Twins Come Out To Dad

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  • Опубликовано: 12 сен 2024
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  • @yazsaj4411
    @yazsaj4411 9 лет назад +539

    I am a Muslim. Like Christianity and Judaism being gay is NOT permitted. I have two sons. After watching this I found myself reacting in a way I would never have imagined. After seeing you in so much pain for the love you have for your dad and what you were about to do. Gave me a change of heart. If it is a sin being gay. That's between individuals and their God on judgement day. Here, now living in THIS world it wouldn't stop me from loving my sons and still being a part of their life's. I wish you both well.

    • @Its_Shazar
      @Its_Shazar 9 лет назад +21

      Good for you, Yaz. :)

    • @kisstheanusofablack3401
      @kisstheanusofablack3401 9 лет назад +10

      ***** There are alot of people who support it, stop being ignorant and hypocrite and do us all a favor and shut the fuck up.

    • @kisstheanusofablack3401
      @kisstheanusofablack3401 9 лет назад +28

      Allah The one and only God And do what? Leave my kids? Stop loving them? No, I wouldn't do that.

    • @mark74151
      @mark74151 9 лет назад +21

      You're an amazing father. May you and your family live a long prosperous life full of many warm hugs and euphoric memories. Remember, a fathers greatest joy is seeing his family happy and a child's greatest accomplishment is to make their parents proud. Loving your kids for who they are, and being there with them through their journey is one of the greatest thing you could do for them. May the love of the world follow you. ♥

    • @rileylasagna6851
      @rileylasagna6851 9 лет назад +14

      Yas Saj you're awesome man! :)

  • @brodied.6230
    @brodied.6230 5 лет назад +2589

    I wonder if the dad realized that both of the twins were there... because you know... They sound the exact same...

    • @Buttonmutten
      @Buttonmutten 5 лет назад +311

      He’s the father I’m sure he can tell the difference because he’s been with them longer

    • @kxndyyy
      @kxndyyy 5 лет назад +8

      zinaal kriid HOLD UPPPPP

    • @hafsakhan7372
      @hafsakhan7372 5 лет назад +19

      Yeah he did cuz the boy said I’m gay and so is his brother he said it and he said we not I

    • @savanab.3749
      @savanab.3749 5 лет назад +40

      @The Rockall Times he can still have grandkids they can still have kids there is more than one way to have a baby.

    • @tilly_guest1
      @tilly_guest1 5 лет назад +16

      @The Rockall Times what about a Surrogate

  • @zachthomas2592
    @zachthomas2592 8 лет назад +540

    their dad didn't seem thrilled about the news, but at least he accepted it and that's more than a lot of parents would do.

    • @tracyspaar
      @tracyspaar 8 лет назад +32

      I think he was just a little shocked in a good way

    • @christopherchavez6090
      @christopherchavez6090 8 лет назад

      Ikr he DIDINT really accepted it

    • @Asidders
      @Asidders 8 лет назад +19

      Is he supposed to be happy about it? That wouldn't really make sense.

    • @torib100
      @torib100 8 лет назад +7

      He probably just wants blood grandkids I know I would. Someone your genes have been passed on to. But I'd still accept the fact.

    • @nomdeplume1358
      @nomdeplume1358 8 лет назад +3

      My parents would probably disown me...x"D

  • @ondasikora7353
    @ondasikora7353 5 лет назад +3516

    SON: Dad... I'm *gay* .
    DAD: **shaking**
    MOM: *DON'T YOU DARE!*
    DAD: ...
    MOM: *DON'T !!!*
    *DAD: HI GAY, I'M DAD!*

    • @crowsong1
      @crowsong1 5 лет назад +125

      Not gonna lie, u got me

    • @glendalrymple1842
      @glendalrymple1842 4 года назад +75

      I burst out laughing ahaha 😂

    • @juliaconnolly5870
      @juliaconnolly5870 4 года назад +58

      omfg I thought he was gonna slap him

    • @aa-fd9wn
      @aa-fd9wn 4 года назад +14

      *aaaaa*

    • @leao3363
      @leao3363 4 года назад +19

      This gets me everytime😂😂

  • @ke-vo7355
    @ke-vo7355 8 лет назад +562

    umm... so my coming out story.
    my mom disowned me... like she literally took all the pillows on the couch and threw them at me, she threw holy water at me( she keeps this little jar on the living room table)...
    she called me the devil child and threw me out the house..
    I moved out before I told her, she stopped talking to me and now we still aren't talking and I came out a year and a half ago..
    but I guess oh well.. I have a stable income that provides me with what i need and more but I'm happy so..

    • @astrocap5373
      @astrocap5373 8 лет назад +25

      Don't lose hope. No matter what.

    • @georgiatucker4305
      @georgiatucker4305 8 лет назад +22

      Stay strong, you got this❤️

    • @guadiarmas
      @guadiarmas 8 лет назад +16

      stay strong baby. no matter whats. love yourself. ❤

    • @ke-vo7355
      @ke-vo7355 8 лет назад +10

      thank you. I really appreciate it...

    • @cameronleitis614
      @cameronleitis614 8 лет назад +12

      Stay strong and continue to be who you are, someday you'll find someone who loves you for who you are x

  • @DentoRuneScape
    @DentoRuneScape 9 лет назад +2915

    I'm not gay, but these comments are unbelievably pathetic...
    I can't believe there are still people out there, hating or beating up homosexuals. It is NOT a disease. The way they are crying might tell more words than the whole video. Gay or not, nobody deserves to be punished.
    There are even people discussing about the fact that this was uploaded on RUclips. This video wasn't for advertising purposes, but for helping others. Yet some people in the comments call them disgusting for helping others? I don't even...
    The fact that this hate still happens in 2015 makes me sick...

    • @lexchamp
      @lexchamp 9 лет назад +29

      This is what all comments should be like, and it's really sad.

    • @MrASG1984
      @MrASG1984 9 лет назад +36

      All of these negative comments are a fantastic reason Gay Pride is still necessary.

    • @justkillthelights
      @justkillthelights 9 лет назад +20

      I believe that they start crying before to say anything because maybe they felt ashamed about who they really are, and it's sad that society makes us feel that way about anything :( but the good part is that everything ends in a happy way!

    • @TheKorusuk
      @TheKorusuk 9 лет назад +5

      I don't like the fact it's been put on RUclips because it should have been a private conversation with their dad. They'd have been a lot better making a video about the conversation rather than showing the ACTUAL conversation.
      They didn't ask his permission to put it on RUclips (at least, I didn't catch that bit?). If I was their dad I'd be pissed.

    • @cjay2
      @cjay2 9 лет назад +4

      Korus
      You know this as a fact? You know nothing about this video.

  • @franniemae45
    @franniemae45 5 лет назад +1782

    When their voices started cracking and they started crying I started crying. Recently my best friend came out to me and told me that she was gay and I didn't know how to react at first, but I was raised to love everyone and that it doesn't matter what their skin color is or their sexuality is. I grabbed her by the hand and asked her if she had a girlfriend and she said yes and she pointed at my other best friend. I smiled at both of them and gave them both a hug and a kiss on the cheek and just smiled, I honestly am so proud of them and they are still dating till this day. You guys are beautiful human beings, I love you boys and stay strong😙

    • @s4turn968
      @s4turn968 5 лет назад +6

      Olivia This is so c
      ute :))

    • @alondras.5948
      @alondras.5948 5 лет назад +3

      Thats awesome

    • @abbeyyoung184
      @abbeyyoung184 5 лет назад +1

      Awe that's good❤

    • @sarahaproskie1680
      @sarahaproskie1680 5 лет назад +3

      I was brought up the same

    • @karaobrien8871
      @karaobrien8871 5 лет назад +4

      My best friend just recently came out as well😊 We’ve all basically known for the past 4 years but he was too scared to tell us

  • @swift._1311
    @swift._1311 4 года назад +648

    I was raised by homophbic parents and i remember watching on tv two gay guys getting married and my parents said a lot of bad things about them, so i grew up to be homophbic myself but after a while i discovered that there is nothing wrong with being gay or lesbian or bi or pan or transgender, saw a video of a guy coming out to his little brother and he was like i am still me and it made me cry, i then started questioning my own sexuality, i first knew that i was bi but then i discovered that i am not attracted to women at all and that i am gay... I am proud of who i am and i love myself, my parents might disown me if they knew about it but at least i am not living in a prison and i can finally be free

    • @Lilfishtf4e
      @Lilfishtf4e 4 года назад +20

      I completely understand how that feels my parents didn’t get the chance to explain to me what gay was (it just never came up and there was no good time to tell me) and in 4th grade someone said something something gay and I asked what gay was and they said “oh it’s when to boys or girls like each other and it means that you hate you life and your going to hell” this didn’t seem right to me but I was to scared to say anything because I was already being bullied by many kids in my class also had a teacher who didn’t care and allowed for the bullying to continue. I remember being pressured to bully these to boys who idk if they were even gay but I remember yelling EWWW THATS GAY at them I feel even to this day regret and so much shame for doing that now 3 years later I am in a much better place I’m a lesbian I’ve told my friends and family and it was meet with understanding and kindness and I’ve left that school and my days of bullying behind.

    • @halluvicmin1914
      @halluvicmin1914 4 года назад +17

      How did you guys come out? Everytime I try to, something interrupts me and I end up not telling them. I talked to my mom about different sexualities and she thinks gays an lesbians are okay, but she says that bisexuals are slutty because they're attracted to both gender. Like, are you kidding me? Just because they're attracted to both boys AND girls doesn't mean they're gonna go around getting it with everyone. And it's even worse because I'm pansexual which means I don't only like two genders, I've also been attracted to other sexualities and I'm pretty sure my ma would think I'm "worse" than bi.

    • @datt7398
      @datt7398 3 года назад +6

      @@halluvicmin1914 I left a text open and my mum read it , it was pretty helpful

    • @datt7398
      @datt7398 3 года назад +6

      @@halluvicmin1914 the message said "how do I come out to my mum as gay" and also "how will she react when I get a boyfriend

    • @datt7398
      @datt7398 3 года назад +3

      @@halluvicmin1914 I got your back even if I can't be there irl 😁

  • @Amythyyst
    @Amythyyst 9 лет назад +120

    I'm so glad their dad is such a good guy.
    "You *are* normal, what do you mean?"
    That's probably the sweetest and most truthful thing I've heard in months. I'm so glad he respects them, we need more people like this.

  • @jasonkalique106
    @jasonkalique106 9 лет назад +178

    Can their dad have a standing ovation? For being one of the worlds most awesome dads out there. He deserves a trophy.

    • @BJMcB92
      @BJMcB92 9 лет назад +14

      Jason Kalique It's not like he really has a choice. Either accept it while being filmed by his ungrateful children or be seen on camera as not accepting his gay sons and be labeled as a homophobe and a terrible parent forever.

    • @mikrokupu888
      @mikrokupu888 9 лет назад +4

      BJMcB92
      You really think the twins would have published the video if their father didn't approve it? I really don't think so, they seem to be very close.
      It's the parent who choose his/her own reaction. If the child is gay that's a fact, regardless what the parents think about it.

    • @MidnightMarauder187
      @MidnightMarauder187 9 лет назад

      why does he deserve a trophy? he did what any normal person would do. its 2015.

    • @gjeromeedrick8679
      @gjeromeedrick8679 9 лет назад

      ***** By the time they said they're both gay, that's the first thing that pop outta my head.. Not trying to be mean or anything ;D

    • @thymemine
      @thymemine 9 лет назад

      ***** doesnt it make this story more interesting. growing up together surely they know each other sensitive spots. that will make their sex life even more perfect. i wish i had a gay twin. LMAO

  • @zer08914
    @zer08914 9 лет назад +408

    I hate how religion and this society fuck up so many people..you don't deserve this.
    Good luck to everyone in the same situation!

    • @zachwhite300
      @zachwhite300 9 лет назад +4

      So true I'm pretty sure I'm gay myself and I don't see what's so bad about it and why people discriminate against it

    • @zer08914
      @zer08914 9 лет назад +14

      Temo Lennon I'm straight, but thanks for showing that one of the few words that you know is dick.

    • @mrs.elentz2336
      @mrs.elentz2336 9 лет назад

      +zero14 I get angry that there's always a few people who ruin it for everyone else... I would not be alive today without my relationship with God. I'm an addict in recovery. I also know that God doesn't make junk, and you go through hardships for a greater destiny. These 2 in the video are an inspiration to many. I admire them so much for living in their own truth... that's not an easy thing to do!

    • @zer08914
      @zer08914 9 лет назад +1

      Elizabeth Arndt you're alive because you're in recovery. You saved yourself, you should be proud of your own strength instead of giving credit to something that doesn't exist. Btw, that's not "their own truth", it's not something they're making up and choosing to believe. That's a universal truth. God is not.

    • @mrs.elentz2336
      @mrs.elentz2336 9 лет назад +1

      That's my point - I didn't have the strength by myself. We can agree to disagree, as I'm fine with that. I was agreeing with you initially, that religion does sadly fuck up so many people by shoving it down people's throats... but it's those same people that destroy the religion they're trying to spread too. Anyway, people should believe if they want to... or not believe, but people shouldnt shove it down people's throats.

  • @neilhorner9197
    @neilhorner9197 4 года назад +417

    I don't think straight people realise how much courage it takes to come out, especially to your parents. And we don't just come out once, but every time we meet new people. It takes courage to live openly and honestly as a gay man in a straight world.

    • @ren9897
      @ren9897 3 года назад +30

      Yeah when I came out to my mom I was literally shaking and my legs were numb. And I kept thinking "it's not to late to go back and not say anything"

    • @neilhorner9197
      @neilhorner9197 3 года назад +12

      We need to be proud of ourselves for those moments of courage.

    • @emeliasversion
      @emeliasversion 3 года назад +10

      this is literally so true

    • @cdw9244
      @cdw9244 2 года назад +4

      im still havent come out as gay

    • @arow57
      @arow57 2 года назад +1

      I think the straight guys can understand us, and the people today are very friendly, well 1950 its was maybe not a good time but today ? Come on boy :/

  • @zowee7077
    @zowee7077 8 лет назад +480

    When they started to tear up I was like NOOOO DONT CRY! I wanted to just give them a hug i dont know ...

  • @savannahjones-verity3308
    @savannahjones-verity3308 8 лет назад +239

    What an amazing dad! Every single parent should be like that, no judgement or understanding and acceptance. My brother came out last year after talking to my mum and we love him all the same so great to see a parent so accepting💜

    • @MovinBandz
      @MovinBandz 8 лет назад

      +Crystal Norris God doesn't exist

    • @oliviakate8172
      @oliviakate8172 8 лет назад

      +Nyx “Eruption” Flare that is your opinon and you don't know he isnt real or anything like that.

    • @pokebattlefan5115
      @pokebattlefan5115 8 лет назад +10

      My dad used to make gay jokes when I was lime 12 years old. But when I reached 15, he told me: I know I made many gay jokes when you were younger, but trust me, those were nothing more than this, jokes. I know you are not gay, but if it turned out that you were, my love for you will NEVER change.

    • @allanahm7450
      @allanahm7450 8 лет назад

      +Retr' “Eruption” o you don't have to believe in God but amen mean that she agrees with what that person said

  • @user-jp5ok6qr6r
    @user-jp5ok6qr6r 5 лет назад +2907

    How the hell their face turn red and return to normal so freakin fast?? It took only 10 seconds lol

    • @anthony8406
      @anthony8406 5 лет назад +63

      I thought that too but the video looks to be cut from time to time.

    • @cyberdaemon
      @cyberdaemon 5 лет назад +5

      @Ethan Verre Did your face turn back to normal eventually?

    • @love0stay
      @love0stay 5 лет назад +9

      YunJeong Kim the power of men

    • @Jordan_Dossou
      @Jordan_Dossou 5 лет назад +24

      dats white people blood vessels lol

    • @urmumgay2314
      @urmumgay2314 5 лет назад +11

      YunJeong Kim some people are like that it’s so scary!! My friend can yawn and start tearing up and look like she had a melt down where as I can cry for 3 straight hours and be called out to dinner and look like normal XD

  • @adamthestraightdude_3559
    @adamthestraightdude_3559 5 лет назад +650

    Son: dad im gay.....
    Dad: me too!
    Son: wait wut-

  • @elysilium
    @elysilium 9 лет назад +414

    I don't understand why people hate on them; This is beautiful. You can show their dad doesn't care and loves both of them the same exact way. I'm Christian, But I believe God would accept humans to love anyone they want.

    • @marslullaby
      @marslullaby 9 лет назад

      Caedíte eos Okay, you're a sinner. What makes you better than them being sinners as well? Nothing. stealing from someone is a sin, you've lied before, what makes you better than them? Nothing. The thing is, that if we're all sinners, why can't we just live in peace? No one is greater, or less than anyone.

    • @fishlee637
      @fishlee637 9 лет назад +14

      I sincerely hope more Christians are like you. This comment section is filled with hate and ignorance. And they've become the face of this religion. I hope people like you can speak louder, otherwise they are going to represent all of you.

    • @platinumnight7540
      @platinumnight7540 9 лет назад +1

      Fish Lee I've known her for a while and we are both Christian and those haters need to step the fudge away because they don't know what they're talking about, I just don't know what's wrong with people thinking that everyone has to believe in the same exact thing or you're hated on....

    • @elysilium
      @elysilium 9 лет назад

      Caedíte eos
      If all Christians kept the word of the bible; No work on sunday's or clothes.
      How's that for your Sunday?

    • @elysilium
      @elysilium 9 лет назад

      Thank you Platinum Night Fish Lee
      *****

  • @cbwlandis
    @cbwlandis 8 лет назад +249

    I see a lot of comments about how "men shouldn't cry" and I believe that its absolutely absurd. Crying is a natural instinct and releases hormones into the body which give human beings the capability to feel emotions such as sadness, happiness, fear, and anger. Tears are composed of different lipids and proteins, hormones, and other more complex chemicals, that when released to the body cause a person to have better agility, a higher intellect, as well as providing them with the capability to analyze a situation much faster and more efficiently. Tears also leave the body with a natural high that is caused by the adrenaline that they trigger the brain to release. Crying is not a gender normative thing, in fact, in many animal cultures the female will choose a mate based upon the hormone levels and salt content that are released within a tear. A person is a man if they cry or they do not. So please stop making sexist comments and invalid arguments, have a nice day with the new knowledge I've granted you.

    • @aribh4929
      @aribh4929 8 лет назад +2

      Exactly!!

    • @cbwlandis
      @cbwlandis 8 лет назад

      +Arib Hassam thanks

    • @jeremykramer7612
      @jeremykramer7612 8 лет назад +3

      You're amazing

    • @cbwlandis
      @cbwlandis 8 лет назад +1

      Jay Kramer thank you, I'm really not though, but the compliment is still duly appreciated. ^-^

    • @cbwlandis
      @cbwlandis 8 лет назад +2

      Kenny De Exactly.

  • @nathanaelh5715
    @nathanaelh5715 9 лет назад +253

    That must be the best dad ever. So accepting.

    • @steffi3111
      @steffi3111 9 лет назад +6

      Your Profile picture Scares me.

    • @nathanaelh5715
      @nathanaelh5715 9 лет назад +4

      Steffi Ich Why its cute

    • @2468h-s9e
      @2468h-s9e 9 лет назад +5

      It just stares in his/her soul.

    • @steffi3111
      @steffi3111 9 лет назад +1

      Nathanael H Jeah it is funny. But Scary

    • @keelyreitman5416
      @keelyreitman5416 9 лет назад

      +Steffi Ich sprechen sie deutsch?

  • @vandermusical8024
    @vandermusical8024 5 лет назад +1283

    Me: mom i need to tell u something
    Mom: ok?
    Me: i like boys
    Mom: me to 😜

    • @violetta1523
      @violetta1523 5 лет назад +50

      Your mom is so nice!

    • @espanalove3777
      @espanalove3777 5 лет назад +30

      I wish I had mother like yours but unfortunately I live in a country where is not Ok to be different from the other boys

    • @zaskyak.m7387
      @zaskyak.m7387 4 года назад +8

      @@espanalove3777 same

    • @espanalove3777
      @espanalove3777 4 года назад +6

      @@zaskyak.m7387 U understand me? Ahh. Ok. Where are u from if it's not a problem to ask u

    • @zaskyak.m7387
      @zaskyak.m7387 4 года назад +6

      @@espanalove3777 indonesia uhh you?

  • @VVolframite
    @VVolframite 8 лет назад +543

    If I have a son/daughter and they were nervous about telling me they are gay, but are you blunt about.
    "Dad, I'm gay"
    "Hello gay, I'm dad."
    I'd say that just to lighten the mood.

  • @joana8615
    @joana8615 5 лет назад +1253

    My parents were just like: “so when are you coming out?”
    And i was like: “are you guys for real right now???😑 well there’s no point anymore😂

    • @vaggelistoubos3451
      @vaggelistoubos3451 5 лет назад +46

      OMGG!!😂😂😂😂 iconic

    • @ktd304
      @ktd304 4 года назад +25

      And then there's me who don't know if my mom and dad are homoohbes

    • @mexicaLA1
      @mexicaLA1 4 года назад +4

      Sicccckkk broo lmfao

    • @thatgirlreacts5465
      @thatgirlreacts5465 4 года назад +1

      Kt D if you’re don’t know then they aren’t.

    • @jaimelannister1797
      @jaimelannister1797 2 года назад +1

      @@ktd304 then there’s me who knows my dad is a homophobe cause he isn’t exactly quiet about it :(

  • @Ravenclaw123roman
    @Ravenclaw123roman 9 лет назад +2030

    You're not a true Christian if you hate gays. period, love thy neighbour takes priority over all

    • @Ravenclaw123roman
      @Ravenclaw123roman 9 лет назад +21

      ***** well i guess you will see when you end up in hell for discriminating people

    • @DavidTitus_
      @DavidTitus_ 9 лет назад +18

      You know that there are like a hundred other rules in the bible as well that I know you don't even know exist, let a lone act on them.

    • @avatarion
      @avatarion 9 лет назад +29

      Christianity is such a joke, none of you even follow the religion like it's supposed to. Everything is reinterpreted in a modern liberal way...

    • @penguingames4175
      @penguingames4175 9 лет назад +13

      You so right there hundreds of interpretation of part of the bible one is that gay is wrong but most are of acceptance and there ACTAULLY a piece of text in the bible that is interpreted as slavery is alright and another saying adulterers should face death sentence

    • @iyrth
      @iyrth 9 лет назад +1

      How the fuck you gonna say tht prioritises all. If they are wrong dont accept tht shit this is why some of you christains will burn.

  • @imthatextrakid8292
    @imthatextrakid8292 5 лет назад +479

    Me: Im gay
    Dad: *WHoS YouR BOyFRiEND”
    Edit: 1 year past haven’t came out to Mum, no boyfriend yet thanks 2020 :D

    • @ctrxg_
      @ctrxg_ 4 года назад +13

      why this make me laugh so hard?!!🤣😂😂😂🤣😂

    • @thecodfather7109
      @thecodfather7109 4 года назад +5

      😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂

    • @sembeenen3401
      @sembeenen3401 4 года назад +1

      so true
      XD

    • @Claud-xg9rb
      @Claud-xg9rb 4 года назад +1

      AhahahahahAhahahahah

    • @chandraschannel6166
      @chandraschannel6166 4 года назад +2

      That’d probably be my reaction if my child came out to me 😂

  • @toadytwo2498
    @toadytwo2498 5 лет назад +376

    Dad there's going to be some stuff COMING OUT on RUclips

  • @pheonixwooz9694
    @pheonixwooz9694 9 лет назад +295

    As a christian, I do not agree that people should like the same gender but, I do accept it. I have a few friends that are lesbian or gay but, I do not treat them any differently than my other friends. Looking at some of these comments make me sick to my stomach. I understand if you have different morals and perspectives but, that gives you no right to be rude like that. These boys have a lot of courage posting this video and I'm very proud of them. Please no hate on this comment. It's just my opinion.

    • @MLeunHardingBurke
      @MLeunHardingBurke 9 лет назад +10

      I'll never understand Christians; no hate intended. Just pure amazement I guess.

    • @daniela9257
      @daniela9257 9 лет назад +12

      I'm a Christian and I couldn't care less if someone way gay. They choose to live that way then good on them.

    • @MLeunHardingBurke
      @MLeunHardingBurke 9 лет назад +2

      ***** Hate, prejudice, intolerance - these are all learned behaviors. A child, playing on a playground, for example, doesn't know politics and will play with anyone. They don't care if another child has different colored skin, different colored hair, or even different parents. All they know is that they have someone to play with. It isn't until a child is told, normally by their parents, that they shouldn't play with certain others because they are 'different,' that a child will start to develop and learn to hate.

    • @kenx1487
      @kenx1487 9 лет назад +4

      Thank you for your comments. I agree with Pheonix wooz. I am Christian but I realize I have been Bisexual all my life. It has been a very very difficult life trying to understand my feelings. I have lied to myself for so many years that I don't even know who I am until lately. Now that I understand myself and have accepted myself I have to learn to deal with it. As a bisexual you are in constant confusion. All I can say is my sexual attractions are as normal for me as a heterosexual guy is for a women. I have fought my feelings as long as I could . It is not a choice for me. It is who I am. GOD made me this way, and HE does not make mistakes.

    • @MLeunHardingBurke
      @MLeunHardingBurke 9 лет назад +2

      Ken U How are you in agreement with Phoenix? I'm just curious, because, nothing in your statement, aside from both being Christian, supports what he/she stated.

  • @dylanroweismyhero
    @dylanroweismyhero 9 лет назад +95

    I told my father that I was a heroin addict and he abandoned me like he has done all of my life. I'm five months clean as of yesterday and he still won't come around. You all have a wonderful, supporting father that didn't run for the hills at the first sign of turmoil.
    I praise you for being yourselves in such a hateful world. Although society has become more acceptable to same sex couples, not everyone can open their eyes. Whether it be their religion or personal beliefs that block out that peace in their hearts, you took a chance and won.
    I'm not gay nor have I ever wanted to explore the lifestyle. I just liked drugs and my father couldn't accept that. Maybe one day he will come back but by then I will have moved on.
    Call your father and tell him you love him every chance you get because I don't get that opportunity.

  • @lilblacklamb222
    @lilblacklamb222 4 года назад +47

    My daughter is 13 and few months ago she asked "mom how would you feel if I liked girls?" When I said I didn't care ether way as long as she's happy and whoever's shes with is nice to her that's all that matters. She visibly relaxed...it makes sad that kids feel so much anxiety and fear just being who they are ❤

  • @aracelyguerrero360
    @aracelyguerrero360 9 лет назад +266

    I have 2 sons and if one of them ever came out to me I would hug them and say I love you and I support you 100%. You are my son and that will never change. I love you unconditionally. I believe in God and I believe he loves everyone! Hate does not exist in him. And neither should it in all you so-called christians. Just know that when your time comes God will judge you just like you are doing to these boys. God bless you all and have a nice day.

    • @KyleSfhandyman
      @KyleSfhandyman 9 лет назад +14

      You are a sweetheart. Your boys are lucky to have you as their Mom.

    • @aracelyguerrero360
      @aracelyguerrero360 9 лет назад +7

      Awww thank you so much. Your comment made me smile.

    • @MushirMickeyJoe
      @MushirMickeyJoe 9 лет назад +5

      ***** Says Lord Voldemort.

    • @ashleight1420
      @ashleight1420 9 лет назад +6

      If God really hated gays that much, why would he put them on the planet?

    • @GainingUnderstanding
      @GainingUnderstanding 9 лет назад +1

      ***** Got proof?

  • @azul1073
    @azul1073 5 лет назад +3164

    *how I came out to my mom:*
    Me: spouts random facts and definitions of different sexualities
    Mom: are you tryna tell me something?
    Me: repeats definition of bisexuality over and over
    Mom: got it

    • @samanthahaggard7596
      @samanthahaggard7596 5 лет назад +70

      zuzucat, good for you. I hope she was accepting of you and accepted who you are. That’s all I wish for

    • @carrotcake3664
      @carrotcake3664 5 лет назад +43

      My mum wasn't accepting of my sexuality 😭😭

    • @rielletambaoan_
      @rielletambaoan_ 5 лет назад +52

      @@carrotcake3664 aww sorry hon..my dad doesn't even know my sexuality. He knows I'm hetero but I'm not. I made Genderqueer, Bisexual, and Pan flags along with a Pride flag. I hope he gets the message but if not Imma go drink bleach

    • @carrotcake3664
      @carrotcake3664 5 лет назад +7

      @@rielletambaoan_ 💞💞

    • @rielletambaoan_
      @rielletambaoan_ 5 лет назад +10

      @@carrotcake3664 I'm sure she'll find a way to accept you. If not, come back to this comment and I'll be waiting. Ur not alone in this. 💞💞

  • @maxcody5040
    @maxcody5040 9 лет назад +334

    I am a christian, and I believe God made us the way we are, gay, straight.. either way we've got a purpose on this earth love is love

    • @abbynair1621
      @abbynair1621 9 лет назад

      :)

    • @gc5677
      @gc5677 9 лет назад

      Thanks u so much🙂😊

    • @gc5677
      @gc5677 9 лет назад

      +Meggy L. Exactly!

    • @Yesica1993
      @Yesica1993 9 лет назад +5

      +Max Cody
      You can believe whatever you want. That does not make it true. If you were a follower of Christ then you would know that God does not create anyone to be a homosexual any more than He would create anyone to be a liar, a person who steals, an adulterer, a murderer, a rapist or any other sin. If you were a follower of Christ then you would also know what God's Word says about this sin.
      Please do not confuse people here. Thank you.

    • @Yesica1993
      @Yesica1993 9 лет назад +1

      Abhinaya Nair
      "I am gay and God still hears my prayers and that's all i need."
      What God are you speaking of? The God in the Bible has clear words to say about your lifestyle. The God of the Bible calls it a sin. The prayer He wants to hear from you is one of repentance and turning to Him for salvation.
      " As a human you can hate homosexuals"
      Who is talking about hating homosexuals?
      " or any other Gender"
      LOL! Homosexuals are a gender? And why do you capitalize it?"
      " but for God all are one."
      Again, what god are you referring to? What does that even mean, "all are one"?
      " I am not trying to prove anybody wrong here."
      Of course you are. You have a point of view, and you think it's right. Otherwise, you would not be wasting time typing these words.
      " I am a believer and I'll always remain one."
      Believer in what? The God of the Bible commands you to turn to Him for salvation. He can forgive any sin.The choice is yours.
      But do not deceive yourself or let yourself be deceived by others who tell you the God of the Bible accepts this sin. He does not. The Bible is clear on that.

  • @pagehenson361
    @pagehenson361 4 года назад +67

    When the dad said " You are normal, what do you mean?" I lost it. I wish I had the courage that these boys have.

    • @meowpoosaymeow
      @meowpoosaymeow 3 года назад +1

      Same

    • @herbertnedkailipuahilof.4732
      @herbertnedkailipuahilof.4732 Год назад

      My conservative (L.D.S) Mormon dad told me I was an abomination and mom called me a slut for thinking men were attractive.
      13 years later, they accept me 🌈

  • @wlther
    @wlther 6 лет назад +1328

    Ok I’m crying so hard right now. I’m 3 years late but it doesn’t matter. I’m so so so proud of you both. You are amazing ❤️🏳️‍🌈

    • @cleoq3707
      @cleoq3707 6 лет назад +8

      vidsbyjl Me too but I'm so glad I saw this

    • @trustmeyoumatter.558
      @trustmeyoumatter.558 6 лет назад +2

      vidsbyjl. Same

    • @rodgrymes2444
      @rodgrymes2444 6 лет назад +2

      Gayyyyyyy

    • @lux629
      @lux629 6 лет назад +4

      Rod Grymes duuuhhhh

    • @demi5982
      @demi5982 6 лет назад +3

      Me too! Just watched today I'm sitting here crying like it was ME having to do that! Then immediately I felt happy after they told him! I can't imagine how HARD it is to come out.

  • @hanna-qk7bm
    @hanna-qk7bm 5 лет назад +529

    Their jawline can literally cut any hater😂♥️

    • @chaotic_fever_drem6494
      @chaotic_fever_drem6494 4 года назад +22

      I like how you said jawline like a singular noun

    • @datt7398
      @datt7398 3 года назад +4

      @@chaotic_fever_drem6494 XD

  • @tumbulgumlass
    @tumbulgumlass 9 лет назад +152

    Boys I am a mum of a 20 year old son. I came to realisation a long long time ago that it wouldnt make a scrap of difference to me one way or the other if my son came home to me one day and told me he was gay. I will always love him no matter what.
    What you did here was very brave and but above all else you are being honest to yourselves and to the people who matter the most to you...your family.
    'Whatever anyone else in the wider world says or thinks dosnt mean a single thing...Go out there live your lives and be good , productive and happy human beings..God Bless you both

    • @MLeunHardingBurke
      @MLeunHardingBurke 9 лет назад +1

      Beautiful.

    • @RunThru
      @RunThru 9 лет назад

      M Leun Harding-Burke You're commenting everywhere like this video is your life or something. Can you not?

    • @RunThru
      @RunThru 9 лет назад

      M Leun Harding-Burke Like seriously over the span of two days you've left what must be like a hundred comments. I don't even think that's an exaggeration either. You may be homosexual, and adore these people, but if I were you I would have realised how much time I've wasted by now. Also, I'm not bashing on you at all for being gay, nor these two. I'm a bisexual myself.

    • @MLeunHardingBurke
      @MLeunHardingBurke 9 лет назад

      HyperGuineaPig You're right; I am gay.

    • @howiyehbieber2331
      @howiyehbieber2331 9 лет назад

      One question, if your 20 year old son was a pedo and had sex with little boys and girls. Would you still love him??????

  • @elyciaandee7312
    @elyciaandee7312 4 года назад +413

    My come out:
    Me: mom my hair is just like me
    Mom: wdym?
    Me: it's not straight

    • @simemble9342
      @simemble9342 4 года назад +12

      So creative!!!

    • @sirenlee5611
      @sirenlee5611 4 года назад +32

      Me: mom, I need to talk to you
      Mom: that doesn't sound good
      Me: I'm bisexual
      Mom: cool, me too
      (True story)

    • @mariamcginley9490
      @mariamcginley9490 4 года назад +2

      Haha

    • @datt7398
      @datt7398 3 года назад +4

      @@sirenlee5611 yes I stan LGBTQ+ parents

    • @ren9897
      @ren9897 3 года назад +1

      My coming out story
      Me:I like girls (nervous af and shaking)
      Mom: that's ok but you don't have to claim anything right now your only twelve.
      Me: (kinda disappointed and upset because I expected a hug or something and I got a "you to young to know")

  • @steelepike9400
    @steelepike9400 9 лет назад +154

    Im so Ashamed of the pathetic humans commenting such horrible nasty comments! good on you two boys, very brave and courageous!!!!

    • @cjax3452
      @cjax3452 9 лет назад +1

      Plot twist: "And we're in love." -I think their father would've died lol. But no, it's good to know people are more accepting of the times.

    • @GreenGiant-vt7tv
      @GreenGiant-vt7tv 9 лет назад

      ^^ omg LOL that's twincest XD

    • @generico366
      @generico366 9 лет назад

      Finally, someone sensible in the comment section!

  • @daveywavey
    @daveywavey 9 лет назад +5837

    This is so beautiful and emotional and perfect. And I'm so proud of you both.

    • @RyanGerdes
      @RyanGerdes 9 лет назад +18

      Hey Davey!

    • @mamafuncool
      @mamafuncool 9 лет назад +17

      Couldn't of said it any better!

    • @vojti8
      @vojti8 9 лет назад +9

      aaaw, I was almost crying too... this is wonderful :')

    • @leedaniels617
      @leedaniels617 9 лет назад +4

      I am proud of them as well :)

    • @mickxymic9514
      @mickxymic9514 9 лет назад +5

      Well said Davey, their Dad was good about it and I am proud of him as well as Aaron and Austin.

  • @halfemoshit
    @halfemoshit 8 лет назад +335

    "you are normal, what do you mean?" i'm fucking crying. i still can't come out to my parents, but i know i would never ever get such a nice response they would start shouting at me n i'll die

    • @S1INS
      @S1INS 8 лет назад

      Same....

    • @clover7530
      @clover7530 8 лет назад +6

      I just wanna say it doesn't matter your perfect in the eyes of God no matter what people say OK? your perfect

    • @taylorscott2625
      @taylorscott2625 8 лет назад

      honestly same.

    • @SouLoveReal
      @SouLoveReal 8 лет назад

      +Maria Vanessa Chang They KNOW... Trust me!

    • @sanahkayoumi5762
      @sanahkayoumi5762 8 лет назад +1

      I think they can find out through here

  • @piarluc8093
    @piarluc8093 4 года назад +98

    The "you are normal, what do you mean? " made me loose it. Im straight and cant help myslelf but to cry when i come across a video like this!! I cried my heart out. What an amazing father! You guys are lucky and blessed! Keep youtubing people love it! I am a very feminine straight guy and was always made fun of. In a way I whish I was gay so I could do talks and speeches in schools and community centers about it!

    • @dylangrayson9190
      @dylangrayson9190 3 года назад +2

      Dude, same. I’m so glad there are people out there like you that understand how important just those small words were… my dad told me, “I will go to my grave regretting every decision I made with you…” he could’ve just said that, but… I forgave him even if he never asks. But thank you for giving me hope that you and other dudes out there will reassure your kids that above all else, you love them and they are normal. Lol. Sorry, I know you didn’t ask and I know I’m late late, but… thanks. Got in my damn feels lol.

    • @dylangrayson9190
      @dylangrayson9190 3 года назад +4

      Also, you don’t have to be gay to do those talks and speeches. There are other feminine straight guys that probably NEED to hear your story. Just center it around Anti-Bullying or something like that.

    • @piarluc8093
      @piarluc8093 3 года назад +1

      @@dylangrayson9190 I am so glad you forgave him! There are probably generations separating you and your father... We cannot understand the environment in which he was raised probably as much as he his having problems understanding today's society.... I realized this back in 2014-2015. I was working on a project in East Africa and got to see multiples communities where they don't know anything but to surrender and cannot even comprehend how important they ideas and presence is important. Every living thing on earth as a purpose and I believe that if a gay, trans, hetero, flower or any other living thing was put here is for a reason and they deserve as much as others. Keep up! I'm glad someone was helped by my comment!

    • @shawnkelley3695
      @shawnkelley3695 Год назад

      @@dylangrayson9190 TED talks 👊👏⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐❤️

  • @alannahbanana
    @alannahbanana 8 лет назад +343

    I told my dad I was gay recently. All he had to say was "I know, what do you want for dinner?"😂
    I was so scared & so stressed out about telling him. I thought about what I would say for months, years even. Little did I know he knew the entire time, he told me he had a feeling I was gay since I was kid. He said never wanted to ask 'cause it might of came off as being rude. Thankfully I have a loving & supportive father. It's sad not everyone does💔
    Just know that even if your family doesn't support you, their are people out there that will💜

    • @amandabetts9032
      @amandabetts9032 8 лет назад +5

      I love this. This made my heart feel full.

    • @clarar362
      @clarar362 8 лет назад +17

      IM DED YOUR DAD IS AMAZING

    • @naomi-oh3zl
      @naomi-oh3zl 7 лет назад +4

      I Brought The Horizon aww!! I'm not personally gay, but that's really inspiring! The fact that he really didn't care, and that really, nothing is to be worried about, more people should know this tiny short story 🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂

    • @sarahblair3925
      @sarahblair3925 7 лет назад +1

      This made feel better✨❣️

  • @NLBrooke
    @NLBrooke 9 лет назад +80

    my kid shouldnt even have to come out. I just want him/her to come up to me and tell me 'i'm in a relationship' and i'll just say 'is it a boy or a girl?' and either way I'LL BE EXCITED TO MEET HER/HIS LOVER BYE

    • @jakobaltensten
      @jakobaltensten 9 лет назад +6

      YES! we need more people like you! the day i get a kid i will never ask if he likes any girl or she likes any boy etc. only ask if there's any person in school you think is attractiv? then it wouldn't be that hard to come out, if you teach them from their birth its equally normal :)

  • @ShawnPhelpsVlog
    @ShawnPhelpsVlog 9 лет назад +336

    Just gonna put this out here: Christ said *"He who is without sin may cast the first stone."* In Matthew, it says "Worship no false idols, *and love thy neighbor as thyself - **_there are no commandments greater than these."_* The entire Bible attempts to tell people to love the sinner, and forgive them, and to _NOT_ Judge them, *because judgement is God's Job, and GOD'S ALONE.* It is blasphemy to believe you have the right to judge a person in God's place. You don't have to like it, and you don't have to want to live like them, but believe me, God is just as disappointed in your hatred as you think He is in homosexual's love. *He made that very clear with every bit of wisdom He gave us - love, love, love. Not hate. Not judge. Help. Be compassionate. Be forgiving. **_That_** is the message of the Bible.* And every one of you who are hating your neighbors, and wishing them harm, are the true sinners, not by my opinion, but by the words of the Bible.

    • @GrimGrevin
      @GrimGrevin 9 лет назад +25

      The wisest and most informed comment posted, bravo sir!

    • @ShawnPhelpsVlog
      @ShawnPhelpsVlog 9 лет назад +2

      Vera Boadu How exactly did I read Matthew completely wrong? And how exactly do we disagree? My point is that sin or not, a person's homosexuality is not an excuse for a true Christian to hate or wish them harm, which, you seem to agree with. Hatred is about as un-Christian as you can get. I'm not debating whether homosexuality is or isn't a sin, I'm saying that God's message of loving your neighbor, of not trespassing on them yet forgiving those who trespass on us, supersedes the idea of homosexuality being sinful. He doesn't ask us to love and forgive the people who are _easy_ to love and forgive, He asks us to love and forgive _everyone._ Unconditionally.
      Christ forgave his murderers. Yet, many Christians can't even forgive two people who they don't even know for being in love with each other. How Christian does that really sound?
      My ultimate point is that whether I'm a good person or a sinful person is between me and God, as your judgement is between you and God. We have no right to judge _eachother._

    • @kaz658
      @kaz658 9 лет назад +4

      Bible is bullshit, and if you've actually read it you'd know how ignorant your comment sounds, though I doubt you have.

    • @yaahhaa7589
      @yaahhaa7589 9 лет назад

      What does the Bible says about Sodom and Gomorrah? and yes we have the right to judge each other if we're doing wrong things being gay is a wrong thing any nation that allows their men to go after each other will soon perish.

    • @kaz658
      @kaz658 9 лет назад +1

      yaah haa being gay isn't "wrong" you ignorant fuck, non-existent God or dictatorly state; it's natural, safe and *absolutely fine*.

  • @pipematienzo
    @pipematienzo 4 года назад +26

    i told my mom and she got so exited! she started saying “omg i knew it! i knew it! you’re gonna be so happy now! and thats the only thing that matters, im proud of you and i love you”

    • @lesliedunn1978
      @lesliedunn1978 3 года назад +3

      “You’re gonna be so happy now!”
      Best mom ever!

  • @greatbritishmale
    @greatbritishmale 9 лет назад +232

    Why do people care about sexuality, we need to move past this, I didn't come out as straight, why do people have to come out as gay. And besides, I think most people would've known these two boys were gay, it's pretty obvious.

    • @MLeunHardingBurke
      @MLeunHardingBurke 9 лет назад +2

      What would you suggest?

    • @chapachuu
      @chapachuu 9 лет назад +17

      The voice of a privileged person.

    • @DFell3
      @DFell3 9 лет назад +22

      Read the comment section. It's pretty obvious some people aren't ready to "move past this". Videos like this might prevent a suicide, or at the very least help kids that come from homophobic surroundings feel more comfortable with their feelings.

    • @MLeunHardingBurke
      @MLeunHardingBurke 9 лет назад +1

      Dave Fellmeth Absolutely. Very well said.

    • @poiuytrewq8ff
      @poiuytrewq8ff 9 лет назад

      I think while people are hell bent on correcting this "sin" just to try to make their own world better, it won't go away until either - we are all christian or christians start taking a page out of their own book in regards to tolerance and being non-judgmental. Christians represent the bulk of the protesting anti-gay community.

  • @Unknown-dr4bk
    @Unknown-dr4bk 8 лет назад +1166

    Watching this video of guys crying because they're telling their dad who they really are made me think about society. Why are they crying as if they made a mistake or something?

    • @rdioboy
      @rdioboy 8 лет назад +33

      +Thomas Cardoso de Oliveira because society sucks

    • @GrandMasterKai
      @GrandMasterKai 8 лет назад +5

      +Thomas Cardoso de Oliveira wrong its sad and pathetic these little boys didnt have any courage or shown any mature signs of being a man to have told their father to his face rather than do it over the phone...Cowards then to do it over a youtube video shows even more what cowards they are

    • @chloeholmes8871
      @chloeholmes8871 8 лет назад

      Cause societies a bitch

    • @natcatinthehat
      @natcatinthehat 8 лет назад +40

      +Daniel Horlock Is crying being unmanly? I think you've got your facts wrong. Crying is being human. They were scared and it's understandable. Honestly I think that a guy who can cry is better, it shows they are human. As for telling their dad over the phone? Well if you were listening they said at the beginning that their father was far away so they couldn't do it in person or they would have. And does doing it over a youtube video not make sense? It is a great and more intimate way plus they are RUclipsrs after all. I find this video remarkable.

    • @natcatinthehat
      @natcatinthehat 8 лет назад +4

      I know. I am actually doing an big project for school about Homosexuality in the past. Because before the Church rose to power (not hating on Christianity here this is just fact) it was mainly acceptable. In ancient civilizations such as Greece and Rome it was very common. What happened to that?

  • @jessied.6741
    @jessied.6741 5 лет назад +338

    5:44 I love him for saying that, a lot of parents can't seem to understand that and the fact that by being gay, their kids are not sick in ANY way, mentally or physically. They are being human in the most realest way

    • @kc782
      @kc782 5 лет назад +6

      My parents said very similar things when I came out to them as Bi. It's so sad that not everyone has so understanding and accapting parents

    • @karinsherman6670
      @karinsherman6670 4 года назад +2

      I agree i hate how most people think their kids are sick because their gay

    • @shirakilner2910
      @shirakilner2910 4 года назад +3

      ​@@kc782 almost the same, I told my parents I had a girlfriend and my dad said "we love you, no matter what you are" but my mom said "don't label yourself at such a young age" I think if my mom was more accepting I would be much happier... but at least my dad accepts me and I've not yet been taken to a therapist because of the fact I'm a lesbian...

    • @xinyiyis
      @xinyiyis 2 года назад

      @@shirakilner2910 what age when u came out? (I know this was 2 years ago, sorry ahahah)

    • @shirakilner2910
      @shirakilner2910 2 года назад

      @@xinyiyis 14 LOL

  • @brookehutchinson1763
    @brookehutchinson1763 5 лет назад +358

    Me coming out to my mum
    Me: mum I have something to say *starts shaking*
    *awkward silence*
    Me: I’m B-bi
    Mum: I know
    Both: *start crying*
    She wasn’t the first person I came out to but she was definitely the scariest I’m so happy I did it

    • @adamrodriguez7553
      @adamrodriguez7553 4 года назад +8

      I came out to my mom as Gay just recently. Coming out is one of the hardest and most relieving things a Queer person has to do😩

    • @savannah9993
      @savannah9993 4 года назад +8

      I can't come out to my mom cause she is homophobic and every time she asks me to talk to her I get so friggen scared

    • @yuqing530521
      @yuqing530521 4 года назад +7

      My sister's bisexual. She came out to close friends and me. But not to our parents...We're pretty sure they said that being gay/bisexual etc is not right. So she's pretty scared...

    • @ren9897
      @ren9897 3 года назад +4

      My coming out story
      Me: I like girls (nervous af and shaking)
      Mom: that's ok but you dont have to claim anything right now you're only twelve.
      Me:kinda disappointed and upset because I expected a hug or something and I got a "your to young to know"

  • @thefallinglord89
    @thefallinglord89 9 лет назад +407

    Why are you crying because you are going to tell your dad that you are gay? I'm not gay I'm straight but there is nothing wrong with being gay. Gays have done nothing wrong to anyone and deserve to be free and have the freedom to be like straight people. Being offensive to gays is like racism or sexist. He still loves you two. He will probably still love you the same way if you were straight.

    • @demodoggo988
      @demodoggo988 9 лет назад +63

      If you're not gay you can't say how it feels...
      I was crying when I told it my mum... its normal because you don't know how people react! It was much easier as I told it my class but however it's really hard to tell it somebody because you are feared about what they will say... that's the reason! Nothing more!

    • @kattlinyakno
      @kattlinyakno 9 лет назад +4

      TheFalling Lord when people come out to people close to them it can be an extremely emotional event. A lot of times it can just be out of fear of not gaining acceptance from them, but it can be a mix of things. One friend even cried coming out to me, and I'm sure she knew I'd love her all the same, but it was just a very emotional experience.

    • @daanroelofs119
      @daanroelofs119 9 лет назад +1

      hbk showstopper tshh as if heaven is fun.... you can't even burp after you're done with eating..... and besides, like 99.99% of my family is waiting for me in hell :P

    • @demodoggo988
      @demodoggo988 9 лет назад +1

      hbk showstopper
      Alright! Give me some reasons and I could tell you what's wrong about your opinion! ;)

    • @demodoggo988
      @demodoggo988 9 лет назад +2

      hbk showstopper but if god make everything why he makes us how we are (and animals too) ^^
      And don't watch my Profil photo it's nothing with that

  • @hearne7911liamhearne
    @hearne7911liamhearne 9 лет назад +286

    I was like "Hey mom, I'm gay" and she just said "cool" ...
    that was it...

    • @51dates34
      @51dates34 9 лет назад +1

      ahahaha the best!

    • @haileybekins5793
      @haileybekins5793 9 лет назад +4

      hahahaha your mum is the best

    • @leedaniels617
      @leedaniels617 9 лет назад +4

      You have a great mom :))

    • @Akunji
      @Akunji 9 лет назад +8

      Mine told me I wasn't and told me to buy a bird and dog, talk to them and I'll become straight again. I will never stop making fun of that.

    • @daniv894
      @daniv894 9 лет назад

      Sam Lambert was she serious?

  • @ChaseSanity
    @ChaseSanity 9 лет назад +171

    The funny thing is, if all you people are against gays, then why the hell are you even here in this comment section? I find it very odd that a homophobic person would look up "twins come out to dad" or click on a video titled "Twins come out to dad" I would expect that you homophobes would want NOTHING to do with the subject, yet here you are. Stop putting people down for who they are. that's the most pathetic thing ever. And to all the religious folk AGAINST this video, The bible was written by man. look at yourself. You're taking commands from a book that was written centuries ago. I Believe in God alright, but My god loves everyone, no matter if they are straight, gay, bisexual, lesbian, etc.

    • @staceys3766
      @staceys3766 9 лет назад +1

      Thank u, someone finally said something worth reading

    • @arvoherod6210
      @arvoherod6210 9 лет назад +1

      To speak their opinion

    • @TheGuitarpro3
      @TheGuitarpro3 9 лет назад +1

      God does love everyone, i agree with you there, but God hates the sins we commit, just like if we break the law, we pay the consequences .. same goes with God.

    • @lifeofapk1545
      @lifeofapk1545 9 лет назад

      ^^

    • @paulb3966
      @paulb3966 9 лет назад

      i agree with you that we shouldnt hate gays...God doesn't want us to judge others because he didnt judge us for all of the sins we committed against him...also the bible was was written by men who were faithful to God so they were tolerant of women...and God is against the act of being gay he loves everyone but hates the sin

  • @thomasmerkert8944
    @thomasmerkert8944 4 года назад +42

    I remember that the first person that I came out to was my brother's girlfriend. She helped me a lot in this situation and helped me telling my family. Thank God they were all accepting this even if I was frightened what my father and my grandparents would say. After all they were very supportive and loved me as the person that I am. Best of luck to you guys and thanks for sharing this moment.

  • @MegaXxxJULIExxx
    @MegaXxxJULIExxx 9 лет назад +242

    You know what? I am a Christian. And no I am not going to bash my religion anywhere because I know that this world is filled with different people. I hate seeing how most people are just being so hateful! What happened to respect other the way you want to be treated? They're human being for gods sake! Just because you don't like it doesn't mean you are right! I am a Christian, I believe in god but I am different because I ACCEPT PEOPLE! Because the way I look at it, we are all accepted. No matter what color our skin is, or where we were born, or our sexual orientation. Because if I was les, I know I would wanted to be treated fairly! They're not doing anything wrong! SO why bash your hateful comments! If they're not doing anything to hurt you, then don't worry about! Seriously, realize that there are people who are different. No one is the same. That's what makes this world beautiful... It's beautiful because we share our differences. We learn. So just stop it! And quit with your "you're going to hell crap". It's annoying. And please stop acting like you're all gods. Because you're fucking not.
    Don't ever be afraid to be who you want to be because society won't accept you. Who cares if they don't accept you. They have no control over your life. You do. Don't give them the power to break you down. Be a fighter. Be you
    And here's one thing... IF you're ever going to be a parent... realize that things like this can happen. Don't just have a kid and then decide you hate them because you don't like who they turned out to be. Be wise.
    Love your children no matter what. They're your kids. Love them, okay? Because take a look. We do many sins, but there are still people who still continue to love us. Look beyond the imperfections... and look into how good of a person they are. Everyone is diff. Accept that.

    • @mollyweasley3224
      @mollyweasley3224 9 лет назад +13

      Now YOU are a true Christian.

    • @gracej.7948
      @gracej.7948 9 лет назад +4

      Thank you so much for this. We need more of you in the world.

    • @MSorge13
      @MSorge13 9 лет назад +2

      I completely agree with all of you! Beautifully said, guys! :)

    • @mcp866
      @mcp866 9 лет назад +3

      I'm Catholic, so I can't be certain of what your denomination believes, but if anything, you're speaking words I would think God would speak. From my perspective, God created all people, and he loves all people despite what they do. God created homosexuals. For what reason should he hate them? It's not like God hated Adam/the man represented by Adam. I'm not sure what you mean by bashing your religion, but your religion doesn't sound very kind (or in my eyes, right) if it hates homosexuality...

    • @mollyweasley3224
      @mollyweasley3224 9 лет назад

      Catholics are the epitome of hate toward homosexuals. I'm not saying you specifically, but Catholicism in general is just as hateful as born again Christians.

  • @leticiacarvalho358
    @leticiacarvalho358 5 лет назад +1848

    3 year later and I still crying my eyes out. This video its just incredible 🏳️‍🌈

    • @Sophia-lq6zj
      @Sophia-lq6zj 4 года назад +6

      Эльшан Магеррамов wtf does that mean?!

    • @behebop5869
      @behebop5869 4 года назад +3

      Эльшан Магеррамов stfu

    • @giovannifiorentini8295
      @giovannifiorentini8295 4 года назад +4

      It’s sad.

    • @tyrarenling4559
      @tyrarenling4559 4 года назад +3

      @@user-sh5vm2im9g literally just stop it. rn.

    • @jamie-hx1eq
      @jamie-hx1eq 4 года назад +8

      5 years later now. Its still inspiring🏳️‍🌈

  • @queenlauren1222
    @queenlauren1222 9 лет назад +410

    How It should've went:
    Austin: dad, I'm gay.
    Dad: it's okay son
    Aaron: dad I'm gay too
    Dad: Does anyone of my children like girls?
    Sister: I do.
    Dad: ...

  • @reshadhoque2804
    @reshadhoque2804 4 года назад +45

    I remember watching this video for the first time when it came out 5 years ago and I was 17 and I thought "wow, these guys are so brave and incredible in that they're able to do this and then go and post it on a platform like youtube, I could never." Here I am now, 5 years later at 22 finally starting that journey of coming out to friends and family and it's just surreal to me. I had to come back and rewatch this and leave this comment bc this video was such a catalyst of strength in my journey which probably started even more than 5 years ago, but now the exciting chapters are just beginning. Thanks, y'all.

    • @kingkylie9655
      @kingkylie9655 3 года назад +4

      Dude we’re the same age and I’m having the same experience it’s crazy

  • @princessri
    @princessri 9 лет назад +345

    We need more people like your dad in this world.

  • @69ortizz
    @69ortizz 6 лет назад +797

    I'M STRAIGHT BUT I SUPPORT IT. IT'S NOTHING BAD JUST LIVE YOUR LIFE GUYS ♥️💛💚💙💜

    • @rowdypiper6978
      @rowdypiper6978 6 лет назад

      ACE FAN Don't forget to sing your virtue..

  • @marisssaaaa3164
    @marisssaaaa3164 8 лет назад +166

    At the beginning of the video I was wondering if they were coming out as gay or coming out as gorgeous

  • @Wobblyrage
    @Wobblyrage 4 года назад +26

    Yesterday I came out as bi to my stepbrother. My parents and stepmom have passed away and never knew. My stepbrother told me: “you’ll always be my little brother! I love you” ❤️ THAT MEANT SOOOO MUCH TO ME!!!

    • @OwenAllen-z9b
      @OwenAllen-z9b 29 дней назад

      It is not what one person feels; or even 8 billion people feel, but how the Lord; the great I AM, feels about going against His creation. God created male and female. Period.

    • @cheese_cake_factory
      @cheese_cake_factory 28 дней назад +1

      @@OwenAllen-z9bwhat the fuck are you saying bro

    • @OwenAllen-z9b
      @OwenAllen-z9b 28 дней назад

      @@cheese_cake_factory You KNOW exactly what I am saying. To repeat: It does not matter what man feels---or if all of 8 billion humans wanted it one way---God is not a democracy. He created us male and female. That's that. Like it or not.....

  • @ditkind1340
    @ditkind1340 5 лет назад +530

    3:35 “I’m gay... And Aston is too....” SO GO DEAL WITH IT DAD!

  • @MrHidden29
    @MrHidden29 9 лет назад +117

    Two days ago i came out as trans to my parents by letter.
    I was so scared that i left home in the rain.
    But my dad came and picked me up and told me he loved me and even called me his son.
    Its true we live in such a different generation than our parents. And im so glad that being lgbt is becoming more acceptable.
    My parents said they just want me to be happy, i was so dumbstruck how accepting they were, i honestly thought id be disowned .
    So if youre reading this and are in the closet still, stay strong and know that one day youll be out, because
    I never thought id be, but here i am.
    Im still in shock.

    • @KnightRaymund
      @KnightRaymund 9 лет назад +2

      that's amazing! So glad your parents were so great about it.

    • @marcosmateoochoa
      @marcosmateoochoa 9 лет назад +4

      thats awesome! i love reading good news like this!

    • @KnightRaymund
      @KnightRaymund 9 лет назад

      ***** ? transgender.

    • @ThealltimeX
      @ThealltimeX 9 лет назад +1

      Wouldn't your parents know if you were trans? They were there when u were born.

    • @SamWatkins
      @SamWatkins 9 лет назад

      I'm so happy for you, buddy. This is a big step for you - one of many for sure. Just remember that, in the end, it's the 'journey' and how we handle it that makes us men.
      (although the occasional stop to a fun disco is always a nice break along the the trek to butch-ville for all of us.... so don't forget to dance!)

  • @samb6058
    @samb6058 8 лет назад +210

    There is some kind of ocean coming out of my eyes right now

    • @kaitlynlane9143
      @kaitlynlane9143 8 лет назад +5

      ...and it seems to be flooding the earth.

    • @lemondonut7419
      @lemondonut7419 8 лет назад

      same

    • @kylierae3156
      @kylierae3156 8 лет назад

      same

    • @nadiner8301
      @nadiner8301 8 лет назад +1

      +Sam B lol same!!! I was like awww don't cry guys. I was sooo happy when their dad just accepted them. It was so adorbs

    • @sophiehill6835
      @sophiehill6835 8 лет назад +1

      I'm not crying. My eyes are just sweating

  • @inkiadk
    @inkiadk 5 лет назад +173

    I came out to my straight best friend and it was really surprising. He is a very manly guy he works out and loves sports so he is the stereotypical straight guy
    Everyone excluding my parents and aunts and uncles knew at this point and I was going to go to a movie with him and my 2 other friends. I told my best friend that I needed to talk to him and he said sure. It was an awkward place but I told him and his response was
    ‘’Bro I had a feeling but I didn’t feel the need to confront you so I waited until you told me yourself.''
    I was scared that he was going to disown me as his best friend but the next thing he did was hug me for a whole minute and a half telling me that nothing could ever change his perspective of me and I would always be his best friend.
    I was crying throughout the movie and it was tears of joy. I freakin love my best friend!

    • @l.v.5795
      @l.v.5795 4 года назад +7

    • @Silverlightbird
      @Silverlightbird 4 года назад +15

      keep him!!!
      Friends like that are most precious!!

    • @jeremylangmore3768
      @jeremylangmore3768 3 года назад

      That’s awesome

    • @HauntinMatthew1969
      @HauntinMatthew1969 Год назад +1

      Aww you and your best friend sound so cool! I’m gay too, and damn I’m jealous but happy for you got that hug😂😂
      Edit: getting*

  • @greggcrawford1303
    @greggcrawford1303 9 лет назад +70

    I am a gay identical twin who has a gay identical twin. We joined the Air Force together and after a couple years, we were discharged with about 40 other guys and girls for "homosexual activity" which the military described as going to a gay bar and associating with other "known" gay people. We were then forced to come out to our parents. Your phone call to your Dad is very similar to our phone call to our parents. They took it hard, but after a couple months we all actually grew a lot closer. My Father died a few years later and I learned more about him in those last few years than I had my whole life. He accepted our boyfriends like they were his kids as well. It was very emotional in the beginning and the time it took our parents to come to terms with it was rough. For my Father, my brother and I were the last men in our family to carry on the family name. By being gay and not having children, our family line ends with us. That seemed to be what upset my Father the most. I applaud you guys for doing this online and sharing with others. RUclips wasn't around when we came out but watching your video now brings me right back to that day and I was crying with you. It is hard hearing your parents tell gay jokes and say demeaning things toward gays and then have to turn around and tell them you are what they have spewed jokes and prejudice over for so many years. They are more worried about what the neighbors will think or how they could hide it from their friends and other family members. That all worked itself out with time and I believe both of our parents died being proud of who we were as people and not about our sexuality.

    • @rohanwilliams2525
      @rohanwilliams2525 9 лет назад +3

      There is no reason why you can't have children. If you want kids that you get them! I know that sounds harsh but there are plenty of ways for two dads or two mums to have their own children, your family name doesn't end with you. Don't worry :)

    • @greggcrawford1303
      @greggcrawford1303 9 лет назад +3

      Rohan Williams That is absolutely true. The fact is that I am now 50 and my twin brother committed suicide in 2007. Although being gay doesn't mean you can't have kids or that a family name can't be carried forwarded, it just wasn't meant to be with us. I'm sure it will work and be a great joy for many others.

    • @shannanigansisme
      @shannanigansisme 9 лет назад +2

      Gregg Crawford I'm so very sorry for your loss. I'm a twin. I can't even imagine...

    • @greggcrawford1303
      @greggcrawford1303 9 лет назад

      Shannon Liedel Thanks Shannon. Next month will be 8 years and there are still times I go to reach for the phone to call him out of instinct.

    • @greggcrawford1303
      @greggcrawford1303 9 лет назад

      ***** He took my Mother's death hard. She died 3 years before him. He cared for and lived with her the last two years of her life. He also ended a bad relationship. One he started while IN a 15 yr relationship which he always regretted after realizing that the grass was NOT greener. He didn't want to date again, but didn't want to be alone. His business had quit providing an income. After his death, I realized that he had taken my inheritance from my Mother's estate and spent it while continuing to give me excuses of why I hadn't received it yet. He also fought with Depression and Anxiety. He left a three page typed suicide note which I feel was more of excuses of why he felt he had no other choice. Basically, he felt like the best part of his life was over and he didn't see anything to look forward to. He realized there were so many battles he would have had to fight (money, living arrangement, job, theft, mental health, etc.).
      I went to a Suicide Survivors group for a year which helped to know I wasn't the only one going through pain. Although I suffer from Depression and Anxiety, I reached out for help. I ended a 17 yr relationship and lost quite a bit as many do with divorce, but have continued to be hopeful that things will get better. Life is not easy. For me, my brother, or anyone. I believe the key is to ask for help when you need or want it. Stay social and just like anything else... take one day at a time.

  • @urmum5617
    @urmum5617 5 лет назад +7249

    Me: hey mum I’m need to tell you something
    Mum: ok what?
    Me: I’m gay
    Mum: I’d be more shocked if you told me that your straight
    Ooooffff 😂😂
    Edit: yes that is a true story

    • @freshavocado1014
      @freshavocado1014 5 лет назад +46

      It isn't, i read the same under other videos lol.

    • @lookingcooljokr9528
      @lookingcooljokr9528 5 лет назад +33

      I hope that will be my story.

    • @joandrumz3176
      @joandrumz3176 5 лет назад +29

      @@freshavocado1014 Ja und? Als ob das nur eine Mutter in diesem Universum gesagt haben könnte🤨

    • @Alwayseepy
      @Alwayseepy 5 лет назад +6

      WHAT XD she knew you where gay from when you were born HAHA XD no offence

    • @Ang_jaaf
      @Ang_jaaf 5 лет назад +4

      @@freshavocado1014 well they said it is a true story but not their story so.. makes sense 🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @angelmanuel1208
    @angelmanuel1208 9 лет назад +234

    i was so nervous i couldn't say the words "i'm gay" when i came out to my dad, so i said "i like dick" thinking it was gonna sound betta, my dad just busted out laughing. :/
    that was my coming out experience.

    • @never_give_up90
      @never_give_up90 9 лет назад

      Angel Rodriguez LOL

    • @jonathanpotter8760
      @jonathanpotter8760 9 лет назад +1

      Yeah with a ñame like ángel how could you not be gay

    • @never_give_up90
      @never_give_up90 9 лет назад

      Jonathan potter o.O Ignorant much? Whats with "ñame" and "ángel"?

    • @angelmanuel1208
      @angelmanuel1208 9 лет назад +2

      lol thank you, let him hate. +LUVAKAT

    • @jonathanpotter8760
      @jonathanpotter8760 9 лет назад

      haha my keyboard has been on spanish for the longest time on my ipad and i meant it as a joke sry for offence

  • @moonball00n
    @moonball00n 4 года назад +56

    when i grow up and have my own kids, i want to raise them so that they can comfortably tell me whatever it is about who they are :(((

  • @Nitro192192
    @Nitro192192 9 лет назад +147

    Some dads don't like it, not because of religion but because they want to see their child get married to a beautiful woman and have a family because that's what all parents envision for their children at a young age. Then make grand children and watch them grow. I know there's adoption, but at the end of the day, that is someone else's child so sometimes it's just not what the parent was expecting. Comes as a surprise and takes some getting used to.

    • @kimt9010
      @kimt9010 9 лет назад +17

      Finally someone said it!!!!

    • @cameronalexisful
      @cameronalexisful 9 лет назад +15

      Well maybe the dads you're talking about shouldn't be so close-minded and traditional. Maybe they should figure out that there are other, just as fufilling, ways to live your life. Maybe they should value their children's happiness over their want for them to have that some boring stereotypical lifestyle.

    • @stuvs830
      @stuvs830 9 лет назад

      But you know that won't prevent them from having families, even biological, if they choose? My friends just put their second daughter into college, and you never saw children more loved and encouraged. We should be so lucky.

    • @cacacrumbs4341
      @cacacrumbs4341 9 лет назад

      You can give your sperm to a woman and have her give birth, then raise YOUR baby with your spouse and parents.

    • @mattlainson3400
      @mattlainson3400 9 лет назад +1

      Caca Crumbs That doesn't make it "Your" baby. That makes it half yours and half hers, If it's a girl, it could come out looking exactly like the mother even. Where are these women who want to give birth to a child that is half hers and just give it away?

  • @reydc2890
    @reydc2890 5 лет назад +891

    See their tears straight people. Those reactions were so true. It's really hard to come out to our family. And pls don't make it hard. for us. Because it's really really hard to be gay.

    • @kamiksby2227
      @kamiksby2227 5 лет назад +3

      Read el bible

    • @mechquippedangineer6331
      @mechquippedangineer6331 5 лет назад +18

      @@kamiksby2227 lol....

    • @povijest74
      @povijest74 5 лет назад +77

      Maximus Buturoaga Why do you people always put religion into this stuff.

    • @roamalot3000
      @roamalot3000 5 лет назад +8

      Imagine being Gay lmfao. This post was made by the Straight person gang

    • @SuryaR-xe7ub
      @SuryaR-xe7ub 5 лет назад +33

      @@kamiksby2227 and how come gay is a sin? Explain.

  • @_meghanmcgregor
    @_meghanmcgregor 9 лет назад +1571

    I was crying eating my ramen noodles.

  • @jeanszambrano9868
    @jeanszambrano9868 5 лет назад +96

    Why do we have to cry for saying other people who we are ? 😢😭

    • @pleasepermitmetospeakohgre1504
      @pleasepermitmetospeakohgre1504 4 года назад +2

      Jeans Zambrano
      Because it is forbidden.

    • @yuqing530521
      @yuqing530521 4 года назад +7

      Because we're ashamed. My sister locked herself in a room,attempted suicide after she came out to her friend who later turned out to be like her. She's feeling better so no worries

    • @warlord_aries3920
      @warlord_aries3920 4 года назад

      Please permit me to speak oh great one why exactly is that?

  • @clevelandcavaliersfansince7079
    @clevelandcavaliersfansince7079 9 лет назад +102

    99.99999999% of people hating on these guys are religious, with very few religious people accepting them.......

    • @clevelandcavaliersfansince7079
      @clevelandcavaliersfansince7079 9 лет назад

      Kirsty Bennett Rekt

    • @Renoht290
      @Renoht290 9 лет назад +8

      I'm completely religious and I think these guys are awesome.

    • @clevelandcavaliersfansince7079
      @clevelandcavaliersfansince7079 9 лет назад +6

      Evan Sampson™ I didn't say every religious person hates them, that would be ignorant and foolish, just that the vast majority seems to hate them. Hopefully in a couples year's time all hate with be eradicated.

    • @Renoht290
      @Renoht290 9 лет назад +8

      Cleveland Cavaliers Fan Since July 11, 2014 Yes I know, a lot of Christians misinterpret God's words in the Bible. God said "love your neighbor as yourself", and a ton of Christians seem to forget that.

    • @vicstar62
      @vicstar62 9 лет назад +4

      Evan Sampson™ Yes Evan...and it also says 'Judge not, lest ye be judged' which I find a lot of Christians seem to do. I don't get how some so called Christians can be so unchristian like and have no compassion or kindness in their hearts. They seem to think 'praying for their souls not to go to hell' is being kind. This was not what Jesus taught. He taught kindness, compassion, turn the other cheek, do unto others as you would have them do unto you etc. If more Christians followed the actual teachings of Jesus this world would be a much nicer place to live in for everyone :)

  • @kuro.hitsuji
    @kuro.hitsuji 6 лет назад +1359

    Okay, wow, watching in 2018 and just watching you two in tears trying to work up the courage to tell your dad... shit, you guys are awesome. This is the first video I've seen you guys and it won't be the last. And now I'm in tears.

    • @Brianna-fd5pg
      @Brianna-fd5pg 6 лет назад +2

      everything you said i agree with and I'm in 2018 to my first vid and I'm going to sub

    • @gggang6647
      @gggang6647 5 лет назад

      Stfu i bet your gay too

    • @domburns5060
      @domburns5060 5 лет назад

      I'm crying to and this is my first video i have seen to

    • @joscott832
      @joscott832 5 лет назад

      Hajira S. C

  • @terryscohtt6107
    @terryscohtt6107 9 лет назад +526

    First impressions = they are hot

    • @gc5677
      @gc5677 9 лет назад +7

      Second impression=shit I'm a girl, guess those are two more guys that'll never love me bc of homosexuality

    • @gc5677
      @gc5677 9 лет назад +7

      Btw I'm not against gay, I'm bi myself. 😅

    • @gc5677
      @gc5677 9 лет назад +1

      Btw I'm not against gay, I'm bi myself. 😅

    • @gc5677
      @gc5677 9 лет назад

      Btw I'm not against gay, I'm bi myself. 😅

    • @terryscohtt6107
      @terryscohtt6107 9 лет назад +6

      Well appearances mean so little after awhile of knowing someone. Just look for personality (btw theirs is great like so great ).

  • @homo4604
    @homo4604 5 лет назад +229

    How I came out to my mom:
    Me: Mom!
    Mom: (she yells from the other room) What Honey!?
    Me: I’m bisexual!
    Mom: WUT! (She DIDNT HEAR ME 😐)
    Me: I AM BISEXUAL
    Mom: GOOD FOR YOU- OH ARE YOU COMING OUT?! I THINK I WOULD BE CONFUSED IF YOU WERE STRAIGHT
    Me: wut just happened

    • @meowpoosaymeow
      @meowpoosaymeow 3 года назад +2

      Bruh

    • @georgesk77
      @georgesk77 3 года назад

      @@meowpoosaymeow Ε έλεος πραγματικά έχω κουραστεί να σε βλέπω παντού 😂😂😂

  • @petra1378
    @petra1378 5 лет назад +1895

    I'm bisexual and my teacher helped me come out to my dad and mom and I love my teacher for that!

    • @Eli-hv3sd
      @Eli-hv3sd 5 лет назад +65

      That's one nice teacher! But what bothers me, is why would you tell your teacher...? Or did he/she found by himself/herself?

    • @leom8101
      @leom8101 5 лет назад +12

      You go girl

    • @petra1378
      @petra1378 5 лет назад +34

      @@Eli-hv3sd he found out and helped :)

    • @AnaGamer19
      @AnaGamer19 5 лет назад +15

      Lena Evergood Sometimes you find support with teachers as an adult figure.

    • @_.loco._456
      @_.loco._456 4 года назад +19

      Bruh a teacher in my school would always pick up on one gay boy cuz he was gay and she would tell him that he is not normal and make gay jokes and fun of him your teacher is amazing

  • @ShanniTae
    @ShanniTae 8 лет назад +154

    Awww they almost made me cry when they started crying. Their dad had a wonderful reaction

  • @lexusmarie928
    @lexusmarie928 9 лет назад +102

    Wow. I came to the comment section to look for how happy everyone would be for them. I have yet to see one nice comment and that makes me sick.

    • @benintheruralarea6512
      @benintheruralarea6512 9 лет назад +10

      I know right, if God didn't want us to be gay he would not have made us with feelings like that for the same sex. I am a Christian too and I think that it must just be a typo in the bible or something because God would not discriminate like that

    • @nikki2412
      @nikki2412 9 лет назад +12

      I know, it amazed me :/ Let's spread love, instead of hate ^^

    • @kevinisdabomb8266
      @kevinisdabomb8266 9 лет назад +1

      You must be pretty blind...

  • @louiscampeol9192
    @louiscampeol9192 3 месяца назад +12

    The day it doesn’t have to be “breaking bad news” when coming out for anyone in the LGBTQ+, will be the day humans will have evolved to a higher being.

  • @ChandyChube
    @ChandyChube 9 лет назад +76

    Just to clear things up. I was born gay. Bottom line, nothing to rebuke. It wasn't a choice. Want proof?! how about I am a gay male and there wasn't a point in my life where I chose to be straight or gay. In fact, I didn't even make the decision to come out, everyone around me knew and accepted me for it. I hadn't fallen in love with or had sex with a man, I hadn't even gone to the extent of kissing a guy. But at 20 years old, I was asked if I was and I just told the truth, I was. It wasn't an issue it was uneventful and was what is was and I am who I am. There is no scientific rematch needed. I didn't choose, fact. For as long as I can recall, the attraction to men has always been there.

    • @MrPoolmaster11
      @MrPoolmaster11 9 лет назад

      The evil takes over young grasshopper.

    • @reymond.yeahhh
      @reymond.yeahhh 9 лет назад

      maybe you're telling a different story I mean a different situation from the both of them.

    • @oxwickedxo4909
      @oxwickedxo4909 9 лет назад +4

      Being gay isn't a choice and you aren't born gay. You aren't born straight either. It's a personality trait that develops over time (usually young)

    • @FirstWorldProblemz
      @FirstWorldProblemz 9 лет назад

      You were born from a straight male and female and became gay by choice. You were not born gay

    • @Sycer4Heaven
      @Sycer4Heaven 9 лет назад

      How does it feel being a failure? Proving your dad his genes were shit.

  • @rosaline7335
    @rosaline7335 9 лет назад +145

    I'm not sure if I should be watching this. This is so personal.
    But it also takes courage and inspires a lot of people. So thank you!

    • @MLeunHardingBurke
      @MLeunHardingBurke 9 лет назад +7

      That's why they did it; to encourage and inspire, and they've accomplished that.

    • @rosaline7335
      @rosaline7335 9 лет назад +4

      M Leun Harding-Burke They have!

  • @girl4eversweet
    @girl4eversweet 9 лет назад +324

    Are there like, any straight men left? Or is everyone gay now cause gay people are so new and cool right now? -.-

    • @GokulRG
      @GokulRG 9 лет назад +16

      Elle Damev .. Well said.. I think half of these guys don't even know what they are talking about .. They just want some attention and in order to be cool and hip and declare themselves as gay.. What happened to good ol' heterosexuality?!

    • @girl4eversweet
      @girl4eversweet 9 лет назад +3

      Gokul Rama It's not cool anymore, I guess, and you know how people are today love, always trying to run away from being normal and/or average!
      M Leun Harding-Burke That's not something to take pride in, but ok.

    • @baybaya24
      @baybaya24 9 лет назад +15

      really though, i feel like its becoming an attention thing, like do you really have to post this on youtube?

    • @MLeunHardingBurke
      @MLeunHardingBurke 9 лет назад +6

      baybaya24 Yes.

    • @girl4eversweet
      @girl4eversweet 9 лет назад +1

      baybaya24 I bet this video had gays all over the world sobbing xD

  • @pirate_pug
    @pirate_pug 5 лет назад +293

    "I can't undo being your dad."
    All of us with homophobic parents need to here this. I love your dad 😂😂

  • @andygarcia1800
    @andygarcia1800 8 лет назад +1069

    Me as a dad
    Son/Daughter: Im gay
    Me: Cool.

    • @vexthepichu226
      @vexthepichu226 8 лет назад +50

      I wish all parents were like that

    • @akyra8527
      @akyra8527 8 лет назад +6

      +Demetrius R. #equality me to

    • @daniele4516
      @daniele4516 8 лет назад +3

      EXACTLY

    • @ezequielpilcsuk880
      @ezequielpilcsuk880 8 лет назад +77

      Son/Daughter: I'm gay
      Dad: Hi gay, I'm dad

    • @Kimnh15
      @Kimnh15 8 лет назад +7

      +Ezequiel Pilcsuk OMG IM DYING OF THAT COMMENT

  • @EvinNazya
    @EvinNazya 8 лет назад +516

    Gay guys always seem to be the cutest man :(

  • @kassiesmith8808
    @kassiesmith8808 8 лет назад +314

    I could never come out as bi to my parents. they would try to fix me and think I'm some screwed up monster.

  • @hoffen8215
    @hoffen8215 5 лет назад +174

    Me : mom I'm gay ! ☹️
    Mom : yes i know honey and that's alright...i love you... 😃
    THAT WAS THE BEST MOMENT IN MY LIFE...!!

    • @professorpennies
      @professorpennies 4 года назад +9

      Me: mom I’m gay! ☹️ Mom: get out...

    • @ctrxg_
      @ctrxg_ 4 года назад +2

      @@professorpennies idk what i have to say,im sorry but i little bit laugh but its actually sad too haha!!

    • @racewayjay
      @racewayjay 4 года назад +2

      Me: Mom, I'm gay.
      Mom: I wondered when you were going to figure that out.

    • @elifsukoc9872
      @elifsukoc9872 4 года назад +1

      • Jake • im so sorry sweetie i hope you make things right w your mom lots of love🥺💜

    • @dobbykadarmutsuzumbabe2455
      @dobbykadarmutsuzumbabe2455 4 года назад +1

      @@elifsukoc9872 yes be türk buldum mutlu oldum.

  • @wayshow4
    @wayshow4 9 лет назад +88

    I can't even with the comments right now.

    • @karinnamarie6637
      @karinnamarie6637 9 лет назад +4

      they're so worrying. people are cruel

    • @Jack_______oh
      @Jack_______oh 9 лет назад +3

      omg i am literally cant evening right now

    • @ceebee5641
      @ceebee5641 9 лет назад +1

      Same

    • @Insipid42
      @Insipid42 9 лет назад +5

      Feel sorry for them. They're toddlers having a tantrum because they're not getting their way anymore. Look at the likes vs dislike. They number 8% and their numbers are shrinking. So they have have to try and make up for it by being loud.

    • @Jack_______oh
      @Jack_______oh 9 лет назад +3

      I agree with you that hateful comments are childish but please don't act like majority opinion = automatically correct

  • @saltyboi1028
    @saltyboi1028 8 лет назад +411

    They won the genetic lottery.

    • @burqagoulding6786
      @burqagoulding6786 8 лет назад +2

      Right

    • @OJEL
      @OJEL 8 лет назад +3

      they cant pass them on so na.

    • @JoeyTakesOlliewood.
      @JoeyTakesOlliewood. 8 лет назад +4

      +AdamOhJay Yes they can. Adoption isn't the only way they can have children, they can use a surrogate, using their own sperm.

    • @OJEL
      @OJEL 8 лет назад +1

      Their genes could just be recessive so probably not.

    • @NostalgiCrazy
      @NostalgiCrazy 8 лет назад +1

      True it's not fair. I wish I had a twin btw lol.

  • @99cachorro
    @99cachorro 9 лет назад +50

    A parents place is to always support their child no matter what especially when that child needs a parents support.

    • @kamikazezebra
      @kamikazezebra 9 лет назад

      Agreed. My mum told my brother and I that if either of us were to have been gay, she could live with that, and she'd still love us the same. Both my mum and I are Christians but we have very similar views on this.

    • @mariapaz7233
      @mariapaz7233 9 лет назад

      If i could like this comment a thousand times, I would

  • @potterhead9.3.45
    @potterhead9.3.45 5 лет назад +19

    So uhm probably nobody will read this but here we go
    I wanted to thank you for uploading, it actually encouraged me to come out as genderfluid and ace to my family. I first came out to my younger, 12-year old brother, he reacted in the best ever way. After, I came out to my dad, he reacted positively as well. Then I had to come out to my mother. She didn't show any acceptance at all, she yelled at me , she got damn violent. I even had to go to hospital. Now I live with my dad.
    Even if I had to experience this, I'm really glad I came out in general, my dad's super supportive, loving and caring. Thank u guys for this encouragement.

    • @tanmaydhamanse8948
      @tanmaydhamanse8948 2 года назад +1

      Hey 👋, i hope everything is going fine now. Lots of love

  • @SaraiJones
    @SaraiJones 9 лет назад +1229

    So proud of you two! I hope you guys are doing well! I miss you!!

    • @taniearai1562
      @taniearai1562 9 лет назад +10

      Good job!! I'm straight but, I could see the struggle. Just be glad it's over with and stay blessed.

    • @AGOfficial2
      @AGOfficial2 9 лет назад +2

      YASS KRAZYRAYRAY WATCHES RHODES BROS MY LIFE IS OFFICIALLY COMPLETE

    • @sil8266
      @sil8266 9 лет назад +1

      AGOfficial2 Lol Serai lovve youuuu

    • @LS-ds8lk
      @LS-ds8lk 9 лет назад

      I LOVE YOU

    • @bmwgirl3
      @bmwgirl3 9 лет назад +1

      I love you Sarai

  • @thisisrexxie
    @thisisrexxie 9 лет назад +58

    Just watched your video and then read some of the comments... I'm a straight girl living in catholic Ireland and I even though I don't know you, I couldn't be more proud! To come out in this day and age should be easier than our last generations but it's not because there is still so much hate out there. Your dad loves you no matter what and that's what counts, it's no one else's business. So people who think they can give their opinion on how you live your life obviously have nothing better to do than to put you down. Be proud of who you are and who you love. xx

    • @tiffanyburnworth4614
      @tiffanyburnworth4614 9 лет назад +8

      ***** Just because you put something on the internet doesn't mean you did it for "attention". They did it to show people that's okay to be different.

    • @moonlightgraham3860
      @moonlightgraham3860 9 лет назад +4

      ***** Why are you even here?

    • @actualemotrash
      @actualemotrash 9 лет назад +4

      ***** Feminism is fighting for equal rights for both men and woman and if you cant see that society needs that then your not mature enough to date. You don't get to choose being gay it just happens and its as natural as being straight society is the only thing that makes it seem like it isn't.

    • @tablettablet263
      @tablettablet263 9 лет назад

      They have sex with other men.

    • @thehandsomesammich5677
      @thehandsomesammich5677 9 лет назад

      You are so nice people don't under stand how hard its is to go to you parents and tell them they're gay and its natural its happens with animals to

  • @spraklesound9969
    @spraklesound9969 5 лет назад +150

    This is so beautiful. My son just came out. I always knew and I love him so much and I want him to be happy. It breaks my heart to see you struggle, afraid that someone won’t love you any more because of who you are.

    • @Kointa
      @Kointa 4 года назад +7

      Sprakle Sound this is a very wholesome comment

    • @june3496
      @june3496 2 года назад

      I hope my mom will be like you.🥺🥺

    • @thomasmead4642
      @thomasmead4642 10 месяцев назад

      More parents need to be like you, cheers.

  • @Kaspen82
    @Kaspen82 4 года назад +13

    I’m a straight married man who’s been married for over a decade and this video made me cry.

  • @BabyAngelBella
    @BabyAngelBella 9 лет назад +1361

    I was crying more then they were in this video, lmao. I'm so weak

  • @randyjoble4607
    @randyjoble4607 9 лет назад +56

    it's awful in this world that you have to feel sad or nervous about telling people

    • @raizencore
      @raizencore 9 лет назад +3

      It's because in our days, hateful people still exist and thinking of that you can't just feel normal because if you come out it's hard, you think that you will probably get hated, even by your own parents.

  • @annienoelle4964
    @annienoelle4964 8 лет назад +334

    I'm straight, and I'm christian. but I respect and support the LGBT community. God says to love everyone and thats what I do. my best friend was gay, and homophobic bullies lead him to end his life. that is not the only reason I support the LGBT community, but it is a very large factor. I'm so proud of you two, and I want to let anyone waiting to come out know, that there are many more christians like me out there, and not to let homophobes get in your way of happiness. so do whatever makes you happy, and don't be afraid to be yourself:)

    • @rooroo720
      @rooroo720 8 лет назад +15

      +Annie Rose Thank you. YOU are a true Christian. You pay attention to God's real intentions. People who are homophobics, hide behind the bible's statements against gayness.
      You stand with the equality. And it will stand back with you. :3

    • @annienoelle4964
      @annienoelle4964 8 лет назад

      Roo Kat thank you so much :)

    • @rooroo720
      @rooroo720 8 лет назад +3

      No, thank YOU. The world honestly needs more people like you. :)

    • @caprisun4883
      @caprisun4883 8 лет назад +3

      FINALLY SOME CHRISTIAN LIKE MYSELF YOU REALIZES 100 PERCENT LOVE IS LOVE THANK YOU!

    • @pennyrosser7125
      @pennyrosser7125 8 лет назад

      thanks alot this helped and i needed it alot :D and sorry about the passing :(

  • @stephmorales2945
    @stephmorales2945 4 года назад +24

    This is adorable I came out to my mom two days ago and she accepts me and I'm happy