1. She was spoiled and felt entitled. 2. She tried to minimize his feelings. 3. She wasn't adult enough to think before speaking 4. She had too much ego to apologize
@@SPacePhish09 I feel you on this. Same here. It's sadly the reality of an increasing number of good, hardworking men more so for men with moral/spiritual values and principles who put their family first. The "modern women" (particularly liberals who support the feminist mindset) will sacrifice everything including family, marriage, children for their "feelings" and their perception of "happiness". They have zero issues ruining a long term relationship/marriage to satisfy their sudden "awakening and their truth". They also have zero qualms about killing their own unborn babies in the womb for that matter in the name of their sexual/bodily freedom (which in their view (99% of cases), takes precedence over a human life). It's me me me...hedonism, nothing more. Men of value on the other hand would sacrifice themselves including their own happiness for the sake of their women and family. Those 2 mindsets cannot coexist and this is why men of value are increasingly moving away from relationships and marriage.
@@SPacePhish09 I have two kids. I have raised, by myself, my daughter since she was 5 and her brother who wasn't even 1, when my ex decided to leave. Its been 20 years and she has been in multiple relationships and has now married for 10+ years and I still hear how I was the blame.
"It's not my fault dinner wasn't ready after scrolling through TikTok all day, and binge watching True Crime, it's his fault he doesn't make as much money as my ex, so then I could do absolutely nothing"
It's easy to see why you might feel unmotivated when you spend most of your time at home without much to do, especially if your partner often neglect you without having a real conversation about it. This kind of situation can create a toxic environment that drains your energy, even if you have loved that person.
@@NwaaNwaa Bro she's living the dream. Domestic chores is all she has to do, Damn that's easy. 2. This is on her, the ego and arrogance is evident. "I know I was wrong, but it's not like he was the perfect partner either" no we are discussing your mistake not his. Why would you want to talk to a person that never admits their mistakes? Of course he's distant, we all know someone like that and tend to avoid them, problem is that's his wife.
@@NwaaNwaa LMAO, the same bullshit you women spew all the time: -if he works too much - You're never home, you don't care about me, I'm cheating! -if he works too little - You're always home, you don't do anything for me, I'm cheating! Go kindly play in traffic.
Yep... caught that... Still pining over not having the access to money her ex had and would have monkey branched upward at the drop of a hat if the opportunity had presented itself.
MY PET PEEVE is there is absolutely no appreciation for a man to work 8-12 at a mind-crushing, back-breaking job just to see the lion's share of his income got to the benefit of SOMEONE ELSE. It's just expected entitlement.
Hell yeah, you've got curtains you like that aren't that old, look good & suddenly your SO is emotionally invested in spending thousands changing them. Then they're pissed there's not more money for other things, so "Go work harder." Yet you know if they worked, either they'd just spend more on BS or it would be "Thier Money"
It’s f3male nature to massively overestimate her contribution to the marriage…. Even if a vvoman does ALL the household duties, she still does not contribute as much as her husband’s 9-5 job.
Telling the hubby that she stayed with her ex only because of money is beyond stupid. Admitting to being a gold digger surely convinced him to come back 🤣 Edit: Immediately after continuing the vid, the husband indeed makes the same observation instantly. Wild to me how she expected anything else of that response.
Rofl, that opening: "I never considered myself a housewife cuz i don't actually do anything useful, I just waste his money and giggle to myself at how fun it is tee hee!"
You've crossed the line of the point of no return! You've disrespected your husband and taken him for granted! Insult to injury , you've compared him to your ex-boyfriend! Now he's leaving you, due to the consequences or your actions! What did you expect to happen? Play stupid games and you can win stupid prizes!
Yes. Men need to learn that dating is your one chance to vet a woman and the fastest way to determine if they actually love you is to not provide a lifestyle, financial support, stability, stature, etc. until you have children. If you do, you'll never know if they are with you because they love you or because of the lifestyle, financial support, stability, etc.
Never allow a gf stay at home unless there is a real reason. Medical, children. She FAFO, too many of these stories the female is entitled, self absorbed, arrogant, and denying accountability. Living on emotion, not reality. Till she realizes she’s the problem, he’s done and should be.
To be frank, all the equality that women have "fought for", they now find themselves successful, but now are lonely and past the age of child bearing. Can't have your cake and eat it.
Ahh yes men don’t get married. Real men take care of people. If lol you care about is money and possessions, then that’s the type of woman you will attract. Weak willed selfish centered men don’t get married, they work and party and care for themselves only. You sound weak….really weak.
This chick is way too entitled. Women have historically cheated and complained about loneliness and attention because the man is out working his ass off for them and their family. But will turn around and call a man a bum or a loser if he’s not working his ass off for his wife and family.
Wished he appreciated me more, admits to spending all day on tiktock and keeping up with lame fashion trends. Doesn't really clean house much, and couldn't be bothered to cook for her man. Too stubborn to admit she was wrong, and complains he works a lot while stating he comes home exhausted. Yeah thats right you were so understanding you can't be bothered to take care of house, and cook him any food, but then you throw your ex in his face. Nah girl you got this, its all your fault and you know this isn’t the one thing he was upset about, it just happened to be the final thing.
Ironic that if he were to be with her more that she would be blaming him for not making enough, because as she said herself once he was gone she had to cut back on shopping sprees as in multiple sprees a month so she could pay her bills.
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Why do women think negatively comparing you to their ex (failed relationship) is a trump card? “My ex bf who dumped me/ cheated/ whatever made more than you”
She had been having a long day of scrolling through TikTok videos and binge watching something. Well, that explains why she didn't cook and of course she was right to blow up at her husband and strongly suggest he was inferior to her ex. If he was half the man she deserved he would hire a full kitchen staff and a small team of general domestic workers so that her rich and full life was not disrupted. 🤣🤣🤣
And, if he wasn't insecure, he'd hire some young hot guys to service the pool, be her yoga instructor, and personal masseur just so she didn't get bored. This husband is a real slacker. Poor girl, she's such a victim of an evil, nasty man. He's probably a narcissist and ab*sive too.
Ladies...NEVER mention the ex. NEVER EVER in a million years...if you're ever asked about an ex it's ALWAYS a negative answer regarding anything to do with him. You NEVER make your husband/boyfriend feel inferior.
OP can't fix it unless she first fixes herself. "I wasn't trying to start a fight" and then tries to start a fight by gas lighting him with "way out of proportion."
The ability of a woman to rationalize their thoughts and feelings is unending, all people actually; where the inclination to even listen exists to what degree?
Every time you hear these stories women are always the same "I am not going to apologise because he's not perfect either". It's so frustrating. Always deflecting, never taking any accountability. Two wrongs don't make a right. He may not be perfect, but that doesn't change the fact you fucked up. Apologise. Jesus. You still expect us to apologise when we fuck up even though you are also not perfect. It's not even just in these stories. I see this exact same mentality with the women I'm forced to work with day in, day out. It's pandemic, and so frustrating. Then they wonder why it's so hard to respect them.
This is only the beginning more and more men are starting to wake up and stop tolerating disrespect. Men get blamed for everything so why not just initiate the divorce and be done with it. Doesn't matter if the woman herself admits her husband is perfect they'll still leave in the hopes of finding better.
Are these women who behave like this really that delusional...? Belittle and demean the man then act all pissy and hard done by when they face the inevitable consequences...how out of touch can you be?
Sadly, this is how a majority of modern women think. There's a reason fewer and fewer men are getting married or even dating. The "bare minimum" women have is astronomical while the value they bring to a relationship for men is at an all time low. Most only bring a used 😺 to the table because being a home maker is "slave labor."
@@frantheman1287 Agreed... I'm one of the happy men that are done with it all. My peace is not up for negotiation any longer and almost none of them are able to bring even peace to a relationship anymore.
She was expecting he'll come back crawling while admitting to him how much of a messed-up human being she is. She literally kept digging her own hole 😅
Yet another example confirming the fact that men love women, but women only love what men can give them and this one is no different. Time to grow up and get over yourself, little girl.
👏👏👏 this how you do it. Her entitlement is amazing. Looking nice doesn’t pay the bills/ roof over your head and clothes on your back. You have the nerve to play the victim 😂😂. Ryan you can’t fix stupid Because obviously she’s not smart enough to understand you’re kicking her to the curb
Right? Looking nice for WHO? HIM? they ALL say they want to look nice for THEMSELVES (not their husbands or boyfriends) when in actuality it's for the attention and validation of OTHER men. In this case "leaving was supposed to be MY move..." was her actually admitting that looking nice was more likely her preparing to monkey branch to a wealthier guy the second the opportunity presented itself.
Appreciated you more? FOR WHAT? He's basically been playing daddy to a teenager FFS. He is mad at himself for choosing the wrong woman, which he did. He's mad at wasting the years he's spent with you thinking you'd change, which you didn't. HE deserves better. You say he's not perfect either? He's "too serious" and spends "too much time thinking about work"? That's actually a PERFECT husband for crying out loud. He's paying ALL the bills, feeding and putting a roof over the head of someone who has NO respect or appreciation for it. You seriously need to grow up sweetheart.
When someone tells you who they are by words or actions, believe them. She told him all he needs to know and that is that she has no respect for him. Without respect, there can be no love.
"It's not like Ryan is perfect either"...... there's not a man in the world who doesn't know he ain't perfect. Why are women always throwing that line when arguing? Is it because they're delusional and think they themselves are perfect, or is it because they have some twisted need to bring their men down when they get angry? Either way, life has taught me that there's only one response if she says that: "you're right, and my flaws are obviously making you unhappy. So goodbye, we're done. Go find the happiness I can't give you" and then guide her out through the door, or leave yourself. She'll never learn to appreciate what she have. And then there's "you're blowing this all out of proportion"....... I'll make it clear one more time (for those women who might be listening): FEELINGS CAN'T BE OUT OF PROPORTION! When he says "from where I stand" he's really saying "this is how I feel", and if a woman isn't ready to listen, acknowledge his feelings, and admit what she has done to make him feel this way, instead of pushing back, she must prepare herself for having lost the relationship/marriage. Most men don't hand out ultimatums. A man will try to tell his woman how he's feeling, and he'll try to make the marriage work as long as he have even the slightest amount of energy. If his woman fails to acknowledge his feelings, he'll just wake up one day and be done. Once he's done, nothing can make him grow back the love he once felt for her.
She literally said he was divorcing from a singular simple argument towards the end even though he said this wasn't the first time this had happened and it had been going on for 2+ years. So for her to downplay, dismiss, and even deflect speaks volumes as to why he was done with her entitled selfish lazy ass.
@jspera4187 a woman's outraged and emotional outbursts are all normal and/or because of pms. When men have emotional outbursts it's because we're not emotionally mature enough to keep ourselves in check.
@@frantheman1287 I can testify to the fact that it doesn't necessarily mean emotional immaturity if a man can't always control his emotions. It can also be because of TBI or PTSD. For example, I've been told that I start to cry when I get angry.... not when I'm sad (Suffers from PTSD). I don't feel it myself because if I get angry enough to cry, it's usually accompanied by a blackout.
@@frantheman1287 Hey, some confusion as to what I meant. I'm not talking about anger or emotional outbursts. I'm just talking about general "feelings", we all have them. The difference is when a woman says she "feels" something... like "unappreciated", or "lonely", or "bored", it's important and supposed to be taken seriously and believed and not minimized. But when a man "feels" the same way he is ALWAYS "blowing things out of proportion" and should just suck it up and not "feel" that way. It's the double standard and hypocrisy of THAT which I have an issue with.
The fact that her EX was at the back of her mind and she used that to argue with her husband is the reason a woman's past matters to men! He worked all the time to give her the cushy and easy life she had and she didn't even realize that! Making yourself look pretty and scrolling through Tik Tok videos all day is adolescent behavior not grown up female behavior! Bottom line is she disrespected her husband and she can NEVER recover from that!
12:10. Of course being caustic, snippy and insulting are guaranteed ways to get your estranged husband to see reason and want to come crawling back to you.
Wife with good husband: “If he appreciated me more I wouldn’t have said what I said.” Translation: “If I appreciated HIM more I wouldn’t have said….blah.”
I love how girls say he works all the time. Meanwhile, they got no problem spending his hard earned money or not.Getting a job so that he could work less
You spent your time looking good and barely looked after the house and didnt work? Yet your problem with him was he did his job and came home to a grown woman masquerading as a teenager and wondered why he didnt have anything good to say? Cant believe it took him that long.
One line that jumps out at me speaks volumes, "for years I had been pushing his buttons just to see how he would react". If you love someone why would you play games just to make them mad? That isn't being playful, it's manipulating and demeaning. It just confirms what Ryan said that Caroline was just using him. If you truly love someone, your inclination should be to boost them up, not tear them down.
She blame her husband working all the time which is to pay her spending habit. She didn't work, don't help around the house.. Then she compare her husband to her ex who make more money? The nerve..
I'll always side eye a childless woman who's a 'housewife', like what the hell do you do all day? The house doesn't need cleaning every day to justify being a housewife.
This is a good story from a narcissist's point of view illustrating how they rationalize their bad behavior. Everything is focused on why she is the prize no matter what she does or doesn't contribute to the relationship. She never talked about how much she cared for him, just how he owed her an explanation. Wow....
03:45. Yes you have pushed it beyond repair and he is just continuing his process of disengaging and checking out of the marriage. The same process you had already begun years ago with the subtle jabs and disrespect. If you are home all day and bringing nothing of material value to the marriage, you do owe him cooking, cleaning and affection. At least to the level of a high school junior. And definitely not on the phone or other digital devices.
Modern women view home making for a man as "slave labor" which is why more men than ever are choosing to stay single in 2024 and beyond. I'm not gonna date until I'm overseas in a new country. Too many selfish entitled women making sky high demands while offering little to nothing in return
It wasn't stupid, OP knew exactly what she was saying and why. Much like a cheater not understanding part of the thrill is risking everything and when they lose it can't understand why. Once again, pretty classic DARVO. Easy lesson, when you're partner says they're hurt, you don't get to explain why they're wrong!
I'm calling bogus on this story. No woman admits to laying around the house all day. Even back 40-50 years ago, women fibbed their hineys off about how LOoooOOng it took to do housework, when really they spent maybe 2 hours actually doing laundry, cleaning, etc. How do I know? I got sick a few times, like all kids do, and noticed a lot of Coffee Klatsches, General Hospital watching, and phone calls. And maybe 2 hours of actual domestic chores.
"is it so wrong to want more than just being a housewife?" That question presumes she was being a housewife. Spoiler, she wasn't, hence why the husband felt all his efforts weren't being reciprocated. She acts like picking up a makeup kit is as significant as picking up cooking utensils (spoiler again: its not), whether she knows it or not that admission declares she see's herself as a trophy wife than a housewife.
This woman is soo entitled haha and you said ur ex bf mark You taste your own medicine Your husband probably thinks you cheating You stupidly ex woman tsk tsk
She likely could have been cheating, remember... SHE'S telling the story and wants us to think highly of her and think her husband is the bad guy so there's no way she would have admitted to that.
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1 minute in and she said she had a long day or being lazy while preferring to focus on shallow aspects of herself instead of her household. Already don't like this woman, she's 100% in the wrong, I hope they haven't been married long and that guy is preparing to be single again.
She flat out told him who she was, and he believed her.
No matter how hard a man works to make ends meet for him and the gf or wife, nothing will ever be enough.
more like she not enough to be honest no cap women☕
because it'll be come the next standard. you can be a millionaire and they expect you to be a billionaire.
1. She was spoiled and felt entitled.
2. She tried to minimize his feelings.
3. She wasn't adult enough to think before speaking
4. She had too much ego to apologize
every girlfriend ive ever had. I am over 30 and single now and much happier. I am going to die childless.
@@SPacePhish09 I feel you on this. Same here. It's sadly the reality of an increasing number of good, hardworking men more so for men with moral/spiritual values and principles who put their family first. The "modern women" (particularly liberals who support the feminist mindset) will sacrifice everything including family, marriage, children for their "feelings" and their perception of "happiness". They have zero issues ruining a long term relationship/marriage to satisfy their sudden "awakening and their truth". They also have zero qualms about killing their own unborn babies in the womb for that matter in the name of their sexual/bodily freedom (which in their view (99% of cases), takes precedence over a human life). It's me me me...hedonism, nothing more.
Men of value on the other hand would sacrifice themselves including their own happiness for the sake of their women and family. Those 2 mindsets cannot coexist and this is why men of value are increasingly moving away from relationships and marriage.
@@SPacePhish09 I have two kids. I have raised, by myself, my daughter since she was 5 and her brother who wasn't even 1, when my ex decided to leave. Its been 20 years and she has been in multiple relationships and has now married for 10+ years and I still hear how I was the blame.
"It's not my fault dinner wasn't ready after scrolling through TikTok all day, and binge watching True Crime, it's his fault he doesn't make as much money as my ex, so then I could do absolutely nothing"
It's easy to see why you might feel unmotivated when you spend most of your time at home without much to do, especially if your partner often neglect you without having a real conversation about it. This kind of situation can create a toxic environment that drains your energy, even if you have loved that person.
@@NwaaNwaa Bro she's living the dream. Domestic chores is all she has to do, Damn that's easy. 2. This is on her, the ego and arrogance is evident. "I know I was wrong, but it's not like he was the perfect partner either" no we are discussing your mistake not his. Why would you want to talk to a person that never admits their mistakes? Of course he's distant, we all know someone like that and tend to avoid them, problem is that's his wife.
@@NwaaNwaa LMAO, the same bullshit you women spew all the time:
-if he works too much - You're never home, you don't care about me, I'm cheating!
-if he works too little - You're always home, you don't do anything for me, I'm cheating!
Go kindly play in traffic.
@@NwaaNwaa this excuse is not in the context and no reason to explain what she did.
@@NwaaNwaa Congrats, this has to be the trashiest explanation for a terrible woman i've ever seen
First words of future 304's , comparing bf to the one that ran through you and threw you to the curb..IMO
That’s no opinion, it’s a fact.
Future? She probably already is.
Welcome to modernity
Now she can go get Mark.
Hum he dumped her, so not even that one wants her around
With her ego she thinks she can do better than Mark or Ryan
The fact that she said it should have been her to leave him says all there is about this woman.
Yep... caught that... Still pining over not having the access to money her ex had and would have monkey branched upward at the drop of a hat if the opportunity had presented itself.
This is a true statement.
MY PET PEEVE is there is absolutely no appreciation for a man to work 8-12 at a mind-crushing, back-breaking job just to see the lion's share of his income got to the benefit of SOMEONE ELSE. It's just expected entitlement.
Hell yeah, you've got curtains you like that aren't that old, look good & suddenly your SO is emotionally invested in spending thousands changing them. Then they're pissed there's not more money for other things, so "Go work harder." Yet you know if they worked, either they'd just spend more on BS or it would be "Thier Money"
frfr no cap
Many women want their man to make $1 Million a month and only work two hours a week.
It’s f3male nature to massively overestimate her contribution to the marriage….
Even if a vvoman does ALL the household duties, she still does not contribute as much as her husband’s 9-5 job.
Never let a gf stay at home and not work. No matter how much money you make. And only let a wife stay at home if she is taking care of children.
What if she cooked and catered to him? I think it’s about lack of gratitude
Yes, make her work and have an affair with a coworker
Women and accountability don't exist. I've learned this over many years.
Correct
@@allanbluzdudeAs opposed to her affair with the unemployed neighbor?
Telling the hubby that she stayed with her ex only because of money is beyond stupid. Admitting to being a gold digger surely convinced him to come back 🤣
Edit: Immediately after continuing the vid, the husband indeed makes the same observation instantly. Wild to me how she expected anything else of that response.
Good edit LoL.. I do the same thing... comment early and then have to add new thoughts later.
"hubby"
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The key words are "this time." This wasn't the reason, just the last straw.
The sort of person, who doesn’t know what she’s got, til it’s gone.
Rofl, that opening: "I never considered myself a housewife cuz i don't actually do anything useful, I just waste his money and giggle to myself at how fun it is tee hee!"
You've crossed the line of the point of no return! You've disrespected your husband and taken him for granted! Insult to injury , you've compared him to your ex-boyfriend! Now he's leaving you, due to the consequences or your actions! What did you expect to happen? Play stupid games and you can win stupid prizes!
women☕
@colourbasscolourbassweapon2135 Typical modern western girl 👧!
Your not even bright enough to realize that your your own worst enemy???
Some men are stupid to let their partner stay at home when you dont have any kids
I was stupid enough wants to trust my wife. I agree with you 100%.
Yes. Men need to learn that dating is your one chance to vet a woman and the fastest way to determine if they actually love you is to not provide a lifestyle, financial support, stability, stature, etc. until you have children. If you do, you'll never know if they are with you because they love you or because of the lifestyle, financial support, stability, etc.
Never do this. Not unless she's in a wheelchair and can't get a job due to her disabilities
Bear in mind that the vast majority of f3male infidelity happens with coworkers.
She can cheat at her work as well, there is no magic system that will prevent anyone from cheating.
Never allow a gf stay at home unless there is a real reason. Medical, children. She FAFO, too many of these stories the female is entitled, self absorbed, arrogant, and denying accountability. Living on emotion, not reality. Till she realizes she’s the problem, he’s done and should be.
This woman has too much pride and not enough love., If she is even capable of it. Good luck to Ryan and Emily,
And respect was never even in the game.
Respect goes a long way with men. Lack of respect breaks relationships.
@@TechnoMageB5 frfr no cap
"Annoyingly Low Maintenance"... SIGH!!!! SO TELLING!!!
Work more -> "You never make time for me!"
Work less -> "You aren't stable/ambitious!"
People like this are exhausting.
This is a perfect example of today’s modern women! Men, never get married!
To be frank, all the equality that women have "fought for", they now find themselves successful, but now are lonely and past the age of child bearing. Can't have your cake and eat it.
fr no cap women☕
Ahh yes men don’t get married. Real men take care of people. If lol you care about is money and possessions, then that’s the type of woman you will attract. Weak willed selfish centered men don’t get married, they work and party and care for themselves only. You sound weak….really weak.
This chick is way too entitled. Women have historically cheated and complained about loneliness and attention because the man is out working his ass off for them and their family. But will turn around and call a man a bum or a loser if he’s not working his ass off for his wife and family.
Wished he appreciated me more, admits to spending all day on tiktock and keeping up with lame fashion trends. Doesn't really clean house much, and couldn't be bothered to cook for her man. Too stubborn to admit she was wrong, and complains he works a lot while stating he comes home exhausted. Yeah thats right you were so understanding you can't be bothered to take care of house, and cook him any food, but then you throw your ex in his face. Nah girl you got this, its all your fault and you know this isn’t the one thing he was upset about, it just happened to be the final thing.
Ironic that if he were to be with her more that she would be blaming him for not making enough, because as she said herself once he was gone she had to cut back on shopping sprees as in multiple sprees a month so she could pay her bills.
But she admitted she stayed with Mark, because of his money!!! WHY!? would Ryan think ANY differently.
Bingo! she CONFESSED she was one, the gets mad again because he TOOK HER AT HER WORD??? LMAO!!! She needs psychoanalysis
Why can't they learn to shut up before they say something $tupid? Whilst I'm wishing can I have a pony.
Okay, one minute in and this woman is already insufferable. On to the next story.
Can you imagine marrying someone like her? No wonder there's so many single women. They think it's all about sex. Their behaviour is impossible.
Every word of this girl screams GOLD DIGGER in a whole new level.
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I’m encountering serious challenges in my relationship and can’t bear the thought of losing her. My love for her is immense, and I miss her deeply. I’m willing to do anything to win her back. I would be extremely grateful for any advice or support you can provide.
Moving on from someone you hold dear is invariably challenging, but in my experience, I was guided by a spiritual counselor who prevented the breakdown of my marriage. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
I'll promptly start searching for her online. I appreciate it. I'm optimistic that pursuing this approach will also lead to favorable outcomes for me; her absence weighs heavily on me.
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I promise you will not regret it
Why do women think negatively comparing you to their ex (failed relationship) is a trump card?
“My ex bf who dumped me/ cheated/ whatever made more than you”
Women will always remember only the good experiences of their exes... thats why the longer the list the worse will be for their husbanda or bfs
"I had to sell my designer bags" - oh no! That's just the worst. I nearly organised an appointment to pick m my nose, I was so shocked.
After all this she still can't take any accountability. She knows she messed it up....
Carolina is going to regret taking her husband for granted and now she has to start over in life
That attitude means Cats are in the future. Plus bo×wine.
She had been having a long day of scrolling through TikTok videos and binge watching something. Well, that explains why she didn't cook and of course she was right to blow up at her husband and strongly suggest he was inferior to her ex. If he was half the man she deserved he would hire a full kitchen staff and a small team of general domestic workers so that her rich and full life was not disrupted. 🤣🤣🤣
And, if he wasn't insecure, he'd hire some young hot guys to service the pool, be her yoga instructor, and personal masseur just so she didn't get bored. This husband is a real slacker. Poor girl, she's such a victim of an evil, nasty man. He's probably a narcissist and ab*sive too.
Watch when a good man, goes quiet
a lot of them dude tbh
Ladies...NEVER mention the ex. NEVER EVER in a million years...if you're ever asked about an ex it's ALWAYS a negative answer regarding anything to do with him. You NEVER make your husband/boyfriend feel inferior.
Losing sleep cause shes losing her meal ticket 😂
Given the fact that she said that "she loved the life they built together" tells me that only loved the idea of Ryan.
She is only sorry because she lost her free ATM. He was working all the time because you wouldn't.
OP can't fix it unless she first fixes herself.
"I wasn't trying to start a fight" and then tries to start a fight by gas lighting him with "way out of proportion."
Every time she opens her mouth, she proves his point.
The ability of a woman to rationalize their thoughts and feelings is unending, all people actually;
where the inclination to even listen exists to what degree?
Every time you hear these stories women are always the same
"I am not going to apologise because he's not perfect either".
It's so frustrating. Always deflecting, never taking any accountability. Two wrongs don't make a right.
He may not be perfect, but that doesn't change the fact you fucked up. Apologise. Jesus. You still expect us to apologise when we fuck up even though you are also not perfect.
It's not even just in these stories. I see this exact same mentality with the women I'm forced to work with day in, day out. It's pandemic, and so frustrating.
Then they wonder why it's so hard to respect them.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Comedic gold!
A feel good story if there ever was one.
This is only the beginning more and more men are starting to wake up and stop tolerating disrespect. Men get blamed for everything so why not just initiate the divorce and be done with it. Doesn't matter if the woman herself admits her husband is perfect they'll still leave in the hopes of finding better.
Thanks for the story keep them coming
She did wrong, she knows she did wrong, and yet she still doesn't take accountability for her words.
I took my ex back after she left me for another man. When we got into an argument she compared me to him. Never take back an ex
They always say we over react. If he had compared her to his ex, she wouldn't like it.
That is State Treason. Hell, it's High Treason.
Women are NEVER at fault.. it's always something he did or didn't do.. NEVER short of a bs excuse and someone to blame
and that's why they are call women ☕
Are these women who behave like this really that delusional...? Belittle and demean the man then act all pissy and hard done by when they face the inevitable consequences...how out of touch can you be?
Sadly, this is how a majority of modern women think. There's a reason fewer and fewer men are getting married or even dating. The "bare minimum" women have is astronomical while the value they bring to a relationship for men is at an all time low. Most only bring a used 😺 to the table because being a home maker is "slave labor."
@@frantheman1287 Agreed... I'm one of the happy men that are done with it all. My peace is not up for negotiation any longer and almost none of them are able to bring even peace to a relationship anymore.
Been there, done that, and got rid of her!
OF COURSE she meant it!!!!
She was expecting he'll come back crawling while admitting to him how much of a messed-up human being she is. She literally kept digging her own hole 😅
Yet another example confirming the fact that men love women, but women only love what men can give them and this one is no different. Time to grow up and get over yourself, little girl.
Typical modern western girl 👧!
👏👏👏 this how you do it. Her entitlement is amazing. Looking nice doesn’t pay the bills/ roof over your head and clothes on your back. You have the nerve to play the victim 😂😂. Ryan you can’t fix stupid Because obviously she’s not smart enough to understand you’re kicking her to the curb
Right? Looking nice for WHO? HIM? they ALL say they want to look nice for THEMSELVES (not their husbands or boyfriends) when in actuality it's for the attention and validation of OTHER men. In this case "leaving was supposed to be MY move..." was her actually admitting that looking nice was more likely her preparing to monkey branch to a wealthier guy the second the opportunity presented itself.
these women☕ belongs to the word so call victimhood no cap lmmfao
@@jspera4187 women☕
Appreciated you more? FOR WHAT? He's basically been playing daddy to a teenager FFS. He is mad at himself for choosing the wrong woman, which he did. He's mad at wasting the years he's spent with you thinking you'd change, which you didn't. HE deserves better. You say he's not perfect either? He's "too serious" and spends "too much time thinking about work"? That's actually a PERFECT husband for crying out loud. He's paying ALL the bills, feeding and putting a roof over the head of someone who has NO respect or appreciation for it. You seriously need to grow up sweetheart.
Bro realized he was simping until he stopped taking the blue pill
He's beginning to believe
-Morpheus
When someone tells you who they are by words or actions, believe them. She told him all he needs to know and that is that she has no respect for him. Without respect, there can be no love.
"It's not like Ryan is perfect either"...... there's not a man in the world who doesn't know he ain't perfect. Why are women always throwing that line when arguing? Is it because they're delusional and think they themselves are perfect, or is it because they have some twisted need to bring their men down when they get angry? Either way, life has taught me that there's only one response if she says that: "you're right, and my flaws are obviously making you unhappy. So goodbye, we're done. Go find the happiness I can't give you" and then guide her out through the door, or leave yourself. She'll never learn to appreciate what she have.
And then there's "you're blowing this all out of proportion"....... I'll make it clear one more time (for those women who might be listening): FEELINGS CAN'T BE OUT OF PROPORTION!
When he says "from where I stand" he's really saying "this is how I feel", and if a woman isn't ready to listen, acknowledge his feelings, and admit what she has done to make him feel this way, instead of pushing back, she must prepare herself for having lost the relationship/marriage. Most men don't hand out ultimatums. A man will try to tell his woman how he's feeling, and he'll try to make the marriage work as long as he have even the slightest amount of energy. If his woman fails to acknowledge his feelings, he'll just wake up one day and be done. Once he's done, nothing can make him grow back the love he once felt for her.
She literally said he was divorcing from a singular simple argument towards the end even though he said this wasn't the first time this had happened and it had been going on for 2+ years. So for her to downplay, dismiss, and even deflect speaks volumes as to why he was done with her entitled selfish lazy ass.
Yep.... funny how THEIR "emotions" and "feelings" about things are NEVER out of proportion... just ours.
@jspera4187 a woman's outraged and emotional outbursts are all normal and/or because of pms. When men have emotional outbursts it's because we're not emotionally mature enough to keep ourselves in check.
@@frantheman1287 I can testify to the fact that it doesn't necessarily mean emotional immaturity if a man can't always control his emotions. It can also be because of TBI or PTSD.
For example, I've been told that I start to cry when I get angry.... not when I'm sad (Suffers from PTSD). I don't feel it myself because if I get angry enough to cry, it's usually accompanied by a blackout.
@@frantheman1287 Hey, some confusion as to what I meant. I'm not talking about anger or emotional outbursts. I'm just talking about general "feelings", we all have them. The difference is when a woman says she "feels" something... like "unappreciated", or "lonely", or "bored", it's important and supposed to be taken seriously and believed and not minimized. But when a man "feels" the same way he is ALWAYS "blowing things out of proportion" and should just suck it up and not "feel" that way. It's the double standard and hypocrisy of THAT which I have an issue with.
MEN Really NEED to Think about WHO and what They want in a Partner
One thing you NEVER EVER do to any respectable man is compare him to anyone. That is a disrespect a lot of us won't allow.
The fact that her EX was at the back of her mind and she used that to argue with her husband is the reason a woman's past matters to men! He worked all the time to give her the cushy and easy life she had and she didn't even realize that! Making yourself look pretty and scrolling through Tik Tok videos all day is adolescent behavior not grown up female behavior! Bottom line is she disrespected her husband and she can NEVER recover from that!
12:10. Of course being caustic, snippy and insulting are guaranteed ways to get your estranged husband to see reason and want to come crawling back to you.
Wife with good husband: “If he appreciated me more I wouldn’t have said what I said.”
Translation: “If I appreciated HIM more I wouldn’t have said….blah.”
Good for him
She makes excuses for herself rather than owning up. She's constantly looking for him to blame.
Xmas2024: Nothing compares to biting the hand that feeds you. Retired in Sacto.
Bro is dodging a bullet. Notice in all their interactions her first response is to attack him each time.
I love how girls say he works all the time. Meanwhile, they got no problem spending his hard earned money or not.Getting a job so that he could work less
What a waste of a wife wannabe. He did the right thing
frfr no cap
she's not even a wife
HE saw you for what you are, now he is done.
this gets better and better🤣
You spent your time looking good and barely looked after the house and didnt work? Yet your problem with him was he did his job and came home to a grown woman masquerading as a teenager and wondered why he didnt have anything good to say? Cant believe it took him that long.
Doors will be Doors
7 minutes in, and she's NEVER APOLOGIZED!
P.S. Guess who else isn't perfect????
One line that jumps out at me speaks volumes, "for years I had been pushing his buttons just to see how he would react". If you love someone why would you play games just to make them mad? That isn't being playful, it's manipulating and demeaning. It just confirms what Ryan said that Caroline was just using him. If you truly love someone, your inclination should be to boost them up, not tear them down.
Notice she blames her husband for everything. Its his fault...
She blame her husband working all the time which is to pay her spending habit.
She didn't work, don't help around the house..
Then she compare her husband to her ex who make more money?
The nerve..
I'll always side eye a childless woman who's a 'housewife', like what the hell do you do all day? The house doesn't need cleaning every day to justify being a housewife.
This is a good story from a narcissist's point of view illustrating how they rationalize their bad behavior. Everything is focused on why she is the prize no matter what she does or doesn't contribute to the relationship. She never talked about how much she cared for him, just how he owed her an explanation. Wow....
03:45. Yes you have pushed it beyond repair and he is just continuing his process of disengaging and checking out of the marriage. The same process you had already begun years ago with the subtle jabs and disrespect. If you are home all day and bringing nothing of material value to the marriage, you do owe him cooking, cleaning and affection. At least to the level of a high school junior. And definitely not on the phone or other digital devices.
Modern women view home making for a man as "slave labor" which is why more men than ever are choosing to stay single in 2024 and beyond. I'm not gonna date until I'm overseas in a new country. Too many selfish entitled women making sky high demands while offering little to nothing in return
It wasn't stupid, OP knew exactly what she was saying and why. Much like a cheater not understanding part of the thrill is risking everything and when they lose it can't understand why. Once again, pretty classic DARVO. Easy lesson, when you're partner says they're hurt, you don't get to explain why they're wrong!
I'm calling bogus on this story. No woman admits to laying around the house all day. Even back 40-50 years ago, women fibbed their hineys off about how LOoooOOng it took to do housework, when really they spent maybe 2 hours actually doing laundry, cleaning, etc. How do I know? I got sick a few times, like all kids do, and noticed a lot of Coffee Klatsches, General Hospital watching, and phone calls. And maybe 2 hours of actual domestic chores.
The words....he never meant anything to me is a blatant lie....it always is....
Not even a possibly true story. Women never apologize nor admit fault. Her calling him, even while drunk, never would have happened.
This relationship is the perfect example of lack of communication that led to a staleness, bitterness, and unsatisfactory.
This is how you end up in the hospital or in a Pine Box. You earned this OP.
"is it so wrong to want more than just being a housewife?"
That question presumes she was being a housewife. Spoiler, she wasn't, hence why the husband felt all his efforts weren't being reciprocated. She acts like picking up a makeup kit is as significant as picking up cooking utensils (spoiler again: its not), whether she knows it or not that admission declares she see's herself as a trophy wife than a housewife.
Zero accountability
"He wasnt supposed to find someone else, that was supposed to be my move" wtf she never changing
Can you imagine posting this and thinking you're not a terrible person
So… she doesn’t contribute anything and then compared him to her ex.
Yeah. I’d certainly think about leaving her.
This woman is soo entitled haha and you said ur ex bf mark
You taste your own medicine
Your husband probably thinks you cheating
You stupidly ex woman tsk tsk
She likely could have been cheating, remember... SHE'S telling the story and wants us to think highly of her and think her husband is the bad guy so there's no way she would have admitted to that.
She gives a new definition to the descriptive term "AIR HEAD". I've know several up close and personal.
Hard life lesson. Maybe she can start over if she learns from her mistakes and treat everyone with respect.
Reality for some people is quite different.
"If you're that unhappy I deserve to know why." This would've just been the ending of the whole thing for me.
There are certain Key ingredients that make up a cake. If you don’t have it it’s not a cake. There are a certain ingredient that make a wife. If you don’t have it you’re not a wife.
He shouldnt have left.
He should have kicked her out.
1 minute in and she said she had a long day or being lazy while preferring to focus on shallow aspects of herself instead of her household.
Already don't like this woman, she's 100% in the wrong, I hope they haven't been married long and that guy is preparing to be single again.
Losing the control you thought you had is probably tough