Dad tells father-in-law he won’t let his granddaughter date until she turns 30 [Part 3] | KDOC

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  • Опубликовано: 9 сен 2024
  • Part 1 : • Macho dad wants to rai...
    Part 2 : • Wife wants husband to ...
    Part 3: • Dad tells father-in-la...
    Par 4: • Father-in-law's touchi...
    Daniel from Mexico dreamt of becoming a police officer ever since he was little. When he met his now wife Hyojung, he decides to settle down in Korea. But he doesn't know how to give up! Find out more about his story of helping others and raising his kids in South Korea, and see if his dream comes true!
    All edits and translations done by Eunjae Lee.
    All rights reserved to KBS.
    이웃집 찰스 [My neighbor Charles]
    [멕시코 다니엘] Air Date: 2019.05.14

Комментарии • 132

  • @margaesperanza
    @margaesperanza 2 года назад +861

    I love that he gave his Korean friends their english names, and then one friend has "Maradona"

    • @nancytwinkle7677
      @nancytwinkle7677 2 года назад +20

      Thats not even an English name but rather Spanish

    • @Cxs1a3
      @Cxs1a3 Год назад +9

      English name in Asia just means any name an international community can easily pronounce

    • @carlosmante
      @carlosmante Год назад +3

      @@Cxs1a3 English names are from England your concept is very wrong. Most proper names in Europa are of Latin or Greek origin.

    • @user-yo9jo2fy5e
      @user-yo9jo2fy5e Год назад +2

      @@carlosmantethats how asian think. My korean gf say same thing

    • @carlosmante
      @carlosmante Год назад +1

      @@user-yo9jo2fy5e Yes.

  • @TheAlizwa
    @TheAlizwa 2 года назад +699

    I really like this husband, i love that he actually asks his friends how to parent his son better and they give him some advice that shows that he is willing to improve. I also love that they have this big group of friends who also have their own kids, its so cute to see the support system that they have around them.

    • @blackiedarling7539
      @blackiedarling7539 2 года назад +1

      and since when they are good father? like some westerner men?

    • @ilikebread7052
      @ilikebread7052 2 года назад +17

      @@blackiedarling7539 huh? His a good father lol

    • @zebbyeigenman8647
      @zebbyeigenman8647 2 года назад +1

      @@blackiedarling7539 what are you trying to say???

    • @user-cf4pv8cn6j
      @user-cf4pv8cn6j Год назад +1

      @@ilikebread7052 he is not really a good father if you see the other episodes is just uh he treats his son more different than the girl like uhh its probably bc he never had time with his dad and like ye idk how to explain it

    • @chip1082
      @chip1082 Год назад

      @@user-cf4pv8cn6jI just don’t understand how he a bad father 🤔

  • @sarcasmcafe9860
    @sarcasmcafe9860 2 года назад +128

    0:52 Great to know there is one parents caring enough to think about bullying. Parents should really think about such things.

  • @kiwikorean
    @kiwikorean 2 года назад +395

    I really enjoyed this one. I could see a different side to the husband. And the wifes parents are really open and accepting for Korean parents, towards their daughter marrying a foreigner.

    • @atin4353
      @atin4353 2 года назад +4

      Foreigners need to stop generalising about Asians. Im asian, my cousin married a German. You guys probably imagine that we're like the evil in-laws to foreigners. Yes they prefer when children marry someone of our own community. Eg, we have many tribes and many villages within our own tribe and they would prefer if we marry someone from our own tribe and village because within own village, they know most of the families are closely tied since they grew up together so in times of need we look out for each other, we also have the same culture, traditions and common dialogue making it easier to mingle and understand each other and get along. These reasons are why they prefer people from own community. Not because they don't like foreigners. So they will try to pursue their children once but if their children decides and marries someone else they will accept it. But since these generation is becoming more mingled, there are many mixed marriages here and alot of youngsters don't care about such stuffs now.

    • @kiwikorean
      @kiwikorean 2 года назад +6

      @@atin4353 Not only Asia, but many societies are like this. Although living in Korea, you'll find older Korean parents, prefer their children marry other Koreans. I was lucky that my in-laws were very accepting of me, and I'm the first foreigner to marry into my wife's Korean family. I'm also Māori, so our customs are very similar. But as Korea is becoming more global, you're starting to see more international marriages and older Koreans become more accepting of it.

    • @sambatra6162
      @sambatra6162 2 года назад

      @@atin4353 exactly!!

    • @atin4353
      @atin4353 2 года назад

      @@kiwikorean that's why I gave the reasons why parents generally prefer people from their own community. But once the children marries, they will accept it, unless the foreigner is disrespectful to them, their culture and ways of life. This generalization of not being accepting is exaggerated and twisted.

    • @kiwikorean
      @kiwikorean 2 года назад

      @@atin4353 as I said, this is for most cultures, not just Asian. Different cultures prefer that their children marry with their own, it's nothing unique in society.

  • @blushsun5234
    @blushsun5234 2 года назад +235

    My dad used to say the same thing when I was her age, that I won’t marry or date until 40, but at 16 he told me I could date. If the girl isn’t troublesome and nice I’m sure he will trust her to marry. He’s just says that now because she’s a baby

    • @ilikebread7052
      @ilikebread7052 2 года назад +14

      Even if she isn’t nice or troublesome she will might still do it lol

    • @otohime8516
      @otohime8516 2 года назад +3

      @@ilikebread7052 True, it is worse if you say you wont let

    • @TheMusicalKnokcers
      @TheMusicalKnokcers 2 года назад +2

      Wtf like he owns her daughter i HOPE he'll trust her lmao

    • @toohottohandle0_0
      @toohottohandle0_0 2 года назад +6

      My dad used to tell me that I'm not allowed date until I'm 30, yet now that I'm in my 20s he's been hinting that I should grow out my hair, "be more ladylike", and start looking if I'm planning on getting married. Parents are crazy lol

    • @TheMusicalKnokcers
      @TheMusicalKnokcers 2 года назад

      @@toohottohandle0_0 lmao he's starting to freak out that you're gay, that serves him right

  • @Rezzmari
    @Rezzmari 2 года назад +260

    I love how the parents are so accepting. They both seem really nice. I can see why the husband was nervous at first, since it is well known that a decent amount of East Asian parents aren't too accepting of their children marrying foreigners.

    • @Cxs1a3
      @Cxs1a3 2 года назад +5

      Foreigners come in all shapes, sizes and colors, you can't generalize all, they might accept 1 foreigner but not the next. And also it's well known that a decent amount of non-East Asians are racist towards East-Asians, so parents have to protect their own.

    • @Moon.J.I
      @Moon.J.I Год назад +1

      @@Cxs1a3 Korea, China, and Japan have the same roots, and most people think that they are superior to Southeast Asians, blacks, and Latins.

    • @Moon.J.I
      @Moon.J.I Год назад

      @@Cxs1a3 There are conflicts, but when the four countries become a community like North Korea, everyone will succumb.

    • @Cxs1a3
      @Cxs1a3 Год назад

      @@Moon.J.I In Asia, it's not about racial supremacy, it's about economics. They will respect any group that is economically successful, doesn't matter white or black. It's not the same as white supremacy, there are many differences.

    • @Moon.J.I
      @Moon.J.I Год назад

      @@Cxs1a3 I admit!! In the future, if South and North Korea are reunified and Korea, China, and Japan become like NATO, the history of mankind will change.

  • @Tae96
    @Tae96 2 года назад +54

    Daniel needs his own show. I love to see his interactions with his family. He is a sweet father and husband 😊

  • @elden5052
    @elden5052 2 года назад +46

    Qué riza, “Maradona” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
    We latinos love to give our friends nicknames 😬

  • @zachcouch8654
    @zachcouch8654 2 года назад +44

    He seems like a really nice guy

  • @rhflop
    @rhflop 2 года назад +16

    the dad seems so cool!!! i hope those kids know how lucky they are and cherish him always!

  • @amaralily3586
    @amaralily3586 2 года назад +14

    So far this has been the best dad I've seen in this show. Although he needs to work on treating his son better.

  • @alexss3661
    @alexss3661 Год назад +22

    If I ever become a mother, I will also tell my kids not to get married before 30. They can date in their 20s but marriage is not something you do just because you want. It's a huge commitment in which people need to be mature enough and have financial stability to make it work.

  • @lilmamagc
    @lilmamagc 2 года назад +25

    30 isn't a bad age. by then you are emotionally, mentally, spiritually and financially mature. Less likely to make mistakes on stupid guys that only want to use you. Not a bad idea

  • @kamibrotas
    @kamibrotas 2 года назад +21

    for sure he's joking to make it more funny 😂 I liked him

  • @amazingjeju0305
    @amazingjeju0305 2 года назад +39

    Oh i am so proud to this man(husband).He is such a jolly peron.🤩😄👏🏻 He knows how to be socialize and to make a good relationship with people around him especially to his in-laws.👍🏻😉
    I CAN SEE MYSELF TO HIM. I am also a FOREIGNER married with a Korean. YES, MY WIFE IS KOREAN. I have blessed with nice and respectful parents-in-laws. I wish I could also share my lifestory being a husband of a Korean wife living here in SouthKorea🇰🇷

  • @hatsuharu333
    @hatsuharu333 2 года назад +34

    If you want grandchildren, let your children date before they’re 30 lol. Only gets harder as you get older. I know from experience lol 😬
    Plus as you get older, you want to make sure your kids aren’t lonely and always have someone there for them.

    • @Krusty_krab_pizza
      @Krusty_krab_pizza 2 года назад +8

      Y’all do realize people say this but don’t actually mean it

    • @noemierana3140
      @noemierana3140 Год назад +2

      fathers always say things they don’t mean, i highly doubt he will prevent his daughter to date before 30, my dad used to say these kind of things when i was younger and look, i’m almost 18 and he doesn’t refrain me from dating. fathers are just overprotective and that’s their way of coping

  • @motherhoodsbeauty9279
    @motherhoodsbeauty9279 2 года назад +17

    What a nice guy. I want a son in law like him too.

  • @onceandtwice9978
    @onceandtwice9978 2 года назад +15

    The editor is the best 😭❤️

  • @luci4087
    @luci4087 2 года назад +104

    lol many parents especially dads with daughters say they won’t let their daughters date until x age. it’s normally an exaggeration and just being overprotective.

  • @dreambig6422
    @dreambig6422 2 года назад +67

    I'm pretty sure he is just joking about his daughter, a los dad's do that in Latin America.

  • @EricV89
    @EricV89 2 года назад +36

    Why did they correct that guy on that expression?!?! He was correct. The correct phrasing is “LONG TIME, NO SEE” not Long Time, Long See… wtf? 😂

    • @misomar7193
      @misomar7193 2 года назад +14

      they were saying that she should say long time long see because they want to keep staying friends, it was a joke

  • @sabrehet6965
    @sabrehet6965 Год назад +1

    These are true fathers in Italy😂😂 they protect their offsprings... especially if they are daughters .

  • @andrelissapaulino9884
    @andrelissapaulino9884 Год назад +3

    Awe the dad said foreign treat theirs wife better than Korean husband.

    • @Cxs1a3
      @Cxs1a3 Год назад

      He's probably never had a non-Korean friend in his life, so don't take him seriously

  • @WeeHgt
    @WeeHgt 2 года назад +19

    I haven’t watched the video yet, but the title is funny, because so far the comment sections have been split on defending and criticizing this dad, but he keeps looking worse and worse from these titles.

  • @user-ti5um5ek1t
    @user-ti5um5ek1t 2 года назад +21

    Mexican men are handsome and Korean men are handsome

    • @Cxs1a3
      @Cxs1a3 2 года назад +6

      Mexico is very diverse, unlike Korea, there people who look like a Mayan tribe person, and people who look exactly like a white European, you can't generalize.

    • @oromtitiwbo5078
      @oromtitiwbo5078 2 года назад +16

      @@Cxs1a3 she said they are handsome nothing about race and skin color. are you saying looking Indigenous and looking European is the difference between being handsome or not?

    • @oromtitiwbo5078
      @oromtitiwbo5078 2 года назад +2

      @@Cxs1a3 you are the one who brought up race but ok 🤗👍🏽

  • @qwertyytrewq2963
    @qwertyytrewq2963 2 года назад +7

    Its quite amusing how he is moving with his words lol... I thought those people are endangered already. lmao

    • @waynegretzkyy
      @waynegretzkyy 2 года назад

      What do you mean? That he uses his hands a lot when talking?

    • @qwertyytrewq2963
      @qwertyytrewq2963 2 года назад +1

      Yes. 😂

    • @waynegretzkyy
      @waynegretzkyy 2 года назад +3

      @@qwertyytrewq2963 😂😂😂😂 it’s so common for Latinos ! I was surprised to see Koreans be so calm when speaking

    • @deepakx7
      @deepakx7 Год назад +1

      @@waynegretzkyy Koreans will become your best friend and will never shut up if drinks are involved lol

  • @supercoolyoutubeuser00
    @supercoolyoutubeuser00 2 года назад +3

    lolol “maradona” he’s funny

  • @thespecialthings
    @thespecialthings 2 года назад +6

    My dad used to say I couldn't date until I was 25 😂

  • @ashleylove6840
    @ashleylove6840 2 года назад +5

    where can I get a husband like him, I need him!!!

  • @Phd366
    @Phd366 2 года назад +7

    He is obviously joking. Do you really think he will make t-shirts with his face?
    Thats just his sense of humor 🙄

  • @AlayziaWade
    @AlayziaWade Год назад

    Daniel is adorable. He reminds me of myself a little.😂😂

  • @chanchalatanty8668
    @chanchalatanty8668 2 года назад +1

    Daniel was soo funny🤣🤣

  • @TheMusicalKnokcers
    @TheMusicalKnokcers 2 года назад

    Hahahaha it is so engrained to deny or bellitle bullting it's like a reflex lmao, poor kids

  • @AdriStar0697
    @AdriStar0697 2 года назад +1

    Lmao "Maradona" hahaha the worst thing is that they look alike 😂😂

  • @alvaroa.fuentes9064
    @alvaroa.fuentes9064 2 года назад +10

    he was clearly joking but the caption and the video ughhh kdoc is full of coward and online kpop bots

  • @shivanirajput4571
    @shivanirajput4571 2 года назад +2

    everything aside but Hyojung(the mother) is so freaking beautiful TT

  • @rachelcookie321
    @rachelcookie321 2 года назад +28

    The father in law seems to imply that he married early. I am surprised he thinks 28 was a young age to get married. At least now in western countries, 28 is considered a normal age to get married. And 35ish years ago when he got married it would of been normal to get married at an even younger age. Do Koreans usually get married at a lot older age?

    • @acey2481
      @acey2481 2 года назад +6

      Also! A lot of Koreans in recent years have been getting married in their mid to late thirties. Since during their 20s most focus on studying and finding a stable career. Since the job industry is really competitive there.

    • @ahgavlive4517
      @ahgavlive4517 2 года назад +3

      In western countries 28 is not normal.
      At least not in Germany.
      In Germany most ppl get married with 30 which makes totally sense bc at that time u have a (good) job and enough money to take care of a child

    • @rachelcookie321
      @rachelcookie321 2 года назад +3

      @@ahgavlive4517 I am from a western country and I think 28 is very normal. Maybe it varies by country.

    • @montserratgarcia6428
      @montserratgarcia6428 2 года назад +2

      @@ahgavlive4517 I'm from Spain and I have quite a lot of friends who got married at 25-26 so 28-30 I feel like is a little late, not late at all but not that young too

    • @nancytwinkle7677
      @nancytwinkle7677 2 года назад

      In Middle Eastern and in some South Asian cultures, 28 is considered old LMAO

  • @jennrg2076
    @jennrg2076 2 года назад +2

    Lmfao he really named him Maradona, Dad is a Latino man for sure

  • @jeiro6513
    @jeiro6513 2 года назад +4

    My dad said the same thing to me too

  • @lifeaholicwithmiki1509
    @lifeaholicwithmiki1509 2 года назад +2

    He looks a bit like actor Choi Taejoon

  • @meIlovv
    @meIlovv 2 года назад

    Long time long see 😂

  • @angelah.96
    @angelah.96 2 года назад +2

    My dad said that too, I'm 26 and no bf. but now when my cousin already have a child, she younger than me so I think my dad want me get married too, he want his grandchild. I sure he gonna keep waiting such for longer bcs me and my brother, we're not dating anyone now 😅

    • @lilmamagc
      @lilmamagc 2 года назад +2

      sameee im 26 and never dated. But tbh I don't really care at the moment. I'm too busy trying to become financially stable so I can move out. Once I'm living successfully on my own, then I'll think about maybe dating

  • @raquelfigueroa5539
    @raquelfigueroa5539 2 года назад +1

    So the friend “Maradona” is he Diego 😁

  • @whyparkjiminnotridejimin
    @whyparkjiminnotridejimin 2 года назад

    Let your kids date. If you wait till 30 nothing good will come out for your son/daughter.

  • @nancytwinkle7677
    @nancytwinkle7677 2 года назад +1

    Where is the husband from?

  • @officialdanncardona
    @officialdanncardona Год назад +1

    Daniel hablale en español a tus hijos por favor

  • @nabilahamdani
    @nabilahamdani 2 года назад +7

    Not ideal as some say it might be harder to give birth. Well.. i'm almost 30 my parents are polar opposite and desperate for me to get married instead but still can't find a bf :(

    • @ninokikira3623
      @ninokikira3623 2 года назад +1

      I am 33, so dont worry, be happy. Mexican woman here and there are many single women of my age or older.

    • @nabilahamdani
      @nabilahamdani 2 года назад

      @@ninokikira3623 its really hard these days. I wish I am people person but sadly I'm hated by people for unknown reasons.

    • @closted_girl6136
      @closted_girl6136 Год назад +1

      Girl done rush it you find someone soon keep doing you🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @nabilahamdani
      @nabilahamdani Год назад +1

      @@closted_girl6136 I click the thumbs up button too many times it broke 😅

  • @mary_nctzen
    @mary_nctzen 2 года назад +2

    Eso me lo dijo mi mamá también 💀

  • @roselamoure
    @roselamoure 2 года назад +31

    When you turn 18 you‘re already legal in almost every country so you can do and date whoever you want and parents have absolutely no right in telling you what you should do etc. i hate when parents are so obsessive and controlling it just makes you feel like you‘re in prison and you develop an extremely introverted and anxiety filled personality when your parents are TO overprotective. Literally what happened to me. I‘m 23 and I am still not allowed to do whatever I want and only moving out and earning my own money can give me entire freedom.

    • @Phd366
      @Phd366 2 года назад +12

      You know he is joking, right? 😅

    • @rodrigoe.gordillo2617
      @rodrigoe.gordillo2617 2 года назад +10

      Mexican parents jokes this way, they did this to my female cousin, now she is 27 and their parents want grandchildren specially her mom

    • @user-hl4vl8qd7h
      @user-hl4vl8qd7h 2 года назад +7

      He is joking but if you personally think you are being controlled then you can move out, live alone!! I know westerns are leaving their parents home early and work hard! You can also do it! If you think you are a grown up to make decisions then you are also at an age when you can live alone and be responsible for yourself!!

    • @hamdiaa4
      @hamdiaa4 2 года назад +1

      girl same im 22, every since i was 13 i felt like i lived in a prison and suffocated literally never did anything to cause to them to worry or not trust me! now I don’t have a social life and im so introverted it’s so hard to make friends.

  • @jameschang2873
    @jameschang2873 2 года назад +1

    Not a typical Mexican man. Most Mexican and Mexican Americans marry and date young age

    • @carlosmante
      @carlosmante Год назад +1

      All Mexican are Americans . America is a Continent not a country.

  • @singlemom4784
    @singlemom4784 2 года назад +1

    What's wrong with 30? I told my daughter she can't date until 50. Lol

  • @AlphineWolf
    @AlphineWolf 2 года назад +1

    Uh Rimeru Korean version

  • @girlsurfingtheinternet8195
    @girlsurfingtheinternet8195 2 года назад +2

    Thats so cute eh, my name is sofia, im 31. ill think about it. norway.

  • @Nicole-pc9vv
    @Nicole-pc9vv 2 года назад

    what show is this?

  • @cjo4210
    @cjo4210 2 года назад +1

    First!

  • @nonono774
    @nonono774 2 года назад

    Can you please add Arabic sub please

    • @teovu5557
      @teovu5557 2 года назад

      There is Jewish subs but no arabic subs. why?

  • @samberlin8825
    @samberlin8825 2 года назад +2

    wow, so to be a good father, you have to give love to your children??? I would never have thought of that unless this guy had said something. and it's great he's gonna exert his will over his daughter until she's 30. She won't resent that at all.

    • @SweetCake3874
      @SweetCake3874 Год назад +1

      ??? That’s all you got out of this video? Use your common sense…

  • @NatalieFuller-x6n
    @NatalieFuller-x6n 21 день назад

    Robinson Daniel Hall Eric Lee Brian

  • @darkage5409
    @darkage5409 2 года назад

    That guy English and Korean are terrible

  • @kamilasiles136
    @kamilasiles136 Год назад

    Y los subtítulos en Español?😖

  • @arcticredpanda4598
    @arcticredpanda4598 2 года назад +1

    Explain to these Asian dads how woman's biology works by age. It's not like suddenly "today I am 30 so I will have a husband and baby."

  • @clyntonmiranda5748
    @clyntonmiranda5748 2 года назад +13

    This is dad annoying when it comes to parenting im pretty sure his kids will be rebellious... what a joke telling your adult daughter at 18 u can't date haha good luck with that...

    • @occasionallycute9083
      @occasionallycute9083 2 года назад +27

      Dad always say stuff like that as a joke don’t take everything so literally

    • @Phd366
      @Phd366 2 года назад +6

      He is joking! 🙄

    • @rodrigoe.gordillo2617
      @rodrigoe.gordillo2617 2 года назад +7

      In Mexican culture thats called a joke....

  • @dohajoon91
    @dohajoon91 2 года назад

    I still don't like him... Unless he actually does it

  • @mjsalva6484
    @mjsalva6484 2 года назад +1

    date 30 and then how age till married.. 40 hmm how about they didn't giving grandchildren.. How?..
    about 25 and then after 5 yrs get married so its already 30..😊
    strick for me.;
    But i like old fashion till now not at all,, like old accustomed from grandmother and grandfather u know...😊

  • @realDeor
    @realDeor Год назад

    I can tell he was a bully.

  • @juliannakaberovsky4545
    @juliannakaberovsky4545 Год назад

    I agree with the dad! NOT before 25yo for me!!!!!!!