HOW TO DRESS BETTER *life changing*
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1:07 - The World of #WOMANLY - Introducing Video 1 - How to Dress Better
2:11 - CHAPTER 1 - Back to Basics
2:40 - Self Awareness Exercise - what prevents me from looking my best?
3:41 - Eliminate Decision Fatigue
4:25 - Simplify our Choices / To Create Signature Style
5:20 - The Lace Thong
5:45 - Sock Drawer: Ankle Socks For the Win
6:20 - Three Bras Every Woman Needs
6:37 - Defining “Purchase Priorities”
7:26 - Bra Matches for Your Skin Tone
7:46 - Advanced Move: Lingerie
8:17 - Versatile Jewelry
8:57 - Nails: Define Your Go-To Style
12:15 - No More Makeup On Your Shirt
13:10 - CHAPTER 2 - Best Buying Process
13:50 - “Hyper Pieces” that could ruin your wardrobe (3 types)
17:48 - The New Buying Process
18:50 - The Real Real - Designer Consignment Done Right
20:53 - Pre-Plan Outfits
22:09 - CHAPTER 3 - Color Theory
22:44 - Determine Your Tone: Warm or Cool?
24:36 - Texture, Light, and Colour
26:11 - Color Basics: Eye, Hair, Skin
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Omg, she said, "but if you don't, give this video a thumbs down, it's important for me to know." Who is this gem??
Our collective big sis ☺
If we're being objective, she gains exposure for having dislikes and hate comments (although it's less than ideal). It's all about engagement, good or bad, it doesn't matter. :)
Maia TC....hahaha....u know that says...don't ask what you are ready to hear....is like when I ask your husband....do you like this dress...no not really....I guess she got what she wanted to hear....thank you next....hello from NYC 🍎
@@stillfangirlingtoday1468 i absoloutley respect your opinion that its just exposure anyways but i really don't think she is that kind of a person. To me atleast she seems really genuene and really cares about what she's posting so that she could help people. But idk maybe its just me.(sorry for my bad english)
Reverse psychology...No thumbs down at all!
I love how this was focused on self-empowerment rather than dressing for other people. You look the best when you feel the best.
Agree i found this by accident n would not typically watch some thing like this but she got sone thing about her so genuine.
Yes, I completely agree
Exactly! This video is so different from the rest.
I also just bumped into it in the middle of the night and the insight is wardrobe-life changing.... definitely looking forward to watching many of your videos....
She is a movie star
I love how she’s about quality rather than quantity
Couldn't agree more. She posts every so often but when she does it's so classy, clean and SO well done
What jeans is she wearing in this video? The multi color ones? I love!!
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!💖🖤❤️今後は気をライブ配信の再編ありがとうです！この日のライブ配信は、かならりやばかったですね！１万人を超える人が見ていたもん（笑）やっぱり人参最高！まさかのカメラ切り忘れでやら1かしたのもドキドキでした,.
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說到食物，不要以為那些被拒絕的人只吃垃圾。相反，他們學會了在被忽視的肉類和蔬菜中尋找營養。他們學會了清潔，切塊，調味和慢燉慢燉的野菜和肉類，在食品市場上被忽略的部分家用蔬菜和肉類，並且學會了使用芳香的木煙（如山核桃，山核桃和豆科灌木 來調味g食物煮的時候 1618758933
She is the only RUclipsr who tells us to dislike the video if we don't like it my respect for her went📈📈📈
Both "likes" and "dislikes" contribute to engagement on a video, which increases the possibility of RUclips recommending the video to new viewers.
I wanted to say the same thing as her because of planning on having my channel, nice FEEdback
Also, there are others who do so too 😄😅
she is not the only one lmao unless the only videos you watch are hers
@@lishan4657 can you tell me other RUclipsrs who make such detailed content?
You’re literally every girl’s life coach
So true!!
I agree !
True! 😍
Not mine. I don’t like makeup but I do want to dress better. But I don’t want to show, stomach, cleavage (I have none), or thighs. I just can’t match clothes & I’m not good at doing my hair
@@vickyandersen8660 Detto girl.
*Alexandra breathes*
my brain: “WRITE THAT DOWN, WRITE THAT DOWN”
I know where that’s from 🙂
I MADE YOU READ THIS bravo Charles the French we get it-
Same here. 😂 and then the next day, back to my usual comfy routine. 😑 totally lost the notes
@@ayaduhh @$
I know where you got that from
"This video will change your life" literally how she starts every. single. video.
and i LOOOOVE IT 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍
It does change my life 💙
And yet, she is always right
honeyglowy random but I’m in love with your profile picture. Is that you?
Especially cause it’s so true💞
The funny thing is...SHE IS AWAYS RIGHT
My first realization of this, was when I was like 14 years old. There was this trend with beauty youtubers and berry colored lipstick for fall. I thought it looked cute, and I bought one too. Whenever I tried to wear it, I looked absolutely horrible, and I never understood why. Since a while back I’ve realized it’s because I’m extremely yellow toned, and a berry shade has blue in it. Now 6 years later, I bought a brick red/brown color, same shade. Looked amazing.
What was the name of the shade? I also have yellow on my skin and have a hard time finding flattering dark colors.
@@erikahj7693 It’s the maybelline super stay matte ink in ‘50 voyager’ :)
So not about lipstick, but for me, it’s the same with clothes except I’m the opposite. I’m very cool toned and pale. I have medium brown hair but I have very pinkish light Irish skin. The most popular colors today however go with tan or yellow tones skin. For example, mustard yellow, army green, burnt orange, muted green, and muted warm colors. I look atrocious in warm or “fall colors.” I look better in pure or bright colors aka “jewel tones.” Sometimes you have to go against the crowd.
i felt that way w red lipstick, im pretty light and have cool skin and i never realized i look bad w red and nude cuz im so light, a nice tinted lipgloss and light pink looks nice on me
@Nerd Of The Norm Your skin has a yellow base instead of a blue one; everyone has a color tone to their skin, making them look better in some colors instead of others. Yellow toned people look better in brighter colors with a yellow base; and blue-toned people need a gray-toned base (yellow-blue, and gray-blue).
"Adorning yourself with jewelry sends a message to yourself that the day is important, and you are important" That's so meaningful and helpful for how I value my time and energy. Thank you!
@adiamondsmile Then you shouldn't be watching this video.
adiamondsmile so you’re essentially saying that you should just walk around being frumpy and not putting your best foot forward just because an ancient book said so. And unfortunately, that’s not how the world works. People are going to judge you for how you look. It’s inevitable, even if you are beautiful on the inside, people aren’t going to know that unless you invite them on the outside.
Alexandra: breathes
Me: I need to remember to do that
😆
😂😂😂😂 Same
XD
Write that down! Write that down 😂
Carolyn Owen YES 😂😂
“Hi I’m Alexandra, the internet’s older sister”
Gold 😂👌🏻
I wish she was my older sister
The older sister I never had
Destiny Garza go to VUDOIR
Audrey O oh my goodness me too
I eliminated decision fatigue by picking out and ironing my clothes for the work week in advance 🥰 Makes getting ready more peaceful. I'm getting into nailcare as well and got a burnt orange shade as that feels nude-ish to me.
Wow this is amazing to hear! So inspiring 🥰
The thing I like about this channel is how calm the feeling in these videos is. There is no annoying background music to distract from the talking, there is no unnecessary jokes or stories, your voice id clear and calm, the video has actually a lot of work put into it and is more interesting to look at than someone just sitting there talking (not to say that’s a bad format, if done right those videos are interesting too), the videos get to the point and don’t stall. And last but not least, these tips are so helpful!! Honestly thank you for your effort to help all us having trouble with our wardrobes!
Also please do a video on color theory! That’s something I struggle with a lot which makes me choose bland combinations (black and white, dark colors with dark colors etc.)
Eternal Mood so true
Eternal Mood
I think it’s because she films it all then does the voice over later instead of talking while she films. It’s almost like we’re getting to hear the thoughts in her head. I love it!
Exactly!
Just imagine how prepared you would be if she was you older sister or mom
Ikr💕
That'd be an almost unfair start 😂
Elise Duarte ikr😂😂
• YARA • wow, i’m so sorry🙏🏻
Cassidy Lima I’m like this with my lil sister like I go buy clothes and stuff for her with my own money yet she doesn’t listen or care
She is a fashion scientist and I love that
Natalia Surmacz yes! A fashion scientist that’s the perfect title for her
Natalia Surmacz yessss ! She needs to see this comment.
Yup, I agree 😍👏🏻
I really love this channel and Aly Art.
@@cindysnow802 I love aly art too!! ❤️
i'm binge watching your videos and find myself crying. your videos are the help i've never received and always wanted. thank you ❤️
I like you very very so much dear sister❤️❤️❤️❤️
I just feel like Alexandra is the kind of woman who passes beside you in the street and she smells like roses and gives you a gay panic.
Yesss
@@Katkibbs mood
Not to hate but roses smell like old ladies.
Not on young ladies! You need to read some fragrantica
hahahaha!!!! :-)
i can’t even explain through words how detailed, helpful, and relatable this video is. _thank you_ .
altfaith Issa!
stephanie luvisi Yes!!
outfit motivation: remember that if you die today, the clothes you are wearing will be your ghost outfit
Hahahahaha
Oh dang
A blue polo shirt and batman pajama pants for me ... yikes lol
OH NO
phaedra 98 well I want my ghost outfit to be comfi 😂 Tshirt and cotton shorts for me! Lol after all it will be my eternal outfit, why not be comfortable.
I love the way you explain everything! You make femininity and the beauty of being a woman feel so powerful and special!
Dang. She's got me dying to go shopping while in quarantine
ive j been shopping online 😂
@@maddiexox6220 what if the courier have corona virus?
just kidding, even if I know it's not good
@@spread._love tbh a lot of brands have guidelines on their site abt if their still shipping and if anyone there has corona virus and what you can do to prevent it
@@maddiexox6220 i know girl💕
same!
Alexandra: Get a nice manicure, your nails say a lot about you
Me: *cries in medical student*
RedhairedBallerina GUUUUURL SAME
Haven't related more to anything 😅😫😫😫
Also engineering(civil)😭😭😭
yesss but just get them shaped :)) dont make em look filthy
@@natpat4094 can't get them shaped, I have to keep them as short as they will go :(
Me: *reads title*
Me: ah yes, another quality video
Another quality video we've been waiting for
Ugh this video is so goooood.
As far as pre-planning outfits, I've found that taking pictures of outfits that I've layed out that I know look good on me is super helpful. You can refer back to your "outfit catalog" to make outfit decision making quicker, easier, and more consistent
I like you very very so much dear sister❤️❤️❤️❤️
Love this idea! Thanks for sharing 😊
Such a great idea!! Thank you!!
Dude this woman could literally tell me to do anything and I’d listen to her, she’s so amazing
this 🙌🏼
@adiamondsmile everything! That shouldn't be a question... that's a statement!!!!
@adiamondsmile Someone sounds unnecessarily butthurt. Also "you're simple and probably really young"? "Live a little longer and you'll understand"? She's just saying how amazing Alexandra is (which is a fact!) You are all types of negative, so byeeeeee!
I said it earlier, and I'll say it now. I'd wear neon yellow and neon orange if she tells me to.
@Mariah Okane
i so agree with you.......
her daughter is going to be SO lucky to have a mother like her
Its a he, shes a proud mom and we stan (:
@@linalowinkelman6525 what
@@rmak1819 she has a son
She is talking in general guys not about her existing son ‘!
nouz bwyn exactly! Thank you!
You could literally tell me I'm breathing wrong and I'd believe you
Pip Willow if ur not mewing ur breathing wrong
😂💀
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Most people actually are. So she'd probably be right.
stop the mouthbreathing✋✋✋✋😳😳
Last year I watched this video & my life has 100% changed! My first love was definitely nails too, I was ready to elevate and begin my feminine journey. I started being intentional and followed nearly every section of this video & I feel & look my best every day 😭😭😭😭🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 I’ve always loved your videos & will come back to this video time & time again. ♥️🥰
"what prevents you from looking your best?"
Having no money
ding ding ding ding ding 🔔 And we have a winner 😂
yup
And lack of self-confidance
Thrift shops are a hidden gem ngl
Not wanting to spend money and having no idea what your identity is/fashion style is
Omg I literally have that EXACT “wear everywhere bra” and I use it almost everyday it’s so comfortable
I appreciate a good nude bra, but the lacy, colorful ones are so much more fun...until I cant find anything they look good under!
I love this girl so much, I feel attractive just by watching her videos 😂😂
celia cl same
Same then I look in the mirror 😬😭😭
You're all pretty ladies 💙
@@thequeerbee2026 confidence and self love is the key to looking hot af, trust me talking from experience
Never read something more true
What prevents me:
- It feels wrong to buy something new, even if I have excess money and it is fair fashion or second hand
- If I buy something that excites me, I usually opt for the higher quality and way more expensive choice, and afterwards I sometimes end up not liking it and feel bad about that
- I am often afraid of looking "too good", as if I don't deserve it
- Since some bad things happend to friends, I am also scared of dressing sexy - if I do I feel like prey
- Working in STEM, I often feel like I cannot dress feminine or I'll get underestimated
- When I dress down because of my field, I feel ugly and like I am not true to myself, so I sometimes overcompensate in my free time - it's hard to meet in the middle
UPDATE:
After getting out of a toxic relationship, I had a justification to pamper myself, so I did! I'm excited for spring as I adore my new wardrobe. I didn't spend a lot and thrifted a fair share too.
Also, I recently just tried to dress more like myself, as in more feminine, and started doing my nails and guess what - nobody doubts my competence because of that. :) And I found out that I like to dress a bit more edgy from time to time and allow myself some space to do so aswell.
To dare myself, I incorporated some clothes that make me feel sexy without exposing my body to feel safe in my body again - flowy silks or patterned hoisery for example - and felt sooo good!
I took care of my skin, got a signature scent, play around with my hair from time to time and have a few outfits ready for busy mornings.
A lot has changed in a short time and I feel like an authentic well dressed version of myself again! You can do it - babysteps! :)
I know this feeling.
Please know, you are special and worthy of love. Including your own love for yourself.
While we can take steps to protect ourselves, we are not responsible for the systematic failure to prevent abuse in our community and systemic failure to protect the more vulnerable in the society. Clothes are not the problem, inappropriate behaviours and actions are.
Small steps.
💜
Those are all powerful feelings that are ruling your choices. Trauma therapy (EMDR) may really help.
Please Use me as a “HELL YEAH WE NEED THE COLOR VIDEO” button
OMG SAME
Offensive👎🏾
Yes!
Yes ❤️
The reason I don’t dress well:
Keep buying clothes for when I loose weight
Ooo same girl
Buy a good pair of running shoes that fit you right and get out there and walk. It'll change your life the more you walk, or you can jog/run if you want.
Walk at a speed you can talk, but you can't sing.
No buying anything until I loose weight*:(
I had this problem for so long, and what I eventually realized was that by doing this to myself, I was further driving home the idea that I just don't look good in anything. It's super important to treat the body you live in like it is worthy. Regardless of your weight, you deserve to feel good in your clothes.
It's really hard trying to find what looks good on you after significant weight gain, but the more you practice, the more you discover. Don't wait until you fit into a certain mould to treat yourself like you matter.
That’s not a problem Alexandra ever faces. *sigh*
I love how everything you do is like out of a commercial
Bri because it is a commercial
I mean it's not that hard having a white background with lights lol
I’m the only child so now you are officially my older sister
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說到食物，不要以為那些被拒絕的人只吃垃圾。相反，他們學會了在被忽視的肉類和蔬菜中尋找營養。他們學會了清潔，切塊，調味和慢燉慢燉的野菜和肉類，在食品市場上被忽略的部分家用蔬菜和肉類，並且學會了使用芳香的木煙（如山核桃，山核桃和豆科灌木
來調味食物煮的時候
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same omg, also these bots wtf
@@jjpanda 😂😂 ikr
SAME
alexandra: * life changing *
me: yeah right
me: * watches video *
me: she's right
I did the exact same thing
yesssss
omg this woman is so empowering i think im gonna cry. the way she pulls out the truth and helps us realize it is absolutely amazing! and her "I Love You" at the end made me feel...worthy, remembered. all this sounds so corny but if u watched the entire video, im sure u feel the same way too. Thank You Alexandra!!
Save us from wearing the sad wrong shades and please make the colour theory video. It is going to be the real game-changer for all of us
Girl! I literally have NEVER posted not a single comment on any video. EVER. But you are incredible ❤ this video on a scale of 1-10 is an 11 + for me! I feel like you were speaking to me directly 😄
I've had these reoccurring thoughts and inspirations playing in my head over the past few years now to improve my life & myself in general only i never knew where to start or I'd become discouraged because of the lack of direction . Thank you so much for making these videos 💜You're making a huge difference in my life 😊 keep doing what you're doing!
I love how she asks for a thumb down to improve herself...not that she needs to
Right? She seems like she really wants to help.
Reverse psychology bae
I can't believe I don't have to pay for all this, this feels like a whole course
Right??
payhip.com/Favourebook
frrrrr
It is, and It's called fashion design
..
This truly explains the phenomenon of having “nothing to wear” when your closet is full of clothes 😂
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B.e.S.T f'u"l'l D.a.T.i.n.G h.o.T G.i.r.L's
-L-o-V-e-S-e-X---❤️😘
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!💖🖤❤️今後は気をライブ配信の再編ありがとうです！この日のライブ配信は、かならりやばかったですね！１万人を超える人が見ていたもん（笑）やっぱり人参最高！まさかのカメラ切り忘れでやら1かしたのもドキドキでした,.
💖🖤在整個人類歷史上，強者，富人和具有狡猾特質的人捕食部落，氏族，城鎮，城市和鄉村中的弱者，無`'守和貧窮成員。然而，人類的生存意願迫使那些被拒絕，被剝奪或摧毀的基本需求的人們找到了一種生活方式，並繼續將其DNA融入不斷發展的人類社會。.
說到食物，不要以為那些被拒絕的人只吃垃圾。相反，他們學會了在被忽視的肉類和蔬菜中尋找營養。他們學會了清潔，切塊，調味和慢燉慢燉的野菜和肉類，在食品市場上被忽略的部分家用蔬菜和肉類，並且學會了使用芳香的木煙（如山核桃，山核桃和豆科灌木 來調味g食物煮的時候 1618778992
She's the perfect example of beauty with brains. Everything was so well worded and explained even though half of the things went above my head (English isn't my first language) I have to watch it again and again to Completely understand it but I'm still amazed.
your english is so good! good job and good on you for learning another language 😊
Your English is impeccable!
I love how she only posts when she has amazing content!
YESSSSS! I get so tired of weekly notifications from channels and then I go and look and the video has nothing really good in it. With Alexandra I KNOW I will love the video because she waits till she has a good thing to post.
I came in here scoffing at the title and thinking "dress better ? what does that even mean?". But in this video it actually meant "dress smarter and improve your quality of life". I'm quite impressed.
AsteryaWindrunner same!!
True! But dressing better at all times is so exhausting. Especially when you have toddler and an infant. What.
@@crystalrace7542 you clearly described a very specific situation that is clearly yours. Is she supposed to make content based on your individual needs and circumstances?)
You’re like the big sister I didn’t know I needed
Right? Being the oldest I never got that and I felt I had to figure out everything myself. Definitely helps me so much
Then check out Shallon Lester, she is great as well. But she helps with social understanding ❤️
Or Aly Art, she knows a lot about body types and what suits each body type. 😊
- I usually don’t know what matches and I don’t own many outfits that match or I’m not feeling the vibe that day
- I don’t have time for hair or accessories in the morning
-I buy things that I never wear or don’t end up liking because they are things I wouldn’t have picked out for myself.
-I want to feel confident
I want to feel pretty
- I want to wear what makes ME happy and not what I am told to wear.
I swear every time she posts a new video it’s like watching my favorite tv show
SAME!
Yasssss!@!
yeess
I love how you always put shit like *life changing* in the titltes but like it’s actually true
PREACH
al.u right?!
Right, I barely watch her videos and I was def skeptical at first, like, "Yeah right. 'Life changing, huh?'" But then I watch them, and I'm like, "Damn girl, you did it again!"
"I got THREE LOOKS, THREE LOOKS...homeless, a twelve year old boy, and a HOOKER"
arowan fraser Jenna!
Same here 😄
I screamed😂😂cause that’s me
Me too. Lmao
Omg fellow marbles
As a teen who's always been unconfident and told to fix myself, you helped me a lot. Thank you so much, Alexandra. I love youu.
Alexandra just makes me want to throw out ALL of the clothing I have and just start again
Naima Khan Right! I want to do that and just have a fresh start
Same....
That’s what I’m doing but I wanna lose weight first 😂😂
Naima Khan I actually did that and it feels great! Kept me organised for so long!
Right
How is she not a personal styler for celebrities? You are beyond amazing.
I love this. It is so relevant.
I find it difficult to be a confident woman because all my life I was ashamed to like womanly things. My parents expected a boy and all my life I felt pressure to be independent and to be a warrior and to like sports and mechanics and I was ashamed to watch womanly tv shows that I secretly loved. Then I realised that it's not what I want to be and it's only myself who's giving me pressure. Now I've found a man who encourages me to feel like a woman. No longer I have to do manly things as I had to even when I had boyfriends. I've found a manly man that I've always wanted and he supports me and wants me to be a woman that I want to be. I find some things very difficult and your channel is a blessing. Thank you.
I feel you. I used to be embarrased about liking girly things. 😞 (Still am but it's not as bad).
Mi Drums I feel the same way you said my story !
Mi Drums omg girl! I feel you to the core and right down to my parents wanted a boy. I know they love me but it’s just been so confusing growing up to be feminine and womanly when you’re expected to be something else. At least, I felt that way. But I’m getting to know myself more now and actually be the kind of woman I want to be without any pressure.
I'm in the process of losing 15 pounds. I've promised myself I'm going to buy a new wardrobe at the end of my weight loss. Taking notes on what I need to buy from this video. I'm definitely going to feel my best!
Literally me haha.
Hey me too! I’m following the eat to live diet I hear about from a different RUclipsr and my stubborn weight is finally coming off, can’t wait to buy new clothes 😭
Healthy wage helps motivate me. Im gonna lose 70 pounds this year
I like to reverse this process by buying nice clothes first. Nice clothes that fit a little snug. It makes you rethink what you eat, and you feel pretty so you don't want to do anything that'll hurt your body and ruin the good feeling
How’s it going?
we need the colour theory video!!!!!!!!! save me from the sad fate of wearing the wrong colour lol
Yes please lol
Pretty please 💗💕
I literally trust everything this women says lol love her so much!
we all do babe.. 🤩
I know , why is that !?
@@leachulita2121 1ss2zß! q www www www
Imagine having Alexandra as your older sister
OMG YEEES!!!
Its like imagining that i’m going to heaven
I can only imagine
l do. The sad thing is, l am 57!!!
I can’t even imagine
Every girl needs a woman like you in her life. God bless you
I am literally sitting in the same sweats i wore yesterday after buying 100 dollars worth of clothes with my hard earned money from burger king. Couldn't be a better time for this video ahaha
Bless you both ❤♥️
U be surprised what all nice clothes u could get with hundred$at a thrift store name brand clothing too
Lol me too sis broke af😂🤣 but the comment was so wholesome I had to bless yall even tho I'm not always blessed ♥️
Watching this makes me feel like I’m reading a fashion magazine in the 2000s. I love it
lama bander yes!!! Exactly!!
can we just take a moment to appreciate her existence!? 😅😁
@Kiki Northington Well dam. Tell us how you really feel. 😂😂😂
@Kiki Northington what's so dumb about it?
@@malaak7166 Nothing is dumb about your comment. Don't feed the troll :)
@@orangemoon1 oh thank you, i just thought he was commenting about my English since it's not my first language...
I’m 56 and I love her and her advice to death! I’ve been a workaholic and or endured various body shapes.from Heath or car accidents complications. I never had the benefit of sisterly advice . I treasure all that she is willing to share
I had surgical hernia mesh repair . Went down 6 sizes . And am ready to face a new me and tomorrow.
good luck on your journey.. 💕u are amazing!
All the best huni
One reason why i don’t dress well - _i’m broke_
You can dress well on a very low budget, when I bought only retail my style was infinitely worse than now when i'm almost exclusively buying from secondhand non profits
@@luciebugler6604 Second hand charity shops in rich areas are great. I've had an amazing Italian leather bag, it was an overnight/weekend bag in the softest leather and beautiful toffee colour. A lovely chanel scarf was another great bargain and because the people who donate this stuff have so many clothes the stuff is hardly worn.
Sell old clothes and then spend smarter
Same and weight gain lmao
go thrifting good will has dope things
The dramatic “hi, I’m Alexandra” I felt that
She's beautiful but I would have never guessed she's 24. She sounds more mature than me.
I'm 21 soon to be 22 and would look like a literal child next to her
@@DD-jr3mq same here lol
She looks more mature to me. Without having heard her, I thought she waa 30 by her face. It's her brows. They're kind of severe on her face.
She looks more older than me and I am 35.. trying to clean up my style since I am losing 50 lbs andneed more put together clothes
she looks younger without makeup
Ive never seen such a healhty looking person! I mean there are many beautiful ladies out there but damn girl, ur hair, skin, Eyes,TEETH, smile and just overall u looking so freaking healthy. Must be the reason ur so mesmerizingly beautiful. Just WOW
the one time when *life changing* is actually true in the title
I disagree. But, everyone is different. :)
Holly No thanks agreee
for realsss
I love how how when her vids are long, they’re long for a reason. Every minute is useful and not just rambling
Why do some people look automatically more attractive than others?
i m the least attractive 😸
Genetics
well sometimes it's all about posture and confidence and aura but beauty is a very personalized thing. u may think someone is beautiful and i wouldnt think that person is beautiful and thats fine cuz it's your taste. (it doesnt mean u have to say it tho).
Tbh I’m not the prettiest but my self confidence is high because other people’s opinions about me is not as important as how I feel about myself 😊
ella price I’m very interested in Ariana grandes transformation, which has more to do with portrayal than genetics
wow,can i just say just listening to you has not only given me an epiphany of things I love or am comfortable with but has raised my motivation for self love so thank you so much for this .
I can't believe that we're the same age. She looks like she mastered the art of being a feminin woman and I still wear t-shirts from middle school
I need help
Hasna r/notlikeothergirls
t300808 a hey uh i think u used it incorrectly
@@AA-pv6mi HAHAHAHAHA omg that sounded like it indeed
Hahaha, literally me. I'm wearing a Pokemon shirt as we speak.
kaylinn Not really m8
15 minutes and 8 dislikes? These haters have notifications on 😂😂😂
@Sarah Lattari Jealous losers. They can't handle how smart, kind, successful, and beautiful she is. Yikes 😬
alexandra: “get a manicure”
me: *cries in poor*
Taylor Sommers give yourself s manicure. Nail supplies are cheap,
Dollar tree manicure girl!!! Its about what you do not how much you spend.
Same 😢
Taylor Sommers I just did my nails at home don’t worry 😉
😂😂😂😁
I watch this every six months and it helps each time for real each time I implement something this really changed my style for the better
Her: "Get a manicure"
Us: Cries in piano player/ cleaner/ medical job/ lesbian/ painter tears
Devotee guitar player as well lol.
@@pamelarealpes yeah. The struggle is real
Dynamite. yes omg it’s terrible :/
You dont need to get long nails
sweczka24 yeah true but as a cleaner or a painter it will ruin the polish
I love how this is the only beauty channel I've watched that makes me feel more inspired than insecure.
trying not to procrastinate right 🤍!
literally 😂, Every beauty video just makes you jealous instead of being inspired
“It’s literally like the perfect functional manicure..” Hahahahah
*cries in pianist*
Liah Rhaeyna 😭😭😭
😭😭😭 same sis
Cries in guitarist
Same
cries in violinist
I love how intellectual you are. The way to speak . Even that in itself expresses womanhood. Thank you for this video:)
When you said "I love my 2007 purse because it's old" I felt my knees creak and my back give out.
That was one of those reality check moments for me 😂
Nomi Rebelo 😂
Shes like the cool aunt everyone wants but never has who takes you to the mall and gives you ligitimate help and advice and gets you clothes that make you look stunning.
I have one, but she moved to Dubai 😭😭
Why is that those "cool aunts" are always the ones who decide not to have kids?
@@girlwithapearlearring4522 ahh, classical cool aunt move...✊💔😂
Omg you spoke what is in my heart 😢😢😢
That's WHY they're cool! They can do what they want when they want and live their best life!
My wardrobe needs a whole replacement and a half. the closet is clashing so hardddd
I feel the same way I just want to start all over !! I don't know how to start making progressive changes ... :(
@@anayaalcazar3779 Yeah but I've decided to take small steps. I went shopping for some wardrobe essentials after seeing this video and it was literally just one pair of pants and two t-shirts based on her tips. I already feel so much more stylish and confident in my wardrobe so I think I'm gonna keep doing baby steps until it's like I started all over anyways.
Just Wyatt i like your approach !
I just want to say thank you for making these videos that help me sooo much! I've actually been dressing better thanks to you. Ever since watching these videos, they led me to many other videos like yours. If it weren't for you, I would have still been wearing clothes that didn't compliment or work well with my appearance. Thank you, and I look forward to many other videos by you! 🤩
I never wanted bangs until I saw hers she looks so beautiful!
things that prevent me:
-I feel unconfident about my body showing
-I don't like my skin
-I don't want to dressing too showy for fear of being a slutty teenager
-I'm shy so I don't want to stand out
-I don't know how to match colours and patterns
I'm working on it all
I feel you on the first two. I’m almost 30, and being chunky/not skinny or slender means that I don’t look as good in the same clothes; I actually look bigger and bulkier
I used to wear men's xxl t-shirts overs board shorts bc I wanted to hide my body from everybody, so I defo get how you feel 🙈 the best way to evolve your look from 0 style to some style is to start with 1 outfit or item, and working from there. I started wearing muscle tanks, then girls tank tops, then moved into wearing girls jeans, then started wearing cute shoes, then dresses, then heels. I moved slowly and added things one by one, making sure I was comfortable with something before I bought more/moved on to another item. Now I wear all sorts of stuff, like in my pic, I'm wearing a Columbia outfit (Halloween party) which is just shorts and a corset 😅 and bikinis etc, and I managed to do it with crippling anxiety 😬 just go at your own pace and don't force yourself to wear stuff you don't like (edit I changed my RUclips pic so that comment abt my pic no longer applies lol)
It's okay. We all start somewhere. I'm 18 and I don't know how to use makeup but I want to start and make myself better. You just have to believe in the you you wanna be!
I completely understand these struggles. It took me until I was 32 to figure out that my style was a French minimalist wardrobe in primarily black, grey, and white.
When I finally found my shade of red lipstick and learned how to wear it unapologetically, Evan Rachel Wood descended from the heavens and presented me with a certificate of Big Dick Energy™️.
You’ll get yours too.
Guys check Alexandra's last video on Color ! You can do it :)
Her:get a nice manicure
Me: crys in piano player\guitar player
Boxing :(
Cries in athlete
cries in jiu jitsu
Cries in muslim
U can still get a manicure with really short nails, or is it that I cant paint them, someone enlighte me
You are the most articulate and analytical person on RUclips. Actually, all of SM.
Aight imma head out. & clean my entire closet out 😭😂🤷🏼♀️
🤣🤣🤣🤣 I love that!
My mom passed away before she could teach me "girly" stuff. Thank you for this! 🧡
Brit Kat 😪
Mine did too.. 😥
I didn't even know how to use a maxi pad..
May they rest in piece
Sorry for your loss. Love from cc texas😘
@@tinekawilliams2715 thank you! ❤
She seems to be the type of person who's got it ALL figured out
And shes not all conceited about it.. shes so sweet a d wants to spread the love
The Hyperpiece - looks great in the cart but never gets worn and I swear that's been ruining my wardrobe. So a few days ago I decided to get a few new summer tshirts and it was A TASK to keep reminding myself to get basics and neutral colors. I'm such a sucker for hyperpieces and finally someone put into words what it is I needed to know all along about shopping.
I really love her style. She’s so gorgeous and she inspired me to sell all my clothes that don’t make me feel great, and buy new clothes with the money I got for them.
I’m wearing one of the outfits now and I feel so beautiful in it!
Knitting For Life
Yas queen 💪🏼
Yassss you go girl 👏🏾🎉👑
Girl you just don't understand how you've just changed my life right now, I was in desperate need of this video. This was so on time for me. This really lifted my spirit as crazy as I know this might sound.
same, im so glad this video exists
Yes, I am in shock I even needed to hear this, but I did. She really got into the phycology and functionality of it all. For me I found I knew how to dress before kids, but now I am chasing fast fashion with loud hyper pieces to express myself more and I actually feel awful, and it takes me too long to even dress, I am literally overwhelmed, so not to feel goofy, it's not ruining my life but it's stealing hours a week from me(and my family) as I try to deny my simple, comfy, classic esthetic I used to love to live in in for what I think is more trendy that doesn't actually make me happy or look good unless I poor more time than I should into it. I don't have time to figure out how to make the latest trend AND get the latest trend work to work on my body. The undie and nail polish story was too relatable. Most of them won't, but I do know what trends worked in past so I will stick with that and enjoy life in them. I feel like I got permission to build up those basics I loved and know I need. Even if they are not "the trend." Again, what she did was really get into the mindset. My mindset needs to shift into more basics again so I can live my life.
Alexandra, where are you? Come back 🥺
I agree so much
Either she’s taking a hiatus or she’s working on a new video. Based on the quality of her videos, they probably take a long time, but it’s so worth it
Same I miss her 😭🥺
On Insta someone asked about her videos and she answered this last week: "I miss you guys! I was facing some severe health stuff and have been dealing with that privately. But I am looking forward to the video I am planning and am excited to see it come together to present to you guys"
30 Nights Insomniac I’m concerned 😥 but I hope she’s fine
She’s so genuine in her delivery ... a much more pleasant experience than SO many styling vids
i get clothes that i feel like i dont have anything that matches it
i get clothes im too uncomfortable to wear
i always want more clothes
Franny Kehoe same
Do you try clothes on and really look at yourself in them before buying? Maybe even have someone with you for a second opinion?
If ordering online, you can't be afraid of returning items or have the skills to alter them to fit you perfectly.
Shopping addiction
I used to do the same thing but now every time I pick a piece, I pair with it what I already have just from the top of my head for a complete outfit. And I buy it only if I get at least 3 outfit ideas
Edit: She legit recommended the same thing!! I didn't get to the end of the video and commented something I do and was so shocked when she said the same thing
**how to dress better**
me: have money
So true 😂 I'm in the process of saving for a move (and being out of work for a bit) so this is just a wishful thinking exercise at the moment. I will definitely take notes though!
No just make yourself more of a priority.
rich people can dress trashy too
Lmaooo
Not really. I thought the same thing until I actually started trying to out effort into myself. It's not about where you get it or how much it is, it's about making it work. I get more compliments on clothes that I got from Ross, Walmart, and even thrift stores then clothes I spent an arm and a leg on. For nails I buy glue ons, and occasionally I'll spoil myself and go get acrylics.
It's important to put money into your self. Yeah I gave up eating out as much as I did before, but I think that was better for me in the long run anyways.
I LOVE this series! Your videos will forever have impact on me and WILL change my life. Thank you so much for sharing your insights and for explaining all of this so beautiful. You’re so fun to watch and so down to earth. Thank you for making this and for being a wonderful human 💕
Her: "You nails are an indication of how you feel and take care of yourself"
Me: **Looks at stain riddled sweats, blood bitten nails and disgusting hair** Aight, Imma head out
I stopped biting mine 3 months ago.. it can be done 🙂.. what worked for me was thinking of all the germs in my fingers I am putting into my mouth everytime I bite them. Best of luck!
LMFAO
LOVE THIS COMMENT
@@vianeyr1234 I am a periodic biter. When I'm not in school, my nails are long and healthy but anytime school season hits it's a different story
My nails are an indication of the fact I work in wet and hot environments and am not allowed to paint them for work 😩😩
@@Jordan-db2og durable manicures are actually pretty good for working in such environments and conditions. They can protect you nails from breakage. Like getting acrylic nails or even dip nails (also acrylic but act like you just cemented your nails), these would really protect your nails if your working environment involves physical labour.