Im studying to become an architect, I took a test and it said I am an INFJ which is pretty close, especially because I was only 10-15% off on the F and J, so it's hard to say, but this video did describe me pretty well, maybe a few things a tiny bit off but over all pretty close
Art is so fun and calming! Of course most people probably relate to that because it fills that need for balance. Without it i don't think I'd be very fulfilled especially with my current lifestyle.
I'm an INTJ-A (assertive) and I'm pursuing a career in art and digital design. I enjoy math and science, too, but I can't really see myself making a career out of them.
@@silversarcasmic5111 You could major in a science as a safety net, as we know a career in art could be a struggle, so it would be comforting knowing that you can always fall back on that. And probably having a more safe feeling career in the arts. If you want, you should go into arts, but always have something to support that dream. Or you can learn coding languages like python and HTML for double safety net, or just have that instead of also majoring in a science. You don't even have to go to collage for coding and can still get a job. so long as you have what companies are looking for in coding. Which you can do some research on key factors on getting hired in coding companies.
A really good thing about being an INTJ is that literally nobody can brainwash me. Because we're so stubborn to our own thought process and opinions, it's hard to move our ground.
This is so true. I’ve gotten into so many disagreements because I can recognize when people are being fake/trying to be charming and my friends fall for it, or people falling for some propaganda or news media bullshit that to me is obviously phony
True, but at the same time, it’s a double-edge sword. At times, I feel like I should not be that stubborn in certain situations but I really can’t help it :’D
You know that you're an INTJ when you take the test and then subconsciously spend the rest of the day being skeptical about it and trying to see if thats what you really are.
Here's the thing about mediocrity. We all of us, define our own standards. Is it a life of mediocrity for a parent to remain at home and raise a child who is exceptional? Is it mediocrity to work a nine to five job for 50 years supporting you family elsewhere in the world where the opportunity is nonexistent? We choose our sacrifice, and lead exceptional lives when we so choose to do so. We frame the world as we will. Is a life poor, mediocre, or exceptional? It is only for us, ourselfs, to decide the value of our lives. And anyone who tells you otherwise, is either wrong or looking to exploit you in some way.
Empathy is only human in America, there's rampant anti intellectualism happening. People are ok with being uninformed or misinformed. They disagree with facts and research in favor of pseudoscience.
Before I knew I was INTJ I thought I was a borderline sociopath because of how well I can control my feelings and how I view friendships and the world and my whole way of thinking. I could never understand how ppl always focus on the problem instead of trying to find a solution. Or how they make decisions based on emotions or on a whim, it puzzled me because I thought everyone should be able to think the way that I do, find solutions, question the status quo. Why do they just accept how things are instead of trying to figure it out. Now I know and I am more understanding and at peace, it weird.
This is exceptionally relatable to me. I have felt through out my life this way. Me doing something completely logical just to be get glazed at with shock and horror because it was "very insensitive"
I'm a INTJ woman and felt the same way about others being so emotional. I wondered if I was a sociopath because when it came to certain issues I felt no empathy towards others (I cannot for the life of me feel empathy for "he doesn't text me back" type of conversations). I do have many friends, though this was something I worked hard on to achieve. I wasn't comfortable with being seen as unapproachable and approached people instead. You become better at it in time and then confidence follows
I literally went down a rabbit hole of psychology trying to determine that very thing. I thought I was a sociopath because I never felt empathy towards others pain, even if I tried to alleviate it. I also had a logic system that I wasn't sure was either far advanced of those surrounding me or just plain flat out wrong (like a defect). Now that I know this is just because of my mental structure and learning behaviors with priorities, I realize that my weaknesses can be remedied now that I am aware of them. I can now try to learn to care about people more fully.
Should point out that people who have the INTJ personality type (such as myself) that it has almost nothing to do with how intelligent you are, the personality types show what kind of person you are and how you view the world around you. For instance, I'm dumb as a rock, but I'm always so interested in how stuff works and how it can be used in it's full potential, but can't really do that since I'm a moron
I believe I'm dumb as well as an intj.As a fellow kind,my advice is make that "thing" summary as possible that you can understand and repetition to remember that. My believe is we can do others can,just we have to put more effort than usual does
@@Mxrk_Hxshim honestly, that personality quiz isn't always 100% accurate either, the only way you can be sure if a professional tests you, not trying to be rude but I don't take advice much, I'm really stubborn sadly
@@loggingfire1 yeah I wish that all of the website I visit is false,because it's kind of odd for me...but understanding and thinking about it,really I have the similarity in attributes and stuff.Especially the thing about "clueless" when it come to that "thing".You'll know what I'm saying... And it's only base on my experience,just trying to give advice(should've be opinion) not mean to force you or anything...
Yeah, you can believe whatever, as long as you don't change yourself to be an INTJ personality type or any other, just be yourself and don't be all high and mighty about it
Its hard being an INTJ in a discussion because most people just lose focus halfway through IF the conversation topics require more than just their attention span
I cant count hw many times ive been left with half of my thought still stuck in my head, while so many other topics have come and passed; one of the reasons I prefer to stay quiet a lot of the time.
This is so true. Whenever I speak about something else than the weather, they just nod and reply with words that do no more than acknowledge the fact that they are listening to me. Feels like everyone else is stupid. But maybe I am just the smart one?
I felt the same. Back...WAY back in H.S....I would do no homework but Get As knowing Id pass w a C. Fk it. My math teacher failed me w that C average knowing exactly what I was doing. LoL Senior year...I got all As for him. R I P buddy.
INTJ-A here. The truth is, no one cares. People waste their lives thinking people care when nobody cares. You're just making up stuff. Live how you would want to live and not how others want you to live. Change for no one.
I am an INTJ and I have had to work SO hard to develop friendships. Most of my life I’ve had 1 friend, and now that I have several I feel like a fraud? Like I’m lying all the time. Idk, I’m happier but I also feel less like myself??
Mikey Surratt yes my friend. You got yourself some trouble. I've always have friends but the problem was maintaining them. I think of them like taxes. You always have to be doing something with them or explaining yourself to why you're so detached or as you said faking it.
I have learned that you don't need friends. Usually they really aren't friends they are acquaintances. I have maybe 2 friends in the world. Thats not to say I don't know people. I just would rather have 1 or 2 people that are true. Than 100s that are not.
Wow, same. There are three people I consider my friends, and the rest of my classmates I consider good acquaintances (that I’d like to be friends with but it’s hard when you are who you are). And these three people are pretty cool and all but it’s taken me about a year to actually get closer to them and even then we’re not that close, we’re like school friends. We talk in school, play UNO, do group projects, and gossip, but outside of that we never hang out. And I feel that, even if I consider them my best friends, they wouldn’t consider me their best friend. And I’m always worrying about not being weird, awkward, and maybe mean when I’m around them and I’m always anxious when talking to them afraid that I’ll say something wrong that’ll make them see me in a bad light. I’m just… always worrying. You know a friend is a real friend when you can talk to them about anything, be yourself fully, and feel comfortable with them.
@@nickynicks_ don't worry about it. My best friend is my wife. I gave up on caring what people think of me along time ago. Over the years your friends go away and other come into your life. But honestly the only people I hang out with is my family. Co workers are just that coworkers. I don't spend time with them outside of work. If you do and there are problems it turns into work problems. I avoid it.
@@nickynicks_ Look nicky if it's really important to you then i recommend you a book called "How to make friends and influence people" by dale carnegie i believe it was. It's a great book to help you with that particular problem. But It's very important you understand that a true friend will accept you for who you are. Be yourself and don't waste time being complacent. Most people are just a waste of your time.
Ah, yes, INTJ. Where every high school kid wants to be you instead of accepting that the teenage years are just awkward and that they are not, in fact, geniuses.
Not true, I was thought as a moron, and I am honestly a moron, your personality type has almost nothing to do with your knowledge, but your perspective of the world
Thomas Rushin Wouldn't say so unless the majority of the school is of above average intelligence, just for my social awkwardness, people like to translate that part of me into stupidity.
I'm called a freak. Also I'm ugly. Also I cut myself because of the stress I inflict on me, because I'm such a fucking over achiever. So no, every high school kid doesn't want to be me, even if I'm easily the best student in my class (not bragging, just giving plain facts)
Every time I watch a video about an MBTI personality I always end up spending more time reading the comments than watching the video. It’s so interesting to read about people‘s stories and how they might differ from or correlate with the “standard”.
I'm apparently an INTJ. When I had to write essays in high school and college, I would become deeply upset if the prompt was something difficult to address, because I had an internal expectation to to "solve" the essay prompt by producing an essay that was indisputable. When I couldn't do that, I felt like a failure even if I got an A on the assignment. I've always become drawn to ideological styles of thinking that attempt to propose axioms that "solve" morality, at least in theory. It's as though I am never content with a way of understanding unless it is comprehensive, or if it is indisputably correct. That's why I think I went into accounting as a profession. It's a field in which there are nearly 0 subjective decisions, in which the rules are already established. But I learned that the absence of opportunities to solve original problems is rather concerting, so I'm not sure I'll be happy doing that the rest of my life. I don't know if I'll ever truly be happy.
You put that need for comprehensive all encompassing truth into words well. It is true. When something doesn't fit into black or white boxes it is hard to deal with. Maybe that's why dealing with social skills is so hard for us. People and the rules for dealing with them are so grey.
Solving for the human terminal goal will likely help you objectify some more subjectives. This will help you with morals, and if you learn the Meyers-Briggs personalities, it will help you with social stuff, and prediction of behaviour.
I once had an essay to write, too But my teacher isn’t able to comprehend the way I addressed the topic and FAILED me even though it is clearly the best solution there is And after I told her that she just cannot comprehend i got into trouble but at least didn’t fail the test
Before I knew that I was had an INTJ personality, It always baffled me from a young age that people focus on the problem rather than finding the solution. Another is struggling in making friends, at some point I was known in class for being too blunt or being insensitive.
@@sarisatechasukij7026 In audio engineering, narration can be on a separate channel from the underscore music, so the volume of each component is customizable. It depends on how simple or complicated the setup and editing software are.
My best attribute, by far, is my ability to look at an existing system and quickly know exactly how to improve it. It’s also my biggest frustration, when I don’t have the power to do it. School was hell for me, even though I was in the top percentiles in everything and got good grades. Constantly being forced to submit to incompetent teachers drove me nuts. This video is more accurate than most.
So true - my son who is an INTJ would often get in trouble in school because he argued with the teachers (he felt they were incompetent) . Once when he was in grade 2 he argued with the teacher about whether or not a tomato was a fruit or vegetable. He drove her so crazy that she called the University for their input. Needless to say he wasn’t her favourite student. My son is now a successful businessman.
Anyone else here been judged because they don’t smile or talk much and then feel like replying in a snarky way but the words never manage to leave your lips? I think I should be thankful for that.
I'm an ENTP and my best friend is an INTJ, it is always interesting talking to him. And I love how he respects my space and always helps me out with my crazy inventions or ideas ✨.
I never actually believed in these personality tests until I did a long and complete test and got this "architect personality". It's amazing how accurate it is, even on the weaknesses. I'm impressed.
Replying late but yes, I also do not believe in this test. I was actually surprised that I got Intj because I don't consider myself that intelligent, neither do I have any mathematical inclination. But I have got the same results over and over through the years. Surprising. I wonder how there can be any intrinsic personality when a lot of other factors like environment and social conditioning weigh in?
ENFx here with an INTJ friend, you guys are so cool and smart! Me and my INTJ friend don't talk much, but when we do it's always fun hearing her opinions and theories on things :D
Turbulent INTJ here. Everything is accurate except for my confidence. I have many easygoing and relatable friends who attract a ton of people, and have time for literally anything. I’m over here on my phone typing this while unproductive and not doing that. The only close friends I have are friends that came to me in an act of being nice and I ended up opening up to them. My self confidence is very low, and I’m bad at small talk so it can’t become a philosophical conversation, and I stay silent for the rest of the time. Any advice?
INTJ here, according to my research to develop permanent unshakeable confidence, do these step by step: Confidence doesn't just can't be pulled out of your ass tho there are other personality types that can still do that but you need reasons to back up and feel like you are essentially the SHIT! - Go to Gym, and improve style, grooming, looks, fit clothing, etc to get high value superficial confidence. - Currently as you reading this, you exactly know deep down what you should be doing but you keep ignoring it to do some other dumb shit. Cut everyone out for a while and Work on your purpose and make money. I'll take some time but, At this point= Heavy Bank Balance, Body Lookin sexy, Nutrition on point, Looks are sharp, No stress over any debt, Life going GREAT. You start to feel like oh Man, I'm the shit!! And radiate this powerful vibe that people can sense subconsciously. Most people's life just suck(sorry to break the truth) and now you enter with this non-needy value swag radiating positivity. Give some time and You essentially become a drug for these people that they need a constant hit of that positivity to feel Great again with your energy. If you don't develop the confidence like this and try to fake it, people can all see through all in all! You cannot fake confidence, you must become confident. This is the most permanent solution you will find in life for TRUE UNSHAKEABLE CONFIDENCE! Thanks for reading and you loser(just to poke) start taking action and not be like other people that gets settled in mediocrity. Peace
I’m a INTJ-T female.. I’m 29 and starting process of seeing if I’m autistic because I’m SO painfully strange and my one and only “kind of” relationship ended with my partner saying over and over how he just didn’t get why everything was so difficult for me.. he would always say I made the smallest things look so incredibly difficult. Don’t know if I’m autistic or just really weird but soon I’ll hopefully know! It’s a painful process, I’m horrible at therapy but at this stage in my life I’m desperate and open to any answers on what to do.
As a fellow INTJ-T, the only thing i can say is try to build up your confidence. I also have problem with my confidence to the point it become my insecurity. But there's no way to make it gone. You only can deal with it. I speak to a psychologist and she said I should train myself to be confident and enjoy the process, bcs confidence isn't something you gain instantly. I try to build my confidence like join public speaking class, making youtube channel where i upload my own creative videos and promote it on my sns (this is my personal channel, you can check "syifairuz" channel where i upload videos, mostlt it just my hobbies). The thing we should remember is we should try to NOT CARE SO MUCH about what people saying about us because that's not always true. Thinking about how I want to life my own life is way more important. Because at the end, we're the one who responsible for it.
Learning about this has been really life changing for me. Suddenly all these issues that I have aren't aberrations, but something that others have and are valued by some people.
This is hilarious. I tested as an INTJ and I remember being six years old and always looking at the subsurface intentions and behind the scenes workings of adults that I encountered, stating that I would work to try to soon have the world figured out through methodical analysis, and getting in trouble at school for daydreaming.
I’m INTJ-T & have no interest in being an architect, but I love creating things, making art, photography, & illustrations. I overthink almost all the time, striving for perfection, & can be pretty blunt and straightforward. I wouldn’t say I’m book-smart but I am innovative, creative, & a visual learner & only love learning when it’s something I’m passionate about
I'm an infj, I come here to know how he as an intj is really reasonable and also patient face my emotions. He is cool and awesome. That's true intj is always thinking to repair something or a problem and never left it at all.
I'm learning management and the 16 personalities was brought up. I am an INTJ. Hit the nail on the head with my personality. I work for a Bank and everything I've read is correct. I'm now planning to take over the world with my music. I will use this to deliver it.
What’s up my fellow architects? Self-awareness is the best thing you can do for yourself. You aren’t always right, you aren’t always the smartest, you aren’t always the best looking. You’re welcome.
Very accurately described me. I currently have four projects I'm working on, all organized on a couple of trellos. I have even had a teacher call me cynical in a report card and my "friends" always insist that I have a tendency to spout random, scientific facts. (of course, they don't speak that eloquently but I'm paraphrasing here.
I love 16 personalities, it's honestly quite accurate. As an "INTJ", I find my comfort zone is to be balancing all my projects at once, often while mentally developing my ideas in the background. If I'm doing nothing, or "chilling", I feel deeply uncomfortable. I never get an urge to text or call loved ones, and that's made it hard to keep friends (but the best ones stay). My mind is very logical about everything, and once I recognise a challenge I simply have to complete it, but there's an art to it. I'm creative, and like to add mystery to all the logical things in the world, like we're all part of a storybook. It's nicer to think of things that way.
I am an INTJ, 25 yo, a female. Law degree, 5 languages, clinical depression, GAD, only one friend about 15 years and even that is too much sometimes. I dont do things I dont see the point of doing, like: relantionship, sex, clubs, alcohol, drugs, cigarettes, talking to people unless nessesary, etc I was lonely and I will always be. Cause that what I've chosen, or maybe cause I have zero social skills, or maybe cause I am mental 🖤
I was already studying architecture for 2 years when i found out I was an INTJ personality type. Studying architecture had always been my dream and now it felt meant to be
I am an INTJ-A according to a personality test. I'm not sure how realistically accurate these things are, but it certainly seems to have anecdotally pegged me. I am a retired Detective, so fact and actual truth are paramount to my mind. I have zero interest in being popular, I simply want to be correct in my assessments and will actively seek out information in order to facilitate that. Very interesting.
took this test once after several months, to see if i wont fall in the same place...i prob memorized the answers, but i answered honestly each time and each time my result was intj -a Architect INTJ-A
understandable. i once had a friend who i really enjoyed discussing with since we both liked to talk about deeper, more thought provoking topics. unfortunately we had a fall out and we no longer talk. it’s devastating because none of my other friends enjoy that, which is very frustrating, and it gets real lonely at times. so i completely understand where you’re coming from
I am sure it works well for you. I am also confident that you must be better than most actors. By spotlight I didn't mean literal spotlight but being the center of attention say politically or socially.
The Personality Network Hey Personality Network :) what if I have two many personality’s? My mom was a Gemini moon. And I’m an Aquarius Sun (sign of fracture) Scorpio moon. I’m also in the spotlight since the Aquarius Scorpio rules it. Scorpio rules spots and Aquarius rules light (Scorpio) Spot (Aquarius) Light Lightning (Aquarius) Spots (Scorpio) This means I can pick up where lightning “will strike”.
"Independent, confident, ambitious, strategic" To be independent, it requires you to be confident. This is my biggest problem as I have zero self confidence. Any advice to overcome this?
Lie to yourself, just try and act confident, I know not much help but it’s the best I can give you. If you want specific techniques, when keeping your hands in your pockets, stick out your thumbs, and when your elbows are on the table or just whenever, touch your fingertips together to make an arch. I know this isnt much but body language can be the first step to gaining confidence. Best of luck
@@anthonyvanlian1739 thank you so much for the tips! Gonna practice it and yeah, I think body language helps us to look a lil bit tough so people won't underestimate us easily.
Cecillian main source of confidence is ‘past successful experiences’. So think about your successful experiences (and as many details as you can about how you handled a situation) in relation to what you are doing. If you are about to give a presentation and don’t have previous experience, think about the times you shared your knowledge and people liked it or accepted it. Going to a job interview, think about the times you talked well to a person with higher power. And use imagery to practice your confidence in different situations (imagine your body language and tone in a scenario you want to practice, and try to fix the mistakes and then repeat the imagery). It needs practice, but you can build it effectively with good practice.
I'm a female INTJ, and back in school when we had to write homework essays, I would get so pissed off at my teachers who wouldn't allow me to fully expand on my perspective of the topic. I always have so much to say and analyse, but they kept saying its over the top and irrelevant. I used to find it so frustrating having to deal with their lack of will to really understand the depths of my opinions, that I literally stopped doing the homework altogether. If I do something, I either do it my way in a perfectionistic manner, or I don't do it at all.
Most relatable comments I've ever seen. I used to think I was a strange one. No one understands me. Not even myself. Now I know I'm not alone. Absolutely relatable.
This personality type is on par with Alexander the Great. It is a cool personality because it is on par with many other aspects of amazing people in history. World builders, War planners, and leaders. Opportunity meets your preparedness. When I was younger I asked my mother "don't you feel like you were born to do something special?" Almost like a quote out of a Disney movie. I felt like Hercules and finding the place where I belong. I didn't want to settle for being rich with a good job, that's not how Empires are built. My mother and father both just said they wanted good jobs that paid well to survive, and they got what they wanted. Seeing how smart they were and that they were limited by their ambitions frustrated the Hell out of me. You will be pushed back and broken and sometimes feel as though you are no longer special or even question your personality, but that only serves as an affirmation that you have it. Just remember that most people born as Architects change the world in one way or another. They rise to the top, and if society doesn't let them then they skirt around the social system. If you haven't done it yet, it just means your time isn't here. When your moment does arrive, you will remember all the pain and loneliness you endured and use it as fuel and a firm resolution to do what you want to do.
I am INTJ and civil engineer and of course I find architects as mere decorators of rather more interesting mathematically complex structural systems. Proud to be an INTJ nonetheless
Im happier than ever to see other intj's in the comments that are just like me, I've been really different from other kids; i tried getting along with them but no would understand me, which is why i stay away from people now days not to mention i have so much open choices i can do in the future it stresses me out. I also am a very hard to read, i dont show emotions when im in public or with other people but when it comes to being alone i feel relieved and show most of my emotions. Not to mention the non stop daydream.
It really depends on the website, some websites call INTJ the Mastermind and INTP the Architect while others call INTJ the Architect and INTP the Logician
I've been typed as both INTJ and INFJ I love science and maths, but also art, languages, sports, and writing. I feel like I end up liking anything that I can make fun or interesting for myself. anyone else like this?
I feel somewhat proud, as an architect you notice your brain is the biggest and most valuable gift you have earned in your life. During the 4th grade of elementary school my teacher always told me i was too fascinated by new things and she told my mom i should stop and start playing with other kids, i never listened to her, i though it was much better to spend time at something i liked than at something that could be a waste of time and get me in trouble when it comes to education and learning.
video nailed it pretty good in 2 min as I watched it intuitively judging every word that was given comparing it to my own internal standardized system of compiled, compressed, defragmented, back tested thoughts and ideas. -fellow INTJ-A
INTJ. The biggest issue I had as a child wasn't the lack of friends, though that was unpleasant, it was religion. I'm from a very religious area/family and from the time I could talk, I was questioning their belief in something that has no basis in logic. I'm an atheist now, but as soon as I read the book, the plot holes, inconsistent teachings and general "conform or suffer" message, I had questions. I pissed off so many parishioners just trying to get an answer that wasn't based on faith/hope/feeling, eventually my family stopped forcing to attend. I rambled on a bit. Question: How many INTJ personality types are atheists? Let me know.
I'm a Christian INTJ here, I understand where you are coming from. Looking at religion from the surface it can sound like there are a lot of inconsistencies and irregularities within them. Even though I believe in God and his existence, I too had questions regarding the logic behind certain religious ideas and texts. Thankfully, upon doing plenty of research and doing my best to read my holy book (the Bible) within the correct context, a lot of questions that I had started to make sense. The reason why I was confused before was because I either read it out of context or the religious leaders at my church didn't know what they were talking about when I asked them certain questions about the Bible. Sadly, that can happen.
I’m an agnostic theist simply because the benefits of believing in god outweighs the benefits of not believing in god. Being a nihilist is cool and all in the right context. I believe not only is there psychological benefits in believing in god (i.e. when you’re down bad completely exhausted or lacking hope sometimes it’s a good thing to believe there is a god out there.) but also in the sense that it makes me more relatable out in the world dealing with evangelical Christians and what not, I already have struggles relating to anybody, but being on the same page is essential to expressing my real ideas without seeming like an alien to other people. In all honesty I don’t believe in god, he hasn’t done anything in millennia, humans on many many occasions throughout history has predicted the 2nd advent of Christ and their predictions have failed everytime. If there really is a god he created life millions of years ago but left us, because in reality humans have complete totality on how we think and what we do even if we’re all individuals we think collectively without knowing it sometimes. Deeper still I believe god is just a fabrication of the human mind to understand the physics, the cruelty, and nature of the real world it is easier for humans to take a complex sets of systems or life and simply attribute it all to god. TLDR christianity was just another step in modern human evolution
I’m not an atheist but I do question religion regularly. I too grew up in a religious household and I remember during my teenage years I would be so excited to debate pastors and point out to them how they were wrong. Religion is something that interests me. Not just the Christian religion but all of them. Sorry that this isn’t a direct answer to your question but I just wanted to share that I’ve def had the same feelings about religion. I still do.
It's official, I know at least 68% of people are INTJs. I've given my english students this test and 18 out of 24 were INTJs. ISFPs are the rarest! I don't feel Special anymore 😆 -INTJ
@@abcdefghijk8925 No it was regular English. I think the statistics are out dated. Due to rise of introverts in today's society intj, intp, and infp are becoming a majority. Esfj and Estj are the rarest so far. I know we INTJs like to feel unique but we must face reality. Like what syndrome said "if everyone is a super, no one is!"
I literally have dreams of solve complex CS problems. I test them after I wake up and they always work. I’m glad I’m like this; no matter what others say, I like who I am now.
I'm intj and i've got like 10 friends sure it feels kinda boring when i start a deep conversation but it's fun to be around those idiots (i've all the rights to insult my bros lol)
You are not alone (yeah that was intended) seriously though I sometimes feel lonely but then I quickly remember why I prefer being alone after “social time” people are boring, ideas and ideals are better :)
The comment section seems to be a good place to find friends. Hello INTJ'S I am INTJ my self and it's not easy to find people that understand me and I almost spent mt whole life far from social life.
The fact that people identify with these personality types really pisses me off. In no way do these personality types deeply define you - also if you are lonely and fall under an "INTJ" category, maybe try doing something about it - I mean, I get INTJ as well, but honestly according to these videos we see the world as a structure that we can "deconstruct" or more like a chess board - which I think is true in most cases; so use it to your advantage and make the right moves. I'm thinking a lot of INTJ's are anti-social crybabies who cant figure the world out and waste their potential because they expect things to be handed to them. Fact - even if you put in the effort you might not win the game. That doesn't mean you should stop playing though, because eventually you will win if you make the right moves.
As a child I was very gullible, but something clicked in my mind a while ago and now I’m so sceptical of everything. My friend dislocated her knee and I didn’t believe her at first cause of how sarcastic she seemed to me… I was about to go on google maps to look at the direction of her house to check if the lighting in her pictures was accurate… that was until my mom came and told me it actually happened…😭 I felt do bad after
It’s so funny that I’m both INTJ and an actual architect
Jorge Andres I want to be an architect, and since I recently took a test and found out I was an intj, this was quite ironic to me too.
Damn. Me too, well, I’m not an architect but it’s always one of my possible career choices
Me too
Nice, me too!
Im studying to become an architect, I took a test and it said I am an INFJ which is pretty close, especially because I was only 10-15% off on the F and J, so it's hard to say, but this video did describe me pretty well, maybe a few things a tiny bit off but over all pretty close
Any INTJ artists? I still enjoy science and maths, but art is my real passion .
Art is so fun and calming! Of course most people probably relate to that because it fills that need for balance. Without it i don't think I'd be very fulfilled especially with my current lifestyle.
@anne Math is definitely fun once you get a good understanding of what you're learning! 🙂
I'm an INTJ-A (assertive) and I'm pursuing a career in art and digital design. I enjoy math and science, too, but I can't really see myself making a career out of them.
@@silversarcasmic5111 You could major in a science as a safety net, as we know a career in art could be a struggle, so it would be comforting knowing that you can always fall back on that. And probably having a more safe feeling career in the arts. If you want, you should go into arts, but always have something to support that dream. Or you can learn coding languages like python and HTML for double safety net, or just have that instead of also majoring in a science. You don't even have to go to collage for coding and can still get a job. so long as you have what companies are looking for in coding. Which you can do some research on key factors on getting hired in coding companies.
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A really good thing about being an INTJ is that literally nobody can brainwash me. Because we're so stubborn to our own thought process and opinions, it's hard to move our ground.
This is so true. I’ve gotten into so many disagreements because I can recognize when people are being fake/trying to be charming and my friends fall for it, or people falling for some propaganda or news media bullshit that to me is obviously phony
True, but at the same time, it’s a double-edge sword. At times, I feel like I should not be that stubborn in certain situations but I really can’t help it :’D
Thats why instead we are the one who brainwash them haha
Yup had a nasty ex that did this i was like 👋👋👋
Being stubborn is a good trait and that's a fact. No brainwashing. I know when I'm right and nobody will change my thoughts.
You know that you're an INTJ when you take the test and then subconsciously spend the rest of the day being skeptical about it and trying to see if thats what you really are.
Infj there too
What the heck.. thats me!!
Yes,I was so skeptical, I took the test 3 times!🤣
Me 🤣
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It gets tough and lonely when you know that most people are content with mediocrity.
I can't even describe how true this is
Aelo at least I have a twin. He's one of two people that truly understand me. My mom is an INTJ-T.
Here's the thing about mediocrity. We all of us, define our own standards. Is it a life of mediocrity for a parent to remain at home and raise a child who is exceptional? Is it mediocrity to work a nine to five job for 50 years supporting you family elsewhere in the world where the opportunity is nonexistent? We choose our sacrifice, and lead exceptional lives when we so choose to do so. We frame the world as we will. Is a life poor, mediocre, or exceptional? It is only for us, ourselfs, to decide the value of our lives. And anyone who tells you otherwise, is either wrong or looking to exploit you in some way.
Empathy is only human in America, there's rampant anti intellectualism happening. People are ok with being uninformed or misinformed. They disagree with facts and research in favor of pseudoscience.
Truth!
I'm trapped in a sea of possible futures. It's exhausting.
Yeees...
is this why I struggle so much choosing a career path to go down haha - there’s too many
You don’t rise to your expectations, you fall to your training.
@@sunnybunny406 same, I already chose one, but wow was a fukin roller coaster
@@sunnybunny406 same, i haven’t even chosen a major to study for college because there’s just too many
Before I knew I was INTJ I thought I was a borderline sociopath because of how well I can control my feelings and how I view friendships and the world and my whole way of thinking. I could never understand how ppl always focus on the problem instead of trying to find a solution. Or how they make decisions based on emotions or on a whim, it puzzled me because I thought everyone should be able to think the way that I do, find solutions, question the status quo. Why do they just accept how things are instead of trying to figure it out. Now I know and I am more understanding and at peace, it weird.
This is exceptionally relatable to me. I have felt through out my life this way. Me doing something completely logical just to be get glazed at with shock and horror because it was "very insensitive"
Thank you so much for explaining what I'm feeling
I felt that something was wrong with me bc I was always victim of bullying and I had No friends. I thought I was the weird one
I'm a INTJ woman and felt the same way about others being so emotional. I wondered if I was a sociopath because when it came to certain issues I felt no empathy towards others (I cannot for the life of me feel empathy for "he doesn't text me back" type of conversations). I do have many friends, though this was something I worked hard on to achieve. I wasn't comfortable with being seen as unapproachable and approached people instead. You become better at it in time and then confidence follows
I literally went down a rabbit hole of psychology trying to determine that very thing. I thought I was a sociopath because I never felt empathy towards others pain, even if I tried to alleviate it. I also had a logic system that I wasn't sure was either far advanced of those surrounding me or just plain flat out wrong (like a defect). Now that I know this is just because of my mental structure and learning behaviors with priorities, I realize that my weaknesses can be remedied now that I am aware of them. I can now try to learn to care about people more fully.
I don't remember much of my childhood, except for feeling lonely,
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Honestly same
Big mood.
And then i learnt to enjoy loneliness and autonomy
Should point out that people who have the INTJ personality type (such as myself) that it has almost nothing to do with how intelligent you are, the personality types show what kind of person you are and how you view the world around you. For instance, I'm dumb as a rock, but I'm always so interested in how stuff works and how it can be used in it's full potential, but can't really do that since I'm a moron
It requires intelligence to know how much we don't know.
I believe I'm dumb as well as an intj.As a fellow kind,my advice is make that "thing" summary as possible that you can understand and repetition to remember that.
My believe is we can do others can,just we have to put more effort than usual does
@@Mxrk_Hxshim honestly, that personality quiz isn't always 100% accurate either, the only way you can be sure if a professional tests you, not trying to be rude but I don't take advice much, I'm really stubborn sadly
@@loggingfire1 yeah I wish that all of the website I visit is false,because it's kind of odd for me...but understanding and thinking about it,really I have the similarity in attributes and stuff.Especially the thing about "clueless" when it come to that "thing".You'll know what I'm saying...
And it's only base on my experience,just trying to give advice(should've be opinion) not mean to force you or anything...
Yeah, you can believe whatever, as long as you don't change yourself to be an INTJ personality type or any other, just be yourself and don't be all high and mighty about it
Its hard being an INTJ in a discussion because most people just lose focus halfway through IF the conversation topics require more than just their attention span
Thank you you just made me realize whay veen going on woth my conversations with people no one cares about actually learning a topic
INTP is the same way.
exactly, it’s one of the things that annoy me the most.
I cant count hw many times ive been left with half of my thought still stuck in my head, while so many other topics have come and passed; one of the reasons I prefer to stay quiet a lot of the time.
This is so true. Whenever I speak about something else than the weather, they just nod and reply with words that do no more than acknowledge the fact that they are listening to me. Feels like everyone else is stupid. But maybe I am just the smart one?
Small talk is the hardest obstacle I’ve ever had.
I'm an INTJ, never felt like I fit in and didn't see the point in getting high grades (still don't). A pass was a pass in my eyes
I just get good grades so that I can get a scholarship. My enfj friend gets them just because.
What do you call a Doctor with a c average? It's still Doctor.
Cs get degrees people
I felt the same. Back...WAY back in H.S....I would do no homework but Get As knowing Id pass w a C. Fk it.
My math teacher failed me w that C average knowing exactly what I was doing. LoL
Senior year...I got all As for him. R I P buddy.
Exactly
I am INTJ-T, its so exhausting how i overthink of what others think of me. I hate myself for that😒
I an INTJ-A, kinda more chill, and a bit lazy doing boring tasks.
INTJ-A here. The truth is, no one cares. People waste their lives thinking people care when nobody cares. You're just making up stuff. Live how you would want to live and not how others want you to live. Change for no one.
@@OzonatedOil hey what means A and T?
@@michaelhighlights1614 a stands for assertive and t for turbulent...
Me too and I feel you.
I am an INTJ and I have had to work SO hard to develop friendships. Most of my life I’ve had 1 friend, and now that I have several I feel like a fraud? Like I’m lying all the time. Idk, I’m happier but I also feel less like myself??
Mikey Surratt yes my friend. You got yourself some trouble. I've always have friends but the problem was maintaining them. I think of them like taxes. You always have to be doing something with them or explaining yourself to why you're so detached or as you said faking it.
I have learned that you don't need friends. Usually they really aren't friends they are acquaintances. I have maybe 2 friends in the world. Thats not to say I don't know people. I just would rather have 1 or 2 people that are true. Than 100s that are not.
Wow, same. There are three people I consider my friends, and the rest of my classmates I consider good acquaintances (that I’d like to be friends with but it’s hard when you are who you are). And these three people are pretty cool and all but it’s taken me about a year to actually get closer to them and even then we’re not that close, we’re like school friends. We talk in school, play UNO, do group projects, and gossip, but outside of that we never hang out. And I feel that, even if I consider them my best friends, they wouldn’t consider me their best friend. And I’m always worrying about not being weird, awkward, and maybe mean when I’m around them and I’m always anxious when talking to them afraid that I’ll say something wrong that’ll make them see me in a bad light. I’m just… always worrying. You know a friend is a real friend when you can talk to them about anything, be yourself fully, and feel comfortable with them.
@@nickynicks_ don't worry about it. My best friend is my wife. I gave up on caring what people think of me along time ago. Over the years your friends go away and other come into your life. But honestly the only people I hang out with is my family. Co workers are just that coworkers. I don't spend time with them outside of work. If you do and there are problems it turns into work problems. I avoid it.
@@nickynicks_ Look nicky if it's really important to you then i recommend you a book called "How to make friends and influence people" by dale carnegie i believe it was. It's a great book to help you with that particular problem. But It's very important you understand that a true friend will accept you for who you are. Be yourself and don't waste time being complacent. Most people are just a waste of your time.
Ah, yes, INTJ. Where every high school kid wants to be you instead of accepting that the teenage years are just awkward and that they are not, in fact, geniuses.
I was not idolized in school. I was ostracised at around 3rd grade.
Not all INTJs fit in.
Not true, I was thought as a moron, and I am honestly a moron, your personality type has almost nothing to do with your knowledge, but your perspective of the world
Thomas Rushin Wouldn't say so unless the majority of the school is of above average intelligence, just for my social awkwardness, people like to translate that part of me into stupidity.
I'm called a freak. Also I'm ugly. Also I cut myself because of the stress I inflict on me, because I'm such a fucking over achiever.
So no, every high school kid doesn't want to be me, even if I'm easily the best student in my class (not bragging, just giving plain facts)
Daria never thought of herself as a genius. She was content to be a nonconformist.
Every time I watch a video about an MBTI personality I always end up spending more time reading the comments than watching the video. It’s so interesting to read about people‘s stories and how they might differ from or correlate with the “standard”.
Literally doing that right now 😂
Word
I'm apparently an INTJ.
When I had to write essays in high school and college, I would become deeply upset if the prompt was something difficult to address, because I had an internal expectation to to "solve" the essay prompt by producing an essay that was indisputable. When I couldn't do that, I felt like a failure even if I got an A on the assignment. I've always become drawn to ideological styles of thinking that attempt to propose axioms that "solve" morality, at least in theory. It's as though I am never content with a way of understanding unless it is comprehensive, or if it is indisputably correct.
That's why I think I went into accounting as a profession. It's a field in which there are nearly 0 subjective decisions, in which the rules are already established. But I learned that the absence of opportunities to solve original problems is rather concerting, so I'm not sure I'll be happy doing that the rest of my life.
I don't know if I'll ever truly be happy.
You put that need for comprehensive all encompassing truth into words well. It is true. When something doesn't fit into black or white boxes it is hard to deal with. Maybe that's why dealing with social skills is so hard for us. People and the rules for dealing with them are so grey.
Solving for the human terminal goal will likely help you objectify some more subjectives. This will help you with morals, and if you learn the Meyers-Briggs personalities, it will help you with social stuff, and prediction of behaviour.
Ummm.... I just took a personality test on the internet and got this result.
Im not gonna lie that’s kind of sad. I hope you find something to look forward to in life.
- an intp searching for a “better” life [too] (somewhat)
I once had an essay to write, too
But my teacher isn’t able to comprehend the way I addressed the topic and FAILED me even though it is clearly the best solution there is
And after I told her that she just cannot comprehend i got into trouble but at least didn’t fail the test
Before I knew that I was had an INTJ personality, It always baffled me from a young age that people focus on the problem rather than finding the solution. Another is struggling in making friends, at some point I was known in class for being too blunt or being insensitive.
ENTP here. Love you INTJs. We just make sense with each other.
Get Rich By 2020 Yes definitely
This is true. Love NT company. They (XNTPs) also happen to be the most irritating people but I love a good argument when it’s all in good fun.
My uncle's an ENTP. We have some of the best discussions ever.
INTJ here, much appreciated mate
Peace, prosperity, Abundance and Riches Dude! I really like your Username, kinda match with my mindset!
Please cut off this background music... or at least lower the volume
Thanks for your feedback. Will do so in our next video.
@O Malley I too am over-sensitive to noises. But lowering the volume will also lower the narrating voice, which is not ideal.
Yes agreed. Or provide subtitles.
@@ThePersonalityNetwork INTJ here. Thanks for acknowledging.
@@sarisatechasukij7026 In audio engineering, narration can be on a separate channel from the underscore music, so the volume of each component is customizable. It depends on how simple or complicated the setup and editing software are.
My best attribute, by far, is my ability to look at an existing system and quickly know exactly how to improve it. It’s also my biggest frustration, when I don’t have the power to do it. School was hell for me, even though I was in the top percentiles in everything and got good grades. Constantly being forced to submit to incompetent teachers drove me nuts. This video is more accurate than most.
We are glad you liked it.
So true - my son who is an INTJ would often get in trouble in school because he argued with the teachers (he felt they were incompetent) . Once when he was in grade 2 he argued with the teacher about whether or not a tomato was a fruit or vegetable. He drove her so crazy that she called the University for their input. Needless to say he wasn’t her favourite student. My son is now a successful businessman.
the fact that youtube knows me so well it recommends videos on my personality type
Anyone else here been judged because they don’t smile or talk much and then feel like replying in a snarky way but the words never manage to leave your lips? I think I should be thankful for that.
😀same......
I have been judged for being homesick and not being social or going outside
I got nick-named "angry bird" for this.
Oh...the words left my lips, often.
INTJ's: I feel like you're just explaining me.
I've wanted to be an architect all my life and then I found out my personality type is INTJ. It was hilarious
LOOOL
Same here. It’s ironic.
Wow. This description was accurate, while also short and to the point. Perfect.
Nn need to waste.time on nonsense. lol
I'm an ENTP and my best friend is an INTJ, it is always interesting talking to him. And I love how he respects my space and always helps me out with my crazy inventions or ideas ✨.
I never actually believed in these personality tests until I did a long and complete test and got this "architect personality". It's amazing how accurate it is, even on the weaknesses. I'm impressed.
Replying late but yes, I also do not believe in this test. I was actually surprised that I got Intj because I don't consider myself that intelligent, neither do I have any mathematical inclination. But I have got the same results over and over through the years. Surprising. I wonder how there can be any intrinsic personality when a lot of other factors like environment and social conditioning weigh in?
ENFx here with an INTJ friend, you guys are so cool and smart! Me and my INTJ friend don't talk much, but when we do it's always fun hearing her opinions and theories on things :D
I started to establish my own rules since being born 1 month before expected date :D
I am a female intj-t and its very hard for me to have friends... I am very confident when i do the talk but approaching someone is very hard for me..
Turbulent INTJ here. Everything is accurate except for my confidence. I have many easygoing and relatable friends who attract a ton of people, and have time for literally anything. I’m over here on my phone typing this while unproductive and not doing that. The only close friends I have are friends that came to me in an act of being nice and I ended up opening up to them. My self confidence is very low, and I’m bad at small talk so it can’t become a philosophical conversation, and I stay silent for the rest of the time. Any advice?
Everything is accurate for me as well, except for "do well academically"
INTJ here, according to my research to develop permanent unshakeable confidence, do these step by step:
Confidence doesn't just can't be pulled out of your ass tho there are other personality types that can still do that but you need reasons to back up and feel like you are essentially the SHIT!
- Go to Gym, and improve style, grooming, looks, fit clothing, etc to get high value superficial confidence.
- Currently as you reading this, you exactly know deep down what you should be doing but you keep ignoring it to do some other dumb shit. Cut everyone out for a while and Work on your purpose and make money.
I'll take some time but,
At this point= Heavy Bank Balance, Body Lookin sexy, Nutrition on point, Looks are sharp, No stress over any debt, Life going GREAT. You start to feel like oh Man, I'm the shit!! And radiate this powerful vibe that people can sense subconsciously.
Most people's life just suck(sorry to break the truth) and now you enter with this non-needy value swag radiating positivity. Give some time and You essentially become a drug for these people that they need a constant hit of that positivity to feel Great again with your energy.
If you don't develop the confidence like this and try to fake it, people can all see through all in all! You cannot fake confidence, you must become confident. This is the most permanent solution you will find in life for TRUE UNSHAKEABLE CONFIDENCE!
Thanks for reading and you loser(just to poke) start taking action and not be like other people that gets settled in mediocrity.
Peace
Same. I am INTJ-Turbulent too. Just be yourself, don't try too hard!
I’m a INTJ-T female.. I’m 29 and starting process of seeing if I’m autistic because I’m SO painfully strange and my one and only “kind of” relationship ended with my partner saying over and over how he just didn’t get why everything was so difficult for me.. he would always say I made the smallest things look so incredibly difficult. Don’t know if I’m autistic or just really weird but soon I’ll hopefully know! It’s a painful process, I’m horrible at therapy but at this stage in my life I’m desperate and open to any answers on what to do.
As a fellow INTJ-T, the only thing i can say is try to build up your confidence. I also have problem with my confidence to the point it become my insecurity. But there's no way to make it gone. You only can deal with it. I speak to a psychologist and she said I should train myself to be confident and enjoy the process, bcs confidence isn't something you gain instantly. I try to build my confidence like join public speaking class, making youtube channel where i upload my own creative videos and promote it on my sns (this is my personal channel, you can check "syifairuz" channel where i upload videos, mostlt it just my hobbies).
The thing we should remember is we should try to NOT CARE SO MUCH about what people saying about us because that's not always true. Thinking about how I want to life my own life is way more important. Because at the end, we're the one who responsible for it.
As an INTJ I find this very eyeopening 😶
ENFP here! You guys are amazing!
Grace Greyling Ty, so are you!
I am glad others are learning that. :)
How are you doing in life as an extrovert
Look at you inspiring people.
You are amazing at recognizing how amazing we are. Haha. I'm kidding...kind of ;-)
Learning about this has been really life changing for me. Suddenly all these issues that I have aren't aberrations, but something that others have and are valued by some people.
This is hilarious. I tested as an INTJ and I remember being six years old and always looking at the subsurface intentions and behind the scenes workings of adults that I encountered, stating that I would work to try to soon have the world figured out through methodical analysis, and getting in trouble at school for daydreaming.
I’m INTJ-T & have no interest in being an architect, but I love creating things, making art, photography, & illustrations. I overthink almost all the time, striving for perfection, & can be pretty blunt and straightforward. I wouldn’t say I’m book-smart but I am innovative, creative, & a visual learner & only love learning when it’s something I’m passionate about
I'm an infj, I come here to know how he as an intj is really reasonable and also patient face my emotions. He is cool and awesome. That's true intj is always thinking to repair something or a problem and never left it at all.
I'm learning management and the 16 personalities was brought up. I am an INTJ. Hit the nail on the head with my personality. I work for a Bank and everything I've read is correct.
I'm now planning to take over the world with my music. I will use this to deliver it.
Who else listened to this at ×2 for efficiency? Lol.
Is that meant to be an INTJ thing? haha
@@Squiderrant we do that yes
i wish there was a 4x option
Just wished the music didn't exist. Or at least some calm thoughtful music was on, rather than the boppy Muzak.
x1.5 speed but i get your point, im also an intj xD
It feels so weird learning I have this... explains so much about my history and myself......
I did the test and found out I am an INTJ. This is the most accurate personality test that I've ever done.
i like how the last video on mbti on this channel was from 3 years ago.
What’s up my fellow architects? Self-awareness is the best thing you can do for yourself. You aren’t always right, you aren’t always the smartest, you aren’t always the best looking. You’re welcome.
This video is the best explanation of being an INTJ, that l have seen so far.
Very accurately described me. I currently have four projects I'm working on, all organized on a couple of trellos. I have even had a teacher call me cynical in a report card and my "friends" always insist that I have a tendency to spout random, scientific facts. (of course, they don't speak that eloquently but I'm paraphrasing here.
I love 16 personalities, it's honestly quite accurate. As an "INTJ", I find my comfort zone is to be balancing all my projects at once, often while mentally developing my ideas in the background. If I'm doing nothing, or "chilling", I feel deeply uncomfortable. I never get an urge to text or call loved ones, and that's made it hard to keep friends (but the best ones stay). My mind is very logical about everything, and once I recognise a challenge I simply have to complete it, but there's an art to it. I'm creative, and like to add mystery to all the logical things in the world, like we're all part of a storybook. It's nicer to think of things that way.
I took the test yesterday and now this video is on my recommendation 🤔
lol youtube is watching you
👏👏👏👏 1000% accurate in my case. Took test atleast 15 times. Almost every time intj-a personality.
I am an INTJ, 25 yo, a female. Law degree, 5 languages, clinical depression, GAD, only one friend about 15 years and even that is too much sometimes. I dont do things I dont see the point of doing, like: relantionship, sex, clubs, alcohol, drugs, cigarettes, talking to people unless nessesary, etc
I was lonely and I will always be. Cause that what I've chosen, or maybe cause I have zero social skills, or maybe cause I am mental 🖤
GOD, at last some optimistic film on INTJ❤😊!
I was already studying architecture for 2 years when i found out I was an INTJ personality type. Studying architecture had always been my dream and now it felt meant to be
I am an INTJ-A according to a personality test. I'm not sure how realistically accurate these things are, but it certainly seems to have anecdotally pegged me.
I am a retired Detective, so fact and actual truth are paramount to my mind. I have zero interest in being popular, I simply want to be correct in my assessments and will actively seek out information in order to facilitate that.
Very interesting.
took this test once after several months, to see if i wont fall in the same place...i prob memorized the answers, but i answered honestly each time and each time my result was intj -a Architect
INTJ-A
Thanks for spending the time to create and share this content awareness/perspective
Just had my personality test. Im an INTJ-T haha. Im a Science teacher by the way. :)
Finally a video that emphasizes that we are both smart and imaginative.
Surrounded by people yet, they make me feel lonely and isolated.i wish i will meet someone understands the way i think.
understandable. i once had a friend who i really enjoyed discussing with since we both liked to talk about deeper, more thought provoking topics. unfortunately we had a fall out and we no longer talk. it’s devastating because none of my other friends enjoy that, which is very frustrating, and it gets real lonely at times. so i completely understand where you’re coming from
Yep....that's me. Great video, thanks.
Funnily enough, my element is the stage- I am most confident when acting. Staying out of the spotlight isn't exactly what I should do.
I am sure it works well for you. I am also confident that you must be better than most actors. By spotlight I didn't mean literal spotlight but being the center of attention say politically or socially.
@@ThePersonalityNetwork I know, I just thought it was ironic that you were using that figure of speech
So true! I remember being great at school plays. I’m also a teacher, and we kind of have to act for a living lol
The Personality Network
Hey Personality Network :) what if I have two many personality’s? My mom was a Gemini moon. And I’m an Aquarius Sun (sign of fracture) Scorpio moon. I’m also in the spotlight since the Aquarius Scorpio rules it.
Scorpio rules spots and Aquarius rules light
(Scorpio) Spot (Aquarius) Light
Lightning (Aquarius) Spots (Scorpio)
This means I can pick up where lightning “will strike”.
Same- I get a rush from performing 🤷🏻♀️
"Independent, confident, ambitious, strategic"
To be independent, it requires you to be confident. This is my biggest problem as I have zero self confidence. Any advice to overcome this?
Lie to yourself, just try and act confident, I know not much help but it’s the best I can give you. If you want specific techniques, when keeping your hands in your pockets, stick out your thumbs, and when your elbows are on the table or just whenever, touch your fingertips together to make an arch. I know this isnt much but body language can be the first step to gaining confidence. Best of luck
@@anthonyvanlian1739 thank you so much for the tips! Gonna practice it and yeah, I think body language helps us to look a lil bit tough so people won't underestimate us easily.
Cecillian main source of confidence is ‘past successful experiences’. So think about your successful experiences (and as many details as you can about how you handled a situation) in relation to what you are doing. If you are about to give a presentation and don’t have previous experience, think about the times you shared your knowledge and people liked it or accepted it. Going to a job interview, think about the times you talked well to a person with higher power. And use imagery to practice your confidence in different situations (imagine your body language and tone in a scenario you want to practice, and try to fix the mistakes and then repeat the imagery). It needs practice, but you can build it effectively with good practice.
@@blitz-sports9804 Thanks for the advice. Will definitely practice it!
Self-love
I'm a female INTJ, and back in school when we had to write homework essays, I would get so pissed off at my teachers who wouldn't allow me to fully expand on my perspective of the topic. I always have so much to say and analyse, but they kept saying its over the top and irrelevant. I used to find it so frustrating having to deal with their lack of will to really understand the depths of my opinions, that I literally stopped doing the homework altogether. If I do something, I either do it my way in a perfectionistic manner, or I don't do it at all.
Most relatable comments I've ever seen. I used to think I was a strange one. No one understands me. Not even myself. Now I know I'm not alone. Absolutely relatable.
This personality type is on par with Alexander the Great. It is a cool personality because it is on par with many other aspects of amazing people in history. World builders, War planners, and leaders. Opportunity meets your preparedness.
When I was younger I asked my mother "don't you feel like you were born to do something special?" Almost like a quote out of a Disney movie. I felt like Hercules and finding the place where I belong. I didn't want to settle for being rich with a good job, that's not how Empires are built. My mother and father both just said they wanted good jobs that paid well to survive, and they got what they wanted. Seeing how smart they were and that they were limited by their ambitions frustrated the Hell out of me.
You will be pushed back and broken and sometimes feel as though you are no longer special or even question your personality, but that only serves as an affirmation that you have it. Just remember that most people born as Architects change the world in one way or another. They rise to the top, and if society doesn't let them then they skirt around the social system. If you haven't done it yet, it just means your time isn't here. When your moment does arrive, you will remember all the pain and loneliness you endured and use it as fuel and a firm resolution to do what you want to do.
I was an INFJ but after getting more comfortable and real with myself. I realised that I was an INTJ. Life is still good
I am INTJ and civil engineer and of course I find architects as mere decorators of rather more interesting mathematically complex structural systems. Proud to be an INTJ nonetheless
Im happier than ever to see other intj's in the comments that are just like me, I've been really different from other kids; i tried getting along with them but no would understand me, which is why i stay away from people now days not to mention i have so much open choices i can do in the future it stresses me out. I also am a very hard to read, i dont show emotions when im in public or with other people but when it comes to being alone i feel relieved and show most of my emotions. Not to mention the non stop daydream.
The architect is INTP. INTJs are the “masterminds”
It really depends on the website, some websites call INTJ the Mastermind and INTP the Architect while others call INTJ the Architect and INTP the Logician
mastermind sounds cooler.
and i got the result web a intp and web b intj
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The official website says architect
I've been typed as both INTJ and INFJ
I love science and maths, but also art, languages, sports, and writing. I feel like I end up liking anything that I can make fun or interesting for myself. anyone else like this?
I feel somewhat proud, as an architect you notice your brain is the biggest and most valuable gift you have earned in your life.
During the 4th grade of elementary school my teacher always told me i was too fascinated by new things and she told my mom i should stop and start playing with other kids, i never listened to her, i though it was much better to spend time at something i liked than at something that could be a waste of time and get me in trouble when it comes to education and learning.
INFP here. This is quite true with the two of my best friends, both of whom are INTJs :)
Title 'explained in 2min.'
Me: wow, you can do that? :o
Lol! So true
video nailed it pretty good in 2 min as I watched it intuitively judging every word that was given comparing it to my own internal standardized system of compiled, compressed, defragmented, back tested thoughts and ideas. -fellow INTJ-A
INTJ. The biggest issue I had as a child wasn't the lack of friends, though that was unpleasant, it was religion. I'm from a very religious area/family and from the time I could talk, I was questioning their belief in something that has no basis in logic. I'm an atheist now, but as soon as I read the book, the plot holes, inconsistent teachings and general "conform or suffer" message, I had questions. I pissed off so many parishioners just trying to get an answer that wasn't based on faith/hope/feeling, eventually my family stopped forcing to attend.
I rambled on a bit. Question: How many INTJ personality types are atheists? Let me know.
I'm a Christian INTJ here, I understand where you are coming from. Looking at religion from the surface it can sound like there are a lot of inconsistencies and irregularities within them.
Even though I believe in God and his existence, I too had questions regarding the logic behind certain religious ideas and texts.
Thankfully, upon doing plenty of research and doing my best to read my holy book (the Bible) within the correct context, a lot of questions that I had started to make sense. The reason why I was confused before was because I either read it out of context or the religious leaders at my church didn't know what they were talking about when I asked them certain questions about the Bible. Sadly, that can happen.
✋🏻 I’m an atheist INTJ
I’m an agnostic theist simply because the benefits of believing in god outweighs the benefits of not believing in god. Being a nihilist is cool and all in the right context. I believe not only is there psychological benefits in believing in god (i.e. when you’re down bad completely exhausted or lacking hope sometimes it’s a good thing to believe there is a god out there.) but also in the sense that it makes me more relatable out in the world dealing with evangelical Christians and what not, I already have struggles relating to anybody, but being on the same page is essential to expressing my real ideas without seeming like an alien to other people. In all honesty I don’t believe in god, he hasn’t done anything in millennia, humans on many many occasions throughout history has predicted the 2nd advent of Christ and their predictions have failed everytime. If there really is a god he created life millions of years ago but left us, because in reality humans have complete totality on how we think and what we do even if we’re all individuals we think collectively without knowing it sometimes. Deeper still I believe god is just a fabrication of the human mind to understand the physics, the cruelty, and nature of the real world it is easier for humans to take a complex sets of systems or life and simply attribute it all to god. TLDR christianity was just another step in modern human evolution
Atheist right here!
I’m not an atheist but I do question religion regularly. I too grew up in a religious household and I remember during my teenage years I would be so excited to debate pastors and point out to them how they were wrong. Religion is something that interests me. Not just the Christian religion but all of them. Sorry that this isn’t a direct answer to your question but I just wanted to share that I’ve def had the same feelings about religion. I still do.
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youtube: recommendation time!
I was skeptical of the MBTI test but holy shit this is so accurate.
INTJ is here ;)
I finally figured out my personality and now everything is making more sense now how I’m interacting and perceiving the world.
INTJ is often asking 'what is the meaning of life'.
My answer as an INTJ currently is :
Wait.. You guys are still searching the meaning of life?
same here haha
I am an INTJ what you are saying is true I am very confident in my plans and very strategic.
Why is this me but not me
man i’m sending love and support to all intj’s here love u guys so much if i could i would hug every one of you because y’all deserve it
-enfp
thank you
It's official,
I know at least 68% of people are INTJs.
I've given my english students this test and 18 out of 24 were INTJs.
ISFPs are the rarest!
I don't feel Special anymore 😆
-INTJ
Was it AP English? Cause there's only 2% of the world's population that is INTJ. Of that, 0.8% are female.
According to statistics.
@@abcdefghijk8925 No it was regular English. I think the statistics are out dated. Due to rise of introverts in today's society intj, intp, and infp are becoming a majority. Esfj and Estj are the rarest so far. I know we INTJs like to feel unique but we must face reality. Like what syndrome said "if everyone is a super, no one is!"
@@MasterTSayge your classroom demographic doesn't accurately reflect the world population. That percentage sounds very high.
having this personality type is one of my biggest flexes
INTJ here I'm not even a bookworms because I have dyslexia. Lol
Hahaha, same!
the most relatable youtube comments section i've ever found.
"If there's something wrong, it's not my fault. I always do everything perfectly"
I’m one of those 2%? Wtf, I’m not surprised 😂
I scored this type when I first took the test a while back on human metrics and 16 types might be an INFJ. Thank you.
Actually an INTJ's are strategyst's. Lol)
I literally have dreams of solve complex CS problems. I test them after I wake up and they always work. I’m glad I’m like this; no matter what others say, I like who I am now.
lies. the general solution may work but there’s no way you didn’t overlook a detail and never got an error
2:38 😏 not 2min 🤷🏼♂️
I hate it when videos do that.
Saw that too. Was looking for a comment that stated that. 😂💁. The title should have stated under 3 min.
Hey this video is relatable. Glad I watched it. Satisfied by its content. I'll bookmark it and look what others think and continue on my info journey.
why are all the INTJs whining about being lonely....god, am I the only one who's so amused by himself?
no
I'm intj and i've got like 10 friends sure it feels kinda boring when i start a deep conversation but it's fun to be around those idiots (i've all the rights to insult my bros lol)
I'm also amused by myself, and I've always had a good ability to make at least one or two very close deep friendships at any given lifestage.
You are not alone (yeah that was intended) seriously though I sometimes feel lonely but then I quickly remember why I prefer being alone after “social time” people are boring, ideas and ideals are better :)
@@emokiller907 Finally!
The comment section seems to be a good place to find friends.
Hello INTJ'S I am INTJ my self and it's not easy to find people that understand me and I almost spent mt whole life far from social life.
Same here. Hard to connect with people
The fact that people identify with these personality types really pisses me off. In no way do these personality types deeply define you - also if you are lonely and fall under an "INTJ" category, maybe try doing something about it - I mean, I get INTJ as well, but honestly according to these videos we see the world as a structure that we can "deconstruct" or more like a chess board - which I think is true in most cases; so use it to your advantage and make the right moves. I'm thinking a lot of INTJ's are anti-social crybabies who cant figure the world out and waste their potential because they expect things to be handed to them. Fact - even if you put in the effort you might not win the game. That doesn't mean you should stop playing though, because eventually you will win if you make the right moves.
We're only confident and decisive when we are prepared and well informed though
Appreciate the information, I'm surprised it actually does reflect my personality accurately.
As a child I was very gullible, but something clicked in my mind a while ago and now I’m so sceptical of everything. My friend dislocated her knee and I didn’t believe her at first cause of how sarcastic she seemed to me… I was about to go on google maps to look at the direction of her house to check if the lighting in her pictures was accurate… that was until my mom came and told me it actually happened…😭 I felt do bad after