Watched a video that the percentage in USA is in the 30a for the divorce rate. The video was of a Christian. SATAN hates marriage, yes. But the data shows that the divorce rate isn't anywhere near 50%.
This hit me hard because I myself left my husband during a time where i was VERY emotional. We had been going through a lot and one day things just went left and that day out of anger and resentment and being super emotional i chose to leave thinking I was doing the right thing. I regret it so much today but God has been correcting me in this season and showing me that I am not perfect regardless of what my husband has done, I am not perfect and I also need to work on myself and my heart. So it’s a blessing in disguise. Thank God my husband is still willing to work things out during this season, but I truly believe God allowed all of this to happen to not only restore our marriage but to help correct me where I am wrong and He also confirmed to me that He is working on my husband but for no i need to focus on me and my relationship with God and in HIS timing He will bring us back together. I ask for prayers during this time because it is very hard but with God and His strength and peace we are able to go through these times. In Jesus name ♥️
I will say a prayer for you, but please be careful with asking for prayers. God had to show me that if people are not faithfully following Him they maybe praying for your demise. Stick with what the Lord is working out in you. This can be a painful process because we are sometimes so blind to ourselves. Know your Bible so the you will know what and who are of the Lord. You guys have chosen to give your covenant over to the Lord and that is awesome.❤️❤️❤️
AMEN. 🙏🏼 for you both. I am going through the same situation right now with my husband, so I clearly understand. BUT TO GOD BE THE GLORY!!!! Continue to seek God and stand on HIS WORD, He will see you through. God bless you both, and may God keep you in His loving arms always ❤🙏🏼.
When my husband and I talked about marriage we agreed that “divorce” would never be an option. Every person in both our families had been divorced and remarried. We experienced through them how marriage can go downhill when God is not first. It simply was not an option. We will be married 28 years in November and are happier than ever. Praise God! As a consequence, our children have seen us work through tough times and rely on God to get through it. Breaking that generational curse was big. I pray our children will lead by our example and put God first when they are ready for marriage.
😂😂 If she wants to leave, are you not going to let her leave, so you are going to "kill her" to stay? I cry and beg my wife to come back. I know exactly what Tyre's gone through; it's like pulling a donkey up the hill who doesn't want to. What a strain that is. Most women leave you months before in their minds and hearts before leaving physically fighting and begging for someone to stay with them. You would have to do that for the rest of your life. And that's not love.
To add on to Tyrese’s response, his sister also passed away. His sister’s funeral was the day after this. It’s fair to say he is under a lot of stress. Sad situation all around.
100% I am so glad before I got married, my husband's brother who is a pastor told me how important a relationship with God is before being in a marriage. Because it's a covenant with God as well. It means nothing without God. I didn't know God before I got married. He talked to me and had me think through some things and read some things and reason through things before getting married. So I've always known how important my relationship with God is in my marriage, and I KNOW I do things with and for my husband and family FOR GOD too. It's been wonderful and made my marriage so manageable, and loving.
Wow that's great. I'm glad you did that and since you are on the path toward God, I hope you will stay with ur husband and not bring him chaos. Good luck to you and I'm glad ur married
God is supposed to be at the HEAD of your marriage not the center God comes FIRST then the spouse, then the children, then everybody else. His order must be done correctly. God is a jealous God, and he’s not the author of confusion.
I believe the relationship between husband and wife is intimate and should remain private especially during the rough times. It’s sad to see when people decide to put it all out there for everyone to see like this but the world delights in controversy and drama.
they were not in an intimate relationship, he said that they came thru hard times & that creates a narcissist from emotion abandonment, which means she only had jealous love that 'brings outburst of self worshipping .
Amen!!! I’m recently married and I’m in constant prayer for me and my husband to be able to overcome any obstacles that come our way. My husband and I both just spoke abt the importance of having the HOLY SPIRIT in order to survive this life. The heart is wicked and who can know it🙏🏽. LORD please reset YOUR ppl’s understanding abt marriage
I'm sitting here reading this quote out loud.... mom heard & said... mmmmmmmm. I stand on that response. This quote is spot on. When in conflict with loved ones the price can become expensive if you blurt out- or do things based on emotions. Pause- Breath- Walk Away- Pray and Sit in Silence- Wait to hear God's answer.
THANK YOU, NICK!! You are spot on about this situation. I have been a widow for 9 yrs now. We were married for 26 yrs. We both had a personal relationship with Jesus and He was definitely the head of our marriage. We had a beautiful, loving, and solid relationship, all praise goes to our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ! I love how you used Biblical scripture. That is always my go-to. My life's road map. Thank you again for such an insightful, Biblically sound video. God bless you Nick! ❤
I am Nigerian and I think the West have such a low expectations of what marriage is. You guys build marriage on happiness & less of sacrifice...so the very minute one partner is unhappy, here comes the lawyers.
🙄 Says the guy from the country that comes to America, lie about their marriage status having full on relationships with American. African men use American women to gain duel cutizenship, obtain access to medical benefits for their actual family at home, to gain better work opportunities and countless other reasons. Give me a break.I've seen it and heard it all. Y'all are not better than anyone.
As a fellow Nigerian, I completely agree. Most people base their marriage on personal happiness. Happiness can be fleeting feeling and therefore not a strong foundation to base a marriage on.
I’m so amazed and happy to hear a man articulate the actual word of God from a place of truth according to the Bible and not a place of contradiction and opinion to excuse sin. People throw around scriptures here and there when they wanna claim being Christians in the midst of vulgar language and foul behavior thinking it’s ok. I could go sooooo deep with that alone. But I just wanna say well said and I hope a lot of men and boys hear this so they can be blessed with the truth about being a husband, a leader of his family, and what it means to love your wife. ❤❤❤
i also think that the biggest mistake men do, like Adam, is to assume that Eve has heard the word, we then lack preaching to them, you have to love a failing student when you are a good teacher, does not mean you as a teacher should fail because you will have to answer to the principal why your student is failing. We men marry women that don't even know what a woman is in scripture.
Tyrease you must submit to the Lord fully. Nick you are spot on when talking about this. I pray he submits to the Lord with his full heart. Marriage is real… We as a people get all excited about a wedding, but its the marriage that’s tested and tried.
Tyrese ex wife ''you must submit to the Lord fully. Nick you are spot on when talking about this. I pray she submits to the Lord with her full heart. Marriage is real… We as a people get all excited about a wedding, but its the marriage that’s tested and tried.'' quote by '@CRYSTALBATES3143
I know a divorced man that treats his ex wife very well. He sends her flowers on Mother’s Day and on each of their grown children’s birthdays and even went up north to take care of her after surgery. He told me he is so very grateful to her role in their life together and for their children. I learned so much from him.❤
Oh on to be a (Christian) simp."Look church I'm being a doormat for Jesus. There's another word in the Bible that Christians in this day and time seem to ignore it is "justice" and "love your neighbor as yourself". , Not more than yourself.
Tyrese didn't want a saved woman. He wanted a pretty woman with a certain arab look so he can show her off to his Dubai friends. Beauty is deceptive and highly effective. I made the same mistake and married a beautiful Muslim man. I should not have been so easily fooled, but Beauty is intoxicating and deceptive. It glittered and I thought it was Gold so I became unequally yoked. This is why God warned us not do it. If you marry someone that is NOT saved and do not know Jesus as their Lord and Savior, the Devil will use that person to destroy you. Unsaved people are tools of the Devil. Many fall to this ageless trick.
Me too, made the same mistake. Been divorced now for nearly 9 years and I still feel gutted and heartbroken. It only takes one bad choice and it's game over. It happened so fast and now there's no going back in time. Generational curses are so hard to break.
Man ...i like this dude a lot. Nick Jones, i find myself inspired and agreeing with you almost every video. Preach on. Clearly, God is in your heart...
Nick you are one of the few young youtubers who understands the value of putting Christ first in marriage and being equally quoked in the faith. That way when challenges arise both husband and wife know how to deal with it sensibly
Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths. Prov. 3:5, 6.
Just wanted to say this. Dr. Charles Stanley said, remember the word HALT, when you have to make life alterning decisions. HALT means, never make decisions when you are hungry, angry, lonely or tired. That acronym has always been my guide when making life altering decisions. Hope this helps someone because it surely has helped me through life! Above all pray and ask God first because father knows best. He is the Alpha and Omega and knows the beginning to the end. Both me and my ex husband of 40 years now regrets our divorce. We should have gotten counseling and asked God if we should divirce but we didn't. Long story short he remarried but he still loves me and said he would divorce his now wife and remarry me but I could not cause another woman that kind of pain I went through when he cheated on me although I had biblical grounds for divorcing him.
I really appreciate Nick’s insight into Christian marriage. He revealed a mouthful. Bravo 👏🏽 Nick admits he doesn’t know everything Biblical but he is learning a lot and this video proves that 🙏🏽
No matter how emotional we get, we HAVE to put the wellbeing of our children first. No amount of child support will replace that child having her daddy in the home.
This is so true,,,,when we are emotional,,,we are ONLY thinking of ourselves,,,,it is not wise to make permanent decisions in a highly emotional state, the thing to do is to calm down and think it through,,seek help from a trusted ,, unbiased individual who has GODLY wisdom and NOT a worldly wisdom,,,,worldly wisdom can get you in a WORLD of trouble too,,,,,be smart,,,never make quick,, emotional decisions,,,,,NEVER!!!!!!!
I'm a sophomore in college and though I grew up in the church and believed in Him my whole life, I just now started the journey of following Him. I found your RUclips account and really enjoyed your videos and I just have to say that this video kind of hit me hard. I'm nowhere near wanting to get married right now, but I was able to relate some of the things you were preaching about to the relationships I have with my family and friends. I've never heard the term "Godly masculinity" before and it lowkey stunned me. Thank you so much for this video and the insight you have into these things.
Yes I also think that this gentleman videos are for today's people He is called by God to do what he is doing and he is so biblical, faIr and honest.Great guy.
Take my advice, stay with the church, as you don't care for marriage, focus on relationships, friendships so that when you are ready, you will have someone you have already built memories with. You both will find each other. Don't let , non interest mean that you don't care for a relationship at all. God first, and all shall follow.
@Su-rq9fb get married to God. All things will adjust. It may be difficult. The path to success is never easy. Most importantly, you know Jesus, and you have the word. Lead others and fear and worry not but rejoice in his glory for we are the children of the most High up in heaven and are blessed by him over our past. Not all know Jesus before marriage, but many have saved themselves or their marriage through Christ. Plant the seeds into your marriage, and God will heal and make all things correct and holy. Fear and worry not. You are blessed to know his name.
I have got to say I’m love what you said about marriage. You don’t give up a covenant means something. I’ve been fighting for my marriage for the past year and the enemy doesn’t give up he is right in the middle of this. He’s not going to win. Thank you for that I’ve been praying for encouragement and this has really helped.
I’m glad she is speaking out about the decision she made and how she regrets it and not bashing him hopefully her words will save someone else’s marriage.
Well said. If only the majority of people realized that their emotions and their feelings can lead you so far astray, but the Lord can settle all of that with wisdom and understanding. Seek you first the kingdom and all other things will be added….
The lack of self control and discipline is unprecedented, do we have areas to improve of course but its how one responds to a situation that makes the most impact. Emotional control is one of the more important practices in spirituality in general.
Thank u Nick first time I’ve heard about this, and thanks for sparing us from all the cursing. Christians must refrain from using vulgar language and words. James 3:10-12 God bless ❤
You definitely have to put God first in a marriage if you want it to last. The honeymoon period only lasts a short while. There have been days I didn't even want to speak to my husband, due to some foolishness he said or him behaving a certain way. And vice versa! It's not easy. But we owe it to our kids to figure it out. All things are possible in Christ. Put your trust in him, and seek him constantly. Pray with your spouse, and pray over your spouse daily, genuinely, and earnestly, and watch your marriage transform.
Wish I could give this a million thumbs up. I can't even find the words to explain how your insight/explanation on their marriage (which was done very tastefully), and how a marriage is supposed to be has helped me in my current relationship. I even had him listen to it and we had a discussion on it. We agreed with everything! May God continue to bless you with wisdom! Thank you!
Indefinitely allowed me to be in anger, and leave my marriage. Since I have been walking with God, I have forgiven and see him with new eyesight. Everything has been changed from what I felt in my anger, bitterness and rage. I wish he would turn to God and be restored.
Thanks for this video, I really needed it. As a woman trying to date and find a godly man I needed to hear to look for a man that puts God first. I think sometimes we as woman look for the attractive successful guy when we need to look at the man's character and his relationship to God. Again thank you for this message. Take care.
Yes and they don’t “vet” each other well, so when the lust fades away there’s no real foundation and they’re just now meeting the “real” person after marriage. Happens way too often.
You are describing the place she was in spiritually. Even though she was surrounded by women of Faith her relationship with God and the desire to hear from him was not her priority, therefore allowing the enemy to be able to destroy! My prayer is for both of them so that the child can have a different outcome than there’s 🙏🏾🙏🏾
While I was watching this video I actually realized how much fear of getting into relationships I have. But the funny part is that I keep asking God for marriage 😅😂 how weird😂. That was an eye opening video. Thank you Nick, your videos are never dull!
Your doing fine😂 Just make sure The Man Loves The Lord in Obedience more than He Loves you.. These are not the same levels of Love but it will Fortify the Relationship when He understands to Love You as Christ Loves His Church..📕🔍😊🙏💪☝️
The one word that stood out to me in your comment was fear. Fear no man, no woman no thing! If you fear anyone, have a fear of God. Get that in order first and then he will give you the desires of your heart (marriage).
@hercrown_official I understand your fear. Based on the slim pickings out there, your fears make perfect sense. Don’t let people quote Bible verses to you without validating your concerns. People love to spew forth Scriptures as bandaids without thinking things through. It’s very insensitive and invalidating. God does not condemn you for your fears. He understands even better than you do, the underlying cause of your fears. He will gently lead you through your fears. That is why he allowed David to write so many Psalms about his emotional and spiritual struggles. In a world of sinners, emotional life is hard. Our emotions are often tormented from our own flesh and it’s craziness, and from the craziness of the world and the devil. The world, the flesh, and the devil, do a work on us. THAT is why we need the comfort and instruction of God’s word and the Holy Spirit. God will guide you!
How Tyrese is talking in the vid about her, i can only imagine how he would go off on her when they argued. It really takes God to keep a marriage together. You definitely should be in prayer about who you should connect with. I still believe in marriage and what God created it to be!
Thank you Nick , I think this is for me.. I was almost giving up on my marriage. But my knees are feeble and my heart fainted already.. anyone who can pray for me pliz do, I really don't want to let this generational curse go on😢
Prayers you find the Root to your generational curse in DEUT or LEVITICUS & Break it thru Repentance IN JESUS/YESHUH’S MIGHTY NAME, never to open the door again but Worship & Praise HIM bc You are FREE!!! ✝️📖🙌🏻💜☝🏻🙏🏻 -Azariah (The LORD GOD HELPS) PSALM 20:1, 6-8; PROVERBS 16:25; ISAIAH 43; MATTHEW 24; DANIEL 3; JOHN 14-21; ISAIAH 30:18-22; ACTS 1-3
This is good stuff, Sir. If we were brought up with info like this, there might be less single parents in this world. I've never been married but always desired it, but knowing stuff like this should be considered before ever being intimate with someone. Although, intimacy should also be reserved for marriage, so, knowing the biblical significance of avoiding sexual sin makes a world of difference than just raising kids to know it's a sin.
Wonderful teaching Nick on Marriage. Truly inspiring 🙏❤️ Love and forgiveness is so powerful and we all need God Almighty Grace, Mercy and Forgiveness🙏 The children always hurt the most in a divorce.
You are a smart young Christian man that already knows what it takes in life to stay happy. I wish I had your knowledge of God and the Bible when I was younger like you do. I’m very proud to listen to you and your encouragement young man. Keep giving us the message because I know that God is using you for his purpose and I know that you are really helping me and my growth with my lord and savior Jesus Christ.🙏🙏
You should be a counselor, you are right on point. You're a blessing to your wife and a man of wisdom. You are a good example to the men of this generation. I praise the Lord for your inspiration counselor. You're a man of God. Keep the faith we need men like you in such a time as this time! You given me hope as a woman!
Hi Nick. I’ve watched a few of your videos and I agree with your biblical standpoints. This video in particular. I’m 42 and never been married, not because I have never been asked but because I couldn’t enter into that covenant with someone who didn’t feel the same. One thing you said about the husband needs to fight for his marriage. I think from a woman’s perspective that she should also fight to keep her marriage in troubled times.
Brother you hit it right on the head saying the husband has to be submitted to God. The wife be submissive to your husband and the husband be submissive to your wife. For the husband's body does not belong to himself but to ther wife and same for the wife. Emotions can be an excuse for temptation. When temptation enters then you aren't thinking anymore your just emotional. When temptation creeps in for me, i submit that to God and all my feelings with it And seek him to tell me if it is for me or not. God tells me "no" meaning its not good for me and i ask for forgiveness and move away from that temptation or by the time I've submitted to God that temptation as fled. The devil flees when you submit to God.
Generational curses are SOOO real. Like the devil really having a field day with us and we don’t even realize how deep it is. I pray we all can hear His voice clearly and spend time with Him daily. That’s the only way we can make it in this world. Only way marriages or anything will work is to keep God first.
I’m so glad someone else is teaching this. Thank you for being obedient and letting God use you. The time is here for correction and healing in the world. Many will not like it and many will hate you for the truth you speak but to God be the glory of it all. I’ll be praying for your spirit, mind and heart throughout all of this. Be well!
Spot on Nick!!! I tell my Husband all the time that because I love God more than I love him and he is the third person in our marriage. I am fully committed to our Covenant. These people sign contracts and not honor a Covenant. In our premarital class that was the first thing we learnt honor God with your Covenant and whenever times get hard remember your covenant to God and not your spouse.
Why would you have to tell your Husband all the time??🔍🤔🤨 Something isn't right for you to basically attempt to make him feel worthless..🤨 Obedience is something you really should stay to a private conversation with Yeshua, The Lord Jesus Christ.📕🔍
@@Justaguywithtruth that’s a bit of a stretch don’t you think? I didn’t think I needed to bring context to every time me and my husband spoke about whatever lead to that particular statement. You’ll need to stop projecting toxicity on everybody.I’m Caribbean we have family values and stay together we know order and respect for each other. Nice try though.
@@terence.j It’s not out of order. The very first commandment says to love the lord your God with all your heart with all your soul and all your strength. That commandment didn’t come with gender age or marital status. Jesus also repeated it again when asking the rich fool. The concept of what was taught is to remember Covenant!!! God is in charge over both me and my husband. We both think this way and the love we both have for him keeps us loving one another,simple as that. Sometimes it’s best to listen to the message rather than always pulling out the negative or trying to be super religious unnecessarily.
@@Inhis_beauty it's not a " stretch" it was your Exact words🔍🤔 🤨 don't attempt to deflect Truth.. Embrace it and be accountable for exactly what you text or speak.. It's incredible that people don't want to be responsible for anything yet run quick to build a victim narrative..📓🔍😐
Amen!!! Preach it brother Nick! You hit the nail in the head. Proverbs 9: 10 KJV "The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom: and the knowledge of the holy is understanding."
You have to be lead by the Holy Spirit and know Jesus Christ. I mean really know Him and you will be transformed and she will follow the Christ in you if she loves Jesus.
Brother Nick, I am grateful beyond words how truthful your words were concerning this matter. The Holy Spirit was truly with you. Let me just say this: if every black man thought the way you do, and practiced this, our communities, would be RADICALLY VIBRANT and SAFE! The rest of the world would be coming to black men to find out, “how do y’all do it?!?!” Your words did my heart so much good, and they simultaneously broke my heart. It did my heart good, because finally a black man is taking a STAND and speaking the truth! THIS is what we need!!! To hear truth does something to the heart that is really indescribably life-infusing. To hear truth about how the husband needs to submit to God, before his wife can comfortably submit to him from her heart with confidently,was so beautiful. To hear how Tyrese should have kept his thoughts private and not spoken so harshly about the mother of his daughter was so comforting! To hear how a man should not just let his wife leave without fighting for the marriage was so gratifying! This is how ALL men need to be, regardless of their color, but it is ESPECIALLY needed in so many black communities! Hearing your words broke my heart, because I’ve never heard anyone publically speak out about this so accurately from a Holy Spirit perspective. The LACK of black men saying what you have said breaks my heart! 😪 I cannot even articulate the sadness I carry about this. I compared your truth with all the lies that the majority of black male leaders speak to black people. It is profoundly depressing to see such men get air time, time after time, and they speak zero truth. They are clouds without water as the book of Jude says. Brother Nick, I don’t really need any more subscriptions, but because of this video that you made, I have subscribed to ALL notifications from your channel. As long as you stay biblically centered, I will keep the subscription. You were so on point, I can’t even express my joy. You said that you needed to stop because you were preaching. LOL! GOOD preaching is exactly what we NEED! 😂🤣😂 Please continue to preach about godly manhood, husbandry, womanhood, and being a wife! People DESPERATELY NEED to hear this!!! May God protect you, your family, friends, and acquaintances from Satan’s fiery darts! To God be the Glory!!
Amen! I wholeheartedly agree. I see some people had disagreements about what Nick was saying but, I feel he said a word! He is very anointed. And Nick is here to bring a message that can reach so many in today’s society. What Nick was saying was on his heart, his words are not in replacement of the Bible as Everyone should read their bibles.
@@millymills14 Yes, I completely agree that people should definitely read their Bibles and evaluate all things according to the Scriptures. What I appreciated about Nick’s words is that he did spoke from the Scriptures. He was very fair about both parties, he admitted that he did not have all the details, and he supported his perspective with Scripture. I really feel that the Holy Spirit spoke through him. It is always moving and beautiful to see a man speak under the power of the Holy Spirit. 🙏🏾🔥🥰
Well done Nick! God keeps enlarging you in every area daily. The truth is if the marriage has God in it, it won’t fail. But people nowadays justify their fleshly desires and end up looking elsewhere in turn causing problems in their marriages. This saying of ‘moving on’ is now so common and no one takes time to pursue their God given spouse anymore it is a sad generation that’s following looking at all this damage
We also know that people do married for the wrong reasons, especially ungodly people. I learned that marriage is for Godly people, so they would not live outside of God’s commands.
DeeP 🔥 thanks for this message, I ended a marriage 2 yrs ago as there was a lot of verbal abuse it was making me sick... And yes, it's hurtful, and healing is needed... †🙏
Wow...absolutely AMAZING how Samantha was able to skillfully deflect and pass the blame onto other people. She still haven't accepted responsibility for her actions or apologized for the hurt that she has caused. She appears to be very self-centered and I pray that Tyrese receive healing from this trauma. I'm so glad that he spoke up and shared his side of the story. Traditionally men remain silent while women gives the impression that they're the victims. I pray that God protects this child mentally, emotionally and phycologically. In Jesus mighty name. Amen.
I know you were preaching and talking about Tyrese and his wife in this video but you have no idea how much I needed to hear what you said today. Thank you for that because I was on the brink on how I felt about my marriage this morning
I learned that never take advice from people who have not lived certain situations before. A person who is or has never been married cannot give marriage advice. Especially Godly advice, sometimes we must try to keep our emotions in check. Stop listening to people to make lifelong decisions, pray, and ask God for direction.
That's a lie because I give good marriage advice based on the examples my parents and family members set for me. However, I do understand things are different when you are put in the position versus when you're just observing
Nick you are so on point! Always prayed an hoped to find someone who had a true relationship with Yaweh and truly understood that the commitment of the vows begins before marriage. I believe that there are some things that only become apparent to us about ourselves when we are in a relationship and "for better or worse..." is a clear indicator that we will be tested and lean on Yah or choose to lean on ourselves. Hopefully ppl realized a biblically based marriage mindset begins long before they actually reach the altar and it will take work to get and stay there.
Tyrese needs to call her and reconcile. I will pray for them to honor God in this way and believe with all my heart ❤️ it will happen! Thanks for this video and honoring God in this way! Bless you and where can I donate to your channel?
Nick, you brought up a good point about they both have to take blame. It never should have gotten to this extent. I felt Tyrese hurt and embarrassment. He's in show biz, everybody has an opinion , I heard her monetary needs, and then her regret. This is just so unfortunate. I truly feel for the daughter.
I’ve been following you for a little while now. What I appreciate about your channel if your unbiased opinion & righteous judgement. You don’t put anyone down and you come from a genuine, loving standpoint. Keep on keeping on and keep those videos coming! God bless you! I watched the Madonna video you put out and I wanted to tell you that there is a difference between PRAYing and PREYing when she said she spends 50% of her time in prayer for others. Follow your spirit because you’re doing something pure here.
Very encouraging “not preachy” content! Righteous judgement, always leading back to The One! 👏🏼🙏🏽 Praying they allow themselves to be reminded of the grace and mercy of God.. 🙏🏽🙏🏽
Hurt people hurt people. When marriages start from body, soul, to Spirit vs Spirit,soul, to body this is what you get faulty foundations. They speak on the word of God when it’s befitting to make them feel good about the situation and point fingers to say I am right, but don’t honor the word of God fully. Both of them are wrong and immature. Great words of wisdom you shared NJ.
I thank God for giving me a great 40 year marriage with a man that was a gift from God. Unfortunately, he died 2 years ago, 5 days after our 40th wedding anniversary. He died of covid. We were friends since I was 8 and he was 10.
I’m not gonna lie, everything you said is true. This was a message for me. Every time I feel my wife disrespects me with her mouth or smart attitude, I always think about the possibility of a divorce later down the road. I also say, “ if she was a dude, she would definitely get slapped” but just for the record I have never laid my hand on any woman I never intend to. But I’m not too patient and I know all of this is happening because of a lack of closeness to the savior. If anybody has any tips on anything, I would love to hear them in regards to handling your wife and also how to get closer to God/to hear from him.
So sweet . You are being brutally honest. Other than knowing Jesus, I don’t have a good solid advice. I just thought of something. Do you have any friends or family that you feel are a good example in this area? Spend time with them, especially the man. Go to a men’s Bible study and be around godly men . God bless you!
Cast down all pride bro, because that’s all it is. When your wife says something you don’t like pray that God brings correction to her and he will do it. Me and my wife have been getting deliverance from this type of pride of always wanting to have the last word or just having to say I told you so. It’s all rooted in pride and the devil is trying to cause division in y’all’s marriage. Y’all need to both remember vengeance is not yours pray for one another that God brings correction. keep your moths closed and watch God work. Every time y’all argue and pride gets in the way the devil is sitting back laughing.
He right about parents. Sometimes parents are an enemy to your marriage even if it's unintentional. Oh and believe me it's not always about single parents. My dad was just as vocal about being independent as my mom and they are married.
Constantly I pray for the Lord to teach me to be a wife. Will my marriage be perfect NO but I will always lean on God No matter how hard it may be. Faith will always be! Because without faith it is impossible to please God!
I agree with you. I think this marriage was doomed from the beginning. There is a level of dishonesty that I’m picking up here from both of them. If she was as simple as she said she was, why get into a relationship with a superstar? If you believed she was a simple woman, why have an iron clad prenup?
@@markerzuahsiam335sure that maybe true. I don’t in fact know. However judging from the way things transpired and knowing how he feels about marriage, it seems fleshy
I had a friend, who says she went to the same college as her and my friend said her and her group of friends were always trying to get the “top” guys. Idk how true that is cause I wasn’t there
The devil is attacking marriages and succeeding. The divorce rate is the highest it's ever been. Marriage is a covenant with God!!
Amen
Watched a video that the percentage in USA is in the 30a for the divorce rate. The video was of a Christian. SATAN hates marriage, yes. But the data shows that the divorce rate isn't anywhere near 50%.
True
BUT GOD!💪
Only marriage God put Together. Some marriage are the Devil arrangements.
This hit me hard because I myself left my husband during a time where i was VERY emotional. We had been going through a lot and one day things just went left and that day out of anger and resentment and being super emotional i chose to leave thinking I was doing the right thing. I regret it so much today but God has been correcting me in this season and showing me that I am not perfect regardless of what my husband has done, I am not perfect and I also need to work on myself and my heart. So it’s a blessing in disguise. Thank God my husband is still willing to work things out during this season, but I truly believe God allowed all of this to happen to not only restore our marriage but to help correct me where I am wrong and He also confirmed to me that He is working on my husband but for no i need to focus on me and my relationship with God and in HIS timing He will bring us back together. I ask for prayers during this time because it is very hard but with God and His strength and peace we are able to go through these times. In Jesus name ♥️
I'm glad God restored your marriage!!
Amen
I will say a prayer for you, but please be careful with asking for prayers. God had to show me that if people are not faithfully following Him they maybe praying for your demise. Stick with what the Lord is working out in you. This can be a painful process because we are sometimes so blind to ourselves. Know your Bible so the you will know what and who are of the Lord. You guys have chosen to give your covenant over to the Lord and that is awesome.❤️❤️❤️
AMEN. 🙏🏼 for you both. I am going through the same situation right now with my husband, so I clearly understand. BUT TO GOD BE THE GLORY!!!! Continue to seek God and stand on HIS WORD, He will see you through. God bless you both, and may God keep you in His loving arms always ❤🙏🏼.
I pray for reconciliation of your marriage in Jesus name
God is correct about everything..
Amen! Yes he will!
Amen.
AMEN
Facts💯
Amen all day🙏🏽🙏🏾💙🌹
When my husband and I talked about marriage we agreed that “divorce” would never be an option. Every person in both our families had been divorced and remarried. We experienced through them how marriage can go downhill when God is not first. It simply was not an option. We will be married 28 years in November and are happier than ever. Praise God! As a consequence, our children have seen us work through tough times and rely on God to get through it. Breaking that generational curse was big. I pray our children will lead by our example and put God first when they are ready for marriage.
Agree then keep praying and separating yourself from your background of divorce. Just Agreeing and not praying won't work sis
My husband said that to me in the beginning after 18 years. I'm out!
Glory to God 🙌🏽
@ladybayoutalesthetruth6788 Exactly what i say... agree and pray. Otherwise, it will happen
Amen 🙌🙏
If God can restore my marriage from a 6 year divorce… surely He can do a miracle here!
Amen! God Bless and won’t HE do it!!
😂😂 If she wants to leave, are you not going to let her leave, so you are going to "kill her" to stay? I cry and beg my wife to come back. I know exactly what Tyre's gone through; it's like pulling a donkey up the hill who doesn't want to. What a strain that is. Most women leave you months before in their minds and hearts before leaving physically fighting and begging for someone to stay with them. You would have to do that for the rest of your life. And that's not love.
I believe that there were no other better option that’s why the person returned back, it’s not for love ❤
6 years after the divorce is extreme. “With man it is impossible, but with God all things are possible.
@@nataliegilbert7412 ❤️
To add on to Tyrese’s response, his sister also passed away. His sister’s funeral was the day after this. It’s fair to say he is under a lot of stress. Sad situation all around.
Was she sick
It's so sad that there are people like her that exist in this world smh
People die everyday🤷🏽
Sounds to me like God is trying to speak to Tyrese. Soon his soul will be required of him. Let's pray his heart recieves.
I only feel bad for his mother and sister not his colorist behind tho after all the smack he talks about BW I’m good
100% I am so glad before I got married, my husband's brother who is a pastor told me how important a relationship with God is before being in a marriage. Because it's a covenant with God as well. It means nothing without God.
I didn't know God before I got married. He talked to me and had me think through some things and read some things and reason through things before getting married. So I've always known how important my relationship with God is in my marriage, and I KNOW I do things with and for my husband and family FOR GOD too. It's been wonderful and made my marriage so manageable, and loving.
I didn’t really think about how important a couple’s relationship with God truly is….thanks for the message
Wow that's great. I'm glad you did that and since you are on the path toward God, I hope you will stay with ur husband and not bring him chaos. Good luck to you and I'm glad ur married
@jinkazama2555 for sure. I have two wonderful children with him now 5 and 4 and I could never imagine anything else. :) God bless you!
Amen, im very happy for you :) And thank you, god bless you as well@@Kelsisgodzilla
God is supposed to be at the HEAD of your marriage not the center God comes FIRST then the spouse, then the children, then everybody else. His order must be done correctly. God is a jealous God, and he’s not the author of confusion.
I believe the relationship between husband and wife is intimate and should remain private especially during the rough times. It’s sad to see when people decide to put it all out there for everyone to see like this but the world delights in controversy and drama.
Well, it's an automatic attention and sympathy that wmn get when they expose any kind of family conflicts so.
He's just trying to expose her, don't know how that's so hard to see. She a relationship coach but divorced her husband for no obvious reason.
they were not in an intimate relationship, he said that they came thru hard times & that creates a narcissist from emotion abandonment, which means she only had jealous love that 'brings outburst of self worshipping .
I agree
Yep! That part.
Amen!!! I’m recently married and I’m in constant prayer for me and my husband to be able to overcome any obstacles that come our way.
My husband and I both just spoke abt the importance of having the HOLY SPIRIT in order to survive this life.
The heart is wicked and who can know it🙏🏽. LORD please reset YOUR ppl’s understanding abt marriage
you + your husband will stay together 4 life!
Praying Gods strength
Stay in the word!!! Remember, marriage isn't about US and our FEELINGS!
Amen!!!!!!
Amen 🙂
When I watch this a sentence comes to my mind: ‘Don’t make lifelong decisions based on temporary emotions’. We often do the opposite 💔
Very often. Smh
Boy did this hit home. I am now paying for the consequences of those actions.
I'm sitting here reading this quote out loud.... mom heard & said... mmmmmmmm. I stand on that response. This quote is spot on.
When in conflict with loved ones the price can become expensive if you blurt out- or do things based on emotions.
Pause- Breath- Walk Away- Pray and Sit in Silence- Wait to hear God's answer.
I am praying for my ex to find Jesus for the sake of our children 🙏
Amén
Me too
I'll be praying too
@aniam.9996 Thank you so much for saying this, that’s a word for me, thank you
Amen
23yrs with my lovely Wife. Ups and downs? Yep! But we hold true the our vows and the gift God has given us. Stay strong in the Lord.
THANK YOU, NICK!! You are spot on about this situation.
I have been a widow for 9 yrs now. We were married for 26 yrs. We both had a personal relationship with Jesus and He was definitely the head of our marriage. We had a beautiful, loving, and solid relationship, all praise goes to our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ!
I love how you used Biblical scripture. That is always my go-to. My life's road map.
Thank you again for such an insightful, Biblically sound video. God bless you Nick! ❤
How fortunate that you had a marriage for 26 years that centered around Jesus!
Amen❤ sorry for your loss
I'm so sorry for your loss may God continue to strengthen you and if it's God's will I pray he blesses you with another mate.
I think you are right that they should both not be on the Internet air out their dirty language.
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I am Nigerian and I think the West have such a low expectations of what marriage is. You guys build marriage on happiness & less of sacrifice...so the very minute one partner is unhappy, here comes the lawyers.
🙄 Says the guy from the country that comes to America, lie about their marriage status having full on relationships with American. African men use American women to gain duel cutizenship, obtain access to medical benefits for their actual family at home, to gain better work opportunities and countless other reasons. Give me a break.I've seen it and heard it all. Y'all are not better than anyone.
As a fellow Nigerian, I completely agree. Most people base their marriage on personal happiness. Happiness can be fleeting feeling and therefore not a strong foundation to base a marriage on.
I agree. Also, here, elders are nothing of what the once were. They do not teach nor lead by example so young people enter life, blindly.
@@QueenBthatsMe777 hopefully, there will be a revival 🙏🏿
@@patrickrumbu2902 prayerfully so, brother. Prayerfully so
I’m so amazed and happy to hear a man articulate the actual word of God from a place of truth according to the Bible and not a place of contradiction and opinion to excuse sin. People throw around scriptures here and there when they wanna claim being Christians in the midst of vulgar language and foul behavior thinking it’s ok. I could go sooooo deep with that alone. But I just wanna say well said and I hope a lot of men and boys hear this so they can be blessed with the truth about being a husband, a leader of his family, and what it means to love your wife. ❤❤❤
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i also think that the biggest mistake men do, like Adam, is to assume that Eve has heard the word, we then lack preaching to them, you have to love a failing student when you are a good teacher, does not mean you as a teacher should fail because you will have to answer to the principal why your student is failing.
We men marry women that don't even know what a woman is in scripture.
Tyrease you must submit to the Lord fully. Nick you are spot on when talking about this. I pray he submits to the Lord with his full heart. Marriage is real… We as a people get all excited about a wedding, but its the marriage that’s tested and tried.
As goes the woman as well. She filed for divorce instead of trying to work it out with her husband. It takes two.
lol the sisterhood is real.
Tyrese ex wife ''you must submit to the Lord fully. Nick you are spot on when talking about this. I pray she submits to the Lord with her full heart. Marriage is real… We as a people get all excited about a wedding, but its the marriage that’s tested and tried.'' quote by '@CRYSTALBATES3143
Yep another Woman attempting to be the overseer of Man.. Incredible📕🔍🤔🤨
Right you can't play with God he knows all
I know a divorced man that treats his ex wife very well. He sends her flowers on Mother’s Day and on each of their grown children’s birthdays and even went up north to take care of her after surgery. He told me he is so very grateful to her role in their life together and for their children. I learned so much from him.❤
He needs to marry his wife again and stop pretending like it’s all great
Lol, he still loves her 😂
Oh on to be a (Christian) simp."Look church I'm being a doormat for Jesus. There's another word in the Bible that Christians in this day and time seem to ignore it is "justice" and "love your neighbor as yourself". , Not more than yourself.
@@CarlosEbanks, we don't know if she departed from him but truly loves her. He should talk to her again see.
@@colinw7205what does that have to do with the comment?
Tyrese didn't want a saved woman. He wanted a pretty woman with a certain arab look so he can show her off to his Dubai friends. Beauty is deceptive and highly effective. I made the same mistake and married a beautiful Muslim man. I should not have been so easily fooled, but Beauty is intoxicating and deceptive. It glittered and I thought it was Gold so I became unequally yoked. This is why God warned us not do it. If you marry someone that is NOT saved and do not know Jesus as their Lord and Savior, the Devil will use that person to destroy you. Unsaved people are tools of the Devil. Many fall to this ageless trick.
Yep. I married unequally yoked and divorced still unequally yoked. I knew better but thought I could change him. Nope.
This the one! He was so concerned with her not being materialistic when he should have made sure she was a Christian.
Girl I love this❤❤❤❤
Me too, made the same mistake. Been divorced now for nearly 9 years and I still feel gutted and heartbroken. It only takes one bad choice and it's game over. It happened so fast and now there's no going back in time. Generational curses are so hard to break.
I had that experience marrying someone who was supposed to be a believer. It's devastated my entire life. God has been rebuilding me ever since.😢
No weapon formed against my marriage will prosper in Jesus Christ 🙏🙏🙏💓🙏
🙏 Amen
Amen
Amen
Man ...i like this dude a lot. Nick Jones, i find myself inspired and agreeing with you almost every video. Preach on. Clearly, God is in your heart...
Nick you are one of the few young youtubers who understands the value of putting Christ first in marriage and being equally quoked in the faith. That way when challenges arise both husband and wife know how to deal with it sensibly
Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths. Prov. 3:5, 6.
Indeed🔥
Amen 🙏🏾❤
Amen, oh yes please Lord! ,🙏🏽
Just wanted to say this. Dr. Charles Stanley said, remember the word HALT, when you have to make life alterning decisions. HALT means, never make decisions when you are hungry, angry, lonely or tired. That acronym has always been my guide when making life altering decisions. Hope this helps someone because it surely has helped me through life! Above all pray and ask God first because father knows best. He is the Alpha and Omega and knows the beginning to the end. Both me and my ex husband of 40 years now regrets our divorce. We should have gotten counseling and asked God if we should divirce but we didn't. Long story short he remarried but he still loves me and said he would divorce his now wife and remarry me but I could not cause another woman that kind of pain I went through when he cheated on me although I had biblical grounds for divorcing him.
I love Charles Stanley. My favorite preacher. May he RIP
Thank you dear
So wise. Thank you for sharing!
Yes such a wise man ❤thanks for sharing ✝️💖
Thank you for this. HALT.
I really appreciate Nick’s insight into Christian marriage. He revealed a mouthful. Bravo 👏🏽 Nick admits he doesn’t know everything Biblical but he is learning a lot and this video proves that 🙏🏽
No matter how emotional we get, we HAVE to put the wellbeing of our children first. No amount of child support will replace that child having her daddy in the home.
Amen to that
Amen!!!
This is so true,,,,when we are emotional,,,we are ONLY thinking of ourselves,,,,it is not wise to make permanent decisions in a highly emotional state, the thing to do is to calm down and think it through,,seek help from a trusted ,, unbiased individual who has GODLY wisdom and NOT a worldly wisdom,,,,worldly wisdom can get you in a WORLD of trouble too,,,,,be smart,,,never make quick,, emotional decisions,,,,,NEVER!!!!!!!
Amen
I'm a sophomore in college and though I grew up in the church and believed in Him my whole life, I just now started the journey of following Him. I found your RUclips account and really enjoyed your videos and I just have to say that this video kind of hit me hard. I'm nowhere near wanting to get married right now, but I was able to relate some of the things you were preaching about to the relationships I have with my family and friends. I've never heard the term "Godly masculinity" before and it lowkey stunned me. Thank you so much for this video and the insight you have into these things.
And the angels are cheering you on 🙏
This grandma is praying earnestly for your entire generation. ❤️
Yes I also think that this gentleman videos are for today's people He is called by God to do what he is doing and he is so biblical, faIr and honest.Great guy.
Take my advice, stay with the church, as you don't care for marriage, focus on relationships, friendships so that when you are ready, you will have someone you have already built memories with.
You both will find each other.
Don't let , non interest mean that you don't care for a relationship at all.
God first, and all shall follow.
I really wish I had God in my life before I got married
@Su-rq9fb get married to God. All things will adjust. It may be difficult. The path to success is never easy. Most importantly, you know Jesus, and you have the word. Lead others and fear and worry not but rejoice in his glory for we are the children of the most High up in heaven and are blessed by him over our past.
Not all know Jesus before marriage, but many have saved themselves or their marriage through Christ. Plant the seeds into your marriage, and God will heal and make all things correct and holy.
Fear and worry not. You are blessed to know his name.
After all of this societal talk about “toxic masculinity”, it was refreshing to hear you coin the term “Godly masculinity”. That is IT.RIGHT.THERE.
I have got to say I’m love what you said about marriage. You don’t give up a covenant means something. I’ve been fighting for my marriage for the past year and the enemy doesn’t give up he is right in the middle of this. He’s not going to win. Thank you for that I’ve been praying for encouragement and this has really helped.
I’m glad she is speaking out about the decision she made and how she regrets it and not bashing him hopefully her words will save someone else’s marriage.
Amen
When she mentioned you need someone in your life to check you, etc. I was thinking yes, that’s why we all need Jesus to correct us. Glory to God ✝️
Well said. If only the majority of people realized that their emotions and their feelings can lead you so far astray, but the Lord can settle all of that with wisdom and understanding. Seek you first the kingdom and all other things will be added….
The lack of self control and discipline is unprecedented, do we have areas to improve of course but its how one responds to a situation that makes the most impact. Emotional control is one of the more important practices in spirituality in general.
Thank u Nick first time I’ve heard about this, and thanks for sparing us from all the cursing. Christians must refrain from using vulgar language and words. James 3:10-12 God bless ❤
You definitely have to put God first in a marriage if you want it to last. The honeymoon period only lasts a short while. There have been days I didn't even want to speak to my husband, due to some foolishness he said or him behaving a certain way. And vice versa! It's not easy. But we owe it to our kids to figure it out. All things are possible in Christ. Put your trust in him, and seek him constantly. Pray with your spouse, and pray over your spouse daily, genuinely, and earnestly, and watch your marriage transform.
Wish I could give this a million thumbs up. I can't even find the words to explain how your insight/explanation on their marriage (which was done very tastefully), and how a marriage is supposed to be has helped me in my current relationship. I even had him listen to it and we had a discussion on it. We agreed with everything! May God continue to bless you with wisdom! Thank you!
Indefinitely allowed me to be in anger, and leave my marriage. Since I have been walking with God, I have forgiven and see him with new eyesight. Everything has been changed from what I felt in my anger, bitterness and rage. I wish he would turn to God and be restored.
Thanks for this video, I really needed it. As a woman trying to date and find a godly man I needed to hear to look for a man that puts God first. I think sometimes we as woman look for the attractive successful guy when we need to look at the man's character and his relationship to God. Again thank you for this message. Take care.
Amen🙏🏽🙏🏾💙🌹
So true. And ultimately the Holy Spirit should confirm before we make any carnal decision ❤
Me too girl. 🙏🏽
No no, you seek God and let the man find you.
@@SisterRondaG8855 yeah you are absolutely right.
Good point bro. People dont date correctly and dont be close to God at the beginning.
Yes and they don’t “vet” each other well, so when the lust fades away there’s no real foundation and they’re just now meeting the “real” person after marriage. Happens way too often.
Foundation is the word.
Sometimes people get together because of trauma bonds and if not healed that same trauma is what ultimately drives them apart....
💯 #facts I'm a witness to that
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Thank you for speaking the truth. For reminding me about those facts. May the lord continue to bless you brother!
You are describing the place she was in spiritually. Even though she was surrounded by women of Faith her relationship with God and the desire to hear from him was not her priority, therefore allowing the enemy to be able to destroy! My prayer is for both of them so that the child can have a different outcome than there’s 🙏🏾🙏🏾
GOD bless you Nick 🙏🏻
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While I was watching this video I actually realized how much fear of getting into relationships I have. But the funny part is that I keep asking God for marriage 😅😂 how weird😂.
That was an eye opening video. Thank you Nick, your videos are never dull!
Ask God for a revelation of His will for your life. Marriage may not be his will for you but a higher purpose.
wait patiently on Him and ask Him to help you discern spirits so you can recognize the counterfeit as well
Your doing fine😂 Just make sure The Man Loves The Lord in Obedience more than He Loves you.. These are not the same levels of Love but it will Fortify the Relationship when He understands to Love You as Christ Loves His Church..📕🔍😊🙏💪☝️
The one word that stood out to me in your comment was fear. Fear no man, no woman no thing! If you fear anyone, have a fear of God. Get that in order first and then he will give you the desires of your heart (marriage).
@hercrown_official
I understand your fear. Based on the slim pickings out there, your fears make perfect sense. Don’t let people quote Bible verses to you without validating your concerns. People love to spew forth Scriptures as bandaids without thinking things through. It’s very insensitive and invalidating.
God does not condemn you for your fears. He understands even better than you do, the underlying cause of your fears. He will gently lead you through your fears. That is why he allowed David to write so many Psalms about his emotional and spiritual struggles. In a world of sinners, emotional life is hard. Our emotions are often tormented from our own flesh and it’s craziness, and from the craziness of the world and the devil. The world, the flesh, and the devil, do a work on us. THAT is why we need the comfort and instruction of God’s word and the Holy Spirit.
God will guide you!
Yes, my dear brother in Yeshuah Ha'Mashiach, everything you mentioned is the truth! ❤
Yep
This young man is blessed. Glory to God for you choosing to spread a positive message. May God bless you abundantly for your obedience. 🙏🏽
How Tyrese is talking in the vid about her, i can only imagine how he would go off on her when they argued.
It really takes God to keep a marriage together. You definitely should be in prayer about who you should connect with. I still believe in marriage and what God created it to be!
Thank you Nick , I think this is for me.. I was almost giving up on my marriage. But my knees are feeble and my heart fainted already.. anyone who can pray for me pliz do, I really don't want to let this generational curse go on😢
You're in my prayers dear, God is in the center of it all. Connect online too with Ps Jerry Eze
Prayers you find the Root to your generational curse in DEUT or LEVITICUS & Break it thru Repentance IN JESUS/YESHUH’S MIGHTY NAME, never to open the door again but Worship & Praise HIM bc You are FREE!!! ✝️📖🙌🏻💜☝🏻🙏🏻
-Azariah (The LORD GOD HELPS)
PSALM 20:1, 6-8; PROVERBS 16:25; ISAIAH 43; MATTHEW 24; DANIEL 3; JOHN 14-21; ISAIAH 30:18-22; ACTS 1-3
Wow, your transparency is amazing, and I will definitely pray for you and your marriage!
@@karlamkuhn760 ok I got it.. thanks a lot, Satan is defeated already and proclaim my victory already.
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He appears hurt its going to take some time to heal. He should cling to God everyday until God changes his heart! Good brother!
This is good stuff, Sir. If we were brought up with info like this, there might be less single parents in this world. I've never been married but always desired it, but knowing stuff like this should be considered before ever being intimate with someone. Although, intimacy should also be reserved for marriage, so, knowing the biblical significance of avoiding sexual sin makes a world of difference than just raising kids to know it's a sin.
Wonderful teaching Nick on Marriage. Truly inspiring 🙏❤️ Love and forgiveness is so powerful and we all need God Almighty Grace, Mercy and Forgiveness🙏 The children always hurt the most in a divorce.
100%👏👏👏👏🎤💪A young man wiser than his elders. God protect you forever for the sake of His Glory. ❤
I agree if the man isn’t 100% summited to God he can’t lead his home
And you are 100% correct about prenup it's so worldly inviting in advance the spirit of divorce
Yep!! Why would any Christian get a prenup? In case of a divorce that's never supposed to happen?
You are a smart young Christian man that already knows what it takes in life to stay happy. I wish I had your knowledge of God and the Bible when I was younger like you do. I’m very proud to listen to you and your encouragement young man. Keep giving us the message because I know that God is using you for his purpose and I know that you are really helping me and my growth with my lord and savior Jesus Christ.🙏🙏
You should be a counselor, you are right on point. You're a blessing to your wife and a man of wisdom. You are a good example to the men of this generation. I praise the Lord for your inspiration counselor. You're a man of God. Keep the faith we need men like you in such a time as this time! You given me hope as a woman!
Hi Nick. I’ve watched a few of your videos and I agree with your biblical standpoints. This video in particular. I’m 42 and never been married, not because I have never been asked but because I couldn’t enter into that covenant with someone who didn’t feel the same. One thing you said about the husband needs to fight for his marriage. I think from a woman’s perspective that she should also fight to keep her marriage in troubled times.
Brother you hit it right on the head saying the husband has to be submitted to God.
The wife be submissive to your husband and the husband be submissive to your wife. For the husband's body does not belong to himself but to ther wife and same for the wife.
Emotions can be an excuse for temptation. When temptation enters then you aren't thinking anymore your just emotional.
When temptation creeps in for me, i submit that to God and all my feelings with it And seek him to tell me if it is for me or not. God tells me "no" meaning its not good for me and i ask for forgiveness and move away from that temptation or by the time I've submitted to God that temptation as fled. The devil flees when you submit to God.
Generational curses are SOOO real. Like the devil really having a field day with us and we don’t even realize how deep it is. I pray we all can hear His voice clearly and spend time with Him daily. That’s the only way we can make it in this world. Only way marriages or anything will work is to keep God first.
Amazing message 👍‼️💯
Amen
You have shared a lot of wisdom here. ❤
I’m so glad someone else is teaching this. Thank you for being obedient and letting God use you. The time is here for correction and healing in the world. Many will not like it and many will hate you for the truth you speak but to God be the glory of it all. I’ll be praying for your spirit, mind and heart throughout all of this. Be well!
Thank you. You are a breath of fresh air. I thank God for men who aren't afraid to stand by God's world and who aren't afraid to be set apart. 🙏
I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit in you; I will remove from you your heart of stone and give you a heart of flesh. Ezekiel 36:26
Amen
Spot on Nick!!! I tell my Husband all the time that because I love God more than I love him and he is the third person in our marriage. I am fully committed to our Covenant. These people sign contracts and not honor a Covenant. In our premarital class that was the first thing we learnt honor God with your Covenant and whenever times get hard remember your covenant to God and not your spouse.
Why would you have to tell your Husband all the time??🔍🤔🤨 Something isn't right for you to basically attempt to make him feel worthless..🤨 Obedience is something you really should stay to a private conversation with Yeshua, The Lord Jesus Christ.📕🔍
@@Justaguywithtruth that’s a bit of a stretch don’t you think? I didn’t think I needed to bring context to every time me and my husband spoke about whatever lead to that particular statement. You’ll need to stop projecting toxicity on everybody.I’m Caribbean we have family values and stay together we know order and respect for each other. Nice try though.
@@terence.j It’s not out of order. The very first commandment says to love the lord your God with all your heart with all your soul and all your strength. That commandment didn’t come with gender age or marital status. Jesus also repeated it again when asking the rich fool. The concept of what was taught is to remember Covenant!!! God is in charge over both me and my husband. We both think this way and the love we both have for him keeps us loving one another,simple as that. Sometimes it’s best to listen to the message rather than always pulling out the negative or trying to be super religious unnecessarily.
@@Inhis_beauty it's not a " stretch" it was your Exact words🔍🤔 🤨 don't attempt to deflect Truth.. Embrace it and be accountable for exactly what you text or speak.. It's incredible that people don't want to be responsible for anything yet run quick to build a victim narrative..📓🔍😐
Amen 🙏🏽
Good for her and being honest. The value hierarchy in our lives is important: god, spouse, kids, family, friends, community, state, country.
Marriage is not for the faint 🙏🏾it is a commitment to someone that you say you love and willing to live with until death do you part ❤
THIS is such a GREAT and POWERFUL message of GOD for those who are married, and for those who desire to be married. Thank you again for sharing! 🙏
Amen!!! Preach it brother Nick! You hit the nail in the head. Proverbs 9: 10 KJV "The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom: and the knowledge of the holy is understanding."
Thank you that was a whole lot wisdom you literally made me want to go and try to work things out with my wife before our separation is complete
Go and work it out, but before you do...take it to God in prayer
@@dawnadonis5875seek ye FIRST the kingdom. Amen!
Humble yourself and work on you marriage. To many of us have hardened hearts. God hates divorce.
Please do❤❤🙏🏼
You have to be lead by the Holy Spirit and know Jesus Christ. I mean really know Him and you will be transformed and she will follow the Christ in you if she loves Jesus.
Amen! When God created marriage, divorce was not even really a consideration. It’s a solemn covenant, till death do you part.
Brother Nick,
I am grateful beyond words how truthful your words were concerning this matter. The Holy Spirit was truly with you. Let me just say this: if every black man thought the way you do, and practiced this, our communities, would be RADICALLY VIBRANT and SAFE! The rest of the world would be coming to black men to find out, “how do y’all do it?!?!”
Your words did my heart so much good, and they simultaneously broke my heart. It did my heart good, because finally a black man is taking a STAND and speaking the truth! THIS is what we need!!! To hear truth does something to the heart that is really indescribably life-infusing. To hear truth about how the husband needs to submit to God, before his wife can comfortably submit to him from her heart with confidently,was so beautiful. To hear how Tyrese should have kept his thoughts private and not spoken so harshly about the mother of his daughter was so comforting! To hear how a man should not just let his wife leave without fighting for the marriage was so gratifying! This is how ALL men need to be, regardless of their color, but it is ESPECIALLY needed in so many black communities!
Hearing your words broke my heart, because I’ve never heard anyone publically speak out about this so accurately from a Holy Spirit perspective. The LACK of black men saying what you have said breaks my heart! 😪 I cannot even articulate the sadness I carry about this.
I compared your truth with all the lies that the majority of black male leaders speak to black people. It is profoundly depressing to see such men get air time, time after time, and they speak zero truth. They are clouds without water as the book of Jude says.
Brother Nick, I don’t really need any more subscriptions, but because of this video that you made, I have subscribed to ALL notifications from your channel. As long as you stay biblically centered, I will keep the subscription.
You were so on point, I can’t even express my joy.
You said that you needed to stop because you were preaching. LOL! GOOD preaching is exactly what we NEED!
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Please continue to preach about godly manhood, husbandry, womanhood, and being a wife!
People DESPERATELY NEED to hear this!!!
May God protect you, your family, friends, and acquaintances from Satan’s fiery darts!
To God be the Glory!!
Amen! I wholeheartedly agree. I see some people had disagreements about what Nick was saying but, I feel he said a word! He is very anointed. And Nick is here to bring a message that can reach so many in today’s society. What Nick was saying was on his heart, his words are not in replacement of the Bible as Everyone should read their bibles.
@@millymills14 Yes, I completely agree that people should definitely read their Bibles and evaluate all things according to the Scriptures. What I appreciated about Nick’s words is that he did spoke from the Scriptures. He was very fair about both parties, he admitted that he did not have all the details, and he supported his perspective with Scripture. I really feel that the Holy Spirit spoke through him. It is always moving and beautiful to see a man speak under the power of the Holy Spirit.
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Wow. Sir, you just gained a new follower. This was powerful and based on absolute Truth🙌🏽✝️
Well done Nick! God keeps enlarging you in every area daily. The truth is if the marriage has God in it, it won’t fail. But people nowadays justify their fleshly desires and end up looking elsewhere in turn causing problems in their marriages. This saying of ‘moving on’ is now so common and no one takes time to pursue their God given spouse anymore it is a sad generation that’s following looking at all this damage
We also know that people do married for the wrong reasons, especially ungodly people. I learned that marriage is for Godly people, so they would not live outside of God’s commands.
Gold diggers
My fellow brothers and sisters in Christ, marriages are under attack!!! The Devil doesn't let up. Lets pray for every marriage, no judgements please
That lady played him good! She had this all planned out very well!
I do agree she played him
DeeP 🔥 thanks for this message, I ended a marriage 2 yrs ago as there was a lot of verbal abuse it was making me sick... And yes, it's hurtful, and healing is needed... †🙏
Wow...absolutely AMAZING how Samantha was able to skillfully deflect and pass the blame onto other people. She still haven't accepted responsibility for her actions or apologized for the hurt that she has caused. She appears to be very self-centered and I pray that Tyrese receive healing from this trauma. I'm so glad that he spoke up and shared his side of the story. Traditionally men remain silent while women gives the impression that they're the victims. I pray that God protects this child mentally, emotionally and phycologically. In Jesus mighty name. Amen.
I know you were preaching and talking about Tyrese and his wife in this video but you have no idea how much I needed to hear what you said today. Thank you for that because I was on the brink on how I felt about my marriage this morning
I learned that never take advice from people who have not lived certain situations before. A person who is or has never been married cannot give marriage advice. Especially Godly advice, sometimes we must try to keep our emotions in check. Stop listening to people to make lifelong decisions, pray, and ask God for direction.
That's a lie because I give good marriage advice based on the examples my parents and family members set for me. However, I do understand things are different when you are put in the position versus when you're just observing
Nick you are so on point! Always prayed an hoped to find someone who had a true relationship with Yaweh and truly understood that the commitment of the vows begins before marriage. I believe that there are some things that only become apparent to us about ourselves when we are in a relationship and "for better or worse..." is a clear indicator that we will be tested and lean on Yah or choose to lean on ourselves. Hopefully ppl realized a biblically based marriage mindset begins long before they actually reach the altar and it will take work to get and stay there.
Tyrese needs to call her and reconcile. I will pray for them to honor God in this way and believe with all my heart ❤️ it will happen! Thanks for this video and honoring God in this way! Bless you and where can I donate to your channel?
Nick, you brought up a good point about they both have to take blame. It never should have gotten to this extent. I felt Tyrese hurt and embarrassment. He's in show biz, everybody has an opinion , I heard her monetary needs, and then her regret. This is just so unfortunate. I truly feel for the daughter.
I’ve been following you for a little while now. What I appreciate about your channel if your unbiased opinion & righteous judgement. You don’t put anyone down and you come from a genuine, loving standpoint. Keep on keeping on and keep those videos coming! God bless you!
I watched the Madonna video you put out and I wanted to tell you that there is a difference between PRAYing and PREYing when she said she spends 50% of her time in prayer for others. Follow your spirit because you’re doing something pure here.
A covenant made before God between a man and a woman
That's worthy of a congratulations
Very encouraging “not preachy” content!
Righteous judgement, always leading back to The One! 👏🏼🙏🏽
Praying they allow themselves to be reminded of the grace and mercy of God.. 🙏🏽🙏🏽
I like your perspective on this Nick! Makes a lot of sense.A lot!🙏🏾
I thank God for his Word. He definitely is speaking to me through this video. 🙌🏾🙏🏾❤
Me too
Thank God for the wisdom He placed in this young man. May God continue to use you to reach out to many. I appreciate your teaching on Godly marriage❤
God is speaking through you, the words that come out of your mouth every time are so powerful. Stay blessed ❤
Hurt people hurt people. When marriages start from body, soul, to Spirit vs Spirit,soul, to body this is what you get faulty foundations. They speak on the word of God when it’s befitting to make them feel good about the situation and point fingers to say I am right, but don’t honor the word of God fully. Both of them are wrong and immature.
Great words of wisdom you shared NJ.
I thank God for giving me a great 40 year marriage with a man that was a gift from God. Unfortunately, he died 2 years ago, 5 days after our 40th wedding anniversary. He died of covid. We were friends since I was 8 and he was 10.
Yes you hit the nail right on the head! Preach! Your spiritual analyses of this situation is very good.
Wise words brother...
Hi Nick,I love your message about marriage,we all needed to hear it.Thank You ❤
I’m not gonna lie, everything you said is true. This was a message for me. Every time I feel my wife disrespects me with her mouth or smart attitude, I always think about the possibility of a divorce later down the road. I also say, “ if she was a dude, she would definitely get slapped” but just for the record I have never laid my hand on any woman I never intend to. But I’m not too patient and I know all of this is happening because of a lack of closeness to the savior. If anybody has any tips on anything, I would love to hear them in regards to handling your wife and also how to get closer to God/to hear from him.
The Book Of Hosea in Bible - Hosea Love for Gomer. Read and May God bless and lead you both in the marriage
So sweet . You are being brutally honest. Other than knowing Jesus, I don’t have a good solid advice. I just thought of something. Do you have any friends or family that you feel are a good example in this area? Spend time with them, especially the man. Go to a men’s Bible study and be around godly men . God bless you!
@@magyarmainer4692 thank you. I don’t have a men’s bible study that I attend. But I definitely can do that.
FASTING, BIBLE, KEVIN EWING!!!!! THEN BE AROUND MEN OF GOD FOR RESPECT!!!!?
Cast down all pride bro, because that’s all it is. When your wife says something you don’t like pray that God brings correction to her and he will do it. Me and my wife have been getting deliverance from this type of pride of always wanting to have the last word or just having to say I told you so. It’s all rooted in pride and the devil is trying to cause division in y’all’s marriage. Y’all need to both remember vengeance is not yours pray for one another that God brings correction. keep your moths closed and watch God work. Every time y’all argue and pride gets in the way the devil is sitting back laughing.
never make decisions in a relationship when there's anger
I love this thank you for sharing marriage is so hard these days always put god first
He right about parents. Sometimes parents are an enemy to your marriage even if it's unintentional. Oh and believe me it's not always about single parents. My dad was just as vocal about being independent as my mom and they are married.
Preach
Let us all bombard the LORD with prayers for them and all marriages in JESUS MIGHTY NAME 🙏 🙌
Constantly I pray for the Lord to teach me to be a wife. Will my marriage be perfect NO but I will always lean on God No matter how hard it may be. Faith will always be! Because without faith it is impossible to please God!
Thank you for sharing this great video. You are helping us. God bless you Nick
Good video. Sign of the times. The country goes the same direction as the family.
I agree with you. I think this marriage was doomed from the beginning. There is a level of dishonesty that I’m picking up here from both of them. If she was as simple as she said she was, why get into a relationship with a superstar? If you believed she was a simple woman, why have an iron clad prenup?
I hear what you are saying but didn't Esther get married to a king? I am in no way comparing Tyre to a king but you get my drift.
@@markerzuahsiam335sure that maybe true. I don’t in fact know. However judging from the way things transpired and knowing how he feels about marriage, it seems fleshy
I had a friend, who says she went to the same college as her and my friend said her and her group of friends were always trying to get the “top” guys. Idk how true that is cause I wasn’t there