Nope, don't trust her. She still cheated on OP regardless if she was just trying to get drugs off the guy. Besides, she still abused OP's son and manipulated him so bad he needed to get therapy and begged not to see her again.
Yeah if I were OP at this point how I feel would be irrelevant. Even if for some reason I will wanted to be in a relationship with the cheating wife the fact that she makes the son feel unsafe and she emotionally manipulated him would be a deal breaker by itself. You just can’t trust her around the son anymore.
I’m going to use the ceramic plate analogy here. Marriage is like a ceramic plate: once it’s been broken, no amount of apologizing will ever fix it. Oh you can apologize until you’re blue in the face, but it doesn’t mean anything. You can definitely try and glue all the pieces together of course, but it’s going to be even more fragile than before, and one wrong move at it’ll break again. Same with marriage. You can work to fix it, and hell, maybe you do, but now the person who broke it in the first place is going to have to be extremely careful about what they do and take every single precaution because even the smallest mistake will irreparably destroy the marriage permanently.
@@Dersill6 -She had been abusing her medications after a big surgery for over two years. -Eventually, she resorted to sleeping with that co-worker to cover up any amount of money she couldn't arrange cuz he had become her main dealer.
I hope she doesn’t get any custody and he never accepts her back into his life, but I also hope she gets the help she needs. She’s clearly going through something, and addiction isn’t easy by any means.
Yeah it is and I deal with it in a funny way I have TERRIBLE acne and I have a weird obsession with bread and I won’t stop eating it and my acne is so bad🥲 probably should get meds for it but I don’t want to
Same go find a better person and don’t marry them just live in the same house of a few years just so you know you like them then you don’t waste money on the divorce
@@Whatjusthappenedfffuck Most people deserve a second chance in life. Nobody is entitled to a second chance with their partner. If they say it's over, it's over, cry me a river.
I hope OP doesn't get back with her even just for the sake of his son. Whether OP forgives her for cheating is up to him but she literally abused her autistic son, emotionally manipulated him and he's now terrified of his own mother. More of her isn't gonna be good for him.
Don’t give her a chance substance-abuse therapy is a thing for a reason if she really felt so bad, she would’ve gone to substance-abuse therapy not slept with a guy
I wouldn't trust her anymore BUT: We don't know what she's really thinking at this moment, but I personally wouldn't want to have anything to do with her anymore
Honestly I think the best reaction to this would be: I will go through this divorce for the sake of our son and myself. I'm glad you're getting treated, but you broke our trust and need to accept that. If you love me and our son, you'll stay away from now on. Staying together after all that's happened would be wrong for all of us. I hope one day we can forgive each other, but forgiveness doesn't mean we'll be able to rebuild the home we once had, because the foundation of trust is gone. This is your chance to start over for yourself. Don't squander it.
I know the pain of people being addicted. Its up to him because i know people who are in these substances may be day and night difference on and without them.
Bro, this is under one hour, I just watched the short about it and then I just noticed there was posted 11 minutes ago ago at the time I’m commenting this
Ok I feel like if he’s actually thinking about taking her back he should talk to his son to see if he’ll be alright with it and slowly moving her back in his life but if not then still ask the son if he’d like to see her or not and if not leave her at a curb
Bro I don’t know why he thinks he is the worst father ever he just didn’t know it was happening that doesn’t mean he is bad, when he found out he did all of this proving he is an amazing father
Your not the worst father ever, in fact your a great father you have done everything you possibly could to help your son and its all your ex wife's fault with you the best
I hope OP uses that letter in the divorce as evidence. It has so much going on, all the confessions, and it could most definitely be used against her as it's physical proof.
No, and his lawyer will tell him that too. She used the magic words "substance abuse". The court will halt all decisions of any permanence while she is in treatment. So if he shows the court, she will get that 6 months pause while she seeks treatment. That's 6 months for her lawyers to strategize and maneuver, get friendly therapists so she can seek custody etc. They will blame it ALL on the drugs and not her personal choices. I've seen it. It will take her relapsing 3 or more times, before he can even seek to sever her parental rights.
They kinda did a little, more just about her addiction. Since she was addicted to meds she probably had a little psychotic break and needed to be admitted.
@@sharkonsushi5939 yea that was mb for commenting before finishin the vid The actual reason that she got admitted into the psych ward was probably cause of the substance abuse and addiction or maybe her source tried to cut her off and she had a mental breakdown
I feel so terrible for this guy, all he was doing was living life and enjoying taking care of his wife and kid, only for that broad to be backstabbing him the whole time and ruining his sons mental state. Sad to see this happen so often, and him saying he’s a terrible father only makes me feel worse because he could do nothing to know.
The reason the cops lied to you about where she was is because in an ongoing investigation, they have to keep everything secret till they finally find all the evidence they need as to not raise any distress or panic in the public
Well… this is really hard situation, I mean it was sus that she wanted to share the custody and when he did not agree she gave him that letter But if it was true I would give her a second chance. I hope OP will do what is best for all of them.
DONT GO BACK WITH HER!!! First of all, she cheated on you when you gave her your all, then you found out she had ruined your son's mental health, but all of a sudden she asks to go back. That is SO messed up. And if the Judge gives her custody that judge needs to go to a therapist or smth
Does anyone know if there's more to the story? It ended so abruptly and I need to know if he kicked his wife to the curb like he should or if he picked out and took her back.
Why does this guy think he’s the worst father which he most certainly is not my father is way worse i just don’t understand why he thinks that because he didn’t know that he was married to an asshole not his fault
After listening to this vidio, i am disgusted by how the mother acted. Because of the last bit espesialy i wouldnt give her anything i wouldnt even give her a second chance even if she agreed to be my slave for life. She dosnt deserve anything after what she did to the kid, he has to have therapy because of her.
Imagine going to a bar talk to 3 guys they all say how they divorced there wife and you say “The police showed me a video of my wife gettin back shots from a co-worker”
so this Dude Op's wife was cheating on Op with, was: also sleeping with other woman, messing with gangs/drugs bad shit...someone well 'got to him' poor OP like dude fell into so much shit
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Never talk to the police without a lawyer, especially if you're innocent
The man that they found out my wife was sleeping with has a long-
@@darkeryetlighter7912 D
My mother is a lawyer
Nope, don't trust her. She still cheated on OP regardless if she was just trying to get drugs off the guy. Besides, she still abused OP's son and manipulated him so bad he needed to get therapy and begged not to see her again.
agreed. I would say that it would be their son's choice to let his mom back in his life. OP is better off without her.
Yeah if I were OP at this point how I feel would be irrelevant. Even if for some reason I will wanted to be in a relationship with the cheating wife the fact that she makes the son feel unsafe and she emotionally manipulated him would be a deal breaker by itself. You just can’t trust her around the son anymore.
Wtf is OP
I’m going to use the ceramic plate analogy here. Marriage is like a ceramic plate: once it’s been broken, no amount of apologizing will ever fix it. Oh you can apologize until you’re blue in the face, but it doesn’t mean anything. You can definitely try and glue all the pieces together of course, but it’s going to be even more fragile than before, and one wrong move at it’ll break again. Same with marriage. You can work to fix it, and hell, maybe you do, but now the person who broke it in the first place is going to have to be extremely careful about what they do and take every single precaution because even the smallest mistake will irreparably destroy the marriage permanently.
@@idrisboys1952OP is Original Poster. i.e. the person who originally posted this to Reddit.
-wife has an affair
-husband finds out
-why was he being interrogated?
-co-workers body was badly r4ped and strangled outside the driveway
Thank you for the time
-and for some reason the wife is suspiciously in a mental psyche ward
@@Dersill6
-She had been abusing her medications after a big surgery for over two years.
-Eventually, she resorted to sleeping with that co-worker to cover up any amount of money she couldn't arrange cuz he had become her main dealer.
And his son gets mentally abused
Why single him out, his wife wasn't the first woman he screwed
That’s crazy… I hope she doesn’t get any custody over your son
it ain't real 💀
If they move fast with the drug issue it's a no Brainer but if and win she sober up 😢
@@lostforwar5619there’s no way to prove it isn’t real, but I find it suspicious there are no separations between the updates
@@lostforwar5619 True
I Watch it for fun
My reply to the ending... "Absolutely not"
Completely based.
same
Facts, I wouldn’t even think twice about saying no
I hope she doesn’t get any custody and he never accepts her back into his life, but I also hope she gets the help she needs. She’s clearly going through something, and addiction isn’t easy by any means.
Yeah it is and I deal with it in a funny way I have TERRIBLE acne and I have a weird obsession with bread and I won’t stop eating it and my acne is so bad🥲 probably should get meds for it but I don’t want to
He didn't get back to her that's all I know (I found the post)
Absolutely not. Your uncle was sooo smart with that prenup!
This story is spicier than a ghost pepper
Fr
The realest thing I've heard all week
@@TotallyNotObsessedwithCVPfrfr
No one has fully watched this yet(Y'all I said this when it was 3 mins out chill)
Yeah
I did
me in 2x speed
lol
Yep
As I say, if they are willing to cheat on you once, they are willing to do it again
I don't think she deserves a second chance but that's up to the guy to decide
Same go find a better person and don’t marry them just live in the same house of a few years just so you know you like them then you don’t waste money on the divorce
and the kid
Everyone deserves a second chance
@@Whatjusthappenedfffuck Most people deserve a second chance in life. Nobody is entitled to a second chance with their partner. If they say it's over, it's over, cry me a river.
@@osheridan yea
I hope OP doesn't get back with her even just for the sake of his son.
Whether OP forgives her for cheating is up to him but she literally abused her autistic son, emotionally manipulated him and he's now terrified of his own mother. More of her isn't gonna be good for him.
the nerve for her to say "our" family at the end is crazy after getting addicted to drugs abusing her son and cheating 😭
What a great uncle this guy has
Facts
This is fresh out of the oven man
Don’t give her a chance substance-abuse therapy is a thing for a reason if she really felt so bad, she would’ve gone to substance-abuse therapy not slept with a guy
I wouldn't trust her anymore BUT:
We don't know what she's really thinking at this moment, but I personally wouldn't want to have anything to do with her anymore
Honestly I think the best reaction to this would be: I will go through this divorce for the sake of our son and myself. I'm glad you're getting treated, but you broke our trust and need to accept that. If you love me and our son, you'll stay away from now on. Staying together after all that's happened would be wrong for all of us. I hope one day we can forgive each other, but forgiveness doesn't mean we'll be able to rebuild the home we once had, because the foundation of trust is gone. This is your chance to start over for yourself. Don't squander it.
"What division if assets, look at the prenup" that had me rolling 😂😂😂
0:06 People who came from the short an dont wanna deal with skipping through the vid
it’s five seconds who would skip that
Me, I would
Hearing ai say "Getting Her Back Blown Out" had me dead 💀💀💀💀💀💀
I was boutta comment that lmao
I know the pain of people being addicted. Its up to him because i know people who are in these substances may be day and night difference on and without them.
Still not an excuse for abuse and an affair
I'm obsessed with these stories
Bro, this is under one hour, I just watched the short about it and then I just noticed there was posted 11 minutes ago ago at the time I’m commenting this
Same bro
Same
Imagine how much it would take for a child to beg to be away from their own mother, that woman should never be allowed near that child again
1:33 *casually drops some great poetic stuff*
“Anyway, …”
Ok I feel like if he’s actually thinking about taking her back he should talk to his son to see if he’ll be alright with it and slowly moving her back in his life but if not then still ask the son if he’d like to see her or not and if not leave her at a curb
Bro I don’t know why he thinks he is the worst father ever he just didn’t know it was happening that doesn’t mean he is bad, when he found out he did all of this proving he is an amazing father
There’s a difference between wanting something and being good enough to have it
Why am I watching this I saw a short and now I’m sucked in
Same!
Best lesson I have learned from Reddit: Make friends with a good lawyer!
Fr
Woah that guy and his son have been through a lot. I hope they’re in a better place now
Your not the worst father ever, in fact your a great father you have done everything you possibly could to help your son and its all your ex wife's fault with you the best
whoa! that went left quick! this story is crazy!
I hope OP uses that letter in the divorce as evidence. It has so much going on, all the confessions, and it could most definitely be used against her as it's physical proof.
No, and his lawyer will tell him that too. She used the magic words "substance abuse". The court will halt all decisions of any permanence while she is in treatment. So if he shows the court, she will get that 6 months pause while she seeks treatment. That's 6 months for her lawyers to strategize and maneuver, get friendly therapists so she can seek custody etc. They will blame it ALL on the drugs and not her personal choices. I've seen it. It will take her relapsing 3 or more times, before he can even seek to sever her parental rights.
Dang, the fact that he has autism steps it all up. I would know because I have it.
Under 1 hour ticket here
👇
Does it ever explain why the ex wife was admitted to the physiatrist hospital?
No
They didn't say a thing abt it
Maybe they did in the actual post
GL finding it if you choose to search for it
They kinda did a little, more just about her addiction. Since she was addicted to meds she probably had a little psychotic break and needed to be admitted.
@@sharkonsushi5939 yea that was mb for commenting before finishin the vid
The actual reason that she got admitted into the psych ward was probably cause of the substance abuse and addiction or maybe her source tried to cut her off and she had a mental breakdown
@@NotSL0TH17 yeah same i just saw it rn
The letter at the end was bullshit find someone better
the worst father in the world wouldn’t care. you cared. you did everything you could. there’s nothing else you could do.
I feel so terrible for this guy, all he was doing was living life and enjoying taking care of his wife and kid, only for that broad to be backstabbing him the whole time and ruining his sons mental state. Sad to see this happen so often, and him saying he’s a terrible father only makes me feel worse because he could do nothing to know.
Dude the fact that they did say that he had the right to remain silent
Ran for 5 minutes straight 💀
The reason the cops lied to you about where she was is because in an ongoing investigation, they have to keep everything secret till they finally find all the evidence they need as to not raise any distress or panic in the public
this must be the worst thing that can happen to a man.
I Love your videos love them very much
No way, leave her behind and move on from that reality and never look back big time.
That letter was amusing
Wow, that letter would look great in court.
Never ever trust the law with a lawyer your paying for.
I’m autistic as well so I understand the sons story she believes everything she says and still loved her
they get divorced i seen this story already dont worry and the mother wont get a single dime
Oh my God, this woman is crazy. I mean, I don’t feel bad saying that like what the way she treated the child she should not be a mother damn damn.
Well… this is really hard situation, I mean it was sus that she wanted to share the custody and when he did not agree she gave him that letter
But if it was true I would give her a second chance. I hope OP will do what is best for all of them.
As a person you can’t screw up that bad and get a second chance with children it doesn’t work
5 minutes straight is crazy bro
16 minutes ago is crazy 💀💀💀
Gonna take shit that didn't happen for 200 Tom
She should not get any custody or a chance
hope he is ok
DONT GO BACK WITH HER!!! First of all, she cheated on you when you gave her your all, then you found out she had ruined your son's mental health, but all of a sudden she asks to go back. That is SO messed up. And if the Judge gives her custody that judge needs to go to a therapist or smth
The fact that the son is autistic breaks my heart 💔
Honestly this reminds me of my parents divorce so much
Don’t feel bad it is not your fault
the guy litterally said 8000 dollar dollar.
Honestly op should hand her a note saying nuh uh
if the guy who was r4ped and stuff lived why didn't he just say who r4ped him
The story: 😢😭
The backround:🏖️🌊
LMAOO but it was actually a sad story thoo
Does anyone know if there's more to the story? It ended so abruptly and I need to know if he kicked his wife to the curb like he should or if he picked out and took her back.
i have watched all of it!!!!
What is Op's user on Reddit, I would like to know about any updates happening.
That was the biggest plot twist that the son is 16 y/o
Why does this guy think he’s the worst father which he most certainly is not my father is way worse i just don’t understand why he thinks that because he didn’t know that he was married to an asshole not his fault
If he posts an update please post it
aw HAIL NAH. run and never look back bro.
Wow that is terrible...
"NOPE card used"🚫 "YOU WIN"🥳
It's just messed up. Got no words after hearing the letter. I'm just...... still don't know what to say.
An emergency fund it has around 8,000 dollar dollars in it 😂😂😂😂😂
HE HE HE HELL NAW🔥🗣️🗣️🔥💯💯
Nope do not trust her ever again. Once a cheater always a cheater and she abused your son. Stay as far away from her as you can.
After listening to this vidio, i am disgusted by how the mother acted. Because of the last bit espesialy i wouldnt give her anything i wouldnt even give her a second chance even if she agreed to be my slave for life. She dosnt deserve anything after what she did to the kid, he has to have therapy because of her.
6:36 bottomles mug?!🗿
Did they forget about the whole 'raped and strangled co-worker' thing???
Imagine going to a bar talk to 3 guys they all say how they divorced there wife and you say “The police showed me a video of my wife gettin back shots from a co-worker”
HELP FR
Wow that is just so terrible
This didn't end right where is the rest of the story at? 😮🤔
Yaaaa no, u can’t seriously take her back after all she’s done
I’m sitting here watching the views, Likes, and minuted go up little by little lmao 😂
I did and without any form of speee increase 😂😂😂
That is a letter of a snake
I ain’t watching all that
Plow
then don't. 😊
me when the video ends: wah... what... were... WHAT
Please watch this before Hal start commenting💀
Man that was a fuckin *ride* I’m tired
My mother is a lawyer
2:43
so this Dude Op's wife was cheating on Op with, was: also sleeping with other woman, messing with gangs/drugs bad shit...someone well 'got to him' poor OP like dude fell into so much shit
*I have the worst dad*
If that was pe I would send her a letter saying “Whomp Whomp”
Her story key makes sense, but there is still insufficient reason to cheat. If your gonna get married, commit
Why was the wife in the hospital?