3 Things God Will Do When He Is Protecting You from Marrying the Wrong Person

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  • @OnlyMe805
    @OnlyMe805 3 года назад +88

    God will protect you from marrying the wrong person by:
    1) stopping the relationship before it even starts
    2) giving you strength to reject a bad relationship
    3) making your Christian beliefs an issue for the person you are dating

    • @gn2665
      @gn2665 2 года назад +4

      Oh my God… exactly just what I just avoided!! All these 3 points!! And I said “no but no thank you”. God is great❤️‍🔥

    • @dominicanpuro26
      @dominicanpuro26 2 года назад +1

      @@gn2665
      👏🏽

    • @zhariamccoy2044
      @zhariamccoy2044 2 года назад +1

      ✨❤️🙏🏼

  • @hardroad1536
    @hardroad1536 5 лет назад +266

    Build your relationship with God first ☝.

  • @jobgon6382
    @jobgon6382 5 лет назад +669

    I was single for 7 years and finally met the right woman last year. We got married, came out in our local news and from the bottom of my heart Christ gave me the woman I never thought I would have. All the glory to the king of kings. Have a blessed day everyone and stay strong in the word.

    • @divayanche1
      @divayanche1 5 лет назад +2

      Praise God

    • @p.r.9982
      @p.r.9982 5 лет назад +5

      Thanks for sharing. Gives me hope!!

    • @jobgon6382
      @jobgon6382 5 лет назад +27

      Purple Rose
      Put God first in your life, I spent years alone and today when I am cutting the grass at home and my wife Assunta, is cooking dinner for us I understand why I needed to be alone. Christ has someone special for us all we just have to trust in him. Stay strong in the word and God bless you Purple Rose.

    • @deepdiver6885
      @deepdiver6885 5 лет назад +1

      I am not Christian but believe in god.

    • @nomfundo8561
      @nomfundo8561 5 лет назад +1

      Amen. am happy that God gave you the love of your life and please treat her with respect

  • @jrg7951
    @jrg7951 5 лет назад +103

    Make sure that you dump someone that claims to be Christian but their life is nothing close to it.

    • @teresadorta8039
      @teresadorta8039 4 года назад +2

      Amen

    • @pigjubby1
      @pigjubby1 4 года назад +1

      Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes.

    • @elizabethowen8559
      @elizabethowen8559 3 года назад

      Yes if they have a violent past and claimed to be a born again Christian. Abusers will use Christianity to suck you in.

    • @thorodinson9782
      @thorodinson9782 2 года назад +1

      @@elizabethowen8559 let their past be in the past. Everyone makes mistakes. They can be born again with a bad past. That is actually most christians.

  • @chiztruth21
    @chiztruth21 4 года назад +126

    I am 33years old and still trusting God for the right man. Everytime it seems i have gotten it right, it ends up not working out. I pray soon God will bring the right man to me.

    • @bisia7772
      @bisia7772 4 года назад +9

      chichi ojunta He will sis I’m 33 and waiting too! I definitely feel you on this one!

    • @BettyLapa
      @BettyLapa 4 года назад +7

      Wow. Amen. I'm 33 and the same too! Trusting God knows what's best and it will happen at the right time with the guy. Everything explained in this video is exactly what's happened for me so far.

    • @aves6457
      @aves6457 3 года назад +2

      Amen. Me too Sister. I'm 32 and in a similar phase.

    • @patriciajoyce9581
      @patriciajoyce9581 3 года назад +1

      Hi how are you doing am Alexander please can I know you thanks am from United kingdom

    • @chiztruth21
      @chiztruth21 3 года назад

      @@patriciajoyce9581 hi, nice to meet you Alexander. Sure you can.

  • @universewithinyou2761
    @universewithinyou2761 5 лет назад +715

    I'll choose to be single until God reveals the right woman for me

  • @mimialvarado4980
    @mimialvarado4980 5 лет назад +473

    I think we need to focus on being the right person ourselves rather than on finding the right person. Certainty is never possible, but there’s no need to worry... we just need to focus on being an obedient, Sprit-filled Christian and to trust Him to lead us.

  • @katherinehendrix5325
    @katherinehendrix5325 4 года назад +68

    #3 hit me hard. I was in a relationship for almost 9 years, we started going to church together and all of a sudden he didn't want to do the walk with me anymore. I cried and cried about it. 3 months later we broke up. Ty Father for showing me he wasn't the right one for me.

    • @patriciajoyce9581
      @patriciajoyce9581 3 года назад +1

      hi how are you doing am Alexander please can I know you thanks

    • @kimcun6376
      @kimcun6376 3 года назад +1

      Me 8 years :)

    • @peterg.norwood8675
      @peterg.norwood8675 3 года назад +1

      Really want to know you more what about Whatapping me +19513070074

    • @murkyvision3697
      @murkyvision3697 3 года назад

      📯📯📯ITS NOT ALL ABOUT YOU....READ YOUR BIBLE FOR ONCE

    • @misterbobby8913
      @misterbobby8913 3 года назад

      Together for 9 years?
      Were you guys just dating? Or?

  • @MiNa-fo6zw
    @MiNa-fo6zw 5 лет назад +289

    It's better to be Single than marrying to a wrong person.. waiting for the right man for me..😊

  • @romans1478
    @romans1478 5 лет назад +441

    Marrying the right person is so important, especially if you are in ministry.
    This is a needed message! If we wait on God and trust Him, He will help us find the right person.

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  5 лет назад +21

      Yes, a healthy marriage is more likely to occur when two single people are seeking to date wisely

    • @lyndapeoples8127
      @lyndapeoples8127 5 лет назад

      @@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger ..when we get born-again, we are no longer sinners. We have been translated into the kingdom of God's dear Son. We are no longer children of the night but we become children of the day.
      It's impossible for a person to be in both kingdoms at the same time.

    • @annie-mate1546
      @annie-mate1546 5 лет назад +1

      Life In Fullness : Robin Alex Michael obviously I believe nothing will ever stop me from believing in God's timing n decission

    • @divayanche1
      @divayanche1 5 лет назад

      Amen

    • @sobaladube4156
      @sobaladube4156 5 лет назад +2

      very true

  • @markgifford4034
    @markgifford4034 5 лет назад +72

    Your gut instinct or intuition is God' s will. Use it to discern a love interest. Do a gut check. In most situations the gut check is real and true.

    • @whitneyallman8365
      @whitneyallman8365 5 лет назад +10

      That’s the Holy Spirit

    • @bettesfragrancereviews1994
      @bettesfragrancereviews1994 5 лет назад +9

      Yes! Unfortunately I ignored my gut instinct at first. I wanted to only see the good about the person I was dating, and that didn’t bring anything positive... quite the opposite.

    • @teresadorta8039
      @teresadorta8039 4 года назад

      Yes this is true

    • @tiffanywalker5092
      @tiffanywalker5092 4 года назад +3

      Mark Gifford you are absolutely correct! I just experienced this and I had to end the relationship, but it was worth it because my spirit is at rest and I have a peace of mind! Thank you Jesus!❤️❤️

  • @zhongwa
    @zhongwa 5 лет назад +76

    When I was younger I used to feel like I should get married, but now after seeing some disastrous marriages and their consequences, I'm willing to be patient and wait. God will show me when is the right time and who the right one is.

  • @katerigonzalez3261
    @katerigonzalez3261 5 лет назад +410

    I'm single but if I was to get married I would like to marry the right person.

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  5 лет назад +9

      Amen

    • @sterbprepper4798
      @sterbprepper4798 5 лет назад +4

      Me2

    • @EstherS15
      @EstherS15 5 лет назад +5

      Agreed!

    • @sweeteststar3882
      @sweeteststar3882 5 лет назад +5

      don't we all ? lol

    • @lyndapeoples8127
      @lyndapeoples8127 5 лет назад +4

      @B Brunson ..the 👮 policeman told you right. It puts the other person on the defensive when you say "you" followed by something negative. It's better to say, "I feel such and such a way when" or when I hear you say such and such, I feel. ..."

  • @jesuslovesyou4400
    @jesuslovesyou4400 5 лет назад +206

    I am 22 and have never been in a relationship. Sometimes i become greatly saddened by this.😟 Please pray that God give me strength to endure until my God given husband comes along.

    • @ceez3572
      @ceez3572 5 лет назад +9

      Keep on praying, God is hearing your prayers don't loose heart, he will give you the right person for you.

    • @biologicalscience1897
      @biologicalscience1897 5 лет назад +15

      Please wait. I assure you it will really save you from heartache, or worst ending up with the wrong one. Marriage is not about us alone, our emotions and all. Its about glorifying God.

    • @amontazvingira2839
      @amontazvingira2839 5 лет назад

      @Christina Masemo you Impressed me too

    • @levi-nautexrestoration6901
      @levi-nautexrestoration6901 5 лет назад

      @Christina Masemo hi, lovely

    • @skylarwinj6684
      @skylarwinj6684 5 лет назад +2

      Lauren I have a brother who is grounded in Christ..Are you on instagram?let's talk

  • @GodsPrincess323
    @GodsPrincess323 5 лет назад +199

    I ended a toxic relationship today and Isaiah 54:17 was the scripture that was repeated through out the day to me I spoke it my pastors wife spoke it and my pastor spoke it as well. I wasn’t on service today. I know it’s God telling me I’m gonna be ok and to keep having faith in him💕 I felt so far from him in this relationship but now I’m free!

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  5 лет назад +6

      Amen, keep diving into the word with God. He will lead you forward!

    • @florencefajusigbe3539
      @florencefajusigbe3539 5 лет назад +6

      My advice to the young girls is that look's for a believer man to a believer woman to date or marry. If the guy said he will be comfortable with you girls Christian's it's a big liar, as soon you are married he will change, and will be late for you to change. Look out for your own religion and marry such. Also dont choose your partner on materials level, its always better to choose from self made and not family or parents made. The video will help many young girls and boys.

    • @madisonmclendon7191
      @madisonmclendon7191 5 лет назад +2

      bless you sister. stay strong.

    • @GodsPrincess323
      @GodsPrincess323 5 лет назад

      WorthIsPower thank you so much sis ❤️😌

    • @GodsPrincess323
      @GodsPrincess323 5 лет назад

      ApplyGodsWord.com/Mark Ballenger yes sir , I’m working towards that. Please keep me in prayer. I’m trying to stay away from temptation!

  • @pechecordero9794
    @pechecordero9794 5 лет назад +40

    Amen. Looking back, I can see how God protected me. I kicked and screamed along the way trying to hold on, but as I see new possibilities, I'm glad God led me.

    • @Tanniab09
      @Tanniab09 3 года назад +1

      He’s faithful. And will send you the right one when you both are ready.

  • @miming1275
    @miming1275 5 лет назад +36

    I know why I am single because God is busy writing the best story for me💓

    • @sanjayjoyalimmanuel8566
      @sanjayjoyalimmanuel8566 3 года назад

      Yes yes Maybe God wants you to give company to Paul

    • @patriciajoyce9581
      @patriciajoyce9581 3 года назад

      Hi how are you doing am Alexander please can I know you thanks

    • @murkyvision3697
      @murkyvision3697 3 года назад

      📯📯📯 WHERE IS THAT IN SCRIPTURE...GOD DONT SERVE YOU...YOU SERVE HIM. ITS NOT ALL ABOUT YOU, SCRIPTURES SAY GOD/YAHAWAH IS THE GOD OF ISRAEL...NOT WHITE PEOPLE OR CHINESE OR AFRICANS.
      PLUS THE REAL JEWS, ISRAELITES ARE THE BLACKS SOLD ON SLAVE SHIPS. DEUTERONOMY 28:68
      YOU CHRISTIANS DONT READ!!!!!

    • @montanggol9986
      @montanggol9986 3 года назад

      I believe the best gift is to accept girls for relationship here

  • @warriorking9954
    @warriorking9954 5 лет назад +74

    God doesn't choose our mates. We have free will to choose for ourselves. We also have the choice to remain single.
    The discerning factor for those who desire to be married is choosing based on his Word.
    Ask yourself these questions:
    If God chose your mate would YOU accept the package the way he delivers it? Would YOU reject them based on appearance, economic status or race?
    God said he would supply our needs. Our desires are two fold. Sometimes we reject who we need and other times our selfish desires could lead to destruction.
    There's a saying..... Be careful what you ask or pray for because you just might get it and everything that comes along with it.
    We always want God to bless our union in marriage but he is not a matchmaker. He doesn't care about the carnal . His discernment is Spirit.
    If God chose YOUR mate and things dont work out, the first thing we as humans would do is blame God. Yet God is Blameless.
    The first example is Adam and Eve. Eve was taken out of and created for Adam and after they transgressed, the first thing Adam said was......GOD....THE WOMAN YOU GAVE ME ! BLAME GAME 101 .
    Search his Word and seek the Godly attributes for a Husband or Wife . Pray and ask God discernment in your choices.
    PEACE, LOVE AND LIGHT.

    • @rachelboadiwaa6712
      @rachelboadiwaa6712 5 лет назад +5

      He don't choose for us but he guide us that we don't make mistakes and later blame for our disobedience.

    • @edwardwhiteside8658
      @edwardwhiteside8658 5 лет назад +2

      You have no will

    • @The4Tifier
      @The4Tifier 4 года назад +7

      But that free will isn’t absolute, and it can lead to the wrong choice.
      We can’t just marry any person in the world. There are over 8 billion people, and we don’t have the power or ability to literally be able to marry any one of those people.
      God chose our general path in life for us; where and to whom we would be born, at what time, what our inherited virtues would be, and what circumstances we would grow up in. Therefore, our free will is not as powerful as you portray it to be and in reality a vast majority of our life is completely outside of our own control.
      Also, when it comes to God’s role in having us choose a spouse, I would say that like every decision we need to rely on God’s guidance as He commands us to do. This is especially in the case of choosing a spouse since it is a decision that can make or break us.
      Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding.
      Whoever seeks the Lord with all of their heart will find Him.
      Wisdom is a part of God, and God loves it when we seek after Wisdom and follow what it says.
      Also, when you think about how God made a spouse for Adam in the garden, He didn’t say;
      “It is not good for man to be alone. I will make numerous females for him that he will be free to choose from.”
      He did instead say,
      “It is not good for man to be alone. I will make a helper fit for him.”
      When God wanted man not to be alone, He didn’t give him numerous potential options to choose from. Instead, He made one particular person that would be just right for them.

    • @akogunblessing5057
      @akogunblessing5057 4 года назад +3

      Well marriage is more of spiritual than physical... It involves alignment of purpose and compatibility. Only God knows d heart of man so if we ask him... He will surely guide us to d right person for us. The fact that d person is a good person may not be good for u.

    • @semoneg2826
      @semoneg2826 4 года назад

      @@The4Tifier first of all out of the 8 billion only a quarter are Christians so that narrows your list

  • @evelynabigania58
    @evelynabigania58 4 года назад +12

    Because God loves us. Rejections and pain are His ways to tell us to stay away from wrong relationships.

  • @kelvinpotter1775
    @kelvinpotter1775 5 лет назад +20

    Hey, Mark! A big AMEN for this teaching! I have been in the ministry for 39 years, and newly single after losing my wife of 37 years in 2017. The anointing on my life is everything to me; so I know that when God sends me the right one , it’ll enhance my anointing! Therefore, I am trusting God for HIS perfect timing for my next wife!

  • @jesusislord7919
    @jesusislord7919 5 лет назад +60

    Marrying the wrong person will automatically take u from God's plan, will and destiny..
    Let's guard our calling and anointing...
    No settling. Each of us deserve God's best..
    Try and error dating isn't of God. Let's seek clarity and leading of the Holy Spirit before any commitment

    • @MelB868
      @MelB868 5 лет назад

      A date to me is just going to a movie or out to eat with a boy

    • @jesusislord7919
      @jesusislord7919 5 лет назад +2

      @@MelB868 that eating out or watching a movie has put many to bondages..
      U should be careful who u let in your life and to what extend.. Such dates also form ungodly soul ties, waste of time, distractions etc.. Remember a soul consists of Will, Emotions and Mind...
      So what u allow, think of or feel can bring good or bad in your life...

    • @pumlanohaji4420
      @pumlanohaji4420 5 лет назад +4

      Really? Is God's plan and will so easily changed by a human being whom God created? I mean Adam and Eve disobeyed God but He did not destroy them and the world He created, meaning his plans for humanity. David sinned so many times but God's plan and will did not change for his life. He died as a King. Jonah was sent to Nineveh and he went to Talashish. He ended up right where God wanted him to be. We really box God's ways and thinking, yet He has said that His Ways and Thoughts are above our own but we are able to so confidently say, this is how God works and does not work this way. We treat God as we treat our fellow human beings. Let the Holy Spirit lead you is all I can say. God has created all of us so uniquely, our finger prints are proof of that which should suggests that the plans He has for our lives are uniquely done by Him. How then can we expect the same things to happen to us all the same way?

    • @pumlanohaji4420
      @pumlanohaji4420 5 лет назад

      I believe this is how the Chief Priests, teachers of the law and elders were not able to believe Jesus is the Son of God because they thought they knew how God works.

    • @jesusislord7919
      @jesusislord7919 5 лет назад +2

      @@pumlanohaji4420 let's not be ignorant sis.. God gives us free will to choose. So what u choose can take u to God's will or out of it. Moses destiny was to take Israelites to Canaan but he never fulfilled it because he chose to disobey God...
      If today u choose to leave salvation even though God had planned it, u will go to hell...
      Samson was anointed but he disobeyed God by telling the secret he was never to reveal...
      God isn't a respecter of persons and if u do understand how blood covenants work and how many people, plans, Purpose, dreams and destiny's have been destroyed by such choices no one would ever want to be in that position...
      Many people are disobeying God in terms of maybe it was God's plan... Let's walk led by the Spirit and not mere emotions or worldly standards...

  • @raphaelnerlino7303
    @raphaelnerlino7303 4 года назад +12

    I find great comfort in the Lord knowing that He's protecting me from a bad relationship and that it's not me being rejected but God's ways

  • @natashamelloraindengchee1829
    @natashamelloraindengchee1829 4 года назад +13

    He must Love God more than me and with that Love, he will respect me, have patience, forgives and love me. 💖.

  • @claudiaanamaria1101
    @claudiaanamaria1101 5 лет назад +49

    I’m always praying for my future husband, beacuse i know that God hears and he will help me! God bless everyone❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @Meghabiyani98765
    @Meghabiyani98765 5 лет назад +39

    One thousand likes from me for making this video bro...👏👏👏👏🙏
    I have born and brought up in a Hindu Family, but I am proud to say that I am a strong believer and follower of ever living God Jesus christ. And I certainly know that he will give me the perfect life partner who is only made for me. Just pray for me! 🙂🙏🙏

    • @KaraM-tv7ye
      @KaraM-tv7ye 4 года назад

      Praying for you! So glad that you know the Lord and are my sibling in Christ!

  • @skylarwinj6684
    @skylarwinj6684 5 лет назад +6

    I thank God so much for marrying a man destined for me...I waited on God's appointed time for me to settle down...GOD gave me an angel in human form..
    Very rooted in christ ..my marriage is made in heaven because God ordained it...when you make Christ your number one,exercise patience and pray, he must surely answer and grant u the desires of your heart.The love of christ will never leave your home

  • @duct_tapeheart6484
    @duct_tapeheart6484 5 лет назад +56

    This is soooooo timely!!! I believe God uses this channel as a tool to speak to me during my singleness ❤ There have been WAY too many "coincidences" lol. I'm so grateful!
    I'm not sure what's up with my crush, but there was definitely a barrier between us lol. That was NOT about to happen, and I couldn't figure out why. Now, I genuinely believe it's God protecting us... He is a believer too, but it's pretty obvious Im supposed to turn my attention elsewhere. Mission accomplished! 👌

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  5 лет назад +2

      This is great! I'm so glad you are sensing the Lord's leading!

    • @omodaratanmatthew8287
      @omodaratanmatthew8287 5 лет назад +1

      God will assist you as you are trusting HIM, just exercise little patience and endurance in faith and knowledge through the word of God

  • @alanwilson2073
    @alanwilson2073 5 лет назад +38

    For me the signs and red flags was her insatiable thirst and appetite for other men. I ended it although I loved her like no other. She was in another relationship in zero time flat and I never heard from her again. I would still like to think I made the right decision and I think I did. I sensed God's intervention in the matter and am grateful now although at the time, I was very hurt.

    • @SixStringsCovers
      @SixStringsCovers 5 лет назад +5

      She wasn't for you, better to separate now than hurt more in the future. Usually there are girls who talk with other guys behind your back during a relationship without even notice. That's why she starts a new relationship right away, they always have a back-up in case something is wrong. We must be aware of that. There are red flags since the beginning.

    • @RMS13JACOB
      @RMS13JACOB 5 лет назад +1

      SixStringsCovers So unfortunately true.

    • @alanwilson2073
      @alanwilson2073 5 лет назад

      @@wookiee27 Thank you.

    • @SixStringsCovers
      @SixStringsCovers 5 лет назад +3

      @Robert Drake It is so difficult for Christian men to find a godly woman nowadays. For us we have to choose between 5-10 % of world women in most cases. The problem is that must be mutual, usually you like her but she doesn't like you and viceversa. Then there are life expectations and self-love, if you love yourself more than anything it will be difficult to sacrifice in love. Most people get in a relationship without being happy before that and expect to be happily married, it is not like that. Most women fall in love with the perfect guy they always had in their head and when they think they found the one and he is not like that, they try to change and control him. We also have to beware of the worldly girls who pretend they are Christian. Churches are full of them. I had one like that two years ago and it was enough. They think love is passion and fall in love with your body only.

    • @lexie02jones25
      @lexie02jones25 5 лет назад +2

      @@SixStringsCovers ikr, I agree with you! I'm a christian woman and I think we should do better than that and listen to God.

  • @donatellameravigliec.6833
    @donatellameravigliec.6833 5 лет назад +33

    I think God will deliver the right person when you forget about your mondane issues and help the others with your heart. Being too focused to find the one, or your perfect match, won't lead to it. This is my personal experience. Singleness is a great way to travel, discover themselves and strengthen the soul before starting a fulfilling relationship. I will pray for all of you that need a partner to complete their life, it will happen. Blessings and thank you Mark for your videos, they mean a lot at this time of my life.

  • @chosenson3467
    @chosenson3467 5 лет назад +30

    Let us firmly hold the profession of our faith without wavering, for He who promised is faithful. #Hebrews 10:23

  • @debra-annwillis781
    @debra-annwillis781 5 лет назад +8

    Been single for 5 years and I'm waiting for the right person I know God has for me. Enjoying the process of becoming the best version of myself as I know my future spouse is doing as well.

  • @ozelturkcepopsarklar9763
    @ozelturkcepopsarklar9763 4 года назад +6

    I'm single & I want God to give me his best. God's best is worth waiting for.

  • @margretsusngi
    @margretsusngi 5 лет назад +14

    I just had a break up and this video found me. My heart is heal now. I'm not thinking anymore

  • @samiam12blessed
    @samiam12blessed 2 года назад +1

    This was an issue in my last relationship… I was tired of being a lukewarm Christian . And was whole heartedly trying to devote my life to Christ . And my partner preferred the old version of me …. Thanks for sharing

  • @clenerosepalle4954
    @clenerosepalle4954 5 лет назад +15

    I am happily single since birth. But i am hopeful. God has something, some place and someone for me.

  • @dcharmed2
    @dcharmed2 5 лет назад +49

    Why God keeps us single for a long time is God's prerogative but we can pray for each other right? Let us pray to be prepared for the blessing of marriage. Come on, guys. 😉

  • @jungjeanie23
    @jungjeanie23 5 лет назад +11

    This is a confirmation from the Lord the He really protecting me. The Lord teaching me to wait patiently and joyfully. 😍🙏

  • @susansunny4103
    @susansunny4103 5 лет назад +30

    I am staying single since my husband (ex) left me for someone better according to him. At times I get desperate to find a good and a humble heart as my companion. I wish to find my man who can help me grow in Christ Jesus.

  • @marthakitum5990
    @marthakitum5990 5 лет назад +30

    Thank you. I will build my relationship with God first

  • @LivingForCHRISTJESUSTv
    @LivingForCHRISTJESUSTv 5 лет назад +28

    That's true Mark. And that is why is better to rather wait patiently for God's time. He will definitely choose the right one for one.
    Yes the world will hate us because we don't follow their ways and because we serve Jesus Christ.

  • @kaymcgarden
    @kaymcgarden 4 года назад +33

    I always lack strength to leave a bad relationship 😩. I'm always too hopeful.

    • @isabellacam4775
      @isabellacam4775 4 года назад +3

      Kay McGarden same here... but the best cure for that is praying to the Lord daily and he will help you

    • @kaymcgarden
      @kaymcgarden 4 года назад +1

      @@isabellacam4775 I'll do that. Thanks

    • @ajoyc3
      @ajoyc3 4 года назад

      y were like this😩

    • @ladennayoung2939
      @ladennayoung2939 4 года назад

      I know how you feel. Ask the Lord to help you to truly love yourself, and to truly love God. It will be easier to walk away. Once you know and believe that you deserve better. And when you know and believe that God have better for you. It will be okay in Jesus name. God loves you, and so do I.

  • @Phone-vj8wp
    @Phone-vj8wp 5 лет назад +15

    I was given the strength to let go.. It took me almost 2 years to stop thinking of her.. It was the most paint I've experienced in my life but I am greatful to the Lord Jesus.. Amen

  • @lovejehovahbabs5659
    @lovejehovahbabs5659 5 лет назад +3

    I'll wait until God brings the right person .. because have tried many relationships and failed ,😑...it's heart breaking ..but my God never gives up on us ...

  • @tonysu4293
    @tonysu4293 5 лет назад +45

    Thank you brother Mark for these words of wisdom ! God is watching over us lovingly! God definitely will empower us the let go of a bad relationship. God bless you brother 😃. Will definitely check the book out in Amazon ! Always putting God first 😃

  • @richieart4133
    @richieart4133 5 лет назад +3

    Good word.
    It can be easy to say we would never fall into this trap of sticking with someone that isn’t God’s will for us, until we are with that person. How badly we need wisdom and strength!
    The devil really does get a foothold in this area if we are not prayerful and walking carefully.
    I appreciate that you said it requires the Lord’s strength to get out, as the emotional grip of the wrong person can be incredibly difficult to sever.

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  5 лет назад +3

      Very true, it's all so clear until we get into the middle of something like this and then it can be very hard to see the truth. Thanks for sharing :)

  • @messianichebrewshawnkawcak1550
    @messianichebrewshawnkawcak1550 5 лет назад +7

    Sometimes to be equally yoked to the spouse of our Dreams we have to grow to the point where we can be equally yoked with that very special person. I find that the more I grow in obedience to God, the higher expectations I have for her, if she exists.

  • @JustMe-mp8on
    @JustMe-mp8on 5 лет назад +38

    Being middle aged, I haven't found the right one yet and wonder if I'm meant to be single. Either way, I'd like to have God's peace.
    Thanks for all the videos.

    • @SimplySargents
      @SimplySargents 5 лет назад +5

      Same thought

    • @radiofreealbemuth8540
      @radiofreealbemuth8540 5 лет назад +2

      Ditto

    • @TeacherWel
      @TeacherWel 5 лет назад +5

      Same here, but I have a strong faith that God will send us the right one in his perfect timing. Let us trust in his well. 😇🙏

    • @petragodfrey4716
      @petragodfrey4716 5 лет назад +1

      Dont give up

    • @JustMe-mp8on
      @JustMe-mp8on 5 лет назад +1

      @@petragodfrey4716 Thank you very much. I needed to hear that. Your kindness is appreciated.

  • @domelyncampano4083
    @domelyncampano4083 5 лет назад +12

    Waiting for the right man,that GOD want me to be with the rest of my life

    • @murkyvision3697
      @murkyvision3697 3 года назад

      📯📯📯Do you do what God says to do, because God/YAHAWAH don't serve YOU. GOSH...u christians don't read

    • @montanggol9986
      @montanggol9986 3 года назад

      Do you believe for right Guy ..I'm here add me on Facebook /chat

  • @mellieburkette
    @mellieburkette 5 лет назад +5

    I am still enjoying the call to single life, but this message really resonated in my soul this evening. Though I know in my heart that God has called me to remain single and to remain as such with a joyful heart, their is still a small piece of my heart that wishes for just a twinkle of romance. Laughingly reflecting on this, I really like point 3 followed by point 2. My strong faith in Christ and my desire to live as such is seemingly a problem among the potential dating candidates in my area. No one seems to want to wait for sex and no one has respect for monogamy...even amongst the Christians....which God calls us to love Him above all else and to worship no other gods, with marriage designed for one man and one woman...it is quite off putting to be constantly ridiculed by the counterculture to behave against my faith based worldview, which therefore makes your point number 2 interesting in that God gives his followers the power to reject those who are not in line with a biblical worldview. If culture would allow for the courtship styles of our grandparents but still have modern technology and womens right's, the world might be a bit more utopian to me.

    • @petripat5979
      @petripat5979 5 лет назад +1

      The world needs more woman like you
      God bless

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  5 лет назад

      I'm so glad this video resonated with you Melissa. Keep following the Lord no matter what the world says. God is the one we all need the most! But it's also okay and good to desire a relationship if God put that on your heart :)

  • @kellymedico5723
    @kellymedico5723 5 лет назад +29

    I needed to hear this tonight! Thank you Mark for your wisdom and gift that God has given you. Positive impact!

  • @hellennabwire1668
    @hellennabwire1668 5 лет назад +15

    Pray for me am depressed because of disappointments in men am 33 but I learnt from now on ward I want seek God first and the rest will follow and pray for me I want a white man and God fearing Amen

    • @ejakpovistella1054
      @ejakpovistella1054 5 лет назад +1

      Hellen Nabwire
      My dear my Good God don't work with time. Your age does not really matter ok.
      Allow God to take over

    • @hellennabwire1668
      @hellennabwire1668 5 лет назад

      @@ejakpovistella1054 thanks but this time round I pray for a white man Amen

  • @stpatrick614
    @stpatrick614 5 лет назад +3

    Wow. This happened to me. I kept telling my ex girlfriend about Jesus and how much he loves us and showing her quotes from the bible. The relationship ended quick after that. Looking back, she wasn't the right girl for me. I pray she is doing good.

  • @PolishBehemoth
    @PolishBehemoth 5 лет назад +12

    All 3 apply to my 2 ex gf's or girls that i pursued. Another brilliant encouragement from Mark! THank you sir!

  • @indaimeldred1971
    @indaimeldred1971 4 года назад +3

    I'm 29 and i always wanted to get married... Til i realized that it should His will be done and not mine...
    Now I'm happy being single til God will provide the right man for me to become my husband...

  • @nakedsnake6562
    @nakedsnake6562 5 лет назад +8

    I thank God for protecting me from future bad relationships even though I never married but I thank God and you mark for future references.

  • @DulceCassia
    @DulceCassia 5 лет назад +5

    Love this video! I was in 2 relationships where 2 of these things happened. Now I know that they weren’t for me and can let go of hope and be at peace. Thanks for the video Mark.

  • @EBUNNY2012
    @EBUNNY2012 5 лет назад +16

    Well, then a lot of people ignore God judging from the hook-ups and resulting off-spring I have seen out and about.

  • @salvadorcastro4733
    @salvadorcastro4733 5 лет назад +5

    Marriage is about growth and communication, theres no way a person can marry the wrong person and be happy, it is important to love oneself before marriage, quite frankly, some people are better off single, love is a fragile thing in life, in order to preserve it we must be able to fight for it.

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  5 лет назад

      I answere "Would God let you marry the wrong person?" in this video ruclips.net/video/RYFZiINqwdw/видео.html

    • @purityshallabide1645
      @purityshallabide1645 5 лет назад

      I beg to differ, Love isn't fragile at all, but soulish emotion is, and that is the majority of passes for Love as we go about Life. Have Hope for Love! ^.^)/
      This is what the Bible says about real Love:
      1Corinthians 13
      "If I speak in the tongues of men or of angels, but do not have Love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. 2 If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but do not have Love, I am nothing. 3 If I give all I possess to the poor and give over my body to hardship that I may boast, but do not have Love, I gain nothing.
      4 Love is patient, Love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil, but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
      8 Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. 9 For we know in part and we prophesy in part, 10 but when completeness comes, what is in part disappears. 11 When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put the ways of childhood behind me. 12 For now we see only a reflection as in a mirror dimly; then, we shall see face to Face. Now I know in part; then, I shall know fully, even as I am fully known.
      13 And now these three remain: Faith, Hope and Love. But the greatest of these is Love."

  • @kylaaa4036
    @kylaaa4036 4 года назад +1

    I think i just had the strength to let go of the wrong person I've been dating for more than three years. Just found out he was busy sweet talking to other girls while i was busy finding ways for our relationship to grow more with God..

  • @realdarkmagician
    @realdarkmagician 4 года назад +28

    I think am ready to marry.
    God: I am about to end this man's whole wedding fantasy

    • @djohnson2571
      @djohnson2571 4 года назад +3

      If you "think" you are ready and do not "know" you are ready....you are NOT ready.

    • @rosettet9157
      @rosettet9157 4 года назад

      @@djohnson2571 thats a godd insight!
      Thanks!

    • @rosettet9157
      @rosettet9157 4 года назад

      *Good

  • @piscesgoat66
    @piscesgoat66 4 года назад +2

    Relationship must work out by a couple continuously. Will encounter a lot of problems but as long as 2 of you are concern and wants to solve it together then relationship will be save. Always together and the love unconditionally still exist.

  • @ThinkingLikeAVIRTUOUSWoman
    @ThinkingLikeAVIRTUOUSWoman 5 лет назад +29

    The content on this channel is always right on time... anybody else get confirmation from their videos?

    • @murkyvision3697
      @murkyvision3697 3 года назад

      📯📯📯 WHERE DOES THE BIBLE SAY ANYTHING INCLUDED IN THIS VIDEO. YOU CHRISTIANS DONT EVEN READ THE BIBLE.
      BY THE WAY: THE BLACKS SOLD ON SLAVE SHIPS ARE THE REAL JEWS/ ACTUAL CHILDREN OF ISRAEL- DEUTERONOMY 28:68

    • @murkyvision3697
      @murkyvision3697 3 года назад

      SCRIPTURES, BOOK AND VERSE🤣🤣🤣 ILL WAIT

  • @yessievillanueva1766
    @yessievillanueva1766 5 лет назад +6

    Started watching other videos until I ended up here, which I'm glad. Needed to hear this, your message was God sent to me.

  • @annabellalea6979
    @annabellalea6979 5 лет назад +108

    Pray for me and my son Mark? Thank you very much!

    • @feruneeziahr7651
      @feruneeziahr7651 5 лет назад +4

      Annabelle Lea 🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @annabellalea6979
      @annabellalea6979 5 лет назад +3

      nadia rogers Praying for you now Nadia! Thank you!!!

    • @feruneeziahr7651
      @feruneeziahr7651 5 лет назад +3

      Thank you hun🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️❤️

    • @goosebumpsk
      @goosebumpsk 5 лет назад +10

      Father we pray for Annabelle Lea and her son. We pray that whatever is happening you are with them and help them through. We pray in your name Amen.

    • @annabellalea6979
      @annabellalea6979 5 лет назад +4

      John Murphy thank you very much!!! God Bless you all. Praying for you as well John!

  • @marianncarroll6763
    @marianncarroll6763 4 года назад +1

    Sometimes,the wrong person knows how to control us . Deception comes ,keep praying .

  • @anneclayton2569
    @anneclayton2569 5 лет назад +8

    It's always best to wait until you realizes God is in the relationship. I am a widow now but knew very clearly God put us together. There are too many issues that you won't agree on if you marry someone that doesn't share your faith. Also don't let other people influence you if you are into the thirty plus age God knows what is best not others, I married in my mid thirties(and had a Son later) and am glad I waited.

  • @nikkilove6128
    @nikkilove6128 5 лет назад +2

    Thanks for this, it's a great help:) I just went through #2 & it was the hardest thing I've ever experienced but I know the relationship was toxic for me. When I turned to God after the end of the relationship I realized it was not the right person.

  • @Ian-ve9xc
    @Ian-ve9xc 5 лет назад +3

    I bought your book for my middle daughters upcoming birthday. I skimmed through it and it's the perfect gift.

  • @aliscia09
    @aliscia09 2 года назад +1

    I thank God every day for getting rid of the wrong and toxic person and blessed me with a God fearing man who shows everyday how much he loves me and I do the same for him. We are getting married soon, all things are working

  • @anitaannah4201
    @anitaannah4201 5 лет назад +4

    sometimes I think dating a normal guy will do,but the will of God says i must marry a man of God . so some times resisting God Doe's not bring happiness to whatever relationship you have

  • @shreevidyabharadwaj7428
    @shreevidyabharadwaj7428 5 лет назад +3

    Yes all the three signs did take place in my experience. I was stuck and confused but God gave me strength clarity and many many confirmations and helped me to get out of a snare.

  • @florencejeannavallo7051
    @florencejeannavallo7051 5 лет назад +3

    Thank you for the powerful message. I’m confused and in rush but this message reminds me to trust His greater plans.

  • @DaurcKnyte
    @DaurcKnyte 4 года назад +1

    In my experience, these happened in that order. But because of my disobedience to number one and falling back to living in sin. I fell victim to the latter two. Put GOD First, brothers and sisters and never lean to your own understanding and never turn from HIM.

  • @garfieldthemaskedhedgehog4268
    @garfieldthemaskedhedgehog4268 5 лет назад +3

    Thank you for this video! Even though I am only 16, These tips will help me when I do start dating! I did not think that God would have Christian belief a sign that it will be a bad relationship, but then again I should have expected that, because a Christian should not be unequally yoked! To sum it all up, it was an awesome and informative video! I want to date the right person, and be able to honor God with my relationship! Hope you have a great day and an even better tomorrow, God bless you brother Mark! Your Brother in Christ, Justin!
    And I am letting God lead the way in my life!

  • @christingrant6000
    @christingrant6000 5 лет назад +2

    The last point applies to me 100%! It literally gave me chills. I thank God for his protection, but I’m sad that my faith caused an issue (NOW I understand what it was. Thank you for clearing that up for me, because HE sure didn’t(my ex)...but I forgive him for that too😇❤️).

  • @EBThisThat
    @EBThisThat 5 лет назад +7

    I just got dumped from a 10 year relationship and I am totally devastated, so out of desperation, I'm joining POF. I need a miracle !

    • @darrenblaze1734
      @darrenblaze1734 5 лет назад +4

      Lord, give RoseofSharon the miracle you need for her. Amen.

    • @faa1412
      @faa1412 5 лет назад +4

      You need a miracle? Stay single. Heal from
      That relationship. Or else you’ll repeat the same cycle.

    • @sixteen.candles.4644
      @sixteen.candles.4644 5 лет назад +2

      @@faa1412 agreed.

    • @sixteen.candles.4644
      @sixteen.candles.4644 5 лет назад +2

      Let god heal you. Get away with him.

    • @purityshallabide1645
      @purityshallabide1645 5 лет назад +3

      Where are you expecting a miracle? Do you think another fallible human can heal your broken heart or your brokenness? If so, then the truth is, you're looking for a new god to replace the one that dumped you. You don't need POF, you need the One that Lovingly thought of you, then created Time and Space just so that you could exist and come to know Him. He's still waiting for you to turn to Him instead of every other broken lover. He's made room for you in His heart, and His heart burns Jealously for you... WAIT! Just a minute...... just remember this... the moment you feel as though every last atom of your being will be lost forever.. Call on Him. Cry out to Jesus Christ, the Savior, tell Him you want to live, and not die. And even though it seems like it's too late, He'll find you. He'll find every single atom of your soul, even if it seems as though it were scattered to the furthest corners of His universe, and He will put you back together again. He will make you whole again.

  • @youtubeaddict6344
    @youtubeaddict6344 4 года назад +1

    Thank you, this was spot on! Now I know why the 2 prior relationships I had before I married my husband could not work out, it brings so much clarity to something that had always confused me before.

  • @dafnenoel9825
    @dafnenoel9825 5 лет назад +35

    Amen after having children with a man who don't believe in God. Then dating a Muslim. Then a man who say he believes in God but not Jesus. 🤦‍♀️ I've learned not to try to date again on my own. I want God to choose who I should date and Married. I don't want a man to even know my name if God don't tell me to tell him. This world is getting too wicked. 🙏

    • @queenmichelle3308
      @queenmichelle3308 5 лет назад +2

      Dafne Noel ,surprise you still sane. Both were non believers Muslim and non Muslim. Jesus is the only way God will know you no other way to the father unless you go through Jesus, sorry but not. God does not choose your husband he who finds a wife obtains favor from the lord the bible says, not your way. Just be prepared for a husband when he arrives by letting Jesus make you marriage material mate for a husband. Get your mind healthy by reading the bible daily, exercise ,eat correctly ,work on personal endeavors that make you a better person and new husband will appear, be blessed

    • @omodaratanmatthew8287
      @omodaratanmatthew8287 5 лет назад +1

      Yes we have all made one or some mistakes in life, but that is not the end, get up ,move on , move closer to God more be patience...we should understand that the first will of God for us concerning marriage is do not be unequally yolk with unbelievers, take note dear....

    • @omodaratanmatthew8287
      @omodaratanmatthew8287 5 лет назад +1

      Dont consider them at all

    • @paulineilamwenya5042
      @paulineilamwenya5042 5 лет назад +1

      it real is becoming something else

  • @Jacilyn2013
    @Jacilyn2013 4 года назад +1

    These ideas are absolutely true! In hindsight from my past relationships, this video reminded me that they weren’t right for me. God is continually teaching me and preparing my heart for whoever he has chosen for me! ❤️

  • @molly1505
    @molly1505 5 лет назад +5

    Wow thank you, all of these videos are all ways so timely, like 😆 I just got back from Church Camp and was kind of wondering if this guy I met was somebody the Lord had planned for me, I'm still praying about it but ive learned what to look out for, so thank you very much, I always feel like I learn something every time i watch a video of yours. Thanks😃

  • @elizabethjoel6341
    @elizabethjoel6341 3 года назад +2

    Lord i just want the right man for me through you.

  • @theresaflowers
    @theresaflowers 5 лет назад +5

    Hello Mark. Thank you for this wonderful video. The truth is always a wonderful welcome tool for me to live a life that pleases my Lord. Please keep them coming. Hope to get your new book soon. Be mightily blessed. 🙏😍💯

  • @unique05
    @unique05 4 года назад +1

    This is so true! God has been so good protecting me., from wrong relationship., usually even before if starts! Even though he already confirmed to me that I'm going to get married. He is so good to me, there are times that i disobeyed Him regarding on relationships & i end up so heartbroken, and i don't blame Him coz it's my fault though. But now i learned my mistakes, I'm not focusing on why i am still single, but rather God's love cannot compared to the love of any man can offer. Everyday i remind myself He is enough for me, coz he did fills all the emptiness in my heart. I don't feel lonely unlike before I'm ok when i see couples coz i already knw his promised to me that im gonna get married one day. GOD DOESN'T WANTS JUST GOOD FOR US, HE WANTS THE VERY BEST FOR US!

  • @sarahsheppard4522
    @sarahsheppard4522 5 лет назад +6

    Hi, your videos have saved me from making bad mistakes in the dating world, thank you! I'm wondering if you could give me some advice on dating, knowing your worth and being confident as a teen. There's so much pressure on social media to look a certain way in order to be attracted. It's quite stressful. These things have even a main issue in my life for sometime now... I'd like to go into my last year of high-school with a new perspective.
    Thanks

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  5 лет назад +2

      I'm so glad you are seeking the Lord. Here's a list of resources I have on our identity in Christ. applygodsword.com/category/identity/ I hope it helps!

  • @gogetter2me
    @gogetter2me 4 года назад +1

    Glory to God💜 this is so on point and true. This put a smile on my face and gratitude in my heart this morning because God saved me👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🙏🏾🎉 Thank you for this video ..... Confirmation 🙌🏾

  • @kymjandy3985
    @kymjandy3985 5 лет назад +11

    Thankyou brother u share a great video ...may our good Lord blessed u more and more...

  • @lubanyoni6262
    @lubanyoni6262 5 лет назад +2

    God speaks to us everyday its up to us whether we choose to listen to him or not. I had just embarked on a relationship which i thought was gona lead to marriage but from onset red flags were raised and i chose to ignore thinking that i would make it work in my spirit i knew he wasnt for me but i thought to myself i have been lonely for over 3yrs i jus need someone to call my own someone i can share stuff with and ofcourse avoiding fornication at all cost. I tagged along and i was happy (i was unequally yoked) until one mrng the guy woke up in a different mood he ddnt wana talk to me of which when he did he would be edgy.....so i decided that negative energy is not my cup of tea and i also went quiet till today and i knew God wasnt happy with my relationship. Bottom line he warned me and i ignored so he acted. So let us learn to listen to him. He knows our needs so he will provide dnt grow weary keep pressing😘😚

  • @Andrea-xs1rg
    @Andrea-xs1rg 5 лет назад +9

    Thank you for another powerful word Mark! Waiting on God’s best 💞

  • @tashiallgood
    @tashiallgood 5 лет назад

    Rock solid advice. Number 3 is what saved me from marrying the wrong woman. I’m now closer to God. It’s been a year n a half now. Hope not to much time passes but then again I’d rather be single then with the wrong woman.

  • @goosebumpsk
    @goosebumpsk 5 лет назад +13

    Excellent advice :)
    Im certain that your new book will be of excellent quailty vaule, tips and advice like your many other books and videos :) God Bless. Hopefully im able to get a copy this week :)

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  5 лет назад +1

      Thanks John and God bless you too!

    • @lindiwesithole7352
      @lindiwesithole7352 5 лет назад +1

      Did you get your book brother?

    • @goosebumpsk
      @goosebumpsk 5 лет назад

      @@lindiwesithole7352 yes I've read all Mark's books and purchased + read both popular books "the one" & "100 relationship signs" amazingly Amazon actually reconsed my home exists within NZ unlike other times I've brought off Amazon.

  • @kellykay24J
    @kellykay24J 5 лет назад

    Good points. Discernment is helpful and putting God first is the key. Singleness is difficult at times but knowing God is in control and protecting us for the one makes, it all worth it. I'm waiting on His promises and future in the right relationship that is meant to be!

  • @blessedlovedandfavoured4129
    @blessedlovedandfavoured4129 5 лет назад +14

    Talking of a partner.. Am. Still waiting for God to deliver mine to me.. 😅

  • @tadiafoster4460
    @tadiafoster4460 4 года назад +1

    Wow this video has so much truth in it! Blessings on your ministry . May the Most High honor your efforts to preach the truth and the gospel.

  • @tmptheville
    @tmptheville 5 лет назад +5

    Rejection!!!GOD'S Protection...this is very True...

  • @valival226
    @valival226 5 лет назад +2

    My Muslim boyfriend went to church with me today...this is MOMENTOUS! I have been praying for him for such a long time. He was singing & clapping along. He let me read him scripture today for the first time.
    I know people will tell me to break up with him since we’re unequally yoked. My faith is that he will come to the knowledge of Jesus as his savior and will receive salvation. He is so close.

    • @RMS13JACOB
      @RMS13JACOB 5 лет назад

      ValEvLo The best thing you can do is show him how your faith resonates in you life and the goodness that comes from Him. Don’t ever let others step in the way of God’s plan for yourself and your boyfriend. Best wishes!

    • @ciabelami5387
      @ciabelami5387 5 лет назад

      Hi, it's great to belive the best will happen but don't you think you should't be the one converting him? If you pray for him to come to Jesus (which is absolutely ok) but at the same time you keep the relationship it's like playing Jesus in the first place - you believe he will change because of you and for you...because you probalby want him so much. And don't get me wrong- I recenty met someone who absolutely didn't know Jesus and wants to listen more and more from me. I'm convinced it is sth he really wants-he's curious whenever we talk about God's work. HOWEVER, I don't have peace about this because of clear bible scriptures. Even though I never met someone who would prove his great qualities so well and be real, I feel the best thing to do for me now is to direct him to some christian folks and let him experience God without me. This way I will obey God and let Him do His work. If I continue the relationship hoping he will come to Jesus, it's like seeking approval of sth that God clearly doesn't approve (bible verses-unequally yokes, believer vs unbeliever). If I obey God and leave this person then who knows...God will be happy I gave up the relationship and if the person will fall in love with Jesus then God will do His things and bring us together (if that's His will). Anyway, all the best and love Jesus first. Btw. Thanks because im writing to myself now as well;) love

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  5 лет назад +1

      I talk about missionary dating here if you are interested ruclips.net/video/pRZS01pUyX0/видео.html

    • @ciabelami5387
      @ciabelami5387 5 лет назад

      Thank you Mark!

    • @donaldvoss1645
      @donaldvoss1645 5 лет назад

      Glad to hear you have high hopes was just wondering where it says in the Bible don't marry outside your race it's supposed to be translated religion I think I made that mistake and it hurt me

  • @robinmartin7835
    @robinmartin7835 5 лет назад +5

    I just ended a relationship with a Muslim man three months ago. He was very manipulative. I hate to think how much worse it would have gotten if I had stayed in the relationship. While I’m not trying to bash Islam, many people of this religion view women as inferior to men, and treat them accordingly. While I’m not happy that I had to end the relationship, I know it’s for the best. Thank you for this video - I know God is looking out for me.

    • @andreproci
      @andreproci 5 лет назад +7

      Sister I am happy for you the Bible says to not be unequally yoked

    • @florencefajusigbe3539
      @florencefajusigbe3539 5 лет назад +1

      R M I agree with your comment 100%.You guys and girls take note.

    • @robinmartin7835
      @robinmartin7835 5 лет назад +1

      Florence Fajusigbe Thank you. I actually married this man, but he was unable to immigrate to my country. If he was able to be this abusive from a distance, I hate to think what it would have been like if he had made it here. I am extremely blessed the immigration officials knew his game, even though I didn’t feel that way at the time. 🙁

  • @beachgirl881
    @beachgirl881 5 лет назад +2

    Amen 🙏
    I just purchased your book today
    I Thank God for your videos especially on dating and marriage
    God spared me from even dangerous folly in relationships that just didn’t work out, even with a few men who attended the church I went to, and I have now been out of season and wanting to seek wiser decisions on dating a Godly equally yoked man

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  5 лет назад

      I hope you enjoy the book!!! I really believe it is packed with lots of helpful info for Christian singles who desire marriage and want to honor the Lord :)

  • @joshgould9329
    @joshgould9329 5 лет назад +22

    I struggle with this a lot... I've met a lot of girls I thought were meant to be,but it ended in disappointment

    • @maryjanemaguire1124
      @maryjanemaguire1124 5 лет назад +1

      I know the feeling! No man wants a single Christian woman with 2 kids! I met their dad before I gave my life to the Lord in 2017, but our relationship was doomed, he was unGodly and I couldn't see that before

    • @joshgould9329
      @joshgould9329 5 лет назад +5

      Maryjane Maguire in some cases,people reveal who they really are after marriage

    • @maryjanemaguire1124
      @maryjanemaguire1124 5 лет назад +1

      It's so heart breaking. And I honestly think it's easier for men to move on even if they have kids then it is for women.. this man is no longer in my life and has chosen not to see his children again and my pastor says it's a blessing that all of his going down has come out now while our children are young and don't follow in the father's foit steps. And he said that God knows my children need a good Godly man in the lives and that God will send me a good husband who will treat me the way I ought to be treated and be a good father to my children, but I'm starting to think that is Wishful Thinking because men don't tend to want to be with a woman has children for someone else it's a sad fact and at 31 years old with 2 kids theres know future fir me with anyone.

    • @joshgould9329
      @joshgould9329 5 лет назад +1

      Maryjane Maguire it's not easy for me either. I hate being single,but there's not much I can do about it

    • @buyerbware25
      @buyerbware25 5 лет назад +5

      @@maryjanemaguire1124 A man who truly wants to be your husband will not see your children as obstacles or rivals for your attention. If he understands that marriage takes work, and loves you as a husband should, having children in his home life will not be seen by him as the worst thing in the world. I am related to a man who married a woman with four children.

  • @ISSSA-j4b
    @ISSSA-j4b 5 лет назад +2

    Point number 1... Wooow... Now everything's clear... God Is always good! Alleluhia!

    • @ISSSA-j4b
      @ISSSA-j4b 5 лет назад +1

      And congratulations for your book Mark!! Thanks for dedicate your life in that ministry, it has helped me a lot! Thanks!

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  5 лет назад

      Amen, all glory to God!

  • @guidedspirit7933
    @guidedspirit7933 5 лет назад +5

    This video is so on point, Thank You Father for wrkN throu Mark to speak to Us. 💪🏽🙏🏾💪🏽💚