Khadijah is "Living Single" with 2 Kids And It's Men's Fault ©

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  • @fenbus
    @fenbus 2 года назад +8554

    My sister became pregnant and her boyfriend married her. They had another child during the marriage. Even though her husband worked everyday took care of the home, my sister was still living the girls gone wild life. He eventually left her. To this day my sister has not remarried and all the men she became involved with never saw her as a potential wife. She’s almost 60 and still single. Listen to what Kevin says, he’s speaking truth.

    • @lertub
      @lertub 2 года назад +560

      My sister is the same way. Unbelievable!

    • @bluu_ice6554
      @bluu_ice6554 2 года назад +318

      Now she officially belongs to the streets!

    • @colbalt95
      @colbalt95 2 года назад +1104

      @@bluu_ice6554 she's age 60 bruh, the streets already retired the Jersey 20 years ago

    • @doggieandkornelius8949
      @doggieandkornelius8949 2 года назад +648

      Marriage is considered slavery to most women

    • @Kubwayo10
      @Kubwayo10 2 года назад +160

      @@colbalt95 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣💀💀💀

  • @ChattinBoxingWYB
    @ChattinBoxingWYB 2 года назад +3313

    Ten Lies that Women think Men also believe:
    1: Men will forgive their promiscuous past.
    2:Men aspire and love being Stepfathers.
    3: The men that they friendzoned will always be there for them as a back up plan. After they’ve been pumped and dumped by the Chads and Tyrones.
    4: Men want partnerships and don’t want to be the leaders of their relationships.
    5: That men will accept them as they are. Regardless of their age, weight or parental situation.
    6: Men don’t have standards.
    7: Men care about a women’s income and education.
    8: Having a degree and a high paying job will increase a woman’s SMV (Sexual Market Place Value)
    9: That being fat is the same as being curvy.
    10: Men will always find them attractive at any age or size. Even when they’ve hit the wall.

    • @lonniejolly5882
      @lonniejolly5882 2 года назад +230

      Number 3 is the best one only simps will wait in the friendzone for there chance.

    • @AlKhidarBenEl
      @AlKhidarBenEl 2 года назад +76

      facts

    • @amazingcalvin
      @amazingcalvin 2 года назад +177

      For point number 9, I find it hilarious that being obese is considered curvy. Obese is literally the definition of less curves and having a more cylindrical shape in all directions. So there are no curves unless they count the over head perspective which is pretty much a circle for such people.

    • @six8810
      @six8810 2 года назад +78

      for woman, that is a delusional goal requirement list

    • @l.l.pozeguy6223
      @l.l.pozeguy6223 2 года назад +48

      Heavy with 8 and 9

  • @eldorado1244
    @eldorado1244 2 года назад +1191

    70 year old white male here that enjoys listening to a man with intelligence, and integrity

    • @otismorgan7840
      @otismorgan7840 2 года назад +50

      Same here he's brilliant

    • @candimero1151
      @candimero1151 2 года назад +61

      White 60 year single female..just eating it up..you’re right..he was brilliant

    • @bonganipeter9433
      @bonganipeter9433 2 года назад +8

      Share some wisdom with us the younger generation, what should we prepare for or what did you learn in your years?

    • @shanepotter6067
      @shanepotter6067 2 года назад +12

      @@bonganipeter9433 make more money and save more

    • @johnstrawb3521
      @johnstrawb3521 2 года назад +8

      @El dorado Well said, and same here. It's delightful, listening to a man bringing intelligence and facts to the chaotic matter of relationships.

  • @officialdesj1489
    @officialdesj1489 10 месяцев назад +337

    “It’s funny when a man is going to lose his life defending you, but he ain’t a man for you to follow.” -K.S. WOW! BARS! 🔥🔥🔥

    • @bryanbennett1730
      @bryanbennett1730 8 месяцев назад +15

      Some real shit ain't it .. makes you really think about who you dealing with and why

    • @chitwnyawdman
      @chitwnyawdman 7 месяцев назад +13

      Ouchh..."be a man n fix this fix that fight for us defend us......but we're not obeying, following or listening to no man"

    • @ddawk1019
      @ddawk1019 7 месяцев назад +8

      Straight Proverb!!!!❤️😞😔😢🫶🏾

    • @geddawaymedia6148
      @geddawaymedia6148 4 месяца назад +1

      @@ddawk1019 Your statement(from a woman's pov) just assured that there is hope for us.

    • @stephenachbabb3566
      @stephenachbabb3566 2 месяца назад +1

      Facts

  • @cdpgbc-mw2kz
    @cdpgbc-mw2kz 2 года назад +2867

    As a white Canadian male, what Kevin speaks about, can also apply to "Modern" white women, in general. The similarities are eerily similar. When I was in my 30's I would have benefitted from listening to Kevin. I hope the young men who are listening to Kevin truly think about what he is saying. There is gold in his advice.

    • @Olyphantman
      @Olyphantman 2 года назад +235

      You’re correct.
      It’s definitely a conversation for all modern women in a westernized reality.

    • @dominicsanders9599
      @dominicsanders9599 2 года назад +61

      Salute sir

    • @lertub
      @lertub 2 года назад +223

      Damn bro, didn’t know white guys were going through the same thing.

    • @ForgotToMentionThat
      @ForgotToMentionThat 2 года назад +33

      Very well put!!

    • @cdpgbc-mw2kz
      @cdpgbc-mw2kz 2 года назад +233

      @@lertubThe "Modern Women" affliction believes in spreading the sh-t in a fairly equal and dynamic way. In the end, men are all brothers, regardless of race, religion, etc.

  • @thenamelessjeffrey6472
    @thenamelessjeffrey6472 2 года назад +1180

    This man is giving therapy for free...being a father figure for free, and giving the cheat codes to relationships to the black community for free.

    • @cheddiephillip7905
      @cheddiephillip7905 2 года назад +18

      I was thinking the same.
      Truth!

    • @whatthehirsch7385
      @whatthehirsch7385 2 года назад +68

      Nor only for the black community. I'm a white man from Germany and these trends are here as well and me and all brothers have to be enlightened of modern women desillusions.

    • @alexhung7158
      @alexhung7158 2 года назад +46

      I am Asian. This man is gold. He’s helped me more than anyone else when it comes to real relationships. Gone too soon. RIP.

    • @johnnyybarra2110
      @johnnyybarra2110 2 года назад +18

      Does therapy even give you advice like this? Or make you reflect like this?

    • @kennedyguedes
      @kennedyguedes 2 года назад +27

      Im Brazilian and I can see the same thing here. Men needs to know this. So we can raise daughters and sons. R.I.P KS.

  • @TommyG8
    @TommyG8 2 года назад +1077

    When Kevin said “it’s not hard to get a husband, it’s hard for y’all to be wives” nothing but facts 📖

    • @calogerocapicchioni6554
      @calogerocapicchioni6554 2 года назад +69

      @7 Dollar Roethlisberger facts. I think that a lot of women fantasize about the wedding day, but not the actual marriage and the amount of work it takes to sustain that.

    • @joethekinghawk7514
      @joethekinghawk7514 2 года назад +7

      Boom

    • @THIZZAVELI
      @THIZZAVELI 2 года назад +28

      @@calogerocapicchioni6554 Yup, it's like how they want the high value man but never think about how he got there and maintains it. They want his lifestyle, not fit into it or support it. The women who walk away from these men. They usually have the same complaints, and it aint cheating. It's lack of attention and not being around much smh. 6 figure men travel a lot and work their butts off.

    • @alexg2k2
      @alexg2k2 2 года назад +14

      @@calogerocapicchioni6554 It's their special day of being a princess in the center of attention. Validated in front of their peer group. A party with cake and wine. That's as deep as it goes. Thy can tick this day off of their bucket list and strategise with their friends how to milk the poor workhorse of a man in divorce so they don't have to work a day in their life. And back on the carousel they go, having broken the man, the narcissists that such women are.

    • @cjpayne2385
      @cjpayne2385 2 года назад +3

      as i read this he said it....wow

  • @hedge313
    @hedge313 6 месяцев назад +145

    Single dad here. Raised my boy myself since he was a year old. Now he is 16, straight A student. Plays outside LB in football, and runs 11.24 100M in track. Men raise men.

    • @kathyinwonderlandl.a.8934
      @kathyinwonderlandl.a.8934 4 месяца назад +10

      You are doing a fine job with your child and should be proud…go take a road trip with him for a vacation when you can. Quality time makes memories and creates magical moments. 🌟

    • @antonweathers9155
      @antonweathers9155 4 месяца назад +17

      Me also sir . Single Black dad. Single Dads raise kids better than single Moms ! Facts

    • @danhard8440
      @danhard8440 2 месяца назад

      men raise boys to be men women raise men to be beta's/gay

    • @Coldwallbar
      @Coldwallbar 2 месяца назад +3

      Keep it up bro, need more situations like this rather than the other way around, way too volatile

    • @Checkeroute
      @Checkeroute Месяц назад +1

      Salute

  • @annabellawr
    @annabellawr 2 года назад +1347

    Her: "You think a father can raise a daughter!?"
    This was such a disturbing response/question. The child is literally HALF of him. If you feel so strongly that the man you made a father is inadequate of raising his own, you are apart of the problem because YOU CHOSE that man.

    • @kingnaldo4058
      @kingnaldo4058 2 года назад +80

      Mic 🎤 drop for this one..... *Goodnight Errbaddy* ✌️

    • @Mikedread876
      @Mikedread876 2 года назад +27

      Exactly!

    • @mikekeltner4291
      @mikekeltner4291 2 года назад +50

      Ask her if she can raise a son

    • @773superprguy
      @773superprguy 2 года назад +21

      I raised my daughter by myself

    • @samono7726
      @samono7726 2 года назад +7

      Mic 🎤drop✌️

  • @tonymaurice4157
    @tonymaurice4157 2 года назад +744

    "A man is expected to risk his life and defend you, but you think you're not expected to follow him as a woman and let him lead"-Kevin 💯

    • @paulmunro3175
      @paulmunro3175 2 года назад +25

      That's about it really. No thanks.

    • @jeremiahdavis3398
      @jeremiahdavis3398 2 года назад +32

      Facts most of these modern single woman 👩🏽 want too be the man and so independent well you can be independent and die alone

    • @metalmike570
      @metalmike570 2 года назад +17

      Make sure she's the right one - as they say, because the wrong one will leave you hanging off a cliff.

    • @paulmunro3175
      @paulmunro3175 2 года назад +7

      @@metalmike570 By a fingernail if you are lucky!

    • @shakeelmuhammad2050
      @shakeelmuhammad2050 2 года назад +5

      I want this on a shirt

  • @ryanhansen7
    @ryanhansen7 2 года назад +2005

    This is like listening to a child. This is an adult mother with the wisdom of a ten year old.

    • @hiqualitychocesp8424
      @hiqualitychocesp8424 2 года назад +108

      Unbearable to watch...and to think, she has offspring. 😳

    • @PhantomFilmAustralia
      @PhantomFilmAustralia 2 года назад +59

      If you don't *live up* to responsibilities, you don't *grow up.*

    • @paulmunro3175
      @paulmunro3175 2 года назад +69

      That's a slap in the head for all ten year olds.

    • @3089280288
      @3089280288 2 года назад +50

      But looking at queen Latifa

    • @dreday9049
      @dreday9049 2 года назад +32

      My ten year old has more wisdom than this !!

  • @c.c.3.3.3
    @c.c.3.3.3 7 месяцев назад +79

    "You don't get higher than your baby daddy", is one of the biggest facts I've ever heard.

  • @eleveneleven572
    @eleveneleven572 2 года назад +790

    "I take care of my kids"
    As Chris Rock said...."You're SUPPOSED to take care of your kids ! What do you want? A cookie?"

    • @samuelwright6058
      @samuelwright6058 2 года назад +28

      Ladies want special recognition for being human/ mothers

    • @tyrone2434
      @tyrone2434 2 года назад +6

      Men too, women do it and men don’t, what’s up? Cmon, stop making single mothers. Marry her. So many excuses but men spreading seeds like a garden 🙈

    • @blakexi3731
      @blakexi3731 2 года назад +5

      Responsibility HAS to fall on women when it comes to procreation.
      Take 10 men and 10 women. If one woman sleeps with all the guys, 1 baby is made. If one guy sleeps with all the women, 10 babies are made... Did you not see it when Kevin brought up how most of the black kids are coming from a small minority of guys?

    • @eleveneleven572
      @eleveneleven572 2 года назад +3

      @@tyrone2434
      If you actually looked a what Chris Rock said he said it to both men AND women.. Why do you assume he was only talking about women?

    • @tyrone2434
      @tyrone2434 2 года назад

      @@eleveneleven572 I wasn’t talking to chris rock 🤣 I’m replying to a comment bro please I mean no hate

  • @jerroljulian
    @jerroljulian 2 года назад +549

    It’s funny that a “real man” has to lose his life defending you but he’s not a man for you to follow.
    Godfather dropping gems.

    • @xoticbyrd
      @xoticbyrd 2 года назад +13

      Right!?

    • @PhantomFilmAustralia
      @PhantomFilmAustralia 2 года назад +31

      I gave a huge round of applause on that one! Nobody in the coffee shop knew what the hell I was clapping for.

    • @thedeanogaming
      @thedeanogaming 2 года назад +32

      She doesn't value any man

    • @qman313
      @qman313 2 года назад +5

      💯

    • @AskTheAdjutant
      @AskTheAdjutant 2 года назад +3

      Mic drop 🎤

  • @onenonlynino
    @onenonlynino 2 года назад +381

    "You can't build with somebody who keeps leaving the job site" 💯✊🏾 👑

    • @dlowe404
      @dlowe404 Год назад +1

      💯

    • @007Nox
      @007Nox Год назад +3

      Kevin and Andrew is what this world need What a tragedy Rip Kevin free Tate

    • @garytunstall6123
      @garytunstall6123 11 месяцев назад +2

      Deep message.

  • @JS-mg1mk
    @JS-mg1mk Год назад +297

    "Im not gonna go get an abortion every time i get pregnant"
    They act like getting pregnant is something that just happens. The casualness with which black women treat motherhood is astounding to me.

    • @breadman5048
      @breadman5048 8 месяцев назад +11

      it’s some severe 304 syndrome.. but then again it cuts both ways.. I met a guy who’s girl told him she was pregnant and he was seriously considering ghost in her

    • @ekowflavour6030
      @ekowflavour6030 8 месяцев назад +1

      😊😊

    • @somaryare
      @somaryare 7 месяцев назад +1

      FACTS

    • @JeffP-uw9oh
      @JeffP-uw9oh 6 месяцев назад

      P

    • @Blake1720
      @Blake1720 6 месяцев назад +3

      What about the men who do the impregnating? I could get behind KS message as a house wife/stay at home mom, but he hardly ever gives men any accountability

  • @jamnj515h7
    @jamnj515h7 2 года назад +505

    She said men can't raise girls. My father raised me and my sister while divorced and single. She is married over 20 years. He never bashed my mother even though she was the one that cheated and left us.

    • @eastbaltimoresbabyboy7904
      @eastbaltimoresbabyboy7904 2 года назад +71

      God bless that man 👊🏾

    • @danijohn6010
      @danijohn6010 2 года назад +49

      Your dad is a good man 🙌🏽.

    • @kittykitkat4968
      @kittykitkat4968 2 года назад +62

      Single father's raise better children most of the time.

    • @Tskblanket
      @Tskblanket 2 года назад +4

      What a man!

    • @NoPauseTv1
      @NoPauseTv1 2 года назад +11

      A man can't really raise a lil girl to be a woman and a woman can't really raise a lil boy to be a man

  • @PCGamer77
    @PCGamer77 Год назад +719

    This video has to be one of Queen Latifah's most underappreciated performances.

  • @CrankLucas
    @CrankLucas 2 года назад +1880

    Brah Kevin be killing me with these titles 😂 first Andre 3000 now Kadijah lol keep em coming

    • @MGTOW_GHOST
      @MGTOW_GHOST 2 года назад +71

      Oh shit, Crank Lucas is in the house!!! 😎

    • @watdog2012
      @watdog2012 2 года назад +45

      Bruh lolol. Andre 3000 had me on the floor 🤣 😂 U gotta tell me who kadijah is?

    • @gshivs793
      @gshivs793 2 года назад +101

      @@watdog2012 kadijah is a character from Living Single. A popular show in the 90s. Played by Queen Latifah

    • @darrionreed1240
      @darrionreed1240 2 года назад +9

      U ain't lying Crank lol 😂🤣

    • @RS-km1qq
      @RS-km1qq 2 года назад +110

      Hilarious as hell because she actually looks like Latifah/Kadijah. Dent in the middle of forehead and all 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣

  • @LeelosAdventure
    @LeelosAdventure Год назад +46

    Can’t even properly put into words how much this man is needed today.
    There’s no one on RUclips who’s even half as good at this as Kevin was

    • @markdushaj4600
      @markdushaj4600 2 месяца назад

      💯 truth, this goes across all races, nationalities and religions. Kevin was the man.

    • @vonjo27
      @vonjo27 8 дней назад

      Truth! TBH, I wouldn’t mind watching someone who copies everything about him. His style, his advice, his sayings, desk, lighting, everything. I’d subscribe. Someone needs to pick up the torch.

  • @FlexSZN23
    @FlexSZN23 2 года назад +596

    That Kia Optima analogy was golden. Masterfully conveyed the dynamics of the dating scene.

    • @Roccofan
      @Roccofan 2 года назад +18

      That was golden.

    • @drmikesmith6262
      @drmikesmith6262 2 года назад

      Spot on

    • @briggs9187
      @briggs9187 2 года назад +26

      Sir.... Watch it again... she did not get that analogy.... she did not realize that she was the used car.

    • @RogerSanGabriel
      @RogerSanGabriel 2 года назад +2

      @Babyface Nelson I know right.

    • @titanjake8640
      @titanjake8640 2 года назад +2

      Yesssssah that was perfect

  • @ChiseledAdonis
    @ChiseledAdonis 2 года назад +342

    This woman is exactly what's wrong with the community... She takes pride in being a single mother and doesn't even recognize how destructive her mindset is on her children. Telling her daughter to be just like her when she knows she's miserable is ludicrous, speaking down on men consistently in the presence of her young son is absolutely atrocious.
    You ask most children that are raised in these single mother households if they've ever had a positive tangible male influence & they'll say no, because these women project their hatred for men onto them. I've always said the increase in homosexuality and not only the black community but across the board has been because of shitty parents... Ain't no way the percentage of gays skyrocketed over the past 4 decades cause "it's more accepted" these parents have created an environment of incredible hatred towards men's masculinity that they sissify the boys & then in tern masculinized the girls. It's a horror cycle

    • @jayrealliveson
      @jayrealliveson Год назад +14

      She should leave good men alone.

    • @licioussamuels
      @licioussamuels Год назад +20

      I second this.. I thought I was a weirdo to think homosexuality came from poor parenting of single parents talking down on the opposite gender ending up with a whole lot of sissified men.. thanks for pointing that out

    • @rendknightslaughter7534
      @rendknightslaughter7534 Год назад +1

      Big facts, Chiseled Adonis?...now why does this tag look so familiar hmmm?🤔

    • @007Nox
      @007Nox Год назад

      @@licioussamuelsit comes from that and also comes from Modern diet and modern lifestyle the atrezen in the water and sprayed on crops biologically turned male frogs female, plastic acts as estrogen screens all day porn, etc

    • @JS-mg1mk
      @JS-mg1mk Год назад +9

      I've said this before too. And homosexuality is higher among blacks than among other demographics which is not surprising when you look at the rates of fatherlessness. It correlates perfectly. Masculine women raising their sons to be either angry and violent or feminine and weak. It's a truly vicious cycle that Kevin worked so hard to undo.

  • @FatherAndTeacherTV
    @FatherAndTeacherTV 2 года назад +619

    Samuels: "When a man goes to lose his life for you, but he's not a man for you to follow."
    Me: Facts!

    • @freshdude2603
      @freshdude2603 2 года назад +29

      No answer for dat one

    • @FatherAndTeacherTV
      @FatherAndTeacherTV 2 года назад +5

      @@freshdude2603 Right.

    • @jasonBGI
      @jasonBGI 2 года назад +1

      bars

    • @melaninatedking2982
      @melaninatedking2982 2 года назад +9

      @@FatherAndTeacherTV that shit hit different when he made that statement

    • @thelegacyofgaming2928
      @thelegacyofgaming2928 2 года назад +18

      @TradMum What modern woman is going to let a man lead them? At least a modern blk woman won't. Their social media friends told them that they need to boss up and move like men. Good luck to them

  • @Nupedebonaire07
    @Nupedebonaire07 7 месяцев назад +15

    Kadeesha said I’m not just gonna go out and get an abortion every time I get pregnant… my God how far we have fallen….

  • @eugenedantzler4485
    @eugenedantzler4485 2 года назад +474

    Her "I needed a reliable car"
    Kevin: " men need a reliable woman" FACTS

    • @starskater1988
      @starskater1988 2 года назад +26

      That was a gem of a comparison. You could see the gears in her head turning trying to find a reason why it doesn't apply to her but we all know it's true

    • @hem2032
      @hem2032 2 года назад +8

      @@starskater1988 That part hit her so bad

    • @thebobbydrake6
      @thebobbydrake6 2 года назад +4

      @@hem2032 and YET she still doesn't get it......sad

    • @strengthismemarshall7537
      @strengthismemarshall7537 2 года назад

      You do know he’s always referring to hvm and what they want. He rarely mention what average earning men want which is most men..

    • @willcampbell8829
      @willcampbell8829 2 года назад +2

      Went straight over her head though....

  • @jazhhz4973
    @jazhhz4973 2 года назад +686

    Kevin is a modern day saint. I live in an Asian country and I believe the lack of government support helps keep Asian women grounded. No benefits or social security in a lot of these countries. I'm a father of three, two daughters - and I'm trying to instill my daughters with his wisdom. My favourite saying of his is 'Marry before you carry!' Keep up the good work, Kevin. You're a godsend!

    • @James_150
      @James_150 2 года назад +38

      100% correct…I am African and there’s not a single government support for no woman…You are either building with a man or you get kicked to the curbs

    • @DTreatz
      @DTreatz 2 года назад +15

      From what I've observed about the asian cultures (at least east, north-east ones like Japan, Korea..) some of the most influental factors are lack of government support (just based off what _you_ say, idk the actual aid the government has for women), family burden culture (taking care of parents, grandparents, etc) and the extreme work culture (996 culture) .
      From what I see, Asian men don't even *GET* to see how terrible feminism _actually_ is because the other cultural problems mask it so much and come before it.
      The government bit is also interesting, because studies done in America show that women *_OVERWHELMINGLY_* vote left/democratic and for *MORE* government. They _love_ big daddy government, especially because they basically pay 0 net taxes.
      Your best bet for your daughter is a more antiquated approach of marrying them off early, but given your cultural circumstance, you might not even be able to do that unfortunately.
      1st world societies really f**ked themselves with this feminism shit. 🤡🌎

    • @CiluhStyle1
      @CiluhStyle1 2 года назад +12

      Yessir!!!! Women would respect and honor men more if the government didnt take care of them.

    • @jazhhz4973
      @jazhhz4973 2 года назад +7

      @@DTreatz
      Great comment. You know your stuff! Take 'Big Daddy Government' away and you will see so called 'strong independent women' melt away.

    • @migueldomina190
      @migueldomina190 2 года назад +11

      Benefits keeps modern women too comfortable.

  • @AgriZndw
    @AgriZndw Год назад +265

    This reminds me how my ex kept talking shit about me to my daughter that she made her hate me but I still stayed around for my daughter supporting her and covering her needs I didn’t say a word but when my daughter was 16 I sat her down to talk to her about me she said daddy you don’t need to say anything now I know the true story I remember how she treated you when I was 5 but still want to hear you if you like to talk so I told her truth without making her mom look bad still so now we have very good father daughter relationship thank you God

    • @ThisNuru
      @ThisNuru 11 месяцев назад +8

      Amen!!!

    • @toddmuhammad3827
      @toddmuhammad3827 8 месяцев назад

      Single mothers talk sh*t about the father of their children because they lack accountability for the part they played in the failed relationship. In most cases, women are the root cause of it because they have thrown the intelligent part of their nature out the window to focus entirely on their emotions because in their distorted mindset, it's all about how women feel and what they want to feel that fits into their false sense of reality; but when their children become adults, they realize that their mothers were the ones who were sh*tty with bad qualities because accountability felt like kryptonite.

    • @breadman5048
      @breadman5048 8 месяцев назад +12

      Damn dude thank you for not stooping to your exs level.. it helped your daughter so much.. and made her a healthier person to see her father act with respect and care

    • @NuclearNuke41
      @NuclearNuke41 8 месяцев назад +1

      What did this devine entity do?

    • @florenbaron7111
      @florenbaron7111 7 месяцев назад +3

      Your comment made me feel emotional.

  • @nunyabusiness4651
    @nunyabusiness4651 Год назад +32

    Kevin was straight spitting facts here, He had a gift, few could reason with a modern women! You are missed Sir!

  • @TheWappennow
    @TheWappennow 2 года назад +427

    I've dated a few single mothers in my lifetime and while they each had positive qualities, their sense of entitlement was a bit over the top. One treated me like I was still just an option and another turned out to still have a party mentality and ultimately, we were not compatible for the long haul. In short, my experiences with them has led me to believe that a single mother should NEVER be the first option for a single man without kids! Gents, build your own empire and legacy with your own seed!

    • @youngpsn
      @youngpsn 2 года назад +37

      My friend would say he doesn’t like playing on another man’s saved file.

    • @kendrickbrown8978
      @kendrickbrown8978 2 года назад +23

      You're absolutely correct. I've had the same experience. I dated a woman with a child who use to talk bad about her baby daddy and she was extremely entitled. She would talk crazy like she had a big D,baller waiting for her around the corner. I got out of that situation. I dodged a bullet. Most of these women with children are entitled, delusional,live in a fantasy world and really believe they have more options that they actually have. Most of all they blame the men but they fail to realize they picked the man they had the children with

    • @RogueNation.
      @RogueNation. 2 года назад +24

      Single mothers need to find single fathers. Both sides play the fair game.

    • @debraadams9019
      @debraadams9019 2 года назад +3

      Go Kevin!

    • @williamr4053
      @williamr4053 2 года назад +12

      @@Xeroph619 when I was still in the dating world, this is what I heard from a couple single moms. They preferred a man with no kids or a man with kids much older than their kids.

  • @JoeDeLaHuge
    @JoeDeLaHuge 2 года назад +918

    When I was in school getting my degree, one of the statistics that shocked me and kinda got pushed under the rug was that Single Fathers raise better children then Single Mothers. Kevin’s content just proves it.

    • @EPFForsyth
      @EPFForsyth 2 года назад +83

      Perfect...but that does not fit any woman's narrative.

    • @nervousallday
      @nervousallday 2 года назад +89

      I have two friends who are single fathers who raised their kids after intense custody battles to get them. They are definitely better parents across the board of the women they had the kids with and they had to fight tooth and nail to get their children.

    • @Love-fn9bi
      @Love-fn9bi 2 года назад +31

      Well a lot more women don’t mind being step mothers, that also play apart too. Men are not judged like women for having kids

    • @kujokannibal7081
      @kujokannibal7081 2 года назад +4

      @@Love-fn9bi😍

    • @TheUltimateRage
      @TheUltimateRage 2 года назад +121

      @@Love-fn9bi Because the dynamics between men with kids marrying women and women with kids marrying men aren't the same. Men CARE that you have children because that's (generally) money out of their pocket to care for HER kids. And men are (generally) expected to be providers for children anyway, so women who end up with men with kids aren't (generally) being expected to help provide for his kids. That's why men and women are judged differently. The things women look for in a mate and that men look for in a mate are simply are not the same.

  • @nikknackosrs
    @nikknackosrs 2 года назад +896

    Kevin definitely speaks the truth in these videos. My mother, after getting divorced from my father, focused on her career and now at 60 is struggling to find a good job in her field to pay the bills because few companies want to hire her at that age. So she works 2 jobs to make ends meet, but it still isn't enough, so my brother and I have offered to cover the rest of her financial costs so she doesn't end up homeless. Because of this and because of Kevin I will definitely be prioritizing relationships and cooperating with a man so I don't end up in a similar situation when I'm older

    • @kelvin9016
      @kelvin9016 2 года назад +34

      You’re wise

    • @925_antioch_ca_rap
      @925_antioch_ca_rap 2 года назад +10

      🙏💪🍆

    • @joeysoG
      @joeysoG 2 года назад +16

      Aww so proud of you & your brother thats generous & Loving but yet Sad that its come down to that.. atleast now you see to better your relationship w Men you R on the right path!

    • @edobwoy
      @edobwoy 2 года назад +29

      She attracts men that have girlfriends or wives because they see her as side chick or just for sex type of woman. She doesn't meet men that are looking for a wife because they overlook her. She still doesn't get it.

    • @saramartinez3142
      @saramartinez3142 2 года назад +18

      My mom never married when she came to America and had me with my then married dad. He was sort of trying to make it work with my mom but he was a Colombian national and got caught up in drugs and got deported. My mom still works but is largely on government assistance, dad got divorced and kicked out of the house from his original wife and after seeing all this I've been with my fiance for the the past 6 years and plan on marrying soon and having a kid hopefully and being a stay at home with a small side job. Life wasn't meant to go about it being single and miserable.

  • @suec8337
    @suec8337 8 месяцев назад +26

    I’m glad he pointed out the utter lack of structure with the 5 year old! What man wants to deal with that? Times 2?

  • @myfantribe8501
    @myfantribe8501 2 года назад +197

    Kevin: I kept asking myself "who does she remind me of"? Answer: Queen Latifah

  • @violet5610
    @violet5610 Год назад +309

    This channel makes me remember how lucky I am to have my husband. He's better than me and I don't deserve him. The world inflates the heads of women, I'm not excluded from this. This channel helps me keep my head straight and make sure I treat my husband the way he deserves. Thank you.

    • @glennhosick1514
      @glennhosick1514 10 месяцев назад +19

      I would disagree within which you said about yourself second line!@violet5610
      "He's better than me .&.I don't deserve him"!
      I would say if I was to ask your husband!
      He would say!
      "You're better for him".&."simply by having you in his life"!
      Through the good bad.&.any other!!
      Tears to laughter!!
      It makes his life a better place to be!
      Just by having you within it.
      Never undersell your own value lady.

    • @stardustmelody2709
      @stardustmelody2709 9 месяцев назад +20

      I agree with you. I struck gold when I met my husband. Nothing made me happier than making him happy. I didn't deserve him but I'm so lucky that he disagreed. And yes, was better than me and that's how it's supposed to be. I submitted to him willingly. Unfortunately, I’ve been a widow for the last five years and I doubt I’ll find another great man.

    • @donna5790
      @donna5790 8 месяцев назад

      So you mean a man marry you and you two are not evenly yoked, you're low on morals and values you like discipline and consistently consistency you do nothing with your life you've been amounted to nothing wow maybe he should have married another woman since you think so little of yourself

    • @ericperry27
      @ericperry27 8 месяцев назад

      Sorry to hear. But least you experienced it​@@stardustmelody2709

    • @ddawk1019
      @ddawk1019 7 месяцев назад +1

      Preach the word!!!!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾❤️😔😔🥺😢

  • @d.kj.n1392
    @d.kj.n1392 2 года назад +218

    This sh*t is unbelievable... 🤦🏽... This woman just said "eww" to marrying a man that got her pregnant. You CAN NOT MAKE THIS SH*T UP!!!!

    • @giveme24hrs72
      @giveme24hrs72 2 года назад +20

      She needs a reality check and she didn't get it here, tho ks tried his best

    • @247GottiOfficial
      @247GottiOfficial 2 года назад +10

      Facts

  • @mmontgomery383
    @mmontgomery383 11 месяцев назад +41

    This woman is polite, but her DELUSION is strong. She thinks she is the one.

    • @mysterymastermind175
      @mysterymastermind175 3 месяца назад

      BS. You say all the sassy and melodramatic expressions. She had nothing but disrespect for men acting like she isn't responsible for who she fucks

  • @MrK.A
    @MrK.A 2 года назад +381

    This woman is strange. It's like she gets it and then doesn't get it at the same time. She'll say 'you're right' and then say some other bs in the next breath. I'm afraid it's too late for women like her. You can't mold stale bread.

    • @untilipeak
      @untilipeak 2 года назад +1

      😅

    • @naimreed8247
      @naimreed8247 2 года назад +83

      Naw she's like most people. She gets it, she doesn't accept it.

    • @latoyawilliams6421
      @latoyawilliams6421 2 года назад +33

      Perfectly stated! Her facial expressions and communication is highly bizarre. Just chaotic. Smh

    • @anthonyt425
      @anthonyt425 2 года назад +13

      @@naimreed8247 I think you nailed it here.

    • @juniorleslie4804
      @juniorleslie4804 2 года назад +25

      Unfortunately, she is not that strange. Too many black women are like this, and you are supposed to deal with it, or you are not a strong man. Therefore, I want to die alone. Men will have to adapt.

  • @irahwebster1088
    @irahwebster1088 2 года назад +318

    “You don’t get no higher than your baby daddy!” Preach Kevin!

    • @JDMHaze
      @JDMHaze 2 года назад +13

      especially 2 of them

    • @Richie-xr7zb
      @Richie-xr7zb 2 года назад +3

      I do not believe it.

    • @reabetsweimanmoabi7911
      @reabetsweimanmoabi7911 2 года назад +4

      Truck driver.... that's it

    • @scotttracy9333
      @scotttracy9333 2 года назад

      @@Richie-xr7zb why not?

    • @m2goofy760
      @m2goofy760 2 года назад +1

      @@scotttracy9333 she can't believe it, because she probably has 3 babydaddys and she only has hope left to cling to...

  • @princerahming2282
    @princerahming2282 2 года назад +360

    Kevin has done more in my opinion for that black community then all the conscious gurus combined...this is real work!!👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏☝💪

    • @jackievargas8457
      @jackievargas8457 2 года назад +11

      She think she got a 75% chance of getting married?!? I got no kids but at 46 YO I know where my number is and it is NOT over 50% because I’ve aged out of the process and cannot provide children. We have to know where we stand realistically before we can move up or down.

    • @devillevel9007
      @devillevel9007 2 года назад

      @@jackievargas8457 do you have eggs though? If so you can work around it.

    • @kevin-kw8bv
      @kevin-kw8bv 2 года назад +3

      He is Goated

    • @garyrichardson7592
      @garyrichardson7592 2 года назад +7

      Don't forget that hypocrite ass Steve Harvey he'll do anything for some money including lie to these women. Steve Harvey has did a lot of damage to black women and they don't even know it. And so has Tyler Perry and he dress up like a woman

    • @Intercaust
      @Intercaust 2 года назад

      Not just the black community.

  • @annb8296
    @annb8296 7 месяцев назад +12

    I just came across this show. Kevin gave excellent advice. I just saw in the comments that he passed away a couple of years ago. I'm so sorry to hear that. RIP Kevin 🙏❤️💐

  • @bktruth9804
    @bktruth9804 2 года назад +220

    I’m a grown assed Black Man (45) and this almost brought me to tears. THEY came for us, RELENTLESSLY for hundreds of years, and we FOUGHT them back-only to have our own “women” help in our destruction!!??!? God help the CHILDREN! 🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️

    • @brickflipper5273
      @brickflipper5273 2 года назад +38

      These women are delusional, it's gonna get worse because they love social media more than a man, trust & believe that.

    • @BS-hx5rj
      @BS-hx5rj 2 года назад +28

      They bought into the feminist movement and said to hell with us. They chose to join a white woman’s movement but when the chips are on the line they get behind their men black women do not

    • @sonofafrica4826
      @sonofafrica4826 2 года назад +13

      Truer words were never spoken

    • @The_ScapeGoat
      @The_ScapeGoat 2 года назад +6

      Do the plantation narrative, sir. Your racial conspiracy theory does to you what feminism does to women.

    • @RogerSanGabriel
      @RogerSanGabriel 2 года назад +7

      Everything you need to know is in the (1611) Bible.

  • @t3ddyb3ar56
    @t3ddyb3ar56 Год назад +288

    I miss him a lot he was very intelligent I feel like if a lot of women got out of their feelings they would really benefit he taught me a lot as a 19 year old lady REST IN POWER KEVIN 😢🙏🏾💙

    • @anthonypaynr
      @anthonypaynr Год назад +15

      True most BW was so into their feelings they missed the Message.

    • @shawbrothersgirl2740
      @shawbrothersgirl2740 7 месяцев назад +3

      Kudos to you young lady and very sad to know that it was a black woman that killed him trust dat very sad

    • @ddawk1019
      @ddawk1019 7 месяцев назад +1

      I miss him as well 😢

    • @charlesszeles6609
      @charlesszeles6609 7 месяцев назад

      This videos should be show to high-school!

  • @bradnitzsche2436
    @bradnitzsche2436 2 года назад +289

    When my wife left after 20 yrs of marriage, I raised my 2 daughters ALONE...they are now 38 and 40 and doing great...DON'T TELL ME MEN CAN'T RAISE GIRLS!!!!

    • @Daniellapalo
      @Daniellapalo 2 года назад

      🦄

    • @blessedthebest8972
      @blessedthebest8972 2 года назад +4

      Kevin will say their masculine bc the father raised them. Yep

    • @TravisL.Desmadreson
      @TravisL.Desmadreson 2 года назад +7

      Are they married?

    • @DanTejedaFit
      @DanTejedaFit 2 года назад +17

      Nobody’s saying men/women can’t raise children on their own. HOWEVER, are they going to have the same emotional balance and healthy relationship example as someone with a two parent home? Definitely not.

    • @General_Kenobi_212
      @General_Kenobi_212 2 года назад +4

      facts 💯

  • @officialdesj1489
    @officialdesj1489 9 месяцев назад +21

    I had to come back to this vid to hear more bars because of what I’m going through with a woman now who is actually my son’s mom. But the bar for the day is… “You can’t build with someone who keeps leaving the job site.” -K.S. WOW!!! BARS!!! 🔥🔥🔥

  • @jpduffy2003
    @jpduffy2003 2 года назад +455

    That comment he made about the kid being up til after 11pm makes a great point. EVERY family I know with the father in the house is so much better organised/structured. I see it with my kids too. All it takes is a look from me and THEY KNOW but their mother can't seem to pull it off. And I didn't realise how rare it had gotten to have a well behaved family but almost every restaurant visit we had people would come up and comment on how well behaved my babies were, I'm talking 1 year olds and toddlers even. I realised folks were just so grateful that their night out wasn't spoiled by spoiled, loud, unruly kids. Kids love and thrive when they understand the rules and have them enforced consistently. I hate that parents raise children. No. You raise them to be adults and adults have to operate within the rules. This shouldn't come as a surprise to any kid who has been raised right.

    • @emp0rizzle
      @emp0rizzle 2 года назад +14

      Yup it's that implied threat of hands on their butts. In school when we had a female sub, it was party time. Male sub? N one wanna test those waters. It's why guys tend to cooperate because no one really wants to get into fisticuffs. Throw women into it and dudes get killed.

    • @thepeoplesprincipaltpp8776
      @thepeoplesprincipaltpp8776 2 года назад +3

      Well said .

    • @brooksroth345
      @brooksroth345 2 года назад +11

      I know what you mean. My 1st year teaching I tried being nice and the kids , 9th graders , ran over me. The next quarter I became better by setting and enforcing class rules consistently. Once they release that everything calmed down and I started to enjoy it. The kids did to.

    • @wendellbabin6457
      @wendellbabin6457 2 года назад +10

      I am an old fart. But I still remember that it was the second drawer on the left that squeaked loudly because that was the one the paddle was kept in. HA.
      Might not have taught anything else worthwhile but you learned not to disrupt anyone else's chance to learn anything.
      Wasn't any vandalism or much of any other nonsense either.
      That said we had two recesses and after lunch to bleed off MOST of our rambunctiousness. And P. E.
      Kids HAVE to be kids or you TURN THEM INTO "problems".
      Now recess is used for political correctness indoctrination, gender identity exploration, or something equally non bill-paying.

    • @King-pm5yv
      @King-pm5yv 2 года назад +4

      Too God be the Glory King 🤴🏽✌🏾

  • @natru2dagame
    @natru2dagame 2 года назад +882

    Kevin is single-handedly showing men how to properly evaluate women and not to settle for a low value woman, EVER!!!

    • @brianmaye9827
      @brianmaye9827 2 года назад +27

      Big facts!

    • @jackiedsolis1977
      @jackiedsolis1977 2 года назад +7

      Low value women?? For a bunch of yall do nothing ass men? Lmaooo
      KS IS A JOKE

    • @SheedLordBear
      @SheedLordBear 2 года назад +2

      😂

    • @AmaterasuCG
      @AmaterasuCG 2 года назад +39

      @@jackiedsolis1977 sign language

    • @chico9805
      @chico9805 2 года назад +45

      @@jackiedsolis1977 Why are even here? This isn't Twitter, lady.

  • @loadedpipe1311
    @loadedpipe1311 2 года назад +461

    This Is a thankless job Kevin Samuel is doing and I don't care if he makes a million dollars out of it.the value of this man un the black community Is vastly underrated.

    • @uygbh3915
      @uygbh3915 2 года назад +6

      I get what you're saying but a job that makes you millions in fans and dollars is not thankless

    • @kurtmayhew895
      @kurtmayhew895 2 года назад +2

      And it's not just a black problem... Granted it's worse in the black community but even in the UK white community this sort of attitude is rife. These women just don't seem to see the correlation... If every partner they've had has been bad then they're either your choosing the small minority of wrong partners or they just keep scaring the good partners away... Why is it that the father of her youngest has married someone else and not her... It's not all women and it's not all men... However it would statistically appear to be a problem with women having too many expectations of the men they are choosing (women being the ones ending the relationships)... You want a $500k a year man? Wtf would he choose you when he can get a newer cleaner version that is willing to work WITH him not against him. Men aren't biologically meant to be monogynous anyway so this whole cheating bs doesn't make sense... Not saying it's fair or right by a man can't help being what a man is. Women aren't that way biologically, it's something that's increased since the whole independent women men aren't shit crap that's been drilled into women these days... Pisses me off listening to these things... But it's so relatable that I can't help it.

    • @cliffpostell508
      @cliffpostell508 2 года назад +2

      @@kurtmayhew895 Man let the track breath! You are spitting HOT FIRE! 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

    • @kurtmayhew895
      @kurtmayhew895 2 года назад +3

      @@cliffpostell508 truth be the truth 👍

    • @sharoncensale384
      @sharoncensale384 2 года назад +1

      I agree. Truth is medicine.

  • @LuluVee-ql4jr
    @LuluVee-ql4jr 5 месяцев назад +10

    Thank god I met my boyfriend at 11 and we started dating at 12 (a few break ups and get back together in our really young teenage years) but now we’re 35 and own a home and we’re even able to take in one of his elderly relatives who couldn’t live alone anymore, we moved him into our downstairs. We’ve gone through EVERYTHING together and he’d do anything for me and I would do anything for him. We’ve had bad days, bad months, even some bad years!!! But never crossed our minds to leave each other. Stronger together.

  • @capboogie4255
    @capboogie4255 2 года назад +880

    Queen Latifah trippin!!

  • @desmondoscar5143
    @desmondoscar5143 2 года назад +317

    KS is been a father figure to too many of us in the black community, and I don't think he's getting enough credit for this work

    • @gotrescuedauto3584
      @gotrescuedauto3584 2 года назад +10

      I LOVE HIS MENTORSHIP 👋 IT'S NEEDED

    • @khennimahmud4006
      @khennimahmud4006 2 года назад +15

      Sad that you have to go to you tube to search for your missing father.

    • @hermanwilkins5204
      @hermanwilkins5204 2 года назад +10

      He's like that uncle you don't want to believe but you know it's the truth.

    • @Zoraabdulla
      @Zoraabdulla 2 года назад +10

      It’s sad that most of y’all are fatherless tbh.

    • @desmondoscar5143
      @desmondoscar5143 2 года назад +11

      I have a father, all the things KS has been saying is no news to me, myself and sister are all married with children for years known, is just I finally realized most people can't stomach this level of truth

  • @Kenny3stacks
    @Kenny3stacks 2 года назад +513

    Well.. At least in a 90's kind of world.. She's probably glad she got her girls. My advice is for her to keep her head up. That's right! Whenever this life gets tough, I hope she fights! 👊🏽 💪🏽

  • @jacobsmithjr
    @jacobsmithjr 8 месяцев назад +6

    This has to be the most POWERFUL KS video made!

  • @jwalk937
    @jwalk937 2 года назад +658

    This worries me and makes me want to continually push guidance into my daughter's lives.

    • @m2goofy760
      @m2goofy760 2 года назад +36

      Stay vigilant, the future depends on fathers putting in the work today.

    • @mikemcguinness1304
      @mikemcguinness1304 2 года назад +10

      Right on bro

    • @Crisis201
      @Crisis201 2 года назад +10

      You have to my brother this is the only way that they will be straightforward what's ahead of them. Salute to you

    • @bigwill9421
      @bigwill9421 2 года назад +3

      ❤️✊🏾

    • @elyse443
      @elyse443 2 года назад +3

      That you say that and are actively in their lives will almost 100% make your daughters better off than to see the world this way.

  • @keenansmith7176
    @keenansmith7176 2 года назад +217

    When he said that you don't get higher than your baby daddy, her brain short circuited. LMAO!

    • @kudraabdulaziz3096
      @kudraabdulaziz3096 2 года назад +5

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @keenansmith7176
      @keenansmith7176 2 года назад +7

      @Edward Robinson 6:01

    • @Sheed96
      @Sheed96 2 года назад +3

      like you can literally see the hamster wheel in their brain frying

    • @jfelton3583
      @jfelton3583 2 года назад +5

      And she's a liar. She said she was 16 when she got pregnant by her 24 year old boyfriend. And claims he was depending on her.... foh.

  • @eyeswideopen8425
    @eyeswideopen8425 2 года назад +455

    This conversation was so deep. Logic over emotions. This is a true reality show, not like that junk on mainstream media. Thank u KS!

    • @ronhudson4981
      @ronhudson4981 2 года назад +10

      Agreed 👍✌️

    • @hughobrien4436
      @hughobrien4436 2 года назад +10

      Amen

    • @DIDDYTBABY
      @DIDDYTBABY 2 года назад +10

      Kevin does it well. It’s basic bait and swap techniques. Nothing ground breaking. Just simple. The Notorious K.R.S.

    • @CiluhStyle1
      @CiluhStyle1 2 года назад +5

      🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

    • @jeremiahdavis3398
      @jeremiahdavis3398 2 года назад +2

      Man KS needs a vacation for real he trying but these modern woman just not getting it smh 🤦🏾‍♂️

  • @kevinrogers2216
    @kevinrogers2216 7 месяцев назад +20

    Im 47 yrs old no kids own 2 businesses 2 houses totally single but extremely busy

    • @blaineVann
      @blaineVann 6 месяцев назад

      who rubs your feet at night?

    • @clipsofmma
      @clipsofmma 6 месяцев назад

      @@blaineVannhe’s prob ticklish bro

    • @aaronjohnston1584
      @aaronjohnston1584 5 месяцев назад

      Are you happy?

    • @JDAfrica
      @JDAfrica 2 месяца назад

      @@aaronjohnston1584 happiness is relative. Don’t rely on chasing happiness.
      …. I know a guy who left his wife because he was unhappy, shacked up with a hot young thing who made him happy, and drove himself into a bridge last week - leaving 2 kids.

  • @MicMaine
    @MicMaine 2 года назад +522

    The refusal to accept any accountability is truly disgusting. They giggle like as if this isn't hurting them kids with deeply traumatic experiences due to the men she chose. Now she expects a high value man to come in and save her?? The delusion is fucking unreal!!

    • @got2getit204
      @got2getit204 2 года назад +18

      I wreck my brain with that shit it stresses me out I see why guys loose it and go off the wall!

    • @tarharqataseti9261
      @tarharqataseti9261 2 года назад +49

      Some of these women are truly monsters and I’m not being melodramatic

    • @got2getit204
      @got2getit204 2 года назад +15

      @@tarharqataseti9261 I use to think I was the problem and it killed me inside but now no way won’t let myself go threw the pain!

    • @gotrescuedauto3584
      @gotrescuedauto3584 2 года назад +1

      LMBOOOO 😂 😂 😂 😂 EXACTLY 💯

    • @RebukeallDEVILS
      @RebukeallDEVILS 2 года назад +3

      @Mic Jack.. Beautifully said..and that's why these females need to DETOX..& come back to reality! Shalam.

  • @Larry-qz3es
    @Larry-qz3es 2 года назад +97

    "Black Family is husband, wife, and children"
    "Black Comunity is mother and children."

  • @Ginger_Spicy_Candor
    @Ginger_Spicy_Candor Год назад +145

    A 5 year old should not be up at 11:20pm. He is right.

    • @azmodanpc
      @azmodanpc 4 месяца назад +1

      Holy f. I was in bet at 1800 or earlier. No tv for me until 10 years old. My parents were very strict but a 5 year old up at almost midnight? What in the f hell? Where is the friggin father?

    • @LadyVee82
      @LadyVee82 2 месяца назад +1

      @@azmodanpcShe left him with her triflin SSS

  • @Jdalio5
    @Jdalio5 7 месяцев назад +7

    I'm a 43 year old engaged man (& oh white af) and I've learning a lot from this man. If my fit, friendly, feminine, childless fiancee saw this channel she'd quickly put 2&2 together. Thanks GF.

  • @kevinr.theodore767
    @kevinr.theodore767 2 года назад +152

    This is the conversation every father needs to have with his daughter !

  • @VonGoldfinger
    @VonGoldfinger 2 года назад +139

    “You have abstinence “
    Mother of 2:” and I have been doing that.”
    No, you have not been doing that.

    • @marcrose3403
      @marcrose3403 2 года назад +8

      Lol just few months

    • @JazzyJeff910
      @JazzyJeff910 2 года назад +8

      They only considered it after they’re used up. Wish an old broad would pull that stunt. 😂

    • @poppinpink24
      @poppinpink24 3 месяца назад

      😂😂😂😂😂💯

  • @UKnoDani
    @UKnoDani 2 года назад +206

    She has contradicted herself so many times it’s just embarrassing . I appreciate her honesty but it just exposes the lack of self awareness.

    • @tsaunders4684
      @tsaunders4684 2 года назад +4

      She just liked the attention and enjoyed pulling Kevin leg when discussing stocks and stuff. She lack facts with stuff she was saying. Smh

    • @jeremiahdavis3398
      @jeremiahdavis3398 2 года назад +7

      Man the quote from KS “ you don’t get bigger then your baby daddy” 🎯🎯😭😭

    • @tsaunders4684
      @tsaunders4684 2 года назад +5

      @@jeremiahdavis3398 A lot of women don't understand this. They think a man is just suppose to overlook there pass and just accept shit. Doesn't work that way with high quality guys.

    • @realrivalent9261
      @realrivalent9261 2 года назад

      Exactly wat I was thinking

    • @marybracy8087
      @marybracy8087 2 года назад +2

      At least she is being open to accept constructive criticism on such a public forum. 🌹

  • @franklinbrooks7
    @franklinbrooks7 10 месяцев назад +11

    This is by far one of my favorite videos By the Late Great Godfather Rip. This man changed my life so much.

    • @SlidewithMurk
      @SlidewithMurk 6 месяцев назад

      Mines too one of my favorite ones I’ve saw so far

  • @Ashtray77
    @Ashtray77 2 года назад +147

    The fact that modern women having multiple babies out of wedlock is more excepted than being married to a husband is very telling of why our community is the way it is..smh

    • @frozentundra7446
      @frozentundra7446 2 года назад +2

      Well said.

    • @YoungMesrine
      @YoungMesrine 2 года назад +2

      Faaacts

    • @calogerocapicchioni6554
      @calogerocapicchioni6554 2 года назад +7

      @Maynard Mcnair My family hasn't had a marriage since 2014. We've had a lot of babies being born, but no weddings. So, when he said 80% of our kids are born out of wedlock, I never paid attention to it before, but I'm starting to realize how serious it is.

    • @Secretelover12
      @Secretelover12 2 года назад +1

      Yep!!!

  • @ieshjust16
    @ieshjust16 2 года назад +141

    "So many women can't have lives because they are taking care of their mother." I felt that 🥺 the truth

  • @charliecoley2423
    @charliecoley2423 2 года назад +452

    This man was doing good died way too soon his message is well needed In our community

    • @marcusmajors6196
      @marcusmajors6196 2 года назад +10

      I notice his subscribers count is still growing

    • @johnstrawb3521
      @johnstrawb3521 2 года назад +10

      This woman's casual hatred of men is appalling. It's repugnant. She hasn't given any thought to her hatred, contempt, and vilification of men.
      "And what do you bring to the table?"
      "I'm nice."
      She's not even that. She's filled with an idle rage. I pity her son, but her daughter as well.

    • @puddingtame3483
      @puddingtame3483 2 года назад +13

      I think he was taken out..

    • @LeChina
      @LeChina 2 года назад +4

      @@puddingtame3483 they always come for the truth.

    • @TsyionReign
      @TsyionReign 2 года назад +2

      Many believe somebody or somebody's helped him with leaving here early.

  • @vonjo27
    @vonjo27 8 дней назад +1

    This man is needed. He was taken from us way too soon. He barely scratched the surface with his potential. TBH, I wouldn’t mind watching someone who copies everything about him. His style, his advice, his sayings, desk, lighting, everything. I’d subscribe. Someone needs to pick up the torch.

  • @bigdunks4eva
    @bigdunks4eva 2 года назад +108

    When women join his IG, I always check out their profiles. It's usually the same thing every time: bikini photos, glamour shots and claims of being a boss/hustler... But then they get on Kevin's show and they have no kind of financial awareness, deal with pookies, and seem to struggle to follow basic logic...
    Every single night

    • @tenishiasantiago8514
      @tenishiasantiago8514 2 года назад +11

      Sadly that is most

    • @Kii_J
      @Kii_J 2 года назад +11

      Don't forget the blatant son husband captions on their kids pics too

    • @darthkek1953
      @darthkek1953 2 года назад +15

      @@Kii_J >> "the blatant son husband captions on their kids pics"
      Ouch I physically cringed at that. So true. And the "she's my best friend" captions on a daughter who looks like she is looking for the escape exit.

    • @AG-xt6ei
      @AG-xt6ei 2 года назад +1

      Whats her IG fams

    • @charltonjubeark2659
      @charltonjubeark2659 2 года назад

      All...The...Time...

  • @JoshuaMichael1122
    @JoshuaMichael1122 2 года назад +170

    Holy shiite I am learning so much. I as well took the stepfather route with a very masculine controlling and ungrateful woman. I love my stepson and he and I have a good solid loving connection to this day. I’m very proud of him in many ways. On the other hand I’ve completely cut his mother out of my life. RIP Kevin and I thank you for caring enough to spread your message. It truly crossed over into my life and has helped me in more ways than I can count🙏🏽

    • @julianmontoya428
      @julianmontoya428 7 месяцев назад

      We as a people, need to understand the truth from God! " do not covet your neighbors home. Do not covet his wife, his children. Or his property", the truth is we as men and women must understand whom God is and what our purpose is! ... even though society saids " anyone can be a husband, but it takes someone special to be a dad!" The truth is the truth! We must stop teaching kids the many sins they learn through school and society! The usa allows the religion of satan! The usa allows tv shows like lucifer, the usa has a president who takes his oath to God with the bible, then has homosexuality groups and transgenders! The usa now has a catholic named " joe biden" ...please research to see joe biden gave an evil promise and said he would work like the devil!, people like the show " the view" has evil women. Telling sinful things to their veiwers, also " kamila harris was born with Hinduism and was named after a hindu goddesses " , yet she cackles and laughs about her many sins that she commited to gain political power, ... the usa news teams should show the joe biden evil promise to work like the devil! Congress should watch his evil promise. ,the world has many leaders and eachbof them have the ability to tell the truth! For years the queen of england was married to her cousin and called him " prince not king" now their son king charles is the leader of england and also the head of the church of England, yet the world ignores the truth from God! The 3rd temple is about to return! Red heifers are ready to be sacrificed! And the temple that king Solomon built is written about in the bible! Those whom God hives his testimonials are in the holy bible! " the evil woman Jezebel has many who follow her ways today from hillary clinton, kamila harris, tiffany henyard, fani willis, leticia james, and feminism who tell women to have sex young fornicate and use their bodies to make money and gain control of others!"... while the true God promised in the holy bible book of malachi the holy prophet Elijah will return! He will turn the hearts of the fathers to the children and the children to the fathers or God himself will come and strike the land with a curse! ( even read the book of malachi to read how God gives a warning for men not to treat the wife of their youth treacherously!". In Atlanta mr wade had sex with fani willis world wide they see this case! The judge and Georgia government and usa government have the bible they can read the truth ! Chaplains from the pentagon and armed forces can read the bible! And all can see these events taking place! Still how many ignore " the torah" and the " tanakh "? How many change the holy sabbath day? How many public schools teach santa clause? Easter bunny? Cupid? St Patrick? How many teach secular heroes? How many teach sex education and abortions? While the holy commandments are written in the holy bible and can be read clearly for children to learn truth! ... " faith and works " victory outreach has a founder named " sonny" how many " treasures out of darkness has he helped others? Has he spoken truth to them? How many of them claim God dwells in them?,how many say the still small voice in their mind or heart has spoken to them, so they claim " trinity" ? As they can read the holy bible and see when the king had a dream, he told the holy prophet Daniel to come back and explain and describe the dream before he interprets the dream! And the holy prophet Daniel was able to do that! Think of those now who claim the same God dwells in them! They should be able to rebuke joe biden! They should be able to rebuke the women who teach others to be like the Jezebel! ...those who hear and know about the 3rd temple from God, should know the truth, if God dwells in them! ....so please humble yourself to God! Ask God to forgive you for your many sins! And ask God to take over your life!

    • @THEEBOUGIEGIRAFFE85
      @THEEBOUGIEGIRAFFE85 7 месяцев назад +1

      You sound like a very good man... I pray that you find your forever queen ...

  • @lorast8099
    @lorast8099 2 года назад +266

    Imagine how this woman's son would feel, watching this years later and seeing how his mother generally regards him as a mistake that isn't her fault.

    • @DezGrowSpot
      @DezGrowSpot 2 года назад +55

      I was basically told that I was to blame for being here. I said, I didnt chose to be here, you made the choice & we know you didn't swallow.

    • @algordon2420
      @algordon2420 2 года назад +14

      @@DezGrowSpot Ouch!!!!

    • @Spokentruths725
      @Spokentruths725 2 года назад +8

      I think its best if people are honest because clearly having these two idiots raise their “mistake” isn’t working out for society. Coming from a mistake myself. Be honest so we can establish a real solution.

    • @carboy101
      @carboy101 2 года назад +18

      I remember my mom saying I was a mistake. How she should of had an abortion. I laughed it off and told her if she had an abortion I would have really lucked out. Lmao

    • @handsome-brute2666
      @handsome-brute2666 2 года назад

      @@Spokentruths725 ✊✊👊

  • @AndreMorganPhotography
    @AndreMorganPhotography Год назад +33

    It’s so sad listening to this woman, nothing she did was ever wrong, no accountability, she needs a lot of work, and damaging the lives of her young kids.

    • @mcole442
      @mcole442 9 месяцев назад

      It's not sad at all. She's getting the results of the choices that she's made.
      She's exactly where she needs to be: on her own 👈
      🐱🐶+🌻=👵🏿👈.

  • @PChristopherMusic
    @PChristopherMusic 2 года назад +236

    Kevin, I'm about 100+ hours into your content and I'm a 53 year old single HVM. This is the BEST interview I have seen you do. While I would prefer to have a black woman as a girlfriend, I have found that I need to go to South America or Africa to find women who are not destroyed by modern feminism and delusional lack of accountability. Thank you for the work that you do!

    • @itsallgood6146
      @itsallgood6146 2 года назад +1

      Your dead already this is a illusion

    • @PChristopherMusic
      @PChristopherMusic 2 года назад +23

      @@sarahrochellexo Well, according to objective statistical measurements as defined by the commonly accepted definition of HVM, I most definitely am. I'm just stating a fact and it is irrelevant whether you think so or not. What concerns me the most is your attack on me and not commenting on the content of the video, which is the relevant topic here.

    • @juicyfruit4378
      @juicyfruit4378 2 года назад +3

      @@sarahrochellexo and you being here trying to down a possible HVM, tells me you’re most likely a 40 year old spinster with 4 kids from 4 different daddies, working a minimum wage job, no degree, overweight, eating a bucket of KFC chicken while having skid marks on your only old wore out Victoria secrets drawers watching Baps on cable paid for by an alimony check.
      So much for assumptions right?

    • @siepax20
      @siepax20 2 года назад +12

      Don’t give up hope! There are still decent black women left here. I hope you find her 😊

    • @PChristopherMusic
      @PChristopherMusic 2 года назад +15

      @@sarahrochellexo Congratulations! That means you're not overweight! About 10% of what it takes to be a catch for a HVM. Where's the other 90%?

  • @user-bh6ez5ln4t
    @user-bh6ez5ln4t 2 года назад +258

    As an African Muslim woman raised in the West - I thank my religion, my parents and my community for the woman, wife and mother I am today. Even thou the outside world tried to teach me to be a free woman and made us muslim women believe that we are abused and dont have freedom.
    Happily married to a wonderful 1% high value Black American husband ❤
    Love,
    A submitted and obedient wife

    • @Shaolin91z
      @Shaolin91z 2 года назад +8

      Iet them continue to think they don't need us. They started betraying men when welfare became available. First to bite off the Apple in the garden of Eden. First to betray black men in place of welfare. No sympathy for them

    • @allamericanrevert7755
      @allamericanrevert7755 2 года назад +18

      Alhamdulilah to Islam sis. Alhamdulilah.

    • @simonsays1159
      @simonsays1159 2 года назад +9

      Do you have sisters or homegirls that have a similar mindset?

    • @MaLaLa786
      @MaLaLa786 2 года назад +9

      May Allah continue to bless you and your family sis, ameen x

    • @bawsnitti
      @bawsnitti 2 года назад +2

      That's dope

  • @ladyindaroom
    @ladyindaroom 2 года назад +120

    As a women who FOOLISHLY became a single mother at 25 with one, 26 with two. I was in college, before ever getting pregnant, and was working. Then true low self-esteem rose up
    In me, and boom I attracted exactly what I subconsciously thought of myself! My children are now 17 and 18, believe me the woman I’ve become now would have never ever attracted such matters. Nope, I would have loved myself enough not to even get in that struggle situation!
    Ladies love y’all beautiful selves, and start young. Don’t even think about becoming no baby mama, until you’re a wife! If you have low self esteem, take yo arse to therapy QUICK! No God don’t put such trials and tribulations on ourselves!
    I was such a Foolish type of woman back then, and let me tell y’all something it did not add up to a hill of beans. I’m just telling y’all the Truth! Don’t settle for being a Single Mama when it’s Gods will and way for y’all to be wives first! I don’t blame no baby daddies, because deep down I knew better, but just didn’t do better! NO excuses period!!!!!!!!
    Don’t none of you ladies bring unborn children in a quicksand foundation! The children deserve so much more!

    • @carlmiller8138
      @carlmiller8138 2 года назад +3

      God bless you and keep you. Hopefully your message is heard.
      I lucked out. My father was a master architect built a firm, taught me architecture. Was dating a girl who had a ignor

    • @SaltyBallzz
      @SaltyBallzz 2 года назад +2

      🔥!

    • @extrememelonspillageyesyes730
      @extrememelonspillageyesyes730 2 года назад +3

      I am so glad you came to this realization and take the responsibilityfor your 🎬 it's true every word you have said may God bless you and your children

    • @ladyindaroom
      @ladyindaroom 2 года назад +3

      My first born has graduated from High School today. I don’t care it may have been accomplished 7 months later. Today, that high school diploma looks so nice and grand. He went through but he got TO IT, and handled his business!

    • @carlmiller8138
      @carlmiller8138 2 года назад +1

      Hopefully your message is heard. God keep you and bless you.

  • @davidduran3517
    @davidduran3517 8 месяцев назад +4

    When he said “unfortunately she’s half of you” 😂😂
    As an Hispanic man, Kevin did more than just help the black community. He is a voice for truth. RIP Kevin, wish I would’ve ran into your content sooner.

  • @daviedood2503
    @daviedood2503 2 года назад +598

    The risk of getting pregnant is on women. She KNEW he didn't have a rubber on. She WANTED to try and trap him and it didn't work. Now she's passing the buck off. She could have said hey no rubber, no NOTHING. Even WITH the risk falling on to her. He's right accountability is like kryptonite

    • @whotfcaressb
      @whotfcaressb 2 года назад +51

      "So its not his fault he got me pregnant?" It takes 9 months to have a child, I didn't even look at it like "Oh shes trying to use a child to keep a man" I just thought she was being dumb on purpose. There were red flags through her pregnancy but she ignored them and is trying to burden other people, f that
      Women need to learn that a child will not keep 99% of men, if they don't want to be there, they don't want to be there.

    • @PhantomFilmAustralia
      @PhantomFilmAustralia 2 года назад +24

      If a woman has used a pregnancy as a casino chip, get out of that casino---because in the end...the house always wins.

    • @bwstophavingkidsoutofwedlo9872
      @bwstophavingkidsoutofwedlo9872 2 года назад +49

      bw pick men based off looks first and foremost that's why they have the problems they have

    • @Aboriginal_American_Hebrew
      @Aboriginal_American_Hebrew 2 года назад +35

      @@bwstophavingkidsoutofwedlo9872 melanin woman pick men of dysfunction there’s a reflection of themselves selves

    • @janita25able
      @janita25able 2 года назад +18

      You do know woman only carry the seed right? The man is actually the one who provides the seed to carry. Can't place the blame on the woman the blame is placed on both casual sex having grown individuals who knew if sperm travels up the tube to meet with egg and boom 💥 a baby is conceived

  • @trishfitzpatrick2066
    @trishfitzpatrick2066 2 года назад +91

    As a wife of a high value man, I'm going to do something special for him as soon as I finish here. Lord have MERCY! Thank you GOD that we met and he loves me still.

    • @saltyjosh
      @saltyjosh 2 года назад +2

      You do that. Congratulations.
      Bet you're a good woman.

    • @trishfitzpatrick2066
      @trishfitzpatrick2066 2 года назад +3

      @@saltyjosh I asked hubby and he says I am, LOL! And that's all that counts.

    • @NeiveVeve
      @NeiveVeve 2 года назад +5

      I am married to a Christian 6 figure man. We met when we were children. I never realized how so lucky I am. Throughout our years the world has twisted up my mind and he was strong enough to pull me out of it. I am crying 😢. Right now. I feel so bad for this woman. I could have been her, If I didn't submit and take his lead.
      Kevin works hard for for his community 👏. Who would have thought watching him give advice to a this woman would have such an impact on someone like me. This hit hard and I as well will do something special for my husband.

    • @geiyathegreat
      @geiyathegreat 2 года назад +4

      I legit hit the gym, came home, cleaned and cooked dinner because baby I’ll keep mine. I’ll keep my HVM.

    • @salugod
      @salugod 2 года назад

      I. Yea rgg

  • @maia3420
    @maia3420 2 года назад +138

    This chick couldn’t back a single point of hers with logic. It was pure emotion as usual.

    • @calogerocapicchioni6554
      @calogerocapicchioni6554 2 года назад +7

      @Mai A I'm not even surprised. Even when I listen to my female family members have these types of conversations, they sound just like this woman. No accountability. And the saddest part is, they don't realize how foolish it sounds. A bunch of deflections, insults, what aboutisms, and the last resort of saying "i agree": because they've been backed into a corner.

  • @Ligma_Jonson
    @Ligma_Jonson 5 месяцев назад +4

    Still relevant today Kevin. You completed your assignment and the momentum continues with other creators. Sleep easy.

  • @doubleboe7NYC
    @doubleboe7NYC 2 года назад +71

    There are so many women in their 30s and 40s that still behave like teenagers. It's exhausting to see now.

  • @julianjarvis9113
    @julianjarvis9113 2 года назад +147

    I don't comment often. Men are held very accountable, and they need to be. But this just opened my mind to the carelessness of a woman and the possibilities of pregnancy. You're bringing a "Life" who will need to be taught and cared for. It's detrimental for a child not to have a both parents.

    • @casket8530
      @casket8530 2 года назад +18

      When left to their own devices, they are inherently selfish and narcissistic.

    • @julianjarvis9113
      @julianjarvis9113 2 года назад +7

      @@casket8530 Exactly!

    • @xlaw6272
      @xlaw6272 2 года назад +4

      They don’t care…they are completely indifferent to the consequences of their lives’ actions. Men can NEVER operate on this low-level frequency and still have the option to pull women of quality.
      Their plan is to use their child as a means to hold a man capture that they couldn’t otherwise KEEP.

    • @xlaw6272
      @xlaw6272 2 года назад +1

      @@P.90.603 yet in EVERY other scenario it’s THEIR BODY THEIR CHOICE

    • @casket8530
      @casket8530 2 года назад +5

      @@xlaw6272 Their so arrogant and deluded they use their prime years to chase bad boys, careers, and hvm and try to lock one down. If it doesn't happen in time, they believe they can consolidate on a average guy later on in life in their 30s or 40s. It's a mating strategy that's failing them, men must be educated on this.

  • @ProspectNY11211
    @ProspectNY11211 Год назад +71

    He gave her 1 hour and she still didn't get it. RIP godfather

    • @evenbiggeral5089
      @evenbiggeral5089 Год назад

      He was talking to a brick wall. She’s too short on brain cells to get it.

  • @christophermendoza8850
    @christophermendoza8850 Год назад +10

    Omg, this is the story of my life as a son of a single mother. 60 minutes into this video.

  • @MultiLightDark
    @MultiLightDark 2 года назад +208

    She doesn't realize the more she insults the person she chose to have kids with the worse she looks. It's so strange to me that she can laugh at the things she says? This is kind of traumatizing in a way.

    • @freemandoe9733
      @freemandoe9733 2 года назад +4

      BROOOOO❗️❗️❗️❗️❗️❗️💯

    • @thedredgod
      @thedredgod 2 года назад +21

      They always do this and its because when they say it to other women they get sympathy. "Girl he was abusive/drug dealer/pedo" no other women ever say "WHYD YOU HAVE A KID WITH HIM?"

    • @oRuTRa45
      @oRuTRa45 2 года назад +4

      @@thedredgod Getting sympathy from other women is powerful.

    • @casualcausalityy
      @casualcausalityy 2 года назад +13

      It's wild how many women seem proud to brag about how crappy their chosen partners were. Lady, that doesn't say anything good about your decision making or maturity

    • @jbb8261
      @jbb8261 2 года назад +9

      @@casualcausalityy then they’ll be like “he was toxic”
      Ok and so was she if she attracted him 💁🏾‍♀️

  • @JustBree716
    @JustBree716 2 года назад +198

    When ks says mental illness is real, we can be so combative and hard to listen I know a woman who refuse to go back to live with her man who owns his home because she didn't like something he said. Mind you when she got sick he took care of her. Refusing to cooperate because she got hurt feelings. Queen Latifah still think halfway thru this Convo that men are the problem. I can't

    • @chrisadams5124
      @chrisadams5124 2 года назад +12

      I was about to say she looks like a skinny Queen Latifah.

    • @shyrlbyrd3520
      @shyrlbyrd3520 2 года назад +1

      @just bree Some Men Are.All Men are not the Same.Mostly Everyone on here have been in more than One Relationship

    • @shyrlbyrd3520
      @shyrlbyrd3520 2 года назад

      @@paulbunyan9436 My Best Years was & Still is Everyday the Good Lord wakes me up to see Another Day❤🙏❤

    • @messagefromtheKing10
      @messagefromtheKing10 2 года назад +6

      I am so glad I am not the only one who thought she looked like Queen Latifah😂

    • @rlmpproductions
      @rlmpproductions 2 года назад +5

      Queen Latifah 😄😂🤣

  • @nicoleriley8171
    @nicoleriley8171 2 года назад +277

    "I'm going to make a way" equates to I will be relying on my children to take care of me 😳

    • @ieshjust16
      @ieshjust16 2 года назад +24

      Pretty much. My own mother in a nutshell

    • @hasandutton5498
      @hasandutton5498 2 года назад +3

      Preach

    • @keepscrolling6042
      @keepscrolling6042 2 года назад +5

      @@ieshjust16 🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯

    • @tiandai101
      @tiandai101 2 года назад +2

      Fail to prepare ,presto fail because those children havnt been put in a position to help them selves let alone anyone else ,here in the UK by age 16 were paying full rent to our parents and not a penny is held back to be gifted to us to use wisley so by the time we're 18 we're debt ridden and living check to check abd when we're 25 plus no different and those mums are asking for help with living costs when they set their breadbusket up failure from the word go .

    • @mkrs01g
      @mkrs01g 2 года назад +5

      Or slinging booty

  • @Martin-jk2ng
    @Martin-jk2ng 11 месяцев назад +4

    A master class by Kevin. Absolutely crushing debate. He lays it all out.

  • @jv1984ply
    @jv1984ply 2 года назад +174

    I love Kevin he cracks through women and their bs delusions and make it viral. This content is needed to get out there for the younger generations to see ❤️❤️

  • @jamelmoore1252
    @jamelmoore1252 2 года назад +127

    This was a top 5 live for me. The patience of KS is outstanding, I would've been done 10 mins in. Keep doing Gods work KS.

    • @pooh4025
      @pooh4025 2 года назад +10

      Me to..after the first 5min I wanted to click off because this was difficult to watch .

    • @1flash3571
      @1flash3571 2 года назад +3

      It was a shame with all that work he did with her...It was like talking to the freaking WALL......*shakes head*

  • @arshae21
    @arshae21 2 года назад +171

    This is why I listen to his content, as a woman. You may have just saved three lives with this one, Mr. Samuels. Most importantly, you may have saved one more black boy from being emasculated by yet another man-hating mother. Thank you!
    She really needs to get some therapy because responsible womanhood was clearly not modeled for her as a child.

    • @willia3r
      @willia3r 2 года назад +4

      Exactly.
      These destructive cultural pathologies and social practices are multigenerational.🤦🏾‍♂️
      They need to end somehow🤔

    • @bgrego88
      @bgrego88 2 года назад +2

      +Women hate men cuz they put her in the single mom statistic,
      +They usually never reach the conclusion or take responsibility that she chose her partner, chose/ignored the circumstance of her conception and chose to carry it to term.
      +The man never made you any promises and most likely told you what would happen if you tried the BS

    • @paccawacca4069
      @paccawacca4069 2 года назад

      Chameleon.

    • @Megabeat30
      @Megabeat30 2 года назад +1

      You can say that again sis, I could never bring a girl home as a youngster due to having a mother that consistently tried to emasculate me.

    • @unspokentenacity
      @unspokentenacity 2 года назад +1

      @@Megabeat30 same here.

  • @ravennalovecraft421
    @ravennalovecraft421 10 месяцев назад +5

    I like to rewatch these every once in a while. I know I have some critical decisions to make, considering my mother was JUST like this, and still is. She's upset that none of her kids talk to her because we all know how stubborn she is. She rarely ever keeps herself up aside from getting her hair done, and she doesn't go out or socializes all that often. She still has our dog, but she definitely had that bitter attitude that came behind having 4 kids by two men who really didn't want to be involved. She wasn't a super feminine woman by any stretch of the definition, and her behavior was leaning heavily on masculine for as long as I can remember. I fear for her most times because she lives alone and never tells anybody when something goes wrong. But i think its because reality has sunk in. She understands how unfair it would be to have us hang around at her beck and call. It hurts, lowkey, but that is my mirror if I am not to be a married woman. Kids or no kids.

  • @Michael-ep7lx
    @Michael-ep7lx 2 года назад +88

    Two babies out of wedlock and never had a relationship. Has all the answers to life and relationships. You can't make this up.

    • @thedeanogaming
      @thedeanogaming 2 года назад +12

      She's not qualified for a relationship if she never had one. That's like sending in your resume for a job that requires experience and you know you don't have any prior experience.

    • @Osunshoney409
      @Osunshoney409 2 года назад +4

      A man who has two failed marriages and y’all take his word as law. What’s the difference??? Happy thanksgiving 🦃

    • @dray5363
      @dray5363 2 года назад +2

      @@Osunshoney409 he's trying to help the modern day woman tho. They shouldn't expect to be "baby mamas".

    • @Osunshoney409
      @Osunshoney409 2 года назад +1

      @@dray5363 not exactly, he’s speaking to modern women who want a hvm

    • @dray5363
      @dray5363 2 года назад

      @@Osunshoney409 exactly but obviously most are low value women & he provides alternate options. He definitely doesn't encourage having kids if not married.

  • @GetOverHereMK
    @GetOverHereMK 2 года назад +100

    "You guys choose shitty men and then you blame ALL men." K.S.
    That is such an uncomfortable reality check a lot of women need. Instead of acknowledging and evaluating their mistakes in showing a pattern of falling for seemingly attractive men who are ultimately neglectful, dishonest or unfaithful, the likes of Khadijah will attribute these traits to all men. Accountability is like kryptonite to her.
    Before anyone misinterprets or twists what I said, I do not blame women for getting into relationships with abusive, manipulative men.

    • @steelesharpensteele6252
      @steelesharpensteele6252 2 года назад +2

      I do they the gateway to sex.

    • @TheTruth-ul7rz
      @TheTruth-ul7rz 2 года назад

      I concur

    • @younghex9577
      @younghex9577 2 года назад +9

      I blame them for staying with them and making a baby with them. If they ignore red flags that's on them

  • @JusTheKing.
    @JusTheKing. 2 года назад +56

    Damn, she really is almost the mirror image of Queen Latifah. Crazy.

    • @sthilon98
      @sthilon98 2 года назад

      She is! Spitting imagine, right down to that divit/old scar on her forehead

  • @kathyyoung1774
    @kathyyoung1774 4 месяца назад +1

    Awesome analysis, Kevin. He is right on every point!

  • @coreyveasey4153
    @coreyveasey4153 2 года назад +249

    I’m going to give her a little credit. She took it like a soldier. I don’t know what she’s learned, but she stayed humble throughout the conversation.

    • @Kwamzter
      @Kwamzter 2 года назад +25

      I agree, she took it on the chin. I think she had the right attitude because ultimately it's her choices that have her in that predicament. It's sad cause you can tell she was a cutie growing. That dude spoiled that flower.

    • @chim7741
      @chim7741 2 года назад +8

      Her face when she received gut blows!🤣🤣

    • @rastamanrootsandculture6165
      @rastamanrootsandculture6165 2 года назад +7

      Yeah, It's very noticeable in that one 1hr+ that she withstood those shock after shock, although she was repeatedly on and off and momentary on it....a bit bizarre.

    • @libertydrive4388
      @libertydrive4388 2 года назад +16

      She learned nothing. Stuck with her pride and flawed thinking, she will make the same mistakes over and over.

    • @coreyveasey4153
      @coreyveasey4153 2 года назад +14

      @@libertydrive4388 I hope your wrong. However I hear what your saying.

  • @jchess78
    @jchess78 2 года назад +233

    KS best interview to date. He is an expert at having people to start thinking long term not short term. I worked as Leasing consultant and 80% of the women and men who didnt invest couldnt afford to live at the property because they didnt have assets like Pensions 401k savings...their ssi wasnt enough to even rent and cost of living goes up due to inflation. it got me thinking about and ACTING NOW to save money and invest. God bless KS and each and every one of you.

    • @CharlieBIV
      @CharlieBIV 2 года назад +2

      Definitely his best interview to date 👍🏼💯👍🏼

    • @1flash3571
      @1flash3571 2 года назад +8

      Does she sound and look like she is starting to think long term? Even after ALL his concerns, and pointing out her faults, SHE STILL is blaming the men. She WILL not change just because of this one event. She will eventually find out when she is 65 and have a very few savings that she fu*ked up.

    • @kyleme9697
      @kyleme9697 2 года назад +4

      Agreed its his best interview, he's getting to lay it all out straight, and reality is harsh.

    • @elmateo77
      @elmateo77 2 года назад +1

      Great work bro, no better time to start investing than today.

    • @jonm57
      @jonm57 2 года назад

      @@1flash3571 Women that make big mistakes know it. But to keep from feeling the pain they live lives of delusion.

  • @kajel1537
    @kajel1537 2 года назад +117

    Damn, this woman could actually win a Queen Latina look alike contest hands down…

    • @karenbokab6049
      @karenbokab6049 2 года назад +15

      Queen Latifah, yes she looks just like her!

    • @darrenjones8023
      @darrenjones8023 2 года назад +5

      Absolutely! Thats what made the title so funny 🤣

    • @sjtalksandlife
      @sjtalksandlife 2 года назад +1

      Yes!..I thought I was the only one, she could pass for her sister

    • @MissBehaving888
      @MissBehaving888 2 года назад +2

      Yes.!! Very pretty

    • @MissBehaving888
      @MissBehaving888 2 года назад

      @@Jbs6187 I'm not sure of the number. She just looked pleasing to the eye.

  • @bradmccaffery1942
    @bradmccaffery1942 2 месяца назад

    This is an important conversation Kevin Thank you for pointing out the challenges many face We should discuss these issues openly to create positive change