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And that momma is a Christian’s knows what the Bible says about marriage. But she refuses to follow that part of the Bible because it doesn’t serve her interests. Sad
U know what ?? i didnt realise how Much this show brings. Its a GEM. Reflection on patterns, family dynamics, communication styles really a lot! Thk u OWN!❤❤❤❤
Definitely!!!! This show helps realize how much time and effort it takes to build a genuine relationship with your partner. I'm happy that I am taking the time to genuinely love and know myself before rushing into a relationship. 😌 ✨️
Yesss and also I find the same types of issues in the black family dynamics. The over emotions as a mother to a son, the religious veins, the SA trauma the list goes on and on…
Very intentional and that’s where I question her motives. Like she was all smiles when the bride was taken aback. She doesn’t want to let her son go at all. You can hear her literally sigh when they broke the news of not getting married. Willing to bet she is the reason he’s not with his child’s mother. Her sisters were the ones concerned about that all she wanted was her Troy
He sat down with his mom and said " my woman has a problem with our relationship". That's not what that girl said. He made his woman the bad guy. After reading these comments. A ton of yall lack common sense.
I was looking for this comment!. He totally threw his Fiance under The Bus. He couldn't even grab his 🥜🥜, and Respectfully tell His Mother that she oversteps.
I love how Tracy called out the pattern in this couple! Troy is trying to excuse his relationship with mom and Shai is falling into that excuse by saying “it’s not a problem” IT IS!!!
Tracey usually has a good eye on certain issues that’s what I admire about her work, it’s probably one time I didn’t agree with her, but she’s always been fair and reasonable in her observations on and point
Tracy should of did a session with Troy and his mom. She running away like a 2 years old. Troy getting defensive " Why you making me step away from my mommy. "
My thoughts too... She could have helped him articulate well what he was super to say. He did not want to take full responsibility instead he said, "she wants to be number 1 and not you" (paraphrased) instead of him saying he is setting boundaries and assures her that he will always be her son. He threw her under the bus, like saying,, "this is not what I want but this is what my partner says she wants" , "I am not the bad person, she is" His mom also 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️, what a shame
Haven’t seen Traci get real and push back like she did with Troy. She was READING them, and it was powerful. This couple needed it though. They definitely should wait. Also, they can’t sing.
Yes they were flat they need vocal coaches to make it for real. If they go into HipHop or R&B. Troy’s mother was out of order because she wasn’t being his mother she was being a place holder for his woman. Idk what happened to his father but mom needs to do something to make her happy or date someone. I’m grateful that my husband’s mother isn’t like this. His mom has a different place in his heart boundaries needed to be set. Keep your loved ones out of your relationship especially your marriage. I been married with my husband for 4 years and I have gone to her for advice but we have boundaries which is healthy sometimes you gotta learn things with your partner on your own.
This reminds me of the son-husband situation. Mother has such a hold on her son, he takes on the role of what a husband should be doing for her. (And I’m not talking sexual)
Moms of boys, the boys cannot disconnect by themselves. We have to give them the permission to put their wives first. It will ruin his life if you don’t allow that. Let him go.
That therapist read the hell out of him in therapy lol Giving all those excuses as to why he didn’t tell her that he wants to be a police officer. HUGE red flag.🚩 🚩🚩
Pushing the wedding out and learning each other better was the BEST thing I heard!! Mom need to let her son grow up… she is gaining a daughter NOT loosing her son.
Its always interesting to see Mama's boys have that cutting the cord conversation with their moms. Im sure the guys try to avoid it because of the reaction. Its tough for everyone😢
l think the mom purposely spilled the beans about him becoming a cop in order to damage their relationship and hurt Shia. If she doesn’t learn how to backup during the engagement process, she never will. Saying “she’s not your wife yet” sounds crazy. This is a common theme in the black community due to fatherless homes, emotionally incestual relationships between mothers and their sons. Even the fact that Troy often times doesn’t tell Shia when he’s at his mom’s house, is a sign that he subconsciously treats his mom as the “other woman.” It’s weird and inappropriate. "Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh". Genesis 2:24
Just know that this is not a "Black community"/fatherless home issue. That may be your personal experience, but it's definitely cross-cultural and sometimes so much worse in other cultures. TLC had a show about mama's boys and most of the participants were not Black and also had a father figure around growing up. It's a common mother/son dynamic and the reason why so many married people have mother in law problems.
@@SweetBeeNatural , thank you. People use things that are not statistically true to continue to drag, single Black women and mothers. Now don’t give me wrong, the woman in this episode does have some major issues. MAJOR. And they need to be addressed. But I think her issues are more about infantilizing her son that they are about some type emotional husbandless fatherless incestuous situation. I haven’t seen the show that you’re referring to, but overly involved mother-in-laws are a common theme across cultures. Italian moms, Mexican moms, Jewish moms who are hyper fixated on their sons are a stereotype that everybody thinks is is common and even sweet. Let a Black woman do the same thing and she becomes the cause of all the ills in the Black community. 🤦🏾♀️
@@SweetBeeNatural And just to be clear, I never said this was solely an issue in the black community. Myself, as well as the people in the episode are black, so that is the community I spoke on. And no one was villainizing the black woman, I myself am one. Thank you for adding your input and insight though, I totally agree that it is an issue among many different cultures and races.
The mother is scared to let her son grow up. My friend and his mom is the same way. I call him a mom’s boy. I have two sons myself and I love them deeply and both are grown and I let them fly away from the nest and be a man and not to hold there hand on everything but if they need to talk I will listen but I don’t interfere with their relationship.
The mom must be single! "You just gon push me aside and choose her?!!" She needs to let her son grow up, whether he stays with this young lady or someone else
His mother is going to ruining this relationship smh. She is a manipulating her son as a lot of women do smh. He is not ready to grow up for real. He couldn't have grown up with a man around him.
Troy refuses to validate Shai's feelings. He wants to do what he wants to do and not change things. When you come into a marriage there is a lot of compromise on both sides and you are creating your own family unit.
@@IamTiaBand @marriejames01 y’all preaching! And I’ve been binge watching the same episodes too😩 I have a feeling with her focused on her new show, she’s been focused on that, hopefully she revive this show because it’s great and enlightening
This girl needs to leave that man. Girl how can this man have a healthy marriage with you when he doesn’t have a healthy relationship with his mother!! The mother was crying acting like he told her I don’t want you in my life any longer! Their relationship is sick
He had a baby on the way... He disappeared when the baby was born for TWO WEEKS... Then hes pursuing a career as a police officer and doesnt say anything... 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
When she said he was gone for two weeks then came back to tell her he had full custody of his daugher and when she got mad that he told his mother he passed his police training and didn't tell her, and finally she said she wanted 5 children while trying to be a professional singer, I knew it was over. He needs a mother for his child, she fit the bill. Few will agree but him telling his mom and not her didn't concern me. He's not running to another woman, that's his mother. What he told his mother was a benefit to their relationship and his overall life, nothing to be mad about. He probally would have told her once it was all done as a surprise to her instead of stressing her out during the recruitment process. He just wanted to maintain his manhood and show himself a provider to her. A marriage lasting is 50/50. Good parents being there for you is 100/100. Hopefully he found a woman that doesn't get upset he confides in his mother when it's no harm to their relationship. A good fiance/wife learns from the mother, that way she can be there for him in a similar manner when the mother dies.
I don’t like how they kept trying to twist her words.. she wasn’t trying to replace his mother, he kept news from her yet told his mom.. that’s what she had a problem with..
Why do families believe that they have to be apart of a private engagement though? Everyone does things differently accept that. At least you'll be apart of the wedding
Early on this episode 😁😁.. please keep them coming.. 🤭 Learning a lot from all the couples. I can see a little bit of myself in all these couples... Making necessary changes for a better me🎉🎉
It seems that He wants to keep a wedge between his Woman, and His Mother. Incase it doesn't work out between them, He will be able to go run back to His Mommy smh
We can’t make our sons our partners it’s not right. I really believe whoever he’s with she won’t be happy. They’re adults it’s their lives. It’s way too many clingy people in this dynamic.
The mother doesn’t want them together period! Actually the young lady was only saying make me the priority, not push your mom away. But that’s what the mother and son heard.
The groom’s mother is selfish and cannot appreciate that a boundary must be set between her and her son. She needs to understand your place as his mom and allow his relationship with his fiancé to blossom.
So he attacks what she loves as much as he loves his mother. And I see the bitterness that she would even and he trying to teach her the same as she tried to teach him! But passion for my calling vs where I stand to my man is truly a different line.
Troy's mother said that she was happy that they decided to defer their marriage for a year, but what she's really happy about is that she gets to keep her husband (unchallenged) for another year.
😂🤣 I wish her mother would d interjected in that dinner his mother is WRONG you cling to your wife so during your engagement should be preparation for the future
I’m a single mom of three sons and I’m am not like this at all. I want my sons to grow up and be productive men in society and for their future family.
Notice her mom did not speak in the end. She knows that the relationship is in trouble as long as the groom’s mother doesn’t change her mindset. The bride will always come second to mom. His mom should relinquish him but she won’t and he won’t put his wife first.
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His momma made her son her emotional partner and now she feels she is being replaced. She needs to seek counseling.
EXACTLY took the words clean out my mouth this is exactly what she has done point blank
Yessss I couldn’t have said it better thank you 😂
Facts
And you see this when you do not see a male (father) present in the family structure. Where is her husband, or his father?
Poor lady. She needs to find a connection outside her son.
His mother acted exactly how a wife would act when her husband tells her he's leaving her for a younger woman. That's not normal.
Yup my mil was the same I will never forget the day we got our apartment together she told me I took her son away and all this. He was 27 !
He’s her son-husband
Yes!
The irony of his mom bringing up religion, but not understanding that you leave your parents to cleave to your mate
When you get married you leave from your parents . Stop thinking you’re losing a son and you’re gaining a daughter .
Amen!!!
I don't understand who thinks that way and also sees their daughter in law as competition.
Leave and Cleave🙌🏽
@tamarabello that mother in law to be. Sad....
And that momma is a Christian’s knows what the Bible says about marriage. But she refuses to follow that part of the Bible because it doesn’t serve her interests. Sad
Grooms mom should be ashamed of herself. He is your son, Not Your Husband.
My EX-husband and his mom were just like this, I gave him divorce papers and told him to go home with his mom….I’ve been happily divorced for 18yrs🤣🤣
She doesn't realize how she's being. Smh. Poor thing
And I do not think he is wearing pampas.
That man is not ready to marry anyone besides his mother. Run!
The fact he looked right at his mom when chai brought up the police officer test 🤦🏾♀️😂
Yep, he knew it was about to get heated 🥴🫠
Yes I noticed that too!
And she looked right back. She knows she blew up his spot lmaooo.
She did that on purpose. And she felt good that she knew something that Shai didn't know.
and it proves what tracy said about him not wanting to tell her
If you can’t share life changing information with your potential partner, you don’t need to be married.
When the twins sang I was like “NO”
Terriblé
😬...yeah it wasn't that good
And funny built
Awful. Cringe 😬
Same thing I said lol and they didn’t even show much of it, I think the producer just didn’t want to hurt their feelings
U know what ?? i didnt realise how Much this show brings. Its a GEM. Reflection on patterns, family dynamics, communication styles really a lot!
Thk u OWN!❤❤❤❤
Definitely!!!! This show helps realize how much time and effort it takes to build a genuine relationship with your partner. I'm happy that I am taking the time to genuinely love and know myself before rushing into a relationship. 😌 ✨️
@@bertha8893 amen sis
Exactly! I am studying to become a social worker who works with clients in a therapeutic setting. Tracy helps me a lot 😂
@@ADW-i1h good job hunnnn!!!!!
Yesss and also I find the same types of issues in the black family dynamics. The over emotions as a mother to a son, the religious veins, the SA trauma the list goes on and on…
The groom's mother dropped a bomb on the bride with the police officer news. I think she did it intentionally🤷
I know she did! I think she got an answer this marriage don’t need to happen not even in a year just go ahead and date and enjoy each other for now!
Me too. 😊
Very intentional and that’s where I question her motives.
Like she was all smiles when the bride was taken aback.
She doesn’t want to let her son go at all.
You can hear her literally sigh when they broke the news of not getting married.
Willing to bet she is the reason he’s not with his child’s mother. Her sisters were the ones concerned about that all she wanted was her Troy
Sure did
Yes she did it intentionally…its narcissistic in natute
He sat down with his mom and said " my woman has a problem with our relationship". That's not what that girl said. He made his woman the bad guy. After reading these comments. A ton of yall lack common sense.
I was looking for this comment!. He totally threw his Fiance under The Bus. He couldn't even grab his 🥜🥜, and Respectfully tell His Mother that she oversteps.
damn you're right, he should have said mom, I'm putting her first.
He's not man enough
I love how Tracy called out the pattern in this couple! Troy is trying to excuse his relationship with mom and Shai is falling into that excuse by saying “it’s not a problem” IT IS!!!
When she pointed out his anger he couldn’t deny it. She’s good.
@@DB-gu6tf I’m telling you!!
Tracey usually has a good eye on certain issues that’s what I admire about her work, it’s probably one time I didn’t agree with her, but she’s always been fair and reasonable in her observations on and point
When they started singing 😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂
Taken aback 😭😭😭😭
I was looking for this comment 😂😂😂😂😂💯💯💯💯💯💯💯🙉🙉🙉🙉🙉
😂😂😂
@@jazzc585me too!😂
You have to let your children fly!! The mom is wrong!! I cant
Mom please allow your son to be a man a husband your not losing. Quit smothering him it's hurting him.
Tracy should of did a session with Troy and his mom. She running away like a 2 years old. Troy getting defensive " Why you making me step away from my mommy. "
My thoughts too...
She could have helped him articulate well what he was super to say. He did not want to take full responsibility instead he said, "she wants to be number 1 and not you" (paraphrased) instead of him saying he is setting boundaries and assures her that he will always be her son. He threw her under the bus, like saying,, "this is not what I want but this is what my partner says she wants" , "I am not the bad person, she is"
His mom also 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️, what a shame
I thought the very same thing and I honestly thought Tracey would’ve. I’m surprised that she left the task for the son to go talk to her.
The groom's mother is kinda delusional in my opinion. Looks like she's vying for the position of a partner instead of a mother in her son's life🤷
Haven’t seen Traci get real and push back like she did with Troy. She was READING them, and it was powerful. This couple needed it though. They definitely should wait.
Also, they can’t sing.
I read your comment before hearing them sing. I am laughing so bad 😂😂😂.
They definitely can't sing 😐
💯
@@saturnladee110ditto 😂😂😂
Yes they were flat they need vocal coaches to make it for real. If they go into HipHop or R&B. Troy’s mother was out of order because she wasn’t being his mother she was being a place holder for his woman. Idk what happened to his father but mom needs to do something to make her happy or date someone. I’m grateful that my husband’s mother isn’t like this. His mom has a different place in his heart boundaries needed to be set. Keep your loved ones out of your relationship especially your marriage. I been married with my husband for 4 years and I have gone to her for advice but we have boundaries which is healthy sometimes you gotta learn things with your partner on your own.
I love Tracy. She is an excellent relationship coach who pays attention to what's being said and not said and speaks the truth.
His mother acts like he just broke up with her.
This reminds me of the son-husband situation. Mother has such a hold on her son, he takes on the role of what a husband should be doing for her. (And I’m not talking sexual)
It most definitely is that kinda bond😢
She made her Son her Emotional Husband. It happens too often
Russell Wilson and Shai are a dynamic duo Gabriella is very afraid
Russell Wilson 😂😂😂
Lol
😅😅
I was thinking the whole time…” he looks like Russell Wilson”…and here we are😂
😂😂😂
There are many minefields when you marry a mama's boy.
Wuuuh Chile tell'm 😅😅
Agreed!
Yes
Moms of boys, the boys cannot disconnect by themselves. We have to give them the permission to put their wives first. It will ruin his life if you don’t allow that. Let him go.
That therapist read the hell out of him in therapy lol
Giving all those excuses as to why he didn’t tell her that he wants to be a police officer. HUGE red flag.🚩 🚩🚩
I started waiving RED FLAGS! The mother is out of pocket!!!! I am a mother of a son, and he is not her emotional clutch!!
Woooah the way the mama snapped was crazy!!!
Pushing the wedding out and learning each other better was the BEST thing I heard!! Mom need to let her son grow up… she is gaining a daughter NOT loosing her son.
Its always interesting to see Mama's boys have that cutting the cord conversation with their moms. Im sure the guys try to avoid it because of the reaction. Its tough for everyone😢
IKR
Girl just walk away, that boy is clearly not ready.
I think he’s ready but afraid of hurting his mom. But yes, walk away
Are these women out their minds with mom first?! It’s husband and wife not husband and mother.🧐
l think the mom purposely spilled the beans about him becoming a cop in order to damage their relationship and hurt Shia. If she doesn’t learn how to backup during the engagement process, she never will. Saying “she’s not your wife yet” sounds crazy. This is a common theme in the black community due to fatherless homes, emotionally incestual relationships between mothers and their sons. Even the fact that Troy often times doesn’t tell Shia when he’s at his mom’s house, is a sign that he subconsciously treats his mom as the “other woman.” It’s weird and inappropriate.
"Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh".
Genesis 2:24
Geez this breakdown is perfect!
Spot on
Just know that this is not a "Black community"/fatherless home issue. That may be your personal experience, but it's definitely cross-cultural and sometimes so much worse in other cultures. TLC had a show about mama's boys and most of the participants were not Black and also had a father figure around growing up. It's a common mother/son dynamic and the reason why so many married people have mother in law problems.
@@SweetBeeNatural , thank you. People use things that are not statistically true to continue to drag, single Black women and mothers. Now don’t give me wrong, the woman in this episode does have some major issues. MAJOR. And they need to be addressed. But I think her issues are more about infantilizing her son that they are about some type emotional husbandless fatherless incestuous situation. I haven’t seen the show that you’re referring to, but overly involved mother-in-laws are a common theme across cultures. Italian moms, Mexican moms, Jewish moms who are hyper fixated on their sons are a stereotype that everybody thinks is is common and even sweet. Let a Black woman do the same thing and she becomes the cause of all the ills in the Black community. 🤦🏾♀️
@@SweetBeeNatural And just to be clear, I never said this was solely an issue in the black community. Myself, as well as the people in the episode are black, so that is the community I spoke on. And no one was villainizing the black woman, I myself am one. Thank you for adding your input and insight though, I totally agree that it is an issue among many different cultures and races.
Yall mamas gotta stop making your sons yall boyfriends
It’s getting ridiculous 😂
Him and his mammy need counseling. This unhealthy, surrogate partner relationship they have is sick.
He just looking for someone to take care of that baby…RUN you deserve BETTER
From the clip, I thought she was in the mirror having a full conversation with herself 😂
Lol.
Same lol
The mother is scared to let her son grow up. My friend and his mom is the same way. I call him a mom’s boy. I have two sons myself and I love them deeply and both are grown and I let them fly away from the nest and be a man and not to hold there hand on everything but if they need to talk I will listen but I don’t interfere with their relationship.
@@reshawonderbrown2255 my bd was the same and I walked away
😂😂😂😂 I choked on my food reading this
I need a Tracy in my life.. she is so real!
"I was impressed that she could hold a conversation"....the bar is on the ground. They are childish....they act like they're still in high school.
lmao
😂😂😂 The bar is in hell, chile...
Mom is a problem! You are not his wife! You are not being pushed aside, you're taking a MOTHER'S place..let him grow up and be a man!!
I laughed so hard at her trying to gaslight smh
The mom must be single! "You just gon push me aside and choose her?!!" She needs to let her son grow up, whether he stays with this young lady or someone else
His mother is going to ruining this relationship smh. She is a manipulating her son as a lot of women do smh. He is not ready to grow up for real. He couldn't have grown up with a man around him.
Troy refuses to validate Shai's feelings. He wants to do what he wants to do and not change things. When you come into a marriage there is a lot of compromise on both sides and you are creating your own family unit.
We need a new season!
I been watching all of these all over. THIS to me was the number one show on OWN. They need to bring it back
@@IamTiaBand @marriejames01 y’all preaching! And I’ve been binge watching the same episodes too😩 I have a feeling with her focused on her new show, she’s been focused on that, hopefully she revive this show because it’s great and enlightening
I never want this type of relationship with my son...she is holding him emotionally hostage. So scary.
This girl needs to leave that man. Girl how can this man have a healthy marriage with you when he doesn’t have a healthy relationship with his mother!! The mother was crying acting like he told her I don’t want you in my life any longer! Their relationship is sick
Yeah, mom showed her butt! Cried and walked off like he told her “it’s over”
Then went in her room and fell out and the family prayed over her! I was like wth!😂😂
@@nicolewilliams0318 right lmao taking bout idk what happen out there lord smh whole family is nuts
@@naturallove6615 all of 'em! Lol!
His mother will always be a problem. It's best they part if he doesn't set a clear boundary
His Mom has to let go. Her son is her son, not her husband! His wife will always come first
He totally deflected that. Why u keep secrets from your fiancé but tell your mama?? And mama just rubbing it all in her face like you’re insane .
Mom must have been a single mother. Their relationship is twisted.
She devoted her entire life to her son now the son has to devote his entire life to her. Sad situation for both.
He had a baby on the way... He disappeared when the baby was born for TWO WEEKS... Then hes pursuing a career as a police officer and doesnt say anything... 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
Hai, Traci is so underrated. I love how she weeded through the BS. but these people are kids.
So great seeing another South African in the comments 😊
@@kwetsephetla3597 I'm addicticed. Trying to find ones I haven't watched
@@tshidithebehli1546 Same here!!!
These 2 never made it to the alter 🚮 I checked their instagram pages and they not even together. Shai is is mother of a little boy ❤
What’s their social media
When she said he was gone for two weeks then came back to tell her he had full custody of his daugher and when she got mad that he told his mother he passed his police training and didn't tell her, and finally she said she wanted 5 children while trying to be a professional singer, I knew it was over. He needs a mother for his child, she fit the bill. Few will agree but him telling his mom and not her didn't concern me. He's not running to another woman, that's his mother. What he told his mother was a benefit to their relationship and his overall life, nothing to be mad about. He probally would have told her once it was all done as a surprise to her instead of stressing her out during the recruitment process. He just wanted to maintain his manhood and show himself a provider to her. A marriage lasting is 50/50. Good parents being there for you is 100/100. Hopefully he found a woman that doesn't get upset he confides in his mother when it's no harm to their relationship. A good fiance/wife learns from the mother, that way she can be there for him in a similar manner when the mother dies.
😢
Good. They’re both immature.
I don’t like how they kept trying to twist her words.. she wasn’t trying to replace his mother, he kept news from her yet told his mom.. that’s what she had a problem with..
Why do families believe that they have to be apart of a private engagement though? Everyone does things differently accept that. At least you'll be apart of the wedding
his mom is one of "THOSE" moms.. EW
Those names 😅
Shai and Skai
Cheryl and Cheryl and Uncle Ben.
Lol
"that's not true" "that's not true at all"
Meanwhile, doing exactly what he is being accused of. Captain Gaslight!
I don't like that. His mother is wrong. Go and date, Mom. Cut the cord
Mom and aunt both called Cheryl 😂😂LORD!! Those parents were over it naming those kids that. !!
I couldn't wait until my sons married! What's wrong with these people!😂
😅😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Relationship would’ve ended when he disappeared and returned 2 weeks later with a baby in tow.
I think it’s truly a shame he didn’t consult the ones closest to her before proposing… already starting off on the wrong foot
Early on this episode 😁😁.. please keep them coming.. 🤭
Learning a lot from all the couples.
I can see a little bit of myself in all these couples...
Making necessary changes for a better me🎉🎉
Me too!
I agree!!! I watch this to see and learn from the dynamics
The producer just lying to these women, their voices are not for singing maybe a rap song😂
Even in their speaking voices they sound like little girls. This episode was a lot!
The mother is wrong. That's all. The young man need to grow up.
My husband and I got married in 6 months and we are still married 17 years later.
Her son a grown man. Momma need to let go
His attitude scares me 😡 he goes off fast. Beautiful couple yet flying off the handle Ni
It seems that He wants to keep a wedge between his Woman, and His Mother. Incase it doesn't work out between them, He will be able to go run back to His Mommy smh
In competition with your MIL 👍🏽✌🏽
Run. Stay away from mama boys. Wife comes first. The fact she just found out about him being a cop.. wow. Wait 2 years before being married.
He has a pattern of lying. He lied about the child.
Loved how the therapist clocked his tea
We can’t make our sons our partners it’s not right. I really believe whoever he’s with she won’t be happy. They’re adults it’s their lives. It’s way too many clingy people in this dynamic.
The twins are beautiful
His mother is delusional period. She act like that’s her man, getting married isn’t gonna change how he treats you
Alot of Single father's, just like single mothers, trying to find a step-parent. She needs to pursue her dreams, have a long engagement.
I definitely married a man with an overbearing mom. Its been 13 years now. It is a lot of work and something to consider before marriage.
I was waiting for someone to say when two are joined together nobody comes before the other not Mom or Sis
The mother doesn’t want them together period!
Actually the young lady was only saying make me the priority, not push your mom away. But that’s what the mother and son heard.
So so glad they put it off AND now there is a need for boundaries and stick to them❤️
Did y’all like the Twins musical performance?!?🥴
😂😂 Wait lemme rewind coz I was multitasking
Lol whew 😅
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The groom’s mother is selfish and cannot appreciate that a boundary must be set between her and her son. She needs to understand your place as his mom and allow his relationship with his fiancé to blossom.
Tracy please deal with these mothers!!!!!!!
I wonder if Troys' Mom has/had a Man in her life if she would tell Troy everything first before telling her Man? ........NOT A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP.
I had to leave a relationship because he was so close to his mother. She was causing too many problems and he did not see a problem 🤔
So he attacks what she loves as much as he loves his mother. And I see the bitterness that she would even and he trying to teach her the same as she tried to teach him! But passion for my calling vs where I stand to my man is truly a different line.
Troy must be his mom's ONLY!
And she had to have been a single parent
I'm a single parent with 3 sons... I don't have that kind of attachment to them!! This is crazy how she took him saying it's time to cut the cord
@@womnofdestinyI'm a single mom and I'm not like that with my son so what do you mean?🤔
What?
Girlfriends obsession on coming before their mother is weird af. It's different type of love. One you shouldn't try and compete with.
Troy's mother said that she was happy that they decided to defer their marriage for a year, but what she's really happy about is that she gets to keep her husband (unchallenged) for another year.
Correction - keep him and push her “competition” away!
😂🤣 I wish her mother would d interjected in that dinner his mother is WRONG you cling to your wife so during your engagement should be preparation for the future
I’m a single mom of three sons and I’m am not like this at all. I want my sons to grow up and be productive men in society and for their future family.
Notice her mom did not speak in the end. She knows that the relationship is in trouble as long as the groom’s mother doesn’t change her mindset. The bride will always come second to mom. His mom should relinquish him but she won’t and he won’t put his wife first.
They both have their heads in the clouds. You want 5 kids and be a singer ?? Girl wtf are you even talking about 😂😂😂
Yall wrong for the title of the video
Had to go back and check the title. That’s exactly where these people are “la la land”
I don’t think they remained together though.. Groom’s mom must be happy.
His mom needs to sit down somewhere
Cheryl and Cheryl. Sisters? I need some answers please cuz im confused.
The aunt could be his father's sister.
Nobody mentioned that they can’t sing?