Becoming A Trans Man: Leo

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  • Опубликовано: 21 ноя 2024

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  • @alexandralucas1955
    @alexandralucas1955 6 лет назад +403

    "It was me that had to change. Not him. Me". What a brilliant Dad, prepared to talk about his own confusion and fear, and how he has learnt to accept his son. They look like they have a wonderful relationship.

    • @drewesalahor4857
      @drewesalahor4857 5 лет назад +2

      Bless him, that made me cry ❤

    • @davidalfonso3042
      @davidalfonso3042 5 лет назад

      Hi how are you

    • @notorio526
      @notorio526 5 лет назад +3

      So why did their child have to be changed with puberty blockers and hormones?

    • @tiffprendergast
      @tiffprendergast 4 года назад +1

      notorio that’s how to make them happy

    • @Dave-if5qj
      @Dave-if5qj Месяц назад

      Weak dad

  • @m4rkist
    @m4rkist 7 лет назад +1847

    this comment section is more supportive than i thought it would be and im so damn happy
    congratulations leo!!

    • @billimadison66
      @billimadison66 7 лет назад +16

      m4rkist same! I'm not seeing much hate, I'm glad that people are accepting of him.

    • @senoritasombrero
      @senoritasombrero 7 лет назад +11

      it's easier to be accepting of insanity than disagreeing and having to make up arguments and all. It's much quicker to say "OMG so cool" and then move on with your day. Nobody really cares of what's gonna happen to him.

    • @senoritasombrero
      @senoritasombrero 7 лет назад +5

      and i would be glad that he can live his life as he pleases and as he feels like, but this is the open door to all sorts of damaging behaviors and I believe it is dangerous when you start letting people do everything they want. Also, i really hope this isn't taxpayer money, people with actual diseases still die everyday from lack of treatment and resources...

    • @alasdeangel3929
      @alasdeangel3929 7 лет назад +2

      *Lily

    • @snoodl
      @snoodl 7 лет назад +14

      can you like uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh look up what dysphoria does? its not some ''mild irritation'' and you can trust me here when i say that you really shouldnt look down on this and think its nothing serious

  • @KiZzynQa
    @KiZzynQa 6 лет назад +420

    " He's always been the same. It was me that had to change, not him.. me. And I did. " Preach!!
    I have so much respect for this man! It's harder for older people to find this kind of acceptance and understanding...

    • @__-dm3jc
      @__-dm3jc 6 лет назад +6

      Ve youre stunning! And yeah totally agree, some people can really change so much if they keep an open mind and make an effort to do so

    • @almari7412
      @almari7412 5 лет назад +7

      @@jochempost4095 obviously it is cos ur either biologically born male or female there's no changing ur chromosomes I'm a trans guy myself so I just have to accept the fact that I'll never be a cis male

    • @notorio526
      @notorio526 5 лет назад

      If their child didn't have to change, why inject them with hormones?

    • @__-dm3jc
      @__-dm3jc 5 лет назад +1

      @Gary Lee this is the second time u reply to me on two different videos, get a life.

    • @salvolondon
      @salvolondon 5 лет назад +2

      @@almari7412 you'll never be a male , period . And honestly ,from a "cis" male prospective, I don't get why you wanna be a male . Being a male is nothing special ,believe me .

  • @psychi1465
    @psychi1465 7 лет назад +2633

    "Right now... I'm a boy, and this little bottle makes me a man."
    I'm not crying, you're crying..

    • @ne-ola
      @ne-ola 7 лет назад +3

      Psychi nooo 😭😭

    • @bricoley
      @bricoley 7 лет назад +7

      Psychi I know that got me too! that's awesome!!! his perspective on all of it is very cool and different than most!

    • @jasminecarroll6974
      @jasminecarroll6974 7 лет назад +12

      Psychi no im not

    • @thedukeofweasels6870
      @thedukeofweasels6870 7 лет назад +10

      IKLR relatable AF! I'm not even a teenager but I feel the same way about it!! It's like I've been stuck as a twelve-year-old for the past 20 years and it really sucks! I just started T, I'm 32 an I feel like I'm finally starting to grow the fuck up and feel like the strong confident badass manly man that I always knew I could be! It's amazing!

    • @MrBananaaMan
      @MrBananaaMan 6 лет назад +14

      but it dont make you a man, awww

  • @katem9718
    @katem9718 7 лет назад +239

    Seeing his dad was so important. His perspective, from being completely unaccepting to celebrating as his son started testosterone, is something not often covered when talking about trans people and the issues they have regarding other people. Really proud of him, and, of course, Leo. A great guy.

  • @failed17thchromosome
    @failed17thchromosome 6 лет назад +707

    Do we have an update on Leo? I’d love to see how hormones has changed him !!

    • @almari7412
      @almari7412 5 лет назад +15

      @Fine Textured Italian Canvas oh wow that's surprising don't think I'm stupid or anything but I thought Leo was a youtuber and I thought his youtube channel was Leo matus

    • @almari7412
      @almari7412 5 лет назад +24

      @Fine Textured Italian Canvas ruclips.net/user/MrLeomateus

    • @justinmcmillan1975
      @justinmcmillan1975 5 лет назад +9

      Fine Textured Italian Canvas do you have any proof?? How did you find out??

    • @byronthomas1668
      @byronthomas1668 5 лет назад +61

      One cannot change genders!
      As one is Born either as male or female!
      That's It!!

    • @uuesgirl
      @uuesgirl 5 лет назад +30

      @@glennweber8222 no.

  • @intheblinkofaneye1912
    @intheblinkofaneye1912 7 лет назад +493

    "It was me that had to change" - Leo's dad. It was just your prejudices and judgements that you had to get rid of. THANK YOU! Awesome parents. So proud of you , Leo! And I'm so proud of your family as well. You're an amazing young lad - keep doing what you're doing!!!

    • @bricoley
      @bricoley 7 лет назад +1

      intheblinkofaneye ❤❤❤😍😍😍

    • @ectazygirl
      @ectazygirl 6 лет назад

      they got no CHOICE!!!!

    • @christinayaney1619
      @christinayaney1619 6 лет назад +4

      No, they definitely had a choice. Either they could be supportive and keep their child in their lives, or they could be unsupportive and lose him as soon as he turned 18 - if not sooner. They chose to keep their child - whether female or male - in their lives. I'm sure they'd rather have a daughter turned into a son, than to have a kid who no longer associates with them. At least, if they were good parents, they would.

    • @ShilohKeeling
      @ShilohKeeling 6 лет назад

      I wish my parents would be okay with this if I went on T. I have to leave my husband I have to leave my kids with him and it's hard if I dont I will live with resentment.. I need a friend or someone who can pull me out of this! I've been a woman and I've been pregnant twice and I wanted to die and I have guilt from those feelings

    • @spacewombat6174
      @spacewombat6174 6 лет назад +1

      Leo has champion parents

  • @sage9740
    @sage9740 5 лет назад +265

    This is really sweet but remember, not everyone knows when they are 2 years old, not everyone has a supportive family, not everyone has the opportunity to take hormones or have surgery, and not everyone can transition as a teenager. But they are still valid and deserving of respect, no matter how early in their transition they are.

    • @algalcat
      @algalcat 5 лет назад +10

      Exactly, I’m now 12 and I only realised I was trans about half a year ago despite the fact I did wear pink and liked dolls I also really enjoyed cars and wearing trousers at school when there was an option (not being stereotypical) only problem is puberty has started especially since I was an ‘early bloomer’ and you have to be out for about 2 years before you can get blockers :(

    • @shatterandfry4364
      @shatterandfry4364 5 лет назад +5

      I had a normal female childhood but was abused and neglected as a kid so anything I noticed that was wrong, I repressed. I know I'm a boy now and 16, went through female puberty, but I know now that I need to rectify that. Not all of us can know even when we're going through puberty. If anyone disagrees with me - please, tell me, and I'll explain better. I knew I wasn't meant to grow up before, but now I can become a man on the outside too, I have hope back

    • @claudeyaz
      @claudeyaz 5 лет назад +5

      @@algalcat a lot of people can have body dysmorphia and transitioning doesn't always make them feel better. Check out pique resistance on RUclips. Many of those girls had severe body dysphoria, but being on T didn't help them relieve it. Should wait till over 18 or later to start T. Not because young people dont have the ability to make the choice. But because T has serious effects on the brain. Best to let ones brain become as developed as possible before using T.

    • @tiffprendergast
      @tiffprendergast 4 года назад

      Jay yup

    • @rainbowpanic5632
      @rainbowpanic5632 3 года назад

      @@claudeyaz first off, soobinbred was talking about blockers and body dysphoria isn't gender dysphoria

  • @theoldfelix
    @theoldfelix 6 лет назад +195

    i can't imagine what it's like being so young and already having to deal with dysphoria and shit like that, god, im 20 and it's hard enough for me

    • @_pallucks_7308
      @_pallucks_7308 5 лет назад +1

      Shes gay

    • @aaronandelise
      @aaronandelise 4 года назад +2

      I'm so glad that I didn't transition in Barbie when I was 11. My daughter is also very happy that I didn't let her permanently become Frankie from Monster High at age 11.

    • @francesca9294
      @francesca9294 4 года назад +1

      @@_pallucks_7308 says whooo

    • @orifine6812
      @orifine6812 3 года назад +1

      I'm 11 and have dysphoria. It sucks like hell.

    • @beverlyledbetter9302
      @beverlyledbetter9302 3 года назад +2

      I've dealt with that pretty much my whole life, though I would never do anything like this! I don't like the way I look, but there isn't much that I can do about it.

  • @poultryleg
    @poultryleg 7 лет назад +294

    this video was SUPER respectful to Leo, im always worried that vids like this won't be good representation for the trans community, but this was great and honestly had me crying LMAO

    • @lemongrab1559
      @lemongrab1559 5 лет назад

      A M. It’s a do or die thing broski

    • @albedougnut
      @albedougnut 4 года назад

      @A M. Do you know what dysphoria is?

    • @rubikescube496
      @rubikescube496 3 года назад +1

      Waste of nhs funding absolute joke could use that money for a serious issue not this rubbish

  • @lilpixirae
    @lilpixirae 7 лет назад +325

    i am in no way transgender or anything on the lines but seeing these types of videos makes me SO happy. i literally got tears in my eyes seeing his lil birthday party & one gift being "it's a boy". because he is a boy and he'll grow up a man. i hate anybody who hates on transgender people, they go through so much to be who they want to be because unluckily they were born into the wrong body. it warms my heart knowing anybody transgender was successful with their transition.💓

    • @bengreen4056
      @bengreen4056 6 лет назад

      Syl K J I

    • @Daisy-pr5bj
      @Daisy-pr5bj 6 лет назад +6

      @R M why do you feel the need to say this? You wouldn't do it in real live so why on youtube

    • @AndrogynousMIE
      @AndrogynousMIE 6 лет назад +3

      Born in the right body...to the wrong parents.

    • @mabsmovies2430
      @mabsmovies2430 6 лет назад

      Syl K J aw you just made my day

    • @owenpridgen4406
      @owenpridgen4406 5 лет назад +1

      Androgynous born in the wrong body with the right parents . They love their child for who he is not what they want him to be . How is that wrong ?

  • @bi-bibabyblue9649
    @bi-bibabyblue9649 6 лет назад +84

    Tips for people getting hormone blockers/testosterone: according to my cousin, Tensing up hurts a lot lot more.
    Buy numbing gel and put it on the place where you inject it, after it numbs you may stab the needle into yourself, and also according to my cousin it hurts way less.
    My cousin is a 20 year old FTM and I’m 12, but my parents don’t know yet so he’s helping me, giving me confidence and things like that, he’s good.
    -Josh.

    • @On_the_Virgil05
      @On_the_Virgil05 5 лет назад +2

      Congrats!! Be yourself and don't let anyone stop you.

    • @thefrootloop9408
      @thefrootloop9408 5 лет назад +2

      Yeah proud of you bro and I need as many tips as I can get lol glad your being yourself!! 🌈

    • @kiraalexandria1521
      @kiraalexandria1521 5 лет назад +1

      Gooooood luck!!!

    • @petercarlson811
      @petercarlson811 5 лет назад

      No need for any numbing agents. Just learn to be quick and decisive with the needle.

    • @petercarlson811
      @petercarlson811 5 лет назад

      @The Wonder DykeNot with proper technique. The numbing agent only desensitize the skin and when proper technique is being used the needle penetrates the skin way faster than the nerves can react. Ergo no pain. I've done this for thirty plus years so I know what I'm talking about.

  • @ConfusedGirlButSmartDude
    @ConfusedGirlButSmartDude 7 лет назад +809

    I'm hoping I'll be able to join his journey soon...I just got on the waiting list for the gender clinic
    EDIT: 2018, January - my name has been legally changed and I should have my first appointment VERY SOON (hopefully)

    • @pharolayton7306
      @pharolayton7306 7 лет назад +6

      NoahLouiLife i hope it goes well. I wish i could come out and get on that list too. Also my names Noah too!

    • @caelanoldacc
      @caelanoldacc 7 лет назад +11

      NoahLouiLife it WILL get easier :) I'm 17 and I started testosterone 4 days ago!

    • @MujigayMemes
      @MujigayMemes 7 лет назад +6

      Hey congrats!! I just got hormone blockers earlier this month so you will get through all of this xD good luck dude!

    • @b115-v9q
      @b115-v9q 7 лет назад +4

      Jesus loves you all the way he made you he made you with out testosterone

    • @pharolayton7306
      @pharolayton7306 7 лет назад +4

      b11 5 i wish he made me so id love myself but sometimes accidents happen and we have to finish ourselves of perfectly.

  • @mjturner6291
    @mjturner6291 7 лет назад +100

    I love the dad's attitude, that's a wonderful change of heart for someone to go through, congratulations ❤

  • @tinysp00ks
    @tinysp00ks 6 лет назад +31

    I loved the “it’s a boy” thing on his birthday, that was very witty. I really hope he is living his life as happily as he can in this moment in time

  • @wazoowi
    @wazoowi 7 лет назад +736

    17:52 "HONEY IVE GOT TESTOSTERONE" and the pug's like "wot even iz genda bruv"

    • @RefrigeratedCat
      @RefrigeratedCat 7 лет назад +7

      Lou Woot underrated comment of the year

    • @arlenemckay4598
      @arlenemckay4598 6 лет назад +2

      Seafret

    • @t.b.w6609
      @t.b.w6609 6 лет назад +6

      Jean P. G.
      he can be whatever gender HE wants to be.

    • @auxobl
      @auxobl 6 лет назад +2

      @Jean P. G. He is an amazing and brave man

    • @auxobl
      @auxobl 6 лет назад +5

      @Jean P. G. He's not ugly. He's not a fake man. He doesn't need to lose weight. And it doesn't matter if someone doesn't want to date him. He is living as who he is. You can't change that

  • @lumimumi
    @lumimumi 7 лет назад +712

    so much respect for the parents

    • @DDyzee
      @DDyzee 7 лет назад +2

      100% pritariu!

    • @pekkapekka7220
      @pekkapekka7220 6 лет назад

      .

    • @giorkos69
      @giorkos69 6 лет назад +3

      GetDaYayo. Are you talking about yourself?

    • @giorkos69
      @giorkos69 6 лет назад +2

      Angel George I can smell the sarcasm and I am going to inform you that I didn’t comment that as a “joke” seriously people that cant accept PEOPLE they seriously have a problem

    • @giorkos69
      @giorkos69 6 лет назад +2

      GetDaYayo. Please unlike my comment if you think that’s a “mental illness”.

  • @Catseye189
    @Catseye189 5 лет назад +39

    16 is a confusing time for anyone, and having to make such hard decisions makes me glad he has a strong family around him!

    • @movgru4983
      @movgru4983 5 лет назад +1

      Catseye189 who said 16 is confusing??

    • @ishaaqahmed8250
      @ishaaqahmed8250 Год назад

      HER not him

    • @eddieworkman5855
      @eddieworkman5855 Год назад

      i think she only wanted to be a bloke as she was a lesbian before so she would then be straight

  • @radiocure5459
    @radiocure5459 7 лет назад +597

    the "it's a boy" card made me SO happy.

  • @Gwallgofrwydd
    @Gwallgofrwydd 7 лет назад +585

    Personally I don´t consider me being a transman and me transitioning as "becoming a man".
    It is just about being more comfortable in my own male body.

    • @caelanoldacc
      @caelanoldacc 7 лет назад +3

      Kurt Hummel KURT where did you come from?! (lmao watching Kurt on Glee was 13 year old me first realised I was trans, but liked boys, and the first time I felt like that was okay)

    • @josephsdimension
      @josephsdimension 7 лет назад +13

      ratprince I feel like you just say that stuff to make yourself feel better, but you know the truth as I do. We were born female and transitioning is turning us into males. We do not have a naturally male body. You will feel much better when you stop lying to yourself

    • @josephsdimension
      @josephsdimension 7 лет назад +2

      ratprince Your body is male once you transition, yeah but not before. Lol

    • @Gwallgofrwydd
      @Gwallgofrwydd 7 лет назад +19

      Joseph White: Not your body, not your narrative. Mister Lol man.

    • @erin8635
      @erin8635 7 лет назад +2

      Beautiful words :)

  • @niamhdoyle928
    @niamhdoyle928 6 лет назад +1272

    His hair is goals

    • @xp8343
      @xp8343 6 лет назад +40

      Makeup Challenges She can't change her gender

    • @MakeupChallengescerys
      @MakeupChallengescerys 6 лет назад +60

      Xavier Parker well he isn’t changing his gender he’s changing his body. In his mind he always had male hormones but it was in the wrong body

    • @MakeupChallengescerys
      @MakeupChallengescerys 6 лет назад +52

      Xavier Parker tbh I just find it sad that there are people like you in the world

    • @xp8343
      @xp8343 6 лет назад +28

      Makeup Challenges That I know the facts? Her chromosomes are XX so she's a girl. It's impossible for people to transition just because they think they are something that's already made clear to them.

    • @last6373
      @last6373 6 лет назад +47

      Boy or girl... their hair is shit.

  • @natasharose3176
    @natasharose3176 7 лет назад +58

    That pug though omg so cute

  • @coxythejoker4375
    @coxythejoker4375 6 лет назад +74

    U know what at first i didnt really understand n i thought trans people wasent thinkin straight but atchally fair play to leo u can fully tell this young man was always a boy . U have opend my eyes mate ❤💚strong little lad

    • @michelledawson566
      @michelledawson566 5 лет назад +4

      COXYTHEJOKER I understood what he was talking about, I am not transgender but I am gay and have had some negative people around me,so I thank lgbt community for doing a story about this topic and Leo you’re on great man 💕🌈🇦🇺x

  • @rebecca8836
    @rebecca8836 6 лет назад +141

    “I chucked my ukulele at you” relatable

  • @blainecrowley1134
    @blainecrowley1134 6 лет назад +92

    2:42
    “My body will finally match my brain, which is all I ever wanted”
    Why is that so hard for transphobes to get?

    • @Tmasia1
      @Tmasia1 5 лет назад +7

      Exactly...It's hard for them to get because they aren't trans and they think of sex reassignment as mutilation because they think of what it would be like for their genitals to be altered and can't think past their own discomfort at the idea of it and can't understand why it would be different for anyone else.

    • @AndrewFloeter12
      @AndrewFloeter12 5 лет назад +9

      I think some people just have questions and are skeptical, which there is nothing wrong with. Automatically labeling someone with a differing viewpoint as being transphobic is absurd, and it also doesn’t address the questions and concerns brought up by people who aren’t as supportive of the movement. Also just because someone isn’t “trans” doesn’t mean they are incapable of having some level of understanding of what the person might be going through from a mental standpoint. Labeling people and being closed mind isn’t a good solution, and is also hypocritical.

    • @khammond2295
      @khammond2295 4 года назад +2

      I agree with Andrew. Just because people don't understand it doesn't make them transphobic, and you're the one now pointing fingers, labeling, and being negative. Very hypocritical of you. Not everyone will always understand everything even you. It's not the 'norm' and that's a fact.

    • @sergeykorostelev7510
      @sergeykorostelev7510 2 месяца назад

      If you think you are a horse, you may grow a fake tail, wear horseshoes, eat grass, but you won't become a horse just because "you want so" until you can't produce hormones and have a real penis, you will be a strange girl who take hormones, spoiling the health, just face it

  • @BBDOT
    @BBDOT 6 лет назад +64

    Leo is so lucky that the tavistock has been good with him. They have been nothing but shit to me.

    • @SynergyCeleste
      @SynergyCeleste 5 лет назад +3

      You should do some research on Tavistock.... They are NOT what they seem!

    • @bruisedviolets
      @bruisedviolets 3 года назад +5

      @@SynergyCeleste what do u mean

    • @GlenFleetham
      @GlenFleetham 3 месяца назад

      @@SynergyCelesteI mean name me one time in human history when people actually believe that women can be men

  • @love2commentlove
    @love2commentlove 6 лет назад +7

    He’s so confident and comfortable in himself. The way he talks and holds himself is very proud, a strong boy, who deserves to be able to be who he truly is, a kind hearted man.

  • @craptap2029
    @craptap2029 7 лет назад +9

    He was on my life. I remember how much that episode touched everyone at school

  • @Andrew-fn3oc
    @Andrew-fn3oc 6 лет назад +75

    I love this video, the only thing I don’t like, is the title. He’s not becoming a trans man, he IS a trans man

    • @seanajamy4482
      @seanajamy4482 5 лет назад

      No he is a man

    • @randommess6667
      @randommess6667 5 лет назад

      @@seanajamy4482 I think it is as i seen people calling themselves trans

    • @ihaveleftthisaccount3710
      @ihaveleftthisaccount3710 5 лет назад +1

      @@randommess6667
      No. I don't know why people would call themself trans man instead of man because trans is just a word to explain you are not the same sex as gender but you are a man if you want to be a man.

    • @randommess6667
      @randommess6667 5 лет назад

      @@ihaveleftthisaccount3710 no offence I just think they must call themselves trans man because its honest because they are a man in they're eyes but they know they werent born into male body

    • @ihaveleftthisaccount3710
      @ihaveleftthisaccount3710 5 лет назад +1

      @@randommess6667
      The point of transitioning is being physically who you want to be. I guess they can do what they want but labelling other people that is out of the quesriob

  • @emme2141
    @emme2141 5 лет назад +15

    I genuinly didn’t understand trans issues before this, and honestly I was quite skeptical. I’m still not completely sure, but this video has definitely helped explain it to me, and helped me to understand it better, thank you for posting it

    • @pukemich4818
      @pukemich4818 3 года назад +1

      More people like you pls ❤️💖

    • @millielawrenson4134
      @millielawrenson4134 3 года назад +1

      Thank you for being open minded and listening to others experience that is a great value

  • @lucasgreenford5276
    @lucasgreenford5276 7 лет назад +24

    Leo is my inspiration. I watched the my life episode when it aired on cbbc when I was younger and that's what made me realise that I'm trans. I didn't know what a transgender person was but one of my strongest memories from when I was really young in primary school ( I think I was in year 1/2) was when I said to my best friend that "I really really really want to be a boy" and she said back "I think you can be a boy if you want" and I said "yes I do". When I came out to her in year 7 she said "I kind of already knew, I mean remember what you said to me in primary school". She is still my best friend and is so supportive of me. In year 8 I decided I wanted to be called Lucas in school and started telling everyone, and that went on for about a week with everyone except teachers calling me Lucas. Then people started asking me personal questions that I felt really awkward answering. I told them what I could without giving anything too personal, but then just gave up. I'm now in year 9 going into year 10 and I really want to be known as Lucas and he, but I just don't have the guts to say to my parents that I want to go to the gic and change my name, even though they know I'm trans.

  • @cymophanous8193
    @cymophanous8193 7 лет назад +490

    wonderful! there is a huge focus on MTF but not FTM ... thanks!

    • @kevinsundelin8639
      @kevinsundelin8639 7 лет назад

      cymophanous I am confused?

    • @MixiBerri
      @MixiBerri 7 лет назад +30

      Morgana Sundelin she means it's so common to see males becoming females but not females becoming males

    • @personwhoisdead5649
      @personwhoisdead5649 7 лет назад

      cymophanous
      IKR

    • @zobeans
      @zobeans 7 лет назад +58

      I feel it's the other way around

    • @thedukeofweasels6870
      @thedukeofweasels6870 7 лет назад +20

      sadly the media talks more about trans women then trans men because it's easier to sensationalize/sexuallize the topic and paint them as monsters. This sucks for trans women because of the hate they get but it also sort of sucks for trans men because a lot of people don't even realize we exist. Trans women have an easier time establishing that they're trans women, even though they're more likely to get hate for it. Trans men are often shoved in the "Tomboy" or "Butch lesbian" category and dismissed all together. This stems from the fact that it seems cool and socially acceptable for "women" to act masculine. But when "men" act feminine they're often ostracized for it. many trans men are told that they can be who they are while still being women which is confusing and damaging because they're not women at all but they're still get forced into that identity! Trans women are often insulted for not being manly enough but at least this gives them the freedom to reject that "man" identity completely. Of course I understand as a trans man I'm talking from a place of privilege, trans women definitely have it way worse and my heart goes out to their struggles, I'm just making a separate point.
      The good news is because mainstream media is not the only source of information anymore and many people take entertainment and news into their own hands through the use of the internet things are getting better. It may be slow going but at least it's going. As transgender individuals all we can do is keep spreading in-depth and diverse stories to portray an honest accurate view of the community and I'm sure in time things will get even better!

  • @kaylaferguson9290
    @kaylaferguson9290 6 лет назад +29

    Omg the fathers growth as a person to accept his son is beautiful

    • @aaronandelise
      @aaronandelise 4 года назад

      I think the dad took drugs also, so he could change.

  • @isaacsinclair4290
    @isaacsinclair4290 7 лет назад +11

    I remember this boy. In 2010/2011 sort of time there was a program on the BBC about different kinds of people. I remember seeing him (or if not him then someone similar) talking on the TV. That person was the first trans person I ever heard about. That program really affected my life, so i'd just like to say thank you.

    • @rosieday158
      @rosieday158 6 лет назад

      It's Ya Boi Isaac wasnt it called something like My Life? I remember it toooooo

    • @DanielCowell-z8c
      @DanielCowell-z8c 2 дня назад

      @@rosieday158it was I am Leo from My Life in 2014 :]

  • @vickis3399
    @vickis3399 7 лет назад +160

    wow his eyes and hair. can't look away lol

  • @lfroggyl8936
    @lfroggyl8936 7 лет назад +1

    my tutor teacher showed us this in class.
    i was thrilled as i’m transgender (ftm) and barely out to many people.
    she’d shown the class after is written poetry about being trans in english and i’m happy this video opened some people’s eyes in my class.
    thankyou.

  • @user-us1yu8gx9s
    @user-us1yu8gx9s 7 лет назад +74

    I find it so odd how much people make this huge deal over having kids. "to make the decision, if he wants to have children who biologically his own" like? why is adoption such a frowned upon option? its probably even a better option considering how overpopulated the earth is. why do people have such a deep concern or attachment to even other people having their "biological" kids? so strange to me

    • @rowan9456
      @rowan9456 6 лет назад +10

      Definitely agree, I want to adopt and don't really get the fuss over children being blood related. Like yeah, it's cool to see what your genes can create, but I mean my pets aren't related to me but I love them to death, so it doesn't matter that much. However, adopting is going to be hard for me, since in my country there's really only adoption from other countries and being trans myself, those countries might object to a trans person adopting a kid. Adding to that the fact that I'm bi, so I may be in a homosexual relationship by then, which makes it quite hard as well. So it's still a big decision to medically transition and basically become sterile.

    • @coralrain6332
      @coralrain6332 6 лет назад

      His parent can still conceive so he’s not going to miss out on fatherhood

    • @jazz3799
      @jazz3799 6 лет назад +1

      Being biologicallly related is important to some people, not me in particular, but for some. Also, in the US it’s difficult for anyone in the LGBTQ community to adopt a child, so there’s no guarantee that you can actually have the opportunity to raise a child that isn’t biologically yours

    • @louisebrown103
      @louisebrown103 5 лет назад

      He might adopt the option is always there

  • @fullup91
    @fullup91 7 лет назад +211

    as a cis man I am so proud of Leo's father for being there for his little man.

    • @corypowercat7277
      @corypowercat7277 6 лет назад +10

      You are a rare breed man. Wish there are more like you.

    • @jeremylee5990
      @jeremylee5990 6 лет назад +8

      Living a synthetic life meant to deceive mostly herself. Children aren’t born hating their sexed bodies. Teens are being encouraged to freeze their sense of self in a moment in time, during the period of life when everything is in flux. And even though key researchers have said over and over again that most gender dysphoric kids “desist” and grow up to be gay or lesbian; even though the latest research denies any such thing as a “male” or “female” brain, parents are encouraged to socially transition their kids, put them on “puberty blockers,” and refer to them by “preferred pronouns.”

    • @AndrogynousMIE
      @AndrogynousMIE 6 лет назад +5

      @@jeremylee5990 The only positive thing is they become infertile by mutilating their own genitals. They will never have offspring. Herbert Spencer : the survival of the fittest.

    • @ColbertSmith
      @ColbertSmith 5 лет назад +3

      @@AndrogynousMIE You think trans people only come from trans parents? Like they're another species? Wow I knew you were stupid but this is far beyond.

    • @ColbertSmith
      @ColbertSmith 5 лет назад +2

      @@AndrogynousMIE 1. What does gratefulness have to do with anything?
      2. What does the family line have to do with anything?
      3. Are you assuming trans people don't have brothers, sisters, or cousins to continue on this precious family line?
      4. Trans people are perfectly capable of reproducing. Again, they're not another species. Even if you have surgery they ask you first if you want to freeze your sperm/eggs for IVF later. Trans people are just as likely to be biological parents as anyone else. THIS WAS LITERALLY PART OF THE DOCUMENTARY.
      You should really stop talking, you make yourself sound more retarded every time you post.

  • @brandiva96
    @brandiva96 5 лет назад +24

    Being transgender is very hard on the person going through it but I feel sometimes the parents are overlooked on how life changing it is for them also.

  • @didyoujust7810
    @didyoujust7810 7 лет назад +47

    The title is a bit weird, you don't become a trans man, you just become more comfortable with your body. Good little documentary though. I'm glad Leo realised whilst he was young, makes it so much easier and now he won't have to have major surgery for his chest hopefully.
    I am a transman too, been on testosterone for 2 years. :)

    • @XxALRxX1995
      @XxALRxX1995 6 лет назад

      I think because he is a boy when it starts and it is about his journey through puberty

  • @l0serk1d49
    @l0serk1d49 7 лет назад +478

    Anyone else a closeted trans guy??

    • @lsp8431
      @lsp8431 6 лет назад +55

      Panic!AtUrielectricWithRyden CauseRydenIsReal: closeted trans girl... With extremely transphobic parents. My dad would probably become abusive if I came out, and my mom would never talk to me again. 💔

    • @gracewaterlilly8023
      @gracewaterlilly8023 6 лет назад +22

      Panic!AtUrielectricWithRyden CauseRydenIsReal I am not, but I hope the future for you will be better and you can show the whole world what a handsome man you are on the outside that you are on the inside already, keep it up man

    • @gracewaterlilly8023
      @gracewaterlilly8023 6 лет назад +14

      L S P I am so sorry to hear that, I hope one day you can be the lady to all the world that you already now you are, lots of love❤

    • @l0serk1d49
      @l0serk1d49 6 лет назад +5

      GraceWaterlilly Awh thankyou so much lotta love ❤️

    • @itismeandilikepotatoes.4199
      @itismeandilikepotatoes.4199 6 лет назад +2

      here

  • @edgebeverage3245
    @edgebeverage3245 6 лет назад +25

    I think I’m going to send this to my mum for her and Dad to watch one night. They’re really supportive but honestly they don’t know enough about the physical transistion because they’re scared of it. They’re not aware of how much it’ll impact my life one day.
    This is a perfect video to send, thank you.❤️

    • @finnproyo3929
      @finnproyo3929 5 лет назад

      edgebeverage OMG ITS EJ

    • @ishaaqahmed8250
      @ishaaqahmed8250 Год назад

      Your probably going to get depressed when you realize that you will always be seen as the gender you were born with

  • @j444ime4
    @j444ime4 7 лет назад +72

    I don't know why people bother commenting things like "she was born female and just has to deal with it" there is no point in commenting this. You aren't going to stop him from being trans and being who he truly is.

    • @almari7412
      @almari7412 5 лет назад +4

      But u can't ignore the fact he was born female taking testosterone and being transgender isn't gonna change ur chromosomes

    • @mtsw2570
      @mtsw2570 5 лет назад

      @@almari7412 yea it won't changes his chromosomes but u can't just look at someone and tell "he has xy chromosomes" etc.

    • @almari7412
      @almari7412 5 лет назад

      @@mtsw2570 yeah yeah I know your absolutely right no one else will know he has xx chromosomes but only he and the people around him will know that's what I'm saying it's never gonna just go away unfortunately

    • @mtsw2570
      @mtsw2570 5 лет назад

      @@almari7412 yea :c medicine isn't that far to change Trans ppl's chromosones unfortunately

  • @la120899
    @la120899 7 лет назад +141

    Why the hell is there always such emphasis on biological children? More and more adults are deciding not to have children. People spend hundreds of thousands of dollars to have biological children. I don't understand why not adopt or fostercare. People act like if you can't have children biologically that there is no other way you'll have children. Sorry for my little rant I just hate how everyone acts like biological children are the only legitimate children.

    • @ummmforgetnames8052
      @ummmforgetnames8052 7 лет назад +18

      exactly, plenty of children need homes. I choose to adopt well before I knew I was trans. I think some people are just upset they can't have them if they wanted.

    • @sydneysoleil8647
      @sydneysoleil8647 7 лет назад +17

      Of course it's not the only way to have children, but a lot of people want biological children and that's totally ok and their decision to make.

    • @la120899
      @la120899 7 лет назад +1

      Soleil Yea totally

    • @britishwildlife6957
      @britishwildlife6957 7 лет назад +5

      Because many people want to have children that are related to them.

    • @WatchHeadsRoll
      @WatchHeadsRoll 7 лет назад +9

      Lauren
      The adoption process can be extremely vigorous, especially in the UK. It's simply not practical.
      It takes some adopters YEARS to call a foster child their own. Not to mention, once the child is above the age of about 4 or 5, there's going to be serious psychological issues with abandonment, and adapting to a new home and family.
      And finally, as much as we want to suppress it, humans are animals. We reproduce to pass on our genes, and in most people, it's almost innate to want a biological child of their own. A miniature version of themselves. No amount of societal civility will suppress our natural urge to reproduce.

  • @headoverheels80
    @headoverheels80 6 лет назад +10

    i remember him on my life like 4 yrs ago and here he is now! so proud of him!

    • @pearlkelly6337
      @pearlkelly6337 Год назад +1

      i found him on facebook an he looks really happy and he is engaged as well

  • @ddubfan
    @ddubfan 6 лет назад +5

    Leo's dad made me cry. What a beautiful man he is! It's not easy for his generation to accept anything "out of the norm" but his dad is like YEPPPP 💜💙

  • @chi9100
    @chi9100 6 лет назад +22

    is anyone else going to talk about how the pic at 13:03 looks nothing like the guy that shows up

    • @MadMax-fg4cc
      @MadMax-fg4cc 5 лет назад +2

      Testosterone can completely change the way you look. It's probably an old photo

    • @aaronandelise
      @aaronandelise 4 года назад +1

      Airbrushed. You know, for tinder or something.

  • @sheepishcactus9451
    @sheepishcactus9451 5 лет назад +7

    The fact that he is 15 and im 14 really is a huge encouragement for me to keep working at being able to transitioning. Leaving the house at 18 becuase my parents are just not supportive so i need to move, convince my bro to come with me cause hes been the most supportive person ever, and clearly go to a gender clinic to get testosterone , and you know get top surgery.
    My name is Damien Grey not whatever name my parents gave me
    Thanks for reading btw :)

    • @shellyjennings9305
      @shellyjennings9305 5 лет назад

      Hello Damien, I’m a trans guy too, I wish you luck in your transitioning and hope you find some support (:

    • @randommess6667
      @randommess6667 5 лет назад

      I dont know anyone whos trans or know a whole lot about the issues but I dont understand why parents would not be supportive to their own child , That seems so wrong , Id say go low contact with them

    • @ryanlake5299
      @ryanlake5299 3 года назад

      Damien i am happy that you are a trans man

  • @ophookie
    @ophookie 7 лет назад +10

    i remember seeing Leo on CBBC a while back. it was my introduction to the lgbtq+ community. i now have gay and transgender friends for life. they're my world.
    Never mess with dysphoria and dont hate on people for it if you haven't experienced it. not everything is so simple.

  • @beckymoore8162
    @beckymoore8162 7 лет назад +354

    What amazing parents

    • @jailos10
      @jailos10 7 лет назад +11

      Becky Moore what awful parents

    • @yeetyeet3726
      @yeetyeet3726 7 лет назад +19

      Mourinho The bus driver can you not?

    • @lartinmuther183
      @lartinmuther183 7 лет назад +8

      What's amazing about this? Nothing but fucked up...

    • @custommade90
      @custommade90 6 лет назад +6

      Child abusers.

    • @spanner4778
      @spanner4778 6 лет назад +3

      Yeet Yeet it is very fucked up

  • @ITSN0TJAMES764
    @ITSN0TJAMES764 6 лет назад +5

    I’ve been on the verge of tears for this entire video because I’m just so happy for him & I know that will be me one day aaa

    • @chubloons7960
      @chubloons7960 6 лет назад

      Jay Cast I know right it’s like it’s so cute when I have to pay for a girl that want to be a guy freeze eggs and everything

    • @ITSN0TJAMES764
      @ITSN0TJAMES764 6 лет назад

      clypt i’m going private and paying for everything myself so shut ur mouth

    • @eddieworkman5855
      @eddieworkman5855 Год назад

      some people only get sex changes because thier gay and want to be straight

  • @mimi-dy8uc
    @mimi-dy8uc 7 лет назад +110

    shit that's a cute puppy

    • @cautiouscoconut2327
      @cautiouscoconut2327 7 лет назад +2

      miriam stenlund is that what you took from that? 😂

    • @mimi-dy8uc
      @mimi-dy8uc 7 лет назад +3

      Kawaii _waterbottle what else could i possibly take from that?

    • @bricoley
      @bricoley 7 лет назад +1

      miriam stenlund right!!

  • @mrpickles680
    @mrpickles680 7 лет назад +7

    I love the family. So supporting towards Leo. This must be so challenging. So fortunate to live in the UK and have the NHS. Lovely program.

    • @tvesoveso6576
      @tvesoveso6576 6 лет назад

      Aaron hughes eseperlisa théâtre congolesa0
      ma p z8

  • @emmakelly2153
    @emmakelly2153 6 лет назад +5

    I remember seeing a program on him when he was younger and that was my first insight into trans people so it’s so interesting to see where he is now

  • @shaunawhitcombe7831
    @shaunawhitcombe7831 7 лет назад +368

    HE LOOKS LIKE LARS FROM STEVEN UNIVERSE

    • @MrVoid666
      @MrVoid666 7 лет назад +19

      *breathes in, ''what ever colour lars chooses next im sure will be lovley'' also lars is trans head cannon comfirmed

    • @user-lo4nv4es4u
      @user-lo4nv4es4u 7 лет назад +3

      gicady rude

    • @psychi1465
      @psychi1465 7 лет назад +11

      sadie and lars fusion.

    • @hvids1598
      @hvids1598 7 лет назад +1

      THATS EXACTLY WHAT I THOUGHT!

    • @lilywhite6694
      @lilywhite6694 7 лет назад +1

      Louie OMG

  • @acem.6221
    @acem.6221 7 лет назад +77

    I can't be the only one who thinks he's fucking adorable with the dimples and curly hair.

    • @b115-v9q
      @b115-v9q 7 лет назад +1

      she

    • @discranola
      @discranola 7 лет назад +9

      hey uhhh fuck off hes a boy

    • @b115-v9q
      @b115-v9q 7 лет назад +6

      +ShadowThePikachu
      face reality she is a butch lesbian

    • @katecook512
      @katecook512 7 лет назад +2

      b11 5 face reality, he has testosterone so he is a boy

    • @b115-v9q
      @b115-v9q 7 лет назад +3

      +Kate Cook
      no matter how much testosterone she has she will always be a women

  • @Amberinesophina
    @Amberinesophina 5 лет назад +6

    Not really relevant to the video but can we all just appreciate how cute this dog is at 2:19

  • @bluz191
    @bluz191 4 года назад +2

    i wish my dad was actually proud of me when i started t and got top surgery. i’m approaching one year on t in two weeks and 11 months post op in a few days and he’s never told me once that he was proud of how far i’ve come with my transition, it’s nice leo has supportive parents :)

  • @ElanTee
    @ElanTee 6 лет назад +20

    The family are so lovely. Credit to them for supporting Leo all the way.

    • @michelledawson566
      @michelledawson566 5 лет назад

      Elan2017 Tee family is what he needs so he is very lucky,the family and Leo are a beautiful family 💕🌈🇦🇺x

  • @88infinitys
    @88infinitys 6 лет назад +138

    That's my boy ay. Thousands of us support you man.

    • @wownointhisworld3871
      @wownointhisworld3871 6 лет назад +4

      Shit world.Shame of the parents.Is better not to give a life then destroy a new generation.It always will be girl don’t shit yourself of becoming man.Evilish world.End is near .I pray for this generation salvation .

    • @jessp4164
      @jessp4164 6 лет назад +6

      @@wownointhisworld3871 HE IT'S A HE! You are evil! Disgusting!

    • @staedg
      @staedg 6 лет назад

      He killed himself. As sad as it is .. www.google.co.uk/amp/s/www.thesun.co.uk/news/4366251/transgender-boy-15-killed-himself-after-struggling-with-his-identity-since-the-age-of-eight/amp/

    • @guysatonachair4721
      @guysatonachair4721 6 лет назад +8

      @@staedg No he didn't his isn't the Leo from the video (their last names and looks are different), however it is still sad that this happened to them.

    • @heysheepdog
      @heysheepdog 5 лет назад +4

      Ernesta Karpaite different person, and he killed himself because his school refused to use a name he was comfortable with.

  • @DarkSuperNinja
    @DarkSuperNinja 7 лет назад +46

    ITS THE KID FROM "MY LIFE"! :O HE'S GROWN SO MUCH! :D

  • @melon_slice7387
    @melon_slice7387 6 лет назад +150

    does he have Instagram or anything? really want to know how he's doing now

    • @Anzuri
      @Anzuri 5 лет назад +13

      He passed away

    • @shorne03
      @shorne03 5 лет назад +17

      Alexanax no he didn’t

    • @jamie.m17
      @jamie.m17 5 лет назад +63

      @@Anzuri don't spread rumours like that, it's not nice

    • @AndrogynousMIE
      @AndrogynousMIE 5 лет назад +7

      @@jamie.m17 Yes , she died.

    • @greysc4leey
      @greysc4leey 5 лет назад +12

      @@Anzuri if your telling the truth where are your sources

  • @michaelarcher4806
    @michaelarcher4806 5 лет назад +6

    I was brought up Christian and was taught that it was wrong to be gay or transgender, but how can that be wrong if it feels right TO YOU! Congrats Leo and I hope all goes well💯

  • @ChrisK-vs4ed
    @ChrisK-vs4ed 5 лет назад +9

    I start hormones in 2 weeks and am so excited to go through the transformation myself. I hope Leo is living his best life.

    • @AtlantisTheLostEmpire
      @AtlantisTheLostEmpire 5 лет назад +2

      Why not accept yourself the way you are?

    • @The_Food_Police
      @The_Food_Police 5 лет назад +3

      Don't chemically castrate yourself. It's very dangerous to the heath

    • @albedougnut
      @albedougnut 4 года назад +4

      @@AtlantisTheLostEmpire They are accepting themselves for who they are, not what they are. You are the one not accepting them for who they are.

    • @albedougnut
      @albedougnut 4 года назад +3

      @@AtlantisTheLostEmpire Yeah, no one is denying that he is biologically female. But ultimately, sex does not dictate gender, even if they correlate. Pronouns are not a biological constant, and they are used socially to refer to one's gender, rather than their sex.

    • @rodentia1474
      @rodentia1474 4 года назад +1

      Atlantis because that’s not how they are? They can’t help it

  • @GyngerBiist
    @GyngerBiist 6 лет назад +5

    this is so sweeeeet. Also do what makes you feel best and f the rest! Wear binders safely! this was rlly touching, and being gender questioning seeing more representation and education via the media has helped so many people and i.

  • @herb8618
    @herb8618 6 лет назад +1

    15:36 the smile on the mothers face made me so happy.. unconditional love and open mindedness at its finest

  • @servicedoqqy75
    @servicedoqqy75 6 лет назад +6

    This is so sweet :)
    I’m so happy for him, I hope he’s doing well
    (And his hair is just 👌 AMAZING)

  • @xtylerrx8483
    @xtylerrx8483 6 лет назад +23

    I really want to find his Instagram or find another update on him to see how he’s doing now with the testosterone and to see if he’s more happy with himself

  • @sheighpullen3747
    @sheighpullen3747 6 лет назад +29

    They have a grumble in their house 😍😍 (group of pugs)

  • @mousekander2232
    @mousekander2232 5 лет назад +6

    What an amazing and intelligent young man. His parents must be so proud of him

  • @emmacraig7430
    @emmacraig7430 6 лет назад +3

    Aww Im so glad he is happy now! He is so understanding of people being slow to understanding this. So mature

  • @corpse3162
    @corpse3162 6 лет назад

    I watched a doccumentry about leo when i was young on cbbc, it totally changed my perspective on the world, i never knew things like that existed,its never been taught in school, there needs to be more stuff like this in the world

  • @izzyduffy760
    @izzyduffy760 7 лет назад +564

    You don't 'become', you are

    • @DarkSuperNinja
      @DarkSuperNinja 7 лет назад +42

      The fact that he's "Becoming a trans man" may be referring to the physical transition, maybe?
      As a trans man, that's how I see it anyways! ;)

    • @izzyduffy760
      @izzyduffy760 7 лет назад +1

      __ yeah, I can see that, I just thought it was a bit iffy 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @hahanein2020
      @hahanein2020 7 лет назад +8

      I think it is meant to emphasise that he's no longer a trans boy on hormone blockers, but is officially becoming a man. I agree with you anyway though!

    • @33XxJaninexX33
      @33XxJaninexX33 7 лет назад

      Exactly C:

    • @user-us1yu8gx9s
      @user-us1yu8gx9s 7 лет назад +9

      documenting the journey into fully becoming who you are on the outside too. I mean if you "are" then you'd never ever change. and Leo here is changing.

  • @GingerGlen
    @GingerGlen 6 лет назад +19

    I'm starting my journey soon! The 14 month waiting list is a killer tho 😫😂

    • @mabsmovies2430
      @mabsmovies2430 6 лет назад +3

      Ginger Glen it takes long , I’m going next week so excited wish u the best brother

    • @GingerGlen
      @GingerGlen 6 лет назад +1

      Mabsky thanks and good luck to you 👌👌👏

    • @Okay-vz3qw
      @Okay-vz3qw 5 лет назад +3

      Ew

    • @boisucc4524
      @boisucc4524 5 лет назад +5

      @@Okay-vz3qw go away bigot

    • @shivanraj007
      @shivanraj007 3 года назад

      @@boisucc4524 get lost brain ded kiddo

  • @lauraclegg794
    @lauraclegg794 5 лет назад +2

    I hope you see this Leo, I think you are a very brave young man. I'd be proud to call you my son, like your Mum is. I have a lot of respect for your Mum allowing you & supporting you to be fully yourself. Good on your Dad for changing his views. Keep being you, you are helping to normalise a situation that could happen to anyone xx

    • @legorahma
      @legorahma 4 года назад +2

      @Gary Lee nobody cares man, trans people are gonna continue transitioning and you're gonna stay mad on the internet about it, get a life.

  • @gasca4906
    @gasca4906 7 лет назад +72

    I hate it when people try to say "oh she - I mean he wants to be a boy" like, I already am...

  • @job5236
    @job5236 5 лет назад +7

    How cute is that Mum, making DOG towels at her work, then getting a PUG cake for Leo's 16th!!

  • @letswrithe
    @letswrithe 6 лет назад +1

    7:20 “i chucked my ukulele at you” lmao that’s the best thing i’ve heard all day oml

  • @PrincessofKeys
    @PrincessofKeys 7 лет назад +11

    I get so confused with all of this😯
    But I will always support people who want to go through the changes

  • @444eywa
    @444eywa 6 лет назад +3

    21:10 I was waiting for the mom to hug him. I'm glad im in the right body 💖 and I feel so bad who is ever going through this

  • @ajkingi
    @ajkingi 25 дней назад

    wow Leo has a beautiful family, the support he has is amazing. Is there another series of Leo plz????????
    Much love and all the best Leo

  • @lawyerdoctor
    @lawyerdoctor 7 лет назад +8

    Leo's dad made a very good comment, it was him that had to change and he was thankful that he did. Every day I am thankful I was born into a body that I recognize and feel confident being in, the people that have to go through transition surgeries are amazingly strong and I look up to them for being dedicated to becoming the person who they know they are despite societies rejection of them simply trying to be themselves.

  • @riplilhgz
    @riplilhgz 6 лет назад +13

    *His eyes are beautiful*
    Also i'm going to london's clinic in a couple of weeks too.
    And my dad was too against it but he's slowly coming around (ps: i am a boy, "Girl body")

  • @heyjudehowareyou3799
    @heyjudehowareyou3799 5 лет назад +2

    I'm here because recently a friend of mine who i love so much came out as a trans guy and I'm trying to understand what he is going through. Don't be afraid to come out to your friends, if they really love you, they'll support you, and if they don't do it... They were never your friends

    • @sheepishcactus9451
      @sheepishcactus9451 5 лет назад +2

      Basically its like you wake up and your suddenly in the wrong and which your metality slowly starts to hate your own body becoming suicidal because well its like your body becoming somebody that isnt you
      But you want it to be you not that person so you want to medically transition

  • @wolfzmusic9706
    @wolfzmusic9706 5 лет назад +18

    LEO DID NOT COMMIT SUICIDE. THAT WAS ANOTHER LEO.

  • @MissVanSam
    @MissVanSam 3 года назад +3

    I love this story. I love to watch it over and over. My parents where never supportive of me......and Leo has such lovely caring people and family around. The kind I never had. Good for you Leo. Mutch love from the Netherlands 💕🇳🇱

  • @Pixie1695
    @Pixie1695 6 лет назад +2

    So amazing hearing his father's journey to understanding and acceptance. Bravo, to these amazing parents and their amazing son. ❤

  • @user-pe8uk4mi8y
    @user-pe8uk4mi8y 6 лет назад +3

    Leo deserves all the love in the world! I'm so happy that he's so happy!😚❤❤😊

  • @belencita9526
    @belencita9526 7 лет назад +17

    holy crap, trans people have it so tough. i couldn't imagine how hard all these decisions are especially at such a young age...best wishes to leo!

  • @kaiparkinson1113
    @kaiparkinson1113 4 года назад +1

    I remember seeing this on TV and it just clicked and I am so thankful that I saw this

  • @Arthur-yf9yv
    @Arthur-yf9yv 5 лет назад +13

    You get a bigger nose?
    Mine looks like half a pear drop glued to my face. I'll be glad of that.

    • @aaronandelise
      @aaronandelise 4 года назад +1

      Bigger ears too, oh and lots and lots of ZITS. Hormones also give you brittle bones, so osteoporosis (hunch back) within 20 years.

  • @Rachelmac29
    @Rachelmac29 7 лет назад +6

    Beautiful family and young man. Would love to see an update eventually!

  • @TheBambam2371
    @TheBambam2371 5 лет назад +1

    Praying for Leo, his family and friends. I hope all goes well for them. God bless them.

  • @theRebelRP
    @theRebelRP 7 лет назад +24

    so, right off the bat, it is a reversable decision, somethings like bottom growth, adams apple, and some other changes are not reversible, but if he was to decide he wanted to detransition he could.

    • @saltydinonuggies1841
      @saltydinonuggies1841 5 лет назад +1

      Actually some of the changes around your genitals can be reversible. Obviously that's not 100%, but it is possible.
      The voice change is the biggest one I've seen that's irreversible. Most trans guys don't get an Adams apple from going on hrt unless they start it really early or go on blockers.
      I'm not a doctor or gender therapist or anything, but I am a transguy who has been given this information from doctors. If any of it is wrong feel free to correct me!

    • @On_the_Virgil05
      @On_the_Virgil05 5 лет назад +1

      I don't understand those who detransition, but then again, I'm a trans male with no intention to detransition sooo

  • @kitemett
    @kitemett 7 лет назад +22

    WOW, what a brave soul! And to have a girlfriend! What a dude, welcome to the team.

  • @marthag3537
    @marthag3537 5 лет назад +1

    I love this family so much, wish more people in the UK were like this. This bit actually made me tear up 18:00

    • @marthag3537
      @marthag3537 5 лет назад

      @Bonidee Lee ruclips.net/video/MitqjSYtwrQ/видео.html

    • @marthag3537
      @marthag3537 5 лет назад

      @Bonidee Lee ruclips.net/video/stUl_OapUso/видео.html

  • @claudiamariebermudez6727
    @claudiamariebermudez6727 6 лет назад +3

    Its nice to see he has a loving and supportive family.

  • @cardinnairn6345
    @cardinnairn6345 7 лет назад +194

    354 days until I can legally start hormones

  • @daisyNSNloveway
    @daisyNSNloveway 6 лет назад

    i love his attitude towards everything, and how comfortable he is, like im just so happy watching this

  • @OleoBlog
    @OleoBlog 7 лет назад +64

    I've been asked by the Tavistock many times about my eggs. I've decided I don't want to keep them, because that makes me biologically the mum. I don't want to be a mother because I am not a woman. I'm 16, and so desperate for Testosterone. Saving my eggs would just push my T date even further and I'd have to go for even more hospital appointments and medication, and after a life of hospitals, I really wouldn't want any more of that. Then thinking about who I could be with at the time. What if she wants biological kids? She might want her own kids, and to be the biological mum, and something like this could ruin the relationship. Also, what about the children from my eggs? How might they feel when they find out their dad is actually their mum, and what if they get bullied for it and feel abnormal? I'd hate for my children to feel like that. Anyway, I'm probably being silly, thinking about the feelings of children that don't even exist lmao, but I'd happily adopt. Or, if I do more research into it, perhaps go down the IVF route.

    • @memeulous3401
      @memeulous3401 6 лет назад +3

      OleoBlog a man with a fanny LOL

    • @OleoBlog
      @OleoBlog 6 лет назад

      Memeulous Wagwan

    • @memeulous3401
      @memeulous3401 6 лет назад

      OleoBlog lads.

    • @leogayboy8977
      @leogayboy8977 6 лет назад +4

      Memeulous genitals dont matter

    • @1ninjatiger
      @1ninjatiger 6 лет назад +3

      oleophotos wouldnt make you biologically the Mum but it would make you biologically the PARENT and if youve transitioned the Father.