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I follow you guys because of your traveling content. Im not watching to see you guys drink. I think most or your viewers will agree. Im from SC USA and have been to Azores twice and went to Madeira last October (during the fires unfortunately) didn't get to see all the great places you talk about. Ive never watched any of you videos to see you get wasted. Keep up the great traveling content. That's what your channel was built on and that's what your viewers want to see. I also struggled with alcohol. It was so bad I found it easier to log the days I didn't drink rather than drink. I woke up on morning with pancreatitis. I went to hospital they told me I had to quit drinking. Talk about having a life changing moment F me. 13 days later I got out. Quit drinking for about 2 months...One beer won't hurt, two beers won't hurt, one shot will be fine. Almost exactly one year later went back in the hospital. I struggled with this for another 3 years. In 2013 I had my last drink. The damage to my pancreas is permeant. I still struggle today with finding the fun in things. Im an open book with alcohol. I'm a closed dusty book on the shelf without. If it wasn't for my wife id probably not be here. Amalie is going to be your support and she will play a major roll in your success. Keep it up its not a sprint it's an endurance race and you'll be fine with Amalie by your side.
Never watched you for the drinking to be honest. After recently travelling long term i shelved the alcohol for a number of months (budgetary reasons) and after a while you wonder why you ever bothered with it in the first place. You'll get there. Its a lifelong habit and that mindset is hard to change. I had the same with smoking. Wish you the best of luck with it 👍
The main reason that leads me to watch your videos is a set of things, such as your friendliness, sincerity and humor that you always put into the content you cover on your channel, wrapped in the excellence of photography and editing. As for the rest... if you already know, never forget; Addiction to alcohol, drugs and gambling is forever, what can make a difference is having this reality always present in your head every day, as all it takes is a small temptation and consequent slip-up, for everything to go back to the way it was before, even if it's been decades since you last stopped drinking, etc... All the best to you and please continue to be happy :)
I watch you guys to see the beauty of Portugal. I’m American and we are going to Portugal for the second time in a few weeks. Yall have helped us see beauty in Portugal. You don’t have to be drunk to go to a nice restaurant or enjoy a sunset. Addiction is no joke. Don’t let RUclips fuel your addiction. Do what is best for you and the real fans will be here.
Thanks! Appreciate your kind words. The challenge is indeed to not let RUclips dictate my life, but it's also our and my passion. We've been at this for 6 years and desperately want to succeed at it.. only too much one could say.. Life is hard 😂
@@joenandamalie and because it's hard, it's so much sweeter when you prevail, and you will prevail because you both are naturals, and you are good at this, and you're doing the work and putting energy into it.When you do prevail, be sure to celebrate before moving the goal post. :)
I am a psychotherapist and have worked with many alcoholics. I think you are both evolving. It’s more important to be healthy than to have a RUclips channel based upon your addictions. Those who like watching you being drunk will fall away. It is a fact that the early phase of recovery to feel that things are boring. Life is not boring even without alcohol. I guarantee you that if you hang in with recovery you will discover new parts of yourself. You guys are so talented. I am confident you’ll find a new direction for your channel.
Guys honestly. I watch you for several years. And to be honest when you were drunk. I personally find it embarrassing. I love your videos because of your great personality and amazing sense of humor. Even the videos that you might think there it’s not much “entertaining” they are still fun. It’s your life. It’s what you need as individuals and not what people “wants” for fun. I prefer to see this kinds of channel. Keep going guys.
I like videos with Joen when he is not drinking much, much more than when he is drinking. I’d love to watch videos on Joen learning to have fun or just learning who he is without alcohol.
Oooh! With Amalie’s super creativity in the kitchen and the incredible garden you are planning I am looking forward to some amazing non alcoholic cocktail videos! I love drinks with herbs. Pair them with some appetizers made with ingredients from your garden 😊 I’m not here for an alcohol or non alcohol show. You guys are just fun and seem like great people. We just enjoy your personalities and your insights on things. Just take care of yourselves first.
My husband and I are from Canada and during our winters we sat drinking away our cold winter months day dreaming about living a better life…until we realized how much it was effecting us. We quit a year ago except for when we went to Maderia this past summer and had very little to drink. We love watching your videos. Not because of the drinking but because of your humour and all the crazy places you go. Drinking is overrated. Living your best life is where it’s at! You guys are doing a tremendous job of that!!
While we are all being honest, I watched for a long time without subscribing because of the drinking. The feelings of restriction and boredom are some of the damage done by the alcohol. Talking about it is really important. All the fun and the goofiness is still there. It will take time to reclaim it in a sober life. I am subscribing today.
My husband and I love your videos. We’re moving to Lisbon this summer (currently waiting for visa to process). We visited Madeira two summers ago and were in awe of all the beauty this island offers. Your channel is so entertaining drinking or not. I hope you continue to be positive on your sobriety journey ❤❤❤
Restriction is miserable for a moment and it’s even harder because alcohol is everywhere but after a few weeks you can feel joy and your own without substances. And we like the nature!!
Yeah, it's in your face wherever you are. LITERALLY! It does get easier with time, but then you are caught at a weak moment and BOOM, a bottle of wine slipped through the neck.
Joen, you have the intelligence and humor to get high on yourself, life and others. What comes in a bottle should stay in the bottle. You don't need that stimulus. You are loved.@@joenandamalie
You may lose some viewers who have issues of their own! But you will gain more viewers because of the beautiful and pure content. You are very talented and it’s a joy to watch your lovely videos. Chin up…..continue your journey to good health and a better state of mind!
I am 12 years into the same journey. Drinking made me social and unconcerned about the judgement of others which made for fun and freedom. But I must say a life without hangovers is truly a gift. The other key to success is that you have a partner in crime that will stick by your side through this journey. I have the same support and love with me. Soon you will start to feel pride in your ability to abstain from alcohol and you will see drunk people in a whole new light and think OMG was I like that? Just don’t look at forever. Look at the challenges of the next 6 months and block by block you will be free. Ok mostly, 12 years later and I still would love to go have a beer with you. But non Alcoholic beer ain’t so bad.
Well said, and congrats on 12 years. I'm on my third year abstaining from alcohol and NA beers nowadays are outstanding. Here in the USA there are a ton of craft brewers making amazing NA beers. Cheers
3 years sober here, don't worry about losing viewers because you're sober. You don't need those assholes in your life. Your content is always wonderful..
I am a portuguese guy living in Copenhagen, so yes we kinda switched countries guys, and alcohol was not why I started following you. I started watching you because despite being Portuguese, you guys showed me places in my own country which I have never visited, I have learned that you can travel and work remotely, I got to know brands and products through your sponsored videos and used discount codes and you also helped me understand Danes better while adapting to this new culture. You inspire people even when your content is not about traveling, like watching Amelia being a interior designer and having a great taste decorating the house. I know alcohol its part of danish culture, and it is very common in those rainy days, when the sun sets around 15 o'clock, to just have some friends over and enjoy the evening by having a drink but guys remember you are in Portugal, there's a lot to do to keep your mind busy. If you want to stop drinking, find a purpose, try to see how can the content become even better without it, don't think that it will become worst! Maybe you can start a healthier diet and make content about that, which will motivate others to do the same. So good luck Joen!! Gonna be waiting here for the next video with the title "como perder barriga de cerveja em dois meses" 😁
Quitting drinking was the best thing I ever did. Watching you get drunk doesn't sound interesting to me, but getting a nice view of Portugal (or anywhere!) does... Thanks! From grey & chilly Ireland! ☘💪🏽👀👍🏽☘
More people deal with this transition than you could imagine. Thank you for your bravery in sharing. Trying to figure out your life moving on from your vice is challenging. But, try to remember that you had a life b4 your vice took over, have hope that you will find your way staying true to your goals. Good luck! It's hard as F##k!
Your community loves you guys regardless. They actually would prefer for you to be healthy and happy...and believe it or not, that can happen without alcohol. Love the videos and you sharing your knowledge of the countries/places you visit. Keep it up...we are here for it!
Amelia is right. It's about balance and finding the right balance is the challenge that needs to be worked on. Absolute abstention is seldom successful or sustainable. Best of luck. Rooting for you guys!
Joen, Amalie, you both have great personalities that complement one another.Your videos are most enjoyable. Joen, I feel you are using a loss of subscribers as an excuse to start drinking again. I can tell you from witnessing friends and relatives going down a path of alcohol addiction, is not a path you want to travel. You both have humor that we viewers enjoy immensely. Alcohol is not necessary. Be healthy and "Stay Classy".
I love what you both share on the channel. I started watching years ago when you were getting started. You were pioneers in Portugal. I love Portugual- what you have shared and what I have learned from the channel. I used to drink enough for all of us and stoped 29 years ago. I had to -no matter how hard I tried I was not able to balance my drinking. I still love drinking from beautiful glasses with elderflower presse or you pick it? I love travel, fine dining and fine very well. I don’t associate these things with alcohol- any more. Rock on … I will keep watching . You both are great! 🎉
7 years sober after 55 years of drinking my life away. Vacations take on a whole new challenge, the pressure to drink never ends. I particularly enjoy watching people waste money and brain cells, oblivious to the damage to your body and how they come off to others around them. Thank you for raising awareness around sober lifestyles. ❤🎉
For me, the interesting thing about your channel isn't the alcohol, it's the trips to strange and unknown places in Portugal and the way you show the inhabitants, their history and traditions.😉
It’s not about restricting your life but self control. Controlling emotional and physical impulses, including anger. Doesn’t mean not feeling or expressing, but doing so in a nondestructive way. There are some great philosophy books out there to study. No guru required.
Thanks Greg. The concept of self-control is fairly new to me, but I'm starting to get it. I really just need to be more cognitive and not a little child giving into every single impulse. What books are you suggesting?
Amazing that you can be so honest and open about it guys. I think having a channel where you show your life as is and the personal transformation is what makes it so interesting. You might lose old subscribers and you might gain new ones who also want a healthy lifestyle and all of a sudden you have a whole new tribe of people!
I'll keep watching. You guys have great content. Last year I decided to stop drinking for the first half of the year and doing it again this year. It's easy for me but other people think it's strange as I don't have an addiction or health issues. So yeah, coffee. sparkling water and lots of tea as substitutes.
The original comment i posted for some reason didn't come out properly, so let me try and retype it again! Im impressed with your honesty in this video. I love my beer and its a theme to my life (for BBQ's, Friends coming over, after work, editing videos etc) Any achievements or milestones dont feel complete without an icecold beer. Let me just say that RUclips has been shit for every creator i know this year, and i know that my views have been a quarter of what they were, but thats not due to beer. I think its all over youtube (or im just making crap videos without beer... who knows 😂)
For awhile I stopped watching your videos because Joen was always drunk. Drink to enjoy the flavor not to get drunk. One glass is enough. Anyone who needs to drink to have the illusion of fun, is a boring person. Since you stopped drinking too much, your videos are so much more interesting. You're surrounded by beautiful nature, have a clear mind to enjoy it and get inspired. Love you both.
Ditching alcohol is hard. Your liver will appreciate it and not dying prematurely is a great benefit. Growing up is hard. Count your blessings! You have a beautiful life. Hope you stay around to enjoy it! Look at the positives of not being a alcoholic & it will help you succeed!
Aw, I'm a new subscriber and I love watching you both talk and be vulnerable on cam. I'm rooting for you from Texas on your success being alcohol free. You'll live longer. 29 years ago, it was really hard for me to quit smoking. If I could do that, you've got this beat. Just avoid going anywhere where there's alcohol present until you get over the hump. You could use your youtube channel to help others dealing with the same thing as you. You could even use your channel as "healthy living" in general. I think your personalities are likeable and relatable enough to carry your channel in this type of topic. Don't give up! You can do this! Just be tough to fight through those physical urges to drink. Don't give in. If you do, doesn't mean you failed. Get up on that horse and keep riding. Enough rambling. You've got this!
Your life will be better! It just takes some time to adjust your mindset. I completely understand exactly what you are feeling. My life revolved around drinking for over 30 years in the restaurant and wine business. It’s a huge adjustment, yet there are benefits! You will feel more motivated to do other things once you walk away long enough. I thought my life would end without alcohol. I’ve been sober almost 14 years now. I travel for three months each year, I wake up feeling great. Hang in there!
We like your videos from the perspective of - it’s like catching up with some friends every week. It’s nice when you show a part of the world you have discovered or share your life journey and insights. It doesn’t need to be a party ever week 😂
You two are awesome, with, alcohol or without alcohol! I loved this video from start to finish, but the icing on the cake was at minute 7:35 🤣😂🤣 A big hug.
Actually, I like watching you guys because you show very interesting places, and you both have great personalities. I actually cut out alcohol a few years ago, and I went through the same issue. I would always get bombed and be very outgoing. At first, without the alcohol, I was very introverted. But recently, I started training my brain to have a positive fun baseline. I believe it is actually working. I am becoming much more outgoing, just naturally...and with no hangover. rewiring your brain takes time and effort, but it's extremely powerful. I use the DNRS program, but there are others, and and you dont need to buy a brain training program to change your mindstate, but I find it very helpful. You guys are awesome!
I am not a drinker and never was. I am thrilled with the beauty of your videos and your authenticity. You have the world at your fingertips. Alcohol is not necessary to enjoy life! Who wants to take a trip or experience something new and not remember what you did/saw due to over consumption of alcohol?
Joen, I feel very well what you go through, me not with drinking, but with sweets! It's very difficult to get rid of these bad habits, but for a more healthy lifestyle we've to restrict or even better eliminate them. After a few weeks you'll feel better, you don't need it more and your liver will appreciate it as well!
I quit drinking nearly a year ago and it was SUPER difficult as where I live here in Brazil, as beer is a staple and is literally a part of the culture all the time in the hot weather. It was very difficult for the first month or so because you felt like you could not go out and have fun with everyone drinking around you. It does not bother me anymore and I feel so much better health wise which includes great mental clarity plus much more energy. My go to drinks now are all kinds of amazing fruit juices or lemon water etc. It was worth stopping drinking for good and I won't look back. Congrats on quitting. You will thank yourself later for stopping. Great vid 👍
Best idea ever! You are never boring. I stopped it too. I started surfing and it is so much better than alcohol and you have great waves. Just listen to Amelia and have fun.
Hey guys! I love your channel! I was born in the Azores but came to Canada as a baby over 40 years ago. Although I love Canada, my heart has always belonged to Portugal. And because my wife and I watch your channel, it has made us want to go live in Portugal. You guys know how to show the beauty of where we are from…. And btw, your channel is not dying. It’s actually grown into something even more special for us all! 😊
Joen, your editing and photography skills, as well as your sharp wit are the reasons I got hooked on your channel. Awesome drone footage, and I love the rapport between the two of you most of all ❤ Imagine our delight when we recently checked into our room at the Porto Mare hotel and saw your lovely faces when we turned on the tv for the first time!
You are funny on your own, no need to drink. Life is better when you are clear to see it and enjoy it. Keep up the good work. We were in Madeira for New Years, amazing
You have made such a good decision. My father was an alcoholic, and when I was 5 he stopped and started running. He eventually found what he needed in being physically active. 15 years later he was able to enjoy a beer every once in a while. My husband also quit drinking, and myself with him. We aren’t alcoholics, but just saw the health benefits I’m not drinking. We enjoy different non-alcoholic drinks, and we stay active. It sounds like it’s time for a shift in your channel and that’s ok! We’re heading to Portugal next month and are really looking forward to exploring trails and cities, sans alcohol 😉
Hey guys just wanted to say been watching your videos since 2019 because of your amazing travel content 👌🏻 I also used to be a heavy drinker but luckily I also found psychedelics and it’s helped guide me to a better life with purpose. I’d love to see more nature focused videos with our drinking 😂 My grand parents are from Madeira and they always talk about the flora of the island. Considering Madeira is one of last places where you can see LauriSilva I think your nature videos would make a huge difference to conservation efforts!
Do you guys know the age demographic of your audience? I'm 53, moved to Portugal 2.5 years ago...which is how I found you in the first place. Sure part of the fun of watching you two was to see what Portugal had to offer ...experiences, places to eat, places to see, etc. you were like tour guides inspiring the next bucket list of things to do here. Anyhow...depending on your audience here's what I would suggest/ real estate (eg. best new developments)...food (eg. best sushi in Portugal)... experience (eg. best sunset cruise... best sunset locations for photography)...best deals for tours...best festivals to see. Best private beach area for a picnic. Best coffee...etc. It doesn't have to cost the most...just the best experience of getting the most value possible. Best castle to explore...there's so many things you can feature and have fun with. When you feature others, the focus is not directly on you...rather the viewer gets the pleasure of watching you experience something that will inspire them to think...oh, I'd like to do that! oh...as for the alcohol, your future self will thank you for your positive change now.
My wife and I (and 2 daughters) watch your channel because of how hilarious and entertaining you are. Not once do we equate your comedic touch, and epic storyline with alcohol. You have an incredible skill with storytelling , editing, and taking your audience on a journey . I can imagine your RUclips channel reaching a much wider audience... even after you shed some of these initial followers. Wellness is much Sexier than RUclips followers . I'll get off my soap box. In conclusion , keep the adventures coming!!!
Go into nature. Backpack, go out on trail in Portugal. Go out on sailboats. Also, thank you for your vulnerability. Your channel is not hurting. It’s just going through a change and things get messy before they get cleaned up. Do you know the saying “out of chaos comes order?” Nothing is wrong at all and you are doing great. Both of you are doing great. Just going through a transformation and that’s called soul growth! ❤❤❤
Joen, you are just a beautifull soul, you don't need the alchool for being fun, just try to be yourself and know yourself and you'll find the most endeaver of all. You don't need validationn from no one.... You two are beautifull ❤
I think you are going through FOMO more than anything. You both are kind and funny and always a joy to watch and listen to. Do not give in to the addiction just for views cuz in the long run it would be losing more than an audience.... Love you both!!! I prefer the walks and exploring your interests more than the partying, I can have more fun doing that part myself. I first started watching because you two are of similar interests to what my hubby and I enjoy and that hasn´t changed. RUclips does a terrible job of pushing creators to feel like they always got to be growing. Enjoy the ride more =)
Always hard to balance! I'm 77 now and use to NEVER have less than a full bottle of wine, very good wine, each day! But now, I just don't want to drink very much. Maybe a Manhattan twice a month, or 2 glasses of wine once a month. Each time I drink even this small amount, I realize I get very little out of it. 99% of the time, I very much like NOT DRINKING. And you know, the pleasure of drinking is not just from the alcohol, but the glass, the swirling, the motion, and while not as powerful as the alcohol, it does give some other satisfaction. How about a non-alcoholic beverage in a beautiful wine glass watching a sunset, maybe a beverage that almost tastes like wine, maybe similar level of acidity. This week I travel to France for 2 weeks and I probably will drink wine, but much less wine than I would normally have on vacation. Yes, not perfect, but then allows for a reset once back in the USA. I think that's what you probably will end up doing, enjoying a glass of wine from time to time, but mostly CHOOSING to not drink alcohol because of the health affects. Never need to get ANYWHERE near S---faced. Just pretty stupid I'm sure you both agree.
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I'm 65 and doing the same as you for mostly the same reasons,but I still do like a glass or 3 of red with dinner.
I have watched your vids for years and have always skipped over the alcohol related parts. I could care less about drinking. It’s the creativity, your spirit and your insights that keep drawing me back. The vids are beautiful, interesting and fun. I feel for people who struggle with alcoholism. It’s a very real and destructive illness and one should have lots of support when trying to change their life for the better. Keep going, Joen! You will find your way through and you have not lost one square inch of your talents. Your Amalie is amazing. I hope I get to meet you both in Madeira…B Atlantis in March?
Hi guys. I’m in your boat Joan I’ve been drinking for years and only recently understood it isn’t what I thought it was it’s just all I know. I thought it was part of a good time also part of ignoring things that I know are wrong but don’t want to face… having a glass of wine or beer with dinner I love but it would always turn into more because I can’t have just one. I respect your honesty and approach to this because of being the same ( although I don’t think we are alone😂) your videos are more realistic when you drink because there are so many people like us but reality is we all see clearly and do better when we don’t go mad we just don’t see it after a drink. Keep up your dreams you’re living (which just so happens to be mine living in Portugal or Madeira) can’t wait for the next video thank you both for your honesty…. 👍🏽
Alcohol isn’t the reason we watch. You can list, recommend via the staff if people care. We watch because of you both. And Lara. The travel for us is the main reason. Brave episode. Well done.
Just my 2 cents. We only live one life, so I think we should find balance in everything... including having a day or two a week that we can enjoy a good glass of wine or a "caneca". Also, I think that restricting it to 100% makes everything more difficult and stressfull , as you told. be happy
Love the experiences in life you both share with us. This next chapter is part of the journey and your ability to embrace it is inspiring. One day at a time! We will keep watching, liking and supporting the channel. Cheers, with a mocktail!
Joen, I have felt the same way. My husband stopped drinking bc even a glass of wine or single cocktail would give him poor sleep and headaches. I struggled with the social/fun aspect as it was something we enjoyed together as an entertainment aspect of our lives both with food and socially. We're learning how to fill that void with "mocktails" to preserve the ritual while replacing alcohol with a healthier alternative. It's a huge adjustment for your friends as well as they learn to socialize with you in your new realm, but ours are becoming more supportive as we stick to our healthy goals and are adjusting themselves to us not drinking. Your body is thanking you and best wishes to a long and healthy life!
You guys are the reason why my wife and I have been to Portugal six times and have followed all the destinations where you have gone. I really never thought much about your drinking being a reason to see your beautiful videos..
Think you guys are great and your naturally funny when drinking or not! I really enjoy your algarve vlogs but really enjoyed your helping your parents move too 👍🏼
Sadly, people feel better about their own shit and bad habits when they see others doing the same. They also are not happy for you when you overcome it, because it is an automatic judgement on them. Stay strong and do the right thing and leave the others behind.
Loving your vlogstyle videos. Keep going. Continue strong. Have fun with all the activity there is in Madeira... Kart in Faial, underneath the airport, bycicle, Rollerblade, soo many things that I can't remember. 😅
I never watched your channel to see you drink. Your content is typically great. You have one of the few Portugal RUclips channels that has not become a negative wasteland, telling people why they shouldn’t move to Portugal anymore. As someone who recently started a RUclips channel, you have both been inspiring. Your health comes first. Everything else is secondary. This subscriber is not going anywhere!
This is a very important video many people should relate to. People who never drink will have a difficult time understanding that the social drinking culture is bigger than the drinking itself. It’s interesting to note a link to dementia for both heavy drinkers and non drinkers. That suggests to me that the social aspect of moderate drinking has health benefits. Yes, “chasing” that feeling is so true. We develop a tolerance to the extent that we might as well not be drinking at all. I do find that first or second drink is the sweet spot, though it’s too easy to continue drinking beyond that. Amelia is content with one drink; Joen three. Did you know females absorb alcohol differently than men?! Men generally need twice as many drinks as women to feel the same effect. Clicking glasses of Perrier with you! Cheers my friends! ❤
Your audience may be more diverse than you think judging on comments from the episode on having a child and advice from many mature viewers. Watching your show helps me connect with Madeira where we have a 2nd home. You are the eyes and ears of what's going on which is so helpful. Keep up the good work! (What about non alcoholic beer which is quite common in Germany and taste pretty good!) 😊
I came to Portugal 🇵🇹 to get healthy ….5 years on I’ve never drank so much in my life , living in a village walking to the shops meeting people as you pass, stop for a drink , then you get into rounds ….now I’ve moved from the village into the countryside and the bars closed down for good ….new start just drink on a weekend ! Well done for raising awareness…and congratulations on your 👶🍼
Don't worry about the channel "dying." You're growing up and you've figured out that there's just so much luxury travel you can do before you get bored. There's much more to life. You're infinitely more interesting as you evolve. You are discovering the more complicated parts of being human. I love your new approach. I'm a bit older than you and am enjoying your journey. Stick with it. And Amalie I understand your anxieties about motherhood completely. I took the plunge and it's the best thing I ever did. Hard to explain why and it wouldn't make sense. But know you're not alone in your feelings. It's okay. Sending you good thoughts and all my best wishes!
I agree with some of the comments above. I’m also here because of your fantastic work in showing us the beauties of Portugal and Madeira. And keep up the good work of keeping sober. Look after yourselves and your health 😌.
Joen, don't forget that you and your life are the most important and precious things. You may lose some followers now, but you will gain a healthier life long term. And of course, some new followers will appear along the way which will feel identified with your content. In my opinion, your videos are getting better and better. It's easier to just do "lifestyle" videos like many others do, but do that and show more substance is not so simple. I love to see your human and vulnerable side, bringing important subjects to the table, speak about stuff freely, and I think we need that to remind us of who we are. I totally agree with Amalie just have fun, you can do that without alcohol. Show us how it's done!
I have been watching you guys since 2017, and I too like Joen have trouble to give up alcohol completely. I have learned to drink moderately and not give it up completely, as that is too extreme. Best to drink less and to take in all the present! I have lost too many memories and that is sad! And your restaurant and food and tourist videos are the best! Thank you
I am very proud of you! Not easy to leave a habit behind, but being healthy is more important than anything else. Love your videos, and going to love even more now 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Suggestion to replace alcohol: become a world-class expert in coffee and tea. I don't care about alcohol, but I love coffee ☕ And nature is very cool also.
We started watching for the Beauty and the excitement you both had for Portugal. There is much more to Portugal than drinking. You have to find that passion for it again. The key to life is moderation. This is why you have a life partner. Bring that passion and love to each video. We will always be watching
Keep up the good work! Don't pay too much attention to haters' comments, which clearly aren't constructive at all. You guys are FUN, that's a fact, regardless of the channel showing videos containing any scenes of you guys tipsy or consuming alcohol. The quality of the videos is for sure top 1%.
Even though I do enjoy some of the past alcohol-fueled antics, I think this new iteration of your channel is enjoyable in different and valuable ways. Both of your personalities come through even while sober, which is good. Your travel related content is also still valuable, especially Amalia's design sensibilities. Anyway, just know that while change can be scary it also can open some doors to new audiences.
I love your videos and it doesn't matter to me if you are drinking or not. You guys both have great personalities. I watch to see beautiful Portugal, to see restaurants, shops, and locations. Alcohol in your videos or no alcohol doesn't even enter my mind. I just like to see what fun antics you guys are up to and learn a little more about Portugal or wherever you are traveling to. Thank you for your honest sharing of your concerns and I look forward to seeing your future videos.
your channel attracted me for other reasons than drinking escapades. I my self quiting on and off for health reasons . it's not easy. I can't imagine going back to visit Portugal and not have wine while there. I am just like you I can't have one glass of wine and stop. trying to talk myself into that I will drink during Portugal vacation and then stop when get home
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I also have quit certain alcohols, specifically hard liquor like whiskey because it's extremely bad for your vital organs,so even though my doctor advised me of that info I decided to stop of my own accord.although I don't really understand why so many people say"when I start I can't just stop at one" ,who's counting?I guess if you have to keep track of how many drinking have then that maybe the definition of alcoholism.I don't, but then again I don't drink to get drunk.No judgement here just my personal observation.
some people can't stop at one not because of addiction to alcohol but perhaps don't deny themselves of the pleasure? I like my Red Breast Whiskey neat more than the daily recommended 2 once serving. and then there is Hennessy white ...
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I follow you guys because of your traveling content. Im not watching to see you guys drink. I think most or your viewers will agree. Im from SC USA and have been to Azores twice and went to Madeira last October (during the fires unfortunately) didn't get to see all the great places you talk about. Ive never watched any of you videos to see you get wasted. Keep up the great traveling content. That's what your channel was built on and that's what your viewers want to see.
I also struggled with alcohol. It was so bad I found it easier to log the days I didn't drink rather than drink. I woke up on morning with pancreatitis. I went to hospital they told me I had to quit drinking. Talk about having a life changing moment F me. 13 days later I got out. Quit drinking for about 2 months...One beer won't hurt, two beers won't hurt, one shot will be fine. Almost exactly one year later went back in the hospital. I struggled with this for another 3 years. In 2013 I had my last drink. The damage to my pancreas is permeant. I still struggle today with finding the fun in things. Im an open book with alcohol. I'm a closed dusty book on the shelf without. If it wasn't for my wife id probably not be here. Amalie is going to be your support and she will play a major roll in your success. Keep it up its not a sprint it's an endurance race and you'll be fine with Amalie by your side.
Never watched you for the drinking to be honest. After recently travelling long term i shelved the alcohol for a number of months (budgetary reasons) and after a while you wonder why you ever bothered with it in the first place. You'll get there. Its a lifelong habit and that mindset is hard to change. I had the same with smoking. Wish you the best of luck with it 👍
The main reason that leads me to watch your videos is a set of things, such as your friendliness, sincerity and humor that you always put into the content you cover on your channel, wrapped in the excellence of photography and editing. As for the rest... if you already know, never forget; Addiction to alcohol, drugs and gambling is forever, what can make a difference is having this reality always present in your head every day, as all it takes is a small temptation and consequent slip-up, for everything to go back to the way it was before, even if it's been decades since you last stopped drinking, etc...
All the best to you and please continue to be happy :)
@@quintatorneiro3074 Well said 👏
I watch you guys because I like you your funny nothing to do with the alcohol. You should be proud of yourself.
I watch you guys to see the beauty of Portugal. I’m American and we are going to Portugal for the second time in a few weeks. Yall have helped us see beauty in Portugal. You don’t have to be drunk to go to a nice restaurant or enjoy a sunset. Addiction is no joke. Don’t let RUclips fuel your addiction. Do what is best for you and the real fans will be here.
Thanks! Appreciate your kind words. The challenge is indeed to not let RUclips dictate my life, but it's also our and my passion. We've been at this for 6 years and desperately want to succeed at it.. only too much one could say.. Life is hard 😂
@@joenandamalie and because it's hard, it's so much sweeter when you prevail, and you will prevail because you both are naturals, and you are good at this, and you're doing the work and putting energy into it.When you do prevail, be sure to celebrate before moving the goal post. :)
I agree 💯 ! I found you guys and I see your channel because of Portugal adventures. Not alcohol adventures. :)
Stay away please
I am a psychotherapist and have worked with many alcoholics. I think you are both evolving. It’s more important to be healthy than to have a RUclips channel based upon your addictions. Those who like watching you being drunk will fall away. It is a fact that the early phase of recovery to feel that things are boring. Life is not boring even without alcohol. I guarantee you that if you hang in with recovery you will discover new parts of yourself. You guys are so talented. I am confident you’ll find a new direction for your channel.
Guys honestly. I watch you for several years. And to be honest when you were drunk. I personally find it embarrassing.
I love your videos because of your great personality and amazing sense of humor. Even the videos that you might think there it’s not much “entertaining” they are still fun.
It’s your life. It’s what you need as individuals and not what people “wants” for fun. I prefer to see this kinds of channel. Keep going guys.
I couldn't agree more.
I like videos with Joen when he is not drinking much, much more than when he is drinking. I’d love to watch videos on Joen learning to have fun or just learning who he is without alcohol.
I am clean for 6 years now, my life is just better ! Stay strong !💪🏼
Oooh! With Amalie’s super creativity in the kitchen and the incredible garden you are planning I am looking forward to some amazing non alcoholic cocktail videos! I love drinks with herbs. Pair them with some
appetizers made with ingredients from your garden 😊
I’m not here for an alcohol or non alcohol show. You guys are just fun and seem like great people. We just enjoy your personalities and your insights on things. Just take care of yourselves first.
My husband and I are from Canada and during our winters we sat drinking away our cold winter months day dreaming about living a better life…until we realized how much it was effecting us. We quit a year ago except for when we went to Maderia this past summer and had very little to drink. We love watching your videos. Not because of the drinking but because of your humour and all the crazy places you go. Drinking is overrated. Living your best life is where it’s at! You guys are doing a tremendous job of that!!
While we are all being honest, I watched for a long time without subscribing because of the drinking. The feelings of restriction and boredom are some of the damage done by the alcohol. Talking about it is really important. All the fun and the goofiness is still there. It will take time to reclaim it in a sober life. I am subscribing today.
My husband and I love your videos. We’re moving to Lisbon this summer (currently waiting for visa to process). We visited Madeira two summers ago and were in awe of all the beauty this island offers. Your channel is so entertaining drinking or not. I hope you continue to be positive on your sobriety journey ❤❤❤
Restriction is miserable for a moment and it’s even harder because alcohol is everywhere but after a few weeks you can feel joy and your own without substances. And we like the nature!!
Yeah, it's in your face wherever you are. LITERALLY! It does get easier with time, but then you are caught at a weak moment and BOOM, a bottle of wine slipped through the neck.
Joen, you have the intelligence and humor to get high on yourself, life and others. What comes in a bottle should stay in the bottle. You don't need that stimulus. You are loved.@@joenandamalie
Good luck Joen, please don't drink to keep subscribers happy we just want you to be healthy and happy, well done for sharing. 😘
You may lose some viewers who have issues of their own! But you will gain more viewers because of the beautiful and pure content. You are very talented and it’s a joy to watch your lovely videos. Chin up…..continue your journey to good health and a better state of mind!
I am 12 years into the same journey. Drinking made me social and unconcerned about the judgement of others which made for fun and freedom. But I must say a life without hangovers is truly a gift. The other key to success is that you have a partner in crime that will stick by your side through this journey. I have the same support and love with me. Soon you will start to feel pride in your ability to abstain from alcohol and you will see drunk people in a whole new light and think OMG was I like that? Just don’t look at forever. Look at the challenges of the next 6 months and block by block you will be free. Ok mostly, 12 years later and I still would love to go have a beer with you. But non Alcoholic beer ain’t so bad.
Well said, and congrats on 12 years. I'm on my third year abstaining from alcohol and NA beers nowadays are outstanding. Here in the USA there are a ton of craft brewers making amazing NA beers. Cheers
3 years sober here, don't worry about losing viewers because you're sober. You don't need those assholes in your life. Your content is always wonderful..
2y 3mo here. Nice work!
I am a portuguese guy living in Copenhagen, so yes we kinda switched countries guys, and alcohol was not why I started following you. I started watching you because despite being Portuguese, you guys showed me places in my own country which I have never visited, I have learned that you can travel and work remotely, I got to know brands and products through your sponsored videos and used discount codes and you also helped me understand Danes better while adapting to this new culture. You inspire people even when your content is not about traveling, like watching Amelia being a interior designer and having a great taste decorating the house. I know alcohol its part of danish culture, and it is very common in those rainy days, when the sun sets around 15 o'clock, to just have some friends over and enjoy the evening by having a drink but guys remember you are in Portugal, there's a lot to do to keep your mind busy. If you want to stop drinking, find a purpose, try to see how can the content become even better without it, don't think that it will become worst! Maybe you can start a healthier diet and make content about that, which will motivate others to do the same. So good luck Joen!! Gonna be waiting here for the next video with the title "como perder barriga de cerveja em dois meses" 😁
Quitting drinking was the best thing I ever did. Watching you get drunk doesn't sound interesting to me, but getting a nice view of Portugal (or anywhere!) does... Thanks!
From grey & chilly Ireland! ☘💪🏽👀👍🏽☘
More people deal with this transition than you could imagine. Thank you for your bravery in sharing.
Trying to figure out your life moving on from your vice is challenging. But, try to remember that you had a life b4 your vice took over, have hope that you will find your way staying true to your goals.
Good luck! It's hard as F##k!
Thank You So Much for your honesty and openness. That’s what makes you both so likable and relatable. I’m in the same situation. I love you both ❤ !
Your community loves you guys regardless. They actually would prefer for you to be healthy and happy...and believe it or not, that can happen without alcohol. Love the videos and you sharing your knowledge of the countries/places you visit. Keep it up...we are here for it!
Amelia is right. It's about balance and finding the right balance is the challenge that needs to be worked on. Absolute abstention is seldom successful or sustainable. Best of luck. Rooting for you guys!
Joen, Amalie, you both have great personalities that complement one another.Your videos are most enjoyable. Joen, I feel you are using a loss of subscribers as an excuse to start drinking again. I can tell you from witnessing friends and relatives going down a path of alcohol addiction, is not a path you want to travel. You both have humor that we viewers enjoy immensely. Alcohol is not necessary. Be healthy and "Stay Classy".
Yes! I feel this to be true too-- don´t use a loss of subscribers as an excuse!
I love what you both share on the channel. I started watching years ago when you were getting started. You were pioneers in Portugal.
I love Portugual- what you have shared and what I have learned from the channel.
I used to drink enough for all of us and stoped 29 years ago. I had to -no matter how hard I tried I was not able to balance my drinking. I still love drinking from beautiful glasses with elderflower presse or you pick it? I love travel, fine dining and fine very well. I don’t associate these things with alcohol- any more.
Rock on … I will keep watching . You both are great!
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Im 37 and i've been sober for 10 years now.
One day at a time Joen! Think you guys are great. Will continue watching.
7 years sober after 55 years of drinking my life away. Vacations take on a whole new challenge, the pressure to drink never ends. I particularly enjoy watching people waste money and brain cells, oblivious to the damage to your body and how they come off to others around them. Thank you for raising awareness around sober lifestyles. ❤🎉
For me, the interesting thing about your channel isn't the alcohol, it's the trips to strange and unknown places in Portugal and the way you show the inhabitants, their history and traditions.😉
You guys are fun to watch even when you're not drinking. When I played basketball I used to say that I get high on jump shots. What's your jump shot?
It’s not about restricting your life but self control. Controlling emotional and physical impulses, including anger. Doesn’t mean not feeling or expressing, but doing so in a nondestructive way. There are some great philosophy books out there to study. No guru required.
Thanks Greg. The concept of self-control is fairly new to me, but I'm starting to get it. I really just need to be more cognitive and not a little child giving into every single impulse. What books are you suggesting?
Amazing that you can be so honest and open about it guys. I think having a channel where you show your life as is and the personal transformation is what makes it so interesting.
You might lose old subscribers and you might gain new ones who also want a healthy lifestyle and all of a sudden you have a whole new tribe of people!
I'll keep watching. You guys have great content. Last year I decided to stop drinking for the first half of the year and doing it again this year. It's easy for me but other people think it's strange as I don't have an addiction or health issues. So yeah, coffee. sparkling water and lots of tea as substitutes.
The original comment i posted for some reason didn't come out properly, so let me try and retype it again!
Im impressed with your honesty in this video.
I love my beer and its a theme to my life (for BBQ's, Friends coming over, after work, editing videos etc)
Any achievements or milestones dont feel complete without an icecold beer.
Let me just say that RUclips has been shit for every creator i know this year, and i know that my views have been a quarter of what they were, but thats not due to beer.
I think its all over youtube (or im just making crap videos without beer... who knows 😂)
For awhile I stopped watching your videos because Joen was always drunk. Drink to enjoy the flavor not to get drunk. One glass is enough. Anyone who needs to drink to have the illusion of fun, is a boring person. Since you stopped drinking too much, your videos are so much more interesting. You're surrounded by beautiful nature, have a clear mind to enjoy it and get inspired. Love you both.
Continuem a fazer o excelente trabalho como têm feito até aqui, mostrando o que de bom há por aí, só com uma diferença, sem álcool.
Ditching alcohol is hard. Your liver will appreciate it and not dying prematurely is a great benefit. Growing up is hard. Count your blessings! You have a beautiful life. Hope you stay around to enjoy it! Look at the positives of not being a alcoholic & it will help you succeed!
Aw, I'm a new subscriber and I love watching you both talk and be vulnerable on cam. I'm rooting for you from Texas on your success being alcohol free. You'll live longer. 29 years ago, it was really hard for me to quit smoking. If I could do that, you've got this beat. Just avoid going anywhere where there's alcohol present until you get over the hump. You could use your youtube channel to help others dealing with the same thing as you. You could even use your channel as "healthy living" in general. I think your personalities are likeable and relatable enough to carry your channel in this type of topic. Don't give up! You can do this! Just be tough to fight through those physical urges to drink. Don't give in. If you do, doesn't mean you failed. Get up on that horse and keep riding. Enough rambling. You've got this!
Your life will be better! It just takes some time to adjust your mindset. I completely understand exactly what you are feeling. My life revolved around drinking for over 30 years in the restaurant and wine business. It’s a huge adjustment, yet there are benefits! You will feel more motivated to do other things once you walk away long enough. I thought my life would end without alcohol. I’ve been sober almost 14 years now. I travel for three months each year, I wake up feeling great. Hang in there!
Lovely friendship and partnership between you two.
We like your videos from the perspective of - it’s like catching up with some friends every week. It’s nice when you show a part of the world you have discovered or share your life journey and insights. It doesn’t need to be a party ever week 😂
You two are awesome, with, alcohol or without alcohol! I loved this video from start to finish, but the icing on the cake was at minute 7:35 🤣😂🤣
A big hug.
Actually, I like watching you guys because you show very interesting places, and you both have great personalities. I actually cut out alcohol a few years ago, and I went through the same issue. I would always get bombed and be very outgoing. At first, without the alcohol, I was very introverted. But recently, I started training my brain to have a positive fun baseline. I believe it is actually working. I am becoming much more outgoing, just naturally...and with no hangover. rewiring your brain takes time and effort, but it's extremely powerful. I use the DNRS program, but there are others, and and you dont need to buy a brain training program to change your mindstate, but I find it very helpful. You guys are awesome!
I am not a drinker and never was. I am thrilled with the beauty of your videos and your authenticity. You have the world at your fingertips. Alcohol is not necessary to enjoy life! Who wants to take a trip or experience something new and not remember what you did/saw due to over consumption of alcohol?
Joen, I feel very well what you go through, me not with drinking, but with sweets! It's very difficult to get rid of these bad habits, but for a more healthy lifestyle we've to restrict or even better eliminate them. After a few weeks you'll feel better, you don't need it more and your liver will appreciate it as well!
I quit drinking nearly a year ago and it was SUPER difficult as where I live here in Brazil, as beer is a staple and is literally a part of the culture all the time in the hot weather. It was very difficult for the first month or so because you felt like you could not go out and have fun with everyone drinking around you. It does not bother me anymore and I feel so much better health wise which includes great mental clarity plus much more energy. My go to drinks now are all kinds of amazing fruit juices or lemon water etc. It was worth stopping drinking for good and I won't look back. Congrats on quitting. You will thank yourself later for stopping. Great vid 👍
Best idea ever! You are never boring. I stopped it too. I started surfing and it is so much better than alcohol and you have great waves. Just listen to Amelia and have fun.
Hey guys! I love your channel! I was born in the Azores but came to Canada as a baby over 40 years ago. Although I love Canada, my heart has always belonged to Portugal. And because my wife and I watch your channel, it has made us want to go live in Portugal. You guys know how to show the beauty of where we are from…. And btw, your channel is not dying. It’s actually grown into something even more special for us all! 😊
Joen, your editing and photography skills, as well as your sharp wit are the reasons I got hooked on your channel. Awesome drone footage, and I love the rapport between the two of you most of all ❤ Imagine our delight when we recently checked into our room at the Porto Mare hotel and saw your lovely faces when we turned on the tv for the first time!
SO PROUD OF YOU!!!!!!! I'm coming back. You are fun and lovely without drink.
You have my support as far as what is most important for your lives, do what you gotta do! But…… Joen and Alcohol, that’s truly a special combo😍🔥
You are funny on your own, no need to drink. Life is better when you are clear to see it and enjoy it. Keep up the good work. We were in Madeira for New Years, amazing
You have made such a good decision. My father was an alcoholic, and when I was 5 he stopped and started running. He eventually found what he needed in being physically active. 15 years later he was able to enjoy a beer every once in a while. My husband also quit drinking, and myself with him. We aren’t alcoholics, but just saw the health benefits I’m not drinking. We enjoy different non-alcoholic drinks, and we stay active. It sounds like it’s time for a shift in your channel and that’s ok! We’re heading to Portugal next month and are really looking forward to exploring trails and cities, sans alcohol 😉
Hey guys just wanted to say been watching your videos since 2019 because of your amazing travel content 👌🏻 I also used to be a heavy drinker but luckily I also found psychedelics and it’s helped guide me to a better life with purpose. I’d love to see more nature focused videos with our drinking 😂 My grand parents are from Madeira and they always talk about the flora of the island. Considering Madeira is one of last places where you can see LauriSilva I think your nature videos would make a huge difference to conservation efforts!
Do you guys know the age demographic of your audience? I'm 53, moved to Portugal 2.5 years ago...which is how I found you in the first place. Sure part of the fun of watching you two was to see what Portugal had to offer ...experiences, places to eat, places to see, etc. you were like tour guides inspiring the next bucket list of things to do here. Anyhow...depending on your audience here's what I would suggest/ real estate (eg. best new developments)...food (eg. best sushi in Portugal)... experience (eg. best sunset cruise... best sunset locations for photography)...best deals for tours...best festivals to see. Best private beach area for a picnic. Best coffee...etc. It doesn't have to cost the most...just the best experience of getting the most value possible. Best castle to explore...there's so many things you can feature and have fun with. When you feature others, the focus is not directly on you...rather the viewer gets the pleasure of watching you experience something that will inspire them to think...oh, I'd like to do that! oh...as for the alcohol, your future self will thank you for your positive change now.
My wife and I (and 2 daughters) watch your channel because of how hilarious and entertaining you are. Not once do we equate your comedic touch, and epic storyline with alcohol. You have an incredible skill with storytelling , editing, and taking your audience on a journey . I can imagine your RUclips channel reaching a much wider audience... even after you shed some of these initial followers. Wellness is much Sexier than RUclips followers . I'll get off my soap box. In conclusion , keep the adventures coming!!!
Go into nature. Backpack, go out on trail in Portugal. Go out on sailboats. Also, thank you for your vulnerability. Your channel is not hurting. It’s just going through a change and things get messy before they get cleaned up. Do you know the saying “out of chaos comes order?” Nothing is wrong at all and you are doing great. Both of you are doing great. Just going through a transformation and that’s called soul growth! ❤❤❤
Joen, you are just a beautifull soul, you don't need the alchool for being fun, just try to be yourself and know yourself and you'll find the most endeaver of all.
You don't need validationn from no one....
You two are beautifull ❤
I think you are going through FOMO more than anything. You both are kind and funny and always a joy to watch and listen to. Do not give in to the addiction just for views cuz in the long run it would be losing more than an audience.... Love you both!!! I prefer the walks and exploring your interests more than the partying, I can have more fun doing that part myself. I first started watching because you two are of similar interests to what my hubby and I enjoy and that hasn´t changed. RUclips does a terrible job of pushing creators to feel like they always got to be growing. Enjoy the ride more =)
You guys are awesome! Keep doing you❤🎉 honesty and being real is refreshing. Thank you!!
❤❤❤❤❤I quit drinking 10 years ago. You’re funnier when you’re sober!
Good luck on solving your issues. You guys have a great channel!
Thanks for being honest
Always hard to balance! I'm 77 now and use to NEVER have less than a full bottle of wine, very good wine, each day! But now, I just don't want to drink very much. Maybe a Manhattan twice a month, or 2 glasses of wine once a month. Each time I drink even this small amount, I realize I get very little out of it. 99% of the time, I very much like NOT DRINKING. And you know, the pleasure of drinking is not just from the alcohol, but the glass, the swirling, the motion, and while not as powerful as the alcohol, it does give some other satisfaction. How about a non-alcoholic beverage in a beautiful wine glass watching a sunset, maybe a beverage that almost tastes like wine, maybe similar level of acidity. This week I travel to France for 2 weeks and I probably will drink wine, but much less wine than I would normally have on vacation. Yes, not perfect, but then allows for a reset once back in the USA. I think that's what you probably will end up doing, enjoying a glass of wine from time to time, but mostly CHOOSING to not drink alcohol because of the health affects. Never need to get ANYWHERE near S---faced. Just pretty stupid I'm sure you both agree.
I'm 65 and doing the same as you for mostly the same reasons,but I still do like a glass or 3 of red with dinner.
I have watched your vids for years and have always skipped over the alcohol related parts. I could care less about drinking. It’s the creativity, your spirit and your insights that keep drawing me back. The vids are beautiful, interesting and fun.
I feel for people who struggle with alcoholism. It’s a very real and destructive illness and one should have lots of support when trying to change their life for the better.
Keep going, Joen! You will find your way through and you have not lost one square inch of your talents. Your Amalie is amazing. I hope I get to meet you both in Madeira…B Atlantis in March?
Hi guys. I’m in your boat Joan I’ve been drinking for years and only recently understood it isn’t what I thought it was it’s just all I know. I thought it was part of a good time also part of ignoring things that I know are wrong but don’t want to face… having a glass of wine or beer with dinner I love but it would always turn into more because I can’t have just one. I respect your honesty and approach to this because of being the same ( although I don’t think we are alone😂) your videos are more realistic when you drink because there are so many people like us but reality is we all see clearly and do better when we don’t go mad we just don’t see it after a drink. Keep up your dreams you’re living (which just so happens to be mine living in Portugal or Madeira) can’t wait for the next video thank you both for your honesty…. 👍🏽
Alcohol isn’t the reason we watch. You can list, recommend via the staff if people care. We watch because of you both. And Lara. The travel for us is the main reason. Brave episode. Well done.
As Leslie Jones would say “get therapy!”
Just my 2 cents. We only live one life, so I think we should find balance in everything... including having a day or two a week that we can enjoy a good glass of wine or a "caneca". Also, I think that restricting it to 100% makes everything more difficult and stressfull , as you told. be happy
Love the experiences in life you both share with us. This next chapter is part of the journey and your ability to embrace it is inspiring. One day at a time! We will keep watching, liking and supporting the channel.
Cheers, with a mocktail!
Joen, I have felt the same way. My husband stopped drinking bc even a glass of wine or single cocktail would give him poor sleep and headaches. I struggled with the social/fun aspect as it was something we enjoyed together as an entertainment aspect of our lives both with food and socially. We're learning how to fill that void with "mocktails" to preserve the ritual while replacing alcohol with a healthier alternative. It's a huge adjustment for your friends as well as they learn to socialize with you in your new realm, but ours are becoming more supportive as we stick to our healthy goals and are adjusting themselves to us not drinking. Your body is thanking you and best wishes to a long and healthy life!
You guys are the reason why my wife and I have been to Portugal six times and have followed all the destinations where you have gone. I really never thought much about your drinking being a reason to see your beautiful videos..
Think you guys are great and your naturally funny when drinking or not! I really enjoy your algarve vlogs but really enjoyed your helping your parents move too 👍🏼
Thanks, Lloyd! We will continue to drink... a lot of smoothies and distilled water 🤣
Proud of you! Also, the Coral no-alcohol is a fab substitute when you need that cold-beer-in-your-hand pick me up
Sadly, people feel better about their own shit and bad habits when they see others doing the same. They also are not happy for you when you overcome it, because it is an automatic judgement on them. Stay strong and do the right thing and leave the others behind.
Good for you!!!!❤❤❤❤
Loving your vlogstyle videos. Keep going. Continue strong. Have fun with all the activity there is in Madeira... Kart in Faial, underneath the airport, bycicle, Rollerblade, soo many things that I can't remember. 😅
I never watched your channel to see you drink. Your content is typically great. You have one of the few Portugal RUclips channels that has not become a negative wasteland, telling people why they shouldn’t move to Portugal anymore. As someone who recently started a RUclips channel, you have both been inspiring. Your health comes first. Everything else is secondary. This subscriber is not going anywhere!
Thanks!
Greg, THANK YOU. Your support means a lot to us. Truly! Big hugs from us 3 ❤
This is a very important video many people should relate to. People who never drink will have a difficult time understanding that the social drinking culture is bigger than the drinking itself. It’s interesting to note a link to dementia for both heavy drinkers and non drinkers. That suggests to me that the social aspect of moderate drinking has health benefits. Yes, “chasing” that feeling is so true. We develop a tolerance to the extent that we might as well not be drinking at all. I do find that first or second drink is the sweet spot, though it’s too easy to continue drinking beyond that. Amelia is content with one drink; Joen three. Did you know females absorb alcohol differently than men?! Men generally need twice as many drinks as women to feel the same effect. Clicking glasses of Perrier with you! Cheers my friends! ❤
Your audience may be more diverse than you think judging on comments from the episode on having a child and advice from many mature viewers. Watching your show helps me connect with Madeira where we have a 2nd home. You are the eyes and ears of what's going on which is so helpful. Keep up the good work! (What about non alcoholic beer which is quite common in Germany and taste pretty good!) 😊
Love you guys! We're not going anywhere!
I came to Portugal 🇵🇹 to get healthy ….5 years on I’ve never drank so much in my life , living in a village walking to the shops meeting people as you pass, stop for a drink , then you get into rounds ….now I’ve moved from the village into the countryside and the bars closed down for good ….new start just drink on a weekend ! Well done for raising awareness…and congratulations on your 👶🍼
I've been watching for years and you can stay alcohol free. Healthy living is key to success in travel and life. Stay strong.
I’m sticking with you.
Don't worry about the channel "dying." You're growing up and you've figured out that there's just so much luxury travel you can do before you get bored. There's much more to life. You're infinitely more interesting as you evolve. You are discovering the more complicated parts of being human. I love your new approach. I'm a bit older than you and am enjoying your journey. Stick with it. And Amalie I understand your anxieties about motherhood completely. I took the plunge and it's the best thing I ever did. Hard to explain why and it wouldn't make sense. But know you're not alone in your feelings. It's okay. Sending you good thoughts and all my best wishes!
I agree with some of the comments above. I’m also here because of your fantastic work in showing us the beauties of Portugal and Madeira. And keep up the good work of keeping sober. Look after yourselves and your health 😌.
Joen, don't forget that you and your life are the most important and precious things. You may lose some followers now, but you will gain a healthier life long term. And of course, some new followers will appear along the way which will feel identified with your content. In my opinion, your videos are getting better and better. It's easier to just do "lifestyle" videos like many others do, but do that and show more substance is not so simple. I love to see your human and vulnerable side, bringing important subjects to the table, speak about stuff freely, and I think we need that to remind us of who we are.
I totally agree with Amalie just have fun, you can do that without alcohol. Show us how it's done!
I love your videos I’m a subscriber because of your immaculate videos and not your drinking issues. Keep up the great work. 😊
I have been watching you guys since 2017, and I too like Joen have trouble to give up alcohol completely. I have learned to drink moderately and not give it up completely, as that is too extreme. Best to drink less and to take in all the present! I have lost too many memories and that is sad! And your restaurant and food and tourist videos are the best! Thank you
I am very proud of you! Not easy to leave a habit behind, but being healthy is more important than anything else. Love your videos, and going to love even more now 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Suggestion to replace alcohol: become a world-class expert in coffee and tea. I don't care about alcohol, but I love coffee ☕
And nature is very cool also.
I love watching your channel.
To drink or not is irrelevant.
You have wonderful content.
Hello 👋 agree Life with no alcohol is no fun everything in moderation!
We started watching for the Beauty and the excitement you both had for Portugal. There is much more to Portugal than drinking. You have to find that passion for it again. The key to life is moderation. This is why you have a life partner. Bring that passion and love to each video. We will always be watching
I watch to see the beauty of the places you travel to. You definitely do not need to drink. You are a fun couple without alcohol.
Keep up the good work! Don't pay too much attention to haters' comments, which clearly aren't constructive at all. You guys are FUN, that's a fact, regardless of the channel showing videos containing any scenes of you guys tipsy or consuming alcohol. The quality of the videos is for sure top 1%.
We love you without your drinking. You guys ROCK!
Even though I do enjoy some of the past alcohol-fueled antics, I think this new iteration of your channel is enjoyable in different and valuable ways. Both of your personalities come through even while sober, which is good. Your travel related content is also still valuable, especially Amalia's design sensibilities. Anyway, just know that while change can be scary it also can open some doors to new audiences.
I'm exactly and 100% the same as you my friend. Could be me speaking! No off switch for me when it comes to booze either. Good luck my friend
I love your videos and it doesn't matter to me if you are drinking or not. You guys both have great personalities. I watch to see beautiful Portugal, to see restaurants, shops, and locations. Alcohol in your videos or no alcohol doesn't even enter my mind. I just like to see what fun antics you guys are up to and learn a little more about Portugal or wherever you are traveling to. Thank you for your honest sharing of your concerns and I look forward to seeing your future videos.
your channel attracted me for other reasons than drinking escapades. I my self quiting on and off for health reasons . it's not easy. I can't imagine going back to visit Portugal and not have wine while there. I am just like you I can't have one glass of wine and stop. trying to talk myself into that I will drink during Portugal vacation and then stop when get home
I also have quit certain alcohols, specifically hard liquor like whiskey because it's extremely bad for your vital organs,so even though my doctor advised me of that info I decided to stop of my own accord.although I don't really understand why so many people say"when I start I can't just stop at one" ,who's counting?I guess if you have to keep track of how many drinking have then that maybe the definition of alcoholism.I don't, but then again I don't drink to get drunk.No judgement here just my personal observation.
some people can't stop at one not because of addiction to alcohol but perhaps don't deny themselves of the pleasure? I like my Red Breast Whiskey neat more than the daily recommended 2 once serving. and then there is Hennessy white ...