SAYING GOODBYE :( | MOM OF 4 | ANNA SACCONE

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  • Опубликовано: 13 сен 2024
  • TRIGGER WARNING: This video contains a lot of ugly crying!
    I was also pre-menstrual at the time of filming this which explains a lot! Today was Friday and I got up an hour later as Jonathan kindly offered to bring the babies to school today - yay! It was also storming rain all day...not an ideal situation as I had planned to go to Brighton with Emilia (11). I gave the babies breakfast and did my workout. The dogs were getting groomed today and when I went to grab their bows I caught sight of the (rather large) pile of turquoise bows which were Theo's. It just hit me like a truck and I normally keep these moments private but I decided to share. Not for sympathy but rather to help other who are going through struggles in life, whether it's grief or something else feel less alone. I struggle a lot with feeling responsible for Theo's death because we had to make the decision to put him down. Also he was my first pet I've ever had to do that too so it's hard. :( I will love him forever. Emilia and I got ready to go and left for a very rainy Brighton! We met up with Matt & his kids for one last time before he leaves for Greece. Unfortunately we were too many people to get a table anywhere nice or in any of the cute cafes so we just ended up going to Pret for some brunch/lunch. The weather was miserable but Emilia was happy she got to do some shopping! We said goodbye to Matt which was very sad as we won't see him for two months :( We then had to rush back to collect the babies as Jonathan was super busy today with work. We got them cookies which they were super happy about! When we got home it was pizza night and Jonathan & I enjoyed ours slightly later as again, he was busy working until late! See you on Sunday! 💖
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Комментарии • 279

  • @Kimmy-rh1ry
    @Kimmy-rh1ry 2 месяца назад +80

    Losing a pet is hard because they become like our children. I've been thru it many times, its gut wrenching, emotional, and you never get over it.

  • @xxirishgirlxx14
    @xxirishgirlxx14 2 месяца назад +61

    I have grieved the loss of my dear pets in the same way and still have moments months/ years later. I think the difference is, to a pet- you are their whole world. Their absolute unconditional innocence and love sinks deep into your heart. ❤

    • @AnnaSaccone
      @AnnaSaccone  2 месяца назад +7

      Yes, exactly this 🥺❤️

  • @RinaKatz-qt3sh
    @RinaKatz-qt3sh 2 месяца назад +122

    This is the first time I ever comment anywhere on RUclips but I just cried with you. I lost my girl dog 2 years ago and it was THE hardest goodbye and THE worst heartache and it still hurts. You are not crazy and you are allowed to grieve. They are forever our babies.

    • @AnnaSaccone
      @AnnaSaccone  2 месяца назад +17

      I’m so sorry 😢💔😭

    • @Deriemomboma
      @Deriemomboma 2 месяца назад

      ​@@AnnaSacconeHello. They made a video about you. If you don't understand what it says, turn on English subtitles ruclips.net/video/VJd90qzDm4k/видео.htmlsi=7tDEQFE8WkA9qmc6

  • @hanelno
    @hanelno Месяц назад +2

    The loss of my dogs have been some of my hardest losses in life. I’ve gone through some really tough hardships so I’m unfortunately no stranger to trauma. The loss of a pet is devastating ❤️

  • @SpazzYSabS
    @SpazzYSabS 2 месяца назад +20

    Jonathan is a working horse and should be appreciated every day !!! ❤️ losing a pet is very sad. We are their voices … Theo was a sweetheart and Anna it’s okay to grieve … you’re a good mama 🥰

  • @thebandersnatch5650
    @thebandersnatch5650 2 месяца назад +38

    It's ok to cry for Theo, he was a Good Boi who loved you and was loved.

  • @dianemilligan7370
    @dianemilligan7370 Месяц назад +1

    I totally feel the same about losing a pet and the hole in my heart never fully heals. It’s actually a blessing to be one of those that fully connects with our pets.

  • @CheyanneRae10
    @CheyanneRae10 2 месяца назад +2

    You’re not alone❤ When you have a pet that’s more than a pet to you, it’s your baby… losing them is traumatic and so heartbreaking. 4 years later I still catch myself crying every week over my fur baby who passed from cancer. This shows how much you love your fur baby’s ❤❤❤❤

  • @melaniedickey27
    @melaniedickey27 2 месяца назад +2

    Sending lots of love ❤️ Sorry for your loss. You’re not weird… There is no “normal” way to grieve. You take care of yourself and I would even seek a grief therapist. They’re so so helpful…

  • @mollyjonesxxxx
    @mollyjonesxxxx 2 месяца назад +2

    Anna there’s no normal way to grieve. No wrong or right way.. I lost my dog around 5 years ago and at least once a month he appears in my dreams at night (particularly when I’m having a hard time) he jumps on my bed or I turn around in the car and he’s in the back. And it feels so real. I believe he’s my guardian angel, I have his paw print on my heart forever. Please give yourself grace, his soul is still with you 🤍

  • @rainingblondes
    @rainingblondes 2 месяца назад +3

    Anna you are not alone or weird… if this is any comfort my family lost our rescue dog Zoe 2 valentines ago. We had to take her to be put down which is awful in itself. We have just started renovation of our kitchen and my mum and I had a little cry thinking of all the memories and years of Zoe in that kitchen that is now going. They forever stay in your heart and moments like that seeing Theo’s bows or for us ripping up the kitchen floor that Zoe used to walk on everyday are moments that just hurt the heart :(
    Sending so much love 🩷🩷🩷

  • @sasaoldbarn
    @sasaoldbarn 2 месяца назад +2

    My dog and my Grandpa died two days apart, and when I think about one I think about the other, but losing my dog still hurts. so. freaking. much. I loved both, they were both old and sick, but loosing my doggie made me miserable... so be sad! Cry! Its totally normal! ❤❤❤

  • @CarmenDeliaVeraRodríguez
    @CarmenDeliaVeraRodríguez 2 месяца назад +2

    I know it's very hard. I lost my my PET dog Nevado last Year and I remember him every day. He was nearly 17 and all the family loves him so much. He'll be in our heart for always

  • @The.Caroline
    @The.Caroline 2 месяца назад +2

    No one is with us more than our dogs. They see *everything*, more than anyone else. I think people think it's "just a pet", but really they're our closest family.

  • @becsblue9424
    @becsblue9424 2 месяца назад +3

    It's 100% normal! They are like our children. ❤ so sorry, I know how hard it is.

  • @karenpate4289
    @karenpate4289 2 месяца назад +3

    Losing a pet is so very hard. We had to put our precious fur baby to sleep 5 years ago and we had him 16 years. I still get emotional over it. They become part of your family. You are not alone.

  • @NatyDePardo
    @NatyDePardo 2 месяца назад +2

    Im so sorry you are hurting ❤️ I lost one of my furry babies 4 years ago. It still hurts. I still find myself crying at times thinking how happy he would be living in the country where me live now. But it makes me happy knowing we did everything we could for him and we gave him his best life after being so many years on the streets. The bond with our pets its real and it hurts .
    I hope with time it hurts a little less. And I hope you remember his best moments with you ❤

  • @kerrividler6571
    @kerrividler6571 2 месяца назад +3

    Oh Anna, you’re not crazy. Your furbabies are your heart and it’s a very different kind of love to human love, just different. I do understand so much as I lost my beautiful Tehya Rose, she was a beautiful lilac bi-colour Ragdoll. She developed the very same cancer that my Dad had and died from. To this day it hurts when we had to say goodbye. I still wonder what would have happened if we tried to unblock her bowel obstruction but I’ll never ever know. But what you are going through is very normal when you love your furbabies as much as we do. Try to be kind to yourself and allow the grief to work until you get used to your loss. You never get over them, you will get used to it.

  • @CrazyhecticlifeofTessaMelchior
    @CrazyhecticlifeofTessaMelchior 2 месяца назад +6

    Awhh sweet Anna 😢 I feel you. I have lost 3 dogs in my life. The first 9 months I cried for them everyday. Jonathan is right, they are child like and their love is so pure. They are also with us everyday. All combined makes it the most terrible grief. Eventhough the grief becomes less, our sweet doggies will be missed and always have a special place in our hearts ❤

  • @Sarah_1996
    @Sarah_1996 2 месяца назад +36

    It’s ok to cry and grieve, loosing a pet is so hard 😢, Theo was loved 🤍🤍

  • @leahlincoski1524
    @leahlincoski1524 2 месяца назад +3

    I lost my dog in February from cancer. We also had to put her down as she was suffering. I cry every day too, and think your feelings are normal and valid. They unconditionally love you and you are their whole world. I've never experienced this type of pain or loss before either.

  • @CherryRed1972
    @CherryRed1972 2 месяца назад +3

    With pets I think it grips you deeper because they are so innocent and rely on you and love you and you are their whole life! It is heartbreaking for those of us who love animals. You are not alone baby girl xxxxx

  • @teresacarey7668
    @teresacarey7668 Месяц назад +2

    I lost my two dogs this year,I’m still grieving,they are like your babies,it hurts so much,and I think of them every day,I no how you feel Anna I feel for you,we are in the same boat xxxx

  • @harley.moseley
    @harley.moseley 2 месяца назад +12

    I feel this so much. When I lost my first dog, I was honestly so heartbroken. It’s been nearly 7 years and I still tear up when I think about her sometimes. Sending lots of love, you are such a good mom. You’ll get there 🩵.

  • @creeetal
    @creeetal 2 месяца назад +3

    I feel the same 100 . Dogs are our furr babies , they depend on us for everything . My grand father told me when his dog passed and we where all so upset to remember that your dog is in your life for a short time but you are in there’s for a life time and as long as you gave them a good one they where the happiest dog ever because not all dogs get treated like family . That hit home for me and help a little .

  • @lorluvvv
    @lorluvvv 2 месяца назад +7

    I'm sitting here crying with you Anna because I completely understand your pain. Losing a pet feels like heartbreak x1000 especially when you are the one who has to make the decision to put them down. I completely understand feeling guilty but you absolutely did the right thing by making sure he was no longer in pain

  • @mariacasella6474
    @mariacasella6474 2 месяца назад +7

    We Appreciate you Jonathan so much!!Thank you for your hard work and dedication to your family and all the uploading and editing you do for us always

  • @lashingsofgaut
    @lashingsofgaut 2 месяца назад +5

    Oh Anna, you are certainly not alone! When I lost by soul dog Frankie last year, I was bed ridden for 3 days unable to stop crying. I have never experienced a loss like that and I have lost Grandparents, Uncles, Friends etc. My Frankie got me through some of my lowest of lows and was with me through two pregnancies and my babies grew up for their first 4 and 5 years. I had so much guilt after having my children because I didn't have the same time I had before to snuggle him all the time :( They say dogs come into our lives when we need them the most and when we may no longer need them in the same capacity they run free over rainbow bridge. He will always be in your heart and hopefully visits you in your dreams xx

  • @crystal9301
    @crystal9301 2 месяца назад +34

    Aww Anna! Loosing a pet hurts so bad because they are apart of your family, I still cry eight years after loosing our family dog Lucy, we got her when I was 6 years old and she died when I was 21 …so yes she may have been a lab/german shepherd but she was also my little sister! Still to this day at 29 when her song comes on, “what a wonderful world” I am gone 😭😭 I feel so guilty to this day for not taking her with me when I moved out…

  • @ErinBooms
    @ErinBooms 2 месяца назад +7

    It's lovely seeing all of these comments. Our pets are our family and we are lucky to love them during the short time they're here.

  • @xxabbz101xx
    @xxabbz101xx 2 месяца назад +5

    Don’t worry I lost my dog years ago and I still cry A LOT about it especially if I see something that reminds me of him. It’s really hard, please don’t beat yourself up about grieving your furbaby. Sending love ❤

  • @orangeheadjulio
    @orangeheadjulio 2 месяца назад +3

    You're 100% normal in the grief you are feeling. Our pets are family, they are always happy to see us, and they know all our secrets! It hurts to lose them. I love that you are always so genuine ❤

  • @hollythomas1254
    @hollythomas1254 2 месяца назад +1

    You are definitely not alone. We lost out 13 year old dog in lockdown, we were unable to be with her due to the restrictions at the time, and i feel absolutely traumatised! I still cry most days as (like you say) the guilt and responsibility you feel is unreal! I do now have a new fur baby addition, but i spend alot of time dreading the day we loose him. Sending you love

  • @I_am_Kit7
    @I_am_Kit7 2 месяца назад +4

    Losing a pet is so so hard Anna. I lost my English Bulldog, Nova, almost 3 years ago and I still cry most days. 💔 Sending you so much love Anna.

  • @EmmaOneil-l5w
    @EmmaOneil-l5w 2 месяца назад +5

    I completely get how you feel Anna I lost my dog Rosie over 3 years ago and I still feel like there is a piece of me missing when she left us. Just wanna say how amazing you are for being so vulnerable. You’re so not alone! Your such a strong beautiful women and mom and love watching you and look up to you a lot. Been here since you first had Emilia and I’ll always be here!

  • @sarahbyrne1247
    @sarahbyrne1247 2 месяца назад +11

    My heart breaks for the way you’re feeling. We got married in October 2009 & got our shitzu’s (Dolly & Harry) a couple of weeks after our honeymoon. They were our little fur babies & made us a family. We went on to have five children but they were still our babies. Dolly died in July 2022 & Harry in January 2024 & when I say we’re heartbroken, it’s been so hard. It’s been worse since Harry died as we’re almost reliving Dolly passing & the kids are finding it tough too. We have pictures of them & talk about them all the time & I still cry thinking about them. It’s so hard. Cry as much as you need to & treasure all the memories. Sending you lots of love x

  • @1loverocky
    @1loverocky 2 месяца назад +5

    Your Fur babies are just as important and as any human in your family, not all people think this way, but it is true they are part of your life part of your family and what you are going through is grief and it's perfectly normal. Don't feel bad for crying for your baby...❤🐾

  • @cristleaugusta3986
    @cristleaugusta3986 2 месяца назад +1

    Hi Anna. You’re not the only one who feels this way. Most people say its the hardest loosing a dog because all they’ve given us is unconditional love and happiness. I’ve faced loss before but loosing a pet is so much different and unexplainable because like you said we feel responsible for them.

  • @trixiegirlism
    @trixiegirlism 2 месяца назад +3

    No, your feelings are totally justified. Losing a beloved pet is just as heartbreaking as losing any loved one, maybe even more so for the reasons you stated. I cried every day for eight months after I lost my previous ShihTzu, Trixie. And having to make the same decision you did was the hardest thing I have ever done. Even if we know we have to make those decisions eventually, it doesn't make it any easier. Never say "it's just a dog". They are family members. You know you did the right thing for Theo. The day will come when you can think of him and smile and not cry.

  • @Sunflowergazer
    @Sunflowergazer 2 месяца назад +3

    Anna, I completely understand your pain and sadness. I had to put my cat down on July 1st. I keep reliving the moment they injected her to put her to sleep. I have this guilt that I made the decision but I just couldn’t stand my kitty suffering anymore. She was a different cat the last couple of weeks she was with me and every day was painful knowing she wasn’t well.
    I’ll be fine going about my day and then just break down crying thinking of that day and reliving it.
    Sending you a big hug and lots of love. ❤

  • @SongSparrow-wf2is
    @SongSparrow-wf2is 2 месяца назад +2

    pets are an integral part of our lives and we relate to their individual personalities in our relationship with them🌷Think on the good times and find comfort in the happiness and fun y'all had together🌷

  • @phyllisquinlan
    @phyllisquinlan 2 месяца назад +3

    Thank God you are letting yourself feel all that you are feeling. It takes courage to love. There will come a time when you will remember the joy more and feel the pain less. Let the tears come. Keep your heart open always. Blessings and a hug❤

  • @yesseniahomelovelife
    @yesseniahomelovelife 2 месяца назад +2

    I totally understand you. I lost my dog cupcake she was a golden retriever. She battled cancer. Oh boy did her loss hurt.
    It’s been years and till this day I still miss her. Sending you a big virtual hug.

  • @ashleybramwell9175
    @ashleybramwell9175 2 месяца назад +2

    Oh Anna 😢😭 it’s never easy losing a beloved family pet member no matter how long ago it was 😢

  • @wendymessenger915
    @wendymessenger915 2 месяца назад +1

    Bless you Anna it’s so hard losing a fur baby it’s losing a member of the family 😊of cause I feel that way I’m nearly crying watching you

  • @louiseleonard1992
    @louiseleonard1992 2 месяца назад +5

    Losing a pet is awful it really hurts we have had to put down 3 dogs so i know how it feels and it’s ok to cry and feel sad the memories of Theo will be in your heart forever and always

  • @hayleychallender4914
    @hayleychallender4914 2 месяца назад +1

    Jonathan is right - Losing pets is more akin to losing a young child because you take care of them, but also because you cannot know what he knew or understood there’s no resolution. I wept and wept for months after my dog died. You’re so normal for feeling this way! ❤ I’m so sorry baby Theo is gone, but what a life he led - happy well fed boy who got to live with both his parents and all his siblings and with you as his mum from the start x

  • @amyybaby
    @amyybaby 2 месяца назад +2

    Reading all these comments are helping me feel less alone in my loss. I had to say goodbye to my sweet boy 2 months ago and just like Ana I cry every day. I miss him so much.

  • @rebeccadockerty1830
    @rebeccadockerty1830 2 месяца назад +1

    I'm commenting whilst watching you being vulnerable about the bows, I fully understand how you feel about losing a dog, I lost my Charlie girl in October and its unbelievably hard and it literally breaks my heart every time I see her name or when I see her harness it literally breaks my heart, you're not weird or anything, your feelings are completely valid and I fully empathise with you. I'm now a dog walker so I'm with dogs all the time and they're my happiness. keep smiling hun :)

  • @carolg7281
    @carolg7281 2 месяца назад +1

    You must never feel guilty having your dog put to sleep. He was suffering and it was his time to go. It was absolutely the right thing to do. I’ve been there and it is so hard, they’re a part of your family. The tears will lessen over time and be replaced with all the fond memories you have of him x

  • @JVSwailesBoudicca
    @JVSwailesBoudicca 2 месяца назад +1

    No, you're not weird. When I lost my little dog he was 14 years old & I never got over it enough to have another dog - ever.

  • @hazellivingdoll
    @hazellivingdoll 2 месяца назад +3

    I cried along with you Anna I lost my little dog in March it broke my heart and I cry everyday I loved her so much ❤️

  • @DORISZKA000
    @DORISZKA000 2 месяца назад +6

    I feel your loss so deeply. 😢
    I lost my dog more than 15 years ago and he was my best friend.🥺
    He was very sick the last days of his life. I was at school and he was waiting for me at home. I run home and put him on my lap. He just looked in my eyes and took the last breath. 😭 I was heartbroken. Even to this day I feel that pain and the sadness. I guess it will be always like this. 😢
    I lost my dad, lost two of my grandparents and still I feel that loosing a dog is so much harder. 🥺
    Stay strong dear Anna! ❤️‍🩹

  • @rachaelgrant6813
    @rachaelgrant6813 2 месяца назад +4

    Aww Anna is breaka my heart to see you cry. Grief is so so painful n so damn hard. Your an amazing mummy with a huge loving heart. You gave theo the best life truly. Sending huge hugs n lots of love ❤️ xxx

  • @deeeejayyyy11
    @deeeejayyyy11 2 месяца назад +2

    I feel the exact same way! My baby is only 4 years old but she is basically my child. When I come across videos of people needing to put their pets down, I am bawling 😭 You are their best friend their entire lives even though they are in a short part of ours. So we need to live their lives to the fullest since we really never know how they are feeling or if they are hurting

  • @elljaydalzielholloway6817
    @elljaydalzielholloway6817 2 месяца назад +1

    I had the very same feelings of guilt and sadness after I had one of my cats put to sleep a few years ago. She had kidney failure but was with it mentally and the vet told me she would deteriorate over the coming next 3 months & that it wouldn't be pretty so I decided to save her from that discomfort and pain and let her go. I felt so guilty cause I kept thinking I could have given her so much more love and attention in those coming months but chose the easy way out. The guilt still haunts me. You ain't alone ❤

  • @Martzee
    @Martzee 2 месяца назад +1

    Anna it’s a blessing we can make the choice to stop our beloved pets pain and suffering. You did the right thing with Theo❤ I’m sorry you are in pain😢grieving Theo. Death is a part of life, it happens to all of us eventually and you gave all those dogs the best life ❤ so blessed!!

  • @MrsTM-lp7ks
    @MrsTM-lp7ks 2 месяца назад +1

    We lost one of twin cockers last May and it's one of the most horrific experiences. I still sometimes get upset. They are our fluffy children and just like human children they are part of you. 😢

  • @ellenmeabhdhobrienhall4645
    @ellenmeabhdhobrienhall4645 2 месяца назад +1

    Awh Anna, it's so hard losing a pet hurts so much! Just want to hug you! So much love ❤

  • @Bec18
    @Bec18 2 месяца назад +3

    Thank you for sharing and being so vulnerable with your pet grief!
    I feel so similar to you, I knew my beautiful cat was sick but it was still such a shock and it went so quickly when I took her to the vet! The vet said I could take her home for an extra night or 2 but she was in pain so I didn’t and I still carry guilt about the whole situation!
    She was my best friend and 2 years on I still cry and grieve her!

  • @laylamiriam
    @laylamiriam 2 месяца назад +2

    I lost one of my dogs a couple of months ago and it is so hard. I still get upset thinking about it. You’re not alone ❤️

  • @The2009An
    @The2009An 2 месяца назад +3

    It’s a year and a half now since I’ve lost mine and it’s still painful thinking about when she passed. I watched her die and it was naturally. We didn’t euthanize her and the guilt is insane. I think the guilt we feel is inevitable whether we put them down or not. Either way it sucks. And like you said they are forever our toddlers. And the innocence is incomparable to any human death. And it adds to the fact that you can’t really communicate with them like a human before their death. Everything is the owners decision and that is so gut wrenching. We couldn’t really tell them we’re sorry and how much we loved them and get a real confirmation that they heard us. So I think a pets loss is a whole different kind of pain. ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @jennifermurray6949
    @jennifermurray6949 2 месяца назад +1

    I lost my sweet Angel girl. She was the last birthday present my Dad gave me before he passed away. She lived a beautiful 13 years. Losing her was one of the hardest deaths I’ve ever been through. She was my world. I felt like I lost the last piece of my Dad I had.

  • @lissam6295
    @lissam6295 2 месяца назад +2

    It’s going to be 2 years, since I lost my soulmate my cat I was lucky to have her for 18 years , let me tell you too, I still have moments where it overcomes me and I cry because of a picture or a video is showing up. I miss her so much too so it’s normal let it out. Everyone with a pet knows how you feel. 😭❤️

  • @maggiemagsbond83
    @maggiemagsbond83 2 месяца назад +2

    Don’t feel bad I have been there it never truly goes away but one day the good memories take over the bad. They are part of your soul sending you love 💕

  • @dunebuggie
    @dunebuggie 2 месяца назад +1

    A pet is a loving daily companion. They are like children, in some way.

  • @LittleT287
    @LittleT287 2 месяца назад +1

    I'm right along with you and everyone! It is the worst losing your baby..I lost my girl it'll be 2 years this November and had to make the hardest decision too and will never get over it! They are like are children and we will always love and think/cry for them forever and one day will hold them and they will give us all the kisses! Love you all!!❤

  • @oliviaann5535
    @oliviaann5535 2 месяца назад +2

    Thank you for being real. Sending you love and hugs. Your not crazy grief is a natural and important process we need to share more of in the U.K. particularly. It’s not worse or better it’s just you grieve in different ways for different individuals. X

  • @teachmrshh6169
    @teachmrshh6169 2 месяца назад +1

    You’re older and probably connected more with these dogs. We’ve been through more and the dogs provide comfort through those things:I had many deaths and a childhood dog that died, but my Lex died 6 1/2 years ago and it still hits me like a freight train. I still cry and that’s ok. He was so loved.

  • @alyssaguerrera8409
    @alyssaguerrera8409 2 месяца назад +1

    Your feelings are completely normal!
    Our pets become part of the family and when we loose them we loose a part of the family ❤

  • @elizabethcaley9836
    @elizabethcaley9836 2 месяца назад +1

    My heart is broken watching this Anna. I'm so sorry, losing a pet is so hard. It might not be the same as a dog, but my cat died last year and I was devastated and still am, she died so fast and I saw her suffer before she died. I have some idea of how you feel. Sending virtual hugs.

  • @lorid1395
    @lorid1395 2 месяца назад +2

    Oh Anna that was the most emotional video. Theo was such a precious soul. I felt the exact same about my dog all these years later though he had a terrible passing so I feel so much guilt and sadness over that. ❤❤❤❤❤

    • @AnnaSaccone
      @AnnaSaccone  Месяц назад +1

      I’m so sorry to hear about your dog too 😢💔 If I’ve learned anything it’s that guilt will eat away at you and it’s never worth it. I think we need to just let it go and accept that that’s what our pups would want for us to do too 🥺

  • @pennystewart7728
    @pennystewart7728 25 дней назад

    I totally get it Anna, you love him so much. I lost my boy nearly two years ago and it still hurts and I still miss him and always will
    I have recently got a puppy and I felt so guilty in the beginning but it helped me so much. Our dogs are so precious ❤

  • @lesliehornstein7744
    @lesliehornstein7744 2 месяца назад +1

    Your furbaby is another child. We love them so much. We had to make a choice for one of ours and it still tears me up. Your grief is just a testament to how much of a kind soul you are. Sending love! ❤

  • @HollerAtChurMother
    @HollerAtChurMother 2 месяца назад +1

    Losing a pet is so incredibly hard. Especially because they aren't verbal like humans are and you always hope you made the right decisions for them. But look on the bright side -they were blessed with a family and so much love til the moment they passed. And we will see them again later on in life :)

  • @Rayraycat32
    @Rayraycat32 2 месяца назад +1

    The emptiness that our fur babies leave behind when they pass is catastrophic. Don’t minimize your grief by comparing their loss to other losses, they all deserve our pain and remembrance .It matters, they mattered and dogs are such sweet loving souls that love us unconditionally, missing them is our way of honouring them and what they meant to us ❤️❤️❤️❤️ you are also a sweet soul and that’s why it hurts so bad.

  • @mii89s
    @mii89s 2 месяца назад +2

    Maybe this lost hurts more because it’s so recent. I cried with you Anna ❤

  • @kellyharris101
    @kellyharris101 Месяц назад +1

    Hugs Anna it’s never easy loosing a pet x and there part of the family I treat mine like I treat my children xx

  • @em700
    @em700 2 месяца назад +2

    Oh Anna huge love and hugs. You’re a loving empathetic dog Mum ❤

  • @amandav283
    @amandav283 2 месяца назад +1

    You're not alone. We had to put our cat of 18yrs to sleep last September and I still randomly lose it. Hits out of no where.

  • @emmalatham9011
    @emmalatham9011 2 месяца назад +1

    I've lost grandparents and I grieved more when my dog passed away. I felt the same way as you. I felt so much more upset when my dog died and it was much more difficult to deal with. I think when you lose a pet, you lose an aspect of the household. They are with you every day and you watch them grow up, and I think you are right about pets seeming like a toddler as they are often still happy and energetic even in older age. They also have such an innocence about them and it can feel more cruel when they pass away because there's no way of explaining to them what's going on. My dog had cancer and it just seemed horrible that he didn't really know what was going on. I've found it really reassuring knowing someone else has felt the same about their pet so thank you so much for sharing this 🩷

  • @lindatobin2123
    @lindatobin2123 2 месяца назад +2

    Anna my mother went though what you are going through it’s been 30 yrs she thinks about it all the time her first dog and her last it hurts to much.sorry for your loss

  • @SimmoneBolland-k2k
    @SimmoneBolland-k2k 2 месяца назад +3

    Omg my heart goes out to you grieving is the wordy thing ever I say it’s a natural thing and don’t be to hard on your self he was like one if your babies

  • @tokiyasblossom
    @tokiyasblossom 2 месяца назад +2

    Hugs Anna! I can’t imagine how much pain you’re in 🥺🥺🥺

  • @larissa_green
    @larissa_green 2 месяца назад +1

    Losing a pet is like losing a part of yourself, it’s one of the hardest goodbyes we have to face in life 💔 A few years ago I lost my cat of 17 years. I’ve had him since I was a baby, and the day we said goodbye was the absolute most terrible day of my life.. you’ll never truly get over it, but hopefully it gives you comfort that Theo had such a great doggie life surrounded by people that loved him so much and he is looking down at you and cheering for you 👼🏼 🩵🩵🩵

  • @asha0885
    @asha0885 2 месяца назад +2

    I wish we could have a conversation Anna instead of just a comment 😢 My heart goes out to you!.. I was pregnant with my first child 2 years ago and my mother had a terminal illness. She passed away on valentines day, exactly two weeks before I gave birth. I then had to make the most horrible decision to put my beautiful 3 year old Kelpie x Border collie, Ruby, to sleep due to sudden, aggressive, onset of grand mal seizures. She had a seizure two weeks before I had to put her to sleep then another a week later and then 3 in one day and Vets said medication wouldnt help, The seizures would start as she was in a relaxed state about to sleep and I think the poor thing could sense it coming on each time and would never fully relax bless her. She would get aggressive towards me and my partner, try to jump out of closed windows and walk around lal airy fairy after a seizure. I'll never forget she was her happy self wagging her tail at the vets when we had to go in and make the horrible decision to put her to sleep after her drip medication failed and she had a 5th seizure. It ripped my heart out signing the papers to consent putting her to sleep. 2 days later, I gave birth to my baby girl. 3 weeks later my MIL passed. The month of February and March of 2022 were the most horrible of my life and I shed so many tears but like you, I feel responsible for putting my dog to sleep. I got her cremated and had never cried so many tears in my life, she got me through the pandemic and lockdowns, made it easier when I was experiencing anticipatory grief when I found out my mother had a terminal illness at the start of my pregnancy. She was there for me when I lost my mum. I still grieve Ruby and everyone I lost. I dont think we ever get over it. We just learn to carry it with us

  • @pamelamedina6220
    @pamelamedina6220 2 месяца назад +1

    Oh Anna I’m going through the exact thing. My fur baby was a cat who I had for 19 years. Your a few months in mourning and my Oscer was put down May 6. Like you the worst is seeing the procedure happening. The guilt I carry is so heavy. I can’t even talk about everything that he went through. It’s to painful. 2 months now and I’m not crying 24-7. The pain of mourning him comes in waves. I just went through a trigger moment and I went straight to the day of losing him. I was so depressed and not able to function. I agree that this pain is the worst. Not everyone can understand what we’re going through. There’s so much more I could say but I don’t want to open up the wound to much . But I just wanted to let you know your not alone and your absolutely not crazy!

  • @meganjackson4640
    @meganjackson4640 2 месяца назад +2

    I am so sorry for you loss ❤

  • @mariacasella6474
    @mariacasella6474 2 месяца назад +2

    Theo was and will always be so missed and forever loved-I’m so very sorry Anna 🙏🙏your not crazy or wrong,I remember when your first got them all,you have always been so good to your pets they are your babies too -Theo will always hold a very special place in your heart-I lost my cat 17years ago to cancer and I still can’t have another one with me,I understand and we all do.

  • @justinecopland8330
    @justinecopland8330 2 месяца назад +1

    We had to have our girl cat put to sleep February 2023 and i still break my heart over her regularly 💔 she was 14 years old id had her since 9 weeks old and i dont think il ever get over her 🐈‍⬛

  • @AnnEckhart
    @AnnEckhart 2 месяца назад +1

    I've had to put two dogs to sleep now, and both were brutal even though both were so sick. I feel guilty that I didn't do more for them, but then I feel guilty because I should have done it sooner as they were both suffering. Having other dogs to tend to, and then adding in new dogs really does help the grieving process as you have someone else to love. I have pugs, and the two I have now remind me a lot of the two I lost. Hugs to you!

  • @harrod1983
    @harrod1983 2 месяца назад +1

    It never gets easier I lost my dog couple years ago I still cry 😢

  • @kates1118
    @kates1118 2 месяца назад +1

    my Banjo was 14 and it was April 2020 bloody Covid and he had to be put down because he was becoming so ill it wasn’t fair, due to living in Melbourne where we had the strictest and longest lockdowns anywhere I was not allowed to go into the vets and be with him as he took his last breaths. I was hysterical as I went back to my car 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢I can only imagine how people were not being able to be with family who were passing away during lockdowns. So damn cruel I will never forget it 😢😢😢🇦🇺

  • @emmagreenall3386
    @emmagreenall3386 2 месяца назад +1

    I sadly lost my Westie 10 years ago, but the grief has got worse. Every single dog that looks like her, but I still talk about her as if she's still here. Your dog is your world, but you were also theirs 🐾 they revolve their life around yours and it's the hardest thing to ever forget. Sending lots of love xxxx

  • @Lizziel23
    @Lizziel23 2 месяца назад +1

    I lots both my cats in the space of 6 months and even though it’s been 8 months and 2 months I still have moments, they just really were part of the family

  • @loricornejo1346
    @loricornejo1346 2 месяца назад +1

    I get your pain..understandable when a little bit brings memories😢I miss my Sammy, the best beagle. I understand the dog/person grief..🐶

  • @suefrantom6355
    @suefrantom6355 2 месяца назад +1

    Oh Anna I feel your pain so so much, my family lost our fur baby tragically 3yrs ago and we all still miss & grieve for him. We are trying to manage it and try to focus on the good memories, just go with it and never be afraid to show your love & emotions it helps to manage it. 💞🙏💙💞

  • @joycecarter6836
    @joycecarter6836 6 дней назад

    I lost my beautiful dog Tommy in 2023 March. He was almost 18 and i still cry non stop. I miss him so much and i also feel the horrible and cant stop thinking about the day we had to put him to sleep. Loosing our Tommy my whole world crashed. I know exactly on how u feel. You are not alone. Your video broke my heart Sending hugs and support

  • @annefredrikkesindinghaugen4323
    @annefredrikkesindinghaugen4323 Месяц назад +1

    Of course we feel the same ❤ my Rocky is soon 12.....I just can't imagine life without him. 💔

  • @shellyst.laurent9422
    @shellyst.laurent9422 Месяц назад

    I had to put both of my fur babies down and cried way more for their loss than some members of my family. They were my everything. It was so hard to make that decision. It’s heartbreaking. You’re perfectly normal feeling the way you do. It’s a horrible feeling 💔😢