Mickey Rooney is said to have been extremely attractive to women around Hollywood. My father was 5'5", and women would come up to my mother and say, "I simply _must_ dance with your husband!"
As a 5'5" guy, I've dated women your height, Celina. I worked on my body at the gym, style, and charisma. My positive energy and drive really helped me as well.
It's good to hear it from a real tall woman. They have less drama because they don't seek for attention since they have it naturally. I've always landed tall Ladies. Very good woman.
100%. They are usually super calm and not neurotic I noticed through relationships. Whereas the short ones tend to have anger issues, be super aggressive and always try to shame taller women out of jealousy. The short ones have the Napoleon complex like short men.
@@Thisismeofcourse Good to see someone admit this. Men usually align with short women because they have the innate desire to protect them. They don't have that desire with tall women. Tall women always get labelled as aggressive or threatening when we purposely tone ourselves down because we know how we are perceived. The tiny ones can be aggressive and nasty and everyone will think it's cute.
Props to you Celina for helping out all the guys out there. But there's a bit of Gaslighting that's being going on. Please stop calling this height business a "preference." What we see wide spread is the combination of: Fetish + Dealbreaker. Fetish for tall height and strict dating dealbreaker, such as, "I won't date a guy under X height" or "must be taller than X height." Fetish: A form of sexual desire in which gratification is linked to an abnormal degree to a particular object, item of clothing, part of the body, etc. Let's face it, for a lot of women, there is such a strong degree of desire for height that is in fact a fetish. Men have fetishes too, no doubt. But what makes this so different is that women actually put their fetish and dealbreaker in dating into their reality. Only 14% of American men are over 6 feet tall. Now we all know why there's so many miserable single ladies in their 30s and 40s on dating apps.
I’m a 6’5 woman and a little confidence goes a long way, Some of my most successful connections have been with people almost a foot shorter You can’t choose the cards you’re dealt, you just gotta find a way to make it work for you. Knowing who you are and what you want will attract people into your life that are worth your presence.
Kinda dumb that for thousands of years the thinking was that men have to be tall and women have to be petite to be the ideal norm in society and with this women often reject men under 5'9" even when they are still shorter then these men and men much more often then not for thousands of years wouldn't date and especially get married to a woman taller then themselves. With this men having to be tall and women needing to be petite or atleast shorter then men for couples the average height difference is heavily screwed or much higher then it should in reality. I say this because I found research in some ancient societies that practice much more equality between the sexes with some even having a Matriarch society with the average height between the sexes basically the same give or take within 2 inches or 5 cm differences with a small few having the women with the 2 inch or 5 cm taller average height. So it looks like men aren't really taller then women naturally but under a heavily dominant Patriarch society men have the significant height advantage since it idolizes tall men and petite women and men taller then women in relationships. The Roman's described the Gaul or ancient Celtic people as tall people and said that these women were on average even taller then their men and that these women fought along side their men and played sports and were very tough warriors and the Roman's if they didn't have the superior weaponry would have gotten overpowered by the ancient Celtics or Gauls, especially with their women.
Well said. I have always thought tall women were beautiful and not in a freaky way. But I was always afraid to state that for fear of being labeled as having a fetish. I think of it more as a preference. Obviously there's more to it than just looks.
be proud if youre 6'5" tall i'd love to date a woman a lot taller than me i've herd tall people are really nice i met a lady one time she was 6'3" tall she was super nice
Approach whoever is attracted to you. You can't force someone to like you. It is much easier to talk to girls who are checking you out. She may not be that tall girl you crushing on or she might be, but she gotta be interested in you otherwise you waste time approaching someone who's not even interested. Just speaking from experience! ❤ All the women I been with were short like me, some taller women showed interest. I'm 5'5 the taller girls were maybe 5'9ish. It's mostly been women my height that have either approached me first or were checking me out. There's more nuance to attraction because how I look will make people look at me for reasons that may be different from why they look at you. Much respect to this lady for trying to show empathy to the bros.
Maybe a good follow-up video would be "how to approach a taller woman". I'm attracted to taller girls and all of the things you've mentioned to make yourself more attractive (money, status) may not be obvious on a cold approach. Is it weird to comment on their height or is it something you should avoid? Love the vid.
Guys, do not let a person's narrow minded perspective of things take your courage away. Be confident, be bold in who you are! My boyfriend is shorter than me and we are rocking it! We look cute as a button. He finds me sexy, I find him sexy. It's all about the vibes...
How charitable. Don't worry, eventually you will find a man that doesn't secretly embarrass you. Just let the shorty down easy when you leave him for a normal man.
Im dating a woman two inches taller then me. She says she's proud to be in public with me. I make her feel loved and honored and she repays me with the same and she's a very physically attractive woman. I've always loved taller women. They are so beautiful to me.
Height preferences are part biology and part social conditioning. But men contribute a lot to the latter. Taller men use it as a weapon in the never ending competition to meet girls. Fair enough, but it doesn't end at height. Looks, fashion, grooming, intelligence, education, character, personality, and, yes, career success matter too. So to all fellow shorter men, don't give up...compete, but on your terms, but you have to be happy 1st in order to be attractive as minimum. I figured this out in my mid-20's. I saw ALL people have challenges in dating. Men, women, tall, short. I'm 5'7 and dated the spectrum of women, with ups and downs. Again, what made it easier was genuine confidence and security. I always had a good life (career, money, hobbies, friends, education) to fall back on if things didn't work out or through periods of not having dates. I emphasize again: nobody is attractive if they have a chip on their shoulder. Nobody owes you anything. Respect preferences...hell, my wife is 2 inches taller and initially said I was too short. But it was said through fun and productive dialogue, with natural chemistry leading to the inevitable over time. It's part competition, part romance, part preferences. Everyone deserves love, like the author of this video states...but my cents is that it's better to be single and happy than in a relationship where you settled. Finally, go easy on each other...if you're a guy, be magnanimous and chivalrous towards women. All the best.
My father was 5'5", my mother 5'8". They had a good marriage that lasted 57 years. We kids grew up in a household where a shorter father and a taller mother were an everyday fact of life, so we didn't get the male-taller bias that much of society has. My niece had misgivings about a guy she was dating who was shorter than she. Her father (my brother) said, "Sssso?" They're married now, and have two beautiful daughters. I consider myself a macrophile, as I prefer taller women. It's not a power thing or a status thing; I just love feminine abundance. I'm 5'11", my last girlfriend was 6'3" -- and could she hug!
I'm 5'10 . Several women taller than me have clearly flirted with me. ( one was even a 6'4 basketball player ) I always had the impression these women felt more confident approaching a shorter man they found attractive.
Definitely a big deal in dating. I'm 25 years old and 5'8, I gave up on dating when I was 17 when I realised women like tall men. At first it hurt my feelings but now it's freeing to not worry about my appearance or height not trying to impress anyone.
5'8 isn't short unless you're white. I'm black and it's around average but above average for Hispanic and asian Americans. I've dated black and Hispanic women (the average Hispanic woman is only 5'1) and never had a problem being 5'8.. but if you're white it'll prob be a problem.
@@ryantucker2166 How does it not? Do you not understand that ethnic differences exist? Hispanic men range from 5'5-5'7 on average and have no problem with women, despite their height. This is because their women are even shorter than average and range from 4'10-5'2. I see 5'5 hispanic dudes with short hispanic women all the time. Like I said, i'm 5'8 and never had a problem because I date these short hispanic women. And, because i'm black, i'm not short for a black dude. White people are, on average, taller than black people. The average black guy is around 5'8-5'9. The average north european white guy is around 5'9.5-5'11.
I didnt realize it was an issue til I was bout 40.. I was clueless... but height does matter online and off line to qomen. Because women circle of friends, and their views on status, and relationships weighs heavy. Her peers, carry a tremendous amount of influence... and women are ultra competitive, more so than men..
I'm 6ft 2, but I love taller women and I would love to have a girl that is taller than me. The problem is that there are not that many women who are over 6 feet, so I'm limited on what is available. I know I'm an odd ball.
I love tall women too And it’s not easy to be confident as a short guy, you are clearly a super tall girl for you it’s easy to sit back and say whatever you want because you don’t feel our pain, not even for one second
thanks for motivation but being 5'2'' height is always remains a factor on which I got rejected not only by girls but at other places too, I am good in many things but I just lost all my self confidence because of getting comments on my height regularly in daily life. I just can't explain how I feel when I go outside, also I was an ambivert guy but these daily comments made me to remain inside a room. :( :(
m a 168cm(5'5) female am seeing a guy who is 164cm(5'3) and he is so caring,verry confident and his masculine energy is over the top..he recently told me that he feels a bit weird when we are in public-am left to wonder whats wrong coz for me height is not an issue i trully like him for who he is
Depends on the ethnicity. I'm a 5'8 black dude and never had a problem since it's around average. I date black and Hispanic women. 5'8 is above average for Hispanic and I've seen 5'5-5'7 Hispanic men always with super short Hispanic women so yah ethnicity matters alot. Never had a problem with my height.
Damn bro. I don't usually tell people to travel somewhere but it might be your best chance. I heard that asian country and Hispanics are pretty short so you might have a chance there.
As a guy who gave up on dating and love many years ago, and looking in from the outside so to speak, i am constantly amazed that people bother. No matter what you do it will end in a disaster, save yourself the trouble and enjoy your life.
@@JohnDoe-qm8ns How to enjoy life? Stop chasing an illusion and go out and enjoy your life. Travel, go to music events, sporting events, do whatever you want to do. It's your life after all.
@@celinabond Thank you, yes I am enjoying life. As soon as I stopped pursuing and dating women and just living my own life things fell into place. I now have the freedom, opportunity, and most importantly money, to do as I please without someone trying to control me. Love? Doesn't exist!
I'm short and not terribly masculine (nor do I really want to be) and it seems all that effort just to get some female attention is ultimately a waste of time and energy (probably money too). I'm not terribly picky when it comes to women but have yet to be in a relationship at 39. I don't really see the opportunity coming any time soon and I'm not going to bend over backwards to please women or society.
The primary reason why I think women naturally like tall men is because that masculine quality is easily manifested, women can see this without getting to know the man. I do think some short men could get away with dating taller women if he shows other masculine quality that exceeds tall men's quality. For example, if tall man has a poor personality and not confident; but short man do have these good qualities, I think tall women would pick the short man in this case. I do also think there's a limit to this. If the women is exceedingly tall, this could create relationship problems as this creates a greater difference in height. I'm 5'7" (174cm), I could probably get away with dating women who are 5'8" - 5'10", but I don't think I have a chance with women who are 6' and over. Would you date a man who is 5'7" that comes up to your breast height when you hug him or a man who can easily kiss your forehead when you hug him? I think another thing that's overlooked is that most short men are still physically stronger than tall women, which could be another attractive quality.
I'm a yogi and have years of experience in practicing self-love and self-acceptance. Yes they are important and they help to some degree, but they don't solve the root problem. Many of short men don't have any problems with being short. It's the results in the real world they (don't) get for being short that they don't like. And higher-level things won't always replace the need for the lower ones. Sometimes you just need that extra inches and no amount of meditation, psychedelics, enlightenment or self-acceptance will solve your mental distress. For some, getting a taller girlfriend will be a thing, since it improves helps your gene pool and it's a physical thing.
Exactly man. I never cared about my height until women called me too short to date. Short men are getting bullied more, get less money for the same work, have a hard time dating, get disrespected and laughed at etc. There are a lot of other exemple like 90% of CEOs are 6'0 and over despite being only 15% of the population. If i remember correctly. Also tall men hit on girls that have short boyfriend even in front of them sometimes. They have no respect for us. Life truly is harder when you're short. It's something you have to learn to accept and learn how to deal with it. I've been through some bullshit and never had a girlfriend because of my height and I'm 5'7 i can't even imagine what it is for guys that are shorter than me. Btw i think you're right and i should probably find a taller woman so my kids won't have to deal with the bullshit i've been through. Even though i'm not sure about wanting to have kids in the first place.
I'm so proud of you 👏 everyone should feel comfortable in their bodies regardless of height... I think society dictates what is seen as beautiful and I think people worry and care too much what other people say or think you know what I mean... anyone should be able to date anyone of any height especially if both people are in love you know what I mean
See, Celina, women of your stature or taller, makes perfect sense for you to "require" the man being 6'4" to 6'10". What eats at us guys is when women who are 4'8" to 5'8" require the same.
No requirements! All Humans have various preferences and desires they find attractive in a partner. Personality and how you treat them will always shine through 🤍
People like what they like and at the end of the day you can't help who you fall for. I'm 4ft11, my partner of 8 years is 6ft1, I didn't fall in love with his height, I fell in love with him as a person. I was engaged to a guy that was 5ft6, we were far too young and it didn't work out but he was and is a wonderful guy.
@@Vixyvix01 The thing is when something get pushed in the media, movies and becomes a part of the culture it becomes the norm for people. So how much is really about having different taste and how much is being shoved down our throats? For exemple when i was younger i wasn't attracted to tall women or black women. But by doing some introspection as to why i thought that way and by meeting girls that i found attractive despite not being my taste i realized that height, skin color, hair, color, eyes etc didn't actually matter. And i think that if people faced their biases and introspected about why they thought a certain way they would probably come to the same conclusion.
I am 1.67 and my girlfriend is 1.84… at first height mattered to her. But what it most matters is how you treat her and how secure she feels by your side. We both are slim and like sport and outdoor activities, so the difference is not there anymore. The height of a man resides in his self confidence, mental strength and his ability to love.
Good for you. But still, don't dismiss the importance of heights. If you were 3-4 inches taller, it would have been a downhill battle instead of an uphill one for you.
I'm pretty sure my 2 nieces are both over 6 ft tall, just like my aunt, who married my 5ft6 uncle in the 1980's. I'm 5ft5 guy myself. In my teens and twenties I would look for women shorter than me because I was incredibly insecure. Now that I'm nearing 40 I could totally see myself dating a woman who's 6ft, because my confidence has grown the past few years. If we match and vibe, then why the hell not? Let them laugh at us, I don't care about "what people will think". I'm pretty sure 5ft5 me is still physically stronger than 6ft2 her, so I'll still carry her bags around, and I'll happily be the little spoon in bed 😉
this woman is lying through her teeth. This woman has been handed everything because of her looks. She can't relate to a 5ft2 man in dating. I'm sure she still has 100s of options.
I’ve never been a man nor will I ever be one. I’ll never be short, ever. Which is why I shared my story here that I’ve been abnormally tall woman all of my life. Taller than every boy and man. Everyone has a story. I can empathize in other ways and understand how to communicate through it in dating and relationships. I only share truth x
@@celinabond tall women and short men are not equitable. You still 1000s of opportunities many of us will never have. Honestly, it feels kind of patronizing and condescending. From experience you can be charming, attractive, funny, etc. but being below a certain height threshold is a death sentence.
@@celinabond Well good , I'm more concern about my height and my hair that my muscles , I see a lot of guys that are insecure because they are skinny not muscular ....but I don't think matter a lot , height and face matters in guy.
Great info and insight! Truth bombs. Thank you for your work :) Everything you do is very insightful and helpful. Refreshing to have a pro-masculine voice in this feminized dominant indoctrinated world.
Consider the following: Tom Cruise 5' 7" Sylvester Stallone 5' 10" Bill Gates 5' 10" Albert Einstein 5' 9" Justin Bieber 5' 9" Eminem 5' 8" Kevin Hart 5' 4" Daniel Radcliffe 5' 5" Elijah Wood 5' 6" Conor McGregor 5' 9" Chuck Norris 5' 10" Bruce Lee 5' 8" Steve Wozniak 5' 6" Jeff Bezos 5' 7" Warren Buffett 5' 10" Tom Holland 5' 8" Tobey Maguire 5' 9" Jeremy Renner 5' 10" Mark Zuckerberg 5' 7" Larry Paige 5' 10" Michael Bloomberg 5' 7" Michael Dell 5' 7" Matt Damon 5' 10" Brad Pitt 5' 11" Al Pacino 5' 7" James Spader 5' 10" Martin Luther King 5' 7" Mahatma Gandhi 5' 4" Prince 5' 2" Bob Marley 5' 8" Robert Downey, Jr. 5' 8" Paul Simon 5' 3" Ben Stiller 5' 8" Humphrey Bogart 5' 8" Bruno Mars 5' 6" Ceelo Green 5' 6" Mark Wahlberg 5' 8" Spike Lee 5' 5" Ralph Lauren 5' 6" Kanye West 5' 8" Jet Li 5' 6" Seth Green 5' 4" George Lucas 5' 7"
Consider this: Those dudes are all famous. And rich. Many of them are extremely talented and/or good looking. With height-altering surgery, it's easier add inches than to accomplish any of those things. Shorter men can still date, marry, etc., but their options are just about always more diminished.
My little sister Christina, who is 8 years younger than me, grew up to be 4 inches taller than me. I'm only 5/7 and she's 5/11 what irritates and humiliates me like, I'm the big brother, why her and not me? And then she complains about the flack of how tall are you, modeling, the weather and basketball. I wish I had her problems. We are a short family and we don't know where her height came from, our dad is only 5/7 and our mom 5/3. Christina in grade school was a little girl, but around age 11, she started shooting up an inch a month. Mom couldn't keep her in clothes. At 13 she was an inch taller than me at age 21
I'm a 5'6" guy whose girlfriend is 6'4"; her exceptional stature intimidates many men and thus she's had difficulty in romance (she's said her tallest boyfriend was 6'2"). Since roughly half the women I know are taller than I am, looking up to her isn't that big a deal (even if I have to look up, and up, and up... and yes, we joke about our height difference! Not to sound mercenary, but she's an undervalued asset (a nurse who's sweet, bright, funny and attractive), so I like to think I've got a romantic bargain in the giant economy size!
I can attract online with my wallet. But it still doesn't get me anywhere and it takes a lot of money to get her hooked. In real life forget about it. I'm mentally ill fat really below average height. I"m an embrassment.
"I believe" sorry but it doesn't sound really convincing, i don't think you're not totally aware of the height of the men you dated. Especially considering the topic of this video (just an opinion).
I think your candour is great here, and much appreciated. I have found that my height limits my ability to attract the women I am attracted to i.e. it's important to understand and know where you 'score' . My realisation came in my mid-20s which really helped me focus my life away from trying to attract women. It's important for people with physical markers that make them unattractive to understand that having a companion or a relationship shouldn't be the focus of a life. You can be alone and have a fulfilling life; it's great if you can develop other qualities that compensate for your 'ugly', but it's important not to measure yourself simply by whether you are able to find a partner.
Yes finding the limits is very important to orient yourself and get some peace but that is only one side of the equation. It's not complete until you break through them.
You always should because most women want taller men. But 5'10 is pretty good height for dating in general. Even if some girls say you're too short you can just wear big shoes that makes you look taller. I'm 5'7 so even those kinds of shoes can't save me lmao.
Please stop comparing your situation as a tall women versus below average height men. You mentioned getting attention as a tall girl. It’s still positive attention versus the negative for the men. A societal anomaly for a woman is not the same as a short man. That being said I agree we all need to be authentic and own who we are and be the best version of ourselves. And no we are not intimidated by tall women, get over that please.
Women want what they want. They want height either average or above average. They dont' want person who has a disabilty and short. plus fat. it's over. its time to accept what I am. undesirable. to women I just need to be put down and end this misery.
Well you can lose weight and start bodybuilding. Being short will actually make it easier because you'll put on muscles quicker. For disability it's sad but it's true. It's something you got to accept. But it also depends on what type of disability.
Is height as big a deal for dating as believed. I see plenty of men under 5'9" and even under 5'7" dating or married. Plus what is short for a man probably has more to do with how a man's height compared to other men then compared to women. As a 5'7" man in most of the population in the USA I feel short but not all that short with the average being between 5'9" to 5'10" a majority of the time in the general population. But at a hockey game with a large majority of the population being white, "caucasian" I felt very short when compared to these men. It seemed like 6'2" or taller was significantly more common then 5'7" or shorter for white men at this hockey game in central Pennsylvania. Going to Europe felt the same way with so many more over 6'0" men then 5'7" or under men but even there 5'7" or shorter men had a female partner for the most part so is height that big of a deal breaker when it comes to dating women? Maybe on Tinder and other websites but overall this issue is very overrated.
I don't think it's overrated. I'm also 5'7 and i live on europe. I'm one of the shortest in my friend groups. I'm 26 and never had a girlfriend. The few girls i got to interact with told me i was too short. Btw if you're wondering i'm average looking.
Everyone knows what are yousaying. you're saying just find girl of your own league and yes everyone knows that but also everyone wants to date tall attractive girl yes and they just try. you think you kinda helping? no you do not. also you said make more money and yeah with more money tall girls will be attracted to you LOL And personally you you will never date a guy with height 5.6 unless he's got some real good salary. stop talking about charisma you really do not mean that. also you really put tall girls over a short girls you are like yeah we deserve more than short ones so you gotta be that and this and e.t.c. in previous videos you said looks does not matter but in this one all of sudden it's matter. you are really lost in your opinions. and bad for you if you think that woman who thinks that money is in the first place or even in top three are not shameful. i will add this short man wants to date tall girl you are say you do not have chance unless you are rich as i said everyone knows that. this video really gives nothing
I don’t really know the answer but I’m starting to think that if the man is tall, the woman is short, generally speaking, but it comes down to how tall the man or woman WANTS to be. Whatever the benefit is of height, if a person has a desire for that benefit in their life they’ll pursue it. That probably means if a girl is 5’9” but she still feels the need for height in her life, she will want a man who is 6’5”…..but if she’s 5’9” and she feels content she will want a man who is 5’10” because she already developed the height she needs to feel fulfilled…..she doesn’t need a man to do it for her. Those are just my thoughts and idk how true it is, that’s just the basic idea of what I’m starting to see. I really just want to know the truth.
@@user-su4mh8ur6c I've never been attracted to girls because of their height. In fact, height is not a criteria for me. Probably because most women I come across are my height or taller.
There is no "evolving" through being short.. your short you lost. No one respects you, no one is attracted to you, your looked over at work. You just loose. Its negative yes but also realistic. Your not going to be liked by everyone that's impossible but when you're rejected 9.9 out of 10 you just can't see beyond that. Your judged by the way you look first. I'm 5'3, I was born a looser.
I think there is still place for evolving even at your height. You can optimize everything, start working out, better clothes, take care of yourself etc Of course most women will reject you for your height but maybe you can from 9.9 to 9 or even 8 out of 10. It's not huge progress but it's progress nonetheless. Also most are rejected most of the time. Only "chads" aren't. And they're very rare.
In the heterosexual world, for us men, there's really only one reason we go on about height. That reason alone is the existence of women. I'm 5'8", and rarely is it ever mentioned. But the few times a male referred to me as lacking height, it was always obvious that the subtle message was the implication that because they were (albeit usually slightly) taller, they are more desirable to women. Us men have this sub-conscious desire it seems to prove to other men that we're the alpha male. And the height card is one of the methods we use. Other than that, nothing. I can reach anything in the cupboard a 6 foot person can reach. I'm not going to have to adjust the car seat getting into the same car a 6 footer drove. Guys, if we can get over the idea we have to appeal to every woman, the height thingy is absolutely no issue what-so-ever!
It’s no so much women but the societal conditioning of our culture. Height average is shorter in Portugal for example. In North America height can be status, power and attention. It all depends. Would not put this on women. I myself am waaay above average for a female and am told not to wear heels by mass society because I look too tall for a woman. This is all media conditioning of what it seen as attractive and ‘normal’
@@celinabond I should probably clarify in case of misunderstanding. I didn't mean to imply that women themselves are the problem (as in preferring tall men only). What I meant was ,women are the only reason "men" make issues of height. In other words, not being able to reach the top shelf at a library when my buddy can means absolutely nothing. I would say the vast majority of insecurity among men comes "from" men. It's the alpha-male thing. There was an actor in the early movie era named Alan Ladd who was considered a heart-throb. However he was short by Hollywood standards, and it was probably more men that drove him into depression via their ribbings. Every woman in the world could have loved him, but that way we men have with putting each other down rendered it impossible with being at peace with himself.
@@celinabond Completely agree. There even movies where the actress was taller than the actor and they shot it to make it look like the guy was taller. I don't remember which movie it was but i saw that in a video.
@@hoystonholmes1482 If i'm being honest men never made me feel insecure about my height. If anything they were mostly very supportive. A lot of women on the other hand called me too short to date. After years and years of hearing the same i started to feel very insecure about my height. I live in a country where men are really tall too so it doesn't help. I'm not saying that all women are shallow or care only about height etc. Just that in my case they were the roots of my insecurity about my height. I'm learning to accept my height and just not care but it took me a long time. It also doesn't that i never had a girlfriend so i don't even know how to act around them anymore. Since i finished school i had barely any interactions with them.
@@HeyMomonia I agree. For whatever reason, not all shorter men get flack about their height from other men. Or not as much as others. Tom Cruise is a target for height abuse, but whoever insulted Robbin Williams? Or Richard Dreyfuss? It's mostly about image. It's not really accurate to say being tall is preferable, because it isn't. Let's say you found Alladin's Lamp, and the genie asked you right off the bat if you want to be tall. Let's say you say "yes". Then the genie asks you "how about 8 feet tall"? My guess is you would say "hold up". It's not that people want to be tall, but they want to fit the Hollywood standard of beauty image. And that's basically around the vicinity of 6ft. The women who have rejected you may not have done so due to lack of attraction. Possibly because image wise they may feel you might make them look too tall. I can tell you that particularly tall people are insecure as well. They may not get put down about it nearly as much, but if a very tall man likes small women, he probably will feel awkward around them if he notices shorter men look more compatible height wise.
don worry... tall men of 6 feet or above on average die around 64 years because their hearts get tired easily and the lack oxygen.... short men live much longer if with good fitness....a guy of japan who is around 5'6 or 7 is still alive and 118 years, so extreme determination can make u live upto 80 to 90 years old...or maybe even a century!... (u will get to see the future and maybe with future tech be immortal)😅 Also learn a flip cuz its the coolest thing a man can do physically and 6feet man have high chance of permanent sprain........ u will definetly have faster agilty the 90% tall men so take up a running sport especially soccer cuz its the biggest sport in the world were u will see the most lightning fast guys are 5'7 to 5'11 (sometimes 6 feet).... many women prefer men who are close to their height or equal or height or even shorter..... their are billionares like jack ma who is 4'11 (tom cruise is 5'7) ....... Many pros of short stature so just concentrate and become sucessfull........Now if u still wanna be tall, NO problem:- limb lengthening surgery is gaining popularity, currently its a bit expensive in U.S but less in other countries, it can give u a maximum of 15 cm (6 inches) height.... average women height of U.S is 5'4 so she lied...... My prference is tht short women are ugly for me so i want a women near or equal my height and i think now many men want that..... average height in many other countries like france is 5'7.....LIonel Messi who got growth hormones is still 5'7 and is my favourite person on earth is conidered a god amongst men.........ADIOS AMIGOS AND ENJOY LIFE, OR ELSE LIFE WILL ENJOY YOU ..... there is always light at the end of a tunnel!😇😤
Tbh life as a short guy is hell i don't think most of us would want to live for longer than 64 lol. But i do agree on learning to do flips and being agile. Being athletic and being fit is something that a lot of women find attractive. Life definitely is harder when you're a short guy but i think we can learn to manage and find enjoyment.
Oh god please don't talk about the surgery. It looks so bad. Short arms, short spine, long ass legs. It just looks wrong. We should learn to accept the way we look and try to optimize it by working out, clothing, hygiene etc.
life is so complicated, some people suffer because their height is too short like as mine I am 24 and only 5'2'' I always wanted to be atleast 5'6'' and some people suffer their height is too much over 6'
Short guys with tall women seems weird to me. I love tall women and obviously very attractive but i accept they're not for me since I'm short. What I can't understand is why short women think they need a very tall man. I understand being a success object could be my path to finding love but not every short guy will achieve that so we're kinda screwed lol.
I m 6ft and a half inch and there is no way i m going to date a woman that might be as tall as me in heels but really good video and u have such a great personality . Keep the good work ❤
@@LesSoleilsdePhoenix She can be taller than me without heels i wouldn't mind. She can even be taller and wear heels all day i don't care. I don't think height should matter as much as it does. It doesn't say anything about the person. It's not something you can choose or change. Funny how you can't criticize someone for being fat which is in complete control but people make fun of short guys which completely out of their control.
I'm 5'3" -- I'd be tiny up to you. When I go to the gym both men and women are giants to me, I've gotten use to it. I find the very tall muscle men love to flex their big muscles at me. Especially in the locker room -- it can be scary at times. Do you think I should talk to these giant musclemen or run since I'm so tiny and only come up to their waist. Look forward to hearing from you.
Honestly I would be with you in a heart beat! I really don't care about hights that's the most stupid thing in the world. When I see a taller woman I'm always like omg! She's beautiful and amazing!, Short women same things beautiful and amazing! It depends on her taste and heart. But I will care for both equally
Well were basically the opposites of both specturms. your a really tall women. when women should be short. I'm really short for a man. I'm 5 foot 4. nice to you meet you. Basically I still dont' think it's as tough for women being tall you'll find some guy intrested. in real life. But basically a short man is curse plus I have a disability which makes me very un wanted at all. Did I mention I'm overweight too. I'm really sad right now.
It's unanimous among dating coaches that height means nothing. There are plenty of things you can do to compensate. But real life observations say differently. Tall woman-short man couples are as rare as 3 sided coins. It's women who repeatedly say "no less than 6'. Men have LEARNED to believe it. And many of us have learned that yes, we should become the best versions of ourselves that we can be. But the superficial things that attract women don't make us better in any real way, and too damned many of them are impossible anyway.
Good videoo... Also some girls think tall guys are strong and win fights😂😂 girl..there so many videos 5'2 guys beating up 6'5 in street fights and mma 😂... Height doesn't matter anyway.. It's personality, hygiene, matters.. If u truly love someone appearance doesn't matter
That explained absolutely nothing. You're just trying to market yourself and that's ok hence why you keep putting your links for people to see and that's completely ok. You're trying to promote superficial behavior. We as humans do not transcend until we spiritually move on on. We can evolve but You're stuck in your ways of how society wants and says you should be, nothing will ever change and we as humans will continue in our shallow ways. To each their own. Nonetheless, decent video
This comment was a rollercoaster 😂 but I appreciate the candor. I’m simply sharing value in the moment. You’re free to interpret it as you like. I know my intent here🤍 it’s also something I’ve created into a job (after doing it for years for free) which I’m grateful for the abundance. I hope you watch other vids and understand my purpose to help evolve communication 🤍
To answer your question height does not matter young lady. What matters is having a strong masculine frame. Dressing well. A man has to work out. Also tell the young men stop chasing females. Let females come to you. A man has to have high self esteem. Also the young men need a father figure in their lives. Young men under the age of 30 need father figures. Men under 30 need mentoring in their lives to show them the ropes.
Celina, great video but please be honest. You are sugar coating this important topic. You are probably 6’4” in heels. A man of 5’6” is going to look like an absolute runt or shrimp next to you. No matter how much masculine energy or confidence this man has, he will still be laughed at, if he is your date. His confidence will be destroyed as no one wants to be mocked.
@@celinabond , I’m a man, I’m 5 feet 4.25 inches. Yes there are times I wish I’m taller. But there’s times I enjoy being short. So there’s good things about being short and there’s bad things about it.
Being a very short man is one of the most powerful social stigmas that exists and it is rarely denounced.
Mickey Rooney is said to have been extremely attractive to women around Hollywood.
My father was 5'5", and women would come up to my mother and say, "I simply _must_ dance with your husband!"
@@wdd3141 5'5" is small, but it still fits! I'm 5'06", 47 years old and I've never known a woman. I'm screwed!
@@paracelse666 damn meaning you are a virgin at 46??
Looks like you are my future i am only 5'6 and 130lbs
What do you mean by this?
@@celinabond WOW!!!
As a 5'5" guy, I've dated women your height, Celina. I worked on my body at the gym, style, and charisma. My positive energy and drive really helped me as well.
I respect that you are helping the young men in their lives young lady. You are doing good work.
Thank you. I appreciate you seeing my purpose 🤍🙏🏼
It's good to hear it from a real tall woman. They have less drama because they don't seek for attention since they have it naturally. I've always landed tall Ladies. Very good woman.
100%. They are usually super calm and not neurotic I noticed through relationships. Whereas the short ones tend to have anger issues, be super aggressive and always try to shame taller women out of jealousy. The short ones have the Napoleon complex like short men.
@@Thisismeofcourse Good to see someone admit this. Men usually align with short women because they have the innate desire to protect them. They don't have that desire with tall women. Tall women always get labelled as aggressive or threatening when we purposely tone ourselves down because we know how we are perceived. The tiny ones can be aggressive and nasty and everyone will think it's cute.
Props to you Celina for helping out all the guys out there. But there's a bit of Gaslighting that's being going on. Please stop calling this height business a "preference."
What we see wide spread is the combination of: Fetish + Dealbreaker. Fetish for tall height and strict dating dealbreaker, such as, "I won't date a guy under X height" or "must be taller than X height."
Fetish: A form of sexual desire in which gratification is linked to an abnormal degree to a particular object, item of clothing, part of the body, etc.
Let's face it, for a lot of women, there is such a strong degree of desire for height that is in fact a fetish. Men have fetishes too, no doubt. But what makes this so different is that women actually put their fetish and dealbreaker in dating into their reality. Only 14% of American men are over 6 feet tall. Now we all know why there's so many miserable single ladies in their 30s and 40s on dating apps.
I’m a 6’5 woman and a little confidence goes a long way, Some of my most successful connections have been with people almost a foot shorter
You can’t choose the cards you’re dealt, you just gotta find a way to make it work for you. Knowing who you are and what you want will attract people into your life that are worth your presence.
Kinda dumb that for thousands of years the thinking was that men have to be tall and women have to be petite to be the ideal norm in society and with this women often reject men under 5'9" even when they are still shorter then these men and men much more often then not for thousands of years wouldn't date and especially get married to a woman taller then themselves. With this men having to be tall and women needing to be petite or atleast shorter then men for couples the average height difference is heavily screwed or much higher then it should in reality. I say this because I found research in some ancient societies that practice much more equality between the sexes with some even having a Matriarch society with the average height between the sexes basically the same give or take within 2 inches or 5 cm differences with a small few having the women with the 2 inch or 5 cm taller average height. So it looks like men aren't really taller then women naturally but under a heavily dominant Patriarch society men have the significant height advantage since it idolizes tall men and petite women and men taller then women in relationships. The Roman's described the Gaul or ancient Celtic people as tall people and said that these women were on average even taller then their men and that these women fought along side their men and played sports and were very tough warriors and the Roman's if they didn't have the superior weaponry would have gotten overpowered by the ancient Celtics or Gauls, especially with their women.
Well said. I have always thought tall women were beautiful and not in a freaky way. But I was always afraid to state that for fear of being labeled as having a fetish. I think of it more as a preference. Obviously there's more to it than just looks.
Height is an asset. Be proud you're so tall! (From a 5'6" guy whose girlfriend is 6'4").
be proud if youre 6'5" tall i'd love to date a woman a lot taller than me i've herd tall people are really nice i met a lady one time she was 6'3" tall she was super nice
Approach whoever is attracted to you. You can't force someone to like you. It is much easier to talk to girls who are checking you out. She may not be that tall girl you crushing on or she might be, but she gotta be interested in you otherwise you waste time approaching someone who's not even interested. Just speaking from experience! ❤ All the women I been with were short like me, some taller women showed interest. I'm 5'5 the taller girls were maybe 5'9ish. It's mostly been women my height that have either approached me first or were checking me out. There's more nuance to attraction because how I look will make people look at me for reasons that may be different from why they look at you. Much respect to this lady for trying to show empathy to the bros.
Maybe a good follow-up video would be "how to approach a taller woman". I'm attracted to taller girls and all of the things you've mentioned to make yourself more attractive (money, status) may not be obvious on a cold approach. Is it weird to comment on their height or is it something you should avoid? Love the vid.
Would not comment on their height :) approach them as you would anyone else!
@@celinabond
Do I have a lot of chances in the USA if I am 1.92cm? How do you like my face?
Bro make just make money, if you got money you got all...woman, house, car...money is the only things that can make u happy.
Guys, do not let a person's narrow minded perspective of things take your courage away. Be confident, be bold in who you are! My boyfriend is shorter than me and we are rocking it! We look cute as a button. He finds me sexy, I find him sexy. It's all about the vibes...
Yay happy for you both 🥰
How charitable. Don't worry, eventually you will find a man that doesn't secretly embarrass you. Just let the shorty down easy when you leave him for a normal man.
Im dating a woman two inches taller then me. She says she's proud to be in public with me. I make her feel loved and honored and she repays me with the same and she's a very physically attractive woman.
I've always loved taller women. They are so beautiful to me.
Man don't give me hope...
I'm glad for you. I love hearing those kinds of stories it feels like they're becoming rarer nowadays.
Height preferences are part biology and part social conditioning. But men contribute a lot to the latter. Taller men use it as a weapon in the never ending competition to meet girls.
Fair enough, but it doesn't end at height. Looks, fashion, grooming, intelligence, education, character, personality, and, yes, career success matter too. So to all fellow shorter men, don't give up...compete, but on your terms, but you have to be happy 1st in order to be attractive as minimum.
I figured this out in my mid-20's. I saw ALL people have challenges in dating. Men, women, tall, short. I'm 5'7 and dated the spectrum of women, with ups and downs. Again, what made it easier was genuine confidence and security. I always had a good life (career, money, hobbies, friends, education) to fall back on if things didn't work out or through periods of not having dates.
I emphasize again: nobody is attractive if they have a chip on their shoulder. Nobody owes you anything. Respect preferences...hell, my wife is 2 inches taller and initially said I was too short. But it was said through fun and productive dialogue, with natural chemistry leading to the inevitable over time.
It's part competition, part romance, part preferences. Everyone deserves love, like the author of this video states...but my cents is that it's better to be single and happy than in a relationship where you settled. Finally, go easy on each other...if you're a guy, be magnanimous and chivalrous towards women. All the best.
My father was 5'5", my mother 5'8". They had a good marriage that lasted 57 years. We kids grew up in a household where a shorter father and a taller mother were an everyday fact of life, so we didn't get the male-taller bias that much of society has. My niece had misgivings about a guy she was dating who was shorter than she. Her father (my brother) said, "Sssso?" They're married now, and have two beautiful daughters.
I consider myself a macrophile, as I prefer taller women. It's not a power thing or a status thing; I just love feminine abundance. I'm 5'11", my last girlfriend was 6'3" -- and could she hug!
Love it 🥰
Everything is a power thing
I'm 5'10 . Several women taller than me have clearly flirted with me. ( one was even a 6'4 basketball player ) I always had the impression these women felt more confident approaching a shorter man they found attractive.
@gunter torfs
And if I am 192 cm there are many chancesAnd if I am 192 cm a lot of wAnd if I am 192 cm there are many chances
Definitely a big deal in dating. I'm 25 years old and 5'8, I gave up on dating when I was 17 when I realised women like tall men. At first it hurt my feelings but now it's freeing to not worry about my appearance or height not trying to impress anyone.
Don’t give up! Everyone is worthy of love ❤️
@@celinabond Really? Do you honestly believe that?
5'8 isn't short unless you're white. I'm black and it's around average but above average for Hispanic and asian Americans. I've dated black and Hispanic women (the average Hispanic woman is only 5'1) and never had a problem being 5'8.. but if you're white it'll prob be a problem.
@@thelonercoder5816 How the hell does that make any sense?
@@ryantucker2166 How does it not? Do you not understand that ethnic differences exist? Hispanic men range from 5'5-5'7 on average and have no problem with women, despite their height. This is because their women are even shorter than average and range from 4'10-5'2. I see 5'5 hispanic dudes with short hispanic women all the time. Like I said, i'm 5'8 and never had a problem because I date these short hispanic women. And, because i'm black, i'm not short for a black dude. White people are, on average, taller than black people. The average black guy is around 5'8-5'9. The average north european white guy is around 5'9.5-5'11.
I didnt realize it was an issue til I was bout 40.. I was clueless... but height does matter online and off line to qomen. Because women circle of friends, and their views on status, and relationships weighs heavy. Her peers, carry a tremendous amount of influence... and women are ultra competitive, more so than men..
I'm 6ft 2, but I love taller women and I would love to have a girl that is taller than me. The problem is that there are not that many women who are over 6 feet, so I'm limited on what is available. I know I'm an odd ball.
No I know where your coming from.
I love tall women but tall women dont love short men 😭😭💔
We do! Has to be confident
@@celinabond liar
I love tall women too
And it’s not easy to be confident as a short guy, you are clearly a super tall girl for you it’s easy to sit back and say whatever you want because you don’t feel our pain, not even for one second
@@celinabondyou’re a great soul
thanks for motivation but being 5'2'' height is always remains a factor on which I got rejected not only by girls but at other places too, I am good in many things but I just lost all my self confidence because of getting comments on my height regularly in daily life. I just can't explain how I feel when I go outside, also I was an ambivert guy but these daily comments made me to remain inside a room. :( :(
m a 168cm(5'5) female am seeing a guy who is 164cm(5'3) and he is so caring,verry confident and his masculine energy is over the top..he recently told me that he feels a bit weird when we are in public-am left to wonder whats wrong coz for me height is not an issue i trully like him for who he is
ummm....164 cm is 5'4 and 168 cm is 5'6
I like how your open about your perspectives most girls arent
celina what if ive never dated before and im looking for a domineering tall girl is that even possible im a nice guy ive never dated a girl
being short is a blessing because it will help me find a quality woman
Depends on the ethnicity. I'm a 5'8 black dude and never had a problem since it's around average. I date black and Hispanic women. 5'8 is above average for Hispanic and I've seen 5'5-5'7 Hispanic men always with super short Hispanic women so yah ethnicity matters alot. Never had a problem with my height.
5’5” to 5’7” for both Asian and Latino men is not out of the ordinary. It is more jarring for a white man to be that short.
I am 5ft 5 in Denmark and i have NO f@cking chance.. I try everyting
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@Subhuman Manlet she is a virtue signalling foid jfl
Move to an Asian country haha
Why do you say that...???
Damn bro. I don't usually tell people to travel somewhere but it might be your best chance.
I heard that asian country and Hispanics are pretty short so you might have a chance there.
As a guy who gave up on dating and love many years ago, and looking in from the outside so to speak, i am constantly amazed that people bother. No matter what you do it will end in a disaster, save yourself the trouble and enjoy your life.
If it always ends in disaster, then why enjoy your life?
How to enjoy life?
I hope you’re loving life and yourself 🤍🤍🤍you’re worthy of love
@@JohnDoe-qm8ns we are in control of our lives 🙏🏼
@@JohnDoe-qm8ns How to enjoy life? Stop chasing an illusion and go out and enjoy your life. Travel, go to music events, sporting events, do whatever you want to do. It's your life after all.
@@celinabond Thank you, yes I am enjoying life. As soon as I stopped pursuing and dating women and just living my own life things fell into place. I now have the freedom, opportunity, and most importantly money, to do as I please without someone trying to control me. Love? Doesn't exist!
Women giving men dating advice is like someone who lives off inherited wealth giving poor people advice on earing a living.
My work is based in communication, emotional intelligence and masculine/feminine energies but if you feel you got that covered no need to be here :)
Bro that’s so true 🤣🤣🤣
@@celinabond great answer
Average height of women is 5,4tt not 5,6ft.
Thanks fact-checker! I did my research x
This was super helpful for me thank you CB. The confirmation that there are atleast things we can leverage to find a tall woman is actionable for me
Who's taller between me and you girl
I'm short and not terribly masculine (nor do I really want to be) and it seems all that effort just to get some female attention is ultimately a waste of time and energy (probably money too). I'm not terribly picky when it comes to women but have yet to be in a relationship at 39. I don't really see the opportunity coming any time soon and I'm not going to bend over backwards to please women or society.
The primary reason why I think women naturally like tall men is because that masculine quality is easily manifested, women can see this without getting to know the man.
I do think some short men could get away with dating taller women if he shows other masculine quality that exceeds tall men's quality. For example, if tall man has a poor personality and not confident; but short man do have these good qualities, I think tall women would pick the short man in this case.
I do also think there's a limit to this. If the women is exceedingly tall, this could create relationship problems as this creates a greater difference in height. I'm 5'7" (174cm), I could probably get away with dating women who are 5'8" - 5'10", but I don't think I have a chance with women who are 6' and over.
Would you date a man who is 5'7" that comes up to your breast height when you hug him or a man who can easily kiss your forehead when you hug him?
I think another thing that's overlooked is that most short men are still physically stronger than tall women, which could be another attractive quality.
I'm a yogi and have years of experience in practicing self-love and self-acceptance. Yes they are important and they help to some degree, but they don't solve the root problem. Many of short men don't have any problems with being short. It's the results in the real world they (don't) get for being short that they don't like. And higher-level things won't always replace the need for the lower ones. Sometimes you just need that extra inches and no amount of meditation, psychedelics, enlightenment or self-acceptance will solve your mental distress. For some, getting a taller girlfriend will be a thing, since it improves helps your gene pool and it's a physical thing.
Exactly man. I never cared about my height until women called me too short to date.
Short men are getting bullied more, get less money for the same work, have a hard time dating, get disrespected and laughed at etc.
There are a lot of other exemple like 90% of CEOs are 6'0 and over despite being only 15% of the population. If i remember correctly.
Also tall men hit on girls that have short boyfriend even in front of them sometimes. They have no respect for us.
Life truly is harder when you're short. It's something you have to learn to accept and learn how to deal with it.
I've been through some bullshit and never had a girlfriend because of my height and I'm 5'7 i can't even imagine what it is for guys that are shorter than me.
Btw i think you're right and i should probably find a taller woman so my kids won't have to deal with the bullshit i've been through. Even though i'm not sure about wanting to have kids in the first place.
I'm so proud of you 👏 everyone should feel comfortable in their bodies regardless of height... I think society dictates what is seen as beautiful and I think people worry and care too much what other people say or think you know what I mean... anyone should be able to date anyone of any height especially if both people are in love you know what I mean
Yes 🙌🏽 and thank you for sharing your views 🤍
@@celinabond you're welcome 😊
Society is not some separate entity that dictates everything.
It's our nature that dictates society.
Beautiful hands !
See, Celina, women of your stature or taller, makes perfect sense for you to "require" the man being 6'4" to 6'10". What eats at us guys is when women who are 4'8" to 5'8" require the same.
No requirements! All Humans have various preferences and desires they find attractive in a partner. Personality and how you treat them will always shine through 🤍
People like what they like and at the end of the day you can't help who you fall for.
I'm 4ft11, my partner of 8 years is 6ft1, I didn't fall in love with his height, I fell in love with him as a person.
I was engaged to a guy that was 5ft6, we were far too young and it didn't work out but he was and is a wonderful guy.
@@Vixyvix01 People like who they like, but many never get liked back.
That can really suck.
Really, really suck.
@@Vixyvix01 The thing is when something get pushed in the media, movies and becomes a part of the culture it becomes the norm for people.
So how much is really about having different taste and how much is being shoved down our throats?
For exemple when i was younger i wasn't attracted to tall women or black women.
But by doing some introspection as to why i thought that way and by meeting girls that i found attractive despite not being my taste i realized that height, skin color, hair, color, eyes etc didn't actually matter.
And i think that if people faced their biases and introspected about why they thought a certain way they would probably come to the same conclusion.
I am 1.67 and my girlfriend is 1.84… at first height mattered to her. But what it most matters is how you treat her and how secure she feels by your side. We both are slim and like sport and outdoor activities, so the difference is not there anymore. The height of a man resides in his self confidence, mental strength and his ability to love.
Glad you made it man.
Good for you. But still, don't dismiss the importance of heights. If you were 3-4 inches taller, it would have been a downhill battle instead of an uphill one for you.
I'm pretty sure my 2 nieces are both over 6 ft tall, just like my aunt, who married my 5ft6 uncle in the 1980's. I'm 5ft5 guy myself. In my teens and twenties I would look for women shorter than me because I was incredibly insecure.
Now that I'm nearing 40 I could totally see myself dating a woman who's 6ft, because my confidence has grown the past few years. If we match and vibe, then why the hell not? Let them laugh at us, I don't care about "what people will think".
I'm pretty sure 5ft5 me is still physically stronger than 6ft2 her, so I'll still carry her bags around, and I'll happily be the little spoon in bed 😉
this woman is lying through her teeth. This woman has been handed everything because of her looks. She can't relate to a 5ft2 man in dating. I'm sure she still has 100s of options.
I’ve never been a man nor will I ever be one. I’ll never be short, ever. Which is why I shared my story here that I’ve been abnormally tall woman all of my life. Taller than every boy and man. Everyone has a story. I can empathize in other ways and understand how to communicate through it in dating and relationships. I only share truth x
@@celinabond tall women and short men are not equitable. You still 1000s of opportunities many of us will never have. Honestly, it feels kind of patronizing and condescending. From experience you can be charming, attractive, funny, etc. but being below a certain height threshold is a death sentence.
@@kashifmooreYea exclatly, nobody care if a woman is tall...especially someone who is like her...she will never understand.
you're taller than most men, I'm 1.83 because you're even taller than me, i didn't know you're so tall. Celina would you date short men ??
I’m 184cm. And yes I have dated shorter men
@Honey Badger thank you 🙏🏼
@@celinabond Well good , I'm more concern about my height and my hair that my muscles , I see a lot of guys that are insecure because they are skinny not muscular ....but I don't think matter a lot , height and face matters in guy.
@@celinabond what does shorter exactly mean?
@@mmi8328 for reference, shorter than societal average as mentioned in the vid :)
Great info and insight! Truth bombs. Thank you for your work :) Everything you do is very insightful and helpful. Refreshing to have a pro-masculine voice in this feminized dominant indoctrinated world.
Yes thank you 🙏🏼 I appreciate the comment and support. I’m always here for masculinity 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
The average man is 5'9 and the average height for a woman is 5'4.
So what?
Consider the following:
Tom Cruise 5' 7"
Sylvester Stallone 5' 10"
Bill Gates 5' 10"
Albert Einstein 5' 9"
Justin Bieber 5' 9"
Eminem 5' 8"
Kevin Hart 5' 4"
Daniel Radcliffe 5' 5"
Elijah Wood 5' 6"
Conor McGregor 5' 9"
Chuck Norris 5' 10"
Bruce Lee 5' 8"
Steve Wozniak 5' 6"
Jeff Bezos 5' 7"
Warren Buffett 5' 10"
Tom Holland 5' 8"
Tobey Maguire 5' 9"
Jeremy Renner 5' 10"
Mark Zuckerberg 5' 7"
Larry Paige 5' 10"
Michael Bloomberg 5' 7"
Michael Dell 5' 7"
Matt Damon 5' 10"
Brad Pitt 5' 11"
Al Pacino 5' 7"
James Spader 5' 10"
Martin Luther King 5' 7"
Mahatma Gandhi 5' 4"
Prince 5' 2"
Bob Marley 5' 8"
Robert Downey, Jr. 5' 8"
Paul Simon 5' 3"
Ben Stiller 5' 8"
Humphrey Bogart 5' 8"
Bruno Mars 5' 6"
Ceelo Green 5' 6"
Mark Wahlberg 5' 8"
Spike Lee 5' 5"
Ralph Lauren 5' 6"
Kanye West 5' 8"
Jet Li 5' 6"
Seth Green 5' 4"
George Lucas 5' 7"
Consider this: Those dudes are all famous. And rich. Many of them are extremely talented and/or good looking. With height-altering surgery, it's easier add inches than to accomplish any of those things. Shorter men can still date, marry, etc., but their options are just about always more diminished.
My little sister Christina, who is 8 years younger than me, grew up to be 4 inches taller than me. I'm only 5/7 and she's 5/11 what irritates and humiliates me like, I'm the big brother, why her and not me? And then she complains about the flack of how tall are you, modeling, the weather and basketball. I wish I had her problems. We are a short family and we don't know where her height came from, our dad is only 5/7 and our mom 5/3. Christina in grade school was a little girl, but around age 11, she started shooting up an inch a month. Mom couldn't keep her in clothes. At 13 she was an inch taller than me at age 21
So as a 6' almost 6'1" woman, what height would you prefer? Would 6'4" be enough?
shes beautiful if she is tall be proud of that mam
I'm a 5'6" guy whose girlfriend is 6'4"; her exceptional stature intimidates many men and thus she's had difficulty in romance (she's said her tallest boyfriend was 6'2"). Since roughly half the women I know are taller than I am, looking up to her isn't that big a deal (even if I have to look up, and up, and up... and yes, we joke about our height difference! Not to sound mercenary, but she's an undervalued asset (a nurse who's sweet, bright, funny and attractive), so I like to think I've got a romantic bargain in the giant economy size!
As a 5'6 18 year old I have found it difficult thank you hopefully this helps
I can attract online with my wallet. But it still doesn't get me anywhere and it takes a lot of money to get her hooked.
In real life forget about it.
I'm mentally ill
fat
really below average height.
I"m an embrassment.
This was very well said. I love it
Thank you🥰🤍
Shortest man you have dated ?? ❤
6 feet 3 Inches. The other ones she just dated for money.
i believe five foot 9
@@celinabond 😂 nearly average
"I believe" sorry but it doesn't sound really convincing, i don't think you're not totally aware of the height of the men you dated. Especially considering the topic of this video (just an opinion).
@Subhuman Manlet lol no
I think your candour is great here, and much appreciated.
I have found that my height limits my ability to attract the women I am attracted to i.e. it's important to understand and know where you 'score' . My realisation came in my mid-20s which really helped me focus my life away from trying to attract women. It's important for people with physical markers that make them unattractive to understand that having a companion or a relationship shouldn't be the focus of a life. You can be alone and have a fulfilling life; it's great if you can develop other qualities that compensate for your 'ugly', but it's important not to measure yourself simply by whether you are able to find a partner.
Beautifully said 🤍
Yes finding the limits is very important to orient yourself and get some peace but that is only one side of the equation. It's not complete until you break through them.
Short guys are the cutest☺️💕
Thank you!😊
@@huntermossakajunkerman9646 Your welcome luv☺️
Why you lying? ... ooooh. You mean cute, like a puppy or a child!
@@villainsbridgeclub5268 why you hating lol
@@kylah4116 Am I cute? I am 6'3.5" ft.
We short men don't want to date taller women. We want tiny 5 ft girls. But all women want a 6 ft dude irrespective of their own height that sucks
I feel you! No one wanted to date me when I was so tall in highschool bc most guys hadn’t hit puberty lol
That's not true i would gladly date a taller woman.
She could be over 6' i wouldn't mind and i'm 5'7.
Your are so beautiful
She's beautiful at any height!
Thank you ☺️
I'm 5'10" do i have to be worried dating tall girl?
You always should because most women want taller men.
But 5'10 is pretty good height for dating in general. Even if some girls say you're too short you can just wear big shoes that makes you look taller.
I'm 5'7 so even those kinds of shoes can't save me lmao.
i love tall women
Please stop comparing your situation as a tall women versus below average height men. You mentioned getting attention as a tall girl. It’s still positive attention versus the negative for the men. A societal anomaly for a woman is not the same as a short man. That being said I agree we all need to be authentic and own who we are and be the best version of ourselves. And no we are not intimidated by tall women, get over that please.
lets cut the bs straight down the middle
it matters,point blank period
My new girlfriend is 6'4". She towers over me. I'm 5'11"
Glad you’re enjoying it 🥰
@@TheSupermercado provider masculine men are attractive 🫶🏽
Women want what they want.
They want height either average or above average.
They dont' want person who has a disabilty and short. plus fat.
it's over.
its time to accept what I am. undesirable. to women
I just need to be put down and end this misery.
Well you can lose weight and start bodybuilding.
Being short will actually make it easier because you'll put on muscles quicker.
For disability it's sad but it's true. It's something you got to accept.
But it also depends on what type of disability.
Is height as big a deal for dating as believed. I see plenty of men under 5'9" and even under 5'7" dating or married. Plus what is short for a man probably has more to do with how a man's height compared to other men then compared to women. As a 5'7" man in most of the population in the USA I feel short but not all that short with the average being between 5'9" to 5'10" a majority of the time in the general population. But at a hockey game with a large majority of the population being white, "caucasian" I felt very short when compared to these men. It seemed like 6'2" or taller was significantly more common then 5'7" or shorter for white men at this hockey game in central Pennsylvania. Going to Europe felt the same way with so many more over 6'0" men then 5'7" or under men but even there 5'7" or shorter men had a female partner for the most part so is height that big of a deal breaker when it comes to dating women? Maybe on Tinder and other websites but overall this issue is very overrated.
I don't think it's overrated. I'm also 5'7 and i live on europe.
I'm one of the shortest in my friend groups. I'm 26 and never had a girlfriend.
The few girls i got to interact with told me i was too short.
Btw if you're wondering i'm average looking.
Everyone knows what are yousaying. you're saying just find girl of your own league and yes everyone knows that but also everyone wants to date tall attractive girl yes and they just try. you think you kinda helping? no you do not. also you said make more money and yeah with more money tall girls will be attracted to you LOL And personally you you will never date a guy with height 5.6 unless he's got some real good salary. stop talking about charisma you really do not mean that. also you really put tall girls over a short girls you are like yeah we deserve more than short ones so you gotta be that and this and e.t.c. in previous videos you said looks does not matter but in this one all of sudden it's matter. you are really lost in your opinions. and bad for you if you think that woman who thinks that money is in the first place or even in top three are not shameful. i will add this short man wants to date tall girl you are say you do not have chance unless you are rich as i said everyone knows that. this video really gives nothing
celina you have really pretty long fingers! do you play the piano? can you palm a basketball?
Can do many things
I don’t really know the answer but I’m starting to think that if the man is tall, the woman is short, generally speaking, but it comes down to how tall the man or woman WANTS to be.
Whatever the benefit is of height, if a person has a desire for that benefit in their life they’ll pursue it. That probably means if a girl is 5’9” but she still feels the need for height in her life, she will want a man who is 6’5”…..but if she’s 5’9” and she feels content she will want a man who is 5’10” because she already developed the height she needs to feel fulfilled…..she doesn’t need a man to do it for her.
Those are just my thoughts and idk how true it is, that’s just the basic idea of what I’m starting to see. I really just want to know the truth.
I'm a short guy who definitely has a need for height in my life.
But I won't date taller girls because of my insecurities.
@@JohnDoe-qm8ns but youte attracted to them, right?
@@user-su4mh8ur6c Not specifically
@@JohnDoe-qm8ns what do you mean
@@user-su4mh8ur6c I've never been attracted to girls because of their height.
In fact, height is not a criteria for me.
Probably because most women I come across are my height or taller.
I hate being short 5.5 😞
There is no "evolving" through being short.. your short you lost. No one respects you, no one is attracted to you, your looked over at work. You just loose. Its negative yes but also realistic. Your not going to be liked by everyone that's impossible but when you're rejected 9.9 out of 10 you just can't see beyond that. Your judged by the way you look first. I'm 5'3, I was born a looser.
The more you call yourself a looser and put yourself down the worse off you'll be, screw what other people think of you.
Keep your head up man
I think there is still place for evolving even at your height.
You can optimize everything, start working out, better clothes, take care of yourself etc
Of course most women will reject you for your height but maybe you can from 9.9 to 9 or even 8 out of 10.
It's not huge progress but it's progress nonetheless.
Also most are rejected most of the time. Only "chads" aren't. And they're very rare.
the brutal truth
In the heterosexual world, for us men, there's really only one reason we go on about height. That reason alone is the existence of women. I'm 5'8", and rarely is it ever mentioned. But the few times a male referred to me as lacking height, it was always obvious that the subtle message was the implication that because they were (albeit usually slightly) taller, they are more desirable to women. Us men have this sub-conscious desire it seems to prove to other men that we're the alpha male. And the height card is one of the methods we use. Other than that, nothing. I can reach anything in the cupboard a 6 foot person can reach. I'm not going to have to adjust the car seat getting into the same car a 6 footer drove. Guys, if we can get over the idea we have to appeal to every woman, the height thingy is absolutely no issue what-so-ever!
It’s no so much women but the societal conditioning of our culture. Height average is shorter in Portugal for example. In North America height can be status, power and attention. It all depends. Would not put this on women. I myself am waaay above average for a female and am told not to wear heels by mass society because I look too tall for a woman. This is all media conditioning of what it seen as attractive and ‘normal’
@@celinabond I should probably clarify in case of misunderstanding. I didn't mean to imply that women themselves are the problem (as in preferring tall men only). What I meant was ,women are the only reason "men" make issues of height. In other words, not being able to reach the top shelf at a library when my buddy can means absolutely nothing. I would say the vast majority of insecurity among men comes "from" men. It's the alpha-male thing. There was an actor in the early movie era named Alan Ladd who was considered a heart-throb. However he was short by Hollywood standards, and it was probably more men that drove him into depression via their ribbings. Every woman in the world could have loved him, but that way we men have with putting each other down rendered it impossible with being at peace with himself.
@@celinabond Completely agree. There even movies where the actress was taller than the actor and they shot it to make it look like the guy was taller.
I don't remember which movie it was but i saw that in a video.
@@hoystonholmes1482 If i'm being honest men never made me feel insecure about my height. If anything they were mostly very supportive.
A lot of women on the other hand called me too short to date.
After years and years of hearing the same i started to feel very insecure about my height. I live in a country where men are really tall too so it doesn't help.
I'm not saying that all women are shallow or care only about height etc. Just that in my case they were the roots of my insecurity about my height.
I'm learning to accept my height and just not care but it took me a long time.
It also doesn't that i never had a girlfriend so i don't even know how to act around them anymore. Since i finished school i had barely any interactions with them.
@@HeyMomonia I agree. For whatever reason, not all shorter men get flack about their height from other men. Or not as much as others. Tom Cruise is a target for height abuse, but whoever insulted Robbin Williams? Or Richard Dreyfuss? It's mostly about image. It's not really accurate to say being tall is preferable, because it isn't. Let's say you found Alladin's Lamp, and the genie asked you right off the bat if you want to be tall. Let's say you say "yes". Then the genie asks you "how about 8 feet tall"? My guess is you would say "hold up". It's not that people want to be tall, but they want to fit the Hollywood standard of beauty image. And that's basically around the vicinity of 6ft. The women who have rejected you may not have done so due to lack of attraction. Possibly because image wise they may feel you might make them look too tall. I can tell you that particularly tall people are insecure as well. They may not get put down about it nearly as much, but if a very tall man likes small women, he probably will feel awkward around them if he notices shorter men look more compatible height wise.
It's been forty years it's not gonna happen.
I'm born to be rejected and hated
don worry... tall men of 6 feet or above on average die around 64 years because their hearts get tired easily and the lack oxygen.... short men live much longer if with good fitness....a guy of japan who is around 5'6 or 7 is still alive and 118 years, so extreme determination can make u live upto 80 to 90 years old...or maybe even a century!... (u will get to see the future and maybe with future tech be immortal)😅 Also learn a flip cuz its the coolest thing a man can do physically and 6feet man have high chance of permanent sprain........ u will definetly have faster agilty the 90% tall men so take up a running sport especially soccer cuz its the biggest sport in the world were u will see the most lightning fast guys are 5'7 to 5'11 (sometimes 6 feet).... many women prefer men who are close to their height or equal or height or even shorter..... their are billionares like jack ma who is 4'11 (tom cruise is 5'7) ....... Many pros of short stature so just concentrate and become sucessfull........Now if u still wanna be tall, NO problem:- limb lengthening surgery is gaining popularity, currently its a bit expensive in U.S but less in other countries, it can give u a maximum of 15 cm (6 inches) height.... average women height of U.S is 5'4 so she lied...... My prference is tht short women are ugly for me so i want a women near or equal my height and i think now many men want that..... average height in many other countries like france is 5'7.....LIonel Messi who got growth hormones is still 5'7 and is my favourite person on earth is conidered a god amongst men.........ADIOS AMIGOS AND ENJOY LIFE, OR ELSE LIFE WILL ENJOY YOU ..... there is always light at the end of a tunnel!😇😤
Tbh life as a short guy is hell i don't think most of us would want to live for longer than 64 lol.
But i do agree on learning to do flips and being agile. Being athletic and being fit is something that a lot of women find attractive.
Life definitely is harder when you're a short guy but i think we can learn to manage and find enjoyment.
Oh god please don't talk about the surgery. It looks so bad.
Short arms, short spine, long ass legs.
It just looks wrong.
We should learn to accept the way we look and try to optimize it by working out, clothing, hygiene etc.
she looks like her bf is 6'5
Omg we have something in common. Everything you’re saying is me 😭
I'm 5'11 as a man
Amal Clooney is taller than George Clooney. Beautiful couple!
Im 1.72 cm Are you taller than me ؟
Only short king celebrities can get away with the expection not the average joes
I’ve seen many work with a strong personality and core masculine energy
@@celinabondI hope it works out well for them ❤
I'm 5 8 and I love tall girls
Why?
life is so complicated, some people suffer because their height is too short like as mine I am 24 and only 5'2'' I always wanted to be atleast 5'6'' and some people suffer their height is too much over 6'
I love taal women 😂❤❤❤❤😂
Short guys with tall women seems weird to me. I love tall women and obviously very attractive but i accept they're not for me since I'm short. What I can't understand is why short women think they need a very tall man. I understand being a success object could be my path to finding love but not every short guy will achieve that so we're kinda screwed lol.
I think you’re just insecure….tall woman and short man is not weird you just think it’s weird
Honestly in my opnion heights doesnt matteri mean its just height or how you look why should it matter
I m 6ft and a half inch and there is no way i m going to date a woman that might be as tall as me in heels but really good video and u have such a great personality . Keep the good work ❤
Many other men wouldn't mind. I'd love to date the woman who has been my most intense crush, even if she'd be half a foot taller than me in her heels.
@@LesSoleilsdePhoenix She can be taller than me without heels i wouldn't mind. She can even be taller and wear heels all day i don't care.
I don't think height should matter as much as it does. It doesn't say anything about the person. It's not something you can choose or change.
Funny how you can't criticize someone for being fat which is in complete control but people make fun of short guys which completely out of their control.
I'm 5'3" -- I'd be tiny up to you. When I go to the gym both men and women are giants to me, I've gotten use to it. I find the very tall muscle men love to flex their big muscles at me. Especially in the locker room -- it can be scary at times. Do you think I should talk to these giant musclemen or run since I'm so tiny and only come up to their waist. Look forward to hearing from you.
Honestly I would be with you in a heart beat! I really don't care about hights that's the most stupid thing in the world. When I see a taller woman I'm always like omg! She's beautiful and amazing!, Short women same things beautiful and amazing! It depends on her taste and heart. But I will care for both equally
i'm 5'6 and damn you tall
😂😂😂😅
Iamsuffering everyday I swear to get 185 😫😫💔
Well were basically the opposites of both specturms.
your a really tall women. when women should be short.
I'm really short for a man. I'm 5 foot 4.
nice to you meet you. Basically I still dont' think it's as tough for women being tall you'll find some guy intrested. in real life. But basically a short man is curse plus I have a disability which makes me very un wanted at all.
Did I mention I'm overweight too.
I'm really sad right now.
The thing is tall women struggle because they reject short men.
Short men struggle because they're being rejected.
@heymomonia One go after short women then. You're still taller than them.
Ur so beutiful and tall, how tall r u?
I say in the video lol
@@celinabond I have just hear it 184cm😮😮
I am 5'4 and have dated so many women that are taller than me. Give me 5 minutes with any woman and I'll make height irrelevant 😁
It's unanimous among dating coaches that height means nothing. There are plenty of things you can do to compensate. But real life observations say differently. Tall woman-short man couples are as rare as 3 sided coins. It's women who repeatedly say "no less than 6'. Men have LEARNED to believe it. And many of us have learned that yes, we should become the best versions of ourselves that we can be. But the superficial things that attract women don't make us better in any real way, and too damned many of them are impossible anyway.
Good videoo... Also some girls think tall guys are strong and win fights😂😂 girl..there so many videos 5'2 guys beating up 6'5 in street fights and mma 😂... Height doesn't matter anyway.. It's personality, hygiene, matters.. If u truly love someone appearance doesn't matter
That explained absolutely nothing. You're just trying to market yourself and that's ok hence why you keep putting your links for people to see and that's completely ok. You're trying to promote superficial behavior. We as humans do not transcend until we spiritually move on on. We can evolve but You're stuck in your ways of how society wants and says you should be, nothing will ever change and we as humans will continue in our shallow ways. To each their own. Nonetheless, decent video
This comment was a rollercoaster 😂 but I appreciate the candor. I’m simply sharing value in the moment. You’re free to interpret it as you like. I know my intent here🤍 it’s also something I’ve created into a job (after doing it for years for free) which I’m grateful for the abundance. I hope you watch other vids and understand my purpose to help evolve communication 🤍
She's soooo believable 🙄😒
🆗️🔊🔊🔊
To answer your question height does not matter young lady. What matters is having a strong masculine frame. Dressing well. A man has to work out. Also tell the young men stop chasing females. Let females come to you. A man has to have high self esteem. Also the young men need a father figure in their lives. Young men under the age of 30 need father figures. Men under 30 need mentoring in their lives to show them the ropes.
Men do not need to chase women. Pursuing is different though
PUAS came in and did the mentoring for over a decade, as a result, young men are even more messed up in 2021.
Celina, great video but please be honest. You are sugar coating this important topic. You are probably 6’4” in heels. A man of 5’6” is going to look like an absolute runt or shrimp next to you. No matter how much masculine energy or confidence this man has, he will still be laughed at, if he is your date. His confidence will be destroyed as no one wants to be mocked.
5’6 😂
Judging men by height is a sign of low intelligence. It's that simple.
Humans naturally make judgements for protection. So we can’t be as broad with that statement x
My gosh you are tall
Yup 🥰🥰🥰🥰😻
@@celinabond , I’m a man, I’m 5 feet 4.25 inches. Yes there are times I wish I’m taller. But there’s times I enjoy being short. So there’s good things about being short and there’s bad things about it.
@@untitle161 yes always pros and cons in life 🤍🤍🤍
@@celinabond ❤️🌹🌺🌸
Tall woman perfect even NOPE! STAY OFF THE ROIDS ?