True somehow... while westeners usually try to be more independent, many chinese people tend to be very focused on the"we" instead of "I". But of course, it can be the other way round as well. And we can probably learn from each other to keep the balance.
As a Cinese,I agree with your opinion.But one thing I think that makes the difference is that we have different cutures,living ways,environment and education about it.
Not only chinese. Asians in general have this mindset, focusing on "we". Westerners on the other hand value independence (I remember learning this in college).
As someone who spent half my life in each world, this is COMPLETELY REALISTIC! What’s more incredible is that both girls and the guy would be considered really good partners in their respective cultures. The fact that the Chinese girl actually offered to pay for half the house means she’s extremely accepting.
Nah the western culture is more of a individualistic one whereas most eastern cultures are collective. That already explains very much. Btw tho, keep in mind that different people have different perspectives which means that different people in a same culture could have very different ideologies, try not to generalize, thank you.
2yk Very true. Though i find there is a difference between “western” (western is only “white” on tv) and European and Asian.... Then there are different frames of reference We need to view humans as valuable souls, rather than objects... in any culture, background, country, or background ;) As well as learn to have laughter and humour again
@@Respin12333 how did he? The countries them selves tends to have an overall individualistic or collective stand point possibly from adapting different ideologies, but that doesn't mean every person within those countries thinks alike. There's no contradiction here
@@CC-il3hw Because this is a stereotype that I really hope gets debunked in the near future as more and more awareness is raised with real East Asian culture. Yes there is definitely a collectiveness like the saying in English "there's no I in team" but just like that saying in Asia this is more about education and discipline. Actually without it Asians are incredibly individualistic. This is where you get the well known characteristic of Asian mothers and how they constantly compare their kids to other kids. They want theirs to be the best. Similarly Asian individuals want to compete to be better than their peers. They want to show off. So a culture was developed around this to prevent the individualism from having a negative impact on society. Just imagine the kind of chaos you'd have if 1.4 billion people only cared about themselves? On the other hand the west developed in the same but opposite way. Individuals in western cultures love to be part of the group. Fitting in a big part of growing up and being a unique little snowflake isn't as nice when your peers think you're weird and make you an outcast. Excommunication was a powerful weapon used by the church. So a culture developed around them to stand out and be proud to be who they are as individuals rather than follow the crowd. It's allowed them to be less fearful of becoming a social pariah and embrace what makes them different. You can actually see this play out in the types of fictional stories between the cultures. For example Journey to the West is probably the most famous tale for Chinese youth. Sun Wukong is like China's main superhero. So the story is about a group traveling to the west but most people cling to Sun Wukong as the hero of the story because he's the bravest and most powerful of the group. Others hang onto Tang Shen for his wisdom and level headedness. Usually the major crises are taken care of by either Sun Wukong's power and cunning or defused by Tang Shen's nobility while Zhu Bajie and Sha Heshang usually carry the weight and don't really have many accomplishments. Now in the west you'd have individual superheroes right? Superman and Batman are their own heroes. But when the enemies become bigger threats you unite them and other superheroes into the Justice League so that together they can defeat the enemy.
My boyfriend is Chinese and I’m Mexican irish, there are many things in this video that we have gone through. My favorite memory is when he spent 1000 RMB on a pair of shoes. He looked so guilty, but was shocked when I asked what they look like (we are the same size shoe, so I can wear his shoes.) After i said they looked nice he just couldn’t believe I wasn’t yelling at him. He has told me I am the easiest girl he has ever dealt with. I don’t cause him stress, I don’t yell at him, and I am very understanding.
Half or like 90% of Mandarin comments. 😂😂 But Being An Indian, I felt like That Chinese Couple is like Typical Indian Couple while our parents pay our First Home Investment, even though m embarrassed, I have to Accept it.
I mean the pink hair gal is so nice. Dating her is rather pressure free. But it is definitely Crystal who can actually win my heart. She decided to sacrifice big for the relationship/marriage even without any hesitation. Her shy smile after saying"It's so mushy" was priceless. You can easily pick which gal was in deeper love.BTW the housing BS is a deep rooted problem of the Chinese society. Neither one of the young couple should take the blame IMO.
ukyee yea but remember the pink hair girl is a foreigner so it's harder for her to make new friends and get a new job which is why she'd hesitate, for the Chinese girl it's easier because she's from the country
I'd prefer the pink-haired girl. Moving anywhere is a big decision to make and being quick to move to another city so easily doesn't indicate how much someone is willing to sacrifice but rather how rash they are in their decision-making. In my opinion, I do think that what the Chinese girl did was rash and I therefore prefer the pink-haired girl. I'd prefer a person who would think things through rather than jump all in, so you could say I make decisions with my mind (thinking) rather than my heart (feeling). Thinking with either isn't a problem but I guess my preference leads me to liking the other person.
He's basically asking her to sacrifice her career to follow him. Not wanting to move with your boyfriend doesn't mean you love him less. It's just that that girl has her own goals to achieve that can't be fulfilled in Beijing cause she should have started everything all over again. It's a very selfish thing to ask someone and you can't expect that your significant other will agree and move with you. Morover, not trying to be dramatic but 70% of relationships don't last. What are you gonna do after you break up in a city where you don't have a stable job, friends and family?
as a western girl i was taught that it's bad to base life decisions and career dreams on a relationship. it may not be romantic, but where i live it's considered stupid and rash behaviour. a friend of mine even broke up with her partner, because he was about to throw his dreams over for her and she felt like that wasn't love, it was unhealthy obsession. i don't mean it's necessarily bad to move for your partner and make sacrifices, but it has to go both ways and to expect a woman to follow the man around like a puppy is just not realistic nowadays. my mom did that for my father and afterwards she suffered from depression, because she couldn't find friends or a job in the new place, and they almost separated. i guess for men it's a nice idea, that she would do anything for you, but it's very selfish to expect that. things like that need to be well thought about and her priorities need to be considered. if those are family and a high income on your side, by all means, she should move with you, but if they are career and being an equal partner to you, it doesn't mean she doesn't love you enough.
I don't feel comfortable asking anyone get me something if I can get it myself. also, my period doesn't run me. if I want ice cream, I shall have ice cream. and I'm not sentimental so if the boyfriend I'll never have says he loves me, id get a piece of paper, write it down, and hand it to him because having me say it would result in me stuttering, panicking, and passing out from anxiety.
I guess a lot of these depends on the person/couple, some girls’ periods give them intense cramps that increase when they consume something cold but get soothed when they consume warm things like water, tea, or soup. Also it’s extremely common in Chinese culture that everybody drinks warm/hot water, and it’s common knowledge that girls on their periods drink hot water that it’s almost insensitive that a boyfriend gives iced water to his girlfriend when she’s on her period, so that’s why the girl in the video is mad when her boyfriend gives her ice water when he knows that she’s on her period. Of course all these depends on the person, but that’s how it generally goes
DINUO HE 我只能针对大部分年轻人（硬要具体说，那我就限定在25岁以下）情况并不是这样子的，当代中西方思维其实在很多观念上是慢慢相近的一个过程。又比如游戏机那一段，若视频并不是放在中西比较中，而不单拿出来做一段，怕也是会被人说那个女生脾气古怪，并不是一个很正常心态的事件，是不普遍的。当然这仅是我的看法，我站在我的生活中以及考量我身边人而得出的结论，不能说完全正确但也不能说没有参考价值。我之所以要评论不是要批评视频，因为这是娱乐性质的，但是想要希望视频制作者在内容制定之前会想到更多，毕竟网络力量之大，不希望会有太多刻板印象的东西再附加起来。
Meanwhile here “Do you love me?” “......*no answer*” “I aske-“ “I heared but that’s a too personal question I can’t just tell you I love you like that” 🤔
Ahahhah Im korean and I've both dated western and korean guys and I think it kind of depends on what language I use. Whenever I use english I unconsciously act more like the western girl. The language itself makes a sort of personality
I'm from germany and I'm definitely like the western girlfriend, except for the moving... I would move to support my husbands goals as he would do the same for me. Staying together is the most important~
wan guo 没怪她们都说了中国现实社会逼的。人人都爱面子和对比谁比谁过的好特别是像上海这种城市如果你找个没用的老公你就成为了你朋友圈的笑话。国外gold digger当然也有可我个人觉得还是亚洲多的去特别中国和韩国，妹子们必须要找有钱的男人。没钱也只少要有车有房。中国男人有点本事就当自己是马云了。国外不一样我带过的国家也不少淡物质的还真不多基本都是因为爱而结婚不过夫妻AA这倒是真的，去个超市购物都会谈今天该轮到谁买单了不过这也算是一半一半不是全老外的婚姻都这样。可是结婚谈房谈车几乎不存在。 我回国妹子问我在加拿大干嘛的我就说我很穷没钱，她们就对我失去兴趣了哇哈哈哈
Yeah I'm totally Western😂: 1.) Ice water and an ibuprofen is fine 2.) The picture? More of a Chinese/Western mixture.😂 3.) It's ok about the apartment. We'll wait. 4 ) I'd play the Xbox with him.. 5.) If my guy gets promoted, I'll go wherever he goes. (Chinese Western mix) 6.) Saying I love you ? Totally Western 😂
LOL I feel like that's more of a universal girl thing than an Asian girl thing. But looking perfectly gorgeous is more an Asian girl thing. I find more western girls are fine taking silly shots or quick snaps than Asians.
This casts a far more favourable light on western girls than they actually deserve to. Not to say that chinese girls don't have a bit of a tsundere character to them.
anneta klmt it makes me cramp 💀 I know it doesn't for some girls but being cold, eating something cold, walking barefoot on a cold surface makes me cramp... Idk why but that's how it is for me. I'm not Chinese BTW I just noticed these patterns while on my period and I guess it makes sense because putting on a heat pad helps with cramps.
Americans just won't drink ANYTHING without ice in it. You can drip frigid cola into a glass across an ice sculpture of an emperor penguin and they'll STILL insist on having ice in it.
That was really cute. The housing eastern solution actually was a common thing in several european country years ago, now it's much rarer but still happens.
Western people: I love you.
Asian: Have you eaten?
*mystic messenger enters the chat*
I see no lie here. I’m from America my boyfriend is Chinese and I have slowly adopted his way of saying I love you. Granted we use both.
Im chinese. Saying i love you is like.. HA have you gone OUTTA YO MInd
Yooooo this is so true. Literally that is the first thing my mom asks me when I see her.
hahahahhah
"Do you love me?"
Chinese gf: "Ugh, that's so mushy
..... *discreet beaming*"
That's so cute
The classic tsundere lol
Her smile was beautiful 😳
Max Verner rose tico person that was gonna be literally my comment 😂😔
True somehow... while westeners usually try to be more independent, many chinese people tend to be very focused on the"we" instead of "I". But of course, it can be the other way round as well. And we can probably learn from each other to keep the balance.
I love your focus on positivity here! There's always something to learn from everyone -- thanks for making me smile today! (:
Kiara 😇
As a Cinese,I agree with your opinion.But one thing I think that makes the difference is that we have different cutures,living ways,environment and education about it.
Not only chinese. Asians in general have this mindset, focusing on "we". Westerners on the other hand value independence (I remember learning this in college).
yin yang bitch
你想痛死我，继承我的作业吗
(ノ๑`ȏ´๑)ノ︵⌨
吴可可 听上去蛮好的😂
你自己也是这么希望的吧。
吴可可 扎心了，你作业好多
你想笑死我，繼承我的人品嗎XDD
哈哈
那么问题来了。
如何才能像视频男主角那样同时有一个外国女朋友和中国女朋友？
Eason M 66666666同问
这位裁判回到你的裁判席
看脸
Ω Seal ik spreek Nederlands.ik woon in belgie 3 jaar( 荷語)
哈哈哈哈哈哈
As someone who spent half my life in each world, this is COMPLETELY REALISTIC! What’s more incredible is that both girls and the guy would be considered really good partners in their respective cultures. The fact that the Chinese girl actually offered to pay for half the house means she’s extremely accepting.
难道只有我注意到了中国女友在回应男友你爱我吗别恶心了之后露出了甜美的笑容吗？心瞬间就暖了
ChengYuan Li 一點都不暖 感覺很奇怪 還不如那外國女性直接來一句「我愛你」
David Sun 文化不一樣。中國人比較含蓄一點
暖了暖了
Annie Gong 并不是，跟含蓄没什么关系，嘴硬而已，跟父母的教育方式有关系
InTo ReKa 我感觉是个人的问题 每个人有每个人的性格 每一对情侣也有每一对情侣的想法 每个人不一样 一些人并不代表一个国家 更不代表一个人的教育
再多亂花幾次錢， 中國女友會繼續跟你生氣，外國女友會理智的跟你分手。
😂看笑了 真的假的？
典型的中国女人脾气大，但是比较死心眼，闹腾但是不会轻易分手。典型西方女不哭不闹，但是独立性强，容易变心，有了孩子也在所不惜。
that guy is awesome he has a chinese girlfriend and a western girlfriend. Best of both worlds hahahaha
西方人確實較個人主義 看從什麼觀點出發 有利有弊
糸工辰口 这不叫个人主义，这叫有个体意识，懂得尊重每个个体。
每个人观念不一样，这个东西，看个人喜欢，确实有利有弊。
李超凡 不就用語不同，講得好像很厲害
李超凡 這用語不同好嗎。。。
现代文明诞生于个人主义
买房子 女朋友能出一半已经是中彩票了好吗 遇到这种快结吧
Jie Zhou 是啊。这种女孩太好了。按现在国内的价值观来说
那我為啥還單身啊？
Jie Zhou 我和我男朋友结婚，我家没要求房子和车子，父母只希望我们好好的，这些物质的都不重要
遇到这种女孩赶紧娶了
@@i2harry the reason why...blind...
痛死我继承我的支付宝吗？😂太搞笑了
Lol by this logic I’m 100% “Chinese gf” despite being western 😂😂😂
Are you Asian?
Same. I'm white American and nothing like this white American
其实买房子那个，各家出一半的已经是算是相当oK的了
现在基本都是独生子女，双方家庭一般都会帮衬。。。
買房子那個是真的⋯⋯真的很現實⋯
我是马来西亚人，我觉得还好吧，哪来那么多爱情啊，连房子都供不起，要自己女人受苦还不如暂时别结婚，结婚很烧钱，谈恋爱也是要有现实的时候，要结婚就要面对现实，不然就别结婚。。。结婚本来就是现实的事情。
你这说的是有道理的，但这样什么都准备好再结婚的想法至少在中国是基本实现不了的...中国很多大城市房价就是让工薪族不吃不喝到50岁才能供得起的价格
Peijian Leow 所以说马来西亚人很多很晚才结婚阿
“外国”这个词包含了太多国家和文化了。
有个梗，世界上只有两个国家，中国和外国。
外国特指西方文明，其他国家单独说的
可以看英文题目（……western ……）
@@蓝白-l9x 西方也太宽泛了，虽然日常是这么使用的
@@PT-nh9ov美国人还不是一样有native 和foreigner, 每个国家都一样的好吧。
Nah the western culture is more of a individualistic one whereas most eastern cultures are collective. That already explains very much. Btw tho, keep in mind that different people have different perspectives which means that different people in a same culture could have very different ideologies, try not to generalize, thank you.
2yk wrong, most western cultures are secular
2yk Very true.
Though i find there is a difference between “western” (western is only “white” on tv) and European and Asian....
Then there are different frames of reference
We need to view humans as valuable souls, rather than objects... in any culture, background, country, or background
;)
As well as learn to have laughter and humour again
@@elenagelmez5064 My Social Psychology book says westerners are individualistic whereas easterners are collective.
@@Respin12333 how did he? The countries them selves tends to have an overall individualistic or collective stand point possibly from adapting different ideologies, but that doesn't mean every person within those countries thinks alike. There's no contradiction here
@@CC-il3hw Because this is a stereotype that I really hope gets debunked in the near future as more and more awareness is raised with real East Asian culture. Yes there is definitely a collectiveness like the saying in English "there's no I in team" but just like that saying in Asia this is more about education and discipline. Actually without it Asians are incredibly individualistic. This is where you get the well known characteristic of Asian mothers and how they constantly compare their kids to other kids. They want theirs to be the best. Similarly Asian individuals want to compete to be better than their peers. They want to show off. So a culture was developed around this to prevent the individualism from having a negative impact on society. Just imagine the kind of chaos you'd have if 1.4 billion people only cared about themselves?
On the other hand the west developed in the same but opposite way. Individuals in western cultures love to be part of the group. Fitting in a big part of growing up and being a unique little snowflake isn't as nice when your peers think you're weird and make you an outcast. Excommunication was a powerful weapon used by the church. So a culture developed around them to stand out and be proud to be who they are as individuals rather than follow the crowd. It's allowed them to be less fearful of becoming a social pariah and embrace what makes them different.
You can actually see this play out in the types of fictional stories between the cultures. For example Journey to the West is probably the most famous tale for Chinese youth. Sun Wukong is like China's main superhero. So the story is about a group traveling to the west but most people cling to Sun Wukong as the hero of the story because he's the bravest and most powerful of the group. Others hang onto Tang Shen for his wisdom and level headedness. Usually the major crises are taken care of by either Sun Wukong's power and cunning or defused by Tang Shen's nobility while Zhu Bajie and Sha Heshang usually carry the weight and don't really have many accomplishments. Now in the west you'd have individual superheroes right? Superman and Batman are their own heroes. But when the enemies become bigger threats you unite them and other superheroes into the Justice League so that together they can defeat the enemy.
女性生理期來時其實喝溫水才會舒緩疼痛。中國女生若生理期來，伴侶能幫忙拿溫水、紅豆湯、或熱可可之類的飲料，她一定會感到窩心。
因为喝冰水，直接就血气不通，大姨妈终止，伤身体
姜茶最有用
其实止痛药才是神器！
那為什麼外國人好像喝完冰水就不會痛了的感覺？
請解釋何為「血氣」
我是加拿大人結婚到中國了，我所有的痛苦所有的幸福都又此視頻報答
My boyfriend is Chinese and I’m Mexican irish, there are many things in this video that we have gone through. My favorite memory is when he spent 1000 RMB on a pair of shoes. He looked so guilty, but was shocked when I asked what they look like (we are the same size shoe, so I can wear his shoes.) After i said they looked nice he just couldn’t believe I wasn’t yelling at him.
He has told me I am the easiest girl he has ever dealt with. I don’t cause him stress, I don’t yell at him, and I am very understanding.
Thats so sweet >.
Sweet! You have big feet 🦶 😄
That's funny I'm Mexican Irish too but I'm much more like the Asian girl in the video
Also when I was married to a Chinese I could share shoes with him 😆💪
@@yili2650 no they have small feet 💯😂
Can’t understand more than half of the comments... sad life😂
Half or like 90% of Mandarin comments. 😂😂
But Being An Indian,
I felt like That Chinese Couple is like
Typical Indian Couple
while
our parents pay our First Home Investment, even though m embarrassed, I have to Accept it.
i can understand.........中国人报到.......
Neither can I. It’s even sadder bc I’m a Chinese American but I never bothered to learn Chinese ;-;;;;;;;
哈哈哈哈。 sad life.
Itz M I’m Chinese living in the Americas. I feel you. ;-;
拍的还是蛮中肯的诶…外国人不知道，但里面的中国女孩这边的事情我之前大多都遇到过，很真实！！
等你结婚有娃付不出贷款的时候花五千买个Xbox你就知道那个老婆是拯救你的天使了
个人观点；自己的收入自己安排就好。
赵璨 但是理财能力差的人太多了
有些女人更不会理财 只会花光你的存款
@@666-k6b9g 不要這麼專業
很多老公多年来将收入交给老婆，最后发现自己钱都不见了。--自己管自己钱比较好
Babe, do you love me?
My head: "Kiki, do you love me..."
我可能是个假的中国妹子。我个人认为买房买车本来就应该一人一半,没钱就一起租房子,钱我也希望男方是男方的,女方是女方的,我也不会管你怎么用你自己的钱。大姨妈我也能喝热我也能喝冷。这个是取决于人,能不能不要扯到国籍问题。多少西方的妹子一样为了别人的财产结婚,然后离婚分房产的。这些难道不是取决于个人？
现在像你这么优秀的中国妹子真是稀缺啊
weilai lyf 微博上的都每天闲着没事干的自以为小资中产的假知识分子女性 油管上很多出国留学的 大部分出国留学的女性都很nice的 很有教养 比较平等待人的 据我所知
所以，妹子你还单身吗 XDDD
我也是,除了水那個之外,我是總想著賺錢,老公陪我玩就好了
还有个人叫丈母娘
I see many Chinese girls are like that Western-Girlfriend in the video😂❤️
Kevin, I really enjoy your videos. Thanks for the educating laughs!
拍的很好，演员演得很不错👌
最后的Bonus太好笑了！🤭中国女友那部分好真实啊！👍
最後那裡告訴我們，中國的小姐姐們都是傲嬌小公舉😂
我的白人男性朋友都说亚洲女孩比较好，会照顾男生，很多都不喜欢跟他们白人女性在一起说他们很自私，中国女孩子就是很贴心，比较为自己爱的人付出，外国女人男人就是把自己看在第一位，但是白人女性确实没有中国女人那么爱钱，那是因为我们国家体制原因，他们未来没有那么多好顾虑的，还有 我是真心觉得中国男人是世界上最疼女孩子的男人！没有之一！ 虽然我男朋友是外国人， 但是有时候一对比真的想哭，就是他们不会想着你， 什么都想着自己！
I mean the pink hair gal is so nice. Dating her is rather pressure free. But it is definitely Crystal who can actually win my heart. She decided to sacrifice big for the relationship/marriage even without any hesitation. Her shy smile after saying"It's so mushy" was priceless. You can easily pick which gal was in deeper love.BTW the housing BS is a deep rooted problem of the Chinese society. Neither one of the young couple should take the blame IMO.
ukyee yea but remember the pink hair girl is a foreigner so it's harder for her to make new friends and get a new job which is why she'd hesitate, for the Chinese girl it's easier because she's from the country
+Alastriana Teregov not true. Usually, the girl follows her husband in asia
I'd prefer the pink-haired girl. Moving anywhere is a big decision to make and being quick to move to another city so easily doesn't indicate how much someone is willing to sacrifice but rather how rash they are in their decision-making. In my opinion, I do think that what the Chinese girl did was rash and I therefore prefer the pink-haired girl. I'd prefer a person who would think things through rather than jump all in, so you could say I make decisions with my mind (thinking) rather than my heart (feeling). Thinking with either isn't a problem but I guess my preference leads me to liking the other person.
He's basically asking her to sacrifice her career to follow him. Not wanting to move with your boyfriend doesn't mean you love him less. It's just that that girl has her own goals to achieve that can't be fulfilled in Beijing cause she should have started everything all over again.
It's a very selfish thing to ask someone and you can't expect that your significant other will agree and move with you.
Morover, not trying to be dramatic but 70% of relationships don't last. What are you gonna do after you break up in a city where you don't have a stable job, friends and family?
as a western girl i was taught that it's bad to base life decisions and career dreams on a relationship. it may not be romantic, but where i live it's considered stupid and rash behaviour. a friend of mine even broke up with her partner, because he was about to throw his dreams over for her and she felt like that wasn't love, it was unhealthy obsession. i don't mean it's necessarily bad to move for your partner and make sacrifices, but it has to go both ways and to expect a woman to follow the man around like a puppy is just not realistic nowadays. my mom did that for my father and afterwards she suffered from depression, because she couldn't find friends or a job in the new place, and they almost separated. i guess for men it's a nice idea, that she would do anything for you, but it's very selfish to expect that. things like that need to be well thought about and her priorities need to be considered. if those are family and a high income on your side, by all means, she should move with you, but if they are career and being an equal partner to you, it doesn't mean she doesn't love you enough.
I don't feel comfortable asking anyone get me something if I can get it myself. also, my period doesn't run me. if I want ice cream, I shall have ice cream. and I'm not sentimental so if the boyfriend I'll never have says he loves me, id get a piece of paper, write it down, and hand it to him because having me say it would result in me stuttering, panicking, and passing out from anxiety.
I guess a lot of these depends on the person/couple, some girls’ periods give them intense cramps that increase when they consume something cold but get soothed when they consume warm things like water, tea, or soup. Also it’s extremely common in Chinese culture that everybody drinks warm/hot water, and it’s common knowledge that girls on their periods drink hot water that it’s almost insensitive that a boyfriend gives iced water to his girlfriend when she’s on her period, so that’s why the girl in the video is mad when her boyfriend gives her ice water when he knows that she’s on her period. Of course all these depends on the person, but that’s how it generally goes
虽然声明不代表所有人，但是视频明显带有对中国女生的讽刺的意味在里面，基本都是外国女友的好和中国女友的不好，可是相反在很多方面国内姑娘做的很好，比如说我就觉得很多国内姑娘非常会照顾人，这种类似的优点只字不提。退一步来说，第一个场景为什么不是中国女友要热水再先，给外国女友拿了热水后外国女友生气？我个人并不认为这是典型的一些差异，在我眼里这只是典型的Stereotype。请不要继续固化Stereotype和误导大众谢谢
Li yiran 非常中肯，這影片在定型中國女生和外國女生，而且我看着感覺這影片只是想告訴人中國女生有多差勁，這樣便引起了大家對中國女生的厭惡，留言都在罵中國女生拜金甚麼的，身為中國(香港)女生的我真的很不忿，真是躺着也中槍，這影片根本就是在使定型更強烈
Can’t agree more! Very well said!
Wolf Billy 你妈呢？被你吃啦？还是跟别人跑啦？
怎么说呢，视频一开始说只是针对部分。
Number 你怎么不说你爸呢？怎么丑男去把你爸阉了呗。
Never seen a girl ask for water on her period... we usually ask for chocolate or ice cream 😂😂
TRUE
除了热水冷水那部分，其他我觉得挺......视频还是挺不客观，很强烈的固有印象，老陈的思维。暂且不提媚不媚外，至少我觉得和现在中国相当一部分年轻人的思维观是不符的。我觉得有时候外国人对中国人的错误的过时的认知印象，国内某些起到一定影响力的传媒也是要负起责任的。
王梦笛 解釋一下，冰水外國觀念是冰水喝了消耗能量中和體溫，所以感冒之類的冰水，正常喝水也是冰水，餐廳慣例冰水，家裡慣例有裝冰的廚具，肚紙痛應該照喝冰水
Chi Yeung 这个我知道，所以我说“除了热水冷水那部分”
就买房那个来说就是现状啊，还有游戏机还是最好的状况
DINUO HE 我只能针对大部分年轻人（硬要具体说，那我就限定在25岁以下）情况并不是这样子的，当代中西方思维其实在很多观念上是慢慢相近的一个过程。又比如游戏机那一段，若视频并不是放在中西比较中，而不单拿出来做一段，怕也是会被人说那个女生脾气古怪，并不是一个很正常心态的事件，是不普遍的。当然这仅是我的看法，我站在我的生活中以及考量我身边人而得出的结论，不能说完全正确但也不能说没有参考价值。我之所以要评论不是要批评视频，因为这是娱乐性质的，但是想要希望视频制作者在内容制定之前会想到更多，毕竟网络力量之大，不希望会有太多刻板印象的东西再附加起来。
王梦笛 其实这本来也就是一类年轻人的现状（包括25岁以下的）的，如果偏要说大部分都不是这样，起码在我身边这个比例是可以五五开的，并且这种视屏本来就只能给我们塑造典型或相对典型的人物形象，这样才有娱乐性，其实这也让人可以自己想想自己是否也一样？我并不是想说明什么，可是中西方文化真的没有慢慢相近，它们只是由于国家之间的合作等，共同接受了一些观点，并且有了一定的相似之处，然而还是各自保留着自己的特点，起码在我看来是各有各的优点和缺点，并不能一概而论。在我认为慢慢融合和共通的趋势是有的，而相近的趋势大抵值得斟酌
Even if I'm western I feel so identified with Chinese gf ㅋㅋ
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太过美化西方女友了，其实西方女生和中国女生没有什么区别。结婚需要房子的大有人在。
加拿大辣条 同意。 认识个２３岁从法国来蒙特利乐的人，跟一个魁瓜结了婚。女方一结婚就辞了工作，做全职家庭主妇，其实男方希望她工作分担一下的。十多年后女的在网上又从法国找了个男友。让法庭把老公从家里踢了出去，男的还得给她家用，还要继续付房贷。怎一个惨字了得！
no name 魁瓜是?这法律是如何做到让付首付还贷的人净身出户的。。。
全职家庭主妇在很多国家都是受保护的，尤其是做全职家庭主妇做了好几年的，德国这边也算一种职业，离婚后男方需要继续支付抚养金，直到女方找到工作或者嫁人。至于房子问题，也许是baby跟女方？
德国的法律：假如夫妻双方对婚后所购房屋没有过什么特别的约定的话，此房屋一定属于夫妻共同财产；假如有过约定，而女方又属于弱势群体（例如德语非母语，收入低于男方等等），找个好的离婚律师，认定此房屋属于夫妻共同财产的可能性大过九成。此外，若有孩子的话，离婚时只要孩子的抚养权判给母亲，此房产会完全归女方所有。
加拿大辣条 那是有但他們的拜金女只是一部分，但中國的可是全部都是拜金女啊！
西方人的孩子是天生放養的，又沒有東方那種教育，所以什麼都是自己為先，所以西方人有仁義思想的是少數，更重要的是西方的法律保護女方保護家庭主婦，即便東方人到了西方也會一樣
拍得很真实啊！好看！
我没觉得这段视频刻意美化西方女朋友。我身边的西方女孩和男友同居的话，自己也会帮着交房租，并且她们确实也不是很在意这些乱七八糟的事。这个中国女孩说买房两家对半出钱，已经很不错了，现在不娶更待何时23333。
Wow glad to find this Chanel ^^
Meanwhile here
“Do you love me?”
“......*no answer*”
“I aske-“
“I heared but that’s a too personal question I can’t just tell you I love you like that”
🤔
ufff
I have to say that Chinese girl friend acts more like a girl should be and the western one tries to be a man.
man he's so hot
所謂外國人，其實是西方白人。
非洲大陸的黑人，就是黑人，他們不是外國人。
從來沒聽說把越南菲律賓人視為外國人的。
本来就是这样的，日本人说Gaijin时一般不也是指白人黑人吗？
好写实
等等，第一？
做得真的很好👍 那个拍照的😂
我：你想痛死我，继承我奇跡暖暖的賬號嗎？
男朋友：什麼來的？
有个外国男生朋友，当时高中他和我另一个女生朋友经常不吃早饭上学，就经常给他们做了🍙饭团吃，那男生痛哭流涕感动的一匹说他女朋友都没给他做过吃的…
外国女生确实挺自由自主不需要呵护那样，但是真的觉得他们也不太会呵护人
分人，觉得他们不太会呵护人这样的结论我是不敢乱下的
你想痛死我继承我的支付宝吗？😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂oh my gosh
Ahahhah Im korean and I've both dated western and korean guys and I think it kind of depends on what language I use. Whenever I use english I unconsciously act more like the western girl. The language itself makes a sort of personality
It listened like ur showing your experience off
Chinese girl: money, money, money, i wanna marry tall and rich 🥰
Wwww中国妹子偷笑好暖🙈
Luhan Forever 容我说一句，中国女人都是自私自利的垃圾，感觉太美化中国妹子了
monica niu 中国女人的素质真是全球第一啊，也难怪你这种人生活在国内了。
Wolf Billy emmm并不 也只有你这种brain这么小的人才会assume 真的搞笑
monica niu 中国男人满足不了你可以去找黄鳝啊，电棍捅捅也行。
bb啥？
I'm from germany and I'm definitely like the western girlfriend, except for the moving... I would move to support my husbands goals as he would do the same for me. Staying together is the most important~
這是在教我如何娶一個外國老婆，哈哈
外國女比較好點，自由也明理，不會什麼都強求，什麼都一起商量一起包容
我觉得 可以把范围缩小到 纽约女朋友和上海女朋友，先不说 欧洲人有没有意见，美國中南西部差异也很大，中国也一样，虽然说是搞笑视频，但是毕竟定义了形象，就像我说温州人是如何如何，其实还得客观，否则 平阳人 不爽完，泰顺人不爽
好认真啊
@@shenghuo3365 网络的泛指上升群体，就是网络暴力的根源，应该认真。
我交过4个西方女朋友，一个意大利人，两个土澳人，一个美国人。前三个都被我汉化了，还有一个还在汉化中
笑死我了，美国女孩根本就不会来大姨妈时还告诉男朋友，然后还让男朋友给自己接冰水喝的好吧~_~！
看着蛮喜剧的感觉，违和感太强！
实际生活中她们并没有这样的习惯以及意识。
女生什么条件能要求男生买房呢，她们是公主吗，公主的话自己可以买啊。 男生为什么一定要娶要房子的女生呢，生活在国外真的不懂
No woman drinks ice water on there period tho
i do that for many years and i'm chinese
最佩服這位男生，感覺他中西都能駕馭
只能说中国女生也有很多种性格的，这个代表其中一种吧，不过一半还是比较准确的
To the question "do you love me?" in this situation, french people would say "I don't dislike you" [insert smirky face]
结婚买房这件事，真不是女人的问题，而是社会问题，是大城市中太多人口竞争太少资源导致的。在中国，没有房子没法给孩子上户口，孩子直接面临无学可上，或者要交很多择校费读私立学校。而外国人没有户口这一说，租房住也不会耽误孩子的学业。不过现在中国政府似乎开始推行租售同权，将来租房也可以上户口，孩子享受就近上学，以后买不买房就无所谓了。在中国，女人的薪酬远远低于男人，将这么复杂的社会问题只怪罪在中国女人头上，很不公平。
wan guo 外国人也有学区房，但是很多地方租房也算学区的。只是从法律角度 西方法律非常保护女性
外国人当然有学区房的概念，但是只要租房就可以上学区房，不像国内必须要买房。希望国内也能推行这种政策，不要买房和户口绑定。。。
中国社会太现实吧？我从小在国外长大父母离异两个妹妹跟我妈在上海而我跟我父亲移民了阿根廷然后加拿大前几年父亲去世所以这两三年经常回国看家人
可以说我两个妹妹也是大美女加上朋友圈闺蜜什么都长得不错可是说到物质我还是觉得她们包括她们的朋友现实的不要命两个都结婚了两个妹夫条件都算很好了徐家汇买房8万一套车也好的，她们一下已婚的朋友也不里外长的好确跟丑和胖的跟猪的在一起要么就是很猥琐的那种可是这要是土豪这些都不是问题。
人各有志，你也不能说她们的想法就是错的，毕竟每个人对自己未来的规划不一样。再说将来好了坏了的，人家后果也自己承担，不会麻烦到别人就行了呗。各个国家都有这种人，美国日本也都有Sugar Daddy、援交这些，这是全球问题啊，有的时候你不得不承认，富人占有的资源就是要比普通人多得多，这就是现实。
wan guo 没怪她们都说了中国现实社会逼的。人人都爱面子和对比谁比谁过的好特别是像上海这种城市如果你找个没用的老公你就成为了你朋友圈的笑话。国外gold digger当然也有可我个人觉得还是亚洲多的去特别中国和韩国，妹子们必须要找有钱的男人。没钱也只少要有车有房。中国男人有点本事就当自己是马云了。国外不一样我带过的国家也不少淡物质的还真不多基本都是因为爱而结婚不过夫妻AA这倒是真的，去个超市购物都会谈今天该轮到谁买单了不过这也算是一半一半不是全老外的婚姻都这样。可是结婚谈房谈车几乎不存在。
我回国妹子问我在加拿大干嘛的我就说我很穷没钱，她们就对我失去兴趣了哇哈哈哈
"你去邊度，我就去邊度" so sweet
Yeah I'm totally Western😂:
1.) Ice water and an ibuprofen is fine
2.) The picture? More of a Chinese/Western mixture.😂
3.) It's ok about the apartment. We'll wait.
4 ) I'd play the Xbox with him..
5.) If my guy gets promoted, I'll go wherever he goes. (Chinese Western mix)
6.) Saying I love you ? Totally Western 😂
I know several Chinese married couples who live in different countries long term, so I don’t know about the whole “I’ll go wherever you go” part.
都在暗婊中國女生 外國人怎麼說呢 有的人感覺想得不是很長遠 太理想主義了 說結婚就結婚 說生小孩就生小孩 完全沒有考慮自己是否有經濟實力 反正這視頻就說 外國女生都是鐵打 不在乎你有沒有錢 滿足你的一切要求 片尾不來一句 無分對錯 只是文化差異嗎？ 節奏帶得飛起來了
西方女友以后日子过不下去也是说离就离，前期大度后期也一样
@Yunying Huo 說到離婚率，台灣人就笑了，亞洲第一，全球第三
"oh your phone doesn't have the beauty camera" me
LOL I feel like that's more of a universal girl thing than an Asian girl thing. But looking perfectly gorgeous is more an Asian girl thing. I find more western girls are fine taking silly shots or quick snaps than Asians.
我觉得中国女生是属于潜力股吧平常看她们的朋友圈和动态都是说等着别人把她宠成一个小公主其实真的遇到喜欢的人中国女生温柔体贴善良可爱没有毛病可以挑你们要真的不喜欢中国女生留给我好了老婆这种东西我不嫌多✌️✌️
老乐快递员 美的你！还想要多的，能找到就算不错了！😂😂😂
In China...
女友：亲爱的～我那个来子宫疼
男友：好的～给你倒杯温开水
女友：#%*@&¥直男！
I really need to improve my chinese lol I can’t understand anything.
That Chinese GF attitude & family contribution For new Home.. It Just like an Indian Girl.. M so Amazed by it.. 🤔
Cause we are all in Eastern Culture.
感觉有点美化了西方女朋友
Ziwei Vivianne Huang 你想太多了。
这也体现了中国女性的思维狭隘，利己，非黑即白的思维
koldpine 结婚买房这件事，真不是女人的问题，而是社会问题，是大城市中太多人口竞争太少资源导致的。在中国，没有房子没法给孩子上户口，孩子直接面临无学可上，或者要交很多择校费读私立学校。而外国人没有户口这一说，租房住也不会耽误孩子的学业。不过现在中国政府似乎开始推行租售同权，将来租房也可以上户口，孩子享受就近上学，以后买不买房就无所谓了。并且女人的薪酬远远低于男人，将这么复杂的社会问题只怪罪在中国女人头上，很不公平。
你没看到中国女生嫁鸡随鸡迁就你搬迁，西方女友不愿搬迁或许你们还要面临分手，果然利己狭隘。
wan guo 嗯 国外没房不是大问题, 房子也不贵 也不存在户口问题 ,换句话国外比国内活着轻松,尤其是对于中产来说,富人来说无所谓。虽然我是自干五, 但我不得不承认,很多很多地方国内确实还不行。 哎 狠铁不成钢
3:53
Westerners: appear more romantic Chinese: appear more tsunderu
西方女人：比较浪漫
中国女人：比较。。。。汉语的tsunderu 咱么说来着🤣🤣😂
🤣🤣🤣 so true. I love Leonardo DiCaprio and Luhan...just gotta say
Ice water? Are you trying to kill me?
都是中国人 没必要黑中国女生吧
This casts a far more favourable light on western girls than they actually deserve to. Not to say that chinese girls don't have a bit of a tsundere character to them.
WTF WHO DRINKS ICED WATER ON THEIR PERIOD WOT
And me.
anneta klmt it makes me cramp 💀 I know it doesn't for some girls but being cold, eating something cold, walking barefoot on a cold surface makes me cramp... Idk why but that's how it is for me. I'm not Chinese BTW I just noticed these patterns while on my period and I guess it makes sense because putting on a heat pad helps with cramps.
bored bored yup same hot feels better when you’re bleeding out and in pain
Americans just won't drink ANYTHING without ice in it. You can drip frigid cola into a glass across an ice sculpture of an emperor penguin and they'll STILL insist on having ice in it.
apartment part and moving over part : so true.
我也不喜欢鹿晗了😂还是喜欢LAY
欣欣 小绵羊最好了🙆🏻
亲爱哒 以后还是不要带上别家爱豆好吗 别家的粉丝也会不开心的 没恶意只是怕艺兴被黑
陈盈洁 sorry 我只是想开个玩笑没有想那么多😂😅
我喜欢王嘉尔！！
欣 欣 亲没事哒~ 只是提个醒 毕竟玻璃心的孩子还是很多的 就怕她们一个不小心引爆了
Omg, these were both so cute!
4:02 she's trying so hard not to laugh
Chinese women are so beautiful
我作为一个在国外长大的女生，对她们还是很了解的，国外女生一般不会在意你之前是否有前女友啊，你是不是第一次啦，男生也是这样，女生自己也不在意，我今年高二，班上有一个已经谈过七次恋爱了，有一个初三就和人为爱鼓掌了，总之挺乱的
初三么，我大学毕业还是个，，，
难道我是个假中国女友吗？我经常对我老公说我爱你啊，一天至少说个十次.... 而且我们结婚也没有买房子，现在还是一起租公寓住诶....
中国现在九零后00后说我爱你很轻松
真实
Chinese girls are always ready to make any sacrifices for their loved ones
I didn't know I was Chinese ;)
AHAHAHAH liking shanghai as an excuse to not move to Beijing is a mood
Can’t agree more! XD
我觉得国人太矫情，不够独立，不论男女。男女朋友甚至夫妻之间经济应该更加独立，父母和子女之间也应该少一些干涉和依赖（尤其婚姻问题）。个人意见
I need a girl who can play Xbox.
That was really cute. The housing eastern solution actually was a common thing in several european country years ago, now it's much rarer but still happens.
我就是喜欢西方男孩啊😍
这个视频做得很好，一眼可以看出来外国女人比较独立，中国女人比较容易为爱人牺牲。
按这视频上说的，我根本完全是符合外国女生那边了...已经8102年了，还在说这种stereotype🤷🏻♀️
中国女孩要求高 管得宽 外国的自立 管好自己
感觉有很多刻板印象在里边吧...