~*nasty talk*~ periods, pooping, & pregnancy, oh my!
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hello hello lil cherubs! in today's video i decided to do a lil ~*nasty talk*~ where i talk about things ranging from birth control, pregnancy scares, gyno visits, weight gain, second puberty, hygiene, sexuality, IBS tips and more! just nasty enough. xoxo nikki nasty
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I'm so glad you talked about fearing men. I'm terrified of being hurt, every time a guy likes me I'm just like "okay, he's bigger than me, he's strong than me, what if he tries to do something? What I'm gonna do?" And dealing with that is so hard
I’m the same way; what kind of helped me was to carry pepper spray lol I’ve never had to use it but knowing I have something on hand just in case helps my peace of mind
men come near me and i literally become hostile, i’m genuinely terrified of men
@@v3nusplanetoflove645 same
I’m sorry we’ve given you all no hope 🙁
Same, yesterday I was walking and a man came up behind me, walking faster and faster, CLOSER AND CLOSER.
He probably just wanted to pass me, but I PANICKED and just jumped over the grass and crossed the street.
I've always hated the concept that virginity is something a boy/man *takes* from a girl/woman. You're not losing anything! And it feels very creepy to me, especially when younger boys are encouraged to have lots of girlfriends and they're like their little accessories. However, is it bad for girls to sleep or do it with more than one guy? It all just felt very backwards to me. But that's my own opinion on the topic and the kinds of things I was told growing up.
Yesss I agree!! This social standard is so skewed I hate it 🤦🏽♀️
It’s always about man taking control over women in these nonsense shit they invent 🤦🏻♀️
@Daniel Jaramillo is not
@Daniel Jaramillo block
@Daniel Jaramillo you’re the one coping by saying “that’s just how it is” tho lol because it’s not factual or set in stone.
I find it interesting how those who have a uterus are expected to take birth control to prevent pregnancies (outside of medical issues) when those with a penis are fertile literally 24/7.
Also, there were birth controls for men but the FDA denied it because the symptoms (which were only depression and weight gain) were too much for them to handle…
However, birth control symptoms for uterus owners are severe health complications 😬
misogyny😍😍
Second puberty is wild, man! I experienced sexual attraction for the first time at the ripe old age of 23! Very strange, felt like I was dying, 1/10, would not recommend
Me now at almost 21 😭 I feel feral
?? yo is this real? it would explain so much lmao
@@cam6110 yepp
SAME. I never experienced it prior to being 21
Is there a pamphlet or a form I can fill to opt out?
I'd like to enjoy my peace
The commentary we didn’t ask for but DEFINITELY needed. I hate society’s double standard with stuff like this. Nicole for prez 2024 pls and thnx😤
You are everywhereeeee!
@@khadijanadeem8559 ikr I see her on every video these days 😂
Girl u everywhere
@Daniel Jaramillo your personality is “doodoo” colour
@Daniel Jaramillo Racist
the topic of second pubery needs to be talked about more cause I stg, why is my body changing again at the age of 23? also I’ll take this video as a sign to finally go to a gyno
About not wanting kids- it is really weird having people say "when you have kids..." or "one day when you're a mom..." and then you awkwardly follow them up with "actually I don't think I'm going to have kids". Everyone always has the reaction of "oh. o-ok..." with an awkward smile or "what?? why noooott???" Literally more reasons than I could count on why I don't want them/why they wouldn't work out for me.
I worked in an elementary school and that just cemented my decision in not wanting one. I could go on a whole speech about this topic, but I'll just say that, the day I realized I didn't actually have to have kids was so eye opening and relieving. As well as having parents that support that decision.
I think it's completely fine not wanting kids, I dont even know if I want them. It would be worse if you DID have a kid because you'd been pressured to, and then you end up not being able to care for It, and then its a lose-lose situation for both you and the kid. So just don't let anyone pressure you to do something you dont want to do, not having children is completely okay! If someone isnt committed to having a child, they shouldnt have one imo.
I always get the ‘thats just a phrase your going through you’ll want to have them eventually’. Like why do they try to reassure me that eventually I will give birth I DONT WANT TO BIRTH A CHILD
@@Maesmoon Yeees! Or my parents guilt trip me, saying things like "but I want grandchildren Louise, I want to be a grandma, but you're not thinking about that are you?" Like.. Excuse me 😭
@@ItsLouski omg me too! when I came out as a lesbian to them my mum literally said ‘that’s so selfish now I can’t have grandchildren’ 😭😭😭
@@Maesmoon It's so shitty though.. Like, you can still adobt kids if you want to, as a lesbian??
But I just hate how parents sometimes dont care about what WE want. They want grandkids, so I guess it doesn't matter if we want kids or not 🤷♀️
Not labelling sexuality!! Sometimes it's more stressful to try to find a label than to just exist unlabelled. Super feel that.
Tea!
I struggled with this immensely as a child. Trying to label gender and exhaling and how I felt and what it means and all the labels that were so very different yet somehow felt like variations of a similar thing and yet nothing fit and just - UGH! It felt like every time I “picked” one it just felt more like I wanted to push back about why I was like 60-80% that thing and. Yeah just foregoing all of that has been a blessing in my life tbh 🤍
Second Pubertyis such a real thing and I wish we were all prepared for it more. I filled out so much when I was 21/22, my bf always said I was just growing into my "woman body" and he was absolutely right. Every woman I know has gone through the same in their early twenties.
i’m just learning about second puberty is there any more information to know about it so i’ll be prepared for it?
Yeah same. Also the 20/21 glow up is real
@@mery8680 I'm waiting for the ~glow~ I'm 20 and only got the >gain
@@abby9435 i mean im not gonna lie, i've also got the gain. But thats because ive eaten a lot and not really trained. But youll see in the next gew years. You'll be 3x more beautiful
I'm almost 22 yo and I feel like I've only been getting uglier
Someone told me if you're on the fence about wanting kids, don't try to have kids. In other words, if you're not over the moon excited to have kids, then you shouldn't have any.
*But take this with a grain of salt, I'm not telling anyone what do to.* but it did help me decide if I wanted to have kids or not.
I agree with this. They will be your whole world, so why have them if you are only half interested? I mean this for myself.
No this is solid and sound guidance. Kids know and can pick up on when their parents only half love them or didn’t fully want them to begin with and that shit hurts
I totally wish more people talked about silly little pregnancy scares! Every time I sleep with someone, even using birth control and condoms I always get nervous if anything feels weird after or my period is a little late
same!! i’ve literally been so terrified of pregnancy ever since i was a little kid, before i even understood how it happened. and after i started sleeping with people, even tho i take as many possible precautions as i can, i get scared that i might be every time
I get pregnancy scares even though I've got the mirena coil in lol. They are not fun especially considering with a UID in, you could get an ectopic pregnancy.
I’m a repulsed ace who’s literally a virgin and one time I skipped my period for a month and I got scared the air somehow got me pregnant 😭
for me, my relationship with virginity is about experience, and my lack thereof. I don't wanna lose something, I want to gain something, and that lack is what's making me insecure.
This is the first video I watched where they talked about the second puberty. At 22 I definitely started filling out and I was like “what is going on?” Because we are only told about the first puberty in school and stuff
This topics NEED to be discussed at a young age because of how important it is and we need more of this. There are some people who can't discuss these things with anyone.
I can totally relate to not wanting a baby doll as a kid and not wanting a child now that I'm older. I've just never had that motherly desire to take care of a baby. Just wanted to let you know that you're not alone in that at all
That was meee too
My mom would try to guilt me into taking care of a baby doll & I’d pretend to want to to make her happy (that relationship was not healthy)
But like.. it was neverrr my vibe. I ended up getting my fallopian tubes removed at 21 & it’s surreal to think that surgery was two years ago now!
I'm turning 27 in September. I do not like babies. And children make me uncomfortable lmao. And there is SO. MUCH. PRESSURE. Every time I go to my boyfriends parents house, we get asked "when are you giving us a grandaughter" no. Just. Stop. Every time I see them they hint towards this needing to happen. It drives me insane. I don't need to give you a grandchild. Its my choice in life. Like wtf. And we've only been together a year and a half. 🙄 Chill
That’s really weird of them to do but unfortunately not uncommon. Also, you said he’s your boyfriend of only 1,5 years. Not even married and they’re already expecting a grandchild? 😃 (not saying you have to get married, it’s just that the older generation is more traditional in a way that babies come after marriage)
They’re not even asking about your choice, as if it’s not your body and your responsibilities, emotions and time that’s being affected at the end of the day when it comes to having children? It feels like they just care about extending their bloodline and getting to do all fun activities with grandkids.
oh my god pregnancy scare story: so ive been with my boyfriend for two years (we are both 16) and a few months ago we had basically done everything except for actual penis to vagina penetration if you know what i mean and so when we were in one of our moments we both stupidly were like "what if we did it for like just 2 seconds just to see what its like" and so we did for like a minute or so whatever i wasnt too worried about it because it literally was like a minute or two. anyways about a week later i started setting up a flo account (flo is a menstruation cycle tracker app if you dont know) and on the app it tells you when you are ovulating and i saw that the day that me and my boyfriend had sex it said "High chance of getting pregnant". you see im not on any birth control or anything (which i should be on) and i was scared shitless. i was so worried/anxious to the point where i couldnt enjoy my day to day life and talking to friends at school was just a distraction that didnt seem to last for very long. i started looking up so many things and pulling up so many random people from reddit posts and everything the internet was telling me was not helping me at all. i started to feel this knot feeling in my stomach constantly which im sure was because of my anxiety i was feeling but i convinced myself it was because i was pregnant. I did all sorts of research on abortion and everything and i was super nervous about that too because everything i was seeing about the abortion pills was that it is very common for girls to feel nauseous and have bad headaches for days or even weeks after taken abortion pills, and i did not want to accept this because i was soon to leave on a very physically taxing month-long trip in the wilderness which i did NOT want to be pregnant during. basically my whole world was falling apart in my mind and it was terrifying. it wasnt long until i crawled into my moms bed at like 3 am after diving into an internet rabbit hole about abortion and i just cried and told her all my worries. she was so unexpectedly chill about it and told me she doubted i was pregnant but said she would go buy me pregnancy tests anyways. the test came back negative and i was definitely so glad for that period of anxiety to be over. anyways yeah i also agree that not enough people talk about pregnancy scares and how its so scary and you feel so alone.
I had a friend with a similar experience! Her mom got her an IUD afterwards so no one would have to worry
Lol we had exactly the same story except we had only been together for 6 months by then, and we got the test on our own all shaking and awkward 😂
A few days later my mom noticed I was spending a bit too much time at his house after school and randomly threatened to get me a blood test. I assured her it was not necessary but we still arranged for me to go to the gynecologist the following week so she could recommend a birth control method (in a prior visit my ultrasound showed I had some cysts so she got me on the pill, it worked well, I'm still using it at 20).
probably tmi -> but your story reminded me of when me and my ex stupidly decided to do something similar and i got so scared that we left during school lunch to go buy a pregnancy test (we were seniors so we could leave for our lunch time). obviously it came back negative but god was that scary
you perfectly worded the do-i-want-babies question; i feel the same. i also haven’t ever felt a maternal instinct ever and i don’t think being a mom is for me. i’m glad i know someone else who feels the same:) also yes as a pennsylvanian philly has TONS of body hair lmao
I had a teen Body up until I was like 22. Then I gained weight without changing my diet or exercise and I felt like shit. It took me 3 years to accept this "new body" I was given more hips, boobs and belly. Id love if the second puperty thing gets talked about more!!
Goshhhhhh I love how relatable this women is! Amazing! And why does no one talk about the “second puberty”, going through it right know and felt so ashamed and after watching this I feel so empowered!
i must have manifested this video i swear 😂 i was wishing there was a new video from you like half an hour ago AND i started birth control for the first time yesterday (at 23 and i started because i was scared of the government tehe 🤪) so this is perfect, you’re like the big sister i never had
"i started because i was scared of the government" I FUCKING FELT THAT (I've been on BC for a while now but if I wasn't on it before, I'd DEFINITELY be starting now. fuck the government)
Oh my god, literally no one talks about pregnancy scares and I wish they did because everyone has them, but no one knows everybody has them and they truly feel life ending. I literally scared myself so badly I delayed my period an extra week even though I had a negative test. This truly was the commentary we needed.
note about birth control pills: I've had negative side effects like depression/suicidal thoughts. I've dealt w depression before and recognized what was happening. Only took a few weeks to these symptoms to come up. I switched pills after talking with my doctor. Same side effects. Sooo I switched to an IUD. No more depresso expresso thoughts! This IUD has helped me with extreme period pain, so am v grateful it's gotten a lot better. However birth control pills helped clear my acne so am sad I don't have that anymore
When i tell you I JUMPED when I saw the PMDD statement come up on the screen 😭 holy shit dude I'm glad to see someone talking about it because it's wrecking havoc on my life. Been dealing with it for 13 years and it makes me feel a lot less alone in the world 💕
I got an iud put in recently. and a week later it fell out. uncomfortable, but this video made mw feel better. also. busting it open for a doctor sounds way scarier than it is. they will put a paper blanket on your legs so you don't see what they r doing. it feels very medical and not at all sexual. they are trained to be gentle and be aware of the fact that ppl have trauma n such. my experience was very good and calm. many gynecologists are very very soft and kind and almost motherly. relax and trust them as much as you can. its scary and that's ok but they are there to help and are doing their best to help. also quote from my gyno: "my job is to look at peoples badussies all day"
“badussies” I LOVE YOUR GYNECOLOGIST
The timing of rthis video is so perfect, my period is coming in like a day
I love videos like this, even as a man I find them incredibly valuable. My first big relationship was with my highschool sweetheart, we were together from the ages of 16 to 21, and women go through so much shit with their bodies especially in that time it seems. She would often have weird stuff going on (like even just spotting outside of her period, or her period being late after we had s*x), and every time it could be quite stressful for us since we never heard this stuff talked about and I couldn't help much other than be there for her.
I think in the interest of understanding each other and being better equipped to help our loved ones as best we can it's important that these sorts of topics be discussed more openly and that they not be exclusively gendered
So yeah thanks Nikki keep up the good shit
Thank you for talking about weight gain and second puberty. Had a break down the other day with trying on jeans and I’ve been wearing so much elastic waistbands recently and hearing you kind of go through the same thing has helped me so much 💙 love the aesthetic of this video too
i love how u gave out real, helpful advice, instead of like "just don't be embarrassed" or "just love your body!" bc those can be easier said than done :))
Love how 8pm seems to be widely recognised as THE time for taking your lil pills😌 we're all in this together!
Mines is 6pm for my PMDD and my SSRI alarm is 9pm.
Omigod.
I can totally relate to that to-do list thing.
I will put on something as small as open curtains, make bed, drink water, change out of pyjamas.
Girl you’re so normal how is it even possible .. feeling like I’m listening to myself and my opinions and things,.. love you and subscribed immediately
I've been on birth control since I was either 13 or 14. It was to regulate my period because I'd have excruciating cramps for the first 3 days, which were my heaviest flow, and then the rest of the week I'd have a light af flow and could actually function. Sometimes, you just need to adjust how it flows so you're not missing 3 days out of the month every month
I'm exactly the same luv: I've been on it since around the same age because I got such bad cramps my body would make me pass out or throw up- I passed out at work while literally *serving somone* and woke up in the work-back-room with my head under the desk, my legs on a vacuum literally rolling around like I was going to die, covered in vomit...the pill I'm on has stopped the extreme pain and regulates my period (longest period I've had, continuous, is 6 weeks...straight) so to anyone getting cranky at people using it...saying it's "unhealthy"- they can hush up
YESSS we need to stop the pill shaming. taking birth control made adenomyosis bearable and side effects were basicallynon-existant in my case. better option than surgery in my case.
totally feel you on the baby thing except I really like kids I think they are goofy as fuck but I don't necessarily want one of my own if that makes sense! Like I can be the cool auntie my entire life and maybe be a teacher and be content ahah
I can’t express how much I love this video! Especially cuz when I mention these topics to friends/family they say “it’s inappropriate”. Thank you for reminding me and others that it’s normal.
Same, I’m glad these videos exist.
I was downstairs doing something, listening to your video, when my own alarm went off on my phone reminding me to take my birth control pill. I turned it off, and then my fucking ADHD-riddled brain promptly forgot. But! Then, a few minutes later, you were talking about how you realized you had missed taking your pill for one day, and my brain went “oh wait,” and then I took my pill.
Huge thank-you to nikki nasty💖
i started birth control around the age of 14 or 15 because my periods were too heavy, to the point i became completely iron deficient (like iron not detected in my blood test) and anaemic. i also skipped my period for three months in a row even though i'm both a virgin and a lesbian. shit is weird, it's not super clear. thanks for talking about this stuff :)
Ay I started at at 14 from heavy periods and severe anemia too. Twins 🤪
i fully did not realize how much I needed this video and to hear people talk about this stuff because it's so NORMAL. Thanks babes
hi i will shout this from the rooftops if i must bc i swear no ones ever heard of it, but the birth control i use is the patch! its amazing, its like a plaster/ band-aid you stick on once a week and is great for people who will forget to take the pill every day/ will make us too anxious abt forgetting lmao..
ty for the vid nikki, i dont often talk to my girlie friends abt nasty talk, but i do when i'm drunk and honestly i love it because when i was in school my friend group were wayyyy against it so i feel like i'm gettin somewhere closer to being more comfortable with it, and ur vids like this help even more! love ya
Thank you for being my little comfort person ❤
Nicole, this was one of my favorite videos ever because of how HONEST you were :) thank u for being to coolest
Nicole I just wanted to say that this video and your channel in general makes me feel SO accepted and heard and NORMAL. Love videos like this ❤️
I LOVED this chat and needed the commentary and thoughts that you provided Nicole! Honestly, second puberty NEEDS to be talked about more because I’m going through it right now and it’s something. Those child-bearing hips coming through!!
Story time: I had the same situation where I though an ovarian cyst was an appendicitis this summer! I’m a teenager and I was at Virginia Beach with my family (I’m from Pennsylvania). I started having really bad pains on my right side, like- if I took a step on that foot, pain shot up that side of my body. My mom’s a nurse, and she messaged my aunt (also a nurse and has experienced ovarian cysts and had an appendicitis) to get a second opinion. I had a lot of pain and it was rebound pain, but no other symptoms. To be safe, my mom took me to the closest hospital ER. The bad part? This was a hospital for adults, sounds normal, but for my silly little injuries, I had only been to children’s hospitals. To make matters worse, there were people there with bad injuries, like blood everywhere, so my anxiety was having a time! I had a lot of firsts that night, first adult hospital visit for myself, giving my first piss sample, first IV, first scan (besides the ones I did for a brain study I participate in) etc. All to find out I had not just an ovarian cyst, but a ruptured ovarian cyst. Basically, because it burst, I was experiencing pain, but it wasn’t life threatening, and it’d go away on its own. Of course, the meds that I was on went away as I was walking out of the hospital. As a reward for my pain, my mom took me to the Wawa across the street for a smoothie and a bag of Doritos. The funniest part of this story is that right before this happened, back at the Airbnb, I was complaining about how bored I was. 😃
Im in my mid 20s and never had baby fever until last November. I always had friends that loved babies and knew they wanted kids but I could never relate so when it hit, it had me all 😵💫 Though it comes and goes because I sure as hell don’t want a baby now lmao
Dude same I’m glad I’m not alone in this 😭 I’ve never wanted kids but the other day I was thinking how sweet it would be to read books to a little one at night and watch them discover the world… I’ll stick with being a good auntie in my future plans for now. Going out and watching a kid have a tantrum usually fixes the issue lmao
i appreciate these kind of conversations so much, and they make me happy for platforms like youtube to exist. it helps me remind myself that just because my environment has some fucked up ideas, doesn't mean they're right, and there's other people questioning these weird standards
this honestly made me feel alot better about alot of things, thank you for this :)
Bruh how have I never heard of PMDD, I have psychosis and my hallucinations always get so much worse right before my period. Brb calling my doctor. Thank you for being so open about this stuff it really helps people!
Book Recommendation: "Period Power" by Maisie Hill for all people who menstruate or people who want to live with a cycle. Doesn't replace the visit to a gyno, but helps A LOT with understanding periods, period disorders, pregnancy, body and mind.
I’m the eldest person at my current job and I keep cussing my coworkers out for putting down their bodies for not being the same as it was when they were teens. Like, please don’t shame yourself for your body developing to protect you!!
Every video I watch of yours you say something that is scarily relatable 😳
these are one of my favorite vids you make, where you just sit and talk about various topics. i also would like you to know that you're the only youtuber i watch. like at all. ur so cool ily
this video honestly was the first time i heard of going unlabeled and i thank you so much for helping me stress a lot less about my sexuality
i knew this video was coming. if any other person on youtube posted a video like this i wouldn’t watch it but bc it’s you i just know it’s going to be so entertaining instead of just extremely serious
your videos radiate comfort
i luv this, i’ve been on my period for literally 15 months and i have no idea what’s going on because gynecologist appointments are ✨expensive✨ lmao
Aw! If you have a planned parenthood in your area I recommend them! They really work with what you’re able to pay and appointments were easy to make even online. So inexpensive and easier to get into than other gynos (in my experience).
I think it’s worth it in that case! Don’t downplay how horrible that experience is, if you’d go to the doctor to get a broken bone fixed I’d definitely go for this. It happened to me and I was really anemic. I hope things work out and you can feel normal again soon ❤️
That could be life threatening. Please see one immediately. Most places offer payment plans, or even free care if you talk to them!
thank u sm for this video
Loveeeee what you said about bodies!!!! So great to hear your perspective. I’ve been so bummed about gaining more weight in my hips but you really helped me.
it’s the fact that before this video i didn’t know what second puberty was, still so much to learn all the time man
i love nasty talks, they’re always so helpful
Totally feel you on the never feeling a want for kids, never wanted them when I was younger and it's still a hard no for me.
i’m really glad to hear someone else talk about never having maternal instinct, i always knew i didn’t want kids and all my life i’ve been pressured and told i will want to have a kid and it will come and it’s never came i don’t want to say i hate kids but i don’t like to be around them unless they’re family or friends kids and it’s just nice to hear some one else affirming they way they felt about it from childhood too.
This video made me feel so much better. Thank you so much for this
As a quite young person who is starting birth control tomorrow thanks you are a life saver for me getting over the anxiety of being on new medication that has to deal with my uterus!!
Please do the video about laser hair removal because I’ve been so curious about how it works since I heard an ad in the radio ages ago but I want to hear someone’s personal experience about it before I try it
The queen herself 🙏🏽🙌🏽
watching this video after a bad body image day made me feel a lot more at ease. thank you!
i loveeee this video so much cuz you actually talk about real problems
This video was lovely and much appreciated. Always love your perspective!
Yesss the second puberty! I was about 22/23, it was the start of the pandemic AND I had just gotten the IUD. I was panicking from new acne but appreciating my bigger hips and growing “yabbos.” I thought it was from the pandemic and the new birth control but… the second puberty makes a lot of sense…
are you taller now ?
@@winter9741 nope, stayed the same height. To my knowledge, your second puberty doesn’t affect your height
thank u, Nicole❤️ this video came at the right time, im really grateful for you and your videos :)
the ad that preceded the video was a midol commercial and it was cool to see something so realistic and inclusive and then your video just came in strong after that, 10/10 experience
This video was super comforting, thank you for making it!💞 i would personally love a video about lazer hair removal !
this was genuinely so helpful & exactly the reassurance I needed
I have never heared about second puberty before but it makes soo much sense
This was such a great videoooo. I love how relatable it was!!!
my heart needed this one
queen pls drop ur ibs morning routine
Nikki Nasty giving us, her little fat angel baby children (that's what cherubs look like right) a mommy talk
I’m so happy that i found ur acc! I really love it and it makes me so much more comfortable about my body! i just recently started to go to the gym bcs of u bcs it made me go like “why tf should i care bout people that “judge” me “
bestie, i love that this video was upload because this pass month has been rough. my bf and i are at that stage that if we have a baby we wouldn't be mad. i'm highkey afraid of having a baby but not the point. moral of the story i'm like a whole month late and i took like 8 pregency test and they've all came back negative but honestly it's all because i've been off birth control and it isn't like something i wanted it's literally because my doctor cannot see me until august so i'm going to be off birth control until august.
love being a woman
Nasty talks always come in on a perfect timing :))
I love you for this, Nicole ❤️
19:32 THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR TALKING ABOUT THIS!!!!
we do NOT talk about how negative mental health affects your ability to take care of personal hygiene enough. I have dealt with depression and anxiety etc. my whole life, and in middle school I stopped showering daily, and I have never really rebuilt that habit since. I’ve had periods when my mental health has gotten really bad and I’ve gone nearly a month without showering. Now that I’m finally on antidepressants, it’s getting easier, but just building up the habit of showering more than once a week is HARD. I feel like this is soooo infrequently talked about, even though I’ve found sooo many people who struggle with mental health issues struggle with keeping up with personal hygiene, because we’re afraid other people will find us disgusting and shun us, when in reality, it’s a symptom of something we can’t control, and it can take extreme amounts of effort and work to slowly start rebuilding that habit.
When I turned 16, I ask3d my Indian mother if we can get an appointment to the gynaecologist and she said that," Why? Are you pregnant?"
And I'm like,"MOM I DON'T HAVE TO BE PREGGY TO A GYNAECOLOGIST!"
Because of this kind of mindset cemented in their brain just robs young girls of their rights to go to a gynaecologist to get themselves checked like what if there is a cyst growing inside or God know what.
RUclips recommended your OCD video to me a few weeks ago and I really want to thank you so much for everything you do and the content you make! I’ve always struggled to relate to people, their experiences, so on… I just always felt so alone, guilty, ashamed of myself that I would have never thought that there are people who feel like this too, you know? I can relate to several other health issues you speak on as well as like your music and style tastes! I never knew that what I feel could be symptoms of OCD I just thought I was a fucking horrible person. I have some negative experiences with trying to get help for my mental health issues but seeing your advocacy has made me want to seek help again and to advocate for myself to get the treatment I deserve. Sorry for the long message and thanks again for helping me feel Nasty ™ :)
Hello, Nicole. I would like to thank you because I have never heard about PMDD before and I have OCD. Now I will be paying attention to how it develops near my period time and I will definetily mention this to my psychologist. Thank you very much!
im having an awful day and this made me rly happy so thank you
Oxford comma in the title? 😩
Wow this showed back up in a perfect time. I needed a video like this, definitely made me feel more secure
Nicole the more videos I watch of u the more I’m like bruh me too r we the same person lmao I’m literally just just shocked about how much u describe my exact life experiences and thoughts, glad there’s someone else in my little boat :)
honestly thank you so much for ur ibs tips!
“rug burn on my ass hole” is one of the most embarrassing and most frustrating issues for me with ibs
also extremely apt description 10/10
(I’ve gotten over worrying about smell out in public coz i’m a heathen)
1000% agree w being on the fence about having kids. I always thought I wanted them but now that I understand the difficulties of the cost of living + what it means to actually raise kids (thanks mum tiktok) I'm like... mmh yeah I really don't know. You're not alone. Truly have never felt this so hard in my life.
i love little nasty talks!
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I think this is one of your videos I’ve resonated with the most! As someone who never left tumblr (I am 22 and use it most days) I saw the golden era leave and change. I just run a natura photos blog and also a fandom blog now but my favourite era was the skateboard girl era! Idk why but me as a 13 year old decided I would make that my summer aesthetic; vans, low socks, short ripped shorts, snapbacks 😅
I agree with everything you said; bring back only the good bits. Tumblr didn’t help my mental health when I was Going Through It in late teens but nowadays it’s pretty tame
i love u nicole 💗
I learned through this video that being body neutral is a thing and it feels like I’ve finally found an answer to a really hard math problem
as someone with ocd that don't take birth control pills (yet) i have to say, i can feel when i'm close to getting my period cause it's like the medications don't work but it's not as bad as not taking any but idk i just start the month hoping my hormones don't go too crazy on me, and the fact that i watch you for so long and didn't knew you had ocd lol, actually i don't know anyone around me with ocd so it's fun to feel represented once