She keeps hollering about 'how much she's done for him.' OK, let's see: She lives in HIS house, she drives HIS cars, she 'gave' him four children , she spends HIS money like it's water, she complains that he's ignoring him . . . Yeah, it's darn hard work being a gold-digger.
@@G.L.999 You do know that whoever came up with that stupid cliche, must've been a woman. It says to men, our happiness is irrelevant, it's all about the woman. What man should put up with that type of selfishness? We men need to unite and say, "that's enough."
You're right. "Happy Wife, Happy Life" an the inferences that a man must cowto to a women's views, desires, "frame" is ultimately destructive to a relationship. It sets up an unhealthy power dynamic. No one of sound mental health wants a partner that grovels. Women want a man that will make choices, have their own views, their own frame.
BIG difference between supporting someone who's building a million dollar business and actually building it. She acts like she's the entrepreneur in this scenario. Who does this woman think she is, Cleopatra?? Sounds like this guy tried too hard to plz and cater to her to the point she feels entitled. Don't hear a shred of appreciation from this lady at all
Cleopatra never built anything. Her kingdom was handed to her (she didn't have to fight for it) and at the first sign of danger, she found the most powerful men she could, slept with them, and had their babies. Lot of hard work goes into laying on your back and getting skeeted in, I guess.
Some woman are the arsonists of their relationships and their lives. Then want to claim burn victim status once caught or when it blows up in their face. Then get upset when hubby refuses to play fireman and doctor to their bad and disrespectful choices.
She always talks about what she gave to him but he gave the same thing to her. He gave her 4 kids and a grand lifestyle and he clearly tried harder than she did in the marriage. I feel no pity. Now she can build her own wealth for a change
Woman keeps saying "everything I've worked for", but there's no mention of any work on her part...To fix modern women, the results of the divorce are what we need to happen most of the time.
the biggest thing is that Ryan could never make you happy because you are selfish.You had a man that was was a chad,great thinker and devoted father. You played yourself and lost.All the best girl.
writing this with the heavy use of me and i was a good choice. I gave him, i did not get what i needed, etc. As if he did nothing. But the last few lines, he was always the better parent, that's when she started getting the hint. She didn't create those kids and his wealth, he made himself a dad and businessman. The rugged worker she looked down on passed her by, and she resents him for it. After that, his every breath irritated her. She must have some negative things going on with 0 alimony or property split. Kicked out to be replaced? She must have run over the Judge's dog.
Just another typical woman who thinks she "deserves" something that she didn't create nor build. ENTITLED. Now she's a single mother in her 30s raising kids with absolutely NOTHING. It's OK, hun. You're a strong & independent woman! You got this!!
There seems to be a tremendous amount of this story missing. WHY did she not get any shared assets? WHY did she not get alimony? WHY did she not get custody and child support. ALL of her misdeeds (which can be the only reason for these unusual results) seem to have been left out, Makes a man go ‘hmmmm’.
@@SkinnystaxofcAsh even so; court default decision for SAHM would still be primary custody of children + child support + custody (minimum if not ownership, custody as in he would own it but she gets to use it until youngest of their shared children becomes 18 or she remarries) of the house because the courts award housing to primary custodian of children. also since there was no cheating stated on her end the courts wouldve easily awarded alimony even if just for a few years
@@idministernot if you have a prenup, use a trust or put your assets in your Mothers name there are plenty of way to protect your assets and it doesn’t matter if they cheated or not
Literally 30 seconds in and girls saying "don't judge me you don't know the whole story" that right there is already enough to tell me the whole story don't even have to watch the rest anymore😂
The feminist theory does'nt work for her -- as advised by her friends . She should know that he's from the construction line and she should know the amount of risks involved in that line while putting food on the table and raising a family . One false move or a misstep could be fatal and life - threatening if he's working in a high rise building . She just need to appreciate his hard earned money and be more prudent in her spending and not taking him for granted .I myself have been in this line of work before and I think I understand his feelings when someone undermine him - let alone his wife ......................
Don't worry lady. In this great land of opportunity, I'm sure there's a street corner where you can be employed in something befitting of your skills like working in the world's oldest profession.
Have I heard a different story here? The title says: "My friends finally convinced me to get a divorce for his money - it backfired" but there are no friends in the story at all...
Introduction -- don't judge me, I know in retrospect I made bad choices. Sweetie, that doesn't cancel your being judged. Remorse after the fact can only affect sentencing, and we're not sentencing you to anything but opprobrium.
You can tell that this story is complete fantasy by the fact that women are actually saying it is their fault and that they are accountable to the marriage failure
She was a user, plain and simple, but no judge in any state in this country will allow the main bread winner to walk away from a wife with four kids and not pay anything without providing that she is unfit, neglecting the children or cheating. Heck in most states cheating isn’t considered as a ton of states are no fault. There is no protecting assets when kids and a women are involved, you are paying and with four kids she is taking the house unless you had it before the marriage or it is in someone else’s name.
You got him there? What did you do in his business? He was the one doing the work and all you did was spend the money that HE made. Typical woman not taking accountability, not willing to apologize or admit that she was wrong. Definitely a gold digger. You didn't give him peace. What did you do for him at home? Nothing. Yes you took care of the kids and maintained the house and supported him in the beginning then you used him. Pathetic, Karma is a bad mother isn't it?
You made the choice to marry him at a young time in your like you did start listening to others then your other half you deserve what bed you made lie in it quit crying it on you.
Some of the stories are real, I think. Usually the ones where Reddit is mentioned. However, the stories that have patterns such as "Not yet" in the speech are obviously AI generated.
this is how you know its not a real story because a stay at home mom who had been there from the beginning wouldnt walk away from a marriage with nothing and she certainly wouldnt lose the kids if she was the primary care giver.
It takes two to tango.... appreciate means to increase in value, giving time and attention does that...... Be a giver not a taker...... it is more blessed to give.... IMO
She keeps hollering about 'how much she's done for him.'
OK, let's see: She lives in HIS house, she drives HIS cars, she 'gave' him four children , she spends HIS money like it's water, she complains that he's ignoring him . . .
Yeah, it's darn hard work being a gold-digger.
he got his kids, his house, his money...................she got to be a strong independent woman
Lol 😂💯👍
Actually rather sad that women really think like this…..
I'm getting fed up with this whole "happy wife, happy life" trope. That needs to come to an end now!
It's a female narcissistic narrative.
As long there are entitling enabling of that in society it won't end.
@@G.L.999 You do know that whoever came up with that stupid cliche, must've been a woman. It says to men, our happiness is irrelevant, it's all about the woman. What man should put up with that type of selfishness? We men need to unite and say, "that's enough."
You're right. "Happy Wife, Happy Life" an the inferences that a man must cowto to a women's views, desires, "frame" is ultimately destructive to a relationship. It sets up an unhealthy power dynamic. No one of sound mental health wants a partner that grovels. Women want a man that will make choices, have their own views, their own frame.
That quote was made by a sucker.
With friends like that you don't need enemies! Women making other women single! They hate seeing others happy!
That's what Al Bundy told us in the previous century
She was so concerned about winning the battle that she lost the war.
Good men have had enough now
BIG difference between supporting someone who's building a million dollar business and actually building it. She acts like she's the entrepreneur in this scenario. Who does this woman think she is, Cleopatra?? Sounds like this guy tried too hard to plz and cater to her to the point she feels entitled. Don't hear a shred of appreciation from this lady at all
Cleopatra never built anything. Her kingdom was handed to her (she didn't have to fight for it) and at the first sign of danger, she found the most powerful men she could, slept with them, and had their babies. Lot of hard work goes into laying on your back and getting skeeted in, I guess.
Oh so u realised ur "mistake" after u lost out on the lifestyle ur husband provided?! .. hmm right, got it.
All she was concerned about was $$$
Some woman are the arsonists of their relationships and their lives. Then want to claim burn victim status once caught or when it blows up in their face. Then get upset when hubby refuses to play fireman and doctor to their bad and disrespectful choices.
Lmmao 😅😅😅 another goofball woman thinking she gonna get his bread
"I wasn't in it for the money." Translation, I'm in it for the money.
Do stuff YOU think is right DESPITE the consequences and you'll find out why you should
nearly all these woman with this story have no emotions until this men left the relationship, where's the hearts??? it sad .
These stories are fascinating and amazing I like them
All these stories have one thing in common a woman who talks too much and doesn't know when to let off.
She always talks about what she gave to him but he gave the same thing to her. He gave her 4 kids and a grand lifestyle and he clearly tried harder than she did in the marriage. I feel no pity. Now she can build her own wealth for a change
Woman keeps saying "everything I've worked for", but there's no mention of any work on her part...To fix modern women, the results of the divorce are what we need to happen most of the time.
Consequences= with sequences. Things that happen as a result.
the biggest thing is that Ryan could never make you happy because you are selfish.You had a man that was was a chad,great thinker and devoted father. You played yourself and lost.All the best girl.
My new favorite story time it hits so close
This is why i never married. If this is all women want then they will never get married
Totally disrepecys husband and acts surprised he ignores her. Narcissit much?
writing this with the heavy use of me and i was a good choice. I gave him, i did not get what i needed, etc. As if he did nothing. But the last few lines, he was always the better parent, that's when she started getting the hint. She didn't create those kids and his wealth, he made himself a dad and businessman. The rugged worker she looked down on passed her by, and she resents him for it. After that, his every breath irritated her. She must have some negative things going on with 0 alimony or property split. Kicked out to be replaced? She must have run over the Judge's dog.
She probably ran her mouth at the judge. This woman is a total Karen.
With modern women, nothing surprises me. It's always about them. I'll pass!
Just another typical woman who thinks she "deserves" something that she didn't create nor build. ENTITLED. Now she's a single mother in her 30s raising kids with absolutely NOTHING. It's OK, hun. You're a strong & independent woman! You got this!!
There seems to be a tremendous amount of this story missing.
WHY did she not get any shared assets?
WHY did she not get alimony?
WHY did she not get custody and child support.
ALL of her misdeeds (which can be the only reason for these unusual results) seem to have been left out,
Makes a man go ‘hmmmm’.
He protected his assets. Doesn't say how but you can use a trust or keep everything in someone else's name like Hakimi did
@@SkinnystaxofcAsh even so; court default decision for SAHM would still be primary custody of children + child support + custody (minimum if not ownership, custody as in he would own it but she gets to use it until youngest of their shared children becomes 18 or she remarries) of the house because the courts award housing to primary custodian of children. also since there was no cheating stated on her end the courts wouldve easily awarded alimony even if just for a few years
@@idministernot if you have a prenup, use a trust or put your assets in your Mothers name there are plenty of way to protect your assets and it doesn’t matter if they cheated or not
Literally 30 seconds in and girls saying "don't judge me you don't know the whole story" that right there is already enough to tell me the whole story don't even have to watch the rest anymore😂
Bahahaha , God works in mysterious ways.
How.you.pram.
Wah, wah, wah, boo hoo hoo, wah, wah, wah. He should bill you for the education.
The feminist theory does'nt work for her -- as advised by her friends . She should know that he's from the construction line and she should know the amount of risks involved in that line while putting food on the table and raising a family . One false move or a misstep could be fatal and life - threatening if he's working in a high rise building . She just need to appreciate his hard earned money and be more prudent in her spending and not taking him for granted .I myself have been in this line of work before and I think I understand his feelings when someone undermine him - let alone his wife ......................
Don't worry lady. In this great land of opportunity, I'm sure there's a street corner where you can be employed in something befitting of your skills like working in the world's oldest profession.
Lost the meal, gained bills and homelessness
This is nuts guys really dont know who they are partnered with!?
building a relation, because one got money and theother none, its not a relation on love and care. it all about greed
Have I heard a different story here? The title says: "My friends finally convinced me to get a divorce for his money - it backfired" but there are no friends in the story at all...
Introduction -- don't judge me, I know in retrospect I made bad choices. Sweetie, that doesn't cancel your being judged. Remorse after the fact can only affect sentencing, and we're not sentencing you to anything but opprobrium.
You can tell that this story is complete fantasy by the fact that women are actually saying it is their fault and that they are accountable to the marriage failure
No alimony for a stay at home mom? If this is in the US which state do they live in? I might move there.
I have a question. Do women ever grow up? Or are they just entitled brats from birth?
She was a user, plain and simple, but no judge in any state in this country will allow the main bread winner to walk away from a wife with four kids and not pay anything without providing that she is unfit, neglecting the children or cheating. Heck in most states cheating isn’t considered as a ton of states are no fault.
There is no protecting assets when kids and a women are involved, you are paying and with four kids she is taking the house unless you had it before the marriage or it is in someone else’s name.
You knew you were using your husband, don’t lie to yourself.
You got him there? What did you do in his business? He was the one doing the work and all you did was spend the money that HE made. Typical woman not taking accountability, not willing to apologize or admit that she was wrong. Definitely a gold digger. You didn't give him peace. What did you do for him at home? Nothing. Yes you took care of the kids and maintained the house and supported him in the beginning then you used him. Pathetic, Karma is a bad mother isn't it?
enough with this "not yet" bullshit. these AI stories are driving me up the wall.
Better wife better partner? U not even a better person..
You f up and blame your husband for the way you are
You made the choice to marry him at a young time in your like you did start listening to others then your other half you deserve what bed you made lie in it quit crying it on you.
All I'm hearing is Me Me Me.
You didn't it to yourself why don't you take responsibility for once in your life
Some of the stories are real, I think. Usually the ones where Reddit is mentioned. However, the stories that have patterns such as "Not yet" in the speech are obviously AI generated.
And none of it was yours or did you forget about he was the one who work for everything
Good bad women.
Well go to your friends there more important to you
Your stubborn you think alot yourself good for you
this is how you know its not a real story because a stay at home mom who had been there from the beginning wouldnt walk away from a marriage with nothing and she certainly wouldnt lose the kids if she was the primary care giver.
Can you possibly be any more me, me, me, me, me.....holy sh!t..... me, muah, I, #1, numero uno....
It takes two to tango.... appreciate means to increase in value, giving time and attention does that......
Be a giver not a taker...... it is more blessed to give.... IMO