Oh yes! I was stuck in that victim mindset for years. Everything was everybody’s fault. The mom, the dad, the teacher that laughed at me in 5th grade, the goldfish, the pet iguana that ran away, everything. I had never been that good at math, but one day I realized Nadia the common denominator as it relates to the issues in your life… it’s you sis. I humbled myself and got a counselor, and I got honest with God and myself and now I’m working THAT! Working on assertive skills, regulating my emotions, etc. I don’t have time anymore to play the victim. I got too much Jesus and the word in me to live in constant fear, anxiety, worry, and doubt. I am single, not free to mingle and I am working on healing from the inside out. 🗣WE WINNING OVER HERE! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
H I crystal, I am writing to let you know that this message spoke very clearly to me. I feel that it was a “Rhema word “for me. You were speaking directly to me I felt like it was just you and I sitting in a room having our coffee along with our discussion. For 44 years I had a victim mentality. To keep this short and simple .My boyfriend at the time threw me in a swimming pool He did not realize that I did not know how to swim until he had to jump in to pull me out. I was 17 at the time and that’s when my victim mentality began. I have made many attempts to learn how to swim but I allow the mindset I’ve been a victim prevent me from completing the courses because my excuse was someone threw me in a swimming pool so now I’m afraid of learning how to swim. . I am now 60 and I have two beautiful grandsons that loves the water they swim like fish and their parents both are big swimmers. I’ve always said that I never wanna be that person standing on the side of the pool not being able to help someone who was drowning. I am over being a victim I have just signed up for swim lessons I’m taking back my POWER and I’m completing the course . And I know that I’ve taking back my Power because just the thought of me starting these lessons there’s no fear in my heart. But true excitement to know that I have taken back my power ! And I haven’t even started my first lesson. I Had just listened to my church sermon on RUclips and I wanted to listen to something inspirational before turning in and from time to time I watched some of your videos and when I saw the title I knew then the Lord lead me to your channel 🥰 God Bless you Crystal and thank you for sharing what God has placed in you🙏🏽.
So, so, soooooooo good! I needed this encouragement. Thank you, Chrystal! ツ -- I loved the thrown overboard illustration. -- "When you want to live, you reach for something." "Find what is in your area of control, and fix that" Other quotes/takeaways for me, "Stop carrying weight that is not yours to carry" -- This is a hard one for me, but necessary. " I am God's daughter, I have to answer to God" --- This is an excellent perspective. I need to chew on this a bit. We have to manage the time God has given us to do. We answer to Him. What does the Lord require? "The people around me will adjust" "I made a mistake, but I'm still the leader" "Stand up straight girl!" Grateful for you! ツ
Than You So Much!!! There Shall Be Changes Up In Here. I shall no longer have a victim mindset!!! I have never knew this. Everything is all coming from the way I think about what I can and can not do. There's no limited too what GOD can do in my life right NOW!!! The pass is the pass. Its about RIGHT NOW!!! AMEN 🙏🙏🙏 THANK YOU SO MUCH💖💖💖
Hi Chrystal, You spoke straight to my soul. My name is Rhema. You spoke that Rhema word into me. I always wanted to write and I know in my spirit that I’m a writer. I was struggling deep inside about writing on my own. I’m taking charge and responsibility now. God bless you abundantly! Your humour and laughter is so contagious. Wonderful! Keep laughing! Your video popped up suddenly and now I’m following your channel.
I needed to hear ever second of this message. Thank you God! I will be making a lot of changes in my life. Thank you Chrystal for sharing a life changing message. 🙏🏾
Thank you Mrs. Hurst. I thank God for letting me see this. Yes, I admit I have had a victim mentality all my life. I have been evolving and growing in the Lord. I needed to hear thIs for my growth in 2022
This is so vital for every believer! As a survivor of child abuse and domestic abuse my brains way of protecting my self from abuse was a victim mindset, because abuse was everyday, But I thank GOD for the word of God and the spiritual support system, knowledge in the way of videos and books with such knowledge you are sharing Oh.....what a threat we become to the enemy as individuals! Specially women, mothers, wifes, ext, Ooooh Weee! I keep my self at the feet of such knowledge to remind self everytime the enemy comes against me as a reminder that I can do all things through Christ Jesus, Phil, 4:13, 1John4:4 tells me that greater is He that is in me.......🙌🏼🙌🏼👏👏👏! For a reader that can relate to this keep pushing don't quit challenge your self because one day we will have to give an account to God and we want to hear Mathew 25:23 Well done.
Hallelujah hallelujah what a great word. I truly receive that. Taking responsibility for our everything will move us forward. Wow I’m guilty of that and it’s time to get out the boat. Great word. Amen
Oh wow…thank you so much for this Truth of the word of God. Did not know I was an victim, thank you for saying about the words “always and never”. I enjoy your message, will listen again and again. This enlightened my mindset. Thanks for sharing about Valeria Burton book. I appreciate you so very much. You and your family is such a beautiful blessing. I love me so Dr. Tony Evans very profound and intellectual pastor. I love listening to all of you such a blessing, thanks
My God! I’m so sure this word was from the heavens! Oh this spoke to something deep within me! 😭😭 thank you for allowing yourself to be used as a vessel. Peace and Blessings to you and your family.
Thank you so much for the truth that comes to set us free as women of God, that we may walk in our purpose and be all that the Father wants us to be as His daughters. Be Blessed
I want to give you a BIG virtual hug!!! Cause this Wisdom session surely wrapped itself around me!!! Yes, of course, their are plenty of "gold nuggets" for me, but I was saying this to my Beautiful Beloved daughter yesterday!! "Thank You" Holy Spirit, and thank you, Miss Crystal! This was a BLESSING! WOW! So on time!
Yesssssssss!!👏👏👏👏👏👏I enjoyed!! The message!! You Had me laughing!!🤣🤣🤣 I learned to use my GPS on my phone. To walk from A to B Its a long story. Yesssssssss!!! Im A Daughter to a King!! Yes!! Its been A Blessing!! FAITH!!🥰❣❣❣🙏🙏🙏((HUGS)) VICTORY!!🙌🙌🥰
WOW! Just recently my brother and I were having a disagreement and he was honest enough to tell me that I was playing a victim in my life. At first, I couldn't see it and recognize it but after watching your video and hearing all the traits, I realized that I do to play victim. I have been putting a lot into myself this year and my healing to unlearn that bad mentality and step into the fullness God says I am. Thank you again for the gems you dropped in this video.
LOL! CEH is so inspiring with the messages she teaches, I really need to share this with my younger sister and hope she doesn't get offended. Question: what if the person doesn't want control and the only thing they know is playing the victim and they are a baby Christian?
I am currently in therapy & I was told I have passive-aggressive behavior which can show signs of victim behavior as well. It is really hard to face those things that God is telling you is wrong however I learned that once I accepted it it became just a bit easier to say to God, I'm sorry. Please forgive me.
Oh yes! I was stuck in that victim mindset for years. Everything was everybody’s fault. The mom, the dad, the teacher that laughed at me in 5th grade, the goldfish, the pet iguana that ran away, everything. I had never been that good at math, but one day I realized Nadia the common denominator as it relates to the issues in your life… it’s you sis. I humbled myself and got a counselor, and I got honest with God and myself and now I’m working THAT! Working on assertive skills, regulating my emotions, etc. I don’t have time anymore to play the victim. I got too much Jesus and the word in me to live in constant fear, anxiety, worry, and doubt. I am single, not free to mingle and I am working on healing from the inside out. 🗣WE WINNING OVER HERE! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Praise God !!
I am Single not free to mingle … I like that 😉
Glory to God 🙌🏽
You just told me to pick up my mat and walk!!! I needed to hear this. Thank You, Holy Spirit, for leading me here.
H I crystal,
I am writing to let you know that this message spoke very clearly to me. I feel that it was a “Rhema word “for me. You were speaking directly to me I felt like it was just you and I sitting in a room having our coffee along with our discussion. For 44 years I had a victim mentality. To keep this short and simple .My boyfriend at the time threw me in a swimming pool He did not realize that I did not know how to swim until he had to jump in to pull me out. I was 17 at the time and that’s when my victim mentality began. I have made many attempts to learn how to swim but I allow the mindset I’ve been a victim prevent me from completing the courses because my excuse was someone threw me in a swimming pool so now I’m afraid of learning how to swim. . I am now 60 and I have two beautiful grandsons that loves the water they swim like fish and their parents both are big swimmers. I’ve always said that I never wanna be that person standing on the side of the pool not being able to help someone who was drowning. I am over being a victim I have just signed up for swim lessons I’m taking back my POWER and I’m completing the course . And I know that I’ve taking back my Power because just the thought of me starting these lessons there’s no fear in my heart. But true excitement to know that I have taken back my power ! And I haven’t even started my first lesson. I Had just listened to my church sermon on RUclips and I wanted to listen to something inspirational before turning in and from time to time I watched some of your videos and when I saw the title I knew then the Lord lead me to your channel 🥰 God Bless you Crystal and thank you for sharing what God has placed in you🙏🏽.
Thanks for this talk. I’ve been a victim most of my life. I need to watch this every day for a while until it sinks in ❤️❤️
I’ve been listening to you all day… reading and listening to “She’s still there” and the previous “Freedom “ video 🔥🔥🔥
Where do I find {She’s Still There” video?
I love the replays… Thank You so much for you’re commitment and word of God🙏🙌
So, so, soooooooo good! I needed this encouragement. Thank you, Chrystal! ツ -- I loved the thrown overboard illustration. -- "When you want to live, you reach for something."
"Find what is in your area of control, and fix that"
Other quotes/takeaways for me, "Stop carrying weight that is not yours to carry" -- This is a hard one for me, but necessary. " I am God's daughter, I have to answer to God" --- This is an excellent perspective. I need to chew on this a bit. We have to manage the time God has given us to do. We answer to Him. What does the Lord require?
"The people around me will adjust"
"I made a mistake, but I'm still the leader"
"Stand up straight girl!"
Grateful for you! ツ
“We always have the power to change!!” THAT PART!
By the grace of God, this was such a life-changing word! “I am God’s daughter too”- Praise God!
Great job Chrystal! Being a baby-boomer, I've learned to CHOOSE to find the good, and the lesson that God has for for ME to learn from any situation.
You’re such a gem - thank you for this encouragement! We need to hear it. ♥️
Thank you Chrystal for your advice, you and I will be 50 this year, God bless you 🙏 ❤
I love how realistic you are...I feel like I'm talking to my sisters 💓 This is an eye opener. Thanks!
Than You So Much!!! There Shall Be Changes Up In Here. I shall no longer have a victim mindset!!!
I have never knew this. Everything is all coming from the way I think about what I can and can not do. There's no limited too what GOD can do in my life right NOW!!! The pass is the pass. Its about RIGHT NOW!!! AMEN 🙏🙏🙏
THANK YOU SO MUCH💖💖💖
Thank you, Chrystal! That's that tough love❣😊🔥
Amen
This is worth multiple listens!! Thank you for being a Victor today despite tech issues. We appreciate you!
Hi Chrystal, You spoke straight to my soul. My name is Rhema. You spoke that Rhema word into me. I always wanted to write and I know in my spirit that I’m a writer. I was struggling deep inside about writing on my own. I’m taking charge and responsibility now. God bless you abundantly! Your humour and laughter is so contagious. Wonderful! Keep laughing! Your video popped up suddenly and now I’m following your channel.
Hallelujah...victim mentality...my my my...we live our lives as victims...you wouldn't have said it better gal...thank you Chrissy...!!!
wow!! So good!!! Thank you.
I needed to hear ever second of this message. Thank you God! I will be making a lot of changes in my life. Thank you Chrystal for sharing a life changing message. 🙏🏾
Thank you Mrs. Hurst. I thank God for letting me see this. Yes, I admit I have had a victim mentality all my life. I have been evolving and growing in the Lord. I needed to hear thIs for my growth in 2022
Thank you.
Another job well executed Crystal👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🌺🌺🌺
This is so vital for every believer! As a survivor of child abuse and domestic abuse my brains way of protecting my self from abuse was a victim mindset, because abuse was everyday, But I thank GOD for the word of God and the spiritual support system, knowledge in the way of videos and books with such knowledge you are sharing Oh.....what a threat we become to the enemy as individuals! Specially women, mothers, wifes, ext, Ooooh Weee! I keep my self at the feet of such knowledge to remind self everytime the enemy comes against me as a reminder that I can do all things through Christ Jesus, Phil, 4:13, 1John4:4 tells me that greater is He that is in me.......🙌🏼🙌🏼👏👏👏! For a reader that can relate to this keep pushing don't quit challenge your self because one day we will have to give an account to God and we want to hear Mathew 25:23 Well done.
Hallelujah hallelujah what a great word. I truly receive that. Taking responsibility for our everything will move us forward. Wow I’m guilty of that and it’s time to get out the boat. Great word. Amen
This was soooo good!🔥 Thank you Chrystal❤
Amen! Thank you so much Chrystal! I needed this so much!
Thank you Chrystal for caring for the Sister Circle!!!👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼❤❤❤
That was good, Chrystal! Happy Friday! Out for an evening walk to steward my health though it's dark West Coast time!
I hear you Sista Chrystal….loud and clear✅
This is so good 👐🏼💞
This is so powerful I must admit. Thank you for sharing.
So so good!
Thanks for this video. Very helpful 👌.
I didn't know I needed this, thank you!
Awesome message ❤️
Oh wow…thank you so much for this Truth of the word of God. Did not know I was an victim, thank you for saying about the words “always and never”. I enjoy your message, will listen again and again. This enlightened my mindset. Thanks for sharing about Valeria Burton book. I appreciate you so very much. You and your family is such a beautiful blessing. I love me so Dr. Tony Evans very profound and intellectual pastor. I love listening to all of you such a blessing, thanks
My God! I’m so sure this word was from the heavens! Oh this spoke to something deep within me! 😭😭 thank you for allowing yourself to be used as a vessel. Peace and Blessings to you and your family.
Powerful! Thank you Chrystal Evans Hurst...continue to allow the LORD to use you!🙌🏼🙏🏽
Start walking in your power!! Love this
Wow so powerful ,thank you I have alot of changes to do on me cause sometimes I am the problem,❤️ 🌹
Thank you
Amen Chrissie. I call you my big Sis on the other side of the continant. Thank you, I love you. Blessings on you and your family❤❤❤
I was thinking the same!, I have ❤️👍🏽
Thank you so much for the truth that comes to set us free as women of God, that we may walk in our purpose and be all that the Father wants us to be as His daughters. Be Blessed
Amen 🙏🏿!!! Thanks 🙏🏿 for your message.
Thank you. I needed this more than you'll ever know
Thank you. I really needed to hear this.
I want to give you a BIG virtual hug!!! Cause this Wisdom session surely wrapped itself around me!!! Yes, of course, their are plenty of "gold nuggets" for me, but I was saying this to my Beautiful Beloved daughter yesterday!! "Thank You" Holy Spirit, and thank you, Miss Crystal! This was a BLESSING! WOW! So on time!
Come thru press ons 🥰😍 you look beautiful as usual & GREAT message. So good for me
The press ons just made me enjoy this podcast even more
Thank you 😊 a million times over!!!
Thank you Chrystal!
My third time listening and I forward it. Lol oh yeah watch your toes ouch! Lol thanks great word.
Very good! This was a great message to hear, especially from a woman of God! Thank you, Chrystal!!
This Word is for me 👍🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
You are priceless! Treasure of a message. Thank you!
Thank you for blessing me today.
Amen sister love!
This was on point and needed to be said/heard! Whew!
All I can say is.....OUCH! & THANK YOU!
I just love you! I like many others feel like we are friends with you and your family 😀 thanks for all of this rich wisdom! Blessings to you!
Yesssssssss!!👏👏👏👏👏👏I enjoyed!! The message!! You Had me laughing!!🤣🤣🤣 I learned to use my GPS on my phone. To walk from A to B Its a long story. Yesssssssss!!! Im A Daughter to a King!! Yes!! Its been A Blessing!! FAITH!!🥰❣❣❣🙏🙏🙏((HUGS)) VICTORY!!🙌🙌🥰
Thank you woman of God for this very powerful message. 💐🥰
This is so timely, thank you for your godly wisdom and insight. 🙏🏼
WOW! Just recently my brother and I were having a disagreement and he was honest enough to tell me that I was playing a victim in my life. At first, I couldn't see it and recognize it but after watching your video and hearing all the traits, I realized that I do to play victim. I have been putting a lot into myself this year and my healing to unlearn that bad mentality and step into the fullness God says I am. Thank you again for the gems you dropped in this video.
This was so good Chrystal! I may have to watch it 2 or 3x.😊 Thank you for sharing.
Thank you for this wake up call.
Thank you. Needed this!
Thank you 🙏🏽 ❤️😌
Thank you so much this is for me what a blessing
SIX minutes in and ohhhhh Lord it hurts...let's continue lol
So good. Thank you!
AMEN!
Thank u for the word i enjoy all of it
Definitely needed that reminder...thank you 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Thank you so much!!!
So much I want to say. I will sum it all up with two words. Thank You🥰
LOL! CEH is so inspiring with the messages she teaches, I really need to share this with my younger sister and hope she doesn't get offended. Question: what if the person doesn't want control and the only thing they know is playing the victim and they are a baby Christian?
Thank you so much for this message! I needed to hear it and walk in more truth. Thank you again sister. :)
To God be the Glory for this message. I believe GOD!!! …..#victorious
Needed this todAY!
THANK YOU WOMAN OF GOD YOU I AM SO ENCOURAGED. GOD BLESS YOU
Thank you Crystal for these encouraging words!!!!
Thank you for sharing a great message! I enjoy this! You cracked me up "those nails" they do make you feel some kind of way LOL! God bless
Amen!! This was so great and I receive it!
I love this, thank you!
Whew, you preachin to me! 💛
This message was so timely. Thank you Chrystal ❤️❤️
Excellent message. Thanks
This video is amazing!! Thank you Crystal !
Love this message…and without notes!!
Bam! 🙌
Thank you, thank you, thank you!!!🙂
sooo good! wow! Also I am a proud press on nail wearer for 4 yrs strong hahahhaha
Yes i am not a victim🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿
Awesome😥
Thank you for this!
Love this message!! Thanks so much ❤
Wow Thank you 🙏 God bless you
I am currently in therapy & I was told I have passive-aggressive behavior which can show signs of victim behavior as well. It is really hard to face those things that God is telling you is wrong however I learned that once I accepted it it became just a bit easier to say to God, I'm sorry. Please forgive me.