The WINNER EFFECT: How To Improve Your Communication Skills & Get Your Friends To Be More Social!

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  • Опубликовано: 24 янв 2025

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  • @JulienHimself
    @JulienHimself  3 года назад +3

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  • @OwenCookSelfHelp
    @OwenCookSelfHelp 5 лет назад +215

    Thanks so much guys. And yes, RIP to my hero Kobe Bryant. -Tyler

    • @jude_210
      @jude_210 5 лет назад +8

      from one king to another

    • @bodhitreesocial
      @bodhitreesocial 5 лет назад +1

      Tyler 😢

    • @jayjones9225
      @jayjones9225 5 лет назад

      Well said brother. Really appreciate how you bring up Kobe’s leadership and striving for greatness. Even when we can critique it, will always appreciate it and his presence as a mentor to the league’s young players

    • @HolisticHealthWithHarry
      @HolisticHealthWithHarry 5 лет назад

      Check out the simpsons kobe bryant crash on youtube. He might be still alive!

    • @HolisticHealthWithHarry
      @HolisticHealthWithHarry 5 лет назад

      ruclips.net/video/gSnCYMzG6a4/видео.html

  • @harryjezreel1653
    @harryjezreel1653 5 лет назад +221

    When Tyler started talking about him being a Kobe fan i felt that. This was probably shot before he died. Rip Kobe💔

    • @arabianeyes
      @arabianeyes 5 лет назад +12

      Harry Katebe enough with this kobe, million innocents die everyday

    • @Ty-at-random
      @Ty-at-random 5 лет назад +21

      Adnan Atieh Jesus fucking Christ there’s always fucking somebody wtf is wrong with you man?

    • @fredpierce9610
      @fredpierce9610 5 лет назад +11

      Adnan Atieh you need rsd more than anyone

    • @zepps88
      @zepps88 5 лет назад +8

      @@arabianeyes Man, you're dark. Hope you learn how to love yourself someday. Kobe was on everyone's TV for 20 years. That's a lot of time to get to know someone. Just because you don't watch basketball doesn't give you the right to tell others how to feel.

    • @JesusHComedy
      @JesusHComedy 5 лет назад +1

      I actually feel Adnan Atieh is the most high vibrational in this comment section. But maybe that’s cause the light is always strongest in the dark for me

  • @nickbaldwin6675
    @nickbaldwin6675 5 лет назад +80

    "This is my uncle, we take showers together".
    Old school Julien self amusement. I love it! 🙌🏼😁 Keep on mixing the old and the new.

    • @DaeDaeTV
      @DaeDaeTV 5 лет назад +2

      Nick Baldwin Now he’s married……

    • @nickbaldwin6675
      @nickbaldwin6675 5 лет назад +5

      DaeDae
      So? What's that have to do with anything?

    • @DaeDaeTV
      @DaeDaeTV 5 лет назад +6

      Nick Baldwin sorry I’m swimming in low vibration energy, enjoy the rest of ur day kind sir.

    • @modsmalls4222
      @modsmalls4222 5 лет назад +12

      Old school Julian merging sets is legendary

  • @npi8612
    @npi8612 5 лет назад +29

    Idk but Julien really changed my life; changed my whole perspective and never been happier

  • @Gathxd
    @Gathxd 5 лет назад +96

    I'm so sorry about Kobe, Owen. We all remember you would always speak about him with such admiration in your videos. May he rest in peace

  • @davidtolle9533
    @davidtolle9533 5 лет назад +11

    Last night I was fed up with being stifled all the time in social situations and made a committment to improve my social skills. This morning this pops up. Thanks Julien! Looks like we're...connected ;)

  • @DougieForlano
    @DougieForlano 5 лет назад +57

    Rip KOBE love Owen pulls the best lessons from him. Who wants to see him do a video about Kobe hist traits and legacy ??!!

    • @modsmalls4222
      @modsmalls4222 5 лет назад

      Dougie Forlano Yooo this would be fire

    • @alexanderstevens145
      @alexanderstevens145 5 лет назад +1

      He was a freemason and they ended up killing him

    • @hardstyle3196
      @hardstyle3196 5 лет назад

      Lol hes just gonna be like "tHaTs LoW vIbRaTiOn" 😂

    • @HolisticHealthWithHarry
      @HolisticHealthWithHarry 5 лет назад

      Might not be dead bro ruclips.net/video/gSnCYMzG6a4/видео.html

  • @Paxman071
    @Paxman071 5 лет назад +7

    First 3 minutes talking about over analyzing myself in convo is pretty damn accurate for me. Only thing is that instead of over analyzing by accident I would do it on purpose thinking that the more I analyzed every little nuance the more I could learn and implement some sort of bullshit strategy. Took me forever to realize this only takes you super into your head and suffocates your inherent ability to interact with your environment and speak naturally which is what I believe communication has to be.

  • @infinitedurr
    @infinitedurr 5 лет назад +9

    Holy Fuck, I just had an epiphany: Shit tests are people actively trying to switch off your winner effect to see if you’re really a winner or not. Simple as that

  • @ashfaquehoque
    @ashfaquehoque 5 лет назад +70

    Tyler always mentioned in his videos that he is a giant Kobe fan! I wonder how he is coping up with the loss of Mamba! R.I.P Kobe Bryant!

  • @om6789gg
    @om6789gg 11 месяцев назад +1

    Love these guys

  • @peeteri95
    @peeteri95 5 лет назад +19

    1. Joke around and get to high vibration vibes
    2. No judgment about what's good to say or not with yourself and others!
    3. Play the cards of others for them with good intentions
    4. Release your trauma

  • @spthegoat2801
    @spthegoat2801 5 лет назад +5

    Thanks for all the free content guys. I just started a new job. Making much better money now. Personal development baby! You guys played a roll in that. So thank you very much. Im going to come to something soon.

  • @renegadezen7841
    @renegadezen7841 5 лет назад +2

    Tyler, Julien, Derek, Todd and Max for me are the big 5 that i have resonated with the most and your guys' content has truly changed my life. Thank you for all of this amazing free content!!

  • @KarismaKing
    @KarismaKing 5 лет назад +37

    How rsd teaches game on the low. Love it guys!!

  • @franciscomns5622
    @franciscomns5622 5 лет назад +5

    Wow omg the drunk personality that we build when we go out sociales really really hit me, thanks for that!
    I will dive into it and start going out without drinking I know it’s gonna be hard at firsts but it’s needed

    • @emilyearl1858
      @emilyearl1858 2 года назад +1

      I hope you stuck with your statement! Quitting alcohol improved my life 10x

  • @91kaupo
    @91kaupo 5 лет назад +40

    RIP KOBE

  • @JulienHimself
    @JulienHimself  5 лет назад +1

    Follow me on INSTAGRAM: instagram.com/julienhimself

  • @Archaic-Media
    @Archaic-Media 5 лет назад +30

    “I killed a cat”
    I remember your old skool material 😂

    • @ryodash
      @ryodash 5 лет назад +5

      It was by the side of the road you know...

    • @Archaic-Media
      @Archaic-Media 5 лет назад +13

      It was badly injured I had to put it out of its misery & so I took it in my hands & TWISTEDTHATNECK! 🤣

    • @nickbaldwin6675
      @nickbaldwin6675 5 лет назад +4

      Miss that old school Infield 😢

    • @davidtolle9533
      @davidtolle9533 3 года назад

      @@nickbaldwin6675 😿

  • @adambailey3257
    @adambailey3257 5 лет назад +1

    Once again you guys have smashed the nail on the head......

  • @UkraineYamaha
    @UkraineYamaha 5 лет назад +1

    Best video ever. I have been to TM in Zurich with Julien. Was one of the best days of my life. Recommend it to everyone. Thanks Julien for such an amazing masterpiece you delivered. Remembering all the amazing exercises we did there. So sick😎 Hope we will see each other again one time.

  • @sergiong7523
    @sergiong7523 5 лет назад +2

    This is an awesome video, thanks Tyler, put more videos about the winner effect! 💯👍🏻

  • @CharismaMastery
    @CharismaMastery 5 лет назад +21

    The Kombucha Effect

  • @DjTic64
    @DjTic64 4 года назад

    The ton of value in this video is speechless. Thanks guys 🙏

  • @spol
    @spol 5 лет назад +1

    Rest easy Kobe. Owen I know you were ripped up by the news probably even more than me. Love you man and thanks for everything.

  • @T-Jin
    @T-Jin 5 лет назад +3

    Man o man, rip Kobe! Great video Tyler & Julien! Love ya guys!

  • @IronsMedical
    @IronsMedical 5 лет назад +3

    I've been the sidekick several times when wingmanning. I get such a small success rate. Then I'll drop that person from my life and just explode with success. I'm too selfless( or scared) when out with another person.

  • @SHTennis89
    @SHTennis89 5 лет назад +8

    I’ve been that “only himself when drunk” guy for years. I’m now 30 and really working on taking down those walls of insecurity. Any advice from anyone who’s been through the same is much appreciated 🙏🏼

    • @ryansizemore5064
      @ryansizemore5064 5 лет назад +3

      I think I've decided to start being more friendly when dealing with ordinary transactions just to work on speaking in situations that dont affect my day in day out relationships when I mess it up.

    • @SHTennis89
      @SHTennis89 5 лет назад

      Ryan Sizemore same, building that habit is powerful

    • @BraveAbandon
      @BraveAbandon Год назад +2

      Safety is a feeling, with no basis in reality, since you cant predict what will happen in the next moment. You can choose and practice building the feeling of safety, certainty and confidence inside of yourself, by the power of repetition, visualizing and feeling how you want to feel. In a week you will start noticing the difference, in a month it will come frequently and naturally, in 3 months it will be a permanent part of who you are.
      Its just a decision.
      Wanting the approval of others is a desire for love and safety. Give them to yourself, and you become an independent, happy, free, secure, powerhouse.

  • @allesgutnatur
    @allesgutnatur 5 лет назад +1

    Great job. Keep putting out free content it will pay out. Once i make money ill go to every seminar. And by putting out free you give us thw opportunity to make thw money for the coachings. Much love. Youre doin great

  • @camillenia3886
    @camillenia3886 4 года назад +1

    GOD loves you all. GOD bless you all. Have a blessed day everyone.

  • @chrisdonahue6806
    @chrisdonahue6806 5 лет назад +1

    🔥🔥🔥 highly recommend TM Mentoring!

  • @aaronthomas2598
    @aaronthomas2598 5 лет назад

    First 5 minutes and the vibe, advice, and presentation is on fucking point.
    Well done gentlemen!

  • @alejandromartinez9959
    @alejandromartinez9959 5 лет назад

    Fantastic video Julien, thank you so much! Love you man

  • @Pohema.
    @Pohema. 5 лет назад

    Spitting gold here!

  • @steffenolsen2390
    @steffenolsen2390 5 лет назад

    I love you guys! Thank you for making this a better world!

  • @cameronborthwick9459
    @cameronborthwick9459 5 лет назад

    RSD IS killing it rn, great vid man

  • @aleksandrastockhold2131
    @aleksandrastockhold2131 3 года назад

    Yep!

  • @mr.maliciousx4759
    @mr.maliciousx4759 5 лет назад

    Great video as always, thanks Julien!

  • @inspiratory4335
    @inspiratory4335 5 лет назад +1

    Great vid as always thx 🙏

  • @قناتك-ق4ح
    @قناتك-ق4ح 5 лет назад +8

    Love you man...fan from syria 🙋🏼‍♂️

    • @nave_hk
      @nave_hk 5 лет назад

      Me too! Where do you live?

    • @قناتك-ق4ح
      @قناتك-ق4ح 5 лет назад

      @@nave_hk damascus and you?

    • @nave_hk
      @nave_hk 5 лет назад +1

      @@قناتك-ق4ح lattakia! Is there a way to communicate with with you? if your interested of course

    • @قناتك-ق4ح
      @قناتك-ق4ح 5 лет назад

      @@nave_hk yea no proplem ....here is my facebook acount bro" mhmood alzohili"...tell me your name or profile ...

    • @قناتك-ق4ح
      @قناتك-ق4ح 5 лет назад

      @@nave_hk where are you my brother?...send me a messge on feace book if you are still interested🙋‍♂️

  • @moscoenterprise8586
    @moscoenterprise8586 5 лет назад

    Amazing vid. Thanks guys✊🏼 Need more vids from this event, looks amazing

  • @jetus2012
    @jetus2012 5 лет назад +31

    RIP kobe :(

  • @Danygotaworldtosee
    @Danygotaworldtosee 5 лет назад +1

    Creatiiine....yeah right🤪🤗🤣 amazing vid

  • @flyer2757
    @flyer2757 5 лет назад

    Thank you

  • @lrcdlc9446
    @lrcdlc9446 5 лет назад

    OHH THE SOBER YOU
    RHYMES WTIH SUPER YOU
    That makes so much sense

  • @nf-ib2cr
    @nf-ib2cr 5 лет назад +2

    thank you!!!

  • @thatboyagain
    @thatboyagain 5 лет назад +1

    Oh look a video released just when I needed this exact topic Joolien pls stahp stAlking me xo

  • @gg7301
    @gg7301 4 года назад

    From Vietnamese : I love You so much

  • @TIMryanWarui
    @TIMryanWarui 4 года назад

    Greatest gang ever!

  • @Seductive15
    @Seductive15 5 лет назад +1

    Love the energy 👊😋

  • @Alfahombre69
    @Alfahombre69 5 лет назад +14

    RIP Kobe 8/24
    I know Tyler feeling the same way 😢😔

  • @Snow_Pulse
    @Snow_Pulse 5 лет назад

    Love the style 🙌🏼🙌🏼

  • @007calkinvallz7
    @007calkinvallz7 5 лет назад +1

    How do you shake identity? Affirmations? Meditation?

    • @BraveAbandon
      @BraveAbandon Год назад +1

      "I AM" affirmation statements, visualizating and feeling (feeling it emotionally is extremely important) situations where people react to your new chosen identity, repeated daily for about 3 months.
      Journaling increasing proof/evidence of your new identity also reinforces its development, so you are focusing on positive change instead of lack, and can help boost in hard days when it feels fake.
      You have to overwrite your old beliefs even when you don't want to and dont feel like it. See it as if those negative feelings are part of the old identity trying to trick you, and commit to doing the Affirmations and emotional visualizations every day no matter what.

  • @npi8612
    @npi8612 5 лет назад +1

    Love this video, but it’s better to focus on the interior, so that then this will come naturally

  • @desmondscott2882
    @desmondscott2882 5 лет назад +10

    I'd love to hear more about that underdog effect. I feel like that is something I need help with.

  • @adityakuppa694
    @adityakuppa694 2 года назад

    Mad connect

  • @No_Preservations
    @No_Preservations 5 лет назад +1

    this is gold i love you guys and i want to give back how do i give back to you homies?

  • @jorgethecoach
    @jorgethecoach 5 лет назад

    3:52 huge mind blown 🤯

  • @BrianYator
    @BrianYator 5 лет назад +11

    RIP Kobe Bryant :'(

  • @graydawg6949
    @graydawg6949 5 лет назад +8

    Owen "we could do a 5 year seminar on this" Cook

  • @benfranklin9156
    @benfranklin9156 5 лет назад +2

    Gentlemen. I attest your methodology works. From lying in a deep hole with drained soul a year ago to centered graduate now, I followed your path.
    Testament: As I said goodby and gave her a hug, she turned to her friend and said “isn’t he so cute”. Somehow, in her mind, this 69 year old bald guy became cute. Life is GOOD!

  • @blackl1steddrums
    @blackl1steddrums 5 лет назад

    These guys are funny I love it

  • @Kennypowerstruthbombs
    @Kennypowerstruthbombs 5 лет назад +5

    Owen what is that blue drink you always have? Curious

  • @ryodash
    @ryodash 5 лет назад +3

    Julien 'be the ceo' Blanc is back. And now he is the ceo. Self fulfilling prophecy 😎 100% rock star 👐

  • @ragamafa
    @ragamafa 4 года назад +2

    No one's gonna mention that tyler sounds exactly like Zach Galifianakis from the hangovers?

  • @stcjd2450
    @stcjd2450 5 лет назад

    Hey guys is there someone else that is feeling the same after morning/evening releases?
    I don't know if there should be affect that comes later or i should instantly feel better, so i don't know if i am making a mistake while I'm doing releases or it should be like that.
    Btw Julien great content!

  • @kyzmitch2
    @kyzmitch2 5 лет назад +2

    Oh man, I like listen RSD people

  • @ksum24
    @ksum24 5 лет назад +2

    RIP Kobe

  • @pseudonymous8702
    @pseudonymous8702 4 года назад

    What is a "wizard story"?

  • @chris_sndw
    @chris_sndw 4 года назад

    I'm best at approaching girls being sober. But pulling them works best after one or two drinks. Need to change this. :D

  • @italomcevoy1729
    @italomcevoy1729 5 лет назад +2

    Rip Kobe

  • @salembeats1875
    @salembeats1875 5 лет назад +2

    R.i.p Kobe

  • @kanekhuu9719
    @kanekhuu9719 5 лет назад

    blueprint decoded

  • @hesohit
    @hesohit 5 лет назад

    4:45 rip Kobe

  • @PlayingWithFireChannel
    @PlayingWithFireChannel 5 лет назад

    The hat

  • @ezrabay4393
    @ezrabay4393 5 лет назад

    0:02 There's a wizard with a magical teal beard in the audience 🧙

  • @StuartOden
    @StuartOden 5 лет назад

    Tyler scared me for a second there thought he was about to say something bad about creatine 😬😬

  • @TakeshixStudios
    @TakeshixStudios 5 лет назад +1

    I started getting laid a lot and got fat/lazy.
    Now I'm getting in shape for my self and getting laid a lot again

  • @baxmrackney7583
    @baxmrackney7583 5 лет назад

    Rip Kobe man

  • @badboyricardo
    @badboyricardo 5 лет назад +1

    Rip Kobe Bryant 🙏

  • @infowazz
    @infowazz 4 года назад

    a friend of mine was a dolphin trainer. at least that was the story.

  • @GloriousEagle69
    @GloriousEagle69 5 лет назад

    im so distraught by constant hate from women being told im ugly and pathetic how to i fake a winner effect to myself?

  • @Ash-oo8ux
    @Ash-oo8ux 5 лет назад

    Thank you for SUB.
    RUSSIAN HERE>>>

  • @johnnieho5999
    @johnnieho5999 5 лет назад

    R.I.P Kobe =[

  • @osc8310
    @osc8310 5 лет назад

    Rip Kobe.

  • @alexcruzship3683
    @alexcruzship3683 5 лет назад

    Oml what a meme on Kobe

  • @zepps88
    @zepps88 5 лет назад +1

    Ironic that Tyler brought up Kobe...man he's probably pretty crushed, I know he was a big fan.

  • @Sergeezie
    @Sergeezie 5 лет назад

    rip kobe wow this is tough

  • @renecruz2217
    @renecruz2217 5 лет назад +1

    Sorry about Kobe bro. 😢

  • @kentishross9707
    @kentishross9707 5 лет назад +2

    LEAD US BALDING GINGER OWEN AND YOU TOO FATHER J

  • @alesrfk2944
    @alesrfk2944 5 лет назад

    Underdog thing hit me...

  • @martinoo71998
    @martinoo71998 5 лет назад

    You got to do the cleaning(;

  • @EverythingRobCrypto
    @EverythingRobCrypto 5 лет назад

    Can someone please buy me some antivirus software to clean me out

  • @davorinkuhar6932
    @davorinkuhar6932 5 лет назад +2

    Talkong about Kobe is weird now

  • @vardaspavarde8480
    @vardaspavarde8480 5 лет назад

    Tyler looks like he lost weight 😁

  • @Retainedvitality
    @Retainedvitality 5 лет назад

    Sounds like a guy from south park

  • @johnpalmer755
    @johnpalmer755 5 лет назад

    Will rsd ever come to Sudan. btw is any one watching from sudan?

  • @mfd8346
    @mfd8346 Год назад

    Owne needs punctuation in his speech. it's soo hard to follow him

  • @terrybuchanan1
    @terrybuchanan1 5 лет назад

    non-drinker social skill development network winners, cool