this is why I'm petrified of marriage in 2021, commit myself, possibly have children for somebody who will up and leave if I happen to fall sick and lose my job for a couple months to a year if not a bit more? this generation is embarassing, when my dad lost his job for a month my mum stepped up worked two jobs till he was back on his feet I cant see that happening anymore and it's actually sad
The more I listen to women like them, the more I understand why men like Diddy never got married. As well as why so many men are not willing to get married.
That's life. My colleague wife left him when he got sick. Finances are everything in a relationship. Remember financial reasons are one of the top reasons for divorce
People need to be realistic. If your husband choose to look after you then fine he can. If he chooses to help you look after yourself then cool. But when your husband is now sick and can’t work I’m sorry I’m holding the household down!!. Because he looked after you, so now it’s your turn! The is something wrong with this girl! About leave wooooow!!
@@victoriaacmiller6797 thank you, you basically objectifying and using men like their cars, that you can just get new one when they stop working. fuck that mentality. same way "GOD FOR BID" if something happened to her beauty, should her husband just kick you out the house and get a new wife?
That’s due to the fact women will tend to date higher compared to men even with their options will still likely date someone earning significantly less than them
@@nottyrese I was referring to her saying that after 1945 women had to work because the men had died, I'm assuming she's talking about the men that died at war
I love how no matter the race, no matter the culture, no matter the different walks in life, there’s one thing we can all agree on and that is Women in 2021 are finished.
This really comes down to personal preference. Most women prefer to have the man as the breadwinner. Men were literally taught to be breadwinners for their families or else they would be considered worthless. Now we are seeing a shift where men are okay with not being the breadwinners and how that can change the dynamics of a relationship. I do think money does change the leadership positions in a relationship if it is significantly important to both or the partner making the most money. I also do think at some point a woman will get tired of being the breadwinner and that can cause resentment so it ALL depends. I mean Lani is right, marriages were not based on love, it was for alliances, combining wealth etc- Love typically comes after the fact or tolerance. Finances are important as well I mean in many divorce cases finances are one of the issues couples face. I don’t agree with leaving your partner in a situation where they were the breadwinner and got ill and can no longer provide- a little shallow but then again you gotta put yourself and needs first right?
To be saved, confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead (Romans 10:9) 🤍🥳. God says He plans to prosper you and not to harm you, and thoughts of peace and not of evil. Trust in the Lord, He gives perfect peace to those whose minds stay on Him🤍.
If your husband falls sick then you have to find a new one? Either she said that for a reaction (which I highly agree she did as I’ve heard this reply before) or this generation is definitely doomed.
The way that I see it that who ever is more educated and the main breadwinner, is the head of the household. If the woman makes more money than the man, she is the head of the household, the leader and decision-maker. You have no choice to submit to her. You don't like it, then move on and leave her alone
@@JeffreyE That's not the point. Point of the matter is that the person with more resources in the relationship will have more power. If a woman makes more money than you, she has more power than you. Even if she isn't good with handling that power, the power is still there. Just because we're men, it doesn't automatically give you a right to expect a woman to see you as a leader. What resources are you bringing to the table for a woman to see you as a leader? If you are a man but you don't have resources and power, A woman has a right to see you as not being the leader of the household
What Iqra said was controversial and selfish, but if a woman gets sick a lot men will leave her. Bkchat next topic should be, Will your stick it out or leave your terminally ill wife?
Today's world everyone need to bring something on the table. It can only work when the parties make it work with shared responsibilities. Thank you for sharing 😊
The more I listen to women like them, the more I understand why Diddy never got married. As well as why so many men are not willing to get married at all.
Did she just say if her husband falls sick and can't work no more she's gon find a new husband??? Wow!!! I don't want to say anything cuz I don't know the topic yet but I want a guy that has more than I do but if we are married and it reach a point were he can't work or is earning less than he did before I'll stick it up and work harder cuz I know been sick isn't your fault. Edit: I want that snake on Jesse's neck honestly am in love 💕😘
she saying it for bants sha. it's a show after all. most of them don't even know what their true opinions are. they want clicks and views and shade borough moments.
The whole women need to be able to cook and clean stereotypes is outdated. Yes I do believe it’s important but cooking and cleaning are life skills both people in the relationship should be able to do it. That’s like saying a man can’t fix a car tire or do a stereotypical manly job then he’s useless.
Honestly this NK guy can’t stand anyone who don’t share the same opinion his not ready for this sort of platform very immature lucky for him I’m not on there 😅
LANI back for this subject. It was only right but she spoke truth for once it's not always about love...who would have thought North London's Disney Princess Drama Queen LANI would deliver truth in the trailer.
BckchatLnd you need to be content sensitive . I definitely will not be watching this episode why would literally film a snake . That’s a sensitive issue. It’s so wrong.
This guy went from fox fur to real snake. 🙃
🐍🐍
😂😂
Why is NK shouting like that? I actually cant stand him ffs
He won’t have the same energy if it was Lucas or Marc Cuban 🤣🤣🤣
@@RK-xy1ew faxx🤣 he wouldnt even dare to try shouting around them
this is why I'm petrified of marriage in 2021, commit myself, possibly have children for somebody who will up and leave if I happen to fall sick and lose my job for a couple months to a year if not a bit more? this generation is embarassing, when my dad lost his job for a month my mum stepped up worked two jobs till he was back on his feet I cant see that happening anymore and it's actually sad
The more I listen to women like them, the more I understand why men like Diddy never got married. As well as why so many men are not willing to get married.
That's life. My colleague wife left him when he got sick. Finances are everything in a relationship. Remember financial reasons are one of the top reasons for divorce
I cannot believe what she just said!!! I hope she did not mean or she was ill or something. Cause saying that is not ok
Nahh that’s messed up. You’re husband is sick and can’t do nothing about it, you are going to get yourself a new one ??? MESSED UP
Shesssss taaaaaaappppedddddd
People need to be realistic. If your husband choose to look after you then fine he can. If he chooses to help you look after yourself then cool. But when your husband is now sick and can’t work I’m sorry I’m holding the household down!!. Because he looked after you, so now it’s your turn!
The is something wrong with this girl! About leave wooooow!!
@@victoriaacmiller6797 you have the right mentally Victoria we need more girls to think like you for real
Shes just stunting for the camera
@@victoriaacmiller6797 thank you, you basically objectifying and using men like their cars, that you can just get new one when they stop working. fuck that mentality. same way "GOD FOR BID" if something happened to her beauty, should her husband just kick you out the house and get a new wife?
IS THAT A REAL SNAKE??????
I’m scrolling down looking for someone who noticed this… I saw the snakes tongue!!!!!
What snake
The one round the dudes neck?
there's actually no way she said she has to find a new one
it has to be for the camera at this point🤦🏽♀️
it’s corruption of the kind at this point
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Iqra “I’ll have to find a new one” 😂 she speaking now huh, gotta watch this one lmao
This line alone made me wanna watch NOW 😭😭
Lmao - god didn’t gift her enough natural gifts to be moving scary like that. Go and get that BBL, you’re gonna gonna need it
I’m looking forward to the rest of Iqra’s response 😆
@@Obaol7 relax it’s definitely banter, she’s too smart to move like that lol
@@datsmyshyt9714 😂😭
When you see Jesse and Eman in the trailer you know they are going to deliver the realness...💪🏿👊🏿
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Truss
True or true 😝
I appreciate you
Appreciate the support ❤️
Ladies never depend on a man, your money won’t decide to leave or cheat on you one day
you're womb will tho
Exactly any female left to her own accord will malfunction and detonate
Materialistic generation
1:22 I love how shelby ws the only one so unfazed by what iqra just said
No she said I have to find a new one I beg her pardon 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
The more a man earns the more dating options he has. The more a woman earns, the less dating options she has. Know that!
I agree!!!
And I agree with that, it’s honestly true
That’s due to the fact women will tend to date higher compared to men even with their options will still likely date someone earning significantly less than them
Man like Dr Dolittle
Bro eman is carrying this show. His the only one here true to his feelings
Totally unrelated but that pic on ur profile and that name is making me raise an eyebrow.
@@achujamiseh9496 lool 😂
She's talking about 1945 but that was just the English lot love, most of us have a likkle bit of melanin and aren't from here
More or less all females worldwide where expected to stay at home tho
@@nottyrese I was referring to her saying that after 1945 women had to work because the men had died, I'm assuming she's talking about the men that died at war
@@monica100m ohh yhh my bad
Jesse just casually chilling with a snake on his shoulder brudda is a different breed 😭😭😭
We know how to handle snakes 🐍 and
That snake is realllll 💀
Shit help me
1:20 yeah i wouldve walked off too😂😳 If Guh deh was here this topic would go up in flames
I love how no matter the race, no matter the culture, no matter the different walks in life, there’s one thing we can all agree on and that is Women in 2021 are finished.
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@Renzo word, but they should be able to think for themselves.
Yesir
@@zerafmaxx1010 ok
There is a difference between Girls and Women/ Boys and Men & since you’re at it @ the Boys too with their unrealistic expectations of Women.
I can never take that white girl seriously😂😂😂
NAHHH How is she gonna say she'll find a new husband if he gets sick!!! Thats TAPPPPPED BEHAVIOUR
calling someone useless is rlly not it,especially when ur the1 that looks useless
That girl who said she would have to find a new one, these are the type of girls you beat through the letterbox, you don't even let her into your home
😂😂😂😂 letterbox
First foxes now snakes💀
This really comes down to personal preference. Most women prefer to have the man as the breadwinner.
Men were literally taught to be breadwinners for their families or else they would be considered worthless. Now we are seeing a shift where men are okay with not being the breadwinners and how that can change the dynamics of a relationship.
I do think money does change the leadership positions in a relationship if it is significantly important to both or the partner making the most money.
I also do think at some point a woman will get tired of being the breadwinner and that can cause resentment so it ALL depends.
I mean Lani is right, marriages were not based on love, it was for alliances, combining wealth etc- Love typically comes after the fact or tolerance.
Finances are important as well I mean in many divorce cases finances are one of the issues couples face.
I don’t agree with leaving your partner in a situation where they were the breadwinner and got ill and can no
longer provide- a little shallow but then again you gotta put yourself and needs first right?
To be saved, confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead (Romans 10:9) 🤍🥳.
God says He plans to prosper you and not to harm you, and thoughts of peace and not of evil. Trust in the Lord, He gives perfect peace to those whose minds stay on Him🤍.
The best comment truly
Amen❤️❤️
GBAMMMM!!
Amen 🙏🏾
Thank youuuu! I needed that
My girl really just said she'll have to find a new husband 💀💀💀
jesse is the goat
Love him his a king 👑 fr
If my guy gets sick she's leaving I'm deaddd😂😂😂
If your husband falls sick then you have to find a new one?
Either she said that for a reaction (which I highly agree she did as I’ve heard this reply before) or this generation is definitely doomed.
“have to find a new “ girl bye she’s doing that for the camera
Fellow nigerians they are now watching our pockets CHINEKE!!!!
“Then I have to find a new one” MAIWEEEEEEE
This generation has really and truly diminished the value of true love.
I reacted to this already🤣. But bro was soo pissed like calm downnnnn
I acc love madam iqra
This guy really brought a snake 🐍😂
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Before 1945 everyone was at home have u heard of world war
Mandem have the English young thug on this..
Jesse and his animals
Chileeee not the real snake 🐍😭😭 our generation is lostttt ‼️😭
The way that I see it that who ever is more educated and the main breadwinner, is the head of the household. If the woman makes more money than the man, she is the head of the household, the leader and decision-maker. You have no choice to submit to her. You don't like it, then move on and leave her alone
Making more money doesn't automatically mean you'll be a good leader smh 🤦🏾♂️
@@JeffreyE That's not the point. Point of the matter is that the person with more resources in the relationship will have more power. If a woman makes more money than you, she has more power than you. Even if she isn't good with handling that power, the power is still there. Just because we're men, it doesn't automatically give you a right to expect a woman to see you as a leader. What resources are you bringing to the table for a woman to see you as a leader? If you are a man but you don't have resources and power, A woman has a right to see you as not being the leader of the household
Nonsense u simpleton
If this isn’t uploaded on time I’m ringing 999 for deception 🤣
NK 😭😭😭
Moses needs to come and collect his boy 😭😂😂
😭😭😂😂
Clearly half of them have never been in love
man said snake
The final boss for vegans
This is gonna be hilarious 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
That last girl is tapped bout 'I have to find a new one". kmt
Wait I'm distracted by that snake 😲
What Iqra said was controversial and selfish, but if a woman gets sick a lot men will leave her. Bkchat next topic should be, Will your stick it out or leave your terminally ill wife?
All you need say is you agree with her, no need for this linguistic olympics
@@unclek7175 I actually don't, but get get offended and emotional if you want to.
Is that a real snake or is it just me 😭😭
Iqra will forever be why I keep saying woman are mad
I haddd to subscribe after watching what the last girl had to say 😂
Wait why does he have the snake on.... eesshhhh scarryyy
Today's world everyone need to bring something on the table. It can only work when the parties make it work with shared responsibilities. Thank you for sharing 😊
That Somali girl is lost in the sauce auuthubillah. May Allah guide her Ameen
TONIGHT AY 8PM??? YESS OMDSS I THOUGHT IT WOULD COME OUT NEXT WEEK
The one that saying she cant stand a man that earn less but be out here looking like some potatoes ffs 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
laniii gang
Did I just see a snake
Why does this guy have a whole zoo around his neck
The more I listen to women like them, the more I understand why Diddy never got married. As well as why so many men are not willing to get married at all.
I’m going to take a wild guess here and say you don’t even know Diddy.
@@mahoganysoul1798 Nah we go way back.
Hold up is that a real snake on his neck or???
Yep, you can see its tongue
Did she just say if her husband falls sick and can't work no more she's gon find a new husband??? Wow!!! I don't want to say anything cuz I don't know the topic yet but I want a guy that has more than I do but if we are married and it reach a point were he can't work or is earning less than he did before I'll stick it up and work harder cuz I know been sick isn't your fault.
Edit: I want that snake on Jesse's neck honestly am in love 💕😘
Girls.just say dumb things man . Bet none ah dem have a man or husband 😭😭🤣
That girl that made that crazy statement at the end. Needs to be cancelled.
she saying it for bants sha. it's a show after all. most of them don't even know what their true opinions are. they want clicks and views and shade borough moments.
Please let me be single forever 🙏
What in the Kevin Samuels is going on here??!!
The godfather is always right👍👍
You think what Iqra said is scary? Reality check, she represents most females of this generation
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Imagine a society lead by women... yep I can’t imagine it either
New Zealand and they are covid free with no lockdowns so maybe you should imagine
@@teekayybabez I’m pretty sure prime ministers don’t run countries, they r just parliaments number one spokesperson taking all the heat.
Ain't Gonna lie not of them worth it them one you will just smash and move on 😅🤣
If a man had kids and is looking after his kids and your mad at that then you are not a real women!!
Unfortunately you’re going to be called a pick me by some women for saying that.
get this NK guy off pls
Haha look at the kind of women available these days
what's with the snake pls?????
Never truss a man with ras snake on his neck smh 🤦🏾
Throw these women away 🤧🤧 god let’s start again
I hope y’all won’t make us wait like last week… 🙏🏾
She’s not mali she’s not part of us walahi
Wonder if this will actually come out at 8pm today…..
This is why they are single. Lord help us
Iqra finally getting more vocal
When is this out
8pm today I think
If she don’t wanna cook or clean divorce her she’s basically useless like no joke man provides and you take care of the house
This is dumb
The whole women need to be able to cook and clean stereotypes is outdated. Yes I do believe it’s important but cooking and cleaning are life skills both people in the relationship should be able to do it. That’s like saying a man can’t fix a car tire or do a stereotypical manly job then he’s useless.
iqraa boutta get corned
This show hasnt been the same since the first two seasons. The topics are dry and these people are weird
Is iqra Somali?
Iqraa😭😂
Honestly this NK guy can’t stand anyone who don’t share the same opinion his not ready for this sort of platform very immature lucky for him I’m not on there 😅
Thank god it’s a live animal around his neck now, did not like seeing that roadkill all those episodes
I did it just for u
@@jessechvce6903 😂😂 appreciate you
Find a new one? Just lost all my respect for her
Looool, find a new one. Can't be a serious man if he's fine with that.
All this talk about gender pay gap but then women want men that earn more? Looool what do you acc want.
LANI back for this subject. It was only right but she spoke truth for once it's not always about love...who would have thought North London's Disney Princess Drama Queen LANI would deliver truth in the trailer.
I don’t think bkchat can be saved at the point and it’s unfortunate because it used to be 10/10.
I aint saying she a gold digger...
BckchatLnd you need to be content sensitive . I definitely will not be watching this episode why would literally film a snake . That’s a sensitive issue. It’s so wrong.