Introvert vs Extrovert Translator
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- Опубликовано: 27 фев 2023
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Penn is basically the human equivalent of a Golden Retriever while Kim is definitely more of a cat lol
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You nailed it!
Spot on!
Exactly! I was thinking that if I threw a ball he'd go chase it!
That is so funny! I have had that same thought about a lot of their videos.
I can literally sit in silence for hours at a time and be perfectly happy
SAME
SAME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!¡ lol
Same
same same
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I am a socially awkward extrovert and my wife is an outgoing introvert. At home, we have conversations just like the one in the video, but if you see us out in public, you would assume we were each the opposite role. In public, she's chatting with folks and inviting them to the table to planning trips to the gym and I sit and listen quietly. Then in the car ride home, I'm talking about what a great time we had and all the news we heard and how I'm looking forward to the next outing; and she's So. Tired. Of. People.
That adds more descriptors to my experience. I'm socially awkward and an introvert but can be outgoing and extroverted sometimes when needed. I'll fight tooth and nail not to have to talk to people but once I do, in a social setting that's safe and fun, it can be nice. It can be hard to be a socially awkward anything though. The saying and doing the wrong thing can seem endless or at least always a looming possibility. 🤔
I get that. People always think I am an extrovert because I can be very conversational but it really exhausts me and I need to have alone time to recover. If I don't get it I will become a very unpleasant person to be around.
Finally, this describes me! My husband is an outgoing extrovert and I am a shy, socially awkward extrovert. We will go out and he is the one talking and then wants to leave. I don’t say much but am in Heaven and don’t want to leave. He always thinks I’m an introvert with him despite me going stir crazy and wanting to get out and go do things with people. My youngest is also an extrovert but less socially awkward. People always think I’m introverted but I get my energy from being around people.
@@tinaperez7393 The few times I used to have friends over, it was always with their dogs. You NEVER have awkward conversations when dogs are the focus!
@@paddlingpuppies excellent point. I forgot about that - it's not alcohol, it's dogs that are the universal social lubricant! 😂. I had a friend who I'd go on walks with walking their dog and everyone with a dog or who likes dogs stopped and talked. And dog parks are super social. 😂
Someone once told me if they won the lottery she'd "travel the world and never speak to anyone again." I laughed. Privacy and an introvert! I could totally relate.
As an introvert I found her inner thoughts amazingly accurate!
I'm an introvert in an entire family, included extended family, of extraverts. Christmas is a nightmare for me sometimes because the exact same group of people want to meet at every house every day for weeks, and I'm always like "yeah, but we just met yesterday." Now I say, "OK, if you're having 10 parties, I will attend 3". They think I'm weird, and even though I love them, I really only want to go to 1 party. After one party with EVERYONE I'm so exhausted I can barely move, and after 3 I need a week in my room alone just to recover. I've always been told I'm weird, lol, and just accepted that I'm weird. It's nice to know I'm not alone (even though i really love being alone, lol).
You're not weird! I'm the same. There's a book called The Highly Sensitive Person that I really liked. You should check it out!
Awww! I agree with you :) Ambivert with 65% introvert here
I used to feel the same way about Christmas parties. But now, as time goes and there're just fewer people left and so many less parties to go - and that makes me happy.
As an introvert married to an introvert, leaving the house doesn't happen too often. It's WONDERFUL! Although I do sometimes go stir crazy and need to go out, but not interact with anyone.
Introvert w/ introvert makes me feel so seen!
same i just go on a drive with my dog and park at the beach for a few hours and im happy just siting there with 1 window open a small crack so i can hear the waves
As an introvert I love going out and doing things as long as I can only talk to my family and close friends if I actually have to socialize with other people there is a very short time limit on what's going to happen that day.
Yes!!! Stir craziness happens and i too need to leave the house…love just driving or finding a quiet place in a park…solitude is sweet 😁
This was insanely accurate. I love finding any excuse to stay in and wear my old sweatpants. The most terrifying thing to me is talking to another person on the phone, the horror! 😱
lol same
My s/o is the same way. He's an injured vet and I talk to literally ANYONE that calls.
Actually, there's one thing that intimidates me more...confronting someone who holds sway in my life bc there's a problem! 😲😱😰
I hate talking to anyone that's not a small number of people that I know and love on the phone. Text me or email me. But for the love of god, don't call me.
I feel so validated! Especially knowing that other people have aging sweatpants too ❤
The ending when Kim just goes to bed and Penn is very honest about how he's going to interrupt you nonstop after asking you questions is comedy perfection.
I relate, I would do both since I am an introvert and have ADHD. 😂
Right!
That sounds so tiring. :)
@@KM-lu7nh It is made possible with coffee.
@@pfcampos7041 You go to bed and then ask people questions while interrupting while going to bed? Very strange routine.
I'm an introvert and this is so me as the wife. I'm perfectly fine not seeing anyone or speaking ever, especially in winter. Then it's hibernation time
This is absolutely me and my husband. Please don't make me go out and talk to people. I do it all week at work, that's absolutely the last thing I want to do with my free time, it's exhausting. But if you want to, you go babe, have fun!
Their book is the BEST relationship book EVERRRR!!!! That quote "mature people ask for what they want " has been life changing.!!! So simple and yet profound
This is probably how my Extrovert pals feel whenever they have to forcibly drag me out of the house! 🤣
Those are good friends!
I am an extrovert, married to an introvert, with 3 introverted sons, and even one of our two dogs seems to be an introvert. The struggle is real.
15 yrs of introvert/ extrovert here. The phone thing is perfect 🤣. Susie won't talk on the phone at all and I'll chat up a telemarketer if I need someone to talk to 🤣
Yep. My dude will not make phone calls for any reason other than the necessity of work and immediate family. Or speak to workers in stores. No matter what. That means no directions when we're driving, no asking questions in stores, no asking questions in restaurants... Luckily he's wonderful, or he would prematurely age me :-)
Hahaha! Very funny. Our household is an introvert married to an introvert. Depending on the situation, one introvert is more introverted than the other. People don't understand that we can go days without talking to each other and it's ok!
Yeah, I went 2 weeks at the beginning of my relationship not talking to my partner before we got a routine down and started working as a couple. It led to a big fight, and scheduling time to talk before bed daily. But people laugh when I schedule time to talk to the most important person in my life instead of it just happening.
In general, people thinking they have to talk every day to each other in the house you all live in is strange to me small talk about nothing so you speak to each other is not always required.
As an introvert, who dated an introvert, After growing up in a family of talkers, the first afternoon I spent with my boyfriends family, in 1990, where they all sat in the living room, reading quietly, went from completely weird to completely refreshing. 10 years later, as a young couple, we had to schedule walks outside where we would talk things over, otherwise, we might not know what the other one had scheduled for the week.
We still scheduled time to sit down and talk so that it actually happens, and I find myself pushing my introverted daughter to also talk.
Luckily, my extroverted son is not weirded out by this, he will just talk to himself, and not be bothered that no one is responding.
Kim is the queen of crazy-eyes expressions 😂🥰
I think I’m an ambivert leaning towards introvert. I do get stir-crazy, but going out for me is more of a solo observe-the-world experience. I prefer to be with a small group of close friends or family 👍
I'm similar.
Two introverts here - and together we have become even MORE introverted over the years, I feel. LOL. I always get forced to do the phone calling things (ugh), but he has to talk to any actual people that show up.
My husband and I have a similar deal. Haha
😂 You guys just summed up my marriage! I laughed into my hot tea and steamed up my glasses.
My (extrovert) husband and I (an introvert) have had this exact interaction soooo many times. We both had a good laugh while watching this video. Thanks for the funny and fun content 😄 👌
I am an extrovert and what Penn said about where you get your energy is 100% on point. It's weird and I don't know why it works, but anytime I am around other people my energy level goes way up and my endorphins start flowing. When I'm by myself, I actually suffer a lot more depression and anxiety and my energy level just bottoms out. Even talking to someone on the phone helps my mindset and energy level. I'm an extrovert and my daughter is an ambivert, and a teenager, so being a single mom sometimes sucks, lol. Penn, I'll talk to you anytime, and I'm a good listener, so I'll let you ramble as long as you want, lol. Love both you and Kim and the laughs you've given me for the last 9+ years!
My husband and son are always amazed by how much I talk to strangers. They are introverts who’d never leave the house if it wasn’t for me. Once they are out, they usually have fun…but hit their limit sooner than me. Thank goodness I have a daughter who takes after me or I’d be outnumbered.
It is a running gag in our family how often I talk to strangers, I’m so glad to read your post! I live with an introvert!
My husband is the same way. We balance each other out well I think. :D
this is me and my mom she needs to chill😢
Me too! I am super extroverted. Married an introvert, got an introvert dog, had an introvert son… then got a daughter who will chat up anything with a pulse…thank you Lord!
My husband and I are both introverts, and it works great for us. I do talk to strangers more than him, but most of the time, we both want to stay home.
This was so funny. The faces you made while the voice overs played 😂😂😂
The desperation in Penn's eyes!
Kim seems so extroverted when she acts, but I love to hear her share about her introvertedness. I get it and it makes me so happy to know that other people think the same way!
You totally described my relationship 🤣 I often wonder, how does an introvert handle being a parent. It's so full on especially for mothers.
For me, it's all about staying up late after everyone else has gone to bed. Unfortunately my body isn't letting me do that as much anymore.
I'm fortunate that my kids are introverts too. We all need our space at times! But yeah, the younger years were really tough!!
LOL one of the reasons I’m happy I don’t have kids 😂
@@heathrustythis!
It’s really hard. Literally all of my social energy is spent on my kids!
I'm an introvert married to an ambivert that loves to plan the crap out of everything. I would rarely leave the house without her💙💙💙. Thing is, I don't hate people. I'm just not a planner. I also have a limit I hit sometimes when I'm around people (parties) and then go into power-save mode
This video totally describes me and my husband. I am autistic and social interactions are very difficult for me. I can handle a couple people, but large crowds / groups get difficult. He acts more like an extrovert than i do, but he has his introvert moments, just like I have my rare extrovert moments.
My son is autistic, and we have taken him to places that we thought he'd love because he loves rides and they were fun when we were his age. Unfortunately we didn't factor in how many more people there are. So crowded everywhere! I wish there was a social anxiety day where they only let in half as many people. (Never gonna happen, money always wins)
@@LeeAnneRMT Ooooooooh boy, do I ever understand your son's social anxiety. A little too well. It even kicks in with people i have known most of my life, my father's entire side of the family (even though i love these people and they are my blood), close family friends i have known my entire life, its just debilitating. The social aspect of it has been one of the worst parts for me. Female autistics mask it better, generally, myself included, but it really is hard. Your son is not alone in this, i am one of his "sisters in arms", so to speak, and he officially has an ally in me.
@@LeeAnneRMT thats actually such a smart idea
This was so much fun. After 40 years my husband and I have merged and we are both now part introvert and part extrovert. Life is grand!
I can't tell where I'm falling on this spectrum. I hate leaving my house and loud places, but I will strike up random _short_ conversations with strangers in lines. I feel bad for Penn having to talk to a random bartender, but I appreciate Kim just wants the sweatpants time. Asking for what you want sounds smart!
You're on the introvert end with some amount of social graces. Introverts can get enjoyment out of being around/talking to other people, they just spend energy to do so rather than gaining energy from it.
Sounds like me! I call myself an extroverted introvert. 😁
I'm an in betweener as well.
There's also this thing called ambivert. I am one.
@@piiinkDeluxe Same!
Sometimes I'm in an introvert mood and sometimes I'm in an extrovert mood. Every day is different.
You had me laughing 10 seconds in and throughout the whole thing. Thanks for being adorable and relatable! 😂
I'm Penn and my Hubby is Kim. Lol. We are just the same. Too funny. Love your stuff guys! Plus your game is so funny the kids love it! They have chosen it the last 3 weeks for Game Night! We literally have over 100 games to choose from and they've chosen Family Face Off the last 3 Game Nights! Thanks for such an awesome game.
So accurate, it had me laughing out loud 🤣
My 4 year old is an extrovert (me, not so much). It's fascinating to see him light up around people. He will talk to anyone about anything
0:13 “I don’t wanna talk to anyone not even in this house” lol yes
This so exactly our Friday nights!😂
This is very on-point for my wife and I. I'm the extrovert, she the introvert. I feel for Penn, I feel his pain. The struggle is real lol
Me and my boyfriend of forever are opposites like this. We have learned over the years to let him go to parties and me I get to stay home. It works so much better than if I made myself go and then get him to leave before he would. We are both more happy people. It just took 10 years for us to realize this. Those were ruff years.
I am literally sitting in the Walmart parking lot while my husband does a quick run in because I have HAD ENOUGH PEOPLING FOR ONE DAY.
Lol loved this. I’m an introvert married to an introvert and we can sit at home in silence everyday and be happy❤
My husband is an introvert, and I'm the extrovert. I get excited over thoughts of going out, and he groans inwardly when I suggest it. But I need to talk to people, and he just doesn't. Great video!
Yes yes yes... I'm an introvert and my husband is an extrovert. I have literally clung on to him in some social situations. It's just too much the noise lights and just hum of people moving can be overwhelming
Are you on the autism spektrum?
@@piiinkDeluxe no just easily overwhelmed by stimuli... more likely adhd
@@myravenmoon81 thanks for replying. I have issues with stimuli, especially sound too.
And it's common in autistic people, that's why i asked.
Please don't think any offense was taken all feed back is a chance for learning for me and others
@@myravenmoon81 no, i am not offended at all. How could i? You just described your experience and that is completely valid. 🙂
I’m an introvert married to an introvert. It’s mostly bliss but sometimes it would be nice to have one of us connect with people and balance that out.
You guys nailed it! Thanks for giving us something to laugh about when you often just want to cry that you are so different!
Introvert here! Can totally relate. Talking in the phone is the worst. Please text!
Same here, I'll have texting ANY day over phone calls! I absolutely hate being put on the spot whenever someone calls me and they expect me to come up with replies immediately, whereas when they text me, it gives me a chance to better form a coherent and sensible reply without fear of stumbling my words and sounding like a complete idiot or a nervous wreck. I also never Facetime people for the same reason, I'd say that's even worse than traditional phone calling as you'd have to sit digitally face to face with a stranger *shudder*
LOL I laughed the whole time because I'm the extrovert. I completely understand Penn. But I do need some alone time to discharge. I also get energy from people interaction. My husband is the introvert 😂
This hit the nail on the head for us, more than I like to admit. Over from a share on Discord. New sub. You guys are awesome!
I can relate to this and to your family in so many ways, from being an introvert married to an extrovert, having teenagers, and ADHD in our household. So many similarities. Love everything you guys do! Thank you for sharing your lives so we can see we aren't alone in our struggles. 😍
I will talk to you Penn! I am an introvert but I'm great at listening!
This is my boyfriend and I, but reversed. I’m the extroverted one and he’s the introverted one. It took us a while to feel comfortable saying what we wanted and needed in our relationship because we’re so different. Thankfully 😅 we’ve gotten so much better at it :)
Y'all are so amazing! And always 'keeping it real'. Thank you for that. ❤️
I found "The Holderness Family" during 2020. What a blessing you were then (and still are)! Watching your videos is part of what helped me keep my sanity during that very difficult year. Thank you for sharing yourselves with all of us!
Much love to you and your family. God bless you all. ❤️
Absolutely nailed this, and yes I know that from experience. Lol. Great video as always!
My husband and I are both social but I actually get my energy from people, like caffeine! Good tip I heard once: being an introvert is not an excuse to be a complete recluse because thats selfish and being an extrovert is not an excuse to cut people off to talk endlessly about yourself. Also selfish. Be who you are but find balance in both.
That sounds like my two daughters! They love each other and really enjoy each other's company, but my younger will tell you her personality is that of a cat/dragon. LOL She'd rather stay home and read or watch something most of the time, but older sister wants her to experience stuff. ❤️
You two are adorable and truly add laughter & thoughtful insight to my life. Keep up the great work & Thank you both! Much ❤️
Y’all are so good at this🤣
It’s so refreshing that these days we’re encouraged to be ourselves. My generation not so much, very judging and labelling. So much freedom in being able to acknowledge who you are and what you’re comfortable with. Great insight and comedic creativity as usual 😊
You guys are so funny I love it! Also really love the introvert in the wild episode
Introvert married to an introvert. We never leave the house except for work and groceries!!🤣🤣🤣
This video is so accurate, I'm in-between these 2 types. I love your videos.
I absolutely ADORE you guys. It is so much fun to watch your videos and see your interactions together. That is why you did so well on The Amazing Race. You complement each other and work so well together. Thank you for keeping it real! Love you, Penn and Kim!!!!!!!! 🥰🥰
Hubby tells folks that I've been preparing for this quarantine my entire life. I'm wearing a t-shirt right now that states, "All you need are dogs and books." I have both, and have been perfectly content with staying home since March 2020, except for vet, dr., dentist, hairdresser & manicurist. WITH MASK. Extrovert hubby does any necessary shopping, including groceries, and does library runs, so he can talk to check out folks and the Library Ladies. We've been together 44 years, so yeah, I think it's working out.
Omg!! I love this! My introverted soul resonates with every thought she had! 🤣
This is exactly my husband and myself! It’s like you were there for our last conversation about going out!
❤️❤️ your channel. Thanks so much for sharing!!!
This is soooo spot on!!!
Thank you for this video. Showed this to my friend and he finally understood me as an introvert. It was a lightbulb moment.
Love it! Lmbo. Some needed humor today. 😍😍😍
I feel this so much. Thank you for sharing.
This is so funny and so true. Took us 12 years to figure this out about each other. I will check out your book! Excited!
The idea of just yacking to Penn while he interrupts sounds like a dream come true! (Said the extrovert married to the guy who never wants to leave the house).
So cute and funny! You guys sound so much more polite about it than my husband and I, who are also an introvert/extrovert couple.
😂😂😂 I laughed throughout the entire video! This sounds so much like my husband & I, just about every weekend.
Lol, this is hilarious! I'm the extrovert and my hubby's the introvert. But our roles have had to reverse over the last couple of years bc of illness (now I stay home and he has to do all the things I used to do and love). It's been interesting, hard, and definitely a growing/learning experience for us both.
ON POINT! I married a fellow introvert -- and we are like the hermit hill people.
this is a masterpiece and the Holdernesses have created many!
You are such deep thinkers about human nature! Fascinating, right? Hubby and I are both introverts but I was always a very extroverted introvert. Over time, he has become more social, at my urging, and after some therapy for social anxiety, and I have become less social because I “retired” from being the one who always had to carry the conversation and smile, as well as initiate every plan we made. Kids are grown, school days are over, and we find ourselves switching roles now. I am now more like Kim, hubby is becoming a lower level version of Penn. I think that you are both adorable and perfect just the way you are, perfect compliments in marriage. The Beatles had it right, All You Need is Love. 🥰
My s/o is an injured vet and definitely an introvert. We have 5 kids and I'm an extrovert. It can get rather hard at times lol.
Introvert married extrovert - Perfect combo
I married an Extrovert almost 30 years ago and he is the 'Mayor' of our small town. It is JUST LIKE THIS VIDEO! I love him, and he is happy to go get his socialization with all his friends, and I can stay home and read and he brings me food. IT IS GREAT!
So funny 😂! Love this!
This is absolutely my husband and I except I'm the extrovert :) You nailed it!
I swear this is the exact exchange between my husband and me! His excuse for going to the restaurant to pick up the food is to make sure they get the order right, but then he tells me about who was there, the conversation with the bartender, how much the kitchen staff like him 😂😂 Meanwhile I'm happy to have been home listening to music or reading the whole time.
Oh Kim, you totally nailed it - sooo spot on!! 😆🙌 I recoil in horror when my phone rings. 😱I don't want to be this way!! I just can't help it. 🤷♀You guys are awesome. Thanks for this great video!! ❤
"I will not be calling them. I do not want to talk to a person on the phone". Bahahaha sooo relatable. Love it.
A+ video!
Very helpful and funny.
Holy cow! That is our life every day. Thank you for this video.
When I was younger, I wanted to go out all the time..as I've gotten older, I just like staying home
Very fun. Can relate to both!
Yes. I’m an introvert married to an extrovert. And you are right without him I would rarely leave the house! Great video.
I love the internal dialogue, spot on!
Yes, sure, let's talk! I even talk sometimes with complete strangers I found on LinkedIn, who work in the same domain as me.
I checked your LinkedIn pages, and it is soooo in sync with this video. Penn as extrovert has his page full of stuff that literally says "talk to me!", while Kim's page is strictly to the point, saying "only contact me for work reasons, or better - contact my husband for that".
Great video guys, thank you!❤️
That is so my husband and I. He stops at the bar on his way home to have time with his friends. I come straight home so that I can have quiet time with the cats. When he gets home, we are ready for a nice evening tonight. This way we both get our needs met and still have together time.
I love watching y'all. I'm an extrovert and my hubby is an introvert. We have been together almost 19 years. Things are great. I go out and a lot and he hangs with the kids. This video rang true.
Spot on, right down to my husband volunteering to pick up the food so he can chat with anyone else on the planet!
Wow! I can totally relate to this! My husband is the introvert and I am the extrovert! Fun video! Thanks!!!
I laughed so hard at this! It's so me and my husband - great job guys! The facial expressions! Yes to all of it!
I do feel bad because he really wants me to come with and it's so rare that I actually go
omg this is the funniest thing I've seen in a long time!!!!
This is amazing!! Thanks Penn and Kim!! Me and my family are all introverts, except for my little brother who is very outgoing. Love y’all’s videos!!❤
OMG, this so my husband and me. He's the extrovert and I'm the introvert
This is spot on!