My ex and I met up for a date a few months after we had broken up. We had a great day out together, full of laughs and small intimate moments, and at the end of the day we had 'the talk'. I put myself in Noah's position. I told her what I wanted. I wasn't emotional and was straight up about everything, creating a vision of the two of us together and a possible future. In the end, she didn't go for it and I had to let her go.
I know you have feelings for her, but haven't you already seen that movie? The ending really is not going to change. You've got to make a new movie. You are the star, director, and casting crew. there's three and a half billion woman out there, work on yourself first become a stoic guy and you'll have more women than you can possibly deal with. To be honest who does?
Celina sweetheart.. pursuing a woman in your masculine energy does work to a certain degree but mostly for more feminine women like you. Woman are like an unpredictable weather system that's constantly changing, regardless how you try to figure them out. Also I've learned you cannot try to use logic or reason to communicate with them, or even try to understand their storm patterns. Just wait for the storm to pass . If you can learn their emotional language that alone will make you very successful. Unfortunately you have to spend more time in the field in front of real woman to gain the experience you need to deal with them. Maintain your male frame and don't lose your cool.. let them act out do what they want to do, set and maintain firm boundaries. I'm mostly you have to become the stoic man you can't fake it you just have to keep working on yourself not for them but for yourself. It's just something you have to deal with as a man.
Noah didn’t care about her boundaries, thoughts, or feelings at all. He also was guilting, manipulating, and threatening her throughout. That’s how abusive relationships start. This is NOT an example of how a healthy and sincere dynamic starts.
My ex and I met up for a date a few months after we had broken up. We had a great day out together, full of laughs and small intimate moments, and at the end of the day we had 'the talk'. I put myself in Noah's position. I told her what I wanted. I wasn't emotional and was straight up about everything, creating a vision of the two of us together and a possible future. In the end, she didn't go for it and I had to let her go.
I know you have feelings for her, but haven't you already seen that movie? The ending really is not going to change. You've got to make a new movie. You are the star, director, and casting crew. there's three and a half billion woman out there, work on yourself first become a stoic guy and you'll have more women than you can possibly deal with. To be honest who does?
I work with clients on this all the time. Often msgs are misconstrued and intent isn’t clearly communicated 🙌🏽
Guys! Do not do this. This will get you in trouble.
Celina sweetheart.. pursuing a woman in your masculine energy does work to a certain degree but mostly for more feminine women like you. Woman are like an unpredictable weather system that's constantly changing, regardless how you try to figure them out. Also I've learned you cannot try to use logic or reason to communicate with them, or even try to understand their storm patterns. Just wait for the storm to pass . If you can learn their emotional language that alone will make you very successful. Unfortunately you have to spend more time in the field in front of real woman to gain the experience you need to deal with them. Maintain your male frame and don't lose your cool.. let them act out do what they want to do, set and maintain firm boundaries. I'm mostly you have to become the stoic man you can't fake it you just have to keep working on yourself not for them but for yourself. It's just something you have to deal with as a man.
Noah didn’t care about her boundaries, thoughts, or feelings at all. He also was guilting, manipulating, and threatening her throughout. That’s how abusive relationships start. This is NOT an example of how a healthy and sincere dynamic starts.