@@surfexcel9178 You'll see him often in hopecore style videos because his overarching message outside of the political stuff is ultimately a message of hope - you aren't everything you could be, and you can start improving your life with responsibility and discipline.
@@surfexcel9178 He's not a bad man, and he has a ton of compassion. Try to read between the lines, even if you don't agree with him for whatever reason.
Every day is a victory. Because you are beating your depression. Every day you are winning. Keep going. You are strongercthen you think. Do not let the dark thoughts eat you alive.
iron goes through multiple turns in the furnace before it turns into a useful, powerful weapon. stay strong bros and when you get out of that hell, you are gonna come out strong like forged steel!!
You gotta consider the possibility too that there is no light at the end of the tunnel and the tunnel probably collapsed a long time ago. Youll go insane trying to find the exit so instead just adapt to the dark
This gave me a good cry. I’ve been working full time and taking night classes in the evening. Homework on the weekends. No time to take care of myself or spend time with those I love. I have to remind myself that it’s temporary and I’m doing it for a better life for my family. Whatever you’re going through, you deserve to know that people are proud of you. So if you’re reading this, keep going. You’re doing such a good job
There's always a time for happiness through accepting your struggles as opportunities, but I understand that it's hard to see it that way all the time. No one can guarantee that what you do will 100% lead you to where you wanna be, but anyone can guarantee that not doing what you're doing won't bring you anywhere. On an empty promise, I promise you that it'll all work out bro 👍
I love all you guys. For real, I wish u sunshine in ur darkness. Kindness when u feel at ur upmost alone and breaking point. At the strength it takes to hope, and keep on going and walking towards the person u wanna be. Cause I’d like to meet that person. So keep going till you are him. Till you are them. It’ll be worth it. I truly believe that “It can’t all be rain clouds ponyboy. The law of averages says the suns gotta shine eventually on us too. Just keep breathing, please”
@@Xrpvp2 Nah bro thank u. I just spoke my mind. U made the video that brought us here. Give urself some credit too. I can tell these are made with real feeling and intent bro. So thanks, thank you. Fr man
Jesus christ... I bursted into tears when policeman asked what do you need and he said a hug and started crying I felt him. Today I feel really horribly bad so much negative emotions and thought I just wanted to end it. I`m struggling with my depression and looks like it`s going worse again. I don`t have anyone to shear my feeling and this video just helped me. Thank you all and try to survive those horrible days.
You got this. We have all had our darkest hour. For those that survive it makes us grow you know. I know it's not the most motivating to hear but look to the small things.
Hey man this might be random but it has helped me in immeasurable ways. If you feel this way joining a bjj gym is a great way to meet friends, work on a new skill and get fit. Even the training itself feels therapeutic and cathartic to me, you will never be more present and living in the moment. Love bro, don't give up
All the love in the world to you. You are the love. Be the love. Be loving and keep being loving. You will get it back in return. Huge hug and high five to you through the ether. I suffered with depression for years before beating it. It can be done. Study, practice, repeat. Keep a beautiful vision of having what you want in your mind and work toward it! Have faith. peace love and all things good to you.
In my opinion it's the social labels we put on ourselves that shouldn't be tthere. A doomer and a hoper are two sides of the same ideological coin. You are a human being with your own life goals and dreams. No societal label can restrain you.
Been reading many of your comments, all very relatable. A small part of my life I'd like to share if you don't mind. I'm 32, 0 friends & I truly mean that. My mum is the only person who listens and talks to me, my only joy is seeing my dog. It took my 14 years to go back and continue my education in fitness (I got my level 2 in 2010, had to stop to bring Income into my house to provide for my family, its just me and my mum). I no have no kids & no girls is interested in me & I'm absolutely broke, 7k in debt tbh due to having a mental collapse in 2016. Everyday I go through mixed emotions of wanting to try my best to literally throwing in the towel. I'm extremely lost in this world, I know my purpose but I don't know how to get there. All i really want is simple things in life, yet these seem to be impossible to achieve. Il keep trying fellas, 1 day at a time, hope you do too. See you at the finish line fellas, kind regards, phil.
Thanks for being vulnerable man. Here’s something to think about that Carl Jung said. “For a tree’s branches to reach to heaven, the roots must reach down to hell.” There is so much terrible in the world - but I know there is beauty waiting for you. Beauty that balances out that terrible. You’ll find peace, I know that you have the capacity to get through this. Keep going, brotha.🙏
16 minutes of frisson and tears welling up. I recognized pretty much every clip and when they're put together and contextualized like this it just hits like a truck.
@@havocfr his name is david choe. hes an artist. and hes such a wholesome personality. i can definitely recommend checking out his art, but also who he is as a person. Very nice guy
7:09 this hits really hard, it made me cry. My parents were two really fucked up and traumatized people, they were to busy coping with distractions on top of having marital issues to give me the help and attention I needed as a child. It makes it really hard to ask for help from others, even though I could really use it sometimes. I can't express how hard it is to not really have parents as a kid. I won't lose hope though. Keep fighting everyone.
reach out to someone. I have learned in my 22 years that it is okay to reach out and ask for help. We are not meant to go through life alone. I know that you will make the best decision for yourself because you OWE it to yourself and no one else. much love on this side!
Learn some sales skills. Learn persuasion and the art of pick up. Not to escape with pleasure, but use these skills to open your parents up and get closure. The only way you will receive the help you need is to skillfully ask. That’s what I did with my father and mother, it took me a long time.
I feel your pain brother. For me, I watched my father, the man who brought me into the world, the man I was supposed to look up to and want to be like, slowly destroy himself and our family. It feels like it often but we really are not alone. May we all find peace and love. Praise God and in Jesus Name, Amen.
You know, there is something about when you take a well-deserved break from working to watch this video and you fullscreen it, and with an unbothered mind listen to it fully, it just hits differently. It's beautiful, made me cry. I am happy and grateful I was able to see this. If you are going through tough times just know that tough times never lasts only tough people last. Cheers
Damn. I’ve lived my whole life up to this point in almost complete sadness. I said I hated the world but truly I just hated myself. I’m only 14 but I’ve gone through some really tough things, from my parents divorce, bullying, extreme racism, to the newest endeavor, which was being diagnosed with cancer. I think watching this video made me realize that I CAN do this, I am CAPABLE of doing the things that will put me on track for my dreams. And whatever life throws my way, I’ll keep going. Because in the end, it’ll be worth it.
Keep going man. You’ve got this. I’m only 4 years ahead of you, and I’m sure I haven’t been through the hardest times yet, but knowing that hope is real, that there are brothers like you out there fighting their own battles along side me? That’s what’s going to get me through the years ahead. Love you bro. Hang in there. Give this cancer hell. I’ll be praying for you. ❤
Hey man, just like the other dude, I'm 10 years ahead of you. I've been through some shit, but trust me, you need to keep pushing. I won't sugarcoat it, it ain't easy. Life will pick you up, to smash you to the ground, but it is up to you to pick up those pieces, and put yourself back together again, because nobody will do it for you. But that's the beauty of it, the fact that you rely only on yourself means that you CAN and you WILL get through it. Cancer ain't got shit on you my man. Keep your head up high, the sun always shines after the rain comes pouring down.
The Robert Downey Jr. clip was what made me cry. I related too much to a grown man asking his father to tell him that he loves him, even if it was a lie. My parents got divorced when I was 10 and I've lived with my mother ever since. I don't see my father often, but even if I did, it wouldn't repair the damage that has been done both by life and my older brother who abused me physically and psychologically for years until I garnered the bravery to start fighting back. I've never had anyone to tell me that they're proud of me, to teach me discipline and how to be a man. Now here I am. Twenty years old, still in high-school, way behind in life, no drive or motivation or purpose. My mother is still there for me, but I feel she supports me only partially. She doesn't support my dream of being a soldier, and when I told her of the abuse I'd suffered by the hand of my own brother, she just told me to get over it. I'm alone. I have no one. I do know that I won't let my past and my circumstances define me. Staying in this state isn't an option and I have to fight, I _will_ fight for what I'm willing to suffer for.
Thank you for compiling another perfect example of what it feels like to be a man when no one is there for you but yourself. I appreciate you for this. Salutations from Florida.
With all due respect. I am seeing all this comment and your´s made me stop and realize. All these people complaining about being a man is from the US. Like what is going on over there? Because the more I look into it is more about something that men can´t be loved and is getting weird
@@ikerb1232it’s bad over here man. Being a man is stigmatized to the max here. If you are masculine or stoic you are a bigot. When you disagree with someone you’re a bigot. Men are all 🗑️ here apparently, even though all these women are living in a society we built. We’re treated like trash. Especially if you’re straight and white.
I woke up today with tears down my face because I didn't want to see the sun come up today. For some reason, this video was the first on my recommendations. It helped me get out of bed today. Im afraid of being alone
Nobody will ever care about you…the way that you care about you. Learn to love to be on your own. Then make an effort to acknowledge the times when you’re not. Many aren’t afraid of being alone, they are terrified of what they think of themselves.
Brother listen, your fear of being alone tells me that you need other people to be happy. Of course you can be happy with them and enjoy your time with other people, but you must find true happiness in yourself. Because the only person that will always be there for you, is you, so make yourself your own happiness. I also love talking to people, and having people im close to, and having great conversations with anyone i see, but your happiness should always be from yourself, because what if there not there? You are always there. So make yourself your own happiness, and stay well brother.
After 7 years of marriage and 2 children, my wife is leaving me. I got to a place of complacency and depression and my marriage suffered. Thankfully, my wife wants to keep things amicable with the children and our relationship, but I need videos/comments likes these to give me the fuel to effect change in my life and wake up from the life I've been living. It's so hard taking care of ourselves, I feel that.
I recently went through a heartbreak which left me devastated even though the relationship lasted "only" a year. I can't even imagine what you must be going through right now, sir. I wish you all the strength to overcome your challenges.
I'm so sorry to all men who feel this way. My boyfriend has gone through a lot in life too and feels like he is not successful enough. It hurts me when he thinks he is worthless coz to me he is such an amazing man, hardworking and determined. I can't make him think like me, but I just trust that my love and support make his every day a less difficult one.
I wish I had the mentality and positivity of the guy that was carving wood. He looks content and happy with what he was doing. He seems genuinely happy, I wish him the very best. It kinda makes me happy that he's happy, you know.... Because internally I'm so, so, sooooo fucking miserable....
I found out today that a friend who I hadn't talked to in 5 years had died. This video feels really on point. Don't know if we can chalk that up to the algorithm or cosmic harmony. I really needed this.
Dude I'm with you one of my best friends moved to Switzerland and he was so lonely he drank himself to death during covid and there was nothing I could do
I remember as a young teen going through depression. I found hope in ‘faith in humanity’ videos and compilations. It was a wholesome way to restore my hope in this world for myself and for others. Hope continues to ripple through the waves of despair. Sometimes those small ripples are powerful enough to rip through the depths of destruction that surround us. No matter what I will always keep hope in my heart and spread it to others who need it.
When I was 18 I failed an army medial test and I thought it was the end of my life my one dream was gone. 5 years down the line, I’m just about to start university as a paramedic, if you would have told me that then I would have laughed in your face. Don’t ever ever give up, roll with the punches, fuck if people don’t believe in you, you got yourself one quote that has always stuck with me. “Once you learn to love yourself, you can begin to love others.” Keep strong you beautiful human being, we are still in this fight, let’s make some people smile today!
I admire you brother, I'm close to taking my test to enter the university as a doctor. I'm honestly afraid of failing and thinking that it's all over. Listening to you has given me security
I’m gobsmacked by the timing of this video entering my life. Lately I’ve been feeling anxious with a feeling that it is all over and that the best thing for me to do is end it all for good. I’m 41 unemployed and soon to be homeless. Been single for 7 years. After 41 years of breathing I feel like I am disposable. As I watch the video the pain and frustration exuding from frame to frame hits me. Suddenly I don’t feel so alone. However I wish the pain I feel needn’t be shared. I don’t wish it on anyone. If only my choices mattered. Instead I will go to sleep tonight preying that it will end soon enough
Your life has purpose because you keep going everyday your life only has purpose because you keep breathing, your here for a reason whatever that is I hope you get the hint of it keep trucking and and believing in God and things start to feel different I have zero clue of who you are or what you where born into but just keep going man for there’s joy in the morning
Gave me the greatest cry I've ever had. I've been feeling like life has just been going on and on and running past me. I'm not depressed or suicidal, there's just that feeling that I can't describe that takes me out of every moment, that voice. I have to tell myself each time that I have so much to live for but this video really helped me take my words in. I hope for everybody watching and reading that your life and potential gets fulfilled to it's best.
I love that we're starting to see more good men supporting good men. It can be really lonely and hard out here, but if we accept and understand that we've all been in a dark place at one point or another, we can begin to accept ourselves. Mens weakness isn't feeling and sharing their emotions. It's denying you're having those emotions so you become unable to improve yourself. Stay strong guys, and keep focused on your goals. Things will be better than you could ever imagine.
Hopecore makes me feel like I covered my eyes for like a minute in the bright sun, then removing my hand and seeing the world with a childish light, it makes me feel warm and giddy, like nothing matters, it’s encouraging.
This video made me cry a lot. I will forever thank all this inspiring people to drag me out of my shithole . Reject weakness, embrace masculinity. I love you all.
For the david goggins one at the VFW to his mother, he said "For not picking me up when I fell. She taught me how to get up when I was knocked down." This, is a lesson we are all learning more and more everyday.
"I should say, love is wise, hatred is foolish. In this world, which is getting more and more closely interconnected, we have to learn to tolerate each other, we have to learn to put up with the fact that some people say things that we don’t like. We can only live together in that way-and if we are to live together and not die together-we must learn a kind of charity and a kind of tolerance, which is absolutely vital to the continuation of human life on this planet." - Bertrand Russell 1959
I read something once that I found important. It was like "Oh, you were born alone and you'll die alone? So you delivered yourself? You fed your infant body, you cooked every meal you've eaten? Who made the clothes you're wearing? Who made the bed you're going to die in- you, all by yourself?" None of us are alone. Our existence depends on the existence of others. If you reach out, someone will be there. Not everyone, but someone. You must carve a path for yourself- you must trust that the tender pockets of humanity are there, and wrench them open and crawl inside. It will hurt. It will suck. It will save you. It is worth every second.
To whoever reading this I wish you the very best in life, you deserve it. I'm proud of you and how far you've come, I mean that with my whole heart. No matter what tomorrow brings go out into the world and spread peace and love, for it will come back tenfold. You got this, I believe in you
This is one of the most beutifully edited videos i've ever seen, it's been a while since i came this close from crying. Amazing work i hope everyone can see this video.
These are the videos that make a difference. A lot of these clips I relate to, thank you for taking the time to make this, it's helpful to a lot of people in need.
Just so you know you did it bro. I truly hope you realize that. Life sucks a lot and you aren't alone. Don't give up. It isn't all downhill. You can do it again tomorrow. You aren't alone, you only feel alone
Great messages here. Females need to hear this too. Life can be difficult for everyone. Honestly we need to support each other a bit more. Doesn't have to be a massive undertaking to be nice and respectable. A bit of expressing of humanity is fair
Take these 16 minutes to feel your pain and sadness but after work towards getting out of this rut. Limit social media consumption. Don’t feed the sadness, no sad music. No sad movies, RUclips videos. When you feel down go for the opposite. Walks, motivational videos, music. Work out! They all help out and speak to someone, once you speak about your troubles you take their power away. You owe it for to YOURSELF! Then to everyone else. I hope we all reach a place where we are comfortable with who we are and don’t care about what others think. In the end it’s all on you. What was given to you you had no say in it but NOW you do. Carry the load, share it with others and change your life. Accept everything!
Had a really tough day today, watching this video puts things in perspective. Oftentimes I have suicidal ideation. I haven't had it recently but I almost did it again. This definitely helped curb that. Thanks for all that you do and continue to do for all those that subscribe to you. Myself included. Appreciate you bro 🔥 👊
Hey man, i wish you well, if my words mean anything to you please remember that you may be a complete stranger but there are people out there that care about you and want you to stick around. We're all human and you may feel like youre alone sometimes in your suffering but youre not. Shit gets better, as much as you might not want to believe it right now. Take care of yourself and God bless.
I remember feeling so depressed when i was 13-16. Being in my room all summer. Couldnt even get out of bed most days and that lasted weeks. I used to think that would be the worst feeling id ever felt. But I was wrong. Ive faced so many bad feelings that trumps those of the past growing up. But. I made it through and everything is fine.
I love seeing that we are all in this state, i hope that i can live to see the day that we all join up together and actually do something that would change the way we have been living
That cop may have saved that dude's life. There's some bad apples in the police that spoil the bunch in the public's eyes. I wish that videos like this were shown on the nightly news just as often as the undertrained, high school jocks wearing the black and blue (as the marine corp no longer need their services), and while riding an adrenaline high, doing something irredeemable to the people they are supposed to protect and serve. Just like that cop doing something as simple as giving a hug to a guy who is obviously riding the borderline of what he can handle alone. What a fking hero he is.
Just to quickly clarify something: I'm not saying don't show the negative in favor of the positive. Abso-fking-lutey not saying that. I think EVERY SINGLE officer pulling the trigger, while aiming at a suspect, needs to have their body cam footage released to the public. And whoops! If that cam footage isn't recording or is missing for some reason, they should at the very least also be surprised when their paycheck suddenly goes permanently missing, while they are also being investigated for manslaughter, or even the heavier murder charge being on the table.
I hope you're doing alright, whoever you are, continue confronting your fears, overcome and get stronger in whatever way is important to you. keep at it king.
I needed this... life's just been a never-ending hustle from working overtime for a bullshit pay to them trying to find the time to even exist properly, it's been a huge struggle. Those dark thoughts start creeping up and that despair keeps growing and growing... Thank you for this. I hope everyone sheds these dark moments off of them and I hope to make you all proud one day. Even if I don't know you... Love you guys.
I rarely write comments in RUclips but when i came across this video i had to give my words on what I'm feeling right now. The dark times have arrived for me and I personally don´t know how to deal with this, so i keep watching this "real" videos and I'm starting to shift my mentality, a more depressed and dark one. Suddendly all the roses and sunshine in my life disapeared, and i have no one to save me. Every since high school ended life became more "real, even tough i made some solid progress over this 1 year. I´m at Uni now, and i can´t even describe how bad it is, i don´t get bullied or something like that, but i discovered something that i feared, feeling lonely, and oh boy it hurts alot, seeing everyone happy because they have friends and their uni is going super well, that hurts me, because i always dreamed of being at Uni with my friends, drinking a beer and playing games, but that never happened, I'm by my own, and i have no one to seek. I hate life, but one day i will find my peace. I truly wish everyone in the comment section a great happy life, stay strong king, the sun will rise again, please don't give up. And i hope five years from now (If I´m alive) i can come to this comment and say to myself: I fucking made it, I´m successfull now, and it´s all so "real"
Hey man i read your whole comment. Ive felt the same way before for long periods of time. Its tough. I understand it’s difficult to take advice from another random dude on the internet but i really think you should make an attempt of going to church. Im not one for really spreading religion to everyone i meet. But i think you should give it a try, you dont have to go in with the mindset of “i need to believe, i want to believe” especially with something that in a logically sense seems so impossible. This Sunday i highly recommend you wake up relatively early, count at least 5 or ten of your blessings, go to church, say hi to 2 or so people and strike up a conversation if you want. Then after go to the gym. The worse thing you can do is just sit on your phone coming from experience, get outside for a walk or lil run. I wish you the best of luck with dealing these issues. Believe in yourself to find a way
@@user-fu7eh2mk5n Hey, thank you for the advice, i already go to church 1 or twice a month, im part of the people that play and sing there. I'm feeling somewhat better now than 2 weeks ago, thank you so much for your words, much love.
Thank you for this edit, it was helpful for me, I realized that I'm not the one who is struggling with difficulties in life, stay strong guys, and we will achieve our goals and mission.
We all know that eventually this agonizing pain we feel inside of our souls will have to subside. Its just in the now, in the present, it's extremely hard. Getting up to learn to grow to hate yourself a little more. But there will be good, even if you don't see it coming. Small things mean a lot when you're hurting and numb at the same time. The video of the cops hit home. Last night I had an amazing night, met a band that played their first show of a 3 month tour and my cousin and I definitely made an impression. It was a really good night. But a girl that rejected me also happened to be at the show, so I can't be happy even when I have so much reason. It's not just that, so much more dumb bullshit going on. But anyways, walking home, a cop pulls up and we have a heart to heart, I started crying and they really helped me. Thank you Officer Jones and Arcane
This was fucking amazing. So many emotions, so much hope, so much inspiration. All wrapped in a short video. Tears of joy and sadness. Did not expect that at all. Thank you.
This video gave me hope because it assured me that I am not crazy. Life isn't just happening to me there are others who are very similar to me in a way I couldn't have imagined. I am grateful to the source for putting this video on my recommendation.
You got this guys. It’s so fucking hard but you got this. You matter, you’ve worked hard, the place you’re at is levels ahead from anywhere you’ve been
1:33 this life can be rough and lonely boys. We may never meet, but know you’re not alone if you’re struggling. Idk what you’re struggling with but try to practice gratitude 🙏. Because the struggles don’t stop. They just change. Be grateful and live in the now
Thank you. From the bottom of my heart- thank you. This showed on my homepage when I needed to hear some wise words of hope, because of how much stress and pressure I'm going through rn, and this was it. Once again, thank you (this vid made me cry... Like a lot lol)
This video made me realize how cold and intentionally isolated ive become. I have hope, i have a veil of security but i also know this veil has a clock on it and its ticking down. As a man, ive watched my life take swings, blows, made recoveries, fell down again, held myself back up, kept my hopes high, feared i was being narcassistic for wanting my own preservation and than tore myself down again to keep the narcassism i feared in check. I also realized just how cut off ive become from my emotions, i spent my entire youth without visible emotions, feeling different and alien, i spent years learning from others about how to act and express emotions, to emulate, to fake. Im at a point in my life again where ive regressed back towards an emotion-defecit. As i dont count emotions i feel for myself in pity or fear, thats not how it should work. Its wrong to have just that. But im stuck in this bind, im stuck in this world. I chose my path i continue to choose my path, even when others are making me choose which direction i go, i have to have some kind of self compass. But im still lost on my own path set about by others. In order to regain my direction i need to completely detach, tear away and become raw and lowly and use that to build pride back. Because as it is right now im living off my success years ago right now and its the only thibg sustaining me. Thats a currency that will fade with time and its value will depreciate to nothing and moreso when you spend it. And ive hade to spend it greatly these past months. As vain as that is. To spend money that isnt real to feel important to have a moments repreive. Its destroying my essence and soul but i see this is the only way. My career is, laughably called, but one none the less, is basically gone, removed of any forward momentum, taken away by lies and deceipt, by malice and held in absence to the high standards of caring, teamwork and ethics i had before and i hope i still have in me. This next month will decide the next 10 years im sure, until the next crisis. This next month, i decide my future.
Thank you for sharing this, I felt everything you wrote and I’m not the best with putting my thoughts and feelings into words but you are not alone and try not to worry yourself too much man. There is only so much we as people can control but what we can control is ourselves. So no matter what, do what makes you happy. I feel I might be rambling but I really am thankful for your comment, it gave me a sense of peace that I wasn’t alone with how I feel and for what’s next to come. Thank you❤️
It’s astonishing to realize how unique, yet similar all of our experiences are. Makes ya feel a lil less alone in all of this. Cheers ladies n gentlemen, never stop aiming up! 🎉
I can’t really put into words why but when that police officer asked that man if he could help him in any way and the man responded, in a voice clearly enveloped by pain and desperation: “I could use a hug” That hit me very hard. Something just so human about the interaction from the man simply needing the embrace of another human at such a tortured state to the officer not skipping a beat in taking him up on it because he, through the shared human experience, could empathize with that pain and wanted to do anything he could to ease his even if only for the moment.
My brother commited suicide, my dad died in work accident, my mother try to took is own life like 7 times, i lost my girlfriend, i lost my job, i've been alone for like 4/5 years and by alone i mean socialy isolated, seeing no one, no one ask or cared about me, but you know what, i care about all those men that feel like me. If we stand for each other, nothing is impossible, you matter.
This really made me want to cry. I have been in a dark place for a long time. I’ll climb out every once in a while and then life comes crushing down again and I really feel like I don’t belong. But somehow I know there’s hope, that if I just try harder, I can overcome. It’s hard to resist my lesser self, but I desperately want to become better. I don’t want to walk around in a waking death. Edit: I cried
I always thought I was stuck in a deep dark hole that was impossible to escape. Took me 35 years of life to realize I wasn't stuck. I had been planted and only needed sunlight and water to grow.
That guy with the guitar gave me so much motivation, I don't know why but his saying that it's all about yourself made me push myself more than I ever did, thank you for this video, I hope I can finally change my life now, and not quit.
I honestly broke down during the second to last clip. Finally hearing the words "I'm proud of you" after what's felt like years upon years of hard work and dedication without a single compliment genuinely triggered an emotional cascade, even from some complete stranger who's never seen me at all.
Thank you. I''m drunk right now and just failed my no-fap streak (16 days). This edit made me cry. Thank you for finding all these clips, and combining them into one masterpiece. Thank you. (Don't worry, I have wonderful friends, I didn't get drunk just by myself, they drank with me. Thank you for making this edit, thank YOU for reading this comment (it means much more than you could possibly imagine). Keep grinding in the gym bros (and girls). We are all going to make it, I believe in you. I love you. Thank you for being you.
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@@surfexcel9178 Thats a you problem.
Thank you.
@@surfexcel9178 You'll see him often in hopecore style videos because his overarching message outside of the political stuff is ultimately a message of hope - you aren't everything you could be, and you can start improving your life with responsibility and discipline.
@@surfexcel9178 He's not a bad man, and he has a ton of compassion. Try to read between the lines, even if you don't agree with him for whatever reason.
I think we’re starting to see a shift in mentality. I think it’d be a good thing if the group mentality turned towards hope
I been seeing it more and more. Used to only watch and find hopeless content. Full 180° for the boys
The world bout to fuckin end
You and me both.
@@elenivillios7072 create your own hope
The Great Awakening. It’s starting my boy ❤
It's funny, none of us can really describe this feeling that we all have. All we know is that it's there and it's the same for all of us.
Well said.
ennui
silent desperation
Hopelessness
@@jacquesdemolay4516the fuck is that
"Believe it or not you've survived 100% of every bad day in your life so far... keep going."
Actually I'm dead RN from a bad day so......
Every day is a victory. Because you are beating your depression. Every day you are winning. Keep going.
You are strongercthen you think.
Do not let the dark thoughts eat you alive.
rule number1 cant self delete
"working jobs we hate to buy shit we don't need" I will always remember that line.
@@GodOverWorldwell said amen
@@GodOverWorld Yea man I think I need some Jesus in my life.
@@GodOverWorldamen
@@GodOverWorldamen bro, Jesus is the anchor. Hope built on rock.
That was a whole ago now we work overtime in shitty jobs so we can keep buying the essentials to live
"Man cannot remake himself without suffering for he is both The marble And the sculptor."
-Alexis Carrel
Nice pfp
Stay strong kings, If you’re going thru hell.. keep going.
iron goes through multiple turns in the furnace before it turns into a useful, powerful weapon. stay strong bros and when you get out of that hell, you are gonna come out strong like forged steel!!
Thanks lads, wishing the best for you guys, stay hard
Winston Churchill a man of class
If your going to hell don’t stop pushing forward. Why stop at hell?
You gotta consider the possibility too that there is no light at the end of the tunnel and the tunnel probably collapsed a long time ago. Youll go insane trying to find the exit so instead just adapt to the dark
This gave me a good cry. I’ve been working full time and taking night classes in the evening. Homework on the weekends. No time to take care of myself or spend time with those I love. I have to remind myself that it’s temporary and I’m doing it for a better life for my family. Whatever you’re going through, you deserve to know that people are proud of you. So if you’re reading this, keep going. You’re doing such a good job
Escape the cycle my friend
You got this! 👍
There's always a time for happiness through accepting your struggles as opportunities, but I understand that it's hard to see it that way all the time.
No one can guarantee that what you do will 100% lead you to where you wanna be, but anyone can guarantee that not doing what you're doing won't bring you anywhere.
On an empty promise, I promise you that it'll all work out bro 👍
@@manofart2624 thank you, I needed that
those seasons are brutal bro. keep moving and youll get to where you want to go
I love all you guys. For real, I wish u sunshine in ur darkness. Kindness when u feel at ur upmost alone and breaking point. At the strength it takes to hope, and keep on going and walking towards the person u wanna be. Cause I’d like to meet that person. So keep going till you are him. Till you are them. It’ll be worth it. I truly believe that
“It can’t all be rain clouds ponyboy. The law of averages says the suns gotta shine eventually on us too. Just keep breathing, please”
This is a truely beautiful comment. Thank you 🙏
@@Xrpvp2 Nah bro thank u. I just spoke my mind. U made the video that brought us here. Give urself some credit too. I can tell these are made with real feeling and intent bro. So thanks, thank you. Fr man
Love you too , bro.
@@Ridou and I love you too broski
Where’s that quote from?
That clip of the guy asking the cop for a hug absolutely reduced me to tears. I wish I could give everyone who needs one a hug.
reduced me to tears
what a beautiful wording
“I came into this world by myself, and when I die I’ll be the only one in that coffin”
That hit hard 😢
Good thing to help this is becoming your own best friend. You die hand in hand with yourself.
"I am with you always" --Jesus Christ
@@wolfsfrothyeshua bar iosef is not european. he is foreign. he must be uprooted, the same way as china did with buddhism
You came out of a union, love is a solid foundation.
I don’t think anyone came here by himself/ by will🤔
Jesus christ... I bursted into tears when policeman asked what do you need and he said a hug and started crying I felt him. Today I feel really horribly bad so much negative emotions and thought I just wanted to end it. I`m struggling with my depression and looks like it`s going worse again. I don`t have anyone to shear my feeling and this video just helped me. Thank you all and try to survive those horrible days.
Keep going man 👍🏾
You got this. We have all had our darkest hour. For those that survive it makes us grow you know. I know it's not the most motivating to hear but look to the small things.
Hey man this might be random but it has helped me in immeasurable ways. If you feel this way joining a bjj gym is a great way to meet friends, work on a new skill and get fit. Even the training itself feels therapeutic and cathartic to me, you will never be more present and living in the moment. Love bro, don't give up
All the love in the world to you. You are the love. Be the love. Be loving and keep being loving. You will get it back in return. Huge hug and high five to you through the ether. I suffered with depression for years before beating it. It can be done. Study, practice, repeat. Keep a beautiful vision of having what you want in your mind and work toward it! Have faith. peace love and all things good to you.
Know that God Loves you Brother and no matter what happens HE will always be there for you Amen❤️🙏💯. Keep your head up
As a reformed doomer, hopers are where it’s at
In my opinion it's the social labels we put on ourselves that shouldn't be tthere. A doomer and a hoper are two sides of the same ideological coin. You are a human being with your own life goals and dreams. No societal label can restrain you.
we used to call it bloomer, zoomfriend
:)
the start of the bloomer
I dunno. I forgot how to set goals or have dreams about anything. Just going through motions.
Been reading many of your comments, all very relatable. A small part of my life I'd like to share if you don't mind. I'm 32, 0 friends & I truly mean that. My mum is the only person who listens and talks to me, my only joy is seeing my dog. It took my 14 years to go back and continue my education in fitness (I got my level 2 in 2010, had to stop to bring Income into my house to provide for my family, its just me and my mum). I no have no kids & no girls is interested in me & I'm absolutely broke, 7k in debt tbh due to having a mental collapse in 2016. Everyday I go through mixed emotions of wanting to try my best to literally throwing in the towel. I'm extremely lost in this world, I know my purpose but I don't know how to get there. All i really want is simple things in life, yet these seem to be impossible to achieve. Il keep trying fellas, 1 day at a time, hope you do too. See you at the finish line fellas, kind regards, phil.
Here for you bro
Thanks for being vulnerable man. Here’s something to think about that Carl Jung said.
“For a tree’s branches to reach to heaven, the roots must reach down to hell.”
There is so much terrible in the world - but I know there is beauty waiting for you. Beauty that balances out that terrible. You’ll find peace, I know that you have the capacity to get through this. Keep going, brotha.🙏
You can make it man we believe in ya
See you at the finish line
I know we will both get there
If you could re-wire your mind/body in One day, it wouldn't be any sort of accomplishment. Do it and make 0.001% gain each day.
I thought I was doing okay, but then Theo said "I'm proud of you", I started to cry.
that’s the part that finally broke me too
I don't wanna be based anymore, I just wanna be peaceful
Did you reach it?
16 minutes of frisson and tears welling up. I recognized pretty much every clip and when they're put together and contextualized like this it just hits like a truck.
can you tell me the source of the 2nd clip? (The podcast one)
@@havocfrDavid Choe on jre
@@havocfrI thought it was Tommy Lee at first😅. I have a dark sense of humor but this video crossed the line for me even
@@havocfr his name is david choe. hes an artist. and hes such a wholesome personality. i can definitely recommend checking out his art, but also who he is as a person. Very nice guy
@@havocfr The Joe Rogan Experience - Episode #1518 with David Choe
7:09 this hits really hard, it made me cry. My parents were two really fucked up and traumatized people, they were to busy coping with distractions on top of having marital issues to give me the help and attention I needed as a child. It makes it really hard to ask for help from others, even though I could really use it sometimes. I can't express how hard it is to not really have parents as a kid. I won't lose hope though. Keep fighting everyone.
reach out to someone. I have learned in my 22 years that it is okay to reach out and ask for help. We are not meant to go through life alone. I know that you will make the best decision for yourself because you OWE it to yourself and no one else. much love on this side!
Learn some sales skills. Learn persuasion and the art of pick up.
Not to escape with pleasure, but use these skills to open your parents up and get closure.
The only way you will receive the help you need is to skillfully ask.
That’s what I did with my father and mother, it took me a long time.
@@ubervincent thanks for the advice man.
I feel you dude. My dad left when I was 5 and my mom was an alcoholic. I know the loneliness and and ironically it doesn’t leave me alone.
I feel your pain brother. For me, I watched my father, the man who brought me into the world, the man I was supposed to look up to and want to be like, slowly destroy himself and our family. It feels like it often but we really are not alone. May we all find peace and love. Praise God and in Jesus Name, Amen.
You know, there is something about when you take a well-deserved break from working to watch this video and you fullscreen it, and with an unbothered mind listen to it fully, it just hits differently. It's beautiful, made me cry. I am happy and grateful I was able to see this. If you are going through tough times just know that tough times never lasts only tough people last. Cheers
W person, I love you man
I watched this while working out.
Some tough times last a very long time..😂
Damn. I’ve lived my whole life up to this point in almost complete sadness. I said I hated the world but truly I just hated myself. I’m only 14 but I’ve gone through some really tough things, from my parents divorce, bullying, extreme racism, to the newest endeavor, which was being diagnosed with cancer. I think watching this video made me realize that I CAN do this, I am CAPABLE of doing the things that will put me on track for my dreams. And whatever life throws my way, I’ll keep going. Because in the end, it’ll be worth it.
Keep going man. You’ve got this. I’m only 4 years ahead of you, and I’m sure I haven’t been through the hardest times yet, but knowing that hope is real, that there are brothers like you out there fighting their own battles along side me? That’s what’s going to get me through the years ahead. Love you bro. Hang in there. Give this cancer hell. I’ll be praying for you. ❤
Hey man, just like the other dude, I'm 10 years ahead of you. I've been through some shit, but trust me, you need to keep pushing. I won't sugarcoat it, it ain't easy. Life will pick you up, to smash you to the ground, but it is up to you to pick up those pieces, and put yourself back together again, because nobody will do it for you. But that's the beauty of it, the fact that you rely only on yourself means that you CAN and you WILL get through it. Cancer ain't got shit on you my man. Keep your head up high, the sun always shines after the rain comes pouring down.
I will pray for you.
God bless.
My mother and opa had cancer and they made it through.
You will make it.
Keep going king, from your comment I can already tell you've got this in a bag.
People are rooting for you out there like you wouldn't believe.
Fking go for it man
The Robert Downey Jr. clip was what made me cry. I related too much to a grown man asking his father to tell him that he loves him, even if it was a lie. My parents got divorced when I was 10 and I've lived with my mother ever since. I don't see my father often, but even if I did, it wouldn't repair the damage that has been done both by life and my older brother who abused me physically and psychologically for years until I garnered the bravery to start fighting back. I've never had anyone to tell me that they're proud of me, to teach me discipline and how to be a man. Now here I am. Twenty years old, still in high-school, way behind in life, no drive or motivation or purpose. My mother is still there for me, but I feel she supports me only partially. She doesn't support my dream of being a soldier, and when I told her of the abuse I'd suffered by the hand of my own brother, she just told me to get over it. I'm alone. I have no one.
I do know that I won't let my past and my circumstances define me. Staying in this state isn't an option and I have to fight, I _will_ fight for what I'm willing to suffer for.
Thank you for compiling another perfect example of what it feels like to be a man when no one is there for you but yourself. I appreciate you for this. Salutations from Florida.
With all due respect. I am seeing all this comment and your´s made me stop and realize. All these people complaining about being a man is from the US. Like what is going on over there? Because the more I look into it is more about something that men can´t be loved and is getting weird
@@ikerb1232 Women are rising up, Men are lost, unneeded, and drown in self-pity.
@@ikerb1232it’s bad over here man. Being a man is stigmatized to the max here. If you are masculine or stoic you are a bigot. When you disagree with someone you’re a bigot. Men are all 🗑️ here apparently, even though all these women are living in a society we built. We’re treated like trash. Especially if you’re straight and white.
I woke up today with tears down my face because I didn't want to see the sun come up today. For some reason, this video was the first on my recommendations. It helped me get out of bed today. Im afraid of being alone
We are here for you man
Nobody will ever care about you…the way that you care about you. Learn to love to be on your own. Then make an effort to acknowledge the times when you’re not. Many aren’t afraid of being alone, they are terrified of what they think of themselves.
Brother listen, your fear of being alone tells me that you need other people to be happy. Of course you can be happy with them and enjoy your time with other people, but you must find true happiness in yourself. Because the only person that will always be there for you, is you, so make yourself your own happiness. I also love talking to people, and having people im close to, and having great conversations with anyone i see, but your happiness should always be from yourself, because what if there not there? You are always there. So make yourself your own happiness, and stay well brother.
The thing is, it's hard to understand the difficulty of doing so. That's what's so scary@@atlasman4730
@@atlasman4730wow man, this comment was exactly what I needed to hear..
After 7 years of marriage and 2 children, my wife is leaving me. I got to a place of complacency and depression and my marriage suffered. Thankfully, my wife wants to keep things amicable with the children and our relationship, but I need videos/comments likes these to give me the fuel to effect change in my life and wake up from the life I've been living. It's so hard taking care of ourselves, I feel that.
I recently went through a heartbreak which left me devastated even though the relationship lasted "only" a year. I can't even imagine what you must be going through right now, sir. I wish you all the strength to overcome your challenges.
Life gets better, I promise. Improve yourself and never say never!
Hope everything worksout for you bro..keep going
She quit on you after only 7 years?
Yeah, not much of a promise of forever@@americandissident9062
I'm so sorry to all men who feel this way. My boyfriend has gone through a lot in life too and feels like he is not successful enough. It hurts me when he thinks he is worthless coz to me he is such an amazing man, hardworking and determined. I can't make him think like me, but I just trust that my love and support make his every day a less difficult one.
You such a nice person. He's lucky to have you. Keep it up and take care for yourself also.
Thank you for your kindnes
Respect to you for having principles. Wish more people felt that way
I wish I had the mentality and positivity of the guy that was carving wood. He looks content and happy with what he was doing. He seems genuinely happy, I wish him the very best. It kinda makes me happy that he's happy, you know.... Because internally I'm so, so, sooooo fucking miserable....
Idk who you are or whatever you do but I love you bro, I hope within this 8 months that pass you feel better now
@@MeirelesBrotherhoodthank you brother, it has. Things have gotten better. I appreciate you. God bless 🙏
this made me cry a lot, its 1030am before work and i needed this. Thank you, hope the men that keep everything pent up get something from this
I found out today that a friend who I hadn't talked to in 5 years had died. This video feels really on point. Don't know if we can chalk that up to the algorithm or cosmic harmony.
I really needed this.
you have a funny definition of "friend"
Todo va a estar bien .calma bro
Dude I'm with you one of my best friends moved to Switzerland and he was so lonely he drank himself to death during covid and there was nothing I could do
@@wrcz No they don't, you have the wrong definition of the word "friend".
@@ssab9063 A friend is someone you haven't talked to in 5 years? Alright then. Guess I have more friends than I thought.
I remember as a young teen going through depression. I found hope in ‘faith in humanity’ videos and compilations. It was a wholesome way to restore my hope in this world for myself and for others. Hope continues to ripple through the waves of despair. Sometimes those small ripples are powerful enough to rip through the depths of destruction that surround us. No matter what I will always keep hope in my heart and spread it to others who need it.
Beautiful ❤
Beautifully written my friend ❤
“Hope continues to ripple through the waves of despair.” Thank you.
When I was 18 I failed an army medial test and I thought it was the end of my life my one dream was gone. 5 years down the line, I’m just about to start university as a paramedic, if you would have told me that then I would have laughed in your face. Don’t ever ever give up, roll with the punches, fuck if people don’t believe in you, you got yourself one quote that has always stuck with me. “Once you learn to love yourself, you can begin to love others.” Keep strong you beautiful human being, we are still in this fight, let’s make some people smile today!
I admire you brother, I'm close to taking my test to enter the university as a doctor. I'm honestly afraid of failing and thinking that it's all over. Listening to you has given me security
I had a similar beginning. After 3 years of study I've recently registered as a paramedic. When it gets hard, and it will, don't quit on yourself
I’m gobsmacked by the timing of this video entering my life. Lately I’ve been feeling anxious with a feeling that it is all over and that the best thing for me to do is end it all for good. I’m 41 unemployed and soon to be homeless. Been single for 7 years. After 41 years of breathing I feel like I am disposable. As I watch the video the pain and frustration exuding from frame to frame hits me. Suddenly I don’t feel so alone. However I wish the pain I feel needn’t be shared. I don’t wish it on anyone. If only my choices mattered. Instead I will go to sleep tonight preying that it will end soon enough
Your life has purpose because you keep going everyday your life only has purpose because you keep breathing, your here for a reason whatever that is I hope you get the hint of it keep trucking and and believing in God and things start to feel different I have zero clue of who you are or what you where born into but just keep going man for there’s joy in the morning
@@cosmicallyironichumans4986thank you so much I needed this
"Treat yourself as if you are someone you are responsible for taking care of" - J.B Peterson
The first real hopecore out there that is not a TikTok mash up. Thanks.
This has honestly been the most positive thing I’ve seen in a while. It made me smile, it relaxed me, and it made my day. Thank you stranger.
"i could use a hug" gets me everytime.❤
Gave me the greatest cry I've ever had. I've been feeling like life has just been going on and on and running past me. I'm not depressed or suicidal, there's just that feeling that I can't describe that takes me out of every moment, that voice. I have to tell myself each time that I have so much to live for but this video really helped me take my words in. I hope for everybody watching and reading that your life and potential gets fulfilled to it's best.
About the life running past:
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I love that we're starting to see more good men supporting good men. It can be really lonely and hard out here, but if we accept and understand that we've all been in a dark place at one point or another, we can begin to accept ourselves. Mens weakness isn't feeling and sharing their emotions. It's denying you're having those emotions so you become unable to improve yourself. Stay strong guys, and keep focused on your goals. Things will be better than you could ever imagine.
You've no idea how bad I needed some of this hope man, I just want to believe it isn't over.
It's never over bro
It hasn't even begun yet, my friend! Hold on because things always get better :)
It isn’t over until you don’t wake up. Keep going brother it’s not over until we win.
Its over
@@bones._ Wait really!? Bro I just started
Hopecore makes me feel like I covered my eyes for like a minute in the bright sun, then removing my hand and seeing the world with a childish light, it makes me feel warm and giddy, like nothing matters, it’s encouraging.
My heart goes out to that man that was carving wood, truly a pure soul
This video made me cry a lot.
I will forever thank all this inspiring people to drag me out of my shithole .
Reject weakness, embrace masculinity.
I love you all.
For the david goggins one at the VFW to his mother, he said "For not picking me up when I fell. She taught me how to get up when I was knocked down." This, is a lesson we are all learning more and more everyday.
"I should say, love is wise, hatred is foolish. In this world, which is getting more and more closely interconnected, we have to learn to tolerate each other, we have to learn to put up with the fact that some people say things that we don’t like. We can only live together in that way-and if we are to live together and not die together-we must learn a kind of charity and a kind of tolerance, which is absolutely vital to the continuation of human life on this planet." - Bertrand Russell 1959
2:14 gets me every time. Imagine how different the world might be if guys just got a hug and thank you every now and then.
I read something once that I found important. It was like "Oh, you were born alone and you'll die alone? So you delivered yourself? You fed your infant body, you cooked every meal you've eaten? Who made the clothes you're wearing? Who made the bed you're going to die in- you, all by yourself?" None of us are alone. Our existence depends on the existence of others. If you reach out, someone will be there. Not everyone, but someone. You must carve a path for yourself- you must trust that the tender pockets of humanity are there, and wrench them open and crawl inside. It will hurt. It will suck. It will save you. It is worth every second.
To whoever reading this I wish you the very best in life, you deserve it. I'm proud of you and how far you've come, I mean that with my whole heart. No matter what tomorrow brings go out into the world and spread peace and love, for it will come back tenfold. You got this, I believe in you
Thank you
Thank you
thanks man u too
This is one of the most beutifully edited videos i've ever seen, it's been a while since i came this close from crying. Amazing work i hope everyone can see this video.
These are the videos that make a difference. A lot of these clips I relate to, thank you for taking the time to make this, it's helpful to a lot of people in need.
Just so you know you did it bro. I truly hope you realize that. Life sucks a lot and you aren't alone. Don't give up. It isn't all downhill. You can do it again tomorrow. You aren't alone, you only feel alone
Great messages here. Females need to hear this too. Life can be difficult for everyone. Honestly we need to support each other a bit more. Doesn't have to be a massive undertaking to be nice and respectable. A bit of expressing of humanity is fair
if you think they would give a single damn about men suffering your fooling yourself
They never did
@@GRR1MN1R yes they do. i'm sorry you haven't had that experience.
Life is not hard for women
Woman here, and ya %100
@@chelseachelseafcsuperfan7220Yes it is. Life is hard for everyone. Please understand.
Take these 16 minutes to feel your pain and sadness but after work towards getting out of this rut. Limit social media consumption. Don’t feed the sadness, no sad music. No sad movies, RUclips videos. When you feel down go for the opposite. Walks, motivational videos, music. Work out! They all help out and speak to someone, once you speak about your troubles you take their power away. You owe it for to YOURSELF! Then to everyone else. I hope we all reach a place where we are comfortable with who we are and don’t care about what others think. In the end it’s all on you. What was given to you you had no say in it but NOW you do. Carry the load, share it with others and change your life. Accept everything!
I don't know why but I love this stuff it's kind of like going head on into the darkness into your deepest darkest fears just so you can overcome it.
Had a really tough day today, watching this video puts things in perspective. Oftentimes I have suicidal ideation. I haven't had it recently but I almost did it again. This definitely helped curb that. Thanks for all that you do and continue to do for all those that subscribe to you. Myself included. Appreciate you bro 🔥 👊
Hey, don't know what's going on, but please look into psychodelic treatment for depression. If you can get your hands on some shrooms - do it.
@@Vladimyrful Have you done shrooms? I'd like to try but haven't felt like myself since I tried acid.
Hey man, i wish you well, if my words mean anything to you please remember that you may be a complete stranger but there are people out there that care about you and want you to stick around. We're all human and you may feel like youre alone sometimes in your suffering but youre not. Shit gets better, as much as you might not want to believe it right now. Take care of yourself and God bless.
. u have brthrs waitng 4u on th othrside .f t this misfortune- mch
@@Romeohotsexyfun Don't listen to him. Reject drugs and keep your free will.
To all the boys in the void, we are here, and we are with you.
I remember feeling so depressed when i was 13-16. Being in my room all summer. Couldnt even get out of bed most days and that lasted weeks. I used to think that would be the worst feeling id ever felt. But I was wrong. Ive faced so many bad feelings that trumps those of the past growing up. But. I made it through and everything is fine.
made me cry 2 tears, thanks for helping me achieve this by gathering these artworks
Same eye?
I was looking into the abyss until I realized it’s a fucking abyss and walked away
holy shit i’m using that
I love seeing that we are all in this state, i hope that i can live to see the day that we all join up together and actually do something that would change the way we have been living
This video may be a big part of why I hold on. I learn things. Thanks for making it
That cop may have saved that dude's life. There's some bad apples in the police that spoil the bunch in the public's eyes. I wish that videos like this were shown on the nightly news just as often as the undertrained, high school jocks wearing the black and blue (as the marine corp no longer need their services), and while riding an adrenaline high, doing something irredeemable to the people they are supposed to protect and serve. Just like that cop doing something as simple as giving a hug to a guy who is obviously riding the borderline of what he can handle alone. What a fking hero he is.
Just to quickly clarify something: I'm not saying don't show the negative in favor of the positive. Abso-fking-lutey not saying that. I think EVERY SINGLE officer pulling the trigger, while aiming at a suspect, needs to have their body cam footage released to the public. And whoops! If that cam footage isn't recording or is missing for some reason, they should at the very least also be surprised when their paycheck suddenly goes permanently missing, while they are also being investigated for manslaughter, or even the heavier murder charge being on the table.
This video hits hard, I wish all of you men who are struggling nothing but success. Never remove this video!
damn that cop hugging that guy got me ❤
Whoever put this together paints with a very keen broad stroke and the kind of insight we need right now.
This video broke me down and then built me back up stronger than I could have ever expected. Thank you.
I hope you're doing alright, whoever you are, continue confronting your fears, overcome and get stronger in whatever way is important to you. keep at it king.
I needed this... life's just been a never-ending hustle from working overtime for a bullshit pay to them trying to find the time to even exist properly, it's been a huge struggle. Those dark thoughts start creeping up and that despair keeps growing and growing...
Thank you for this. I hope everyone sheds these dark moments off of them and I hope to make you all proud one day. Even if I don't know you...
Love you guys.
I rarely write comments in RUclips but when i came across this video i had to give my words on what I'm feeling right now. The dark times have arrived for me and I personally don´t know how to deal with this, so i keep watching this "real" videos and I'm starting to shift my mentality, a more depressed and dark one. Suddendly all the roses and sunshine in my life disapeared, and i have no one to save me. Every since high school ended life became more "real, even tough i made some solid progress over this 1 year. I´m at Uni now, and i can´t even describe how bad it is, i don´t get bullied or something like that, but i discovered something that i feared, feeling lonely, and oh boy it hurts alot, seeing everyone happy because they have friends and their uni is going super well, that hurts me, because i always dreamed of being at Uni with my friends, drinking a beer and playing games, but that never happened, I'm by my own, and i have no one to seek. I hate life, but one day i will find my peace. I truly wish everyone in the comment section a great happy life, stay strong king, the sun will rise again, please don't give up. And i hope five years from now (If I´m alive) i can come to this comment and say to myself: I fucking made it, I´m successfull now, and it´s all so "real"
Hey man i read your whole comment. Ive felt the same way before for long periods of time. Its tough. I understand it’s difficult to take advice from another random dude on the internet but i really think you should make an attempt of going to church. Im not one for really spreading religion to everyone i meet. But i think you should give it a try, you dont have to go in with the mindset of “i need to believe, i want to believe” especially with something that in a logically sense seems so impossible. This Sunday i highly recommend you wake up relatively early, count at least 5 or ten of your blessings, go to church, say hi to 2 or so people and strike up a conversation if you want. Then after go to the gym. The worse thing you can do is just sit on your phone coming from experience, get outside for a walk or lil run. I wish you the best of luck with dealing these issues. Believe in yourself to find a way
@@user-fu7eh2mk5n Hey, thank you for the advice, i already go to church 1 or twice a month, im part of the people that play and sing there. I'm feeling somewhat better now than 2 weeks ago, thank you so much for your words, much love.
@@filipecastanheira9231 Good to hear man. Wishin the best for ya.
You're just enough and doing a great job being here with us all. I love you man
Thank you for this edit, it was helpful for me, I realized that I'm not the one who is struggling with difficulties in life, stay strong guys, and we will achieve our goals and mission.
Ill give you a hug
I really really needed this
Real 💙
We all know that eventually this agonizing pain we feel inside of our souls will have to subside. Its just in the now, in the present, it's extremely hard. Getting up to learn to grow to hate yourself a little more. But there will be good, even if you don't see it coming. Small things mean a lot when you're hurting and numb at the same time.
The video of the cops hit home. Last night I had an amazing night, met a band that played their first show of a 3 month tour and my cousin and I definitely made an impression. It was a really good night. But a girl that rejected me also happened to be at the show, so I can't be happy even when I have so much reason. It's not just that, so much more dumb bullshit going on. But anyways, walking home, a cop pulls up and we have a heart to heart, I started crying and they really helped me. Thank you Officer Jones and Arcane
This was fucking amazing. So many emotions, so much hope, so much inspiration. All wrapped in a short video. Tears of joy and sadness. Did not expect that at all. Thank you.
This video gave me hope because it assured me that I am not crazy. Life isn't just happening to me there are others who are very similar to me in a way I couldn't have imagined. I am grateful to the source for putting this video on my recommendation.
Thanks man. I really needed a good cry. Lots of love from Vancouver
Seeing men cry breaks me. They deserved all the hugs
5:54 you literally see the look in Jordans eyes change as he recognises the cruelty of what Piers is saying
Piers Morgan is an absolutely disgusting person in all ways.
You got this guys. It’s so fucking hard but you got this. You matter, you’ve worked hard, the place you’re at is levels ahead from anywhere you’ve been
Your videos have had such a big impact on my mindset and I’d wanna thank you for that dawg
1:33 this life can be rough and lonely boys. We may never meet, but know you’re not alone if you’re struggling. Idk what you’re struggling with but try to practice gratitude 🙏. Because the struggles don’t stop. They just change. Be grateful and live in the now
This hurt me in the best way possible. I needed this. Thank you.
Thank you. From the bottom of my heart- thank you. This showed on my homepage when I needed to hear some wise words of hope, because of how much stress and pressure I'm going through rn, and this was it. Once again, thank you (this vid made me cry... Like a lot lol)
This video made me realize how cold and intentionally isolated ive become. I have hope, i have a veil of security but i also know this veil has a clock on it and its ticking down. As a man, ive watched my life take swings, blows, made recoveries, fell down again, held myself back up, kept my hopes high, feared i was being narcassistic for wanting my own preservation and than tore myself down again to keep the narcassism i feared in check.
I also realized just how cut off ive become from my emotions, i spent my entire youth without visible emotions, feeling different and alien, i spent years learning from others about how to act and express emotions, to emulate, to fake. Im at a point in my life again where ive regressed back towards an emotion-defecit. As i dont count emotions i feel for myself in pity or fear, thats not how it should work. Its wrong to have just that. But im stuck in this bind, im stuck in this world. I chose my path i continue to choose my path, even when others are making me choose which direction i go, i have to have some kind of self compass. But im still lost on my own path set about by others. In order to regain my direction i need to completely detach, tear away and become raw and lowly and use that to build pride back. Because as it is right now im living off my success years ago right now and its the only thibg sustaining me. Thats a currency that will fade with time and its value will depreciate to nothing and moreso when you spend it. And ive hade to spend it greatly these past months. As vain as that is. To spend money that isnt real to feel important to have a moments repreive. Its destroying my essence and soul but i see this is the only way.
My career is, laughably called, but one none the less, is basically gone, removed of any forward momentum, taken away by lies and deceipt, by malice and held in absence to the high standards of caring, teamwork and ethics i had before and i hope i still have in me. This next month will decide the next 10 years im sure, until the next crisis. This next month, i decide my future.
Very well said
Thank you for sharing this, I felt everything you wrote and I’m not the best with putting my thoughts and feelings into words but you are not alone and try not to worry yourself too much man. There is only so much we as people can control but what we can control is ourselves. So no matter what, do what makes you happy. I feel I might be rambling but I really am thankful for your comment, it gave me a sense of peace that I wasn’t alone with how I feel and for what’s next to come. Thank you❤️
“You have made us for yourself, O Lord, and our heart is restless until it rests in you.”
These videos have meant everything to me right now thanks for compiling them I really appreciate it you’ve helped me so much
I love this man, coreCore Video that slowly transforms so seamlessly to a hopecore video
It’s astonishing to realize how unique, yet similar all of our experiences are. Makes ya feel a lil less alone in all of this.
Cheers ladies n gentlemen, never stop aiming up! 🎉
this video has really made an impact on me, i hope you continue to produce more like it, thank you for your hard work!
Broke down in the middle of the gym listening to this 😂😢🙏🏽
I am glad I came across this video; I needed it. Thank you
That Ryan gosling scene always gets me man. That expression shows so much emotion. It’s relatable to know nobody gives a shit at the end of the day.
I can’t really put into words why but when that police officer asked that man if he could help him in any way and the man responded, in a voice clearly enveloped by pain and desperation: “I could use a hug”
That hit me very hard. Something just so human about the interaction from the man simply needing the embrace of another human at such a tortured state to the officer not skipping a beat in taking him up on it because he, through the shared human experience, could empathize with that pain and wanted to do anything he could to ease his even if only for the moment.
My brother commited suicide, my dad died in work accident, my mother try to took is own life like 7 times, i lost my girlfriend, i lost my job, i've been alone for like 4/5 years and by alone i mean socialy isolated, seeing no one, no one ask or cared about me, but you know what, i care about all those men that feel like me. If we stand for each other, nothing is impossible, you matter.
This really made me want to cry. I have been in a dark place for a long time. I’ll climb out every once in a while and then life comes crushing down again and I really feel like I don’t belong. But somehow I know there’s hope, that if I just try harder, I can overcome. It’s hard to resist my lesser self, but I desperately want to become better. I don’t want to walk around in a waking death.
Edit: I cried
Love you, brother. Keep pushing forward. Never lose hold of that hope. ❤
Start getting to it, prove it to your self with small wins day by day my brother🫡
I always thought I was stuck in a deep dark hole that was impossible to escape. Took me 35 years of life to realize I wasn't stuck. I had been planted and only needed sunlight and water to grow.
That guy with the guitar gave me so much motivation, I don't know why but his saying that it's all about yourself made me push myself more than I ever did, thank you for this video, I hope I can finally change my life now, and not quit.
"All three of us were drowning, and we didn't know how to save each other, but there was an understanding that we were all drowning together"
I can do it. We can do this.
Awesome edit. You captured everything good about this genre.
I honestly broke down during the second to last clip. Finally hearing the words "I'm proud of you" after what's felt like years upon years of hard work and dedication without a single compliment genuinely triggered an emotional cascade, even from some complete stranger who's never seen me at all.
Something serious is going on in todays men’s mental health and in the youth, there’s been a big shift. Including myself…
Thank you. I''m drunk right now and just failed my no-fap streak (16 days). This edit made me cry. Thank you for finding all these clips, and combining them into one masterpiece. Thank you.
(Don't worry, I have wonderful friends, I didn't get drunk just by myself, they drank with me. Thank you for making this edit, thank YOU for reading this comment (it means much more than you could possibly imagine). Keep grinding in the gym bros (and girls). We are all going to make it, I believe in you. I love you. Thank you for being you.