What If I’ve Married the Wrong Person
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- Опубликовано: 19 авг 2024
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Wow. God bless you Pastor. Been losing hope but God directed me to this message
I agree with the message. I agree with the bible. I did not understand how important it was to work through things and how much God hates divorce...that He gave it because we have hard hearts. When I read scripture and it says about the love of your youth ...my heart breaks because I ruined something that I can't fix and am now married to someone so much worse. ..yet now have committed to remain married because I can't stand to sin against God again. I know God is a God of miracles and can use this for something good I just pray that I don't do something to ruin whatever He has in place for me.
You need to work on raising your self esteem and taking ownership of your OWN life. You KNOW the bs you're in is terrible but you CHOOSE to stay "committed" to it. That's a CHOICE. God has not shit to do with that. Stay but don't complain.
Wow I never realized he was buried with Leah. GOD just led me to this message to speak to my life, so many good points. A lot of women feeling unloved in marriage need to hear this as well. God's blessing is on your life regardless of your husband. She got to her son Judah and was no longer looking for her husband's love to satisfy her because God was being so good to her. Praise God!
I completely understand the reasoning behind this message, but I can't say I totally agree. I don't believe that I can have a happy marriage with ANY woman simply by trying hard enough and being a good Christian. You can stay married, for sure, but there's an element of chemistry and affinity that needs to be there for a marriage to truly thrive, and I don't believe it automatically appears just because you follow a particular protocol. Sometimes two people just aren't good for each other.
I am in total agreement with you. And I have unfortunately experienced this for myself.... I have struggled with making a decision for over two years now. I married young and inexperienced in life/love. Wonderful man. The best there is on paper. But....the romantic connection isn’t there. And never has been for me. 😔 at the time I thought I was doing the right thing by marrying him...because he was such a great person. But...We are like good friends at the very most. There has never been a deep attraction/ much chemistry...which resulted in a sexless relationship.
I have really had to do some soul-searching. And I just don’t feel that I can have the ideal marriage with the person I’m with, sadly.
I know God hates divorce. But I completely agree with you in that there to be a strong foundation to begin with...fOr a marriage to really work. If certain aspects which are fundamental to a real relationship are missing (as in my case), it is very very difficult, if not impossible to remain together.
@@EadsB7002 Almost same with me.
Wow, I really needed this!
I appreciate this video. However , i do believe that you can marry the wrong person. Selfish people are hard to deal with in marriage.
We are all selfish... born that way
I wasn’t sure about my husband in the beginning but I prayed and I thought I heard from God. I didn’t want to marry him. I did because like I said, I thought that was who God wanted me with.
I recently found out that he’s married to someone else. I forgave him and we had a plan for him to divorce the first wife. He still has not. We are Christians so we live together cordially, however, we have no relationship at this point.
We barely speak, he refuses to communicate.
I don’t understand this situation but I don’t need to understand. We haven’t been intimate since I found out about the other marriage.
I would prefer to be done. It’s just not happening.
According to the Bible technically he is still married to his first wife because she is still alive. Remarriage while the 1st spouse is alive is adultery.
I married the wrong women wish I wouldn't have done it for me marriage has been a sacrifice one that I'm not ready for I don't love her she doesn't make me happy
God......
It's not about you,thats very selfish and it's about learning unconditional love. Love is a choice. You need to pray God will heal your marriage and soften your heart and change you. Happens all the time. Is it shallow reasons or is she honestly evil person? Even if you should be praying for her.
no, you didn't marry the wrong person and she doesn't need to make you happy. Love is sacarficial..you should try and make her feel loved and happy. Marriage isn't about happiness, but Holiness. Ask God to help you love her - it's not based on feelings, but rather giving.. I guarantee you, you will be blest!
Marriage is no just about happiness. It is a commitment an oath for life before God. Everything wears off no marriage is a fairytale. It is a covenent till death. God says let you yes be yes and your no be no
Marriage is serious.
Divorse
Two who works hard to make it work so that God can transform even the more.
Eye opening....God bless you
Matthew 19:9
“And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery.”
King James Version (KJV)
Thank you, this is deep
God work on me!!!
The Bereans, Acts 17: 11
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