My Labour and Delivery Story | Meet My Baby Alonzo!
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- Опубликовано: 1 фев 2017
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It took my mother 31 hours to give birth to me. Mothers are warriors.
+Solann Lis-Amboyan oh my gosh! Give her a big hug for it ❤❤❤
AlexandrasGirlyTalk trust me, I try to thank her every day. Congratulation, your baby is adorable and looks full of character !^^
Solann Lis-Amboyan wow I thought 21 hrs for me was bad. Congrats to your mom
Solann Lis-Amboyan my labour was 38 hours 😅
Solann Lis-Amboyan my mom took 56hours aha
Omg... I’ve watched your channel for like a year and didnt know you were a mom
Edit: this comment is my biggest flex
True 😂❤️
Me tooooooo
Caislee Erica ME EITHERRRRR
It was a pleasant surprise
Same I’m literally in shook
"Alonzo I know that this is a personal story for you and I just wanted to know if you were comfortable with me filming this?"
Alonzo: *shakes head no*
Alexandra: "are you comfortable with filming this?"
Alonzo: *complete straight face and shakes head no* 😂😂😂😂 lmaoooo Alonzo didn't want his business out there 😭 he's too cute
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i love how direct and straightforwars he was even tho he was a newborn
I can not tell you how stressed I was while you were pregnant and told us about you're decision on no ultra sound and a home birth I was in constant anxiety about it because of what happened to my baby when I chose to go that route, because of my choice to do no ultra sounds and a natural home birth, doctors weren't aware of the severe issue going on inside of me, I ended up having a placental abruption which could have 100000% been avoided if I had gone to the hospital and had more ultra sounds. I was of an inch of my life, they were able to save me but they could not save my baby. I was full term, 10 months of pregnancy what I thought was a perfectly healthy pregnancy turned out to be the most traumatic awful thing of my life because I lost my baby ONLY due to wanting a natural pregnancy and birth. I was freaking out when you shared you were doing the exact same thing I did and you seems very naive to the fact that nothing could go wrong. I am so so so so so proud of you for making the decision to go to the hospital and possibly saving your baby by going against your beliefs of natural birth. I am so proud of you and filled with relief that you have a beautiful healthy baby boy. So happy for you.
Katarina Borghoff I'm so sorry for your loss. xx
I, too, am sorry for your loss Katarina. I also had the same fears for her. But hearing from someone who knows the dangers firsthand such as yourself is invaluable! I hope you can somehow repeat in the future, what you did here...educating others from the perspective of genuine personal experience, tragic as it was. You can truly improve or even save the lives of so many.
Thank you for sharing your story, and I whole-heartedly wish all the best to you and yours 😊
And Bonnie Peter, good for you to be the first to even acknowledge her loss. Frankly I am shocked that only 2 people in 1 year said anything at all!
This is so sad. I am so sorry for your loss. I experienced not the same but my first child was sick when she was born. She had gastroschisis, however I had a full scan and monthly check with ctg scan and ultrasound, doctors still missed out that my baby was sick, so when I was giving almost birth, they realized to check one last ultrasound to look how the baby was laying. It was destiny that it happened if it wasn’t. I could imagine the pain of your loss. I almost lost my girl. She was fighting 4 months in the clinic and was 2 weeks in coma after birth. I hope you are doing great. ❤️❤️❤️🍀🍀🍀 I wish you all the best and luck ❤️❤️❤️
I'm so sorry for your loss!
Just a few posts up from yours are women patting themselves on the back for going through natural birth, pain and everything. Women giving birth is an amazing thing regardless of the circumstances. Why can't we just recognize that instead of having pissing contests about how much stronger some women are than others? It's childish and it doesn't help anyone. Women are warriors, end of.
I cannot imagine what you went through, and I thank you for taking the time to share your story.
Thank you all for supporting my family! I'm so excited to share more with you as I go through this journey as a first time mom.
AlexandrasGirlyTalk congratulations you and your little family are so adorable, thanks for sharing 💖
AlexandrasGirlyTalk Congrats! Wishing you all the best!
AlexandrasGirlyTalk congrats 🎉ILYSM your baby is so handsome ❤💜💙
AlexandrasGirlyTalk OMG I'VE BEEN WAITING !!👏😙💙
AlexandrasGirlyTalk CONTGRATS I know your an amazing mum and hope your child is bliss LOVE YOU💋
"You're looking really handsome today"
"yeeah" ... Cutest thing ever omg
Alesha Hussain img I heard that toooooo 😂🤘🏼
Alesha Rahman when
+: : 0:57
he's always looking handsome
Girl he CLEARLY shook his head no to filming the video. This is a privacy violation.
😂😂😂
I’m deceased right now
I guess thats why she put it at the end 😂😂
"Let's cut the zen thing" me when people test me at school lmao
OMG - the ending when he shakes his head!! He's beautiful :) congratulations to you and your family
kat v yyyeeesssssssssssssssssssss
BeautyyBird yessssss your turn now♡
BeautyyBird I know! So adorable 😍
"yeah... but it's fine. Just keep doin my hair" THIS WOULD DO BE ME 😂😂
In Middle East they call labor the forgotten pain because once you see your baby you suddenly forget all the pain you’ve been through ❤️
Nonti Oii that’s so beautiful!
forget the pain HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH no you don't HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
Lol .. my baby is just over 4 months now and I had a natural birth with no pain medication.... I still remember every second of that terrible pain ... I think it's just that moment when you're baby becomes more important than everything else that makes you not think about the pain ... 🤔😁
Lily Durandt right!
@@liljinxy14 i'm middle eastern, and i can tell you that we mean the moment that you see your baby, you fall in love with him/her to a level that you forget the pain to the amount of love♥️
I HAVE NOOOOT. CLOSED MY MOUTH SINCE I SAW THE TITLE OF THIS VIDEO. WAS IT JUST MEEE THAT DIDNT KNOW SHE WAS A MOM?!!!! 😱😱. LOOKING GREAT MOM!!!
Haha me too... I'm a new subscriber and I was so shocked
@@hellenakinyi4750 I've been watching her videos for so long I'm so embarrassed i didn't realize 😂
lollll she went shopping and got her hair done while her water was breaking 😂😂
MoveOn i went to macdonalds
MoveOn I went to a fancy Italian restaurant while I was in Labor 😂 I was trying to eat but contractions and baby made that a lol hard
Sammie Lee You have a new fan here 😂
When my water broke in the hospital I called my husband to bring me nailpolish remover. Why? I wanted him to hold my hand after delivering and see my nails looking pretty. ))
MoveOn lolll
I always said their baby will be a model😂❤Congratulations such beautiful parents
D. A.R.M.Y ❤
D. ARMYYYY
D. AYEEE ❤❤
D. Army❤❤ You're so kind fellow Army!!!
ayeeee
0:56
She said: "You Looking Very Handsome Today"
The Baby Boy said: "Yeah"
Is it only me who heard him say. "Yeah"🤣🤣
P.S. He is so cute💙
Omg sameee
Thought I heard it too lol
Roselyn Garcia15 i heard “You are”
Me: I'm not gonna watch a 15 minute birth story tf
Me, 15 minutes later: oh
Who else think she's baby is so cute
Am I the only one with Baby Fever now?! Ugh lol Congrats my love xoxo
+Christine Di'Amore 👼🏻😘😘😘
OMG CHRISTINE YOU WATCH ALEXANDRA??
Love both of your channels😍😍😍
Christine Di'Amore has christibe
Ultrasound technologist here, sorry we aren’t allowed to discuss our findings, we know you’re worried and anxious too and trust me it’s tough for us to not able to give you the reassurance you need as well :(
FleetingDreams But why are you not allowed to say anything?🤔
Why can't you say anything?
Soph Gm because only doctors can give results. Sonographers are only allowed to suggest results to the doctor (:
I am also a sonographer and legally we are not allowed to discuss results because that would be a diagnosis and only doctor's can diagnose.
Technically & literally Ultrasound tech’s aren’t doctors. So they may see something but they can’t say because they may not be 100% sure. I know it sounds terrible but it’s for legal reasons
It only took 2 hours for my mum to deliver me, I really wanted to get out 😂
Chanice Condrit it took me 30 minutes
It took me 2 seconds
I was perfectly fine with where i was took my mother 14 hours😂 i didnt wanna come out AT ALL
I just sped up the things and came out 2 months earlier 😂
I took over 4 and I was two weeks late
This video really helps women understand that a "birth plan" can easily change, and that a woman should never feel "guilty" about birthing in a way that differs from that plan. No one knows what to expect, if you're a first time mum. Six out of seven births (my first six girls) were fast, natural births...my son, my last child, resulted in a 24 hour labor and Nubain (no epidural). Labor is WORK! In the end, a safe delivery and a healthy baby is all that matters ;). Congrats on your beautiful, little guy.
Women just shouldnt feel like they have sth to "prove" i know alot of mothers want to have kids like their grandma or mom but it may not be the best option.... its important to consider other options like epis, or forceps/suction if you dont want a C section (C sections may be best if you have more than one child for example twins or triplets)
"cut the whole zen thing" lmao
Julia Dillon x
Julia Dillon
Julia Dillon I was dying when she said that 😂😂
Darley Senat Omg, me too, and not in a vicious way! It's just that the sole purpose, (in retrospect), of me watching this video was maybe to somehow justify why I myself didn't think twice about the need for a hospital with my first son! That said, I fully expected to finish the video feeling guilty. Instead, I too was reminded how fortunate we are with modern medicine and am so glad that she did what felt right :)
M5Miss I'm glad you both made the right choice for yourselves! God bless ❤
I hollered at " cut the whole Zen thing"
Alexandra: “You’re looking really handsome today”
Baby: “yeeea”
I'm so scared to give birth lol
God me too !
Me too
it's honestly not that bad. i've had two natural drug free births and i'd do it again over lots of other things lol
Zhara Doll my sister said getting her wisdom teeth out hurt more than giving birth 😂
Dalila Ben Salah everyone has a different experience when it comes to childbirth. some experiences are easy some are not. But once you're pregnant you won't care about the pain, you will be more concerned in meeting your child. Don't be afraid of it luv.
You made the best choice. Child birth should not feel like hell now a days. We should enjoy it, it's a special moment. Thank you modern medicine!!!
Rebeca Garcia This is real talk
Yes!
Truth tea
Ellie Daisy nooo 🤦🏼♀️ a child needs to grow in the womb to develop his organs to be able to survive. Along with this comes a certain hight, that’s just natural. And over all, pain during labor doesn’t prevent conception. In fact, biologically, every creature “wants” his own species to spread. As seen in the animal world, if there’s too much of one population, the number will decrease because there is not enough food e.g. 🤷🏼♀️
Everyone is different. For me personally, natural is important for various reasons. I've had 3 natural births. I think people underestimate themselves. They're stronger than they think.
So many similarities with my experience! The pain was unbearable, and the epidural made the world of difference. Your son is adorable. Thanks for sharing. 💜
Oh my goodness! He looks JUST like you! God bless you and your family
It's like she has a different type of smile on her face... The smile of PURE HAPPINESS
It makes me angry when some women think or believe that medical intervention is unnecessary!!! 😳 I believe people should be open to doctor's instructions. When they tell you your fluid is low go to the damn hospital. I am glad you made the right decision and went to the hospital. Congratulations and I am so happy that you and your adorable baby are healthy.
farhiya kohi .
farhiya kohi doctors aren't trustworthy for crap anymore
why would you say that? that's so insulting. I'm sure you're not smart enough to get PHD and don't ever visit a doctor when you're sick. Respect people's profession.
@free spirit every person who hasn't suffered/struggled to get through med school and everything after that has NO idea how much you have to study and know in order to earn that degree.. it's a lifelong learning profession....
lol clara yeah back when woman would give birth without medical intervention would die shortly after birth due to internal bleeding, and lack of proper monitoring systems. There is nothing wrong with having a natural birth, but anything that puts the mother and child at risk needs to be dealt with, with the appropriate medication or there will for sure be loss of life.
A woman’s delivery is one of the most miraculous and beautiful things I’ve experienced. It’s amazing how strong a woman is at that moment.
He’s so cute ❤️❤️❤️
Congrats girl your gonna be an amazing mom.
I kept on wiping that smudge on your wall thinking it was on my phone lmao
Laina R 😂😂😂💖
Laina R Sameeee
SAME!!!!
Laina R same 😂😂😂😂😉
Laina R nooo! Why'd you point it out lmao
I had four children, two with demeral and two completely natural. you talk about pain! I wanted to punch someone, i just couldn't deal with a needle in my back. I never knew how much pain I could tolerate, I don't know if I could do it again. 😂😂😂 enjoy being a mommy! my kids are big now, 26, 21, 19 and 14. Oh and I'm a new grandmother! 🤗❤
I have never love a RUclips store as much as this and this will forever be my fave!!!! Congrats to you and your husband!!! And my God bless Alonzo !!!
"No like lets cut the zen mode, i need you to roll out the options here" LMAO
Am i the only one who hears these stories and suddenly starts feeling something really really weird and cringy in my stomach ? 😂
Maira Imtiaz no , samee xD
Maira Imtiaz haha that's how I was ! Anything about pregnancy "grossed me out" it made me uncomfortable hearing/talking about it buuuut now I'm pregnant & it don't bother me no more lol
I felt "cramps" all throughout the video. 😄
Maira Imtiaz
lol I guess not coz I was holding on to my waist and tummy pretty hard 🙈🙈
what the fuck me too
I gave birth to my boy 2 weeks ago, having him here is the best feeling in the world 😍 congratulations!
OKAY BUT CAN WE TALK ABOUT HOW BEAUTIFUL THIS FAMILY IS LIKE WTH 😭😭💕
you seem so insanely happy and such a natural nurturing mommy. Continued blessings to you, Alex and you baby.
your baby is beautiful ❤❤❤ congrats. expecting my first baby in 3 weeks. so I'm pretty nervous.
chikita bonita good luck 😙
chikita bonita me too! :)
chikita bonita good luck
chikita bonita good luck hun wish u a healthy baby
I'm expecting mine in 7 weeks and also nervous ❤ we can do this lol
Wow i'm 38 weeks pregnant and I want a natural birth. This just helps me realize that not everything goes as plan and not feel ashamed if I don't get the natural birth I want! But congrats again ❤
Julia Rosas you can do it! I did it twice and 2nd child was way bigger than my first. u can do it!
Julia Rosas always have a plan B
Just trust the nurses, midwifes and doctors. If something happens and they recommend you to take drugs to ease the pain - do it! I've not given birth myself, but I don't think anyone can even imagine the amount of pain you will be in. Don't feel like you need to prove anything. To be honest - I think our ancestors would slap us in the face if they knew we voluntary choose to have a natural birth when we don't need to, haha! I guess it's a cultural thing though. Here in Norway I can guarantee you 99 % of mothers-to-be will answer "hell no, I don't have anything to prove" if someone ask them if they're having a natural birth or not, haha!
Good luck with your labor :) And congratulations on your pregnancy!
Julia Rosas good luck with labour and your baby!:) I want to let you know that you're right about the infinite possibilities about birth, from almost no pain (I'm serious) to very intense pain, and luckily there are always options for every individual's particular circumstance. There is no right or wrong way to give birth, just whatever's right for YOU. After having my baby, I would just like to say two things to you:
1) REST at EVERY moment that you can when labour starts- between every single contraction just focus on rest and nothing else. When a contractions comes, let it pass over you like a wave, but REST in between. IGNORE early labour for as long as possible, sleep as much as you can during the night and keep doing what you planned to do during the day (just like any other day).
2) no matter what happens, take some alone time (with your partner or support person who will keep your space safe) to take a moment to gather your strength before you make any decision you may need to make. Take a contraction to wait, take two. This will give you more confidence and sureness, which will help you make the best decision that you can in the moment. And I mean every decision, from whether you want to move to a different location, to any interventions, right down to cutting the cord once your baby is born. Follow your gut-feeling. Birthing is for YOU and YOUR BABY, nothing can ever take that away from you! Doctors, nurses, and midwives all have the best intentions, but at the end of the day, you make the call and you know better than anyone else what it is you are feeling on the inside. (What you feel is so important, I can't overstate it. Your confidence and safety are the BEST thing to keep labour going smoothly, the hormones in YOUR body control the show) Again, good luck and I hope you have the best birth for you!
Julia Rosas Good on you. My experience from the birth of my first child taught me to have an open mind with my next pregnancy. I had to have an emergency c-section as my baby was distressed as my body would not progress with dilation. All you can do is do what's best for yourself and baby. aim for what you've planned but also expect the unexpected ❤
Just seen your story about giving birth to your gorgeous little boy, congratulations. I could feel your struggle as you moved through shock, heart ache and surprise at each step of birth . Thank you for sharing. It's an incredible journey and personal that women should always be proud of as it sets you apart as it is so unique. Blessings to you and your family.
I loved the ending, he was just like no mama you can't film this it's way too personal! ❤️ Congratulations, he precious. I see both of you in his face.
Contractions are damn painful but seeing ur baby makes u want another baby. I just don't knw why
+Nkem Linda I know 🙀 Alex already wants another 👼🏻
AlexandrasGirlyTalk my baby is 3 months old today & my husband is ready for another one. Love from Germany
+Nkem Linda mine is 3 months today too!!! Have to come to Germany some day! We are obsessed with it in my house 😂😻
AlexandrasGirlyTalk wow we're waiting 😍
lol be careful, my brother n law wanted another one and my sis ended up having twins. Lol the photos are so funny cause he's just cheesing and my sis is holding my nieces looking so pissed off. She was content with just my nephew lol 😂 😂
13:41 I would've never thought someone could describe pushing a baby out as fun. Lol. Much props to you girl and every mother out there! :)
"Why don't we start wrapping this up..." 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Eva C Favorite part so far 😂 oh the confidence of youth and first time labors! “This isn’t gonna work for me” 😂
I knew a guy whose girlfriend was in labor & he got mad at the doctor & nurses because they weren’t “speeding up or helping her” when in reality she had only been in labor for like 3 hours. He didn’t understand you can’t push right away.
What a sweet story... you will never forget it... not a moment... even when he’s 25!! 💙💙
the whole idea of a needle going into your spine scares me so much
Felt the same way until I felt a contraction.
Katie Perez 😂
same! I have a family friend who actually got paralized because she moved when they were giving it to her. She ended up having an emergency c section because of it
luvpink26ify well they say don't move lol
Stephanie no fucking shit Sherlock
My mom went into a coma after giving birth to my sister. Shes a true fighter.
Marley Gant SAme!!
How is she now if u don't mind me asking?
How long was she is a coma?
My mom did also after having me for three days :((
Please imagine going through this AT HOME with no supervision of medical personnel. Homebirth is such a crazy concept.
This was actually one of the better explanations of birth i've ever received!! Thank you for sharing your story!!!
This baby is soooooooo cute 😻
This video gave me tears, listening to you and watching you during labour is a reminder of how beautiful and amazing the woman body is, its truly is magical and incredible.
so happy you're a mother 😚
Rabiah Aziz Me too
I just wanted to say that you are so awesome! I love your videos so much, they’re so helpful and personal and it’s so amazing what you do, I look up to you as the older sister who gives me tips or the mom who’s there to support me, I love your videos so much, keep on doing them, you’re helping a lot of people, including me :)
This was such an amazing story!! I have a little girl, had her really young when I was 16, now I'm almost 20, and the way you described birth was awesome! I can totally relate, breast fed till she was almost two! Thanks for sharing your story I'm subscribing just because you seem like an amazing person and I haven't watch any of your other vids! Lol keep up the good work!
I don't like when people make it seem like medical intervention is not needed and natural birth is what everyone should do...... I had a 2 c-sections one was for my son and the other for my twins.... I could not give birth naturally because my vagina won't dilate! Is that my fault? Should I feel bad about that? No I don't because my children are all healthy and at the end of the day it's what matters! Besides my v is still the same size 🙊😊😂.... good luck on being a new mom!
Marie Marin
so true, no one can decide what kind of birth theyll get i always hear i want a natural birth i want it at home blahblah, you can never now waht will happen everybody every pregnancy is different, dont stress if you dont get a natural birth cause this totally does not matter, what matters is your children are healthy :)
Marie Marin I think what most people think is that medical Intervention is almost always not needed. ofcourse there are times when it is needed and when it is needed I'm pretty sure even the most natural mama's out there are grateful for it. I'm trying for an all natural birth too but hey if something goes wrong I won't hesitate to go to the hospital but I'd obviously prefer to have my baby naturally.
Marie Marin agreed. everyone is different and thank god for hospitals and doctors in case of an emergency, but you cant deny that a natural birth is recommended more because its it better for mommy and baby. Frankly i think her point of view was very biased bc you can tell she didnt even research both home and hospital labors howvever theyre both healthy so thats all that matters.
Agree I was in labor for 3 days I was induced 2 weeks overdue, I was contracting for 2 full days, in sooo much pain and only dilated to two centimeters and they told me my pelvis or whatever was just too small, so I had to have a c-section! I went through all that pain , I'd be damned if someone told me I didn't give birth lol.
Marie Marin I've had 2 c-sections as well. I would have much rather had vaginal births but sometimes it's just not possible. That in no way makes us any less of a mother. I can't believe there are people out there who think that way.
This kind of reminded me of Rachel and Ross on Friends with the dilation
Omg!... Being watching and following your videos for over two years now, never knew you are a mum❤️❤️. Soo amazing. Love you.
I always love a great labor story. Thank you for sharing. I remember all three of mine and my youngest is 28. Savor every day. It goes fast.
Alexandra said that her anesthesiologist punctured too far into her spine -- rupturing her spinal fluid which affected her postpartum... She didn't speak about that in the video. What happens when the spinal fluid ruptures and how does that affect giving birth and after birth? I would really like to know.
Mr. Chip Whitley that is why i had anatural birth with pain and everything . I would never take such a risk. Even the idea of a needle in my spine freaks me out. Ive heard stories of women left paralyzed from the epidural. Besides our body is built to endure the pain
star soul. Yup, same here. I had excruciating back labor and felt cramping in my hips during every contractions. It was difficult to focus on pushing with that kind of pain but I did it...by the grace of God I made it happen. And I kept telling everyone that I didn't think I could do it. It's unbelievable and miraculous what your body can withstand 💪
A lot of things can happen. For me I had epidural headaches for a week afterwards which felt like someone was stabbing me from the top of my scull to the bottom of my neck constantly. So much worse than birth.
star soul So many women died from childbirth pre-modern medicine because it puts an enormous strain on the body (obviously). While our bodies are made to create and children, they are not so effective at surviving it.
Spinal fluid leak also happens when ppl get a csf analysis done. It stops on its own(human physiology). If it doesnt, measures are taken. Whenever these leaks occur after such procedures, person needs to lie down in a head down leg above position so the pain will be less.
OMG HE'S PERFECT!!!
+sonjdradeluxe 😘❤ thanks beautiful!!!
You're story sounds just like mine ! Ugh the pain was so intense I wanted to die 😭 but my son is soooo worth it! Congrats ❤️❤️❤️
this is so incredible and so beautiful. thank you for showing everyone how beautiful it is to be a mother. 💗
Alexandra, Alex, Alonzo
How cute!
Hahaha the end!! SO CUTE
AwwCongratulationsfor baby boy ... he is so cute man .... and looks like his dad :)
Congratulations! Alonso is adorable! Enjoy each and every second .Take plenty of pics. and videos. They grow up so fast! I am so happy for you!
I'll be damned if I ever let myself get pregnant.... hellllll nooo I could not grow a baby and definitely ain't giving birth any time soon 😂 I'm too scared
Bree Elise Same
B E every woman is scared of pregnancy, but in the end its ALWAYS worth it.
Lina Lina adoption is very expensive
B E I suggest you to read ONLY nice stories about childbirth and you'll see how your perception changes :) what is it with people only absorbing the negative part of life??? The pain is totally manageable! Just don't have any fixed ideas about how it will be. Be open to all options and you'll do fine (applicable for all aspects of life) x
You know, that's exactly what I thought but then I found out I'm pregnant and my attitude really took a 180.
girl i get you. i had my first kid and is now 10 months. the pain was so scary. i asked for an epideral and it was the best decision ever. my son came 3 hours later. and i finally got rest. one of the most amazing moments ever holding him
😭💗😍 he’s so adorable oml y’all are the perfect family
Such a cute and good baby! This video made me cry as I recalled my first labor experience and had to be induced. Mamas; we go through so much but it’s all worth it. Congrats!
Ali i am so proud of you for going through all of this!!! God bless you and your baby with so much happinness and health. I dont know in how much pain you were bc im not a mom but the fact that you are so strong makes me so happy. I LOVE YOU
What a precious baby!! I am a mother of 5 kidos. Your story brought tears to my eyes. Just remembering the moments when i gave birth to them. Alonzo is very precious. I wish you the best in life. Thanxx for sharing something very personal. Keep us posted!! :-)
+Gladys Luna aw 😇 wow thank you for raising the future ❤
Awww I loved hearing this story so much!! It was so beautiful!!!! God bless you and your family!
Awww girl!! My baby girl is 9 weeks old and I can totally relate to u! I had a planned c section. I don't know if is just me, but it feels like you are truly talking to us like we are ur close friends and I love that!! Congratulations on ur beautiful baby!!
omg he's so adorable! wish you all the best for the future
i cried I'm so happy for u guys!! he's beautiful
Oh my goodness!! I've remember watching the video where you announced that you were pregnant. Alonzo is sooooo cute!!!! And you and your boyfriend are the most adorable parents ever! I'm so happy for you two!
That was an AMAZING story!!! I was almost in tears!! It reminded me of my last birth. Congratulations!!!! Alonzo is beautiful!!
Congrats!!! I'm so happy for you! Your baby is sooooo cute! Your story made me so emotional! ❤️❤️❤️
OMG! that's the best labour/delivery story I ever watched on youtube :) That's what it is .... epidural was the life saver for me (if i can say so) I was too afraid of labour pain and kind of already decided that I wanna take epidural and just after 15 min of pain I called for one but too bad for me as there were around 12 deliveries in the hospital that day and only one anesthesiologist so by the time he came to my room I was having the worst pain of my life ( I also used to have very painful periods before pregnancy) so all in all I endured the pain for around one and a half hour but thankfully just after 10 mins of taking epidural I was out of misery and i delivered after 8 hrs ( I did around 1 hr of pushing). My gynecologist was pleased too as she could give me stitches easily because i wasn't feeling any pain at all. I had my right leg numb for a little longer though (but no worries) Honestly I can't imagine giving birth in so much pain and forget about enjoying that precious moment when you are so tired and gone thru so much pain. But that's me :) Now I advocate everyone to take epidural ......seriously hats off to all who go thru all pain and deliver!
What a beautiful story! The same thing happened to me and I also chose an epidural after hours of the same pain. It feels good to hear another mamas story. He is precious and you are an amazing mama.
My dad's a doc and I have personally been there for 6 of his operations including my 2 younger siblings and I just want to say how incredibly strong you are for waiting for out for 6cm the pain is absolutely crazy and it's truly amazing how you lasted that long👏👏👏so proud
congrats! its the best feeling!! my water broke as well, no contraction, they had to induce me, I end up getting the epidural. I was in so much pain and only 2cm open! but epidural helped me open.. even tho I got the epidural I felt everything, I was able to move my legs, contraction! my baby girl was born 10.31.16!! your son is so cute😍😍
omg he's beyond handsome & adorable 😍😍😍 he looks just like you too!!! loved hearing your story & the end is super cute!!!
BEAUTIFUL BEAUTIFUL BEAUTIFUL baby! Omg... I have 3 kids. A 3 year old named Aria, a 1 and a half year old named Everly, and a newborn named Jude. Aria was diagnosed with Down syndrome the day after she was born and it was very hard for me at first because it was just so shocking, I think. She had to stay in NICU for 7 weeks and I didn't get to hold her for longer than 5 minutes a couple times a day because she had to stay in the incubator. 😭 I was really nervous when I got pregnant with Everly because I didn't want to have another scary experience, but everything went smoothly with her labor and Jude's, except for the fact that they were both born 6 weeks early. Luckily they were both totally okay. The contractions with Jude were 10000 times worse and I guess that's because they get worse with each baby? I don't know, but I'm done with being pregnant for awhile hahah. I'm sorry I'm basically writing an essay... I'm not even sure why I'm sharing all of this with everyone, but I think it's so cool that you shared your experience. Your baby truly is so precious and beautiful.
Thank you for sharing your story ❤️ Your baby boy is absolutely adorable!! 💙
I haven't finished the video yet but this intro!! Alonzo is so so cute!! A big congratulation he's gorgeous!
May God bless him and give him everything he'll dream of! !!! 😇😇😇 He's the cutest angel I've ever seen! !
Aww ♥ Thank you for sharing this! & Congratulations to you and your family ♥
congrates! omg been waiting for this moment!
congratulations! God bless you, you're a strong woman. Alonzo is beautiful
When you're getting birth for your baby but you still wanna look good haha how cute 😍😍
I know this is from a couple of years ago, but I wanted to tell you how brave I think you are for sharing it! Every birth is so different, and I know sometimes we women can put pressure on ourselves if (and usually when) things don’t go according to plan. No matter how a birth looks, the end result is a precious little one. FWIW, my first birth didn’t look the way I wanted it to, but my second one did. I knew more what to expect and what I really wanted. You did great, girl. I’m proud of you and hope you’re doing well these days with a toddler! 💜
That's a beautiful experience! Congratulations to you & your husband/partner! Alonzo is a great name & he's such a cutie!
Your birth story touched my heart. 💕 I’ve had 4 babies, 3 of them were at home. My best birth by far was the one using my hypnobirthing class techniques. It took a ton of practice and introspection during pregnancy but that home birth was completely euphoric with absolutely no pain... and it sped up labor too. Oxytocin from an unmediated labor can be 100x more powerful at pain relief than an epidural if you learn the techniques to utilize it fully. If you decide to have more babies you should look into a hypnolabor class 💕
Could you talk about postpartum? You say you were in paradise for weeks after but thats when people say that those are the worst weeks of their life! Id really like to know your opinion.
That was the hardest time of my life personally. No amount of books, or classes can prepare you for that.
Zee 20 the first few weeks were the worse for me as a first time mom. it gets better little by little but the beginning is the worse.
Zee 20 yes it is! Im 9 weeks pp and i still don't feel 100! All natural birth and no tears i also had back labor! Soooo painful but worth it since i have a healthy baby boy ❤ 😊
Nikole Lambert why was it so bad?
I was elated at birth and postpartum. I was considered high risk for PND but had no effects of it after baby. Every individual is different and it will sometimes even surprise yourself
This made me cry... Mothers are so amazing ❤️
O, God bless him! He is actually imitating your facial and physical gestures to do with communication, speaking! You've got a very smart boy on your hands, not to mention how beauteous a little lad he is!
May the Peace, Blessings and Mercy of God be upon your family, Regan 🌈 from NorCal
Awww I really enjoyed this video. I had my first baby (boy) 9 months ago and I ended up with an epidural. It was a good choice for me and my back feels great today