@Jordan B Peterson Thank you. My dad is dying of bowl cancer. I am a recovering alcoholic. Listening to you gave me some hope! I buried my step mum a week before Christmas. And regardless of the fact I am a recovering addict I took your advice and I am trying my best to be there for my Father in his last days. I am being the "best" daughter I can be under difficult circumstances. So thank you. Because when my daddy dies I think I will at least, not to try to follow him. My heart goes out to you and your family. Much love. X
Mistress Crimson 🙏 prayers from the Philippines 🇵🇭. I pray that the love 💖 of Jesus overwhelm you as you go through these difficult yet potentially pivotal stage of your life. May you seek Him and have a personal encounter with our Lord Jesus Christ 🤗🙏
I am sorry you are going through such a tough time. Congratulations on getting sober, it must be tough but you are doing it anyway. I'm sure your father must be proud to see you making big changes in your life.
Even if you can't always hear it, please remember there are people out here cheering your personal victories and crying with your hardships. Sincere wishes for your continued strength in hardship.
thank you for your words, thank you for the inspiration, and do not forget that everything you have done for other people is making this world so much better to live
12 more rules: 1. Do not carelessly denigrate social institutions or creative achievements. 2. Imagine who you can be and aim single-mindedly at that. 3. Work as hard you possibly can at one thing - and see what happens. 4. Do not hide unwanted things in the fog. 5. Abandon ideology. 6. Notice that opportunity lurks where responsibly has been abdicated. 7. Do not do things that you hate. 8. Try to make one room at your house as beautiful as possible. 9. If old memories still make you cry - write them down carefully and completely. 10. Plan and work diligently to maintain the romance in your relationship. 11. Be grateful in spite of your suffering. 12. Do not allow yourself to become resentful, deceitful or arrogant.
Renata Santos I think it can be applied both individually and socially. Individually, your greatest potential for progress is in those areas of your life where you have failed to take responsibility. And socially, the greatest potential to make a difference, make money, etc. is in those areas of social life where other people have abandoned responsibility and are not doing what needs to be done.
Hey Dr Peterson. I know you won't see this but you are the only role model I've ever had. I really admire you because of how helpful you are to me and others in your lectures and seemingly everything you say. Like if you could have one possible skill, being able to literally improve people's lives by a large margin and just by speaking. Wow. I missed out on your ticket to Sydney which sold out in 2 hours. Probably not going to regret almost anything as much as being able to not see you in person . Thanks for all your help. And Being (in capital) one of the good guys on the Earth. Thank you so much.
@@rickspalding3047 It's business as usual. Million dollar book deals and sponsership filter his speech inevitably. A lot of it is regurgitation because people are asking the same shit. So either many are new listeners or haven't put the stuff to practice. Where is the post modernism in this though?
I feel just from your words,your feelings,your actions, how you hesitate before answering a question, but replying with self knowledge, replaying in your mind your situation,within a 4second pause,out of your mouth comes honesty,wisdom,truth,,,,,that you've came, n arose from depression,hurt,loneliness, sadness,,,,,but you've rose above all that,and used each feeling,to become the man you are,,,,thank you God bless
The gap that you create between the stimulus and the response is where your quality of life improves. You become much more than an emotional clod of reactionary management and control. Ironwill
Hi James. I noticed that exact quality of pausing and checking in when I spent time with Byron Katie. She's a genuine enlightened person IMHO, whereas Jordan is more of a ... genius sage. Either way, they're exemplifying "right speech."
I agree, and, it's funny to think of it as new, when wisdom teachings have been with us since time immemorial. Dr. P is framing old stuff in a new way, which works beautifully because wisdom is timeless. And, we live in time, so we need to grapple with bringing the two polarities together in our lives.
Yes, and they're able to do that because they realize the truth of it for themselves. "Realize" not only intellectually but also embodying it. That's what Dr. P is calling us to do. Cheers mate
I love these Q & As ! A two hour treat to enjoy, you never know what you're going to get! *THANK YOU* to those who support Peterson and make this possible.
12 more rules: 1. Sleep with your feet up high 2. Don’t deep fry watermelons 3. If you encounter a cat, give it a hat 4. Jump around in the forest 5. Keep your books in the fridge, so the knowledge will be preserved 6. If life gives you lemons, politely say “No, thank you.” 7. Never stare at jellyfish 8. Roll rectangular rocks until they’re round 9. Clean your roommate 10. Eat salad with your left hand 11. Don’t swim outside of water 12. If someone smiles at you, give the person a kiss on the forehead
When you were raised by Jordan and Tammy Peterson and even your basement is clean and tidy, and beautiful. Thank you Dr. Peterson, for everything you do for everyone. 🖖 Hope the surgery will be exceeding-expectations successful.
You had a puppy nearby and did not show it to us? Do you not understand the internet? There are only 4 things the internet agrees on and one of them is “show us the puppy”.
I really appreciate you. Thank you for following your intuition and orienting yourself toward the greatest good for you. It has been helping me sharpen tools I already had, and find tools I didn't know existed. I can break myself into all the pieces I have used to build myself and put them together in a solid foundation to continue to build on.
That's a dangerous line of thought. Sounds ideological. Don't slavishly accept all this man says as truth. Be critical. I'm sure that is what JBP wants aswell.
Can't get enough of this man! Will be inticipating the next book! So thankful Jorden Peterson is on the planet! Godspeed to his daughter and entire family!
Thanks to you, I am currently starting a personal project on self-development. (I'm gonna record my self in the way of finding a meaning)After several times of thinking about suicide , my brain is finally breathing, I wish I could thank you back the amount of wisdom you are bringing to my head.
Highly looking forward to the new book and wishing your family well & your daughter specifically a smooth and effective procedure. All the best Dr. Peterson; I can't thank you enough for all of your good work!
Been listening to your podcasts and involved in the self authoring programs for the past three months. I´ve moved close to my university and aproved an exam I failed four times... I´m looking for a job and currently preparing another exam to enter to my 3rd year of Medicine. Your lectures help me beyond words Mr Peterson. Thank you
WOW! JBP...What a wonderful gift you are to this world.... may peace and blessings be your steadfast companion...Your integrity shines like a beacon of hope in a world that is very much in need. We should all Listen to this mans words and try to do the actions...I am very grateful for having learned of you and your teaching! THANK YOU!!
I did the clean my room thing. Now I've been listening to your talks and unloading the dishwasher on days that are not mine to do so. Mostly because it's something nice to do for my roommates and because it's something I can do to be productive.
Dear Mr. Peterson, Thank you for sharing all 12 of your new tips with us so that we can begin to benefit from your wisdom as soon as possible. We will be praying for your daughter’s surgery to be successful. Safe travels!!
God damn, I just love this guy man. I mean, he’s so intelligent and could probably destroy most people verbally yet he’s not afraid of displaying his emotions and vulnerability. Mostly though, it’s the common sense he’s trying to impart to the listener. He’s helped me so much lately to get through some things. I’ve never heard anyone quite like him. Thank you so much JP. Your wisdom is so appreciated!
Dr Peterson words cannot describe how much I admire you. I’ve dealt with so many traumatic events in my past and you give me the strength I need to hold fast to my principles when darkness descends. I’m currently researching as much on philosophy, politics, ethics, history, and everything I can to form a coherent worldview. I hope that one day I can be an inspiration for others, just as you have continually inspired me to strive for improvement.
DomManInT1 Well said. Similar in the work environment, we can’t sort our co-workers since they will sort themselves. We will free up so much time by focusing on our individual r&r and work together towards the company mission and goals. Don’t let the energy vampires take what belongs to you!
I listen to the Q & A's every month and all of them provide something of value, but I felt there was something with this one that stood out for me and made it noticeably better (for a lack of a better word) than some of the ones in recent memory. The questions asked and elicited responses from Dr Peterson were really good.
Don’t call it 12 rules for life again!!!! Beyond order sounds so much better, you’re not gonna get the credit or respect you deserve by letting people simply call you a simple self help author, I have the upmost faith in you Jordan
Another brilliant QandA session thank you so much Dr Peterson! But I also want to say thanks to the people who asked those questions - every single one was a great question and was very useful to me! Good luck to all who are looking for the light!
I can't see that happening anytime soon. They've basically crushed all competition by providing this good a platform. They have to mess up in a massive way for some other website to get a chance.
The one thing in common with everything in your life is you. The emphasis Jordan gives on making a positive difference by taking responsibility upon yourself is so important, and if you want to have the greatest long-term effect in changing others: realizing your interactions with them (exposure upon them) is only in the immediate or often destructive when you're trying to force your will upon them rather than inspire them. Please inspire people to do the right thing as Jordan is. Thanks Jordan, because the inspiration that drives you to continue your work is being passed on to us.
I couldn’t get to the comments fast enough to check on this. That’s an AC30 and they’re not cheap. If you buy that amp (hopefully) you know what you’re doing on guitar
Gosh, I love these. Your approach to intellectual discourse makes it easier for someone like me who is slow at grasping ideas learn new things. I find your words of wisdom edifying intellectually and even spiritually. All the while you keep it real. It's remarkably cathartic.
You are an amazing man. I've been following your RUclips channel since the fall of '16. Your work and your words have contributed much to my improving my life, and by extension all those I love
this is my favorite way to watch dr peterson. His lectures were truly lifechanging to me when I first found them, but a lot of his talks and debates are getting a bit repetitive for me now. In this format, I feel like I still get a lot of new insights in to my own questions about life, human nature, and myself. Thank you for all the time and attention you give all of us dr peterson, you have helped me so much!
Question 1 part B 'How can I talk about the resentment of my childhood in a way that benefits them instead of giving them guilt? ' I had a very long and robust list of resentments against my parents, some in the past and some still ongoing. However in October 2018 we had a family crisis and I had to go home to Scotland and take care of both of my parents for 10 days. It was one of the best times ever! I was able to look after them - mum has rheumatoid arthritic and dementia and dad, who had just come out of hospital has a heart condition. In this time of crisis all of my resentments especially the ongoing ones just seemed to not matter anymore. I realised that I was somehow using these 'resentments' to isolate myself from my whole family. I may have like JBP has said misremembered events or worse manufactured them! Now I have a lovely connection with all my family, even the ones I like least. I am 60, don't bloody wait as long as I have #FFS 🙂
Thank you for sharing your story! I have such a problem in my family. My father has so many resentments for his parents, he has not had contact with them for a few months. And they suffer so much because of it. They're both over 80, very sick and knowing that their only child doesn't care about them only makes their health issues worse. And of course they were not the best parents in the world. But no one is perfect! And I can't understand why my dad doesn't understand that. He was,well...not a good parent as well. Definintely worse for me than his parents were for him. But I know that what is in the past, should stay in the past. And know I'm not perfect myself. I'm just afraid my grandparents won't live long enough for him to change his mind :(
Pedro Gomes I'm sure the stress put upon him by having so many followers opening up their hearts and minds telling him he has given tem a renewed hope in life.Listening to him we know he is aware of the Social Burden he is shouldering. Being the responsible person he is.
fuck, man. how are every single one of these videos earth shattering? that stuff about envy. that's years of introspection saved. this is truly gold. thank you.
Would it be possible to publish some ‘willing participants’ self authoring programs, or parts of them, to use as examples and motivation for getting started?
piggypigpig haha I know. We have already made a lot of progress in that regard. Google Swachh Bharat Abhiyaan. The gov. here really pushed for creating toilets in every home esp. in the rural areas. It has been a success to a large degree.
I wanted to listen to your lecture in Zurich, but the tickets (just a week after the announcement) were already sold out. I feel quite sad for the missed oppurtunity, I hope you will come back again in Switzerland or in Italy. Thank you for everything you do.
The way in which you address resentment is so powerful. Most of us have unresolved issues and carry that toxicicity with us and exude resentment and bitterness onto our outside enviroment. Manifests in relationships and destroy! And most dont have a clue why and where it is coming from. Thank you for this and articulating what resentment and burying those emotions! Leaves us stuck and repeating the same mistakes again amd again!
When they are in complete denial and lack self awareness or insight and they blame you for all of it and all there is is projection how can you even bring it up? Or even suggest they have a problem?
Another beautiful thing from AA. Right down 5 things at night that you’re going to do tomorrow. JBP is spot on in regards to making them reasonable. For me literally it was 1. Brush my teeth 2. Eat breakfast 3. Call my sponsor 4. Go for a walk. 5. Read for 15 mins. Try that! And yes definitely remember humility is a wonderful ally.
There are few men in this world that speak truth. You are a blessing to this world. Stay strong, trust in THE LORD and your labour will continue to bear fruit. I praise the lord for men like you who show us our true potential. Thank you sir! My families life is 1000% better since you told me to take charge and be responsible for what I can. God bless you Mr. Peterson. I live in Guadalajara Mexico where cartel violence rattles our peace day in and day out. I've lost 2 friends and countless neighbors due to cartel violence and its hard to stay positive in this environment due to the crime rate and the insufficient pay but your words keep me strong and make me keep pushing myself to make a legitimate living regardless of how hard it is to maintain a legal income. I believe that God speaks volumes through you sir. Keep up the great work! We need you! I need you! Thank you for everything! And thank God for you!
It would be very interesting to have them debate against each other, as Stephen is rather liberal and left leaning. In any way the conversation between both would be as interesting as it would be entertaining, and guaranteed to be civil at least
God bless you Dr Peterson. I believe that your next book will be even more important and fruitful than your last. Thank you for your extraordinary efforts, may we all seek to dedicate ourselves as you have.
Being grateful inspite of your suffering... This is something i have been trying to cultivate within myself recently due to poor health... It gives me great reassurance to know that you'll be helping me with that going forward... Honestly dude, as im sure that you hear constantly, you've helped my life so much... My life is working better based on trying to implement your lessons... My life is workinv better based on trying!!!!... Love you to pieces Jordan B Peterson, you've helped save my life and one day i will look you in the eye and tell you the same... God bless you sir
Happy New Year sir! I’m a few hours late but I appreciate the video. I’ve been watching your videos for almost two weeks now and you’re perspective has given me the confirmation I sought to ensure I’m on the correct path and I am deeply thankful for it. Synchronicity is an important phenomenon in my life and my current goals along with my current actions and interests were verified as highly valuable by your messages right after I formulated and implemented them. Once again, I appreciate your work and I hope you continue to help the masses with your influence. Thank you!
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Dr. Peterson has taken a permanent residence in my head as part of my subconscious voice. 😂
Same. :)
@@steven5054 You do know that he *is* a psychiatrist, right?
Dr Peterson's voice is my cricket's voice as well! Lol!
@@steven5054 Yep, my apologies, totally messed up that one lol
Live4Harmonie same! I quote him all of the time and think “what would JP do?”
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I love this comment!!!
@@mistymcd2292 Why? It is incoherent and meaningless.
@@lswachkkdk5959 its funny
@@lswachkkdk5959 It's a meme
@@sheep2329 Just because it is a meme doesn't mean it isn't incoherent blather.
@Jordan B Peterson Thank you. My dad is dying of bowl cancer. I am a recovering alcoholic. Listening to you gave me some hope! I buried my step mum a week before Christmas. And regardless of the fact I am a recovering addict I took your advice and I am trying my best to be there for my Father in his last days. I am being the "best" daughter I can be under difficult circumstances. So thank you. Because when my daddy dies I think I will at least, not to try to follow him. My heart goes out to you and your family. Much love. X
Mistress Crimson 🙏 prayers from the Philippines 🇵🇭. I pray that the love 💖 of Jesus overwhelm you as you go through these difficult yet potentially pivotal stage of your life. May you seek Him and have a personal encounter with our Lord Jesus Christ 🤗🙏
What kind of bowl
I wish you best you certainly deserve chance.
I am sorry you are going through such a tough time. Congratulations on getting sober, it must be tough but you are doing it anyway. I'm sure your father must be proud to see you making big changes in your life.
Even if you can't always hear it, please remember there are people out here cheering your personal victories and crying with your hardships. Sincere wishes for your continued strength in hardship.
Best wishes for your daughter's upcoming surgery!
Praying that things will go well for her 🙏❤
thank you for your words, thank you for the inspiration, and do not forget that everything you have done for other people is making this world so much better to live
I’m off Patreon and donating directly to JP instead. I support the initiative. 👍
Give to the wealthy. Keep giving. Know money will drown your soul. They hate the false promisery notes. Give them truth or enjoy suffering
You're awesome Dan!
infinite540 I know.
Me too. Biology is hate speech in this sick, sick west.
Good luck and best wishes for your daughter's surgery and recovery.
12 more rules:
1. Do not carelessly denigrate social institutions or creative achievements.
2. Imagine who you can be and aim single-mindedly at that.
3. Work as hard you possibly can at one thing - and see what happens.
4. Do not hide unwanted things in the fog.
5. Abandon ideology.
6. Notice that opportunity lurks where responsibly has been abdicated.
7. Do not do things that you hate.
8. Try to make one room at your house as beautiful as possible.
9. If old memories still make you cry - write them down carefully and completely.
10. Plan and work diligently to maintain the romance in your relationship.
11. Be grateful in spite of your suffering.
12. Do not allow yourself to become resentful, deceitful or arrogant.
thank you
Would anyone mind explaining me the number 6?
Renata Santos I think it can be applied both individually and socially. Individually, your greatest potential for progress is in those areas of your life where you have failed to take responsibility. And socially, the greatest potential to make a difference, make money, etc. is in those areas of social life where other people have abandoned responsibility and are not doing what needs to be done.
@@Alex.Kalashnik Thank you for your reply I appreciate it : )
Oh great 12 more...
Hey Dr Peterson. I know you won't see this but you are the only role model I've ever had. I really admire you because of how helpful you are to me and others in your lectures and seemingly everything you say. Like if you could have one possible skill, being able to literally improve people's lives by a large margin and just by speaking. Wow.
I missed out on your ticket to Sydney which sold out in 2 hours. Probably not going to regret almost anything as much as being able to not see you in person .
Thanks for all your help. And Being (in capital) one of the good guys on the Earth. Thank you so much.
Check out the ticketek marketplace. There's some resellers for the Melbourne venue. Take a long train ride? :P
Same here in cali.. I waited soo long just to come home from work and have everything sold out. Actually sad, really sad
@@rickspalding3047 It's business as usual. Million dollar book deals and sponsership filter his speech inevitably. A lot of it is regurgitation because people are asking the same shit. So either many are new listeners or haven't put the stuff to practice. Where is the post modernism in this though?
Cool shit Booni. Glad you benefit
@@rickspalding3047 What? Seriously, what? We clearly did not watch the same q&a just now.
Prayers for your daughter. Prayers for your continued endeavors, health, and safety.
I feel just from your words,your feelings,your actions, how you hesitate before answering a question, but replying with self knowledge, replaying in your mind your situation,within a 4second pause,out of your mouth comes honesty,wisdom,truth,,,,,that you've came, n arose from depression,hurt,loneliness, sadness,,,,,but you've rose above all that,and used each feeling,to become the man you are,,,,thank you God bless
@@steven5054 So is cynicism.
The gap that you create between the stimulus and the response is where your quality of life improves. You become much more than an emotional clod of reactionary management and control. Ironwill
Hi James. I noticed that exact quality of pausing and checking in when I spent time with Byron Katie. She's a genuine enlightened person IMHO, whereas Jordan is more of a ... genius sage. Either way, they're exemplifying "right speech."
I agree, and, it's funny to think of it as new, when wisdom teachings have been with us since time immemorial. Dr. P is framing old stuff in a new way, which works beautifully because wisdom is timeless. And, we live in time, so we need to grapple with bringing the two polarities together in our lives.
Yes, and they're able to do that because they realize the truth of it for themselves. "Realize" not only intellectually but also embodying it. That's what Dr. P is calling us to do. Cheers mate
I love these Q & As ! A two hour treat to enjoy, you never know what you're going to get! *THANK YOU* to those who support Peterson and make this possible.
You love HATE. You watch people dying and murdering. You detest humanity and seek to destroy it. Hail Entropy
@@spinningspin6053 Dude...get help.
Entropy??...isn't that what they stick up your butt-end when you have piles?
“Do not do things that you hate”.
Looks like I won’t be going to work tomorrow.
Maybe i'll chill out and do NOTHING tomorrow.
JBP accidentally will inspire whole generation to procrastinate
Lol. @@nedenstation
haha I don't think that's the way that rule should be interpreted
Lol!
12 more rules:
1. Sleep with your feet up high
2. Don’t deep fry watermelons
3. If you encounter a cat, give it a hat
4. Jump around in the forest
5. Keep your books in the fridge, so the knowledge will be preserved
6. If life gives you lemons, politely say “No, thank you.”
7. Never stare at jellyfish
8. Roll rectangular rocks until they’re round
9. Clean your roommate
10. Eat salad with your left hand
11. Don’t swim outside of water
12. If someone smiles at you, give the person a kiss on the forehead
Id buy that book.. seems reasonable
Konrad My
:) @5
And FFS please don't put pineapple on a damn pizza.
Konrad My “Treat yourself like someone you are responsible for killing”
these are magical and profound
Thank you, these talks have saved me quite literally
When you were raised by Jordan and Tammy Peterson and even your basement is clean and tidy, and beautiful.
Thank you Dr. Peterson, for everything you do for everyone. 🖖
Hope the surgery will be exceeding-expectations successful.
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Jordan. You are an absolutely incredible, inspiring, and necessary person in this unbelievably large world.
All humans MUST die
Spinning Spin Praise be to the might of Satan
I vote for Beyond Mere Order as a title. It has a nice ring to it. Thank you for leading the charge for rational, intelligent thought.
Eric Laing
How about ‘Transcending Order’ ?
Something Approximating Order
How about
"Beyond punishment and reward True Rightousness"
@@Sanctified57 Nah, too cliche and common.
I think 'Beyond Order' is snappier. Adding the 'mere' implies that order is the default state. Achieving order is a difficult task in its own right.
Praying for you and your family...Thank you for all your hard work. You make me proud as a fellow Canadian !
I love the black and white cover concept for the book pair! Quite classy.
Quite Tao.
@@deedlessdeity218 Exactly! 👌
I have pulled off My 12 rules for life cover... It was annoying me.
Although it does have a snazzy autograph :)
Shadow and light, Ying and yang, chaos and order
ying yang thank you man
I thank God for you Jordan B Peterson. You're amazing! God bless you and your family.
I’ll keep your daughter in my thoughts and prayers. Thanks for the many positive things you do.
You had a puppy nearby and did not show it to us? Do you not understand the internet? There are only 4 things the internet agrees on and one of them is “show us the puppy”.
if it's not a cat nobody cares.
I agree with ferodaktyl
@@evilcartoonmoon3370 I agree with Herb! :-D
Agreed. Show us the puppy. What is wrong with you...
It's the puppy rule.
I really appreciate you. Thank you for following your intuition and orienting yourself toward the greatest good for you. It has been helping me sharpen tools I already had, and find tools I didn't know existed. I can break myself into all the pieces I have used to build myself and put them together in a solid foundation to continue to build on.
Please do keep the Q&As regular seeing as you enjoy them. They're incredibly useful.
About confronting conflict:
“...Don’t be more afraid of engaging in this process than you are afraid of not engaging...”. Thank you, doctor.
Awesome. Jordan you are a marvellous force for good. The war is ever present. I am old too. Please think about appointing your disciples.
That's a dangerous line of thought. Sounds ideological. Don't slavishly accept all this man says as truth. Be critical. I'm sure that is what JBP wants aswell.
Can't get enough of this man! Will be inticipating the next book! So thankful Jorden Peterson is on the planet! Godspeed to his daughter and entire family!
Thanks to you, I am currently starting a personal project on self-development. (I'm gonna record my self in the way of finding a meaning)After several times of thinking about suicide , my brain is finally breathing, I wish I could thank you back the amount of wisdom you are bringing to my head.
All the best. Look after yourself.
Good luck!
Love you Jordan and your mind and your rules, You are making this world a better place.
If everyone listened to Jordan Peterson the world could be a much nicer place to live in. We start with ourselves. Share with friends !
Highly looking forward to the new book and wishing your family well & your daughter specifically a smooth and effective procedure. All the best Dr. Peterson; I can't thank you enough for all of your good work!
Love everything your doing and saying Jordan b Peterson ! Motivating Millions !! We are With You!!!!
Jordan B. Peterson! You have made my life so much better than I could have ever dreamed. Please never stop thinking. We all need it!
This man is my hero. Thank you so much.
Been listening to your podcasts and involved in the self authoring programs for the past three months. I´ve moved close to my university and aproved an exam I failed four times... I´m looking for a job and currently preparing another exam to enter to my 3rd year of Medicine. Your lectures help me beyond words Mr Peterson. Thank you
I watch 1:23:59 probably daily. Its the only thing keeping me on the path i set for myself.
Me to
Thank you Dr. Peterson!I I wish I could express my gratitude and appreciation for you. You and your family are always in my prayers. God bless!
Happy New Year..Dr. Peterson and Family..wishing a Happy and Safe...For years to come!!
Thank You for your continued perseverance in standing up for free speech. I'm looking forward to the new book.
I love this look DR. J. Your Haircut is Dope AF!!! keep that look going. I just got your 12 Rules for Life book. I'm a HUGE fan!
WOW! JBP...What a wonderful gift you are to this world.... may peace and blessings be your steadfast companion...Your integrity shines like a beacon of hope in a world that is very much in need. We should all Listen to this mans words and try to do the actions...I am very grateful for having learned of you and your teaching! THANK YOU!!
JBP will be remembered in history for his work ethics first, then for his messages. I have deep respect for this controlled and orderly hustle.
I did the clean my room thing. Now I've been listening to your talks and unloading the dishwasher on days that are not mine to do so. Mostly because it's something nice to do for my roommates and because it's something I can do to be productive.
But wait, Professor P., the new rules really should be numbered 13-24, because we are going to be referring to them by their number.
Excellent point.
Better to back up and go A1-12 and B1-12. imo.
Agree
Dear Mr. Peterson, Thank you for sharing all 12 of your new tips with us so that we can begin to benefit from your wisdom as soon as possible. We will be praying for your daughter’s surgery to be successful. Safe travels!!
Best of health for your daughter... im really hoping better medical solutions will be available to her
God damn, I just love this guy man. I mean, he’s so intelligent and could probably destroy most people verbally yet he’s not afraid of displaying his emotions and vulnerability. Mostly though, it’s the common sense he’s trying to impart to the listener. He’s helped me so much lately to get through some things. I’ve never heard anyone quite like him. Thank you so much JP. Your wisdom is so appreciated!
"That's really vague Rose, you really want to tighten up your envy a bit!"
Priceless!!!!! :-)
Thank God for your existence Dr. Peterson!
I like the book color idea. One is *Yin* and the other *Yang.* They balance each other out.
Chaos/order
Ok, so the numbers could be Yin1-12 and Yang1-12, ok?
Dr Peterson words cannot describe how much I admire you. I’ve dealt with so many traumatic events in my past and you give me the strength I need to hold fast to my principles when darkness descends. I’m currently researching as much on philosophy, politics, ethics, history, and everything I can to form a coherent worldview. I hope that one day I can be an inspiration for others, just as you have continually inspired me to strive for improvement.
Don't sort your parents out, or anyone else. Sort yourself out and then be a good example and a leader.
DomManInT1 Well said. Similar in the work environment, we can’t sort our co-workers since they will sort themselves. We will free up so much time by focusing on our individual r&r and work together towards the company mission and goals. Don’t let the energy vampires take what belongs to you!
I love to listen to you while I work from home. You speak directly, objectively and honestly. I am a mom/wife in her 40s and I appreciate you!
Jordan keep up the great work! Can't wait for the new book.
Thankful we have JP in this day and age.
I just discovered you. I am so happy that you are out there fighting for our free speech. You are absolutely brilliant. Thank you so much.
you have my big respect that you still invest your time for people like Cody. So human.
Hey Dr. JBP, just wanted to say that I trust what you are doing, and it is Good.
I listen to the Q & A's every month and all of them provide something of value, but I felt there was something with this one that stood out for me and made it noticeably better (for a lack of a better word) than some of the ones in recent memory. The questions asked and elicited responses from Dr Peterson were really good.
Don’t call it 12 rules for life again!!!! Beyond order sounds so much better, you’re not gonna get the credit or respect you deserve by letting people simply call you a simple self help author, I have the upmost faith in you Jordan
Another brilliant QandA session thank you so much Dr Peterson! But I also want to say thanks to the people who asked those questions - every single one was a great question and was very useful to me! Good luck to all who are looking for the light!
We also need a valid alternative to RUclips
Brighteon
I can't see that happening anytime soon. They've basically crushed all competition by providing this good a platform. They have to mess up in a massive way for some other website to get a chance.
Try dTube which runs on the Steem blockchain.
The one thing in common with everything in your life is you. The emphasis Jordan gives on making a positive difference by taking responsibility upon yourself is so important, and if you want to have the greatest long-term effect in changing others: realizing your interactions with them (exposure upon them) is only in the immediate or often destructive when you're trying to force your will upon them rather than inspire them. Please inspire people to do the right thing as Jordan is. Thanks Jordan, because the inspiration that drives you to continue your work is being passed on to us.
Who's using that VOX amp back there? Dr.Peterson play guitar?
Ha!
I was just going to ask the same thing! I know JBP plays the piano, not so much the guitar..
@@kieran5302 It's his son's basement I believe lol
I noticed that too! Lol imagine if he was a secret shred god or something xD
I couldn’t get to the comments fast enough to check on this. That’s an AC30 and they’re not cheap. If you buy that amp (hopefully) you know what you’re doing on guitar
Gosh, I love these. Your approach to intellectual discourse makes it easier for someone like me who is slow at grasping ideas learn new things. I find your words of wisdom edifying intellectually and even spiritually. All the while you keep it real. It's remarkably cathartic.
But. . . but. . . but. . . The biblical lectures! :(
I want him to write a book on those
Alexander, A book?! LOL try 20 by the time he's 1/2 way done.
@@floydunderhill8611 as many as he can write. I'd love to read those
Give thy satan the shiny things thy covert. Hail Entropy you insignificant slime
I know the books sell well but Peterson's Bible Lectures are his best material I hope he continues them at some point.
You are an amazing man. I've been following your RUclips channel since the fall of '16. Your work and your words have contributed much to my improving my life, and by extension all those I love
I think Patreon would have kicked Jordan off eventually so he did the right thing. Also love that Jordan gets emotional, it is really endearing.
this is my favorite way to watch dr peterson. His lectures were truly lifechanging to me when I first found them, but a lot of his talks and debates are getting a bit repetitive for me now. In this format, I feel like I still get a lot of new insights in to my own questions about life, human nature, and myself. Thank you for all the time and attention you give all of us dr peterson, you have helped me so much!
DR JP you gonna deconstruct the Patreonarchy ? 😄
Underrated comment right here.
I loved the sincerity and rawness of this video, complete with puppy problems.
Question 1 part B 'How can I talk about the resentment of my childhood in a way that benefits them instead of giving them guilt?
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I had a very long and robust list of resentments against my parents, some in the past and some still ongoing. However in October 2018 we had a family crisis and I had to go home to Scotland and take care of both of my parents for 10 days.
It was one of the best times ever! I was able to look after them - mum has rheumatoid arthritic and dementia and dad, who had just come out of hospital has a heart condition. In this time of crisis all of my resentments especially the ongoing ones just seemed to not matter anymore.
I realised that I was somehow using these 'resentments' to isolate myself from my whole family. I may have like JBP has said misremembered events or worse manufactured them! Now I have a lovely connection with all my family, even the ones I like least.
I am 60, don't bloody wait as long as I have #FFS 🙂
Great story! Thanks for sharing.
Thank you for sharing your story! I have such a problem in my family. My father has so many resentments for his parents, he has not had contact with them for a few months. And they suffer so much because of it. They're both over 80, very sick and knowing that their only child doesn't care about them only makes their health issues worse.
And of course they were not the best parents in the world. But no one is perfect! And I can't understand why my dad doesn't understand that. He was,well...not a good parent as well. Definintely worse for me than his parents were for him. But I know that what is in the past, should stay in the past. And know I'm not perfect myself.
I'm just afraid my grandparents won't live long enough for him to change his mind :(
This Q&A has some of the best formulated answers by Jordan Peterson ever! Concise, tough love, and hopeful. Strong stuff! Thanks.
You seem tired, Dr. Peterson, I hope everything is ok. I wish you a smooth transition away from Patreon and good fortunes to come.
Pedro Gomes I'm sure the stress put upon him by having so many followers opening up their hearts and minds telling him he has given tem a renewed hope in life.Listening to him we know he is aware of the Social Burden he is shouldering. Being the responsible person he is.
Pedro Gomes - Ditto. Take care Dr. Peterson.
fuck, man. how are every single one of these videos earth shattering? that stuff about envy. that's years of introspection saved. this is truly gold. thank you.
I just love this guy!
So incredibly grateful to have you as a voice to promote reason and responsibility.
Would it be possible to publish some ‘willing participants’ self authoring programs, or parts of them, to use as examples and motivation for getting started?
Thank you again for more wisdom. Safe travels.
Keep up the good work. With love from India!
Good to see a fellow lobster from India on JBP videos
bitch lasagna
Here to the hope that he ever comes to India for a lecture
If he does I will definitely be there.
piggypigpig haha I know. We have already made a lot of progress in that regard. Google Swachh Bharat Abhiyaan. The gov. here really pushed for creating toilets in every home esp. in the rural areas. It has been a success to a large degree.
I will keep your daughter in my prayer! Stay well!!
I wanted to listen to your lecture in Zurich, but the tickets (just a week after the announcement) were already sold out. I feel quite sad for the missed oppurtunity, I hope you will come back again in Switzerland or in Italy. Thank you for everything you do.
Lorenzo Belli the meet and greet was available early last week on ticketmaster or ticketcorner!
@@sineadward5225 Well, I feel like such a fool for not noticing that, now if you excuse me I need to go in a corner and dwell on my past mistakes..
It was such an amazing talk and venue. He may be back sometime in the future, or you could pack your bags and see him elsewhere.
The way in which you address resentment is so powerful. Most of us have unresolved issues and carry that toxicicity with us and exude resentment and bitterness onto our outside enviroment. Manifests in relationships and destroy! And most dont have a clue why and where it is coming from. Thank you for this and articulating what resentment and burying those emotions! Leaves us stuck and repeating the same mistakes again amd again!
When they are in complete denial and lack self awareness or insight and they blame you for all of it and all there is is projection how can you even bring it up? Or even suggest they have a problem?
Jordan Peterson cries when he talks about the truth, I believe he is experiencing the presence of God 1:38:10
Lmao
🙏🙏🙏
You're on to something. Either presence or conviction, not that there is a necessary difference in that.
You can see that what he is saying is important to him and that he speaks his truth, I really admired... Its genuine, its rare.
dude he doesn't believe any of that, he's a charlatan
Another beautiful thing from AA.
Right down 5 things at night that you’re going to do tomorrow. JBP is spot on in regards to making them reasonable. For me literally it was
1. Brush my teeth
2. Eat breakfast
3. Call my sponsor
4. Go for a walk.
5. Read for 15 mins.
Try that! And yes definitely remember humility is a wonderful ally.
but dont confuse humillity with weakness .
There are few men in this world that speak truth. You are a blessing to this world. Stay strong, trust in THE LORD and your labour will continue to bear fruit. I praise the lord for men like you who show us our true potential. Thank you sir! My families life is 1000% better since you told me to take charge and be responsible for what I can. God bless you Mr. Peterson. I live in Guadalajara Mexico where cartel violence rattles our peace day in and day out. I've lost 2 friends and countless neighbors due to cartel violence and its hard to stay positive in this environment due to the crime rate and the insufficient pay but your words keep me strong and make me keep pushing myself to make a legitimate living regardless of how hard it is to maintain a legal income. I believe that God speaks volumes through you sir. Keep up the great work! We need you! I need you! Thank you for everything! And thank God for you!
Happy new year..
I often have to remind myself, may, "His Will be Done, on Earth" 🌲🌲🌲 Blessings and Peace, Dr. Peterson. 🌲🌲🌲
Please do something else with Stephen fry - the two of you are adorable😊
@christiaan taart I literally tried wiping the hair off my screen as I read your comment.
It would be very interesting to have them debate against each other, as Stephen is rather liberal and left leaning. In any way the conversation between both would be as interesting as it would be entertaining, and guaranteed to be civil at least
GOTEM
"Tell the truth and let whatever happens happen." That's damn good advice!
Thanks Jordan. This really helps.
I love listening to him, he's good food for the soul.
Thanks for opening the calendar on my phone by saying "Google calendar" doc
Corbin shea 😂
God bless you Dr Peterson. I believe that your next book will be even more important and fruitful than your last. Thank you for your extraordinary efforts, may we all seek to dedicate ourselves as you have.
How many Dr's does it take to change a lightbulb?
1st the lightbulb has to want to change😎
Being grateful inspite of your suffering... This is something i have been trying to cultivate within myself recently due to poor health... It gives me great reassurance to know that you'll be helping me with that going forward... Honestly dude, as im sure that you hear constantly, you've helped my life so much... My life is working better based on trying to implement your lessons... My life is workinv better based on trying!!!!... Love you to pieces Jordan B Peterson, you've helped save my life and one day i will look you in the eye and tell you the same... God bless you sir
The first thing I saw was a VOX AC30 for God's sake!!! JB Peterson credibility is now enhanced!!!!
@@nunolassousa ruclips.net/video/Mt80O5bNQjA/видео.html
Diggin it
ADVERT....possibly a great move.
Don’t forget about the KRK Rokits. JBP’s son likely has a decent recording setup. Would be interesting to hear his music.
Happy New Year sir! I’m a few hours late but I appreciate the video. I’ve been watching your videos for almost two weeks now and you’re perspective has given me the confirmation I sought to ensure I’m on the correct path and I am deeply thankful for it. Synchronicity is an important phenomenon in my life and my current goals along with my current actions and interests were verified as highly valuable by your messages right after I formulated and implemented them. Once again, I appreciate your work and I hope you continue to help the masses with your influence. Thank you!