It was SUPPOSED to be a CHOICE! Some women needed the freedom to work because they had no one to take care of them. It was never meant to devalue the work of the stay-at-home wife/mom
It did though, and many do now.💀 Seems like there was no specific strategy or laws like certain brotherhoods and religions meaning no restrictions and when you have a beast without a leash then it’s bound to become untamable. It’d be crazy if the future looks like that episode of Rick and Morty where the females of an alien species created an artificial womb and separated the men and women. Although, there’s more context, bruuuhh… I’m high rn.
Exactly when they breed children's those girls don't want to give a man sex in return he "provides" or work an exploitative job that goes against her ethics both ways where is the so called choice
It IS a choice, but just not yours alone. There are stay at home moms, and dad's for that sake, it's just that your partner has to either be earning enough, or sacrifice all that time with the family and do your work load on top of their own
As a stay at home mom, this is so true for me. I've had people make comments of disapproval insinuating that I should go back to work and put my kids in a daycare. 😒 Being a stay at home mom is not valued anymore. It's frustrating because I work hard with everything at home and with my kids and people act like I just sit at home all day relaxing.
God bless you! 💙 You are amazing... I admire stay at home moms providing a home for their children and husbands ... raising and homeschooling children ... you keep going and don't worry about what those people say.... society has been blinded and have bought into countless lies
What’s more important than raising a whole HUMAN and making sure you provide health, nutrition, and nurturing ❤❤❤❤ not only to your children but the man who provides for everyone? These people who judge you are just JEALOUS 😢
It is frustrating. My wife isn't a stay at home wife because I told her to be or that I don't think she can work a 9-5 It's because I don't think she should have to.
This!!!!! Modern feminism has destroyed what God created. Your now looked down upon for staying home and taking care of your kids. Yeah no. I’ll follow what God says and raise up my children! Jezebel is behind modern feminism to destroy the family unit
I loved coming home to my mother from primary school to warm tea, soup & a little cake if I was lucky & going to the park & the beach & the excitement of dad picking us up after work 🏡 I feel sorry for kids & parents today who can't have that.. everyone is so stressed & busy, just existing in so many cases.. 😪
Now kids won't even see rheir parents except for weekends and then both of them are so tired and exhausted from work all week. If you don't raise you child, the streets will raise it
I can agree, Even though I'm 19, I'm noticing that a good amount of my classmates don't really see their parents or really talk to them. My parents are busy but I still come home to warm food on the table and a hug and 'welcome back' from my mom. My dad works all day, so I only see him in the nighttimes, but even then, he stays up to help us, hangout for an hour or two, play games. And on the days he has off, he spends it all with us. In my childhood, I always had them around and my fondest memories are with my family. I didn't really go out to the streets alone because I was too occupied being with my family.
I am a Bangladeshi, grew up in Bangladesh, not a very developed country, pretty conservative. My mother worked as a government employee for 32 years of her life. Her generation was kinda the first generation to have women receive higher education (she went to the top school and graduated with a masters in the 70s) and have white collar jobs. People would try to taunt my dad that he "needs to send" his wife to work, would taunt my brother and I that we don't have mom at home all the time, and sometimes even my grandparents that how they could even "allow" that! But my grandparents, my father and my brother and I were immensely proud of her. We all supported her, especially my father and grandparents. She made sure we receive the finest of the education (she and my grandfather used to help us with studies), she raised us with the hobby of reading and learning, she made us ambitious (I graduated from the toppest engineering school in Bangladesh and now finishing my PhD in the US to be a scientist and my brother is a pharmacist specialized in cancer treatment), she supported my father if he ever struggled in his business, gave my brother and I the love for cooking (although she cooked on weekends or special occasions), we stayed together with our grandparents and took care of them till the day they died, and now my brother and sister-in-law live with my parents and my mother has been the rock in my SIL's lung cancer journey (which is now in remission) . Now that I am an adult and have met a lot of people in my life, I see so many people carrying childhood trauma from traditional yet toxic family backgrounds. Whereas for my brother and I, our childhood is most amazing time of our lives and we can't stop talking about it. I am also one of those very few women who grew up with no history of sexual assault as a child, and all credit goes to my mother ( she was extra cautious about it, taught us good touch and bad touch and had my grandma look out for us at all times). I didn't come home everyday to my mother waiting with food for me, but time with her meant learning and laughing and story time-absolute quality time which no food or material thing can make up for. I don't remember ever complaining (even as a child) why my mother isn't always at home like other mothers, and never heard that from my brother too. I am not in support of butt cheek and nipple flashing, but women can maximize their potential and still be in their feminine maternal energy if they receive the right support from their partners and surrounding. We always knew if anything ever happened to my father (God forbid), our education and well-being would not be compromised and I believe, that was a huge source of security as a child growing up in a middle class family. I have rarely come across women from my mother's generation who are as happy (and grateful) and secure as my mother. Credit goes to my father, too. Men and women build each other and raise happy healthy offsprings in the process.
@user-fd8yi8ls9w were they really though? Have you asked women who lived through that time? Feminism was about a woman's rights. The right to vote, the right to make the choice to work or stay home, the right to the same education, the right to own property. And sooo much more. Please don't assume that I am not happy or that women are not happy. I'm grateful I have these rights and choices.
NO ONE that has left the work field to become a housewife, has come back to work for somebody. They always tell how happy they are staying at home especially when they have children.
@benmartin8281 Literally any woman In the west can afford to do that. It's called female privilege. Because men will provide. All you need is a man that earns a avarage salary and a woman can afford to stay home. They key is not to be greedy with spending money on stuff you don't need.
She put it exactly that. We’re expected to work like a man and then go home to act like a woman. We’re trying to juggle the two and do well at both while trying not to be exhausted. I’d rather stay at home and be present in my child’s life full time while still having the option to go work if a worst case scenario were to happen
How ab instead applying feminism to your home as well and demanding equal distribution of domestic labor from men, simply don't put up w lazy men who don't do shit
No, it was not what was expected but what you wanted. Like Candy here, she's a married working pregnant mother because that's what she wants. Funny how she is also a hypocrite as well.
@user-ul5xu1ws6h You know the stats. I know you guys hate stats but just saying! Sorry if you think I'm being mean and I genuinely wish you happiness you're not all bad just like we aren't.
That’s because the women’s liberation movement of the 60s 70s drastically changed the economy so that it took two incomes to support a family, thanks to feminists who sold it as a choice or an option, it was a lie, it’s not realistically optional for many. Everything that women do eventually comes back to bite them. I’m a women myself and I’ve spent decades observing this phenomenon
Yes true, but your response is still tone deaf... There are times in some marriages when women have to be the breadwinner... and there are many single women raising children. Such is life. And people of the next generation that aren't inherently wealthy aren't going to be awarded anything close to the financial opportunities of recent generations of Americans. Look at the very real numbers of what money looks like for them, with no prospects of buying a home, no matter how much they work. Being able to afford kids is bleak to them. @@bob-ce5bn
women were never happy and will never be happy. Happiness is not unattainable . Women derive moments of happiness from safety , children and a stable home.
Truth is women weren't happy back then either because men would abuse their power over them and let's not forget we've only been able to legally read since 100 years ago so you know there's that it's just like maybe one day we can find some sort of balance in this society where women are treated with respect and allowed to be feminine but at the same time still allowed to have rights I mean that would be great. And by rights I mean laws that men are actually adhere to
My wife loves to stay at home and take care of our child. Taking care a child is one of the hardest jobs a person will ever do. You're not just feeding them, clothing them, you are helping form personalities and morals that they will pass on to their kids
I was a stay-at-home mom until this year. I got shit all the time because my kids are now in middle school so, I "should" be working. I got "What do you do all day? 🥴" constantly. His salary was working for us but, now that things are so expensive it just wasn't working anymore. I will do anything for my family, we are a team so I knew I had to get back to work but, I miss being there when my kids get home from school. I hate that I barely have any time now with them because as soon as I get home I'm squeezing in so many of the things I used to get done during the day. I don't understand how any woman could disparage being home for your family. I loved it and now miss it so much.
my mother is a working mom, and she loves working and loves her job. i get that a lot of women love to be a stay at home mom and wife, and others do not. i think it’s up to the woman what she wants to do,
I hated the " what do you do all day" statement as a stay at home mom. So much for my family. Cozy clean home and child, well fed man and lots of fun times as a family unit. What's wrong with that? Apparently sah women are horrible. Thanks feminists.
Amen!! That’s why so many kids are fucked up now. They don’t have that mother that is always available to them day in and day out caring for their needs. But instead exhausted from working all day then needing to come home take care of the kids, clean ,cook, take care of the bills,the yard,the laundry, etc. WHO FOUGHT FOR FEMINISM 👊🏽👊🏽👊🏽👊🏽👊🏽
What about the father? He should also be available day in and out, and if his wife is working and so is he, he should also contribute to housework. A lot of focus is put onto the mother currently and we’re ignoring how important the fathers role is also.
@@RayRay-tr3wmThis video is about mothers. OP said mother's should be available in the home, to nurture her children, that was her traditional role before feminism. A father's traditional role was to provide, protect and lead the family. Each has their own unique role and each are important, I agree.
I understand the dangers of the present day society but why do you think it's only the mother's fault that kids end up bad? That doesn't make sense. There are many families in which women work and children are raised well, spiritually and mentally. And there are many instances where children are being looked 24/7 but ends up as terrible people. And is the father not existent to you? Feminism began to give women a choice and to have equality in rights and opportunities. This is not the way feminism is going currently. But people like you are ignoring why it ever came into the first place and are being so ungrateful because a lot of rights and freedoms you enjoy are the result of feminism.
Lol easy to blame others. They din’t put your asses on the net, they don’t tell you to sleep with multiple men and make out it’s powerful and liberating, yall so easily follow trends from other women. The government correctly took advantage of taxing your assess because you wanted to work, they didn’t force you to work. Now you have to make ends meet, that’s in you because everything shot up afterwards when companies and expenditure went up. Round of applause
Went to college, got a job at a hospital, worked ALL THE TIME……was miserable. Had a baby, decided to be a stay at home mom, don’t regret a single thing!!!!
Good for you. You found what you wanted to do with your life. There are also women who want the opposite and some that can balance both career and motherhood.
@@opticalraven1935 Sure women can do both, but at the end of the day while the kids are young someone else is caring for their children while they are at work. That's totally fine, but it's different than being a stay at home mom. You can't do both without sacrificing time with the kids to work full time.
Feminism is about having a choice. They did not have a choice in the past. Showing your naked body on the internet has nothing to do with freedom of choice. This has to do with sexual abuse.
Why do you need to lie? Feminism have never been about choice. Women have always had choices. Women have always worked. Women have always studied and women have always invented stuff. All feminism is striving for is female superiority, since they demand rights over men without responsibilities. Touch some grass, your evil will never win.
Yeah let’s keep women in the kitchen, cooking food and making babies. Why should any woman want a career, not every woman can marry a millionaire business man. Yeah right.
Unless being at home is your calling but other than that, you are created for a purpose folks, not just for a man but for God's purpose which doesn't have to be staying at home.
I actually like to work and be financially independent, but I know that is for me. My friend really enjoys being a stay-at-home mom because that is for her. Everyone is different and strong in their own way. Real feminism is being able to do either one not because of social pressures, but because we choose to do it and do it with self-respect. Hyperfeminism has sadly become "having freedom of choice" but without the dignity.
Amen, @chrisya1705, I enjoy working independently as well and I am blessed by God as He put me forth to do so, Candace has an English lawyer in an established kingdom to support her so she can afford to stay at home where previously in her college days, she wasn't so pro stay at home womanhood. Be real.
Agree! ❤ I love working and being financially independent. My husband works, too. He knows he needs help, and we both help out in the home... Working isn't a bad thing for women.
@@jankopandza1072 so when men go out and be financially independent they have no value? Is that what u r trying to say? In this economy u cannot afford to be this ignorant. And the women in this video is working herself who is heavily pregnant for a paycheck. Use your brain.
Yea it's soposed to, but it doesn't. And thats why no one supports feminism because it's been turned into a joke. The majority of the earth now pictures a feminist as a female who looks like a dude with green hair and a nose ring. Why does that stereotype exist because everyone's experience with a feminist is some psycho loud ugly upset person yelling thinking loud means right.
I'm a newly stay at home mom who worked managing a non profit for over 11 years and worked since I was a teen, have 2 degrees and purchased my home on my own several years ago. I would have never thought I would received so much backlash from working woman for having the option to stay home and take care of my children husband and home. Its so interesting to be on the other side now but I love it and it is honesty 10 times harder than sitting in meetings all week😂
Was waiting for someone to say “IT’S HARDER TO STAY HOME” - so of Course women wanted the freedom to go to work a job they love AS AN OPTION rather than being forced to marry young and stay “barefoot and pregnant” AKA without financial resources other than what her husband might “give her”.
I could not imagine handing my newborn over to some random stranger in a "daycare". It's child abuse and neglect. Anyone who would have a baby and then hand that newborn to some random in a dirty facility where they are UNLOVED all day is evil
Yesssss!!!! I am with you, been there, done that and wow... why do we want to complicate Our lives so much? We tend of age more with the unnecessary stress.
A priest said, after the fall in Eden, Adam and Eve were given curses, Adam to toil by the sweat of his brow....and Eve to bear children in pain... So he said, why would the women want to take on Adam's curse, too? Never thought of it like that......
@@glennthompson1971we started somewhere and as far I see people keep popping babies and no fish are coming out the sea turning into humans or monkeys into humans so you tell me what makes sense but for there to be a God who created people to procreate. Stop avoiding the obvious truth blessings on your life❤️
Once again, it’s about choice to do what you want. If you want to be a stay-at-home parent I respect the hell out of you for that. But you are cracked out if you think being a homemaker is just (to quote Candace) “a little bit of cooking.”
@salemannasmith1805 no one says being a homemaker is easy work. It's not. But if I am going to work hard, there is a lot to be said for working hard for your family rather than some corporate head. Just saying. But of course it's good to have choices, a good family life is not available to everyone. But women keep choosing careers over getting married until they hit their late 30s and realize the ship has sailed, and for what?
Yes!! The trouble is now that women feel they have to work like a man, but being pregnant and nursing a child and looking after children whilst holding down a job is exhausting! We are told we could have it all, now we are just going it all. I feel the kids are suffering as well. They end up being brought up by institutions, going to breakfast clubs, after school clubs, because neither parents are not home to look after them!
I agree completely, only I do not want to stay at home and cook each day. I want to do sth more significant for society at large, and I want chores to be shared. I don't mind doing the majority of chores, but not ALL. I don't mind to work less hours, but I do want to have a job that is meaningful to ME. And society.
You don’t need a millionaire to do that. Most women don’t deserve one anyway, not even my mother. There’s a fundamental difference and gap between being with a bum and with a millionaire. Making $500K a year is top 1% earners
While im fairly conservative, to say women in the 50s were happy totally ignores how many were on valium. Women's reliance on that drug was endemic at that time. Women are actually happiest when they have a part-time interest outside of home and family.
in the 50s feminism was almost in full swing. I'm pretty sure playboy debutes in the 50s. your logic is illogical. shes probably talking closer to women in the late 1700s early 1800s.
And who gave them that drug? Big pharma who saw an enormous market of women that could be made addicted? Or was it the sisterhood itself where if a small group of women start using valium, suddenly all their friends 'need' it too? Why do you think suddenly so many young women pretend to be LGBTalphabetsoup? Because it the new 'it' thing to do, just like anorexia was in the eighties. It's just groupthink. 30 years from now, it'll be some other crap.
@notsorandumusername women were unhappy and it was just put down to female neuroticism. We know better now. It was because their entire lives from 18 onwards was constant rounds of pregnancy and feeding and drudgery. Dreams were left behind while their husbands flourished and then dumped their tired, old and rung out wives for glamorous women who'd kept their figures by bucking the status quo. Being out of it on valium was probably a blessing.
Feminism was supposed to be about women being treated equally like men. As in being given the same opportunities as men, being paid the actual wage that women would get performing the same job as men, not be forced into gender roles society has normalized, and just overall not be discriminated because of our gender. We just wanted to be treated equally and be given a choice in the matter that concerned OUR lives. Now it’s just deteriorate to this BS.
Giving the choice to women, yeah thats the right thing to do, which i support. Trying to achieve equality is where feminsm fuked up. There is no equality amongst men. On paper yes, but not for real, and we men understand it, and understand how it works, and we are okay with it, because thats how it works. And people want to create equality between men and women, when men amongst themself are not equal.
You don't want to be equal to a man. One time at work I got my thumb caught in a miter saw and split it in half down the middle like a sausage in a frying pan. Then I had to drive myself to the hospital while spurting blood and going into shock. Women don't have what it takes to be men and why would you want to?
I have done both. I chose to go back to work. Hated being away but wanted my own money, and now I have my own pension. So I can take care of myself. Being a stay-at-home mom is NOT an easy job. You can't tell your child to F-off when you get pissed😂. But the rewards of that hug are amazing. When you see them succeed it's amazing. Being a working mom is also great. I have been a single working mom, and a married working mom. Wouldn't change any of it
It is a bit more than that lol, I know when I was a stay at home mother I did work my arse off but, there is no way in hell I'd like to have had to do my husbands job as a hgv driver, or when he was a manual worker on a building site, or my sons jobs as bricklayer and a plumber, my dad's job as an office manager. I knew what side my bread was buttered and it really came home to me once my sons were grown a bit and I went to work at a care home, that was some serious graft. She defo oversimplified our job as stay at home mothers
I hate cooking I don't get why they act like all women enjoy that shit. The life of a housewife sounds miserable to me, I'd literally rather kill myself.
that's historically not true at all though. women have for centuries also done heavy labour, especially from lower social classes, while ALSO cooking and doing all the chores
Listen, my mother regrets not staying at home and spending time with us (she had to work all the time). It affected my sister a lot. A mother staying at home is the best thing that can happen to a child.
I agree “free the nipple”, in a practical sense won’t render the outcome we’re searching for it to be. It does gain us some freedom in “social perspective”. It turn what I am taking from what was shown in this clip: A) we work hard B)we are going to gain (through evolutionary law) an ability to be better, faster stronger, and more capable than our counter parts. We are simply going to be able to be almost super human(look at where human skill started to where women’s skills are at now). Almost incredible. We do need people exactly like you, to bring up topics like this, so we continuously progress. 👏🏼
I was a stay at home for 9 years while my children (4) were small. Can you just imagine the cost of DayCare for (4) children? Pay me for all I did when I was a stay at home. I cooked, cleaned, paid the bills, bought the food, washed the dishes & the laundry, repaired the clothing my children and husband tore or damaged. Vacuumed the floors, changed/made the beds (5 beds) everyday. I set up and made sure to get my children to doctor appointments/after school programs, music lessons, martial art classes, 2nd language classes, cut hair, washed bodies, helped with homework. The list goes on & on & on. So, please explain to me how my choosing to be a stay at home Mom does not have a dollar value.
That has even more value than being a employee at a corporation, ofc people need money, but working for your family is much more meaningful than working for make an employer richer.
Your husband and you blessed each other. He probably could not afford you. This is why couples who make this work are happier than couples who try to buy all of these services and can’t afford them!
@@laurasimmer9612most teachers are women, so they should not be working? You are only talking about mothers raising kids. And that is not special, it happens every generation, there are 8 billion people in the world and counting
I agree but as a country we've not only tore women and men apart....but the elites have made it so difficult for one income to take care of a family that only the top ten percentage of men can accomplish that. I made 73k two years ago. That was the most i ever made in a calendar year. And my best financial year of my lifetime, isn't even enough to give me, my woman and my child a comfortable life. And that 73k qualifies for the top 30 percent. Then I went into business for myself because I knew it still wasn't good enough. And I lost my ass and ended up at rock bottom. The brutal truth is that if a man can't qualify for the top ten percentage of men in America, and the top 1 percent of men world wide..... you'll never be able to afford a family. And you'll be constantly told you're worthless if you're not in the top ten percentage of men. They've made it damn near impossible. A hard working blue collar man used to be enough. It isn't anymore.
I was a stay at home mother and a proud cupcake making, cookie baking, PTA loving mom! Hillary Clinton could never accomplish 1/10th of what a stay at home mother could. She insulted stay at home moms when Bill was running for his first term. I'll never forget it.
She’s so vile! What was it that she said? I was only 6 or 7 at that time, so I was too young to pay attention to all of it, but now that I’m a stay at home mom I would love to know!
I considered it a privilege to be a SAHM before my husband passed away. Being a single mom was HARD but we made it. Having a great kid doesn’t hurt either ❤️
I do wish Candace Owen would be responsible in explaining the other and arguably most important reasons why people fought for women’s rights. It was a fight for financial security outside of a young woman’s controlling parents, reckless brothers or abusive husbands. The fight was for a woman to have the choice to sign for a house, apply for a loan or marry who she loved and not be poor.
I agree... I think she just simplified it for the discussion's sake. I'm pretty sure she knows those other things came out of modern feminism, but her point is that women now are EXPECTED to do EVERYTHING instead of it being a choice; while men still are only expected to work.
Yes but why shud they devalue traditional woman and indulge in misandry for that??? If I don't want a girl who will fuck with many boys why am j a misogynist?? Peak insecurity, that's all
She is only referring to modern feminism. The things you are referring to are first wave feminism, which she knows was needed. Free the nipple...not necessary
So why is she working 😂😂😂 instead of being at homing rasing her childrens..also do u believe this men was her only men she ever had a 😂 probably not so yeah here u go with the truth
No people hate that she’s trying to force her ideales on every woman. Not every woman wants to be a house wife. I am very happy that I can take care of myself since I am 16 year old. I am very happy that I am able to do the work I want to do. I am very happy that I am able to study medicine to become a doctor one day. if she’s happy being house wife good for her. Does not mean that fits for every women. I am very happy that I can decide for myself what I want and not being financial dependent on someone else.
@inu1879 No one is being "forced" to do anything she says. She makes logical observations to the problems of our society. That's great you want to be independent, just know that the clock is already ticking and you can get to a point where changing your mind about having a family is too late. Kids and marriage isn't for everyone though. So do you.
@@maaly8111 maybe its cause I’ve grew up with many siblings and without a father so I took care of three children during my own childhood. I have enough of cooking and cleaning and raising children its now time to take care of myself.
@@maaly8111 my problem is the generalisation. I mean the things she’s telling here counts for some women or maybe for the women in America but in Germany things are a bit different. Also she’s counting no statistics no sources nothing just cause she is saying this or experienced this in her bubble does not mean its automatically true. Many woman are very happy without children and are in a happy relationships, are happy career woman and there are also unhappy housewifes, unhappy career woman, unhappy relationships or unhappy single. Both exists. And standing there and telling that the modern woman is unhappy cause she can’t be just a housewife anymore is so wrong on so many levels. She can speak for herself when It comes to this but this does not count for every women. I feel insulted by the things shes saying here. She claims I am an unhappy woman cause I don’t want the life she thinks is right for a woman.
The only issue I have with promoting financial dependency on a man and being a housewife as the best way to live is that it's only true if you get a good man as your husband. If you find out your husband is abusive, or if he decides to leave you years later. You will be absolutely screwed
true. but it's important to marry the right person and to really know them before tying the knot. a lot of people are pressured into signing the papers before they're mateur enough
@@user-te2ef2jc6d did you even stop to think about my argument before you reacted emotionally to it? It's a simple fact that being a housewife means you are not making your own income or gaining job experience. So if things go south and the relationship is not working, you won't have money to be able to leave, and you won't have the job experience needed to get a good job to pay your bills. That's a huge risk to take. You are literally risking having to choose to live with an abuser or be homeless if the marriage fails.
The catch here is that when the single mothers culture exploded due to modernism, the next generation of husbands was very low quality. No more traditional women, no more traditional men either.
Decide that you'll bang just about anybody, that you'll split the bill 50/50, and you don't need a relationship involved... you'll attract scum and by the time you wake up you'll wonder where the good guys are. They saw you and kept on walking.
That's so true. Sad thing is many are meant to feel worthless unless they work. I was told one time I had no right to voice my opinion since I wasn't working. I had four children to care for and originally was told he didn't want me to work because he made more than enough to support the family. But then his friends started asking him why I wasn't contributing to the income. So he decided I needed to work to contribute. I didn't have a problem with that if that was needed and what he wanted, but I still was expected to be a full time mom and house wife without any help. He never to the time to go to parent teacher conferences, school plays, baseball, soccer and karate practices nor tournaments. I take that back, he went to one nationals tournament and a couple baseball games. But he didn't help out with household chores or anything I was falling behind on . I did it myself. But then he'd get me mad because I needed to bring home work I couldn't finish because I needed to take care of all those things including all the house work. I'd finish at midnight or later and still have to get up and make lunches and get the kids up and off to school. Not to mention wifey duties or be told I was being cold and not considering his needs nightly. Thank God I rarely had a problem there. But it did make ruff getting up some mornings. I would have preferred to stay home with the kids and be a mom and house wife so I'd have more time for my husband. But nope society said I had to pretend to be feminist so my husband wouldn't get harassed for having a lazy wife that expected him to bring home the money.
I agree excet the bill splitting. We work now. It's not fait if he has to oay and we can become rich on his money. Being a nice woman isn't hurting. A lot of man i know go only on 1 date if the woman doesn't want to share the bill, but did order the most expecive food. Man like to feel the marriage is going to be equal. Just like wkman want men to take care of the household too now. If both work, both pay and both take care of the house.
@@marcelleorton95society isn't the problem here. Your husband is... if he was proud about you and feels secure in your marriage, he would have stand up against them and defended you. He sounds like a really bad husband that just takes advantage of you. Good thing you work and have your own money! Now get out of that marriage!
@@kimberlyrawls8618 why did you expect when you tell men "I don't need no man! Men ain't shit, I'm an independent woman!" We'll take you seriously of course. Not to mention men can be slandered abd shamed for the simplest of things and have their lives ruined. You dug your own graves now yall will lie in it
@@frozone1973 I don't think like that and the women I choose to associate myself with don't either. This doesn't apply to all men, it is a general statement of how today more men than not choose not to take responsibility. It is from a woman's perspective. We all see things differently. If the shoe doesn't fit, don't put it on.
There is no reason to stay home if you don’t want to. I am not a cook, laundromat, housekeeper or daycare provider. I stayed home until my son was in 1st grade. I worked 9am-2pm M-F and once he was in high school I worked full time. I didn’t feel fulfilled staying home. I felt underwhelmed, unappreciated and my professional tech skills started to become irrelevant as information technologies were expanding at great speed. If you aren’t happy then your children won’t be happy! 😊
@@rubenhernandez2623 It seems that more and more women are slowly realizing that most of what feminism stands for is a lie. I've seen many videos and blog posts (from men and women) that give me hope that the idea of the traditional woman is slowly re-emerging. Gives me hope, because we, as a species, can't survive this extremely low marriage/birthrate.
@@Paine-yr9wd Not at all. I'm all for a well-rounded, educated woman. I just wouldn't want her after thousands of guys have seen her naked on the internet or if I'm number 75 on the list of men she has slept with. The statistics are pretty clear- the divorce rate is MUCH higher when women have such an extensive history...and they are overwhelmingly the ones who end the relationship. I'd much rather have a woman who respects me and her future children, but hey, you do you.
I was raised with my brother and sister by my mother on Kodiak Island. We all lost him one night in a plane crash. My mom is and was the rock we needed and I miss her now.
Because that's basically impossible now. She's doing this because she has to work. If she didn't have to, she wouldn't be an influencer. There's this thing called money.
Do you consider a speaking engagement, WORK? It's maybe an hour of her time, 2 hours if there's a Q&A. And these are probably 1 a week; maybe 2 at best. I suspect she's probably, AT HOME, about 50-75% of the time.
My teenage daughter and I have talked about the reverse psychology that has been going on for decades with women, and truthfully, it is giving men what they want.
@opeyemisaibu9486 Hugh Hefner pushed for a sexual revolution for women. It was pushed in a way to convey, a woman sleeping around or posing for his magazine was powerful. Ironically, the Playboy Bunnies and his "girlfriends" actually had strict rules to live by. If you tell a woman she's powerful if she gets naked, she's not really getting naked for her, it's for him. It's a game of talking women into giving men what they want yet making the women feel like it was their idea or somehow makes them stronger. I watched an interview with a porn star who said after a taping of her as a prison guard being r@p-d by "inmates" she had to take some time off. She talked about how it really messed with her mentally. It didn't matter that she was in control of the situation. She learned the hard way that everything she was told she would gain (for the pleasure of men) was a lie.
@@Seos_ink The unsaid message to the daughter is that modern feminism has paved the way for morally degenerate men to be able to get all the p*ssy they want from the women that have been "liberated..." And telling her to not be fooled, that there are plenty of men(and boys tbh) who will take full advantage. I told my daughters to use their good looks to attract quality men- don't give themselves to somebody who will not value them for who they are.
Well porn used to be a dirty thing. Now girls literally can't wait to. Jump on someone's dick if they will make bank on OF or another platform. I'm not saying sex workers should be shamed but there is a stigma around that and you can't wait to join it now...... Congrats a whole generation of women complaining that they get treated like meat or an object but you are legit training men to treat you that way.
It's not like they will listen but tell them anyway. They have never heard of the working classes. In these classes, traditionally it was not only women who also worked but the children also worked in the mines or swept chimneys at age 7.
@@the8thchurch461tf you talking about. Intact families should teach children more than the school, have them work at your family business ideally not some gd factory.
@@tomare6479 So you think those poor working class 7 year old kids most of whom died up the chimneys while cleaning them, were doing so at the behest of the family to train them to acquire life skills in the family businesses? Smh
I had a career in real estate but decided to become a stay at home mom. Many people looked down on me because I gave up my career and they acted like I did something wrong. Many others thought I was looking down at working moms because they didn’t stay home with their kids. It’s crazy how people take it so personal. My kids are mostly grown now and now I help watch my grandchildren instead of going back to work. It’s takes a village to raise kids.
I used to be a workaholic until I met my now husband and fell madly in love; suddenly there was something in my life more important than work. I realized that I was never an eager workaholic, I worked my ass off bc I was chasing the feeling of making my parents proud. I quit my job and had a baby, and realized my mom will always be proud of me and my father is dead, why do I need to make him proud? But my sisters/cousins (the women, of course) couldn't believe I would "submit myself" to a man and become a SAHM. It was really hard on me emotionally, but I am so happy I ignored them. I've realized now, that it was jealousy, covered in their personal insecurities. My dad provided for my mom and all 6 of his children until he died and left a 36 y/o woman widowed. She worked hee ass off to give us every opportunity in the world, so we could have a choice at a better life and this is what a better life is for me. I'm sorry it hurts them to see that whole they are divorced and working, I get to be home in a happy marriage. But that is not for me to deal with. You're not alone Momma! We're all here, happily suffering through it all, together, in our hearts 💕
When you say "they" They are not listening, otherwise they wouldn't be in the position that they are in now, and that position would be, simply put, confusion.
If you don't give your body to that someone as per their wish they can threathen to leave you so basically they are in there for your body nothing else
@@nissigeorge7720if a man ,speaking from a man’s view point, because I’m a man. If a man threatens to leave you if you don’t give him your body, then let the bastard roll away. Ladies need to have more respect for themselves, because this stuff a lot of them are doing on social media, you are destroying yourselves, and a good, working man will not have that
@@johnbingham9937 social media a woman has a choice but you say let that man go well that is practically all conservative so called decent ones that say the same thing save yourself for marriage they think cover up and a woman should open up to them after marriage and have sex with them as and when they want after marriage or will kick her out yeah so much for love . No one owes their body to anyone else
When equality becomes superiority, the whole empowerment message gets muddled. Especially when women that disagree are castaway. Respect yourself and others ladies 🙏🏽
My folks live in the highest taxed part of the country on one income. Always have. The problem isn't inflation. It's american consumers that think they need all this materialism. A single income household is 100% viable when you're being minimalist/rational with your spending. There's nothing wrong with slumming it with your partner until there's enough saved to splurge. My uncle just moved over here from our home country (third world) with pennies a year ago. He now has a gf with a daughter that has her own room in their 2 bedroom apartment in NYC. He pays for everything, yet still lives comfortably. If modern relationships were more about love and spending time together than it was about money, the dating game wouldn't be as atrocious as it is now.
Women didn’t want to have to work we needed to so we could have autonomy over ourselves and stop being treated like subordinates and being subject to abuse.
I’m loving the comment section. Thank you ladies for your honesty. It’s so refreshing to see all the woman say they love being home and taking care of their kids and husband. My mom, a philosophy degree holder, decided to turn down jobs in order to take care of us five kids and her husband and ran the home and I’m so glad she did. It made us the people we are today. Love to all the house moms ♥️♥️♥️
Exactly, some women who are reaping the very benefits of having a choice ( feminism ) talk down on women who made different choices than them. Ask Candace why is she not sitting at home quiet cooking for her husband rn ?
No, feminism didn't give anyone the microphone. All technologies are created, predominately by men and then it is used in the current society. If it wasn't a microphone it would be a bull horn or a loud yell. As for feminism, women have been very strong throughout history, it is only recently that the 'feminist movement' has decided that women are victims and need to remove/reject men. Happily most women are getting fed up with these special people and getting back to the business of wife, mother and homemaker.
In real life, most women, even married ones, can't stay at home cooking and one man support a household. And some women don't want to spend their time cooking ( and cleaning). Candace might love cooking from time to time but she has nannies and probably cleaners so she doesn't have to do washing up. She's a luxury housewife. There is something in-between this and only fans.
@@Garett.1214 whatever ones story is: The situation of right now. Podcasts are always telling people how to live. We all have different tastes, qualities, capacities, health, relationships and experiences.... Nobody can tell anyone how they should live their life. Also, most importantly, everything will change and we will have to adapt to life's wheel of fortune!!
@@rachelmahon9149 Look I know you don't think there are these things called rules. Most women don't. So I don't expect you to understand. The people that men should listen to the most have likely lived a hard life and have gone through many obstacles to be successful. Therefore have general rules to avoid pitfalls. Men usually do not listen to a gender who generally lives life on easy mode. You can follow whomever you like. A man will still rescue you in the end.
@@janeatkinsonvivacristorey3622 Esclavos?? En serio?? Estamos en el año 2023, la esclavitud fue abolida hace siglos y la segregación hace décadas 🤔 en qué mundo vives?? 🤣
As a shelf-stacker, no, it isn't. I get my wages, I get health insurance, I get paid vacation, I even get a nice retirement plan. And I get opportunities. I could move up into management, I could move on, I could go lateral to different departments, or move to part-time or take light duty. It's all up to me.
The point of feminism is having a choice. In job, SAH, voting, pregnancy etc. Rights like men have. Feminism isnt about having to be a man, its about having the same rights as men. Having human rights.
@@BlackBird447men have obligations to provide and protect, how about men start owning half your shit in a divorce? How about they start working their asses off in dangerous hard labor to provide for their family? how about they start jumping in the line of fire whenever they encounter a dangerous situation? Theres a housefire, you go ahead and save the man over yourself, Youre walking down the street at night with a guy and then a group of guys decide to try mug him, go on fight those guys off yourself and let the man run to look for help 😂 how about no more priority for women's safety over a man? We're in a sinking ship, you save us men first before women, theres a hostage situation, then no more "at least let the women and children go" 😂 if some dangerous animal attacks, you go ahead and jump in front of a man protecting him as you get mauled by it I think we can agree that the men should protect women in every situation, the men must provide safety and stability and theyre the first lives to be thrown into the grinder incase of danger, if theres a real serious war, its men that are drafted into it by the government and forget about women being put on the frontlines, men are the first line of defense of the human species and our lives are expendable compared to a woman's life men have the obligation to suffer first before a woman does, you want exactly equal rights a man has? Get out from under their wing (which you cant as its natural order of things and theres nothing wrong with that, but just dont come and pick the "good things" about a man's live and ignore the bad things as if its a self served buffet)
@@BlackBird447 maintaining the society critical infrastructure. Dying first at Titanic. Being annihilated by artillery in trenches. Be responsible for humanity In short, there "she JUST a woman" "he IS a man", for demonstration for you
Im a 66 yr old woman & i can tell u when u wake up one morning and are faced with the fact that ur two kids are now adults & ur husband of many many many years is now dead, its a feeling I can't describe. U have given your entire life to others & now they are gone. Dating is miserable & u feel an undesirable loss
As a stay at home mom, it is the most rewarding and fulfilling jobs you can have. Sadly, I have been told more often by women that I need to put my kids in daycare or get a nanny so I can get a “real job” because I shouldn’t let having a family “tie me down”. Todays women’s have the misconception that stay at home moms sit at home and do absolutely nothing. I not only cook, clean, and keep things organized, but I get to raise and teach my children. I think society cast a huge shadow on children as well trying to make them think that they are bad for wanting to have their parents around. My brother and his fiancé have both tried to tell my sons that he needs to “let mommy go you don’t need to be around her all the time.” And “you can go places without mommy and daddy you know, we can hang out together without them.” My boys are very exploitative and wanting to do things themselves. When it comes to people trying to get them alone without one of their parents around and they say they don’t like it than I’m bad. Like wtf? Also made snide remarks about if my sons need comfort after getting hurt that I’m spoiling him and teaching him to depend on me. Yeah that’s the point, my 3 year old and 1 year old should be able to depend on their mother to be there 😂 anyhoo I know I’m just venting now but the point is that the stay at home moms and working dads has been very under appreciated, judged, and very misunderstood.
For a second there I thought you were talking about teenagers lol. Why are people telling you that a 3 and 1 year old shouldn’t depend on you? And why exactly do they need to be with you sons without you or dad around? Sound crazy to me. I personally think it’s amazing to be able to stay at home and take care of your kids. Well done.
I agree but also one of the leading reasons why women don’t leave in abusive relationships is financial independence. Economic insecurity marginalizes women, increasing their risk of victimization. Violence can keep women in conditions of poverty and economic dependence, and a lack of access to resources can limit women's choices and keep women from leaving abusive situations. So women who are stay at home moms in this situation are stuck because they risk becoming in poverty if they leave the abusive situation, so they have no other choice but to stay with there abuser. How tragic…
I learned in my ap history class That one of the main events that formed feminism Was after the war pre and post prohibition Men was spending all the money at the bars and clubs Leaving the women destitute and having to Work themselves to provide for the family That was the one of the main reasons women worked And after learning that It changes a lot when it comes to perspective Everyone is different I won’t deny that But it’s crazy how the feminist movement started bc of the care women had for their families and their future Not necessarily always themselves
Not to mention the large businesses that were campaigning for feminism to convince more women to work in the workplace so the workforce is doubled and labor costs can be cut in half🤷♂️ I mean it worked… the jobs with women and men usually pay less than stem fields that women didn’t go into because of restrictions until 1964 then companies later started practically begging women to work these stem jobs that were either more time consuming or physically demanding to the point that affirmative action was made and women still choose not to work these fields a majority of the time and these fields make huge money because the workforce is almost the same as it was pre feminism.
But now it’s more people you can be taxed in the household . Could have 1 man 1 wife and 3 daughters . And that man’s income back then would take care of them and himself
I grew up in the 70's. As a young girl Most of my friends Moms were stay at home. Mine was not. Mom worked in Banks as a the secretary to the manager. Later in life she told me though she Love my Dad she ONLY married him because she ALWAYS wanted to own a house. Although women could Legally buy a house in 74' Most the Majority of banks would decline the loan. Then in 81 the Real estate act made it so that banks just couldn't decline a loan based on being a woman. The bank has to look into your account and job status. The Feminist back in the day had something to fight for nowadays feminist are just Crazy Brats that want their way like 2 year children. But don't realize all they have. Especially the ones that have RUclips channels spouting their crazy nonsense. But of the woman before them is way they can have RUclips channels as jobs or self employment. Consenting women COULDN'T own a business until the mid to late 80's.
Stop acting like it was most men spending their money in bars instead of on their family and leaving them to go without. This is a blatant LIE. Yea there's ALWAYS going to be an issue with addiction but it was NOTHING compared to the level of addiction we have today. And the majority were FUNCTIONING addicts. Meaning that they worked and still provided. Back then if a man was drinking the family's money he would be PUBLICLY HUMILIATED. He would also have been ostracized by the other men and even faced public whippings and worse. You think the community just ignored it. My grandfather had his wages given DIRECTLY to his wife after he got sh!t faced ONCE after work and spent the money in the pub and on a tortoise and a panther cub for his kids yea you could buy ANYTHING in the pub. 😂 For 25 YEARS AFTER all his wages went to his wife. She had to go pick them up on Fridays 😂 I don't think you remotely understand what it was actually like. 😂 Back then you were SHAMED into doing the right thing or you were forced out of the community. Alone. The wife and children would stay and be cared for by their family and friends and even the local lord's would step in and hire the woman to be a nanny or a housekeeper. The church would house feed and clothe them. They were NEVER left with nothing. And it's stupid ignorant and straight up uneducated to act like it was a huge issue when it OBVIOUSLY wasn't. It was milked and overinflated by dumbasses who just wanted to ban alcohol but that was propaganda. Not an actual issue. 🤡☠️🤦♀️🤷♀️🤣
And it emasculates men. What was my ex-wife’s first response when she would hear something and think someone was coming into our house at night? It was to kick me and tell me to get up and go look…. She was happy to have me there for that but if I ever wanted to drive or do anything else God forbid I was so misogynistic !
There is absolutely NOTHING feminine about modern feminism. Nothing. I love being a woman, always have. I love my husband, always have. We both love God and love our family. And we both help each other make our days and nights better.
Not everyone works a 9-5. Not everyone hates their job. Sometimes there's more to job than only working, sometimes a nice job gives you a sense of accomplishment, sense of self worth and respect, sense of belonging, for some people their jobs are vocation. And they love it and they also love their families. And their families are proud of them. Why should everything be black and white?
This is a rarity though as the divorce rates are so high now a days. And exactly u pointed out where ppl use jobs as a vacation because they are unhappy with what’s going on in their home. It’s not black and white, because there are many reasons why marriages are failing, modesty isn’t popular and women looking down on other women for wanting to be stay at home mothers.
Especially when that man can kick you out for refusing sex once or twice in a row after so called marriage , married men expect their wives to be naked when they want or tell them to get out I am not for modern feminism but traditional feminism also how is that not legal prostitution
@@Bekig5953 I NEVER said people use work for a vacation (I said vOcation, read it again). I pointed out exactly the opposite - they are happy both at work and at home and they need both things in order to be content (nothing wrong woth that). Divorce rates are highest now because divorce is now legal and socially acceptable and people who don't have happy family life opt for divorce rather than killing their partner.
You don’t realize she herself is pregnant and has a full time job a career. That’s not what she’s contesting it’s this latest wave of feminism that’s toxic and demoralizing and full of loneliness narcissism and lies.
I have been saying this for decades, I never had a choice not to work. I am happy that i learned so much but does this really matter when i am dead. Family is forever .
Why? She has a voice, a very popular voice, and it's not like she's away from home MORE than she is, AT HOME. Speaking engagements are 1 or maybe 2 a week. It's probably an hour long, maybe 2 hours with a question-and-answer setting. The plane flight ✈️ probably takes longer. Plus, as a popular speaker, I'm sure it's lucrative. Pays for all the children she has, and is about to "pop out". My guess is she's home/away 50/50, or "at home", MORE than she is, away.
@@thenoobinvestor6930 women are supposed to be home cooking and cleaning right? Isn't that what this entire movement is about? Why would Candace Owens be exempt from that?
It was SUPPOSED to be a CHOICE! Some women needed the freedom to work because they had no one to take care of them. It was never meant to devalue the work of the stay-at-home wife/mom
It did though, and many do now.💀 Seems like there was no specific strategy or laws like certain brotherhoods and religions meaning no restrictions and when you have a beast without a leash then it’s bound to become untamable. It’d be crazy if the future looks like that episode of Rick and Morty where the females of an alien species created an artificial womb and separated the men and women. Although, there’s more context, bruuuhh… I’m high rn.
Exactly when they breed children's those girls don't want to give a man sex in return he "provides" or work an exploitative job that goes against her ethics both ways where is the so called choice
It IS a choice, but just not yours alone. There are stay at home moms, and dad's for that sake, it's just that your partner has to either be earning enough, or sacrifice all that time with the family and do your work load on top of their own
it happened so the government can tax women, if women don't work they cannot be taxed.
Exactly
As a stay at home mom, this is so true for me. I've had people make comments of disapproval insinuating that I should go back to work and put my kids in a daycare. 😒 Being a stay at home mom is not valued anymore. It's frustrating because I work hard with everything at home and with my kids and people act like I just sit at home all day relaxing.
God bless you! 💙 You are amazing... I admire stay at home moms providing a home for their children and husbands ... raising and homeschooling children ... you keep going and don't worry about what those people say.... society has been blinded and have bought into countless lies
Believe me there are people who appreciate and cherish women like you. I'm one of them lol
What’s more important than raising a whole HUMAN and making sure you provide health, nutrition, and nurturing ❤❤❤❤ not only to your children but the man who provides for everyone? These people who judge you are just JEALOUS 😢
It is frustrating. My wife isn't a stay at home wife because I told her to be or that I don't think she can work a 9-5
It's because I don't think she should have to.
This!!!!! Modern feminism has destroyed what God created. Your now looked down upon for staying home and taking care of your kids.
Yeah no. I’ll follow what God says and raise up my children!
Jezebel is behind modern feminism to destroy the family unit
I loved coming home to my mother from primary school to warm tea, soup & a little cake if I was lucky & going to the park & the beach & the excitement of dad picking us up after work 🏡 I feel sorry for kids & parents today who can't have that.. everyone is so stressed & busy, just existing in so many cases.. 😪
Now kids won't even see rheir parents except for weekends and then both of them are so tired and exhausted from work all week. If you don't raise you child, the streets will raise it
I can agree, Even though I'm 19, I'm noticing that a good amount of my classmates don't really see their parents or really talk to them. My parents are busy but I still come home to warm food on the table and a hug and 'welcome back' from my mom.
My dad works all day, so I only see him in the nighttimes, but even then, he stays up to help us, hangout for an hour or two, play games. And on the days he has off, he spends it all with us.
In my childhood, I always had them around and my fondest memories are with my family. I didn't really go out to the streets alone because I was too occupied being with my family.
I am a Bangladeshi, grew up in Bangladesh, not a very developed country, pretty conservative. My mother worked as a government employee for 32 years of her life. Her generation was kinda the first generation to have women receive higher education (she went to the top school and graduated with a masters in the 70s) and have white collar jobs. People would try to taunt my dad that he "needs to send" his wife to work, would taunt my brother and I that we don't have mom at home all the time, and sometimes even my grandparents that how they could even "allow" that! But my grandparents, my father and my brother and I were immensely proud of her. We all supported her, especially my father and grandparents.
She made sure we receive the finest of the education (she and my grandfather used to help us with studies), she raised us with the hobby of reading and learning, she made us ambitious (I graduated from the toppest engineering school in Bangladesh and now finishing my PhD in the US to be a scientist and my brother is a pharmacist specialized in cancer treatment), she supported my father if he ever struggled in his business, gave my brother and I the love for cooking (although she cooked on weekends or special occasions), we stayed together with our grandparents and took care of them till the day they died, and now my brother and sister-in-law live with my parents and my mother has been the rock in my SIL's lung cancer journey (which is now in remission) . Now that I am an adult and have met a lot of people in my life, I see so many people carrying childhood trauma from traditional yet toxic family backgrounds. Whereas for my brother and I, our childhood is most amazing time of our lives and we can't stop talking about it. I am also one of those very few women who grew up with no history of sexual assault as a child, and all credit goes to my mother ( she was extra cautious about it, taught us good touch and bad touch and had my grandma look out for us at all times).
I didn't come home everyday to my mother waiting with food for me, but time with her meant learning and laughing and story time-absolute quality time which no food or material thing can make up for. I don't remember ever complaining (even as a child) why my mother isn't always at home like other mothers, and never heard that from my brother too. I am not in support of butt cheek and nipple flashing, but women can maximize their potential and still be in their feminine maternal energy if they receive the right support from their partners and surrounding. We always knew if anything ever happened to my father (God forbid), our education and well-being would not be compromised and I believe, that was a huge source of security as a child growing up in a middle class family. I have rarely come across women from my mother's generation who are as happy (and grateful) and secure as my mother. Credit goes to my father, too. Men and women build each other and raise happy healthy offsprings in the process.
Agree, the old times were much much better and happier
@user-fd8yi8ls9w were they really though? Have you asked women who lived through that time? Feminism was about a woman's rights. The right to vote, the right to make the choice to work or stay home, the right to the same education, the right to own property. And sooo much more. Please don't assume that I am not happy or that women are not happy. I'm grateful I have these rights and choices.
NO ONE that has left the work field to become a housewife, has come back to work for somebody. They always tell how happy they are staying at home especially when they have children.
Not many women can afford to do that nowadays.
@benmartin8281 Literally any woman In the west can afford to do that. It's called female privilege. Because men will provide.
All you need is a man that earns a avarage salary and a woman can afford to stay home.
They key is not to be greedy with spending money on stuff you don't need.
So many women have done that when their kids got older
She put it exactly that. We’re expected to work like a man and then go home to act like a woman. We’re trying to juggle the two and do well at both while trying not to be exhausted. I’d rather stay at home and be present in my child’s life full time while still having the option to go work if a worst case scenario were to happen
How ab instead applying feminism to your home as well and demanding equal distribution of domestic labor from men, simply don't put up w lazy men who don't do shit
No, you were expected
No, it was not what was expected but what you wanted.
Like Candy here, she's a married working pregnant mother because that's what she wants. Funny how she is also a hypocrite as well.
like why can women do what they want to do
@@LaurenLauren-yn1uj Lol
“Women aren’t happy anymore” could not be more true.
They never were.
@@Mark-in8juword, they're never happy no matter what men do we cannot solve their eternal issues
That's why they're all on anti depressants.
@user-ul5xu1ws6h You know the stats. I know you guys hate stats but just saying! Sorry if you think I'm being mean and I genuinely wish you happiness you're not all bad just like we aren't.
@@user-ul5xu1ws6h stupid statement.
Good talk Candace. Society has gone downhill.
A lot of us ( women ) have to go to work in order to help raise our families.
She's talking more about hours worked, like myself. I work 60+hrs a week, and I wouldn't want my partner working the hours I do. It's not fair on her
That’s because the women’s liberation movement of the 60s 70s drastically changed the economy so that it took two incomes to support a family, thanks to feminists who sold it as a choice or an option, it was a lie, it’s not realistically optional for many. Everything that women do eventually comes back to bite them. I’m a women myself and I’ve spent decades observing this phenomenon
Yes true, but your response is still tone deaf... There are times in some marriages when women have to be the breadwinner... and there are many single women raising children. Such is life. And people of the next generation that aren't inherently wealthy aren't going to be awarded anything close to the financial opportunities of recent generations of Americans. Look at the very real numbers of what money looks like for them, with no prospects of buying a home, no matter how much they work. Being able to afford kids is bleak to them. @@bob-ce5bn
"women aren't happy anymore" --facts.
women were never happy and will never be happy. Happiness is not unattainable . Women derive moments of happiness from safety , children and a stable home.
Truth is women weren't happy back then either because men would abuse their power over them and let's not forget we've only been able to legally read since 100 years ago so you know there's that it's just like maybe one day we can find some sort of balance in this society where women are treated with respect and allowed to be feminine but at the same time still allowed to have rights I mean that would be great. And by rights I mean laws that men are actually adhere to
Yea they are so bitter now ah days😢
@@CosmoJno we don't 😂 not everyone wants kids or a husband. I had a man and he made me depressed. Much happier without
Shit, well we missed when tf they were for 24 hours
My wife loves to stay at home and take care of our child. Taking care a child is one of the hardest jobs a person will ever do. You're not just feeding them, clothing them, you are helping form personalities and morals that they will pass on to their kids
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Enough said ❤
I was a stay-at-home mom until this year. I got shit all the time because my kids are now in middle school so, I "should" be working. I got "What do you do all day? 🥴" constantly. His salary was working for us but, now that things are so expensive it just wasn't working anymore. I will do anything for my family, we are a team so I knew I had to get back to work but, I miss being there when my kids get home from school. I hate that I barely have any time now with them because as soon as I get home I'm squeezing in so many of the things I used to get done during the day. I don't understand how any woman could disparage being home for your family. I loved it and now miss it so much.
my mother is a working mom, and she loves working and loves her job. i get that a lot of women love to be a stay at home mom and wife, and others do not. i think it’s up to the woman what she wants to do,
I hated the " what do you do all day" statement as a stay at home mom. So much for my family. Cozy clean home and child, well fed man and lots of fun times as a family unit. What's wrong with that? Apparently sah women are horrible. Thanks feminists.
Amen!! That’s why so many kids are fucked up now. They don’t have that mother that is always available to them day in and day out caring for their needs. But instead exhausted from working all day then needing to come home take care of the kids, clean ,cook, take care of the bills,the yard,the laundry, etc. WHO FOUGHT FOR FEMINISM 👊🏽👊🏽👊🏽👊🏽👊🏽
What about the father? He should also be available day in and out, and if his wife is working and so is he, he should also contribute to housework. A lot of focus is put onto the mother currently and we’re ignoring how important the fathers role is also.
@@RayRay-tr3wmThis video is about mothers. OP said mother's should be available in the home, to nurture her children, that was her traditional role before feminism. A father's traditional role was to provide, protect and lead the family. Each has their own unique role and each are important, I agree.
I understand the dangers of the present day society but why do you think it's only the mother's fault that kids end up bad? That doesn't make sense. There are many families in which women work and children are raised well, spiritually and mentally. And there are many instances where children are being looked 24/7 but ends up as terrible people. And is the father not existent to you? Feminism began to give women a choice and to have equality in rights and opportunities. This is not the way feminism is going currently. But people like you are ignoring why it ever came into the first place and are being so ungrateful because a lot of rights and freedoms you enjoy are the result of feminism.
'Feminism gave women a choice'. No. Feminism has brought us to the point we can no longer choose to live of one income. I am all for choice.
@@butterfliesinsidemj That is the cost of living inflation that has nothing to do with feminism. But let's blame giving women rights!
The government wanted women working and paying taxes.
Well said, women are victims due to easy they are to manipulate. True lab rats
correct AND send the kids to school so the state can brainwash them.
Yup they want both parents to be the slaves, so before just one now two
Lol easy to blame others. They din’t put your asses on the net, they don’t tell you to sleep with multiple men and make out it’s powerful and liberating, yall so easily follow trends from other women. The government correctly took advantage of taxing your assess because you wanted to work, they didn’t force you to work. Now you have to make ends meet, that’s in you because everything shot up afterwards when companies and expenditure went up. Round of applause
No, the wars did.
Went to college, got a job at a hospital, worked ALL THE TIME……was miserable. Had a baby, decided to be a stay at home mom, don’t regret a single thing!!!!
Good for you. You found what you wanted to do with your life. There are also women who want the opposite and some that can balance both career and motherhood.
@@opticalraven1935 oh I’ve done it all. The stay at home mom job was by far the hardest. 24/7. But I don’t regret it at all
@@opticalraven1935 Sure women can do both, but at the end of the day while the kids are young someone else is caring for their children while they are at work. That's totally fine, but it's different than being a stay at home mom. You can't do both without sacrificing time with the kids to work full time.
@@opticalraven1935 No one can do two things well at the same time. One interest will suffer at the expense of the other.
😂 don't blame yah my girl wud rather go work for sum reason oh I know the reason it's cus she sits on her butt all day for work 😅
She said it!
Feminism is about having a choice. They did not have a choice in the past. Showing your naked body on the internet has nothing to do with freedom of choice. This has to do with sexual abuse.
Why do you need to lie?
Feminism have never been about choice. Women have always had choices. Women have always worked. Women have always studied and women have always invented stuff.
All feminism is striving for is female superiority, since they demand rights over men without responsibilities.
Touch some grass, your evil will never win.
Keep speaking truth!! This is awesome!! Bring back morals,modesty and being at home!!
And men holding jobs to PREVENT homelessness?? Real talk yo
Yeah let’s keep women in the kitchen, cooking food and making babies. Why should any woman want a career, not every woman can marry a millionaire business man. Yeah right.
Unless being at home is your calling but other than that, you are created for a purpose folks, not just for a man but for God's purpose which doesn't have to be staying at home.
Exactly ❤
@shoshannaabraham501 gods purpose for woman's creation is to serve man so you kinds outed yourself there.
I actually like to work and be financially independent, but I know that is for me. My friend really enjoys being a stay-at-home mom because that is for her. Everyone is different and strong in their own way. Real feminism is being able to do either one not because of social pressures, but because we choose to do it and do it with self-respect. Hyperfeminism has sadly become "having freedom of choice" but without the dignity.
Amen, @chrisya1705, I enjoy working independently as well and I am blessed by God as He put me forth to do so, Candace has an English lawyer in an established kingdom to support her so she can afford to stay at home where previously in her college days, she wasn't so pro stay at home womanhood. Be real.
Agree! ❤ I love working and being financially independent. My husband works, too. He knows he needs help, and we both help out in the home... Working isn't a bad thing for women.
your friend s work has value your work has very little
@@jankopandza1072 so when men go out and be financially independent they have no value? Is that what u r trying to say? In this economy u cannot afford to be this ignorant. And the women in this video is working herself who is heavily pregnant for a paycheck. Use your brain.
My God when you hear the truth , it’s freeing .
Finally a woman who is like minded and isn’t afraid to say it! 👏🏽♥️
Feminism is supposed to provide equality in treatment, opportunities, and options for both males and females.
she has no sense of history not for african-americans not for women.
Yea it's soposed to, but it doesn't. And thats why no one supports feminism because it's been turned into a joke. The majority of the earth now pictures a feminist as a female who looks like a dude with green hair and a nose ring. Why does that stereotype exist because everyone's experience with a feminist is some psycho loud ugly upset person yelling thinking loud means right.
@@Lydmarie5588lol your too racist to care about the actual issue get bent
@@Lydmarie5588history is history. Step into today
Correct equality
I'm a newly stay at home mom who worked managing a non profit for over 11 years and worked since I was a teen, have 2 degrees and purchased my home on my own several years ago. I would have never thought I would received so much backlash from working woman for having the option to stay home and take care of my children husband and home. Its so interesting to be on the other side now but I love it and it is honesty 10 times harder than sitting in meetings all week😂
Wow
Was waiting for someone to say “IT’S HARDER TO STAY HOME” - so of Course women wanted the freedom to go to work a job they love AS AN OPTION rather than being forced to marry young and stay “barefoot and pregnant” AKA without financial resources other than what her husband might “give her”.
You sound like you Rock! During hard work times I have a saying: People with born Uteruses may not be cut out for this Crap!
I could not imagine handing my newborn over to some random stranger in a "daycare". It's child abuse and neglect. Anyone who would have a baby and then hand that newborn to some random in a dirty facility where they are UNLOVED all day is evil
Yesssss!!!! I am with you, been there, done that and wow... why do we want to complicate Our lives so much? We tend of age more with the unnecessary stress.
A priest said, after the fall in Eden, Adam and Eve were given curses, Adam to toil by the sweat of his brow....and Eve to bear children in pain... So he said, why would the women want to take on Adam's curse, too? Never thought of it like that......
Haven't heard that.
because it is stupid. a fable, a myth.
@@glennthompson1971we started somewhere and as far I see people keep popping babies and no fish are coming out the sea turning into humans or monkeys into humans so you tell me what makes sense but for there to be a God who created people to procreate. Stop avoiding the obvious truth blessings on your life❤️
Depends which fairy tail you believe in.
@@glennthompson1971yet Israel exists…
We were duped!!! Climbing the ladder and spending time with ppl that don’t care about us instead of spending time with kids and family. Sad.
So true
Once again, it’s about choice to do what you want. If you want to be a stay-at-home parent I respect the hell out of you for that. But you are cracked out if you think being a homemaker is just (to quote Candace) “a little bit of cooking.”
No one dupes you. You only dupe yourself.
@salemannasmith1805 no one says being a homemaker is easy work. It's not. But if I am going to work hard, there is a lot to be said for working hard for your family rather than some corporate head. Just saying. But of course it's good to have choices, a good family life is not available to everyone. But women keep choosing careers over getting married until they hit their late 30s and realize the ship has sailed, and for what?
Yes!! The trouble is now that women feel they have to work like a man, but being pregnant and nursing a child and looking after children whilst holding down a job is exhausting! We are told we could have it all, now we are just going it all. I feel the kids are suffering as well. They end up being brought up by institutions, going to breakfast clubs, after school clubs, because neither parents are not home to look after them!
I agree completely, only I do not want to stay at home and cook each day. I want to do sth more significant for society at large, and I want chores to be shared. I don't mind doing the majority of chores, but not ALL. I don't mind to work less hours, but I do want to have a job that is meaningful to ME. And society.
Her husband is a millionaire on his own. If Candace wanted to stay home and be a mom she could.
You don’t need a millionaire to do that. Most women don’t deserve one anyway, not even my mother.
There’s a fundamental difference and gap between being with a bum and with a millionaire.
Making $500K a year is top 1% earners
Stop it you know damn well most of the married population ain’t set up like that. Ignorant
@@aidenpearce5137are you a black man? I’m genuinely curious.
She's trying to make this country a better place. She's a bad ass
@@morganlex4294why is that important 😭🤚
While im fairly conservative, to say women in the 50s were happy totally ignores how many were on valium. Women's reliance on that drug was endemic at that time. Women are actually happiest when they have a part-time interest outside of home and family.
My grandmother did "diet pills" until they were no longer legal to prescribe. She was a devout Christian. But she always worked.
in the 50s feminism was almost in full swing. I'm pretty sure playboy debutes in the 50s. your logic is illogical. shes probably talking closer to women in the late 1700s early 1800s.
And who gave them that drug? Big pharma who saw an enormous market of women that could be made addicted? Or was it the sisterhood itself where if a small group of women start using valium, suddenly all their friends 'need' it too? Why do you think suddenly so many young women pretend to be LGBTalphabetsoup? Because it the new 'it' thing to do, just like anorexia was in the eighties. It's just groupthink. 30 years from now, it'll be some other crap.
@@fakeaccount7913why are you moving the goalpost even though you clearly heard what she said? Just asking. Also “you’re logic is illogical” 💀
@notsorandumusername women were unhappy and it was just put down to female neuroticism. We know better now. It was because their entire lives from 18 onwards was constant rounds of pregnancy and feeding and drudgery. Dreams were left behind while their husbands flourished and then dumped their tired, old and rung out wives for glamorous women who'd kept their figures by bucking the status quo. Being out of it on valium was probably a blessing.
Thank you Candace! Thank you. Happy Wednesday to you. Blessings to you and your growing family.
Some women have NEVER BEEN TRAPPED in a BAD , loveless, ABUSIVE marriage, and it shows....
Miserable view
Stop listening to everyone else, & start listening to yourself, & those who matter in your day to day life.
You should listen to other successful people. To have a goal or else you be lost.
@@mob2081 Hopefully someday you will be able to see the context.
Thank you for the reminder
Omg this literally has a lot of POVS , ahhhhh!!!!
@@mob2081You are an NPC.
Feminism was supposed to be about women being treated equally like men. As in being given the same opportunities as men, being paid the actual wage that women would get performing the same job as men, not be forced into gender roles society has normalized, and just overall not be discriminated because of our gender. We just wanted to be treated equally and be given a choice in the matter that concerned OUR lives. Now it’s just deteriorate to this BS.
Giving the choice to women, yeah thats the right thing to do, which i support. Trying to achieve equality is where feminsm fuked up. There is no equality amongst men. On paper yes, but not for real, and we men understand it, and understand how it works, and we are okay with it, because thats how it works. And people want to create equality between men and women, when men amongst themself are not equal.
I agree with u so much !!
You don't want to be equal to a man. One time at work I got my thumb caught in a miter saw and split it in half down the middle like a sausage in a frying pan. Then I had to drive myself to the hospital while spurting blood and going into shock. Women don't have what it takes to be men and why would you want to?
How has feminism benefited the world in any shape or form?
FINALLY, someone said it !!! To fly in the face of modern feminism, AND, its a woman !!! Thanks, Candace
I have done both. I chose to go back to work. Hated being away but wanted my own money, and now I have my own pension. So I can take care of myself.
Being a stay-at-home mom is NOT an easy job. You can't tell your child to F-off when you get pissed😂. But the rewards of that hug are amazing. When you see them succeed it's amazing. Being a working mom is also great. I have been a single working mom, and a married working mom. Wouldn't change any of it
As a woman, I work because I need to pay my bills and not become homeless. I love my job and I am happy.
that’s a blessing most people despise their job
I love my job as a wellness coach too! Still agree with most of what Candace is saying.
And you are a virgin or you are just giving it up for no commitment.
@@TheDemmy22The two aren't related.
You love your job? Yeah, thats easy to type on your keyboard
“We were just cooking” 😂 the way I felt that to my bone
It is a bit more than that lol, I know when I was a stay at home mother I did work my arse off but, there is no way in hell I'd like to have had to do my husbands job as a hgv driver, or when he was a manual worker on a building site, or my sons jobs as bricklayer and a plumber, my dad's job as an office manager. I knew what side my bread was buttered and it really came home to me once my sons were grown a bit and I went to work at a care home, that was some serious graft. She defo oversimplified our job as stay at home mothers
I hate cooking I don't get why they act like all women enjoy that shit. The life of a housewife sounds miserable to me, I'd literally rather kill myself.
And no women were not “just cooking”
Candace spoke relatively. Compared to men? Yes, they were just cooking.
that's historically not true at all though. women have for centuries also done heavy labour, especially from lower social classes, while ALSO cooking and doing all the chores
Listen, my mother regrets not staying at home and spending time with us (she had to work all the time). It affected my sister a lot. A mother staying at home is the best thing that can happen to a child.
Amen!!! ❤ FEAR the LORD! LOVE One Another! Simple! Delay IS Disobedience! Amen!
❤ Jesus Lives ❤
I love cooking and caring for my husband. He in turn takes care of me. It is a marriage. We get no where by breaking families apart.
@@itsmee27 But that's not the case, so she doesn't have to imagine.
@@itsmee27 Agreed
After what I have been through, your husband is lucky man. Staying home mom is the dream wife of every man.
Kids are happier, moms are happier and men are happier when one income can provide for the family. That needs to be fixed first.
Yea that's definitely not going to happen, the economy in he west has completely shifted.
@@JT-km6th I agree.
That’s got to mean every working husband/provider has to suddenly earn double their current salary….dreams
Says who?
@JT-km6th if all women left the workforce, men would get paid more as workers would be in high demand 😅
I agree “free the nipple”, in a practical sense won’t render the outcome we’re searching for it to be. It does gain us some freedom in “social perspective”. It turn what I am taking from what was shown in this clip:
A) we work hard
B)we are going to gain (through evolutionary law) an ability to be better, faster stronger, and more capable than our counter parts.
We are simply going to be able to be almost super human(look at where human skill started to where women’s skills are at now). Almost incredible.
We do need people exactly like you, to bring up topics like this, so we continuously progress. 👏🏼
I had a childhood flashback of being thankful I was a girl so I wouldn’t have to work when I grew up… and then the world changed!
Certainly healthy to know the difference between "legally can" and "morally must."
I was a stay at home for 9 years while my children (4) were small. Can you just imagine the cost of DayCare for (4) children? Pay me for all I did when I was a stay at home. I cooked, cleaned, paid the bills, bought the food, washed the dishes & the laundry, repaired the clothing my children and husband tore or damaged. Vacuumed the floors, changed/made the beds (5 beds) everyday. I set up and made sure to get my children to doctor appointments/after school programs, music lessons, martial art classes, 2nd language classes, cut hair, washed bodies, helped with homework. The list goes on & on & on. So, please explain to me how my choosing to be a stay at home Mom does not have a dollar value.
That has even more value than being a employee at a corporation, ofc people need money, but working for your family is much more meaningful than working for make an employer richer.
Your husband and you blessed each other. He probably could not afford you. This is why couples who make this work are happier than couples who try to buy all of these services and can’t afford them!
We're raising the next generation that will build & run this country! If thats not the most important job, then I don't know what is!
@@laurasimmer9612most teachers are women, so they should not be working? You are only talking about mothers raising kids. And that is not special, it happens every generation, there are 8 billion people in the world and counting
U created that situation so what are u talking about, that was ur choice 🤡
I agree but as a country we've not only tore women and men apart....but the elites have made it so difficult for one income to take care of a family that only the top ten percentage of men can accomplish that. I made 73k two years ago. That was the most i ever made in a calendar year. And my best financial year of my lifetime, isn't even enough to give me, my woman and my child a comfortable life. And that 73k qualifies for the top 30 percent. Then I went into business for myself because I knew it still wasn't good enough. And I lost my ass and ended up at rock bottom. The brutal truth is that if a man can't qualify for the top ten percentage of men in America, and the top 1 percent of men world wide..... you'll never be able to afford a family. And you'll be constantly told you're worthless if you're not in the top ten percentage of men. They've made it damn near impossible. A hard working blue collar man used to be enough. It isn't anymore.
I was a stay at home mother and a proud cupcake making, cookie baking, PTA loving mom! Hillary Clinton could never accomplish 1/10th of what a stay at home mother could. She insulted stay at home moms when Bill was running for his first term. I'll never forget it.
She’s so vile! What was it that she said? I was only 6 or 7 at that time, so I was too young to pay attention to all of it, but now that I’m a stay at home mom I would love to know!
I considered it a privilege to be a SAHM before my husband passed away. Being a single mom was HARD but we made it. Having a great kid doesn’t hurt either ❤️
Thank you for sharing this. You are the type families we should be supporting.
It's not sleep with you for nothing it's sleep with you for half your shit
I do wish Candace Owen would be responsible in explaining the other and arguably most important reasons why people fought for women’s rights. It was a fight for financial security outside of a young woman’s controlling parents, reckless brothers or abusive husbands. The fight was for a woman to have the choice to sign for a house, apply for a loan or marry who she loved and not be poor.
I agree... I think she just simplified it for the discussion's sake. I'm pretty sure she knows those other things came out of modern feminism, but her point is that women now are EXPECTED to do EVERYTHING instead of it being a choice; while men still are only expected to work.
Yes but why shud they devalue traditional woman and indulge in misandry for that???
If I don't want a girl who will fuck with many boys why am j a misogynist?? Peak insecurity, that's all
She is only referring to modern feminism. The things you are referring to are first wave feminism, which she knows was needed. Free the nipple...not necessary
She's referring to modern feminism which has nothing to do with equality. It has everything to do with women superiority.
She is speaking on modern feminism
Well said! Love you Candace for taking the truth to the Nieve thinkers..
Totally agree Candace!
I married my wife because she worked on cars. She married me because I cook. Do whatever you're good at.
Yes I agree 👍
In the words of Jesse Lee Peterson BETAA!
Such an amazing comment couldn’t love this more!!!
Exactly do what you are skilled at and do it well.
Simp
People hate that she speaks the truth
So why is she working 😂😂😂 instead of being at homing rasing her childrens..also do u believe this men was her only men she ever had a 😂 probably not so yeah here u go with the truth
No people hate that she’s trying to force her ideales on every woman. Not every woman wants to be a house wife. I am very happy that I can take care of myself since I am 16 year old. I am very happy that I am able to do the work I want to do. I am very happy that I am able to study medicine to become a doctor one day. if she’s happy being house wife good for her. Does not mean that fits for every women. I am very happy that I can decide for myself what I want and not being financial dependent on someone else.
@inu1879 No one is being "forced" to do anything she says. She makes logical observations to the problems of our society. That's great you want to be independent, just know that the clock is already ticking and you can get to a point where changing your mind about having a family is too late. Kids and marriage isn't for everyone though. So do you.
@@maaly8111 maybe its cause I’ve grew up with many siblings and without a father so I took care of three children during my own childhood. I have enough of cooking and cleaning and raising children its now time to take care of myself.
@@maaly8111 my problem is the generalisation. I mean the things she’s telling here counts for some women or maybe for the women in America but in Germany things are a bit different. Also she’s counting no statistics no sources nothing just cause she is saying this or experienced this in her bubble does not mean its automatically true. Many woman are very happy without children and are in a happy relationships, are happy career woman and there are also unhappy housewifes, unhappy career woman, unhappy relationships or unhappy single. Both exists. And standing there and telling that the modern woman is unhappy cause she can’t be just a housewife anymore is so wrong on so many levels. She can speak for herself when It comes to this but this does not count for every women. I feel insulted by the things shes saying here. She claims I am an unhappy woman cause I don’t want the life she thinks is right for a woman.
Who got this one pregnant!?...smh!..
Every child that has has/had a stay at home mom is 100% better for it.
Oh, not according to modern day women.
The only issue I have with promoting financial dependency on a man and being a housewife as the best way to live is that it's only true if you get a good man as your husband.
If you find out your husband is abusive, or if he decides to leave you years later. You will be absolutely screwed
true. but it's important to marry the right person and to really know them before tying the knot. a lot of people are pressured into signing the papers before they're mateur enough
Then it's better to ban marriage and having kids. Since women aren't ready to take risks
@@user-te2ef2jc6d did you even stop to think about my argument before you reacted emotionally to it?
It's a simple fact that being a housewife means you are not making your own income or gaining job experience. So if things go south and the relationship is not working, you won't have money to be able to leave, and you won't have the job experience needed to get a good job to pay your bills.
That's a huge risk to take. You are literally risking having to choose to live with an abuser or be homeless if the marriage fails.
The catch here is that when the single mothers culture exploded due to modernism, the next generation of husbands was very low quality. No more traditional women, no more traditional men either.
Thank you. Candace is an idiot who wants to take us women back to the 1930's where we had no choices
Decide that you'll bang just about anybody, that you'll split the bill 50/50, and you don't need a relationship involved... you'll attract scum and by the time you wake up you'll wonder where the good guys are. They saw you and kept on walking.
I'm a straight and God fearing man that couldn't agree more
So true. Many young girls are growing up like this and it’s so sad.
That's so true. Sad thing is many are meant to feel worthless unless they work. I was told one time I had no right to voice my opinion since I wasn't working. I had four children to care for and originally was told he didn't want me to work because he made more than enough to support the family. But then his friends started asking him why I wasn't contributing to the income. So he decided I needed to work to contribute. I didn't have a problem with that if that was needed and what he wanted, but I still was expected to be a full time mom and house wife without any help.
He never to the time to go to parent teacher conferences, school plays, baseball, soccer and karate practices nor tournaments. I take that back, he went to one nationals tournament and a couple baseball games. But he didn't help out with household chores or anything I was falling behind on . I did it myself. But then he'd get me mad because I needed to bring home work I couldn't finish because I needed to take care of all those things including all the house work. I'd finish at midnight or later and still have to get up and make lunches and get the kids up and off to school. Not to mention wifey duties or be told I was being cold and not considering his needs nightly. Thank God I rarely had a problem there. But it did make ruff getting up some mornings.
I would have preferred to stay home with the kids and be a mom and house wife so I'd have more time for my husband. But nope society said I had to pretend to be feminist so my husband wouldn't get harassed for having a lazy wife that expected him to bring home the money.
I agree excet the bill splitting. We work now. It's not fait if he has to oay and we can become rich on his money. Being a nice woman isn't hurting. A lot of man i know go only on 1 date if the woman doesn't want to share the bill, but did order the most expecive food. Man like to feel the marriage is going to be equal. Just like wkman want men to take care of the household too now. If both work, both pay and both take care of the house.
@@marcelleorton95society isn't the problem here. Your husband is... if he was proud about you and feels secure in your marriage, he would have stand up against them and defended you. He sounds like a really bad husband that just takes advantage of you. Good thing you work and have your own money! Now get out of that marriage!
Summed up nicely Candace, Thank you
I agree 50% with what she says... Cause sadly most men now days do NOT know how to be a MAN or don't want any responsibilities.... WHAT HAPPENED?
I agree with your statement.
Women lost their value n we r not willing to waste out time energy n money investing in wat women r today..it's that simple
Dads not being in the picture to teach young boys the stuff they need. Perhaps not the only factor but certainly a big one
@@kimberlyrawls8618 why did you expect when you tell men "I don't need no man! Men ain't shit, I'm an independent woman!" We'll take you seriously of course. Not to mention men can be slandered abd shamed for the simplest of things and have their lives ruined. You dug your own graves now yall will lie in it
@@frozone1973 I don't think like that and the women I choose to associate myself with don't either. This doesn't apply to all men, it is a general statement of how today more men than not choose not to take responsibility. It is from a woman's perspective. We all see things differently. If the shoe doesn't fit, don't put it on.
There is no reason to stay home if you don’t want to. I am not a cook, laundromat, housekeeper or daycare provider. I stayed home until my son was in 1st grade. I worked 9am-2pm M-F and once he was in high school I worked full time. I didn’t feel fulfilled staying home. I felt underwhelmed, unappreciated and my professional tech skills started to become irrelevant as information technologies were expanding at great speed. If you aren’t happy then your children won’t be happy! 😊
Keep it up, Candace. Thanks to people like you, we are winning.
What are you winning?
@@rubenhernandez2623 It seems that more and more women are slowly realizing that most of what feminism stands for is a lie. I've seen many videos and blog posts (from men and women) that give me hope that the idea of the traditional woman is slowly re-emerging. Gives me hope, because we, as a species, can't survive this extremely low marriage/birthrate.
Winning what?
@@johnreber4136 Keep ‘em barefoot and pregnant huh John? Come into the 21 Century dude!
@@Paine-yr9wd Not at all. I'm all for a well-rounded, educated woman. I just wouldn't want her after thousands of guys have seen her naked on the internet or if I'm number 75 on the list of men she has slept with. The statistics are pretty clear- the divorce rate is MUCH higher when women have such an extensive history...and they are overwhelmingly the ones who end the relationship. I'd much rather have a woman who respects me and her future children, but hey, you do you.
I was raised with my brother and sister by my mother on Kodiak Island. We all lost him one night in a plane crash. My mom is and was the rock we needed and I miss her now.
What a screwed up world we live in!
Candice is working but she is telling other women not to😂...
No shes not... Did you listen at all ? She's saying WORK dont wh0re yourself.
Because that's basically impossible now. She's doing this because she has to work. If she didn't have to, she wouldn't be an influencer. There's this thing called money.
Do you consider a speaking engagement, WORK? It's maybe an hour of her time, 2 hours if there's a Q&A. And these are probably 1 a week; maybe 2 at best. I suspect she's probably, AT HOME, about 50-75% of the time.
she’s her own boss she isn’t a corporate slave
@@UrbanMattswell so are onlyfans girls what’s your point’ 😂
For reals, I do NOT want to be a man or have a man's job or responsibility.
That's not feminism, candice. Just because they say they're a feminist doesn't mean they even know what it means. Or you for that matter
How nice that she knows everything. I hate cooking, cleaning. I'd rather work. We've always been like that.
My teenage daughter and I have talked about the reverse psychology that has been going on for decades with women, and truthfully, it is giving men what they want.
Um.. care to explain?
@opeyemisaibu9486 Hugh Hefner pushed for a sexual revolution for women. It was pushed in a way to convey, a woman sleeping around or posing for his magazine was powerful. Ironically, the Playboy Bunnies and his "girlfriends" actually had strict rules to live by. If you tell a woman she's powerful if she gets naked, she's not really getting naked for her, it's for him. It's a game of talking women into giving men what they want yet making the women feel like it was their idea or somehow makes them stronger.
I watched an interview with a porn star who said after a taping of her as a prison guard being r@p-d by "inmates" she had to take some time off. She talked about how it really messed with her mentally. It didn't matter that she was in control of the situation. She learned the hard way that everything she was told she would gain (for the pleasure of men) was a lie.
@@Seos_ink The unsaid message to the daughter is that modern feminism has paved the way for morally degenerate men to be able to get all the p*ssy they want from the women that have been "liberated..." And telling her to not be fooled, that there are plenty of men(and boys tbh) who will take full advantage. I told my daughters to use their good looks to attract quality men- don't give themselves to somebody who will not value them for who they are.
100% men wanted so that only 10 of men lived in reality full of thirsty women?
Well porn used to be a dirty thing. Now girls literally can't wait to. Jump on someone's dick if they will make bank on OF or another platform.
I'm not saying sex workers should be shamed but there is a stigma around that and you can't wait to join it now......
Congrats a whole generation of women complaining that they get treated like meat or an object but you are legit training men to treat you that way.
Most women have always had to work. They were not 'cooking' all day. they were working in factories, etc.
It's not like they will listen but tell them anyway. They have never heard of the working classes. In these classes, traditionally it was not only women who also worked but the children also worked in the mines or swept chimneys at age 7.
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@@the8thchurch461tf you talking about. Intact families should teach children more than the school, have them work at your family business ideally not some gd factory.
@@tomare6479 So you think those poor working class 7 year old kids most of whom died up the chimneys while cleaning them, were doing so at the behest of the family to train them to acquire life skills in the family businesses? Smh
She should ask her old boss who fought for feminism. They're real proud of it.
I had a career in real estate but decided to become a stay at home mom. Many people looked down on me because I gave up my career and they acted like I did something wrong. Many others thought I was looking down at working moms because they didn’t stay home with their kids. It’s crazy how people take it so personal. My kids are mostly grown now and now I help watch my grandchildren instead of going back to work. It’s takes a village to raise kids.
How do you pay your bills though?
@@calitexconnect713 I’m married
Lazy woman who will regret not being self sufficient.
@@calitexconnect713🤦♀️ pay attention
I used to be a workaholic until I met my now husband and fell madly in love; suddenly there was something in my life more important than work. I realized that I was never an eager workaholic, I worked my ass off bc I was chasing the feeling of making my parents proud. I quit my job and had a baby, and realized my mom will always be proud of me and my father is dead, why do I need to make him proud? But my sisters/cousins (the women, of course) couldn't believe I would "submit myself" to a man and become a SAHM. It was really hard on me emotionally, but I am so happy I ignored them. I've realized now, that it was jealousy, covered in their personal insecurities. My dad provided for my mom and all 6 of his children until he died and left a 36 y/o woman widowed. She worked hee ass off to give us every opportunity in the world, so we could have a choice at a better life and this is what a better life is for me. I'm sorry it hurts them to see that whole they are divorced and working, I get to be home in a happy marriage. But that is not for me to deal with. You're not alone Momma! We're all here, happily suffering through it all, together, in our hearts 💕
Speak the truth like the woman you are, actually lady you are a lady and these women need to get a clue. Hopefully they’re listening.
More than one unicorn in the forrest.😊
When you say "they"
They are not listening, otherwise they wouldn't be in the position that they are in now, and that position would be, simply put, confusion.
Modern feminists are children that have never been told, "no."
The "woman she is", is a working woman, who is on that stage working, as she's hypocritically arguing for women not to work and stay home.
“I like cooking”! 😂❤
With all respect and no creepiness I love this woman. Much love and respect
Save your body for someone who loves you.
If you don't give your body to that someone as per their wish they can threathen to leave you so basically they are in there for your body nothing else
@@nissigeorge7720Then let them leave.
@@mrbruce3202 Agree.
@@nissigeorge7720if a man ,speaking from a man’s view point, because I’m a man. If a man threatens to leave you if you don’t give him your body, then let the bastard roll away. Ladies need to have more respect for themselves, because this stuff a lot of them are doing on social media, you are destroying yourselves, and a good, working man will not have that
@@johnbingham9937 social media a woman has a choice but you say let that man go well that is practically all conservative so called decent ones that say the same thing save yourself for marriage they think cover up and a woman should open up to them after marriage and have sex with them as and when they want after marriage or will kick her out yeah so much for love . No one owes their body to anyone else
Facts! We can’t have it all. And if we do… something we’re doing is suffering because of it.
Yeah, our babies. That's who's suffering.
Truth 💯
@@julieoelker1865 You lot don't actually give a crap about kids. Stop lying.
Top 10 least educated states ...
West Virginia 22.40
Mississippi 25.64
Louisiana 27.36
Arkansas 30.87
Alabama 34.46
Oklahoma 35.32
Nevada 35.70
Kentucky 35.70
New Mexico 36.99
Texas 40.14
Top 10 firearm mortality rates...
Mississippi 33.9
Louisiana 29.1
New Mexico 27.8
Alabama 26.4
Wyoming 26.1
Alaska 25.2
Montana 25.1
Arkansas 23.3
Missouri 23.2
Tennessee 22.8
Top 10 homicide rates...
Mississippi 23.7
Louisiana 21.3
Alabama 15.9
New Mexico 15.3
South Carolina 13.4
Missouri 12.4
Illinois 12.3
Maryland 12.2
Tennessee 12.2
Arkansas 11.7
Top 10 infant mortality rates...
Mississippi 9.39
Arkansas 8.59
Alabama 7.56
Alaska 7.37
South Carolina 7.26
Louisiana 7.24
Oklahoma 7.13
Ohio 7.06
West Virginia 6.8
Indiana 6.75
Top 10 child poverty rates...
Mississippi 27.57%
Louisiana 26.34%
New Mexico 25.56%
West Virginia 23.13%
Alabama 22.74%
Kentucky 22.16%
Arkansas 22%
South Carolina 21.2%
Tennessee 20.83%
Oklahoma 20.73%
@@julieoelker1865and the woman.
Exactly. Our marriages and kids are suffering, and so are our souls.
When equality becomes superiority, the whole empowerment message gets muddled. Especially when women that disagree are castaway. Respect yourself and others ladies 🙏🏽
and when faced with common sense, these modern women will revolt
We can't afford to be housewives in this economy. We're not unhappy because of feminism. We're unhappy because of inflation.
My folks live in the highest taxed part of the country on one income. Always have. The problem isn't inflation. It's american consumers that think they need all this materialism. A single income household is 100% viable when you're being minimalist/rational with your spending. There's nothing wrong with slumming it with your partner until there's enough saved to splurge. My uncle just moved over here from our home country (third world) with pennies a year ago. He now has a gf with a daughter that has her own room in their 2 bedroom apartment in NYC. He pays for everything, yet still lives comfortably. If modern relationships were more about love and spending time together than it was about money, the dating game wouldn't be as atrocious as it is now.
@@kayb2930bingo.
Feminism is the main reason for the inflation
@@kayb2930bingo.
You can’t afford it because you want the latest iPhone.
Women didn’t want to have to work we needed to so we could have autonomy over ourselves and stop being treated like subordinates and being subject to abuse.
I’m loving the comment section. Thank you ladies for your honesty. It’s so refreshing to see all the woman say they love being home and taking care of their kids and husband. My mom, a philosophy degree holder, decided to turn down jobs in order to take care of us five kids and her husband and ran the home and I’m so glad she did. It made us the people we are today. Love to all the house moms ♥️♥️♥️
I love Candace your so on point. Keep bringing the issues up and being a bad ass woman.
The irony being, Feminism is what gave her that microphone to begin with.
Exactly, some women who are reaping the very benefits of having a choice ( feminism ) talk down on women who made different choices than them. Ask Candace why is she not sitting at home quiet cooking for her husband rn ?
@@sagrikaaggarwal4582she stands for feminism but the women she calling out have double standards
It's more about modern day feminism. It used to be about equality. Since women have that now, they need other things to bitch about.
Feminism achieved equality and should have stopped there but it hasn't
No, feminism didn't give anyone the microphone. All technologies are created, predominately by men and then it is used in the current society. If it wasn't a microphone it would be a bull horn or a loud yell. As for feminism, women have been very strong throughout history, it is only recently that the 'feminist movement' has decided that women are victims and need to remove/reject men. Happily most women are getting fed up with these special people and getting back to the business of wife, mother and homemaker.
In real life, most women, even married ones, can't stay at home cooking and one man support a household. And some women don't want to spend their time cooking ( and cleaning). Candace might love cooking from time to time but she has nannies and probably cleaners so she doesn't have to do washing up. She's a luxury housewife. There is something in-between this and only fans.
Most guys don’t want to work but we as men don’t get that choice.
@@Garett.1214 There is such a thing as 'real life' that these podcasts tend to overlook!
@@rachelmahon9149 What do you call real life?
@@Garett.1214 whatever ones story is: The situation of right now. Podcasts are always telling people how to live. We all have different tastes, qualities, capacities, health, relationships and experiences.... Nobody can tell anyone how they should live their life. Also, most importantly, everything will change and we will have to adapt to life's wheel of fortune!!
@@rachelmahon9149 Look I know you don't think there are these things called rules. Most women don't. So I don't expect you to understand. The people that men should listen to the most have likely lived a hard life and have gone through many obstacles to be successful. Therefore have general rules to avoid pitfalls. Men usually do not listen to a gender who generally lives life on easy mode. You can follow whomever you like. A man will still rescue you in the end.
I love the way you speak. Thank you.
I’ve never enjoyed listening to another person speak so much in my life ❤️
As my grandmother used to say, 'stacking shelves 40 hours a week is not a career, it's slavery'.
Un trabajo remunerado es para dar Gracias 😊 si tienes tiempo para quejarte, aprovéchalo en MEJORAR tu desempeño y obtener un mejor puesto 😊
But slaves don't get a paycheck and can't quit
@@janeatkinsonvivacristorey3622 Esclavos?? En serio?? Estamos en el año 2023, la esclavitud fue abolida hace siglos y la segregación hace décadas 🤔 en qué mundo vives?? 🤣
@@mariakurosaki6812Please learn some English
As a shelf-stacker, no, it isn't. I get my wages, I get health insurance, I get paid vacation, I even get a nice retirement plan. And I get opportunities. I could move up into management, I could move on, I could go lateral to different departments, or move to part-time or take light duty. It's all up to me.
The point of feminism is having a choice. In job, SAH, voting, pregnancy etc. Rights like men have. Feminism isnt about having to be a man, its about having the same rights as men. Having human rights.
If you want the rights men have, then you should have the obligations that men have 🤷♂️
@@diogopereira1475 I wouldnt know obligations that woman dont have that men do. Can you name a few?
@@BlackBird447men have obligations to provide and protect, how about men start owning half your shit in a divorce? How about they start working their asses off in dangerous hard labor to provide for their family? how about they start jumping in the line of fire whenever they encounter a dangerous situation? Theres a housefire, you go ahead and save the man over yourself, Youre walking down the street at night with a guy and then a group of guys decide to try mug him, go on fight those guys off yourself and let the man run to look for help 😂 how about no more priority for women's safety over a man? We're in a sinking ship, you save us men first before women, theres a hostage situation, then no more "at least let the women and children go" 😂 if some dangerous animal attacks, you go ahead and jump in front of a man protecting him as you get mauled by it
I think we can agree that the men should protect women in every situation, the men must provide safety and stability and theyre the first lives to be thrown into the grinder incase of danger, if theres a real serious war, its men that are drafted into it by the government and forget about women being put on the frontlines, men are the first line of defense of the human species and our lives are expendable compared to a woman's life
men have the obligation to suffer first before a woman does, you want exactly equal rights a man has? Get out from under their wing (which you cant as its natural order of things and theres nothing wrong with that, but just dont come and pick the "good things" about a man's live and ignore the bad things as if its a self served buffet)
@@BlackBird447 maintaining the society critical infrastructure. Dying first at Titanic. Being annihilated by artillery in trenches. Be responsible for humanity
In short, there "she JUST a woman" "he IS a man", for demonstration for you
It used to be that, modern feminism isn’t about equality of opportunity but equality of outcome.
Im a 66 yr old woman & i can tell u when u wake up one morning and are faced with the fact that ur two kids are now adults & ur husband of many many many years is now dead, its a feeling I can't describe. U have given your entire life to others & now they are gone. Dating is miserable & u feel an undesirable loss
When I say a woman is happier and more fulfilled as a stay at home mom I called misogynistic. That’s wild. It’s almost like Ik wtf I’m talking about
As a stay at home mom, it is the most rewarding and fulfilling jobs you can have. Sadly, I have been told more often by women that I need to put my kids in daycare or get a nanny so I can get a “real job” because I shouldn’t let having a family “tie me down”. Todays women’s have the misconception that stay at home moms sit at home and do absolutely nothing. I not only cook, clean, and keep things organized, but I get to raise and teach my children. I think society cast a huge shadow on children as well trying to make them think that they are bad for wanting to have their parents around. My brother and his fiancé have both tried to tell my sons that he needs to “let mommy go you don’t need to be around her all the time.” And “you can go places without mommy and daddy you know, we can hang out together without them.” My boys are very exploitative and wanting to do things themselves. When it comes to people trying to get them alone without one of their parents around and they say they don’t like it than I’m bad. Like wtf? Also made snide remarks about if my sons need comfort after getting hurt that I’m spoiling him and teaching him to depend on me. Yeah that’s the point, my 3 year old and 1 year old should be able to depend on their mother to be there 😂 anyhoo I know I’m just venting now but the point is that the stay at home moms and working dads has been very under appreciated, judged, and very misunderstood.
For a second there I thought you were talking about teenagers lol. Why are people telling you that a 3 and 1 year old shouldn’t depend on you? And why exactly do they need to be with you sons without you or dad around? Sound crazy to me. I personally think it’s amazing to be able to stay at home and take care of your kids. Well done.
Ignore the idiots! They will have monster children 😂
Fight for your FAMILY UNIT!!
Because that’s what is being attacked and destroyed.
Family Unit and Family Values
We need this more than ever
Feminism is against the family unit just deal with women that are willing to be there for the family.
I agree but also one of the leading reasons why women don’t leave in abusive relationships is financial independence. Economic insecurity marginalizes women, increasing their risk of victimization.
Violence can keep women in conditions of poverty and economic dependence, and a lack of access to resources can limit women's choices and keep women from leaving abusive situations. So women who are stay at home moms in this situation are stuck because they risk becoming in poverty if they leave the abusive situation, so they have no other choice but to stay with there abuser. How tragic…
This woman just brings all women down. Don't listen to this complete embarrassment to women.
She is careful to qualify "Modern Feminism " as opposed to traditional "Feminism ". That is appropriate.
Who knew common sense wouldn’t be so common 🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️
Women never had it, social media, let them expose themselves for who they really are.
I learned in my ap history class
That one of the main events that formed feminism
Was after the war pre and post prohibition
Men was spending all the money at the bars and clubs
Leaving the women destitute and having to
Work themselves to provide for the family
That was the one of the main reasons women worked
And after learning that
It changes a lot when it comes to perspective
Everyone is different I won’t deny that
But it’s crazy how the feminist movement started bc of the care women had for their families and their future
Not necessarily always themselves
Not to mention the large businesses that were campaigning for feminism to convince more women to work in the workplace so the workforce is doubled and labor costs can be cut in half🤷♂️
I mean it worked… the jobs with women and men usually pay less than stem fields that women didn’t go into because of restrictions until 1964 then companies later started practically begging women to work these stem jobs that were either more time consuming or physically demanding to the point that affirmative action was made and women still choose not to work these fields a majority of the time and these fields make huge money because the workforce is almost the same as it was pre feminism.
@@Popcornkernal29BINGO
But now it’s more people you can be taxed in the household . Could have 1 man 1 wife and 3 daughters . And that man’s income back then would take care of them and himself
I grew up in the 70's. As a young girl Most of my friends Moms were stay at home. Mine was not. Mom worked in Banks as a the secretary to the manager. Later in life she told me though she Love my Dad she ONLY married him because she ALWAYS wanted to own a house. Although women could Legally buy a house in 74' Most the Majority of banks would decline the loan. Then in 81 the Real estate act made it so that banks just couldn't decline a loan based on being a woman. The bank has to look into your account and job status. The Feminist back in the day had something to fight for nowadays feminist are just Crazy Brats that want their way like 2 year children. But don't realize all they have. Especially the ones that have RUclips channels spouting their crazy nonsense. But of the woman before them is way they can have RUclips channels as jobs or self employment. Consenting women COULDN'T own a business until the mid to late 80's.
Stop acting like it was most men spending their money in bars instead of on their family and leaving them to go without. This is a blatant LIE. Yea there's ALWAYS going to be an issue with addiction but it was NOTHING compared to the level of addiction we have today. And the majority were FUNCTIONING addicts. Meaning that they worked and still provided. Back then if a man was drinking the family's money he would be PUBLICLY HUMILIATED. He would also have been ostracized by the other men and even faced public whippings and worse. You think the community just ignored it. My grandfather had his wages given DIRECTLY to his wife after he got sh!t faced ONCE after work and spent the money in the pub and on a tortoise and a panther cub for his kids yea you could buy ANYTHING in the pub. 😂 For 25 YEARS AFTER all his wages went to his wife. She had to go pick them up on Fridays 😂 I don't think you remotely understand what it was actually like. 😂 Back then you were SHAMED into doing the right thing or you were forced out of the community. Alone. The wife and children would stay and be cared for by their family and friends and even the local lord's would step in and hire the woman to be a nanny or a housekeeper. The church would house feed and clothe them. They were NEVER left with nothing. And it's stupid ignorant and straight up uneducated to act like it was a huge issue when it OBVIOUSLY wasn't. It was milked and overinflated by dumbasses who just wanted to ban alcohol but that was propaganda. Not an actual issue. 🤡☠️🤦♀️🤷♀️🤣
And it emasculates men. What was my ex-wife’s first response when she would hear something and think someone was coming into our house at night? It was to kick me and tell me to get up and go look….
She was happy to have me there for that but if I ever wanted to drive or do anything else God forbid I was so misogynistic !
So wonderful! Her mind is pristine.
There is absolutely NOTHING feminine about modern feminism. Nothing. I love being a woman, always have. I love my husband, always have. We both love God and love our family. And we both help each other make our days and nights better.
Not everyone works a 9-5. Not everyone hates their job. Sometimes there's more to job than only working, sometimes a nice job gives you a sense of accomplishment, sense of self worth and respect, sense of belonging, for some people their jobs are vocation. And they love it and they also love their families. And their families are proud of them.
Why should everything be black and white?
This is a rarity though as the divorce rates are so high now a days. And exactly u pointed out where ppl use jobs as a vacation because they are unhappy with what’s going on in their home. It’s not black and white, because there are many reasons why marriages are failing, modesty isn’t popular and women looking down on other women for wanting to be stay at home mothers.
Especially when that man can kick you out for refusing sex once or twice in a row after so called marriage , married men expect their wives to be naked when they want or tell them to get out I am not for modern feminism but traditional feminism also how is that not legal prostitution
thankyouuuuuu
@@Bekig5953 I NEVER said people use work for a vacation (I said vOcation, read it again). I pointed out exactly the opposite - they are happy both at work and at home and they need both things in order to be content (nothing wrong woth that). Divorce rates are highest now because divorce is now legal and socially acceptable and people who don't have happy family life opt for divorce rather than killing their partner.
You don’t realize she herself is pregnant and has a full time job a career. That’s not what she’s contesting it’s this latest wave of feminism that’s toxic and demoralizing and full of loneliness narcissism and lies.
She is absolutely a breath of fresh air.
I have been saying this for decades, I never had a choice not to work. I am happy that i learned so much but does this really matter when i am dead. Family is forever .
Candace should contribute by giving up her career and staying home Cooking and cleaning
It's her choice who are u to decide??
Why? She has a voice, a very popular voice, and it's not like she's away from home MORE than she is, AT HOME. Speaking engagements are 1 or maybe 2 a week. It's probably an hour long, maybe 2 hours with a question-and-answer setting. The plane flight ✈️ probably takes longer. Plus, as a popular speaker, I'm sure it's lucrative. Pays for all the children she has, and is about to "pop out". My guess is she's home/away 50/50, or "at home", MORE than she is, away.
@@thenoobinvestor6930 women are supposed to be home cooking and cleaning right? Isn't that what this entire movement is about? Why would Candace Owens be exempt from that?
@@benjaminreyes3624 u have poor comprehension.
@@benjaminreyes3624 and change your misogynistic mentality