Johnny Comes Out | EastEnders
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This is how every parent should react to their children coming out, with love, patience and understanding.
They should tell them to like women instead of being a dirty butterboy
Question Everything like you ?
People should be allowed to be gay but I think it's wrong that they have a big song and dance about it that's why there's homophobes
@@danielthedemonlister519 Homophobia has been around for as long as racism and anything else associated with people being different from the majority. With everything else going on in someone's head when they are coming to terms with being homosexual, or bisexual, or anything else, why should they be discriminated against? Why should anyone have to be picked on, bullied, beaten, denied the right to the rights that you have as a straight person just because of who they are as a person? That is why people make a song and dance about it, so that people can have the same quality of life that straight people are automatically entitled to. Why should it be any other way, we are all human, we are all here through no fault of our own.
@@callum3399 bruh this is why no one loves you.
Hoping that in 10-20 years that being gay or bi is so normalized that people no longer need to come out. Where people wouldn't care at all.
Never gonna happen.
@@binghamguevara6814 Never say never, only time will tell. It might take longer. We are currently living in a mixed emotion era: some oppose it, some embrace it, some are indifferent and don't care. At some point there will be a majority of people are either in favor or indifference about it. Look at biracial dating and marriages, there were a lot of opposition to hit in the early 20th century.
@john davis Are there people who give you grieve or think you are weird about being a dr pepper fan?
It will always be stigmatised.
john davis Thats not what I said though is it? I know it’s more accepted amongst the general population but it is still heavily stigmatised and always will be, most people aren’t gay and that is precisely why it will always be stigmatised.
Sadly, for many people, it doesn’t happen like this.
True
Unfortunately
True
Just-James good
Yea
It’s sad because even when there’s no homophobia in the house, children who are gay get the message “it’s wrong” real fast. Because no one in the house is talking about it. The schools don’t talk about it. They hear homophobia from their peers. Period. Talk about it! We are finally having an open dialogue so all this pain and suffering that’s been going on for hundreds of years Regarding sexuality will finally fade out. There’s no room for this sort of fear and ignorance in the golden age ;)
True, why don’t we just teach that love is something good
It is wrong
@@dakidtg you have a ways to go on your spiritual journey brother. If you don't get it in this life, you'll repeat it in the next.
@@RodneyDodson ??
@@dakidtg it’s really not love😘
This really captures the crushing shame of admitting being gay really well. Something that never seems to change.
@Marshall Carwood LMFAOO you're joking, right?
jordan joking about what?
No shame in it tho
I thought they captured the self-loathing and internalised homophobia of being in the closet extremely well, the boy could barely speak except to say “it’s unnatural, it’s wrong”...showing how torn he is between who he is and what society says someone should be. The father did great.
Hopefully with the right messaging and acceptance in time kids won’t feel shame
Mick is an awesome dad
Marshall Carwood Lol are you okay?
tom green r/wooosh
Here yes but after this, it’s all As Aunt Babe puts it “LINDA LINDA LINDA”. He sides with her over their kids when she’s the one on the wrong. He treated Nancy and Lee like shit over and accident and Nancy especially was treated appaullingly at that time by him and he didn’t support Lee with his depression unlike Lee who is helping his dad.
I think the early months of their time, Mick is a good dad, then things just become all about him and Linda.
@@SweetAeromotion yeah he’s a supportive father
YOU ARE 100 PERCENT RIGHT.
This is how a real parent should be with having a gay child!! If people don’t respect gays that’s just wrong
This is heartbreaking no one should be ashamed of being themselves, x
Jimmy saville should
@@lfcwilli Omg, just saw this, you've basically made the same point as me. 😂
@Marshall Carwood But that would happen with a woman as well.
Marshall Carwood People can’t help being gay though.
@Marshall Carwood Go take your homophobia else where
"So you're the one we should've called Nancy..."
Oh Mick 😂
@@FlorentlynnOfficial I think that family were just a very comedic one and he wanted to make Johnny laugh and that was the easiest joke he could make. I fully agree with your point but I think it's not meant to be taken seriously in this context
@@kizzybird1208 yeah... perhaps but as usual these stupid jokes are always happening on gay guys and I gotta say this is tiering. Period
Yeah I agreeeee 🙏🏻
@@FlorentlynnOfficial bro when i came out me and my dad were cracking jokes the whole night about it
@@FlorentlynnOfficial I think Mick was trying to lighten the atmosphere with a joke Jonny was really emotional so he made a joke to lighten things up
I’ve never seen this show in my life and have no idea who these characters are, but my heart just broke for that young man and I think his Father is an exceptional man for loving and supporting his son like this. He did everything right here. Well done to this show and these actors for such a powerful and important scene.
It’s eastenders
"Eastenders" its a UK soap drama based in a small street on the East end of london
EastEnders has a habit of doing that - delivering exceptional scenes in sometimes less-than storylines. Nothing short of breathtaking and underrated acting from many of the cast.
It’s the most popular show in the UK, but it’s very depressing, not like US glamourous soaps
"I know that being gay isn't a choice. It's within you, it's who you are..." I love that line. I do not watch this show, or know about these characters, but that is such a beautiful line. Someone gets it. ❤
Phenomenal acting on this scene. Great job.
Aww X
Mick is hot. That's all I'm gonna say
@Cuong Dang do you mean Mick or Johnny?
@@lolagraham8013 Mick. Well I'm not interested in his son 😂
The actor Danny Dyer played a gay teen in Bristol Boy m.imdb.com/title/tt0221838/
Haven't watch Eastenders for years and years but have to say this was really well done. Fair play.
Yeah, definitely was a powerful scene in the show
They handled the realism of this happening very well
This was the scene that made me realise I wasn't straight at 17.
I wish they'd bring this Johnny back, the other actor was good but Sam strike did the character great, plus he was cuter
Marshall Carwood you sound like you’re in denial, hahaha.
Weeping Angel us gays always did, and gays always will exist. Your tears just fuel us 😘😍🤷🏻♀️
Marshall Carwood yeah mate it seems like your hiding something from yourself. Maybe go take a look in the mirror. Something tells me your gay and in denial of it.
WyseBoi lmao you sound like an A level psychology student. Thinks he knows everything, yet knows nothing
Sean Lennon No its called wanting grandchildren. Something you will NEVER be able to give your parents. Ever.
My dad's reaction was to say 'thank god for that, I thought you were going to say you'd got someone pregnant'
People need to understand that sexuality doesn't equal to attitude or lifestyle. You can be gay and highly masculine and still like masculine things 🙄 🙄 🙄
And I think that's the beauty of this scene. Mick doesn't know everything about being gay, what it entails, and he may be misinformed about certain aspects. But that doesn't stop him from accepting his son for who he is. Him getting some of the facts wrong isn't the most important part of the scene. It's that even though he's working from a few incorrect assumptions, those don't define his relationship with his son. The details are irrelevant to him because he loves his boy more than anything. That's beautiful to me.
Absolutely. Homophobic idiots will always believe that, due to their incredibly narrow way of thinking, that all gay men are effeminate sissies and queens. They just cannot or won't accept the fact someone's sexuality does not automatically determine who they are as a person.
I am crying here!!! Johnny's tears were really authentic and they reminded me of when my parents forced me to come out, but instead of accepting me, they turned their backs on me.
JOHNNY'S TEARS ARE MORE REALISTIC.
I’m so sorry they did that to you!! You deserve better, hope you’re doing great
@@sashaking1115 Thank you.
@@fmaximo1979 you’re welcome ❤️❤️
My parents did the same, it really sucks. Hope things are better.
As a Gay man myself, I got really emotional watching this
@@cjk2922 You think you're big and hard? Knobhead 😂
🌈🌈🌈
@@cjk2922 Nonce is a term for a paedophile, not a homosexual. Get your facts straight!
As a straight man, so did I. Took me back to when one of my best mates came out to our group of friends a few years back. We already knew. We hugged him, then went right back to drinking and taking the piss out of each other
Danny Dyre has been superglued into that shirt and is unable to bend or move at all
Definitely one of the most heartwarming scenes in the show last decade
Beautifully portrayed by both actors and so heart felt. Well done to both writers and actors 😊😊☺
People are homophobic and racist because it’s new to them. People hate new. why? because they’re scared that they won’t like it? Fear turns into anger ane therefore people are homophobic or racist.
My mum told me from the age of 3 that if I grew up gay she'd always love me.
She told it me loads as I grew up and I still felt so ashamed when I told her at 16. I dunno why
closet tingz
I thought he came out ages ago
Jasmine F this was 2014 lol
I remember watching this scene when it first aired and I cried. As a gay man myself it’s very emotional but so real
Michael Keates batty boy xx
Society must stop thinking heterosexuals are the only type of sexuality that is normal. As long as NO one is getting hurt or against their will, sex is normal for consenting adults!
Naz izi what a sad life you lead
Naz izi is that the best you’ve got. After years of fighting for rights, “ batty boy “ is no big deal. So keep going whilst we keep on laughing right back at you
@@nazizi1696 aww how sweet of you! So funny. Ha👏ha👏ha👏
You know, no matter how much HATE you lot say, it's not gonna make anybody less gay.
Love it when he calls Johnny the brains of the outfit lol
I just came out 3 days before to my parents, and they hugged me and cried. They accepted me for who I am.
That was some serious 'ugly crying'. Well done! An excellent performance.
Powerful! This is what real love is about. I wish my coming out was like this, but sadly it wasn't.
Post more old videos they are nostalgic
The clip of the mom crying at the end is powerful. Realistic.
It's actually a very interesting dynamic as it's the mum that doesn't accept him first of all and they end up falling out, but she grows to accept him.
Thanks. I was wondering about that. I thought I saw some "I've effed up" in her tears.
THE DAD PLAYED A GAY CHARACTER WHEN HE WAS YOUNG HE WAS SO CUTE
Was Linda crying at the end because she didn’t accept it?
At first she didn’t
1:20 that moment when there’s no going back
I had this conversation with my dad the other day and it was literally identical to this and omg it feels great to see this being represented my dads thinks makeup with men and stuff is a bit ‘weird’ but he said to me I love you no matter what just be you😊
Art by James Butler You’re dad sounds wonderful.
Genghis Smith he really is I couldn’t wish for a better dad even though he finds it a bit weird he tries his best to adapt and accept it he’s been really really supportive😊
@@Jamesbutler890 hi I've been looking on your account and your art is really good you're really underrated
not spider woman thank you, I don’t get many compliments at all so I really appreciate it. You’re the kinda people that make me want to continue and stay motivated so I give all my gratitude to you😊
Hug that man and never let him go. He sounds like a lovely dad.
By the comments I seen casual homophobia is alive and well!
Don’t you dare say there is anything unnatural about you. You are my son. Danny this is proudest moment pivotal moment of your acting career again thank you for portraying this so genuine, heartfelt. By doing this one thing alone showing acceptance acting or not you have saved the lives of millions of lgbt+ people made their lives better. This is a legacy that will forever be remembered. Thank you!!! 🏳️🌈❤️❤️
Danny dyer... This is when I started to love u more. I like u before in your gangster movies and dramas but in this soap there was something special about u and ur performance and ur character mick. Love it. And u will be miss forever now u have left the show. Respect mate. X
I hate religion and it's laws so so much. I love and embrace diversity. People do not need to be obsessed about their sexuality when it can be very preventable if people just show kindness about it.
I agree the world would be a boring place if we were all the same the more people are themselves the better
This lowkey resonates with me because it really do be like that
Even though the acting is not the best (my opinion), I felt this. I remember breaking down like this when I came out and DAMN that felt good to let it out
This might genuinely be my favourite coming out scene of all time, it is so well written and acted
One of my biggest regrets in life was telling my Dad. If I could turn back time, I never would have said a word. Been about 20 years now.
Andy Jacobs That is so sad. But you had to tell him, otherwise your life would have been a lie. If my dad were still alive I would ask him why he couldn’t accept that part of my life....the part which eventually gave me true happiness with someone I love dearly.
Sam Strike was so good as Johnny
He was hot too xx
Wasn't Johnny gorgeous xxxx
It was a different actor in the beginning too.
Wow, it is so hard to understand that ,in the 21st century, people can be so ignorant as to not understand you are what you are. Everyone is unique and created by God and that is not a mistake!
3 amem
Or amen
Kathleen Dunlap ..yeah but isn’t it generally worshippers of god who say being gay is an abomination / against god?! 😂😂
Ty for your post. How true it is in the 21st Century, and how disgusting it is that these so called Christians hide behind the Bible and abuse it for their own gain and tissue justification.
@Lindz e are you homophobic or something?
God how I wish I had parents like that!
Mick is a great dad
Bring this johnny back he was such a twink
I just broke when Johnny started Crying. But his Mother was the one having trouble. Usually it’s the other way around.
Thats just an assumption that mothers are more accepting of gay children. There was story on Long Lost Family years ago where a woman went looking for her brother who had been disowned for being gay and the brother said his father seemed more accepting of him but his mother basically couldn't accept him and threw him out and told him to never contact them again.
@@wickedwitchoftheeast88 It just proves that there are women who are homophobic towards gay men.
This scene is adorable and very well acted
This was one of the best acting scenes from EastEnders which I’m sure resonated with so many young men and women and parents. Certainly did for me. Danny Dyer and Sam Strike played this so well.
I remember this story line and how good it was written and acted I had the pleasure of meeting Sam and congratulate him on such wonderful performance and what a great inspiration for young people who are going through the same thing and coming out to family and friends he real was a nice guy to chat to
Micks face in the thumbnail reads out oh boy. Lmao.
Literally everyone knew he was gay 10 years ago.
I am gay and did not chose to be. I simply am.
"I just want you to know you can tell me anything"
*son actually confesses to murdering someone*
That would actually be pretty interesting too.
My mum didn't care that am gay she doesn't talk to me that much anymore
Rewatching this because it's too cute. I wish they'd given Johnny a good relationship (Steven Beale preferably...) because he bloody deserved one 🙏🏻
Being gay myself I wish I'd had a conversation like this with my parents. When I was a teenager I was a member of an evangelical christian group and they put me in touch with all this ex gay nonsense. I firmly believe it was a big reason that I attempted suicide when I was 18. It is so important for parents to love their children and verbally accept them for who they are.
Danny Dyer seems to have replaced actual acting with simply squinting his eyes.
What a great Dad.
"Your the brains of the outfit" beautiful and moving
Fantastic acting from Sam Strike and Danny Dyer 💓💓
TRUE INDEED.
This scene is years old, but worth revisiting.
If only my father had said the same words to me.
It's was so strange he adored my partner while he was alive but I was never good enough
Being gay goes beyond exceptence It needs to have no conditions,no discrimination of any kind and unconditional love
What we as human do in our bedroom is nobodys business but our own as long as we are good human beings our sexual orentaination should'nt matter.
A wise women once sung
"I AM WHAT I AM"
I'm proud to be gay🌈👬🌈
You have no rite to try to change me.
I DON'T WATCH THE SHOW I JUST FIND THIS SCENE ON YOU TUBE.WELL ACTED AND WE SHOULD ALL ACCEPT PEOPLE WITH DIFFERENT SEXUALITY.IS IT ME THOUGH THAT THINKS THAT DAD LOOKS AND TALKS MORE GAY THAN THE SON?
I have anxiety and panic attacks and flashbacks PTSD because of my past and I have two panic attacks everyday at school and one at home ones a day
I wish my parents reacted like this 😂😢😭
Hola Samuel
@@rildoaraujo6965 hola 👋🏻
Kinda ruined it for me a bit when he said "so you’re the one we should have called Nancy". Like I get it’s a joke, no big deal, not that bothered, but still it’s doing the whole gay people are all feminine thing and it’s slightly annoying
I agree
When does he tell such a thing?
Guido.
It's a common stereotype, which is what makes it a joke
@@ZoeThomson00 But in this video I don't see Mick telling such a thing, can you help me?
@@Guidogregotti 3.40 mins
This is so powerful. But it's also so beautiful. This is parenting done right.
Aww
Great scene, on a side note Danny is so hot!
I will never forget this moment! I'm already a fan of the Carters but here beautiful ❤
it'll be 10 years ago tomorrow
So you're the one we should have called Nancy... hahaha...
Danny Dyer seems to have replaced actual acting with simply squinting his eyes.
Johnny plz come back but don't be different actor be the one in this vid or the other one
It wasn't to me he was my fav at being friends with ben (My fav character)
Sam Strike left because they wanted to go more places with Johnny' sexuality. Johnny is based off Dominic Treadwell-Collins who was the show's producer.
Awww that’s really cute❤️❤️
I wish there wasn't such a phobia of saying I'm proud of you... to family members
And it seems like just yesterday that he was glued to the telly watching Superman and Batman. 😢
When I came out to my dad he said you were my son this morning you'll be my son tomorrow the only thing that has changed is the date I cried like a baby
And Johnny is such a really lovely person who has the highest of morals.
How is this still a thing?
Wish Danny Dyer was my dad i literally cried all through this episode when johnny came out so powerful and moving as I know cause I am gay myself it isn't easy coming out and I got bad remarks for coming out brilliantly acted and really miss seeing danny dyer in EastEnders please bring him back ❤❤❤❤
Danny Dyer seems to have replaced actual acting with simply squinting his eyes.
Why is Eastenders so bad right now. The actors are fabulous when they have the scripts.......Not worth looking at today.....
Danny Dyer seems to have replaced actual acting with simply squinting his eyes.
Wonderful scene in which a father accepts his son for who he is as he is. The only reason there is a need for scenes like this is that when we each accept ourselves for who we are, there is always the risk of being rejected by those already in our lives. In this case it is a boy accepting he is gay, but I’ve experienced my sister being disinherited by our fundamentalist father, because she married a catholic man; really. Eventually, they did accept them both, and even me when years later I came out.
watching back and i still can’t get why linda was crying at the end lol😂
To Bad Linda wasn’t so warm
About it.
The icon for this video clip looks like the lad's doing something unmentionable to Danny Dyer
Mi high anyone
Parenting 101 done perfectly!!!! this is real love!!
Mick always looks stoned
Danny Dyer seems to have replaced actual acting with simply squinting his eyes.
I am not familiar with the show except by name, but this is such a beautifully written and performed scene.
That was quite a beautiful thing to see his father came out quite brilliant and the son his love and secured he was born that way evidently it runs in the family it does mine for so far three three brothers two of them are gay that's including myself!!!
The crying kinda reminded me of myself... which made me laugh lol...
This is just so well written and sooooo well acted, jeeeeees where are actors like this nowadays on Eastenders???? And the scripts? It’s sheer boredom and rubbish at the moment, I’ve stopped watching . I hope that this scene helped other people deal with their own ‘coming out’ ❤ the parents and the child…… it’s the dream scenario and people are influenced by soap stories so I truly hope this scene made a difference to at least one family. Brillant all round
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This hit home for me. I'm like the dad, and, my son's name is Johnny. If he were gay, I wouldn't be any less proud of him as I am.
Not that I'm biased, but, he's the best son in the world; no matter what.
Why are people still discussing this in 2020 as if it is a handicap. People have been gay since the dawn of time.
You for real? Maybe because people still get attacked, abused, bullied, killed just for smiling at the same sex never mind finding them attractive.
Must be nice not having life skills
@@thumbdeadred yes they do, but life is alot better than it was 100 years ago.
@@klarissaclairiton9010 so that means we can't moan and improve on things? People were also getting burned for being a witch 100 years ago.