"It's Nkoka's mom, I know you're doing well, your mom is also doing well, but I miss you, mom miss you, your mom wants to come see you but she's busy with school, your mom must learn, study, write and pass, when the year ends you'll see me, I'll buy you juice, danone, and a bicycle, tell them to show you a bicycle, you will see when I return, mama loves you, but can not come back soon because she goes to school like you, mom's school is far, mom has to stay at school until she finishes then she'll come back to see Nkoka, Love you"
This story make me cry... My the lord continue to comfort you and your family.... May u keep on take gud care of your grandchild I'm very sorry for your loss
"7 years of studying to be a doctor and only practicing for two weeks" That brought tears to my eyes. This lady was driven and wanted the best life for her and her child, only for it to be snatched away by someone who also has 24hr in a day but chose to be a bum. Jealousy is what drove him to kill her.
As a father, I will not let my daughter date a boy who is doing nothing with his life yet my child is going to be a doctor. A boy like that will be easily threatened by his lady’s success and will want to control her and bring her down to his level. Parents must encourage their children to focus on studies and leave dating to after studies are over. It helped me and was the best decision I ever made for myself. Relationships distract you from achieving your goals especially if the person you are dating is not doing something productive with their life.
My dad and grandmother would tell me to start dating after I finished university and to only to focus on my studies and now I am grateful that they told me that. Now I am done and working a proper job.
@@bongiwezaca2721 He did the best he can but he could have done more. The problem is he accepted this boy very early and encouraged the relationship. This is why the boy lost respect for the father and even said that the father was interfering in the relationship with the girl. The boy had not even paid lobola or was working or studying. He was just a useless Mahlalela. The father should have very early discouraged the relationship very early and told the girl focus on his studies even if it meant taking tough actions. Being friends with your daughter’s boyfriend was very wrong,
As parents we wish it was that easy, but the more you try to stop it is the more they continue 😢. The best you can do is to advise and pray for your kids 💔🙏🏼🙏🏼
Yes, unfortunately. He impregnated her first hoping she will give up then he noticed she has a very supportive family well he tried to break that also.
Gents the moment you make peace with the fact that you own no one (yes, even your wife) and can control no one, is the day you will have emotional intelligence.
This realization liberates us from unrealistic expectations and fosters a healthier understanding of relationships. We learn to appreciate others for who they are, rather than seeking to mold them according to our desires.
He got her pregnant hoping she would have to drop out and be a bum like him and have her dreams shattered. But when that plan didnt work he was furious that her family supported her by taking care of their son and allowed her to continue with her studies. Thats why the abuse escalated after the son. He felt he now owned her. What a wicked animal. I hope his parents know they raised an animal
Sad story, she did not even see her 1st salary. The only doctor in a village killed by a bum (he probably did not even finish high school) 😢. This is painful.
I did only 3 years at Varsity, i also got my 1st job (internship) just 2 weeks after writing my final exam, i started working 3 months before the graduation ceremony so I relate with this girl on many levels, I got my 1st salary 2 weeks after i started working cos it was December & in December salaries are payed early. I wish she atleast got to feel & experience and taste her 1st salary cos I know from experience its the best feeling but that useless boy robbed her that opportunity. May she rest in peace
Parents out there teach your daughters not to ignore signs of abuse, teach your daughters that once a partner bullies you,even if they do not lay a hand on you, you leave such a person asap, because it is just a matter of time before the do the worst.
This honestly probably could’ve been me 😢 I’m also studying medicine & i also have a son with the person who felt threatened by me studying Medicine. Luckily i had to move away & i broke up with him over text. He still wants us to go back but i said no. I wanted to say people must date people in their league but even the educated ones can be monsters, and basically there’s no winning 😢💔
In this life, there are many choices but choosing a life partner is the greatest choice you can ever make in your lifetime. Many people who had great success are not here today because of the wrong choice of a partner. With so much exposure that we have to social media platforms like these, we ought to take heed of the trends and behaviors of the people we are dating to recognize the red flags and the possible outcomes. And if you really love your life you will baleka and I mean run with your life.
Mmmh guys do you know how hard medical school is , even for the brightest minds it’s a lot of work I remember visiting my sister at Cumpus and her roommate who was in med school would be pulling allnighters daily keeping her feet in a bucket so she doesn’t sleep and this was a daily thing , for her to get through it and even go through pregnancy in the process get to the end and not get to enjoy the fruits of her hard work is beyond heart breaking 💔💔💔💔🕊️🕊️🕊️
Pure jealously from a low life who did not even bother to develop himself…when someone does not take time to develop themselves in a relationship , please leave because they will always be spiteful of your success and bring you down…. Your reporting skills are top notch💫💫
I get you but as a man, I want to assure you that some of us are not that controlling. We actually adore and respect women. If it was me with a partner doing better than myself, I would work harder at something so I can also be able to provide. The woman did not deserve this. She loved him even though she was doing better than him.
This story is very close to home. The killer was my classmate in 2014 when doing matric in Muhluri Combinsd School , the guy had alot of anger issues little did we know that Shilumane was a ticking time bomb and he used to boost about dating a medical student in that year😢💔I still can't believe it even today😢
Then When he saw a threat of being left to be the nobody who he was…. He became an Animal.. even with him beating & controlling her it was to exercise his power…. So annoyed by this guy🤬
As a man, I want to assure you that some of us are not controlling. We actually adore and respect women. If it was me with a partner doing better than myself, I would work harder at something so I can also be able to provide. There are men out there with no degrees but have started successful businesses and are thriving. This guy is a total loser. Imagine a lady so kind as this even giving birth for you. He could have worked at something to provide for the child. The woman did not deserve this. She loved him even though she was doing better than him. The video of her talking to her son was heartwarming.
As a young black female who is also a Dr, this story was a little too close to home. I can only imagine how trapped ahe felt and thus could not leave him. He was very deliberate in impregnating her. What a heartbreaking end to this young lady's life. 😞
To someone who is useless in life.......ouch choice of words. This is a very sad story, I asked 2 of my boys, If your wife says he doesnt like you anymore what would you do. The youngest said I will take my gun and (showed hand shooting gesture) ........ he is 7! This left me shocked and this is not something he has seen or been exposed to so why is he thinking like this. Where am going with this is we need to work hard on teaching our male kids that violence is not only a solution but totally unacceptable.
The poor baby is the one that suffered the most. Imagine losing your mom in the hands of your father and he can't even raise you because he is behind bars. What a tragic incident. Poor baby 😢
This is so painful because it's like as women we can't win. We get frown upon for having high standards and choosing to date rich men, but then when we decide to date men with nothing, their egos almost always ruin things. You can't tell me that this man wasn't jealous of her. Him saying that he always had control of their relationship says volume. He really thought he hit the jackpot with her, which is why he probably decided to trap her with a kid. But because the father wanted better for his daughter and he knew she had more options than him, he decided to end her life. Typical narcissist. I feel so sorry for the kid who has to grow up with no parents, smh
I will never stop telling young ones never to tolerate abuse, NEVER! Forgive once, 2nd attempt RUN because your life matters. I blame us (the parent generation), we were brought up in times where a woman should be strong and take abuse and it was normalized. If one would dare to run away some parents would chase back the woman because it is normal to fight, have disagreements, be tolerant because running away was a sign of weakness. I told mine that a "an alive divorced child is better than a dead child" Dont abuse your ather half and NEVER tolerate abuse! on the other hand we may put everything in order but at the end of the day it's a personal decision that only the one entangled MUST make for themselves....RIP, kiddo. Strongz to the parent. Love from Namibia
Another case of a woman dating down. This is never a good idea. Women, don't marry or date down. Chances are, your partner silently resents you or is jealous of you. Be with a man who is doing well for himself. That's just nature and we cannot fight it. Men have an ego and women are naturally understanding. Therefore we put ourselves in these kind of situations where we love a man even though he's a bum. Just because we come from afar and we're high-school sweethearts. If she was busy with school, he was suppose to be doing something with his life as well. But instead, he was just chilling doing nothing. A man must be busy. He must be making means to provide. Because that's what we're doing as women today. We are working. We are busy. We are going to school and working. Come on ladies, do not date down.
Ladies, please be very careful, especially if you have plans to enter further education and embark on a professional career. Some men sniff out such women for the sole purpose of breaking her down or “humbling” her. They will deliberately get the woman pregnant just to make her path more difficult. They know exactly what they’re doing. They don’t love you, they are dèadly jealous of you. If he doesn’t unalive you, he will leave you to raise his children alone. This is nothing new. It’s been happening for centuries. Please stay safe and focus on your studies and future. Don’t allow society to condition you into thinking you need to be in a relationship ❤
Yes. I am 39, single and child-free. I thank God everyday that I never allowed myself to be pressured to breed or to get married. I always said I would do it if I met a healthy partner, but every man I dated was emotionally abusive so I would simply shrug and walk away pretty early on in the dating phase.
Aaargh man this is so sad!!! She had such a bright future ahead of her.. Also that video of her speaking to her son is bittersweet because as much as he will have a video of his mom forever, she never got the chance to do everything she said she is going to do because of his father💔💔
Yhoo after the devil fear men. How dare he say he felt Shongi’s father was interfering in their relationship. He had not even paid lobola. He did not try to make anything of his life now he goes and kills someone’s daughter. A true psycho. I hope he stays in jail for a lifetime and May her family find healing. Too sad
As a person in the same profession, I was very sad about this. Imagine completing medicine or any degree, parents and siblings being proud and then boom!!!then your life is cut short,
He definitely failed her 💔. He should have handled the matter more aggressively considering that we have a high GBV rate in this country. Yoh mina I wasnt going to sleep the day I find out that someone is abusing my daughter. I was going to do everything in my power to ensure that shes out of that manipulative boys life. Dad should have handled this man to man and deal with that boy. Unfortunately his calmness made him lose his princess
I love the fact that she was always in.touch with her dad...present fathers are everything❤. A real tragedy on how her life ended..imagine her son have ro live with this his whole life😢 i cabt even imagine the loss and pain her family and community feel.
What a sad story 😭😭😭😭My heart is torn into pieces.... Indeed we are leaving amongst evil 😭😭😭may her beautiful soul rest in peace.... I pray that monster rots in jail
Yho he is so cruel hay, to abuse and eventually kill someone he claimed to love and the mother of his child. She lost her life that she was fighting to better for her son, so unfair on both of them all because he was jealous of the fact she was making something with her life without him. May her soul RIP
This makes me so angry! Don't have a boyfriend from so young, esp. a useless bastard. Her poor family working hard to get her to pursue her talent. What a waste of life! My blood runs cold.
Eish. This story is so heart breaking man. Daaaamn. Imagine 7 years of sleepless nights only to have your life taken by a jealous and psychotic man with a life devoid of any direction and purpose. Fusek my guy. I repeat "FUSEK" 😢
There was another Dr I know ,also she was killed by her stupid boyfriend who was not working and doing nothing for his own life .she was also an intern and breadwinner 🥺.
She was my primary school friend. We had rekindled before she died. She sent me a picture of her son as we updating each other about life. The crazy thing about Shongi is that she was very strict. On boys and bullies. As sweet as she was, she would fight them if they tried to touch her or bully her. The friend we call “strong”. I still can’t believe that she’s gone. 😢 like yo Shongile Mara 😢. I wish ani switivile. Maybe, Antava niku pfunile like everyone I’ve been helping. Mbilu ya Mina ya vava
😭😭😭 yooh ngaze ngakhala that was really sad though i can imagine loosing a child when she was about to become a recognized doctor yazi if this young lady left him during her 4th year kungaze kube kanje cause the changes started masenomntwana
Falling in love these days here in SA is like digging your grave,especially if u fall in love with a wrong person. In most cases u will never know until it too late. Ladies be careful with the man you call your boyfriends or husband!!!!!!!!!
This was not suppose to have happened, sad, sad, sad! Once a partner bullies you and especially lay a hand on you, even if its once, you leave that person alone, they will kill you one day. Leave them, you have one life.
This is heartbreaking. I am literally in tears. Jealousy is witchcraft. People let's do the best with what GOD has blessed us with. Brains, 4 limbs ,time etc. We see people without hands using their lower limbs to perform all the chores. Sjoee no no no no this monster must stop blaming Shongi's father. What did he expect him to do.?? Come on man....
Since I discovered this channel I've been watching almost every documentary 😢😢 people are so wicked cheeiiiiii , this is the most straight forward and detailed channel I've come across, much love from Kenya ❤
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭yooooooooo...I have watched most of your videos this one cut deep😭😭😭😭😭😭😭....May God heal her parents, son and the village at large...so sorry 💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔
Useless monster human being. Sometimes uneducated people to fall in love with it can be very difficult when they see you flying high in life they start take control of your life by being insecure and jealous. My heart goes out to her entire family and the son, they where still expecting a lot from her since she really put herself fully in her studies.😢😢😢 May all her family healed and may she continue to rest in peace. What a loss as entire South Africans we have shortage of Doctors in our country.
God😢😢😢 may her soul rest in peace. I pray for her father to be consoled & her mother to have strength 🙏 may God bless her child & protect him. That animal may he gets whatever that's coming to him.
Ncooooooow the message to her son broke me. It's true the brightest stars get taken away from us too soon, she was a wonderful girl. Life is not fair 😭😭😭
"It's Nkoka's mom, I know you're doing well, your mom is also doing well, but I miss you, mom miss you, your mom wants to come see you but she's busy with school, your mom must learn, study, write and pass, when the year ends you'll see me, I'll buy you juice, danone, and a bicycle, tell them to show you a bicycle, you will see when I return, mama loves you, but can not come back soon because she goes to school like you, mom's school is far, mom has to stay at school until she finishes then she'll come back to see Nkoka, Love you"
The comment we all needed. Thank you!❤️
Thank you, thus is useful
Most definitely can END your life these days
I shed a tear.... if not an overflow😢❤
This story make me cry... My the lord continue to comfort you and your family.... May u keep on take gud care of your grandchild I'm very sorry for your loss
I strongly believe that a man with nothing going on and with nothing to lose is a threat to your life.
Agreed!!!
Period!!!!!
I wish I could like this comment a thousand times.
True
Lies
"7 years of studying to be a doctor and only practicing for two weeks" That brought tears to my eyes. This lady was driven and wanted the best life for her and her child, only for it to be snatched away by someone who also has 24hr in a day but chose to be a bum. Jealousy is what drove him to kill her.
Yhoo that really hurt
I'm in 4th year and this is my biggest fear
As a father, I will not let my daughter date a boy who is doing nothing with his life yet my child is going to be a doctor. A boy like that will be easily threatened by his lady’s success and will want to control her and bring her down to his level. Parents must encourage their children to focus on studies and leave dating to after studies are over. It helped me and was the best decision I ever made for myself. Relationships distract you from achieving your goals especially if the person you are dating is not doing something productive with their life.
Sometimes it's not up to you as a parent, kids do whatever they want,all we can do is try to guide them in the right direction 😔the dad did his best
My dad and grandmother would tell me to start dating after I finished university and to only to focus on my studies and now I am grateful that they told me that. Now I am done and working a proper job.
@@bongiwezaca2721 He did the best he can but he could have done more. The problem is he accepted this boy very early and encouraged the relationship. This is why the boy lost respect for the father and even said that the father was interfering in the relationship with the girl. The boy had not even paid lobola or was working or studying. He was just a useless Mahlalela. The father should have very early discouraged the relationship very early and told the girl focus on his studies even if it meant taking tough actions. Being friends with your daughter’s boyfriend was very wrong,
You nailed it! This is the best comment I've ever seen❤
As parents we wish it was that easy, but the more you try to stop it is the more they continue 😢. The best you can do is to advise and pray for your kids 💔🙏🏼🙏🏼
Amongst other things, the monster was jealous of her for being a doctor.
Let him rot in jail.
Definitely 😢😢
Yes, unfortunately. He impregnated her first hoping she will give up then he noticed she has a very supportive family well he tried to break that also.
Thank you for respecting her and referring to her as a Doctor. A title she had earned against all odds. May her soul rest in peace.
Gents the moment you make peace with the fact that you own no one (yes, even your wife) and can control no one, is the day you will have emotional intelligence.
This realization liberates us from unrealistic expectations and fosters a healthier understanding of relationships. We learn to appreciate others for who they are, rather than seeking to mold them according to our desires.
He got her pregnant hoping she would have to drop out and be a bum like him and have her dreams shattered. But when that plan didnt work he was furious that her family supported her by taking care of their son and allowed her to continue with her studies. Thats why the abuse escalated after the son. He felt he now owned her. What a wicked animal. I hope his parents know they raised an animal
I bet you they know what they created.
Sad story, she did not even see her 1st salary. The only doctor in a village killed by a bum (he probably did not even finish high school) 😢. This is painful.
She did not even got a chance to hold her degree yooooh😢😢
NEVER TELL THEM YOU LEAVING! SILENCE IS GOLDEN🔆👀😒
I did only 3 years at Varsity, i also got my 1st job (internship) just 2 weeks after writing my final exam, i started working 3 months before the graduation ceremony so I relate with this girl on many levels, I got my 1st salary 2 weeks after i started working cos it was December & in December salaries are payed early. I wish she atleast got to feel & experience and taste her 1st salary cos I know from experience its the best feeling but that useless boy robbed her that opportunity. May she rest in peace
Parents out there please teach your sons to love not to control but to love. Control is for animals, love is for human beings, it is Ubuntu.
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Well said 🙏🙏
Parents out there teach your daughters not to ignore signs of abuse, teach your daughters that once a partner bullies you,even if they do not lay a hand on you, you leave such a person asap, because it is just a matter of time before the do the worst.
@@mthokozisilanga4497 That too. Self-worth and self-love. Very important.
What a stupid comment. 😂😂😂 We live in South Africa, where people do not raise their boys well at all. 😂😂😂
This one really touches me because I knew her personally from university/SMU😭😭😭
God is great
Sorry dear
This honestly probably could’ve been me 😢 I’m also studying medicine & i also have a son with the person who felt threatened by me studying Medicine. Luckily i had to move away & i broke up with him over text. He still wants us to go back but i said no.
I wanted to say people must date people in their league but even the educated ones can be monsters, and basically there’s no winning 😢💔
The video she sent to her son 😢😢😢 . May her soul rest in peace
He destroyed his son's bright future to be raised by a successful mom who could have wanted a best life for him.
So sad and tragic. Dating the wrong person can change your life for the better or worse. What a monster
In this life, there are many choices but choosing a life partner is the greatest choice you can ever make in your lifetime. Many people who had great success are not here today because of the wrong choice of a partner.
With so much exposure that we have to social media platforms like these, we ought to take heed of the trends and behaviors of the people we are dating to recognize the red flags and the possible outcomes. And if you really love your life you will baleka and I mean run with your life.
The fact that your own "man" can be so jealous of you is really sad. 💔
That video of her talking to her son made me so emotional
That guy even took the life of the mother of his child. He didn't even love their son enough to leave the lady alone.
Mmmh guys do you know how hard medical school is , even for the brightest minds it’s a lot of work I remember visiting my sister at Cumpus and her roommate who was in med school would be pulling allnighters daily keeping her feet in a bucket so she doesn’t sleep and this was a daily thing , for her to get through it and even go through pregnancy in the process get to the end and not get to enjoy the fruits of her hard work is beyond heart breaking 💔💔💔💔🕊️🕊️🕊️
I got pregnant and had my 1st child during med sch.
It wasn't easy.
But God saw me tru. I'm glad I did. My daughter is 12yrs now.
I gv God d glory.
"He took her statocope to see if she was still breathing"😳nothing screams jealous like tht.... He wishes he was the doctor not her
Pure jealously from a low life who did not even bother to develop himself…when someone does not take time to develop themselves in a relationship , please leave because they will always be spiteful of your success and bring you down…. Your reporting skills are top notch💫💫
I fear man 😢I'm a young girl and I don't want to fall in love anymore because every single day we as woman die because of love , 😢
It's really heartbreaking because not all men are monsters and some of us know when to let go
I get you but as a man, I want to assure you that some of us are not that controlling. We actually adore and respect women. If it was me with a partner doing better than myself, I would work harder at something so I can also be able to provide. The woman did not deserve this. She loved him even though she was doing better than him.
😢😢 💔 too sad 😢
My dear young sister. Please never ever let anyone even raise their voice at you with malicious intent. You deserve better.
Her father speaking broke me 💔
This story is very close to home. The killer was my classmate in 2014 when doing matric in Muhluri Combinsd School , the guy had alot of anger issues little did we know that Shilumane was a ticking time bomb and he used to boost about dating a medical student in that year😢💔I still can't believe it even today😢
At that time his not doing anything for him self, his very stupid.
At that time he used to boost of her while he's useless piece of trouble doing nothing in his entire life.
Uneducated human being😢😢
I can't stop crying, this is sad
Yoh, were the anger issues related to his upbringing?
Then When he saw a threat of being left to be the nobody who he was…. He became an Animal.. even with him beating & controlling her it was to exercise his power…. So annoyed by this guy🤬
As a man, I want to assure you that some of us are not controlling. We actually adore and respect women. If it was me with a partner doing better than myself, I would work harder at something so I can also be able to provide. There are men out there with no degrees but have started successful businesses and are thriving. This guy is a total loser. Imagine a lady so kind as this even giving birth for you. He could have worked at something to provide for the child. The woman did not deserve this. She loved him even though she was doing better than him. The video of her talking to her son was heartwarming.
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This is beautiful 🥺
"Useless" is absolutely right MEC. The dad was also right about the inferiority complex
As a young black female who is also a Dr, this story was a little too close to home. I can only imagine how trapped ahe felt and thus could not leave him. He was very deliberate in impregnating her.
What a heartbreaking end to this young lady's life. 😞
Why was she also having unprotected sex with him... It takes two to make a baby she was also irresponsible
He was jealous of her. Literally the type of man you keep around you can ruin your life. This is so sad 😞
This story really broke my heart shem imagine going to school for 7 years all for nothing 😢😢😢😢
May he never come out of prison, sies 💔💔😭😭 he's a monster
Unfortunately when they say life they mean 25 years so he could spend 12,5 years if he behaves inside.
To someone who is useless in life.......ouch choice of words. This is a very sad story, I asked 2 of my boys, If your wife says he doesnt like you anymore what would you do. The youngest said I will take my gun and (showed hand shooting gesture) ........ he is 7! This left me shocked and this is not something he has seen or been exposed to so why is he thinking like this. Where am going with this is we need to work hard on teaching our male kids that violence is not only a solution but totally unacceptable.
The poor baby is the one that suffered the most. Imagine losing your mom in the hands of your father and he can't even raise you because he is behind bars. What a tragic incident. Poor baby 😢
This just breaks my heart. This young lady had a whole future ahead of her. My heart breaks for her family and child.
i don't usually cry when listening to true crime stories but yoh this one.
I also cried. It's so sad
Me and you both 😢😢😢
This is so painful because it's like as women we can't win. We get frown upon for having high standards and choosing to date rich men, but then when we decide to date men with nothing, their egos almost always ruin things. You can't tell me that this man wasn't jealous of her. Him saying that he always had control of their relationship says volume. He really thought he hit the jackpot with her, which is why he probably decided to trap her with a kid. But because the father wanted better for his daughter and he knew she had more options than him, he decided to end her life. Typical narcissist. I feel so sorry for the kid who has to grow up with no parents, smh
😭😭😭 My heart bleeds for her family. This guy was jealous of Shongi because she had accomplished much more than him.
Exactly men are evil😢😢
Do not date poverty
Even when you date rich and privileged they still kill you.its a 50/50 chance actually
I will never stop telling young ones never to tolerate abuse, NEVER! Forgive once, 2nd attempt RUN because your life matters. I blame us (the parent generation), we were brought up in times where a woman should be strong and take abuse and it was normalized. If one would dare to run away some parents would chase back the woman because it is normal to fight, have disagreements, be tolerant because running away was a sign of weakness. I told mine that a "an alive divorced child is better than a dead child" Dont abuse your ather half and NEVER tolerate abuse! on the other hand we may put everything in order but at the end of the day it's a personal decision that only the one entangled MUST make for themselves....RIP, kiddo. Strongz to the parent. Love from Namibia
Don't even forgive the first attempt.
Hey at The Plug will you please do the story of that guy who killed 6 prostitutes
This story is so painful. 😭😭 I didn't even know she only practiced for 2weeks. She was robbed. What a monster of a man.
OMG this video,her Son will cherish it forever 😭😭.
Nkosi Ntombi ♥️🙏🏽!
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Another case of a woman dating down. This is never a good idea. Women, don't marry or date down. Chances are, your partner silently resents you or is jealous of you. Be with a man who is doing well for himself. That's just nature and we cannot fight it. Men have an ego and women are naturally understanding. Therefore we put ourselves in these kind of situations where we love a man even though he's a bum. Just because we come from afar and we're high-school sweethearts. If she was busy with school, he was suppose to be doing something with his life as well. But instead, he was just chilling doing nothing. A man must be busy. He must be making means to provide. Because that's what we're doing as women today. We are working. We are busy. We are going to school and working. Come on ladies, do not date down.
@@nokuthulazwane3600 thanks my sister
As a man I agree
@@Jeremiah256_7 thanks brother
louder please.... Ladies must stop dating down..
Ladies, please be very careful, especially if you have plans to enter further education and embark on a professional career. Some men sniff out such women for the sole purpose of breaking her down or “humbling” her. They will deliberately get the woman pregnant just to make her path more difficult. They know exactly what they’re doing. They don’t love you, they are dèadly jealous of you. If he doesn’t unalive you, he will leave you to raise his children alone.
This is nothing new. It’s been happening for centuries.
Please stay safe and focus on your studies and future. Don’t allow society to condition you into thinking you need to be in a relationship ❤
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Yes.
I am 39, single and child-free.
I thank God everyday that I never allowed myself to be pressured to breed or to get married.
I always said I would do it if I met a healthy partner, but every man I dated was emotionally abusive so I would simply shrug and walk away pretty early on in the dating phase.
The day she got buried, I’ve never wept like that!!😭😭😭
Oh man I can imagine I am so sorry Babe😭😭😭
where yu there??
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Aaargh man this is so sad!!! She had such a bright future ahead of her.. Also that video of her speaking to her son is bittersweet because as much as he will have a video of his mom forever, she never got the chance to do everything she said she is going to do because of his father💔💔
Did not even enjoy 1 salary as a Doctor🙈, after so much hard work; that is cruel & evil. May God Almighty heal the family.
My heart immediately broke when you played that video of her promising her son the world😢
Yhoo after the devil fear men. How dare he say he felt Shongi’s father was interfering in their relationship. He had not even paid lobola. He did not try to make anything of his life now he goes and kills someone’s daughter. A true psycho. I hope he stays in jail for a lifetime and May her family find healing. Too sad
What a very sad story. The message to her son was so heartfelt. May Dr Shongile Nkhwashu precious soul rest in peace 🕊️
Ladies. Do not day a man who is doing ANYTHING when you’re doing great things. He will become jealous and this will happen
feels like yesterday😪may your beautiful soul continue to rest in peace dear Xongi💔🕊💐
Man this is such a sad story. It got me crying 😭
Me 2
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Me 2😢😢😢
😭😭😭 dating the wrong person !!
Broooo😢
Was actually thinking of you and scrolling through checking if I have missed out. Perfect timing
Same here 😅
I can’t express how much I love this channel, you are doing great work 👏🏽
Thank you so much!🥺❤️🙏
My sister took this girl death very hard,they were best of friends..continue resting in peace
man im hurting rn i hope the father can forgive himself he didn't know
As a person in the same profession, I was very sad about this. Imagine completing medicine or any degree, parents and siblings being proud and then boom!!!then your life is cut short,
He definitely failed her 💔. He should have handled the matter more aggressively considering that we have a high GBV rate in this country. Yoh mina I wasnt going to sleep the day I find out that someone is abusing my daughter. I was going to do everything in my power to ensure that shes out of that manipulative boys life. Dad should have handled this man to man and deal with that boy. Unfortunately his calmness made him lose his princess
Rip Doctor! Heaven has gained an angel. Condolences to her son and her family
I know abusers are manipulative but ladies you also dont listen until its too late 😢
Ngithi we do ot for the sake of love, for the sake of being supportive but yall throw ot back at our faces.
Yes. We women need to set better boundaries and enforce them.
I love the fact that she was always in.touch with her dad...present fathers are everything❤. A real tragedy on how her life ended..imagine her son have ro live with this his whole life😢 i cabt even imagine the loss and pain her family and community feel.
Bese bathi iyfundiswa ziyajikelana. Just leave a bum behind and not feel guilty he's not your fault
This made me cry 😢! May her soul continue to rest in peace and her son always be protected and Blessed
Thank you so much for watching…PLEASE LIKE, COMMENT and SUBSCRIBE 🫡❤️
My entire body was shaking as I was listening to this. Utter shock and disbelief. Sometimes our lives as Africans are just so unfortunate.
What a sad story 😭😭😭😭My heart is torn into pieces.... Indeed we are leaving amongst evil 😭😭😭may her beautiful soul rest in peace.... I pray that monster rots in jail
Tjooooo she was suppose to leave him immediately after she started his Medical degree.
Yho he is so cruel hay, to abuse and eventually kill someone he claimed to love and the mother of his child. She lost her life that she was fighting to better for her son, so unfair on both of them all because he was jealous of the fact she was making something with her life without him. May her soul RIP
Abantu batheni na madoda?!
These stories depress me ngoku 🙆🏾♀️🙆🏾♀️🙆🏾♀️
Zibuhlungu vha zibuhlungu💔
@@beautifullymade3692 yewena!
This makes me so angry! Don't have a boyfriend from so young, esp. a useless bastard. Her poor family working hard to get her to pursue her talent. What a waste of life! My blood runs cold.
I have observed that people who are smart in school most lack basic common sense in their real life.
Please keep up the good work. Your channel is amazing 👏
Eish. This story is so heart breaking man. Daaaamn. Imagine 7 years of sleepless nights only to have your life taken by a jealous and psychotic man with a life devoid of any direction and purpose. Fusek my guy. I repeat "FUSEK" 😢
There was another Dr I know ,also she was killed by her stupid boyfriend who was not working and doing nothing for his own life .she was also an intern and breadwinner 🥺.
Eish this story touched me😢
Aww dear 😢 what a sad 😔 ending to a beautiful human
She was my primary school friend. We had rekindled before she died. She sent me a picture of her son as we updating each other about life. The crazy thing about Shongi is that she was very strict. On boys and bullies. As sweet as she was, she would fight them if they tried to touch her or bully her. The friend we call “strong”. I still can’t believe that she’s gone. 😢 like yo Shongile Mara 😢. I wish ani switivile. Maybe, Antava niku pfunile like everyone I’ve been helping. Mbilu ya Mina ya vava
😭😭😭 yooh ngaze ngakhala that was really sad though i can imagine loosing a child when she was about to become a recognized doctor yazi if this young lady left him during her 4th year kungaze kube kanje cause the changes started masenomntwana
I don't read or watch crime content but you sold me.
yebo she knows her story, I wish she could do this television wise, I also love her content ❤👌
@kelebogilemotlogelwa1582 it's interesting, jealous down.
Finally a high quality South African YT creator...im hooked
some people are looking to have such a focused and intelligent wife.
Yoh, i wish i hadn't watched this😢😢. So sad, cant stop crying now.
I feel for her family, 😢😢.
So unfair 😢
Iyooooo me too hle😭😭😭😭
May her soul rest in peace ❤, God bless her soul
Falling in love these days here in SA is like digging your grave,especially if u fall in love with a wrong person. In most cases u will never know until it too late. Ladies be careful with the man you call your boyfriends or husband!!!!!!!!!
😢😢😢This left me in tears 💔😭yoh mara wat have we done as women to deserve such cruelty, worse part his baby momma, may he rot in jail
Joh I just cried! So painful. Nxa useless bug!
This was not suppose to have happened, sad, sad, sad! Once a partner bullies you and especially lay a hand on you, even if its once, you leave that person alone, they will kill you one day. Leave them, you have one life.
My heart is torn into thousand pieces.
Im literally in tears 😭! Especially when her dad was saying his speech. This is so heartbreaking 💔
This is heartbreaking. I am literally in tears. Jealousy is witchcraft. People let's do the best with what GOD has blessed us with. Brains, 4 limbs ,time etc.
We see people without hands using their lower limbs to perform all the chores.
Sjoee no no no no this monster must stop blaming Shongi's father.
What did he expect him to do.?? Come on man....
Since I discovered this channel I've been watching almost every documentary 😢😢 people are so wicked cheeiiiiii , this is the most straight forward and detailed channel I've come across, much love from Kenya ❤
Watching from Thailand, thanks for updating us mtase on whats happening back home
Thank you 🙏🏾 and may her precious soul rest in peace 🕊️
😮💨🙏❤️ THANK YOU!!!
The most painful story I have come across in this platform-after watching I took a deep breath as my tears were flowing effortlessly.
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This is heartbreaking after so much hard work she did to secure her future shame may her soul continue to Rest In Peace.
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭yooooooooo...I have watched most of your videos this one cut deep😭😭😭😭😭😭😭....May God heal her parents, son and the village at large...so sorry 💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔
Useless monster human being. Sometimes uneducated people to fall in love with it can be very difficult when they see you flying high in life they start take control of your life by being insecure and jealous. My heart goes out to her entire family and the son, they where still expecting a lot from her since she really put herself fully in her studies.😢😢😢
May all her family healed and may she continue to rest in peace. What a loss as entire South Africans we have shortage of Doctors in our country.
God😢😢😢 may her soul rest in peace. I pray for her father to be consoled & her mother to have strength 🙏 may God bless her child & protect him.
That animal may he gets whatever that's coming to him.
Thanks
😵 THANK YOU SOOOO MUCH!❤️❤️❤️🙏
Ncooooooow the message to her son broke me. It's true the brightest stars get taken away from us too soon, she was a wonderful girl. Life is not fair 😭😭😭
This is very saddening, that video for her son 😢
It's such a sad story 😞 😢