is she fooling with that answer? She chose the best looking man end of story🤣🤣
Why would any man put themselves in a contests for any woman to choose them auction style, they could’ve had that conversation in her “dm” however they chose this route now they look like losers, emasculating at its finest but some men will do anything for tv and a women’s attention 🤦🏾♂️
Justin was also my choice for her😉
i'm not sure why, but i don't take dm's serious either. i don't even have social media anymore ✌🏾
Good but I hear something that even we contact hear shall we
Justin gave me a Playboy vibe. Good luck to her.
Wooohooooo, Chris Staples is in the building, my best street dunker of all times
She went for looks, the one wshe chose was the worst one. Christian looked the most sincere and serious of all.
Yes, she picked a playa. Another thing, how a model/artist is gonna provide for his family....
Yes and if you pay attention the hug and kiss at the end made her uncomfortable.
Justin is cool?????
Men also go for looks...
Christian is a big NO, he mentioned several times that he liked her because she is “strong” and he needs his gf to be a “friend” he can come home to and dump his stress onto. He’s 50:50 relationship. no no no.
She knew who she was going to pick the moment they came out I like the excuse she gave on why she picked him lo😂😂😂😂
Exactly
Of course, She knew. That's the way the game goes. 😂
Steve should have asked Justin about his longest relationship. The response of saying “impatience” strikes me as him possibly being slow to or having commitment issues.
Ikr that was the question that they should’ve asked all three. It’s a very important and telling question
She chose him for his looks but the guy at the middle was the one to go for . Players always wins
You men gave this woman way too much power.
The minute I saw 3 of them I knew she would pick Justin for the looks but I also saw that he seemed more of a player and not as serious and smart as the rest of them. 😂
She seems VERY comfortable with her popularity (because she’s young). Let’s hope she doesn’t squander her time looking for the billionaire or partying with Chad, because she may wake up one day with NO dms!
So true!😢
I like Q
Steve's doing a great job ,I love it. God bless your humble heart🙏⚘️⚘️⚘️⚘️⚘️⚘️⚘️⚘️
1st dude got that 💪🏾 he was confident and she was choosing lowkey 😂
Yeah, 1st bro had the confidence. You said she choose "lowkey". 😂
The middle guy should have got a chance ❤
She a little too into herself IMO. I liked Q for her though. His answers were the best and quite humble
yeah she will be back lol .. Q was the nice guy and fellas y’all see how she looked down when addressing him .. don’t be a nice guy they want dogs brah
Wish someone would tell Steve the difference between ‘bought’ and ‘brought’.
1. She Has A HUGE Ego & Superficial. Move On, Fellas.
2. A DM- That’s How You Message Someone Who’s Phone Number You Don’t Have.
3. Wanting Alpha Males Is Really Wanting A Lifestyle. And If She Hasn’t Bagged One Yet, She’s Just Getting Bedded & Pushed Aside.
Christian looked sincere and they kinda have same purpose
Chris staples ohh yeah ida picked him lol but she's in sports probably already knows him
I'm a straight dude but I gotta say Justin made an impression on me the first time he talked, and I wanted her to pick him, and she did. Good choice.
Chad was the Realest Pick ...Justin was just the Safest pick
Just looked at her IG... Maybe this was pre-recorded long ago, but if not then shorty was pregnant when she came on this show :/
This has to be a few years ago. Chris Staples(Christon) is like 36 now.
The brothers represented well done guys
the whole narrative of there not being enough good black men out here is overrated . There are more good black men out here to partner with than there are out here .
I remember dating before getting married. About 1 a day for me. 😂
1 a day what?
1 a day what?
Q seems like a really intelligent, decent guy. I would have picked him for her.
I knew it was Justin as soon as he walked out. His body language seemed a little shyer than the rest, but still confident.
I don't trust my own gut. It leads to way less than God's best.
Its Q for me. ❤ Justin has the look that attracts everything
I knew she was going to pick Justin from the second I saw the guys. Too obvious
She went with the dude with the most normal name 😂
they always pick the most attractive guy. without fail.
Would a man pick the least or second to least attractive woman?
She will be regretting, I guess. The best one was the middle one,I think
Not me sitting up there with other dudes waiting for a lady to choose who she wants to date amongst us😂😂😂😂 hell no..... it makes me feel like an option and that's not being a real man
Dudes can’t see past the looks. She doesn’t come off wife material tbh.
She didn't even stood up when he came for a hug. Rude....
Agree, she seems to be too full of herself...
Ikr
Very rude. Smash and move on! 🤷🏽♂️😆
She did not "stand up" and please cut her some slack. She welcomed him. People are different. It's her date. Let her figure it out.
Why are women so quick to judge.
A model, artist and he wants a woman to wait(a marriage?).. sounds a red flag to me.
You're right! Red flag all day.
His career choice sounds like a red flag to me. 😂
@@tjaspireYea it means he has no stable job.
None on them were Great options. Throw them all back! lol
She choose the right one for her, I saw it coming. Q seemed too perfect, and that's always a red flag.
She’s fine AF, 🔥🔥🔥🔥
Maybe a DM is the only way to get in touch with you....
2nd guy feel cool 😎
She's beautiful
I’m sure she got her back blown out and they are not in a relationship anymore. Maybe they talk and he’s busy traveling and doing his thing and they still talk here n there but that’s the type of guys woman choose. The best looking one out the group that seems like he’s living a prosperous life traveling the world. He’s a busy man but he’ll hit me up when he’s in town and we’ll go out and have a good time you know.
I remember her from the fumble 😂
4:34 Justin got the hook 🪝😉
I think women who want to trust Steve to choose for them or co-sign their repetitive bad choices, haven't don't the work of learning their lessons. So, when Steve says, "You can't make a bad choice here," please know he's only talking about money/success. fr... And there are always bad choices in his dating pool. period.
Q for sure ❤
Hold on is this Britt from the fumble?
Nah if I were the guys I’d run far away from her.
Justin clearly got the lowest shout but she picked off attraction only, Morden women
Competing for a woman or anybody is the dumbest thing anybody can ever do.
Psalms 40:4
Blessed is that man that maketh the LORD his trust, and respecteth not the proud, nor such as turn aside to lies.
I’m so glad she chose Justin… I called it from the beginning
Just look at the comments ladies, and youll see men pick men for women than women pick for themselves.
The consensus for us men, if it was for our sister, we’d prefer Q, easily the most masculine man there. Justin is very aware of perception and how he comes across. Refined. Which tells me depending on his intellect, he’ll also know how to manipulate it and you. He says the things you would like to hear. Which is ok, but not ideal if your main goal is a family man.
Never seen so much hateful comments about two God fearing people trying too become 1 flesh, but it’s too be expected, before the world hated us they hated Jesus 🛐✝️
Well how do you expect them to show you they are an “alpha male” if they don’t reach out in your DM to start a convo? This is immature to me
I thought Q but hey, I hope it worked
Me too. What about Q stood out to you? I wanna hear a Man’s perspective
@Ke ke He seemed like he was grounded. Progressing in life and wanting a life partner. The other guys seem to be more up in the air. It might be fun, but it's probably a dead end.
@@wjperdue thank you for replying to my comment and you’re right he is very grounded and it’s good to know there are good men out here like yourself who appreciate that quality in others. I’m staying hopeful I meet a grounded, self aware man like Q, I’ve always been attracted to those qualities in a man which is why I knew I’d need a man 8-10 years older than me (I’m 22). Meanwhile guys my age don’t look for that 9/10 . I’ve always been told I’m mature/ smart for my age. I think some women need a man a little older than her, what do you think?
@@Hope.8162 They aren't hard to find. Just keep handling your business and you will meet him on the way to your destination
@@wjperdue Im handling business that’s all I can do and you are right they are everywhere cuz I met a couple of em a few years back and I lost contact wit em, when I lost my iPhone. I haven’t met any good men since and it seems as if a lot of men with kind eyes (ones I see in public) don’t want to approach me maybe out of respect? Idk but they seem interested because they stare but never approach me
That’s the dunking guy, can’t think of his sports name right now.
All three of them gentalman
Justin he's the only one who mentioned his Faith.
She should have picked Q.
Q s beard is ugly
I knew she was gonna pick justin from the jump
Britt had a baby with a xnba -layer and men are chasing her 😂😂