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    How to keep a happy married life? What are the duties of wife, watch this beautiful video by Amrita Madhavi ji and please give a big thumbsup for her efforts.
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Комментарии • 339

  • @InnerEngineering-ix1rl
    @InnerEngineering-ix1rl 3 года назад +40

    This is my dream wife 🤩 with the qualities you mentioned. After your lecture, I am enlightened to become a Iskon member. I am not joking but very serious. It's the right path for a stable society

    • @alexanderg8466
      @alexanderg8466 9 месяцев назад

      Yeahh very utopic society.. in reality things are not white and black

  • @Rishabh-Dev
    @Rishabh-Dev 2 года назад +19

    A relationship without affection is nothing but a deal.

  • @ParulSingh-ki6qx
    @ParulSingh-ki6qx 4 года назад +38

    She looks like she is having so much kindness ( karuna) .so sweet lady.❤️

    • @aptituderec1120
      @aptituderec1120 3 года назад +3

      Kindness to do u even that things have a limit she is saying if u r husband goes and sleeps if another woman don't complain
      If he beats u don't complain
      If u r in laws torture don't complain
      if u r neighbours bully u don't complain
      If u r husband takes u r money and use it for wrong purpose don't complain
      Basically a person who's brain is lost and if the person who is mentally retarded syas this kind of words
      I would really want her to ans this she gonna smile and not even complain if her husband cheats her

    • @My-Foodie_S
      @My-Foodie_S 3 года назад

      @Sanjana Roy Sometimes GOD Gives us many chances to get out of that situation....he helps us in many ways ...we need to trust God and follow what he is trying to guide us...Jai Shree Krishna 🙏🙏

    • @harshitsingh12977
      @harshitsingh12977 10 месяцев назад

      @@aptituderec1120 abe sapne se bahar nikal aisa kahi nahi hota aur hota to to vo uss video pe naji hoti
      aur vaise bhi ye sab follow krne wali ko koi ise prblm hoti bhi nahi.. women triggers mae

  • @ankitarai3359
    @ankitarai3359 7 лет назад +68

    Hare krishna ...so gracefully explained each and every single words are gems in grahastha jevan.. learned alot
    Thanks you so much Maa for sharing those gems..

    • @amrtamadhavidevidasi1781
      @amrtamadhavidevidasi1781 7 лет назад +8

      ankita rai My pleasure dear to be of some service to you.. people so sweet like u will be loved not just by the spouse but everyone.

    • @amrtamadhavidevidasi1781
      @amrtamadhavidevidasi1781 7 лет назад +4

      ankita rai also pls watch my vedios on how to save marriage and why marriages fail then it will be more clear.

  • @dhirajjadhav29
    @dhirajjadhav29 4 года назад +59

    In this Kaliyuga, If some one got this kind wife .Then Every home become heaven .

    • @assumeformlessness2111
      @assumeformlessness2111 3 года назад +5

      Kaliyug is over 9 years ago, this is transition phase

    • @theultrabasedputin9099
      @theultrabasedputin9099 3 года назад +2

      Satya vachan

    • @monikabisht16
      @monikabisht16 3 года назад +17

      It is possible only when you are able to change yourself .
      If she is housewife ,appreciate her.
      If she is working women ,help her with her household .
      Don't fully blame women .
      One can kind a good wife by changing their own thinking of not doing any household with her

    • @theultrabasedputin9099
      @theultrabasedputin9099 3 года назад +9

      @@monikabisht16 I know people who do so and yet get insulted and cheated by their wives

    • @Ashish_Singh2595
      @Ashish_Singh2595 Год назад +4

      @@monikabisht16 the problem with guys and girls today is that they only want to get appreciated and understood by others but they don't want to appreciate and understand each other, egoistic and narcissistic qualities are taking over and you know who is to be blamed for this it's the Indian education system, bollywood nudity, islamic and western invaders who once attacked India and destroyed some of our Sanatan culture, ego, too much self centered love, lust, pornography and western media and western woke culture are the reason we are facing so many issues between Indian women and men. The social media made me so angry I started hating myself, humans and women because all that we see on media is propaganda which is sweet poison for every human, now that I understood about hatred is that it leads you to nowhere I am again on my path towards love for god, love for humanity, respect, love and care for women which I had for them before this social media came into existence.

  • @varshamilind4713
    @varshamilind4713 5 лет назад +29

    I loved this video. ..today only I had argument with my husband. ..I. was surfing u tube & saw ur video,I just thought this is only for me..thank you very much for such a inspiring,motivating & positive vib..talk😊

  • @alexanderg8466
    @alexanderg8466 5 лет назад +54

    I am not from India, but she is right.. Well done!! I wish the girls from my country are like her :c

    • @animeshgupta1444
      @animeshgupta1444 9 месяцев назад

      Which country?

    • @alexanderg8466
      @alexanderg8466 9 месяцев назад

      @@animeshgupta1444 I am from south america, I speak spanish.. However, this is an old comment. I kind of disagree with her now

    • @Pearluniverse11
      @Pearluniverse11 11 дней назад

      @@alexanderg8466why?

  • @My-Foodie_S
    @My-Foodie_S 3 года назад +18

    That's why many parents don't educate girls...teach them how to keep ur husband happy , seek his attention by cooking and all...dedicate ur whole life for ur husband bcz he is provider for u...All the best girls...just I will say...u have only one life use it for great purpose bcz womens are great creature of God...use ur potential for some great purpose...and if u get someone like u...definitely make him ur partner and not owner...by the way do as u wish its ur life at the end...Jai Shree Krishna🙏🙏

    • @yesiamabnormal
      @yesiamabnormal Год назад +2

      🧐

    • @AbhiN_1289
      @AbhiN_1289 10 месяцев назад

      Education is important regardless of gender. Have you seen the fools that think Africa is a country or can’t do algebra even if their livelihoods depend on it.

    • @Yeshuaismygod7
      @Yeshuaismygod7 Месяц назад

      Poor Western society full of broken homes miserable husband and wife relationship and sad lost children, drugs and alcohol and all kinds of problems, if only the wives knew how much power they have to make society happy or miserable just by making their own house a safe heaven of peace and happiness...western people are running to eastern cultures for help, but eastern young people wanting to copy everything western culture is doing...

  • @realbigmanoncampus
    @realbigmanoncampus 2 года назад +5

    Hare Krishna. Such wonderful teachings if understood would make so many households live in peace and in Krishna consciousness.

  • @nrr5585
    @nrr5585 3 года назад +10

    Can someone please answer my question, if a wife loves his unconditionally, respecting his family, talking sweetly and cooking with heart his favourite meals and smilies when he returns from work and in turn husband
    doesn’t respect her feelings, ignoring her never appreciates her cooking and whatever she does for him and does verbal abuse, domestic violence because that’s what the in laws taught him to do so , then what should a wife do and react to this as she is emotionally tortured??

    • @csinghK
      @csinghK 3 года назад +3

      Wife should leave him. Krishna has taught to fight wrong even if they are your own people. Example Mahabharata

    • @monikabisht16
      @monikabisht16 3 года назад +2

      File a complaint against him and wife should leave him .

    • @btsv7970
      @btsv7970 2 года назад +1

      Vice versa ...if wife tortures too emotionally or physically , husband must file a divorce

    • @alokda6791
      @alokda6791 Год назад +1

      If a wife do even 50% of what you have written in first part of your comment then it will never ever happen what you have written in second part of your comment.

    • @Aryavarta225
      @Aryavarta225 Год назад +1

      Double him and give to the next person

  • @VijayKumar-kz9rx
    @VijayKumar-kz9rx 7 лет назад +21

    nice one , now a days we miss people like you mother and so there are divorce cases increasing.

  • @isha897
    @isha897 5 лет назад +19

    Hare Krishna Mata ji. I love your point that the husband's are very nice by heart. My husband is a non- devotee, but still takes me to temple and festivals, he wishes good for people in general as well. But I sometimes get upset that he is not a devotee but then I have faith in Krishna that on day by Krishna's grace he will start devotion.

    • @aishushobha8014
      @aishushobha8014 3 года назад +5

      yes, Maa your good karma will bless him, he is so caring , being a non-devotee he still take syou to temples, you keeo chanting Krishna-Radha Name, it will slowly show its magic on him too. :)

  • @lizapradhan8055
    @lizapradhan8055 6 лет назад +8

    Very nice 💖
    Thank you so much 😄
    Hare Krishna

  • @dipakpingale
    @dipakpingale 5 лет назад +16

    Thank you so much mam. Whatever you explain us, it's really true and me & my wife try to use these things in our life.

  • @bc9629
    @bc9629 Год назад +2

    A woman like this , will be the delight of every man ! Unfortunately I don't have this . But too the men who have women like this , treasure them .

  • @swatimishra697
    @swatimishra697 4 года назад +10

    Thank you for such practical and easy to apply advice. Hare Krishna 🙏😊 love and respect are foundation of any relationship. But you have explained so nicely.

    • @aptituderec1120
      @aptituderec1120 3 года назад +5

      Did u lose u r mind not even one advice given by her is not meaningful she is saying to make husband's climb the head and keep a smiling face when he comes home after being drunk u have something called has brain use it

    • @infinity_shows_149
      @infinity_shows_149 3 года назад +1

      @@aptituderec1120 What’s the problem with you? Looks like you have a big fat ego. I hope you stay alone forever.😊

    • @harshitsingh12977
      @harshitsingh12977 10 месяцев назад

      @@infinity_shows_149 shes have actually fat brain and belly💀

  • @chandandubey9670
    @chandandubey9670 6 лет назад +9

    Mataji i bow my head in front of u ..for giving scripture lesson to this modern generation. I m heartly thankful to u.make a lecture on shrimati sitaji maharani and anushuiya mataji's conversation.

  • @0106py001056
    @0106py001056 6 лет назад +23

    thank you mataji for showing us the proper path to be a good wife . these r the ways a working wife also can follow.

    • @hktv108
      @hktv108  6 лет назад +6

      We are happy that you liked our videos. keep watching.Hare Krsna

    • @AmanSingh-hd5dj
      @AmanSingh-hd5dj 4 года назад +2

      @@hktv108 how to be a good daughter and sister 😇

  • @vinodhinir5593
    @vinodhinir5593 5 лет назад +7

    Hare Krishna mataji dandavat pranam
    Very nice lecture but if in-laws are not devotee (KC) then what should do either we should follow the in-laws rituals ??

  • @hemantgoyal20
    @hemantgoyal20 4 года назад +6

    Very thoughtful videos mataji. Very inspiring.. can you translate the same in hindi or start making videos in hindi too related to grihasthashram practices

  • @rajeshwarijanwadkar9369
    @rajeshwarijanwadkar9369 6 лет назад +4

    Thanks a lot . Such a great thought. Please make more such videos.

  • @kanikakhurana7546
    @kanikakhurana7546 6 месяцев назад +1

    Hare krsna mtj.
    Thank you mtj. These are extremely wonderful teachings. 🙏 i will try to implement these in my life.

  • @maakehaathonse7980
    @maakehaathonse7980 Год назад +2

    Kya patni ka ashirbaad lena koi paap hai?

  • @healedlife6286
    @healedlife6286 4 года назад +6

    So nicely explained ..tq Hare Krishna

    • @aptituderec1120
      @aptituderec1120 3 года назад +1

      Yea so well that if a person follows it they are not gonna have brain it can make a person go crazy

    • @nikunshvaish6813
      @nikunshvaish6813 Год назад

      ​@@aptituderec1120 are you mad abhi chutiya hai kya har kisi ka life ma ghus rahi hai jaka apna ma bapp ko seva kar tujhse kaha kya kisi na follow karna ko hutttttt bedbhi randi 😊

  • @prettielashes
    @prettielashes 2 года назад +3

    Question: are you suggesting a wife to do these things and still work?

  • @SanPot123
    @SanPot123 Год назад +2

    My wife is exactly opposite of what she says 😢..always complaining, quarelling, fighting...

  • @Raghs14
    @Raghs14 5 лет назад +11

    Thank you Amrutha ji for sharing. Wish such education are given in school and colleges as mandatory curriculum. We can save lot of family and kids future.

  • @evaarenas9272
    @evaarenas9272 6 лет назад +10

    Tell more of home duties and more of the job with the children

    • @hktv108
      @hktv108  6 лет назад +1

      Thank you for watching .Plz follow this link .Hare Krsna
      ruclips.net/video/Dm_jw5c5LIA/видео.html

  • @mitanjalipradhan9826
    @mitanjalipradhan9826 3 года назад +3

    Hare Krishna, jai srila prabhupada, very sweet voice mataji

  • @preeyagoyal5786
    @preeyagoyal5786 4 года назад +7

    Very true Mata ji🙏🙏🙏

  • @ashwanisoni2231
    @ashwanisoni2231 2 года назад +1

    awesome explanation: Mata Ji you are absolutely right and I'm experiencing everything opposite to what's said in this video.

  • @GoddessTMarie
    @GoddessTMarie 6 лет назад +9

    🤣This is great!!/I love it!!

    • @hktv108
      @hktv108  6 лет назад +1

      Stay tuned to experience the bliss in holy name .Hare Krsna

  • @kanchitadutta360
    @kanchitadutta360 3 года назад +2

    Very nice gyan Mataji. Dandwat pranam.

  • @sakshinbhutani
    @sakshinbhutani 3 года назад +13

    I think these days women are also provider, and why should they develop same taste, glorify man unnecessarily. Why not keep simple, live like friends, enjoy and cherish each other. If women doesn’t like the house etc, convey politely. Respect without compromising self respect. Become independent. Help him live with a partner and not a maid.
    Everyone has a stomach, lets both cook. Share the burden. In comments men have written that how can women these days demand men to cook along with office. Men expect the same. Mam I request everyone to respect each other and celebrate companionship.
    Live and let live.

    • @My-Foodie_S
      @My-Foodie_S 3 года назад +1

      💯👍👍👍

    • @infinity_shows_149
      @infinity_shows_149 3 года назад +6

      A homemaker wife’s contribution will always be honoured and respected by people, no matter how much you people try to degrade her.😊

    • @My-Foodie_S
      @My-Foodie_S 3 года назад +6

      @@infinity_shows_149 Bt Practically it is not happening....if housewives are respected then it will be well and good...bt nowadays it was not happening....u can see news for ur better knowledge....bcz of men dominate society....women need to change and men should support her...bt many men cannot digest it😅 at the end its there ego....totally understand buddy

    • @nikunshvaish6813
      @nikunshvaish6813 Год назад +1

      ​@@My-Foodie_S keep your opinion with you every body have different expectations

    • @Aryavarta225
      @Aryavarta225 Год назад +1

      ​@@nikunshvaish6813 brother I think islamic women are the best.they are real women .

  • @mr.noodleclown9420
    @mr.noodleclown9420 9 месяцев назад +1

    Hare Krsna Mathaji... My wife dont cook at all at home, and whenever I'm back from work, first thing will happen is, she will go inside her room and closed the door, like telling me indirectly that it is my turn to take care of our Child., I've even have a conversation with her regarding this matter but ended up with fight. Almost every day this same thing happening, and i seek for my mother in law help, she said that might be of my past life karma, instead of talk to my wife to do her responsibility.So Sad.

  • @bachelor843
    @bachelor843 5 лет назад +11

    4:05-4:22 my wife always doing like that to me,you are absolutely right i feel the same thing when she talked to me like that,... Im in a struggling stage of my marriage life for almost a year,we have so much misunderstanding....i really don't know how to overcome it....

    • @amrtamadhavidevidasi1781
      @amrtamadhavidevidasi1781 5 лет назад +5

      Sharing this video and duties of husband and then both of you promise to follow your duties. You start following your duties first. Then she will automatically follow her duties. All the best to you. Hare Krsna- Regards - Amrta Madhavi Devi dasi

    • @Mandakinimatada
      @Mandakinimatada 4 года назад

      @@amrtamadhavidevidasi1781 you r so sweet mataji

    • @aishushobha8014
      @aishushobha8014 3 года назад

      @@jineshrajan2036 (resharing mataji's comment) Sharing this video and duties of husband and then both of you promise to follow your duties. You start following your duties first. Then she will automatically follow her duties. All the best to you. Hare Krsna- Regards - Amrta Madhavi Devi dasi

  • @ganasindu616
    @ganasindu616 4 года назад +3

    Thanks a lot.. They are very true

  • @jagamohansahani2555
    @jagamohansahani2555 7 лет назад +10

    Thank u mataji hare Krishna

  • @vidb8554
    @vidb8554 6 лет назад +16

    a very nice video.
    i am so glad as so many females were shared their comments in positive.
    i am touched. thank u all.
    Hare Krishna

    • @hktv108
      @hktv108  6 лет назад +1

      Thank you, Plz stay tuned for more devotional melodies.Hare Krsna.

  • @priyaamsrs618
    @priyaamsrs618 6 лет назад +3

    Very nice video mataji. Thank u so much.

    • @hktv108
      @hktv108  6 лет назад

      Thankyou for spending time with us. Hare krishna

  • @999999preeti
    @999999preeti 7 лет назад +5

    very nice lecture Mataji..pamho

  • @cricbeebuzz3438
    @cricbeebuzz3438 3 года назад +16

    Women empowerment has played a huge role in breaking families and creating disturbance between husbands and wives.

    • @nonenone2647
      @nonenone2647 3 года назад +13

      How does that related to women empowerment??? 🙄🙄🙄 Bcz of you country is lacking in women empowerment

    • @assumeformlessness2111
      @assumeformlessness2111 3 года назад +2

      @@nonenone2647 moron

    • @nonenone2647
      @nonenone2647 3 года назад +4

      @@assumeformlessness2111 double moron

    • @assumeformlessness2111
      @assumeformlessness2111 3 года назад +6

      @@nonenone2647 Feminism is an globalist agenda to break the basic structure of families

    • @nonenone2647
      @nonenone2647 3 года назад +14

      @@assumeformlessness2111 male chuvinism is agenda to spoil or put down women

  • @vishakhanilawar821
    @vishakhanilawar821 6 лет назад +10

    Thank you so much Mataji...
    wonderful video

    • @hktv108
      @hktv108  6 лет назад +2

      Thank you for watching .Hare krsna

  • @dt3132
    @dt3132 3 года назад +3

    This video gets better and better as it goes along. Really good stuff

  • @janvika9
    @janvika9 Год назад +2

    And what if Husband never shows affection or attention to his own wife? And married her for his own gain? Is it selfish of the wife to not go out of her way in this way to make him feel loved and cared for when he doesn't do the same for her? Hare Krishna 🙏

  • @ravitalveda
    @ravitalveda 3 года назад +4

    Thank you mataji, All glories to you _/\_

  • @My-bx8vk
    @My-bx8vk 6 лет назад +2

    awesome advice...thanks a ton mataji...👌👌👌👌👌👌👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍

  • @vidb8554
    @vidb8554 6 лет назад +11

    a very nice vid. thanks....my respect n gratitude to u....ur husband must b a lucky one...Hare Krishna

    • @hktv108
      @hktv108  6 лет назад

      We are happy that you liked our videos. keep watching.Hare Krsna

  • @narayanpatil7181
    @narayanpatil7181 4 года назад +5

    Mam but what about our Happiness...we do every possible think that they want... But then also they don't have much value of all that things we do for them..😞they literally forget what kind of effect we have put for there family or for there children...

    • @aptituderec1120
      @aptituderec1120 3 года назад +5

      That's don't listen to her she is a criminal let's report her she is saying to keep a smiling face and behaviour all teh time so that the husband will won't do anything for you becoz u r happy even if he is beating without u r mistake, and even if he sells the wife even then be sweet which means basically to remove brain from women body

    • @subhrodiprakshit8923
      @subhrodiprakshit8923 3 года назад +2

      Yes in that case you are talking a reality and not as a femininst... I understand your emotional condition and concerns.. Yes then know the answer also---
      Yes our dharma does not teach only women about there responsibilities or duties.... Rather also there are very strict teachings for men as well as husband from childhood for there marital life.. And they have to folle it if we are talking about a dharmik bondage.... Whre are love and cute fightings.. 😍😍😍😍😍😍

    • @aditshukla
      @aditshukla 3 года назад

      @@aptituderec1120 cool down, cool down😅

    • @priyankaraina969
      @priyankaraina969 3 года назад +1

      This aunty belongs to 1940s...

    • @nikunshvaish6813
      @nikunshvaish6813 Год назад

      ​@@priyankaraina969 oh so you belong to do called 2022 I don't no and is wish the women like you should no get marry to any body and be independent and live with your parents dont go to someone home and ruin jhis life

  • @indubhan9745
    @indubhan9745 2 года назад +2

    Hare Krishna Mata Ji 🙏🙏
    If husband and in-laws are totally opposite ( they don't follow rituals, they are not devotees, they make home messy and then say it's ok, they create problem in our bhakti) then what should we do

  • @wanted9927
    @wanted9927 5 лет назад +5

    English is 100 percent

  • @csinghK
    @csinghK 3 года назад +3

    Hey Krishna I know You are listening and thinking when I gave these teachings?
    Are we talking about duties of a wife or a tamed animal.
    The same pandavas whom Draupadi kept happy bet her dignity in the world's worst gamble of the all yugs. Krishna saved her. Only he could.
    This is kalyuga.
    In kaliyuga people totally forgot that we are here to fulfill the purpose of our aatma/soul.
    Keep your aatma calm. Seek the truth even if it's bitter. See the good as good and bad as bad. Aatma always knows who is good.who is bad and aatma is not your desires.

  • @TSNR
    @TSNR 7 лет назад +5

    Very true

  • @tani6462
    @tani6462 7 лет назад +3

    Hare Krishna Mataji,
    i love to hear you.Your videos are very nice and gives me immense pleasure.Mataji, i have a question for you. My husband and i are married for 8 years now and sadly we are not blessed with babies.Can we adopt? I am very eagerly waiting for someone to call me maa. Sometimes i think it might be lord's wish.Is this our past karma that we are not blessed with baby?
    Thank you Mataji.
    Hare Krishna.

  • @bharathkashyap4435
    @bharathkashyap4435 Год назад +1

    Me and my wife are trying to go for a divorce. But I want to give one last chance to her for sake of my son. Can you counsel her?

  • @MurliManoharGupta
    @MurliManoharGupta 5 лет назад +2

    Kindly make a video in Hindi medium wife of role after marriage. Thanks

  • @monalisadash6112
    @monalisadash6112 4 года назад +8

    Mataji what to do or how to react when husband torture his wife.....

    • @subhrodiprakshit8923
      @subhrodiprakshit8923 3 года назад +4

      If that is there... Then it is not a husband.. Please don't call him husban.. Rather a demon who beats his companion and torture her...... The dharma and Shastras taught us all to leave that demon and hee need proper treatment behind the bars..

    • @assumeformlessness2111
      @assumeformlessness2111 3 года назад +2

      Your husband is torturing you? Or you just asked a generic question?

    • @monalisadash6112
      @monalisadash6112 3 года назад +2

      @@assumeformlessness2111 No no the couple are one of my relatives,my uncle....actually the husband is not bad, just his attitude is like this or the sacraments are like that he is very short tempered and split all of his anger on his wife and when the wife start objection then she gonna beaten up..if wife does not objecting then that's completely fine

    • @monalisadash6112
      @monalisadash6112 3 года назад +1

      @@subhrodiprakshit8923 but she can't leave because of her daughter and also she is not selfdepend....she is very helpless and hopeless

    • @privacy8239
      @privacy8239 3 года назад +1

      @@monalisadash6112 They should go for some marriage counseling and the husband needs to be taught to change. If he does not then wife and daughter should leave. Such a man who beats his wife is a bad man.

  • @minaxiswaminarayan800
    @minaxiswaminarayan800 4 дня назад

    माताजी, आपकी अधिकतर टीप्स सिफॅ घरेलू महिलाओ के लिए ही है।

  • @miryalaharish6636
    @miryalaharish6636 Год назад +1

    Thank you Mathaji, i will explain to my wife. Small doubt my wife and my mother both do pooja and rituals daily to Renuka Matha (Yellamma/ lord parashuram mother.) but i will not shown much interest to their rituals... So, on this we both get little clashes.. How to deal at this time.

  • @neha14
    @neha14 7 лет назад +22

    I wish if you could make video what working(9 hrs office) wife could do..as we dont have any detail in our scriptures for working wives.. I think time was way different :)

    • @hansrajshinde9613
      @hansrajshinde9613 6 лет назад

      Hi neha!

    • @angelforfreedom
      @angelforfreedom 6 лет назад

      For pertaining to duties of females and males during our current period of Kali Yuga, our Tantra Shastras have ample edicts for purposeful living within these modern times. Hope that helps.
      Hari Aum.

    • @tesdiva9401
      @tesdiva9401 6 лет назад +2

      Tell me about it!

    • @amrtamadhavidevidasi1781
      @amrtamadhavidevidasi1781 6 лет назад +1

      Good point. Work adds to stress in a responsible wife and mom. But if it is inevitable then.. let her ADD GOD(Krsna) to her schedule daily by chanting Daily. Secondly it is very essential for a working lady to hear Srimad Bhagavatam daily while doing household chores. The more she practices values picked from Srimad Bhagavatam the more she will transform in her consciousness and her behavior and personality as a whole. Then.. when her personality becomes as expected by Krsna then she will be able to follow whatever is told in the video for duties of women as well.

    • @The_Pradhan_The_Headstrong
      @The_Pradhan_The_Headstrong 4 года назад +1

      If there is a will , then there is a way. If you want to be happy in marrital life then you have to do something for them . I think , Cooking should be done by wife . Keep smiling .

  • @wanted9927
    @wanted9927 5 лет назад +3

    Very cool cool

  • @swatidwivedi2272
    @swatidwivedi2272 5 лет назад +3

    Thanks

  • @tapas..6936
    @tapas..6936 6 лет назад +5

    Hare Krishna, if women thinks in this way then it will become sattya yuga (not kali yuga). Very nicely explained grihastha ashram. Thank you mata for your explanation

  • @priyaamsrs618
    @priyaamsrs618 6 лет назад +4

    I have one question mataji. If in laws behavior and his thinking is not correct then what will do mataji. Plz reply to this question mataji.

    • @hktv108
      @hktv108  6 лет назад

      It generation gap we need to adjust we with them.

  • @vritibarai3860
    @vritibarai3860 7 месяцев назад +2

    Why these injustice in marriage for women that she is the only who has to leave her parents and her comfort and stay at in law's house..
    Why is she is forced to do household work cleaning and all and not husband.
    Y after marriage she has to serve her inlaws - a full time maid to their house
    and all these are not 1 day task its for lifetime and after all these injustice and then be nice and softspoken
    this is exact life of a Gulaam

  • @kk-ct4dl
    @kk-ct4dl 7 лет назад +2

    Nice speech

    • @hktv108
      @hktv108  7 лет назад

      Thank you for watching .Hare krsna

  • @tesdiva9401
    @tesdiva9401 6 лет назад +13

    So it is all about putting up a show. Acting the way he likes, and never being yourself. I am fed up with this shit!

    • @My-Foodie_S
      @My-Foodie_S 3 года назад +1

      💯 agree

    • @pg18099
      @pg18099 4 месяца назад

      Haha shit!
      This is the kind of language we are learning from our western overlord?
      When this kind of thinking props up, what you wrote, that's when the heavenly home starts breaking and this is happening in western society and even in India to some extent.

  • @nandinikumar1562
    @nandinikumar1562 3 года назад +7

    This is only for non-working women.

    • @infinity_shows_149
      @infinity_shows_149 3 года назад +1

      Which type of women don’t work...s?

    • @subhrodiprakshit8923
      @subhrodiprakshit8923 2 года назад +2

      Which type of women doesn't work?
      Tell me.....
      May be you are calling about women who more home or house centric... But that is not a matter..... They are makers... And their homes or family is getting their journey with the help of this maker... Called their mother or wives... Problem is not that.. The problem is when it is not recognized...

    • @RimaDesu00
      @RimaDesu00 3 месяца назад

      ​@@subhrodiprakshit8923the problem is that they don't make money

  • @vardayanishukla5178
    @vardayanishukla5178 Год назад

    Hare Krishna mataji dandwat pranam....i will definitely try to apply it.

  • @purvisoni758
    @purvisoni758 2 года назад +15

    If you want a good wife first learn to be a good husband, it is not always the duty of wife , because of women like her, men think they are superior in every sense

    • @dimpibaruah7399
      @dimpibaruah7399 2 года назад +1

      Totally agree with u sister

    • @ankurmehta550
      @ankurmehta550 2 года назад +5

      Totally disagree with you sister..... and I would request you not to have such attitude..... saying in good spirit please don't take otherwise....

    • @subdas4215
      @subdas4215 2 года назад +3

      I think u will never be a good wife with such wrong attitude in you .. U will not make a good family thank u

    • @AbhiN_1289
      @AbhiN_1289 10 месяцев назад +1

      It is supposed to go both ways.
      Manusmriti 9.22
      “When a woman is united in one form with a man possessed of certain qualities, she becomes herself endowed with similar qualities,-like a river united with the ocean”
      Medhatithi clarifies:
      “If a man wishes to guard his wife, he should guard himself also against evil habits; and it is not the woman that should preserve her chastity. Since if the man has a bad character, his wife also becomes the same; just as the wife of a man possessed of good character becomes good. For instance the river, though herself sweet-watered, becomes saline like the Ocean, when she joins this latter.“

  • @ronniesingh5424
    @ronniesingh5424 4 года назад +6

    Hare Krishna Very true I am 24 and will only marry a girl who have these characters in them

    • @assumeformlessness2111
      @assumeformlessness2111 3 года назад

      Got her yet ?

    • @My-Foodie_S
      @My-Foodie_S 3 года назад +7

      Marry a girl for companionship and not for maid

    • @nikunshvaish6813
      @nikunshvaish6813 Год назад

      ​@@My-Foodie_S don't need your opinion it's his life his wish

    • @RimaDesu00
      @RimaDesu00 3 месяца назад

      ​@@nikunshvaish6813 lol then no one will marry him cause no girl wants to be a maid in their own house

  • @My-Foodie_S
    @My-Foodie_S 3 года назад +14

    Wife is not mom to his husband...nowadays women also becoming financially independent....they want bestfriend for lifetime...and not someone to whom she requires to please all time....be real to each other ....accept flaws and support to achieve purpose of life together.....Life is not all about ur partner....women nowadays also taking responsibilities of there Parents...and they require partner.. who also understand and support her 😊.... Its My view....If u are not agree thats totally fine..😊 Hare Krishna🙏🙏

    • @shakyajitmaulik5579
      @shakyajitmaulik5579 3 года назад +2

      Husband IS Wife's best friend and so is the wife Husband's bff.
      “The wife is a man's better half. The wife is the *foremost* of *friends* . The wife is the root of dharma, profit, and desire. The wife is the root of salvation. They that have wives can perform religious acts”. (MBH 01: LXXIV)

    • @shakyajitmaulik5579
      @shakyajitmaulik5579 3 года назад +3

      Now if wife wants other best friends then fine 🙂

    • @infinity_shows_149
      @infinity_shows_149 3 года назад +3

      Keep fighting sister. I hope you stay alone forever..😊

    • @My-Foodie_S
      @My-Foodie_S 3 года назад +6

      @@infinity_shows_149 Nobody is fighting dear...😄...Do Whatever you want ..its your life...I have just share my opinion, may be u disagree...and thats totally fine...and I hope for u ...that u will do wat she is saying to please ur husband for WHOLE LIFE..😅😅 ..My Blessings with u🙌...😘

    • @My-Foodie_S
      @My-Foodie_S 3 года назад +4

      @@shakyajitmaulik5579 u definetly don't understand What I have tried to said...but thats fine🙂

  • @tarunjaiswal260
    @tarunjaiswal260 Год назад

    i think these learnings are so important,that it should be taught @college levels instead of all these kachra that's being taught in education system.

  • @priyankamandlik2124
    @priyankamandlik2124 5 лет назад +1

    Very nice

  • @ranjanmahapatra2119
    @ranjanmahapatra2119 6 лет назад +1

    So nice learning

    • @hktv108
      @hktv108  6 лет назад

      Hare Krsna !!Thank you for appreciating our kind efforts.

  • @hemangidasi4482
    @hemangidasi4482 4 года назад +5

    If husband (devotee with second iniciation), public person, not chanting, not practise spiritual life (we live in Holy Dham), ignores wife, talking only when he has "mood", if I want to talk, he always close the door, always, other devotees also same thing saying, that he just doesn't want to listen, he always thinks that he is correct, and all others are mistaken, he abuses (same as all gents of his family, his father, his brothers to their wifes)... I cooking as he likes, all different items from not only Indian kitchen, and likes it very much, I'm looking nicely, talking nicely, at-least, all around people saying that, nicely taking care of our daughter... And he always saying you are bad wife, bad mother, insulting in different ways with many words which I'm not using in my language at all, how after such behaviour from his side I can, I have to talk more sweetly to him etc.??? Everything what you sad is correct, it's very nice, but husband also can do same good and nice things towards wife and daughter!!! Or marriage means only one way street, without any willings, wishes, feelings from wife's side??? If I trying to best from my side (during last 10 years), I accept so many "tapasya", inconveniences, never asking so much from him, just accept and being happy with what he gave... and he is continuing to be rude, uncultured, ignores, he is not changing even if doing my best service to deities, to him and our daughter... How talk to such husband???

    • @hemangidasi4482
      @hemangidasi4482 4 года назад +1

      And also he always criticising, always still unhappy, always too much concentrating if I do some small mistake, but he never sees when do mistakes, any small thing making him talking about divorce, I don't accept idea of divorce at all, before God, before society, before deities we are husband and wife, and he always trying to skip it

    • @aptituderec1120
      @aptituderec1120 3 года назад +3

      Just give him divorce lady believe me u will find someone better peace of mind is imp and if that is not their then what's the use and Don't listen to this old bitch becoz she is literally lost her brain and she is saying awife should never complain even if her husband is gonna kill her

    • @aptituderec1120
      @aptituderec1120 3 года назад +5

      U also say that u will give him divorce first live a life of u e dreams live independently and make u r identity do the things that u always wanted to do help u r self becoz no one can help until u will help ur self from what u wrote it is concluding that u r husband doesn't needs u he won't respect u obviously becoz u don't have boldness u don't have courage start u r life again and listen to u r heart and even think with brain don't think what others will say it doesn't matter at end of the day their are many successful women in this world who have been divorced and they made their identity and are well respected

    • @subhrodiprakshit8923
      @subhrodiprakshit8923 3 года назад +1

      @@aptituderec1120 lol feminazi

    • @My-Foodie_S
      @My-Foodie_S 3 года назад +2

      @@aptituderec1120 💯 Agree sister....I had done all this things with my husband...still he insults me or make joke of my education, my family....he only listen to his mother....everything thing...he has controlled me so much that I can't even talk to my parents in calls....He has no time for me...don't talk to me for many days ....busy in his mobile..watching movies or playing games.....I had given him divorce.....now I am an independent women....More Happy then previous toxic shit with that immatured Mamma's boy...

  • @prakashkamadhenu4734
    @prakashkamadhenu4734 6 лет назад +6

    If any woman want to be happy in this life then one is to follow the scriptures as mataji mentioned but this is 99.99% hard to accept nowadays. If it is difficult to accept the scripture at least one could follow their grandmothers footsteps then some what may be happy by this if one want to be happy completely then following scripture is must otherwise it is simply waste of time in fighting for equality and there will be suffering throughout the life.

    • @The_Pradhan_The_Headstrong
      @The_Pradhan_The_Headstrong 4 года назад

      Ya bro

    • @swatimishra697
      @swatimishra697 4 года назад +4

      True, it's difficult to find Krishna conscious boys who live life by vedic principles and families too. The decline of Indian men is very evident in the type of films, serials and available in Indian media sadly. Hare Krishna women have to be very conscious as choice is minimal.

  • @MN-ej6gp
    @MN-ej6gp 5 лет назад +16

    We need to be an emotionless human and be a robot.

    • @aptituderec1120
      @aptituderec1120 3 года назад +4

      Yea with no brain

    • @My-Foodie_S
      @My-Foodie_S 3 года назад +5

      Ya thats wat she is saying 😊

    • @subhrodiprakshit8923
      @subhrodiprakshit8923 2 года назад

      @@My-Foodie_S No lady.. That's not what is she saying.... View her other vedio on husband's cuties.....
      ruclips.net/video/0QjBGJ2T3LA/видео.html
      Don't judge by half knowing....

    • @subhrodiprakshit8923
      @subhrodiprakshit8923 2 года назад

      Everyone in this post modern world is just emotionless materialistic egoistic depressed human robot.. Nothing else,. That's not new...
      She is saying something for better advancem with relationship management as per masculine and feminine with spiritual guidance.....
      She has also on husbands
      .. ruclips.net/video/0QjBGJ2T3LA/видео.html

    • @subhrodiprakshit8923
      @subhrodiprakshit8923 2 года назад

      @@aptituderec1120 have you brain?
      Are you sure?
      But it don't seems to be...
      Hearing this vedio do you Think that is the moral? Oh no!
      Even so called western gender war making, equality crying, feminist crying societies Nd generations are more emotionless, selfish, depressed, suffering from. Identity crisis, and robot like materialism sufferers.... Why should we copy them?

  • @priyaamsrs618
    @priyaamsrs618 6 лет назад +3

    I have one question mataji. If in laws behavior and his thinking is not correct then what will do mataji.

    • @shikhakhindri7678
      @shikhakhindri7678 6 лет назад +2

      Nothing you can do.. get away from these people and chant Hari naam.

  • @andanini
    @andanini 3 года назад +3

    i love my wife especialy when she is honry

  • @krishnanamamrita5521
    @krishnanamamrita5521 7 лет назад +2

    very nice explanation mataji
    thank you

  • @cricbeebuzz3438
    @cricbeebuzz3438 3 года назад +8

    Nowadays it is just the opposite.. Wives talk rudely with their husbands, repeated arguments, back answering and quarrels. They want husbands to cook and do all the house hold work and take care of children along with his job or office work.
    They criticise him in all aspects and think that their life had become a hell after marriage. (Even though their husbands give 100% dedication, sacrifice, loyalty and commitment to make wives and children happy)

    • @aasthathakurathi274
      @aasthathakurathi274 3 года назад +9

      Household chores are not only a woman's business ... nowadays both husband and wife works outside...so both should do equally.
      ....if u will quarrel at ur wife then what by expect she should stand with a smiling face like an abla nari ....

    • @shreeshiva9421
      @shreeshiva9421 Год назад +2

      ​@@aasthathakurathi274 : the quarrel part u r talking about is mostly started by females 🙄 who are not abla naari anymore. Nice how u criticised but u again played ur victim and woman card

    • @harshitsingh12977
      @harshitsingh12977 10 месяцев назад

      @@aasthathakurathi274 wtf men can nver do household chores its not our nature.. why do u expect us for that? u ppl are reason hindu boys are loosing interest in dindu girls the so called independents who dont want to work in home in her home but to become sl^ve in corporate
      gilrs like u will become mother how would u give sankaras to yourchild? its mothers duty child is attached to her mother more than father.. what willu do to have so much money if your child will have less affection for u iin future coz u r not withh him her but being sl^ve and left himm her with rented stinky nannies? wtf girls think deeper pls

  • @realadvisor1436
    @realadvisor1436 Год назад +1

    Why you people avoid hindi

  • @sphoortheegoriga3261
    @sphoortheegoriga3261 2 года назад

    Thank You

  • @priyaamsrs618
    @priyaamsrs618 6 лет назад +1

    Hare Krishna mataji.

    • @hktv108
      @hktv108  6 лет назад

      Holy name is like nectar ..Experience the bliss .Hare krsna

  • @havishashah9521
    @havishashah9521 7 лет назад +1

    Hare Krishna. ..Mataji....Very Nice ans Useful Speech

  • @pulkitgoyal8685
    @pulkitgoyal8685 3 года назад +2

    As a wife or girl can they work outside?

    • @assumeformlessness2111
      @assumeformlessness2111 3 года назад +2

      The problem is if they work outside they won't get enough time for taking care of kids and Home, kids needs their mothers

    • @harshitsingh12977
      @harshitsingh12977 10 месяцев назад

      never leave her and marrya good girl

    • @RimaDesu00
      @RimaDesu00 3 месяца назад

      Lol they need father more than their mother ​@@assumeformlessness2111

  • @priyaamsrs618
    @priyaamsrs618 6 лет назад

    Thank u mataji. Hare Krishna.

    • @hktv108
      @hktv108  6 лет назад

      Thank you for your kind appreciation.We will come soon with more exciting videos.Stay tuned.Hare Krsna

  • @balajipedapolu6118
    @balajipedapolu6118 6 лет назад +2

    Good but need to concentrate little more from where you learn these all things.

  • @spiritualsense3978
    @spiritualsense3978 6 лет назад +4

    Can you publish something on the role of husband's family?

    • @hktv108
      @hktv108  6 лет назад

      plz click the following link
      ruclips.net/video/h1Y6yCmbg0c/видео.html

  • @manjitachari1071
    @manjitachari1071 7 лет назад +14

    What if husband is abusing the wife?.. if he doesn't know to respect a person?.. if he follows wrong path?.. shd we still keep quiet?

    • @Joysandhopeswithekta
      @Joysandhopeswithekta 7 лет назад +8

      Manjita Chari call police take ur stand:) according to krishna papi se bada papi paap sehna vala h

    • @juancortez120
      @juancortez120 6 лет назад

      that is not loving yourself

    • @shikhakhindri7678
      @shikhakhindri7678 6 лет назад +2

      There is no cure to sick minded people.

    • @The_Pradhan_The_Headstrong
      @The_Pradhan_The_Headstrong 4 года назад +1

      Call the police . 😓 Some sick minded people are there . But there no. Is very less.
      I don't understand how anybody beat his better half . In my whole life I didn't see such incidents . Only I heard about it through crime petrol , savdhan India.

  • @priyaamsrs618
    @priyaamsrs618 6 лет назад

    Ok mataji. Hare Krishna.

    • @hktv108
      @hktv108  6 лет назад

      Holy name is like nectar ..Experience the bliss .Hare krsna

  • @bhavyasuman5884
    @bhavyasuman5884 3 месяца назад +1

    So it's mean ki husband ka gulami Karo right?????

  • @amishaverma6283
    @amishaverma6283 5 лет назад +1

    Mataji plzzz i want to contact you

  • @nutanverma710
    @nutanverma710 4 года назад +18

    Actually chankya PANDIT was very strict about women's duty.he wanted to make women slaves of man.there r many man who can tolerate his wife's voice.srila Prabhupada left his wife because she was not soft spoken. What a rascal philosophy. Both r equal and should treat everyone equally.

    • @shreehari2681
      @shreehari2681 4 года назад +5

      What about sex ?
      They Say That is Done For Only Child
      But Husband Want - Not For child

    • @swatimishra697
      @swatimishra697 4 года назад +8

      Wish what you said was true. Vedas and scriptures are ocean of practical knowledge that can be applied in professional or personal life. Women have a very important and powerful role to play in Grihast life.
      Husband and wife both have equal importance in family life. Unless u start comparing your wife to Bollywood heroine and men to Bollywood hero. Which is laughable.

    • @swatimishra697
      @swatimishra697 4 года назад

      @@shreehari2681 Become a hare Krishna couple and do things right then.

    • @nutanverma710
      @nutanverma710 4 года назад +7

      @@swatimishra697 I too like Vedas. Every day I read bhagwat geeta,but u just read once about the conditions of women in history.many women reformers wrote how they were forced to work at home and they were not getting any respect for that.womens were considered as slaves of man.if wife dies man marry another women,if husband dies women were suppose to were white saree.Women were not allowed to marry men if she become widow but men can easily marry dozens of wife after death of one wife. Would u like to justify it?

    • @nutanverma710
      @nutanverma710 4 года назад +1

      @@swatimishra697 CHANAKYA PANDIT said women can never become pure by fasting, chanting, worshipping but they become pure by drinking feet washed water of her husband.do u agree sister??? This statement is right.u can Google it if u doubt.

  • @sidhantmanu4486
    @sidhantmanu4486 3 года назад +4

    Srila prabhupada in bhagwat geeta as it is has commented demons believe women and men have equal rights. Women's should never be given independency!! Wow what a nice philosophy.........

    • @s.spirituality8435
      @s.spirituality8435 3 года назад +3

      Really?

    • @sidhantmanu4486
      @sidhantmanu4486 3 года назад +2

      @@s.spirituality8435 yes dear. Read it once.it is said by prabhupada not bhagwat geeta.

    • @harshitsingh12977
      @harshitsingh12977 10 месяцев назад

      @@sidhantmanu4486 hes right see the west where they got so called independent to roam naked around

  • @dkmapc9522
    @dkmapc9522 5 лет назад

    Hare Krishna

  • @aishushobha8014
    @aishushobha8014 3 года назад +1

    Dhanyavaad Mata ji for these tips, Mata Ji nowadays youngsters are facing problems/dillemaas regarding marriages, many are opting for live in relationships because of the fear of domestic violence, extra-marital affair divorces they are not choosing marriage, how to convince them that marriage is great !!, also Maa how can youngsters know that they can have a successful marriage with their boyfriend girlfriend, they are in a romantic relationship but don't know if they can get married to them or not.
    Maam how should girlfriends-boyfriends behave with each other, Krishna-Radha are eternal and most sacred lovers ever known, how can today's lovers take their example. :) Mataji these are the questions i have as a youngster.

  • @The_Pradhan_The_Headstrong
    @The_Pradhan_The_Headstrong 4 года назад +7

    Feminist will die if they heard you. 😂

  • @aasthathakurathi274
    @aasthathakurathi274 3 года назад +16

    What is the of this.....now men and women both are working outside .....a man wanta a working lady ....and expect her to cook take care of everyone tolerate family members with a smile and she should never show anger even if she feels so.....do everything according to husband and in laws....this is the essence of woman??? really??where is her individual personality.... because of this type of mentality and influence a woman has to burry her own soul for others....

    • @subhrodiprakshit8923
      @subhrodiprakshit8923 2 года назад +3

      Who is not even hurrying her ot himself for all? Everyone is doing that in some ways and no one can escape that.... So call individualists are also doing that....
      She is talking and saying in this vedio not only just according yo shaastras. But also as per realities of there world.... And to maintain a more balanced or healthy family life...
      Don't underestimate tha power of mother or women.. Their essential part is important and essence is very important for all as they are capable of mult tasking management ability in general...
      That the power of making and dont overlook or underestimate the power of maker of us.... The family... A smile has much potential or even just a hug can dilute manu situations as per need.....
      Men and women are companions and so aren't competitors to quarrel regarding duties..... They are unique thats why fullfill each other.... They are different in nature and formings.. Different mindset. That effects upon their special roles or qualities in some points to make... That's the essence... Women are our first teacher also as mothers.... S
      We should no forget that... Who influence and give morals and teachings from first time of life....
      Cooking or taking some special care doesn't make you under rather it is power of management that feminine can handle to build or manage a family along with other duties done by husbands....
      It is not according to your husband or in laws....
      It is according to need situation and management ... A women in family is greater in making power... In some special cases... Thats not ignoring individual personality.. Rather living collectively with individual performance.... That's is all about making and building together by performing duties and responsibilities as per male female nature and special roles.if needed....
      Personality is not living alone with ego it id about living collectively and maKing upby management

    • @nikunshvaish6813
      @nikunshvaish6813 Год назад +2

      So why these types of want to do marriage just avoid marriage and stay with your parents

    • @harshitsingh12977
      @harshitsingh12977 10 месяцев назад

      u r a independent p^mp who is never loved by anybody and never should be.. u p^mps just do socalled job or sl^very of corporate world which results u to have a lot tension due to work load of job.. a job which is just opposite of nature of women. So yeah u couldnt understoood this.

    • @pg18099
      @pg18099 4 месяца назад

      ​​@@nikunshvaish6813
      If you can live for the entirety of life that way, good for you.
      But after 40's and 50's when people are alone, a deep urge to be with some1 hits them.
      Then they repent, when I had the time, why did I do all the tantrums or could have made some adjustments and be with someone and happier in old age.