@@NeuroStudies.175 @י theoretically Yes and scientifically Yes , The Human Body tends to slow down the more you age. And that includes the human brain. People usually phrase it as " A kids brain is like a magnet and an adults brain is like mud. Meaning kids will absorb any information like a magnets and adults absorption is sluggish it will take time for the information to go through the mud.
If she wants and chooses to live in a foreign country ,it's her responsibility to learn the language. It's like Chris Rock said, you can't be congratulated for doing things you're s'posed to do like raising your kids.
yes it is her reponsibility and risk living in foreign country, but the context were not about congratulating but more on appreciating her effort to achieve her responsibility and for the family.
That's a myth. Adults learn languages 32x as fast as kids. Neuroplasticity has proven adults form new neural networks their whole lives. Only advantage kids have is free time and a lack of fear when it comes to making mistakes
For you males and females , i am 41 years old male , i advice you to take those who you truly love to be your partner or husband/wife ( no matter race , nationality). Respect your parents but don't let them decide with whom you will live the rest of your life.
They say a parents love is unconditional but there appears to be a lot of conditions you need to meet in order for your parents to love and accept you. Not seeing your child cause of their life choices is hella crazy. You can literally die any minute.
my mom doesn't want to accept me because I am not ready to marry now. Had to cut her,cause been fighting over that topic everyday and she critisized me in public all the time. Had so much pain and headache cause she forced me to marry ANYONE. I don't want to talk to her and don't need her toxic love.
Born in Japan, went to school in Hawaii, came to Korea for his career, forgot Japanese, can’t speak English and is mediocre at Korean 😭 Mr. Zerolingual LMAO
LMAO. I NEVER MET ANY PERSON WHO WOULD FORGET THE LANGUAGE THAT THEY USED TO SPEAK. I WAS BORN IN FRANCE AND MOVED TO KOREA FOR WORK 10 yrs AGO BUT I STILL KNOW HOW TO SPEAK FRENCH. 😂😭
@@salleh5131 i’m really confused why you don’t think they’ll be fluent in korean, their native language 😭 in addition, the kids will know spanish fluently as well as a good amount of german and english. that’s a master of two trades and a jack of two. if you’re jealous, you can just say that
@@Mariam-qb9nv don’t worry about them. They are all over the comment section spreading negativity. Probably doesn’t have a life RUclips is the only place they get attention from other humans.
4:01 - Replay button for “I was born in Japan, went to school in Hawaii, moved to Korea for a career. I can’t speak English, forgot Japanese, and mediocre at Korean. DON’T LET THIS HAPPEN TO YOU.” 🤣
This reminds of my parents. I'm half Chinese and half Mexican and my dad's parents (Chinese heritage) were not fond of my mother at first. My grandmother eventually grew to tolerate my mother because my brother and I were born, but at this present time, my grandfather has still not adjusted to my father choosing my mother as a partner. He is very religious and has conservative views. Then with my mother's side (Mexican heritage), my grandmother always wants my mom to do what feels right for her, so my Mexican grandmother never had an issue with my father, as long as he took proper care of her she was content. I never got to meet my grandfather from my mother's side, but my mom told me that he didn't want her to be with another race that was not Latino. My grandfather was not pleased with my mother's relationship. Still to this day, there are always going to be arguments with my father and mother about their differences in culture. It's nice to see other Lasians, but it's not easy especially when there is no family support.
@@nothanks7475 No, I don't. My dad grew up with no shoes so he's grown accustom to that lifestyle and my mom likes living in a clean house and having no shoes makes it a lot more easy to clean. However, I did grown up with my grandmother(from my mom's side) when I was young and I always wore shoes in her house. When I visit my mom's family, we wear shoes in the house. When I visit my father's family, we remove our shoes by the front door.
My grandma always told me if I found someone who I deeply loved to not let other people ruin that for you because at the end of the day it’s your life you’re living and not the people who disapprove. She also said if my parents didn’t approve then who cares because I’ll probably live longer than them anyways 💀
It is true... As an adult you have the right to make your own decisions, live with the consequences, and be responsible about your choice. It is also important to remember, interracial marriage is not that easy.. you will have a mountain of issues to address and a lot of compromises compared to same race/culture-marriage. Be brave and I wish the best of luck. I speak based on my own experience and others. Most of the time our elders warn us how difficult it is to have interracial marriage because they have known from observation and their knowledge about the issues, not because they are racist or anything. So it's good to have an open mind, before it is too late.
That works in the context of her culture and her upbringing and her country , thinking you're the center of the universe and everyone in foreign countries should follow you is arrogant.
I’m Hispanic/white American and my boyfriend is Korean. He’s been living in the states for many years and although we have been dating for 4 years his mom still disapproves of our relationship. It’s sad because she sees me as someone that isn’t a good look for her family. Luckily she lives in Korea and don’t have to physically see her. She has yet to meet me even when she spent a few months in the states. My boyfriend is very supportive and tries to make his mother understand but she is so cold hearted..
Something similar happened to my cousin. We're brazilian and she's mixed race (black dad and white mom). She met her husband in Brazil through church and they got together but unfortunately the family wouldn't accept their relationship. But eventually they got married and are now expecting their first child! And recently her husband's sister also married a foreigner! Lol I just wish I could see his parents reactions
@Silver ja, meine Muttersprache ist Deutsch. Ich finde trotzdem für ein Kind das praktisch nichts mit Deutschland zu tun hat und mit niemanden in seiner Familie Deutsch reden kann ihr Sprachniveau sehr beeindruckend. Ich denke sie hat „ist von Mexiko” mit „kommt aus Mexiko” verwechselt, oder versucht es über die Englische Ausdrucksweise zu sagen, was ja wohl passieren kann wenn man eine Sprache nicht so oft üben kann, bzw. wenn man sieht wie ähnlich sich Deutsch und Englisch sind und sie wohl beides spricht.
My dad was the same. I made a deal with him that he just had to meet him once and I 'promised' I'd take his opinion into consideration. From the first day he met him, my dad liked him and supported our marriage.
It's just so ridiculous, too. Why do people care so much?? What's the issue? I really don't get it. Multiple cultures and races together makes for beautiful people who understand and appreciate different cultures.
I think it's perfectly fine that the wife doesn't speak Korean. It ensures that kids will be fluent in Spanish, Korean, and English since husband and wife communicates in English.
I want her to speak Korean, because it can be very lonely living in a country where you don't speak the predominant language. It could open up a lot of hobbies, social activities, and even jobs that could bring her a lot of joy
@@llallogen7380 True, but at her age, she will have a very difficult time. She will be able to get to a point where she can go shopping, order food, function as a citizen ... but she will never be fluent enough to joke around and become a fully immersed part of the community. And I'm saying, that's ok. Her best bet is to become part of Mexican Korean community. However small, I'm sure there are few, and she can lead a happy life that way You have to be realistic.
It's better if she does. I can attest to that , it's easier to integrate within a community and life will be lonely if you can't communicate. Speaking from experience.
@@celianeher7637 Nobody is disagreeing with you. All I'm claiming is that it will be difficult at her age. But if she can't, it's ok. It's not her fault. She can still lead a happy life. But I agree with you - of course it will be better if she can.
Exactly. As a language teacher, I can assert that reaching fluency at her age will be extremely tough. She can try her best but she also has adult duties that take time from just conversing and practicing the language unlike her children who are immersed all day
The parents should just get over it. I think a lot of the times in situations like this, they hyper-fixate on one aspect of the new spouse, like her "not being Korean;" when in reality, what they're upset about is their son no longer being their little boy and becoming a man. But seriously, GET OVER IT
I love that the host ask important questions like how did the wife felt when he just decided to register their wedding in city hall even tho his parents opposed it.
This situation made me think of the time when I tested my own mother who was in her sixties and this was like more than 30 years ago. I just wanted to know her reaction if I were to marry someone of a different race. She said it doesn’t matter to her the race, color and nationality and even religion. What was important was that we were happy. I wonder why some parents impose their preference when it comes to their children choosing their life partners. Is it something conditioned by the society they lived in or a natural prejudice? The father really looked silly now after he had initially even refused to look at the daughter-in-law’s face. It was not only rude but also disrespectful to his own son.
This happened with me too, they don't accept us until first baby. But now, after 3y married, her(my korean wife) parents forced her to abandon me and our daughter and force the divorce. She has many traumas because they used abuse and aggression as discipline... and we always had problems when she wanted use the same kind of "discipline" with our daughter or even me. So... last time we had problems, they made blackmail to her and forced to left us, start the divorce and zero contact(even with our daughter 4y old), and they don't want people see her as a single mother. Now... after 7 months... divorce is Octuber 10th and after that I'll back to my country with my daughter.
Everything was soooo good. Camera work, energy, dancer, visuals, outfits,edit, facial expressions and a lot more!!! We can see that you really had fun tho
theres always amawzing hope in being able to win over the parents at some point, some people take until the grandchildren to get on their parents good side, others a lot later, don't always expect to be good at the start. if this is you, have hope and continue your relationship and dont give up hope just because you dont have parental approval at first, parents just want the best for their kids and its difficult to see that in a short amount of time, it's understandable if theyre not cooperative at first, but keep fighting because it'll be worth it in the long run and is all apart of a relationship
Most in-laws that appear in this show are so maddening really. Why do you have to be an obstacle or problem to your child's life and happiness just because they chose to marry someone who isn't Korean? Be kind. Even Korean brides and grooms end up going through that rotten treatment when they marry outside of Korea. Stop praising yourself that you eventually accepted her cause they were married or had kids so you had no choice. Accept her cause she is human and your son loves her.
I feel sad for them too, can feel the struggling, it is not easy to convince their parents so they just did their way, thankfully things get better and i hope jennifer can overcome this, your kids are pretty !!!! Be happy Okay 😘
From a Mexican living in The Netherlands, with a trilingual household and a Dutch partner... I come to watch these stories on RUclips to remind myself that it could be harder. I feel you Elizabeth, it can be all so though, stressing, sad. But, when you look at what wonderful children you're raising, then it's all worth it.
We have alot of interracial marriages and dating in America. Nobody really cares at all. As a Latino, I really wouldn't care if my daughter gets with a non Spanish person as long as she is happy then I am happy.
@Xinnie the Pooh Lol they better get used to it now, I’m sure there’s many international relationships between Koreans and foreigners nowadays and possibly many more in the future. At the end of the day, we are all only human.
@@Cxs1a3 how is it they’re being superior?? They’re just saying their experience as well as opinions. Nothing wrong with it? I don’t see how it is being superior…..
There's a concept "better the race/mejorar la raza", marrying a white person, you're improving the Hispanic race. East-Asian culture does not promote such nonsense
I was hesitant when my sister got married with another race as well, but when you see your nieces and nephews, all of my concerned seemed childish. We cannot dictate the heart, all we can hope for is for them to form a loving family unit.
Wow this show is really eye opening. The US could use a similar show !! Korea seems to undergoing a huge cultural shift from homogenous society to that of a mixed and international society. Disheartening to see so many narrow minded attitudes yet also refreshing and hopeful to see how many Koreans are changing those attitudes and views through kindness and love. This family looked lovely! ❤
I have friends in korea who would love me to marry a Korean girl almost met a cute korean girl through a friend didn't work out due to her work and me living in America
@@woljay9362 It’s way more common in the US to see interracial marriages than almost any other place. It’d be cool to see it in the US as well, but ppl aren’t really interested in shows like this unless they’re completely unrealistic lol
I thought Jennifer forgot the words "coming from" in Deutsch/German when she said "Mein Papa ist from Korea und Meine Mama ist from Mexico" it's supposed to be "komme aus" but these kids are super talented, I hope they always remember the language they'd learned before...
I am marrying the guy, not the parents. Judge me how ever you want, because at the end of the day is us that have to deal with our marriage and make it last.
Vamos hermana! Que hermosa familia tienes. Les deseo una feliz y saludable vida. Espero que la relacion con sus padres de el se mejoren. Pero veo que eres bien valiente por tu famila, y por eso te felicito. Que hermoso. Representas a la todas nosotros Latinos viviendo en el extranjero.
Just cause people are old they are thought of as wise.... wisdom has nothing to do with age, it has everything to do with your decisions and actions. Hope the couple have a great life ahead and their kids appreciate their parents courage.
Omg they do too much! All this difficulty and heart ache because she's not Korean??? The parents are waaay out of line, and very , very rude and unfriendly.
In the East Asian （ specifically Japanese and Korean i experienced mostly）world , a lot of people listen a lot to the parents , if its right or not , a lot of the kids will do as they say , if they think that a non-korean or non japanese Isnt the right partner. Some of these parents even have a issue if theyre childs partner is actually also Asian but simply not the same ethnicity, As the cultures can still be more or less different. My family from Thailand is ethnically Thai and south chinese mixed and non of them have issues with someone whos not chinese/thai… my ex was korean （years ago already） and i knew from him that his parents were never ok with ANYthing else than a korean gf… I thought ok maybe it changes with me （i hoped） , didnt happen. He ended it bcs of his parents not being ok with a non korean, Some friend i had experienced the same and she is japanese while her ex was korean ,yet her now ex bf‘s AND her own parents were not ok with it , even tho japan and korea are both east asian , the cultures have similiarities but also differences, but the differences for both the parents were enough to not be ok with it… anyhow , she is now married to a japanese as her parents liked , tho they are a little bit asian mixed in the fam, as her male japanese cousin is married to a Thai woman with 2 half Thai/Japanese kids… tho theyre the only non japanese in her fam. Anyhow , im married to a South Asian man （from india） now ,while i am Thai and chinese mixed （culturally more thai raised tho）
You know that idea of teaching the kids to do chores is such a Latino thing because what they're supposed to do every Sunday morning but cleaning the house? 😂 When I was a kid that was my chore too, do my bed and clean my bedroom before going to school, now that I'm an adult that situation doesn't apply anymore but I was taught that too.
@@juules215 Nah, it is a non-white American thing. A lot of POC in America do these same chores in the house. When I visited my White classmate in middle school for a school project, she never took off her shoes and disobeyed her mom in front of me. It's crazy
I understand why most koreans, japanese and chinese would never fight their families to date a foreigner. The relationship can end in a few months or years, so they think it does not worth to fight the whole family for someone who can leave someday. However, when there are kids involved, the family should just accept and understand. The couple can break up someday, but the kids will be part of that family forever.
Unbelievable that there are still such narrow minded folks! Old guy didn’t look like someone of high standing & his son didn’t look like a good catch himself!
I received the same treatment from my mom. Being black and dating white. I been around Vietnamese who didn't want children to date outside of race. This happens alot with the older generation,
Yes sadly many are still so racist. My late parents luckily weren’t but they had their limits. Some Vietnamese, Chinese,etc.. still want their own kind only.I have a Chinese friend like that. She was born and raised in Canada but still wants Chinese only even after a number of them screwed her over... that is karma I guess.
In your case, your mom has a point. Historically speaking look at the way white people treated black, I ain't even gotta get into it, you already know.
A lot of it's still happening today, the idea that it's only a thing of the past is patently false. Keeping quiet and just enjoying the unfair advantages that era gained for your people till this day, makes you just as guilty as your ancestors.
@@salleh5131 okay bruh , I felt you're black from your previous comment already, that comment u made here is so ignorant I ain't even gonna go into it, her momma has as invalid point as u cuz prolly the white dude she dated didn't enslave anyone and very prolly she may not even have any ancestors that were enslaved but let that sink in, you are one of those dummies that think modern American society both black and white has much to do with what was that long ago lmfao, and no you insolent dummy, white folks ain't guilty of anything nor do they have to feel guilty for ancestors actions, I hope u will name those unfair advantages cuz so far it's blacks folks who go to college for free without trying only cuz they're black so I will be waiting for those amazing advantages white folks have over u
Lol I’m born in and raised in Hawaii. My dad’s from LA, Japanese descent, my mom’s from Taiwan and I speak English well, mandarin only good at causal tone and took Japanese and forgot 90% of it.
In these days of discrimination towards the Orient because of China, older orientals are really not keeping up with traditional changes of this era, I understand that beliefs and tradition is hard to break from. Love is hard to come by of these days if you are fortunate enough to have love in your life embrace it and count yourself lucky, The whole family can benefit from this this.
I’m Chinese Canadian. My parents immigrated 45 years ago and still imagine that their 3 kids will marry within the community. It didn’t happen. I always had a crush on mixed asian-western and when I saw my husband, I did the first step and asked him for a date! He is half Vietnamese and half French Canadian. My chinese mother who had a more modern education accepted my husband quickly but my very conservative chinese father only approved our union after the birth of our son …seven years later. My in-law, who are more western mentality, welcomed me the first day we meet. His French Canadian grandmother passed away on our first year of dating, and she asked to see us and she apologized to not be able to attend our wedding one day but she gave to us her blessing. At that period, we were only in the beginning of our relationship but his family were more financially comfortable than my immigrants family and they never look me down, they took the time to know me better and treated me like their futur daughter in law since the first day. I was very ashamed by my father hateful behaviour. I confront more than once my father, actually he didn’t speak for a year. I think parents have their ideal, and we need to let them absorb the choc because after all, it might first sight love you but not for them. But now, since we have a family now, everytime I have an argument with my husband…my parents takes my husband side!
Am German and how she is so good in Korean. I'm shocked and existed at the same time. Wow, I learn Korean for 8 months now and also a few days Spanish and French
Im married to European and till this day my mother inlaw still hates me . And she talks bad about me to be relatives and friends. I understand her language. I let my husband know . But she tells him its not true. My son understands and speaks their language. And he hears his grandmother talk bad about me . Which is so sad. I just tell him not to pay attention to her.
The Korean parents are about my age and yet didn't want a non-Korean daughter-in-law. This is really odd as obviously Elisabeth is more native than European, probably of Nahua or Maya ethnicity. There are at least three waves of Northeastern Asian and Siberian migrations into the Americas, the last one are the Eskaleut speaking people including Aleut, Yupik and Inuit who look just like Northern Chinese. Also, Kan is the most common Mayan family name, like Kim for Koreans.
Mexican pal here. Unless people belong directly to a Maya or Nahua community, we Mexicans are a melting pot of all heritages, even within families. My best friend's last name is Shimomoto, obviously from her Japanese relatives that arrived to Mexico 6-7 generations ago. She doesn't have any Asian features nor could possibly pass for one, though her brother does.
Born in Malaysia and moved to Philippines at 15. Can barely speak Melayu but can understand just fine. Mediocre at both English and Tagalog, feels awkward and having a hard tume to speak Bisaya😭😭
Los niños son amable y inteligente! I’m Korean and born in America. I speak both languages but also learned Spanish. I speak all 3 languages with my children as well! Pero español es dificíl para mi :)
How sad! Grow up parents. He has to live his life but I can understand a bit...parents want their kids to be with someone they can relate to....its tough
Racism and taste are different matters. And anyway, the show always aims to show the difficulties of foreigners living in Korea. They would be more interested in unhappy foreigners than happy foreigners. Honestly, it's better to have a show like this. In many genetically identical countries, foreigners appearing on the air are nothing but propaganda tools.
as someone who speaks fluent English, A little spanish and german, lmao the children literally spoke english/german... I'm Mexican, Korean, and german, this is the easiest way to speak to Koreans.
American married to a Lao. I was not approved by the parents for marriage. They finally accepted me to make there daughter happy. You will never be fully accepted ever. My wife’s parents wanted my wife to marry some Asian guy who owned a business or had a high income. I have to walk on eggshells when I hang out with my wife’s family. They are really nice and are great grandparents. If my wife left me or something happened to her. The parents would treat me like crap. It sucks.
That is sad... Luckily my family is westernized and more open. Many of my cousins married white, Filipinos, Iranian, Mexican, Japanese,etc.. and everyone gets along well.... wish more families were like that.
@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj "my family is westernized" That is not a good thing lol, you must be a Vietnamese american, you feel lucky you abandoned your people way to be more "westernized" ? Lol.
@@DccAnh Yes I actually do and yes I am Vietnamese American and those very close minded traditional Vietnamese like my late uncle were very annoying. My parents were traditional but they were open as my great aunt married a French man. Therefore, my parents were open from the beginning and I am proud of that. My annoying uncle used to say only marry Vietnamese but guess what? His kids(my cousins) ended up marrying white, Japanese, Filipino, etc… you name it… That’s karma right there. My family being westernized just means we are more open which is a good thing. How is that a bad thing??
@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj being more open is a good thing, I have nothing against that, being westernized however, is a bad thing. From my experience, people who have been westernized tend to look down on their own people, they're self-hate and self-loathing and wanted to be white, they took every chance they have to insult and smear their own culture and brethren in the East while glorifying the foreigner who let be honest here will never fully accept you into their society, that's why stuff like Asian hate crime happen, but the Asian community in america seem to be blind to this fact. They lost their root, I have no respect for people like that, they're pathetic. Even your name "Trinh Nguyen" is westernized, you don't have enough respect for your own language to write your own name properly ? I doubt you even know how to speak Vietnamese, you must be descendants of the loser in the war who fled to usa decades ago. Should stop calling yourself Vietnamese, you don't deserve to be one.
It’s the mother who teach the kids manners. Which parents lack today in any culture. I have 3 girls n I taught them manners, respect, culture that school can’t teach. I end up with a social worker,medical examiner, n in the works with my last a therapist of the mind . All in America. Key is parents teaching.
I would never be against my parents decision about marriage cause marriage and the kids who will come after that its for all life and my parents gave me life. Its all involved . Interracial marriage its difficult , culture and language is battle also for the kids .
It depends on how you want to raise your kid. For instance, I never grew up having to make my bed cause at the end of the day it would just get messy again. Personally, I would like to have my kids make their beds as it teaches them to have good cleaning habits.
I have question to ask, I watched a few interracial couples on this show. For some reason when they marry their Korean partners. The partners start to look Korean! I don’t understand how but they really do. For example, I watched a black and Korean couple/a white and Korean couple and now a Mexican and Korean couple. I don’t know if it's the make-up they are putting on or what but she doesn't look Mexican more Korean.
It's not that difficult. I was once in Bogota, colombia and one of the young girls there felt an attraction to a korean guy...they had very similar look. Indigenous Americans migrated from East asia after all so there are some genetic similarities
I love when the rest of the world complains about "racism" in the USA, when the degree of racism outside the USA is MULTIPLES GREATER. Look at yourselves, RACISTS!
She’s also carrying his backpack and lunch while dragging him on his wheelies to school lol. Didn’t you see? He’s the only boy in that generation and is the youngest - he must be super precious in that family. 😂
She's going all out to look as Korean as possible so she fits in. My first engagement split up because of family pressure. He was Chinese. The didn't object to the English part of me, they objected to my Japanese grandmother.
the situation in my family is different, my parents don't like the boyfriend of my younger sister, all of us are against their relationship and we don't support it, the reason is because her boyfriend is legally married and have 2 children, in the law the couple are still husband and wife although they decided to live separate they still legally married and that's what we don't like about his boyfriend- he has so many excess baggage, my sister is 5 years younger to her boyfriend and she's timid type.
Then he will be causing bigamy ~ totally illegal in many countries. She will have many legal problems ahead of her if she gets married to him, and could legally loose out on many entitlements.
I thought she looked biracial at 1st until she said she was mexican. Think since American Indians got pushed to migrate in Mexico, etc they look almost asian since American Indians are actually asian decent. She is beautiful as well as the children. I pray that the dad's family will have a softened heart to accept them all soon. 🕊🤍🕊
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learning a foreign language gets harder the older you get. respect to the mom for putting forth the effort to learn.
@@NeuroStudies.175 @י theoretically Yes and scientifically Yes , The Human Body tends to slow down the more you age. And that includes the human brain. People usually phrase it as " A kids brain is like a magnet and an adults brain is like mud. Meaning kids will absorb any information like a magnets and adults absorption is sluggish it will take time for the information to go through the mud.
If she wants and chooses to live in a foreign country ,it's her responsibility to learn the language. It's like Chris Rock said, you can't be congratulated for doing things you're s'posed to do like raising your kids.
yes it is her reponsibility and risk living in foreign country, but the context were not about congratulating but more on appreciating her effort to achieve her responsibility and for the family.
That's a myth. Adults learn languages 32x as fast as kids. Neuroplasticity has proven adults form new neural networks their whole lives. Only advantage kids have is free time and a lack of fear when it comes to making mistakes
It does but it depends on other factors too.
For you males and females , i am 41 years old male , i advice you to take those who you truly love to be your partner or husband/wife ( no matter race , nationality). Respect your parents but don't let them decide with whom you will live the rest of your life.
Damn right!
Facts. Too bad some people are too weak or brainwashed and do as the parents say.
I had to like this comment soo fast❤️❤️
@@MrJames-eb6rp LOL brainwashed. Most people let religion decide than they do parents.
not just religion but political diff. sad
They say a parents love is unconditional but there appears to be a lot of conditions you need to meet in order for your parents to love and accept you. Not seeing your child cause of their life choices is hella crazy. You can literally die any minute.
my mom doesn't want to accept me because I am not ready to marry now. Had to cut her,cause been fighting over that topic everyday and she critisized me in public all the time. Had so much pain and headache cause she forced me to marry ANYONE. I don't want to talk to her and don't need her toxic love.
@@Cxs1a3 yeah it’s practically impossible to love people unconditionally
Yeah those are the ones that will regret it at their death bed.
No one in this world can love unconditionally , only our creator.
@@blanchegreco7201I dunno I call bs, I love many people unconditionally
Born in Japan, went to school in Hawaii, came to Korea for his career, forgot Japanese, can’t speak English and is mediocre at Korean 😭 Mr. Zerolingual LMAO
HAHA
Meet kangnam the genius lmao
LMAO. I NEVER MET ANY PERSON WHO WOULD FORGET THE LANGUAGE THAT THEY USED TO SPEAK. I WAS BORN IN FRANCE AND MOVED TO KOREA FOR WORK 10 yrs AGO BUT I STILL KNOW HOW TO SPEAK FRENCH. 😂😭
@@erinakhan4861 French is like learning grade 1 English verse being a PhD kn linguistics. It is complex and takes natives years to be competent
@@erinakhan4861 I hear people say that they have forgotten a bit
It’s super sad when the world is so tough as it is to deal with parents trying to destroy your marriage due to their own ego
Their own racism.
not ego but a sense of keeping a family legacy of whatever ethnicity you are. because the future kids and generation will start to lose that culture
@@ashboo9643 *"muh muh culture"* this why humans never get along alot of times...
@@PickleRicksFATASSCOUSINyou should say this to muslim 😂
@@ПобедавРоссии Well that is a relgion and not on the brink of extinction
Korean,English, Spanish and german. These kids have a bright future ahead of them
Being a jack of all trades, master of none doesn't open as many doors as being a master in one.
@@salleh5131 you must be fun at parties
Sure if you attend 10 year old parties
@@salleh5131 i’m really confused why you don’t think they’ll be fluent in korean, their native language 😭 in addition, the kids will know spanish fluently as well as a good amount of german and english. that’s a master of two trades and a jack of two. if you’re jealous, you can just say that
@@Mariam-qb9nv don’t worry about them. They are all over the comment section spreading negativity. Probably doesn’t have a life RUclips is the only place they get attention from other humans.
4:01 - Replay button for “I was born in Japan, went to school in Hawaii, moved to Korea for a career. I can’t speak English, forgot Japanese, and mediocre at Korean. DON’T LET THIS HAPPEN TO YOU.” 🤣
This reminds of my parents. I'm half Chinese and half Mexican and my dad's parents (Chinese heritage) were not fond of my mother at first. My grandmother eventually grew to tolerate my mother because my brother and I were born, but at this present time, my grandfather has still not adjusted to my father choosing my mother as a partner. He is very religious and has conservative views. Then with my mother's side (Mexican heritage), my grandmother always wants my mom to do what feels right for her, so my Mexican grandmother never had an issue with my father, as long as he took proper care of her she was content. I never got to meet my grandfather from my mother's side, but my mom told me that he didn't want her to be with another race that was not Latino. My grandfather was not pleased with my mother's relationship. Still to this day, there are always going to be arguments with my father and mother about their differences in culture. It's nice to see other Lasians, but it's not easy especially when there is no family support.
My husband is Chinese and I’m Mexican… we just had a son. ❤
@nnnneiie L Asian, lmao
I must know. Do you wear shoes in the house?
@@nothanks7475 No, I don't. My dad grew up with no shoes so he's grown accustom to that lifestyle and my mom likes living in a clean house and having no shoes makes it a lot more easy to clean. However, I did grown up with my grandmother(from my mom's side) when I was young and I always wore shoes in her house. When I visit my mom's family, we wear shoes in the house. When I visit my father's family, we remove our shoes by the front door.
lasians that is bad ass never heard this term. sorry older people suck. hope all is well with your family
My grandma always told me if I found someone who I deeply loved to not let other people ruin that for you because at the end of the day it’s your life you’re living and not the people who disapprove. She also said if my parents didn’t approve then who cares because I’ll probably live longer than them anyways 💀
Grandma for the W 😂😂😂😂❤️
Ikr!!
So true and my parents both passed away but they were open minded to some extent so I was lucky in that sense.
It is true... As an adult you have the right to make your own decisions, live with the consequences, and be responsible about your choice. It is also important to remember, interracial marriage is not that easy.. you will have a mountain of issues to address and a lot of compromises compared to same race/culture-marriage. Be brave and I wish the best of luck. I speak based on my own experience and others. Most of the time our elders warn us how difficult it is to have interracial marriage because they have known from observation and their knowledge about the issues, not because they are racist or anything. So it's good to have an open mind, before it is too late.
That works in the context of her culture and her upbringing and her country , thinking you're the center of the universe and everyone in foreign countries should follow you is arrogant.
I’m Hispanic/white American and my boyfriend is Korean. He’s been living in the states for many years and although we have been dating for 4 years his mom still disapproves of our relationship. It’s sad because she sees me as someone that isn’t a good look for her family. Luckily she lives in Korea and don’t have to physically see her. She has yet to meet me even when she spent a few months in the states. My boyfriend is very supportive and tries to make his mother understand but she is so cold hearted..
You should know, 9 out of 10 interracial relationships between Whites and Asians ends in Divorce. Cultures are to different.
Something similar happened to my cousin. We're brazilian and she's mixed race (black dad and white mom). She met her husband in Brazil through church and they got together but unfortunately the family wouldn't accept their relationship. But eventually they got married and are now expecting their first child! And recently her husband's sister also married a foreigner! Lol I just wish I could see his parents reactions
Rarely we see Korean - Mexican couples in this program. I'm so happy for them and I hope they have a brilliant future together.
Korean are to racist to mix with mexicans.
Okay but the daughter’s German was almost as perfect as a native speaker wooow🤯💅
I thought so too and I don't even speak German and I've only been exposed to it a few times like in a Meryl Streep movie.
@Silver ja, meine Muttersprache ist Deutsch. Ich finde trotzdem für ein Kind das praktisch nichts mit Deutschland zu tun hat und mit niemanden in seiner Familie Deutsch reden kann ihr Sprachniveau sehr beeindruckend. Ich denke sie hat „ist von Mexiko” mit „kommt aus Mexiko” verwechselt, oder versucht es über die Englische Ausdrucksweise zu sagen, was ja wohl passieren kann wenn man eine Sprache nicht so oft üben kann, bzw. wenn man sieht wie ähnlich sich Deutsch und Englisch sind und sie wohl beides spricht.
Wasn’t she speaking English half the time? Only the first sentence was German.
@@vaanipapadakis2226yes, in some parts she used English words for example from
Every time I watch one of these, I just think the moms are so awesome.
My dad was the same. I made a deal with him that he just had to meet him once and I 'promised' I'd take his opinion into consideration. From the first day he met him, my dad liked him and supported our marriage.
I love that’s how youngsters have two flags on their name tags. So adorable! ¡Víva México! I respect to all Koreans and culture. 🇺🇸❤️🇲🇽🇰🇷
mames
My entire family is mixed! Even I myself am Multiracial!! I’m blessed to have a family that doesn’t care about the ethnicity of my partner 🙂
It's just so ridiculous, too. Why do people care so much?? What's the issue? I really don't get it. Multiple cultures and races together makes for beautiful people who understand and appreciate different cultures.
@Silver We're gonna have to agree to disagree on this.
I think it's perfectly fine that the wife doesn't speak Korean. It ensures that kids will be fluent in Spanish, Korean, and English since husband and wife communicates in English.
I want her to speak Korean, because it can be very lonely living in a country where you don't speak the predominant language. It could open up a lot of hobbies, social activities, and even jobs that could bring her a lot of joy
@@llallogen7380 True, but at her age, she will have a very difficult time. She will be able to get to a point where she can go shopping, order food, function as a citizen ... but she will never be fluent enough to joke around and become a fully immersed part of the community. And I'm saying, that's ok. Her best bet is to become part of Mexican Korean community. However small, I'm sure there are few, and she can lead a happy life that way You have to be realistic.
It's better if she does. I can attest to that , it's easier to integrate within a community and life will be lonely if you can't communicate. Speaking from experience.
@@celianeher7637 Nobody is disagreeing with you. All I'm claiming is that it will be difficult at her age. But if she can't, it's ok. It's not her fault. She can still lead a happy life. But I agree with you - of course it will be better if she can.
Exactly. As a language teacher, I can assert that reaching fluency at her age will be extremely tough. She can try her best but she also has adult duties that take time from just conversing and practicing the language unlike her children who are immersed all day
Am glad the parents fully accepted her now..
omg the kids are so adorable and they look so smart! Hope they grow up to be amazing people.
They are very smart
The Korean grandparents thought they lost a son, now they hv a grandson looking like his father their son 😌 & beautiful talented granddaughters ☺️
The parents should just get over it. I think a lot of the times in situations like this, they hyper-fixate on one aspect of the new spouse, like her "not being Korean;" when in reality, what they're upset about is their son no longer being their little boy and becoming a man. But seriously, GET OVER IT
I think in reality what they're upset about is the fact that their son didn't marry a Korean woman.
its beautiful seeing Koreans and mexicans get closer we mix very well.
Literally just normal looking asian kids lol
As far as I can see, the wife looks really good with the entire family. They all look so happy together, but most importantly, the kids looks happy.
I love that the host ask important questions like how did the wife felt when he just decided to register their wedding in city hall even tho his parents opposed it.
This situation made me think of the time when I tested my own mother who was in her sixties and this was like more than 30 years ago. I just wanted to know her reaction if I were to marry someone of a different race. She said it doesn’t matter to her the race, color and nationality and even religion. What was important was that we were happy.
I wonder why some parents impose their preference when it comes to their children choosing their life partners. Is it something conditioned by the society they lived in or a natural prejudice?
The father really looked silly now after he had initially even refused to look at the daughter-in-law’s face. It was not only rude but also disrespectful to his own son.
This happened with me too, they don't accept us until first baby. But now, after 3y married, her(my korean wife) parents forced her to abandon me and our daughter and force the divorce. She has many traumas because they used abuse and aggression as discipline... and we always had problems when she wanted use the same kind of "discipline" with our daughter or even me. So... last time we had problems, they made blackmail to her and forced to left us, start the divorce and zero contact(even with our daughter 4y old), and they don't want people see her as a single mother. Now... after 7 months... divorce is Octuber 10th and after that I'll back to my country with my daughter.
Everything was soooo good. Camera work, energy, dancer, visuals, outfits,edit, facial expressions and a lot more!!! We can see that you really had fun tho
Love is love. People need to get over it.
theres always amawzing hope in being able to win over the parents at some point, some people take until the grandchildren to get on their parents good side, others a lot later, don't always expect to be good at the start. if this is you, have hope and continue your relationship and dont give up hope just because you dont have parental approval at first, parents just want the best for their kids and its difficult to see that in a short amount of time, it's understandable if theyre not cooperative at first, but keep fighting because it'll be worth it in the long run and is all apart of a relationship
Most in-laws that appear in this show are so maddening really. Why do you have to be an obstacle or problem to your child's life and happiness just because they chose to marry someone who isn't Korean?
Be kind. Even Korean brides and grooms end up going through that rotten treatment when they marry outside of Korea. Stop praising yourself that you eventually accepted her cause they were married or had kids so you had no choice. Accept her cause she is human and your son loves her.
Their children are very lucky, they are exposed to 3 languages right off the bat
I feel sad for them too, can feel the struggling, it is not easy to convince their parents so they just did their way, thankfully things get better and i hope jennifer can overcome this, your kids are pretty !!!! Be happy Okay 😘
From a Mexican living in The Netherlands, with a trilingual household and a Dutch partner... I come to watch these stories on RUclips to remind myself that it could be harder.
I feel you Elizabeth, it can be all so though, stressing, sad. But, when you look at what wonderful children you're raising, then it's all worth it.
We have alot of interracial marriages and dating in America. Nobody really cares at all. As a Latino, I really wouldn't care if my daughter gets with a non Spanish person as long as she is happy then I am happy.
@Xinnie the Pooh Lol they better get used to it now, I’m sure there’s many international relationships between Koreans and foreigners nowadays and possibly many more in the future. At the end of the day, we are all only human.
@@Cxs1a3 how is it they’re being superior?? They’re just saying their experience as well as opinions. Nothing wrong with it? I don’t see how it is being superior…..
There's a concept "better the race/mejorar la raza", marrying a white person, you're improving the Hispanic race. East-Asian culture does not promote such nonsense
@@Cxs1a3 what do Dutch know
@@janvdb9258 I'm not Dutch, I'm not even European
I was hesitant when my sister got married with another race as well, but when you see your nieces and nephews, all of my concerned seemed childish. We cannot dictate the heart, all we can hope for is for them to form a loving family unit.
there is only one human race
did she marry a horse?
Wow this show is really eye opening. The US could use a similar show !! Korea seems to undergoing a huge cultural shift from homogenous society to that of a mixed and international society. Disheartening to see so many narrow minded attitudes yet also refreshing and hopeful to see how many Koreans are changing those attitudes and views through kindness and love. This family looked lovely! ❤
mostly older people
I have friends in korea who would love me to marry a Korean girl almost met a cute korean girl through a friend didn't work out due to her work and me living in America
The US has so many interracial/inter cultural marriages though
@@Envy28496 Your point being what? Despite that people are still ethnocentric.
@@woljay9362 It’s way more common in the US to see interracial marriages than almost any other place. It’d be cool to see it in the US as well, but ppl aren’t really interested in shows like this unless they’re completely unrealistic lol
I thought Jennifer forgot the words "coming from" in Deutsch/German when she said "Mein Papa ist from Korea und Meine Mama ist from Mexico" it's supposed to be "komme aus" but these kids are super talented, I hope they always remember the language they'd learned before...
The Swiss don't always speak "standard German".
This is something his family is just going to have to learn to accept and deal with…
That is what culture, tradition, fear, and sometimes ignorance does. It blindfold you from seeing another humsn being like you.
I am marrying the guy, not the parents. Judge me how ever you want, because at the end of the day is us that have to deal with our marriage and make it last.
we need to let people love who they love. why be unhappy in a marriage you dont want just for your parents?
Vamos hermana! Que hermosa familia tienes. Les deseo una feliz y saludable vida. Espero que la relacion con sus padres de el se mejoren. Pero veo que eres bien valiente por tu famila, y por eso te felicito. Que hermoso. Representas a la todas nosotros Latinos viviendo en el extranjero.
Just cause people are old they are thought of as wise.... wisdom has nothing to do with age, it has everything to do with your decisions and actions. Hope the couple have a great life ahead and their kids appreciate their parents courage.
im crying what a story
I already brushed my teeth at 6y.o. We should teach our kids not to be dependent.
Omg they do too much! All this difficulty and heart ache because she's not Korean??? The parents are waaay out of line, and very , very rude and unfriendly.
In the East Asian （ specifically Japanese and Korean i experienced mostly）world , a lot of people
listen a lot to the parents , if its right or not , a lot of the kids will do as they say , if they think that a non-korean or non japanese
Isnt the right partner. Some of these parents even have a issue if theyre childs partner is actually also Asian but simply not the same ethnicity,
As the cultures can still be more or less different. My family from Thailand is ethnically Thai and south chinese mixed and non of them have issues with someone whos not chinese/thai…
my ex was korean （years ago already） and i knew from him that his parents were never ok with ANYthing else than a korean gf…
I thought ok maybe it changes with me （i hoped） , didnt happen. He ended it bcs of his parents not being ok with a non korean,
Some friend i had experienced the same and she is japanese while her ex was korean ,yet her now ex bf‘s AND her own parents were not ok with it , even tho japan and korea are both east asian , the cultures have similiarities but also differences, but the differences for both the parents were enough to not be ok with it… anyhow , she is now married to a japanese as her parents liked , tho they are a little bit asian mixed in the fam, as her male japanese cousin is married to a Thai woman with 2 half Thai/Japanese kids… tho theyre the only non japanese in her fam.
Anyhow , im married to a South Asian man （from india） now ,while i am Thai and chinese mixed （culturally more thai raised tho）
Nah , they're ok with it , as long as it's wite. East Asian think South East Asian is poor, dirty, that's why they don't approve
I really enjoy this talk show. They are very welcoming to the international mixed families.
The oldest daughter is so smart
East-Asian genetics
You know that idea of teaching the kids to do chores is such a Latino thing because what they're supposed to do every Sunday morning but cleaning the house? 😂 When I was a kid that was my chore too, do my bed and clean my bedroom before going to school, now that I'm an adult that situation doesn't apply anymore but I was taught that too.
As an Asian I thought house chores were an everyday routines for kids
@@nightparalysiscatdemon I thought the same too😂
Thats not a latino thing, thats a everything-except-america thing
It is a universal thing
@@juules215 Nah, it is a non-white American thing. A lot of POC in America do these same chores in the house. When I visited my White classmate in middle school for a school project, she never took off her shoes and disobeyed her mom in front of me. It's crazy
I understand why most koreans, japanese and chinese would never fight their families to date a foreigner. The relationship can end in a few months or years, so they think it does not worth to fight the whole family for someone who can leave someday.
However, when there are kids involved, the family should just accept and understand. The couple can break up someday, but the kids will be part of that family forever.
Unbelievable that there are still such narrow minded folks! Old guy didn’t look like someone of high standing & his son didn’t look like a good catch himself!
6 Years old cannot brush his teeth?! Thats called spoiled.
The mom kinda looks Korean or fits in the korean society looks wise
I received the same treatment from my mom. Being black and dating white. I been around Vietnamese who didn't want children to date outside of race. This happens alot with the older generation,
Yes sadly many are still so racist. My late parents luckily weren’t but they had their limits. Some Vietnamese, Chinese,etc.. still want their own kind only.I have a Chinese friend like that. She was born and raised in Canada but still wants Chinese only even after a number of them screwed her over... that is karma I guess.
In your case, your mom has a point. Historically speaking look at the way white people treated black, I ain't even gotta get into it, you already know.
A lot of it's still happening today, the idea that it's only a thing of the past is patently false. Keeping quiet and just enjoying the unfair advantages that era gained for your people till this day, makes you just as guilty as your ancestors.
@@salleh5131 well, it's hard to know that your ancestors accomplished literally nothing.
@@salleh5131 okay bruh , I felt you're black from your previous comment already, that comment u made here is so ignorant I ain't even gonna go into it, her momma has as invalid point as u cuz prolly the white dude she dated didn't enslave anyone and very prolly she may not even have any ancestors that were enslaved but let that sink in, you are one of those dummies that think modern American society both black and white has much to do with what was that long ago lmfao, and no you insolent dummy, white folks ain't guilty of anything nor do they have to feel guilty for ancestors actions, I hope u will name those unfair advantages cuz so far it's blacks folks who go to college for free without trying only cuz they're black so I will be waiting for those amazing advantages white folks have over u
Lol I’m born in and raised in Hawaii. My dad’s from LA, Japanese descent, my mom’s from Taiwan and I speak English well, mandarin only good at causal tone and took Japanese and forgot 90% of it.
In these days of discrimination towards the Orient because of China, older orientals are really not keeping up with traditional changes of this era, I understand that beliefs and tradition is hard to break from. Love is hard to come by of these days if you are fortunate enough to have love in your life embrace it and count yourself lucky, The whole family can benefit from this this.
If my inlaws treated me like that they wouldn’t be seeing their grand kids ever till they learn some respect
I’m Chinese Canadian. My parents immigrated 45 years ago and still imagine that their 3 kids will marry within the community. It didn’t happen. I always had a crush on mixed asian-western and when I saw my husband, I did the first step and asked him for a date! He is half Vietnamese and half French Canadian. My chinese mother who had a more modern education accepted my husband quickly but my very conservative chinese father only approved our union after the birth of our son …seven years later. My in-law, who are more western mentality, welcomed me the first day we meet. His French Canadian grandmother passed away on our first year of dating, and she asked to see us and she apologized to not be able to attend our wedding one day but she gave to us her blessing. At that period, we were only in the beginning of our relationship but his family were more financially comfortable than my immigrants family and they never look me down, they took the time to know me better and treated me like their futur daughter in law since the first day. I was very ashamed by my father hateful behaviour. I confront more than once my father, actually he didn’t speak for a year. I think parents have their ideal, and we need to let them absorb the choc because after all, it might first sight love you but not for them. But now, since we have a family now, everytime I have an argument with my husband…my parents takes my husband side!
Based Grandparents opposing the relationship.
Such a beautiful family ❤
Am German and how she is so good in Korean. I'm shocked and existed at the same time. Wow, I learn Korean for 8 months now and also a few days Spanish and French
Im married to European and till this day my mother inlaw still hates me . And she talks bad about me to be relatives and friends. I understand her language. I let my husband know . But she tells him its not true. My son understands and speaks their language. And he hears his grandmother talk bad about me . Which is so sad. I just tell him not to pay attention to her.
are u latina?
Imagine, the situation if she were a black or an Indian, the situation would have been worse.
There is a Korean and black couple on here. They went through a lot for his parents to approve.
She’s Mexican, therefore she’s most likely Native American and Spanish ancestry, like 80-90% of Mexicans.
Ok that was messed up
Kids casually skating down the hill and moms holding his hand but has to run to keep up.😄
Beautiful daughters and son ❤
The Korean parents are about my age and yet didn't want a non-Korean daughter-in-law. This is really odd as obviously Elisabeth is more native than European, probably of Nahua or Maya ethnicity. There are at least three waves of Northeastern Asian and Siberian migrations into the Americas, the last one are the Eskaleut speaking people including Aleut, Yupik and Inuit who look just like Northern Chinese. Also, Kan is the most common Mayan family name, like Kim for Koreans.
Mexican pal here. Unless people belong directly to a Maya or Nahua community, we Mexicans are a melting pot of all heritages, even within families. My best friend's last name is Shimomoto, obviously from her Japanese relatives that arrived to Mexico 6-7 generations ago. She doesn't have any Asian features nor could possibly pass for one, though her brother does.
What part of Mexico are you from, Elizabeth looks more Mestizo then indigenous Mexican.
Born in Malaysia and moved to Philippines at 15. Can barely speak Melayu but can understand just fine. Mediocre at both English and Tagalog, feels awkward and having a hard tume to speak Bisaya😭😭
It's a cultural thing, the far east asians (china taiwan japan and korea) generally are against marrying outside their ethnicity.
Wow, her German is really good.
Los niños son amable y inteligente! I’m Korean and born in America. I speak both languages but also learned Spanish. I speak all 3 languages with my children as well! Pero español es dificíl para mi :)
"Son amables e inteligentes" "El español es..."
Los coreanos siguen siendo muy racistas con los mexicanos aun hoy en día. Incluso cuando están en México.
Bro she was that girl brooo he married so outta his league lol
How sad! Grow up parents. He has to live his life but I can understand a bit...parents want their kids to be with someone they can relate to....its tough
Wow her german is very good
Racism and taste are different matters. And anyway, the show always aims to show the difficulties of foreigners living in Korea. They would be more interested in unhappy foreigners than happy foreigners. Honestly, it's better to have a show like this. In many genetically identical countries, foreigners appearing on the air are nothing but propaganda tools.
Those 2 have a lot more in common than you think.
@@Cxs1a3 Yep, but there are a lot of people who only see it as one. And most people think what they think is right
beautiful family
His parents are racist. I would not have anything to do with such people. And yes they ARE racist!
as someone who speaks fluent English, A little spanish and german, lmao the children literally spoke english/german... I'm Mexican, Korean, and german, this is the easiest way to speak to Koreans.
American married to a Lao. I was not approved by the parents for marriage. They finally accepted me to make there daughter happy. You will never be fully accepted ever. My wife’s parents wanted my wife to marry some Asian guy who owned a business or had a high income. I have to walk on eggshells when I hang out with my wife’s family. They are really nice and are great grandparents. If my wife left me or something happened to her. The parents would treat me like crap. It sucks.
That is the reality one has to accept most of the time with interracial marriages so those who should be aware
That is sad... Luckily my family is westernized and more open. Many of my cousins married white, Filipinos, Iranian, Mexican, Japanese,etc.. and everyone gets along well.... wish more families were like that.
@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj "my family is westernized" That is not a good thing lol, you must be a Vietnamese american, you feel lucky you abandoned your people way to be more "westernized" ? Lol.
@@DccAnh Yes I actually do and yes I am Vietnamese American and those very close minded traditional Vietnamese like my late uncle were very annoying. My parents were traditional but they were open as my great aunt married a French man. Therefore, my parents were open from the beginning and I am proud of that. My annoying uncle used to say only marry Vietnamese but guess what? His kids(my cousins) ended up marrying white, Japanese, Filipino, etc… you name it… That’s karma right there.
My family being westernized just means we are more open which is a good thing. How is that a bad thing??
@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj being more open is a good thing, I have nothing against that, being westernized however, is a bad thing. From my experience, people who have been westernized tend to look down on their own people, they're self-hate and self-loathing and wanted to be white, they took every chance they have to insult and smear their own culture and brethren in the East while glorifying the foreigner who let be honest here will never fully accept you into their society, that's why stuff like Asian hate crime happen, but the Asian community in america seem to be blind to this fact. They lost their root, I have no respect for people like that, they're pathetic. Even your name "Trinh Nguyen" is westernized, you don't have enough respect for your own language to write your own name properly ? I doubt you even know how to speak Vietnamese, you must be descendants of the loser in the war who fled to usa decades ago. Should stop calling yourself Vietnamese, you don't deserve to be one.
Beautiful kids
It’s the mother who teach the kids manners. Which parents lack today in any culture. I have 3 girls n I taught them manners, respect, culture that school can’t teach. I end up with a social worker,medical examiner, n in the works with my last a therapist of the mind . All in America. Key is parents teaching.
I would never be against my parents decision about marriage cause marriage and the kids who will come after that its for all life and my parents gave me life. Its all involved . Interracial marriage its difficult , culture and language is battle also for the kids .
Wow the girl’s German is so good
kids should have to make their beds, imo
It depends on how you want to raise your kid. For instance, I never grew up having to make my bed cause at the end of the day it would just get messy again. Personally, I would like to have my kids make their beds as it teaches them to have good cleaning habits.
I have question to ask, I watched a few interracial couples on this show. For some reason when they marry their Korean partners. The partners start to look Korean! I don’t understand how but they really do. For example, I watched a black and Korean couple/a white and Korean couple and now a Mexican and Korean couple. I don’t know if it's the make-up they are putting on or what but she doesn't look Mexican more Korean.
It's not that difficult. I was once in Bogota, colombia and one of the young girls there felt an attraction to a korean guy...they had very similar look. Indigenous Americans migrated from East asia after all so there are some genetic similarities
I love when the rest of the world complains about "racism" in the USA, when the degree of racism outside the USA is MULTIPLES GREATER.
Look at yourselves, RACISTS!
What a beautiful family.. Wish all the best for them.
Great show
Good for you” fighting for the one you love. That what A man does. Is called cutting the invisible cord.
The father obviously did not read the news that the korean birth rate is less than 1.0
Why is the mother brushing her son's teeth instead of teaching him how to do it himself?!
She’s also carrying his backpack and lunch while dragging him on his wheelies to school lol. Didn’t you see? He’s the only boy in that generation and is the youngest - he must be super precious in that family. 😂
@@pmwyy It's too much.
I’m sure he knows how to do it on his own mom is just showering him with love. Boys are extra loved in a Mexican family.
They are going to have beautiful almond eyes babies
Was surprised by her German, wasn't bad!
She's going all out to look as Korean as possible so she fits in.
My first engagement split up because of family pressure. He was Chinese. The didn't object to the English part of me, they objected to my Japanese grandmother.
Chinese people hate Japanese,It’s historical
Me hubiera gustado ver más la perspectiva de Elizabeth, ya que cortaron mucho lo que decía.
the situation in my family is different, my parents don't like the boyfriend of my younger sister, all of us are against their relationship and we don't support it, the reason is because her boyfriend is legally married and have 2 children, in the law the couple are still husband and wife although they decided to live separate they still legally married and that's what we don't like about his boyfriend- he has so many excess baggage, my sister is 5 years younger to her boyfriend and she's timid type.
Then he will be causing bigamy ~ totally illegal in many countries. She will have many legal problems ahead of her if she gets married to him, and could legally loose out on many entitlements.
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The daughter used "from" instead of the German "aus". Lol. I'm learning German too living in Switzerland.
I thought she looked biracial at 1st until she said she was mexican. Think since American Indians got pushed to migrate in Mexico, etc they look almost asian since American Indians are actually asian decent. She is beautiful as well as the children. I pray that the dad's family will have a softened heart to accept them all soon. 🕊🤍🕊
If I were her, I would have nothing to do with his parents. They shouldn't expect it either.