I Was Called Barren! - Nse Ikpe Etim Says It's Fine To Use The Word 'Barren,' But....
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- Опубликовано: 25 авг 2024
- Today, the ladies of Your View discussed how "Knowing how to wait," with actress Nse Ikpe Etim who revealed sometime in 2019 that she had to remove my womb to live a normal life.
Your View, April 22, 2021
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Am so lifted with this, just last night was heavy in my heart , I pray this wait is over soon and I carry my own bundle of joy in Jesus name amen
Amen and Amen
Amen Amen
Amen!!!
May God answer u speedily ma
Amen
I pray for every woman that is waiting or has waited and has lost hope....May your tears turn into laughter in Jesus name amen.
Amen
A very Resounding Amennnn
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Nse is a Queen - all day, everyday. She speaks with such Grace and eloquence. Love her ♥️
I love her too. She's a great actor/actress.
I love her too.
Watching from Ghana
Don't segregate. Appreciate all the women in their uniqueness
@@rebeccafors shut up
Ms. Nse is one intelligent woman. Please get HER OWN talk-show. The world needs to hear her SPEAK ON IT.
She has one already on Ebony life TV. It’s about fertility
@@oluwatobidada7062 Really?? I hope they post it on RUclips so we in the diaspora can see it.
@@BukolaRY_TV Ebonylife is on DSTV. It won't air on RUclips.
Was just about to post the same thing about Nse having her own show. I agree.
@@sose9601 Your View is on TVC. TVC is on DsTV. Alas, here we are.
Hmmmmmm I waited for 5 years. 2 years down the line it was our newly found church pastor that even remind me by asking what is happening why I haven't giving birth hmmmmmm that moment all my laughter and playful part of me disappeared. Thank God hubby was there and none of his family ever questioned me. My mother in law was so super sweet may she continue to rest well. I had my baby girl after 5yrs and she will clock 5yrs soon.
God bless her
God is so a surprising King,and he can't question us,he can only see us through,am super excited for you my dear, thank God for the kind of husband you got married to,and may her mum continue to rest in the Bossom of the Lord
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Thanks
God bless mother-in-law.
God never fail it only take time
a lot of people are waiting in anger, despair, desperation. it's not easy at all
How we wait is largely dependent on the people around us, a waiting wife with a supportive husband will wait in gratitude and the same can't be said of a wife who has a husband that blames and calls her names.
Absolutely Laura!
Very true Laura.
Nothing but the truth, the blame is always on women
Very well said.
This is my story,my husband was even the one mocking me,he called me a barren many times...I believe God will wipe my tears soon
Waiting must be very hard. I have never waited on my circumstances I just rest in God it's easier for my life biko. Life is too short jare!
I’m so angry at people who don’t consider people’s feelings before opening their mouth
As if the conditions we all face in life was selected by us...
Some people's brains are actually in their legs
They simply lack compassion
@@uzoamakamadusque9829 true, even if they lack compassion the least they can do is to keep their mouth shut
Na dem get their mouth, who cares?😉
I love Nse, once I see her name on a cast I must watch
I’ve always love Nse she’s so elegant and plays her roles so well
Nse is such a darling. She's so calm and collected. I feel renewed with this section
My favorite actor, very classy and sound
God will honour you a year from today like hes done for me . #Thewaitisover
Amen and me too
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AMEN
You are right Nse ,if a man really love & support u he won't hurt u because he desperately needs children all he had to do is wait & be devoted to God 🙏
I respect this woman. God bless you, Nse. A strong woman.
I have to stick to online services for now, because of this topic.
when I'm in the house with my husband we hardly discuss it we are just two happy people.
Married for 16 yrs and grateful to God for life.
Enjoy your period of WAITING Sis. May the Lord bless you and may all your expectations be met.
@Happy lee,for ur delay & hope in God ,God will compress ur yrs & give u multiple babies in Jesus mighty name... AMEN!!!🙏
@@favourezukuse2187 thank you so much I really appreciate,God bless you
Most people forget that it is not by force to have children. African culture makes it like its do or die! Mschew
We are soulmates dear.
I love you Nse. Be yourself, God is watching over you.
I love Nse and always thought she and her hubby picked their careers over having kids, which is a decision anyone has the freedom to make. Being a tojubole is a thing with Nigerians, the art of seriously minding other people's affairs with careless "compliments" and needless questions laced with concern. We do have a lot to rethink as a society.
In Jamaica we have the same issues. Women who are unable to bear children are called mule and are ridiculed and mocked in their communities and workplaces as a result. For the men who are suffering low sperm count or sterile, they are referred to as firing blank shots. It is hard.
My African Queen and one of my favourite Actresses. Love you to bits.❤️
Everyone has a process they are going through, this process is unique with each individual and so don't rush them out of it, let them take their time through the process.
I love you Nse and may God continue to surround you with his light. Your enemies have no choice than to be drawn to your light. God bless you
I can't explain the pain of having to wait, the fear of it will never happen, there are no words to contain the pressure and pain, it brings. If you have never been there there, as in there, the days, the months counting into years, I had to bury kids after pregnancy came through and as I gave birth, knowing he or she will die, I had my Ex in-laws say bullshits, I just can't but thank God, it passed.
I pray for every expectant woman, that the Lord will give peace, peace that no man can give. My hugggggs and love 🧡
Amen thank u sis
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It's not easy, I went through that stress and it takes the grace of God, my ex-in laws were on our neck, thank God it's over and I have my life back.
Chilling words.😢
" U might as well get in there" got me laughing
The issue of inability to have child is the most hurtful thing on this earth no matter how you pretend you don't it still shows on your face . The thought never leaves any time you are alone it comes esp when you see your period.
I’m a Nigerian woman who doesn’t want children, even though I love & respect children.
I simply do not want to be a mother but an Aunty.
So be it, if that's your choice. No harm
Is your choice...and I respect that.
I have one child and I want one more not from me tho probably adoption. And I get judged for that but is my choice and I don't care what anybody think... I also don't want to be married never ever is also my choice and I wish people will just leave me alone. I respect u dear
@@vivianponmak9644 it's ur choice dear... If it's God's will you will definitely get married
@@vivianponmak9644 me too
This is something very close to my heart. This is why I have topics that n fertility, womanhood, changes in the woman’s body and all Health issues.
Nse is a star ⭐️
My love for the hair and accent
And the skin 😘😘😘🥰🥰
Nigerians and their fixation on accents 😂😂
@@ifehansson2254 abi na, I admire what is nice anyways. I don't despise those whose accents are not like hers anyways
When a woman in marriage has problems of infertility you hardly see their men staying with that woman and be faithful. But if it’s the man that have the infertility problem they want their wife to stay with them. At that time you will be hearing marriage is for better and for worsts
My dear, it depends on the circle you relate with. There are men who are angels in this world, but staying with your spouse is normal. let us stop these exaggeratons.
You dey write rubbish. @ Victoria. There are thousands of guys that love their wives even though they have fertility issues.
Yep!
@@chikarayleigh4534PLEASE She not talking rubbish ,Yes maybe thousands of guys stand with their wives. But let's face facts millions of women are left, made fell nothing, called names because they can't have children, a lot women are suffering in silence
@@veraaddoyobo8482 guy she dey talk rubbish.
Nse has always been my role model, may God bless you
This is for me, trying to wait in gratitude
It's the "You might as well get in there" for me 🤣😂🤣 but really, we all need to do better as people and stop putting unnecessary pressure on others or better still, learn to mind our individual business!😐
Nse is beautiful.. and whatever it is I believe God of creation can give her a new womb to bear children.
Hopefully our society will evolve to acknowledge and respect those who voluntarily opt not to have children. Children are expensive and do not come with manuals, not everyone can meet these specifications.
Nse's phonetics 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
I love Nse . She is very enlightened
Heal me LORD and I shall be healed, save me and I shall be saved for thou art my praise. Jer 17:14
I’ve adored n admired her since my first time watching her movies decades ago. She’s a queen with so much class n talent ❤. Speaks so well n beautiful to listen to❤. God’s purpose is better than man’s purpose aunty Nse. Love ❤️
All my love for Ms. Nse!❤❤❤❤❤
Nina made this discussion... Everyone else had a theoretical approach
I so much love the way you relate the issue Morayo.
What happens to adoption? People should be encouraged to adopt children.
In the courseof waiting I am building a better me , the best fun catching is always my weekend therapy... I love this discussion.
I don't even allow people's saying to get to me.
Not everyone is meant to have children and it’s ok.
The bible said they shall no barren in the among you
The only barren woman in Bible was David's wife Michal and that because she mocked David for praising God. With God all things are possible
Sadly the video ended abruptly. I would have love to see if other forms of waiting were mentioned. Mostly people mainly concentrate on fertility but guys those waiting to get married face exactly the same stigma of who knows maybe she has useless herself when she was young that's why she can't get a man and so many other insensitive comments. Married friends abandoning their single friends and all. May God help we Africans.
Go and watch the full show on search for TVC or just search Nse ikpe
You just nailed. You can't imagine got married friend taking you for the un serious type to marry you because of your way of fashion and their husbands opens mouth to bring separation between you both
I see myself in a situation of not knowing how to encourage waiting mothers around me. waiting is not easy
Just be quiet and nod your head, that's all.
I love Nse ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Beautiful strong and courageous I love you Nse.. Loving this program💪😍💕
OMG She is my favorite. She is intelligent
The Lady conducting the interview needs to be more patient and let people speak, I for one did not enjoy this because there were a lot of half convos and a lot of off the topic conversations not related to the topic at the time. She is quick to cur people and it's sad cause I really want to hear what they all have to say. This is my first time here and I did not really enjoy this one.
How about adoption I think it is a positive alternative. why do Nigerians find it difficult to do? Blessings can come through that.Just my thought
She is always like that.. Possibly rushing because of time.
@@oluwatosinomoniyi3476 then they can conduct it in such a way that it does not looked rushed and pointless, alert each speaker of how long they have to answer questions and be straight to the point. Don't ask the same question in 3 different ways with the speakers always getting carried away and never really addressing the question. It's confusing.
I like her, i have learned that u can still adopt and get all the love of a child
NSPPD what God cannot do doest not exist. Waiting can be unbearable.but praise God through it and join NSPPD. I repeat join NSPPD. Reality comes alive.God Bless you and keep you and for the years of waiting may you receive doubles. Those who mock you will celebrate you . God who did it to all the woman in bible will do it
Amen
Yes ooo
Connect to NSPPD. What God cannot do, does not exist ooo
I love nse so much....love from ghana
Hi TVC , how I wish I can get a little close to madam NSE I will be very happy because I want to learn a lot more from here
Children are a product of marriage. Loving someone is through all aspects of challenges.
What if children don’t come are we now saying men or women should step out? Morayo what if it’s the man’s issue? Should the woman step out?
Very interesting topic thanks guys
Nse does not hv a typical African mind...love her though🥰
I believe %100 that God Will Surely Answer Her Prayers..All We need is to Continue Praying for her..
Yes, and I believe that on that day I will be here to give God all the Glory for her. It will happen.
Nse Ikpe Etim , Beautifully soul❤Stay blessed
Thanks YK. My own rule for living life is 'do unto others what you want them to do unto you' period. Unfortunately a lot of people are unfortunate and uncouth. Shame on them.
I've learnt a lot from this conversation
Why would people called u barren ? Are they God ! Know one is barren in the sight of God ! The word of God said , we should go forth and multiple. So , barrenes is not the portion of his children
NSE 👍👍👍 lovely accent
If anyone calls you barren,tell them that no one has it all, everyone is barren of one thing or the other,such is life, get over it.
Correct chi
I love dis conversation💯💯
My mother-in-law said that because my husband meet me on Facebook that I will not grow nor be fruithful because I have not had a baby after 2yrs and 6months of marriage, forgetting I have had miscarriages .and I just 25_26. Is hard ooo, they don't care how you feel and what you're going through Emotionally, am depressed and no body knows about it. I just laugh and pretend. Nnewi Anambra mother Inlaws they don't help especially when you're not from there tribe.
Please take heart and pray over it God is control you will have babies that u can’t even count
@@nanabanaisy3096 thanks
You will be fine... God almighty will bless and make your womb fruitful in Jesus's name.
You are right. MY SIST
All u need is prayer. When your twins land we will see who will be lafing at last.❤️
You have children,trouble.You don't have children,trouble.God help Africans and Nigerians,to always mind their bizness
I came here for NSE...I love you mammi
I understand that having a baby is not in anyone control. I have a few close pple that are waiting. And I have never ever asked them about it. I don’t even knw how to keep my mouth to be asking that kind question.
The day Morayo will speak without bringing society in, I will chew raw jeans 😁 😂 😅 😅 😅 I like her tho 🤗, Nse is such a beautiful woman ☺ and her voice 😋
"You might as well get in there"
Supu!
God bless her womb
Amen and Amen
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Amen
Oh wow, Nse's accent ❤❤🙌
Accent kwa....nawa ooo
@@chikarayleigh4534 yes? Any issue?
Are u listening to the matter or accent?
@@chikarayleigh4534 lol 😂. Let's just say I was multitasking(Listening, learning and observing at the same time).
Nigerians with fake accents when we know we dont speak like that. Nigerians have their own AUTHENTIC BEAUTIFUL accents like other ethnic countries. Nse is coping from another country. I wonder which one though.
i went through this waiting process for almost 2 years and it felt like my world was crumbling down right before my eyes accompanied with some heartless persons which kept reminding me in all ways, ugh
How will you feel if you had to wait for 16yrs?
@@luluallwell6232 My God, that would be insane
I love her so much.
Nse they will never understand until they are wearing same shoe you are. Thank God I'm living normal life now. I'm now living in gratitude. People need to be more enlighten than go through hell of pain.
Don't segregate. Appreciate all the women in their uniqueness
Very interesting and constructive discussion. Don’t forget our cultures and traditions too might be making negative impact or waiting or barrenness too.
Very classy actress
I am a Nigerian woman who can't have kids of my own. I love kids and I would want to have them, but I can't make them.
I just want to be me and own it and be happy as I am, but the people around me make it all seem like I should make it my life's purpose to find solution and change my anatomy.
I am seen as unserious in life and even possessed because I am not chasing miracles and prophesies.
It's all exhausting and frustrating.
I get your point,but you also need to do cleansing of womb,if your d type that have a hot womb,and dey are good Prayer people who can also assist you, please you only need to give a Trie, and think less.
@@davidchristabel4167 You don't know me. You don't know what I have or don't have.
Let's just leave it at that.
@jane @a,Ok my Sister,is just dat I felt for you,but God knows d best.thanks .
True story...no one understands but each has an opinion or solution. Stay strong dear
Hi Jane, i can't say i understand how you feel but i do want you to know that you don't need a child to live a happy life. I love children but i don't want to have them not because I can't but because I won't. Just know that there are people who would love you regardless of your anatomy ❤️
Nse👌❣
Interesting topic ...
How would u know exactly when, when you are not God?
I have been married 9 months and receiving questions about if I am using my body to carry the baby even though it's quite obvious that the blessing hasn't come even though I gained a bit of weight.
I think society should be a lot more supportive and not push people into unnecessary despair. Cheers
What's the title of the movie y'all watched whilst you hung out, please?
And what's the title of the movie, Ma'am Nse referred to where the character she played was similar to her reality
Go and ask society for school fees and see. I beg don't allow anyone to pressure you oo, not in anything
I have been there people asking when are you having babies is just so rude instead remind them in your prayers
i see some comment is against having child and i discover all of them is single girls and i laugh calm down just when you reach age 60 to 70 years you will understand sand and stone
Nse is just a Queen and not the ratchet sort!!!!. Nse for president!!!!
It's interesting how infertility is always assumed to be caused by the woman and never the man
That’s a good comment
what is the name of the movie?
We should try to know and understand people's story before judging. Do not judge ooo
I think the right thing is not to judge anyone whether u hear there story or not
What is the name of the movie?
I need help truly in this matter 😢
What's the movie pls
Mmm, why did the woman in long colored hair sneakily touched the host under the table when the woman in a hijab was talking? At 16:42 mins🤔
What she did right there is very wrong 😂😂
🙄🙄🙄😁😁😁
Very wrong please
She's an amebo
Maybe she was taking too much time in their own opinion.
My time is come soon
Hmmm deep
I thinks its selfish of a man or a woman in a relationship who is infertile to expect their partener who is fertile and want children to sacrifice having children although the desire is to have children.
Everyone came on earth to be happy that happiness can come from having children . Some people are blessed to be able to have children some are not . Why should the ones who choose to have children cant do so because they happen to have partners who cant have children .
Why should one sacrifice the joy of having a child because their partner cannot .