UNDERSTANDING UNMET NEEDS IN RELATIONSHIPS by Bishop RC Blakes

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    UNDERSTANDING UNMET NEEDS IN RELATIONSHIPS by Bishop RC Blakes
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Комментарии • 71

  • @k_roc200-32
    @k_roc200-32 8 дней назад +8

    This lesson is especially difficult when the person who doesn't meet your expectations is a spouse.

  • @divinelyguidedwanderer
    @divinelyguidedwanderer 8 дней назад +13

    You have to decern the limitations of the people close to you. Then you have to ask yourself is this person an asset or a liability? You cant be superman & be surrounded by weak or unreliable people. If people close to you are flakey, shady, unreliable, selfish, ect. It's best to cut ties or restrict access. God is the source but we all need physical help at times. If people are looking to you to be their source but they cannot show up for you in your time of need that needs to be a goodbye. I agree you can't set unrealistic expectations for others. But people out here aren't even meeting the bare minimum from what I see.

    • @onevenus6040
      @onevenus6040 8 дней назад +1

      You are so right 👍

    • @1pinkp
      @1pinkp 17 часов назад

      This part!!!💯💯 I love the way you summed it all up👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼

  • @dawnweston9382
    @dawnweston9382 9 дней назад +25

    We have to question whether our expectations of others is reasonable. Sometimes they are, other times they're not. But if we look at it from a perspective of understanding, as you say RC, human limitations, if we can see that most of the time It's not personal, we're then prone to be less angry, aggrieved, and may I say, entitled. If we understand that God got us, when others don't even if we got them, we're good. Thanks for another great talk, and stay safe in Egypt, round 2.🙏

  • @faithtsadik5777
    @faithtsadik5777 9 дней назад +10

    What a teacher ❤

  • @alexismatthews3486
    @alexismatthews3486 9 дней назад +17

    This was such good teaching Bishop. I learned a long time ago to not expect people to do what I do. I no longer have disappointment because I have no expectation when it comes to humans. I put all of my hope and trust in JESUS! In him and him alone. The LORD GOD Almighty is the Source, always, who provide the Resources.

  • @kimberlymay9497
    @kimberlymay9497 7 дней назад +5

    This is so true. I’ll admit, sometimes I get frustrated when people don’t think of me the way I think of them. Then I have to tell myself everybody is not going to be the same. But so many times when I fall into that slump, God always sends a blessing and it’s usually from someone I hadn’t even blessed. Not to mention I’m blessed with everything I need 🙏 thank you Jesus🙌

  • @shangaziciru
    @shangaziciru 12 дней назад +8

    Happy Father's Day Bishop! ❤❤❤

  • @jammymoss66
    @jammymoss66 9 дней назад +4

    I have this saying that I reside by daily.....No expectations, no disappointments. I do what I can when I can for who I can and allow GOD to do the rest.

  • @charmbizzle
    @charmbizzle 8 дней назад +4

    I needed this! Yesterday l basically was expressing to a friend how I didn't think they were a genuine friend because of my expectations of what l believe they should show how to care about me.

  • @samanthasingh49
    @samanthasingh49 6 часов назад

    I agree that we have divine strength, and to be able to discern the energies they come with always assessed them. I do not expect things from anyone. However, I require certain things for you in order for you to be in the presence of my energies.

  • @CC-qf6zz
    @CC-qf6zz 8 дней назад +2

    Needed this!!! I'm stuck Somewhere between clarity and this

  • @JustLex98
    @JustLex98 8 дней назад +3

    Not even three minutes in and I know this is for me. I was literally praying about this yesterday.

  • @mildredherring2541
    @mildredherring2541 8 дней назад +2

    In my walk of life, I will do it unto the Glory of God. No limitations on my life. Boundaries yes! Whenever I'm not in a place at a certain time. You can believe it's important. It. It was already planned. Considering showing up for whatever is needed of me. I've always been Consistent. Persistent in whatever I do. I only want the best to be for the Lord. Bishop this was a great message❤🙏🙌

  • @Dnicole79
    @Dnicole79 8 дней назад +1

    I love all your podcasts and sermons I am a minister listening to you has helped me grow in my faith, my relationships with others.
    P.S. if u want creative titles just let me know I have many creative titles you can use .... thank you for all you do

  • @gwendolynpatrick6539
    @gwendolynpatrick6539 9 дней назад +2

    My expectations of people are 0 to none. I can tell you this My expectation of GOD is way beyond GOD expectation❤❤❤

  • @queenqueen1053
    @queenqueen1053 5 дней назад +1

    Wow this is right on time !

  • @audreymickens4390
    @audreymickens4390 5 дней назад +1

    Hi Pastor Blakes And Lady Lisa. Thank you for taking time away from your trip to pour another great message into our spirit. This one was definitely for me. Enjoy and see you back soon. Safe travels!

  • @imanisteel7960
    @imanisteel7960 8 дней назад +2

    I been waiting decades for this message. I prayed for this unbeknownst a day or two ago. Thank you so much. I can rest on this.

  • @shirlspark_stardust
    @shirlspark_stardust 8 дней назад +1

    Gm bishop Blakes and everyone I missed the live yesterday due to the fact it was my earth born day 🥳🎂🍽️and Juneteenth .I went out driving even though it was scorching hot 🔥thankful to Jesus for another year of life granted to me by God's grace and mercy 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @elfgirl415
    @elfgirl415 9 дней назад +1

    Thank you, Pastor Blakes...always excited when I see a new drop! Your teachings, insight & wisdom are helping me & liberating my mind, heart & life SO MUCH! Your titles are perfect & bullseye, let me tell you! ❤️🎯✝️🕊

  • @patriciawilliams5172
    @patriciawilliams5172 9 дней назад +2

    The spirit is will, but the flesh is weak. The limitations of others are in their flesh.

  • @la54578
    @la54578 9 дней назад +4

    SO so good, Bishop!! I’ve never thought about “needs” and unmet expectations like that. I’ve always known them to be valid, but here, even if valid, just the understanding that expectations is not the same as ability is helpful. Such a humbling question and perspective to help how we view those needs with others to think, indeed, “what if Jesus withheld or withdrew his benevolence” because of our inabilities or unwillingness to do what we’re suppose to do!! My. Thanks for pouring into us with this word. So good! Happy Father’s Day, blessing to you, First Lady Lisa and your families. 🙏🏽✨

  • @mildredherring2541
    @mildredherring2541 8 дней назад +3

    Besides Jesus. 😮 Oh no people are never here for me. ! 😊Trust no man. I trust only God. I love ❤❤❤ people and I'm going on with them and without them. I expect only Gods level for my life. We are all uniquely made. I am always there for everyone. ❤🙏🙌😮😮😊 God be all Glory , praise ,and honor

    • @onevenus6040
      @onevenus6040 8 дней назад +1

      Stop always being there for everyone 🙏❤️‍🩹

    • @1pinkp
      @1pinkp 17 часов назад

      ​@@onevenus6040EXACTLY 💯💯💯 I have such a big heart, am empathetic, caring & loving. BUT AFTER constant let downs & being used by ppl that I believed THEIR WORDS, I ended up with the short hand of the stick frfr!!! I have to constantly now talk to & remind my heart to not go with the okie doke from EVERYBODY, no matter who they are!!! And that I need to work on me, love me, desire me, strengthen me, hunger for me, root for me & approve me!!!! I feel so much better inside & I'm truly happy now!!!

  • @kellypolfleit3942
    @kellypolfleit3942 9 дней назад +1

    I always hit the like button before sermon begins because I know I’m going to get something out of it

  • @deborahfranklin9370
    @deborahfranklin9370 7 дней назад

    Needed to be reminded. Thankyou Sir. This reset me for family and friends and ministry.

  • @keepingthefaithalive
    @keepingthefaithalive 9 дней назад +1

    Happy Father's Day Blessings to you and your family 🙏🏽

  • @KB-ok1en
    @KB-ok1en 6 дней назад +1

    Thank the Lord for this message! 🙌🙌🙌

  • @sunflowersoul821
    @sunflowersoul821 11 дней назад +1

    Happy Father’s Day!👑🤎✨💪🏾

  • @jenniferh.994
    @jenniferh.994 12 дней назад +1

    Happy Father's Day Bishop! 💙🙏God bless you! 🙏

  • @kristleathanase478
    @kristleathanase478 7 дней назад

    Good bless you, see you at the 🔝

  • @ultimateoptimist5217
    @ultimateoptimist5217 9 дней назад

    What an amazing sermon....you are absolutely the best. Thank you. Praying for your safety and wellness. Enjoy the trip! ❤🙏✝️

  • @apparentlybfb7754
    @apparentlybfb7754 9 дней назад +2

    True!

  • @user-dr6nn4ct9g
    @user-dr6nn4ct9g 9 дней назад

    Happy Father’s Day and many more to come and many blessings to you and your wonderful family.

  • @debbiefoucha2679
    @debbiefoucha2679 9 дней назад

    Thanks for the encouragement really appreciate it God bless

  • @crystalcrystal7261
    @crystalcrystal7261 8 дней назад

    Thank you, Bishop!! This was good, real good!! Meat and potatoes good!! 🙏🏼 Blessings!!

  • @deborahsterling1776
    @deborahsterling1776 8 дней назад

    Thank you for today's message, Pastor Blakes. You are a blessing to us ❤ 29:24

  • @sedrickgranger428
    @sedrickgranger428 7 дней назад

    I think The Title is right on point!!

  • @Sojourner_TruthBW44
    @Sojourner_TruthBW44 9 дней назад

    ❤🎉🎉🎉Ooooh, this message was meant just for me tonight . Thank Jesus for this word

  • @vesnab.1553
    @vesnab.1553 7 дней назад

    Helpful.

  • @lwarfield52
    @lwarfield52 9 дней назад

    Thank you Bishop and First Lady Lisa. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @montreniamosley
    @montreniamosley 9 дней назад +1

    So true bishop

  • @dedeesquivel5017
    @dedeesquivel5017 8 дней назад

    Needed this ! Thank you so much!!

  • @irmabryant6979
    @irmabryant6979 8 дней назад

    Thank you. I needed this 👏🏾

  • @karalaughbaum1201
    @karalaughbaum1201 9 дней назад

    I needed to hear this. Thank you

  • @lollipop7237
    @lollipop7237 9 дней назад

    A great message. Thank you Bishop Blakes!

  • @inspiringyoutobecompletely9948
    @inspiringyoutobecompletely9948 8 дней назад

    Blessings 🤗💯💯

  • @aaaalltheway9805
    @aaaalltheway9805 8 дней назад

    Thank you ❤

  • @simplyouniquev4450
    @simplyouniquev4450 9 дней назад

    @BishopRCBlakesJR Thank you for this freed me! 🙌🏾🙏🏾💛

  • @VanessaBodie-on2cf
    @VanessaBodie-on2cf 8 дней назад

    So True

  • @jean_6524
    @jean_6524 9 дней назад +1

    ❤❤❤

  • @esthergreer3371
    @esthergreer3371 9 дней назад

    Amen

  • @Annie-qu9ik
    @Annie-qu9ik 9 дней назад

    Thank you this gives me a different perspective as I always do so much for others and get noting in return not even a thank you at times, but if I say I do it all for God then it will be better to handle all those short comings form others.🤭

    • @onevenus6040
      @onevenus6040 8 дней назад

      Stop always doing so much for others 🙏❤️‍🩹

  • @deliaogola8694
    @deliaogola8694 8 дней назад +1

    RC!!! Why did you take the other videos down 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @user-ik7ji6td9y
    @user-ik7ji6td9y 9 дней назад

  • @indiaking3561
    @indiaking3561 9 дней назад

    ❤💯

  • @vbrown7530
    @vbrown7530 6 дней назад

    Yay no long theme song at the beginning! I normally have to fast forward 7 minutes
    Anyhow, Love your videos 🎉

  • @la54578
    @la54578 9 дней назад

    SO so good, Bishop!! I’ve never thought about “needs” and unmet expectations like that. I’ve always known them to be valid, but here, even if valid, just the understanding that expectations is not the same as ability is helpful. Such a humbling question and perspective to help how we view those needs with others to think, indeed, “what if Jesus withheld or withdrew his benevolence” because of our inabilities or unwillingness to do what we’re suppose to do!! My. Thanks for pouring into us with this word. So good! Happy Father’s Day, blessing to you, First Lady Lisa and your families. 🙏🏽✨

  • @ruthkaunda3343
    @ruthkaunda3343 7 дней назад

    ❤❤❤

  • @ozmanfam
    @ozmanfam 9 дней назад