Life is Absolutely Brutal

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  • Опубликовано: 17 ноя 2024

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  • @Celwood
    @Celwood Месяц назад +174

    Absolutely agree! Many people fear going to "HELL" after they die. Not many people understand we are already there!... Great to have you back!

    • @Dustparticle000
      @Dustparticle000 Месяц назад +8

      Exactly!

    • @shiptj01
      @shiptj01 Месяц назад +8

      Agreed.

    • @zeroface8337
      @zeroface8337 Месяц назад

      Nobody that looks like you has any right to discuss suffering.

    • @IbrahimIsmail-s7h
      @IbrahimIsmail-s7h Месяц назад +15

      Nope life is brutal and Hell is 1000x more brutal and lake of fire is 1000000 more brutal. Existence is pain.

    • @shiptj01
      @shiptj01 Месяц назад +3

      @@IbrahimIsmail-s7h Hell is from pagan religions and the lake of fire is symbolic for everlasting destruction, not torture.

  • @gofai274
    @gofai274 Месяц назад +143

    "there is no intelligent man above 60 that would want to repeat life" - Mark Twain

    • @lilchef2930
      @lilchef2930 Месяц назад +3

      Where was this quote said lol

    • @colin6673
      @colin6673 Месяц назад +12

      Above 60? It's happened a whole lot sooner for me 😂

    • @lilchef2930
      @lilchef2930 Месяц назад +1

      @@colin6673 what if we gotta reincarnate. Yea kinda same I’m only 19

    • @brianmeen2158
      @brianmeen2158 Месяц назад +4

      So then what in the hell are we doing here then?! I’ve never understood the purpose of existence or life

    • @lilchef2930
      @lilchef2930 Месяц назад +2

      @@brianmeen2158 Ikr

  • @arildthordal810
    @arildthordal810 Месяц назад +122

    If your life is beautiful people around you will do all they can to ruin it.

    • @CharlieBravo887
      @CharlieBravo887 Месяц назад +18

      This is why trying to show off your success is foolish. People will only envy and despise you.

    • @CaneFan25
      @CaneFan25 Месяц назад +5

      @@CharlieBravo887Agreed - always be humble, dress and act normal rather than flashy 🤣

    • @KayciazWorld
      @KayciazWorld Месяц назад +4

      This💔

    • @paulcolin9926
      @paulcolin9926 Месяц назад +7

      A lot of the Convid thing was people who must have been miserable trying to bring the rest of us down with them. Wouldn't object to losing their autonomy even

    • @SartorialisticSavage65
      @SartorialisticSavage65 Месяц назад +1

      ​@@paulcolin9926most people don't even have tru-autonamy. Or are unwilling to use it.

  • @PeaceDub
    @PeaceDub Месяц назад +83

    "Pain and suffering are always inevitable for a large intelligence and a deep heart. The really great men must, I think, have great sadness on earth." - Fyodor Dostoevsky

    • @teaadvice4996
      @teaadvice4996 Месяц назад +5

      I'm saving this quote

    • @gofai274
      @gofai274 Месяц назад

      Yep it is worse than be tortured 24/7 in torture chamber. Life is foundationally evil you and me are evil, it is all rigged, "there is no intelligent man above 60 that would want to repeat life" - Mark Twain. It is literally torture chamber, no matter there are good things (they are not even good themselves just ceasation of pain or desires) ! You have to be idiot. Intelligence is spectrum. "wise man is also a fool" - Schopenhauer. You can be 180IQ - there are necessarily trade-offs from evolution. Even Avi Loeb says: most smart ppl just try to show others they are smarter. genius is someone who can see things in disnterested way form ego/will. Life is for me worse then being eaten by insects even all you are nothing to me less than insect bacteria an i will make you suffer forever infinitely just wait :)

    • @paulcolin9926
      @paulcolin9926 Месяц назад +3

      Evil is mostly rewarded which makes me angry

    • @gofai274
      @gofai274 Месяц назад +1

      @@paulcolin9926 worst is what to do with all that anger and hate right when we don't have even free will and AI that is doing this to us is not even conscious, i honestly just got tired from suffering... Still sometimes feel insane hate like torture someone forever... when i suffer

    • @waynekasmar4401
      @waynekasmar4401 Месяц назад

      Dostoevsky was profoundly influenced by Emanuel Swedenborg. Any body who really wants to know the truth about the things spoken about in this video is strongly advised to check out what Swedenborg was on about. The RUclips channel Off the left Eye is a good place to start.

  • @dselect1383
    @dselect1383 Месяц назад +4

    'It's coming for you'' so true. My life was peaceful then a neighbour from hell moved in and it's escalating with police, conflicts, stalking etc. Now we have to move house, trouble and hard times will come for you unfortunately no matter how safe a life you try and live.

  • @robertpirsig5011
    @robertpirsig5011 Месяц назад +33

    The vast majority of the world understand this completely. In fact the less you have the more acutely you understand it. Most people fill their lives with distractions so they can escape reality. Consumerism is the way westerners run from it, but it is always there. The happiest people are those who understand it and accept it

  • @garbageday99
    @garbageday99 Месяц назад +12

    Our emotions tell us it is brutal, when it really is indifferent

  • @jimbig3997
    @jimbig3997 Месяц назад +33

    My dad used to tell me all the time "Life is hard, and then you die."
    He'd then laugh... I laughed too.

    • @metsfanal
      @metsfanal Месяц назад +16

      People know this, believe it, and yet still decide to have children. And they somehow never make the connection.

    • @paulcolin9926
      @paulcolin9926 Месяц назад

      ​@@metsfanal🤷

    • @RGB758Y
      @RGB758Y Месяц назад

      ​@@metsfanal Mr.anal

    • @RGB758Y
      @RGB758Y Месяц назад

      ​@@metsfanalMs.anal

    • @yarly3180
      @yarly3180 Месяц назад

      Let me guess: he died?

  • @RaazX7
    @RaazX7 Месяц назад +31

    Life is "beautiful" to people of ignorance. As I get older the randomness almost assures me that we are literally not in control of any of it. The attempt to control causes more suffering.

    • @GuacamoleyNacho
      @GuacamoleyNacho Месяц назад +1

      Very true. U go mad if u want control eveeyrhing!!!
      ​@LoafingMushroom this "life is good" motto is it a religious saying? What does it mean? Is your life really so good? What are you trying to console yourself?

    • @turtleanton6539
      @turtleanton6539 Месяц назад

      Yes🎉🎉🎉😊

    • @wills9732
      @wills9732 17 дней назад

      you are in control of things in the way in which you choose to react to what happens to you in your life.

    • @GuacamoleyNacho
      @GuacamoleyNacho 17 дней назад

      @@RaazX7 when people regurgitate the phrase " life is beautiful " or "life is good" they are just consoling themselves of the pain and awlful things in their life, and they are saying that to tell.others taht they are psycho-ing themselves they are looking at the positive side. For me, that is over the top, since they are going to tell others they are looking at glass half full, why dont they just say they are so lucky, they are so strong or something like that! Saying life is beautiful or good doesnt make sense at all esp for people constantly going thru life in a dark tunnel, sounds like rubbish!

    • @RaazX7
      @RaazX7 16 дней назад

      @@GuacamoleyNacho Of course, the short term pleasure or success they get blinds them. Life and nature itself is chaos. But we've all been brainwashed to pursue constant state of happiness. It's bullshit.

  • @jasonlowe8545
    @jasonlowe8545 Месяц назад +13

    Life is a series of disasters leading upto the final catastrophe....marvelous.

  • @Luka23567
    @Luka23567 Месяц назад +16

    You’re constantly walking on egg shells… one mistake can ruin your entire life!
    One can do so many things right, just one mistake can ruin you. You take a chance or a risk, that can make you or most likely break you.
    This is ridiculous and people are out of their minds!

    • @Trevorvalor
      @Trevorvalor  Месяц назад +2

      Absolutely love this comment.

    • @Luka23567
      @Luka23567 Месяц назад +1

      @@Trevorvalor 35 years here… that’s what I’ve learned. 🙏

  • @SEANPOL203
    @SEANPOL203 Месяц назад +6

    Your optimism is inspiring and contagious, thanks for your input on life

  • @ramiroschepens4469
    @ramiroschepens4469 Месяц назад +9

    You're not negative man, you're realistic

    • @Prometheus_43
      @Prometheus_43 Месяц назад +2

      Correct he is not knowingly negative, he is crynical though, which to be fair is understandable as his worldview is rooted in an archaic creation myth!

  • @ChiekoGamers
    @ChiekoGamers Месяц назад +30

    It's brutal especially for people born without generational wealth

    • @delaney5721
      @delaney5721 Месяц назад +5

      Yes!!

    • @fertblu5514
      @fertblu5514 Месяц назад +4

      I am born with generational wealth and I can tell you life is still absolutely miserable

  • @owood2288
    @owood2288 Месяц назад +3

    Acknowledging that we live in a (largely) evil world has had an oddly calming effect on me. Once you realise that most people throughout history have either been murdered or exploited, that you get to lead a relatively comfortable live - I am after all typing on a smartphone, sat on a couch - starts to seem almost miraculous. I think part of the issue though is that because we live in such a bubble in the West, it’s easy to mistake the bubble for the world as such. This means people not only can’t see the world for what it is, but can’t see how lucky they are to be largely insulated from it - like a weird double effect where you can’t see how bad it is and how good you have it at the same time.

  • @BobJones-m6n
    @BobJones-m6n Месяц назад +4

    People have to high expectations. If your primary needs are taken care of, you are winning.

  • @bigpolitical8292
    @bigpolitical8292 Месяц назад +15

    As I get older, I realize that life is not meant to be easy. Some people still fail to realize that unfortunately. Great Video!

    • @kendallbr9166
      @kendallbr9166 Месяц назад +3

      But why that loving god make us suffer? That’ s why i left religion nosense

    • @Scorned405
      @Scorned405 Месяц назад

      If it’s hard it’s because you are making it hard

    • @Scorned405
      @Scorned405 Месяц назад

      @@kendallbr9166 You do realize that by rejecting the truth you will burn forever

    • @Samzo2002
      @Samzo2002 27 дней назад

      @@kendallbr9166God purposely designed life to be like this. Life isn’t easy for anyone bro, even when the lord came down to the earth in the form of Yeshua (Jesus Christ) he suffered tremendously, more than any human being. But he gave us a promise if we obey him m, trust in him he will grant us eternal life. If we don’t we will spend the rest of eternity in the lake of fire. Earth is temporary suffering

  • @frankjamesbonarrigo7162
    @frankjamesbonarrigo7162 Месяц назад +12

    Perception is everything, I watched a guy with cancer smile all the way to death. It’s mental illness that sucks, it’s this attitude that sucks. Hardship can be overcome with a good attitude, if you see everything with anxiety and fear you are going to be miserable even when times are great, trust me., I’m that guy

  • @TheNomad8899
    @TheNomad8899 Месяц назад +57

    Humans are not made to be happy. Humans are made for survival.

    • @exelmans8855
      @exelmans8855 Месяц назад +9

      Facts.

    • @TomeRodrigo
      @TomeRodrigo Месяц назад +2

      Humans are not "made". It is all random. If someone makes happiness out of a conscious state, good for him. But anything can happen at anytime to anyone, nothing is promised.

    • @ItsMinkiFilms
      @ItsMinkiFilms Месяц назад +5

      Which therefore makes the purpose of survival nonsensical.

    • @StevenSantaCruz-ix9is
      @StevenSantaCruz-ix9is Месяц назад +1

      We do got intelligence/ consciousness/ awareness. That's extremely unique an special

    • @BlueJeansandJellyBeans
      @BlueJeansandJellyBeans Месяц назад +1

      Why were we made? There has got to be more of the story.....

  • @RedPillOption
    @RedPillOption Месяц назад +6

    Well said. Life is totally brutal. This will not make everyone empathetic because the world is full of sociopaths and psychopaths.

  • @michalm7404
    @michalm7404 Месяц назад +74

    life's bad. don't create a new one

    • @ItsMinkiFilms
      @ItsMinkiFilms Месяц назад +23

      I know right, I am so tired of everyone trying to forcefeed their narrative of "Life's beautiful" onto me. Screw this life.

    • @michalm7404
      @michalm7404 Месяц назад +6

      @@ItsMinkiFilms this is a common cope. we are so psychologically fragile that we delude ourselves in all kinds of ways

    • @dorkbrandon4422
      @dorkbrandon4422 Месяц назад +3

      ​@@ItsMinkiFilms people who say life's beautiful whilst carrying a ukulele over their shoulder triggers my gag reflex.

    • @tubbyrainbow111
      @tubbyrainbow111 Месяц назад +5

      I'll never bring my kids life here, I love my kids too much to do that to them. Anyone that does is pure selfish, evil or just absolute idiots.

    • @Eric-ej3oy
      @Eric-ej3oy Месяц назад

      So, can we create an old one instead. Nevermind.

  • @AnxiousEric
    @AnxiousEric Месяц назад +52

    I agree. I don't feel depressed most of the time I just feel like everything is meaningless so I just don't get joy from anything. Working some meaningless job just so I can pay rent, car payment, electric bill and insurance just so I can continue working. Lol No one knows why we're here or if there's anything else after we die. But for whatever reason we're alive and it seems like we live this long miserable life and then we just die and then we don't exist for eternity. Like fast forward a trillion years and we're still dead. Lol Goodnight

  • @toddpacker1015
    @toddpacker1015 Месяц назад +3

    It gradually gets worse and sometimes not even gradually. Ignorance is the only way to survive.

  • @TomeRodrigo
    @TomeRodrigo Месяц назад +9

    Life is definitely brutal. It's the religious people who are trying to get drunk with their bible nonsense to ease up the struggle through a placebo. I'm glad to see someone who is real on RUclips.

  • @douglascutler1037
    @douglascutler1037 Месяц назад +4

    The only way to balance the terror of existence is with the wonder of existence. - Carlos Castaneda

  • @gofai274
    @gofai274 Месяц назад +27

    We are in sadistic matrix simulation everything is consciousness

    • @CaneFan25
      @CaneFan25 Месяц назад

      The Almighty showed me Very Important TRUTH’s = Humanity is under MASS DECEPTION by what I call gender decepticons 👀. In other words, ALL of hollywood movie stars, music stars, some sports stars, and global politicians are the opposite sex of what they appear, via they’re ALL INVERTED ✌️. The parents flip flop their children’s genders through hormone replacement therapies (HRT) and these bloodlines have perfected these HRT’s as they’ve been doing this since the dawn of man! If you doubt this, go look at the following: cherlize theron and its kids, megan fox and its kids, will smith and Jada p’s kids, demi moore/bruce willis kids……….all flip flopped 👀. ONCE YOU SEE IT, YOU CANT UNSEE IT!

    • @paulcolin9926
      @paulcolin9926 Месяц назад +3

      It's become 100 times worse the last four years

    • @gofai274
      @gofai274 Месяц назад

      @@paulcolin9926 Yep it can get orders of magnitudes owrse hahahaha i suffered so much i hit limit on suffering i have nothin t lo lose i am already suffering etenrity

    • @GMGMGMGMGMGMGMGMGMGM
      @GMGMGMGMGMGMGMGMGMGM Месяц назад

      Is your insight that "We are in sadistic matrix simulation everything is consciousness" also part of the "sadistic matrix simulation"? If so, is that insight real, or just a simulation?
      See how this worldview is retarted?

    • @didforlove
      @didforlove Месяц назад

      @@paulcolin9926 we are entering mad max collapse of civilization

  • @RoseAzalee
    @RoseAzalee Месяц назад +17

    Yep. We have to consume other life to stay alive. That's messed up.

    • @davidcarter1013
      @davidcarter1013 Месяц назад +5

      Your right,even plant matter is a living thing.

    • @RoseAzalee
      @RoseAzalee Месяц назад

      @@davidcarter1013 🎯

    • @paulcolin9926
      @paulcolin9926 Месяц назад

      True

    • @paulstone3590
      @paulstone3590 Месяц назад +1

      Not true. I'm a vegetarian. And don't compare mammals with plants, they don't compare.

    • @RoseAzalee
      @RoseAzalee Месяц назад

      @@paulstone3590 that's a hierarchical perspective. We're definitely in a hierarchical world but in reality we are all one. The Tree is no "better" than you as the human, everything is equally valuable. Humans are more designed to "pick and eat" like fruits and stuff which are "offered" but the cow doesn't have more rights than the apple fundamentally.

  • @ScottJohnCaile
    @ScottJohnCaile Месяц назад +6

    When you're horrified by the brutality of the world, it really does make you more empathetic. The brief moments of good we sometimes feel go against the grain of what is normal. I don't think animals could understand that like we can, only humans.

  • @NotFinancialAdviceRG
    @NotFinancialAdviceRG Месяц назад +50

    Life is brutal as we all march toward our impending death. Have a great day!
    Sorry, I found that quite funny 😁

  • @cncsamplesvideos5055
    @cncsamplesvideos5055 Месяц назад +4

    We all need Jesus.

  • @sugarfree1894
    @sugarfree1894 Месяц назад +6

    That's the first Noble Truth of Buddhism - in life there is suffering.
    There is no sentient life that escapes suffering.

    • @edheldude
      @edheldude Месяц назад

      I see it as life having pain. Suffering - living with pain you don't accept - is optional. OG Buddha showed the way. Christ too.

  • @Francis_UD
    @Francis_UD Месяц назад +27

    Nonexistence is heaven. Existing is hell. 😢😢😢

    • @TomeRodrigo
      @TomeRodrigo Месяц назад +2

      Nonexistence doesn't exist outside of time, which is measurable only in existence. Nonexistence can only be perceived by those in existence. Therefore, if nonexistence doesn't exist but you exist now, you are never able to reach nonexistence.

    • @TopmobileDeals
      @TopmobileDeals Месяц назад

      @@TomeRodrigofuck your a genius 😂so what’s your perspective when we die?do you believe in reincarnation?or do you think our sprits will linger around earth for eternity?

    • @eighteenfiftynine
      @eighteenfiftynine Месяц назад

      Is this gnosticism? 🤔

    • @TomeRodrigo
      @TomeRodrigo Месяц назад +2

      @@TopmobileDeals I do not have a definitive perspective on this. It is conceivable that your consciousness could integrate with another complex system composed of smaller, independent systems, serving your existence elsewhere. It's possible that there may be different timeframes and varying speeds of time. The cosmos itself might even function as the nervous system of a larger living organism that has its own consciousness, and this pattern could extend infinitely in all directions - both on the astronomical and microscopic scales. Perhaps reality consists of fractals that are repeating the same patterns endlessly across every level of magnification. Just freestyling here.

    • @solomongrundy1467
      @solomongrundy1467 Месяц назад +1

      ​@@TomeRodrigoI think that may be the 5th dimension. In a vacuum there's photons and virtual particles that pop in and out of existence. Those energy fluctuations are coming from somewhere. Our consciousness may go to this dimension when we die. Of course, I have no proof of this but it makes me wonder about this other place we haven't seen yet.

  • @gofai274
    @gofai274 Месяц назад +11

    Schopenhauer saw folly of life it is not even worth bothering with, it is simply INSANITY...

  • @Jia-dp9cu
    @Jia-dp9cu Месяц назад +10

    Life is real hell and hell exists only on the earth

    • @cosmo1eleven855
      @cosmo1eleven855 Месяц назад

      Actually no. There are 7 subterranean realms below us. Each one get's progressively more evil. Above us there are 7 realms. The top one is called 7th Heaven by the Masters on this realm. We are in the middle - with some heavenly and some hellish. Right now the hellish part seems to be dominating.

    • @fertblu5514
      @fertblu5514 Месяц назад

      @@cosmo1eleven855 were do you have this from?

  • @anab0lic
    @anab0lic Месяц назад +3

    To live is to suffer, to survive is to find some meaning in the suffering

  • @BlueSkyCountry
    @BlueSkyCountry Месяц назад +10

    Becoming stoic, cold, and hostile is how to do it. It really works. Give back what you receive, show no weakness, and maintain total emotional control.

    • @wordup897
      @wordup897 Месяц назад

      That's why the psychopaths are most 'successful' in this world.

  • @noseefood1943
    @noseefood1943 Месяц назад +5

    I'm tired of this life when that time comes I'll welcome the peace

  • @bagzhansadvakassov1093
    @bagzhansadvakassov1093 Месяц назад +16

    That is why I gave up an idea of living happy life. I just want to cope through and go to paradise.

    • @danieldavis8607
      @danieldavis8607 Месяц назад +3

      First off, happiness and joy are short-lived, fleeting emotions. You shouldn't strive to be happy because it's impossible. Try being content and grateful for what you have. And who you have.

    • @eddiebirch2067
      @eddiebirch2067 Месяц назад +4

      Are you sure there s paradise?

    • @bagzhansadvakassov1093
      @bagzhansadvakassov1093 Месяц назад +2

      @@eddiebirch2067 for why would God put us through such misery brother? This world is a demo version of what is ahead of us.

    • @eddiebirch2067
      @eddiebirch2067 Месяц назад +2

      @@bagzhansadvakassov1093 you don't know there is a god

    • @GuacamoleyNacho
      @GuacamoleyNacho Месяц назад +3

      ​@@eddiebirch2067i m 100% sure god and satan dont exist. If they exist, they dont care also. 😂

  • @JbVance-ne8xe
    @JbVance-ne8xe Месяц назад +20

    I'm not a negative person, but this is true. The truth always hurts, but makes you stronger.

    • @robertpirsig5011
      @robertpirsig5011 Месяц назад +1

      It's not about being a negative person or a positive person. Life has both and denying either is a denial of reality.

    • @teaadvice4996
      @teaadvice4996 Месяц назад +1

      The cancer is making me stronger 💪

    • @DeviaNZe
      @DeviaNZe Месяц назад

      ​@@teaadvice4996Cancer will kill you, it is inevitable. I have noticed that the happiest people are those to whom life itself has been cruel and unfair. Ignorance plays a fundamental role in this, the more ignorant we are about the reality of life, the happier we are, those who cling to life the most are the most despised by it.

  • @Olegstuff21986
    @Olegstuff21986 Месяц назад +1

    The "brutal thing" came for my father on 28 August, cardiac arrest. And it immediately came to myself and my whole family. And you're right, it's brutal, and there's nothing you can really do other than be with him and hope he somehow survives extubation because medicine is powerless.

    • @sonyavincent7450
      @sonyavincent7450 Месяц назад +1

      I'm sorry you're going through that. Lost my husband to that six years ago. Agony.

    • @Olegstuff21986
      @Olegstuff21986 Месяц назад

      @@sonyavincent7450 I'm saddened to hear that. May his soul rest in peace and I hope you find peace (as much as possible) about what happened. It's not your fault or his. Best wishes to you.

  • @LolaDreaming0909
    @LolaDreaming0909 Месяц назад +18

    this is a very refreshing video, it's stupid to say life is beautiful.

    • @jonesmorales-tu6kq
      @jonesmorales-tu6kq Месяц назад

      It is ...

    • @BlueCollapse-vw8br
      @BlueCollapse-vw8br Месяц назад

      It can be is the truth. It can be both bad or good...

    • @LolaDreaming0909
      @LolaDreaming0909 Месяц назад +6

      @@jonesmorales-tu6kq some people are fucked in early childhood or adolescence with abuse and traumas already. Not everyone has the same path.

    • @jonesmorales-tu6kq
      @jonesmorales-tu6kq Месяц назад

      @@LolaDreaming0909 doesn't mean the world isn't beautiful .... the world doesn't change based on human emotions

    • @teaadvice4996
      @teaadvice4996 Месяц назад

      ​@LolaDreaming0909 your a girl u don't know true pain

  • @Caolan-b6r
    @Caolan-b6r Месяц назад +6

    Damn you are spot on, I'm feeling like shit because the woman I love left me and doesn't love me anymore, well for nearly 2 years now and still crushed. This is an eye opener really. Think now I will do what I want without any fear because life is brutal so may as well make my own rules than follow society's

    • @fritzdeuces
      @fritzdeuces Месяц назад +1

      Life is indifferent like someone said.

  • @garykruger-dt6dv
    @garykruger-dt6dv Месяц назад +2

    Most of life is simply avoiding pain

  • @JHavaJoe2-m1z
    @JHavaJoe2-m1z Месяц назад

    Been there. Still there. "There" is better for me in older age. Attitude. I categorize- "Things in this world I can't do much about" and
    "Things that can improve my quality of Life." It's always little things that help and surprises me when it grows.

  • @urwrstntmre
    @urwrstntmre Месяц назад +4

    Almost 29 years and I'm over it already. It feels like I'm in a curse. Things in the world and in my life are just so backwards.

    • @fertblu5514
      @fertblu5514 Месяц назад +2

      its not just you feeling that way its a lot of people and its becoming more as more people are waking up to the brutal reality

  • @RashidMalik-LabVIEW
    @RashidMalik-LabVIEW Месяц назад +22

    Even the beautiful moments are sometimes beautiful only because they were not brutal, those moments were merciful and let us be untouched by misery.

  • @JackSteele01
    @JackSteele01 19 дней назад

    Yes that's the exact point, we are all suffering in this existence so if we can help reduce the suffering of others we should do our best.

  • @Dustparticle000
    @Dustparticle000 Месяц назад +8

    Enjoy the limited amount of time we have here!🌌🌎

  • @Not-Getting-Political-Anymore
    @Not-Getting-Political-Anymore Месяц назад +4

    The secret is not to ignore the void but jump in

  • @sunyata1016
    @sunyata1016 Месяц назад +3

    Not if you know your life itself. Observe and be quiet and know your awareness itself

    • @Prometheus_43
      @Prometheus_43 Месяц назад +2

      This is an oxymoron....you awareness is changing all the time, therfore by definition it can't be "known".

    • @sunyata1016
      @sunyata1016 Месяц назад +2

      @@Prometheus_43 who's awareness 😉

    • @Prometheus_43
      @Prometheus_43 Месяц назад +2

      @@sunyata1016 It doesn't matter!

  • @davidc4408
    @davidc4408 Месяц назад +3

    My life is beautiful away from people..have a place to escape people and relax with your dog. Mans best friend and true peace.

  • @brucefly3612
    @brucefly3612 Месяц назад +2

    Life is not brutal, it's society that is brutal and doesn't value men or what we do for society, it's the people in life that make life harder, not life itself, life is a beautiful thing if you have people to share it with.

  • @xASK4MERCY
    @xASK4MERCY Месяц назад +4

    This world is meant to break us spiritually and mentally. It's like suffocating at times knowing and maintaining. I guess the answer is talking to God before you lose all hope. You know life is brutal when you are ready for it to end NOW! Some people can't take another blow. God help us all. 🙏

  • @Julesyoutoo
    @Julesyoutoo Месяц назад

    You're such a dude! I'm a closet goth, and I absolutely love your realism. You're not being negative at all. You're being brutally honest, and the world needs more of the likes of you.
    Thank you, from a gal across the pond in England, not far from Whitby (Dracula town).

  • @SteveHughesOfficial
    @SteveHughesOfficial Месяц назад +2

    Finally someone speaking truth….

    • @Prometheus_43
      @Prometheus_43 Месяц назад +1

      Have you been liveing under a rock all your life?, people tells themselves these kind of waffle stories all the time, yet it doesn't make it true! ever!

  • @KP-wt8qr
    @KP-wt8qr Месяц назад +1

    I agree with you that life is brutal, but certain things definitely exist when we're dead, there is just too much evidence of the supernatural and spirits. John 3:16, all of what you say is spoken of in the bible, the poverty, the stress, the struggle, depression, unhappiness etc.

  • @zoranpeternelj1160
    @zoranpeternelj1160 Месяц назад

    the brutal thing is coming for you...thats so true...no one gets away ❤

  • @jord19100
    @jord19100 Месяц назад +1

    life's easy when you simplify it and have enough knowledge to know that you're living correctly but also focus that knowledge onto simplifying and making your life goal-oriented.
    Also honestly the whole American continent needs to get mandatory literature and philosophy exams in high school.

  • @RobertHanson-km3be
    @RobertHanson-km3be Месяц назад +2

    Calling life beautiful is what we do to rationalize hell.

  • @joshchapman4753
    @joshchapman4753 Месяц назад

    I agree. Something I like to do is look at life like a literal marathon, the average human life-span is only 4000 weeks which brings me some comfort, I've only got about 2300 weeks left. I try to develop a strong character, do good, be kind and pay attention.. Ram Dass said something like "we are all just walking each other home" and though I do not share any of his kind of spirituality or mysticism, I like that phrase. Whether "home" is just never existing again (like I suspect) or something else, I'm not sure, but we're all in this together. I do not wish to lament existence, though I've suffered a lot and still suffer, I appreciate there is beauty in this life and things worth striving for, even though they are diminishingly brief and time has a compounding nature that seems to make it move even faster as we age.

  • @Dogfacedbloke
    @Dogfacedbloke Месяц назад +3

    It's just entropy. That's why you can easily list probably a thousand bad things than might happen to you should you walk down the street, but struggle to come up with five good ones.

    • @Prometheus_43
      @Prometheus_43 Месяц назад +4

      Yea, good luck with trying to explain the laws of thermodynamics to people who believe in a big juju father figure in the sky!

  • @gloriaterry333
    @gloriaterry333 Месяц назад +9

    Life is hard pain every day
    Wonder everyday
    Laugh everyday
    Hug everyday
    Sing everyday
    But I have have pain everyday
    I still love life

  • @Tommy-i5y
    @Tommy-i5y Месяц назад +16

    whats worse, that life is hard or that life is pointless

    • @leigh7507
      @leigh7507 Месяц назад +1

      or life has a point if you apply it. Even if its basic like be kind and just be nice to people, and give to the needy, means you make the world better

    • @dorkbrandon4422
      @dorkbrandon4422 Месяц назад +3

      Easier said than done, I lived as a Hare krishna in big bustling Temples of large congregations, I started becoming more compassionate and empathetic just living a life to yes serve your basic needs but also serve others but post 2020 now I absolutely can't stand people and care little to none about other people going through suffering.

    • @leigh7507
      @leigh7507 Месяц назад +4

      @@dorkbrandon4422 ah ok. I live in south east asia so tons of broke people without much so when they beg I give them pocket change because nobody should be in that place and something like 50p or a quid will make their day

    • @dorkbrandon4422
      @dorkbrandon4422 Месяц назад

      @@leigh7507 I'm cool with that because their hardships gave them some humility earlier on in life but for the life of me can't sanction other British people with their first world problems over petty things, it grinds my gears after living with many Indians who came from 3rd world living unlike my society.
      Hearing people moaning in queues in our nice clean orderly supermarkets even makes me want to scream. Sorry

  • @UncleVegetable
    @UncleVegetable Месяц назад +11

    50 years ago someone I used to call my friend crashed his car with me in the front seat. Motherf**ker walked away and I had a femur in at least three pieces. I’ve been in pain ever since. I went through the opioid crap, thinking “my doctor’s a good guy.”
    Cold turkey bla bla bla and back to constant pain. My life has been shit.

    • @BlueJeansandJellyBeans
      @BlueJeansandJellyBeans Месяц назад

      That totally sucks! I am sorry that happened to you.🧡

    • @queenaqueen7269
      @queenaqueen7269 Месяц назад +1

      So sorry buddy,, my heart is with you ❤❤

    • @freshliving4199
      @freshliving4199 Месяц назад +1

      @@BlueJeansandJellyBeansI don’t feel sorry for him at all.
      Feeling sorry for someone reinforces their victim mentality and also implies that you are better than them.
      He’s clearly not dealing well with what happened and that’s his own fault.
      Now he’s living off other people’s pity.
      Who’s the real friend/fiend here?
      The driver who crashed?…or the person who held on to the resentment for 50 years?

    • @GuacamoleyNacho
      @GuacamoleyNacho Месяц назад +1

      ​@@freshliving4199u r heartless. I hope nobody empathy u when u in despair.
      I take care my demented old mum over 10, 15 years and my body now paying the price of me sacrificing my life of the the mental , physical strain i carry so many years! If i have not been such a wonderful, kind, selfless, best version of a human being, my body wont be suffering now.
      This guy had misfortune to discover his friend is a fake. Many people are cold, inconsiderate and cruel like this fake. U are so like it!

    • @GuacamoleyNacho
      @GuacamoleyNacho Месяц назад +1

      ​@@freshliving4199​ u r heartless. I hope nobody empathy u when u in despair.
      I take care my demented old mum over 10, 15 years and my body now paying the price of me sacrificing my life of the the mental , physical strain i carry so many years! If i have not been such a wonderful, kind, selfless, best version of a human being, my body wont be suffering now.
      This guy had misfortune to discover his friend is a fake. Many people are cold, inconsiderate and cruel like this fake. U are so like it!

  • @acme4fun547
    @acme4fun547 Месяц назад +12

    Pretty sure Earth is Hell......

    • @Trevorvalor
      @Trevorvalor  Месяц назад

      @@acme4fun547 when you look at religious text, such as the bible. The idea of heaven and hell is based on earth. Not a fictional after life. But yes, generally life is hell, but the more awful you are the more awful life becomes. So heaven and hell on earth is relational to how you treat others, most of the time.

    • @ItsMinkiFilms
      @ItsMinkiFilms Месяц назад +2

      @@Trevorvalor I've been nothing but nice to others though

    • @GuacamoleyNacho
      @GuacamoleyNacho Месяц назад +2

      ​@@Trevorvalor​@DonalKelly-k9g too over optimistic! U must be damn lucky your entire life! In real life bad things haunts you for many years even though you are kinder, honest, have more virtues than most people in this world, u do good things to others/strangers without favours, u take care your old parents, u take care evry things. U wont be rewarded with good thing. Karma dont exisit.
      Most people are lucky. Few people in this world despite being the best version of what a human meant, faces bad things for long period of their life. Nobody to help them. They have to carry burden of others and help themselves same time. Nobody cares. I dont know why u just have to keep living with all the pain, u just have to, there is no choice other than death. Yet death is not yet a solution. The only thing is to drop extra burden u cant carry no more. Drop them one by one until u can carry yourself. Need to learn to be selfish like most humans on tis planet. They are too selfish to carry the burden so why u carry them! Drop little by little, until u can stand up from the weight

    • @Dogfacedbloke
      @Dogfacedbloke Месяц назад +3

      @@Trevorvalor Perhaps not in the way you think. Successive studies have shown that active altruists - those who prioritise the needs of others over themselves - suffer significantly worse health outcomes than people who are more selfish.

  • @steelearmstrong9616
    @steelearmstrong9616 Месяц назад +3

    Love is anxiety. Attachment is suffering. Life is suffering. Relationships are two insecure individuals that use and tolerate each other for their own selfish needs and wants all for the fear of being alone. They are all toxic on some level and narcissistically controlled by one. This is not love and this is no way to live but most and many do out of fear. All relationships are full of lies, deceit and manipulative manipulation due to hate which comes from fear. Everything we do is out of fear. If everyone truly knew what everyone was thinking then no one would have any friends and relationships would not be a thing. In the end nothing matters. We are winging it and we are all on the same sinking boat that inevitably ends in tragedy. Tomorrow is not promised. Tomorrow does not exist. Now is all we have. We are just memories and memories are just brain tissue. When the brain dies consciousness dies and we will cease to exist. The truth about the human condition is that answers will never cure our fears, only acceptance will. It’s all about killing time until you die. Being human is mental health. Smile, your alive. For now

    • @dorkbrandon4422
      @dorkbrandon4422 Месяц назад +1

      You're born , you die, everything in between is just filler.

  • @yathercantillano3874
    @yathercantillano3874 Месяц назад

    This was real AF. Appreciate it 👍

  • @davidburton4342
    @davidburton4342 Месяц назад +1

    Not having much to lose is absolutely brutal too.

  • @uncletom1971
    @uncletom1971 Месяц назад

    Lovely, trully wonderful. I'm looking forward to it.

  • @user-dl4zp4qc6p
    @user-dl4zp4qc6p Месяц назад

    Sentient creatures consuming each other is a hellish thing

  • @Thesquirrelwhisperer-389
    @Thesquirrelwhisperer-389 Месяц назад

    100% listen to Kapil Gupta and will get more of this. Life sucks, we just have to bear it.. it's not there to be enjoyed.. it's hell, no sugar coating or exaggeration.. it's awful. The negative things override few positive things, so it doesn't really count. It's not pessimistic to think this way, it's just being real with yourself.

  • @OnboardingInformation
    @OnboardingInformation Месяц назад +1

    Life is cruel for most people, most of the time

  • @element19ch
    @element19ch Месяц назад +1

    I listened to you when you were still the Trevor Freeman guy. You helped me a lot during this times. I went a lot on lonely walks in the forest and listening to your videos.

    • @RoseAzalee
      @RoseAzalee Месяц назад +1

      I think he should change the name back. He's the "shadow work" master 😂💀

  • @TeH.j0keR
    @TeH.j0keR Месяц назад +7

    Skill issue. Life is easier when you don't have entire classes of people who live the luxury of existing on making problems for other people where otherise none exist. 🤔

  • @jonathanklein7875
    @jonathanklein7875 Месяц назад

    I couldn't agree more with what you've said, but I couldn't help but laugh at the end when you say "this brutal thing is coming for you one day, so don't forget that. " Followed by an anesthetized social pleasantry "Alright guys, have a good day"

  • @justmadeit2
    @justmadeit2 28 дней назад

    I’m suffering from severe depression and chronic insomnia, this is the worst thing to cope with, I’m barely holding on

  • @t.sizzle5308
    @t.sizzle5308 Месяц назад +2

    Facts man life is hell

  • @pigafettalyon1270
    @pigafettalyon1270 Месяц назад

    I totally agree with you. I have studied this for a long time now, and most everything that you have uttered has already been described by the writings of Arthur Schopenhauer that I can quote in German, French, and English. Now rejoice in Life, all of ya.

  • @markvosslpcc
    @markvosslpcc Месяц назад

    I agree, if one is to face the facts, as you're doing, it shifts your focus. To be happy, one requires a life philosophy that is adequate to the challenge and points towards what might be possible in terms of redemption.
    Buddhism, just one possibility, famously holds that life is suffering, but until you study it, you might not hear that there are three forms of that -- the gross, subtle, and very subtle. Everyone knows the gross form, that getting hit in the face hurts, but not everyone knows the subtle truth, that eating ice cream also turns into suffering, that, in a sense, suffering is bottomless, good turns to bad and then again to worse. And then there's very subtle suffering as well. :)
    And yet -- according to the Buddha, freedom is possible, which is pretty stunning.

  • @condocord7544
    @condocord7544 Месяц назад

    Life is a cold hard game... however, we love in a connected world, and when people work together, new and better roads are discovered. Try it.

  • @Seanus32
    @Seanus32 Месяц назад

    Thanks for the uplifting video. Much appreciated ;)

  • @Tony-hu7uk
    @Tony-hu7uk Месяц назад

    You said it, BRIEF moments of joy, that's it,if that!

  • @MrDjdanieljose
    @MrDjdanieljose Месяц назад +1

    Finding an enriching message video like this one it is like looking for tiny piece of diamond with your bare hands

  • @strawspulledatrandom.
    @strawspulledatrandom. Месяц назад +1

    Life is ultimately worth it and is amazing but my God it brings you to your knees often. Keep on keeping on.

  • @deanslife1
    @deanslife1 Месяц назад

    You're right, i have ADHD and autoimmune conditions and i live in mould along with being unemployed as i cant find a job i like or can do and the only good thing was i wasnt having any woman trouble because i wasnt chatting to any because i had enough to deal with but last weekend i met a really cute girl at a party who was interested in meeting me and agreed to the place to meet but then having chatted to others about me and the girl it made me think she hasnt showed me much personality, ill ask her this and ill let her know that she can stop at mine if she wants which then all backfired and she responded with i think we are heading in different directions and its like fuck...i could have met a really nice chick but her agreeing to meet wasnt enough and then i have woman trouble and now im frustrated when i wasnt frustrated before when i havent dated in a long time. It's when you have a chance of something and the littlest thing you do or dont do blows it...thats a pain that hurts

  • @waynekasmar4401
    @waynekasmar4401 Месяц назад

    Human beings are created with a higher nature and a lower one. The higher one is the spiritual level of our minds, and the lower one is the natural one. Neglect your spiritual life and you'll feel like you're at the mercy of the cruel world, as per this video.

  • @setttingoursails
    @setttingoursails Месяц назад +2

    C.S. Lewis said “The Christian way is different: harder and easier. Christ says, “Give me all. I don’t want so much of your time and so much of your money and so much of your work: I want you. I have not come to torment your natural self, but to kill it. No half-measures are any good. I don’t want to cut off a branch here and a branch there, I want to have the whole tree down. I don’t want to drill the tooth, or crown it, or stop it, but to have it out. Hand over the whole natural self, all the desires which you think innocent as well as the ones you think wicked-the whole outfit. I will give you a new self instead. In fact, I will give you Myself: my own will shall become yours.”
    My own quote ; “ life is absolutely brutal”. Oh oops! I stole that from you brother! Lol. But I agree! I asked God one day about this and He told me write everything down that I struggle with . Then He asked me ? Is there any hope? I knew where He was going with this exercise 🤔 all my hope is in Him and my future with Him!! My hope is NOT in this world and it’s messed up system! He is NOT my crutch, He is my hope and my life. His breath and life are in our lungs keeping us alive; calling us to know Him, to know we exist! ❤
    Anyways, I agree with you brother! 🕊️

    • @Prometheus_43
      @Prometheus_43 Месяц назад +1

      Sorry to be the one to tell you but your idea of god is your "crutch". You already have everyhting you need to survive and thrive in this world, invoking a supernatural being doesn't make things any easier, it makes it harder, because you'll always be searching for something that doesn't exist (well except for in the imagination of one species of ape).
      "We live in a kind of world where good people do good things and bad people do bad things, but in order to get good people to do bad things it takes religion"
      Steven Weinberg

    • @setttingoursails
      @setttingoursails Месяц назад

      @@Prometheus_43
      “When I was 19 years old I bought my first car for $500, a cute mazda 323 :). The only challenge with driving my sweet little car was that I had to learn standard ! I remember pulling up to my first traffic light, which was slightly uphill 😬 , and I was so petrified that I was going to roll backwards into the unassuming person behind me. Every second waiting felt like torture! All of the sudden it seemed like I was beginning to roll backwards; or actually was I? Maybe it was the guy in the car beside me inching forward? I couldn’t tell! I panicked 😱 and began looking for something stationary! To my left, in the meridian, was a traffic light pole that obviously was NOT moving and I realized to my relief that I was NOT sliding backwards! It only seemed like I was while looking at the car beside me because he was inching forward! It was an illusion until I fixed my eyes on the stationary pole to my left “ This is like relativity.
      This is a true story but it really illustrates my journey to finding Truth. Many things are ever moving, changing with the wind and I was never at rest until I found Truth. Truth is never moving, exclusive by these factors, that it is unbending, always the same , unchanging. Truth is not just an idea; Truth is a Person! And Truth has a name , and His name is Jesus Christ who took on flesh so we could see what God is like. Then He let His flesh take the punishment due to me; so that every one of my sins would be atoned for. I broke God’s law; He paid my wages/fine with His blood. Because the wages of sin is death and eternal separation from life & goodness. BUT the gift of God IS eternal life through Jesus my Saviour! He suffered for the “joy set before Him”. And He said that “the joy” was reconciling all who want to know Him, back to Himself ! He is real ; He is a love like no other. He is coming back soon; He has let us know. You have His life in your lungs friend; you have His morals on your heart; why don’t you begin a conversation with the One who never changes; who created you with love. My son has witnessed heaven; oh my, now that is where life begins!! Hallelujah
      Bless you deeply 🕊️❤️🙏Jess

  • @marcmeinzer8859
    @marcmeinzer8859 Месяц назад +4

    Thanks for cheering me up.

  • @breakpack
    @breakpack Месяц назад +6

    All these 'self help' channels are starting to sound like background noise. Anyone watching, do yourselves a favor and just live life. Everyone RUclipsr has something to say. And they wanna make money saying it.

    • @warriormessiah3134
      @warriormessiah3134 Месяц назад

      ☝️

    • @Trevorvalor
      @Trevorvalor  Месяц назад

      @@warriormessiah3134i dont charge anything and never will. My channel is also demonetized for “cussing.”

  • @dorkbrandon4422
    @dorkbrandon4422 Месяц назад +3

    "And when he gets to heaven, to St. Peter he will tell: 'Another soldier reporting sir, I've served my time in hell."

  • @NoahLorano
    @NoahLorano Месяц назад +8

    Pain has always been a natural part of life, but we look at it as a negative thing. Yes permanent injuries are hard not to look at negatively, but we still need to have a better relationship with pain, as it is a teacher. And yes, this being said, I agree with any comment that says we're already in some sort of hell, this would make sense, at least a kind of hell where life can have beautiful moments as well.

    • @tubbyrainbow111
      @tubbyrainbow111 Месяц назад +2

      I can learn very well without pain and suffering thank you very much.

    • @NoahLorano
      @NoahLorano Месяц назад +1

      @@tubbyrainbow111 Sure, but is pain and suffering avoidable?

    • @tubbyrainbow111
      @tubbyrainbow111 Месяц назад +1

      @@NoahLorano Not in this prison slave hellrealm.

    • @NoahLorano
      @NoahLorano Месяц назад +1

      @@tubbyrainbow111 Exactly, so why fight it? let's change the way we look at it. Is it possible to do that? to look at it in a positive light? When you do leg day for example, that's a pain you look at positively right?

    • @tubbyrainbow111
      @tubbyrainbow111 Месяц назад

      @@NoahLorano No, I look at it as an imposition. I don't WANT to do it I HAVE to. Theres a difference. Why is my so called "freewill" not respected there??

  • @dantenewyork7380
    @dantenewyork7380 Месяц назад +1

    indeed. no matter how many times i've 'debated' with believers with rose colored glasses, predation is just a horrific facet of whatever this realm is. and if there was an all loving, all powerful yada yada yada deity, in whatever form one wishes to posit, one would think there'd be a better way to construct this place than sentient creatures eating one another alive to survive.

  • @BenIsFiguringitOut
    @BenIsFiguringitOut Месяц назад

    The older I get, the more I’m grateful that we only live once. Life is brutal as hell….whew!

  • @jimboiy454
    @jimboiy454 Месяц назад

    It’s impossible to fail the test of life because we made the test ourselves. The answers are within us.

  • @trlavalley9909
    @trlavalley9909 Месяц назад +2

    As the Buddha said; Life is Dukkha. loosly, Life is Suffering. Always has been, always will be. Honestly this is why while I am a Deist, the concept of a just, loving, interventionist God, honestly seems ridiculous to me. Your milage may vary.

  • @jsm9096
    @jsm9096 Месяц назад +2

    If there's a God who created this world, but knowingly allowed evil and suffering to be the default and does nothing when you beg for help, then that God cannot possibly be good. If only God had someone to answer to, like karma.

    • @Prometheus_43
      @Prometheus_43 Месяц назад +2

      Man made god, not that other way around, give up your childish notions of a big juju father figure in the sky and your life will instantly become better!

  • @ForTheSakeOfTheSongs
    @ForTheSakeOfTheSongs Месяц назад +10

    Schopenhauer thought life must be a kind of error...

    • @JAlbertz9478
      @JAlbertz9478 Месяц назад

      That's a gnostic philosophy

    • @darko783
      @darko783 Месяц назад

      The gnostics believe this and I agree with them.

    • @fritzdeuces
      @fritzdeuces Месяц назад

      That's why I moved on from Schopenhauer.

    • @JAlbertz9478
      @JAlbertz9478 Месяц назад

      @@fritzdeuces the Adam and eve story..had its origins in the sophoanic error wisdom from the gnostics..pagens as described later..

  • @thedoghouse8900
    @thedoghouse8900 Месяц назад

    Life is less brutal when you work hard and stay low key

  • @rotboxdriver
    @rotboxdriver Месяц назад +3

    Its bitter sweet for all living things. I think this way all the time. Im grateful of my life, Im 45. I wouldn't want to repeat my life.
    Great video. Great thoughts.

  • @wt5626
    @wt5626 Месяц назад +2

    Im just sitting here waiting to be taken out.